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95_30	-How could it be the right one? Ending your life hurting yourself when it's just you and your mom. And you just said, she's a single parent. She doesn't have a husband, you don't have a dad. It's just the two of you. So how could it be the right choice? But I understand your pain and I know where you're coming from. And I know that the release that you feel physically is something that helps you in the moment. Are there other things that we can help you find to start replacing, um, that behavior?	question	communication behavior
95_32	You're not sure. So you have a lot of on your mind right now. You just opened up to me. You told me that you've been cutting, that you've also been thinking about hurting yourself, killing yourself, not being here. Short-term, the cutting is helping you. You feel like a burden to mom, that stresses you out. That makes you sad. You see how much she struggles, but also on the same hand, we see how much you've been trying and how much you've been trying to help out by trying to go to school. We know your attendance is good. You go most of the time, you know, you're trying to keep up your grades.You have a C average, even having A in math, which we know was the lowest grade you had all semester. So all of those things shows how much effort you've put in and we see that effort. So you've been doing what you can and it's normal to feel like sometimes it's not enough. But that's-that's what we're here for so that you can tell us those things and we can help you.	reflection	communication behavior
95_34	Oh, thank you, Ruth. Thank you for coming today.	other	communication behavior
96_0	Thank you for coming in today, Katie. I'm looking forward to getting to know you, and maybe just wanna start off with just sharing a little bit about you and what brought you in today?	question	communication behavior
96_2	So you're following through on meeting with me today and you mentioned he has some concerns. Can you tell me a little bit about that?	question	communication behavior
96_4	Okay. And I'm wondering if you have any concerns about that.	reflection	communication behavior
96_6	No. Okay. So that's- that's not been an issue for you. Uh, it is an issue for him and not for you at this point.	reflection	communication behavior
96_8	Okay. So what about maybe sharing a little bit about your alcohol intake and maybe a little bit about what your- what your life's like a little bit for me today?	question	communication behavior
96_10	Okay.	other	communication behavior
96_12	So it was kind of been a part of your culture a little bit, and you know, just find alcohol, maybe takes the edge off a little bit and-	reflection	communication behavior
96_14	Okay. So you don't feel very comfortable with somebody telling you what you should be consuming, what kind of alcohol, and how much alcohol you should be consuming. And, um, it sounds like you've been getting some mixed messages, your doctor's saying there's no safe amount of alcohol you can drink, and asked you to come and see me. And then also, you've been checking- sounds like you've been checking things out a little bit.	reflection	communication behavior
96_16	Okay.	other	communication behavior
96_18	So you know yourself best and you wanna be sort of the boss of your body and you don't want somebody else telling you what- what's okay and what's not okay. And it seems like you're not maybe too concerned right now about your substance use.	reflection	communication behavior
96_20	Okay. And I'm wondering if that concern is coming from, "It's been okay. I've got these messages from friends."	reflection	communication behavior
96_22	"Um, media has said it's okay to drink during alcohol. And so that concern, um, just sort of, I don't have it and, and maybe the doctor might be wrong."	reflection	communication behavior
96_24	You're not sure if he's sort of playing things up a little bit there?	reflection	communication behavior
96_26	It might be a bit extreme to-	reflection	communication behavior
96_28	-to quit drinking. Um, I'm just wondering, have you, um, would you be open maybe to just kind of taking a look at what Canada's guidelines say about drinking? Um, is that something you'd be open to?	therapist_input	communication behavior
96_30	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
96_32	What if- uh, can I show you a brochure about that?	question	communication behavior
96_34	Yeah?	question	communication behavior
96_36	Well, if we take a look at the low-risk-alcohol drinking guidelines, what it says is for women, um, the safe limits are 10 drinks a week for women and 2 drinks a day. And that's if a woman isn't pregnant. And when it says in the guidelines, as far as drinking, uh, throughout pregnancy, there is no safe amount to drink during pregnancy. So really zero alcohol is, um, the woman should not be drinking any at all. And I'm just wondering what-what are your thoughts on that?	therapist_input	communication behavior
96_38	So when you see it here in kind of black and white, you're not sure if this is, uh, you know, enough-	reflection	communication behavior
96_40	-to con- sort of convince you that-that it might be dangerous to be drinking through alcohol?	question	communication behavior
96_42	So you feel like, um, what the doctor's saying and this brochure just kind of feels like, yeah, it's just kind of blowing things up out of proportion a little bit.	reflection	communication behavior
96_44	And it sounds like you-you've got some solid information already that alcohol, you know, has been safe to-to have during pregnancy. Tell me about that information that you've-you've explored.	reflection	communication behavior
96_46	Mm-hmm. You mentioned you looked up some articles and it sounds like evidence is really important to you. So, um, those articles, is that something recent? Um, you can tell me about that.	reflection	communication behavior
96_48	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
96_50	So you felt like, um, the information that you found supports the values that you have of being able to be independent and autonomous, to be able to make your own choice and the information that your doctor shared or spoke to you about, and then this brochure kind of feels like that's challenging sort of your values.	reflection	communication behavior
96_52	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
96_54	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
96_56	Wha-what's the big deal if you're drinking and—	reflection	communication behavior
96_58	Maybe we can kind of put that on the shelf for a moment, and we'll come back to it and sort of look at, you know, what is- what does the guidelines have to say about why. And, um, and-and I'm wondering if we can kind of just have a look for a moment at, um, your pregnancy, and is this something that you were- you were hoping to have a baby?	question	communication behavior
96_60	That was something that you'd been planning?	question	communication behavior
96_62	Okay. And I'm wondering as far as, um, bringing the baby into the world and, you know, your future as a parent, ho-how important is it to have a healthy baby to you?	question	communication behavior
96_64	Mm. What does being a good parent look like? Tell me more about that.	question	communication behavior
