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[ { "role": "user", "content": "We’ve not even started dating" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She said it’s a risk she won’t take" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No aunty I can’t do that. A corper, I say a corper, a…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Somebody has given me her school fees before" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "A young girl like that" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She come give me 50k say…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Say mey you complete am" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Make I give am the 80k nah" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You see…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So, come on. The girl insisted and I said okay, since the time we talked about has not reached and you are insisting on having the money, let me give you back your 50k" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Straight up" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Were you that desperate for money?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "When you were a student?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, no, no, no, not when I was a student" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No, no, no" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "When I was a student" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Those things are waste, as long as I’m concerned. When you have a family, you put it in your family and it’s moving" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The, the girl come dey ginger me later say okay, e get when this girl dey tell me say ahh, say make I help, make I borrow her 120k" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Make she use pay her house rent" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yeah, right" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Is just cash assurance and mehn, is not working with me" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Na sooo" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It won’t work. Because I don’t have that time" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And you know say…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Why?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I no just know but e dey happen steady. Like," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "This, this one we will now pass through the front, front of that University of Abuja" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Eh?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Abi no, that place is closer. it's a straight way but this place is safer" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "In the night and how many check, check points are there… How many police this thing.At least this one, just up here, there is a military check point first…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "_ Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And then, at the University bridge, Erm… there are some police men that usually stay at the University bridge" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na money be fine bobo, na moneyyy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "See how dem fine, see how dem come dey wear" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes, very safe" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand aunty, ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Oh, there are some roads that are not safe" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Or should we follow the, the other University Abuja side?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "The other, let’s follow that, that side is…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okayyy" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You understand aunty ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But she behaved like someone that was really desperate for…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "She wasn’t" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But which one is better nah? Na who get the money for account e no go gree give you? Na that one good to marry?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Hmm… Anonymous forget that. These days women use their money to buy men o, if you people don’t know; know it now" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But aunty ehen, I come, aunty… see, see, see wetin" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand what I’m saying my brother?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "See wetin me I feel say wey make am give me the money sef ehen, she don come my house before that time, you understand?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okayyy" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yeah," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay, okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That was the only thing I, I figured out that period sef" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The money will remain four hundred and twen, the money will remain four hundred and twenty thousand and she would start using it because she has already started" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yeah…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I’ve given her back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Thank God that you gave her back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I gave her back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And maybe you wouldn’t give her back and I wondered what would have happened" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And before I gave her back, when she needed the money, That was when I even gave her back sef, God made it possible like when she needed the money, the day she called, that she will like to use the money to rent a house;You understand? I told her to give me one week,You understand? Before that one week, I called her, gave her back the money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "We’ve not even started dating" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That was a very big risk that she took" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No aunty I can’t do that. A corper, I say a corper, a…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen because you are not that kind of a person ehen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "A young girl like that" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Girl don give me her money but this one give me her school fees eh. Gave me 50k, her school fees nah 80k" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Say mey you complete am" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehhen say…If I now won pay am back" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You see…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I tell am no problem. I tell the girl no problem, I will. You get? Now she gave me that 50k. Now when she come give me the 50k, as in… the time to pay the school fees has not reached" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Of course" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "So, come on. The girl insisted and I said okay, since the time we talked about has not reached and you are insisting on having the money, let me give you back your 50k" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "but Annonymous you were, you agreed to put 30k…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Were you that desperate for money?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No she is my friend, I can dash her the 30k even without borrowing hers" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "When you were a student?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay, I thought it was when he was a student" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "No, no, no" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That’s why I say marry, marry, when boys don’t, when you people have money and you don’t marry, you waste money. Money you will use to be taking care of your families, see that thirty thousand naira you would have wasted giving a…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Those things are waste, as long as I’m concerned. When you have a family, you put it in your family and it’s moving" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Apparently…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Make she use pay her house rent" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I dey tell you" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Is just cash assurance and mehn, is not working with me" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na soooo" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "It won’t work. Because I don’t have that time" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "E get people wey be say, as you dey like this ehn, if you ask them for money ehendem go give you but if I ask dem no go give. You know that one very well?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Why?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That thing wey you tell me that time, you say e get one guy…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "This, this one we will now pass through the front, front of that University of Abuja" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Is it that University side?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yes" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na money" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Na money" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And for, according, I, I, that’s why I wanted to know if they have used that road" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "_ Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Before you even go far" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "They are even much, is further, I further Mtchew but that road, I’ve not used it in the night so I don’t know mtchew, I don’t know anything about it jare. But with this one, ehen that one is more of out sketch With this one very soon, you go just… we will reach now, when we pass airpot We will be there already, at least, nothing can happen…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "And people will patronize you because you are already popular. Do you understand? You are already popular, people will patronize you" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Is that where you picked us that time, this place?