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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm a [23/F] still in love with my ex [26/M]. It's been over a year.
POST: Before I say anything else I just want to say communication with him is not an option.
I don't talk to people about this stuff. It feels safe to try here because it's somewhat anonymous.. I don't know what to... | It's been almost two years since our break up and I'm still so in love with my ex it's making me miserable.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my Family [30+ M/F] 25 years, Should i stop trying to help my family?
POST: they are borderline retard, if i wasn't there to help them they would be homeless asking for tips to buy some food or in mental hospital,
they relay on me too much because i'm the only son in ... | my Family are like childrens incapable of taking care of themselves or solves their own problems and they count on me and i'm fed up/ what should i do reddit?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Should I Just Freakin' Quit Already?
POST: Job: Emergency Medical Scribe
Wage: Minimum in Texas ($7.25 before taxes)
I'm a recent college grad, living with my folks until I decide on grad school/med school. I am 1000% over my job. My duties constantly fluctuate from hospital to hospital and... | My job sucks from every aspect except experience and I've got pretty much all the experience I need. Should I quit?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How to convince a mother to buy a pet?
POST: I am a 19 (in uni) year old son of a mother who literally controls the house, everything is her own furniture, tv, event though my dad pays for most of those things, she still controls them.
She also controls the people/animals who are in the... | I really like dogs, but mom won't let me because she's afriad of 'em. really want one.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [26f] explain the gap in my history?
POST: I'm 26 years old and behind most of my peers in terms of accomplishments, i.e. only just entering my 2nd year of undergrad. The reason for this is that for most of my late teens/early 20s, I was suffering from anorexia and spent the... | Was anorexic in my early 20s and subsequetly started work/study later than most. How do I explain the gap in my life/late start to study to dates when they ask about it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] with my friend [20F] who interested in me, also im into her too
POST: I had anxiety years ago and beat it but still it (rarely) gets triggered somehow. When that happens it happens very harsh, like having panic attack.
So I met this girl few months ago and we were seeing ea... | She said she likes me, had a panic attack. After a month should I talk her about it and tell her that i like her too?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Dating him (31M) for a month. I (29F) can't stop worrying things are too good and will fall apart based on past experiences.
POST: Him and I met about a month ago, and we hit it off right from the start. I've had that "spark" with guys before but never to the extent that I do with h... | Dating great guy for a month yet can't stop worrying that it will all fall apart based on past dating experiences. How do I stop thinking that? Bad that we spend a lot of time together already?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24f] boyfriend [31m] is using steroids.
POST: Dating for almost 3 years now, I recently found out he's started using steroids.
He has this small cabinet in his office that I opened up while cleaned and found a bunch of small vials and pills. At first I assumed it was some sort o... | boyfriend has been using anabolic steroids for the past 7 months. Says there's nothing wrong with it. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: NeedAdvice, office job of 6 months asked me to start detailing my daily tasks in an email to my superior.
POST: Recently had an employee review, went well, they want to promote me to a new position (small growing company), and today asked if I could start detailing my daily tasks and se... | I have to start reporting my daily tasks at work, and I think there is a possibility they're trying to fire me, despite being offered a promotion.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend (19/F) said she doesn't see us together in the future. Currently 21/M
POST: We have had conversations about the future, and both my girlfriend and I have very different visions of our future. I have no desire for children, yet she wants 2, she would love a house in the cou... | Girlfriend and I are in love but have no common goals in our future, both have verified this as true. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking
TITLE: How to make a low sugar or sugar free clear glaze?
POST: So I am absolutely in love with these KIND bars with nuts and glaze. But they are expensive. So I've been thinking that I'd make my own bars. All the ingredients are pretty simple, except the glaze that holds the nuts together is not... | I want to make nut bars but need a low or no sugar glaze recipe without fake sweeteners that is sticky enough to hold nuts together.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated
TITLE: [Text] I quit my job, broke up with my SO, and am moving to another part of the state where I don't know anyone (29/m)
POST: Some poor decisions that I made as a kid have stayed with me mentally/emotionally. I never dealt with it, correctly or at all really, and it's led me to a place... | I'm unhappy with my life and have made some big changes. What are some tools, tips, or tricks to help me be as successful as possible in improving my life? Thanks :)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Dear ASPCA commercial, your commercials are so fucking sad I have never watched more than 10 seconds. Why not something a little more cheerful? Oh, and Fuck Sarah McLaughlin.
POST: Seriously, cats and dogs are fun and silly, have you ever heard of a site called Youtube?
