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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Roommate [23F] gets passive aggressive whenever I [23F] talk to her BF POST: I found my roommate on Craigslist a year ago. She seemed nice and normal at first, and we had no problems. The only person she hangs out with is her BF [24M], 7 days a week. Sometimes she'd bring him over to...	Roommate brings her boyfriend over to OUR apartment, but gets mad whenever I talk to him. Outright ignored me when I said hello the last time this happened. What is the best approach to this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by calling my server a disgusting sloth-like creature POST: Running late for work this morning, I decided I would hit up a drive thru for tea and a bagel. When I got to the window the server guy has on a hand written name badge that says "Jaba". Who couldn't resist a name like that?? In...	Called my drive thru server Jaba the Hut. Got my ass ripped apart. Gotta learn to keep my stupid nerd comments to myself.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] always the FWB/Fuck buddy. How can I be taken seriously? POST: Hey guys, I'm a normal person. However, for as long as I can remember, I go out on dates with guys, either in school or who I met at work/online, and after 1-2 dates, they decide I'm FWB material and nothing mo...	Always the FWB/fuck buddy, never the girlfriend. Different guys, who share connections with me. What gives?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17/f] boyfriend [16/m] of three months told me my anxiety is annoying. I am not sure how to respond. POST: Yesterday, my boyfriend told me my anxiety was annoying. Now, before r/Relationships gets mad at him about it, I want to clarify that he was as nice as possible about it, an...	My boyfriend told me (nicely) that he would like me to stop worrying so much because it annoys him. What should I do? Should I just stop telling him when I worry, or is there another option?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: To the Medics of Reddit POST: Okay, relatively young person here(17), and a lurker of Reddit for a while up until recently. Post high school I knew what I wanted to do was become an EMT, as helping people in every day situations is one of my passions. However, ever since I was aware of d...	Medics of Reddit, how do you cope with death? What was it like the first time you witnessed death on the job? EMT hopeful here, and I want to follow through.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F], I think I'm starting to resent her POST: I like this girl a lot, she's really nice to me, she's very devoted to me, and I care a lot about her. For the most part, her and I have the same goals in life; we want the same future. In that regard, thin...	Girlfriend gets sad very easily, it's starting to make me dread talking to her and resent her. I'm desperate for help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (18f) ex girlfriend (17f) sent me a pic of her and my current boyfriend (17m) and I dont know why am i upset about it. POST: history: two years ago, i (then 16) felt in love with a girl (then 15) for the first time. Lets call her Ann. Our common friend introduced us about a year b...	My (18f) ex girlfriend (17f) sent me a pic of her and my current boyfriend (17m) and I dont know why am i upset about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24/F] with my crush [23/M] whose never had a girlfriend POST: For 6 months I had a crush on a man that I met on a dating website. We met once and he was really awesome. When I told him I liked him, he ignored me. I moved on and got into an abusive relationship for 5 months (it's ...	I have a crush on my old crush's best friend who has never had a girlfriend and I am not sure how to go about this. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 18F looked through my Facebook and broke up with 19M me POST: It's been a rough relationship where she's made a couple of mistakes before. I gave her a chance and we got back together. Recently we fought and she asked for my Facebook password, which I gave to her, and found out...	I'm trying to get my girlfriend to forgive me for not telling her the extent of my relationship with another girl during our break.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (m20) dating a girl (f17) and I need advice! POST: So I've been dating this girl for a few months now, we had a thing a few years ago but decided it wasn't the right time. We've been dating again for 3 months, she has been my best friend for years and I don't know what to do. I got...	Girlfriend has a friend who raises flags with me and she's taking him to prom and I have to sit and watch it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (17/m) getting back into the whole dating thing POST: Welp, it begins with me breaking up with my ex almost 10 months ago. All was good until i met this new girl and hit it off. This was probably about 3 months ago now. We were great for eachother. Cutting the story short, ...	broke up with ex, got played, got close with great friend since kindergarten and have mutual feelings as it seems but don't wanna screw things up<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17M] friends keep coming into my work and annoying me. How can I deal with them POST: Hi Reddit I am hoping you can help me. I am literally at my wits end, I almost lost my temper today at my moms Cafe I work at in front of customers. I live in a small town in America, only 12...	My friends came into my work and were pestering me and annoying other customers. How can I handle this situation next time<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: A "friend" owes me a decent amount of money and has it and won't pay it back or contact me at all. Any suggestions? POST: Backstory - I lent a friend $400 when he couldn't afford his rent back in June. He told me he would pay me back the following week. He fell into some rough times still aft...	Lent friend $400. I lost job and grandmother is very ill, he has money again and wont pay me back. What to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Did I just agree to a date? I'm honestly not sure... POST: Here's the whole story I got in a wreck, It was the other drivers fault. The other insurance company accepts liability. Their insurance calls to finish up on the claim. Talking to the claims rep of the other party and she says s...	Meeting with insurance claims woman in person after the whole claim has been settled. Does this happen? Or is this something else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with two partners [25M/29M] of over a year, longing for solitude, don't know if I actually want to break up POST: First of all, thanks to anyone who reads this. I'm normally more of a commenter, but this time I'd really like some advice. This year has been tough for me. I q...	Spend all my time studying so I won't have to work a job I hate forever; exhausted, stressed and wondering whether being single might alleviate some of the pressure, although my partners are fantastic.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Having second thoughts about what I really want to do with my future. Pls send help. POST: I'm 18 now, and on the verge of starting college. For the longest time, I had big plans of going to college after high school and majoring in Computer Information Science (CIS) and minoring in Busines...	I had a solid plan of going to school and pursuing a good degree, now I'm unsure that college is right for me and am contemplating moving out of state to be with my SO and learn auto maintenance from her family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the worst lie you told a child to shut them up? POST: Here's mine: My med school has an outreach program that teaches healthy eating and exercise to fifth graders at a local inner city elementary school. This year we (5 of us adults) have a group of 13 hyperactive, loud, angry, di...	I lied to a group of children about a teacher being in the hospital so they would shut up and spend 45 minutes making "get well soon" cards<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Reddit, my cat suddenly started acting strange.. i need your help! POST: My 10 month old cat started acting strange recently. He is a rescue so he is normally skittish around people he does not know. With me though, he is an attention whore. When i come home at the end of the day and he hears...	My cat is acting strange, hiding under covers (too terrified to come out), under chairs, in the basement and running away from me when he is normally affectionate and social.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: A question about macros. POST: So I've been lurking on /r/loseit, /r/leangains, and even /r/gainit for a while. My current goal is to get down to about 10% body fat and then begin to slow bulk. Currently I'm about 180 lbs and though I'm not sure what my current body fat percentage is my wei...	1g of protein per pound of body weight, check. So ideally where should the rest of my calories come from? Does it matter?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: How long did it take you to "heal" from ITBS? POST: I put heal in quotes because I am not sure if I am ever going to heal. Putting the following in a numbered list for easy reading! 1. I ran my first Marathon October 15th of 2011, and I have been injured since. Mile 19 of the Marathon i...	ITBS. Took 3 months off, followed by a month of Physical Therapy. No better. Normal? I am desperate.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am i addicted? POST: Hey there, I have a question that has been bothering me for quite a while. I am not a native english speaker so excuse me if I make some weird sentences, just yell at me in the comments. Now, on to my question, the thing is... I have the feeling I might be addicted...	18 year old IT student that still socializes when someone calls but sometimes neglects schoolwork/goes to bed too late to finnish quests considers wether he is getting addicted or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [25 F] is living off my [33 M] money, and is surprised that I am pissed off about it by now POST: I have been with my SO for about a year now. She is currently a student in a small town about 60km from where I live. For the last abut 2 months she has been living with me (seme...	My girlfriend takes it for granted that I pay for everything. She wants to throw me a party for my birthday, but I have to pay for everything. It feels absurd. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: So I have a friend [20/F] confused with what's really going on between her and her ex[22/M]. Any thoughts? POST: He distanced himself from her after their messy break-up. They lost contact. After 8 months, she finally apologized for all what she have done and accepted that they can...	My friends broke up. Had no contact for 8 months. She lost her dog. He let her cry on his shoulder and kissed her nose. What do you think is in his mind?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: GF sharing bed with gay friend - Am I overreacting? POST: Okay, so I hope this is the right section and everything - it's my first post on Reddit... Anyways, I'm together with my GF for one and a half years now. Her best friend is a gay male. At least once a week they meet for...	GF has a gay male best friend. They're going on vacation for a week and will share a bed in the hotel. I'm not okay with that. What to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my coworker [23 F] she called me sexist because i did want her to lift something very expensive and heavy. POST: I'm nit sure if this is the right sub for this. i work in a furniture store and most of the stuff here is expensive (think 3,000-10,000$ items) and heavy. ...	my coworker thinks I'm sexist because i told her i didn't want her help lifting something heavy that was very expensive.