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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's wrong with Reddit? POST: I joined Reddit a while back because it seemed there was some good conversations where people, even if they have different views, can express themselves and so on. I usually wouldn't join such a site, but I really did, at some point at least, enjoy the ver...
I thought Redditors were intelligent AND courteous but I feel like smart replies are getting buried more and more under shitty comments. Is it me or has it always been like this ?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help: Me [19 F] with my ex [19M], I can't stop thinking about him and wanting him back, but I feel crazy. POST: I met a guy from school online, we talked for a month, and officially dated for one month -- the duration of us was 2 months. We got super close super fast, and the breakup...
Ex broke up with me, we aren't talking, I can't get him out of my head and I can't stop wanting to get back together with him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 10 months, when she gets stressed or upset by something, she acts cold towards me. POST: Me and my gf have a good relationship, we've had our ups and downs but we always make up and we're always having fun with each other. The only issue I have...
My gf treats me coldly when she gets upset by things that have nothing to do with me, is it ok for her to do this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to move on after a big fight? [f/23; m/26] POST: My boyfriend of one year and I got into a huge argument last night. This argument was on the heels of a series of smaller ones for the past couple of weeks, and we almost broke up last night. We discussed it, talked about the pro...
bf and I got in a huge argument. Almost broke up. He says things are OK but he clearly still needs to cool off. How do I keep from fretting my head off and making things worse?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] am nervous about my long-distance status with my boyfriend [21 M] POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together over a year and a half and our relationship is amazing/everything I could ever ask for. He just moved 3 hours away (we usually live an hour and a half apart anywa...
Boyfriend moved farther away than he used to be, I am over-worrying that something may go wrong or is wrong.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Submitted at least 50 applications since September, and not a single call back. I've got to be doing something wrong. POST: My story's a bit of a long one, so hang in there for a moment. Soon before I graduated in August, I got an offer to replace someone at a small printing company. After I ...
Been at it steadily for a couple months, not a single call back. Feel like I'm whispering into a crowd. What do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Is it too long to wait 2 weeks to meet up for a date? POST: I'll try to keep this short. I met a beautiful girl at a friend's party last week, I got her on Facebook and we have been talking since and it's been going great. I asked her out a week ago and she told me she'd only be f...
Asked a girl out for a date 2 weeks in advanced, now a week has gone by and I'm scared our conversation will run dry before we can even meet. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: NSV: I fit back into my cute pants! POST: My fiance and I moved to Germany last July and I promptly gained between about 10-15 pounds (beer and chocolate, man). All fall and winter long, I either wore leggings under dresses, or the one pair of jeans I could still squeeze into. That left, oh...
if you're struggling with an obnoxious 10 pounds or so, a serious nose-to-the-grindstone approach for even just two weeks can make a HUGE difference!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: It shouldn't be like this, but I can't bring myself to say anything. Advice? POST: We're both in our twenties, and have been best friends for as long as I can remember. I've always had really strong feelings for him but never thought he felt the same for me. When we finally got toget...
The relationship I've always wanted with supposed soul mate is failing and I feel like something suspicious is going on. I don't want to end the relationship. I don't know what to say or do to fix things.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Legitimate Adderall users: How well has it worked for you? Are you happier? POST: Growing up my mother was always the type to shun vaccines and "western medicine." She would always talk about doctors diagnosing ADHD as if it was something made up by pharmaceutical companies. I've sin...
I'm 25 and only realized only a few years ago that I have cognitive issues. It has drastically affected my life. Can drugs help me? Did they help you?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How big of an issue is my age (f)? POST: I have been seeing this guy (26) for a couple of months now. We get along fabulously, and he is great to have around. There is only one issue: he is ten years older than I am, and because I'm only 16 yet, this could pose a bit of an issue. We ...
Bf if 10 yrs older than me and has a pretty extensive criminal record. How much of an issue is my age going to be in this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] want to go on a short vacay with my SO [21M] of half a year, how do I ask parents? POST: As summer is coming up, my SO and I wanted to go on a short vacation (likely 1 night 2 days) to a popular retreat that is only 2 hours away from the city we live in. We would pay for this...
