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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with fiancée [25 F] of 5 years, is this abuse? POST: * When we have guests over, if I get too giddy about a story or just do *something* that triggers a reaction in her, she'll find it unacceptable. She will yell at me, and remind me of it frequently (once the guests have l...
Are these things verbal abuse, or is it a more general sign that something's bad (possibly me or something I'm doing) about or relationship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: My cat has a habit of hanging around other houses. Help? POST: I've had this cat since October, and I know her previous person. She's an outdoor cat, around 2 years old, and returns to the house most nights. One of the major problems that both myself and the other person have had is that she...
[This adorable creature] is a habitual two-timer, and I need her to stop because it's super stressful and she gains too much weight.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I (25 M) jealous or paranoid about my lady friend's (23 F) thoughts about her ex? POST: Ok so I submitted here a week or so ago about myself (25 M) and my friend (23 F) asking if I should change something about myself because she found it a turn-off. Well I didn't change anything...
Lady friend told me she might not be over her ex. We have been seeing each other a lot for the past month exclusively. Am I jealous or paranoid?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [26M] 4 years, is it possible to have a non conventional breakup? POST: So long story short, I have been with my boyfriend (lets call him Scott) for just over 4 years. Everything in the beginning was great, and we have bonded extremely well... We decided t...
Been with boyfriend so long the flame has started to die out. Can you break up with someone and genuinely remain friends?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by shaving off half my eyebrow before picture day POST: Let me start off by saying that it was actually my sister who did this, but since she doesn't use Reddit I decided to post it for her (I'm such a good sister). So we share a bathroom and we were both getting ready for the day. She w...
My sister shaved off both halves of her eyebrows the morning of picture day. I will be making fun of her sophomore yearbook photo for the rest of her life.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Would I get in trouble for re-using a glass bottle and make it into a product to sell? POST: I've posted my origami bouquets/bottle gifts here before and got some great feedback. Examples [here] ( of what I make. I've sold a few and I am working on getting my own business up and runnin...
I take empty Cayman Jack Margarita bottles and re-use them with origami to sell in my shop. Is this illegal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [19M] having a hard time figuring out if my [19F] friend from work really likes me or not. POST: Alright so the basic story is that I started working at my new job several months ago and I met this girl who works there with me. I wouldn't say that we instantly clicked but I ...
A friend from work goes out of her way to be with/around me but I can't quite tell if she likes me or just likes my company.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Need advice on a potential debt POST: So back story first; a year and a half ago I called off a wedding with my fiancee due to infidelity on her part. In the fall out her family was seeking repayment from me to cover the following things: 1. A non refundable plane ticket for the honey...
I have spent my whole life working as hard as possible to be financially responsible and independent. I got suckered into accepting gifts and now it is back firing.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (m19) ex (f17) left me because I left to Mexico for business and became a little distant and busy so she cheated and left POST: Basically after i left she became super depressed after we were together a year and a half and after I left it hit her really hard and she tried telling ...
ex girlfriend cheated and left me because she didn't think I loved her anymore after I left to Mexico and she still loves me and wants a future but doesn't believe I truly love her<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] want to know how to tell my girlfriend [23 F] that she would look pretty with makeup, after her family had pretty much told her makeup is immoral her whole life. POST: Let me just preface this first: I think she's gorgeous as she is, and I think with her facial features she...
Girlfriend brainwashed since a child that makeup is immoral, and I think she would look incredible with makeup. How do I communicate this to her without hurting her feelings?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21/F] have been looking through my boyfriends [27M] text messages... POST: So as the title states I've been reading my boyfriends text messages. To start with: we've been together for about 3 years. A few months ago I had a bad feeling about one of his friends and low and behold...
Looked through my boyfriends phone after finding out he cheated on me, also found he has the hots for his female house-mate too. Not sure if I should just leave or confront him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What was the most blatant scam / con job you ever witness unfold in a public setting? POST: Here's mine: This took place around 15 years ago, at a local Tower Records store. I skipped school with some friends so we could wait on line for Radiohead tickets (it was the OK Computer tour)...
a manager at a local record store rigged a lottery for Radiohead tickets, so that his buddies would get priority at the tickmaster counter.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Intro/Getting back on the wagon POST: A bit of introduction: I'm a Ph.D student and I spend a good deal of my time sitting at a desk, reading books. This somehow does not lead to a super fit body. About 1.5 years ago I broke up with my long-term girlfriend (she's also a Ph.D student, though...