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26F], BF [28M] of 2+ years talking about leaving town without me POST: My BF has made it a point to let me know he's against long distance relationships, so being away for more than 2 months basically = breakup for either of us. At first I just tried to ignore it, but in one ins...	boyfriend likes talking about leaving town without including me, absolutely doesn't do long distance, and it really sucks. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [14M] Ex-friend [14M] Will Not Go Away POST: There is always 'that kid' at every school that anyone has ever been to. You know, the one that is disliked almost universally? Sometimes, it's unjustified. For this? Maybe, but that's beside the point. For a long time I hung out with t...	Ex-friend I've been trying to cut out persists in following me, copying me, and commentating on everything I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making an abortion joke to a checkout girl. POST: Okay, like most, this didn't happen today, but it did happen about 10 days ago whilst I was on the way to see my girl (we'll call her Ellie). She was worried because we'd had a lot of unprotected sex that month and her period was due a...	Made an abortion joke whilst purchasing a pregnancy test and a scratcher. Cashier didn't share my dark sense of humour.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I pay off my student loan quickly or just use the cheap money? POST: I recently graduated, and have accepted a great offer, with only ~$5500 of a federally subsidized student loan. The minimum payment is only going to be like ~$50 and I'm not a big spender to begin with, so ...	Am I playing with fire by keeping a loan around that I could easily pay off, or is it worth it just for the credit score and cheap capital?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] with my date [28 F] 3 weeks - met online, gone on several dates. Can't get a read on whether she's just shy or not interested POST: Hello relationships! So I met this seemingly awesome girl online, we hit it off, and met up to go out on a first date for brunch and an outd...	Met girl online, I have no online dating experience. Went out on a few dates, can't get a read on her. Should I just ask her point blank how she feels?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [M21] lied to me and I [F19] need help getting over it. POST: My boyfriend [M21] and I [F19] have been dating for about 13 months. When we started dating I knew a lot of his friends were females- which I was completely fine with. Men and women can totally be friends- tha...	Boyfriend lied to me for a year about his relationships with his female friends. I'm angry, help me get over it- please?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [30f] what to do about thoughts of my ex from 10 years ago and marrital dissatisfaction. POST: I'm stuck in my thinking about my ex fiance from college. Husband [27] can be angry and irritable and at times I feel like I don't have much of a say in things. He'll get mad at ...	Can't stop thinking about emotionally distant ex fiance because I dont feel like I have much say/agency in my marriage. Sad lonely and should talk to husband but I dont know what I need him to understand or how to say it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] Roomates [24M] and [26M]. Am I in the wrong here? Girlfriend over too often? POST: So I live in a 3 bedroom 1 bathroom house. One of my roommates seems to have a problem with my girlfriend staying over for extended periods of time. Let me break it down. She is never at t...	Girlfriend and I spend alot of time together. We are very courteous of my roommates and she does not impact the bills other than using the restroom. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: I'm asking for a raise for the first time ever and I need some advice. POST: Background: I work at a help desk for a software company. I've had this job for about 6 months. After the first month, they surprised us by forcing a few of us (me being one of them) to take a non-standard, 4 days-a-...	Got forced into a shift that has more work, responsibility than regular day shift but does not pay any more. Coworkers on this shift quit. I've been pretty successful so far. Want to ask for a small raise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help [23M] dealing with socially challenged coworker[30F] POST: There's a coworker of mine who has been bothering me for a while(about 3 months) now. She has a younger cousin that I also work with and we get along well, no problems there. But this coworker in particular, is socially ...	socially challenged coworker won't leave me alone, how do I lowkey get her to leave me be without causing an open fuss about it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20 F) discovered that my boyfriend (18 M) has a bad habit. Am I overreacting? POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 and a half months now. Recently when I was over at his place, he was sleeping. So I decided to go see what kind of porn he was into, to maybe ge...	boyfriend looks at hentai, never seems to be interested in me or tell me how he thinks i look. Sex is always covered up. My self esteem has plummeted.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f21) don't am having second thoughts about My fiance (m21) POST: We have had a rocky relationship that has gotten better over time. I see how I am good for him but I feel like he would be happier with someone else.I guess seeing him interact with my new roommate shows me that ther...	I don't think I am the best option for my fiance and I think he can find someone who enjoys the things he does more than me.should I end it or stay because I love him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit I scare myself sometimes: I feel like I would have no problems killing someone. POST: Sometimes when I'm watching a TV show or movie that involves a mob hitman or the like, I feel that I would have no problem killing someone or even multiple people. Which scares me alot. I'm sur...	Basically I don't feel that it's that big a deal to kill someone and it scares me that I feel that way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [25M] Moved for work, blindly moved in with [26F] colleague... POST: So a few weeks ago, I got a new job in a state where I know no one. The employer reached out to people in the business and set me up with a roommate. The lease goes on for a few more months into the summer. ...	I'm living with a hot female roommate and I have no clue what to do. I'm leaning just admire, but that's going to take a lot of restraint.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19m] gf [19f] was flirty with her ex-boyfriend last night. POST: I've [19m] been in a fwb relationship with this girl [19f] for almost a year and a half. We've only been dating for about a month, but we had a really emotional fwb relationship (e.g. she said "I love you" months be...	Girlfriend doesn't tell her ex we're dating. We all go to the bar and when I'm not there he puts his arm around her waist. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Advice needed (please)! POST: I have owned my own (UK) restaurant business for almost four years. Until July this year I had a business partner, he has subsequently left & resigned as director although he is still a share holder. We both put equal amounts into the business as direc...	I owe money and don't know whether to declare bankruptcy as this would leave my former business partner to service the entire debt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hi reddit, sup nods I was at work, bored and needed something to do; so I started daydreaming. I had the best day at work I've ever had! So what are all your favourite (day)dreams that you have? POST: So mine: So there I was in a room with 5 people I have never seen before, yet I ins...	An account of an awesomely epic daydream I had at work, with a level of detail remembered that I would have in reality<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17F] boyfriend [18M] joined the military and I'm contemplating a breakup. Need advice. POST: To make it as short as possible. Met in highschool, set up by a mutual friend. Dated for a year so far, no major fighting, great sex. Each other's first loves. We got along great ...	17F wants to break up with 18m because he joined the Air Force and she can't handle distance/ doesn't want such a big commitment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I[16/m] talk to this girl[14/m]? POST: So there's this girl I like, but I haven't talked to her yet. I see her usually twice a week at church and youth group. I hold the door for her whenever I can, and she smiles and says thank you. I'm homeschooled, and rather shy to be hone...	I like this girl, but I haven't met her. What are some good things to say/talk about with her when I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [M18] Girlfriend[F25]'s ex [F26] tried to kiss her. previously the ex always said she was just good friends...how do i even respond? POST: The ex came to me apologizing today, and it came out of nowhere. apparently it happened wednesday and well, my girlfriend said i need to stop ...	girlfriends ex tried to kiss her, is sorry but i dont trust her and everyone wants us to be friends again which idk if i am okay with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Cat of 9 years old randomly peeing around house and never has POST: My family has always had animals while I was growing up so I am fairly knowledgeable about ailments but I'm not sure if this instance is due to an ailment or some type of anxiety. Just to give a little back story I have been...	My cat is peeing around the house while im out of town and not sure if it is due to anxiety or UTI.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F20] am suffering from confidence issues due to my boyfriend [M20] and my sex life POST: My boyfriend and I have been together about two years now and have lived together for about a year so at this point it is obvious that I want sex more often than him. I would like to have se...	I want sex more often than my boyfriend which leads to me allows being shut down and consequently me being very self conscious .<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I overreacting, or was his reaction really not okay? POST: M/f both 20, dating about 9 months. Starting at around the age of five my mother has emotionally abused me. She began forcibly swearing at me, almost hitting me many times, actually hitting me twice, calling me a whore (s...	Shared terrible childhood memories with boyfriend, cried in process, he told me to, basically, get over it. Did I overreact?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M21] need some advice about my ex(?) [F22] POST: We got together end of January/February and decided to take it slow and see how things go. We had known each other a little from being on the same Uni course but up till then we had revolved in different friendship groups etc. Thing...	Split with gf 2 months ago, who had a couple of things going on. Would love to try and make things work again. No idea what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend 17[F] of 7 months got invited to a party that I [17M] did not get invited to. She is going with a guy who has tried to hook up with her in the past. POST: I'm now sitting at home in, admittedly, a slightly pathetic fit of jealousy and/or worry. I like to think that I'm...	My girlfriend of 7 months is going to a party with a guy who has tried to hook up with her in the past, and it's bothering me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do you remember the first person you became friends with other than your family member's? still friends with them? do you even know if they're around anymore? POST: Like the very first person to leave you with an impression of real friendship. Mine would have to be when I met this kid o...	