SO and I of 6 months want to go on a 1 night 2 day retreat 2 hours away from the city we live in, but unsure of how to ask for permission from my untrusting and attached parents.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Are there any movies with realistic ancient or medieval war tactics? POST: Just finished watching "Arn," and it was ok at first; typical medieval film. There was some discussion of strategy (we should attack here, in the narrow mountain pass) that would degenerate into a battle with no t...
war movies set in the ancient/medieval eras often have contain some semblance of a discussion on strategy, but lack tactics. Are there any (besides the first scene of Gladiator) that make some attempt at incorporating tactics?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] trying to break up with my [21 F] of 2 years who (probably) has Borderline Personality Disorder POST: Okay, so I really would like to break it off with my current girlfriend. She's great at times, but her mood swings are absolutely killing me. She has many of the characteri...
Trying to break up with girlfriend who has possible BPD. We share an apartment and I'd like to move out as soon as I possibly can.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is this a horrible reason to break up with someone? POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. To put it bluntly, I'm bored. I know how horrible and nasty that sounds but it's the truth. I want to be single again, I'm only 18 (we both are) and have been in lon...
Broke up with my boyfriend because I was bored of relationship and feel differently, need advice on whether I made he right choice.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my ex- girlfriend [17 F] of 6 months, broke up a month ago but is starting to join my social group POST: So my ex-girlfriend and I broke up after our puppylove period ended. She wasn't really looking for a relationship and it was pretty mutual. She was my bestfriend fo...
Ex-gf is becoming close with my friend group and I feel uncomfortable. Should I talk to her or just let it go? How long do you think it will be before we can actually be friends again without being awkward?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Need advice on my job situation... POST: So short back story, I worked as an engineer in my home country (ireland) before moving to Canada a few months ago. After not securing an engineering job I took a job as an operator on contract with a job agency. I have spent the last 6 motnhs wo...
Offered a full time position to replace my agency position with the company, its for less less money, should I counter their offer??<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What would you do if someone ripped of your terminally-ill father? POST: Dirtbag ripped off my terminally-ill father a year ago, and while my dad was venting to me about all the bad things in his head, he ended up telling me today. Now I know this kid, he's a little 19 year old who was...
some kid ripped off my cancer-stricken dad my dad wants me to let it go. what would you do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sleeping inside a intercity train POST: So, this happened maybe twice now but not as bad as the second time, the most recent was about six months ago. So a little back story, usually I would take a train from where I live to university every day. ( about 1- 1hr 30mins by train, depen...
my impatience got to the better of me and I ended up somewhere in the further waiting even longer to go home.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Parents [66F, 72M] want me [29M] to buy them a house. POST: So I come from a culture (Chinese) where children are often thought of as investments or retirement plans. My parents didn't save particularly well for retirement - my Dad stopped working around age 55, so he's been retir...
Parents didn't save for retirement, blew their money, not happy with their so-so digs, hinting/guilting me about getting them a new place. Am I being selfish?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M 19) am planning on moving in with my girlfriend ( F 19) next year when she gets an apartment POST: So me and my girlfriend met last summer both expecting to have no serious relationships for the whole summer. I just broke up with my ex and didn't want anything serious. Sure enou...
Girlfriend wants me to move in with her next year when she transfers schools. I went online and saw only negative opinions on the idea so now I'm worried.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [30 M] just told my wife [28 F] of 2 years that she talks too much POST: I have a great, loving relationship with my wife. She is fun, funny, intelligent, and freaking gorgeous. However I have always known, from our very first date, that she is a talker. And by that I mean, mile-a-...
I told my wife she talks too much, and now she's mad at me. What's the best way to give bad news even when you know it will offend your partner?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having a mobile car mechanic come to my house. POST: My 2008 Mazda Tribute has a weird problem. It made a grinding noise. A local shop told me it could be something to do with the ABS. I could be driving and it would make this awful noise. When I went to brake the brakes would be jerk...
I paid a mobile "mechanic" to come to my house. Did a car test drive with me. Really didn't know what was wrong and went in his way home.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24F] ex [25M] of 1 year was told by a female colleague to post something online that may possible throw shade at me. Do i have the right to be upset? POST: So, a mutual friend of my ex and i showed me a picture that he posted in instagram with a few of his female colleagues with ...
my ex posted a picture with some female colleagues with a caption that he was told by a certain female colleague to write and it felt like it was about me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] had a thing with a [18 F] a while back but things ended. Recently started hanging out again and don't know what to make of it POST: About 3 months ago now I started seeing a girl and things went really well for 3 weeks or so. A mutual friend told me that she wanted me to ask...
