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98_305
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Yeah.
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98_307
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You know, it was a- it was, uh- it was pretty good. I just didn't feel like I had my friends around, and-and it just-- It seemed kinda boring. I mean, I felt good physically and, uh, you know, I, uh- I was more on time to work, I was doing really good at work and so forth, um, but, you know, it just, um-- The hard part for me was I just, uh- I just didn't have any friends around. I just kinda-- I felt isolated. I just didn't- I just didn't feel comfortable, you know.
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sustain
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communication behavior
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98_309
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Well, my-my girl- my girlfriend and I were trying to work it out. But it just seemed like we were arguing all the time, you know. It just didn't seem like-- You know what I mean? Like the not-drinking part was good, but it just didn't seem like anything else had changed.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_311
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You know.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_313
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_315
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No-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_317
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-and I really don't see that working out really well.
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98_319
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Well, I don't know. I mean, it's a-- I mean, my friends drink though. So, it's kinda hard to- it's kinda hard to, you know, to be with them, and then-- When I'm not drinking, 'cause it's-- I just don't feel like I fit in, you know.
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sustain
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98_321
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Yeah, they don't drink that much, but they-they seem to-- You know, like they do drink though, you know.
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neutral
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98_323
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I mean, it's just beer. You know-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_325
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-it's not like they're drinking whiskey or anything like that. It's--
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neutral
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98_327
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You know, but, they'll drink beer, and it's just-- You know, for me, I don't know. Sometimes, uh, I don't-- You know, I have an intention to have a couple of drinks and maybe I'll have, you know, more than a couple, you know-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_329
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-and then I don't know what really makes a-a legal limit. So, I think I can drink what? Like two or three drinks an hour, is that what it is?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_331
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One drink per hour, okay.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_333
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I'll have to remember that. [laughing]
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_335
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Yeah, One shot.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_337
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Okay.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_339
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Just one though?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_341
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That's it.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_343
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Yeah, I guess. I-I think I probably know a couple of friends that don't drink and I don't really, uh, probably--
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_345
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I'd have to really think about it. I don't really have too many good friends. You know, I have some acquaintances that don't drink but-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_347
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-pretty much everyone I know like drinks.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_349
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Yeah, I, uh--
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_351
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I don't know. Just, it's weird, I-I think that, you know, kinda when I go there, you know, and-and hang with them at all, it's, uh-- You know, we- you know-
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sustain
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communication behavior
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98_353
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Yeah. Yeah, exactly.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_355
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Well, 'cause they're drinking and then- and if I'm drinking soda, they kind of mess with me a little bit.
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sustain
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98_357
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Well, they just mess with me until I get-- You know, until I drink a beer with them, you know. So--
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_359
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You know, I mean, just-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_361
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-they're just kinda like egging me on, I don't know.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_363
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You know, I really don't feel like being an outcast, you know what I mean, they're my friends, you know. I--
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sustain
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communication behavior
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98_365
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I've been with them since, you know, like high school. So, I can't.
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sustain
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communication behavior
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98_367
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They mean a lot to me.
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sustain
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communication behavior
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98_369
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I guess maybe it would probably be not a bad idea to not hang with them for a little bit, I guess. You know, I mean, I-I-I-- Yeah.
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change
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communication behavior
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98_371
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Yeah, sure. I gu- I think that would be something I could probably try.
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change
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communication behavior
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98_373
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Well, if I need to get my license back, I think it would be pretty important for me to stop hanging around with them for a while, you know.
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change
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communication behavior
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98_375
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Yeah, absolutely.
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change
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communication behavior
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98_377
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_379
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Yeah, yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_381
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I think that would be a good idea. Uh, is this gonna help like get my license back, like, at this-- Like, the-the plans that I've made, is that gonna really help me like--
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_383
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Okay, good.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_384
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-about the plans that you're striving for. Um, that I-- There would be, um, uh, someone to read this assessment-Mm.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_386
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Um, probably just not really drink as much. I mean, if I just didn't drink, I wouldn't have to really worry about that too much either.
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change
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communication behavior
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98_388
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_390
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Yeah. This is true. Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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98_392
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Okay. Thank you.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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99_1
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Okay, like what?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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99_3
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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99_5
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Yeah, uh, on the weekends?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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99_7
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No, I guess I haven't really thought much of it. Um, you know, I don't really think I drink that much in the first place-
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sustain
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communication behavior
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99_9
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-so I have a hard time believing that it's causing my anxiety.
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sustain
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communication behavior
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99_11
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In fact, on the nights when I don't drink, I-I have a harder time going to sleep.
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communication behavior
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99_13
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Well, I, yeah, I guess I do have abo-about 2:00 AM, I tend to wake up on the nights I drink too much.
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change
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communication behavior
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99_15
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Jeez, no. I didn't think I was that bad.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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99_17
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I don't know. I mean, this is all news to me. I've, I don't want to do anything to put myself at risk and I've always thought of myself as a pretty healthy guy. I guess I'd put myself right in the middle of the five.
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change
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communication behavior
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99_19
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Well, you know I'm training for the marathon, and that's why I'm coming in, is because I need to be able to get my sleep back on track, but I also don't think of myself as a hazardous drinker, and I'm certainly not an alcoholic. So, that's-that's why the middle-ground, five.
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change
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communication behavior
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99_21
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Yes.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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99_23
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Well, I-I think the natural thing would be to cut back a little on my drinking.
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change
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communication behavior
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99_25
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Mm, um, you know, I-I guess drinking no more than maybe three or four times a week, and-and on the weekends, which is when I would drink the most, cup back to no more than five or six beers.
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change
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communication behavior
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99_27
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Um, doing the math, I guess no more than 18 drinks a week.