Jesus Christ with ho... | some egomaniac with nothing better to do yells at the air about those fucking sad commercials with the Sarah McLaughlin music.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: im getting help, one question though...
POST: me F 23 y/o; boyfriend 25 y/o relationship 2 years
I a 23 year old female college student am seeing a therapist Thursday. I have no social life, go from working full time to school full time. that's it, if I'm not at work I'm in class o... | not sure if I should tell my Boyfriend that I am going to see a therapist. Also nervous about going to see one.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Fellow Americans. Just out of curiosity, are those that are proponents of the legalization of marijuana supporting the movement because you want to get high or in hopes of someday seeing an effective American drug policy?
POST: I am asking this question genuinely out of concern. The rece... | Do you support the legalization of marijuana because you want to get high or because of the possible effects that will stem from this action?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Long term options post-graduation
POST: What are the long term travel possibilities for an American aerospace engineer graduate (with a TESOL certificate) and a passive income of 900 dollars per month? When I say long term, I mean years, potentially. I am not certain I want to be an expat, ... | How long could I live abroad with 900 dollars per month passive income? What places are welcoming to extended stays? How do these extended stays work?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (24f) boyfriend (23m) won't stay over at my apartment.
POST: Since we have started dating, my boyfriend and I almost always stay over at his place. When I ask him to come to my place, he says he isn't as comfortable there or that he has to wake up early for work. I used to have a ... | I stay at my boyfriend's house all the time. I want him to come over sometimes but he doesn't. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend (21f) of 12 months broke up with me over text (20m).
POST: First time posting long time creeper so I'm gonna apologize for formatting errors in advance. My girlfriend ( jane ) and I were dating for about 1 year. To make this concise, she cheated("only kissed a guy becau... | girlfriend left me over text and refused to call or see me, I feel awful about it because I'm so in love with her, what should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19F] with my long distance boyfriend [21M] for 5 months, am I getting too old for our relationship?
POST: My boyfriend and I have a long history
HISTORY: Met his friend on xbl in grade 8 met him in grade 10, close in grade 11 then met for the first time december of grade 12 then ... | Is it worth sticking out a great long-term and long distance relationship [while there are many great guys] at University?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Raging at Bully: Scholarship Edition
POST: Okay, so in this damn game, there's this quest called Discreet Deliveries where you have to go to a place in town that's FUCKING FAR. I get there, running from the mob of angry greaseballs that want to beat me up and go see the nerd guy. He giv... | I was doing an awfully long delivery mission and when I approached the final customer to give him his package some jock pushed me into the guy, failing the mission because I damaged a customer.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (25M) wants to leave me (27F) because I won't have a threesome...round 2.
POST: Yes, round two. This happened maybe 6 months ago or longer now. I have had a threesome in my past relationship. My current boyfriend has known about this for awhile. He brought it before sayi... | Boyfriend wants to leave because I refuse to have a threesome with him and I have in my past relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Ideas for Modern Propaganda Art?
POST: Heya! I'm somewhat new to the reddit community, and whatnot, but I'm in need of advice/inspiration/ideas.
I'm in an art class where we art required to create 12 pieces revolving around a central theme. (AP 2D Portfolio, for those who are wonderin... | I have 2 weeks to complete my art course, but I can't think of what my final project on Modern Propaganda should be based/influenced by.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my "1 year relationship girlfriend" [18 F] duration, want to propose in a formal/creative way to become my girlfriend, any suggestions or ideas?
POST: Ok, so heres the deal! Since the first time we spoke I felt a beautiful connection with her, we just "clicked"...
... | 1 year relationship in and out because of personal issues, been dating again and this time I want to propose to her to be my girlfriend in a memorable way... Suggestions?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] have always had difficulty trusting people, it's affecting me badly in college
POST: I moved a lot as a kid/young adult. I have always been able to find a few people whom I could nominally call a friend. I always feel like we get off to a good start but something feels like i... | I'm some fucking kid who's good at making acquaintances but absolutely awful at building the "trust" necessary in a friendship, have any of you dealt with this before and if so how did you deal with it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By whitening my teeth while browsing the front page of Reddit.
POST: I generally whiten my teeth most weekdays and the process requires about five minutes of time and oral discipline. A good deal of saliva builds up in my mouth as I hold my teeth together and my lips pulled back as far a... | I spit a mouthful of teeth whitener and spit all over my laptop, desk and self while watching "If Michael Bay directed Up"<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Reddit, I need a job! Help please!
