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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Ex[22F] spreading rumors about me[24M], which upsets my GF [21F] of 4 months, how do I protect my relationship? POST: So I had a tumultuous relationship with my ex [22F], I broke up with her multiple times because of how often we fought, but we kept ending up back together. She had a...
Ex's rumors are hurting my current relationship. I'd like to spare everyone any more grief. Rumors of abuse are especially worrying. Thanks!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my Girlfriend [20 F] - It's over because I wasn't happy, yet I miss her POST: I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half last week. It started off great and then I started to become unhappy. We hardly spoke, hardly went out and she had nothing in common with me...
Finished girlfriend after a year and a half as I was unhappy, now I miss her but know it was the right thing to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I've made a mess of my existence POST: I feel like my whole life is just one hunormous mess and I have no idea of how to even begin cleaning it up. I know life isn't supposed to be all neat and facile, but it shouldn't be this effing messy. It's gotten so bad that thinking about where t...
nothing for you to worry your happy little life about. Visit /r/aww and upvote some kittens or something.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf [19 F] of 7 months broke up with me [20 M] four days ago, we broke up due to arguing on nights out but I really don't want to lose her. POST: Our relationship has been peppered with these arguments when both of us are drunk as of late. She broke up with me this last Friday due...
Broke up because of stupid fighting, but are perfect for each other in every other aspect. I want to know what I should do, I truly believe that she is the one for me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'll be going to college soon, but I'm not sure if I'm making the right decision. Can anyone give me some advice? POST: I hope this is the right place to post this. I'm 19 years old and will hopefully be entering college this fall. Earlier this year I dropped out from high school. It w...
19 year old dropped out of HS for large number of absences in the past, wants to know if I'll be able to get into a undergrad physics program as a poor GED grad.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [22 M] with my almost ex gf thing [25 F] 2 months, she left for the airforce and what the hell she was perfect. POST: I started seeing a girl from my martial arts gym in February. We started talking and we ended up liking all of the same things, including training (obviously...
meet girl>relationship (2 months)>girl goes to airforce>sad>want to work it out even though she is gone<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] left a man [25] when he needed me most...And I'm happier. POST: Let's call him JJ. He and I were in a long distance relationship. I am English, he is American in New York City. I would often travel to the US as my mom lives there and we would see eachother. When we'd see eac...
Boyfriend finds out he has a brain tumor, becomes tremendously anxious, I can't deal with it anymore, I leave him and am happier for it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Getting into the mental state of relocating for a job? POST: I'm 28 and really only moved twice in my life aside from my family moving when I was a kid. After graduating highschool I moved for college, and after college I moved across the country to an area where I knew some folks (that was a...
Before you relocated for a job - especially to a place where you had no friends/family - what helped you pull the trigger?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [44F] with my _ex husband [49 M]. Need suggestions for proper and classy responses when people want to tell me his new wife filed for divorce today. POST: my abusive ex got a deferred sentence for disorderly conduct last month. He was in my home and told me he wanted to kill me. ...
Give me one liners that identify my feelings while not sounding like I'm giddy dancing on that marriage's grave.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Unresolved problem with my brother. POST: I had an argument with my brother last Sunday and said some things I shouldn't have said, thing is I usually say vulgar words when I am extremely angry and the whole day my grandparents as well as my mom were bugging me about car insurance and job and...
Lashed out at my brother after being annoyed all day by my mom and grandparents about car insurance and job situation. Brother won't talk to me and ignores me completely :'(<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24 f) boyfriend (24 m) lied about talking with ex, and on top of this he tells her everything about us. What to do? POST: First of all, I got out of a very toxic relationship 8 months ago. My ex cheated on me and I swore I would never date a liar again. 2 months ago I met my boyf...
Boyfriend lied about talking to his ex, who is very close to him (they were sexting one week before we met), I don't know what to do now.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [26/m] I'm often absent minded and it's driving my wife crazy [27/f] POST: My wife and I met when we were 19, and were married 3 years later. We've hit a rocky patch in our relationship in the last couple of months since we moved to another country (USA). This issues that she ...
I'm feel overwhelmed with thoughts and it causes me to be absent minded around my wife. She feels like we don't have fun anymore because I'm in my own head so much.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my BF [34M] 10 months, found a pair of panties (not mine) mixed in with his clothes, how to address? POST: I've been with my BF for about 10 months, we recently (3 weeks ago) moved in together. Everything is generally awesome (from my perspective), we're very much in lo...