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "This bridge bah" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "People will, people that, people that are into this big, big things" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That place is still far?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Where I picked you from?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No, Is not too far" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Seriously" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But it’s just a little" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You understand. So, why not show this thing so that if you go for Big Brother, even if you don’t win the prize money. You are not even sure of entering the house but let’s say you enter the house, even if you don’t win the prize money and you get to an, a errr, level, do you understand?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes, plenty people" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Or… do you understand me? But…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Become famous…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And you’re saying that I’m not encouraging you, that I’m afraid if you go for Big Brother that eh, you, you…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "What should go…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "As in why, as in, look at you what do you think? Kee onye, onye mu gi? Kee ihe i n‘ako? What do you think I g’eji korom si m that there are people that I’m now thinking that you do, like… I’m dating you is that the reason you are seeing me like that, do you know what I can pull off and what I cannot pull off, are you crazy? If na me won go Big Brother you think say I go dey here dey tell you say I dey won go Big Brother? Na there you go see me. Na there you go see me, no dey tell me nonsense. I dey tell you wetin you suppose dey think, the way you suppose dey okay. … <ITS> <P-E> now, your Instagram page is, is nonsense, is nonsense, there’s nothing about what you do that shows there and now you go for Big Brother. Let’s say you don’t win the money, now if you go for Big Brother, that, that, that, this person is a Pilot, this person is a Musician, this person is this and there is evidence of what they do, now you are just a common university girl that…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She is still in school?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yes" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes. So, what do you think you are there for? I’m advising…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Or do they… Do they allow students to go for that?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Errm Nina" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I’m advising you and… Nina was her classmate in school that’s why she…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Is true o" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "O boy" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don leave am, I no dey even call am for phone ever since, I don…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": ".., but did you tell her that you are ending the relationship?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t need to tell her" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You have to tell her" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Come on, I’ve been in school like you. I met girls that are older than you are. I met, I met girls that don’t think the way you think. So if I’m telling you something and you are… and you are… arguing or you are trying to make me think I’m telling you this thing so that they will work to my advantage; you are crazy. As In" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "As in na problem" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "so this girl now, you, Anonnymous don’t give up on her, don’t" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Which one?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Don’t just err, hang the relationship like that. Try to ... before you will be there and someone else will take her o. Because that good thing you are seeing in her other men are seeing it o hmm-hmm, before you know it somebody that is more serious will come" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Noooo, God knows I’m…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "At 26 a child wants, at 26 every girl wants to settle down" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "God knows that I’m the best person for her" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And the girl get sense die" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "She no go discuss competition" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "All those kind things dem" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "If you don’t make it, you don’t have it. So… what are you saying?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Driving in the night is so difficult eh" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Guy e get the time wey my fuel pump no good. I no say my fuel pump get small issue that period. Na this road I dey where… am, am, yes, make I, make i show you where my car stop me that day" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "For here, your car stop you for here?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "This place" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Around to, around to, to 11" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "My God" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Eh?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So… just here now, this place wey this sand dey now. Okay no, no, no, just here now, just here, just here now, just here now, guy I use…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "My own don stop me, don stop me" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Okay, not you, not you" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Guy I use leg eh, I use leg, thank God say I get jerry can wey I won use buy fuel for… for generator. I use leg waka" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Go that filling station" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But I reach the filling station don close" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You didn’t, you didn’t see keke" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na wetin do me be that" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I buy black market. I reach there the filling station don close" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "It was too late. Even if you are trying to book taxi fare, who will be at, who will be close to that place to…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Some drivers sef, if you call them at that night to come and help you, they won’t come" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Because the road, the road is lonely. you understand me?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "E And the tariff is higher I, I, maybe to go there now go back I will pay 1000; how much fuel will I buy?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Is actually, is, is higher in the night and there are lot of factors that are going with it, cons, also considering the risk of safety and everything" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "So, Thank God, how do you wish to handle your parents?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "On the serious part on a joke, I don’t know how to go about it. I’ve tried convincing my parents, talk to them… this one, that one but mtchew" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "We had a seminar in church recently still on this issue. Actually marriage, I attend house on the rock, so then…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Oh, you attend house on the rock?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Not this one, the other one" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Built last, that was the seminar and elm there was a relationship talking, someone asked about this thing and she was giving an example of her own this thing. Now, she is Yoruba and she got married to an Edo man and her dad, her parents normally they will not, never agree that, but the way she marketed… in fact, the man that she got married to was not, she was more, she was wealthier than the guy. So, I think the guy was earning about 5,000 naira back then and she was earning way, way more, in fact, he didn’t even have a good …. So, she tushed him up before, before she took him to their house and then she sold, she, the way she sold him to her parents, it was on what, how she presented him to her parents that made them accept him" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Here?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You can use the next one" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Okay, this other place?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yes" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Hmm but honestly speaking, I think, your girl now, I no know why person no go like am o, anyway, na who know…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Physically, does she look good? physically?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Na who no know am wey no go like am o. I swear" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "And very intelligent" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Ehen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yeah, use here, use here" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Or right?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen, has your mum seen her?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Let me just go back" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Just first impression… Okayyy" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yeah, yes" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Wait, chill, chill" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Is this where you people buy gas?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Guy if e no be NIPCON wey dey use machine fill gas, I no dey buy" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "You go make am rush carry the girl shey?" } ]