I was feeling very nostalgic and thought of the first person I remember calling a friend, upon searching for him online I found out his life had been abruptly ended over two years ago.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I F(21) am feeling pressured to make a relationship work with M(21). POST: I feel bad, because this man has been into me for 3 years, and though I've moved away for college, every time I'm back in the summer, he is still dedicated to me. I am just starting to like him, but as I assu...	Can't decide whether or not to kiss a man whose kiss I rejected earlier before he leaves though I fear he will take the relationship to a level I don't want if I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Fiance & family upset because I [23F] said I don't want to have a wedding. The truth is that I have no one to invite. POST: I just hung up the phone with my future MIL in tears, which prompted me to write this post. I'll try to avoid a wall of text. At a rough count, my fiance would ...	Fiance, fiance's family, and my family are all extremely upset that I refuse to have a wedding. Truth is that despite lots of acquaintances I can't seem to make any lasting friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my BF [28M] of 2 years, have a pretty great relationship and I am longing to get married to him. POST: This post is pretty straight forward. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years. We both have our college degrees, have good careers, and are financially independe...	I want to marry this man I'm in love with, but when I talk about it he is vague. How do I learn to be patient or directly approach this thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23f] boyfriend [20m] ignored my Valentine's Day effort and I'm very upset POST: I'm probably just being overly emotional, but I was upset all night and can't seem to get over it. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. We see each other a few times a week but he lives...	my boyfriend fell asleep during a Valentine's Day I tried really hard not and now I feel like it was all a waste. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22/F] Concerned after a few bad dates POST: This might be early, since it only concerns two dates with two women, but I'm looking for what went wrong so I don't make it three. I went out with someone I'd been chatting with online for a while. She asked me out and we met in the c...	Is it common to be rejected mid-date? Or is it like I've thought, and only done when things are going really badly or the person is awful?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by writing a letter to a pen pal POST: This happened in high school but I thought it was very appropriate to share here. In Year 10, we had a new Japanese teacher and he was keen and excited to introduce new projects. One of them was to write letters to our sister school in Japan in Jap...	Tried to be funny, Goatse'd my teacher and principal, had to spend 4 weeks convincing school counsellor I didn't own goatse.cx<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by pissing off a crazy activist POST: This happened to me last week. I'm a writer that investigates and covers local issues in my area. Occasionally I write about people who get involved in local issues. I can be critical at times -- and as the old saying goes, "People who live in glass...	Argued with a nutjob activist. Activist ups the ante by sending a ridiculously vile postcard to thousands of residents because why not? More than 6,000 people now know that I suck at taking selfies.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] i want to break up but she already told me she loves me and i don't want to hurt her. POST: I'll probably sound like the biggest douchebag ever. I have been dating (Lin) for a year now and she is a very nice girl and is beautiful. it's just i don'...	i want to break up with my girlfriend but she said sne loves me and i said it back because i don't want to hurt her. what do i do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] in love with my straight best friend [17 M] of a year. POST: I've known him for about a year now and I've been crushing on him since we met. When we're together, I'm happy and nothing can change that. Being friends with him and hanging out with him is one of the best feelin...	In love with best friend who's straight, I'm still in closet, feel if i told him friendship would be damaged. Do I break off friendship? Do I tell him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: If you could change any one thing about society, in hopes of making the world a better place, what would it be? POST: Why are we as a people ok with positive change coming at such an alarmingly slow pace? All over the world, people just the same as you and me, experience poverty, fam...	The world used to be a ridiculous place to live... it still is. How would you like to change it? (Big or Small)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: How much pot is too much? POST: My boyfriend and I have been having a hard time with this. I can not under any circumstances smoke pot unless I no longer want to be a Fire Fighter which is my dream career. Fire Depts have polygraphs. Pot is illegal in our state. I live with my BF. My BF smo...	BF is smoking a large amount of pot each day, it's straining our relationship and I am worried for his future and for mine, but am not sure if I may be overreacting so please give me some insight.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: My boss wants to give me a raise, but I want to quit POST: My boss called me into her office today to say that she's trying to work with our administrator to get me a raise. I've been at my job for a year now, she says, and I have more responsibilities and am probably being underpaid a bit s...	Boss thinks I like my job, and I'm faking it well enough that she wants to give me a raise. I actually hate it here and want to leave ASAP. What's the professional thing to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Final Accounting Grade POST: At the end of my Accounting semester my grade ended up being 898.75 out of 1000. Me being a straight A student in high school, I had to ask the teacher if it was at all possible to get that up 2 points in order to get the A in the class and not hurt my GPA an...	Lost a scholarship due to being 2 points out of 1000 short of an A. Is it possible grades can be changed so I can beg for that boost?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How did your parents mess with your childhood ignorance? POST: When I was about 8 or 9, I fell in love with pigs. I thought they were the absolute cutest things in the world. So, in my 9 year-old mind, the best way to show my love for them was to stop eating pork. I stopped eating all ba...	When i was a kid I stopped eating pigs because I thought they were cute. My mom made me eat ham and never told me it came from pigs.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What feel should I feel? POST: I've been seeing this girl who is 3 years younger than I for about 6 months (I'm 22 shes 19.) We slept together for about 2 months of that. She would come over every night and we would have great sex. After the second month her ex started messaging her and ...	Told a girl I've been seeing for half a year to drive herself to work and she left my house crying and swearing. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My Business Along With 12 Others Were Robbed, Burglars Caught, But Partner Using $ From Stolen Property To Open Local Tattoo Shop. What Can I Do Legally To Stop This? POST: On January 20th 2012 my business was broken into and robbed. The robbery was found to be part of a string of up to ...	Got robbed along with a bunch of other businesses, robbers partner still opening a business with $ from stolen goods, and I want justice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend[27M] and I[25f] are attracted to each other, but I'm scared that things would somehow get weird and. Advice? POST: This is actually my first post on reddit ever, but this situation has been on my mind for a while now, and I'm not sure what the best approach is, so I decided...	My friend and I have been mutually atrracted to each other for years, but I don't know if getting together is a good idea.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16/F] am worried about my best friend [14/F] of 3 years because she is harming herself in multiple ways POST: Okay so, my best friend who has always been there for me and vice versa, had been cutting her thighs really badly and self-harming. Her boyfriend, a therapist, and I helpe...	My friend is hanging out with bad influences and doing things that are harming her physically and emotionally, and I'm afraid that she might go back to self harming again. What do I say to let her know that she is worrying me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M 19] looking for way of politely bringing up the idea of getting in shape to girlfriend of one year [F 24] POST: I've been dating my current girlfriend for a little over a year now, and so far everything has been great except for one thing. My girlfriend, who was already a little b...	Great relationship on a personal level, but my girlfriend of one year's extra weight is starting to ruin our sex lives. Looking for advice on bringing up losing weight.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] want to break up with my ldr BF [25 M] of two years, not sure how. POST: I've never broken up with someone, so I am not sure what the best way would be. Okay, here's the story. We met online in a video game about 2 and a half years ago, and have been dating for 2 years. I ...	Long-distance relationship about to get even more distance. We are both eachother's first relationship, so neither of us have ever broken up with someone or been broken up with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] Told Off Girl who Tried Flirting with my Boyfriend [21M] infront of Me POST: And I don't know if I did the wrong thing or not, I'm worried that I messed up and he might think I'm super possessive or something. We've been together for just over a month, this girl approached hi...	This girl approached my boyfriend and tried asking his number, I kind of told her off, I feel embarassed now<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Tired of hearing best friend's guy drama. How do I tell her to shut it? POST: My best friend has had a lot of guy issues. She liked one for a while, it didn't work out because he was still kind of with his ex, heartbreak, etc., and I was there for her for all of it and helped her through it...	best friend likes a guy but won't tell him how she feels, is whining to me about it and it's pissing me off. How do I tell her to shut up without being a crappy friend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Need help...buying dog for first time... POST: Hey everybody! I am ready to add a new family member to the family! I just have a few questions. I am planning to get a Pug puppy, and I have been looking into it a lot lately, everything from training, health, and personality, and it is a dog wh...	Buying dog for first time. Buy at Mill, Breeder, or Store? What are common procedures to get the puppy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Could a girl(16f) who friendzoned me(16m) start liking me after some time? POST: There is this girl who I liked whom I confessed to three years ago through text(yes, now I know not to do that) of which she responded with an 'Okay ;x'. I never really knew whether that was friendzoning...	