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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [23 M/F] of 4 years, cannot decide if i should break up with my girlfriend, need advice!!
POST: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4 years now, we have had our short break ups in the past (3 weeks was the longest). Over the past couple of years she... | Had alot of red flags come up within the past couple of years with my girlfriend of 4 years, Love her but cant see myself putting up with her for life, should i break it off?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] with my SO [19F] of 3 years, I keep fucking up and ruining things and then make the fight difficult for her.
POST: Hey reddit, I've been having a really hard time with SO lately and its generally my fault and as a result I carry all the blame and fault because I deserve it b... | I've been having some problems with my SO recently and my sensitive and self loathing nature doesn't allow us to have a proper fight.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] with my partner [28 /F] 3 years, got me a gift that i can't really use.
POST: So i have recently been trying to focus on my creative writing and my partner, very thoughtfully, got me an online novel writing course through groupon. Today i was looking through the course and ... | partner got me a gift from a scam company and i don't want to spend the time to use it but i don't want to hurt her by telling her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Dealing with an odd situation and breakup. Could use some guidelines here.
POST: I posted previously about a long-distance relationship I was in (I'm a 19 year old male, she a 20 year old female) and we pretty much dated without the title for 5 months or so. We were long distan... | Long distance relationship, break up, and now what to say to her after she's texted me the first time since we've broken things off.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18 M] am having insecurities about my long-distance relationship with my girlfriend [18 F] of a month. Her brother ruins our time together.
POST: So we met through a friend, specifically a friend that moved away about a year ago whom I kept in touch with. One night we were having ... | Friends brother always interferes with our chats, making me feel uncomfortable every time we chat. Also uncertain about where this relationship is heading.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's a good way to pass time while drunk, bored and alone
POST: Bit of a back story. recently moved city with my girlfriend so she could study. I had a job lined up so i was planning on working. The first few months went as i thought they would being home sick etc. But i was working a ... | I'm so alone but I'm also about to be drunk. What things can i do to pass the time. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Any advice?
POST: So there's an amazing girl I've meet. She's lovely,and we've been talking for several weeks. Just over two. She has an impeccable taste in music, and movies. She has the most amazing sense of humor, and she's pretty much beautiful. She's witty, and down to earth. Around... | Amazing girl I'm interested in. I don't want to bore her. Stuff we can do/talk about? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 24[m] got offered sex out of the blue from 29[f] on an online depression site. she's not attractive. i'm desperate and horny.
POST: i've been talking to this girl on a depression website just cause i want someone to talk to. We had some back and forths, but eventually her attitude wa... | Get offered sex from a girl that i consider ugly... and i say this as a guy with low standards. yet i still am seriously considering having sex with her ...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Question about Self Employed Estimated taxes paid quarterly- a few issues
POST: Backstory: bought a house last year (finally), after settling the last of my credit card debt. Of course I had to pay taxes on the full amount, which burned, but I did so I could be debt free and move o... | Trying to save $ by eating at home/not spending too much but afraid I will screw my deductions up on 2016 self employed taxes.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: To redditors that go clubbing, question about importance of club dancing ability
POST: quick background: I'm normally fine dealing with members of the sex I'm interested in (I'm a straight male). I have confidence, average/above average looks, good dresser. I've taken tango lessons (I'm ... | So reddit, is dancing ability important and if so what can I do to get better outside of going to lots of clubs?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by listening to the GPS
POST: This actually happened last night, but I was extremely tired by the time I made it to a hotel, so...
I am in the process of moving my family from western Washington to Texas. Yesterday after work, we loaded up in the family truckster and hit the road. T... | Son played with GPS, started traveling cross-country after a long day of work, ended up on the wrong roads because of my son.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19M] girlfriend [18F] is not friends with my female friend [19F] anymore
POST: I have known my female friend, let's call her A, for a year now. I originally actually met my girlfriend through A originally, but around 4-5 months into our relationship they had a "fight" and decided... | My girlfriend and my female friend who I met the girlfriend through got into a fight, but I don't want to lose any of them. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How boggled has your mind been by a co-worker?
POST: Long story short, my current client is a major bank who is cutting all their costs at present due to the downturn - a large part of this involves outsourcing.
Recently, an Indian colleague turned round to someone on a conference call ... | guy gets employed by a bank, sometimes sends his brother in his place to do his job without permission, gets fired after brother corrects someone on a call for using the wrong name<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is it normal to be more worried about Sophomore year in college than Freshman?