Met a girl, started seeing each other, she didn't want a relationship things broke off for a while, talking again, likes me but still doesn't want a relationship<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] was involved with a guy [26M] and I have no idea how to title this appropriately. POST: I had been seeing this guy I attend university with on and off since October, and for the past 2 months we had become increasingly close. Yes, we'd slept together a few times, but sometime...
Guy I had been seeing said how much he liked me, was showing signs of wanting to date me, but then said he'd never be monogamous.*<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the dumbest thing you've ever done with food? POST: I'll go first. My family and I were across the street hanging out with our new neighbors, who are awesome. We were having fish tacos and I, being the spicy food lover that I am, slathered on the spicy sauce and ate all of it. My...
Ate a spicy pepper with my dad, ended up in my neighbor's kitchen crying and losing my sense of taste because I thought I was cool.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18M] with my [19F] 1 month, suddenly having second thoughts? POST: About a month and a half ago my girlfriend broke up with me, and immediately after, in the midst of getting over her I asked a few other girls out. I ended up going on a date with a girl a week later and we kissed, a...
Fantastic relationship with lovely girlfriend, suddenly don't feel the way I do, don't know why, and don't know whether to take the risk and break it off or continue.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Advice: Assistant Manager looking for a way out? POST: Hey, I'm currently one of two assistant managers at the oldest theater in my town. Because we are the oldest, we focus on a kind of "hometown theater" vibe. Very friendly to customers and constantly making "regulars" come by the theater j...
Assistant manager at a theater I've worked at for 3 years. What kind of non-managerial job can I use this experience to acquire?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need help finding the name of a particular mood disorder... if it has a name. POST: A friend of mine is seeking treatment for an anger/rage disorder. Apparently he's been dealing with it for years and it's started getting progressively worse. I knew he lost his temper every once in a...
my friend loses his temper and reports seeing a black ring around his field of vision until it all goes to black. Does anybody know if there is a specific name for this type of disorder?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend[26 F] 2 1/2 mo trouble communicating and opening up. POST: Hello, I'm 23 and am in a relationship with 26 yr woman. We've known each other since august and have been dating since December. We fight a lot, usually about me not being open and good at commu...
So what I ultimately am getting at is, how can I be a better communicator in a relationship? How can I not push people away and let them in? ?.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] have been getting this strange feeling lately with my boyfriend [19 M] of 2 years. I don't know why I'm feeling this way or if I should be concerned? POST: I just came home from college for Christmas break for the first time. I'm a freshman, he's a sophomore so he's been thr...
My boyfriend makes me really happy but I'm finding myself analyzing this relationship so much I can't enjoy myself. What am I doing and why am I doing it if he makes me so happy?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Is it out of reach? POST: Hey everyone. I enjoy reading these posts, but decided it is time to get advice from others. I am 22 and just graduating college. I am blessed to not graduate with any student loans. Only debt I have is a car loan that I have roughly $12K left to pay ($36...
$65K salary, $1365 in rent plus $113/month in apartment fees not including utilities. No student loans, but $12K car loan. Living in Texas, so no state income tax.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Is it ok to use a lead inside to help with mat training? Peeing on carpet. POST: I have a 12 wk old puppy and also young children. If Puppy follows me onto carpet, he pees straight away. TL;DR:
I restrain puppy with a lead when I'm not in the room to reinforce mat training and stop him peeing on the carpet. He doesn't mind. Is this ok or should I always be using the crate?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend (20M) of nearly a year and a half told his mother he sees no future with me. (19F) POST: My boyfriend and I met at the super big state school we both attend. We met early on in our college experiences and something just clicked. We have been together since. Beyond a few occ...
At my age, halfway through college, is it worth staying with someone who can be quoted as saying he sees no future with me despite us having a good relationship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20 F] cousin [30 F] is in an abusive relationship. Clueless on what I can do. POST: My cousin, who shall now be called Abby, is engaged to her high school sweetheart, now called Nero. I met Nero once and he seemed fun and witty. But over the years I have noticed Abby change from...
How to support my cousin without supporting her abusive relationship? Any books regarding what I can do? Any stories you can share to enlighten me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He [m40] never came home. Me [f28] POST: ** TL;DR:
Worried because boyfriend went out yesterday with co-workers, and has yet to come home. All the bars closed hours ago.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [22M] and I [20F] have been through a lot together, but I'm starting to wonder if it's worth it after infidelity and pregnancy. Help? POST: My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been together for 1 year and 3 months and most of our relationship has honestly been a cluster fuck of w...