POST: I'm just about losing it, been unemployed for about 10 months. Its seriously depressing. I had some mental illness issues back in early March. Which cause me to retire from my job to due weeks and weeks being in a hospital. Recovering for months, and I... | I was hospitalized in March for months. Which cause me to lose both my jobs, and my be DENIED Financial aid for fall. Been unemployed since.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Would it be weird for me [19 M] to date my crush [18 F] if she is my half brother's cousin?
POST: So lately I've been talking to this girl and there seems to be a lot of chemistry between the both of us, but the other night her last name caught my attention and as it turns out she is... | Me and my half brother's cousin (his father is no longer married to my mom nor were they ever married as long as I was born) and I have been talking.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [18 M] Sick of being alone, I feel like I will never find love.
POST: I don't even know if I can post this sort of question here, I'm sick of posting to places like Yahoo Answers and having immature people give me stupid answers, anyway.
I know 18 is still young, please don't tell ... | Sick of being alone, always felt like I will never find love, sick of seeing other people in love, don't know how someone like me could even have a relationship when I live with anxiety panic and depression.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to make my room smell better
POST: Hi,
Today, early in the morning, I had an insomnia crisis and decided to go smoke. My room is connected by a windowwith another where my aunt sleeps and she is a light-maniac and cannot sleep whenever the smallest amount of light reaches her,... | went from a smoke by the window in the middle of the night, room smelled bad, forgot to close the window, got a torticollis and have a 8 hours flight and exams on Monday.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In long distance relationship and not sure if I'm overly worried or if my gut is telling me something...
POST: I'll start with a history. We have been together 3 1/2 years. Lived near each other for 2yrs, broke up, I moved really far away to live with my folks and go to school, got... | 3 1/2 yr relationship turned LDR, worried about my past trust issues causing me to blow small things out of proportion.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20/M] realizing I have a crush on a friend [20/F] who's currently in a relationship..
POST: I have a crush on one of my friends, who is also a coworker.. She has a boyfriend of 2 years and I don't know if she has any feelings for me. We hang out 2-4 times a week, but talk about e... | Have crush on friend who's been in a relationship for 2 years, not sure if I should tell her I have feelings..<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How do you open yourself up to someone? 20F trying to build relationship with 20M
POST: I met this guy at a party and we hit it off pretty well. I really like what I see in him- personality wise, he's smart, etc. etc. he seems like a good person. We've been texting all day, daily, fo... | Our friendship is not taking off and I want us to both open up. What steps should I take / should I wait it out or wait for the opportunity to arise?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I (25/F) learn to curb periodic feelings of romantic desire?
POST: It may be completely natural to desire a romantic relationship with another person, however, I find these feelings to be quite inconvenient and distressing at times.
For one, I very seldom find members of the... | I am a 25 year old woman and find romantic desire to be distressing at times. I am seeking advice or techniques so that I can better relax these desires.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 F] with my boyfriend [29 M] duration 17 months So today I was cleaning out the house and found what looks like a recently developed hidden picture of my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. Should I be very alarmed?
POST: So today I was cleaning out the house and found what looks like a... | So today I was cleaning out the house and found a recently developed hidden picture of my boyfriend's girlfriend. In my anger I tore it up and threw away. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My long distance gf (19F) of 3 months seem less and less interested in talking to me (19M). What should I do?
POST: So I've been in a relationship with this girl for about 3 months now. We were friends from before the relationship began. We've spent about 11 days with each other in t... | Long distance gf seems less interested in talking to me, seems cold when texting and uninterested. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [21/f] - My best friend (21/f) is dating a (26/m) destructive asshole.
POST: **My friend** is the kind of person you want in your life. She is way to accepting of any shit you give her, and she gives her all to make you happy. She'd take you out to lunch and pay for it, eve... | Friend is dating some asshole. I've tried showing her, and she agrees he's rotten, but she's still with him. What can I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I really hate how women's "sports" get more attention from everyone.
POST: I know that it's natural for men to give attention to women over other men because we think about sex all the time ect. But I hate it when women get too much attention just by being a woman. Like the surge of pol... | I hate it how we as a society bow to hot girls just because they are hot. You don't even need a special talent to become popular on the internet. Just a good body and maybe big tits.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Is it rude to ask people to be quiet in a communal study area? Explanation in the post, (F19) living in a student accommodation building.