Trying to get back into shape. Had a bad day. Ate feelings. Got back on the wagon. You can too.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Where can I look for financial assistance to do upgrades on the house to make it more accessible to my disabled sister? (FL - Keystone Heights) POST: Hello! And THANKS IN ADVANCE for ANY input! X-post /r/legaladvice My sister is wheelchair bound after a botched brain tumor surgery...
Sister is in wheelchair and house needs renovations to make it more wheelchair accessible. Is there any sort of assistance for home renovations for disabled persons?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Did I [27 M] do wrong or squandered and opportunity when my girlfriend [36 F] broke up with me? POST: My girlfriend took 2 weeks to break up with me. She said she needed space and she would not hang out with me. However, she would talk to me on the phone. We talked about our relation...
I told my girlfriend after she broke up with me that it hurts to see her name on my phone. 3 weeks later she accused me of hurting her and pushing her away when I said this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Firehouse Subs: Some Give Military Discounts, Some Don't POST: So this is completely the problem of a self-entitled jerk. That's why I'm going to vent to Reddit, so I don't take this out on anyone IRL. Every Firehouse Sub that I've been to gives a free drink to military vets, which ha...
I asked for free shit with my military ID and got shot down hard. Now I can never go back to Firehouse Subs. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Battling trust issues and anxiety. I [22] need some advice on how to better control my insecurity becuase he [25] deserves it. POST: Me [F] have been dating him for over a year and a half. We are very happy together but we have been through so much due to my anxiety and trust issues....
Anxiety and trust issues make me paranoid and hard to be with for my boyfriend. Anyone been through something similar and have tips on how they overcame it? Thank you so much!!!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How important is education to you when it comes to dating someone? POST: Let's say you found someone pretty interesting/attractive that you'd want to date. Then you find out that person is majoring in [blank], or hasn't gone to college, gone to culinary/beauty/trade school, etc. etc. Wou...
Would you not date someone if you found out that they've had "less" education than you? Or what you consider an "unstable" college education?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] am extremely insecure, and compensate by being controlling...help!? POST: Posting from phone. Throwaway but I might show this to my wife. I'm a super insecure person. I feel like I'm a burden to everyone around me, and I'm constantly feeling like people are just trying to g...
I recognize I can be controlling because of my insecurity, and I need to know how I can get better about it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to move on from mutual feelings? POST: I am 18 F and he is 18 M. We were together for a 1.5 years. I moved to Norway on an exchange programme two years ago and he was one of closest friends in my class from the beginning. We grew closer and our friendship developed into a relatio...
boyfriend(18) and I (f-18) break up because of new distance though our feelings for each other remain. How do I deal with this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How long is too long to wait for someone POST: So I have been turned down not once, not twice, but three times by a woman that I have been talking to since March. I'm 29 and she is 32. The first rejection came after we had gone out on a couple dates...she didn't say I was good for he...
Been shot down three times, still have hope for this woman. Am I being unrealistic, despite her admitting that she could see herself with me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend of four months [17/F] isn't spending enough time with me [17/M]. POST: My girlfriend and I have been going out for four months. She is wonderful. Smart, funny, sweet, and attractive! How did I get so lucky? The problem is, I feel like I'm on the bottom of her prioritie...
girlfriend isn't spending enough time with me, talked about the issue a lot, refuse to break up or force a change on get, how do I fix this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [f20] have been seeing someone [m31] that says he doesn't want an official relationship. POST: I've seen him around since I was younger due to him being really close friends with one of my older cousins. We'll call him Doug. About a year ago, right after I had my daughter, her da...
long story short he wanted a relationship & I wrote him off now I want one &he says he doesn't. Should I stick around or continue pursuing him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 F] am about to have a breakdown from working full time, attending college, and not having any friends. POST: Hi Reddit. The title of this post basically explains what my current situation is as of right now. I have been in college for about two years now. I am currently taking...
Currently stressing out over working full time/attending school without having any friends to talk to about it. Seeking advice on how others have gotten through it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24F] boyfriend [24M] wants me to take first aid classes to help him, but refuses to do it with me POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we recently moved in together. We've had rough patches but things have been going more or less well lately. Today, he brou...
boyfriend wants me to take classes so I can help him out in the case of an emergency, but won't do the same for me. should I break up with him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [24M] tell a girl [21F] I'm not interested in her sexually w/o hurting her feelings? POST: A few weeks ago, I met this girl over tindr. She was not bad looking, and I tend to do a fair amount of right swiping anyway, so we ended up matching. She initiated the first contact ...
