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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23M] Despite great first dates, they don't respond back to messages/calls, need some insight on why this is happening POST: So this past August, I recently moved to a new city (Portland, OR) and have been off and on the dating scene since. By that, I mean some weeks I'll be content ...	Despite really great first dates, I've been having bad luck getting 2nd dates to the point where they don't message/call back. Any clue to why this is happening?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am I an asshole, Reddit? POST: I haven't been involved with any girls at my school, and I blame that on me being shy and insecure for the most part. I do hook up with girls in my home town, but I haven't had a girlfriend in years. During my senior year in high school, I became very depre...	I have low self-esteem and use women to make myself feel better. Only it doesn't work. Am I fucked up, or just an asshole?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit,Have you ever found someone who was mean to you in the past just to see that karma got them back for you? POST: Writing this now because I recently found the older sister of this guy i knew on facebook, Said guy and I used to be pretty good friends till i realized he was a spoiled...	Older girl punches me in face as kid because her brother stole my game, Get's pregnant twice and has crappy education.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Roommate Situation POST: Ok so here it goes, I'm a freshmen in college and I just moved in a few days ago. When I moved in I met my roommate for the first time. He seemed cool and we got along well. the first night when I returned from the gym, he had a bunch of random people I've never ...	my roomate starting dealing weed on the 2nd day of school now hes getting into really hard stuff. I'm worried that if he gets busted i could go down to. I need some tips on how I can get out of this<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32/F] with my Mom [56/F], who told my sister [26/F] she wouldn't accept my kids as her grandkids ('cause I'm gay). POST: My mother is a very religious (born-again/speaking-in-tongues type) Christian. I've known since I came out that she was very against me being gay. I used to ...	My Mom told my sister she wouldn't accept my/my partner's kids as her grandkids, 'cause we gay.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Insecure in relationship with my girlfriend [20F] and with myself [22M] POST: Dating an incredible girl for 5 months now. She's not out of my league, we're both about equal social status and direction of life. But, I am incredibly insecure about it any I can't pinpoint why. I have y...	I'm aware my anxiety in relationships is irrational, but I want to address it (not with her) and get to the bottom of it before it destroys my relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: HUGE SV - Still a long way to go POST: Hello R/Loseit, I have been lurking through this subreddit for about a month and using all these posts as motivation and inspiration for myself. I stepped on the scale this morning for my bi-weekly weigh in and couldn't believe my eyes! I even had to m...	Really fat guy lost 17 pounds in 4 weeks through diet of a nutritionist and couch to 5k program with lighter exercising on days off.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] with my bf [18 M] coping with jealousy! POST: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months. He's the most amazing person ever, very smart and I know he's faithful. But he's currently visiting family and there's a female roommate involved, she keeps hitting on him! ...	Bf visiting family, female roommate keeps hitting on him. How do I cope with jealous/pissed feelings?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend of 4 months (20) being very serious about relationship with me (21) talking about marriage and I'm not huge on it POST: Hi all, So my girlfriend keeps bringing up marriage and our future together, things like that. She sees me as the person she wants to marry in future. ...	gf talking about future. I don't really think about my future with her or want to talk about it. Am I wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Nor sure how to handle this situation. POST: So, I [24M] have been with this girl [21F] on and off for close to a year. She was always going back to her ex boyfriend that treated her like dirt. I finally decided enough is enough and told her the last time she came back to me that thi...	Caught my girl on her exes Facebook picture album. Not sure how I should approach it, or if it's a non-issue.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (22/F) have been dating my boyfriend (24/M) for a year and a half. My love language is quality time. Having a hard time explaining it. POST: Hey Reddit, I love my boyfriend to death and I have no other real complaints about our relationship other than the fact that my love l...	My boyfriend doesn't understand what quality time is. He thinks being in the same room means that we are spending quality time together. How do I explain this in a way he understands?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (27f) with parents (late 50s m/f) and cousin (late 30s?m). I don't want to attend cousins wedding because of how he treated me in the past. Not sure how to bring it up with mother. POST: So I have a male cousin (late thirties/early forties) whom I've never liked because of how he ...	I refuse to go to my cousins wedding because of his past actions towards me. How do I justify it to my mom if she starts nagging me about it without getting into the nitty gritty details of why I refuse to go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to make a dog stop barking all night long? [specific situation included] POST: Hey guys and gals, quick question regarding a noisy dog: My girlfriend and I are dog-sitting this house, and it requires us to spend the night at the house with the dogs (4 of them) for the next few weeks...	House-sitting with an annoying dog and need to find a way to quit it from barking and whining all night long. Solutions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/m] I'm still not over her [20/f] POST: We met in high school. I was a severe loner and honestly never had that much socail contact with people ever. She' started talking to me first and she was the one who asked me out on the date. We were together for two years. It w...	my girlfriend of two years,of my first ever relationship, left me a little more than a year ago, and I still have trouble coping with it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: My boss thinks my team is un-fit to tackle this project POST: Before I start I'm no big leader of a famous company were just a small and up coming indie game development company now some background a few months ago my little team of coders/devs etc came together actually wanting...	Boss comes out of hiding for 3 weeks and says we lack the skills to make such a huge game I plan on proving him wrong<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] my girldfriend (23/f) asked for a break, to cool off, but stuff got wierd. POST: Since i can't talk about it to anyone in RL so i am asking here. I will start with some background. We are together for 4 something years and we had a good time and we spent most of that t...	GF asked for a break. I told her that if she sleeps with someone we are done. Found out she is making plans. Asked her about it.She is denying it. I am going crazy<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26M] with my [22 F] of 1 months, is still in contact with hew FWB. Is this a red flag? POST: I started dating this girl in January and due to some differences we broke up after two months. About a month ago, we realized how stupid we acted and decided to get back together. We've ...	Dating a girl and she still contacts her old FWB. Is this a red flag? Could there be something going on between them?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Infidelity] I'm [21M] bothered by my girlfriend [20F] always hanging out with guys alone and something strange happened today POST: I've only been in one other relationship and I have no idea how to handle this. We've been together for 6 months and lately she's been hanging out with...	girlfriend is hanging out with guys alone. Not sure if some of the things shes doing should be raising red flags or if I'm just paranoid.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend of almost 3 years (24f) just left me (26m) after discovering a flirty text between myself and a female coworker, she's accusing me of cheating. POST: Thank you to anyone who takes the time to reply, last night, after discovering a flirty text conversation between myself...	girlfriend of 3 years left after finding a flirty conversation i had with another woman, accused me of cheating and doesn't believe that I had no physical relationship with this other person. How do i proceed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Girlfriend breaks up with me to be with one of my best friends. POST: My girlfriend of over a year (we also dated in high school for nine months, with over a year in between where we dated other people) just broke up with me. She is 19, I am 20. She says she still loves me, but that she...	Girlfriend dumps me for some asshole who happened to be one of my best friends. Don't know what to do with my life, or to continue it at all.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Small Cap Investing POST: Hello /r/personalfinance I recently started investing in a ROTH IRA. I am a 23 years old poor college student that intends to max out his IRA this year (for all those wondering how, 100 dollars every week and a little extra after christmas will get you t...	What should a young man do with the domestic equity portion of his portfolio, Total stock funds? Small Cap funds? A mix? What would you do? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my good friend [20 F] 21st birthday party invite snub POST: This might be petty to some, but please hear me out: It has come to my attention that someone who I would have considered one of my best friends freshman year of college (yes I am attracted to her romantical...	got drunk, pushed a friend, apologized, quit drinking unbeknownst to friend, not invited to friend's birthday party, roommate who is barely friends with friend invited though. Pissed<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] am nervous about coming out to my parents about my [24M] boyfriend that has a child. POST: Some background: Me and my boyfriend met at work a little over a year ago when I was 17 and he was 23, we pursued a relationship in September, and I have been hiding it all of this time...	I am going to tell my parents about my boyfriend and I don't know how to explain to them that he has a child.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] My best friend of 20 years blocked me for talking to his ex girlfriend. Thinks I'm making a pass at her. POST: Original Thread: Wow. WOW. he sent me a text this morning to the effect that I had a "history" of being attracted to his girlfriends (I do not) and that he se...	Best friend of 20 years is no longer talking to me because he believes I'm trying to have sex with his ex girlfriend and has blocked all evidence to the contrary.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Shooting muscle spasm feeling pain in little toe and back of calf. POST: I came home from work and all of a sudden I had this shooting pain in my left foot little toe. When I say shooting pain, it makes my leg move the pain hurts so bad, but it only does this for a few seconds every 15 min...	toe has sudden shooting pain with skin burning sensitivity to the touch. pain wakes me up, last few second comes back every 15 minutes to half hour. Skin sensitivity on middle center calf upon touch as well.