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Varicious | I'd say elementalist. With their four elements that's basically 4 builds, but I'm sure there's plenty more. Plus, they can easily farm and aren't assassins. (I don't like playing sins at all.) I know they can nuke in SCs and do odd ends stuff like bonding for UW clearing.
My personal choice would be Dervish, as that's what I rerolled after monking for years on end. Dervs can VoS in so many clears its ridiculous, and they are fun in terms of PvE vanqing etc, offering many good Elites to build around. | 5,370,161 | [
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Varicious | I can't post any at the moment, as far as Ele goes it depends where you're at, and what the monsters are weak to. I don't know Paragons well but if a hero can run Imba well then I'd use that. Sorry for the lack of info. Also, main the class and do character specific titles on one you enjoy, regardless of what it can do. Each class is good at something, but out of the characters you have I'd say main the Assassin or Ele. I mained a Monk and it became dry after I 100%d <PERSON> so I rerolled a Dervish. It's the most fun I've had yet! | 5,370,162 | [
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Varicious | Welcome to /r/Nofap
I am a newcomer myself; and wow I now realize so much.
I'm troubled because although accepting this challenge at a short two days ago, i wokeup today with a bad erection and invited a girl over tonight. I am currently conflicted with this idea
Best of luck to you my friend. It's a long, slow battle; but it's a path well taken to a better future | 5,370,163 | [
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Varicious | I smoke buds way more, and find it harder to stop. I have smoked since 13, picking on everyday around 15.
I'm now 19.
I began pmoing around 11, rather young. pretty much everyday since, and consistently throughout my 3 year relationship (15-18). I didn't see my pmo as a problem, usually once a day, until PIED occurred. Even then I didn't know the cause.
A year after being single now, I stumbled upon this subreddit. I've been attempting to make positive changes in my life: diet, exercise, etc.
I have been on 4 years of smoking everyday. I don't see myself quitting, although I did stumble upon r/leaves . I'm on day 2 of NoFap and I love the idea and purpose so I think it won't be as hard.
TL;DR substance ;pmo
yes it's 'just weed' lalala but I think I've grown a strong mental addiction, especially since starting during puberty stages. | 5,370,164 | [
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Varicious | There are plenty of benefits to Nofap. My favorites are the reset on your natural manstincts. You'll notice you actually want to go out and meet and talk to people, and that alone is really nice. some smaller mentions are less acne, way more energy, and self-control that'll make you feel proud. Its tough nonetheless.
I've never chronically done it, but pretty much every/other day for for last 9 years, and I'm 19 now. I did experience PIED with my ex several times, and it was embarrassing and I didn't know why it happened.
No ones here to force or control you. This is one of those self building practices that will make you feel a lot more positive about life. I'm only on 3 days here, but I feel the energy building up - and man is it great. | 5,370,165 | null | 17 | null |
Varicious | That's awesome dude! I also wanna ride the waves of NoFap
I really feel for you though, I find myself running into beautiful woman, and they're readily smiling at me. I'm a tall guy(6'2), but don't have the personality of 'a tall guy,' & have pretty intimidating facial features. (beard and pretty big eyebrows, 99% stoic.) Something about that makes me feel really conscious and I always end up pissed off at myself because I feel I can't show my true self. It's odd, but I can understand in the way you get aggravated when you messup an encounter.
Best of luck on your journey. it's pride-filled and an awesome refreshment of life, | 5,370,166 | [
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Varicious | This happened to me two years ago, and again years before that.
pmo gave me PIED during most of my relationship of three years (15-18). I have been depressed and starting to touch into serious dopamine outlets; whether through *o,*, drugs, or pills. I realize I have to take a step back and have dropped dropped them all. I am just smoking buds, but in much noticeably smaller amounts in my day by day routine.
If you need an accountability partner, shoot me a pm and we can set something up. Welcome pal! | 5,370,167 | [
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Varicious | Hey bro you all good? Its a good thing you realized that nothing good comes from smoking and took action.
Onto your girl issue, I completely relate. You stated that having a thing for someone suppresses and distracts the urge. I met somebody who is turned off by cigs, but is the most amazing beautiful person I've met, so I hastily cut off smoking after a pack a day for 5 years. I'm entering my 5th day tomorrow and omg. Its an adventure, but I also know that it's for me, no one else. If this girl leaves I won't say I'm too stressed or upset and smoke again. This is for my freedom.