96_66	Hmm. Kind of like protecting your baby and-	reflection	communication behavior
96_68	-guiding your baby and-	reflection	communication behavior
96_70	-you know, nurturing that baby is really important to you-	reflection	communication behavior
96_72	-and raising your baby well?	question	communication behavior
96_74	That's something that- that really matters to you and, um, I'm-I'm hearing you say that, you know, protecting your baby is important to you and at the same time, um, kind of clashes with some of the information that's in the brochure.	reflection	communication behavior
96_76	What do you make about that- what do you think about that?	question	communication behavior
96_78	You wanna see it in black and white.	reflection	communication behavior
96_80	You wanna know that it's the latest and the greatest kind of thing. Um, this is information that, uh, that I have been sharing with you earlier, this is the latest information evidence-based, um, on the latest research since 2011 and, um, a lot of research has gone into what is-what is okay for a mom to consume, like, alcohol. There's the-the evidence that we have, um, but in the end, you choose what's best for you and what's best for your baby. What are your- what are your thoughts on that?	therapist_input	communication behavior
96_82	Mm-hmm, kind of feels like, you know, you were making some really good decisions about your baby. You've done research and you wanna be able to bring your baby up well and take care of your baby. And I-I can see that that's really important to you. I hear you saying that and it kind of feels like this information isn't kind of what you were expecting to hear.	reflection	communication behavior
96_84	What would you feel like would be helpful as far as next steps, like when you think about maybe moving away from drinking alcohol throughout the rest of your pregnancy?	question	communication behavior
96_86	Mm-hmm, that's some really significant steps you're talking about. You're talking about putting the alcohol away, that's huge. That's-that's really big steps.	reflection	communication behavior
96_88	I really want to thank you for, you know, exploring this with me today, and I'm wondering if we can kind of continue this conversation again, and talk about those steps, and how it goes with talking to your partner about giving up drinking and, um, the- giving you a chance to do some more research and, you know, maybe looking through these brochures and kind of just coming back and sharing a little bit more about, you know, what you thought about the information and what feels right for you. Is that something you'd be open to?	therapist_input	communication behavior
96_90	We definitely can cover that again on our next meeting. Thank you for coming to see me.	reflection	communication behavior
97_0	Well, Mr. Smith, that's your medication sorted out.	therapist_input	communication behavior
97_2	Blood pressure's a little on the high side.	therapist_input	communication behavior
97_4	Okay. I wonder if I could raise the subject of your weight.	question	communication behavior
97_6	I wondered if we could spend just a couple of minutes talking about your weight.	question	communication behavior
97_8	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_10	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_12	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_14	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_16	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_18	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_20	Right, and you-- so you're busy enough, and—	reflection	communication behavior
97_22	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_24	Yeah, yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_26	And it wasn't essentially easy for you to make the time to come down, and you had to wait in the waiting room, and now I raised the subject of weight just when you're thinking of going.	reflection	communication behavior
97_28	Yeah, yeah, yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_30	Right.	other	communication behavior
97_32	Right.	other	communication behavior
97_34	Right. And so it-it-it's been a bit of a rush for you coming in.	reflection	communication behavior
97_36	And, I- I'm sorry about the wait in the waiting room.	other	communication behavior
97_38	Yeah, yeah, that's, um, and that- that's not easy for you, because you- you'd like to go really soon, and here I am asking you to spend just a couple of minutes with me.	other	communication behavior
97_40	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_44	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_46	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_48	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_50	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_52	Yeah. It counts.	reflection	communication behavior
97_54	Yeah, exactly. Exactly. It's up to you, just a couple of minutes.	other	communication behavior
97_56	I promise.	other	communication behavior
97_58	I want- I wanted to simply ask you how you feel about it?	question	communication behavior
97_60	Yep.	other	communication behavior
97_62	Right.	other	communication behavior
97_64	Right. So you can see the links between your weight and your health, and you'd like things to be a bit better.	reflection	communication behavior
97_66	You'd like to, if you could?	reflection	communication behavior
97_68	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_70	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_72	Ready meals, and that sort of thing.	reflection	communication behavior
97_74	Okay, yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_76	Let me see if I can summarize what you've said, um, and then we'll see what next. Um, you lead a busy life.	reflection	communication behavior
97_78	Um, you run a business, and you've got a lot to do.	reflection	communication behavior
97_80	Yeah. Um, you're- you're- you're aware of the- of the links between your health and your weight, and you are concerned, to some extent, about that, and ideally it sounds like you'd like to do something about it, it's just that your life is busy and rushed, and you tend to use convenience foods in order to get the work done.	reflection	communication behavior
97_82	Yeah, yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_84	I get it. I get it. And so, if you could fit it in, you would like things to be different, but that's not so easy.	other	communication behavior
97_86	Okay. Can I suggest that you come back and see me in a couple of weeks time just to chat about this?	question	communication behavior
97_88	Right.	other	communication behavior
97_90	Right, right.	other	communication behavior
97_92	Exactly.	other	communication behavior
97_94	Exactly. I'll tell you what might be a nice solution, is if you come down first appointment, and I give you an appointment at 8:30-	other	communication behavior
97_96	- and then there'll be absolutely no waiting. And, the purpose of that- of that visit will be to have a look at how you really feel about how you could move forward, and somehow fit in a more healthier lifestyle into the busy work life that you've got.	other	communication behavior
97_98	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_100	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
97_102	Good.	other	communication behavior