POST: I live in a really big building especially for students with many tenants, but the building is so well designed and university classes... | Is it okay to ask people to be more quiet if they are disrupting your work in a communal study room where there is no rule specified about acceptable conversation volume?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I have been informed that my close friend[20f]'s boyfriend[21m] tried to rape a mutual friend. Unsure how to act
POST: **Names changed to protect identities. For the record, I'm male**
A few weeks ago I was approached by a friend[21f] - let's call her Megan - who stated that my clo... | Friend's boyfriend tried to rape a mutual friend. Friend doesn't know. How do I tell her without breaking the promise I made to the victim to not tell?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Should I allow my father to watch my 16 month old for 5-7 days?
POST: Hey guys, so my wife and I are going to Florida for a week to visit family. My dad and her mother both live down there so it will be a nice trip to visit the grandparents. At the end of the trip my father asked if he... | My dad wants to watch my son for 5-7 days in Florida and then drive 21 hours to drop him off home to us in NJ, wife is having issues with this, I am not.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Is it okay to tell someone you like them in this situation
POST: Hi Reddit. I'm 22/M engineering student. I've known this girl for 6 months or so through my classes. We were in a lab together one quarter and worked on projects in and out of class within a group. We became g... | girl is in a complicated year long relationship, I like her a lot...can I tell her this without screwing things up?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Found BF's online dating profile
POST: I am 21(F), he is 24(M), we've been dating for 6 months, in a relationship for 4 months. Long story short, we met on an online dating site that both me and my friend use. We had deactivated our profiles ages ago, but my friend, who still uses th... | found BF's newly reactivated dating profile, which he has been using on a regular basis. Should I break up with him? Am I overreacting?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Dad (63) had an emotional affair with my mom's (55) close friend (late 40's).
POST: I'm (28f) mad and don't know how to handle this.
Basically, as the title says, my dad had an emotional affair with my mom's friend. Dad won't admit to ANY wrongdoing. Other woman is out of the pictu... | dad had an emotional affair, mom wants to repair marriage, I'm so angry I could spit. What steps do I take to get over it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [F19] boyfriend [M19] was molested by his mother when he was 7. He insists it was consensual.
POST: We've beein dating for 2 years now. When I used to ask him about his first time, he would dodge the question. After some reluctance about 2 months ago he told me that his first time... | My [F19] boyfriend [M19] was molested by his mother when he was 7. He insists it was consensual.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] think I'm in love with my best friend / roommate [21F] and I have no idea how to proceed.
POST: For the sake of background information: we are both originally from the city of Busan in South Korea. We've been best friends since we were 12 and we moved in together when we star... | I'm in love with my best friend and roommate. We've had sex twice but she might not remember. If she doesn't feel the same way our friendship would be over. Should I tell her or stay in the closet?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: What to do with 401k from old employer/debt while in school
POST: A quick background:
I'm 26, married (wife 23), sophomore in college (wife graduates this semester), currently living off of savings and small income ($450 mo) from wife's part time job.
Finances:
I have enough in ... | I have $7,500 in a 401k that I can no longer deposit into (no longer work for company) and do not have excess income to put into any other form of Roth/IRA till at least January.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [21 M] approach my mother [56 F] about her gambling addiction?
POST: My mother is 56 years old and has what I would like to call an addictive personality. She has had or does have issues with other addictions in her life. The most worrisome of these at the moment is her ga... | Mom has an addiction to gambling on a Facebook slot game. Has spent over $16k. I found out by snooping. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Internship is way too advanced.
POST: A couple of weeks ago I posted on here about whether or not I should do an internship that was offered to me ( link here ) because I felt like I was not experienced enough.
I took the advice and went. I have only been here a week and they expect m... | Internship is very advanced but will lead to great opportunities although I am VERY under experienced. Too many expectations put on me. Advice?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21F] boyfriend [26M] might not be over his ex, and I don't know what to do.
POST: So I've been spending the last couple of days helping my boyfriend move into his cousin's house. We've been officially dating for three months.
Some of the things I wrapped seemed pretty useless t... | My boyfriend still has some sort of emotional attachment to the things his ex gave him, not sure if that's healthy behavior or not. How do I approach this.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I(19M) have recently become very attracted to a close friend (19F) of four years. Help!
POST: I posted this to /r/datingadvice last night but thought it might fit in here as well:
Seriously, I'm really desperate for some answers. I'll try and keep the background short and simple:
I... | over the past few weeks I've developed a really intense crush on a close friend who I think might reciprocate my feelings.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[18M] with my gf[18F] of 11months, i got kissed and necked spontaniously at a club on a boys road trip. What do i do?