Boyfriend was unfaithful and forgiven. But while working through trust issues got pregnant and relationship has suffered. Need advice on making it better or ending it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with the guy I'm dating [25M] for several months. Is it normal to feel this way? POST: He's absolutely wonderful to me. We have a lot in common, seem to want similar things out of life and I just have a lot of fun being around him. I love him. So, what's the problem? I a...
Been dating a super great guy for several months. Feel too stressed to be in a relationship. I love him but I'm not sure that's enough. Advice? Relate?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] asked out a [19 F] and she turned me down. Ran into her once after that. A few weeks later she randomly texts me say hi. What does this mean? Should I text back? POST: I met this girl about 3 months ago and I hung out with her a few times. I began to like her so I asked her...
Asked out a girl but she said no. Ran into her once about a week later, but we just said Hi. A few weeks later she texts me saying Hi. What does this mean? Should I text back?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my GF [39F] 2 months, I don't know how to tell parents I'm in love with older woman. POST: English is not my native language. Long story short, me and my family moved to another town, we started to go to a new church, I kept looking at this woman, she looked so kind a...
My GF is older than me and dont know if i should make it public now or wait... and if i do make it public, how should i proceed?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [23 F] 9 months, I was at the airport to visit. She texted me that she couldn't see me. POST: EDIT: Yes I have visited before, however we have not had a chance to see each other in person for a few months. Had been planning to fly out for over a week. Today sh...
She couldn't bear to see me and just decided to break up at the last possible minute. I just kind of need some closure and understanding of why she would wait so long to say something.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my Friend [18 F] 2 years, we both like each other but she isn't ready to be in a relationship. POST: Hello Reddit. I'm struggling a bit with a girl who I really like (J). I met her two years ago at a film course and we started talking/Skyping/gaming after that. More r...
I like a 2 year friend who also likes me back. She just got out of a relationship and doesn't want anything yet. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (16M) is having his sister (20F) threaten childs aid and my mom asking if we should leave my dad. POST: Past two months for me have been horrific. My family has been getting torn apart because of my dad. He's arrogant and an overall asshole. He has hit me, choked me, called me laz...
Sister is threatening child's aid, mom is asking if we should leave my dad, dad is source of these problems (abusive)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: relationship advice needed - usual "forever alone" with a hottee POST: I need help. This is a throwaway account. I have been single for 2 yrs, have recently just started a new job, and day one i meet hottee. i am close to 30, she is close to 20. give or take for both. my last relationsh...
i am kinda seeing a girl behind her boyfriends back...and i need advice. i have never done this before...it just happened.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Crowdfunding an immediate Grad School need. (X-post /r/GradSchool) POST: Please forgive my long windiness. My wife has taught High School for 19 years. She has a Master's degree in her field. She has spent thousands of hours helping students with their SATs, College Essays, thousands of rec...
Is it appropriate to crowd fund tuition now, and repay that by setting up a scholarship for the same amount for needy students? Your feedback is needed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Asking this shy scared girl out (M16 and F16) POST: Hello /r/dating_advice, So I am in highschool and It is pretty much my first time asking a girl out, anyway I asked if she wanted to go watch a movie later on, and she responded with maybe, I managed to get her phone number. I ask...
This girl just wants to be friends ( even though she really liked me few years ago) and I was kinda pressing on 'trying it out'. She just stopped replying.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[24f] SO's mother[50~f] applied to a job at my work. We have a negative relationship, what do? POST: So, my SO and I have been together for 3 years. For those 3 years, his parents have made me feel a little bit uncomfortable, but that is due to how religious they are, so I smiled a...
SO's mom hates me and applied to a job where I would have to work with her pretty often. I e-mailed HR, but no clue what else I can do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Fellow non-religious Redditors living in the South, how do you deal with religious people? POST: I'm an Agnostic living in the bible belt of America. I'm just wondering if any of you guys have any insight to my dilemma. I work retail and on more than a few occasions, while on the job min...
I'm an Agnostic living in a biased, closed minded Christian state, where I'm sure they would've burned me at the stake a few centuries ago. How to deal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22/F] with my BF [28/M] dating 1.5 years, he won't leave "the nest" & other red flags... POST: He went out of state for college. He moved to another state on his own for a year, for a job. He hated it and moved back home with his parents. Now he's 28. He has a full time job that ...
bf who is 6 years older than me isn't living up to what i thought he could be, avoiding moving out of his parent's house....<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (19m) gf (19f)is ldr... asked about open relationship POST: Idk how to feel about this... we've been together for 4 years. I lived with her for a year before having to move back home and she I trying to move here... we are both very jealous people... I came home to great loss in t...
ldr gf asked about open relationship after 4 years. Worst summer of my life I'm a mess. What am I supposed to feel?????? Or worry about?? WHAT?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I, [M/17] Need help on deciding where to go from here with a girl [F/17] That I've only been texting for two days... POST: I've recently got her number, and have only been texting with her for two days. I've stretched my imagination to try to get something to talk to her with a...
