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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I feel like I have "used up" all of my love. What should I do, Reddit? POST: Story: As a teenager, I was never really "into" relationships. I didn't understand why people liked dating so much, what they meant by they "loved" their boyfriend / girlfriend, etc. One day, I met this fantast...	girl broke up with me 3 years ago, I thought I really liked her. Ever since then I have been showing sociopathic behaviors and thoughts. What should I do? I want to be a happy person.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How can I [28/f] gently tell my SO [23/m] to bring it down a notch when it comes to physical affection? POST: First off, we've been dating exclusively for about 6 months. I consider myself to be pretty introverted and lone-wolfish in general. I'm also probably the more dominant...	– My SO is too clingy physically. Is there a nice way to tell him to back off a little bit?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [23 M] of 1 year, fooled around with guys while we were broken up and now I feel guilty. What do I do..? POST: My boyfriend and I, who met through mutual friends, have been dating about 1 year now. About 6 months ago, we broke up for various reasons. The ...	Did things with guys while broken up with ex-bf, then lied about it. Feeling guilty. Am I an awful person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M/23] Higher sex drive that my girlfriend [21/F] POST: (I posted this is relationship_advice, but maybe the higher volume of people here will get me more opinions) I've been with this girl for about 5 months now, we both are really into each other and have said that we love one anot...	I want more intimacy, not just getting off. Sex gives me a sense of closeness with my SO, girlfriend's libido is way lower than mine. Wat do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 F] with my BF [28 M] 3 years, lied about getting me a birthday gift. POST: I feel like this is a touchy thing to bring up with him because it makes me feel like I'm being greedy. However! My birthday was a month ago and on the day of he had nothing for me. He said he had o...	BF of 3 years lied about getting me a bday present, I don't know how to bring it up to him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] have had a number of dreams where I have cheated on my BF [21M]. They're freaking me out and idk what to do. (1 yr 3 mth) POST: To keep it short and sweet. In the past two weeks I've had two dreams where I've cheated on my BF. I also had 1 earlier in the year. None of them ...	Dreams about cheating on bf leave me freaked out and I don't know how to calm down from the guilt I shouldn't be having.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How long do I [22 M] wait to ask out my crush [20 F] after she broke up with her boyfriend? POST: A girl I have had a crush on since high school has recently separated from her boyfriend of 3 years. In high school I had a crush on her would spend a lot of time hanging out at her hous...	I had a crush on this girl for years didn't make my move and we went separate ways. Now she's available but I don't know how long to wait to ask her out. Help me reddit!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I was in an accident and I need advice. Help me Reddit! first post POST: I was in an accident on 28NOV11. A GMC Sierra hit my little CR-V while I was stopped at red light. The driver of the Sierra was doing about 45. I was forced into the median and hit a light post as well. The accident...	I was in accident that wasn't my fault. What do I need to do to keep the rug from being pulled out from under my life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by lending me phone to my girlfriend. POST: EDIT: Lending my phone. Sorry. I'm in college. Yesterday in art class there were some high school girls talking with the professor. They were kind of good looking. So, as the dumb man that I am, I texted a friend telling him about these girl...	Girlfriend saw messages saying that I was checking some girls' ass, I said I loved her, was told to go fuck myself.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M19] How to stop being the jealous type in my relationship? POST: Basically the girl [19/F] who I'm dating now (started dating when we we're both 18, university freshers), has had 2 boyfriends before, whom she both dated for quite a while (last boyfriend she was with for almost 2 ye...	Jealous my GF has had loving relationship before and I havn't, need to learn its all in the past, but can't help it!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by climbing into the shower with my girlfriend's grandma and then asking for a blowjob POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. This happened yesterday morning. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months and we're both 17. Her mom likes me so she does not mind when I sleep over a...	Did not think nearly hard enough in the morning and highly disturbed my girlfriend's grandma, and her mom, because they all know now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: LA Fitness wrongfully charged me 4 months in membership dues, CC reversed the transactions. Should I be worry about collections? POST: Hi guys, Basically the gist of the story is this: I signed up for a couple months membership at LA Fitness then moved and paid via my credit card...	LA Fitness continued to charge me after cancelling membership and denied I ever cancelled. Credit Card company reversed the excess transactions. Should I worry about collections and how this may affect my credit score?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm pretty sure an older woman wants to fuck my brains out... What do I do? POST: Okay, here's the story: I'm 22 and I'm in the process of joining a dog training club, which is the most well respected in the area. I had some questions, so I asked around and wound up talking to one of th...	I'm going on a puppy play date this weekend at an older woman's house and I'm almost certain she wants to bang me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to improve my (24/m) relationship with my parents (68m/58/f). POST: Don't get me wrong, my parents and I get along perfectly fine. We love each other. Nevertheless over the last few years I feel i have almost deliberately distanced myself to them for various complicated reasons. ...	Help me connect with my parents. How do I let them into my life? How do I show my upmost gratitude and love?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [22 M/F] of 11 months. Recently she has been saying that I'm controlling...? POST: So as of recently my girlfriend of 11 months has been bringing up that I'm being clingly and/or controlling. Her last boyfriend, who she was with for almost 5 years, barel...	girlfriend thinks in controlling when I genuinely just want to know what she's up to when we're not together or what she has planned for the day or week so that I can plan something with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my boyfriend [22 M] of 1 year that I love, but I have a huge sex drive and just want to suck other guys, he is hesitant to open our relationship POST: I'll keep it short. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and we love each other, it's the best relationship I ...	I want a gay open relationship with the man I love because I want to suck off other men, my boyfriend is hesitant, can a gay open relationship work or am I in the wrong? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my now recently EX-GF [24 F] of 6 weeks, have just broke up because of a past problem regarding her ex. Advice? POST: I've known his girl for a few years now and I've have slight to moderate attractions for her the whole way when finally we hooked up (no not sex) and s...	My now ex GF broke up with me because she can't handle what her other Ex did to her. She says wait and we can try again. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Can't decide if buying this car is what I want to do... POST: For the past year and a half or so, I've been saving up for a Fiero, knowing it'd be the perfect summer car for me (I already own a daily driver). I love them to death, and would love to drive one. I now have the opport...	saved up for a car I always wanted, and now have the money. When finally getting the chance to buy the car, I have huge doubts, and stress. What to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (19m) and my bi ex (19f) not over each other and trying to remain friends, but I'm pissed about someone she is currently talking to. POST: Okay so me and my ex, who keep in mind is bisexual, went out for 4 months and broke up a month and a half ago and the entire relationship was ...	My ex broke up with me because of the distance, yet she is talking to someone else who is out of her driving distance. Now I am pissed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] met a friend of my brother's [20 M] last week, we were inseparable but.... (The quintessential does he like me?) POST: Last week I went to my brother's house, he had been going on about a friend of his Dan that was bugging him to come over Once we get there he introduces us...	Met a guy talked for hours, he was sweet offered to help me with things and even showed of his body a bit but didn't make any kind of move, Could he have just been being nice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Parents' divorce/remarriage predicament (x-post from Advice) POST: Didn't really know where to post this. Throwaway account because my boyfriend doesn't use Reddit, and I'm asking on his behalf. Reddit, please help me out. Here's the story. My boyfriend's parents are getting a divorce becau...	Bf's dad is a jerk and he's getting married to woman he cheated on his wife with, wants his son to go to his wedding but he doesn't want to go, afraid of being cut off financially.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Please help me regarding my PC. It no longer recognizes HDMI. POST: I'm not sure where this question should have gone, but I need help. I have exhausted Google and hoped maybe the Reddit community would have an answer for me. Here is the deal. I use my 32" Vizio flatscreen TV as a monit...	My PC stopped recognizing HDMI display. It has worked for eight months and stopped abruptly. Now using VGA. Want to go back to HDMI, but don't know how or why it stopped in the first place.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [29 M] SO [28 F] of 7 years, informed me that she discovered being bisexual by getting a crush on her colleague [~23 F]. Should I be worried? POST: My SO and I have had a very rough year due to a death in the family and a lot of miscommunication in the aftermath. Now that things ...	My SO has informed me that she discovered her bisexuality by noticing her crush on a colleague. I applauded her discovery, but I'm unsure if she's simply letting me know or trying to tell me something more.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28/F] think I'm falling for a man [37/M] who lives 6000 kilometers away. Should I run? POST: I met him a few years ago when he was on a trip to my country, and we ended up making fast friends. I saw him a few times, and then, of course, he had to leave. It was strictly platonic at...	I'm scared of getting myself into a really long-distance relationship. Has anyone else had any experience with them, and what was it like?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my ex [34 F] 3 months - trying to get over. Thinking bitter thoughts POST: Hi. Ex broke up with me two weeks ago and I've Been trying to move on. Though I've been getting these thoughts of murder or being really nasty to her. Though I then felt horrible for thinking s...	