How do I tell someone to that I just want to be friends w/o hurting their feelings or being cliche sounding?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 F] am not sure whether it's over with my Fiance [30M] or not. POST: It's all so confusing and frustrating. We have been together for over 4 years now. He is a really great guy, probably one of the best people I've ever come across. He has a beautiful heart and an amazing mind....
not sure if this lack of excitement, fun and happiness is normal in a longterm relationship or if I am falling out of love<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex-GF [18 F] broke up with me [18 M] after 1 year and 4 months together, for reasons still incomprehensible. POST: We were both our first relationship and we were both in school when we started dating. This period was amazing and the best months of my life. However, after we gra...
My first GF has been studying for months and decided to break up with me because she felt she had grown into another person. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What happened to you on your best day ever of 2012? POST: As we begin to reflect on the end of the year, one or two days/experiences HAVE to stand out! What was your most awesome/memorable experience of 2012? This year, my best friend moved to the other side of the country. To make thi...
Solo road trip to Denver, met up with ex, saw our favorite band and fell back in love with each other all on the same night.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18/M] with my boyfriend [19/M], got into a relationship, but don't really seem to know anything to talk about. POST: Throwaway account here. I'm RadicalRampage, and I have a bit of a problem. I came across this cute guy on tf2, I came out with my feelings for him, and since Octo...
Me and my boyfriend do not know what we can talk about when we have general talks, not being able to know each other better.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My parents and I [20F] are disagreeing..again POST: First, a little background. I'm a college student, just finishing my junior year and looking forward to turning 21. I'm staying in my college town to complete an internship for credit and my boyfriend (of over 4 years) lives i...
Parents found out I'm having sex, want me to stop. But I don't share their beliefs and don't think I'm doing anything wrong.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU buying a bottle of blueberry white tea POST: Obligatory first post, post, cell phone formatting etcetera This was last year, my bff was driving her and myself around and we stopped at a local drug / convenience store that we liked to frequent to get snacks and drinks. I got my favorite ...
I bought delicious tea so it could run away and I would be free to smash my face and trade paint with a classic.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaving my windows open. During winter. In Boston. POST: Let me start out with a little bit of context. I'm originally from the Panhandle of Florida and have never seen more than a few inches of snow in my entire life. I moved to Boston in August with my girlfriend. I stayed with my o...
Freezing to death in my own house for months. Become increasingly agitated. Realize window has been open for said months. Feel stupid.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Any time I do something risky, I have an intense, realistic "vision" of something horrible happening. Anyone else? POST: For example, yesterday I crossed the street during my lunch break from work. It's a busy road, and as I stood between the lanes I could see what it would be like (fr...
I've been having realistic visions of horrible things happening to me ever since I was in a car accident last year. I think it's PTS. What can I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend chews with his mouth open. It's gross and I hate it. How can I get him to stop? POST: Background: Ever since I can remember, I've always hated eating with my dad because he chews with his mouth open and makes loud lip-smacking noises. IT BUGS THE SHIT OUT OF ME, to the poin...
Boyfriend chews loudly. I hate it with my soul. But I love him. How can I get him to stop chewing loudly?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm too insecure POST: If this makes sense to any of you, i'm too insecure to admit to loved ones that I'm insecure. I'm insecure about my body, and abilities in academics. I mostly won't admit to my parents that i'm insecure because they would just say "No you're not" and blow me off a...
Insecure about being insecure, I don't want to be an attention whore by saying i'm constantly fat but I need to vent.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] and [19 F] Boring Situation POST: This is a pretty boring situation, and really generic, but I always like opinions on things, so any opinions are much appreciated. But I was in a very short relationship (1 month) with this girl around 7 months ago, she ended up wanting thi...
Split up with girl of 1 month 6 months ago, convinced myself staying friends would be good, now facing depression and see no clear way out.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] 'dating' [23 F] with anxiety problems for 2 weeks now, what do? POST: Hi, (first reddit post ever! Been lurking for a few months) So, I've recently started dating again after getting out of a rather unhealthy relationship that was based mainly on needing each other to find...