Found an unknown pair of panties mixed in with my bf's clothing, should I talk to him about it or just pretend I never saw it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How many people would be interested in a subreddit full of tabled IAMAs? POST: * TL;DR:
I want to make a subreddit dedicated to tables of IAMAs. Would anyone be interested or would it be a waste of time?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by bringing my police officer brother with me to look at my new apartment. POST: I'm moving into a new apartment in a couple of weeks and yesterday was the first day my apartment was ready to be shown. I told the leasing agent that I would come by after work to look at it. I told my brot...
Brought my on-duty police officer brother with me to look at my new apartment. Made a bad first impression with people in the office and a neighbor who may or may not be involved in criminal activity.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] with one of my best friends [17 M] duration, I really like him most of the time but sometimes my trust issues get in the way POST: One of my best friends, we will call him Peter. We've been close friends for 2 years. About two months ago Peter told me he liked me and I had b...
Me and best friend liked each other but my trust issues got in the way and now I don't know if it's my place anymore and if it is how can I move past the trust issues<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [43F] confessed to me [49M] that only halfways into our marriage she got attracted to me POST: We are married for 20 years, got 4 kids. I was always attracted to her and I thought she was too, since she would initiate almost as often as I and our sexual life was never dry for...
My wife told me that initially, and for a long time after, she wasn't attracted to me. I feel cheated though.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is she over her ex? POST: Me [32 M] with my GF [32 F] I am with my GF for 7 months. There is a "small" problem that she is always in contact with her ex. Her ex is very obsessive and his acting was really close to stalking. Anyway she has decide that we would not meet in her place f...
Dont really understand her. She is actually first woman I can be open to. And dont feel "alone" in relationship. .<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[23M] with my girlfriend [22F] for a year, found texts from an ex. (I know it's typical) POST: He is leaving for another city soon and they went out for drinks at lunch to say goodbye. I find texts on her phone from him saying, Lunch was fantastic! blah blah blah... Had a great tim...
Found text agreeing to date her ex again if they end up in the same city... I feel so confused and betrayed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] Social relationship problem... POST: This is more of a social relationship conundrum rather than a romantic relationship thing. 1. I don't really give a fuck about "personal" things whether mine or other people's. (Probably the wrong way to explain that one but hopefully y...
I have no emotion and I don't really care about anything. I do a fucking fantastic job of hiding it... discuss.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: What should I [18/m] do about my [25/f] friend. Two years of being friends. POST: So two years ago I met this wonderful girl over the internet, and we have been friends ever since. I immediately liked her and she confessed to me that she liked me to, but the only catch is that ...
Girl I like doesn't know who to pick between me or her boyfriend. Should I demand an answer, or wait it out?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure if I [22F] am still in love with my BF [27M] POST: I am 22 and in college. I've been with my boyfriend, who is 27, since March, and he generally makes me happy. We can talk about anything, he is understanding and caring and kind and smart and everything I could've asked for....
My BF treats me well but I've started to feel different, and don't know if I really love him or how to tell.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Am I sabotaging myself by only eating two meals per day? More details are inside. POST: Hi loseit, I overhauled my diet and lifestyle about a month and a half ago, and I'm down about 16 pounds. Yay! However, I'm curious if I'm doing myself any harm with my eating habits. I generally eat t...
I eat two large meals per day and stay under or exceed my goals (depending on what is desirable for the goal); am I sabotaging myself by not eating many small meals like you're "supposed" to?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm a senior and I missed my final, what should I do now? POST: Three weeks ago I did my work schedule around finals, and made sure that I had everything right and took my morning off to allow time for the exam. I was ready for two back to back finals for tomorrow. I emailed the professo...
I misread the final schedule even though I planned far ahead. I'm a graduating senior and NEED to take this final that I missed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M 15) am a wimp when it comes to girls POST: Whenever I see a girl at school, in public, etc. I can never grow the balls to even just talk to her. Even I catch them looking at me a never grow the courage to cause I always think "They probably weren't even looking, I'm just delusio...
I've had low confidence for years when talking to girls I don't really know well, but there's a girl at school I don't wanna let get away. How do I grow a pair and talk to her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [31/m] My Gf [24] has decided she wants to be closer to God POST: We both moved to a new state to start a graduate program and met in class and really hit it off. Throughout the past 7-8 months we have been having sex, studying, drinking and enjoying each other. Last night she...