POST: So, in less than a week I will be headed back to college after summer break and I am feeling extremely worried and anxious. As the title says, I am experiencing a lot more nervousness this year than I di... | More nervous this year than last year about college because now I know what to expect and didn't particularly enjoy it the first time around as a non-partier. Any ideas to have a better experience?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21m] read her [22] journal...
POST: We [21m, 22f] have been together almost a year and been living together for 3 months now. It was just sitting out where she left it, and stupid ol me read it all. I have descovred a terrible fact. She consistently writes about her best friend wh... | Read her journal only to find out she is madly in love with her straight best friend. Is our relationship in trouble (besides the fact I broke her trust)?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [19M] into a girl [19F] but she's away for the summer. Another girl [19F] seems she's into me so I might want to take a shot but don't want to turn the first girl away.
POST: Hey all,
So I'm a 19M and I've been friends with the first girl for almost 4 years now, let's call... | Friend who wants to try being more-than-friends is away for the summer and we're just friends for right now, but because she's away for so long is it worth going for someone else in the meantime?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by putting a plastic bag in my pocket.
POST: This just happened less than thirty minutes ago, but I have to go back to earlier in the day to tell this story right.
I work in IT for a restaurant company and occasionally have to hang monitors. Today I was working in the kitchen assembling... | left a plastic bag in my pocket, went to the airport, looked like I was trying to bring drugs on my plane.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21F] parents [50s] are refusing either to do anything to help their marriage or to get divorced, anything I could/should do?
POST: My parents have been together for over 30 years, but it's not always been plain sailing (they're very open about their breakups before they got marri... | My parents are being totally dysfunctional, refusing to speak about it and each assuming the other one doesn't care. Is there anything I can/should do, e.g. encourage them to go to marriage counselling?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Gf [21] cheated on me M[26] but doesn't know I know yet.
POST: Throwaway just because, so anyway, Gf and I are going on a 2 year relationship. We don't live together, We are about 30 minute drive from each other, so seeing each other is nothing to worry about. As for the cheating, fr... | gf cheated all but sex, doesn't know i know, i want to save the relationship but don't know how or even if I should.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Update - I [22 M] have been talking to a girl [22 F] online for some time, should I make a move?
POST: Original post :
We continued texting back and forth for the last couple of days.
She went home for the holidays and invited me again to meet her in her hometown saying that it c... | I followed the advice i was given here, asked if she was interested and got a weird answer ! I m kind of confused, not sure what the next step is...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is my boyfriend(25) cheating? Looking for an outside opinion.
POST: My boyfriend(m25)and I(f26) have known each other since High School and have been together about a year and a half now. He jokes it feels like we've been together a year for every month because were so comfortable wi... | Shallow boyfriend. I got fat. Hes been sexting online. I'm losing weight but in the mean time how do I trust him? Do I just get out?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My Girlfriend has a Body Odour problem, I don't think she knows, and it's really starting to affect our relationship. How do I tell her!?
POST: Ok - first things first. I'm not trolling, but as this is Reddit, I'm fully aware of what I might have let myself in for (hence the fake account... | My Girlfriend stinks - I'm not man enough to just tell her straight, how can I tell her without hurting her feelings?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21M] am wondering if it's worth sticking it out with my current GF [18F] through our LDR until I see her in 2 months.
POST: Hi /r/relationships,
I've been seeing a wonderful girl for the past 2 and a half months or so. We have been together since mid May, and have been in a long-... | Current GF is acting distant and blames it on mental health. I want to support her but I'm not sure whether sticking with it is the best course of action.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (24M) girlfriend's (22F) favourite dress is the ugliest thing ever. How do I get her to stop wearing it?
POST: I've been dating my girlfriend for three months now. Normally her style is pretty nice – simple/classic, like lots of one colour things, yeah I guess pretty simple and st... | my girlfriend has a butt-ugly dress and wears it all the time. How do I get her to stop?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Need Help Calming down my Tech-illiterate Friend
POST: Note: Don't get all up on my ass for piracy. That's not what this is about.