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: so everything is awkward POST: So my boyfriend (26/m)and I(27/f) have been dating for over a year now and we have had our ups and downs as any relationship. There's just one little thing that keeps occurring to me and bothering me that i can't get over. We both have friends of both ...	my boyfriends mom seems hung on the idea of him dating his female best friend even though she and I are both happy in our relationships and its awkward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: My younger brother is overly attached to our mother, I am afraid he has some Oedipus complex. POST: My younger brother (recently turned 15) is overly attached to our mother. He recently grew taller and he looks very similar to my dad. He isn't taller than me (19), but I think he will ou...	My brother is overly attached to his mother, he calls her cutie and lisps. More info in text.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Wife and I want to save 20% of our gross income for retirement - does it matter how we allocate this between the two of us? POST: As the title states, my wife and I want to save 20% of our gross income for retirement, not including any employer match contributions. Combined we make...	when saving for retirement as a married couple, does it matter if the savings rate is skewed towards one spouse? Is there any risk for the other spouse that is not contributing as much?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Telling parents about social anxiety disorder? POST: I'm 15 years old and I've been reading up on social anxiety disorder. In school, whenever I even so much as think about a question, my heart rate goes up at least twofold. With that comes along trembling and slight lightheadedness. Whenever...	How do I get my doctor-hating parents to help with my social anxiety disorder. Try to be as specific as possible (I'm not good in social situations :P)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Does she (26F) like me (25F)? POST: Hey guys, I've hung out a few times with this girl I recently met, and am really starting to dig her. I'm not sure if the feeling is mutual. Some pros: 1. After first date, she agreed to meet again, said it was great getting to know me. Invited m...	Into this girl, not sure if she likes me. All signs point to yes except that she is slow to text or doesn't respond at all.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 F] with my boyfriend [18 M] 3 months, My boyfriend is becoming depressed, and I don't know how to help. POST: My boyfriend and I have only been dating for approximately 3 months, but we've been good friends for over 2 years. I know from the past, while being in a platonic rela...	My boyfriend of 3 months is falling into a slight depression about leaving for college in about a month; how can I help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: whats the most severe thing you've ever discovered incidentally while looking for something completely unrelated. POST: when i was 8 I was playing basketball and tweaked my ankle really bad to the point where it couldn't support any weight. We go to the hospital and they Xray the ankle/f...	If I hadn't had sprained my ankle and got an Xray, my heel would have randomly collapsed on me at some point in my childhood and I would never be able to walk normally again.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, My parents think I'm talking to a "psycho" that I met online in a chat room. Which one of us is being irrational here? POST: So I met this girl online in one of the various popular chat rooms on this magical land of the "internet" and since I met her (Known her for about three we...	Met a girl online, parents dont seem to think its a good idea to keep talking to her. I say otherwise. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend still friends with his ex who cheated on him? POST: I don't know how to deal with it. They dated for about 4-5 years and she ended up cheating on him with some shady guy, and really broke his heart. Then he told me they hooked up a little while after that, and then h...	boyfriend still wants to be friends with his ex gf of 5 years, even though she is a passive aggressive, disrespectful person, who consistently show signs of still liking him, and I don't understand it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [28/m] Pursue->Catch->Release - Not ready? Too picky? Or something else? POST: Hi everyone. So. I have a problem. A girl gains my attention. I pursue. I gain her attention. Soon enough I look for problems and lose all interest.... until months later and I think "damn. Why didn'...	I like a girl until she likes me, then I start to turn off her. Don't like this, and perhaps if I better understood why then I could change it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] fell for a girl [22F] 3 days before I move home for good. POST: I just graduated college on Saturday (wohoo!) and I'll be moving back home which is about 5 hours away. The problem is that 3 days ago my friend set me up with a girl that I've had a crush on for a long time. It...	I found out the girl of my dreams likes me 3 days ago and now I'm moving 5 hours away. She lives fairly close to where I'm moving back but still has another year of college.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my spouse[23 M] been married 5 years. I want out he does not. POST: Its hard to write this but idk what else to do. We met at 17 and where married by 18 our first few years where rough. He was in the military and always gone and I was young a niave. I wanted a divorc...	I want out, he does not. How to I go about this? (Sorry for the mess, I am all over the place)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How did you deal with a drug addict? POST: I want to know if any of you have ever dealt with someone close to you or someone you care about deeply getting into drugs. Specifically heroin. My ex [M] who I dated for four years and broke up with six months ago, I recently found out has bee...	Found out ex has been using heroin, I want to help, but I don't know how to go about it or if it would even be a good idea.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is an event in your life that happened that just seemed to have the worst timing ever? Recent Example follows POST: So I've been dating this girl for a while and it has been going well. We went out to eat and I got sick from the food last night. The plan for the next day was for ...	Got sick with the runs (it is a flu now), girl breaks up with me right before she heads to church. Hours later, I have a fever and a hilarious text from ex-gf<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By Not Putting The Phone Down Correctly. POST: Reddit. Dear, dear Reddit. Today i fucked up. I work in administration, i have many calls daily. However today i let the Darwin Disaster of 'Auto Pilot' take over. I was asked by a customer to be put through to their sales representative, w...	Thought i put phone down, didn't. Many insults were had, scraped away with a final written warning as it was Christmas<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [20, M], still hangs out with his ex-emotionally/physically abusive gf, wants to bring her to hangouts. What do? POST: My friend's ex has a tonne of issues - between being basically bipolar and mostly depressed, she isnt't exactly pleasant. She would constantly guilt him fo...	friend's abusive ex still has her claws in friend, am I being selfish by not wanting to hang around her when we're going out to eat?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [46 M] with my son [19 M] 18 years, he hid long term relationship with 21M from me. They got married. UPDATE 2 POST: First post: TL;DR:	They got married. Husband and kid weren't invited and are angry. How do I help Alex and my family handle this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my Mother [49F] I don't know how to tell her that I don't want to visit for Thanksgiving without hurting her feelings. POST: Please bare with me as this is my first post. Let me know if something doesn't make sense and I'll be happy to explain. My family, which includ...	My mother wants me to spend thanksgiving at her house but my family would prefer not to travel and have thanksgiving at our home. How do I tell her without her getting cranky?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My sister(5) thinks my mother loves me (24F) more than her. POST: I was 19 when my sister was born. When she was two, I moved to the US for college. Since then I have only seen her twice, on both occasions she and my mum came to see me. However, we speak to each other all the time on...	so my younger sister think my mum loves me more than her, and she cries about it all the time. They both live together back home, but I am in the US for school.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How does my [F/25] SO [M/24] "break up" with a childhood friend [F/22] POST: Hi all - asking for my SO as he doesn't use reddit and I'd like to be able to offer some good advice to him but I'm stumped. My SO has decided he no longer wants to be friends with a woman, Sarah, he has kn...	SO wants to stop spending time with a childhood friend's sister, not sure how to proceed with "friend breaking up" with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How has your attempt to help a stranger backfired? POST: Tday after university, I get to my car and notice another guys engine wont start, so I decide to go see if I can help, park up next to him and get out the jumper cables. My first mistake was handing over the cables to him instead o...	Tried to help a guy jump start his car, but instead he may have caused damage to both his car and mine.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] had to enter an LDR w/ my [29M] boyfriend, we've managed to make it through 1 year but time away is taking it's toll on 2.5 years of together POST: I guess by many other people's standards 50 miles is not "long distance" but neither of us drive and I stay here for the majorit...	entered a serious relationship at 19, left for university and finding it hard to think of reasons to stay after 2.5 years.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30M] with my GF [29F] 3yrs, have been drifting apart for months, I've met someone new and got "that feeling" POST: Myself and my girlfriend have been together a little over 3 years and have been living together for most of that time. For about the past year we have been drifting ...	Been thinking about calling things off with GF, this has been compounded by the fact that I may be in love with someone new. Any advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] have a huge crush on my roommate [25 F] of one month, we get along great but don't know how to make a move? POST: Hi, I've had someone move in with me in a 2 bed unit, instantly got along and really attracted to her. We sat up one night talking after work and really seemed ...	Really like my roommate, looking for a way to sense her interest, and ideally propose a relationship after the correct amount of time, with the least fallout possible if it's not what she is after.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Troubled Boxer HELP! Need Advice POST: Here's the story, my family has been looking for a Boxer for about 3 months. We have previous Boxer-owning experience and know we love the breed. After a few breed confusions and other issues, we found an 11month dog on CL. We brought him home around ...	