Gf of 8 months decides she wants to go back to being a hardcore christian and I think her views are misguided. I will answer any questions that I left out, just need some advice. Thanks<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] wondering how soon is too soon? POST: I just exited a relationship of over a year about a week and half ago which was pretty mutual. It's going ok right now. This week has been much better than last but I know I am not completely over it. This brings me to my next conflict...
Is this something I bring up? Do I explain to her that I am not 100% over my current ex? Personally should I even do this? I read a lot that there should be a time to just find yourself?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Just accepted humiliation at work to take a decision which I thought was 'right'. Now I'm confused. Redditors, help me decide what's right? And while we are at it what's the most difficult work decision you had to take at personal cost? POST: A supplier was asking for a 100% increase in ...
Accepted humiliation from a supplier to take a logically correct decision. Senior partners say I shouldn't have renewed the contract. Confused. What should I do if the situation occurs again? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28/F] with my boyfriend [40/M] duration 2 years, he's upset to find that I slept with a very casual acquaintance six years ago. POST: My boyfriend is very upset that I didn't tell him that I had sex with someone when I was in my very early 20s. Seven years ago. We see that guy ...
How can I convince an otherwise rad guy that he shouldn't feel insecure about me having slept with someone seven years ago and that hanging out with that person won't give him dump-cooties?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: After two years in Africa, my mom is coming back to the states tomorrow. I have mixed feelings. POST: Ok, a fresh start ;) I'm 24, female. Two years ago, my mom moved to Ghana to meet and be with a man she met online when he tried to scam her out of money and other things. That was ...
my mom comes back to the states tomorrow after two years in Africa chasing a man she met online, i'm her first 24 hours here. How do I deal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [24/F] Starting to date my ex [28/M] again after a year of being broken up, how do I make this feel like a brand new relationship? POST: Hi people of Reddit, I recently just got back into a relationship with my ex, we were broken up for over a year and we dated for 4 years befo...
Back with my ex of 4 years, how do I take things slow as well as spark something new into a relationship that we already had once before?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16/M] was lied to by one of my best friends [16/F] POST: Not really sure if this goes here, but anyway... I'm 16 and a sophomore in High School. I have never been very popular. I've never had a serious relationship before, so when I meet this new girl, I thought she would be the ...
Asked my friend out, said she didn't wan't a relationship, began dating one of my friends about 2 weeks later<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] have anxiety over almost everything and it's putting a really big strain on my relationship with my boyfriend [23 M] of 10 months. POST: I am a highly anxious person. I'm constantly worrying and afraid of almost everything. I have a major fear of rejection and I'm constantly...
I'm super anxious and my boyfriend doesn't understand my anxiety and I don't know how to explain it to him and his patience is getting thin. I don't know where to go from here. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Me [28 M] has been asked by my [60M] father to be the best man at his wedding, and to also give a speech at the reception. He was pretty absent during my youth and has only become more involved in my life recently. I'm at a complete loss for what to write POST: So he divorced my mo...
Have to write a best man speech for my once distant father and falling short. Any advice on how I can pad it to make it longer?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22 F) with boyfriend (22M) of one year. Devastated. I just don't understand POST: So over the past month I have been uncovering lie after lie from my boyfriend about his infidelities while I was away on study abroad six months ago. The first notion I had that something was wrong ...
My boyfriend had a week-long fling with someone he claims he never felt romantically towards and lied to me about it but says he felt guilt. I need clarification on this<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by drinking too much and ended up peeing in my friend's Kitchen POST: So Like most TIFU's, this didn't happen today. Also this is a throw-away account because I don't want my friends to know that this happened. This happened last weekend. So my friend and i had a bonfire last friday and ...
Friend got me drunk and his aunt caught me peeing on my friends kitchen floor and told the family and now I'm super embarrassed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm terrible. POST: I'm useless and a burden to everyone. I finally spoke to someone about what I suspect is depression, and I'm just continuing to be a burden. Now I'm not only fat, lazy, and unemployed with zero prospects, but now I might have a disorder, which means my dad gets to ...
Useless, shitty, angry at words on a screen. "Butthurt" (fuck off). Basically everything is too damn much, and I don't know what I will be able to do with myself.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'd [23M] like to send my female "friend" [24F] a gift. Bad timing or no? POST: She's a few hours away from me and it's not easy to travel and see her. We're long-distance if that matters. We've been "dating" for a few (5 or 6) months. She's got some pretty deep trust issues so I'm ...
significant other" has problems in her personal life that are affecting communication between us. I'd like to send her some flowers to cheer her up but I'm not sure if it's a bad time.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone actually won an EX back and it been worth it? POST: Dear _____________, Well I've refrained from saying a lot of things I would regret to you. It's probably naivety to even admit this but I really miss you. I wouldn't dare say I love you because those are social implicat...