A friend and I wanted to try out Minecraft, so we used a pirated copy to try LAN play before buying. I installed the game on my XP desktop, my Win7 laptop, ... | My friend blames me for hardware failure on his computer, even though I am certain I did not cause it. How can I convince him of this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU for burning drugs in front of all my friends
POST: Well this actually happened 2 years back. I was a 10 years old kid back then and it was during summer holidays, so I met up with all my childhood friends and we had so much fun at my house. We were having a party actually, to celebrate t... | burned "hay" and made all my friends really high and found out that it was actually weed that we burned.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] and the Taiwanese girl [28?F] I play sports with
POST: I'm currently living in Taiwan and recently started dancing with a local hip hop dance group. The group is really fun and has been very welcoming to me. It's become one of my main ways to socialize and exercise.
One of ... | I live in Taiwan and participate in a dance group with with locals. There's a girl in the group I have a crush on, what do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: I'm [21F] and [25M] Guy used to text a lot but doesn't text as much anymore
POST: I posted this on /r/dating_advice too but I wanted to get your opinions here.
I've been going out with this guy I met on Tinder for about a month now, we've been on 3 dates, each of which has gone re... | guy i've been on a few dates with used to text a lot but doesn't as much anymore, i'm not sure what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My wife asked me why when a half naked girl walks by I automatically look... I told the truth.
POST: Us in our late 20's. Together 7 years, Married 6 years. My wife apparently never understood men and I am only her second real relationship. She asked me last week why I look if a girl... | Wife saw me glancing at people without really realizing it, I told her how men work, she thinks I am a cheater<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I can haz friendship?
POST: Here's the deal - I'm a normal geek type guy with a normal life. I've had sex plenty of times (consensual and legal you sick fuck) and have had a good amount of friends in my life - until I moved to where I am at (to remain undisclosed.) Here in this particula... | This place sucks and I want to move in 6 months - wanna be my fwend? Also, I am totally willing to talk to ppl over AIM client per request.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [22M] new to love, when should I suggest escalating to sexual stuff with her [19F] (1.5 Weeks)?
POST: Hey, guys, awkward guy with an awkward question. I'm happily in a relationship with a slightly younger woman, and although she has been in a few relationships, most of them have ... | I've never had any experience in a prior relationship, and neither does she. When is the best time to advance our relationship to the intimate level?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my gf [28 F] 4yrs, is this acceptable behavior or am I crazy?
POST: Ok.
So we have been living together for years and things were always fine. In the past year, I have been studying for and taking the CPA exams so that I can make more money, be more successful, etc.... | GF doesn't seem to care that I need to study, gets wasted all the time, and has parties in my house when I'm trying to study.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [28F] boyfriend [29M] of 1 year semi-broke up with me, then immediately changed his mind. Need some guidance.
POST: A few days ago, my boyfriend who I love a ton and see myself with forever semi-broke up with me. He told me he was scared he couldn't make me happy enough... that I ... | Boyfriend semi-broke up with me, but we stayed together. Now I'm wondering how to get over it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: M[24] ~~F[29, 23, 26]~~ With three failed relationships over the past 16 months, I'm beginning to doubt that what I'm looking for is realistic?
POST: M(24) just had to break it off w/F(26) tonight...4 months.
I'm an active, young professional and relatively career focused. I'm not r... | Is having fun and companionship really a possibility without it getting serious? or does it always have to turn into more?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: "Minorities" of Reddit: do you ever think about how represented you are in design?
POST: I've done a lot of work managing web and print projects, often for local government or charity-type organisations.
There's a special kind of middle-management panic when a design is produced which s... | are bureaucrats right to spend time and money making design as "inclusive" as possible, or do people really not care, as long as it's not just carelessly white male middle class?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [19/M] am afraid of trivializing my new girlfriend [20/F] after we have sex.
POST: Hello Reddit.
I'm now entering my first relationship in over a year. I have spent the last two semesters talking to a lot of different girls, and on two occasions I had fwb situations with som... | Afraid of sex in a relationship bcuz emoshunzzz even though I don't have a problem hooking up. I guess.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Which parent do I live with? Help.
POST: So, last night I told my mom I wanted to move to my dads. Since I've been born my parents have been fighting for custody over me. The struggle has always been me wanting to move to my dad's, but my mom convincing me. Let me explain the two situati... | I used to be lonely at my mom's, so i said I wanted to move to my dad's, but she got a new job so she'll be at home more and now I'm confused on what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My roommate [22/M] of three years is an alcoholic. I [22/M] feel like I could have helped, but now coming home just makes me depressed and I don't even want to be around him anymore.