Got a Boxer off CraigsList, person lied or omitted (surprised?) now need to decide to keep him or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, my best friend's mom is dying of cancer... POST: Reddit, my best friend's mom is dying of cancer, probably sometime this week. The whole family just got together this past weekend to say their last goodbyes to her. This is her 3rd battle with cancer and unfortunately, this one to...	I want find a cheap wine/comfort food gift basket to send my best friend whose mother is dying of cancer within the next week.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think I am falling for my friends boyfriend?! POST: I am f(18) and he is M(17). His girlfriend is (15). His girlfriend and I are really good friends, for nearly 2 years. I really honestly care about her. Her bf and I are also friends and have been for maybe a year? Her and her boyf...	My friend has an awesome boyfriend, they are going through hard time and I think I am falling for him. Help!!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Cheap rental car tip for underage drivers POST: Not sure if this has been posted about before, but I couldn't find anything when searching for it. Anyways, I recently booked a rental car for my trip to San Francisco. I originally started looking at Budget, and for just one night my rental...	sign up for USAA for free if you are an underage driver, the underage surcharge will be waived and you can find HUGE savings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [23 F] been dating a guy [29 M] for two months who has had only one partner but my sex life is more colorful POST: I used to be very conservative myself but that all changed in the past year when I broke up with my long term ex. At first I was basically celibate for 5 months, th...	For the past 6 months I've been having sex with people like it's going out of style. Met a guy with only one partner ever. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: GF [24f] insists I [28M] use condoms even though she has IUD POST: I have been dating my current girlfriend for 4 months, officially a couple for 2 months. When we started dating, she had an IUD put in her and has had it there since. Our original plan was to get tested for STDs and t...	GF wants me to keep using condoms even though we are officially a couple, she has an IUD, and we are STD free. Should this be a big deal or not to me if I don't want to?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] w/ my 1st GF [22 F] of 2 weeks, unsure about it.. POST: Hello, I met her in October and was immediately fascinated by her. She has a great personality, is very pretty and I just knew okay, she could be the one. So far so good, we started going out, it was very complic...	learned that gf is a virgin and extremely self conscious. Want it to work, but it's frustrating so far.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20F] being hit on by my former teacher/coach [35?M]? POST: I met this person because he was student teaching for my AP history class when I was in high school, and he also was an assistant coach for the track team, which I was a part of. I just finished my junior year of coll...	Former teacher asked me to go floating on the river, now wants to know if I like dancing. Is this more than it seems? What do I say now that I have already kinda agreed, but I am 100% uninterested?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm[25f] VERY interested in my male friend's best friend, but.. POST: It's been such a long time since I felt this way about a person, that I had forgotten what it was like. I could extrapolate, but it's probably just your typical crush situation. He (24m - let's call him "Paul") is ...	My close friend might have feelings for me and I DEFINITELY have feelings for his best friend. Can I pursue without being a huge, gaping asshole? How?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend wants to be friends for a while... POST: I (M18) have been dating a (F18) for about 3 months now, I have known her for about 3 years though, and we are pretty close. She has recently gotten a job, and has been struggling to juggle around her job and our relationship, as we...	girlfriend is swamped with school relationship and work, and just wants to be friends for now, how do I handle this?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with [20 M] - Mixed signals galore. POST: Throwaway because dude in question browses Reddit. This certainly isn't as serious as the other problems on this sub, but it's been gnawing at my mind forever now, and I felt like I might as well just make a post on here. I've nev...	Boy has said he is interested, but doesn't really show it via communication, at least, not as much as he used to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend (17F) cheated on me (17M) by making out with another guy while Blackout drunk, we have been going out almost three years. POST: So my girlfriend likes to drink, she always went to parties and drank a reasonable amount without any issues. One summer night she went to party ...	= Girlfriend made out with another guy while black out drunk. She has no memory of it. It is depressing me and idk what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: If/when to say "I love you"? -- The phrase that can make or break a relationship. POST: I've been with my girlfriend for ~3.5 months now. She is 19, I am 21. The entire time, the relationship has been nothing short of perfect. We get along perfectly, we share lots of interests, we co...	I'm not sure when it's best to say "I love you." How do you know if you really love someone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [22F] cheated on me [21M] while abroad. I have chosen to try and forgive her. Advice please? POST: She cheated on me with a guy and gave him head. Of course I am utterly devastated. However, she is extremely sorry, our relationship is strong (almost 4 years) and I know ...	girlfriend cheat, I chose to try and forgive her. Should I ask her to come home? How do I forgive her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [34/F] boyfriend [35/M] of 2.5 years wants us to mess around with others while I'm gone for a month. POST: In a week and a half, I leave for a trip for five weeks. We have been going back and forth on opening things up to extracurricular sex while I'm gone, but when I really imagi...	My boyfriend wants us to sleep around while I'm gone for five weeks. When I agree to this, I lose my feelings for him. He says it's for his self-esteem. I need some perspective. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice on Me [19 M] actively dealing with getting over my ex [20 F] (2 months) POST: Last year I met a girl who was coming to my University in England for a year (some form of foreign study program). We met through playing DnD together and near the end of march she got drunk and aske...	I broke up with my first girlfriend 4 months ago when she moved back to America and I don't know what I can do to help get over her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17/F] dad [51/F] got into a fight with my sister [18/F] and left home. POST: This is sort of a delayed post, because this happened over a month ago, (I wish I posted to this sub earlier when it happened but I honestly had no clue a sub like this existed.) anyways. About a month ...	Sister and dad fought over money, dad left, came back not acknowledging anything that happened, these cases happened before want to prevent it from happening again. Family doesn't know how to communicate their feelings. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] struggling to make any meaningful friendships at University POST: A bit of background about myself - I've always struggled to make friends all throughout my life and never really had more than 1-2 friends at any point in time. I consider myself to be socially awkward and I ...	Socially awkward guy - How can I improve my social skills and become more outgoing? Atm I'm very lonely and often feel depressed at times.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making my parents think i'm a crackhead POST: happened a while back but thought it was funny i was at the park, it was a park about 6 blocks away from my house around 9 pm - 10 pm. i was smoking X with a friend of mine their under the pavilion, where we would always go to smoke. wel...	smoked out of a can, racist lady called my parents and said i was smoking crack, calmed my parents down, ate funyuns and masturbated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My sister (28F) and I (30F) do not want to invite our mother (50F) to our weddings next year. We need insight on how to navigate the situation. POST: My mother and I have never really had a great relationship. She is emotionally and verbally abusive to us kids and it has only gotten ...	My sister and I don't want to invite our alcoholic, abusive, estranged mother to our weddings - how do we manage this with the least explosive reaction?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[25M] found an image on instagram of my gf[22F] that is likely innocuous but troubles me. POST: So yesterday I added my gf of 3 months to my instagram. We both rarely use social media, which is why I haven't added her before. I was looking through her pictures and decided to click o...	Found pictures that are probably of my girlfriend being platonically affectionate with her gay friend during a secret santa, but I'm not 100% sure and it's making my stupid boyfriend brain panic<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: friends say I have "impostor syndrome" (physically and mentally) any thoughts? POST: Mostly a throw-away account, and I'm sorry if this is in the wrong subreddit, there are way too many that I'm sure I don't know about, I suppose this might belong elsewhere. Anyway two of my closest (and onl...	I'm almost thirty and haven't done anything with my life, my friends think I see myself wrong, and that I don't internalize accomplishments.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling my ex where to go. POST: TIFU at a party. It was late in the night and one of the guys from my team had just shown up with his girlfriend (my ex) and her friend. (Side note: he started dating my ex like a week after we broke up and didn't tell me till 2 months later). So as we...	Told my ex to fuck off when she was being aggressive and her bf, my supposed friend hits me in the face.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26F] think I'm on a revenge website. POST: I think I may be on one of those revenge websites,but I can't remember the name of it. Background: When I was 22 I met this guy, who was 23. We messed around for maybe 2 months before I realized he was clinically ill (delusional, patholo...	I think a crazy ex put me on a local revenge website, I can't remember the name of the website so I can check for myself. Please help. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [39 M] with my spouse [39 M] of 12 years, different anger/discussion thresholds. POST: My spouse and I have a challenging ongoing dynamic. When he is upset about something that happens - not between us - and we are discussing it, he gets loud and intense. This can be from somethi...	Spouses have majorly different thresholds for expressing anger. Have others dealt with this and found a better way to deal with each other.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] am being accused of pouring water on my sister [17F] laptop and my mother is certain I did it (But I didn't!) POST: I know this may seem ridiculous and petty, mainly because it is. My mother came into my bedroom and said there's water on her laptop, do you know how it got the...	Mom 100% sure that I poured water on sister's laptop, but I didn't and she's treating me like a sick child.