I've only been texting a girl for two days, and don't know where to go from here after running out of questions to ask her... HELP!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me, 27F new to the 'dating' world... recently starting dating 27M after a rough relationship break-up. POST: I recently just got out of a very unhealthy, gas-lighting, toxic relationship that should have never lasted as long as it did (two years). My ex was really emotionally reckles...
New guy I'm into is still dating other women; new to the 'dating' world and am paranoid of getting hurt again.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Ethical dilemma: Should I buy a friend's waterskis that he left with another friend? POST: We used to have a friend (friend A) in high school (still kind of is but not too close now). We went water skiing in his boat one day during our senior year. Then he ended up leaving his water skis ...
Friend A left water skis over friend B's house. Friend A never seemed to care to pick them up (4 years ago). Now friend B wants to sell them and I want them.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17 F] Want to know what I can do to make myself feel better today after break up with [16F] POST: I had become insanely close to her. Closer than I have with anyone ever. It ended so suddenly, and she started dating someone else almost immediately. A lot of people here say to cut ...
How do I feel better about my breakup and my ex today instead of just hoping to feel better at some point in the distant future.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: So many let-downs POST: If I had known how much today was going to suck, I would have stayed in bed. 1- My plans to move in with my best friend and her bf aren't working because her bf has extremely unrealistic needs that he wont compromise on. 2- I'm stressed out about having dinne...
I feel like a failure. No one wants to live with me, my guy doesn't want to be with me, and I'm an emotional wreck today.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [26/f] tell my SO [27/m] of 2 years that I am not as attracted to him? POST: Over the course of our relationship, I feel like my boyfriend has put less and less effort into his appearance. The problems are mostly concerning his head and facial hair (as well as overall groom...
Boyfriend doesn't take care of his appearance anymore and so I am less attracted to him, how can I ask him to change?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Have you ever had to remove someone dear to you out of your life because your feelings were too strong for them? And what was the result? POST: I've known a woman for two years and we are very close friends. A few months ago, I realized that I had feelings for her beyond friendship s...
Fell in love with my best friend, entered the friend-zone, about to remove her from my life permanently so that I can move on and wondering if I'm making the right decision.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Random person showed up at my house, my roommate thinks I'm giving out the address to sketchy people. How do I convince him I'm not? POST: This is a throw-away but I'll try to explain the situation as best as possible. Yesterday, some strange man literally walk into a house I share wit...
Person I do not know walks into my house randomly with food and my roommate is pissed because he thinks I know the person.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] was sarcastic jerk with Girl[19F] I like POST: Three and a half years ago I met this great girl who I really liked. We usually hanged out a bit during bus rides to school and chatted on Facebook. Long story short I acted as a jerk (because I am a lot of a jerk, especially ...
Hurt the girl I like three years ago; Apologized immediately; She never spoke to me again; Want to apologize again because still care for her but I feel like she still hates me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [19 M]. A trip that was supposed to be for us has now turned into a family event. POST: We've been dating for a little over a year and a half. We haven't had the easiest relationship, and we plan to start couples therapy soon. My boyfriend, Adan received...
My boyfriend promised me a trip for the two of us and now his mom is planning a trip to disneyland where he'll have to use virtually all of his money.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25M] with my gf [25F] of close to 3 years, she is depressed and I feel horrible. POST: My girlfriend has had anxiety and depression issues her whole life. During the first 2 years of our relationship though it was heaven, she never showed a sign of it. I didn't know about the dep...
My girlfriend is depressed and it's making me depressed and I feel selfish, guilty, stuck and helpless for all of this<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: im going to college and my girlfriend isnt. should i break up with her? POST: So im going to be six hours away from my girlfriend in 2 weeks. Ive been talking to her about it and she wants to try but im not sure if i want to try. she is an amazing girlfriend. weve only been dat...
i love my awesome girlfriend and im going to college six hours away from home. i want to stay friends with her. how should i handle it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My 8-year-old brother is bored, and I'd like to get him interested in science. Problem: I'm 3000 miles away. POST: Hi reddit, I'm 26 and I have an 8 year old brother (yes, same parents). I live and work in Silicon Valley and he's living with my family on the east coast. My family just o...