POST: My roommate and I were friends in high school and came to college at the same time. Things were... | my roommate is (possibly inadvertently) making my living situation really depressing. We only have a few months left together, so is it worth saying/doing anything? Maybe I just needed to vent.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What did I do that my boyfriend's friends don't like me? [18m/19f]
POST: Sorry this might be kind of long.. but any input would be grateful here
So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for now almost a year. In the beginning he took me to meet his friends, and we all got along great... | boyfriend's friends won't talk to him or me anymore, and I have been nothing but friendly to them throughout our whole relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Let's be constructive, Reddit: what advice would you give to forever-alones who want to get laid/find a girlfriend?
POST: There's a lot of posts taking the piss out of forever-alones, particularly the ones that call them shallow or self-entitled for thinking they deserve a hot, caring gi... | If your best friend was a massive forever-alone and told you he would kill himself if you didn't help him find a hot girlfriend by the end of the year, how would you help him succeed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO [24M] and I [23F] have been so busy/stressed lately. Together 1.5yr. Advice on bringing back the spark with little time/energy available for intimacy?
POST: Looking for ideas!
My boyfriend and I both work. I have final exams (graduating this December!), he is an accountant, we... | Advice on bringing back the spark when we have little time/energy available for intimacy? Our schedules don't really slow down until April!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [17 M] Girlfriend [17 F] keeps talking to other guys on Skype behind my back.
POST: So me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now, everything is going alright but recently she met this dude online who she plays League of Legends (an online MOBA) with and has been playin... | My girlfriend is skyping some other dude for 6 hrs late at night behind my back and I dont know if I should confront her about it because we havent been dating for that long.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should you plan your career and wait for opportunities that align with it, or take great opportunities as they come, even if they're not in the direction you forsaw?
POST: I'm a civil engineer-in-training. I decided a few months ago I was going to try to develop a career in X. Or then,... | An opportunity came up that will take me in a very different direction than what I studied/planned for. Do I pursue it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] may end it with my great GF [27 F] of 4 years, but I'm unsure if it's because my curiosity & standards are too high/unnecessary.
POST: I started dating her when I was 19. Let me start off by saying that although we've had a few breaks, it's been a happy relationship. She is ... | Should I focus on being independent and having fun, or invest time in someone that really supports me but Im not terribly crazy about?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, Should I lower my standards?
POST: ** Sorry, this belongs in /r/Relationships **
This isn't another "Forever Alone" post.
After reading a ton of these types of posts/comments, I'm seeing a pattern. It looks like almost everyone just wants people out of their league and no one ... | Should I stick with my high standards until I find a keeper, or up my weight limits and hope for more physical attraction to build based also on personallity? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Unreasonable speed/special hazards ticket for stopping at the scene of an accident
POST: I was driving down a 55 mph limit mountain road in Upstate New York at 11:00 p.m., going approx. 55 mph. I drove around a left-hand turn and saw red and blue flashing lights coming from a police ve... | I came around a turn doing the speed limit and came upon an accident and state trooper. I stopped as soon as possible, but received a ticket for 'unreasonable speed/special hazards.'<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by causing a divorce.
POST: I work for a family and divorce lawyer as a secretary, and one of my daily jobs is to call back leads that were emailed to us through a website that connects folks to attorneys. If a client doesn't answer, we leave a voice mail to the extent of "Hi, this is Dr... | I left a voice mail from a divorce attorney on the wrong person's voice mail, his wife heard, decided she would start that process from her end preemptively.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: [Update] Contract job dismissing me in a month. Can I get unemployment? Do I have get my boss a gift for this party?
POST: Original here.
I work as a contract employee at a corporation. Basically a staffing agency placed me at this location and I work there full time 9-5 like it's a normal j... | getting canned in about a month, lead me to believe it is long term, very upset, can i get unemployment, coworkers throwing party for boss, don't wanna get gift.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My wife has some pretty severe back pain, that has lasted off and on for a few years. I have some ideas to help, does anyone know if these would help?
POST: Like the title says, she has had some sharp and overall lower to mid back aches and pains. This particular occurrence has lasted ... | Wife has bad lower back pain that has affected what she can do with the kids and around the house. Looking for good ways she can relieve that pain.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, can you help me find out exactly what kind of scam this "company" is running to potentially save a friend's business?
POST: A good friend of mine works at a dance studio, and recently an obvious sleazy pyramid-scheme type guy shows up and convinces her boss to be in some kind of ... | Strange scam I can't figure out has a hold of a good friend's dance studio owner's ear and doesn't realize it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18/M] met a girl[19/F], went on a date with said girl, and left completely confused. No idea what to do.