I'm very sorry. I wish we could start again. I won't run up your bill but please let us have a decent conversation like the good ole days. Please just reply.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [25/m] My fiance (23/f) stopped wanting massages when I asked her to reciprocate POST: I was giving my fiance a massage, as I usually do after her long shifts, and mentioned that my foot was still sore. She massaged it once a few weeks ago when I first injured it, but has been ...
My fiance doesn't want to rub my sore foot so she won't get massages from me anymore. How can I get her to compromise?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My roommate[19M] will not wash his dishes despite us asking him multiple times. POST: I moved into an apartment with two friends a few weeks ago because of school. One of my roommates I have no issues with, he cleans his dishes, picks up any messes he leaves behind, and generally ha...
Roommate is a fucking mess in the kitchen, dishes are piled up and stains from his curry are all over the stove and counter tops. Every time we confront him he says "hold on just a minute."<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Anyone in a relationship w a Narcissistic Sociopath? F(34) M(38) POST: Quick backstory: Been married for almost 9 years. Together for 11. Our first 3.5 years of marriage he was deployed so we didn't really see, or talk to each other much. There has always been something a bit off b...
I'm just realizing my husband is a Narcissistic Sociopath and I need help coping. Does it get better, ever?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] really like a girl [19?F] and she seemed to like me back, until... POST: Hello reddit, I'm a student about to move to another city, and through a common friend, a couple of weeks ago I wrote to a girl that lives there and will go to my same university. We were getting along...
really like a girl, she seems to like me back. She stops replying after I go back to my hometown for two weeks.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend may be hiding contact with ex. Am I being paranoid? POST: Hello again r/relationships, I posted [this] a little while back. To summarize, my boyfriend gets occasional text messages from his ex that do not set off warnings in and of themselves, but he never told me that th...
Boyfriend visited his ex while he was home for a family event, and appears to have lied to me about it. Lies are very out of character for him. Why would he have hidden this from me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Words of travel wisdom as a gift POST: Hey Redditors, I am putting together a travel gift pack for a xmas present to a close friend. She has always planned on back packing across South America, and is now in a position where she could fulfil this travel dream. However she is currently wait...
please share your South America travel stories/tips to inspire a friend to pro-actively pursue her goal. (I want to print your comments to include in her xmas present).<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] was going to go on this really cool date I was looking forward to but the guy [19/20] cancels on me for his friend. POST: So I [19F] was going to go see a really cool gig on Sunday as date with this guy [19M] and I was really really looking forward to it (both bc of the compa...
Guy cancels a date I was really looking forward to. How do I respond to his text and did I do anything wrong?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: How to show my job history in the best light? POST: Hello Reddit. My job history is good and bad. From 2003 to 2007 I was a retail store manager. Between mid 2007 and late 2009, I changed jobs a lot. I had an opiate addiction and it was hard to stay in a place too long, due to being so up and...
I started with a job where I stayed nearly four years, worked at four different places after for various lengths of time and stayed at my latest job nearly 3 years. Do I tell about the middle?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What do I do about this sticky Ick? POST: Over the last few years, my steering wheel has built up a bunch of Ick on it, mainly where my hands are always hanging. I decided to clean it off a bit, so I grabbed all 4 different bottles of cleaning stuff I had in my closet. I scrubbed it usin...
What can I do to get rid of this sticky Ick that spreads to everything I touch even after I wash my hands and clean it with a bunch of stuff.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using the GTS POST: So, I'm not particularly a Pokemon fanatic or anything, but I do play the games from time to time. Last year I had bought Y and obsessively played it until I rekt Dawthia (spelling?) and felt pretty accomplished. Then this year I bought AS, which I've really hardly...
got Y and AS, put Yveltal in the GTS to transfer from Y to AS. didn't work and got someone's level 2 lotad<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [15M] Did I Screw Up? POST: So about three weeks ago I texted my long time crush, and confessed my feelings for her. (Which, looking back, was incredibly stupid) I never talk to her and my only means of communication are through the phone and the internet. She texted me a few d...