Ex broke up. Still thinking what I did wrong or if I could change it. Experienced bitter thoughts too .<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [non-romantic] I (17m) need to apologize to a friend (18f), but don't know how to. POST: (throwaway to protect ids of ppl involved. Also, not sure if I should mark NSFW or naw) Title. Basically what happened was way back about 4 years ago, my friend (18f, name will be Jane for st...	I dun goofed with a friend's cousin. I want to fix it, but don't know how or where to start.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with long distance friend [26 F] have an 18 month pact POST: 1.Okay, so me and a long distance friend of mine, let's call her Polly have a weird arrangement. Our personalities are such that we are almost identical. That can be good or bad. 2.We randomly met up for the...	Have a pact that if in 1.5 years we're both still single, we give it a go. Is this weird and a red flag, or just hopelessly romantic?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] have met this guy [18m] and I want to ask him out I just don't know the best way to do so POST: I met this guy a while ago and I really like him, he is super nice. I want to ask him out and the only problem is I am not exactly sure how too. He had an abusive ex and I met h...	A guy I want to ask out had an abusive ex and I want to know the best way to ask him out, while telling him I would never do some of the stuff she did to him<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Stop trying to enforce "Jim Crow"esque rules/laws on homosexuals POST: There is a moderately popular cake shop in my area and people I am friends with have "liked" their page on Facebook. They post pictures of fabulous cakes for the most part, but also some religiously charged quotes th...	If you're going to bring your religion into your business, you better abide by all of its rules. Otherwise, you're going to be seen as the bigot you claim not to be.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Where do i go from here? POST: I have always performed well at school. Because of this, my parents have always wanted me to go to university, get a degree and find myself a high earning job. Over the past couple of years I have thought and thought about what it is I want to do for a living,...	feel as though continuing my education is a waste of time based on the way I want to live my life, don't know if I am being stupid, or how to explain to my parents how I feel.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20, F] mom [40, F] won't put her dog down- I really need help POST: This is probably not the right place to post this, but I know a lot of people are on this one and I really need help. My mom's dog is 15 years old, and has cancer. He has two giant tumors on his face- one on his...	Mom's dog should be put down, has cancer, and is in pain all the time. I don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24 F] boyfriend [24 M] of 2 years has been watching gay porn and visiting casual dating sites after saying he isn't attracted to men. POST: My boyfriend and I have been friends since middle school. During that time (between 6th and 12th), a lot of people accused him of being gay....	Boyfriend's been visiting gay porn and casual dating sites after telling me he's not attracted to guys. How do I talk about this without pushing him away?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my ex-husband [30M]. He is getting re-married but wants me to tell our son [8M] but I think it is something he should do. POST: Very brief background: I got pregnant when I was 21, we got married - not a good idea. We got divorced 2 years ago. The break-up was mutual an...	My ex is getting re-married but wants me to tell our son so he won't get upset with him. I feel like it is his responsibility<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl I was seeing [F, 22] decides to not pursue a relationship with me [M, 24] because I'm not a Christian, but her story doesn't make sense... POST: Her and I have been seeing each other the past couple weeks, and we hit it off great, talked about so much stuff in our lives, had a g...	Girl breaks it off with me because I'm not a Christian, yet her previous actions do not exemplify someone who would be strong in her faith. Is she bullshitting me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28M] with my [24F]. She works long hours in car rental and I don't like it. POST: My fiance works for Enterprise and works a mandatory 53 hours a week and stays late every day. I work early and am often in bed by 9. When I do see her we're both exhausted, so sex life isn't where ...	I hardly see my SO and I'm sad. Specifically, are there spouses of enterprise employees or SOs that work long hours? What do you do to stay happy/fufilled/idk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] relationship with [21F] has an expiration date, we will break up at end of summer, but I'm losing interest. POST: First of all I want to say I really do adore my girlfriend and we promised to stay in contact, and stay friends after we break up. We are breaking up because we ...	Relationship has an expiration date, should I break up now and enjoy rest of University life, or stick it out so no one gets hurt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (28F) dating a married 32M with no divorce in sight...can I help speed him along? POST: So I started dating this guy about 3 months ago. He and his wife separated several years ago but he hasn't really done anything proactive about not just getting a divorce, but actually even fil...	I'm dating a man I really like but he won't even file for divorce and its making me question his intentions. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 M] am trying to get a Girl [18 F] I know for 4 Months to meet me, but she lives 700km away. She is also very cold, how do I attempt to be romantic? POST: So I added this Girl on Skype, I know her over a buddy of mine. We talked for quite a while and I began to like her. By that...	Girl lives far away, want to meet her, but shes busy working 6 days a week, next holidays in 2015. How do I attempt asking her? How do I text a girl romantic, when she's so cold?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15 M] like several people with varying degrees of friendship, but I know I would get rejected if I asked anyone out. Still worth it? POST: I have crushes on quite a few people I know. One of them is a pretty close male friend, but I'm pretty sure he's straight so that's off the ta...	I have crushes on several friends/acquaintances, and I'm not at all dating material. Is it worth asking them if I'm almost certain I'll be rejected?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My partner [18F] wants me [18M] to ask her to be my girlfriend in a very special way. POST: Me and this girl have been exclusive to each other for about 2 months now, we were best friends before and it eventually just elevated to what it is now. We are both 18 and she's always told m...	My SO wants me to "officially" ask her out in a very special way but i just can't think of one.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Whenever I[21/m] try to have an intellectual conversation with a woman they shy away. POST: I generally fair pretty well when asking a girl on a date. We generally talk about who we are, what we do etc. This works well for me, in relationships as well. Lately I have been experiment...	The majority of women I talk to don't like or don't want to have deeper conversations, am I doing something wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: It's my [26F] birthday today. Am I wrong to feel sad if most my friends and brothers don't remember? POST: When it comes to my birthday, I always feel sad when the people I remember birthdays of, don't remember mine. I have a Facebook but I have turned off the birthday reminder so o...	friends don't wish me a happy birthday in either text or Facebook and brothers don't remember my birthday. I feel sad and forgotten. Am I wrong for feeling like this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I think I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship... POST: I know I need to leave him, but I'm just not sure if I should tell him I feel like he's an emotionally abusive partner when I have "the talk" with him. I'm afraid of him calling me overly sensitive and ignoring how I f...	do I let my boyfriend know I feel like he's emotionally abusive or do I just ignore it because I may be overly sensitive and overreacting?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by destroying a chair with my enormity, in front of the board of directors of a bank POST: I work as a network security consultant. I am "a large human" (25 stones/350lbs/160kg). Account manager and I are called to a bank to consult with their board of directors about the state of thei...	broke a chair by sitting on it in front of the board of directors of a bank and still got the job we were there to pitch.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] want to break up with my boyfriend [24M] because he asked for a threesome POST: I just need to hear other people's thoughts on this. I have been with Alex for about 9 months, and we are in love. This happened a week ago and I still have not been able to get over it. He basi...	Boyfriend wants a threesome with an acquaintance; I am so completely against the concept fundamentally that I am thinking of ending it with him because we are incompatible.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] am not sure if a girl [17F] in my class has a crush on me. POST: There is this girl in my class at school, she is ridiculously gorgeous. The way how she behaves with me makes me wonder if she likes me, she always flirts with me, touches me, stares at me, then when I look at h...	Girl in my class is giving me the vibe that she like me, however I feel as if this is impossible because she is so beautiful and I am ugly.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My marriage is ending and I don't know how I feel about it. POST: Hi /r/relationships, I am 30/F, have been married to 29/M, for 3+ years, and before that, had been dating my husband for almost 3 years (we knew and understood each other well enough). Ever Since we started living toge...	6 year old relationship and marriage getting over, and I am broke completely (emotionally, and financially). What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (31M) sister in law (34F) and I had a affair, we both realized that what we did was wrong and have sworn not to do so again, what is a good way to move forward in my, well our marriages? POST: My sister in law and I are in laws by marriage. She is married to my wife's older brothe...	had an affair with sil, she's married to my wife's brother, we decided to end the affair and really throw our all into our marriages<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by writing a poem in front of my girlfriend. POST: Background: Me: (24-M) GF (24)-Dating for over a year, Awesome Dad: (55) So today is my Dad's birthday and like family tradition, for every birthday, Father's day and Christmas, I wrote a poem for him. It was something I started back i...	Wrote a birthday card for my Dad, Girlfriend saw, got a bit mad, Now my poems need more zest, details above if you want the rest.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Keep getting stood up (F21) by (M24)... should it be three strikes and he's out? POST: Sorry if this is a repeat... but I sort of need some advice. I have never really been the dating type but an acquaintance from a couple years ago (who I have always had a crush on) asks me out a ...	Let me know in advance that he was bailing on our dates and rescheduled... but this time not even a text, is he even interested?