POST: Also, sorry if this isn't the right sub, if it's not, would love advice on where to post. Anyway, I met a girl today, we seemed to connect pretty quick. I met her at her ... | met a gorgeous girl, had a great time on a date, she ended up rejecting me after the date, now I'm confused.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is my (26m) friend (24f) using me to get her house done?
POST: I am a pretty hand guy for home improvements, minor mechanics and some carpentry. If some one needs my help, I will say yes 9 times out of 10. My friend (we will call her Z) has been doing some remodeling projects over th... | My friend will go for long periods of time where the only plans she keeps are when i am helping her. Even caused me to waste time and money cooking a dinner she stood me up on.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M] with my ex-gf [22 F] 6-year, we have been calling each other.
POST: My ex-girlfriend and I broke up 6 months ago. I called her after a month and wanted to get things straight but she reused because she was talking to another guy she was interested in (she says not, but of c... | My ex-gf and I just had sex four days ago and she has a boyfriend. I believe she is confused.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Peculiar Situation
POST: Basically, there's this girl I like. We've attended the same school for two years (a high school college dual enrollment program), and I've had a crush on her from the moment we first met (not even joking - she walked over on orientation day and said he... | I like this girl, we fit well together, she doesn't want a relationship and we're probably going to different colleges. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[25m] bumped into this girl[20f] it happened so fast and I told her that I love her... Now I feel like guilty and stupid
POST: I just met this girl on a sunny day who was walking towards me right then and there we exchanged numbers and then after 3 hours she called to meet me and we... | I over excitedly told 20y old girl that I love her in first sight but now I think it was too fast. How do I tell her about it as she seems a little immature?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My friend[18M] and his gf [18F] (3 months), please help me help him with his LDR problem
POST: my friend (let's call him max) met this girl (let's call her Rachel), 10 months ago, and after 7 months of friendship, they got into a really great relationship. I've genuinely never seen h... | friend is in a LDR across the world and won't see her for at least 2.5 years. Help me do whatever I can to do whatever is right<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: It will be my [28/m] 5yr anniversary with my girlfriend [26/f] tomorrow, I have $8.00 and I need help!
POST: A little history because we have been trough so much together it's hard to put down in words. We met and fell in love instantly, our souls connected. I loved her the m... | 5 years together, $8.00, she is not expecting anything (I also don't have a car, and we live in LA if that helps with ideas)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [26/m] am having trouble with knowing too much about my girlfriend [21/f].
POST: To begin, I love my girlfriend with all of my heart. Everything has been amazing, and even when things aren't, we work through them together. We physically, emotionally, and mentally stimulate ea... | I have a vivid imagination and I know details about my girlfriend's sex life before me. I'm worried that it's going to drag us both down.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I suppose the implied friendzone was not clear enough
POST: (ok. first time posting so honestly, not sure if this even works. if you're reading this, good!) background: guy (m 17) and myself (f16) been best friends for about 2 years, we are on opposite ends of the relationship compatibil... | best friend asks me to a dance, i say yes (assuming its as friends), find out he actually likes me, dont want to lead him on. nice way to cut things?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF (F24) of 4 years broke it off with me (M24) saying the spark has gone... What do I do now?
POST: My GF and I have been dating for 4 years. We've recently hit a rough patch after moving in together. She broke it off with me a week ago saying that the spark has gone. She says she... | GF of 4 years broke it off with me - says the spark has gone. I want to try and bring it back, how long do I wait before approaching her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [27/m] have feelings for my best friend. Don't know what to do with her [25/f]
POST: I met her through work about six months ago. I no longer work there, but we live in the same town. We have a great deal in common and get along really great.
Our relationship has been gettin... | I have strong feelings for my best friend. I don't know how she feels. We are very physical if we have any drinks.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO [26M] and I [26F] are giving it another shot. How do we not screw it up again?
POST: My SO and I were together for 3.5 years when we very suddenly split in December. It was his decision and I was devastated. Over the last few months we've been talking a lot and yesterday decide... | My SO and I have totally different communication styles. He keeps everything in. I definitely do not. How do we communicate better the second time around?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF [21F] belittles me [21M].
POST: I understand that my what I am facing is minuscule as compared to everyone else here but I need some advice. My SO always belittles me. She scolds me like a child, she always vents her anger at me, screaming and shouting. She interrupts whenever ... | GF scolds, scream at shout at me for little things or me not being the cause, she can't be reasoned with<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By Not Noticing a Bag of Dog Shit.