Girl I liked friendzoned me. After a while she seemed to show signs of interest. I'm not sure if they really are though, so could she like me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] looking for answers about a specific girl's [17 F] interests? POST: The question I have isn't whether or not I should go after this girl, simply what the heck is she trying to do and what is her plan?? So if you don't know what Strava is, it's kind of a social site for ath...	Girl from a different team I haven't talked to before left her phone number and wants me to go to the college she's going to. What is she planning to do? Or am I thinking too much into it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He [29M] 3 weeks, acts uncomfortable with me [29/F] being active/assertive/successful POST: I like this guy and he's charming in a lot of ways. He tells me how smart, pretty I am and that he wants to have children and take half the parental leave to take care of his kids, it's his tr...	Dating partner acts uncomfortable with me accomplishing things/asserting myself. I'm fond of him but his attitude is irritating and depressing. How do I communicate my feelings/ask for change ?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Advice needed about a grand gesture I plan to make. POST: So I've [25/m] been single about 6 months now, after me and my ex [20/f] broke up with each other after a year of dating and 15 months before that flirting etc. I let her have space and I didn't push anything, only talked whe...	Planning to win back Ex Girlfriend with a Grand Gesture and need advice on whether I'm being a creep or romantic...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M18] falling for "Friend With Benefits" [F18] POST: So theres this girl that I used to have a thing with, but she got back together with her ex so we had to call it off. About a month ago, she called it off for good with her ex, and me and her have started a "flirtationship", with a...	me and this girl flirt and make out a lot and I want to ask her out without ruining what we already have, but unsure if shes over her ex.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Revenge never tasted so sweet. POST: Back Story: I have an uncle that is currently living with my grand parents and I because he'd rather go camping and hiking than look for a job, he is also one of those "Believe as I do or burn in hell!" type of Christians (Don't get me wrong, I've ...	My Uncle is a better than thou type christian that likes to judge others and argue about why we are all wrong. He made a very sexist remark, so I ate his fruit pie.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Bugs in my house POST: Hello Reddit, I'm having a bit of a problem. I live at home with my mom and a couple years ago, we were getting sewer flies in our house that would not go away. When we called the exterminator, he said they were coming in through a small hole in the bathroom wall whic...	House HIGHLY susceptible to outdoor insects because of hole in bathroom wall, mother doesn't want to do anything about it due to cost, driving me crazy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 F] can't stop purging and it is affecting my relationship with my [23 M] boyfriend. POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. We've had a great relationship. He's the best guy I've ever dated, and we are planning to spend the rest of our lives together. H...	My eating disorder is hurting my boyfriend and our relationship, but I'm not sure I can stop. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30F] with my Fiancé [36M] of 10 years, Left me over a fight about responsibilities POST: My fiancé and I have been together close to 10 years and we've always have problems with responsibilities. In our relationship, I have always taken responsibility for everything, whether it b...	My fiancé and I got into a fight about responsibilities and he left and I haven't heard from him in 1 week. Should I be the one to apologize?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26/F] I have an interesting tale for you all, nothing to urgent...just want the opinions of random internet strangers [25/M] POST: Met a guy[25/M] that I [26/m] liked, and he didn't feel the same. Nbd, it's not fun to deal with but it's part of life. Put on your big girl panties an...	guy rejects girl, guy gets annoyed with her friendship, girl backs off and guy tries really hard to talk to her even though she doesn't really have anything to offer. Why?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f] POST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me befor...	My girlfriend and I just recently got back together...she works at a strip club and I feel like she treats her customers better than she treats me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Extreme pain while running/walking downstairs POST: Hi runners, so I am a 16 year old guy who decided to start track for the first time this year. I had been running before the season started quite often, usually doing 20-30 mile weeks with the team and training with them. This week was th...	was running 20-30 mpw before the track season started, 3 days into the season my knee starts hurting after a hill workout and apparently hurts a lot more than it should according to my coach<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/F] My relationship has an expiration date, what should I do? POST: Hey Everyone, This is my first post on reddit and I wish it were on a happier subject. I just recently learned that my boyfriend [M/21] wants to go to grad school on the opposite side of the country and is ...	boyfriend knows that our relationship will end when he goes to grad school in over a year but he doesn't know if he's going because he hasn't gotten in yet. not sure if i should stay or get out now<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (UPDATED) I F[18] feel disrespected sexually by my boyfriend M[21] POST: I would like to say thank you for all the responses to my previous post: I talked to my boyfriend today. I told him how I felt disrespected and that I NEVER would do anal and I'm just not about it at all. I al...	Told boyfriend I was not about anal and it would NEVER happen. He apologized for pestering me and promised it would stop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Found out my Babysitter has been smoking weed with his pregnant girlfriend in the house while watching my child.. POST: background story: my SO had made a friend at work who happened to have a pregnant girlfriend. I was currently on mat leave and she was going on soon as i was coming off...	my child comes home smelling like urine and feces while the babysitters smoke weed in the house and neglect my child. want some advice on which route to choose.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Trying to get a job that I have no professional experience doing POST: The title pretty much sums up my problem. I want to get a job building timber frame buildings, but I have no professional experience doing it. I have some experience as an amateur woodworker, and a little experience doing ...	Want to get a job as a timber framer, don't have any experience doing it. Willing to move just about anywhere.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [18 F] one year, I love my girlfriend, but I don't love my girlfriend. POST: So, I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year. I should mention this is a Iong distance relationship (NY to VA, I met her at a camp a year and a half ago). I love her to d...	I love my girlfriend, but I'm not in love with her. I want more than anything to not hurt her, but I don't really want to be in a relationship right now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [23 F] am feeling neglected by my SO [25 M]. Are these feelings legitimate? POST: I've been seeing this guy for about 9 months now. I guess you could say we've been dating. Although we never officially declared the fact that we are dating, we are physical with each other an...	SO and I only see each other about once a week, although I ask to see him pretty often. Is this weird? How often do you see your SO? Is it strange for someone to want so much space?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (16F) am crumbling under the stress of college and a demanding, possessive boyfriend (18M) POST: Hello. I apologise in advance for my jumbled up thoughts, I am literally all over the place. I am heading to college soon and I have been under a hell lot of stress because of the sam...	Boyfriend and I are equally manically possessive. He feels inferior because I'm graduating school "way too early".<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25/F] with my ex-boyfriend[22/M] 2+years, is it ever OK to try again after a violent history? POST: I dated a man for about 2 years and things were wonderful up until I lost my job. We had been living together for about 8 months and we were both under a lot of stress. The last 3 ...	fought like cats and dogs, took 6 month break with therapy, discussing being exclusive again, is it possible to have a healthy relationship again after our troubled history?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom [60F] may evict her half sisters [55 and 54F] and their daughter [22F] from "their" home for not paying the taxes on the property. Is that cold? POST: My mom and her half sisters father (my grandfather) passed away almost a decade ago. Even though my mom's half sisters and one...	My mom [60F] may evict her half sisters [55 and 54F] and their daughter [22F] from "their" home for not paying the taxes on the property. Is that cold?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Girl drama, now I [22F] am being seen as the bad guy when I'm innocent. Should I care that others are talking about me? POST: Having a hard time time coping after this: She's BACK with her bf and she hasn't called. I haven't talked to any of our other friends about what's happ...	Girl thinks I flirted with her boyfriend when it wasn't like that. She's back with him and telling everyone. Now it feels like it's her side against mine and everyone's taking hers. Should I care?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by teaching my friends to protect their home POST: About 3 and a half weeks ago two of my buddies (who have been notoriously bad about locking their doors) had their house broken into and everything in their house that had any sort of value was taken. So I head to their house yesterday ...	Friends who recently were robbed left door unlocked again. I staged fake robbery to teach them a lesson. They call cops and get hit with fine for reporting a false crime. So I am paying the $500 fine<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Hi Reddit, I'm in a very happy relationship of 10 months, however, when i get drunk i actively flirt etc with other girls. I've kept it from GF so far. Should i tell her? How can i stop? POST: I'm at Uni at the moment and have an excellent GF (we are both 21y/o) who i care for deeply...	i get drunk and flirt with, kiss etc girls despite the fact i have a GF, one i care for deeply.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm 16 stuck without any idea what to do with girls i`m attracted to POST: As the title says i'm a16 year old male! I have an issue with actually the romantic side of relationships with females. So far whenever there is a girl i feel attracted to i build up a friendship with and wh...	Male[16] who has problems trying to get from being 'friendzoned' (a term used which i don't agree with) to girl's seeing me as datable<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What do you do when you expected something and it didn't come to pass and you felt your world end around you? POST: For the last 4 years, I have been studying to receive an engineering degree at a school in the Northeast. Through the shortsightedness of youth, I let a girl get in the way...	Missed my degree by that much and now my life is over. When have you been in a similar situation/how did you resolve it?