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (23/f) afraid people in my life won't take my condition seriously. What can I do? POST: I'm a 23/f that just was diagnosed with Trigeminal Neuralgia. Basically, it's extreme pain in the face and whole left side of my head. To make this short, I have good days and bad days. Every ...	Just diagnosed with a condition that really affects my daily life. I don't know how to explain this to others and I'm afraid it's going to make things even more complicated for me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] tinder friend [29M] of one month is giving me weird vibes POST: So I started on tinder at the advice of a friend, and immediately hit it off with this guy—I will call him Brian for the purpose of this post (not his real name). So Brian really seems to like me and I like him...	I met a guy on tinder and we hit it off but recently its become a little weird and I have doubts. How do I proceed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: One of my (21F) boyfriends (24M) of 7 months becomes angry and unresponsive for periods of hours to weeks, then acts like nothing happens. I know he is struggling with depression but it freaks me out every time! POST: Hi! If this title is confusing, it's because I'm polyamorous, but ...	My boyfriend-thing has no clue how much it upsets me when he disappears in a possibly depression-fueled anger and then resurfaces. How do I explain this to him? Am I justified?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Non-Romantic] I[19F] am constantly anxious that my best friend[24F] of 3 years is going to replace me/dump me/etc POST: Throwaway for privacy reasons, I hope I'm posting this to an appropriate subreddit. The title is self-explanatory, I think. My best friend and I met in 2012, and ...	I have constant anxiety (and subsequent guilt) that my (great) best friend hates me/will dump me/replace me; what do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [45F] with my __75 & 81 year old friends_ of six years. A story of perspective. And a question of how to...what to say...to a person facing their own mortality. POST: I'm a 45 female trainer who manages community center gym for six years. These people I have known since I started...	those with experience facing their own mortality, or those who have dealt with loved ones who are, what do you want others to say?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [F26] tell my boyfriend [M28] about my sexual history with a friend? POST: To start off, I will say I am a pretty sexual person and have had a fair number of casual sexual partners, some of whom are good friends of mine. most of These casual relationships had absolutely no e...	Used to hookup casually with a friend who is befriending my current SO. Is it worth it or a good idea to bring it up to my SO?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I don't get sad when people close to me pass away. Does this make me a bad person? POST: Okay backstory. Recently in my life there have been 3 sudden deaths (all occurring within the past 3 months). My grandmother passed away exactly 3 months ago quite suddenly and it didn't ma...	2 of my grandmothers and grandfather have both passed away recently. I haven't felt sad once and my family ridicules me for this. Am i a bad person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28M] with my Girlfriend[20F] 1 month, having trouble interpreting some sexual behaviour. POST: First, some quick details: This is a long distance relationship We have known each other for 10+ years, but have only become interested in each other within the past 2-3 months. I'm go...	I want to know if it is a bad sign that a 20 year old girl is not as active or reciprocal in bed as I would like or normally expect.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: How often do you run? POST: (FYI, I'm 36 y/o, female, and slightly overweight but quite strong) So I'm week 8 of the C25K and LOVING IT and I know I don't want to stop at 5k. I've already got my eye on an 8k in October, and a 10k in April -- and I don't just want to finish those, I want t...	How many days per week should I be running if I want to build up my speed and endurance to be able to run a 10k in 55 minutes?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to fix a fan with superglue POST: So it being summer, it's starting to get hot where I live. My new fan had just broke so I had to bust out an old fan from my garage. The last time I used it, I broke spinning "hub cap" covering the center of the fan off by pushing a large scre...	I tried to super glue a piece of a fan back on, turned on the fan prematurely and sprayed my self with small drops of superglue<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Breaking up over a speeding ticket? POST: Alright, I'll start off with some background info. Boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months and up until this point things have been great. I'm a law enforcement dispatcher who aspires to be an officer one day and he's an EMT/fir...	Boyfriend got a speeding ticket, I said "sucks, but cop is doing his job", now he wants to break up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] with my ex-gf [28 F] of 10 years ago, confused at the current situation. POST: My distant ex (I'll call her A) and I dated 10 years ago for about a year. We broke up for young college students reasons that aren't really relevant anymore. Over the years we would see each ot...	We broke up 10 years ago but stayed in contact over the years. Since about 2 weeks ago we've been hanging out and texting a lot. Should we clarify the situation? Should we just let it go and see what happens?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can Anyone Help Me Find A Judge Joe Brown Episode from 2010? POST: Hey Reddit. Last year my friends were on the show, [Judge Joe Brown] The episode aired on 5/04/2010. The episode should be #2672, but that is not 100% confirmed. Here is the full description "A man claims he loaned money...	Friends on Judge Joe Brown on 5/04/2010, Episode #2672, Description "a man fights a noise violation ticket" Help me find it, please. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my co-worker [27 F] were close but are now drifting apart POST: So this all started just about a year ago. She had just started working at the company that I work at and started in my room. We started talking and hit it off immediately. We would talk for hours while at...	Met an amazing girl at work, started spending tons of time with girl, girl breaks up with boyfriend, start getting closer, then she talks to ex again and now she is getting very distant.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Wow I'm pretty scared off at this point. Running for them hills. [RANT] POST: Dating a guy for 1 MONTH! Ready to run for the hills. Throwing in the white flag. The towel. Hell the entire set of towels. Back-story: Met him through friends. Thought he was amazing. Told me he w...	Wowed by lack of communication, outright lies, and overall disgusted my decision to date him. Breaking it off tomorrow. Giving up dating for awhile.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24, M] had a great first date with her [23, F] and we scheduled a 2nd. She cancelled and said we have to reschedule. POST: Hi, As the title says, I met this great girl on a relationship focused dating site and we had a great first date. It lasted hours, was effortless, smooth and...	great date, made the second date on the spot. She cancelled haven't rescheduled yet. Move on? Send a gentle nudge text? Send a specific date and time for another date? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18M] broke up with my girlfriend [18] of 5 months, I don't know why even though I think I did the right thing. POST: I just got home from breaking up with my girlfriend. I know I'm young but I've gone through a lot of relationship experience and turmoil but this is new for me. This...	I broke up with my perfect girlfriend because I was anxious that I couldn't live up to how much amazing she was, and I don't know if it was a good idea or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by almost setting a forest on fire POST: In my neighborhood there is a park which has a large forest area that goes on for a few miles. Me and my friend were going through the pyro phase at the time as we had found a few lighters in the forest, we started out by wrapping a small section ...	Me and my friend being dumb about fires almost lit a forest on fire and got the cops called on us. Father arrived unexpectedly in the nick of time to prevent everything. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: This weekend I screwed up my interview... POST: I'm shit with names, always have been, good with faces though. So A local company did a presentation at my college about openings and I thought " Okay I should apply..." I washed my most recent application of any references to company "A" and ga...	Refereed to my interviewer as Bob, (his co worker's name) when his is in fact named Joe. He kept a very straight face.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (M15) complicated relationship with (F15) has pretty much been destroyed by me. POST: I am a M15 who has an extremely complicated friendship with my best friend F15 and this is how it all started. Last year during early summer I was set up with this girl (I'll call her Anne) we we...	I M15 kissed my best friend F15. She no longer speakers or listens to me. What can I do to tell her I want nothing more than to keep my bestfriend<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling a nice old lady how to do her job POST: This FU happened a few weeks ago but I only shared it with my friends yesterday, and due to their reaction, we all felt it deserved to be posted here. I work in an office in the town and for my break I would walk to the shop to get a co...	Cashier purposely gave me double points on my loyalty card, only for me to correct her within earshot of her boss<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [18 F] not sure if staying with my boyfriend [19 M] of a year and a half is wise. POST: So my boyfriend and I met in high school and began dating right as he went off 6 hours away to college. Long distance wasn't too bad, and he came home about once every month or two to see me a...	long distance relationship is getting hard to deal with but I love the guy, should I stay? And if I shouldn't, how do I limit the pain he feels from a breakup?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Origin of username: Reddit, where did yours come from? POST: I'll go first, but here's some info on a favorite snack of mine: [Peanut Butter & Jelly Sandwich]( With that mentioned, on to my story: Long ago in another dead end job far, far away, there was talk of changing the menu for al...	Was hoping for PB&J sandwiches, was not made with PB&J, ended up being something I wasn't expecting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what do you know about Physical Therapy? POST: * What do you think a physical therapist does/what's the purpose of their work? * Do you know of any misconceptions about Physical Therapy? * What are some interesting sub-specialties you know of? * How many years of schooling d...	Just spew out your general knowledge on Physical Therapy. I need help with these questions for a survey, you *do not* have to be in the field to answer.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] and my boyfriend [23M] don't ever make out, and I feel like i don't get enough affection. POST: We've been together several months and i've fallen head over heels for him. But we don't kiss or make out and its really bumming me out. at the start of the date, i get a peck on...	Whenever I kiss my boyfriend beyond a peck on the lips, he either turns it into a hug or sex within 10 seconds.