From a less serious perspective, just go for it man! Bump into her after class and introduce yourself, maybe give reason to why you noticed her. If she's into you, go ahead and ask if you could hangout outside of class! Boom!
Feel free to PM me, everyone could use a support buddy! | 5,370,168 | null | 17 | null |
Varicious | I used this method. I haven't smoked in 45 days as of today. I've been at a steady two tins a week since. Oftentimes I'll tease myself with a drag of an unlit, just to say no and walk away a champ. Although I didn't beat nicotine fully, I made a step toward a healthier life style. and honestly, I don't want a smoke ever again.
Objectively it's a much more viable option for nicotine consumption - which we all know is a bitch to kick. Just do you man and keep them pearly whites clean.
just don't get a tin a day habit. then you're really screwed | 5,370,169 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | You can't study to much, you are working towards your future. It's not her place to say either way or more do wth she care??
I do agree she sounds very jealous but the disrespect is not okay. Or the snide comments. These type are bullies they know the non confrontational people will let stuff slide. Someone else would have got in her face and been telling back, because her reactions are unneeded.
The up side is your classmates are seeing for themselves she's a nut lol | 8,521,984 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Saying to them "I have zero contact with my parents, there is a history of abuse and I'm no contact and staying that way" is all you should need to say.
They can ignore her calls once they realize what she's pulling, the demented part is a 67 year old woman calling your higher ups like you are in elementary school not a grown adult.
Side note I have family like your mother I'm no contact with, best decision! They brought nothing but drama and problems. Totally can see your side and it's healthier for your child. | 8,521,985 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | There are mature, ready to settle down 24 year olds and then party it up 24 year olds. While she might fall in between, she is in a different stage in her life than you.
Age gaps aren't always a big deal but this one sounds it. You were the third wheel because you have already been through that stage of life.
While it would be rude without context for her to do that, you also stated it's just another day. Are you upset it was your birthday or that she is doing what college age kids do and not staying in the night with you? | 8,521,986 | null | 123 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Do you keep them out because of not liking them? It's your account and your choice honestly.
I dislike my husbands family (it's like a <PERSON> show) and refused any requests they sent. My husbands relationship is his with them, ours is separate. They also can not speak English so there's extra problems there but how I see it is, I have zero desire for these people in my life I'm not adding them. Did the same with some of my own, the family that thrives on drama.
Most likely they are mosey it's why a lot of people add others on Facebook. But they may be also trying to get closer, since your bf said he doesn't care though and you are happy how it is I'd leave it. | 8,521,987 | null | 21 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Unless he has a scholarship or grants then you are also paying for his schooling and he should be talking to you about it.
Has he even told you his plans at all like where he would like to work etc?
I'd feel the same as you, even more than deciding about children without you or schooling, I'd be annoyed he makes decisions as if he is single without responsibilities.
You need to get some kind of answer from him as for what his plan is but it sounds like it will be a pulling teeth situation. Good luck! | 8,521,988 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | The fact you seem to believe everything will be left behind is crazy in itself. You made a HUGE decision in a major life change for you to live with an ex in a city you have never visited, think you will drive away from your past and when he starts to date it won't cause issues? - yeah can't see how this is all a ticking time bomb at ALL. | 8,521,989 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | If this is a running theme I'm leaning to think you are doing something that is putting off all your friends. Without more info though we can't help you with that.
A previous poster was correct though if they are talking over you, ignoring you etc they are not your friends. There was a girl when I was in hs we did this too (we weren't trying to be mean, just annoyed she did not or could not read the social cues that we were not wanting her around.) we would act like she wasn't there. Our reasoning was she had really weird mood shifts that you had to tip toe around, she also invited herself to stuff.
Are you expecting to much maybe? Are you considering people who are sharing classes friends when they don't really know you, so over stepping boundaries? Are you inviting yourself to events? | 8,521,990 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | God I'm mad for you!
She needs to butt out and be told by your husband she does not get to make the rules but he seems to lack a spine.
She raised her kids and judging by how her son lacks the ability to tell his mother to respect boundaries and not encourage her shows just how well she did with that task.
He needs to get a clue he is married to you and not his mommy. She needs to respect boundaries and if not to get lost. | 8,521,991 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I think your husband has been to nice when dealing with him and it encouraged him. Start giving very short answers and no more details. Have you ever seen this son? Have you complained to the manager? (Assuming apartments).