POST: So I work landscaping for the State full time during the summer and can spend up to 6 hours a day on a weed whacker. For me to get through a day like this I just simply allow my mind to wander off and think about whatever (today's topic was the e... | Zoned out while weed whacking at work, hit a bag of dog shit and covered myself in it...still finished out the day.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my former fling [18 M/F] 1 month, she still calls me.
POST: We had a whirlwind of a romance, connected emotionally before physically. She came onto me and made most of the first moves in the initial stages of meeting. We had tons of intimate conversations about her lif... | Whirlwind romance, family problems ensue, we end things badly, she finds a new man, and continues to call me. Why would she call me if she has a new man already?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] seem to get attached to girls too easily and now I'm confused as to when I should hit them up
POST: When I have a great night with a girl, I automatically want to hang out with them the next day but the problem is that it can come off as clingy which I do not want to be. Peo... | After a great night with a girl, I'll immediately want to hang out with them consecutively. How can I stop myself from trying to rush things?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21M] am getting feelings for my coworker [21F] while in a 3 year relationship with my first girlfriend [22M].
POST: Just some background: I started dating my current girlfriend in highschool and it's been going great with a few ups and downs but nothing that would make me say that... | met coworker that I could see a future with while being in a 3 year relationship. Not sure what to do from here on.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What weird things have you seen people do in public?
POST: When I was at the library I was waiting behind a guy at one of those machines where you return books.
The guy put a book in the machine and everything went fine.
Then he put another book in the machine and it told him that he nee... | Stood behind a guy in the library that couldn't read, threw away a reciept that he could've chosen not to recieve.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I have a lisp so a lot of the time people mistake what I say and it gets awkward fast. Reddit, what similar situations have you been in?
POST: I was trying to get to know my boss at my new job. So I stereotyped the guy and thought of an interest we would both have that we could further d... | my boss misheard me because I have a lisp. He thought I said I like fisting, when all I was trying to say was fishing.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What was the most ridiculous reason that you or someone you know has had an outburst of anger for?
POST: I thought of this during work today. A little backstory first. I carpool to work with a girl named "Shelby". She drives a really nice new Camaro. Shelby and I are pretty good friends.... | Makes comment about the speed in which coworker who takes me to work drives, gets bitched at, and I had to walk my ass home. In rain.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Claimed 1 on my W-4, still losing lots of money
POST: hi reddit,
So i'm a 20 y/o college student working a summer job making $10.50 an hour, 40 hours a week. I get paid bi-weekly, which is annoying enough, but I noticed after my first check that I'm losing roughly $100 from each p... | Claimed 1 thinking it would get me more money in my paycheck up front, but that doesn't seem to be the case<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with my friend? [20 M/F]'saw eachother' less than a month after being friends, then things got fucky.
POST: So here's the deal. Me and this girl, just about my best friend, end up both magically liking each other at the end of last spring/early summer and have a little fling... | girl and i were together for a hot minute, now we're not and some trepidation on her end on what she wants to do. What would you do if you were in my shoes?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by possibly interrupting a Bang Bros filming and maybe coming out in the background of one of their films
POST: Throwaway because I don't want to make it too easy to track me down.
Backstory: I work on the same street as bangbros in Miami, FL. I know this because one day while watching ... | i might be a background extra on bangbus. Sorry guys for interrupting your film and threatening to call the cops on you guys. But please make sure I don't come out - I was wearing an orange shirt.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20F) am in love with and sleeping with my friend's boyfriend (21M)
POST: so already i've painted myself as something of a 'bad person'. anyway, i'm all sorts of turned around in regards to this. my feelings all started about six months ago. i was struck quickly by the fact that i ... | sleeping with friend's boyfriend, also in love with him, he won't break up with his girlfriend. i don't want them to break up, but i also want to be with him myself. what should i do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear AskReddit, I am at risk of losing my state scholarship award because over an obscure rule in the fine print, do you have any advice?
POST: So I'm currently in my fourth semester at community college in Tennessee. I've been receiving the state scholarship since I've been here and hav... | I am getting the state scholarship taken away from me my sophomore year over some fine-print BS, only way to continue getting it is to do some lying. :(<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my close friend [22 F] of 4 years, asked her out, got rejected. We're in the same graduate scheme next year.