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Roommate [23F] gets passive aggressive whenever I [23F] talk to her BF POST: I found my roommate on Craigslist a year ago. She seemed nice and normal at first, and we had no problems. The only person she hangs out with is her BF [24M], 7 days a week. Sometimes she'd bring him over to...	Roommate brings her boyfriend over to OUR apartment, but gets mad whenever I talk to him. Outright ignored me when I said hello the last time this happened. What is the best approach to this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by calling my server a disgusting sloth-like creature POST: Running late for work this morning, I decided I would hit up a drive thru for tea and a bagel. When I got to the window the server guy has on a hand written name badge that says "Jaba". Who couldn't resist a name like that?? In...	Called my drive thru server Jaba the Hut. Got my ass ripped apart. Gotta learn to keep my stupid nerd comments to myself.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] always the FWB/Fuck buddy. How can I be taken seriously? POST: Hey guys, I'm a normal person. However, for as long as I can remember, I go out on dates with guys, either in school or who I met at work/online, and after 1-2 dates, they decide I'm FWB material and nothing mo...	Always the FWB/fuck buddy, never the girlfriend. Different guys, who share connections with me. What gives?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17/f] boyfriend [16/m] of three months told me my anxiety is annoying. I am not sure how to respond. POST: Yesterday, my boyfriend told me my anxiety was annoying. Now, before r/Relationships gets mad at him about it, I want to clarify that he was as nice as possible about it, an...	My boyfriend told me (nicely) that he would like me to stop worrying so much because it annoys him. What should I do? Should I just stop telling him when I worry, or is there another option?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: To the Medics of Reddit POST: Okay, relatively young person here(17), and a lurker of Reddit for a while up until recently. Post high school I knew what I wanted to do was become an EMT, as helping people in every day situations is one of my passions. However, ever since I was aware of d...	Medics of Reddit, how do you cope with death? What was it like the first time you witnessed death on the job? EMT hopeful here, and I want to follow through.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F], I think I'm starting to resent her POST: I like this girl a lot, she's really nice to me, she's very devoted to me, and I care a lot about her. For the most part, her and I have the same goals in life; we want the same future. In that regard, thin...	Girlfriend gets sad very easily, it's starting to make me dread talking to her and resent her. I'm desperate for help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (18f) ex girlfriend (17f) sent me a pic of her and my current boyfriend (17m) and I dont know why am i upset about it. POST: history: two years ago, i (then 16) felt in love with a girl (then 15) for the first time. Lets call her Ann. Our common friend introduced us about a year b...	My (18f) ex girlfriend (17f) sent me a pic of her and my current boyfriend (17m) and I dont know why am i upset about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24/F] with my crush [23/M] whose never had a girlfriend POST: For 6 months I had a crush on a man that I met on a dating website. We met once and he was really awesome. When I told him I liked him, he ignored me. I moved on and got into an abusive relationship for 5 months (it's ...	I have a crush on my old crush's best friend who has never had a girlfriend and I am not sure how to go about this. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 18F looked through my Facebook and broke up with 19M me POST: It's been a rough relationship where she's made a couple of mistakes before. I gave her a chance and we got back together. Recently we fought and she asked for my Facebook password, which I gave to her, and found out...	I'm trying to get my girlfriend to forgive me for not telling her the extent of my relationship with another girl during our break.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (m20) dating a girl (f17) and I need advice! POST: So I've been dating this girl for a few months now, we had a thing a few years ago but decided it wasn't the right time. We've been dating again for 3 months, she has been my best friend for years and I don't know what to do. I got...	Girlfriend has a friend who raises flags with me and she's taking him to prom and I have to sit and watch it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (17/m) getting back into the whole dating thing POST: Welp, it begins with me breaking up with my ex almost 10 months ago. All was good until i met this new girl and hit it off. This was probably about 3 months ago now. We were great for eachother. Cutting the story short, ...	broke up with ex, got played, got close with great friend since kindergarten and have mutual feelings as it seems but don't wanna screw things up<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17M] friends keep coming into my work and annoying me. How can I deal with them POST: Hi Reddit I am hoping you can help me. I am literally at my wits end, I almost lost my temper today at my moms Cafe I work at in front of customers. I live in a small town in America, only 12...	My friends came into my work and were pestering me and annoying other customers. How can I handle this situation next time<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: A "friend" owes me a decent amount of money and has it and won't pay it back or contact me at all. Any suggestions? POST: Backstory - I lent a friend $400 when he couldn't afford his rent back in June. He told me he would pay me back the following week. He fell into some rough times still aft...	Lent friend $400. I lost job and grandmother is very ill, he has money again and wont pay me back. What to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Did I just agree to a date? I'm honestly not sure... POST: Here's the whole story I got in a wreck, It was the other drivers fault. The other insurance company accepts liability. Their insurance calls to finish up on the claim. Talking to the claims rep of the other party and she says s...	Meeting with insurance claims woman in person after the whole claim has been settled. Does this happen? Or is this something else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with two partners [25M/29M] of over a year, longing for solitude, don't know if I actually want to break up POST: First of all, thanks to anyone who reads this. I'm normally more of a commenter, but this time I'd really like some advice. This year has been tough for me. I q...	Spend all my time studying so I won't have to work a job I hate forever; exhausted, stressed and wondering whether being single might alleviate some of the pressure, although my partners are fantastic.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Having second thoughts about what I really want to do with my future. Pls send help. POST: I'm 18 now, and on the verge of starting college. For the longest time, I had big plans of going to college after high school and majoring in Computer Information Science (CIS) and minoring in Busines...	I had a solid plan of going to school and pursuing a good degree, now I'm unsure that college is right for me and am contemplating moving out of state to be with my SO and learn auto maintenance from her family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the worst lie you told a child to shut them up? POST: Here's mine: My med school has an outreach program that teaches healthy eating and exercise to fifth graders at a local inner city elementary school. This year we (5 of us adults) have a group of 13 hyperactive, loud, angry, di...	I lied to a group of children about a teacher being in the hospital so they would shut up and spend 45 minutes making "get well soon" cards<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Reddit, my cat suddenly started acting strange.. i need your help! POST: My 10 month old cat started acting strange recently. He is a rescue so he is normally skittish around people he does not know. With me though, he is an attention whore. When i come home at the end of the day and he hears...	My cat is acting strange, hiding under covers (too terrified to come out), under chairs, in the basement and running away from me when he is normally affectionate and social.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: A question about macros. POST: So I've been lurking on /r/loseit, /r/leangains, and even /r/gainit for a while. My current goal is to get down to about 10% body fat and then begin to slow bulk. Currently I'm about 180 lbs and though I'm not sure what my current body fat percentage is my wei...	1g of protein per pound of body weight, check. So ideally where should the rest of my calories come from? Does it matter?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: How long did it take you to "heal" from ITBS? POST: I put heal in quotes because I am not sure if I am ever going to heal. Putting the following in a numbered list for easy reading! 1. I ran my first Marathon October 15th of 2011, and I have been injured since. Mile 19 of the Marathon i...	ITBS. Took 3 months off, followed by a month of Physical Therapy. No better. Normal? I am desperate.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am i addicted? POST: Hey there, I have a question that has been bothering me for quite a while. I am not a native english speaker so excuse me if I make some weird sentences, just yell at me in the comments. Now, on to my question, the thing is... I have the feeling I might be addicted...	18 year old IT student that still socializes when someone calls but sometimes neglects schoolwork/goes to bed too late to finnish quests considers wether he is getting addicted or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [25 F] is living off my [33 M] money, and is surprised that I am pissed off about it by now POST: I have been with my SO for about a year now. She is currently a student in a small town about 60km from where I live. For the last abut 2 months she has been living with me (seme...	My girlfriend takes it for granted that I pay for everything. She wants to throw me a party for my birthday, but I have to pay for everything. It feels absurd. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: So I have a friend [20/F] confused with what's really going on between her and her ex[22/M]. Any thoughts? POST: He distanced himself from her after their messy break-up. They lost contact. After 8 months, she finally apologized for all what she have done and accepted that they can...	My friends broke up. Had no contact for 8 months. She lost her dog. He let her cry on his shoulder and kissed her nose. What do you think is in his mind?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: GF sharing bed with gay friend - Am I overreacting? POST: Okay, so I hope this is the right section and everything - it's my first post on Reddit... Anyways, I'm together with my GF for one and a half years now. Her best friend is a gay male. At least once a week they meet for...	GF has a gay male best friend. They're going on vacation for a week and will share a bed in the hotel. I'm not okay with that. What to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my coworker [23 F] she called me sexist because i did want her to lift something very expensive and heavy. POST: I'm nit sure if this is the right sub for this. i work in a furniture store and most of the stuff here is expensive (think 3,000-10,000$ items) and heavy. ...	my coworker thinks I'm sexist because i told her i didn't want her help lifting something heavy that was very expensive.