95_30

-How could it be the right one? Ending your life hurting yourself when it's just you and your mom. And you just said, she's a single parent. She doesn't have a husband, you don't have a dad. It's just the two of you. So how could it be the right choice? But I understand your pain and I know where you're coming from. And I know that the release that you feel physically is something that helps you in the moment. Are there other things that we can help you find to start replacing, um, that behavior?

question

communication behavior

95_32

You're not sure. So you have a lot of on your mind right now. You just opened up to me. You told me that you've been cutting, that you've also been thinking about hurting yourself, killing yourself, not being here. Short-term, the cutting is helping you. You feel like a burden to mom, that stresses you out. That makes you sad. You see how much she struggles, but also on the same hand, we see how much you've been trying and how much you've been trying to help out by trying to go to school. We know your attendance is good. You go most of the time, you know, you're trying to keep up your grades.You have a C average, even having A in math, which we know was the lowest grade you had all semester. So all of those things shows how much effort you've put in and we see that effort. So you've been doing what you can and it's normal to feel like sometimes it's not enough. But that's-that's what we're here for so that you can tell us those things and we can help you.

reflection

communication behavior

95_34

Oh, thank you, Ruth. Thank you for coming today.

other

communication behavior

96_0

Thank you for coming in today, Katie. I'm looking forward to getting to know you, and maybe just wanna start off with just sharing a little bit about you and what brought you in today?

question

communication behavior

96_2

So you're following through on meeting with me today and you mentioned he has some concerns. Can you tell me a little bit about that?

question

communication behavior

96_4

Okay. And I'm wondering if you have any concerns about that.

reflection

communication behavior

96_6

No. Okay. So that's- that's not been an issue for you. Uh, it is an issue for him and not for you at this point.

reflection

communication behavior

96_8

Okay. So what about maybe sharing a little bit about your alcohol intake and maybe a little bit about what your- what your life's like a little bit for me today?

question

communication behavior

96_10

Okay.

other

communication behavior

96_12

So it was kind of been a part of your culture a little bit, and you know, just find alcohol, maybe takes the edge off a little bit and-

reflection

communication behavior

96_14

Okay. So you don't feel very comfortable with somebody telling you what you should be consuming, what kind of alcohol, and how much alcohol you should be consuming. And, um, it sounds like you've been getting some mixed messages, your doctor's saying there's no safe amount of alcohol you can drink, and asked you to come and see me. And then also, you've been checking- sounds like you've been checking things out a little bit.