<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23M] Despite great first dates, they don't respond back to messages/calls, need some insight on why this is happening POST: So this past August, I recently moved to a new city (Portland, OR) and have been off and on the dating scene since. By that, I mean some weeks I'll be content ...	Despite really great first dates, I've been having bad luck getting 2nd dates to the point where they don't message/call back. Any clue to why this is happening?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am I an asshole, Reddit? POST: I haven't been involved with any girls at my school, and I blame that on me being shy and insecure for the most part. I do hook up with girls in my home town, but I haven't had a girlfriend in years. During my senior year in high school, I became very depre...	I have low self-esteem and use women to make myself feel better. Only it doesn't work. Am I fucked up, or just an asshole?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit,Have you ever found someone who was mean to you in the past just to see that karma got them back for you? POST: Writing this now because I recently found the older sister of this guy i knew on facebook, Said guy and I used to be pretty good friends till i realized he was a spoiled...	Older girl punches me in face as kid because her brother stole my game, Get's pregnant twice and has crappy education.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Roommate Situation POST: Ok so here it goes, I'm a freshmen in college and I just moved in a few days ago. When I moved in I met my roommate for the first time. He seemed cool and we got along well. the first night when I returned from the gym, he had a bunch of random people I've never ...	my roomate starting dealing weed on the 2nd day of school now hes getting into really hard stuff. I'm worried that if he gets busted i could go down to. I need some tips on how I can get out of this<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32/F] with my Mom [56/F], who told my sister [26/F] she wouldn't accept my kids as her grandkids ('cause I'm gay). POST: My mother is a very religious (born-again/speaking-in-tongues type) Christian. I've known since I came out that she was very against me being gay. I used to ...	My Mom told my sister she wouldn't accept my/my partner's kids as her grandkids, 'cause we gay.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Insecure in relationship with my girlfriend [20F] and with myself [22M] POST: Dating an incredible girl for 5 months now. She's not out of my league, we're both about equal social status and direction of life. But, I am incredibly insecure about it any I can't pinpoint why. I have y...	I'm aware my anxiety in relationships is irrational, but I want to address it (not with her) and get to the bottom of it before it destroys my relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: HUGE SV - Still a long way to go POST: Hello R/Loseit, I have been lurking through this subreddit for about a month and using all these posts as motivation and inspiration for myself. I stepped on the scale this morning for my bi-weekly weigh in and couldn't believe my eyes! I even had to m...	Really fat guy lost 17 pounds in 4 weeks through diet of a nutritionist and couch to 5k program with lighter exercising on days off.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] with my bf [18 M] coping with jealousy! POST: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months. He's the most amazing person ever, very smart and I know he's faithful. But he's currently visiting family and there's a female roommate involved, she keeps hitting on him! ...	Bf visiting family, female roommate keeps hitting on him. How do I cope with jealous/pissed feelings?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend of 4 months (20) being very serious about relationship with me (21) talking about marriage and I'm not huge on it POST: Hi all, So my girlfriend keeps bringing up marriage and our future together, things like that. She sees me as the person she wants to marry in future. ...	gf talking about future. I don't really think about my future with her or want to talk about it. Am I wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Nor sure how to handle this situation. POST: So, I [24M] have been with this girl [21F] on and off for close to a year. She was always going back to her ex boyfriend that treated her like dirt. I finally decided enough is enough and told her the last time she came back to me that thi...	Caught my girl on her exes Facebook picture album. Not sure how I should approach it, or if it's a non-issue.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (22/F) have been dating my boyfriend (24/M) for a year and a half. My love language is quality time. Having a hard time explaining it. POST: Hey Reddit, I love my boyfriend to death and I have no other real complaints about our relationship other than the fact that my love l...	My boyfriend doesn't understand what quality time is. He thinks being in the same room means that we are spending quality time together. How do I explain this in a way he understands?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (27f) with parents (late 50s m/f) and cousin (late 30s?m). I don't want to attend cousins wedding because of how he treated me in the past. Not sure how to bring it up with mother. POST: So I have a male cousin (late thirties/early forties) whom I've never liked because of how he ...	I refuse to go to my cousins wedding because of his past actions towards me. How do I justify it to my mom if she starts nagging me about it without getting into the nitty gritty details of why I refuse to go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to make a dog stop barking all night long? [specific situation included] POST: Hey guys and gals, quick question regarding a noisy dog: My girlfriend and I are dog-sitting this house, and it requires us to spend the night at the house with the dogs (4 of them) for the next few weeks...	House-sitting with an annoying dog and need to find a way to quit it from barking and whining all night long. Solutions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/m] I'm still not over her [20/f] POST: We met in high school. I was a severe loner and honestly never had that much socail contact with people ever. She' started talking to me first and she was the one who asked me out on the date. We were together for two years. It w...	my girlfriend of two years,of my first ever relationship, left me a little more than a year ago, and I still have trouble coping with it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: My boss thinks my team is un-fit to tackle this project POST: Before I start I'm no big leader of a famous company were just a small and up coming indie game development company now some background a few months ago my little team of coders/devs etc came together actually wanting...	Boss comes out of hiding for 3 weeks and says we lack the skills to make such a huge game I plan on proving him wrong<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] my girldfriend (23/f) asked for a break, to cool off, but stuff got wierd. POST: Since i can't talk about it to anyone in RL so i am asking here. I will start with some background. We are together for 4 something years and we had a good time and we spent most of that t...	GF asked for a break. I told her that if she sleeps with someone we are done. Found out she is making plans. Asked her about it.She is denying it. I am going crazy<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26M] with my [22 F] of 1 months, is still in contact with hew FWB. Is this a red flag? POST: I started dating this girl in January and due to some differences we broke up after two months. About a month ago, we realized how stupid we acted and decided to get back together. We've ...	Dating a girl and she still contacts her old FWB. Is this a red flag? Could there be something going on between them?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Infidelity] I'm [21M] bothered by my girlfriend [20F] always hanging out with guys alone and something strange happened today POST: I've only been in one other relationship and I have no idea how to handle this. We've been together for 6 months and lately she's been hanging out with...	girlfriend is hanging out with guys alone. Not sure if some of the things shes doing should be raising red flags or if I'm just paranoid.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend of almost 3 years (24f) just left me (26m) after discovering a flirty text between myself and a female coworker, she's accusing me of cheating. POST: Thank you to anyone who takes the time to reply, last night, after discovering a flirty text conversation between myself...	girlfriend of 3 years left after finding a flirty conversation i had with another woman, accused me of cheating and doesn't believe that I had no physical relationship with this other person. How do i proceed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Girlfriend breaks up with me to be with one of my best friends. POST: My girlfriend of over a year (we also dated in high school for nine months, with over a year in between where we dated other people) just broke up with me. She is 19, I am 20. She says she still loves me, but that she...	Girlfriend dumps me for some asshole who happened to be one of my best friends. Don't know what to do with my life, or to continue it at all.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Small Cap Investing POST: Hello /r/personalfinance I recently started investing in a ROTH IRA. I am a 23 years old poor college student that intends to max out his IRA this year (for all those wondering how, 100 dollars every week and a little extra after christmas will get you t...	What should a young man do with the domestic equity portion of his portfolio, Total stock funds? Small Cap funds? A mix? What would you do? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my good friend [20 F] 21st birthday party invite snub POST: This might be petty to some, but please hear me out: It has come to my attention that someone who I would have considered one of my best friends freshman year of college (yes I am attracted to her romantical...	got drunk, pushed a friend, apologized, quit drinking unbeknownst to friend, not invited to friend's birthday party, roommate who is barely friends with friend invited though. Pissed<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] am nervous about coming out to my parents about my [24M] boyfriend that has a child. POST: Some background: Me and my boyfriend met at work a little over a year ago when I was 17 and he was 23, we pursued a relationship in September, and I have been hiding it all of this time...	I am going to tell my parents about my boyfriend and I don't know how to explain to them that he has a child.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] My best friend of 20 years blocked me for talking to his ex girlfriend. Thinks I'm making a pass at her. POST: Original Thread: Wow. WOW. he sent me a text this morning to the effect that I had a "history" of being attracted to his girlfriends (I do not) and that he se...	Best friend of 20 years is no longer talking to me because he believes I'm trying to have sex with his ex girlfriend and has blocked all evidence to the contrary.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Shooting muscle spasm feeling pain in little toe and back of calf. POST: I came home from work and all of a sudden I had this shooting pain in my left foot little toe. When I say shooting pain, it makes my leg move the pain hurts so bad, but it only does this for a few seconds every 15 min...	toe has sudden shooting pain with skin burning sensitivity to the touch. pain wakes me up, last few second comes back every 15 minutes to half hour. Skin sensitivity on middle center calf upon touch as well.