It's creepy he is always watching it seems. If he knocks again like that why not just yell through the door who is it? Instead of opening it to him? (Doesn't sound like he has been violent but he is pushy and you don't want him pushing his way on in!)
Good luck, you shouldn't have to be on guard of getting his attention every time you leave your house. | 8,521,992 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I'm surprised it took a bit of scrolling to see someone say this! He is the source of his problems and his sister is enabling his behavior by letting him stay.
Why is how he disrespects you both and your home ok? I'd be looking at her differently at this point.
If you feel threatened- call the cops.
Tell him he has so long to be out because his sister won't. He won't be homeless either if he has an expensive car he could have made better decisions, he didn't so now he can live in his car.
I'd be mad with her attitude though that his disrespect and ungratefulness is to just be tolerated. | 8,521,993 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Welcome to catty women. They could be jealous, they could just have nasty attitudes or any other number of stupid reasons. You can't worry on what they are saying because regardless nothing will ever be right, they proved this by them calling you a slut to a prude.
Ignore them, part of it is to get a reaction from you to then have even more drama to be catty to you with. Learn from it too, finding true friends involves a LOT of weeding out.
You may have been friendly with ones bf and she thought it was flirting and now she has a grudge. Doesn't really matter all that is their problems.
Yours is to recognize there are just nasty people around and unless it's causing a problem in a work or living situation, you can't control what they say. | 8,521,994 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | My brother use to figure out how to unlock doors and sneak out while people slept (never got out luckily due to dogs and he was noisy), so family put locks at the top of the door neither of us could reach. He figured out how to get the broom and shove the lock until it unlocked. They are seriously little ninjas lol
To OP your sister is right and even if he didn't want to hold your hand you are the adult. <PERSON> explain why while taking hold of his hand. He got away with it once now so he will try again. | 8,521,995 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | It sounds in some ways, yes she has been disrespectful, that you are blaming her actions but it might really be you are seeing she doesn't share your same ideals and morals.
I'm with you I'd be pissed off if she brought a stranger into my home, drugs or did a disappearing act. But being mad she isn't working on herself, I think that's part of her personality that you didn't see until living together.
When you live with friends, did it once and never again, even the closest of friends learn and see other sides of each other they may not like.
Deciding to stay friends or not doesn't have to be done this instance. Maybe if she moves out and you are unaware of some things (bringing men home, focusing on men in an unhealthy way, drugs, not knowing she didn't come home) you can remain friends. Or maybe she has changed with time and you just are going separate ways.
Any time people move in together, friends or not and regardless for how long, ground rules should be set. What is common sense and automatic to one might not be to another. Example if I lived with a friend and was going to be gone extremely late I'd give them a heads up just out of curtesy. Others might look at it they are adults and don't have to check in. | 8,521,996 | null | 123 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | It's kind of funny because it was my best friend who moved in, friends for ten years, we were your age and I realized the lifestyle she was living was drastically different than what I wanted. (She also was a massive slob lol) I think 21-25 is when people start choosing life paths after college.
You sound like you are not wanting a party lifestyle and want to build a home with your bf and she's going in another direction of focusing on men, drugs etc.
It's not a bad thing it just sucks since there's so much history in the friendship. I now only see my friend I mentioned maybe once every two years and we talk once in a while on fb but otherwise we grew apart. | 8,521,997 | null | 199 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Agreed she will get worse if she realizes you are planning to leave.
By locking you down she thinks she is going to keep control, but you are right she is stunting your growth in a lot of ways.
The horror they play non Christian music? That's bizarre, do you only watch the Disney channel? You need to know about things in life to protect yourself but her logic is if we ignore it it doesn't exist. | 8,521,998 | null | 150 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I said that in another comment, I agree. It just isn't a foreign concept like some are making out. Unless it literally is, maybe they live in a different country than those of us who find this normal.
I also stated her sulking for a week is extreme but <PERSON> posted he has had issues like this before with her and understandings so maybe there is more to it than just signing a gift from the baby. | 8,521,999 | null | 135 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | It sounds like he is bringing girls to your bfs place like your bf is single so girls for both to hook up with. I'm not saying that was your bfs plan or thought, I think his friend is making an uncomfortable situation.
