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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (20f) not sure whether to break up our two year relationship or not. Advice? POST: We've been together for two years. I moved in with him (20m) and his mother (oops) and I'm moving out back to my dad's house next week, because I'm a bright fuck and thought that living with the bo...
Relationship of two years going stale, not sure it's worth fighting for anymore. He seems to not be into me anymore but maybe this is what a long term relationship is like?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (20s M) tactfully compliment my girlfriend (20s F) on her new fitness kick & weight loss? POST: **Caveat**: My (22M) girlfriend (23F) is great, and my relationship (6 months) is great. My question is not a drama-bomb and neither is my little story. **Story**: We are current...
How do I tactfully compliment my girlfriend's weight loss? Alternatively, how do I tactlessly compliment my girlfriend's weight loss?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21F] Friend [23F] tried Hooking Up with My Boyfriend [21M] POST: I've been dating this boy for 7 months, I love him and fully trust him. My family went on a vacation and just got back earlier this week, my boyfriend told me that my friend tried hooking up with him while I was gon...
My friend tried hooking up with my bf while I was on vacation with family, she threatened to tell me he tried hooking up with her if he didn't have sex with her. I'm pissed at both of them.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I think my dad may be addicted to porn. What should I do? POST: I am a girl living at home while going to community college. I probably will not be moving out soon. My mom is a housewife and my dad works from home, so we are together a lot of the time. I already knew my dad likes porn, w...
My dad has gotten sloppy about hiding his massive porn viewing, and I'm worried about the effect his possible addiction may have on his relationships with his family. I'm having a panic attack.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [17 M] and my Girlfriend [17 F] of 2 years, what should I do here? POST: I have been with this girl for 2 years now. We met at our job and have been incredibly happy. I didn't know how to explain this in the title so please bare with me. I am very much so in love with her, maybe eve...
I'm going to a community college, girlfriend getting applications to universities and I don't want to hold her back or be without her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Osap not enough for school POST: So I'm in my third year of college (my last year), and osap is not giving me enough to pay for school. I'm 20 years old, and went to school right out of highschool, so I didn't have much saved. I took a student line of credit to help me pay, and it has for t...
Canadian student doesn't have enough money to pay to finish last year in school in september, Not able to find job, no parental help, osap not enough.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with my ex-bf [21 M] 2 months post-breakup.... POST: Hi all. The original thread was here if anyone wants to read it for context : I wish I could say I'm in a better place 2 months after break-up but I don't think I could say that...I'm back in uni although classes haven'...
Friends in uni slowly disappearing, feel very lonely and in need of my ex but I know I probably shouldn't call him<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Reddit, what to do when your SO deliberately will not talk to you? POST: My boyfriend (20M) and I (20F) are both university students and have been together for 3 months. Before and during the first 2 months we started dating we kept in very close contact and spent a lot of time toget...
… boyfriend of 3 months admits to withholding communication with me to ensure I miss him in a temporary distance relationship, but I really just want to talk to him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my coworker [19 F] cool for 2 weeks then bam, she stops talking to me POST: So a few weeks back my coworker asked someone for my number and she started texting me. We hung out a few times and things were going great, we made out and she would grind my dick. She said sh...
girl ignores me then I get mad and ignore her then she gets mad. I explain why I ignored her and now she is ignoring me again<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF (22F) is extremely sensitive about anything related to my (22M) ex, and to a lesser extent any other woman. Partially because I was a huge asshole to her at the beginning of our relationship. POST: I used to be a serious womanizer, and was when I started dating my GF. And I was...
I treated my GF horribly at the beginning of our relationship, and now she has trust issues. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it over between me(19F) and my bf(24M) POST: Sorry, I know you guys probably get posts about this all the time here. Throwaway because I don't want personal stuff tied to my main account. Basically after dating for 9 months, we hit a rough patch. Until now our relationship was a...
BF and I hit a rough patch, does it sound like it's really over or do I still have a chance?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21/M] know my 'father' [40's/m] is not my biological dad. He doesn't know I know. POST: When I was 16, my brother (one year older, so 17 at the time) received a friend request, on Facebook, from a lady claiming to be our aunt. We thought she was crazy, but she had a picture of us ...
I have known the man who raised me is not my biological father for 5 years, but the parents who raised me have never discussed it with me and I do not think they know that I know. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Tell me about your weirdest/most unexpected place you met someone you know. (I'll start with a good one, 5500miles away from home) POST: So, it's summer 2000. 14yo (dutch) me and my first visit to the US. My first long flight. 10 and a half hours from Amsterdam to Los Angeles with my par...