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: What to say in my discussion with friend tomorrow (female) POST: Hello everyone, I am a male for starters. Tomorrow i have the perfect opportunity to talk to my female best friend about what has been happening between us, but im not sure what to say... We have been good friends for over a y...	Going to talk to my best friend of the opposite gender tomorrow who is now starting to be a bitch towards me, what should i bring up in the talk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 f] with my boyfriend [22 M] 6 months, kissed someone else POST: Hey guys, throwaway account because I'm paranoid and plan on deleting this eventually so no one I know finds it. So this relationship has been probably the best one I've ever been in. Trust, communication, all t...	Bf kissed a girl friend. I am hurt as I have been cheated on before. Don't quite trust him to not hurt me. How do I deal with this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need some Ideas... POST: I just found out that my cousins (he's 35) cancer (Adenoid cystic carcinoma) came back and he starts treatment on April third at Dana Farber in Boston (which is a 3 hour drive from where they live). My mom passed away from colon cancer when I was thirteen so ...	My cousin has cancer, what are some things I can do or give to help treatment/the long drive to treatment suck less.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] with my Sister [20s F] afraid she's lost her grip on reality and will harm us POST: I recall her previously being very social but she's also very arrogant so she would drop good friends with little or no notice and simply avoid them before moving on to the next group of peo...	Sister returned from university, had hallucinations, is aggressive and detached from reality and refuses to take medication or go back to the hospital.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: I am afraid to use the scale. POST: Hi everyone. I'm a 19 year old uni student who eventually got fed up with his body and decided to set some serious life goals, one including losing all my extra weight no matter how long it takes me or how hard it is going to be. This was two weeks ago a...	Decided to lose weight two weeks ago; going strong; feel great-happy; was 286lbs; too afraid to use the scale cause I might get disapointed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Found out that my roommate [23 M] was cheated on by his girlfriend [24 F] of 5 years POST: They had been together for 5 years and recently broke up. He never treated her right and the relationship was toxic, so she made the right decision breaking up with him. But I recently found o...	Roommates girlfriend cheated on him, I found out. They broke up and now might get back together. Not sure whether I should tell him or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to get more friends on snapchat... POST: So yes this actually happened today...someone will probably find the thread because I'm not using a throwaway but ah whatever. I'm a pretty avid Snapchat user, I love posting and also watching cool snaps, I came across r/snapchat and not...	didn't realize how reddit illiterate I am and accidentally made myself appear to be a female when I am really male.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making my girlfriend cry. POST: A little back story - My girlfriend and I are both 16 and this is my first major serious relationship. We've been "official" since February 26th and she's met my parents and I've met hers. So she picks me up from school today and we finished up some ma...	Made out/felt up girlfriend, dad walked in, dad is pissed, privileges stripped, girlfriend is embarrassed and crying.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I hate how much I hate my dad...please help POST: I hate my dad. Just him as a person. I have since I was in elementary school (I'm in uni now). The way he talks to people in a very patronizing and sometimes condescending way, how he is so set in his ways that it's just plain rude to other pe...	Basically my dad annoys the living shit out of me and I want to learn how to be more accepting of him and his ~~fucking dumb~~ habits.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (29F) need help with my spouse (31M) POST: When we met, the relationship was mutually respectful and fulfilling. Now it is withdrawn and he is disconnected on every level. Our sex life is good in variety and frequency, although it meets his needs more frequently than mine. Emotiona...	Six years of marriage, two kids, healthy sex life, spend a lot of time as a family, no red flags but my husband refuses to spend time with my family or friends and I go alone. This is killing me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Recently saw my [24f] ex [24m] on a date POST: Relationship didn't end so hot. We were basically together for 7-8 months (didn't establish relationship early, there was a few week breakup somewhere in there). I got jealous (I've never been jealous before) of one of his female friend...	ran into ex of 5 months, he's already in an apparently super serious relationship and I don't know how I feel about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[24M] with BF[22M] (5 months), I love him, but he loves more, more enough to make me feel I don't love him enough. POST: Hello all, I'm a bisexual man having problems with his boyfriend. The main problem is I'm not used to be loved this much, I feel like I'm swimming in a sea of lo...	I know I'm in love my BF, but BF loves me much much more and I feel guilty and upset about not being in love as much as he is.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What was one of your most memorable high school memories? POST: I'll start off. Every morning I would get off the bus when I got to school and walk to a side street for a cigarette. While I was standing there smoking my cigarette, this girl who I've never seen before pulls up and just s...	Went to side street in the morning to smoke a cigarette, girl pulls up and says, "Get in." I get in. Instantly get a blunt passed to me. Get a blowjob.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Long distance relationship, worries about future. POST: On throwaway here because my bf is a redditor as well. We are both in our 20s and been dating for 3 years (been friends for about 5 months before we started dating), currently in long distance relationship. Lived together on a...	my bf lives in a different country and won't be able to visit me after he starts working, I can't visit him because of legal issues (visa).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [22m] don't know whether to cut it off with my ex [22f] after a breakup. POST: hey /r/relationship_advice, I recently broke up with my gf of 1 year this past december. To sum it up, it started off as any strong relationship did and we were as happy as ever, but after a big f...	Ex needs help and wants to maintain contact but I'm stuck in the middle whether I should put myself through a little bit of troubles to help her, or to do the best thing for me and cut contact.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Class Action Lawsuit POST: I work for Lowe's and received mail from a class action lawsuit, Brown et all v Lowe's, that allows me to opt out of the class action lawsuit, turn something in to receive a payment if Brown et all win, or do nothing and stay included, but don't receive a...	what is Brown et all v Lowe's about and should I opt out, opt in case of a settlement, or do nothing and stay opted but without ant settlement possibilities?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] unsure of how to feel about friends[23 M] "crush" [22 F] POST: My friend is currently talking to a girl that he has had a crush on for around 2 years. They used to be fairly close, but around 6 months or so ago she told him that they were no more than friends. He didn't rea...	I like the same girl that my friend likes, but I feel like she has feelings for me instead of for him. I don't want to lose contact with either of them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Most screwed up thing you have done in school?And what Should i do in my situation? POST: So today was proably a large lesson for me. Well we were given a writing assignment and had to make a character out of the contents in a bag. I was in a group of two with my friend (we shall cal...	wrote a story about a mean teacher, got flipped out on, freinds won by default yet they had the same thing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Re-applying for credit after corrections have been made. POST: Hi everyone, I was denied for a credit card from Chase at the end of July. At which time, I found two errors on my credit report (an account in collections and an account still open with "mystery" missed payments, that ...	Is it worth it to resubmit an application for denied credit after corrections to your credit report were made? Will this result in another hard inquiry?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by saying a kid with down syndrome had a retarded face... POST: So to start with this is my first post so I'm sorry for any mistakes but here we go... First I'll set the scene, I'm in high school on my schools weight lifting team, and I generally hang out with some buddies in the front ...	Said my friend's little brother's face looked retarded, found out said brother has down syndrome, pissed off the whole family, got a guilt burrito at taco bell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [29M] of 1 year, I think he wants more freedom and I don't know how to proceed. POST: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 1 year and so far, the relationship is fine. Except he's the type of guy that wants his space and values his freedom very mu...	My boyfriend acts like he wants more freedom from this relationship, even though I let him do pretty much whatever he wants to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Been through alot of crap with a girl m18. POST: I know I have posted alot here I get it yell at me if you want, but you all have been very helpful and I appreciate it. I have my own issues and a girl I met before we were going into school helped me get to know the place and really...	Girl and I both have our own issues and arguments, but it would make me happy if I could see it through and resolve the problem and feel great again.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] 5 years, I decided to temp. stop drinking about a month ago and recently decided to make it a permanent change and she is really upset about it. POST: Little background. My gf and I used to love going to craft breweries and enjoying trying differen...	I quit drinking and my gf is upset, feels like she is being forced to quit also. I have never once said she needs to stop drinking<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update]I [F25] looked up my husbands [M26] reddit history and am uncomfortable with his comments in GW POST: So, shortly after I posted my [original question] I sent him a text letting him know I wanted to talk to him that night - He's away at school right now and we don't always ca...	Told him what bothered me but ultimately left him free to do whatever he wanted - he deleted the posts and understood my point of view.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Should I be concerned that my partner doesn't share my enthusiasm for having a baby in the future? How do men typically feel about babies anyway? POST: I am not sure how well my partner would do if we were to have a baby. I fear that he wouldn't love the baby like I would or that he woul...	Do men who show zero interest in babies and children change when they have their own baby? Is it okay that he says he wants children but doesn't act enthusiastic?