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: so everything is awkward POST: So my boyfriend (26/m)and I(27/f) have been dating for over a year now and we have had our ups and downs as any relationship. There's just one little thing that keeps occurring to me and bothering me that i can't get over. We both have friends of both ...	my boyfriends mom seems hung on the idea of him dating his female best friend even though she and I are both happy in our relationships and its awkward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: My younger brother is overly attached to our mother, I am afraid he has some Oedipus complex. POST: My younger brother (recently turned 15) is overly attached to our mother. He recently grew taller and he looks very similar to my dad. He isn't taller than me (19), but I think he will ou...	My brother is overly attached to his mother, he calls her cutie and lisps. More info in text.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Wife and I want to save 20% of our gross income for retirement - does it matter how we allocate this between the two of us? POST: As the title states, my wife and I want to save 20% of our gross income for retirement, not including any employer match contributions. Combined we make...	when saving for retirement as a married couple, does it matter if the savings rate is skewed towards one spouse? Is there any risk for the other spouse that is not contributing as much?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Telling parents about social anxiety disorder? POST: I'm 15 years old and I've been reading up on social anxiety disorder. In school, whenever I even so much as think about a question, my heart rate goes up at least twofold. With that comes along trembling and slight lightheadedness. Whenever...	How do I get my doctor-hating parents to help with my social anxiety disorder. Try to be as specific as possible (I'm not good in social situations :P)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Does she (26F) like me (25F)? POST: Hey guys, I've hung out a few times with this girl I recently met, and am really starting to dig her. I'm not sure if the feeling is mutual. Some pros: 1. After first date, she agreed to meet again, said it was great getting to know me. Invited m...	Into this girl, not sure if she likes me. All signs point to yes except that she is slow to text or doesn't respond at all.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 F] with my boyfriend [18 M] 3 months, My boyfriend is becoming depressed, and I don't know how to help. POST: My boyfriend and I have only been dating for approximately 3 months, but we've been good friends for over 2 years. I know from the past, while being in a platonic rela...	My boyfriend of 3 months is falling into a slight depression about leaving for college in about a month; how can I help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: whats the most severe thing you've ever discovered incidentally while looking for something completely unrelated. POST: when i was 8 I was playing basketball and tweaked my ankle really bad to the point where it couldn't support any weight. We go to the hospital and they Xray the ankle/f...	If I hadn't had sprained my ankle and got an Xray, my heel would have randomly collapsed on me at some point in my childhood and I would never be able to walk normally again.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, My parents think I'm talking to a "psycho" that I met online in a chat room. Which one of us is being irrational here? POST: So I met this girl online in one of the various popular chat rooms on this magical land of the "internet" and since I met her (Known her for about three we...	Met a girl online, parents dont seem to think its a good idea to keep talking to her. I say otherwise. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend still friends with his ex who cheated on him? POST: I don't know how to deal with it. They dated for about 4-5 years and she ended up cheating on him with some shady guy, and really broke his heart. Then he told me they hooked up a little while after that, and then h...	boyfriend still wants to be friends with his ex gf of 5 years, even though she is a passive aggressive, disrespectful person, who consistently show signs of still liking him, and I don't understand it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [28/m] Pursue->Catch->Release - Not ready? Too picky? Or something else? POST: Hi everyone. So. I have a problem. A girl gains my attention. I pursue. I gain her attention. Soon enough I look for problems and lose all interest.... until months later and I think "damn. Why didn'...	I like a girl until she likes me, then I start to turn off her. Don't like this, and perhaps if I better understood why then I could change it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] fell for a girl [22F] 3 days before I move home for good. POST: I just graduated college on Saturday (wohoo!) and I'll be moving back home which is about 5 hours away. The problem is that 3 days ago my friend set me up with a girl that I've had a crush on for a long time. It...	I found out the girl of my dreams likes me 3 days ago and now I'm moving 5 hours away. She lives fairly close to where I'm moving back but still has another year of college.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my spouse[23 M] been married 5 years. I want out he does not. POST: Its hard to write this but idk what else to do. We met at 17 and where married by 18 our first few years where rough. He was in the military and always gone and I was young a niave. I wanted a divorc...	I want out, he does not. How to I go about this? (Sorry for the mess, I am all over the place)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How did you deal with a drug addict? POST: I want to know if any of you have ever dealt with someone close to you or someone you care about deeply getting into drugs. Specifically heroin. My ex [M] who I dated for four years and broke up with six months ago, I recently found out has bee...	Found out ex has been using heroin, I want to help, but I don't know how to go about it or if it would even be a good idea.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is an event in your life that happened that just seemed to have the worst timing ever? Recent Example follows POST: So I've been dating this girl for a while and it has been going well. We went out to eat and I got sick from the food last night. The plan for the next day was for ...	Got sick with the runs (it is a flu now), girl breaks up with me right before she heads to church. Hours later, I have a fever and a hilarious text from ex-gf<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By Not Putting The Phone Down Correctly. POST: Reddit. Dear, dear Reddit. Today i fucked up. I work in administration, i have many calls daily. However today i let the Darwin Disaster of 'Auto Pilot' take over. I was asked by a customer to be put through to their sales representative, w...	Thought i put phone down, didn't. Many insults were had, scraped away with a final written warning as it was Christmas<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [20, M], still hangs out with his ex-emotionally/physically abusive gf, wants to bring her to hangouts. What do? POST: My friend's ex has a tonne of issues - between being basically bipolar and mostly depressed, she isnt't exactly pleasant. She would constantly guilt him fo...	friend's abusive ex still has her claws in friend, am I being selfish by not wanting to hang around her when we're going out to eat?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [46 M] with my son [19 M] 18 years, he hid long term relationship with 21M from me. They got married. UPDATE 2 POST: First post: TL;DR:	They got married. Husband and kid weren't invited and are angry. How do I help Alex and my family handle this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my Mother [49F] I don't know how to tell her that I don't want to visit for Thanksgiving without hurting her feelings. POST: Please bare with me as this is my first post. Let me know if something doesn't make sense and I'll be happy to explain. My family, which includ...	My mother wants me to spend thanksgiving at her house but my family would prefer not to travel and have thanksgiving at our home. How do I tell her without her getting cranky?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My sister(5) thinks my mother loves me (24F) more than her. POST: I was 19 when my sister was born. When she was two, I moved to the US for college. Since then I have only seen her twice, on both occasions she and my mum came to see me. However, we speak to each other all the time on...	so my younger sister think my mum loves me more than her, and she cries about it all the time. They both live together back home, but I am in the US for school.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How does my [F/25] SO [M/24] "break up" with a childhood friend [F/22] POST: Hi all - asking for my SO as he doesn't use reddit and I'd like to be able to offer some good advice to him but I'm stumped. My SO has decided he no longer wants to be friends with a woman, Sarah, he has kn...	SO wants to stop spending time with a childhood friend's sister, not sure how to proceed with "friend breaking up" with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How has your attempt to help a stranger backfired? POST: Tday after university, I get to my car and notice another guys engine wont start, so I decide to go see if I can help, park up next to him and get out the jumper cables. My first mistake was handing over the cables to him instead o...	Tried to help a guy jump start his car, but instead he may have caused damage to both his car and mine.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] had to enter an LDR w/ my [29M] boyfriend, we've managed to make it through 1 year but time away is taking it's toll on 2.5 years of together POST: I guess by many other people's standards 50 miles is not "long distance" but neither of us drive and I stay here for the majorit...	entered a serious relationship at 19, left for university and finding it hard to think of reasons to stay after 2.5 years.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30M] with my GF [29F] 3yrs, have been drifting apart for months, I've met someone new and got "that feeling" POST: Myself and my girlfriend have been together a little over 3 years and have been living together for most of that time. For about the past year we have been drifting ...	Been thinking about calling things off with GF, this has been compounded by the fact that I may be in love with someone new. Any advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] have a huge crush on my roommate [25 F] of one month, we get along great but don't know how to make a move? POST: Hi, I've had someone move in with me in a 2 bed unit, instantly got along and really attracted to her. We sat up one night talking after work and really seemed ...	Really like my roommate, looking for a way to sense her interest, and ideally propose a relationship after the correct amount of time, with the least fallout possible if it's not what she is after.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Troubled Boxer HELP! Need Advice POST: Here's the story, my family has been looking for a Boxer for about 3 months. We have previous Boxer-owning experience and know we love the breed. After a few breed confusions and other issues, we found an 11month dog on CL. We brought him home around ...	