Texted a girl my feelings for her and things have been awkward. What do I text her so we start talking again?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my fiance [26 F] of 2 years, thoughts about a check-up and our upcoming wedding. POST: We're getting married next month. Thanks. For the past 6 months I've been having some weird annoying symptoms. My body is too responsive to stress and my work has been hectic, so th...
Having a check-up to rule-out something serious a couple of weeks after my wedding. I prefer to get formally married only after I get the results. Thoughts?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am in love with my best friend's wife and she is considering a divorce for unrelated issues, what should I do? POST: After years of denial, I now know that she is the only woman for me. That in some other universe, I went to that coffee house concert where they met instead of writing t...
He is having an affair. She is considering a divorce. I love his wife deeply. How/Can I tell her? How should I encourage the divorce?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is your minimum amount of time before the rules of this existence are irrelevant? POST: We are all going to die, be it a cosmic force, terminal disease, old age, or what ever. At what amount of time would you ignore the rules of Government, Religion, Society and just do what ever y...
You are going to die in 1 day, 1 week, 1 year, etc. What is your minimum amount of time before you react to that fact and say screw the rules, I will do what ever I want?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, Whats your best drug story? I'll start POST: Okay, It was me and two friends, it's not insane but I thought it was pretty crazy, but we were smoking a 2g bag of XoXo the legal high stuff. Anyway, it was on Halloween night and my friend rolled a blunt, we sparked it anyway and aft...
Took legal highs, blacked out and woke up in a random guys back garden with no idea how I got there.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [24/f] dating an insanely attractive guy [26/m] and I'm intimidated and no one has made a move... POST: I'm [24/f] an ugly duckling who has become attractive. I've just started seeing this guy [26/m] and we've been 'hanging out' for like two and a half weeks? He's 6'5" and ...
Outrageously intimidated by adonis specimen I'm dating who I actually have a legitimate connection with. We've only "worked" together/hung out. Haven't done anything romantic, but he keeps inviting me over. What gives?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (26M) on the cusp of breaking up with my girlfriend (25F) of a few months, but we're leaving for a trip in a few days. POST: I'll try to keep this vague. I'm sorry if it's rambling. We're both American students studying in a South American country (me - 26M, her 25F). We're from ...
I think I need to break up with my girlfriend, but we're leaving for a month on a trip. No time to refund or exchange tickets.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my date/friend [16 F] 1 month, should I risk making a move again? POST: So I met this cute girl and we were on our second date when I took her hand. Everything was great, she was having fun and we held hands for the rest of the date. However, the next day she sent me a...
Held hands with a girl, she said she wanted to slow things down. Scared of being friendzoned, should I make a move again to show my intentions or should I go with the flow?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Police of Reddit: A question about probable cause. POST: Yesterday I drove down to Lake Forest, CA to attend a party at a hotel. When I arrived in the parking lot of the hotel, I called a friend of mine to figure out which room they were in. While I was on the phone with her, a policeman...
I was searched and had my car searched while giving no implicit reason for them to believe I needed to be searched. Is this okay?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit: What have you tried from a movie that has ended in Complete Failure or Success? POST: I went and saw "Ted" in theaters with a group of friends. There was a scene with character John Bennett, where he jumped on top of his car and through the sunroof, to the drivers seat perfectly....
Tried a stunt I saw in "Ted" and instead of looking like a Bad ass, I end up breaking my sunroof and embarrassing myself in front of a crowd of people that had just saw the same movie.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Incredibly Timid Cat - advice? POST: Hoping this is the right place for some advice. I have a cat whose previous owner moved out and left it alone in a house for a couple of days before her neighbor rescued it (approx 2 weeks). My in laws then thought a house cat would make a great farm cat a...
Through a procession of screwups by the cats original owner, neighbor and my in laws i have ended up taking in a cat but the thing is acting completely shell shocked.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Will my brain just explode in time? POST: A little backstory: I had a terrible highschool career when it came to girls. I had terrible acne, godawful social skills, and the few chances I had in early grades I messed up due to inexperience, which caused a ripple of "FFFFUUUUU" my whole hi...
I'm 20, highschool babes like me for the first time in my life, my part-time job says it's not allowed, should I anyways?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: I 25m hooked up with a girl 22f at a music festival. I'm not sure if I chould contact her. POST: Op is [here]( My post wasn't very popular, but I'm bored today so I decided to give an update. I sent a friend request and she accepted it. She sent a message saying that she wa...