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20 M] friend is going to be forced into an arranged marriage POST: I know this isn't about me but I need help as to how to approach my friend and be as respectful to him while also making sure that he's doing the right thing. I live in the UK and one of my best friends is half ...	In a couple hours I am taking my friend to get a new passport so that he can be forced into an arranged marriage. What do I say or do to convince him otherwise or at least make sure he knows what's involved.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17F] don't know what to do about a guy that asked me out [19M] (a bit more complicated than it sounds) POST: I met this guy about a month ago and he seemed like a decent guy. I later found out he's running a bit of a drug operation. By that I mean he's the one dealing to the deale...	Drug dealer asked me out, he's friends with some of my friends, how do I say no in a way that makes future contact as not-awkward as possible?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Sister deserves to get in to vet school but her application to the only one in the country was rejected. What else to do to get them to reconsider her application? POST: It's been my sister's dream to be a vet since she could talk. She applied for the only university that offers veterina...	My sister is smart, driven and passionate about helping animals. Her application to study veterinary science was rejected. What further steps can she take to appeal for reconsideration?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting on the front page of reddit. POST: I don't know how it happened, it was unexpected for me. According to commenters of said post it was because I was "a female who was not unattractive", but I only posted the pic because I am an " attention whore".. apart from the negativity, c...	posted before and after pics, got told I was cunt-woman with egotistical tendencies; I probably called them an asshole, someone hacked and deleted me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33 F] with my Friend [30 F] 4 years, starting to act totally different with me - small town, small group of friends. How to handle rejection? POST: I've counted myself lucky to have gotten in with some pretty awesome people in this small town I live in, and we all have a mutual h...	Friend is slowly ghosting me 1-on-1, but acts normal in our small group of friends. How do I not care as much?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [44 M] with my brother [47 M] and sister in law [44 F], go to Thanksgiving or not POST: My sister in law is a prescription drug addict and alcoholic. When we visit with her and my brother, she is often LOADED...slurring, falling asleep, passing out on our lawn, sitting by herself ...	Sister in law is a drug addict and alcoholic. Don't know whether to go to Thanksgiving knowing what a train wreck she is.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18F] have a giant crush on my roommates best friend [20M] POST: I have lived in my current room for about 1.5 months. My roommates and I met through craigslist and we are all pretty good friends now. We do a ton of activities together, and I have grown close with a few of their fri...	I like one of my roommates best friends: should I peruse this? If yes how should I go about telling him my feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Have you successfully toilet-trained your cat(s)? We could use some help. POST: My girlfriend and I have two kittens (brothers) and they're about 4 months old. When we got them, they were perfectly litter trained and had not once had a problem. We decided that we would try to toilet train the...	of our two twin kittens, one uses the toilet like an expert and the other is giving us hell. (Is this what parents go through when potty-training children? It's infuriating.)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/m] Girl at work [21/f] is interested in me, I have never had a relationship. POST: Hello. I work at a grocery store pushing carts. There is a cashier who seems to like me. She's always saying "you're cute" and at one point she was talking about dinosaur chicken nuggets and ...	A girl at work likes me, but I've never had a relationship, on top of the fact that everyone I love is dead and my childhood was neglect<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (35F) about to breakup with BF (40M) of 14 months because he is all about himself and seems to forget I have needs too. POST: All through our relationship, he has needed me for lots of different things. In fact, that is how we got together in the first place (me emotionally suppo...	BF can't be bothered emotionally supporting me when I need it even though he expects non-stop emotional support from me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I wrong for going through fiancés pictures? POST: I [28 F] want to know if I'm overreacting about my fiancés [27 F] reaction to me going through her pics. We have been together for 3 1/2 years. So I would like to get you guy's opinion on if I'm wrong for feeling this way. Yesterda...	I was on fiancés laptop uploading pics from cell phone to laptop and I started looking at pics on laptop and fiancé is upset saying I invaded privacy. Am I wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [18/F] don't know whether I should be in a relationship with my boyfriend [18/M] POST: So let's start with how I met him. It was my freshman year and my German teacher puts me in a group with my now boyfriend (let's call him John). I developed a crush on him, but after the pr...	Boyfriend I have strong feelings for says he thinks he's going to cheat on me, I don't know whether I should stay or leave.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend's boyfriend(M18) is recruiting me to help plan a surprise for my friend/his boyfriend(M20) but their relationship is going downhill... POST: So my best friend(we'll call him Robert; 20) and his boyfriend(call him Michael; 18) have been dating for about 3 or 4 months now and...	My friend's boyfriend is planning a late surprise birthday party for my friend but their relationship is going to shit and i'm being recruited to help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I'm moving in an apartment. The roommate already living there is a female. I'm male. My mom assumes the roommate is male. I'm afraid of my mom, please help lol POST: I think race is important here. I'm Asian. We have strict parents. Well at least moms. My dad doesn't care. I always referred...	My mom assumes my roommate is a guy. Roommate is actually a girl. I fear the wrath of my mom.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (F21) is it possible I'm drifting away from him (23 M)? POST: Ok so I (21F) and the boyfriend (23 M) have been dating for two years, and living with his dad since my mom threw me out when I was unemployed and looking for a job. We never argue and rarely disagree on anything. I am ...	I have a low sex drive, and feel like I'm becoming distant with SO, how can I talk with him without getting stressed or stressing him out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Any advice would be great. POST: A year ago, I built a basic website for an apartment complex that someone I was knew was managing. It wasn't much but I was looking for a few extra dollars and they happened to be looking for a website. At the time of registering the domain, the only viab...	Apartment complex sent me a cease and desist, thinks I created a website posing as them but putting up bad information. Should I lawyer up or talk to the lawyer representing the apartments?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I don't understand why my credit score isn't improving. POST: I got a late start in life when it comes to credit. Close to a year ago (last may), I realized I needed to actually DO SOMETHING in order to have good credit. So I got accepted for a credit card through my bank, started ...	I have been using 2 credit cards and paying them off for nearly a year, but my score hasn't improved at all. What gives?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [FINAL UPDATE] I [25M] am visiting a friend [25F] for the week and don't know when to make the move. I'm respectfully impatient! POST: [First Post]( [Second Post]( SUCCESS!!! I finally maned up and kissed the girl! And it was great! She was cooking us dinner after we worked ...	Thanks everyone for the encouragement, the kiss was amazing and shouldn't hamper our relationship, whether we remain just friends after I leave or there's more to us..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [f]28 married to [m]29 for almost three years. Need advise to improve/save marriage. POST: Basically I feel like he is constantly pissed off. Whether it's me, his job, his limited friends and family he hates,etc. I try and keep the house clean because he feels better when the house...	Husband is constantly "overwhelmed" and feeling like our relationship and life is "work". Help to make him happy again! (And me!)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my dad [60 M] I just bought a house, he is over there constantly working on stuff and being a huge cockblock between me and my boyfriend. POST: Like the title says, I just bought a house. I am grateful for the time he has spent sanding the walls and prepping everything,...	I just bought a house, my dad is always over there working on stuff. My boyfriend and I want to bone, but cannot when my dad is always at the house. Frustrated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] hooked up a few times with a guy [25], decided I wanted to come clean with his now-fiancée. Was this right? And could she not care he cheated? POST: Hi all. Gotta be vague on this one but I'll be as accurate as I can. Met someone last year, decided on hooking up. Saw each o...	Hooked up with engaged man. Sent message to fiancee. Did she see it? Could she not care?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: GF Cheated on me, having a hard time getting over her(x-post) POST: gf [23/F] cheated on me [22/M], dated for 3 years we were both super busy and she was telling me that I didnt woe her anymore. Specifically she said, buy her cute things or take her on cute dates. In my defense I was sta...	Gf cheated on me for 2 weeks with some dude, wanted me back and I couldnt do it. Super sad and dont know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21F] Ultimatum: It's me or your friend. POST: This is my first post, guys. I'm feeling really confused, so any contribution would be appreciated. Long story - My girlfriend [23F] and I [21F] have known each other for about 10/11 years now. We were friends as kids then dated for 3 y...	Uncomfortable with her guy friend in our life. Want him out. Ultimatums suck, what should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've (16m) been talking to this girl (15f) and we're both interested in each other, but we almost never talk in person. POST: Me and this girl, we'll call her Kate, met a few years ago through a friend, and we had a relationship for a short time then, but lost touch. Just recently we...	A girl and I have began talking again, found out we still like each other, completely different schedules, never talk in person, not sure of what to do if we hang out, beta mode engaged.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Does anyone else feel like they are too loud inside of their own head? (23f) POST: I am unsure if this is the correct place to post this. I was thinking it could fall under the Personal Issues category? Anyway, I have always felt like I am too loud inside of my head. By that I mean ...	I feel like I am too loud in my head, I overthink everything and over analyze, and am hard on myself. Is this a normal thing?