Got a Boxer off CraigsList, person lied or omitted (surprised?) now need to decide to keep him or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, my best friend's mom is dying of cancer... POST: Reddit, my best friend's mom is dying of cancer, probably sometime this week. The whole family just got together this past weekend to say their last goodbyes to her. This is her 3rd battle with cancer and unfortunately, this one to...	I want find a cheap wine/comfort food gift basket to send my best friend whose mother is dying of cancer within the next week.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think I am falling for my friends boyfriend?! POST: I am f(18) and he is M(17). His girlfriend is (15). His girlfriend and I are really good friends, for nearly 2 years. I really honestly care about her. Her bf and I are also friends and have been for maybe a year? Her and her boyf...	My friend has an awesome boyfriend, they are going through hard time and I think I am falling for him. Help!!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Cheap rental car tip for underage drivers POST: Not sure if this has been posted about before, but I couldn't find anything when searching for it. Anyways, I recently booked a rental car for my trip to San Francisco. I originally started looking at Budget, and for just one night my rental...	sign up for USAA for free if you are an underage driver, the underage surcharge will be waived and you can find HUGE savings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [23 F] been dating a guy [29 M] for two months who has had only one partner but my sex life is more colorful POST: I used to be very conservative myself but that all changed in the past year when I broke up with my long term ex. At first I was basically celibate for 5 months, th...	For the past 6 months I've been having sex with people like it's going out of style. Met a guy with only one partner ever. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: GF [24f] insists I [28M] use condoms even though she has IUD POST: I have been dating my current girlfriend for 4 months, officially a couple for 2 months. When we started dating, she had an IUD put in her and has had it there since. Our original plan was to get tested for STDs and t...	GF wants me to keep using condoms even though we are officially a couple, she has an IUD, and we are STD free. Should this be a big deal or not to me if I don't want to?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] w/ my 1st GF [22 F] of 2 weeks, unsure about it.. POST: Hello, I met her in October and was immediately fascinated by her. She has a great personality, is very pretty and I just knew okay, she could be the one. So far so good, we started going out, it was very complic...	learned that gf is a virgin and extremely self conscious. Want it to work, but it's frustrating so far.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20F] being hit on by my former teacher/coach [35?M]? POST: I met this person because he was student teaching for my AP history class when I was in high school, and he also was an assistant coach for the track team, which I was a part of. I just finished my junior year of coll...	Former teacher asked me to go floating on the river, now wants to know if I like dancing. Is this more than it seems? What do I say now that I have already kinda agreed, but I am 100% uninterested?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm[25f] VERY interested in my male friend's best friend, but.. POST: It's been such a long time since I felt this way about a person, that I had forgotten what it was like. I could extrapolate, but it's probably just your typical crush situation. He (24m - let's call him "Paul") is ...	My close friend might have feelings for me and I DEFINITELY have feelings for his best friend. Can I pursue without being a huge, gaping asshole? How?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend wants to be friends for a while... POST: I (M18) have been dating a (F18) for about 3 months now, I have known her for about 3 years though, and we are pretty close. She has recently gotten a job, and has been struggling to juggle around her job and our relationship, as we...	girlfriend is swamped with school relationship and work, and just wants to be friends for now, how do I handle this?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with [20 M] - Mixed signals galore. POST: Throwaway because dude in question browses Reddit. This certainly isn't as serious as the other problems on this sub, but it's been gnawing at my mind forever now, and I felt like I might as well just make a post on here. I've nev...	Boy has said he is interested, but doesn't really show it via communication, at least, not as much as he used to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend (17F) cheated on me (17M) by making out with another guy while Blackout drunk, we have been going out almost three years. POST: So my girlfriend likes to drink, she always went to parties and drank a reasonable amount without any issues. One summer night she went to party ...	= Girlfriend made out with another guy while black out drunk. She has no memory of it. It is depressing me and idk what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: If/when to say "I love you"? -- The phrase that can make or break a relationship. POST: I've been with my girlfriend for ~3.5 months now. She is 19, I am 21. The entire time, the relationship has been nothing short of perfect. We get along perfectly, we share lots of interests, we co...	I'm not sure when it's best to say "I love you." How do you know if you really love someone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [22F] cheated on me [21M] while abroad. I have chosen to try and forgive her. Advice please? POST: She cheated on me with a guy and gave him head. Of course I am utterly devastated. However, she is extremely sorry, our relationship is strong (almost 4 years) and I know ...	girlfriend cheat, I chose to try and forgive her. Should I ask her to come home? How do I forgive her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [34/F] boyfriend [35/M] of 2.5 years wants us to mess around with others while I'm gone for a month. POST: In a week and a half, I leave for a trip for five weeks. We have been going back and forth on opening things up to extracurricular sex while I'm gone, but when I really imagi...	My boyfriend wants us to sleep around while I'm gone for five weeks. When I agree to this, I lose my feelings for him. He says it's for his self-esteem. I need some perspective. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice on Me [19 M] actively dealing with getting over my ex [20 F] (2 months) POST: Last year I met a girl who was coming to my University in England for a year (some form of foreign study program). We met through playing DnD together and near the end of march she got drunk and aske...	I broke up with my first girlfriend 4 months ago when she moved back to America and I don't know what I can do to help get over her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17/F] dad [51/F] got into a fight with my sister [18/F] and left home. POST: This is sort of a delayed post, because this happened over a month ago, (I wish I posted to this sub earlier when it happened but I honestly had no clue a sub like this existed.) anyways. About a month ...	Sister and dad fought over money, dad left, came back not acknowledging anything that happened, these cases happened before want to prevent it from happening again. Family doesn't know how to communicate their feelings. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] struggling to make any meaningful friendships at University POST: A bit of background about myself - I've always struggled to make friends all throughout my life and never really had more than 1-2 friends at any point in time. I consider myself to be socially awkward and I ...	Socially awkward guy - How can I improve my social skills and become more outgoing? Atm I'm very lonely and often feel depressed at times.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making my parents think i'm a crackhead POST: happened a while back but thought it was funny i was at the park, it was a park about 6 blocks away from my house around 9 pm - 10 pm. i was smoking X with a friend of mine their under the pavilion, where we would always go to smoke. wel...	smoked out of a can, racist lady called my parents and said i was smoking crack, calmed my parents down, ate funyuns and masturbated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My sister (28F) and I (30F) do not want to invite our mother (50F) to our weddings next year. We need insight on how to navigate the situation. POST: My mother and I have never really had a great relationship. She is emotionally and verbally abusive to us kids and it has only gotten ...	My sister and I don't want to invite our alcoholic, abusive, estranged mother to our weddings - how do we manage this with the least explosive reaction?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[25M] found an image on instagram of my gf[22F] that is likely innocuous but troubles me. POST: So yesterday I added my gf of 3 months to my instagram. We both rarely use social media, which is why I haven't added her before. I was looking through her pictures and decided to click o...	Found pictures that are probably of my girlfriend being platonically affectionate with her gay friend during a secret santa, but I'm not 100% sure and it's making my stupid boyfriend brain panic<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: friends say I have "impostor syndrome" (physically and mentally) any thoughts? POST: Mostly a throw-away account, and I'm sorry if this is in the wrong subreddit, there are way too many that I'm sure I don't know about, I suppose this might belong elsewhere. Anyway two of my closest (and onl...	I'm almost thirty and haven't done anything with my life, my friends think I see myself wrong, and that I don't internalize accomplishments.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling my ex where to go. POST: TIFU at a party. It was late in the night and one of the guys from my team had just shown up with his girlfriend (my ex) and her friend. (Side note: he started dating my ex like a week after we broke up and didn't tell me till 2 months later). So as we...	Told my ex to fuck off when she was being aggressive and her bf, my supposed friend hits me in the face.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26F] think I'm on a revenge website. POST: I think I may be on one of those revenge websites,but I can't remember the name of it. Background: When I was 22 I met this guy, who was 23. We messed around for maybe 2 months before I realized he was clinically ill (delusional, patholo...	I think a crazy ex put me on a local revenge website, I can't remember the name of the website so I can check for myself. Please help. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [39 M] with my spouse [39 M] of 12 years, different anger/discussion thresholds. POST: My spouse and I have a challenging ongoing dynamic. When he is upset about something that happens - not between us - and we are discussing it, he gets loud and intense. This can be from somethi...	Spouses have majorly different thresholds for expressing anger. Have others dealt with this and found a better way to deal with each other.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] am being accused of pouring water on my sister [17F] laptop and my mother is certain I did it (But I didn't!) POST: I know this may seem ridiculous and petty, mainly because it is. My mother came into my bedroom and said there's water on her laptop, do you know how it got the...	Mom 100% sure that I poured water on sister's laptop, but I didn't and she's treating me like a sick child.