POST: Friend [22 F] and I [22 M] are on the same undergraduate masters course and have been good friends since the start. I've never been in a serious relations... | I asked a close friend out, got rejected, but I see them constantly. Act normal 'til the feelings go away?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is it that is so intimidating and dehumanising about social groups?
POST: I come from the UK, so there aren't really "cliques". However, we do have something similar, but not to that extent. Sometimes, groups of people with similar interests will hang around with each other. It's al... | After being invited into a social group at school, I noticed that no one was themselves and it was really tense. Why are things like this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 F] with my mom [50 F]. She is cheating on her husband or something.
POST: I feel like I don't even know my own mother anymore. She is currently married and, according to her, in love. She met this man in our home country and she is in the process of bringing him to the United ... | My mother is married and cheating on her husband. Is this even my business? I feel like I don't even know her anymore.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Had my first date in years last night. Crashed and burned.
POST: Throwaway account. 32m, last relationship lasted 3 years, and it ended 2 years ago. So, I've not dated anyone or even knew anyone to ask out for at least 5 years now.
Fast forward to last night. Met someone (31f) who ... | Went out on a date for the first time in 5+ years, got nervous and drank too much, probably acted a fool. Do I try to salvage or move on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Riddle me this, reddit
POST: So about a month ago my girlfriend (22) broke up with me (21M) because she had lost attraction to me apparently. For the first a week or so afterwards we continued to hang out and talk but I put that to an end because I needed to move on. Then we go over a wee... | Ex girlfriend supposedly lost attraction to me but I can still easily turn her on and get her off. Supposedly she still wants to touch me too. What is going on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: Tifu by getting my friend ran over by a tube
POST: So first off this wasn't me but I felt like this story was way to funny to waste.
So once upon a time, about 2 years ago me, friend #1 and friend #2 decided to go tubing (for those in tropical and or have never gone tubing, tubing is basicly... | friend #2 kicked tube out from under friend #1 but kicked him in the face then he got ran over by three oether tubes.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26F] am struggling with self-confidence after being rejected... a lot.
POST: I've been told I'm a solid 8/10, and I personally agree. I've felt pretty good about my looks, personality, intelligence, career, and sense of humor up until recently. By no means am I a stellar gift to m... | really tired of being told to address the symptom and not the problem. Starting to feel like there's no hope for me romantically.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my [18 M] of 6 months, cheated multiple times
POST: The first instance was on New Years Eve, where I accidentally found out that he was heavily "flirting" with one of his friends. After confronting him, and having him promise me it wouldn't happen again, I was able to f... | How do I manage to get through this with him, without feeling the constant anxiety of if he's being unfaithful or not?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25] & my Ex [24]. We were together for two years...Long story...
POST: So pretty much we had been together for two years and she tells me that her heart simply isn't in it anymore. At first the break up was really messy with both of us just constantly hurting each other for no re... | broke up, things were bad but lately things seem to be getting better, at least when it comes to our friendship. Should I wait and see or should I just come out right and ask her if she can see us happening again?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [16m] girlfriend [16f] has feelings for someone else
POST: EDIT: Thanks for the answers! I have decided to breakup with her.
Im going to make it quick...
So basically weve been together for 2 years and she went to this exchange student camp (Im not native english speaker so sor... | girlfriend has feelings for italian guy she met at a exchange student camp. not as strong feelings as she has towards me but she still has those feelings and I cant cope with her having feelings for the italian guy. Help!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: How do you deal with the pain of losing someone who is both your lover and your best friend? I love her but she doesn't love me in the same way.
POST: We (20M/18F) dated for three years. She just broke up with me tonight after a few days of a "break" and the incoming breakup looking obvio... | I have two questions. How do you deal with the initial pain and shock of losing someone you love? And how do you deal with the fact that she was your best friend as well?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My ex (18) lied about cheating on me (17 y/o) because she wanted a clean break because she was going to college.
POST: My ex told me she cheated (by cheated I mean had sex with a guy) on me a week into being in college (I am a junior in high school). I cut off all contact from this g... | Personally, I think this is just a ploy to try and get back in contact with me, but I would just like your opinion on the whole situation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30sF] with my friend [30sF] 3 months, looking for advice on how not to offend or hurt relationship.
POST: Ill keep it short and sweet:
I moved to a new area last year and have recently started making friends with some women my age through a social group (this is HARD to do btw)... | I have a new friend who performs a service as her job. I need the service but have decided to go with someone else. How do i explain/bring this up, without causing problems?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [22M]Reuniting with ex[20F] a few weeks from now.
