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Landlord keeps entering backyard/garage without permission. Can locks be changed on a rental property? California Currently renting a duplex where the landlord is the neighbor. The landlord lied and said an older couple lived next door, when it was actually him. Didn't find out until the lease was signed and the neighbor conversation was verbal. Since then the landlord would occasionally enter the backyard without permission. The backyards are fenced off, however there is a door which he uses to enter. He told me that it was so the gardeners can tend to both backyards. Gardeners come once a week. Yesterday, the landlord and another person were talking by the front door. It honestly looked like he was about to enter. I think he figured out I was home, he didn't knock or need to talk to me. Today I notice that the landlord would enter the backyard. Then he went directly into the garage which can be accessed through the backyard. By the looks of it, he seemed confident and strolled right in. Then leaving he then looked into the bedroom window where I was. When the property was rented he left no belongings in the garage so he has no reason to enter. Long story short, I do not feel safe, can I legally change the garage locks and front door locks? Thanks! | 2ca6a5d2af8a30183b7518036953e967e8f7d9a77a5d9686d24dca1fcaf0ec78 | [
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Neighbor's encroaching bamboo is ruining my property. WA state. We've been here two years and I've spent most of my time trying to turn our home into a lush cottage garden. Parts of it are doing better than others. One big issue I have is that our neighbors have unconstrained bamboo along the fence line. We asked them to try to do something about it and they refused. The bamboo has been churning up our brick patio which is original to our 1927 house. Its gotten into our sewer and into the downspouts of our rain gutters. Its even gotten into our plumbing. This spring, I dug a 4.5' trench along the property line. I trimmed off all all the rhizomes. I trenched out the stubs and tied them off with cloth towels soaked in high concentrate vinegar and tied on with copper wire. I nailed the highest thickness landscape paper I could find to our fence. Now that we are deep into the summer - the bamboo has found its way around the barrier I put on. Its encroached under our patio again. Its coming through the fence. No matter what I plant, its getting destroyed. We hired an attorney last summer but they really didn't do much. Our neighbors attorney (a relative and I'm sure someone who works for free) basically came back and said that bamboo on our side must be ours and they are responsible. We want to take them to court. I don't see why we should have to put up with their destroying our property. Am I on the right track? | 3aa0409181cf80efd5070147c8a464d99e12e02dcfc2012b9c26b1953a99c2b0 | [
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(Oakland, CA) Mentally unstable/violent housemate refuses to move out. Says the new moratorium protects his rights. Is constructive eviction a possibility? Scared and desperate. I am not the landlord but I am the master tenant/lessee in a "relaxed" bay area household with three other 20somethings. My grandfather owns the building and has given me the right to essentially control the space and evict people. There is one new roommate in the house of four, and he has been a nightmare from essentially day one of move in about three months ago. He is clearly emotionally and mentally unstable and has been having violent screaming fits in his room where he smashes and bangs things, as well as screaming threats such as "I want to kill someone." As well as constantly stealing food, drinks, breaking tons of house rules written on his month to month roommate agreement, and being a generally nightmarish person to live with. We've been trying to stick out lockdown with him but we are all now working from home and essentially stuck with this guy 24/7. There are many instances of these things happening and the rest of the tenants (myself included) all feel very uncomfortable around him. So I asked him to move out and he initially agreed and we seemed to be fine. Later he asked for a written notice. I gave him an eviction notice, but did not file it with a court. He later suddenly retaliated saying he is taking me to court, saying I invaded his privacy by listening to him scream, "emotionally baiting" him (whut) and painting his as a villain, causing him to be opressed and victimized. He started blowing up my phone saying he's being displaced, and that I'M the one that needs to go. The thing is the Oakland moratorium protects tenants from being evicted UNLESS they pose a threat to the healthy or safety of others. He feels like a ticking time bomb and the girls in the house especially do not feel safe near him. However, because of the moratorium, and because of his general ignorance I know this will never be taken to