Ran in to 2 seemingly unrelated 'friends'* of mine in a LA hotel 5500 miles away from home. Uhmmm.... Hi!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Any "seasoned" hippies out there? I'm trying to find the name of this sweet compilation album from during the Vietnam war. I think it could be Freedom Rock. POST: I was at my uncles house on Christmas Day, just drinking like hell in his basement bar with my family. Eventually we busted o...
Trying to find the name of this album compilation to give to my uncle so he can ride to Sturgis in style. Maybe Freedom Rock if only they released a version with a groovy blonde on the cover.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my friend/lover[17 F] I want to apologize with a video. POST: Hi fellow Redditers, You've probably all tried making mistakes and ending up hurting others because of it. However I'm not sure if you've all tried doing this multiple times. I've done a mistake which has ...
Ive hurt my friend who I also happen to love (And I know she loves me to) I need advice for a video where i apologize.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girlfriend (now fiancée) [27 F] 3 years, she gave me DNA test results. [UPDATE] POST: [Original post]( So, let me clear something up right away. >where did she get your DNA from huh huh HUH! She, got it from me when I was asleep I'm a heavy sleeper so that's how ...
I decided not to open the results because I know the answer in my heart. I gave it back and after a nice dinner proposed with a plastic ring.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] am scared about my girlfriend's [15F] mental health, and if I should break up with her. POST: I have been with this girl for almost 6 months now and I knew pretty much from the get go that she had a mental issue, I was just not aware of how big this was. Almost 3 months in a...
My girlfriend is experiencing psychopathic(?) tendencies and am afraid that if I break up with her she will either come after me or kill herself.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I post multiple times daily looking for validation on my looks and I have this overwhelming need to be told I'm not ugly and that I don't look like women with my disorder normally do. My husband who I adore does not know I do this. POST: Okay so here goes.. I have this intense need for ...
I post photos daily asking for validation because of my disorder my husband does not know this,know that I'm bulimic.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What do I [M21] do to stop treating all girls as friends by default? POST: So my entire life, I have never had a problem talking to girls. I've never REALLY had an issue with talking to girls or being confident or introducing myself. I've also never thought of myself as attractive to...
I only know how to treat girls as friends and it's biting me in the ass. How can I talk to them in a way that shows a further interest?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [F21] husband [M23] broke my laptop and now wants to build me a desktop? POST: So, my husband has some anger issues. One day he was angry and when I came back from work he'd broken several of my personal belongings (my clip-in hair extensions and my laptop being the most expensive...
Husband broke my laptop, now he wants to get me/us a desktop instead of buying me a new one. He makes all the money. Should I be okay with this/am I spoiled?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is the dumbest/ most embarrassing thing you have done on a computer? POST: When I was about 12, I went to a porn website that had well known cartoons as well as some hentai. It was limited and you had to register (piece of cake....birth year 1850) in order to watch the good stuff. S...
Used my home phone, to register, for cartoon porn I had no intentions of paying for. Mom found out and beat me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Shoud I ( 18/m) follow her (19/F) on Instagram, and hope for the best? POST: My situation is really simple. I saw a student theatre play last week, and spotted a girl. After that, I decided to check her facebook profile, just to stalk her for fun. Not only she's cute, but I'm gettin...
I want to date a girl from Instagram/Is that a good idea, knowing I will never see her in my life?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Need some assistance on laptop choice POST: Hey guys, This will be my first AskReddit, so I hope it will be successful. I have been browsing around and shopping for laptops for quite awhile since my older ASUS laptop (4 years) is currently dying. I do know that Apple has came out with t...
Older laptop dying. Need new one: Portable, no gaming, and computer science major. Recommendations: ~~MacBook Air~~, Lenovo, ASUS<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] and this girl [19F] want to start seeing each other, but my friend [20M] still has a crush on her. POST: A few days ago I [21M] started "talking to" a girl I've know for about a month [19F]. I met her when a good friend [20M] began hanging out with her. It was obvious he was ...
Girl and I want to try to start something. Friend who lives next door has struck out with said girl but still has a crush. Would like to understand my options and best course of action.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28/F] is super shy esp when it comes to dating- what do I do? POST: I am 28 and just broke up with my BF- we were dating since I was 19! While I am dealing with this just fine, I am trying to date and see other people. I am so shy though and dont know where to even begin! For i...