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26F], BF [28M] of 2+ years talking about leaving town without me POST: My BF has made it a point to let me know he's against long distance relationships, so being away for more than 2 months basically = breakup for either of us. At first I just tried to ignore it, but in one ins...	boyfriend likes talking about leaving town without including me, absolutely doesn't do long distance, and it really sucks. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [14M] Ex-friend [14M] Will Not Go Away POST: There is always 'that kid' at every school that anyone has ever been to. You know, the one that is disliked almost universally? Sometimes, it's unjustified. For this? Maybe, but that's beside the point. For a long time I hung out with t...	Ex-friend I've been trying to cut out persists in following me, copying me, and commentating on everything I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making an abortion joke to a checkout girl. POST: Okay, like most, this didn't happen today, but it did happen about 10 days ago whilst I was on the way to see my girl (we'll call her Ellie). She was worried because we'd had a lot of unprotected sex that month and her period was due a...	Made an abortion joke whilst purchasing a pregnancy test and a scratcher. Cashier didn't share my dark sense of humour.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I pay off my student loan quickly or just use the cheap money? POST: I recently graduated, and have accepted a great offer, with only ~$5500 of a federally subsidized student loan. The minimum payment is only going to be like ~$50 and I'm not a big spender to begin with, so ...	Am I playing with fire by keeping a loan around that I could easily pay off, or is it worth it just for the credit score and cheap capital?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] with my date [28 F] 3 weeks - met online, gone on several dates. Can't get a read on whether she's just shy or not interested POST: Hello relationships! So I met this seemingly awesome girl online, we hit it off, and met up to go out on a first date for brunch and an outd...	Met girl online, I have no online dating experience. Went out on a few dates, can't get a read on her. Should I just ask her point blank how she feels?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [M21] lied to me and I [F19] need help getting over it. POST: My boyfriend [M21] and I [F19] have been dating for about 13 months. When we started dating I knew a lot of his friends were females- which I was completely fine with. Men and women can totally be friends- tha...	Boyfriend lied to me for a year about his relationships with his female friends. I'm angry, help me get over it- please?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [30f] what to do about thoughts of my ex from 10 years ago and marrital dissatisfaction. POST: I'm stuck in my thinking about my ex fiance from college. Husband [27] can be angry and irritable and at times I feel like I don't have much of a say in things. He'll get mad at ...	Can't stop thinking about emotionally distant ex fiance because I dont feel like I have much say/agency in my marriage. Sad lonely and should talk to husband but I dont know what I need him to understand or how to say it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] Roomates [24M] and [26M]. Am I in the wrong here? Girlfriend over too often? POST: So I live in a 3 bedroom 1 bathroom house. One of my roommates seems to have a problem with my girlfriend staying over for extended periods of time. Let me break it down. She is never at t...	Girlfriend and I spend alot of time together. We are very courteous of my roommates and she does not impact the bills other than using the restroom. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: I'm asking for a raise for the first time ever and I need some advice. POST: Background: I work at a help desk for a software company. I've had this job for about 6 months. After the first month, they surprised us by forcing a few of us (me being one of them) to take a non-standard, 4 days-a-...	Got forced into a shift that has more work, responsibility than regular day shift but does not pay any more. Coworkers on this shift quit. I've been pretty successful so far. Want to ask for a small raise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help [23M] dealing with socially challenged coworker[30F] POST: There's a coworker of mine who has been bothering me for a while(about 3 months) now. She has a younger cousin that I also work with and we get along well, no problems there. But this coworker in particular, is socially ...	socially challenged coworker won't leave me alone, how do I lowkey get her to leave me be without causing an open fuss about it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20 F) discovered that my boyfriend (18 M) has a bad habit. Am I overreacting? POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 and a half months now. Recently when I was over at his place, he was sleeping. So I decided to go see what kind of porn he was into, to maybe ge...	boyfriend looks at hentai, never seems to be interested in me or tell me how he thinks i look. Sex is always covered up. My self esteem has plummeted.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f21) don't am having second thoughts about My fiance (m21) POST: We have had a rocky relationship that has gotten better over time. I see how I am good for him but I feel like he would be happier with someone else.I guess seeing him interact with my new roommate shows me that ther...	I don't think I am the best option for my fiance and I think he can find someone who enjoys the things he does more than me.should I end it or stay because I love him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit I scare myself sometimes: I feel like I would have no problems killing someone. POST: Sometimes when I'm watching a TV show or movie that involves a mob hitman or the like, I feel that I would have no problem killing someone or even multiple people. Which scares me alot. I'm sur...	Basically I don't feel that it's that big a deal to kill someone and it scares me that I feel that way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [25M] Moved for work, blindly moved in with [26F] colleague... POST: So a few weeks ago, I got a new job in a state where I know no one. The employer reached out to people in the business and set me up with a roommate. The lease goes on for a few more months into the summer. ...	I'm living with a hot female roommate and I have no clue what to do. I'm leaning just admire, but that's going to take a lot of restraint.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19m] gf [19f] was flirty with her ex-boyfriend last night. POST: I've [19m] been in a fwb relationship with this girl [19f] for almost a year and a half. We've only been dating for about a month, but we had a really emotional fwb relationship (e.g. she said "I love you" months be...	Girlfriend doesn't tell her ex we're dating. We all go to the bar and when I'm not there he puts his arm around her waist. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Advice needed (please)! POST: I have owned my own (UK) restaurant business for almost four years. Until July this year I had a business partner, he has subsequently left & resigned as director although he is still a share holder. We both put equal amounts into the business as direc...	I owe money and don't know whether to declare bankruptcy as this would leave my former business partner to service the entire debt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hi reddit, sup nods I was at work, bored and needed something to do; so I started daydreaming. I had the best day at work I've ever had! So what are all your favourite (day)dreams that you have? POST: So mine: So there I was in a room with 5 people I have never seen before, yet I ins...	An account of an awesomely epic daydream I had at work, with a level of detail remembered that I would have in reality<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17F] boyfriend [18M] joined the military and I'm contemplating a breakup. Need advice. POST: To make it as short as possible. Met in highschool, set up by a mutual friend. Dated for a year so far, no major fighting, great sex. Each other's first loves. We got along great ...	17F wants to break up with 18m because he joined the Air Force and she can't handle distance/ doesn't want such a big commitment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I[16/m] talk to this girl[14/m]? POST: So there's this girl I like, but I haven't talked to her yet. I see her usually twice a week at church and youth group. I hold the door for her whenever I can, and she smiles and says thank you. I'm homeschooled, and rather shy to be hone...	I like this girl, but I haven't met her. What are some good things to say/talk about with her when I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [M18] Girlfriend[F25]'s ex [F26] tried to kiss her. previously the ex always said she was just good friends...how do i even respond? POST: The ex came to me apologizing today, and it came out of nowhere. apparently it happened wednesday and well, my girlfriend said i need to stop ...	girlfriends ex tried to kiss her, is sorry but i dont trust her and everyone wants us to be friends again which idk if i am okay with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Cat of 9 years old randomly peeing around house and never has POST: My family has always had animals while I was growing up so I am fairly knowledgeable about ailments but I'm not sure if this instance is due to an ailment or some type of anxiety. Just to give a little back story I have been...	My cat is peeing around the house while im out of town and not sure if it is due to anxiety or UTI.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F20] am suffering from confidence issues due to my boyfriend [M20] and my sex life POST: My boyfriend and I have been together about two years now and have lived together for about a year so at this point it is obvious that I want sex more often than him. I would like to have se...	I want sex more often than my boyfriend which leads to me allows being shut down and consequently me being very self conscious .<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I overreacting, or was his reaction really not okay? POST: M/f both 20, dating about 9 months. Starting at around the age of five my mother has emotionally abused me. She began forcibly swearing at me, almost hitting me many times, actually hitting me twice, calling me a whore (s...	Shared terrible childhood memories with boyfriend, cried in process, he told me to, basically, get over it. Did I overreact?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M21] need some advice about my ex(?) [F22] POST: We got together end of January/February and decided to take it slow and see how things go. We had known each other a little from being on the same Uni course but up till then we had revolved in different friendship groups etc. Thing...	Split with gf 2 months ago, who had a couple of things going on. Would love to try and make things work again. No idea what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend 17[F] of 7 months got invited to a party that I [17M] did not get invited to. She is going with a guy who has tried to hook up with her in the past. POST: I'm now sitting at home in, admittedly, a slightly pathetic fit of jealousy and/or worry. I like to think that I'm...	My girlfriend of 7 months is going to a party with a guy who has tried to hook up with her in the past, and it's bothering me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do you remember the first person you became friends with other than your family member's? still friends with them? do you even know if they're around anymore? POST: Like the very first person to leave you with an impression of real friendship. Mine would have to be when I met this kid o...	