I need an online fun/educational game or activity that an 8-year-old can play with someone accross the country.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I adjust on being [25/F] single? Broke up with BF [36/M] of 6 years yesterday. POST: Hi! Yesterday I broke up with my boyfriend (36/M) of six years. It was hard decision, and it took months to decide. Unfortunatelly, it wasn't working out, at all. We were happy for a bit, an...
Broke up after 6 years; awkward penguin; don't know how do I socialise after being kinda alienated from the world.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by inadvertently making fun of my friend for paying for his GF's abortion POST: I'm typing this on my phone in the bathroom because I don't want anyone seeing it. This just happened. My coworker/friend who sits near me at work was on the phone sweet talking his girlfriend. I overhear hi...
Overheard my coworker saying he'd pay for something over the phone, jokingly said he's paying for an abortion. He is.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [25 M], never had a girlfriend, and looking to improve my "dating value" because it seems like most people go for a "catch" POST: I was mega homeschooled, and I just graduated college, but I had several major athletic injuries that lasted all through college and kept me from doin...
There are logical reasons to date me, but I don't project myself as a "catch", and I'm shy around women. In addition to improving my social skills and preparing for a relationship, what should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By giving a girl the wrong number. POST: Okay, so this actually happened Saturday night, but I've been working all weekend and just got chance to go on Reddit. So for the weekend I've been working on a stall/bar at a festival. Very long hours, but you get to meet a lot of new people so ...
Cute girl makes eye contact with me and seems interested, I proceed to give her a mobile number that isn't mine. Forever Alone...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 19m and I need to know if my girlfriend (20f) is overreacting and how I can deal with this? POST: So, long story short me and this lovely lady have been together for three years and some months. I love her to death and 98.999999% of our relationship is amazing and I wouldn't ch...
my girlfriend never lets me make plans of my own without consulting her first. And even when I do talk to her prior, she finds some reason to be upset.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using the race card to manipulate my dad. POST: 1:10 am CET +1 This happened 10 minutes ago. My dad weekly holds "family discussion" meetings. (mainly bashing on my school career) So he started talking at about 10 pm. And started off making jokes about some random crap. (I saw it al...
Dad holds long as f*ck talk. I stop him by stimulating him to make racist jokes. (Sorry again) Happy mothers day. My fucking poor mom. :(<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: New to dating, and I [23/F] can't tell if I'm reading his [25/M] actions correctly. Please help! POST: Here's the background: I went on a first date with this guy I met online about 2 months ago. We hit it off, and so we had another date the next weekend and a third the weekend after...
Not sure if the guy I've been dating is interested in a relationship or just being friends with benefits. Want some outside opinions before I ask him myself.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25F] husband's [25M] family has had no successful marriages, so he has no healthy marriages to emulate... POST: My husband's grandparents on both sides have gone through at least one divorce each, with messy custody battles, insults thrown around against former spouses if they ar...
My husband comes from a long string of toxic family relationships and marriages. Outside of *my* own family, where can he (and I) look to surround ourselves with healthy ones?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my Ex GF [25 F] duration 3yrs, So long term relationship ended month ago. Have we started dating again? POST: So to make a long story short me and my Ex GF ended our 3yr relationship just over a month ago (mutually). She needed time alone after being in relationship af...
Me and Ex GF broke up a little while ago to have space and may or may not be dating subconsciously, what do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me M[23] can't tell if she F[22] is being highly polite or is possibly interested. POST: So, the two of us work in a summer camp setting which means we live in close proximity to each other 7 days a week currently, so we have a ton of interaction. She broke the touch barrier with me ...
girl has the professional option to stop me from hitting on her and is refusing it, the confusion lies with her sending mixed signals because she's an innately nice individual.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Programmers of reddit, how do you fight job-related depression? Story inside... POST: You want to know what's depressing? When you work and toil for thousands of hours over a couple of years to figure out a multi-million-dollar-revenue website that someone else coded fast and loose, and...
Someone else wrote code for a site I'm now in charge of. This site's traffic and profits have increased very much, but the codebase and DB structure are NOT scalable at all. Help!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: She's still looking for friends. POST: So I've been talking to this girl on a dating site, and I just recently asked her out. Now, she never explcictly said no, but she revealed two things, that she just had a pretty bad thing happen in her life, and that just a week ago she started'...
