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94_1
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Um, how about if we talk about, uh, the problem that I'm really having is, um, getting somebody motivated to do something, um, such as move out of my house.
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94_3
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Well, I-I offered my home to somebody and, uh, for, you know, uh, a transitional period.
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94_5
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You know, and it seems that, um, it's hard for me to be assertive and say I think the, um, the, uh, transitional period is- has come and it's beginning to time to transition. So.
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neutral
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94_7
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Yeah, that's, it's absolutely right that I want, I-I want change but I'm not, I am kind of, like, weak in that area where it's, like, the ability to actually say the words. You're right, yeah. I'd like to be able to do that.
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94_9
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Um. [sighs] I don't know, I'm-I'm, I guess, I'm kind of, um, I care about the person and, you know, there's a certain amount of comfortability of having somebody with you, you know, and I'm just, so, I guess I am at war with myself because part of me wants the comfort of having a companion and the other part of me is just, you know-- I-I cannot-- I am not really sure what I wanna do, you know.
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94_11
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Yeah, you know, it's kind of, like, the old sock- song saying hit the road Jack, don't you come back no more, no more, no more, no more. [laughs] And—
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94_13
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[laughs] Well, first of all I think he would hit the road if I started singing that song 'cause I can sing. [laughs]
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94_15
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Well, you know, in life you have to have a sense of humor in my- the way I view and otherwise, you know, I'd be like where's the news. [laughs] I mean, it's either—
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neutral
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communication behavior
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94_17
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Yeah, yeah, I have to laugh, I mean, even comedians say, you know, uh, most of-- What I've heard about comedians is that they are really not always that happy and they use that in a comical way to, you know, deal with life, so, yeah. [laughs] I kind of, maybe I should go into that. [laughs] Like this girl—
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94_19
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Yeah, like this girl Ruth that I know she's-she's, uh, got a serious job and she kind of does that on the side. [laughs]
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neutral
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94_21
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Mm. Let's see. Well, you know, I'm really not sure, I kind of, you know. Um, I'm having a hard time with that. Um.
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neutral
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94_23
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Mm, well, I have to really think about it because-
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neutral
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94_25
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Yeah, yeah. Maybe some guilt and I, um, uh, I just, you know, [sighs] I go back and forth a little bit, you know.
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94_27
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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94_29
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Yeah, I-I- yeah. I mean I- thank you. I-I-I appreciate you saying that I'm a good person. Like I feel I am. Um—
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neutral
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communication behavior
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94_31
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Yeah. Oops, it's just hard to- it's just hard to, um, er, yeah. I- my j- my job is done and I have to start to realize that I have to be a little bit more assertive, I think, and a little bit more, um, sure of myself.
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94_33
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Well, um, I've had co-conversations about with him and sometimes not-not so pleasant, but I'm-I'm just making, you know, 'cause I happen to sometimes just like hold things in. And then finally I- at-at one point I was really, you know, very logical about it. And then the other day I kind of got not so logical about it.
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neutral
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94_35
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[laughs]
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neutral
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communication behavior
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94_37
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Yeah. That's the good thing that he does. And I mentioned them. I-I-I discussed that with him.
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neutral
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94_39
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And that gives me a relie- a sense of relief. Like I'm not just, you know, saying yeah. You know, go find your own place or, you know, I mean, there are places where he has a safety net to go to and that-that is something that I think I feel better about and that it makes it easier to discuss and giving them options that he can-- Yeah, yeah, exactly.
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change
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communication behavior
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94_41
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Been there, done that. [laughs]
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neutral
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communication behavior
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94_43
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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94_45
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Well, um, I told him within a couple of days is, you know. I think, um, I-I- cause I have future plans, um, and some things that are up in the air with me as far as where I'm going to be living in. I've had this place for seven years, but I'm not sure, you know. Every day is a new- a new, uh, winding road that we go down, you know?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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94_47
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Um.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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94_49
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Oh, God, yeah, yeah. But, you know, and it's scary to have an extra, a huge extra trunk that you have to carry with you [chuckles].
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neutral
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94_51
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Yeah, yeah.
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neutral
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94_53
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But I-I mean and it's not that I don't care about him, I do. But you know, it's just like, we're both- we're all adults here, come on.
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change
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communication behavior
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94_55
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Um, that's the goal, you know.
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change
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communication behavior
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94_57
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And I don't know what his plans are, but those are my plans.
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94_59
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I like your way of thinking, girl. I-I'll tell him that. [laughs].
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neutral
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communication behavior
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94_61
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Thank you
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neutral
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communication behavior
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95_1
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Um, okay. Just, I don't even know why I'm doing this anymore. I'm-I'm just so stupid. I'm such an idiot. I didn't know what the point of-of this is. I just- I just keep doing the same thing over and over, even though I know it can kill me. I just, I don't have any more willpower, ma'am. Yeah, [foreign language].
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95_3
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Mm-hmm.
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95_5
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No, it just seems that cutting myself is the only way out. And I just get suicidal thoughts and [foreign language], I'm just very, very like depressed and what's going on at home.
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communication behavior
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95_7
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Yeah.
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sustain
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95_9
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Yes. Sometimes a pain in-in the body. It's, uh, to [unintelligible 00:01:27] handle and-and the pain inside of me.