reflection

communication behavior

96_16

Okay.

other

communication behavior

96_18

So you know yourself best and you wanna be sort of the boss of your body and you don't want somebody else telling you what- what's okay and what's not okay. And it seems like you're not maybe too concerned right now about your substance use.

reflection

communication behavior

96_20

Okay. And I'm wondering if that concern is coming from, "It's been okay. I've got these messages from friends."

reflection

communication behavior

96_22

"Um, media has said it's okay to drink during alcohol. And so that concern, um, just sort of, I don't have it and, and maybe the doctor might be wrong."

reflection

communication behavior

96_24

You're not sure if he's sort of playing things up a little bit there?

reflection

communication behavior

96_26

It might be a bit extreme to-

reflection

communication behavior

96_28

-to quit drinking. Um, I'm just wondering, have you, um, would you be open maybe to just kind of taking a look at what Canada's guidelines say about drinking? Um, is that something you'd be open to?

therapist_input

communication behavior

96_30

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

96_32

What if- uh, can I show you a brochure about that?

question

communication behavior

96_34

Yeah?

question

communication behavior

96_36

Well, if we take a look at the low-risk-alcohol drinking guidelines, what it says is for women, um, the safe limits are 10 drinks a week for women and 2 drinks a day. And that's if a woman isn't pregnant. And when it says in the guidelines, as far as drinking, uh, throughout pregnancy, there is no safe amount to drink during pregnancy. So really zero alcohol is, um, the woman should not be drinking any at all. And I'm just wondering what-what are your thoughts on that?

therapist_input

communication behavior

96_38

So when you see it here in kind of black and white, you're not sure if this is, uh, you know, enough-

reflection

communication behavior

96_40

-to con- sort of convince you that-that it might be dangerous to be drinking through alcohol?

question

communication behavior

96_42

So you feel like, um, what the doctor's saying and this brochure just kind of feels like, yeah, it's just kind of blowing things up out of proportion a little bit.

reflection

communication behavior

96_44

And it sounds like you-you've got some solid information already that alcohol, you know, has been safe to-to have during pregnancy. Tell me about that information that you've-you've explored.

reflection

communication behavior

96_46

Mm-hmm. You mentioned you looked up some articles and it sounds like evidence is really important to you. So, um, those articles, is that something recent? Um, you can tell me about that.

reflection

communication behavior

96_48

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

96_50

So you felt like, um, the information that you found supports the values that you have of being able to be independent and autonomous, to be able to make your own choice and the information that your doctor shared or spoke to you about, and then this brochure kind of feels like that's challenging sort of your values.

reflection

communication behavior

96_52

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

96_54

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

96_56

Wha-what's the big deal if you're drinking and—

reflection

communication behavior

96_58

Maybe we can kind of put that on the shelf for a moment, and we'll come back to it and sort of look at, you know, what is- what does the guidelines have to say about why. And, um, and-and I'm wondering if we can kind of just have a look for a moment at, um, your pregnancy, and is this something that you were- you were hoping to have a baby?

question

communication behavior

96_60

That was something that you'd been planning?

question

communication behavior

96_62

Okay. And I'm wondering as far as, um, bringing the baby into the world and, you know, your future as a parent, ho-how important is it to have a healthy baby to you?

question

communication behavior

96_64

Mm. What does being a good parent look like? Tell me more about that.

question

communication behavior

96_66

Hmm. Kind of like protecting your baby and-

reflection

communication behavior

96_68

-guiding your baby and-

reflection

communication behavior

96_70

-you know, nurturing that baby is really important to you-

reflection

communication behavior

96_72

-and raising your baby well?

question

communication behavior

96_74

That's something that- that really matters to you and, um, I'm-I'm hearing you say that, you know, protecting your baby is important to you and at the same time, um, kind of clashes with some of the information that's in the brochure.

reflection

communication behavior

96_76

What do you make about that- what do you think about that?

question

communication behavior

96_78

You wanna see it in black and white.

reflection

communication behavior

96_80

You wanna know that it's the latest and the greatest kind of thing. Um, this is information that, uh, that I have been sharing with you earlier, this is the latest information evidence-based, um, on the latest research since 2011 and, um, a lot of research has gone into what is-what is okay for a mom to consume, like, alcohol. There's the-the evidence that we have, um, but in the end, you choose what's best for you and what's best for your baby. What are your- what are your thoughts on that?