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I feel like I have "used up" all of my love. What should I do, Reddit? POST: Story: As a teenager, I was never really "into" relationships. I didn't understand why people liked dating so much, what they meant by they "loved" their boyfriend / girlfriend, etc. One day, I met this fantast...	girl broke up with me 3 years ago, I thought I really liked her. Ever since then I have been showing sociopathic behaviors and thoughts. What should I do? I want to be a happy person.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How can I [28/f] gently tell my SO [23/m] to bring it down a notch when it comes to physical affection? POST: First off, we've been dating exclusively for about 6 months. I consider myself to be pretty introverted and lone-wolfish in general. I'm also probably the more dominant...	– My SO is too clingy physically. Is there a nice way to tell him to back off a little bit?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [23 M] of 1 year, fooled around with guys while we were broken up and now I feel guilty. What do I do..? POST: My boyfriend and I, who met through mutual friends, have been dating about 1 year now. About 6 months ago, we broke up for various reasons. The ...	Did things with guys while broken up with ex-bf, then lied about it. Feeling guilty. Am I an awful person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M/23] Higher sex drive that my girlfriend [21/F] POST: (I posted this is relationship_advice, but maybe the higher volume of people here will get me more opinions) I've been with this girl for about 5 months now, we both are really into each other and have said that we love one anot...	I want more intimacy, not just getting off. Sex gives me a sense of closeness with my SO, girlfriend's libido is way lower than mine. Wat do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 F] with my BF [28 M] 3 years, lied about getting me a birthday gift. POST: I feel like this is a touchy thing to bring up with him because it makes me feel like I'm being greedy. However! My birthday was a month ago and on the day of he had nothing for me. He said he had o...	BF of 3 years lied about getting me a bday present, I don't know how to bring it up to him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] have had a number of dreams where I have cheated on my BF [21M]. They're freaking me out and idk what to do. (1 yr 3 mth) POST: To keep it short and sweet. In the past two weeks I've had two dreams where I've cheated on my BF. I also had 1 earlier in the year. None of them ...	Dreams about cheating on bf leave me freaked out and I don't know how to calm down from the guilt I shouldn't be having.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How long do I [22 M] wait to ask out my crush [20 F] after she broke up with her boyfriend? POST: A girl I have had a crush on since high school has recently separated from her boyfriend of 3 years. In high school I had a crush on her would spend a lot of time hanging out at her hous...	I had a crush on this girl for years didn't make my move and we went separate ways. Now she's available but I don't know how long to wait to ask her out. Help me reddit!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I was in an accident and I need advice. Help me Reddit! first post POST: I was in an accident on 28NOV11. A GMC Sierra hit my little CR-V while I was stopped at red light. The driver of the Sierra was doing about 45. I was forced into the median and hit a light post as well. The accident...	I was in accident that wasn't my fault. What do I need to do to keep the rug from being pulled out from under my life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by lending me phone to my girlfriend. POST: EDIT: Lending my phone. Sorry. I'm in college. Yesterday in art class there were some high school girls talking with the professor. They were kind of good looking. So, as the dumb man that I am, I texted a friend telling him about these girl...	Girlfriend saw messages saying that I was checking some girls' ass, I said I loved her, was told to go fuck myself.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M19] How to stop being the jealous type in my relationship? POST: Basically the girl [19/F] who I'm dating now (started dating when we we're both 18, university freshers), has had 2 boyfriends before, whom she both dated for quite a while (last boyfriend she was with for almost 2 ye...	Jealous my GF has had loving relationship before and I havn't, need to learn its all in the past, but can't help it!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by climbing into the shower with my girlfriend's grandma and then asking for a blowjob POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. This happened yesterday morning. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months and we're both 17. Her mom likes me so she does not mind when I sleep over a...	Did not think nearly hard enough in the morning and highly disturbed my girlfriend's grandma, and her mom, because they all know now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: LA Fitness wrongfully charged me 4 months in membership dues, CC reversed the transactions. Should I be worry about collections? POST: Hi guys, Basically the gist of the story is this: I signed up for a couple months membership at LA Fitness then moved and paid via my credit card...	LA Fitness continued to charge me after cancelling membership and denied I ever cancelled. Credit Card company reversed the excess transactions. Should I worry about collections and how this may affect my credit score?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm pretty sure an older woman wants to fuck my brains out... What do I do? POST: Okay, here's the story: I'm 22 and I'm in the process of joining a dog training club, which is the most well respected in the area. I had some questions, so I asked around and wound up talking to one of th...	I'm going on a puppy play date this weekend at an older woman's house and I'm almost certain she wants to bang me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to improve my (24/m) relationship with my parents (68m/58/f). POST: Don't get me wrong, my parents and I get along perfectly fine. We love each other. Nevertheless over the last few years I feel i have almost deliberately distanced myself to them for various complicated reasons. ...	Help me connect with my parents. How do I let them into my life? How do I show my upmost gratitude and love?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [22 M/F] of 11 months. Recently she has been saying that I'm controlling...? POST: So as of recently my girlfriend of 11 months has been bringing up that I'm being clingly and/or controlling. Her last boyfriend, who she was with for almost 5 years, barel...	girlfriend thinks in controlling when I genuinely just want to know what she's up to when we're not together or what she has planned for the day or week so that I can plan something with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my boyfriend [22 M] of 1 year that I love, but I have a huge sex drive and just want to suck other guys, he is hesitant to open our relationship POST: I'll keep it short. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and we love each other, it's the best relationship I ...	I want a gay open relationship with the man I love because I want to suck off other men, my boyfriend is hesitant, can a gay open relationship work or am I in the wrong? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my now recently EX-GF [24 F] of 6 weeks, have just broke up because of a past problem regarding her ex. Advice? POST: I've known his girl for a few years now and I've have slight to moderate attractions for her the whole way when finally we hooked up (no not sex) and s...	My now ex GF broke up with me because she can't handle what her other Ex did to her. She says wait and we can try again. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Can't decide if buying this car is what I want to do... POST: For the past year and a half or so, I've been saving up for a Fiero, knowing it'd be the perfect summer car for me (I already own a daily driver). I love them to death, and would love to drive one. I now have the opport...	saved up for a car I always wanted, and now have the money. When finally getting the chance to buy the car, I have huge doubts, and stress. What to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (19m) and my bi ex (19f) not over each other and trying to remain friends, but I'm pissed about someone she is currently talking to. POST: Okay so me and my ex, who keep in mind is bisexual, went out for 4 months and broke up a month and a half ago and the entire relationship was ...	My ex broke up with me because of the distance, yet she is talking to someone else who is out of her driving distance. Now I am pissed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] met a friend of my brother's [20 M] last week, we were inseparable but.... (The quintessential does he like me?) POST: Last week I went to my brother's house, he had been going on about a friend of his Dan that was bugging him to come over Once we get there he introduces us...	Met a guy talked for hours, he was sweet offered to help me with things and even showed of his body a bit but didn't make any kind of move, Could he have just been being nice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Parents' divorce/remarriage predicament (x-post from Advice) POST: Didn't really know where to post this. Throwaway account because my boyfriend doesn't use Reddit, and I'm asking on his behalf. Reddit, please help me out. Here's the story. My boyfriend's parents are getting a divorce becau...	Bf's dad is a jerk and he's getting married to woman he cheated on his wife with, wants his son to go to his wedding but he doesn't want to go, afraid of being cut off financially.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Please help me regarding my PC. It no longer recognizes HDMI. POST: I'm not sure where this question should have gone, but I need help. I have exhausted Google and hoped maybe the Reddit community would have an answer for me. Here is the deal. I use my 32" Vizio flatscreen TV as a monit...	My PC stopped recognizing HDMI display. It has worked for eight months and stopped abruptly. Now using VGA. Want to go back to HDMI, but don't know how or why it stopped in the first place.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [29 M] SO [28 F] of 7 years, informed me that she discovered being bisexual by getting a crush on her colleague [~23 F]. Should I be worried? POST: My SO and I have had a very rough year due to a death in the family and a lot of miscommunication in the aftermath. Now that things ...	My SO has informed me that she discovered her bisexuality by noticing her crush on a colleague. I applauded her discovery, but I'm unsure if she's simply letting me know or trying to tell me something more.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28/F] think I'm falling for a man [37/M] who lives 6000 kilometers away. Should I run? POST: I met him a few years ago when he was on a trip to my country, and we ended up making fast friends. I saw him a few times, and then, of course, he had to leave. It was strictly platonic at...	I'm scared of getting myself into a really long-distance relationship. Has anyone else had any experience with them, and what was it like?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my ex [34 F] 3 months - trying to get over. Thinking bitter thoughts POST: Hi. Ex broke up with me two weeks ago and I've Been trying to move on. Though I've been getting these thoughts of murder or being really nasty to her. Though I then felt horrible for thinking s...	