court. However, he is winning through way of simply NOT MOVING. He's started locking himself in his room, refusing to speak to anyone unless it's something like "just wait until you see the justice I serve" so my question is what can we legally do here to get this guy out in a time when no court will take this case? Everything in the house belongs to me and the other tenants are willing to leave. Can I move everything from the shared spaces in the house? This includes: router, washer, dryer, microwave, kitchen ware, all furniture, etc. There's nothing in the signed agreement that says he has a right to use any of this stuff. He's been an unbelievable nightmare and I have never felt so much stress over a housemate before. How do I get this abusive and scary guy out? | 6ca6c9c524e813dba653112748c816e3d03485262c7ab921f0cbea0a8b848b0e | [
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(Oakland, CA) Mentally unstable/violent housemate refuses to move out. Says the new moratorium protects his rights. Is constructive eviction a possibility? Scared and desperate. I am not the landlord but I am the master tenant/lessee in a "relaxed" bay area household with three other 20somethings. My grandfather owns the building and has given me the right to essentially control the space and evict people. There is one new roommate in the house of four, and he has been a nightmare from essentially day one of move in about three months ago. He is clearly emotionally and mentally unstable and has been having violent screaming fits in his room where he smashes and bangs things, as well as screaming threats such as "I want to kill someone." As well as constantly stealing food, drinks, breaking tons of house rules written on his month to month roommate agreement, and being a generally nightmarish person to live with. We've been trying to stick out lockdown with him but we are all now working from home and essentially stuck with this guy 24/7. There are many instances of these things happening and the rest of the tenants (myself included) all feel very uncomfortable around him. So I asked him to move out and he initially agreed and we seemed to be fine. Later he asked for a written notice. I gave him an eviction notice, but did not file it with a court. He later suddenly retaliated saying he is taking me to court, saying I invaded his privacy by listening to him scream, "emotionally baiting" him (whut) and painting his as a villain, causing him to be opressed and victimized. He started blowing up my phone saying he's being displaced, and that I'M the one that needs to go. The thing is the Oakland moratorium protects tenants from being evicted UNLESS they pose a threat to the healthy or safety of others. He feels like a ticking time bomb and the girls in the house especially do not feel safe near him. However, because of the moratorium, and because of his general ignorance I know this will never be taken to court. However, he is winning through way of simply NOT MOVING. He's started locking himself in his room, refusing to speak to anyone unless it's something like "just wait until you see the justice I serve" so my question is what can we legally do here to get this guy out in a time when no court will take this case? Everything in the house belongs to me and the other tenants are willing to leave. Can I move everything from the shared spaces in the house? This includes: router, washer, dryer, microwave, kitchen ware, all furniture, etc. There's nothing in the signed agreement that says he has a right to use any of this stuff. He's been an unbelievable nightmare and I have never felt so much stress over a housemate before. How do I get this abusive and scary guy out? | 6ca6c9c524e813dba653112748c816e3d03485262c7ab921f0cbea0a8b848b0e | [
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(Oakland, CA) Mentally unstable/violent housemate refuses to move out. Says the new moratorium protects his rights. Is constructive eviction a possibility? Scared and desperate. I am not the landlord but I am the master tenant/lessee in a "relaxed" bay area household with three other 20somethings. My grandfather owns the building and has given me the right to essentially control the space and evict people. There is one new roommate in the house of four, and he has been a nightmare from essentially day one of move in about three months ago. He is clearly emotionally and mentally unstable and has been having violent screaming fits in his room where he smashes and bangs things, as well as screaming threats such as "I want to kill someone." As well as constantly stealing food, drinks, breaking tons of house rules written on his month to month roommate agreement, and being a generally nightmarish person to live with. We've been trying to stick out lockdown with him but we are all now working from home and essentially stuck with this guy 24/7. There are many instances of these things happening and the rest of the tenants (myself included) all feel very uncomfortable around him. So I asked him to