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98_196	-those relationships just didn't come together?	question	communication behavior
98_198	And what do you think?	question	communication behavior
98_200	So, you-you--	other	communication behavior
98_202	You would have been fine if they didn't- if they didn't give you those-those shots. Yeah.	reflection	communication behavior
98_204	Oh, so, the-the-the mailbox, where did that come in? That was the-	question	communication behavior
98_206	-first DUI that got you.	reflection	communication behavior
98_208	That must have been scary.	other	communication behavior
98_210	Oh, that was blackout type?	question	communication behavior
98_212	Right. Yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_214	Oh, okay.	other	communication behavior
98_216	I'm-I'm sorry. I didn't mean to assume that-	other	communication behavior
98_218	-it was blackout that-- Forgive me for that.	other	communication behavior
98_220	Um, so, that it was sort of after that that the girlfriend-- Your girlfriend, I don't know, well, her name. Um, your girlfriend decided-- The mailbox and she's--	reflection	communication behavior
98_222	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
98_224	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_226	Oh.	other	communication behavior
98_228	Yeah. You felt like she was the only person that, um, you had in your life, you needed your friends and--	reflection	communication behavior
98_230	No one likes to be controlled, uh, yeah. Yeah. Uh, and, in what ways, well, did you feel that, um, uh, at any time, did you feel controlled by your friends. You said they-they made you drink those shots. That-that sounded like maybe you felt a little controlled? But-- [crosstalk]	question	communication behavior
98_232	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_234	Right, they weren't looking out for your best interest at that point.	reflection	communication behavior
98_236	And then sent you out in your car.	reflection	communication behavior
98_238	It's a hindsight again.	reflection	communication behavior
98_240	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_242	Hindsight? Oh, yeah, they'll-- it'll take the- it'll take the blame. Um, so, you still-- Do you still, uh, you know, you started drinking again, and then, um, the second DUI, what-- Is it the same circle of social-social circle, same friends?	question	communication behavior
98_244	Same type of situation. [crosstalk]	reflection	communication behavior
98_246	So, they're important to you?	question	communication behavior
98_248	Mm-hmm. Yeah. And-and sometimes, um, people have friends who are friends, but then there's friends who would stay on in our lives and are constant. So, these would be your constant core--	reflection	communication behavior
98_250	Yeah, okay.	other	communication behavior
98_252	Have you ever had, um, uh, interest outside, um, the social drinking, the friends, um, like, what do you do when you're not with them?	question	communication behavior
98_254	Yeah. And any other relationship, if you don't mind me asking-- [crosstalk]	question	communication behavior
98_256	How's that going?	question	communication behavior
98_258	Oh what-- So, what does serious look like? Um--	question	communication behavior
98_260	Yeah. That's all right, yeah. That's good. It sounds like you know yourself pretty well.	reflection	communication behavior
98_262	Okay. Right. So, um, now that we-we are looking at, um, your second DUI and, um-- Well, so now, Mike, if you don't mind me asking, what would you do differently, um-um, from here on now?	question	communication behavior
98_264	Since the co- the court sent you and we have to sort of explore what would happen if you went out and did this again.	therapist_input	communication behavior
98_266	Yeah. Is there somebody that you could call?	question	communication behavior
98_268	Right.	other	communication behavior
98_270	They'll come.	reflection	communication behavior
98_272	Yeah. They'll come. As long as you got the money, they'll come and get you. Yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_274	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_276	Oh, so, when you use your-your bar money, it would be somewhere else?	question	communication behavior
98_278	Your bar money would be somewhere else, not in your wallet?	question	communication behavior
98_280	There you go. Okay, yeah. So, that, y-yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_282	That makes- that makes a lot of sense. So then you'd have your money tucked away someplace different.	reflection	communication behavior
98_284	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
98_286	Sounds like a good plan.	reflection	communication behavior
98_288	Yeah. So, uh, how often do you think you'll be needing that plan in the--	question	communication behavior
98_290	Right.	other	communication behavior
98_292	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
98_294	And then-- Yeah, and then also you said if you're going to have people, uh, you're gonna be drinking for the Super Bowl. Was is it Super Bowl?	question	communication behavior
98_296	I'm sorry, I'm not a football fan but it's Super Bowl coming up, right?	question	communication behavior