I got in touch with the girl I hooked up with at a festival. It almost turned into something, but she's getting back together with an ex. It's over<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my ex-girlfriend. Is it OK to have a pact to marry her, if neither of us don't meet anyone else? POST: My friend (who is 27 years old) made a pact with his ex-girlfriend that they will marry each other if neither of them finds anyone by 30. They were childhood best fri...
) Would it be OK to suggest to her that we should marry each other when we reach 30, if neither of us are in a relationship by then?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [32F] feel guilty being a stay at home mom. POST: My husband[34M] and I[32F] have been married 5 years now, and we had a baby last year [1M]. Before the baby, I used to work as a software programmer and dealt with crazy deadlines and stress at work.. but I was able to handle it al...
Husband has to work extremely hard every since I became a stay-at-home mom. Should I go back to work?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/m] What should I do about this girl (20/f)? POST: Hello, all. So, I met this girl early in my freshman year at college. We lived on the same floor of our dorm and as a result, saw each other often. About halfway through the year, we started to chill together a lot: going on...
Been in love with a girl who just recently broke up with her (cheating) ex. Also, I feel like I've been super friendzoned.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [18 F] not sure how to reach out to my friend [21 M] after putting the breaks on our almost-hook up. POST: So, basically, he and I hooked up once in the beginning of June when he and a good friend of mine were "off" in their on-and-off FWB relationship. He ghosted on me after the...
Not sure how to proceed getting in touch with a friend I almost hooked up with but stopped us, since I've now realized there was no reason for us to be stopped.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: living alone is hard guys... POST: Here is a little story about my journey: A year ago, my dad got diagnosed with diabetes and he got super close to die, so i started to eat a healthier, stop smoking and start exercising again. I was at my worst at 6'1" 285 lbs. (m) Last june, i moved f...
3 months ago i gained all my weight back (eating shit, drinking and smoking) a month ago i started a new diet and stopped drinking/smoking.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I Don't know what to do? POST: Hello r/askwomenadvice this is my first post on this subreddit and I was wondering if you gals can help. Im 17 and this girl I am talking to is 17. We have been texting back and forth for a month and I asked her out and she agreed to it. However; when ...
I like this girl who agreed to go on a date with me but after not being able to to do a particular date I texted her and she hasnt responded back.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Known girl for three weeks, advice on how to handle Valentines Day? POST: Hi everyone sorry if this gets long, but I'm clueless about this sorta thing and looking for some advice... So I matched with a girl on Tinder 3 weeks ago (I'm 20, she's 19), got her number that same night and...
matched on tinder 3 weeks ago, couldn't hang out until last Saturday where we danced and kissed at a club, don't know how to go about asking her to hang out, or mentioning valentines day<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] and my friend [15 F] had or first kiss 2 moths ago at Disney. Now it's awkward between us, and we barely talk. POST: Me [16M] and my GF [15F] have been together for just under a year. We are both in our schools music program, and earlier this year we went to Walt Disney Wor...
Me [16M] and my GF [15F] had or first kiss. We now barely talk to each other. Our friends tried to help but they did the opposite. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[18M] with my girlfriend [18F] 4 years; I don't know how to break up with her. POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we've had numerous arguments, a few breaks, and some recurring problems. She has this thing about weed, so I don't do it. Of course, I've mess...
I'm not sure whether or not to break up with my gf. If I do end it, I wouldn't know how...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20M] interested in [18F] friend, not sure how to proceed or if I even should POST: There's a girl I've spent a lot of time with lately and I've developed a big crush on her. We share a large amount of interests, thoughts, opinions, etc. to the point that she's repeatedly said how "i...
I have a crush on my friend, I think she might like me but I can't be sure. Don't know what I should do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [23] of a year and a half doesn't have many hobbies or a social life to speak of, while I [26] have a lot of friends and hobbies. She feels like I'm getting distant, when I'm really just busy with work and other things. What should I do? POST: Long and short of it is, w...
Girlfriend doesn't have friends or hobbies, I have many. I'm her only outlet, she won't talk about the issue, and it's beginning to wear on me. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Changing my lifestyle has made me feel isolated from my friends. POST: So I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this concern/query, but I'll try anyway. So as of two months ago, I decided to make some serious lifestyle changes in terms of getting healthy and eating better too. So ...
started working out and eating better, friends are kinda bumming me out with their comments about my lifestyle changes, starting to feel isolated. Dunno what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (m19) am getting wildly mixed signals from a friend of just over a year (f19). POST: Alright, I'm doing this in bullet points to make my thoughts somewhat coherent. Except I don't know how to do bullet points so it's just line breaks. I've known this girl for just over a year. ...