Boy likes girl, girl likes boy. Girl has anxiety and stresses out after getting happy and excited about going on a date with boy. What can boy do to work make her feel more at ease with the prospect of dating him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my Wife [26 F] - Separate Vacations with friend POST: So my wife and I met in 2010 and were married in 2015. I'm 28 and I'm interested in taking a vacation without her with my close friend (also a Male). My friend (single) and I have known each other our entire life, b...
My lifelong friend (who's single) and I have had scuba-diving trips to Mexico planned our whole life, is it ok to go without my wife?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My(39/M) on again/off again GF(33/F) broke up with me, Aborted my child. Now she wants back, and stupid me want to let her back POST: Am not sure why am posting here, but I feel like a dick. My on-again, off-again ex-gf (32f) broke up with me (39m) two months ago after saying she's n...
GF left me, aborted my kid, went and slept with a guy I worked with, Now she wants back. I hate myself for wanting to let her back<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18,M] and my girlfriend [18,F] we've been dating for 2 years are slowly being torn apart by jealousy issues. Just need some advice before we both go insane. POST: This all started about a week ago, my parents threw a graduation party at my house for friends and family to come. Th...
Gf sees text from friend thinks I'm lying to her and talking to girls behind her back. And this is causing a rupture in our relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [32M] wife [27f] told me that if she would have known my sexual history before we got serious, she would have never dated me because it is a "deal breaker". POST: In context, I am a high school teacher and we had discussed sexual education that day in class. I was talking to my wi...
Wife told me she wouldn't have continued being i a relationship if I told her about my sexual history, which makes me feel weird about our relationship now. Am I thinking into it too much?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[28M] with my girlfriend[26F] of 4 years. Trouble trusting/needing. This is a me thing. POST: So, obviously I am embarrassed about this issue (see u/). That probably is a related issue. Anyway, this might not even be the correct sub for this question, but I figure it's a fine pla...
Have feelings of insecurity and neediness towards my GF in really stupid things. She doesn't know. I have tried self-fixing, not gone very far. Any advice?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: As a skilled, educated, career worker, how do you look upon unskilled work or minimum wage jobs? POST: This is a two part question, really. First I wonder how other "white collar" or skilled "blue collar" workers think of the idea of working retail or food service type jobs. I'm sure mos...
Does anyone else have these dreams of going back to your old part-time job? How does it make you feel?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by falling asleep after a big party POST: So a girl I used to hook up with showed up at our party last night looking incredibly hot. We ended up talking a lot throughout the night and hanging out. I've been on like a 7 month drought here so I was extra horny when she showed up. I ended u...
I passed out before a girl that wanted to fuck me came to my door and ended up passing out in my hallway. Oops.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24 F] new cubicle mate [40s M] openly farts POST: My office is currently going through a space crunch and has placed a senior worker in my office as an emergency measure. A pairing between a younger girl and an older guy would normally be really weird but management contacted my ...
New cubicle mate farts nonchalantly leading to smell and sound issues in the work area. How should I address this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (25F) childhood was miserable. Suddenly my parents (55M/51F) are getting along and able to be in the same room. IT'S FREAKING ME OUT! POST: My parents divorced in 1997 after my sister (22F) had her brain tumor removed. All I remember from my childhood was a VERY sick sibling, stre...
Mom and dad hate eachother. Suddenly they are getting along...I'm so weirded out. Need help. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [18 M] having trouble with things to talk about with my [18/F] friend. POST: One of my two best friends in high school has moved away to attend college, and we usually have a text conversation about once every two weeks. She just texted me "Can we try to call each other at least ...
Friend wants to talk over the phone at least once a week. We both aren't very talkative, so I worry the calls will feel empty.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: "Want to cheat off my exam? Sure, take a look." POST: I have a lifelong ~~perverted~~ **rightful** sense of justice so hopefully I'll be at home on this subreddit. My first story: Years ago in my high school AP economics class I was assigned to sit in the corner of the room where I w...
Discovered a conspiracy of students cheating off me in high school. Purposefully misled them at the next exam and caused a record number of students to fail.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: f[15] digs me but wont go out with m[15] #teenageproblems POST: I have been talking to this girl for about one month now and we know we fancy each other so I popped the question "Do you want to go out with me" like all the other teens in my year do her reply was "maybe, this means I ...
We fancy each other but she isn't "100%" sure she wants to go out with me, how can I get her to this "100%"?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Today I discovered once again someone attempted to break into my home for the third time in the past two years. What, if anything, has made you absolutely hate or be scared of where you are living? POST: I live in the "Bad part of town". Last Thursday I heard a crash and was startled awa...