POST: So every summer, my highschool friends and i go on a month long road trip. This year we decided to go to chicago ( we're from toronto) and see what all the hy... | went out of town for a boys trip. Went to alocal university bar- got kissed and necked by two girls- dont know whether totell girlfriend or keep it a secret<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Im 17 M, never been in love before, is this what I am experiencing?
POST: I met this girl I really like around 5 months ago, we've gradually been getting closer and closer as the months have gone by. She understands my issues and I understand hers, which has bought us closer together... | Known a girl for around 5 months, been getting gradually closer and keep thinking about her a lot and I feel happy just by being around her, also very comfortable. I feel like I am in love, am I?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16/M] with my GF [15/F] 9 Months, Breakup that is killing me
POST: Right now I go to a different school than my EX-GF. It was a great summer with her, great school year. We got to see each other at lest 5 times a week for over an hour each time. We met at each others houses, coff... | She broke up with me over text the morning of a huge Basketball game for me, then showed up with her BF [16/M] of 3 months<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [22F] I admired a girl who sat next to me all semester and I just found out she's gay, and might sort of like me. We've never had a conversation. Our final is tomorrow!!! Any hope?
POST: I'm sort of closeted. I mean, no one ever asks or anything. If they did, I'd tell them. But you p... | Admired a girl for a whole semester. Never talked. Found out she might be gay. Class ends tomorrow. Any way to redeem myself?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by letting my girlfriend drive.
POST: On our way back from a road trip out of state. It was a 10hr drive so 6 hours in she said she can drive for about next hour so i can take a nap and rest. We left 11pm to beat the Monday morning traffic keep in mind. I fall asleep and next thing you k... | Lets girlfriend drive car during road trip while i nap, she pulls over at rest stop to nap too, forgets to turn off car, battery died<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Would my "incident journal" be admissable/useful in an actual custody hearing?
POST: Florida divorce/custody questions.
To sum up a very long story, my ex-wife and I recently finalized our divorce. We submitted an agreement on child support and joint custody, but in my opinion she has... | My ex is a shitty parent so I've been "documenting everything" like you guys always say, but how much will it help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22 M] just realized I've been leading my girlfriend [21 F] of 4 months on. I need to break up with her, but don't know how or when
POST: My girlfriend and I both just graduated from college, and she'll be in Seattle for grad school next year, and I'll be in Washington, DC. I'm le... | I've been unintentionally leading my girlfriend on, and just realized I need to break up with her, but want to do it as kindly as possible.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Advice on me [26, M] making transition to face to face interaction with [25, F] I've been talking to (text/phone) for last month and a half
POST: I've known this girl since college, but we were both in committed relationships at the time and were only friends. Now that we're both set... | Long distance relationship, will be seeing her for the first time since beginning the relationship this weekend. Advice to ease my anxiety??<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27F] with my husband [27M] and best friend [24], they constantly fight and she has decided to cut us out of her life...
POST: My husband JP and my best friend Grendel are coworkers. They both love me but hate each other, I am always in the middle. Husband does not care because he... | SO and best friend work in the same building, they constantly fight. Best friend has decided to cut us out of her life but SO doesn't give a sh't. I'm heartbroken.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Denied at Sofi, Lending Club, Prosper. Waiting to apply for earnest/hear from first republic. What else can I do?!
POST: Hi All,
Please don't bash me I already know I dun goofed and want to fix my debt.
I have excellent credit (**794**) but high debt to income ratio.
* 100k i... | I pay my loans on time and everything is in good standing when I check my credit report; is there anything else I can do to lower interest?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] can't stop thinking about a friend of mine [21F] romantically while in a yearlong, healthy relationship [21F]
POST: I got into a relationship last December with an amazing girl, and throughout the year there have been misunderstandings and we have always successfully gone thr... | Romantic thoughts about both tough ROTC friend and princess girlfriend. Friend currently across the country, girlfriend currently in Asia. Have dating history with friend.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (26M) going out with another girl after breakup
POST: Hello everyone. It's been about two weeks since my GF broke up with me. I'm still very much in love with her but we haven't talked ever since. I don't know what will happen in the future, so I'm trying not to build up any hopes... | GF broke up with me now I don't know if I should go out with another girl. I may not be what she expects.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf (18f) cheated on me while on vacation when she was drunk. I'm 21m
POST: My girlfriend of 4 months who I have really fallen for moved to AZ from NJ to stay with her grandparents and we started dating in September she went back to NJ for the holidays and came back on Jan. 12 and ... | GF made out with a guy while she was drunk at a party while on vacation. I don't know how to handle it and don't know what I should do. Especially since she waited a month to tell me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my friend [23 F] of 2 years, recently hooked up a few times and not sure what to do next.