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (23/f) afraid people in my life won't take my condition seriously. What can I do? POST: I'm a 23/f that just was diagnosed with Trigeminal Neuralgia. Basically, it's extreme pain in the face and whole left side of my head. To make this short, I have good days and bad days. Every ...	Just diagnosed with a condition that really affects my daily life. I don't know how to explain this to others and I'm afraid it's going to make things even more complicated for me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] tinder friend [29M] of one month is giving me weird vibes POST: So I started on tinder at the advice of a friend, and immediately hit it off with this guy—I will call him Brian for the purpose of this post (not his real name). So Brian really seems to like me and I like him...	I met a guy on tinder and we hit it off but recently its become a little weird and I have doubts. How do I proceed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: One of my (21F) boyfriends (24M) of 7 months becomes angry and unresponsive for periods of hours to weeks, then acts like nothing happens. I know he is struggling with depression but it freaks me out every time! POST: Hi! If this title is confusing, it's because I'm polyamorous, but ...	My boyfriend-thing has no clue how much it upsets me when he disappears in a possibly depression-fueled anger and then resurfaces. How do I explain this to him? Am I justified?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Non-Romantic] I[19F] am constantly anxious that my best friend[24F] of 3 years is going to replace me/dump me/etc POST: Throwaway for privacy reasons, I hope I'm posting this to an appropriate subreddit. The title is self-explanatory, I think. My best friend and I met in 2012, and ...	I have constant anxiety (and subsequent guilt) that my (great) best friend hates me/will dump me/replace me; what do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [45F] with my __75 & 81 year old friends_ of six years. A story of perspective. And a question of how to...what to say...to a person facing their own mortality. POST: I'm a 45 female trainer who manages community center gym for six years. These people I have known since I started...	those with experience facing their own mortality, or those who have dealt with loved ones who are, what do you want others to say?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [F26] tell my boyfriend [M28] about my sexual history with a friend? POST: To start off, I will say I am a pretty sexual person and have had a fair number of casual sexual partners, some of whom are good friends of mine. most of These casual relationships had absolutely no e...	Used to hookup casually with a friend who is befriending my current SO. Is it worth it or a good idea to bring it up to my SO?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I don't get sad when people close to me pass away. Does this make me a bad person? POST: Okay backstory. Recently in my life there have been 3 sudden deaths (all occurring within the past 3 months). My grandmother passed away exactly 3 months ago quite suddenly and it didn't ma...	2 of my grandmothers and grandfather have both passed away recently. I haven't felt sad once and my family ridicules me for this. Am i a bad person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28M] with my Girlfriend[20F] 1 month, having trouble interpreting some sexual behaviour. POST: First, some quick details: This is a long distance relationship We have known each other for 10+ years, but have only become interested in each other within the past 2-3 months. I'm go...	I want to know if it is a bad sign that a 20 year old girl is not as active or reciprocal in bed as I would like or normally expect.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: How often do you run? POST: (FYI, I'm 36 y/o, female, and slightly overweight but quite strong) So I'm week 8 of the C25K and LOVING IT and I know I don't want to stop at 5k. I've already got my eye on an 8k in October, and a 10k in April -- and I don't just want to finish those, I want t...	How many days per week should I be running if I want to build up my speed and endurance to be able to run a 10k in 55 minutes?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to fix a fan with superglue POST: So it being summer, it's starting to get hot where I live. My new fan had just broke so I had to bust out an old fan from my garage. The last time I used it, I broke spinning "hub cap" covering the center of the fan off by pushing a large scre...	I tried to super glue a piece of a fan back on, turned on the fan prematurely and sprayed my self with small drops of superglue<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Breaking up over a speeding ticket? POST: Alright, I'll start off with some background info. Boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months and up until this point things have been great. I'm a law enforcement dispatcher who aspires to be an officer one day and he's an EMT/fir...	Boyfriend got a speeding ticket, I said "sucks, but cop is doing his job", now he wants to break up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] with my ex-gf [28 F] of 10 years ago, confused at the current situation. POST: My distant ex (I'll call her A) and I dated 10 years ago for about a year. We broke up for young college students reasons that aren't really relevant anymore. Over the years we would see each ot...	We broke up 10 years ago but stayed in contact over the years. Since about 2 weeks ago we've been hanging out and texting a lot. Should we clarify the situation? Should we just let it go and see what happens?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can Anyone Help Me Find A Judge Joe Brown Episode from 2010? POST: Hey Reddit. Last year my friends were on the show, [Judge Joe Brown] The episode aired on 5/04/2010. The episode should be #2672, but that is not 100% confirmed. Here is the full description "A man claims he loaned money...	Friends on Judge Joe Brown on 5/04/2010, Episode #2672, Description "a man fights a noise violation ticket" Help me find it, please. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my co-worker [27 F] were close but are now drifting apart POST: So this all started just about a year ago. She had just started working at the company that I work at and started in my room. We started talking and hit it off immediately. We would talk for hours while at...	Met an amazing girl at work, started spending tons of time with girl, girl breaks up with boyfriend, start getting closer, then she talks to ex again and now she is getting very distant.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Wow I'm pretty scared off at this point. Running for them hills. [RANT] POST: Dating a guy for 1 MONTH! Ready to run for the hills. Throwing in the white flag. The towel. Hell the entire set of towels. Back-story: Met him through friends. Thought he was amazing. Told me he w...	Wowed by lack of communication, outright lies, and overall disgusted my decision to date him. Breaking it off tomorrow. Giving up dating for awhile.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24, M] had a great first date with her [23, F] and we scheduled a 2nd. She cancelled and said we have to reschedule. POST: Hi, As the title says, I met this great girl on a relationship focused dating site and we had a great first date. It lasted hours, was effortless, smooth and...	great date, made the second date on the spot. She cancelled haven't rescheduled yet. Move on? Send a gentle nudge text? Send a specific date and time for another date? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18M] broke up with my girlfriend [18] of 5 months, I don't know why even though I think I did the right thing. POST: I just got home from breaking up with my girlfriend. I know I'm young but I've gone through a lot of relationship experience and turmoil but this is new for me. This...	I broke up with my perfect girlfriend because I was anxious that I couldn't live up to how much amazing she was, and I don't know if it was a good idea or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by almost setting a forest on fire POST: In my neighborhood there is a park which has a large forest area that goes on for a few miles. Me and my friend were going through the pyro phase at the time as we had found a few lighters in the forest, we started out by wrapping a small section ...	Me and my friend being dumb about fires almost lit a forest on fire and got the cops called on us. Father arrived unexpectedly in the nick of time to prevent everything. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: This weekend I screwed up my interview... POST: I'm shit with names, always have been, good with faces though. So A local company did a presentation at my college about openings and I thought " Okay I should apply..." I washed my most recent application of any references to company "A" and ga...	Refereed to my interviewer as Bob, (his co worker's name) when his is in fact named Joe. He kept a very straight face.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (M15) complicated relationship with (F15) has pretty much been destroyed by me. POST: I am a M15 who has an extremely complicated friendship with my best friend F15 and this is how it all started. Last year during early summer I was set up with this girl (I'll call her Anne) we we...	I M15 kissed my best friend F15. She no longer speakers or listens to me. What can I do to tell her I want nothing more than to keep my bestfriend<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling a nice old lady how to do her job POST: This FU happened a few weeks ago but I only shared it with my friends yesterday, and due to their reaction, we all felt it deserved to be posted here. I work in an office in the town and for my break I would walk to the shop to get a co...	Cashier purposely gave me double points on my loyalty card, only for me to correct her within earshot of her boss<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [18 F] not sure if staying with my boyfriend [19 M] of a year and a half is wise. POST: So my boyfriend and I met in high school and began dating right as he went off 6 hours away to college. Long distance wasn't too bad, and he came home about once every month or two to see me a...	long distance relationship is getting hard to deal with but I love the guy, should I stay? And if I shouldn't, how do I limit the pain he feels from a breakup?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Origin of username: Reddit, where did yours come from? POST: I'll go first, but here's some info on a favorite snack of mine: [Peanut Butter & Jelly Sandwich]( With that mentioned, on to my story: Long ago in another dead end job far, far away, there was talk of changing the menu for al...	Was hoping for PB&J sandwiches, was not made with PB&J, ended up being something I wasn't expecting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what do you know about Physical Therapy? POST: * What do you think a physical therapist does/what's the purpose of their work? * Do you know of any misconceptions about Physical Therapy? * What are some interesting sub-specialties you know of? * How many years of schooling d...	Just spew out your general knowledge on Physical Therapy. I need help with these questions for a survey, you *do not* have to be in the field to answer.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] and my boyfriend [23M] don't ever make out, and I feel like i don't get enough affection. POST: We've been together several months and i've fallen head over heels for him. But we don't kiss or make out and its really bumming me out. at the start of the date, i get a peck on...	Whenever I kiss my boyfriend beyond a peck on the lips, he either turns it into a hug or sex within 10 seconds.<\|endoftext\|>