Girl on dating site is already dating someone. Says still looking for friends. Am I in 'Friendzone' or on the backburner in case the first falls through?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU at the gym. POST: This happened this morning. I usually workout for longer on Saturdays as I don't have work so I try and get lots done. I always finish on the treadmill and have a shower before I leave and it had just hit 2pm when I'd stopped. I then realised that the gym was pretty mu...
Lost track of time in the gym, got locked in, alarms, panic, and phone calls to the police ensue before making a daring escape to freedom.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Girlfriend [F/25] editing body in pictures for social media POST: Hi all, I tried to find any previous posts/articles regarding this, however to my surprise could not find any. My girlfriend is currently traveling, and the other day she sent me a picture she had taken and wan...
girlfriend seems to be affected by her personal body image, to the point I don't understand how someone could be so affected by it, but I want to help her at the same time.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Lonely Freshman Here- How Often Do You Socialize? POST: I am currently a freshman at a small liberal arts college far away from home. My schedule has me working or in class everyday from 10am - 6pm. After class I will usually have a meeting or two, if not I will go to a campus activity. ...
How often do you hang out with people at school? Many days I spend at work and class then study by myself. Is this normal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I(26f) asking my older bf (m48) all the wrong questions about having children? ( 2 mo) POST: After a fiasco I fearfully found out we both wanted kids. He had been talking about them a lot. He never had any but I felt that maybe the dedication to the kids that were not his own made...
What can I say to a 48 yr old man who has been hurt by my insults directed at his insecurities when we wanted the same thing..kids?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30/F] with my BF [29 M] 3 1/2 Years - We're at a crossroads. 10 days to decide. POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for a bit over 3.5 years now. We have lived together for almost 2 now. We are very happy together for the most part, but we do have some periods of "blah-...
Long-term boyfriend and I are trying to figure out if this is it for us - either marriage or break up. We have 10 days to figure it out! What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Well. I (F21) went and fell for my FWB (M22). Help? POST: So surprise surprise. I've known this guy since I was 14 and we'd been friends through our mutual best friend. She at the time had a huge thing for him but that's long past now. We'd lost touch after high school but used to be...
Old friend came back in town, we've been hooking up randomly but still act as friends. I got the feels. Help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Internship, or job experience? POST: Keeping it short, I've been handed a LOT of responsibility as a Supervisor in a tech based job for over 4 years, but I will have to lose the position within the year for the simple reason that is is a student only position, and I am graduating shortly. ...
I am in school, soon to lose my student only job of 4 years which will look excellent on any resume, but it is out of the field of my Degree, and I just want to be in a financially stable job ASAP.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaving my friend's "tracking device" on airplane mode. POST: So I got a call today from my neighbor, who's had suspicion of his wife cheating on him, and he was cussing at the top of his lungs. For the past month his wife has been "sketchy" to him and he even went to the extremes of...
converted friends work phone into a tracking phone with find my iPhone, just in time for his wife's business trip. He stashes phone in the car but leaves phone on airplane mode. Lol<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my ex-gf [18f] 2 years,how do i move on from a perfect relationship destroyed by circumstance? POST: I met my ex-gf in the summer of 2013 through friends and we quickly began texting 24/7. Come October 2013 we were officially a couple and going out and went strong thro...
!Perfect relationship until ex-gf left for college. Cant rely on me anymore for her happiness and needs to fix herself. Can get over it and can't stop thinking about her and texting her. need help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by Making my Parents Think I'm on PornHub POST: So this actually happened not too long ago, but Reddit removed the post because it was officially not the weekend right when I had posted it. I want to start this off by saying I am a diehard Fallout fan. I have already pre-ordered Fallout...
Tried to watch Fallout 4 gameplay on PornHub, forgot to close the tab, and my parents opened it up on my phone a few days later.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by switching on my grandma's tv POST: So this happened a few weeks back but I forgot to post it. Bit of back info: my grandma is very old and frail and my uncle/her son has lived with her all his life. For the past 10 years since my granddad died, it has been them 2 living alone in the ...
visited my grandma for lunch, switched tv on and 'Adult BabeStation' channel came up after the last person who watched it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by doing an insane farmer's walk POST: Not today but within the last 30 days. For my company, I use something called glycerine, a colorless and odorless liquid that's very thick. I buy it in gallon jugs, each weighs about 5kg or 11lbs. I ordered some more but since I recently moved, I di...
did a farmer's walk for 1km with stuff that's way too heavy for my weak little arms. Didn't think to bring a dolly.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (f,21) friend (f,22) shares too much detail about her personal life and makes our other friend (f,22) uncomfortable. How can I bring it up with her? POST: Quick backstory: I am at uni with two girls (let's call them Sally and Erica) who are my friends but have recently met and st...