POST: Situation is relatively straightforward I think: I've been friends with this girl for a little over 2 years. I've always been open to dating her but didn't think she ever fe... | Recently hooked up three times with my friend of 2 years despite her saying she wasn't sure about being involved with anybody. Need advice on what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my BF[32M] of 3 months, and his relationship with his best friend [25F]
POST: Hi! I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 months, and he recently introduced me to his best friend, a 25-year-old girl. When I met her, I realized she was a lot like me in many ... | I can't really understand the nature of my BF's relationship with his best friend. Should I be concerned? Thank you.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Probably going (very) long distance (UK to Australia) from the end of next month - advice and thoughts please?
POST: Hi all,
Firstly, I'm a 25year old Brit and my boyfriend is a 26 year old Aussie. We have been together 2 1/2 years now and he's someone I have no doubts about wanting... | The man I love is moving back to Australia because he can't find a job in the UK but I'm stuck here because of my own job for the next two years. Any tips on how to make long distance work?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [27 M] GF [27 F] is living free in an apartment paid by her Ex while schooling
POST: My girlfriend is going to school in a different state for 2 years. We started talking about 3 months prior to her moving away. Her ex at the time decided he wanted to pay for her apartment because... | My [27 M] GF [27 F] is living free in an apartment paid by her Ex while schooling. I don't like it. Am I overreacting?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Long-distance tips for [32M USA]+[29F Mexico]? Is it worth it?
POST: First time poster here, throwaway account (logtime redditor), but will check back in. Pardon the tongue-in-cheek rude username, but I was surprised it wasn't taken and it made me giggle.
So, back in jan/feb of this... | Met a girl from Mexico and ended up liking her more than I expected, looking to make an international long distance as successful as possible.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by crashing a stopped car while driving in reverse.
POST: I have this close friend who invited me over to her daughter's first birthday party, and she forgot to buy candles for the cake. I mentioned that i had a car and i could go and buy the candles, so she asked me to take her and one ... | I stopped at an intersection and decided to drive back just a little, but i crashed because i didn't notice the car behind me. There were no injuried people nor destroyed cars.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the worst you've been friend-zoned?
POST: Mine: An upperclassman that I knew since my first year in college always took really good care of me and he was always like a big brother to me. One day, I decide to go to an apartment party with a friend. I had been texting the upperclass... | I kinda started to have feelings for a guy who was like my big bro, but it turns out that he thought I was like a little sister too.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (28F) think the guy I'm dating (27M) is losing interest. About 2 months.
POST: So I met this guy about two months ago and we hit it off really well in the beginning. He was texting me off and on most of the day (every day) and we would hang out about 3 or 4 times a week. Sometimes... | I need to talk to the guy I've been seeing to find out if we feel the same way but don't know how to start the convo.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21f] with my bf[22m] of one year I can't decide if I should end it
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for one year and for some reason I can't stop thinking about breaking up with him. We hardly fight, there are no red flags, we make each other laugh, the sex is great, a... | my relationship is great, but I'm worried that my anxiety and depression are making me want to end it or keeping me from seeing that I should end it<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: What to do about the guy that no one wants around?
POST: **Backstory:** Basic info, we're all 21-24 year old students / working class adults. There is a guy that my roommate began hanging around with whom we shall call Dan. Dan seemed like an okay guy to begin with, but it quickly became appa... | This super creepy / socially inappropriate "friend" keeps showing up where we are, has invited himself to our party without asking. What do we do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] 3 months, controlling mother and parents
POST: So my girlfriend of a few months (we've been on again off again for the last year due to the below problem) has a really overcontrolling mother and family in general. We are both at college, but she li... | Girlfriend is appeasing her abuse (emotionally) mom and parents by not spending the night at my house. This really bugs me. Makes me kind a want to break up with her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34F] with my brother [37M] and his GF of 10 years (33F). Found out he cheated but no one is telling GF.