What can I do to overcome shyness and do guys find shy girls attractive or do they work harder to get to them?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's the nicest thing a stranger has said/done to you or made you feel? POST: Last night, I was really bored and at the same time depressed. So, I started chatting on omegle. Ya'll know what omegle is like, right? (dicks and stuff) It's quite rare to see faces in omegle. I came...
A 15 year-old boy made me feel that I may not be enough for my boyfriend, someone out there sees me as if the sun rises and sets in my eyes.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My father [52M] yells at me [18M] when I attempt to learn how to drive a car. It makes me nervous and I do worse when he yells. How can I appease him? POST: Son = Me\OP Classic parent teaching son how to drive. Father yells impatiently at son even though its the sons first time driv...
Dad yells when teaching me how to drive and I don't learn anything. I would rather pay than face this almost everyday. Advice, please?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Questionable Conversation with Minor On OK Cupid POST: Hi /r/legaladvice I live in the state of Texas, and recently I decided to create an OK Cupid account. Yesterday, I began messaging a girl who's profile said she was 18, the same age as I. We talked for a short time on the OK Cu...
I had a suspect conversation with a minor who claimed to be 18 on OK Cupid, and am curious if what I did was in the wrong, and if I could get in any type of real legal trouble.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Roommate [20 F] broke my [21 F] clock accidentally. Not sure what to do. POST: This morning, my roommate accidentally knocked my atomic clock off of our wall and it hit the ground hard. The glass broke (there was already a crack in it though), and even after we found the battery and ...
I feel somewhat ambivalent but I'd really like to have a working clock. Would it be shitty/selfish of me to ask her to replace it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Are stupid friends worth your energy? In the case of two (26M). POST: If junk food is bad for you, are stupid friends too? I used to have a best friend who was the type to dig himself into holes and blame others. Financially, it would always be the "*corporations*" or "*governments*...
Idiot friend, can only stand him in small doses, cut-off ties after calling him out on his bullshit, miss him a year later, worth my time?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] have a date with a potential FWB [31 F] but I have never been with a woman before let alone on a date POST: I matched with this girl about 2 weeks ago on Tinder. We had a good conversation for a few days and then I told her why I was on Tinder- I was looking a a friends with...
I have my first date ever with a woman who wants to get to know me. I've never been a on a date before. How do I not mess this up?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my girlfriend [21F] of 3 months, not over her ex? POST: Using throwaway because GF knows my username. I have been dating that girl I love for 3 months and everything is/was great. When we started dating, girlfriend told me about that guy who broke her heart last year. ...
my girlfriend has been posting updates about her ex and checking his online profiles and it's been increasing lately since our relationship got more serious (met families etc)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [20M] says he is bored with our relationship and feels like we are roommates more than romantic partners. [21F] POST: My SO and I just had a long talk tonight and he's mentioned before that he gets bored in long term relationships. He and I have been together for over a year an...
How do I spice up a relationship that is ONE year old? My SO says he feels like we're roommates more than dating.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Help with Crazy Brother (20yo) POST: Hi all, thanks for reading. I'll put my post in bullet points for easier reading: - Brother smokes a TON of weed + possibly other things - college dropout, lives with parents, parents drive him nuts - I think he's pretty sane but has these "delusion...
Pothead brother has a gun in the house for "security purposes" (delusional) and I don't know how to seek help for him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Wedding Dress Drama POST: Hello, I have been a Redditor for a while now but don't often post. I'm in a current situation that I need advice and figured I'd reach out to you ladies. My wedding is in October and I just found my dream dress on eBay. I didn't even bid, just bought at t...
! - Bought wedding dress online, seller won't send to me or respond to emails. Online store is unhelpful. I'm devastated.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: How to get a shy, timid girl "in the mood"? POST: So, i have been seeing this girl for two months or so, we are both in Uni, studying game design. She is 20 and i am 21, we see each other often enough, though it tends to be a few hours every few evenings. She is still a virgin (whi...
I have been seeing a girl who is kind of shy and introverted, and she feels little to no "lust", is there anything i can do, in a general sense? Or just "get in the mood" advice.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Advice needed: Close friend of mine did something that caused me to lose their trust POST: EDIT: I CAN'T ADD A FLAIR ON MY DEVICE RIGHT NOW FOR SOME REASON Hello people, I've recently had an issue come up in my life and I'm very conflicted as to what I should do. A few days ago, I was ta...
friend a told friend b something I didn't want them to tell them because friend a thought I was getting mad at the friend b and I don't know if I should trust friend a anymore.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should I (F,25) continues to date (M,30) while being poor in both money and time? POST: I am in Grad school and I am trying to go through this without incurring debt by living frugally and working part-time. And I have managed this quite well. Recently I started to date someon...
