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98_105
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_107
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_109
Um, oh, I'll never get in the car when I'm drinking again. That-- Yeah. I-I would never do that again.
change
communication behavior
98_111
Uh, I don't want to lose my license, you know.
change
communication behavior
98_113
I don't, uh, you know, I don't wanna lose my license.
change
communication behavior
98_115
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_117
Well, and then I-I sell cars for a living too, so--
neutral
communication behavior
98_119
-um, you know, that would be, um-- You know, I don't wanna lose my job either. You know, I think those would kind of be connected together.
change
communication behavior
98_121
And, you know, I-- You're not gonna call my work or anything for this, are you?
neutral
communication behavior
98_123
Oh, okay.
neutral
communication behavior
98_125
All right.
neutral
communication behavior
98_127
Okay. I just didn't know how that worked.
neutral
communication behavior
98_129
Because I think if they found out, I might, you know, be in jeopardy with my job. So--
neutral
communication behavior
98_131
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_133
Well, you know, the Super Bowl is coming up, and that might be an opportunity where, you know, I might-- I could see myself maybe drinking that day, you know.
neutral
communication behavior
98_135
So, maybe I would just, uh-- I think I'll just have people come over to my house instead of going somewhere else, you know.
change
communication behavior
98_137
Yeah, I think so, and probably a smarter thing to do. I don't wanna go through this again, you know.
change
communication behavior
98_139
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_141
I think so.
neutral
communication behavior
98_143
Sure.
neutral
communication behavior
98_145
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_147
There you go.
neutral
communication behavior
98_149
For my first DUI, I did, uh-- I didn't drink at all for about six months. And, um, I-I-I just didn't think that, um, I really had a problem with it, so, you know, I-I did start drinking again. But, you know, again, it wasn't uh-- You know, it was a little different last time, because I was drinking a little more last time than, you know, now. I don't really drink as-as much as I used to drink, you know, um, and, you know, after you know, I quit for six months, so I kind of knew that I didn't really have a problem.
sustain
communication behavior
98_151
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_153
Um, I know it was kind of strange. My friends didn't really hang out with me too much. Um--
neutral
communication behavior
98_155
Yeah. You know, I, uh.
neutral
communication behavior
98_157
No, my friends.
neutral
communication behavior
98_159
Just my social circle, I guess, uh--
neutral
communication behavior
98_161
Probably 'cause I didn't- I wasn't drinking with them, I guess. I don't really know. I mean, it seemed, uh--
neutral
communication behavior
98_163
Um, no. I really couldn't because my girlfriend really wouldn't let me hang with them. You know? I mean, it was, uh-- She said that if I, you know, kept hanging out with them guys, that she wasn't gonna be with me anymore. And I just thought that it was better for me to, you know, calm down for a little bit and, uh, maybe things would get better with us, you know.
neutral
communication behavior
98_165
Sure.
neutral
communication behavior
98_167
Well, it was until she left, you know.
neutral
communication behavior
98_169
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_171
Uh, she left when I started drinking again.
neutral
communication behavior
98_173
After the six months, she, uh-- You know, it's kinda, I dunno, she just said that it wasn't gonna work out, and, uh, she decided not to continue with the relationship.
neutral
communication behavior
98_175
Uh, it was about the same time. I really don't know which came first. It was about the same time. Uh, we were getting in a lot of arguments. I just didn't quite feel myself. You know, I-I-I wasn't-- My friends weren't around. I, uh-- You know, I missed going out with them.
neutral
communication behavior
98_177
Yeah. It was kind of weird 'cause I felt like she was trying to control me, and, uh- and uh, you know, I, uh-- And she was telling me what to do all the time, and I just, uh, didn't feel right about the whole situation. So, it was pretty much, we both decided, you know, that it just wasn't the right thing to do, so.
neutral
communication behavior
98_179
Sure.
neutral
communication behavior
98_181
Well, I guess. Sure. Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_183
[clear throat] Well, let's see. The first one was, uh, three years ago, and then, um, this one was a few weeks ago, so, um, it's been a few years, you know.
neutral
communication behavior
98_185
Yeah. It's been a few years
neutral
communication behavior
98_187
I don't really know that I can really compare good or bad. I just, uh-- You know, I just drink to be social, you know, I don't know that it really changes anything about me. It just, uh-- You know, I just drink to be social, you know.
sustain
communication behavior
98_189
Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. As soon as my girlfriend left, I could go out with them again, you know. [laughter]
neutral
communication behavior
98_191
Well, she didn't want me going out with them.
neutral
communication behavior
98_193
She thought that they really--
neutral
communication behavior
98_195
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_197
She blamed the first DUI on them. She said, you know, because I was out with them, that it was pretty much, you know, they-they made me drink too much that night.
neutral
communication behavior
98_199
I think she was right on that. Yeah, absolutely.
neutral
communication behavior
98_201
I mean, if they wouldn't have gave me those shots, you know, towards the end of the night, I would've been all right. You know, I could have drove, and I wouldn't have, uh- I wouldn't have hit that mailbox.