move out and he initially agreed and we seemed to be fine. Later he asked for a written notice. I gave him an eviction notice, but did not file it with a court. He later suddenly retaliated saying he is taking me to court, saying I invaded his privacy by listening to him scream, "emotionally baiting" him (whut) and painting his as a villain, causing him to be opressed and victimized. He started blowing up my phone saying he's being displaced, and that I'M the one that needs to go. The thing is the Oakland moratorium protects tenants from being evicted UNLESS they pose a threat to the healthy or safety of others. He feels like a ticking time bomb and the girls in the house especially do not feel safe near him. However, because of the moratorium, and because of his general ignorance I know this will never be taken to court. However, he is winning through way of simply NOT MOVING. He's started locking himself in his room, refusing to speak to anyone unless it's something like "just wait until you see the justice I serve" so my question is what can we legally do here to get this guy out in a time when no court will take this case? Everything in the house belongs to me and the other tenants are willing to leave. Can I move everything from the shared spaces in the house? This includes: router, washer, dryer, microwave, kitchen ware, all furniture, etc. There's nothing in the signed agreement that says he has a right to use any of this stuff. He's been an unbelievable nightmare and I have never felt so much stress over a housemate before. How do I get this abusive and scary guy out? | 6ca6c9c524e813dba653112748c816e3d03485262c7ab921f0cbea0a8b848b0e | [
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My Grandma passed away, left a rather large inheritance to her kids/grandkids evenly split, but then it comes to light that my grandmother isn't my grandmother but actually my great grandmother. So my grandma passed away a couple months ago and left a sizable inheritance. Basically $500,000 to each of her children (6 total including my mom) and $250,000 to each grandchild (15 total). Her total assets were over $8million but after lawyer fees and everything, that is what was decided. It was all supposed to be well and good except this whole family secret came out. Basically my Aunt told the lawyer that my mother is actually my aunt's daughter therefore my grandmas grandchild. So my mom's portion of the inheritance should be $250,000 while me and my siblings get nothing. That would leave an extra 1.25 million to be split between the remaining 5 of my grandmas children. The lawyer told my mom he would handle it but I don't want to see her get screwed because of this. I am unsure if a legal adoption ever went through, this was the 60s and my aunt would have been 16 so it was still pretty taboo to be a single parent at that age. We think that while in the hospital giving birth my grandfather paid the doctor to put his and my grandmothers name on the birth certificate. My grandmas will basically says $250,000 to each grandchild and the rest is to be split between her children. She never named her children directly but based on the relationship my mom had with my grandma, I am certain that she considered my mom to be hers. We already got pictures/keepsakes that are important to us so as much as I would like to say it's not about the money, it really is. My question is, should we hire our own lawyer? Or just trust the estate lawyer? Is there anything we should prepare for ahead of time and what exactly is likely to happen? Location is AB, Canada | a7168cd7fe97e2a93c60005870cbbf25eb0a702ea953cd3f2cd7cd28a919d155 | [
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If I'm getting sued for custody of my kid by my daughters moms parents under "grandparents rights" laws in PA. Can I just move out of the state or country to keep my daughter safe? Thank You! | 52a46b416beae2e055cd36654fa52f627361cfdd88b47ffc287bc863142b6f5a | [
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My Ex Has Ignored us for 10 years, now She wants to give me money, what do? My ex has given me no child support for 10 years. I moved my daughter and myself to a different state 4 years ago and have not gone after her for money in any way to avoid putting us through legal hell across states. She recently contacted my daughter again and the two have been talking on and off. That's fine with me it's relatively harmless and my kid is pretty smart she won't fall for any bullshit her mother tells her. Today her mom texts me out of the blue and says she wants to send me money. "I can't repay you for everything but I want to try." If I accept this money, what are the legal ramifications? Does it count as child support? If I tell her I don't want her money (what I want to do) does that count as legally exonerating her of child support obligation? Can't find anything on this specific situation I doubt it happens much. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks. | be59d1fcbaebc329a24616f822a8656562e95113a5ca3cef4a9032fb25c30aad | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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[Update] My girlfriend cheated on me but is now refusing to leave my apartment. A number of people told me to give an update, so here it is. I gave her written notice last night like everyone suggested and then left her alone. I talked to her mother and told her what happened. She called me this morning and said she was coming over. She walked in and started packing her stuff pretty much straight away. The whole time my ex was literally just crying and stomping around like a child. I have never seen her look that defeated before. After everything that's happened I thought it would be satisfying to see her like that but it was actually really sad. After grabbing some of her stuff, her mom dragged her out the door and that was it. Ten minutes, in and out. Fairly anticlimactic really. I assume that she will come by another time to get the rest of her stuff. I've always really liked her mom. She's a no-nonsense type of woman. Her mom apologized on her behalf, but I still haven't received any sort of heartfelt apology from her unfortunately. I am glad that she's gone, but it's pretty sad that I'm going to have to spend Christmas alone. I think the eviction notice was the main reason her mother came over, so Thanks /r/legaladvice! | c9b22ba5404c88028f0c13da8bf81ec129582241d290215e4e27976c662fad3e | [
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I (30m) share custody of my son (9m) with my ex wife (30f) and I’m just fed up with her lifestyle and habits and I am able to provide a much more suitable life for him growing up. What is my best course of action? She’s always been a poor decision maker and bad with money and dependent on others but it’s really come to a climax at this point and I feel the need to do something about it right now. So we’ve been divorced since our son was 3 years old. Ever since then we have shared physical and legal custody week-to-week. He stay with her and then me week on/week off. She was married again after me and then divorced and now she’s with another guy. They live in a 1br apartment on a really rough side of town. Our son always comes back reeking of cigarette smoke. She’s been acting especially weird lately and I’m suspecting hard drugs are involved even though I’ve never known her to have a history with them and I don’t have any true evidence of it and here’s why. She’s been sleeping through everything. A couple months ago our son had a dentist appointment at 8am and I had told her about it and she agreed to let me pick him up and take him there but when I get to her house and call, she doesn’t answer. And then she doesn’t get back with me until noon and says they overslept. And then a few weeks after that she was supposed to pick him up at 5:30pm for her week and he’s all set to go with his shoes and jacket on and she doesn’t show and doesn’t answer her phone. She doesn’t get in touch with me until 9:00pm and says she overslept. Then last Monday we had agreed that I would pick him up at 5:30pm for my week and I get to her house and she doesn’t answer and I wait 30 minutes, calling repeatedly. No answer. I went and followed through with my plans that night which were supposed to include him, and calling intermittently, and I start to get concerned. Finally, 9:00pm rolls around and I decided to call the police non-emergency line to do a wellness check. The police told me to meet them there and they would help me figure it out. So I arrive at her place again that night and the police are supposed to be coming soon, but I call her one more time, and she finally answers, sounding really fatigued. She said she will send him down and so I call the police back and tell them never mind and I’ve got it handled. She said that she overslept. So that night after all that, I bring him home and he shares that he was looking out the window and he says he could see me out front and he tried to wake her up but she wouldn’t wake up. And that he told her I was out front and she told him, “no, it’s probably somebody else.” And that also her and her boyfriend are constantly fighting (but not physically) and screaming at each other day in and day out, and that they stay in their room quite a bit with the door always locked. And he told me that sometimes he hears his mom in the bedroom screaming “help me!” And then when he goes to check on her she tells him to go back to bed. He also shared that his mom’s grandmother passed away a couple weeks ago and he wanted to go to the funeral and they were expected to be there but his mom overslept and his moms mom was furious about them missing the funeral. He also shared that he often has to make his own food when his mom is sleeping. Our son says that he would rather stay with me at my place. I’ve got a good relationship with my live-in fiancée and we also have 2 children (8f and 6m) who were our foster children and now we have guardianship over