Girl i've known for over a year flirts with me, breaks up with boyfriend, isn't flirting as much anymore, should I try to salvage with a date offer?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Tapping into my motivation sources POST: I was one of those people who battle daily cravings and I thought that if I had gotten to 5pm that day without chocolate/alternative that it has been a healthy day (with which, I would reward myself with some chocolate). My exercise habits have alway...
Food addict who had to eat all the food she saw, has given the sweet stuff up fuelled by a competitive spirit (that lay dormant before).<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by impersonating Kermit at a yard sale. POST: This actually happened yesterday. I highly suggest you watch [this video (kinda NSFW)] then come back and read this. So, yesterday I had to work at a yard sale. Problem was, no one really came. It had been at least a hour in when it was time...
Pretended to be Kermit at a yard sale due to boredom, scared off everyone, and didn't make any money.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (21F) SO (35M) is reluctant to take the next step in our relationship. Why? (Details within.) POST: My SO (35M) and I (21F) have been together for 3 1/2 years. We have a four month old son together. The entire pregnancy he went back and forth about whether he was ready to move in ...
My (21f) SO (35m) of nearly 4 years has changed his mind yet again about moving in together. Is this relationship even going anywhere anymore? We have a 4 month old son together.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm (24/m) looking to strengthen 10-month relationship with GF (24/f). Interests seem mismatched. POST: Hiya, I got together with my gf about 10 months ago. It's been working pretty well so far, and she's almost absurdly sweet and kind towards me. The only sticking point over ...
GF and I come from kinda different paths, have mismatched interests. Looking to strengthen existing relationship, but looking for something concrete that's common-ground to stick.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: 22M college - confused about girl in my class POST: Every single week, in class, there is a girl that sits beside me. There are many available seats infront and behind me but she always elects to sit beside me. I dont know whether she doing this because she likes me or whether she ju...
confused abt a girl that sits beside me in class. Not sure if she likes me or just being nice in general...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Went from being hired to asked to quit[employment] POST: I feel like something is going a little screwy when I began talking with my manager. Backstory: I've been working with my company since last June as a part-time temp contract. The contract ended in September, at which point...
Went from being hired on to asked to quit without the option of a transfer. How do I bring this up to the Regional Manager?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15M] with my close friend [16F] of 3-4 ish years, self harms and is bullimic and I don't know how to help POST: I have a close friend who has recently admitted to regularly self harming, and to being bulimic. I've done my best to reason with her and help her to stop - I've offere...
Close friend has a problem with self harm and bulimia, has unsupportive parents and I want to help her see someone and stop.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: It was my real-life cake day yesterday. I'm changing things. POST: Last night was an amazing time. I had an awesome birthday, with all of my great friends... and I realized something. I want to stay with those people for my whole life. I have not been the most motivated person, my fri...
I made a mushy realization that my friends will surpass me if i don't change my work ethic. I'm doing it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF [26 F] of 6 months said she still doesn't love me. POST: I told her the 3 big words 4 months into the relationship & she just reacts in a very fuzzy/cuddly/cutey way. She calls me the sweetest thing when I tell her that (which by far has only been thrice) So the third time whi...
GF of 6 months doesn't say she loves me back, however, everything else in the relationship feels long term and magical.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: Tifu by asking a friend to show her boobs for money POST: This happened 30 minutes ago. Sry if autocorrect is a dick, im on mobile. So anyway, let's get on with the story. I'm a boy, whose friend is throwing a birthday party. Unfortunately i couldn't be at te party because i'm on vacation. W...
i tried to buy my friends boobs so i wouldn't be left out. Turns out, IT WAS JUST A PRANK BRUH. Feelsbadman<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling my mother Satan is my friend POST: Ok so this was a week ago, but the consequences bit me in the ass today. My mom is very religious, like " the holy ghost sends me messages" religious. She was talking to herself while washing dishes. "Mom, who are you talking to?" She shoots ...
my mom tried to get Satan to stop being my bff by rubbing oil on my head and chanting over my body as I slept.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by needing a tampon POST: Of course, this happened a couple of years ago. Context: So I live about a thousand miles away from my family, and I go home to visit them a couple of times a year. My parents are divorced and have separate houses; my mother's house has a HUGE upstairs that i...