I m too poor to date and dont want to be a freerider (eating in is not an option since he loves to eat out)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] jealous of my ex [22 F]. Can't get over it. POST: Broke up with my ex 3 months ago. At first, seemed to be going alright, we still talked and stayed good friends. I helped her with her uni work. I consider this to be my denial phase. I visited her 2 months after we broke u...
Broke up with gf 3 months back. Jealous of her and people she sleeps with. Need to get over it to move on.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [20M] broke up with me [20F] after 3.5 years so hook up with other people but wants to get back together in the future. POST: My boyfriend (now ex) and I started dating our senior year of high school when we were 17. I ended up going away to college while he stayed at ho...
Longterm boyfriend broke up with me to live his young life and hook up with random people but still wants to get back together in the future. I dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend of 1 year (25/m) and I (21/f) hardly have sex anymore? POST: Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. When we first began dating, sex was amazing, 2-3 times a day in countless positions, and he always was the one initiating it. I understand that it is pr...
BF and I don't have sex as much. I don't know how to ask without hurting his feelings, and am usually denied in my advances.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF [24F] has been on vacation for over a week. I [25M] don't miss her like crazy and am neutral about her coming back. Is this normal to feel? POST: My GF and I live together and she went on a vacation with her girlfriends. I don't really miss her like I should and the thought of ...
GF is on vacation and I don't really miss her/not too excited about her being home. Our relationship has been missing 'the spark' for quite some time, but is this more than a missing spark? Is this normal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not having enough subway fare. POST: I am a (work-study) student at the [University of Toronto](/r/UofT), and this particular FU happened past 5 pm while I was going home from work on Thursday. I thought I had more than enough tokens to get home, but just to maake sure, before I left...
Had no subway fare, had to walk half an hour with 5 hard drives in my bag to withdraw some money, forgot I had some other method of payment the whole time.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have the worlds shittiest neighbour; we share a living room wall so there's either COD or Nickelback blasting into my apartment so loud he broke my Mr. Spock action figure. Help? POST: I live in an apartment complex that is mostly students, and I knew going in here that it was mostly u...
shitty neighbour plays really loud everything, knocked things off my wall and is generally an asshole. Need ideas how to declare possible war.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My distant ex (19F) only seems to care about me (19F) in order to get me to cuddle with her. POST: To preface this, I'm not a very romantic person in nature. So when I met my ex, (19F) and had romantic feelings for her, I was ecstatic. We started dating for the first time, (told her ...
Distant ex wants to keep cuddling with me, I don't know how to shut her out to stop getting hurt as I see her every day, please help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[24/F] with[25/M] not relationship status. I told him that I liked him, not sure if he feels the same? POST: So, I just let this guy I am interested in, know that I like him. I basically'said' that I felt he should know that I like him. His initial response - it made him laugh, he...
So to sum up. Is he interested? Does he get that I meant I like him as more than friends? Or do I need to re state that I am interested in him in no uncertain terms?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Caught [F, 21] boyfriend [M, 23] sending flirty messages to women that he met online. Should I ask him about them (again)? POST: I (f, 21) saw that my boyfriend of 6 months (m, 23) was being quite suspicious with his phone and accidentally saw a message coming in from someone labeled...
Boyfriend texting other women. Gave innocent reasons for the very flirty responses the women sent. Not sure if I can trust him now.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] want to ask the girl I'm dating [24 F] to be my girlfriend, but am worried it will make my ex- fiance [28 M] upset. POST: So, I ended a 5 year relationship with my ex- fiance a few months ago. We have a toddler together. We were living together up until we broke up, and then...
want to ask girl to be my girlfriend, but don't want to ruin co- parenting relationship with my ex by appearing to move on too quickly.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What kind gesture have you done for somebody that was met with a completely infuriating lack of appreciation? POST: My girlfriend and I recently let her old friend move in with us (from Colorado to California) free of charge until she could land on her feet. At first she was looking for ...
let a friend live with us for free as long as she would need to get started in California, she moved back home after 2 weeks and a now strained friendship<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I keep things casual- are they even casual now? POST: I (F21) got out of a 2 year relationship in September that ended pretty terribly. I have been hooking up with a friend of mine (M21) since Halloween now. We have had a few sleepovers and sometimes he will come over in the m...