them. Everyone here get along, there is no fighting or screaming, other than sometimes between the kids but it’s resolved rather quickly and growing up with siblings I feel that’s pretty normal. There is plenty of space for everyone and we keep it clean and we’ve got plenty of resources to provide a happy stable life. We live in a nice neighborhood where the kids can go outside and ride their bikes around and they’ve got lots of neighbor friends who they are all close with. My fiancée thinks that we need to call CPS on my son’s mom and let CPS do their investigation and take it from there. My mom thinks I need to file a motion or and exparte with the court. And so I was just trying to think of the right way to handle this all week and then I went to drop him off tonight. I never knew exactly which unit they lived in so I thought I would walk him up to their apartment door and maybe peek inside and see what it’s like in there. So I go up and knock on the door and some older, rough looking guy who I haven’t seen before answers the door and gathered who I was and invited me inside. First thing you see when you walk in is a sink overflowing with dirty dishes, the apartment reeks of cigarette smoke, and they’ve got 4 huge bags of trash just sitting in their kitchen. The mom’s boyfriend sees me and immediately runs away and doesn’t say hi or anything. My son shows me his “room” which is really supposed to be a dining room and there’s just a loveseat, a blanket, and a tv. No dresser, no things of his. Just that. And that’s where he’s living every alternate week. This is not how I ever envisioned my child would be growing up. Just imagining him sorting through that mess of trash and dirty dishes trying to find himself something to eat while his mom is sleeping the day away doesn’t sit right with me at all. I am ready to do something about it. She’s not prioritizing being a parent. This is not the environment I want my son spending time in. I didn’t see any drugs or anything truly incriminating when I went in there though. And the apartment is above a smoke shop and I’ve seen lots of shady people going in and out of there while sitting out there waiting for her to answer her phone. And he says that sometime the smoke shop workers watch him and he hangs out there without his mom. And then to make things even more complicated, at the beginning of this moth she asked me to have him an extra week because they needed to move because they were getting evicted for not paying rent. And so I had him an extra week and they didn’t move and now they say they’re going to try to stay there for a few more months without paying the rent, or so I’ve gathered. And their only option currently is moving in with the boyfriend’s mom who lives 40is minutes away from the school he goes to. His school is currently online but it’s going to be trouble for her to get him to school and back living that far away and with only one working vehicle. All in all, he’s just a lot better off living with me where things are stable and secure. This is in Grand Rapids, MI, by the way. Any help or advise is sincerely appreciated! Thank you and thanks for reading!!! 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[MA] Girlfriend's Ex claimed her as a dependent on his taxes after they broke up and she moved out of state, now IRS is after her for >10k My girlfriend told me tonight that her Ex she broke up with years ago has been claiming her as a dependent on his taxes (at least until 2017). The IRS is now after her for over 10k in owed taxes and told her she could fight it and to contact a lawyer. She says she contacted multiple lawyers and they all told her it would be cheaper to just pay than fight it. She's been paying it back for months and just told me. Is there any recourse here? If he's been claiming her shouldn't HE owe these taxes? | 34de260248cd9996105016aa99816d16559dc42f7d9b85fcb10af6409fd12ea1 | [
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How do I (25 M) evict my girlfriend (24 F)? I moved into a house about a year ago, I own it and only my name is on the mortgage and I pay for all utilities and home related costs outside of some food and decorations/furniture. My girlfriend moved in with me immediately and has stayed since outside of an instance where she assaulted me and had a protection order placed for almost a month where she stayed at her own place until I took her back. Things have not gotten better as my girlfriend has been violent with me multiple times, twice the last two days even where she has struck me multiple times and has emotionally abused me by calling me an “autistic freak” when I do actually have autism. I have tried to let her know I do not want to be in a relationship with her anymore and she should leave but she doesn’t listen and refuses to leave saying I will have to shoot her to her to leave. She also says she has nowhere to go as her family won’t let her stay with them most likely due to how psychotic she is and she doesn’t have a job to pay rent. TL;DR: How can I evict my girlfriend who doesn’t pay any expenses outside of food and her own personal items from my house that I only own? Additional info: I live in Iowa We do not have any children, just 3 cats | 470ead655c1e2793ceb1d940cac38ac380351ab626217417de9f5d4e6e1f811b | [