Because while his friend is booking up with a girl, unless it's a threesome or something what is this other girl doing? Why bring her along if it's not for her to hook up with his friend?
Might be innocent or not, if not it doesn't sound like it's your bfs doing though. But it would make most uncomfortable. | 8,522,000 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | It's okay to cut toxic family members out of your life or to set strict boundaries. She sounds abusive like someone else said. If you don't want to totally cut her off you could set boundaries.
Even if you don't tell her these boundaries, say see her for dinner every two months or something, if she starts berating you then you get up and walk away after telling her this is not acceptable and is not continuing.
If you want a closer relationship try to talk to her about the stuff you told us, tell her this is why you are not close to her and see if she wants to work on it if that's what you want. But if she got angry when it was brought up I'd point out and this is why I can't be around you. | 8,522,001 | null | 150 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | This! Also I worked in daycare, how many kids are in his class? If a big class (more than 6) there should be a teachers aid in with them. Either way how she informed you is NOT ok or professional and if one of us did that it would be an issue. Never mind that, it shamed your kiddo for something that is normal for his age. Kids play, do t want to stop etc.
I'm also doubting he would even if making it up would come up with cleaning it up himself. But based on what you said and how she informed you, I'd trust your kiddo. Oh also he might have had the accident because she is causing anxiety or nervousness. If this is true I doubt it's the first time she's had a heavy hand approach. | 8,522,002 | null | 51 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Yes two family members. One is still dealing with it at four, the other has out grown it. Your families reaction is way out there, why would you punish him? For pooping on the floor yes, but not beating him. Your kiddo needs to get over the fear of the pain, not be punished for something that he was embarrassed by (hiding it probably for that and fear of being in trouble.)
Also try changing his diet to help? Yogurt can help and might soften things up like the miralax. Cut back on binding foods like bananas and cheese? | 8,522,003 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | 1 - you asked, don't ask if you don't truly want to know.
2 - Jesus she's probably sick of being hounded by something so stupid so is lying because she's not going to win either way.
3 - get therapy for your severe insecurity.
4 - what are you wanting people to say? Dude could have a ten inch dick, there's NOTHING that will change that and that she slept with him. You are hyper focusing on something that will never change. Past is done, both in what she has said and who she has slept with. | 8,522,004 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | If he had been there before, which it sounds like a place teens would go at times, wouldn't his scent he around the property anyway? I doubt him yelling for help would be heard, even so as sad as it is look how many people just don't want to get involved. If it's a known abandoned spots and teens end up there, do ya really listening to their yelling? Sad but that could be explained away too.
I do know as a kid climbing in a cave in NH I suddenly panicked at the closer in quarters and for whatever reason my instinct was to pull my knees up to my chest too. Not sure if you think 'if I can do this, it's not that small' or what but could have helped lodge me there. My dad however noticed my panic and calmed me down (hate small spaces like that!), if he was high or goofing off there's so many scenarios that could have played out, and from the sound of it the only one that may be able to tell if he was involved, isn't stable and you can't believe what he does say true or not. Sad.
His poor parents though, their kid is missing and all this time just two blocks away. | 8,522,005 | null | 118 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Not about breastfeeding but your comment about acknowledging babies until a certain point. That's something that happened often and not as far off as a lot of people who know about it, would like to believe.
There was about a year ago a story about an elderly woman discussing her family and their graves. There were five infants in the family plot. Three without names and two that shared the same name. When questioned she stated it was common "in her parents time" to not name children to get attached since survival wasn't a guarantee and also to reuse names.
I remember it due to finding death notices for unnamed infants when doing genealogy. It was sadly common and was an upsetting thought that those children were basically replaceable.
It then made me question my own family, both my grandmothers (I'm 36 for reference) had still births. It was common to not name the baby or have any kind of memorial for closure. People seem to think this stuff was way far off in the past when it was only a few generations away.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I'm wondering if he has issues of his own that you remind him of. Your OCD, maybe he fears hurting woman or something.
What I wanted to comment on though is I also have OCD, congrats on getting it under control. It will be a struggle unfortunately but the fact you got it controlled in a year shows you have the ability to do so. So while I understand the apprehension of roller coaster if with it, it most likely will happen but you have the ability to get control again.
Also getting away from your father will lessen your anxiety and should improve your OCD to a degree. | 8,522,007 | null | 21 | null |