POST: Cast:
Tony - my brother (37M)
Mary - my brother's girlfriend (33F)
Rosa - woman my brother is cheating on Mary with (??F... old enough to have a 20-year-old son)
Barr... | Brother is cheating on his girlfriend. Parents know but won't tell his girlfriend because they are afraid of losing relationship with young grandson.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: HELP! My 35lb mix ate a chicken bone :(
POST: She somehow managed to get a rotisserie leg out of my trash (up on the counter so she COULDN'T get it) and snatched the leg before I could do anything. She broke it at least in half because I tried unsuccessfully to get the second half out of her ... | Dog ate chicken bone, vet said not to worry...yet... any advice or personal experience? Help! :'(<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: New girl I'm seeing wants to "take things slow". Really slow. A bit confused.
POST: Seeing a great girl from okcupid, we've had 3 dates now. I kissed her at the end of the second date. At the third date (last night), we had dinner and walked around, and after getting to talk... | Holding hands on the 3rd date was too fast for her. The level of physical intimacy regressed from 2nd to 3rd dates. Very confused.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17/M] am in a relationship [16/F] but I am missing a feeling I want from her.
POST: So I recently started a relationship with a girl from school. We don't meet that often with how busy we are, but we try to talk every morning and text every week.
I love her a lot, and before all ... | I want the same sense of security and protection many guys give to girls, but I don't know how to get it from my SO.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Can someone please help me interpret this conversation?
POST: I'm 30(f) and he's 32(m). I slept with this guy two days ago, here's the [backstory] and he agreed to call the next day but didn't. Because we were friends before and I was worried about weirdness and also if he was stil... | I slept with him, he didn't call after showing much interest in doing so, but he's in the middle of a messy divorce, so I don't know how to interpret this conversation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (Long Distance) Me [22/F] with my BF [24 /M] of 5 Months, He needs space and I don't know how to go about it.
POST: First time poster
My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship since the beginning for 5 months now. We have a 8 hour difference and he has a very deman... | too many Text Messages Have driven My Boyfriend Away. He needs space now and I need advice on how to handle the situation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] and my girlfriend [17F] of 10 months (LDR) just broke up and I'm very very very very sad and wants to move on.
POST: Me and my girlfriend met online and ever since, we are constantly using facebook and skype to communicate and I thought that we can make it through before we ... | I want to move on after a breakup with a girl that I really love. I want to be happy after what happened :(( I need some advices on what to do<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: I [21M] want my ex gf [19F] back. Wat do?
POST: Had a relationship with this girl for 8 months. A shitstorm happened and we decided to break up, but we do still have feelings for each other.
I've been direct and have asked her to be in a relationship with me again, but she is stubborn be... | I want my ex gf to be interested in me again. Should I play it cool and wait till she comes to me or should I take the initiative (have being rejected by her recently)?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[23/F] with my SO [29/M] of 3 1/2 yrs, not sure if relationship is in a dead end.
POST: I'm 23, and I've been with my man for about 3 and a half years, and it's... Well, it's not bad but it's not great. We've living together for just over 2 years. We've been having issues (domestic... | My SO is basically a roommate that I bicker with and very, very occasionally have sex with. Is it worth trying to reignite our flame, or should I leave him and just be single.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My daughters mom has gone into bitch-mode. What can I expect from going to court over our child?
POST: She's 8-months old. I'm a good father, she's a good mother. However recently she's been acting a little crazy, and quite frankly I'm a little worried about her mental state.
Since d... | Daughter's mom is threatening to take me to court because she wants more money out of me and is a bitch. What can I expect/do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/m]Trouble communicating with girlfriend [21/f], becomes defensive and/or infuriated
POST: everytime i try to talk to my girlfriend about something that is bothering me, she becomes pissed and starts a big argument about why im wrong and just being sensitive.
our latest ar... | girlfriend never admits fault and always blames the issues i have with her on me being too sensitive or being too critical. how do i communicate with a defensive person?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Practical people, help me out! I [28 f] want to move in with my boyfriend [28 m] of 3 years, but his rent is such a steal it seems silly to leave.
POST: I'm in a great relationship, woo! I know from experience this is hard to come by, and my boyfriend and I have been lucky enough to ... | boyfriend has cheap rent, i don't. We want to move in together, but it seems unreasonable for him to spend more while he's paying off debt.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: This guy (27M) has caught the feels for me (22F). Can you help me set boundaries?
POST: So I met this guy through an online fetish site, but when we talked neither of us brought up sex, which was weird. We decided to meet up and hang out, and turns out we have explosive sexual chemis... | Out of a 3 year relationship, not looking to rebound into a romantic relationship. Guy I have awesome sex with is catching the feels. Push for friends with benefits, or leave so the poor guy isn't as hurt later?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I started my first potentially serious relationship but can't shake really bad anxiety.