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How do I (25 M) evict my girlfriend (24 F)? I moved into a house about a year ago, I own it and only my name is on the mortgage and I pay for all utilities and home related costs outside of some food and decorations/furniture. My girlfriend moved in with me immediately and has stayed since outside of an instance where she assaulted me and had a protection order placed for almost a month where she stayed at her own place until I took her back. Things have not gotten better as my girlfriend has been violent with me multiple times, twice the last two days even where she has struck me multiple times and has emotionally abused me by calling me an “autistic freak” when I do actually have autism. I have tried to let her know I do not want to be in a relationship with her anymore and she should leave but she doesn’t listen and refuses to leave saying I will have to shoot her to her to leave. She also says she has nowhere to go as her family won’t let her stay with them most likely due to how psychotic she is and she doesn’t have a job to pay rent. TL;DR: How can I evict my girlfriend who doesn’t pay any expenses outside of food and her own personal items from my house that I only own? Additional info: I live in Iowa We do not have any children, just 3 cats | 470ead655c1e2793ceb1d940cac38ac380351ab626217417de9f5d4e6e1f811b | [
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How do I (25 M) evict my girlfriend (24 F)? I moved into a house about a year ago, I own it and only my name is on the mortgage and I pay for all utilities and home related costs outside of some food and decorations/furniture. My girlfriend moved in with me immediately and has stayed since outside of an instance where she assaulted me and had a protection order placed for almost a month where she stayed at her own place until I took her back. Things have not gotten better as my girlfriend has been violent with me multiple times, twice the last two days even where she has struck me multiple times and has emotionally abused me by calling me an “autistic freak” when I do actually have autism. I have tried to let her know I do not want to be in a relationship with her anymore and she should leave but she doesn’t listen and refuses to leave saying I will have to shoot her to her to leave. She also says she has nowhere to go as her family won’t let her stay with them most likely due to how psychotic she is and she doesn’t have a job to pay rent. TL;DR: How can I evict my girlfriend who doesn’t pay any expenses outside of food and her own personal items from my house that I only own? Additional info: I live in Iowa We do not have any children, just 3 cats | 470ead655c1e2793ceb1d940cac38ac380351ab626217417de9f5d4e6e1f811b | [
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How do I (25 M) evict my girlfriend (24 F)? I moved into a house about a year ago, I own it and only my name is on the mortgage and I pay for all utilities and home related costs outside of some food and decorations/furniture. My girlfriend moved in with me immediately and has stayed since outside of an instance where she assaulted me and had a protection order placed for almost a month where she stayed at her own place until I took her back. Things have not gotten better as my girlfriend has been violent with me multiple times, twice the last two days even where she has struck me multiple times and has emotionally abused me by calling me an “autistic freak” when I do actually have autism. I have tried to let her know I do not want to be in a relationship with her anymore and she should leave but she doesn’t listen and refuses to leave saying I will have to shoot her to her to leave. She also says she has nowhere to go as her family won’t let her stay with them most likely due to how psychotic she is and she doesn’t have a job to pay rent. TL;DR: How can I evict my girlfriend who doesn’t pay any expenses outside of food and her own personal items from my house that I only own? Additional info: I live in Iowa We do not have any children, just 3 cats | 470ead655c1e2793ceb1d940cac38ac380351ab626217417de9f5d4e6e1f811b | [