hooking up with a friend of mine after getting out of a serious relationship. dont know whats happening. how do I keep things casual? is it bad if i start to like him after recently getting out of a relationship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [21/M] having trouble with my 7-month gf's [20/F] choices in clothing POST: * TL;DR:
My serious gf wears very low-cut clothing, even when not around me. Why would she do this, knowing it will draw sexual attention from other guys? And should I say anything, or just try to ignore it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Thinking about quitting my job. Should I (politely) speak my mind why or should I say "thank you, loved my time, etc" POST: A little context. I work in a production environment using a program that was created by the company I work for. About a year and a half ago I was put on a task that d...
Company reduced my pay because they could. I want to quit but wondering if I should speak my mind or play the game<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Worried about my crush [18F] seeking validation from relationships and my [20M] unconscious pursuit of codependent relationships POST: **DATING/CONTEXT:** I took a friend of a few months who had broken up with her long-distance BF (6 months together, <2 months on the same continent,...
What are your personal experiences with romantic partners whose self-esteem overly relies on validation from relationships. Any advice for a 20 year old male afraid of winding up in (co)dependent relationships?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (22M) get over my ex and best friend (25F) POST: We met online (not a dating website) in february. Met in real life in may and really liked each other, and entered a relationship. However, after a month it became apparent that it didn't work between us. I wanted more than wh...
Relationship didn't work. We're still very good friends and would like to remain that way, but I'm still falling in love with her every day.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my Girlfriend [28 F] of 2.5 years, we had an open relationship, then we didn't, now I think it's best to have one again? POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. I met my girlfriend in Europe 2.5 years ago, as I travel a lot for work. We hit it off right away and began d...
GF and I have had an exclusive/open/exclusive relationship but I'm not sure if she respects the exclusive part, where do I go from here?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: On the verge or divorce of 11yr relationship... But can I get him back? POST: I'm 30/f and he's 33/m. We've been together for total 11.2 yrs and married 1.2. He is my first love, my first everything, I moved 2 states away to be with him. We married on our 10yr ani. I recent...
11yr relationship on the rocks due to coworker. says he loves me and always will. Lady texts still continue. I'm scared and alone with family 800 miles away. Advice?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [33/m] having communication/relationship problems with [31/f] partner of six years. Going out of my mind :( POST: Today she decided to lend out some of our DVDs to a random male parent that she met while taking her daughter to karate class. If I were to do something like that,...
gf of six years takes things that we shared and shares them with other guys. Does not communicate with any depth, always says "I don't know"<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: In a great relationship, but don't want to hurt her in the long run (m20, f20) POST: This'll probably be a little long, so I apologize in advance for that. We started dating about 8 months ago, and it's been great. I mean by far the best relationship I've ever had. She's pretty attr...
Great relationship, will probably have to end it in a few years, should I now or see how it plays out.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Recurring scary as heck nightmares. Help?! POST: Lately, I seem to be having the same nightmares at least once every week. I know the concept of sleep paralysis, and have had nights where I just wake up completely frozen, scared shitless, and it takes me what seem to be the longest 2 min...
Recurring nightmares about a presence in my room that feels utterly real. Don't want to believe in demons and spirits, but need some explanation to rationalize the damn sequence.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I(17m) want to tell a friend (17f) What I've felt for like 2 months, but I can't. Would anyone be kind enough to help? POST: Well, this might be lame, but I'll tell anyway. I have had a crush on girls before, it's not new. But I had never felt something as deep and intense as with he...
I (17m) love a friend (17f) since 2 months ago and I can't tell her and I need advice on how to.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] just dumped my [22 F] Girlfriend of 7 month. I fell horrible! POST: Hi there fello redditors, I just made the big annoncement! The worst way I think I could have done it. She text me during the work hour that 'Tonight we need to talk!' But since friday, when we had a huge...
I said to my girlfriend that we can't be a couple anymore and I fell horribly bad, because she really loved me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to be the "rock" for my girlfriend. POST: This happened on Friday of last week. I[26M] got a call at 6 am from my girlfriend[24f]. She calls crying stating she was in a car accident and was scared because she couldn't feel or move one of her leg's. She was scared she was goi...