Friend shares too much of her personal life with a new friend and messages her constantly, making new friend uncomfortable. How do I discuss it with her without hurting her feelings?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32 M] my Girlfriend [32 F] of over a year and half, hid the fact she had an STI POST: After being with my girlfriend(32F) for over a year and a half, and it was getting to the point that I (32m) was ring shopping, last week she blurted out something...that lead her to reveal that...
Girlfriend of over a year hid the fact she had an STI, should I believe that she just forgot to tell me and move on?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I Need Budgeting Advice POST: I just turned 25 today, and I pay $700 a month in child support for my son. By the end of 2016, I want to be back in school, because right now, I can't afford to move out, and with CS being so high, I'm actually paying my bills halfway through my dad. ...
I want to go back to school, but I don't want to stop paying child support, and I need advice on how to do this so I can move out of my folks places without going into more debt.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Help a clueless guy (M/19) POST: Sorry if this isn't the correct subreddit, if there is a more appropriate place for this please point me that way. I (M/19) just got out of a two year relationship about two months ago. She cheated on me for the second time and I had enough so I left...
old relationship went poop all over itself. I notice feelings I've had for a friend (F/18) for a long time and I don't know where to go from there.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] Has a crush on a girl I've known for a while [18 F] started dating a guy [17 M] that I'm friends with POST: Alright so there is this girl that I've liked for a while now, we have been friends since easily grade 5. She is literally the only girl that I've met that genuinely ...
Girl of my dreams is now going out with a guy who I am friends with the same day I decide to confess to her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I am 25[m]. Do I need to ask her [22] to be my girlfriend? POST: I have been seeing a girl for about a month now. We have introduced each other to our group of friends (she has even brought me to meet her mother and grandmother), have gone on numerous dates, slept at each other...
Do I have to "ask her out?" or is our relationship habits enough to determine that we are officially 'dating'.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [17M] Should I do something about screwing up the first kiss? POST: Hey reddit! This is a petty problem, but I feel pretty crappy about it and need some quick advice from someone willing to help out a newcomer to relationships. I've been in some form of a relationship with this...
I gave a fairly disappointing first kiss to my longtime love interest. I feel like I've let her down. Do I do something to make up / apologize for it? Or just deal with it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [18 M] of one month is acting unsure with me [19 M] and we're struggling to communicate POST: My boyfriend and I have not been dating very long but recently we spent the weekend together. On Saturday night we had sex for the first time. While not a total disaster, it was...
Had an embarrassing sexual experience with my boyfriend and it caused me to act off the following day. He is now acting unsure about us and is difficult to talk to.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 F] am not sure how to approach my relationship with my recently estranged dad [55 M], who did no substantial wrong but still left me with a sense of abandonment POST: About 7-8 months ago, my dad took a trip back to his hometown to attend to his own family issues and afterwards...
Dad recently left my family and is leading some other life. I don't doubt that he loves me but I can't shake the sense of abandonment<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What do I (27f) do when my boyfriend (26m) gets addicted to a video game? POST: My boyfriend overall is not addicted to games everyday of the year but every once in a while will find a game and it becomes a 24/7 marathon of barely eating, barely leave the house, stay up all night bef...
While I want him to have freedom to do his own things, I don't think it is fair to basically check out of your responsibilities when it suits you.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What can I do for this awesome young girl? POST: First, some back story: I'm an AmeriCorps member working as an academic tutor at a charter school. AmeriCorps is a national service program where people like me get paid almost nothing to work with poor and disadvantaged communities. Be...
A middle-school girl found my phone and returned it. I want to give her a present but need some suggestions. Also, I'm pretty poor.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23, F] boyfriend [25, M] has a lower sex drive, and I'm feeling insecure. POST: I have a wonderful relationship with a man who treats me like gold. We've been together almost 10 months. We are very happy by his own admission and mine, have no major issues (we bicker like any norm...
Boyfriend and I having sex less. He says it's not personal, but it's making me insecure and affecting my sex drive.<|endoftext|>