Awoken to a crash thinking it was my cat with a treat only to days later discover my side garage door had significant damage due to someone trying to break in. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M] with my friend [29 M] trying to help him get over ex-girlfriend - how can I help? POST: Hey all, Posting on a throwaway and changed some details around to avoid discovery. My friend used to go out with this girl, let's call her Meg. They were in a pretty serious relations...
Friend can't get over ex, it's been two years since he broke up with her, I want to help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by showing an antichrist video in my Christians foundation class. POST: Ok so the fuck up Happened last year. (First of all my school is a very proud Christian school which makes it worse)My friend and I were given an assignment to do a presentation on the Old Testament (I can't remember...
had no assignment to show to Christian foundations class, accidentally ended up showing an antichrist video to about 20-30 people.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to hint at a breakup? POST: I [22/m] am planning on breaking up with my girlfriend of a year and a half [20/f]. I was planning the future and she wants many different things that I want, and I am ready to move on. It in non-negotiable. With that said, I do still care for her. Sh...
22/m breaking up with my 20/f girlfriend. How to drop hints so she can brace herself? How to bring it up? How to end it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21F] ex [22M] is acting weird POST: We dated for 3 years the past 6 months were long distance. He broke up with me over skype at the end of March. He cried and told me he still loves me and I'm his best friend. We didn't talk for a month until I texted him asking how things wer...
Ex acting weird, tells me he still loves me, then not responsive, shows up at my house, leaves awkward photos of us on his facebook page.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26F] with my boyfriend [28 M/F] for sevel years, it just ended, I can't cope POST: I've been stricken with panic attacks for almost a week now since my boyfriend and I started breaking up. I don't know how to stop thinking about him and be my own person. I couldn't work this we...
Just broke up with my boyfriend and I can't cope/help myself/stop the anxiety or bring myself out of my depression<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my crush [26 M] of 1 year, why he only wanna meet me at night? POST: Well this has been very weird to me. However I am not sure if I myself could see this situation in a fair way, since there exists cultural difference concern. Simply put, he said he liked me last yea...
He only texts me and asks for meeting up at night. Is this a cultural difference? Does he want to develop a relationship, or just an ONS? Why he only texts me and asks for meeting up at night?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Trailblazers of Reddit, to the rescue? - Bachelor thesis about Vannevar Bush and the relationship between technology, man and knowledge POST: I'm working on a bachelor thesis on the computer scientist [Vannevar Bush] and his famous [Memex concept] In the context of a research project at ...
writing a bachelor thesis on Vannevar Bush and his Memex, looking for thought-provoking philosophical or scientific subreddits<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU with a girl by turning 4chan into real life POST: Ok so just got out of class. For the past few classes this 8/10 has sat across the lecture hall from me. I was reading a post on r/4chan, link below, when all of a sudden I realized she sat next to me today. I'm reading this post about an...
Hot girl approached, didn't know if real life, just read exact scenario on 4chan and ended up pretty much reenacting it <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with a girl [21F] I started sseing a month ago, worth continuing if she finishes uni in a few months and moves back home. I can't do long-distance.. POST: I met this girl on tinder a few weeks ago, we are both at university together, her in her third and final year, me in my...
Started seeing a girl a month ago, having thoughts on both our busy lives, separate futures when she finishes uni and I am here for 2 more years and my inability to hold a long-distance relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: It hurts like hell when my boyfriend rejects me. POST: We're both 21 and we've been together for about a year. My boyfriend is wonderful. He respects me, claims that he loves me, treats me right, takes care of me, etc...But he's the type of person who is not at all affectiona...
BF (21) doesn't show me (F21) any affection and sometimes even rejects my touches. How should I feel about this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [50F] think my son [20M] is cheating on his girlfriend [21F] of three years POST: My son (let's call him Derek) has had this girl Amy (not her name) over while he's on break from college. Only, Derek has been dating a girl (let's call her Simone) since he's been a junior in HS. She...
My son is very possibly cheating on his girlfriend, how do I approach the subject without hurting the girls or damaging my relationship with my son?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Wild Kittens Living Under My House POST: Reddit, I recently got home from school at NYU, only to discover that a wild mother cat and her five kittens had taken up refuge under my house. As an animal lover, I was naturally delighted by this. My family and I would like to catch/adopt at l...
