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Today I visited the school bookstore. The year's already begun so not many people still have to buy books, and the store was pretty empty. Just me and a cute girl who immediately struck me as likely being into girls herself (which I never notice, normally; I'm usually painfully oblivious). We bought our books and then both left the store and got onto the same bus.
Over the course of the bus ride, I kept sneaking glances like the awkward person I am. She had an almost stereotypically short haircut, a rainbow pin on her bag, and of course she was extremely pretty... And then I looked over at the same moment that she looked straight at me. Our eyes met, and hers lingered.
So, I took the logical course of action and panicked. I immediately pulled the cord to stop the bus, jumped up, and got off the bus many stops before I needed to. I then spent half an hour walking home carrying heavy schoolbooks and a building sense of regret.
...And that was the most interesting part of my day so far. I also think it's a pretty accurate depiction of my awkwardness, unfortunately.
Hey AL, thought you might appreciate the amusement of my awkward bus encounter. | At least now you know which bus she takes! Haha XD
| I am actually really disappointed in the Reddit-machine right now. I was hoping to come into this thread and someone would be like, "Hey, were you wearing the cool red converse and is your school mascot a Green Antelope?" and OP would be like, "Why, yes, yes, I was and yes, it is! How did you know?" and random redditor would respond thusly: "I was the girl with the rainbow pin!!! My bag is blue, so you know I'm not a creeper. Wanna grab a coffee this afternoon?"
This is what I want to happen. Regardless of whether a similar conversation to this imaginary one occurs later, OP: you are not alone in the awkwardness department. I tend to freeze up a bit when I see a hot lady checking me out. We'll get better. :)
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Long story short, it's been coming up in some of our circles at home. But, in a manner that makes me question the honesty of it. Beyond even the "personal" issues of some of the participants.
Really, I don't have much of a problem with the people who use these sorts of social issues as a hammer to assert control over individuals. For them, there's not much you can do to stop them. I have noticed that more bothersome for me, they are having a really easy time manipulating many people. Specifically younger people. Conversations that are based around nothing other than text, hyperbole and arguing. We of course know all this already. The goal is shame, guilt and control.
But over the course of the past few months I have noticed the same thing happen twice. The seeping of these "social" issues based on hyperbole and strawmen begin criticizing actual, living breathing projects. To the point where the most successful anti-racist projects are attacked, ignored from a factual basis and look like a Tumblr argument online. These individuals end up having some support, from people who feel like the charge of "racism" or "not doing enough" or "privilege" is meaningful enough to denigrate anything.
And this isn't cherry picking, these are real life things. Even to the point of the charge on an individual that they "don't do enough" presumably because...they don't post enough anti-racist articles online. This is not a joke. This was a serious suggestion. And of course, these are not personal or even acquaintance friends.
This is a disaster. The fact is, if you are the cops or private groups you could have no problem if not outright destroying and splitting successful projects at least sectioning off a large group of guilty supporters. Has this been happening in your town? It's happening in mine.
This is actually a pretty serious post, it's not a joke when Tumblr anti-racism actually begins impacting anti-authoritarian anti-racist organizing in real life. I really don't even know what else to call these politics or social issues. They aren't identity politics.
For extreme lack of a better phrase, "tumblr politics" having troubling implications lately. Honest discussion | I've noticed your typical anti-racist tumblr blog or twitter tends to be run by some liberal white person who appropriates the rhetoric of the far-left while simultaneously stripping it of all it's actual content. Then of course that type tends to deride any argument in favor of anything even remotely radical as being an expression of privilege.
I suppose a great example, during protests in Oakland last December I saw a lot of people complaining about "white anarchists" on social media. This is stupid for a number of reasons, least of which was the fact that not everybody smashing up that cop car was white. If anything the white liberal complaining about radicals "hijacking" the movement is probably more privileged and condescending then anything some black bloc person got up to. It rests on the idea that black people are innocent democrat angels who would never do anything to hurt anybody else or their property. Which is bullshit.
If anything I find it rather weird how many white people I know...how do I put this?...fetishize black struggles and turn them into something they aren't. In fact liberal tumblrites obsession with all things black is kind of odd. I really don't know how to describe this, but it's almost like this type hates the culture they live in so much that they turn around and transform black culture and experiences into some sort of innocent, beautiful, wonder devoid of anything they don't like. Which is just fucking weird. I mean, I hate my culture plenty but that doesn't mean I gotta pretend I'm somehow not white or that I'm above it, nor does that mean I gotta (like I said) fetishize black people
That isn't to say they shouldn't care about racism (they should), but it almost seems like they're constructing some sort of totem to their own progressiveness rather then speaking truth because it is truth, if that makes any sense.
To go back to Oakland, one of the stupider moments I remember seeing on livestream (all the fun of civil unrest without the exercise!) was some kid trying to
| Do you have any examples cause I'm just writing this off otherwise, you sound like every other reactionary lamenting SJWs.
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A pharmacist's belief against the morning after pill does not give him the right to refuse it to a patient. If he does, he should be on the hook for child support.
A boss's belief against birth control does not give him the right to ask women to tell them why they are on birth control.
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Your religious beliefs against gay marriage gives you the right to not marry someone of the same gender. It does not give you the right to prevent others from marrying someone of the same gender.
Your beliefs in prayer does not give you the right to hold prayers in taxpayer funded public schools.
“Tonight, as you go to sleep beside your heterosexual life mate, you can rest assured, that all across your great state, a gay man or a lesbian woman is crying themselves to sleep in solitude and making your relationship stronger with every tear." -Stephen Colbert
Conservatives have a serious problem differentiating between "personal beliefs" and "right to shove your personal beliefs down other peoples' throats". | How about my right to not PAY for things I don't agree with? Want to have brith control? GREAT! Go buy some, don't expect me to pay for it. Want to have a loving relationship with someone of the same sex? Good for you, don't FORCE my church to recognize it. Want to kill your own children? Go for it! Don't use my tax dollars to do it. Any more of your problems you would like me to solve for you?
| I'm with you 100%, but abortion doesn't really fit with you reasoning.
The right wing anti-abortion argument starts from the premise that the baby is a human life, and killing it is murder. You readily enforce your beliefs on a KKK member who wants to murder a black man because he thinks he's sub-human, don't you?
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