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95_11
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Yes. I am.
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95_13
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Yeah, yeah, suicide.
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95_15
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[foreign language]
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95_17
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Yeah, 'cause she's a single mom and she struggles a lot. I wanna help her, but I can't help her. So it just makes me sad. I feel like if I don't live anymore, she'll be okay. And she wouldn't have to worry about me or pay my stuff.
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95_19
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Yeah.
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95_21
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I-I think so?
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neutral
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95_23
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Because it won't be a burden to her.
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95_25
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Because she has to pay for my food and my uniforms, um, to have a roof over our heads.
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95_27
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Um, I try to be a good kid. I tried to go to school. I may not have the best grades, but I'm not failing any classes.
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95_29
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That's the right one.
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95_31
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Um, I don't know. I don't know. It's just, um, I'm not sure I can.
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95_33
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Thank you, ma'am, I feel better.
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95_35
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Okay.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_1
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Uh, yeah, sure. Um, I guess, well, my doctor referred me to see you. Um, I guess he has some concerns about, um, my- my pregnancy and- and my baby. So, um, yeah, well, I'm doing what I'm told.
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96_3
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Uh, yeah, he is concerned about my alcohol intake.
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96_5
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Uh, no.
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96_7
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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96_9
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Um, okay. Uh, well, I guess I drink like a glass of wine at supper every night, and just to, you know, relax a little with my friends if I go out. So wine has always been a kind of a family tradition with supper. So-
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96_11
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_13
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Yeah, and I, you know, I-I have friends who have drank during pregnancy, and-and I see articles on Facebook and-and, you know, things that show that there isn't really a clear link between, you know, abnormalities or, uh, yeah, I just- I just think it's kind of an old wives' tale. So, you know, I'm independent and I'm gonna- I'm gonna do what I want, it's my body.
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96_15
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Yeah. You know, I've looked it up to see, you know, kinda what I can say back, you know, to support my argument.
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96_17
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Yeah, which is that, um, I'm going to do what I- do what I wanna do and what I know, right? So it's- yeah. I don't know, but, um, I'm here anyway. So-
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96_19
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Nope. I never have been.
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communication behavior
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96_21
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Yep.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_23
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Mm-hmm. I think so.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_25
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Yeah. I mean, you know-
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96_27
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_29
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Like right now?
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neutral
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96_31
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Uh-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_33
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Uh, yeah, I guess.
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communication behavior
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96_35
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Sure.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_37
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Well, you know, I've-I've heard these kinds of things before, but I just- I don't see the evidence. I don't see the risk, you know, I don't, you know, if someone can like prove to me, or show a direct link or something like that.
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96_39
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It's the same thing.
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sustain
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communication behavior
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96_41
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Yeah. It's just a fancy little brochure saying what I've already known, I've already heard.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_43
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_45
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Um, well, I've looked up, um, different articles. Um, and I- as I said, I personally know people who haven't had any problems. Um, so that's about the extent.
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96_47
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Like, uh, I don't like- have like a bibliography or anything.
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communication behavior
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96_49
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So I can't really- I don't really know when those were published. It's just stuff I've found, supporting the way that I look at it.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_51
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Yeah. Well, it's like all this brochure is saying is that, um, the same again, the same thing that I've heard, that the limits and that there is no safe amount of drink during pregnancy, but it's like, why not?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_53
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You know, it's kind of like the "why" that it's like-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_55
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-I never get that information.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_57
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Yeah, like what kind of issues would that cause if any?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_59
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_61
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Yep.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_63
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Um, well, it's-it's really important to me. That's a big priority of mine is to have a healthy baby and bring him or her up well and-and, you know, be a good parent.
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neutral
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96_65
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Um, not-not like being there at home with them, not being absent, um, taking care of them, feeding them, um, changing their diaper, which I'm not excited about. Um, you know, kind of the- those basics.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_67
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_69
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_71
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_73
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Yeah, of course.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_75
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_77
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Um, well, I just don't know- I just don't know where-where these brochures get their information or-or anything from, like, where's the hard evidence essentially.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_79
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_81
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Um, well, it surprises me that that's based on research from out of 2011, um, and I must have missed that. I guess, you know, if it is, um, you know, I do wanna do what's best for my baby and for myself. And if I have to quit drinking, um, I guess ultimately I have to-I make that decision, um, but, um, that's a lot of, uh, information to take in today.
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change
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communication behavior
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96_83
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Nope.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_85
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Um, well, first things first, if I could take a brochure home maybe, um, you know, show it to my partner and-and-and get-get their support, um, I think that's really gonna help me, and kind of changing our-our habits, or, you know, putting the alcohol away, out of sight. Um, I think that's probably the best thing I can do, like, today when I get home.
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change
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communication behavior
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96_87
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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96_89
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Yeah, I think that- I think that would be a good idea, and maybe you could help me, yeah, with, like, ways to approach it because I think that my partner kind of has the same view that I- that I had. So-
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change
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communication behavior
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96_91
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Yeah. Thank you.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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97_1
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Good.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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97_3
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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97_5
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What?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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97_7
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You are joking, aren't you? I mean, look, I've made time in my day to come here.
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97_9
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I'm kept in your waiting room-
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