therapist_input

communication behavior

96_82

Mm-hmm, kind of feels like, you know, you were making some really good decisions about your baby. You've done research and you wanna be able to bring your baby up well and take care of your baby. And I-I can see that that's really important to you. I hear you saying that and it kind of feels like this information isn't kind of what you were expecting to hear.

reflection

communication behavior

96_84

What would you feel like would be helpful as far as next steps, like when you think about maybe moving away from drinking alcohol throughout the rest of your pregnancy?

question

communication behavior

96_86

Mm-hmm, that's some really significant steps you're talking about. You're talking about putting the alcohol away, that's huge. That's-that's really big steps.

reflection

communication behavior

96_88

I really want to thank you for, you know, exploring this with me today, and I'm wondering if we can kind of continue this conversation again, and talk about those steps, and how it goes with talking to your partner about giving up drinking and, um, the- giving you a chance to do some more research and, you know, maybe looking through these brochures and kind of just coming back and sharing a little bit more about, you know, what you thought about the information and what feels right for you. Is that something you'd be open to?

therapist_input

communication behavior

96_90

We definitely can cover that again on our next meeting. Thank you for coming to see me.

reflection

communication behavior

97_0

Well, Mr. Smith, that's your medication sorted out.

therapist_input

communication behavior

97_2

Blood pressure's a little on the high side.

therapist_input

communication behavior

97_4

Okay. I wonder if I could raise the subject of your weight.

question

communication behavior

97_6

I wondered if we could spend just a couple of minutes talking about your weight.

question

communication behavior

97_8

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_10

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_12

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_14

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_16

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_18

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_20

Right, and you-- so you're busy enough, and—

reflection

communication behavior

97_22

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_24

Yeah, yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_26

And it wasn't essentially easy for you to make the time to come down, and you had to wait in the waiting room, and now I raised the subject of weight just when you're thinking of going.

reflection

communication behavior

97_28

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_30

Right.

other

communication behavior

97_32

Right.

other

communication behavior

97_34

Right. And so it-it-it's been a bit of a rush for you coming in.

reflection

communication behavior

97_36

And, I- I'm sorry about the wait in the waiting room.

other

communication behavior

97_38

Yeah, yeah, that's, um, and that- that's not easy for you, because you- you'd like to go really soon, and here I am asking you to spend just a couple of minutes with me.

other

communication behavior

97_40

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_44

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_46

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_48

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_50

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_52

Yeah. It counts.

reflection

communication behavior

97_54

Yeah, exactly. Exactly. It's up to you, just a couple of minutes.

other

communication behavior

97_56

I promise.

other

communication behavior

97_58

I want- I wanted to simply ask you how you feel about it?

question

communication behavior

97_60

Yep.

other

communication behavior

97_62

Right.

other

communication behavior

97_64

Right. So you can see the links between your weight and your health, and you'd like things to be a bit better.

reflection

communication behavior

97_66

You'd like to, if you could?

reflection

communication behavior

97_68

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_70

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_72

Ready meals, and that sort of thing.

reflection

communication behavior

97_74

Okay, yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_76

Let me see if I can summarize what you've said, um, and then we'll see what next. Um, you lead a busy life.

reflection

communication behavior

97_78

Um, you run a business, and you've got a lot to do.

reflection

communication behavior

97_80

Yeah. Um, you're- you're- you're aware of the- of the links between your health and your weight, and you are concerned, to some extent, about that, and ideally it sounds like you'd like to do something about it, it's just that your life is busy and rushed, and you tend to use convenience foods in order to get the work done.

reflection

communication behavior

97_82

Yeah, yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_84

I get it. I get it. And so, if you could fit it in, you would like things to be different, but that's not so easy.

other

communication behavior

97_86

Okay. Can I suggest that you come back and see me in a couple of weeks time just to chat about this?

question

communication behavior

97_88

Right.

other

communication behavior

97_90

Right, right.

other

communication behavior

97_92

Exactly.

other

communication behavior

97_94

Exactly. I'll tell you what might be a nice solution, is if you come down first appointment, and I give you an appointment at 8:30-

other

communication behavior

97_96

- and then there'll be absolutely no waiting. And, the purpose of that- of that visit will be to have a look at how you really feel about how you could move forward, and somehow fit in a more healthier lifestyle into the busy work life that you've got.

other

communication behavior

97_98

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_100

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

97_102

Good.

other

communication behavior