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change
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communication behavior
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99_29
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Thanks.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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99_31
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Sure.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_1
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I don't know. I'm just having a little bit of, uh, having a little bit of trouble dealing with, uh, my criminal history and, uh, you know, trying to stay on the right path, but, you know, um, it's just- it gets, you know, it gets kind of overwhelming, you know. Um, I really wanna be, you know, a good productive member of society, but at the same time, you know, I got this background that nobody will overlook, you know. So it kinda makes it like, well, what, you know, do I go back to what I know?I mean, you can only work for $5, $6, $7 an hour for so long, and it's really frustrating. It's causing, uh, some anger issues to resurface and some depression to resurface and, um, you know, and, um, I don't wanna fall back, you know.
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change
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communication behavior
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100_3
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Yes, it is.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_5
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I don't know what about it is, um—
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_7
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Yeah. It has a felony conviction on it.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_9
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And, uh—
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_11
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Yeah, it is. And it's- I hadn't anticipated that it would have been-- You know, so at the time, it was just like, "Okay, cool. I'm not going to jail."
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_13
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You know, and, um, now, it's like, okay, so this is more like a life sentence than it was a four-year sentence that they were offering. You know, I mean, I think it would have been bad either way, but, um, I hadn't anticipated that this was gonna be this difficult, especially since I went back to school and, you know, uh, got a degree and actually want to do, you know, some, um, corporate level or, you know, professional type of work.
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sustain
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100_15
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No, I'm not. Um, in situations where I don't know about it, I don't know about, I mean, if I'm not considered because of that, I probably-- Um, you know, that sucks too. Don't get me wrong. I mean, I-I don't- I don't get callbacks a lot because of that issue-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_17
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- I'm sure. The ones that really count are-are-are, you know, are kind of just, you know, uh, making me so angry and, you know, kind of spilling over into the rest of my life or the ones that I get face face, especially after a really good interview. And, you know, most of the times, I interview extremely well. And, um, it's, you know, I get the vibe that the job is offered almost halfway through the interview because, you know, they start telling me about what I'll be doing and what I'll be getting.And then, you know, when it comes to sign on the paperwork and I believe in honesty, so I tell them, you know, hey, look, this is what you're gonna find, you know, and, um, try to explain it. It's just-it's almost like night and day.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_19
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Black and white. It just stops right there. "I'm sorry. I can't really do much for you. I-- You have to go," you know, and it's—
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_21
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No. I mean, there's different situations, you know. Sometimes they ask and, you know, I'll say something like, you know, "We'll discuss at interview". Uh, sometimes, there are situations where if I probably put that, I don't get a callback and those situations I don't know about. You know, but there are also times where I get an interview through, um, you know, uh, uh, some sort of connection or something, or like a buddy of mine or a family member will send me on an interview. You know, I don't have to fill it out- fill out an application for that. They just usually, you know, give you the interview. And at the end-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_23
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Yeah. It seems like it's a done deal. You just have to go through the motion of having the interview. And then-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_25
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-when I go through the interview and it goes well, and they're like, "Okay, well, you know, I think we can do something" and then, "Here, sign this, sign that," and the other thing. And it's like, but we just had a great, you know, I mean, I qualify. Like what does that have to-- Seven years ago, six years ago, what does it have to do with anything? Now, especially because, you know, the type of conviction, it wasn't a non- it wasn't a violent conviction. It's not like I'm a danger to the staff around me. It's not like it's a, you know, a theft type of thing. It was, you know, it was a possession, you know what I mean?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_27
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And
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_29
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No, I didn't.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_31
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It's really frustrating because-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_33
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-it's almost like I-I don't wanna give up, but it's like, I'm not given any other choice, you know?
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sustain
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communication behavior
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100_35
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I do, yeah.
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change
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communication behavior
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100_37
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_39
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Not that I can think of, no.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_41
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I think—
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_43
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Probably get booted out right away-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_45
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-you know? Um—
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sustain
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communication behavior
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100_47
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Well, it's-it's sucks either way. You know what I mean?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_49
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_50
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-you know what I mean? If it's gonna make things more efficient like as if-if you're what you're trying to say is if that's something that I could do and then if they get past it, then now I know that there's an actual intention by the hiring people to hire me.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_52
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Yeah, I think as far as maybe efficiency, you know, weeding out the things, not wasting my time, you know, but I had to tell you something, a lot of the people that don't care about that type of thing-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_54
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-are not the sort of jobs that I really wanna be doing. You know what I mean? Um, I don't know, it's just really frustrating.
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sustain
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communication behavior
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100_56
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Be an issue.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_58
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Right, and then the other thing is anybody that I might tell that to-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_60
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-that doesn't care-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_62
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-are probably not jobs that, you know, are worth going to get the interview.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_64
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Right.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_66
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Do you know what I mean? If I want to work at a moving company and I tell them off the bat, you know, from the gate, I tell them I have a felony conviction, just so you know before the interview and they don't really mind. I mean, that's great, you know, but at the same time, I don't- I'm not looking to be a mover or-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_68
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-a burger flipper or something like that. Not that there's anything wrong with it, but I feel like I have a little bit more to offer-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_70
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-you know, and, um, I don't know, it's a really, it's-it's like being caught between a rock and a hard place.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_72
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I have done, and my eyes have, you know, just become like mush after all the reading I've done on this situation.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_74
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I found out that I have the type of, um, felony that's expungable, I don't even have the type that's sealable. I have apparently the type that has to go on the governor's desk next to death row, you know, inmates or the candidates for, um, a gov- a governor's, uh, pardon. I-- That's what it all boils down to is that I have a class one felony-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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100_76
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-that needs to be, if any, you know, options, the only option I have is for, um, governor's clemency and I can't figure out why because it's-it's, I mean, I just, I maybe there is a loophole somewhere, I don't know.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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