Ex broke up. Still thinking what I did wrong or if I could change it. Experienced bitter thoughts too .<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [non-romantic] I (17m) need to apologize to a friend (18f), but don't know how to. POST: (throwaway to protect ids of ppl involved. Also, not sure if I should mark NSFW or naw) Title. Basically what happened was way back about 4 years ago, my friend (18f, name will be Jane for st...	I dun goofed with a friend's cousin. I want to fix it, but don't know how or where to start.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with long distance friend [26 F] have an 18 month pact POST: 1.Okay, so me and a long distance friend of mine, let's call her Polly have a weird arrangement. Our personalities are such that we are almost identical. That can be good or bad. 2.We randomly met up for the...	Have a pact that if in 1.5 years we're both still single, we give it a go. Is this weird and a red flag, or just hopelessly romantic?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] have met this guy [18m] and I want to ask him out I just don't know the best way to do so POST: I met this guy a while ago and I really like him, he is super nice. I want to ask him out and the only problem is I am not exactly sure how too. He had an abusive ex and I met h...	A guy I want to ask out had an abusive ex and I want to know the best way to ask him out, while telling him I would never do some of the stuff she did to him<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Stop trying to enforce "Jim Crow"esque rules/laws on homosexuals POST: There is a moderately popular cake shop in my area and people I am friends with have "liked" their page on Facebook. They post pictures of fabulous cakes for the most part, but also some religiously charged quotes th...	If you're going to bring your religion into your business, you better abide by all of its rules. Otherwise, you're going to be seen as the bigot you claim not to be.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Where do i go from here? POST: I have always performed well at school. Because of this, my parents have always wanted me to go to university, get a degree and find myself a high earning job. Over the past couple of years I have thought and thought about what it is I want to do for a living,...	feel as though continuing my education is a waste of time based on the way I want to live my life, don't know if I am being stupid, or how to explain to my parents how I feel.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20, F] mom [40, F] won't put her dog down- I really need help POST: This is probably not the right place to post this, but I know a lot of people are on this one and I really need help. My mom's dog is 15 years old, and has cancer. He has two giant tumors on his face- one on his...	Mom's dog should be put down, has cancer, and is in pain all the time. I don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24 F] boyfriend [24 M] of 2 years has been watching gay porn and visiting casual dating sites after saying he isn't attracted to men. POST: My boyfriend and I have been friends since middle school. During that time (between 6th and 12th), a lot of people accused him of being gay....	Boyfriend's been visiting gay porn and casual dating sites after telling me he's not attracted to guys. How do I talk about this without pushing him away?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my ex-husband [30M]. He is getting re-married but wants me to tell our son [8M] but I think it is something he should do. POST: Very brief background: I got pregnant when I was 21, we got married - not a good idea. We got divorced 2 years ago. The break-up was mutual an...	My ex is getting re-married but wants me to tell our son so he won't get upset with him. I feel like it is his responsibility<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl I was seeing [F, 22] decides to not pursue a relationship with me [M, 24] because I'm not a Christian, but her story doesn't make sense... POST: Her and I have been seeing each other the past couple weeks, and we hit it off great, talked about so much stuff in our lives, had a g...	Girl breaks it off with me because I'm not a Christian, yet her previous actions do not exemplify someone who would be strong in her faith. Is she bullshitting me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28M] with my [24F]. She works long hours in car rental and I don't like it. POST: My fiance works for Enterprise and works a mandatory 53 hours a week and stays late every day. I work early and am often in bed by 9. When I do see her we're both exhausted, so sex life isn't where ...	I hardly see my SO and I'm sad. Specifically, are there spouses of enterprise employees or SOs that work long hours? What do you do to stay happy/fufilled/idk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] relationship with [21F] has an expiration date, we will break up at end of summer, but I'm losing interest. POST: First of all I want to say I really do adore my girlfriend and we promised to stay in contact, and stay friends after we break up. We are breaking up because we ...	Relationship has an expiration date, should I break up now and enjoy rest of University life, or stick it out so no one gets hurt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (28F) dating a married 32M with no divorce in sight...can I help speed him along? POST: So I started dating this guy about 3 months ago. He and his wife separated several years ago but he hasn't really done anything proactive about not just getting a divorce, but actually even fil...	I'm dating a man I really like but he won't even file for divorce and its making me question his intentions. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 M] am trying to get a Girl [18 F] I know for 4 Months to meet me, but she lives 700km away. She is also very cold, how do I attempt to be romantic? POST: So I added this Girl on Skype, I know her over a buddy of mine. We talked for quite a while and I began to like her. By that...	Girl lives far away, want to meet her, but shes busy working 6 days a week, next holidays in 2015. How do I attempt asking her? How do I text a girl romantic, when she's so cold?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15 M] like several people with varying degrees of friendship, but I know I would get rejected if I asked anyone out. Still worth it? POST: I have crushes on quite a few people I know. One of them is a pretty close male friend, but I'm pretty sure he's straight so that's off the ta...	I have crushes on several friends/acquaintances, and I'm not at all dating material. Is it worth asking them if I'm almost certain I'll be rejected?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My partner [18F] wants me [18M] to ask her to be my girlfriend in a very special way. POST: Me and this girl have been exclusive to each other for about 2 months now, we were best friends before and it eventually just elevated to what it is now. We are both 18 and she's always told m...	My SO wants me to "officially" ask her out in a very special way but i just can't think of one.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Whenever I[21/m] try to have an intellectual conversation with a woman they shy away. POST: I generally fair pretty well when asking a girl on a date. We generally talk about who we are, what we do etc. This works well for me, in relationships as well. Lately I have been experiment...	The majority of women I talk to don't like or don't want to have deeper conversations, am I doing something wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: It's my [26F] birthday today. Am I wrong to feel sad if most my friends and brothers don't remember? POST: When it comes to my birthday, I always feel sad when the people I remember birthdays of, don't remember mine. I have a Facebook but I have turned off the birthday reminder so o...	friends don't wish me a happy birthday in either text or Facebook and brothers don't remember my birthday. I feel sad and forgotten. Am I wrong for feeling like this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I think I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship... POST: I know I need to leave him, but I'm just not sure if I should tell him I feel like he's an emotionally abusive partner when I have "the talk" with him. I'm afraid of him calling me overly sensitive and ignoring how I f...	do I let my boyfriend know I feel like he's emotionally abusive or do I just ignore it because I may be overly sensitive and overreacting?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by destroying a chair with my enormity, in front of the board of directors of a bank POST: I work as a network security consultant. I am "a large human" (25 stones/350lbs/160kg). Account manager and I are called to a bank to consult with their board of directors about the state of thei...	broke a chair by sitting on it in front of the board of directors of a bank and still got the job we were there to pitch.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] want to break up with my boyfriend [24M] because he asked for a threesome POST: I just need to hear other people's thoughts on this. I have been with Alex for about 9 months, and we are in love. This happened a week ago and I still have not been able to get over it. He basi...	Boyfriend wants a threesome with an acquaintance; I am so completely against the concept fundamentally that I am thinking of ending it with him because we are incompatible.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] am not sure if a girl [17F] in my class has a crush on me. POST: There is this girl in my class at school, she is ridiculously gorgeous. The way how she behaves with me makes me wonder if she likes me, she always flirts with me, touches me, stares at me, then when I look at h...	Girl in my class is giving me the vibe that she like me, however I feel as if this is impossible because she is so beautiful and I am ugly.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My marriage is ending and I don't know how I feel about it. POST: Hi /r/relationships, I am 30/F, have been married to 29/M, for 3+ years, and before that, had been dating my husband for almost 3 years (we knew and understood each other well enough). Ever Since we started living toge...	6 year old relationship and marriage getting over, and I am broke completely (emotionally, and financially). What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (31M) sister in law (34F) and I had a affair, we both realized that what we did was wrong and have sworn not to do so again, what is a good way to move forward in my, well our marriages? POST: My sister in law and I are in laws by marriage. She is married to my wife's older brothe...	had an affair with sil, she's married to my wife's brother, we decided to end the affair and really throw our all into our marriages<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by writing a poem in front of my girlfriend. POST: Background: Me: (24-M) GF (24)-Dating for over a year, Awesome Dad: (55) So today is my Dad's birthday and like family tradition, for every birthday, Father's day and Christmas, I wrote a poem for him. It was something I started back i...	Wrote a birthday card for my Dad, Girlfriend saw, got a bit mad, Now my poems need more zest, details above if you want the rest.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Keep getting stood up (F21) by (M24)... should it be three strikes and he's out? POST: Sorry if this is a repeat... but I sort of need some advice. I have never really been the dating type but an acquaintance from a couple years ago (who I have always had a crush on) asks me out a ...	Let me know in advance that he was bailing on our dates and rescheduled... but this time not even a text, is he even interested?