POST: [23/f] So I've always been really shy and used that, among other things, as an excuse for not starting a relationship sooner. Last week a guy (21/m) that I had been talking to for a few months ... | My first real relationship is causing me to develop some seriously bad anxiety that I've never experienced before. I'm trying to figure out how to tell my date, and what to do if it won't stop.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [25F] politely decline friendly invitations to hang out with male friends?
POST: Hi /r/relationships!
I have a lot more male friends than female friends, due to my hobbies and interests not being typical that of a girl's I guess. However, in my experience a lot of guys that... | How do I keep politely decline hanging out with friends who used to like me/had a one-night-stand with without coming off as a flaky person, due to wanting to respect my relationship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A tad confused as to where this might be going, if anywhere...
POST: So I met a guy on a night out about a month ago, he took my number and texted me the next day. Since he was a friend of a friend I texted back, normally guys I meet on drunken nights out I wouldn't bother texting ba... | Met a guy on a night out, blew him second and third date and am now convinced he just see's me as something to pass the time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Possibly found picture of boyfriend naked with another girl?
POST: I am a 19 year old female, boyfriend is 23 year old male and we have been together for 3 years. Throwaway. So I was on tumblr and was just...well, tumbling I guess, randomly clicking through blogs and whatnot wh... | BF-doppelganger in steamy embrace with tattoo-ed other female on tumblr. WHAT DO I DO?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is this girl [17] too shy to proceed or does she keep me [17M] only as a good friend?
POST: Hey, first-time asking for help here. So, straight to the point, I have been friends with this girl to whom I have had feelings at since the beginning, but as of right now it seems I am a some... | I have had feelings for a girl friend and I am unsure whether she likes me in that, please read my examples why I think so.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is true art?
POST: I've been thinking about this today. I'm always keen to work towards the top of Maslow's hierarchy of needs - self actualisation. I was thinking that although the idea of being a professional artist would be cool and possibly the closest to self actualisation fo... | Is it still art if you do it for a job? Or will pressure from customers stop you expressing yourself how you want.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: To the Redditor's out there who are just getting out of a long relationship: How do you get back into the dating scene?
POST: It has been 2 years since the break up and I cannot get back the confidence I once had to even flirt with a female. I am so self conscious about my personality an... | How the hell do I get back into the dating scene after a sexless and intimate less relationship that lasted 2 years that has left me extremely self conscious about my personality and body post break up.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 F] with a guy I'm talking to [19 M], should pursue or would it be too weird?
POST: So this summer I've been talking to/flirting with and hanging out with a friend of mine (let's call him Joe) that I've known since freshman year. He's already at college, and I'm going to the sa... | I like Joe, but dated and lost my virginity to his former best friend Bob. I'm afraid to pursue Joe because of any residual weirdness because of this. Is this a normal/valid fear?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] have been seeing someone [23 F] for a few weeks and am confused on where it's going
POST: So a few weeks ago i started seeing a girl, and she is amazing. Our first date we talked for hours, went on a walk, kissed, all the great stuff.
The issue and the confusion I am having... | Girl I am seeing and am extremely into seems a bit wishy washy on plans, could this just be her personality, or is this not really going anywhere?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] and my ex [25 M] officially called it quits a week ago, is it too soon to start doing what i want again..
POST: my ex and i finally called it quits officially a week ago and have only spoke once, so i feel theres definitely no coming back and i think I'm fine with it now af... | Officially single and ready to get back out there and live my life..or should i take time and just stay to myself?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [17F] talk about fidelity in my long distance relationship [18M]?
POST: I've been seeing him since September (it's been rocky & messy but we're in a good place now). We're in TX and NM, respectively. For the first 2 weeks it wasn't long-distance but now it will be until Augu... | how do I formally ask my long-distance SO for monogamy while acknowledging I've struggled with it in the past?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21 M) need some help with going forward post break up.
POST: If you'd like to know exactly what happened, feel free to view my post from a couple weeks ago.
I wrote her a letter in an attempt to gain some closure and to also gauge her feelings on the breakup. I honestly was hopin... | I am having a hard time moving on from memories, emotions, etc. and feel a sense of urgency because of it<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [22F] stop being that "suspicious girlfriend" of [22M]
POST: So, I've been dating this guy for about 6 months. We're in love, and I do trust him so much and things are going extremely well.
The only thing, is just tonight I was messaging a friend on his facebook when I ac... | Saw brief and potentially innocent message from girl on boyfriends facebook and I got extremely suspicious. How do I stop this??<|endoftext|> |
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