98_298	So, you'd have them in and, um, I'm just curious about the folks who are leaving your house, would they-- Would-would you be concerned about them, there'll be a taxi. Sometimes designated drivers I--	question	communication behavior
98_300	So, it would be up to them?	question	communication behavior
98_302	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
98_304	It sounds like you have-- You've thought about this, and you're-you're willing to put some things in place, the-the wallet, um, money in the wallet and-and for the taxi-	reflection	communication behavior
98_306	Have folks in to-to socialize for an event, and that you still have your-your social-- Your friends and your core group and-and, uh, just be careful. What was the six months of not drinking like for you? If you were to choose to not drink.	question	communication behavior
98_308	Six months is a- is a long time. There was, um-- Try to think back, were there- were there other people? Was it- was it just you?	question	communication behavior
98_310	All right.	other	communication behavior
98_312	So-so, if you were not to-- If you were to go with the plan of maybe not drinking, which you mentioned-	reflection	communication behavior
98_314	-um, uh, your girlfriend Mary is-is not a part of your life-	reflection	communication behavior
98_316	-right now.	reflection	communication behavior
98_318	Would there be something else that would, um, sort of, uh, fill in that-- The-the friends area, do you think?	question	communication behavior
98_320	But, yeah, I-I see what-what you're saying, for sure. Um, there-there's those friends that they drink but they don't drink that much, I heard you saying.	reflection	communication behavior
98_322	Mm. Sure.	other	communication behavior
98_324	Right.	other	communication behavior
98_326	Yeah. So--	other	communication behavior
98_328	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
98_330	Um, it's one drink per hour.	therapist_input	communication behavior
98_332	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
98_334	Or one shot or-	therapist_input	communication behavior
98_336	-one glass of wine or one beer.	therapist_input	communication behavior
98_338	Um-	other	communication behavior
98_340	Mm-hmm.	other	communication behavior
98_342	Yeah. Uh, the, uh- the idea of, um, having the friends and not drinking, is that something that i-- Would be even, uh, a reality?	question	communication behavior
98_344	Then, who are- who-who-who are they?	question	communication behavior
98_346	Would it--	other	communication behavior
98_348	Yeah, so wha-what would-- What do you think it would do to the relationship of you not drinking but still being with the-these folks-- These friends?	question	communication behavior
98_350	Would-would it work out and--	question	communication behavior
98_352	It's uncomfortable.	reflection	communication behavior
98_354	What makes it uncomfortable?	question	communication behavior
98_356	How-- So, messing with you would be like what?	question	communication behavior
98_358	Oh, and-and-- Oh, I see, yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_360	Yeah, like sort of-	other	communication behavior
98_362	Oh, yeah, yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_364	Right, so you make--	other	communication behavior
98_366	Mm-hmm, and-	other	communication behavior
98_368	-it's [unintelligible 00:24:05]. I-I-I know that you, um- you value friendship and-and friendship is very important, uh, and, I'm just wondering how important, um, it would be for, uh, you to remain friends with them and still have your-your sobriety.	question	communication behavior
98_370	And see what happens.	reflection	communication behavior
98_372	Yeah-yeah, how important would it- would it be? Zero being not so important and 10 being pretty important that you--	question	communication behavior
98_374	Mm-hmm. Okay. [unintelligible 00:24:52] something you'd be willing to try. Okay.	therapist_input	communication behavior
98_376	It sounds-- That sounds good.	other	communication behavior
98_378	Well, maybe that's something that we could talk about next time if you- if you want to.	therapist_input	communication behavior
98_380	Yeah.	other	communication behavior
98_382	Well, I sure-sure would, um, tell the-the people who-who need to know-	therapist_input	communication behavior
98_385	-and then, um- and then it would be up to you mostly. The choice is-is completely yours. And, um, it sounds like to me that there's no reason why you wouldn't be able to do this. You've given it a lot of thought, and you have some plans in place, and anything else that you might come up with, uh, to help you stay out of the driver's seat when you've been drinking.	other	communication behavior
98_387	Then you wouldn't have to worry.	reflection	communication behavior
98_389	Yeah, because worry's no fun.	other	communication behavior
98_391	All right. Well, thank you Mike. I appreciate this.	other	communication behavior
98_393	Thank you.	other	communication behavior
99_0	Steve, before we're done with our visit today, I was wondering if you'd be willing to take a few minutes to talk about your drinking.	question	communication behavior