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: What to say in my discussion with friend tomorrow (female) POST: Hello everyone, I am a male for starters. Tomorrow i have the perfect opportunity to talk to my female best friend about what has been happening between us, but im not sure what to say... We have been good friends for over a y...	Going to talk to my best friend of the opposite gender tomorrow who is now starting to be a bitch towards me, what should i bring up in the talk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 f] with my boyfriend [22 M] 6 months, kissed someone else POST: Hey guys, throwaway account because I'm paranoid and plan on deleting this eventually so no one I know finds it. So this relationship has been probably the best one I've ever been in. Trust, communication, all t...	Bf kissed a girl friend. I am hurt as I have been cheated on before. Don't quite trust him to not hurt me. How do I deal with this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need some Ideas... POST: I just found out that my cousins (he's 35) cancer (Adenoid cystic carcinoma) came back and he starts treatment on April third at Dana Farber in Boston (which is a 3 hour drive from where they live). My mom passed away from colon cancer when I was thirteen so ...	My cousin has cancer, what are some things I can do or give to help treatment/the long drive to treatment suck less.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] with my Sister [20s F] afraid she's lost her grip on reality and will harm us POST: I recall her previously being very social but she's also very arrogant so she would drop good friends with little or no notice and simply avoid them before moving on to the next group of peo...	Sister returned from university, had hallucinations, is aggressive and detached from reality and refuses to take medication or go back to the hospital.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: I am afraid to use the scale. POST: Hi everyone. I'm a 19 year old uni student who eventually got fed up with his body and decided to set some serious life goals, one including losing all my extra weight no matter how long it takes me or how hard it is going to be. This was two weeks ago a...	Decided to lose weight two weeks ago; going strong; feel great-happy; was 286lbs; too afraid to use the scale cause I might get disapointed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Found out that my roommate [23 M] was cheated on by his girlfriend [24 F] of 5 years POST: They had been together for 5 years and recently broke up. He never treated her right and the relationship was toxic, so she made the right decision breaking up with him. But I recently found o...	Roommates girlfriend cheated on him, I found out. They broke up and now might get back together. Not sure whether I should tell him or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to get more friends on snapchat... POST: So yes this actually happened today...someone will probably find the thread because I'm not using a throwaway but ah whatever. I'm a pretty avid Snapchat user, I love posting and also watching cool snaps, I came across r/snapchat and not...	didn't realize how reddit illiterate I am and accidentally made myself appear to be a female when I am really male.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making my girlfriend cry. POST: A little back story - My girlfriend and I are both 16 and this is my first major serious relationship. We've been "official" since February 26th and she's met my parents and I've met hers. So she picks me up from school today and we finished up some ma...	Made out/felt up girlfriend, dad walked in, dad is pissed, privileges stripped, girlfriend is embarrassed and crying.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I hate how much I hate my dad...please help POST: I hate my dad. Just him as a person. I have since I was in elementary school (I'm in uni now). The way he talks to people in a very patronizing and sometimes condescending way, how he is so set in his ways that it's just plain rude to other pe...	Basically my dad annoys the living shit out of me and I want to learn how to be more accepting of him and his ~~fucking dumb~~ habits.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (29F) need help with my spouse (31M) POST: When we met, the relationship was mutually respectful and fulfilling. Now it is withdrawn and he is disconnected on every level. Our sex life is good in variety and frequency, although it meets his needs more frequently than mine. Emotiona...	Six years of marriage, two kids, healthy sex life, spend a lot of time as a family, no red flags but my husband refuses to spend time with my family or friends and I go alone. This is killing me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Recently saw my [24f] ex [24m] on a date POST: Relationship didn't end so hot. We were basically together for 7-8 months (didn't establish relationship early, there was a few week breakup somewhere in there). I got jealous (I've never been jealous before) of one of his female friend...	ran into ex of 5 months, he's already in an apparently super serious relationship and I don't know how I feel about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[24M] with BF[22M] (5 months), I love him, but he loves more, more enough to make me feel I don't love him enough. POST: Hello all, I'm a bisexual man having problems with his boyfriend. The main problem is I'm not used to be loved this much, I feel like I'm swimming in a sea of lo...	I know I'm in love my BF, but BF loves me much much more and I feel guilty and upset about not being in love as much as he is.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What was one of your most memorable high school memories? POST: I'll start off. Every morning I would get off the bus when I got to school and walk to a side street for a cigarette. While I was standing there smoking my cigarette, this girl who I've never seen before pulls up and just s...	Went to side street in the morning to smoke a cigarette, girl pulls up and says, "Get in." I get in. Instantly get a blunt passed to me. Get a blowjob.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Long distance relationship, worries about future. POST: On throwaway here because my bf is a redditor as well. We are both in our 20s and been dating for 3 years (been friends for about 5 months before we started dating), currently in long distance relationship. Lived together on a...	my bf lives in a different country and won't be able to visit me after he starts working, I can't visit him because of legal issues (visa).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [22m] don't know whether to cut it off with my ex [22f] after a breakup. POST: hey /r/relationship_advice, I recently broke up with my gf of 1 year this past december. To sum it up, it started off as any strong relationship did and we were as happy as ever, but after a big f...	Ex needs help and wants to maintain contact but I'm stuck in the middle whether I should put myself through a little bit of troubles to help her, or to do the best thing for me and cut contact.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Class Action Lawsuit POST: I work for Lowe's and received mail from a class action lawsuit, Brown et all v Lowe's, that allows me to opt out of the class action lawsuit, turn something in to receive a payment if Brown et all win, or do nothing and stay included, but don't receive a...	what is Brown et all v Lowe's about and should I opt out, opt in case of a settlement, or do nothing and stay opted but without ant settlement possibilities?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] unsure of how to feel about friends[23 M] "crush" [22 F] POST: My friend is currently talking to a girl that he has had a crush on for around 2 years. They used to be fairly close, but around 6 months or so ago she told him that they were no more than friends. He didn't rea...	I like the same girl that my friend likes, but I feel like she has feelings for me instead of for him. I don't want to lose contact with either of them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Most screwed up thing you have done in school?And what Should i do in my situation? POST: So today was proably a large lesson for me. Well we were given a writing assignment and had to make a character out of the contents in a bag. I was in a group of two with my friend (we shall cal...	wrote a story about a mean teacher, got flipped out on, freinds won by default yet they had the same thing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Re-applying for credit after corrections have been made. POST: Hi everyone, I was denied for a credit card from Chase at the end of July. At which time, I found two errors on my credit report (an account in collections and an account still open with "mystery" missed payments, that ...	Is it worth it to resubmit an application for denied credit after corrections to your credit report were made? Will this result in another hard inquiry?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by saying a kid with down syndrome had a retarded face... POST: So to start with this is my first post so I'm sorry for any mistakes but here we go... First I'll set the scene, I'm in high school on my schools weight lifting team, and I generally hang out with some buddies in the front ...	Said my friend's little brother's face looked retarded, found out said brother has down syndrome, pissed off the whole family, got a guilt burrito at taco bell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [29M] of 1 year, I think he wants more freedom and I don't know how to proceed. POST: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 1 year and so far, the relationship is fine. Except he's the type of guy that wants his space and values his freedom very mu...	My boyfriend acts like he wants more freedom from this relationship, even though I let him do pretty much whatever he wants to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Been through alot of crap with a girl m18. POST: I know I have posted alot here I get it yell at me if you want, but you all have been very helpful and I appreciate it. I have my own issues and a girl I met before we were going into school helped me get to know the place and really...	Girl and I both have our own issues and arguments, but it would make me happy if I could see it through and resolve the problem and feel great again.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] 5 years, I decided to temp. stop drinking about a month ago and recently decided to make it a permanent change and she is really upset about it. POST: Little background. My gf and I used to love going to craft breweries and enjoying trying differen...	I quit drinking and my gf is upset, feels like she is being forced to quit also. I have never once said she needs to stop drinking<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update]I [F25] looked up my husbands [M26] reddit history and am uncomfortable with his comments in GW POST: So, shortly after I posted my [original question] I sent him a text letting him know I wanted to talk to him that night - He's away at school right now and we don't always ca...	Told him what bothered me but ultimately left him free to do whatever he wanted - he deleted the posts and understood my point of view.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Should I be concerned that my partner doesn't share my enthusiasm for having a baby in the future? How do men typically feel about babies anyway? POST: I am not sure how well my partner would do if we were to have a baby. I fear that he wouldn't love the baby like I would or that he woul...	Do men who show zero interest in babies and children change when they have their own baby? Is it okay that he says he wants children but doesn't act enthusiastic?