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How do I (25 M) evict my girlfriend (24 F)? I moved into a house about a year ago, I own it and only my name is on the mortgage and I pay for all utilities and home related costs outside of some food and decorations/furniture. My girlfriend moved in with me immediately and has stayed since outside of an instance where she assaulted me and had a protection order placed for almost a month where she stayed at her own place until I took her back. Things have not gotten better as my girlfriend has been violent with me multiple times, twice the last two days even where she has struck me multiple times and has emotionally abused me by calling me an “autistic freak” when I do actually have autism. I have tried to let her know I do not want to be in a relationship with her anymore and she should leave but she doesn’t listen and refuses to leave saying I will have to shoot her to her to leave. She also says she has nowhere to go as her family won’t let her stay with them most likely due to how psychotic she is and she doesn’t have a job to pay rent. TL;DR: How can I evict my girlfriend who doesn’t pay any expenses outside of food and her own personal items from my house that I only own? Additional info: I live in Iowa We do not have any children, just 3 cats | 470ead655c1e2793ceb1d940cac38ac380351ab626217417de9f5d4e6e1f811b | [
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How do I (25 M) evict my girlfriend (24 F)? I moved into a house about a year ago, I own it and only my name is on the mortgage and I pay for all utilities and home related costs outside of some food and decorations/furniture. My girlfriend moved in with me immediately and has stayed since outside of an instance where she assaulted me and had a protection order placed for almost a month where she stayed at her own place until I took her back. Things have not gotten better as my girlfriend has been violent with me multiple times, twice the last two days even where she has struck me multiple times and has emotionally abused me by calling me an “autistic freak” when I do actually have autism. I have tried to let her know I do not want to be in a relationship with her anymore and she should leave but she doesn’t listen and refuses to leave saying I will have to shoot her to her to leave. She also says she has nowhere to go as her family won’t let her stay with them most likely due to how psychotic she is and she doesn’t have a job to pay rent. TL;DR: How can I evict my girlfriend who doesn’t pay any expenses outside of food and her own personal items from my house that I only own? Additional info: I live in Iowa We do not have any children, just 3 cats | 470ead655c1e2793ceb1d940cac38ac380351ab626217417de9f5d4e6e1f811b | [
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How do I (25 M) evict my girlfriend (24 F)? I moved into a house about a year ago, I own it and only my name is on the mortgage and I pay for all utilities and home related costs outside of some food and decorations/furniture. My girlfriend moved in with me immediately and has stayed since outside of an instance where she assaulted me and had a protection order placed for almost a month where she stayed at her own place until I took her back. Things have not gotten better as my girlfriend has been violent with me multiple times, twice the last two days even where she has struck me multiple times and has emotionally abused me by calling me an “autistic freak” when I do actually have autism. I have tried to let her know I do not want to be in a relationship with her anymore and she should leave but she doesn’t listen and refuses to leave saying I will have to shoot her to her to leave. She also says she has nowhere to go as her family won’t let her stay with them most likely due to how psychotic she is and she doesn’t have a job to pay rent. TL;DR: How can I evict my girlfriend who doesn’t pay any expenses outside of food and her own personal items from my house that I only own? Additional info: I live in Iowa We do not have any children, just 3 cats | 470ead655c1e2793ceb1d940cac38ac380351ab626217417de9f5d4e6e1f811b | [
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How do I (25 M) evict my girlfriend (24 F)? I moved into a house about a year ago, I own it and only my name is on the mortgage and I pay for all utilities and home related costs outside of some food and decorations/furniture. My girlfriend moved in with me immediately and has stayed since outside of an instance where she assaulted me and had a protection order placed for almost a month where she stayed at her own place until I took her back. Things have not gotten better as my girlfriend has been violent with me multiple times, twice the last two days even where she has struck me multiple times and has emotionally abused me by calling me an “autistic freak” when I do actually have autism. I have tried to let her know I do not want to be in a relationship with her anymore and she should leave but she doesn’t listen and refuses to leave saying I will have to shoot her to her to leave. She also says she has nowhere to go as her family won’t let her stay with them most likely due to how psychotic she is and she doesn’t have a job to pay rent. TL;DR: How can I evict my girlfriend who doesn’t pay any expenses outside of food and her own personal items from my house that I only own? Additional info: I live in Iowa We do not have any children, just 3 cats | 470ead655c1e2793ceb1d940cac38ac380351ab626217417de9f5d4e6e1f811b | [
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