Girlfriend got in accident, drove 7 hrs to see her. Tried to gather her belongings but the lot was closed. Climbed the fence like a monkey and got arrested for Trespassing.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it wrong to want to runaway? POST: As background, I'm a 19 y/o college male who was forced to work 40 hour weeks during the summer to "help pay for gas" on his car that gets ~30 mpg. That's the only thing I need money for besides the occasional date with my girlfriend. So I'm being fo...
I'm tired of being forced to work 40 hour weeks and seeing my girlfriend once a week and friends no times out of the week. Is it wrong to want to run away?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what is a seemingly stupid thing that has changed your life forever? POST: In my case it would be playing a card game called Yu-Gi-Oh!. I started playing with some friends in my class at school and I really enjoyed it (I used to play back in 6th grade, but then quit when the fad ...
= I started playing Yu-Gi-Oh and made some black friends. I am now less white and more popular.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I start investing in my 401k at 21? POST: I recently started a new job and it comes with a 401k with some sort of matching program from the company. This is my first full-time job with benefits and I don't really know anything about 401ks except they are a sort of retirement...
should I start putting money in my 401k now? Can/should I wait? Is there a minimum amount I can put in? What exactly is a 401k and will it complicate my taxes? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my GF [27 F], 3 months, relationship is still new to me, but she acts like were married... Does sketchy stuff I'm suppose to not worry BC we're dating? POST: There has been a few fights and what not but for the most part everything has been good. This is my first serio...
New GF way too.comfortable way too fast, not trying near as much as before, slightly taking advantage, not putting out, etc.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My boyfriend (M17) and I (F18) broke up, but still talk. What am I supposed to do? POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We met during a class, and started talking during the holidays. We started dating right at the new year, and its been one of the best relat...
My boyfriend broke up with me, says he loves me but can't be in a relationship. Will time apart help us, or should I pick up the pieces and try to move on?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32/M] with my wife [29F], FIL [56M]refers to me as the 'nincompoop' POST: Hello all, Please excuse me as English is not my first language. I would like an outside perspective please on the relationship between me and my wife. I have been married to my wife for around 9 months ...
Father in Law has no respect for me, believes his daughter should have married someone else and is starting to affect how his daughter (my wife) treats me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Anyone try using Zoosk? Apparently, I (24m) am terrible at it. NEED HELP, PLEASE POST: So, female perspective would be extremely helpful, but any advice is appreciated... I try using various approaches, but I barely get any responses. I've tried clever openers, authentic openers (r...
I'm desperately in need of assistance in my online dating game. I might even provide a link to my profile if it's necessary...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: December the Fifth POST: This day, four years ago, my life drastically changed. It would be a better story for me to tell you where i m now, instead of telling you what i have endured. I have never, until this posting, put to words my ordeal. OK...here goes. Oct....07. Was sexually as...
Four years of hell. Was raped,and in two car accidents, but throught it all still very optimistic and didn't kill myslef<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: He couldn't get it up, now he's not texting me. POST: Sorry if I'm in the wrong place for this. I had this crush on a guy for a long time, we work together. He invited me over really late one night to hangout, this is like the first time he's shown actual interest in me...so I'm stoked. Af...
I like this guy for 2 years, finally get in bed w him, whiskey dick, he's not talking to me anymore. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [24 M]wants me [23 F] to sleep over at his house more, but he lives with his parents. POST: I honestly just need some feedback. My boyfriend still lives with his parents (I love his family, and although they have issues like every family, they always make me feel accepte...
BF wants me to stay at his place, but he lives with his parents. I feel uncomfortable because i have my own place, and would rather sleep here.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Non-studying exam prep? POST: I'm about to take a board exam on a Wednesday at 1:00 PM. I've been able to take a a lot of days off work just before the exam, and was wondering, is there something I should be doing with my schedule to make sure my brain is functioning at maximum potentia...
Non-studying things to do to get body/brain prepared for test (I.e. sleep, eating, working out at certain times)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Joining Marines in less than a year, mother is not supporting my option. POST: I decided a couple of years ago that I am going to join the military. Over the last couple of years I have been involved in JROTC, while I know that it is as far as you can possibly get from actually being en...
Mom will cut me off completely if I join the marines. Need advice on how to convince her to let me join without cutting me off.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22F) broken up with by him (22M) last week, have a ton of schoolwork to do, no moivation, help me focus? POST: I'm approaching finals week and about to take the MCAT, also working on med school applications. I'm having such a hard time feeling motivated. I know I need to do thing...
looking for advice on focusing on myself post-breakup when I Have a ton of work to do to keep moving on with my future<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: SO [17F] using relationship as an ultimatum to get me [17M] to get a job. POST: I'm currently at college studying my A Levels (UK) aspiring to university next year (conditional). She too is doing A levels but she's been working as her mum tells her to get a job. My SO is using our r...