I was feeling very nostalgic and thought of the first person I remember calling a friend, upon searching for him online I found out his life had been abruptly ended over two years ago.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I F(21) am feeling pressured to make a relationship work with M(21). POST: I feel bad, because this man has been into me for 3 years, and though I've moved away for college, every time I'm back in the summer, he is still dedicated to me. I am just starting to like him, but as I assu...	Can't decide whether or not to kiss a man whose kiss I rejected earlier before he leaves though I fear he will take the relationship to a level I don't want if I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Fiance & family upset because I [23F] said I don't want to have a wedding. The truth is that I have no one to invite. POST: I just hung up the phone with my future MIL in tears, which prompted me to write this post. I'll try to avoid a wall of text. At a rough count, my fiance would ...	Fiance, fiance's family, and my family are all extremely upset that I refuse to have a wedding. Truth is that despite lots of acquaintances I can't seem to make any lasting friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my BF [28M] of 2 years, have a pretty great relationship and I am longing to get married to him. POST: This post is pretty straight forward. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years. We both have our college degrees, have good careers, and are financially independe...	I want to marry this man I'm in love with, but when I talk about it he is vague. How do I learn to be patient or directly approach this thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23f] boyfriend [20m] ignored my Valentine's Day effort and I'm very upset POST: I'm probably just being overly emotional, but I was upset all night and can't seem to get over it. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. We see each other a few times a week but he lives...	my boyfriend fell asleep during a Valentine's Day I tried really hard not and now I feel like it was all a waste. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22/F] Concerned after a few bad dates POST: This might be early, since it only concerns two dates with two women, but I'm looking for what went wrong so I don't make it three. I went out with someone I'd been chatting with online for a while. She asked me out and we met in the c...	Is it common to be rejected mid-date? Or is it like I've thought, and only done when things are going really badly or the person is awful?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by writing a letter to a pen pal POST: This happened in high school but I thought it was very appropriate to share here. In Year 10, we had a new Japanese teacher and he was keen and excited to introduce new projects. One of them was to write letters to our sister school in Japan in Jap...	Tried to be funny, Goatse'd my teacher and principal, had to spend 4 weeks convincing school counsellor I didn't own goatse.cx<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by pissing off a crazy activist POST: This happened to me last week. I'm a writer that investigates and covers local issues in my area. Occasionally I write about people who get involved in local issues. I can be critical at times -- and as the old saying goes, "People who live in glass...	Argued with a nutjob activist. Activist ups the ante by sending a ridiculously vile postcard to thousands of residents because why not? More than 6,000 people now know that I suck at taking selfies.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] i want to break up but she already told me she loves me and i don't want to hurt her. POST: I'll probably sound like the biggest douchebag ever. I have been dating (Lin) for a year now and she is a very nice girl and is beautiful. it's just i don'...	i want to break up with my girlfriend but she said sne loves me and i said it back because i don't want to hurt her. what do i do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] in love with my straight best friend [17 M] of a year. POST: I've known him for about a year now and I've been crushing on him since we met. When we're together, I'm happy and nothing can change that. Being friends with him and hanging out with him is one of the best feelin...	In love with best friend who's straight, I'm still in closet, feel if i told him friendship would be damaged. Do I break off friendship? Do I tell him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: If you could change any one thing about society, in hopes of making the world a better place, what would it be? POST: Why are we as a people ok with positive change coming at such an alarmingly slow pace? All over the world, people just the same as you and me, experience poverty, fam...	The world used to be a ridiculous place to live... it still is. How would you like to change it? (Big or Small)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: How much pot is too much? POST: My boyfriend and I have been having a hard time with this. I can not under any circumstances smoke pot unless I no longer want to be a Fire Fighter which is my dream career. Fire Depts have polygraphs. Pot is illegal in our state. I live with my BF. My BF smo...	BF is smoking a large amount of pot each day, it's straining our relationship and I am worried for his future and for mine, but am not sure if I may be overreacting so please give me some insight.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: My boss wants to give me a raise, but I want to quit POST: My boss called me into her office today to say that she's trying to work with our administrator to get me a raise. I've been at my job for a year now, she says, and I have more responsibilities and am probably being underpaid a bit s...	Boss thinks I like my job, and I'm faking it well enough that she wants to give me a raise. I actually hate it here and want to leave ASAP. What's the professional thing to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Final Accounting Grade POST: At the end of my Accounting semester my grade ended up being 898.75 out of 1000. Me being a straight A student in high school, I had to ask the teacher if it was at all possible to get that up 2 points in order to get the A in the class and not hurt my GPA an...	Lost a scholarship due to being 2 points out of 1000 short of an A. Is it possible grades can be changed so I can beg for that boost?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How did your parents mess with your childhood ignorance? POST: When I was about 8 or 9, I fell in love with pigs. I thought they were the absolute cutest things in the world. So, in my 9 year-old mind, the best way to show my love for them was to stop eating pork. I stopped eating all ba...	When i was a kid I stopped eating pigs because I thought they were cute. My mom made me eat ham and never told me it came from pigs.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What feel should I feel? POST: I've been seeing this girl who is 3 years younger than I for about 6 months (I'm 22 shes 19.) We slept together for about 2 months of that. She would come over every night and we would have great sex. After the second month her ex started messaging her and ...	Told a girl I've been seeing for half a year to drive herself to work and she left my house crying and swearing. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My Business Along With 12 Others Were Robbed, Burglars Caught, But Partner Using $ From Stolen Property To Open Local Tattoo Shop. What Can I Do Legally To Stop This? POST: On January 20th 2012 my business was broken into and robbed. The robbery was found to be part of a string of up to ...	Got robbed along with a bunch of other businesses, robbers partner still opening a business with $ from stolen goods, and I want justice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend[27M] and I[25f] are attracted to each other, but I'm scared that things would somehow get weird and. Advice? POST: This is actually my first post on reddit ever, but this situation has been on my mind for a while now, and I'm not sure what the best approach is, so I decided...	My friend and I have been mutually atrracted to each other for years, but I don't know if getting together is a good idea.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16/F] am worried about my best friend [14/F] of 3 years because she is harming herself in multiple ways POST: Okay so, my best friend who has always been there for me and vice versa, had been cutting her thighs really badly and self-harming. Her boyfriend, a therapist, and I helpe...	My friend is hanging out with bad influences and doing things that are harming her physically and emotionally, and I'm afraid that she might go back to self harming again. What do I say to let her know that she is worrying me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M 19] looking for way of politely bringing up the idea of getting in shape to girlfriend of one year [F 24] POST: I've been dating my current girlfriend for a little over a year now, and so far everything has been great except for one thing. My girlfriend, who was already a little b...	Great relationship on a personal level, but my girlfriend of one year's extra weight is starting to ruin our sex lives. Looking for advice on bringing up losing weight.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] want to break up with my ldr BF [25 M] of two years, not sure how. POST: I've never broken up with someone, so I am not sure what the best way would be. Okay, here's the story. We met online in a video game about 2 and a half years ago, and have been dating for 2 years. I ...	Long-distance relationship about to get even more distance. We are both eachother's first relationship, so neither of us have ever broken up with someone or been broken up with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] Told Off Girl who Tried Flirting with my Boyfriend [21M] infront of Me POST: And I don't know if I did the wrong thing or not, I'm worried that I messed up and he might think I'm super possessive or something. We've been together for just over a month, this girl approached hi...	This girl approached my boyfriend and tried asking his number, I kind of told her off, I feel embarassed now<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Tired of hearing best friend's guy drama. How do I tell her to shut it? POST: My best friend has had a lot of guy issues. She liked one for a while, it didn't work out because he was still kind of with his ex, heartbreak, etc., and I was there for her for all of it and helped her through it...	best friend likes a guy but won't tell him how she feels, is whining to me about it and it's pissing me off. How do I tell her to shut up without being a crappy friend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Need help...buying dog for first time... POST: Hey everybody! I am ready to add a new family member to the family! I just have a few questions. I am planning to get a Pug puppy, and I have been looking into it a lot lately, everything from training, health, and personality, and it is a dog wh...	Buying dog for first time. Buy at Mill, Breeder, or Store? What are common procedures to get the puppy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Could a girl(16f) who friendzoned me(16m) start liking me after some time? POST: There is this girl who I liked whom I confessed to three years ago through text(yes, now I know not to do that) of which she responded with an 'Okay ;x'. I never really knew whether that was friendzoning...	Girl I liked friendzoned me. After a while she seemed to show signs of interest. I'm not sure if they really are though, so could she like me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] looking for answers about a specific girl's [17 F] interests? POST: The question I have isn't whether or not I should go after this girl, simply what the heck is she trying to do and what is her plan?? So if you don't know what Strava is, it's kind of a social site for ath...	