A family of wild kittens is living under/around my house, but their mother was hit by a car. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what seemingly illogical moral anomalies do you believe? Aka, incest is disgusting, but twincest is glorious? I'll start. POST: Ok, so, I believe it's wrong for people to cheat on each other in a relationship. At no point is it cool to go have a fling with somebody just becaus...
It's horribly wrong to cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend, but it's not really cheating if it's a fling with somebody of the opposite gender of your bf/gf at the time.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22F) with my fiance (22M), is fidelity an unrealistic expectation in a relationship? POST: My fiance and I have been together 4 years and are recently engaged. Our wedding won't be for a couple years or so. I love him dearly and I know he's devoted to me. But lately I've been ...
Wondering if fidelity is too much to expect in a long term relationship, especially if one party is much better looking than the other.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: A Dog's Petty Revenge POST: Wasn't me, but my dog. Last night she heard some coyotes howling out back and got all excited. I told her she wasn't going outside, so she then sat on the couch and sulked for a while. She came back in my room a little while later. Around 5am or so this mo...
refused to let dog go outside to sing the song of her people, she tricked me into giving her a nice, warm place to sleep.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] Want to Beat Up My Boyfriend's [21M] Ex [21F] POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months, 2 weeks ago he opened up to me about this previous relationship of his and how his girlfriend was abusive. She would hit him, be very controlling and not let him to have f...
My boyfriend opened up to me about abusive ex-girlfriend, I want to confront her but he said he doesnt want me to.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20's/M] just purchased 'the ring' and planning on proposing within the week [20's/F]! POST: I have a general idea about how I want to do it, without going into detail (because I know she browses Reddit and sometimes /r/relationships ), I basically have 2 options in mind. -The first...
Excited to finally pop the question, 2 options to do so with, can't go into detail or she might figure out.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [16M] be more confident? POST: I've lurked here for a while now, and it seems as if I have something worthy of a post now. I'm about to start my junior year of high school, and I've had a lot of problems with being confident with myself, and especially around girls ever s...
I have had pretty poor self-confidence for the past year and I have trouble talking/initiating things with girls I am interested in. How to improve confidence?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24f] boyfriend [31m] is sad about his mother passing away POST: My boyfriend's mother passed away six months ago. Before she passed away, he hadn't seen her in two years. Both of them live in different countries, work a lot and my boyfriend generally dislikes travelling, so it wa...
boyfriend is in a rut from his mother passing away and his job. I don't know how to help him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [19 M] am in love with my housemate and best friend [19 F] POST: I'm 19 and I am in college right now. I live in a house with 5 other people. We are all sophomores. I live with this one girl, lets call her Mary. Mary and I became close last year, as we had all of our classes...
I'm in love with my housemate and best friend, don't want to tear apart the house and/or lose a friend. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is my boyfriend looking to upgrade me?! POST: This morning, my boyfriend [41] of 4 months and I [23f] were having breakfast together when his phone alerted him of a Tinder notification. I recognized the sound of the alert because we met on the app. I asked him if he was talking to a...
my boyfriend got a Tinder notification, I found out he unmatched me, he got upset and cried that I didn't trust him, and didn't end up showing me his Tinder account.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25M] with my girlfriend [20F] 3 months, GF started dating/sleeping with older rich men for money. POST: **Background:** I dated a girl who was/is a sugar baby. She hid it well and I never knew when she was "working." We broke up for unrelated reasons. We're still close friends. ...
My gf goes on dates and some times sleeps with older rich men for money. I want us to become serious but not sure if that's possible if she keeps doing this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: My dog looked me in the eye today and clacked her teeth at me. What does that mean? POST: I have two small dogs, and both are recovering from fleas right now (Fleas are gone but theyre dealing with the left over bites, itchiness, soreness, trauma from all the flea baths and treatment and the ...
Dog is recovering from fleas and clearly blames me for her discomfort. Suddenly became untrusting and clacked her teeth at me. Color me confused.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my GF [25F] 4 months, has hung out with her exBF copious amounts. POST: The Gf and I have been dating now for 4 months and have known each other for 8 months. She had been coming out of a nasty 7 year long relationship when I met her. During this time her ex was tryin...
