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[78.74 --> 81.62] Maybe you have been betrayed. |
[81.62 --> 81.84] Maybe you have been betrayed. |
[81.84 --> 81.86] Maybe you have been betrayed. |
[81.86 --> 82.36] Maybe you have been betrayed. |
[82.36 --> 89.96] Maybe you have been lied to or you are living a lie. |
[89.96 --> 95.10] Maybe you are judgmental or you feel judged all the time. |
[95.10 --> 102.00] Maybe you look down on certain people or you feel absolutely useless and unworthy in yourself. |
[102.00 --> 107.68] You need forgiveness so badly. |
[108.26 --> 111.94] And you need to forgive so badly. |
[113.50 --> 119.76] Yet in our culture, there seems to be a different feeling expressed sometimes. |
[120.56 --> 124.04] Elizabeth Brennig in the New York Times wrote an article on forgiveness. |
[124.04 --> 133.66] And she says, we have a culture marked by an outraged sense of justice and a desire to make people atone for their sins. |
[134.78 --> 141.16] And it feels like we as a culture are offended by the very idea of forgiveness. |
[142.58 --> 143.74] Isn't that interesting? |
[144.96 --> 151.24] I think there's a sense that there's a fear that we let people get away with the stuff that they do when we forgive. |
[151.24 --> 158.40] And if you're in the wrong, according to the article, it will cancel you even if you're willing to change. |
[160.06 --> 168.02] Now forgiveness, when it's quick forgiveness, can be problematic because too often it doesn't include a sense of justice in there. |
[168.66 --> 172.70] But without forgiveness, reconciliation is not possible. |
[173.42 --> 174.40] It's not possible. |
[175.18 --> 176.90] Forgive as you've been forgiven. |
[176.90 --> 182.48] It recognizes that we all need forgiveness in order to see healing happen. |
[185.24 --> 193.30] Forgiveness is an essential to the relational fabric of our lives, our relationship with God, and our relationships with one another. |
[194.18 --> 197.36] And those who know this deeply build better relationships. |
[197.64 --> 198.98] That's just straight out true. |
[198.98 --> 203.18] Those who know how to forgive build better relationships. |
[203.56 --> 206.70] Because they stay humble knowing they need to be forgiven. |
[207.04 --> 210.60] And they know how to forgive because they know how to receive forgiveness. |
[210.98 --> 212.92] They go hand in hand. |
[214.20 --> 216.32] And so we're going to jump into this in this series here. |
[216.84 --> 220.74] I'm going to give you a lot to think about this morning, I think. |
[221.36 --> 222.88] Matthew 6, look at it with me. |
[222.88 --> 223.88] Matthew 6, verse 3. |
[224.72 --> 225.54] We're going to read. |
[225.86 --> 227.72] This is the Lord's Prayer here. |
[228.62 --> 230.52] And where we read, Jesus says, |
[231.00 --> 233.90] Forgive us our debts, our trespasses, our sins. |
[234.32 --> 237.54] As we also have forgiven our debtors. |
[238.36 --> 238.74] There we go. |
[238.78 --> 239.96] You see the combination there. |
[240.62 --> 243.54] And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. |
[243.78 --> 244.82] And then Jesus goes on. |
[245.08 --> 250.76] For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. |
[250.76 --> 256.88] But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. |
[257.94 --> 262.42] And that ought to make you stop in your tracks and say, what? |
[262.66 --> 263.74] What do you mean I don't get forgiven? |
[264.16 --> 267.96] If you don't forgive, you don't get forgiveness. |
[268.94 --> 270.88] I mean, that's a profound thing to say. |
[270.96 --> 272.32] That's something to wrestle with. |
[272.74 --> 273.80] So what does that look like? |
[274.02 --> 278.18] We're going to talk a little bit about this idea of what is forgiveness, what isn't forgiveness. |
[278.18 --> 284.00] And we're going to start off with a case study from the life of Jesus about this woman. |
[284.94 --> 289.46] There was a party at the house of Simon the Pharisee that Jesus was invited to. |
[290.44 --> 294.26] And this woman of bad reputation comes in. |
[294.54 --> 296.12] And she falls at Jesus' feet. |
[296.26 --> 297.34] And she weeps on his feet. |
[297.46 --> 298.32] Poured oils on his feet. |
[298.66 --> 299.82] And dries it with her hair. |
[300.02 --> 302.06] A profound picture. |
[302.06 --> 304.52] I want you to picture it. |
[305.08 --> 307.86] And then this is what happens next. |
[308.44 --> 309.00] Luke 7. |
[309.10 --> 309.78] Look at it with me. |
[310.74 --> 316.80] When the Pharisee, and that's Simon, who had invited Jesus saw this, this woman, |
[317.54 --> 322.76] he said to himself, if this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him |
[322.76 --> 325.80] and what kind of woman she is, that she is a sinner. |
[325.80 --> 332.14] Jesus answered him, Simon, I have something to tell you. |
[332.92 --> 334.42] Tell me, teacher, he said. |
[336.22 --> 339.32] Two people owed money to a certain money lender. |
[339.94 --> 342.42] One owed 500 denarii, the other 50. |
[342.80 --> 346.48] Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. |
[346.66 --> 349.50] Now, which of them will love him more? |
[350.56 --> 353.20] Well, Simon replied, I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven. |
[353.20 --> 355.36] Simon, you have judged correctly. |
[356.02 --> 356.92] And now you picture this. |
[357.52 --> 359.52] Then he's looking at this woman who's at his feet. |
[360.78 --> 363.16] And he's talking to Simon, but he's looking at her. |
[363.24 --> 365.10] He's pulling the attention toward her. |
[365.96 --> 370.20] Then he turned toward the woman and he said to Simon, do you see this woman? |
[373.72 --> 375.00] I came into your house. |
[376.08 --> 379.20] You didn't give me any water for my feet, which would have been customary. |
[379.20 --> 384.22] And she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. |
[385.58 --> 391.20] You did not give me a kiss, which was also customary, but the woman from the time I entered has not stopped kissing my feet. |
[391.40 --> 396.12] You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. |
[396.38 --> 402.48] Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven, as her great love has shown. |
[402.48 --> 406.18] But whoever has been forgiven little, loves little. |
[408.40 --> 410.94] And then Jesus said to the woman, your sins are forgiven. |
[412.30 --> 416.48] The other guests began to say amongst themselves, who is this that even forgives sins? |
[417.14 --> 419.22] And Jesus said to the woman, your faith has saved you. |
[419.26 --> 419.80] Go in peace. |
[423.22 --> 425.00] Who do you identify with in the story? |
[426.88 --> 429.48] Maybe several characters. |
[430.38 --> 431.06] I know I could. |
[431.06 --> 436.66] Simon, he's a religious leader, and he certainly doesn't put himself in the same place as this woman. |
[437.78 --> 438.82] What a sinner. |
[439.28 --> 440.92] And Jesus acknowledges her. |
[441.04 --> 441.94] He engages with her. |
[441.98 --> 443.42] He lets her touch him. |
[443.64 --> 448.06] And we have the religious leader's reaction to sin versus this clearly sinful woman. |
[448.06 --> 455.94] Or we might say we have one blind to his own sins versus one who knows her sins only too well. |
[455.94 --> 460.46] And only one of these people will be forgiven. |
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