Looking for a cunt-cork, found my sister's butt-beads instead. Everything is ruined forever.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [36/F] with my spouse [39 M] of 22 years. He's decided he doesn't want kids now but I do. POST: My husband and I are high school sweethearts and best friends. We went through a lot of ups and downs, but stuck together through it all. It wasn't easy. Finally, in our late twenties, ...
I don't have a lot of time left and husband tells me he doesn't want kids. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by asking a girl out for coffee POST: Today was the first day of a trade show where I promote a companies apprentice program and encourage young folks to get the right job. At this fair there was a really sweet girl so I took the classic ninja approach and wrote her a letter on the back ...
Tried to ask a girl out. Asked if she would grab a coffee with me at a business event. Wasted 3-4 hours including the drive home, because everybody asks for bloody coffee at trade fairs.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Do the same rules apply if **YOU** break it off? POST: Her F30 me M31 I broke up with her last night after our 3rd try at this. So much fighting all the time about everything. I know I love her and I know she loves me but we just dont work in a relationship together. This has to be the r...
do you also delete FB, hit gym yada yada. Or are you just the POS cause you broke up with her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I got fired today. People of reddit, how have you coped with loosing your job? POST: For 3 years I have been a dedicated employee. Today I was told I am no longer needed. There was no reason given other than hints that my work was not good enough. I've worked hard and did everything that...
loved my job, worked hard, got fired and now I feel like a worthless piece of shit... how do you deal with this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 35M boyfriend doesn't seem interested in sex! :( POST: Before I begin..I just want to note that this is a very sensitive subject right now as I am taking it quite personally. Please be direct but sensitive with comments. I (26F) have been with my BF (35M) for about a month now. We s...
my boyfriend of a month doesn't initiate or seem interested in sex lately. What can I do or how can I approach it? I feel very insecure because of it. Thanks'<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Gf of 8 months left me over Clash of Clans. Why? POST: My exgirlfriend(21) and I(22) used to be very close but eventually went through a phase where we fought a lot like most couples do. I feel like we recovered from this and made a complete turn around and started heading in t...
GF(21) based a breakup over me (22) being an ass hole (her words) in Clash of Clans.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my GF [26 F] 1 year. Work, eat, watch TV, sleep... repeat. How to approach? POST: We been dating like a year, worked together and we grew really close. We moved in together like two months ago, and both got new (seperate) jobs about a month ago. I feel like, even thoug...
GF takes time together for granted. I look forward to seeing her all day, which usually results in her glued to her phone while I watch TV...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need your advice before it's too late for my family dog.... POST: Okay - so, our family dog has become increasingly aggressive over the past few years. She's really never been good with other dogs, but always affectionate and kind with people. Before I moved out of the house about 3 ...
my parents are probably going to put my dog down this week for intesifying aggressive behaviour.. What other options are there?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: SO[F,23] broke up with me [M,24] after three years. Need help to get into the hookup culture. POST: After some time being separated and trying a long distance relationship my SO broke up with me saying that she couldn't do it anymore. I seriously considered proposing to her once I h...
Coming out of a long term relationship and the break up wasn't mutual. Looking to get over her by getting under someone else but not sure where to start.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Loseit, need some advice concerning extra skin. POST: I've lost about 90 lbs. total since march of last year, and I was hoping for some advice regarding the extra skin around my chest a mid-section. I've talked to a plastic surgeon who said everything loose was skin; no fat at all, that th...
I don't know whether to get surgery to get rid of my extra skin or stick it out and see if it goes away on it's own.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (26F) and he (32M) are so fucking lost. POST: In brief- we met, we fell in love (I more deeply than him), and dated for a year. During this year we had a lot of ons and offs. But the offs never lasted more than a day or two. About a month ago, he called it off for good. He met so...
on a break he met someone we might go on vacation and I want to clarify the nature of our relationship with the girl he met<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 6 months are breaking it off; How do I deal with mutual friends? POST: My girlfriend and I are close to breaking up, and I'm having a hard time accepting it. We both want to do different things, and my morals disagree with hers, so we both agree...
Soon to be ex-girlfriend has become close friends with my close friends; How should I approach letting her go from my life?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I think my emergency fund saved us, but I may have used it incorrectly. POST: My wife and I didn't have many assets, just a 15 year old car with 250k miles and whatever is in our apartment, and a combined income of roughly $65k. Earlier this year we finished building up a 6-month...
Blew emergency fund on dental expenses then a down payment on a 0% interest car loan. Not too worried, but curious on the community's take about how I used the e-fund.<|endoftext|>