Am I wrong for wanting to get my A levels finished and sorted before I get a job or do I need to get some sense knocked into me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my ex [22 F] My ex had a threesome 2 days after we broke up, she ruined threesomes for me POST: This might be an odd issue. I've always liked the idea of a threesome - FFM. I talked about it with my ex, but she did not want FFM, she wanted MMF. She didn't want to see ...
Ex had a threesome without me two days after we broke up. I now loose all interest in sex if a threesome comes up on my screen, or if I hear about one. Any way to get past this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [16/m] Is it worth it to ask a friend of mine (16/f) out? If so, how? POST: Sorry if I just sound like a confused kid or something, but this is all new to me. I have a girl friend about whom I care very much, and I talk to her pretty much every day via the internet, besides w...
Romance newbie, don't know if worth it to risk friendship for other kind of relationship or if I even like her in that way and don't know how to ask someone out other than as friends with tons of other people.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24M] girlfriend [23F] accidentally sent me a naked picture POST: I've been dating Christina for a year. We have been long distance for the last two months, with two more months to go until she gets back from a program she is in. We often talk over Facebook chat. If you guys don...
My long distance gf accidentally copied and pasted a nude photo of herself into my Facebook chat. She apologized and said it was meant for me later as a surprise, but we have never exchanged photos and I don't believe her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Parent publicly hits child. POST: Dear /r/parenting, As I didn't know where I should put this, I decided to come to you guys for advice. Today, I was on my way to work when I decided to stop at the local Walgreens to pick up a couple of movies from redbox for a date tonight. Upon app...
A mother hit her child for disobeying her in public and then apologized after she saw me witness it. I told her it was cool and went about my day. What should I have done?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M 21] saw my ex gf [21 F] talking to another guy on her friends [21 F] snapchat story. I have moved on from the relationship but I cant stop thinking about the idea of her talking to another guy. Help me think rationally. POST: Title pretty much says it. We were together for 4 yea...
saw my ex gf of 4 years talking to another guy, cant stop thinking about it even though I thought I moved on.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21F] boyfriend [23M] of 6 months says he's confused about "love" POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over 6 months. We have a great relationship; we've never really fought except for a few disagreements/debates that were always civil. We're sort of long distance bu...
Boyfriend of 6 months can't tell if he loves me because he isn't sure what love feels like due to lying about it with his ex to have sex with her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: From pure frustration to pure thankfulness. POST: I work part time at a Membership Wholesale warehouse (it rhymes with George Costanza's ATM Pin code). It is also important to note that I am also on the pastoral staff at a church. At the warehouse I work at the door and check people's c...
Guy calls me racist for doing my job and I yell at him for race baiting. He realizes his mistake and apologizes the next day.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should i [19 M] tell her [18 F] how i feel, now? POST: So I've had a crush on a girl who happens to be my best friends sister for a while. I've discussed it with my friend and he is actually really happy about it and after much thought and discussion i decided i would give it a go. ...
Not going to see my crush until easter, not sure if i should tell her now or wait and ask face to face.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my GIrlfriend [26 F] together for years, about to move in together, and this morning she's eating a giant crumby muffin in bed. POST: For years I've told her that if we ever move in together, there can't be any eating on the bed because it seriously bothers me. It's th...
Moving in with girlfriend. She ate in bed this morning despite me expressing quite clearly countless times throughout the previous *years* of our relationship that I can't stand it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How do I [19M] not push her [18F] away? POST: We started a LDR in September, I went away for school. We talk every day, and we skyped quite a bit. Our relationship was amazing while I was at home. It changed a few weeks ago and hasnt been back to normal since. She doesnt real...
GF has become distant, I notice and bring it up to often-ish, and I think I've started pushing her away.. how can I fix this and stop from doing that.. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my Crush/Friend [16 F] developing feelings mutually, not sure what her boyfriend will think POST: I met this girl at a soccer game about three weeks ago, and that was just a brief "Hello, nice to meet you". Fast forward one week, I see her at a football game and it tur...
Girl and I like each other, her boyfriend doesn't know, I have no clue what to say because she acts like its nothing and says she lost feelings for him. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend[23F] and I[23M] broke up a week ago, mutual friend has now blocked me on FB POST: A little backstory, my ex and I have known each other for 10+ years. We used to be really good friends, then went through some issues and weren't friends for a while. We reconnected last y...