Not sure how to interpret my Gf's interaction with her ex... who is she stringing along? I found out she has been seeing him once a week for almost the entirety of our relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 weeks; Tension between us due to his ex POST: I met him about 3 weeks and then became exclusive a week after meeting him. I knew he had problems with his ex and I will even say still hung up over his ex. They broke up about 3 months ago. He's t...
Boyfriend of 2 weeks still hung up on ex. Keeps trying to work things out with her. I gave him an ultimatum.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help me reddit! My[25F] GF of 4.5 yrs dropped the bombshell that she wants to run away, leaving her life including me [27M] behind POST: Last night my GF told me that she wants to run away from it all and travel without me. I thought we were building a life together after 4.5 years t...
GF of 4.5 years has suddenly decided she wants to go beyond The Wall whereas I am quite happy here in Winterfell.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19/m] girlfriend [20/f] took pictures of herself on a guy friend's phone. Is this strange? POST: So this isn't some existential crisis or anything, I'm just curious. My girlfriend spends a lot of time at school, and has some guy friends. I've never met them, just haven't had tim...
Gf took selfie pictures of herself on a guy friend's phone. Found out until he posted them on Facebook. Is this weird?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24M] fiancée [23F] brother [15M] was in a car crash and is in really bad shape. She wants to postpone our wedding that is taking place next weekend so he can attend POST: My fiancées brother is temporarily in a wheelchair, he was involved in a car crash along with his mother and ...
BIL was in a car crash and wife wants to put the wedding on hold until he is better so he can attend the wedding. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25m) and my best friend (25f) are clearly in love, but she can't commit POST: I'll mention that i'm good looking only because I think that plays a role in the situation- so i'm good looking, she is good looking- two best friends (~5 years strong) who are both good looking are bas...
My best friend and I are in love, she can't commit to what could be the best thing in both of our lives- a relationship together. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm jealous of my boyfriend's success. POST: Me: 21/f. Him: 23/m. We've been together for 2 years. When we met we were both at university and things went quickly from there. Now, he's done school and working at a job he got immediately after graduation. Things have gone extremely wel...
I struggle to stay afloat with 3 jobs and school, while my bf enjoys a successful lifestyle. He says it doesn't bother him, but I am resentful about it<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by missing subtle hints from a girl. POST: So, this happened a few years ago, when i was in high school. This girl i knew calls me and asks me what i'm doing (we had a few days off to prepare for tests). I tell her "nothing much, just chilling" since no one was home, she asks me if she ...
A girl wanted to get it on with me, but i was too dumb to, pick her subtle clues and ended up watering my mom's vegetable garden with her*<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25/f] roommates [24/f,25/f] are my best friends but they take forever to get ready to go out POST: How do I gracefully agree to hang out with them that night (which I honestly do want to do) but separate myself from them so that I don't end up missing everything I had wanted to d...
Is there a nice way to tell someone to hurry the eff up if they're part of your crew? How can I separate myself from them when they're taking too long without being a dick about it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/books TITLE: Hey Reddit, I just published my first eBook! POST: Hooray! :D Anyway, after a years of writing short stories and books and such, and after a less-than-successful attempt to self-publish a physical book, here it is: a not-as-of-yet-successful eBook for the kindle! THE ADAKO REPORT is a scie...
I published a book. See links above. Please spread this around, buy it, hate it, complain about it, and so on. It's very offensive.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaving my edible in my bag. POST: This happened on Saturday night. I had gotten home from drinking and it was time to feed Bento, my 11 pound mini dachshund. I fill her bowl with kibbles, then proceed to fill her water bowl (which is next to her food bowl) with the water jug. She fli...
left a weed brownie in my bag, Dog ate it, got high, made me stress. Dog is OK. and wonderful.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: You can't go two minutes on AskReddit without reading about some horrible relationship story. Just once, let's hear some awesome things your SO has done for you! POST: Alright Reddit, I love you guys, but I'm currently in a long distance relationship for the summer and reading all these ...
gf and I get super fancy and try to go to nice dinner, I botch the planning, she rolls with it and makes an awesome evening of pizza and cigars.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I feel like a bitch because I didn't fight an old man with a knife POST: So this morning i was taking my girlfriends dog( its a 4 pound Pomeranian poodle mix) its cold so I figured screw it ill take her out in my pajamas (long sleeves/pants). When I go out I can either make a left/right ...