POST: A little background:
We've been off for 4-5 years, friends for 2 years after the breakup. Then just 2 years ago, I was in her debut and she fucked me up real bad for being an insensitive woman. I swore that time that I have alr... | Ex-GF of 2 years with no contact, we're gonna be having a date in a few weeks from now. Still unsure if I should totally risk the heartache or just be friends with her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've (21F) been seeing a guy (29M) for 11 days, my mom wants to meet him and it gets a little weird. Help?
POST: So i am 21. I live with my mom. 11 days ago i met a guy on tinder. I got drunk and messaged him, but i hate talking on the internet, so i asked to meet in person. I go to ... | I ask a guy ive been seeing for 11 says to meet my mom because i live with my mom and she worries. He got weirded out. :( did i fuck up?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Help! Bridal party advice!
POST: My fiancé, out of excitement and the goodness of his heart, asked four of his best friends to be his groomsmen within days of us getting engaged and said he would also like to ask his younger brother. The problem is, he was so excited, he forgot to ... | fiancé has too many groomsmen, I don't have enough bridesmaids. We both want it even.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My bike got stolen a year ago, now it's parked right across the street! How do I get it back?
POST: In june 2010 I found an old bicycle in my mums garage. When I asked her about it she told me that the bike had been her ride on several holidays but that she hadnt used it for some years n... | My mum gave me her old bike. It was stolen a year ago and presumed gone. Today I saw it parked across the street from where I live, presumably with a new owner. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is this the best way to approach the situation with this girl?
POST: So last school year I(15) talked to this girl(15) from my school a lot over Skype and in real life, Most of the time she initiated conversation until I started to be attracted to her then it was kinda 50/50. This la... | Talked to a girl I liked, had nice conversation, stopped, restarted, dry conversations, stopped, is it the best thing to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16M] with my girlfriend [15F] 9 Months am I just being jealous?
POST: So in the shortest way possible I will try to explain my situation, I have always been a jealous person and that's something I can admit too however my girlfriend also is but she cant admit it, when she has see... | Girlfriend put it in my face about how a few boys she speaks too "wishes she was single" knowing about how I already dont really like these people but she thinks its acceptable but a totally different story when i speak to people<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23M] have been seeing two people simultaneously for the first time in my life. Need help.
POST: I got out of a very shitty, emotionally abusive relationship about a month and a half ago. Some of my friends decided to try and help and set me up with a girl [F/25], we'll call her Zo... | Out of nowhere I had 2 girls interested in me. Have been taking both on dates. Am I a dick? How do I choose? How do I tell one that I can't keep seeing them?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Having a separation problem with my dog.
POST: I live with my boyfriend and a cat and a dog. My dog, Enzo is 11 months. We got him about 5 months ago. He's a great dog...super friendly to other dogs and people, Fairly well behaved (he IS a hyper puppy), and is good with his commands.
I work... | my 11 month old dog gets so depressed when I'm not home and my bf is. I've tried all the usual tips for separation anxiety and nothing is helping.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Only talked for about a minute and got her number. What next?
POST: Background: Last friday, I (23,M) was watching my buddies band playing and spied this girl (21, F) across the bar. I live in a small town and everyone in the bar has 2 degrees of separation or less. I ask my friend ... | Got a girls number after talking to her for less than 2 minutes and now I am getting to worked up about calling her for a date.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My father is on long-term disability and they are going to stop paying him in April, is this legal?
POST: In 2004 my father was diagnosed with kidney cancer, and had to have a kidney removed. After going through the process they believed that he was back to normal, and he returned to wor... | Father got cancer, landed on social security disability and MetLife disability, MetLife is cutting us off in April, because he is making positive progress. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30 M] with my ex-gf [35 F] I ended it after two years. I'm afraid I made a huge mistake.
POST: I left my girlfriend after two years of being together, moving to France, and proposing to her. She said yes, but I felt as if there was so much pressure to live a life that I didn't wa... | Broke up with my gf of two years, am starting to regret it, but wary of trying to move back to her. Help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What false errands have people you been sent on by employers or managers?
POST: I'll start. When i was about 16, my first job real job, I was working in a pub kitchen. I was basically the kitchen bitch but mainly I washed up. On a quiet night the chef decided to cook some things to be pr... | Sent on an errand for Scotch mist which wasnt a reall cooking ingredient. All members of staff were summoned to laugh at me.<|endoftext|> |
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