Girl from a different team I haven't talked to before left her phone number and wants me to go to the college she's going to. What is she planning to do? Or am I thinking too much into it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He [29M] 3 weeks, acts uncomfortable with me [29/F] being active/assertive/successful POST: I like this guy and he's charming in a lot of ways. He tells me how smart, pretty I am and that he wants to have children and take half the parental leave to take care of his kids, it's his tr...	Dating partner acts uncomfortable with me accomplishing things/asserting myself. I'm fond of him but his attitude is irritating and depressing. How do I communicate my feelings/ask for change ?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Advice needed about a grand gesture I plan to make. POST: So I've [25/m] been single about 6 months now, after me and my ex [20/f] broke up with each other after a year of dating and 15 months before that flirting etc. I let her have space and I didn't push anything, only talked whe...	Planning to win back Ex Girlfriend with a Grand Gesture and need advice on whether I'm being a creep or romantic...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M18] falling for "Friend With Benefits" [F18] POST: So theres this girl that I used to have a thing with, but she got back together with her ex so we had to call it off. About a month ago, she called it off for good with her ex, and me and her have started a "flirtationship", with a...	me and this girl flirt and make out a lot and I want to ask her out without ruining what we already have, but unsure if shes over her ex.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Revenge never tasted so sweet. POST: Back Story: I have an uncle that is currently living with my grand parents and I because he'd rather go camping and hiking than look for a job, he is also one of those "Believe as I do or burn in hell!" type of Christians (Don't get me wrong, I've ...	My Uncle is a better than thou type christian that likes to judge others and argue about why we are all wrong. He made a very sexist remark, so I ate his fruit pie.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Bugs in my house POST: Hello Reddit, I'm having a bit of a problem. I live at home with my mom and a couple years ago, we were getting sewer flies in our house that would not go away. When we called the exterminator, he said they were coming in through a small hole in the bathroom wall whic...	House HIGHLY susceptible to outdoor insects because of hole in bathroom wall, mother doesn't want to do anything about it due to cost, driving me crazy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 F] can't stop purging and it is affecting my relationship with my [23 M] boyfriend. POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. We've had a great relationship. He's the best guy I've ever dated, and we are planning to spend the rest of our lives together. H...	My eating disorder is hurting my boyfriend and our relationship, but I'm not sure I can stop. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30F] with my Fiancé [36M] of 10 years, Left me over a fight about responsibilities POST: My fiancé and I have been together close to 10 years and we've always have problems with responsibilities. In our relationship, I have always taken responsibility for everything, whether it b...	My fiancé and I got into a fight about responsibilities and he left and I haven't heard from him in 1 week. Should I be the one to apologize?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26/F] I have an interesting tale for you all, nothing to urgent...just want the opinions of random internet strangers [25/M] POST: Met a guy[25/M] that I [26/m] liked, and he didn't feel the same. Nbd, it's not fun to deal with but it's part of life. Put on your big girl panties an...	guy rejects girl, guy gets annoyed with her friendship, girl backs off and guy tries really hard to talk to her even though she doesn't really have anything to offer. Why?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Our relationship is slowly falling apart Me[26m] and [25f] POST: A little background: Me and my girlfriend have been together on and off for almost 2 years. We have had our ups and downs and have broken up a few times. When I met her she had a legitimate job. She had told me befor...	My girlfriend and I just recently got back together...she works at a strip club and I feel like she treats her customers better than she treats me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Extreme pain while running/walking downstairs POST: Hi runners, so I am a 16 year old guy who decided to start track for the first time this year. I had been running before the season started quite often, usually doing 20-30 mile weeks with the team and training with them. This week was th...	was running 20-30 mpw before the track season started, 3 days into the season my knee starts hurting after a hill workout and apparently hurts a lot more than it should according to my coach<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/F] My relationship has an expiration date, what should I do? POST: Hey Everyone, This is my first post on reddit and I wish it were on a happier subject. I just recently learned that my boyfriend [M/21] wants to go to grad school on the opposite side of the country and is ...	boyfriend knows that our relationship will end when he goes to grad school in over a year but he doesn't know if he's going because he hasn't gotten in yet. not sure if i should stay or get out now<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (UPDATED) I F[18] feel disrespected sexually by my boyfriend M[21] POST: I would like to say thank you for all the responses to my previous post: I talked to my boyfriend today. I told him how I felt disrespected and that I NEVER would do anal and I'm just not about it at all. I al...	Told boyfriend I was not about anal and it would NEVER happen. He apologized for pestering me and promised it would stop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Found out my Babysitter has been smoking weed with his pregnant girlfriend in the house while watching my child.. POST: background story: my SO had made a friend at work who happened to have a pregnant girlfriend. I was currently on mat leave and she was going on soon as i was coming off...	my child comes home smelling like urine and feces while the babysitters smoke weed in the house and neglect my child. want some advice on which route to choose.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Trying to get a job that I have no professional experience doing POST: The title pretty much sums up my problem. I want to get a job building timber frame buildings, but I have no professional experience doing it. I have some experience as an amateur woodworker, and a little experience doing ...	Want to get a job as a timber framer, don't have any experience doing it. Willing to move just about anywhere.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [18 F] one year, I love my girlfriend, but I don't love my girlfriend. POST: So, I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year. I should mention this is a Iong distance relationship (NY to VA, I met her at a camp a year and a half ago). I love her to d...	I love my girlfriend, but I'm not in love with her. I want more than anything to not hurt her, but I don't really want to be in a relationship right now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [23 F] am feeling neglected by my SO [25 M]. Are these feelings legitimate? POST: I've been seeing this guy for about 9 months now. I guess you could say we've been dating. Although we never officially declared the fact that we are dating, we are physical with each other an...	SO and I only see each other about once a week, although I ask to see him pretty often. Is this weird? How often do you see your SO? Is it strange for someone to want so much space?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (16F) am crumbling under the stress of college and a demanding, possessive boyfriend (18M) POST: Hello. I apologise in advance for my jumbled up thoughts, I am literally all over the place. I am heading to college soon and I have been under a hell lot of stress because of the sam...	Boyfriend and I are equally manically possessive. He feels inferior because I'm graduating school "way too early".<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25/F] with my ex-boyfriend[22/M] 2+years, is it ever OK to try again after a violent history? POST: I dated a man for about 2 years and things were wonderful up until I lost my job. We had been living together for about 8 months and we were both under a lot of stress. The last 3 ...	fought like cats and dogs, took 6 month break with therapy, discussing being exclusive again, is it possible to have a healthy relationship again after our troubled history?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom [60F] may evict her half sisters [55 and 54F] and their daughter [22F] from "their" home for not paying the taxes on the property. Is that cold? POST: My mom and her half sisters father (my grandfather) passed away almost a decade ago. Even though my mom's half sisters and one...	My mom [60F] may evict her half sisters [55 and 54F] and their daughter [22F] from "their" home for not paying the taxes on the property. Is that cold?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Girl drama, now I [22F] am being seen as the bad guy when I'm innocent. Should I care that others are talking about me? POST: Having a hard time time coping after this: She's BACK with her bf and she hasn't called. I haven't talked to any of our other friends about what's happ...	Girl thinks I flirted with her boyfriend when it wasn't like that. She's back with him and telling everyone. Now it feels like it's her side against mine and everyone's taking hers. Should I care?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by teaching my friends to protect their home POST: About 3 and a half weeks ago two of my buddies (who have been notoriously bad about locking their doors) had their house broken into and everything in their house that had any sort of value was taken. So I head to their house yesterday ...	Friends who recently were robbed left door unlocked again. I staged fake robbery to teach them a lesson. They call cops and get hit with fine for reporting a false crime. So I am paying the $500 fine<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Hi Reddit, I'm in a very happy relationship of 10 months, however, when i get drunk i actively flirt etc with other girls. I've kept it from GF so far. Should i tell her? How can i stop? POST: I'm at Uni at the moment and have an excellent GF (we are both 21y/o) who i care for deeply...	i get drunk and flirt with, kiss etc girls despite the fact i have a GF, one i care for deeply.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm 16 stuck without any idea what to do with girls i`m attracted to POST: As the title says i'm a16 year old male! I have an issue with actually the romantic side of relationships with females. So far whenever there is a girl i feel attracted to i build up a friendship with and wh...	Male[16] who has problems trying to get from being 'friendzoned' (a term used which i don't agree with) to girl's seeing me as datable<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What do you do when you expected something and it didn't come to pass and you felt your world end around you? POST: For the last 4 years, I have been studying to receive an engineering degree at a school in the Northeast. Through the shortsightedness of youth, I let a girl get in the way...	Missed my degree by that much and now my life is over. When have you been in a similar situation/how did you resolve it?<\|endoftext\|>