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20 M] friend is going to be forced into an arranged marriage POST: I know this isn't about me but I need help as to how to approach my friend and be as respectful to him while also making sure that he's doing the right thing. I live in the UK and one of my best friends is half ...	In a couple hours I am taking my friend to get a new passport so that he can be forced into an arranged marriage. What do I say or do to convince him otherwise or at least make sure he knows what's involved.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17F] don't know what to do about a guy that asked me out [19M] (a bit more complicated than it sounds) POST: I met this guy about a month ago and he seemed like a decent guy. I later found out he's running a bit of a drug operation. By that I mean he's the one dealing to the deale...	Drug dealer asked me out, he's friends with some of my friends, how do I say no in a way that makes future contact as not-awkward as possible?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Sister deserves to get in to vet school but her application to the only one in the country was rejected. What else to do to get them to reconsider her application? POST: It's been my sister's dream to be a vet since she could talk. She applied for the only university that offers veterina...	My sister is smart, driven and passionate about helping animals. Her application to study veterinary science was rejected. What further steps can she take to appeal for reconsideration?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting on the front page of reddit. POST: I don't know how it happened, it was unexpected for me. According to commenters of said post it was because I was "a female who was not unattractive", but I only posted the pic because I am an " attention whore".. apart from the negativity, c...	posted before and after pics, got told I was cunt-woman with egotistical tendencies; I probably called them an asshole, someone hacked and deleted me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33 F] with my Friend [30 F] 4 years, starting to act totally different with me - small town, small group of friends. How to handle rejection? POST: I've counted myself lucky to have gotten in with some pretty awesome people in this small town I live in, and we all have a mutual h...	Friend is slowly ghosting me 1-on-1, but acts normal in our small group of friends. How do I not care as much?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [44 M] with my brother [47 M] and sister in law [44 F], go to Thanksgiving or not POST: My sister in law is a prescription drug addict and alcoholic. When we visit with her and my brother, she is often LOADED...slurring, falling asleep, passing out on our lawn, sitting by herself ...	Sister in law is a drug addict and alcoholic. Don't know whether to go to Thanksgiving knowing what a train wreck she is.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18F] have a giant crush on my roommates best friend [20M] POST: I have lived in my current room for about 1.5 months. My roommates and I met through craigslist and we are all pretty good friends now. We do a ton of activities together, and I have grown close with a few of their fri...	I like one of my roommates best friends: should I peruse this? If yes how should I go about telling him my feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Have you successfully toilet-trained your cat(s)? We could use some help. POST: My girlfriend and I have two kittens (brothers) and they're about 4 months old. When we got them, they were perfectly litter trained and had not once had a problem. We decided that we would try to toilet train the...	of our two twin kittens, one uses the toilet like an expert and the other is giving us hell. (Is this what parents go through when potty-training children? It's infuriating.)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/m] Girl at work [21/f] is interested in me, I have never had a relationship. POST: Hello. I work at a grocery store pushing carts. There is a cashier who seems to like me. She's always saying "you're cute" and at one point she was talking about dinosaur chicken nuggets and ...	A girl at work likes me, but I've never had a relationship, on top of the fact that everyone I love is dead and my childhood was neglect<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (35F) about to breakup with BF (40M) of 14 months because he is all about himself and seems to forget I have needs too. POST: All through our relationship, he has needed me for lots of different things. In fact, that is how we got together in the first place (me emotionally suppo...	BF can't be bothered emotionally supporting me when I need it even though he expects non-stop emotional support from me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I wrong for going through fiancés pictures? POST: I [28 F] want to know if I'm overreacting about my fiancés [27 F] reaction to me going through her pics. We have been together for 3 1/2 years. So I would like to get you guy's opinion on if I'm wrong for feeling this way. Yesterda...	I was on fiancés laptop uploading pics from cell phone to laptop and I started looking at pics on laptop and fiancé is upset saying I invaded privacy. Am I wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [18/F] don't know whether I should be in a relationship with my boyfriend [18/M] POST: So let's start with how I met him. It was my freshman year and my German teacher puts me in a group with my now boyfriend (let's call him John). I developed a crush on him, but after the pr...	Boyfriend I have strong feelings for says he thinks he's going to cheat on me, I don't know whether I should stay or leave.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend's boyfriend(M18) is recruiting me to help plan a surprise for my friend/his boyfriend(M20) but their relationship is going downhill... POST: So my best friend(we'll call him Robert; 20) and his boyfriend(call him Michael; 18) have been dating for about 3 or 4 months now and...	My friend's boyfriend is planning a late surprise birthday party for my friend but their relationship is going to shit and i'm being recruited to help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I'm moving in an apartment. The roommate already living there is a female. I'm male. My mom assumes the roommate is male. I'm afraid of my mom, please help lol POST: I think race is important here. I'm Asian. We have strict parents. Well at least moms. My dad doesn't care. I always referred...	My mom assumes my roommate is a guy. Roommate is actually a girl. I fear the wrath of my mom.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (F21) is it possible I'm drifting away from him (23 M)? POST: Ok so I (21F) and the boyfriend (23 M) have been dating for two years, and living with his dad since my mom threw me out when I was unemployed and looking for a job. We never argue and rarely disagree on anything. I am ...	I have a low sex drive, and feel like I'm becoming distant with SO, how can I talk with him without getting stressed or stressing him out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Any advice would be great. POST: A year ago, I built a basic website for an apartment complex that someone I was knew was managing. It wasn't much but I was looking for a few extra dollars and they happened to be looking for a website. At the time of registering the domain, the only viab...	Apartment complex sent me a cease and desist, thinks I created a website posing as them but putting up bad information. Should I lawyer up or talk to the lawyer representing the apartments?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I don't understand why my credit score isn't improving. POST: I got a late start in life when it comes to credit. Close to a year ago (last may), I realized I needed to actually DO SOMETHING in order to have good credit. So I got accepted for a credit card through my bank, started ...	I have been using 2 credit cards and paying them off for nearly a year, but my score hasn't improved at all. What gives?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [FINAL UPDATE] I [25M] am visiting a friend [25F] for the week and don't know when to make the move. I'm respectfully impatient! POST: [First Post]( [Second Post]( SUCCESS!!! I finally maned up and kissed the girl! And it was great! She was cooking us dinner after we worked ...	Thanks everyone for the encouragement, the kiss was amazing and shouldn't hamper our relationship, whether we remain just friends after I leave or there's more to us..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [f]28 married to [m]29 for almost three years. Need advise to improve/save marriage. POST: Basically I feel like he is constantly pissed off. Whether it's me, his job, his limited friends and family he hates,etc. I try and keep the house clean because he feels better when the house...	Husband is constantly "overwhelmed" and feeling like our relationship and life is "work". Help to make him happy again! (And me!)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my dad [60 M] I just bought a house, he is over there constantly working on stuff and being a huge cockblock between me and my boyfriend. POST: Like the title says, I just bought a house. I am grateful for the time he has spent sanding the walls and prepping everything,...	I just bought a house, my dad is always over there working on stuff. My boyfriend and I want to bone, but cannot when my dad is always at the house. Frustrated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] hooked up a few times with a guy [25], decided I wanted to come clean with his now-fiancée. Was this right? And could she not care he cheated? POST: Hi all. Gotta be vague on this one but I'll be as accurate as I can. Met someone last year, decided on hooking up. Saw each o...	Hooked up with engaged man. Sent message to fiancee. Did she see it? Could she not care?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: GF Cheated on me, having a hard time getting over her(x-post) POST: gf [23/F] cheated on me [22/M], dated for 3 years we were both super busy and she was telling me that I didnt woe her anymore. Specifically she said, buy her cute things or take her on cute dates. In my defense I was sta...	Gf cheated on me for 2 weeks with some dude, wanted me back and I couldnt do it. Super sad and dont know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21F] Ultimatum: It's me or your friend. POST: This is my first post, guys. I'm feeling really confused, so any contribution would be appreciated. Long story - My girlfriend [23F] and I [21F] have known each other for about 10/11 years now. We were friends as kids then dated for 3 y...	Uncomfortable with her guy friend in our life. Want him out. Ultimatums suck, what should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've (16m) been talking to this girl (15f) and we're both interested in each other, but we almost never talk in person. POST: Me and this girl, we'll call her Kate, met a few years ago through a friend, and we had a relationship for a short time then, but lost touch. Just recently we...	A girl and I have began talking again, found out we still like each other, completely different schedules, never talk in person, not sure of what to do if we hang out, beta mode engaged.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Does anyone else feel like they are too loud inside of their own head? (23f) POST: I am unsure if this is the correct place to post this. I was thinking it could fall under the Personal Issues category? Anyway, I have always felt like I am too loud inside of my head. By that I mean ...	I feel like I am too loud in my head, I overthink everything and over analyze, and am hard on myself. Is this a normal thing?<\|endoftext\|>