Some guy whipped out a knife because I didnt want to pick up my dogs poo...now I feel like a bitch because I didnt fight him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Facebook Friend and irl acquittance [23M] posted someone's personal contact on his FB. I [20M] reported him. He's upset. POST: Alex was a classmate and at the beginning seemed like a very smart individual. But the more time I spent with this man, the more time I saw his ugly side. He...
Old classmate and Facebook friend posted a man's personal info online to be trolled. I reported it and he found out it was me. Alex and friends are pissed at me and it's affecting my real life.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: This sounds normal right? POST: I (29F) met this girl (26F) at a music festival...she came with some friends that I just recently met. We were all having a good time, I was singing, everyone was laughing...her and I had a few brief conversations and she was laughing at my jokes. We...
I want to ask a girl out, but only have facebook so I'm just going to ask her out on facebook. Women don't judge me for not getting the number first do they?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my [22M] SO of about a year. Is there ever a possibility for a fresh start? POST: So long story short, my boyfriend and I have been involved for about a year, although we've been a bit on-again/off-again as of late. We're both hoping a fresh start will be possible in th...
BF and I are looking to start our relationship afresh, but I'm worried there's no such thing as truly "starting over." Advice/experience??<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What goes through a guy's head immediately after a breakup? POST: My boyfriend of 6 years just broke up with me because our life course trajectories don't seem to be compatible. We don't want the same things, which I get, and I guess it made sense to him to end it as soon as he figured ...
Just broke up with my long-term boyfriend and he cut off all contact without a look back. What's going through his head right now?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf [25f] of 5 years went on a 3 month exchange program in Australia for work. I [25m] want to fight for her but she says she has changed. What do I do? POST: We have been together as a couple for 5 years during college. I have known her for over 10 years since high school. She w...
Should I fight for my gf who wants to be independent now after doing an exchange program for 3 months. We were together for 5 years.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it possible to die of a broken heart? POST: I told my best friend (he is a 36 year old male, I am a 33 year old female) yesterday that I had feelings for him. He in turn tells me about the girl he is taking out tonight. I have never been shy as to my feelings for him but I went ...
My best friend (he's a guy, I'm a girl) tells me about dating other girls when he knows I have feelings for him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] feel like I'm too busy trying to be a perfect girlfriend [20M] POST: Is it okay to be invested in your relationship? My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to a year. He's in the Army so it's already very hard. In the beginning there was an attraction and love, but it ...
Is there something called too much investment? I want to be a great girlfriend without smothering him. Any advice would be great.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need help picking a major. Should I go for something that makes money or something I'm good at? POST: So this might be long but I've run out of people to ask for advice. I am currently going to be a junior in the Journalism School and I'm on track to study Strategic Communication, spec...
I'm thinking about changing my major because I don't think I will make enough money as I could in other areas, but I'm realizing other areas may now be out of reach.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: GF[19] broke up with me [19] after being together for 3 years, says there is hope for us in the future. Is this possible? POST: the breakup didn't come out of the blue. In truth it was probably for the best. Our relationship was not healthy. We were too reliant on each other, had som...
gf broke up with me, says she would like to try again sometime when we are both healthy - does this ever work?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of four years, shes doesn't love me anymore POST: We started dating pretty young. Moved in together after a few months and were inseperable. We have the same friends and care for them very much. About 4 months back she moved to the countryside (1...
Girlfriend of four years isn't in love with me anymore. Do I have a chance of winning her heart back, or at the least be able to keep our friendship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I was just fired from a job for sexual harrassment. It was on my second day of working there, ever. This is a throwaway- more in comments. POST: So I am working at this theater that serves alcohol to people 21+. I am 18 and the supervisor, who just for promoted, we will call B, i...
a girl trains me while telling me different ways to break the law- gets me fired for telling my boss a joke I said to her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My(16m) gf(16f) of 9 months and birth control. POST: My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for a while now and have had sex maybe 5 times. Recently my mom told me she got pregnant around my age and regrets it, and offered to take my gf and i to the doctor and get her on birth...
my gf was going to go on birth control (my parents offered to pay) but now she doesn't and I am not comfortable with this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: American redditers, how do you feel about roundabouts replacing traffic lights? POST: This is a resurrected [Post] Since seeing a [BBC segment] I have been intrigued by their possibilities. It would seem if they: - Get you places quicker - By using less gas - Resulting in less green ...
I know there is a difference between [traffic circles, roundabouts] etc. But I think local governments should take a serious look at the implementation of them when possible. Like to see what Reddit thinks.<|endoftext|>