GF broke up with me and told me that she wasn't interested in anyone else, but is spending a lot of time with a mutual friend who now has blocked me on FB. Should I confront her about it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Mortgage loan originator will lose commission if I refinance my mortgage within 6 months. What's my liability exposure here? POST: I purchased my first home less than 6 months ago, and financed the purchase with a mortgage loan that I obtained through a mortgage broker. Rates have...
Mortgage loan originator will lose his commission if I refinance my mortgage within 6 months. If I refinance anyways, can I be sued for anything? What's my liability exposure in this situation?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: As a redditor who went to college before everyone had laptops I have a question. POST: I see all these pictures of every kid on a laptop during class. What the hell do you need a laptop for? To take notes? Isn't it distracting to have all those laptops where you could see them? I would s...
I am not that old, but how do laptops work in a classroom setting? I took notes with a pencil like a caveman.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26F] boyfriend [36M] of 7 months said something a week ago that I can't stop thinking about. Red flag? POST: I was in the passenger seat as my boyfriend (we'll call him Chad) was driving us to a dinner another couple was hosting. I started chit-chatting about it being the first o...
My boyfriend doesn't think bills need to be paid on time. He has 80K in student loan debts and lives at home because he has no income. Wondering what it would mean for our future.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Totally a dork with the whole "dating" thing. I need some real advice. POST: I am a 21yo female and I've never had a boyfriend. I used to be in love with the guy for over 4 years but he just used me as emotional support and lead me on. I've dated (if you could consider it that- we we...
I'm a somewhat shy nerdy intellectual who's never had a bf but currently has developed a crush and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] with my ex [27 M] duration, on/off 2 years-In a bit of a Long Distance predicament... POST: Throwaway account! So my now ex-bf and I broke up a couple of days ago, one of the main reasons was because I moved to a different part of the country at the beginning of the year a...
LD BF and I broke up a couple of days ago. I was just offered a great opportunity back home and would possibly move back in a couple of months. Should I try to re-kindle or just let it be...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with [22 F] She doesn't want to talk anymore POST: I was messaging this amazingly cute girl and we seemed to be a perfect match for each other but she stopped messaging me out of the blue and so I ended up messaging her 5 times with no response. She finally got back to me b...
cute girl doesn't want to talk to me after messaging her too much. I know I fucked this up. What can I do to get her back or get over this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] flicked through Girlfriend [21F] of 6 months' messages on her phone, feel guilty, what to do? POST: My GF (R) and I have been seeing each other for about 6 months now, we took it slow to begin with because she broke up with her ex BF of 4 years at the start of December. I h...
Made a mistake by looking through GF's phone, and found GF texting 'I miss you x' to exBF - what to do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [24 M] I made a mistake with [24 F], what do I do? POST: **Overall Story:** So I used to hook up randomly a lot and get wasted often too, I didnt enjoy it though. My gf comes along and makes me a better person, I also drink less. I absolutely adore this girl, and I want to marry her....
My gf changed me into a better person, but I fucked up one last time. What option do I choose?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] don't know whether I should wait or pursue a relationship now. POST: So this has been something I've been going back and forth about to ask. For a good reason too, but it depends on the person and their view because I think there are many ways to go about it. This is why ill...
I don't feel comfortable in my current state to pursue a relationship. Especially without a car. Should I try anyways? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Okay Reddit, here's my love story. POST: I'm 20, female and I live in Ohio. I've met this amazing guy. We share all of the same interests, we think the same way/have the same goals in life. We just get each other and click so well. We talk for hours every night on Skype, and I ...
I'm a white 20 year old girl and I like an asian 17 year old guy. Is it right, will it work?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [22 F] 1.5 years, doesn't want me going with her to see family POST: My GF has been with her parents on a vacation for a month and we haven't gotten to spend any holidays together. I've seen her family only twice since we've dated. She's coming back in 2 weeks an...
GF has been on vacation and wants to take a trip to see her grandparents right when she gets back, doesn't want me to go.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's your worst on the move fapping story? NSFW POST: In a car, boat, plane, train etc. And I supposed i'll get this started. (If this has already been done I apologize for copying someone. Let me take you back to my freshman year of high school. Obviously being a 15 year old boy my ...
I went on a trip via train and fapped while and elderly couple watched, then left the sock under my seat where I assume it still may be.<|endoftext|>