neutral
communication behavior
98_203
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_205
That was--
neutral
communication behavior
98_207
Yeah. I was on-- It was like I was a couple of blocks away from the house and I, uh, rolled up on the neighbor's lawn and I took out their mailbox.
neutral
communication behavior
98_209
I don't really remember too much of that night.
neutral
communication behavior
98_211
Uh, I don't know if I was blacked out, but I just don't remember a lot of it.
neutral
communication behavior
98_213
I wouldn't really call it a blackout. I just don't really-
neutral
communication behavior
98_215
-remember how that happened.
neutral
communication behavior
98_217
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_219
Yeah. Yeah. It's all right.
neutral
communication behavior
98_221
Yeah, Mary-Mary, just [crosstalk] Well, after-after I got the-the-- After I hit the mailbox-
neutral
communication behavior
98_223
-um, I stopped drinking for, you know, like about six months, and, uh, you know, and we were trying to work things out, but it just didn't-
neutral
communication behavior
98_225
-it just didn't work.
neutral
communication behavior
98_227
I think she became a little too possessive at that point.
neutral
communication behavior
98_229
Um, I think she just wanted to control me and I was tired of being controlled.
neutral
communication behavior
98_231
No, I was-- They just-- No, they weren't- they weren't really controlling me. They just-- They shouldn't have given me the last couple shots, 'cause you, they-they knew I was pretty, you know, uh, messed up before that. So-
neutral
communication behavior
98_233
-you know, that when they- when they-- You know, when they gave me the last, you know, couple shots, that kind of put me over the edge.
neutral
communication behavior
98_235
Pretty much, pretty much.
neutral
communication behavior
98_237
Yeah. I mean I guess it was my decision to take the, uh- you know, the other shots, but I-I just-- I don't know. I really don't really remember too much.
neutral
communication behavior
98_239
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_241
Yeah. You can blame hindsight a little bit. I mean, that works for me. [laughter]
neutral
communication behavior
98_243
Yeah. [crosstalk]
neutral
communication behavior
98_245
I mean, they've been my friends since, you know, uh, since high school.
neutral
communication behavior
98_247
Yeah, absolutely.
neutral
communication behavior
98_249
Sure, absolutely.
neutral
communication behavior
98_251
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_253
Uh, well, like I'll do stuff around the house, you know, uh, cut the grass and stop, do yard work, other than that, um, I don't know.
neutral
communication behavior
98_255
Uh, no, I'm single now, so, you know, I don't really, uh-- [crosstalk]
neutral
communication behavior
98_257
It's all right, you know, I date a little bit but, uh, you know, I just don't wanna get serious right now.
neutral
communication behavior
98_259
Um, I just don't want to date someone in a regular basis. I don't really feel like I want to be in a committed relationship.
neutral
communication behavior
98_261
Sure, absolutely.
neutral
communication behavior
98_263
Well, I think I would like really think about--
neutral
communication behavior
98_265
Yeah. Well, I mean I-I, uh- I, uh- I wouldn't drink as much, and if I- if I did, I would call, uh, a taxi or, um, you know, get some kind of a ride home, I think, 'cause, uh, you know, I just, uh-- I-I just don't wanna get in trouble, you know.
change
communication behavior
98_267
Uh, I don't really think about that. I guess I would have to think about that, because if I was gonna go out and drink, I would have to think about that. Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_269
I guess I could call it taxi cab or something, I don't know.
change
communication behavior
98_271
Yeah. I think that will be something.
change
communication behavior
98_273
Yeah. I think maybe if I take some money, I'll put it like in my wallet-
change
communication behavior
98_275
-and I'll like put it in there for emergency, and that way, I'll have money. In case I get drunk, I can just call a cab, and I'll use that money to get home.
change
communication behavior
98_277
What's that?
neutral
communication behavior
98_279
Probably in my front pocket, I guess.
neutral
communication behavior
98_281
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_283
Yeah. Well, if I put, uh- if I put it away, then I wouldn't spend it though, you know, [unintelligible 00:18:48] have it.
neutral
communication behavior
98_285
There-there would be a plan that I would have to-
change
communication behavior
98_287
-to get home. Yeah.
change
communication behavior
98_289
It'd probably be my wallet for a while, I would think, 'cause I-- Like I said, I don't really think I have a problem with, uh- with the drinking, you know. I just-
sustain
communication behavior
98_291
-think that, you know, it was an isolated incident.
sustain
communication behavior
98_293
And-and I, uh-- You know, I just, uh--
neutral
communication behavior
98_295
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_297
Yeah, well, you gotta have some people over at the Super Bowl, you know.
neutral
communication behavior
98_299
I don't really hang out with people that really drink a lot though. I mean, they're-they're not like-- I wouldn't call them drunks, so, I mean, they can, you know, they can handle their-- [crosstalk]
neutral
communication behavior
98_301
Sure, I would think, yeah.
neutral
communication behavior
98_303
Yeah.
neutral
communication behavior