98_196

-those relationships just didn't come together?

question

communication behavior

98_198

And what do you think?

question

communication behavior

98_200

So, you-you--

other

communication behavior

98_202

You would have been fine if they didn't- if they didn't give you those-those shots. Yeah.

reflection

communication behavior

98_204

Oh, so, the-the-the mailbox, where did that come in? That was the-

question

communication behavior

98_206

-first DUI that got you.

reflection

communication behavior

98_208

That must have been scary.

other

communication behavior

98_210

Oh, that was blackout type?

question

communication behavior

98_212

Right. Yeah.

other

communication behavior

98_214

Oh, okay.

other

communication behavior

98_216

I'm-I'm sorry. I didn't mean to assume that-

other

communication behavior

98_218

-it was blackout that-- Forgive me for that.

other

communication behavior

98_220

Um, so, that it was sort of after that that the girlfriend-- Your girlfriend, I don't know, well, her name. Um, your girlfriend decided-- The mailbox and she's--

reflection

communication behavior

98_222

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

98_224

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

98_226

Oh.

other

communication behavior

98_228

Yeah. You felt like she was the only person that, um, you had in your life, you needed your friends and--

reflection

communication behavior

98_230

No one likes to be controlled, uh, yeah. Yeah. Uh, and, in what ways, well, did you feel that, um, uh, at any time, did you feel controlled by your friends. You said they-they made you drink those shots. That-that sounded like maybe you felt a little controlled? But-- [crosstalk]

question

communication behavior

98_232

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

98_234

Right, they weren't looking out for your best interest at that point.

reflection

communication behavior

98_236

And then sent you out in your car.

reflection

communication behavior

98_238

It's a hindsight again.

reflection

communication behavior

98_240

Yeah.

other

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98_242

Hindsight? Oh, yeah, they'll-- it'll take the- it'll take the blame. Um, so, you still-- Do you still, uh, you know, you started drinking again, and then, um, the second DUI, what-- Is it the same circle of social-social circle, same friends?

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communication behavior

98_244

Same type of situation. [crosstalk]

reflection

communication behavior

98_246

So, they're important to you?

question

communication behavior

98_248

Mm-hmm. Yeah. And-and sometimes, um, people have friends who are friends, but then there's friends who would stay on in our lives and are constant. So, these would be your constant core--

reflection

communication behavior

98_250

Yeah, okay.

other

communication behavior

98_252

Have you ever had, um, uh, interest outside, um, the social drinking, the friends, um, like, what do you do when you're not with them?

question

communication behavior

98_254

Yeah. And any other relationship, if you don't mind me asking-- [crosstalk]

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communication behavior

98_256

How's that going?

question

communication behavior

98_258

Oh what-- So, what does serious look like? Um--

question

communication behavior

98_260

Yeah. That's all right, yeah. That's good. It sounds like you know yourself pretty well.

reflection

communication behavior

98_262

Okay. Right. So, um, now that we-we are looking at, um, your second DUI and, um-- Well, so now, Mike, if you don't mind me asking, what would you do differently, um-um, from here on now?

question

communication behavior

98_264

Since the co- the court sent you and we have to sort of explore what would happen if you went out and did this again.

therapist_input

communication behavior

98_266

Yeah. Is there somebody that you could call?

question

communication behavior

98_268

Right.

other

communication behavior

98_270

They'll come.

reflection

communication behavior

98_272

Yeah. They'll come. As long as you got the money, they'll come and get you. Yeah.

other

communication behavior

98_274

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

98_276

Oh, so, when you use your-your bar money, it would be somewhere else?

question

communication behavior

98_278

Your bar money would be somewhere else, not in your wallet?

question

communication behavior

98_280

There you go. Okay, yeah. So, that, y-yeah.

other

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98_282

That makes- that makes a lot of sense. So then you'd have your money tucked away someplace different.

reflection

communication behavior

98_284

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

98_286

Sounds like a good plan.

reflection

communication behavior

98_288

Yeah. So, uh, how often do you think you'll be needing that plan in the--

question

communication behavior

98_290

Right.

other

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98_292

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

98_294

And then-- Yeah, and then also you said if you're going to have people, uh, you're gonna be drinking for the Super Bowl. Was is it Super Bowl?

question

communication behavior

98_296

I'm sorry, I'm not a football fan but it's Super Bowl coming up, right?

question

communication behavior

98_298

So, you'd have them in and, um, I'm just curious about the folks who are leaving your house, would they-- Would-would you be concerned about them, there'll be a taxi. Sometimes designated drivers I--

question

communication behavior

98_300

So, it would be up to them?

question

communication behavior

98_302

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

98_304

It sounds like you have-- You've thought about this, and you're-you're willing to put some things in place, the-the wallet, um, money in the wallet and-and for the taxi-

reflection

communication behavior

98_306

Have folks in to-to socialize for an event, and that you still have your-your social-- Your friends and your core group and-and, uh, just be careful. What was the six months of not drinking like for you? If you were to choose to not drink.

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communication behavior

98_308

Six months is a- is a long time. There was, um-- Try to think back, were there- were there other people? Was it- was it just you?

question

communication behavior

98_310

All right.

other

communication behavior

98_312

So-so, if you were not to-- If you were to go with the plan of maybe not drinking, which you mentioned-

reflection

communication behavior

98_314

-um, uh, your girlfriend Mary is-is not a part of your life-

reflection

communication behavior

98_316

-right now.

reflection

communication behavior

98_318

Would there be something else that would, um, sort of, uh, fill in that-- The-the friends area, do you think?

question

communication behavior

98_320

But, yeah, I-I see what-what you're saying, for sure. Um, there-there's those friends that they drink but they don't drink that much, I heard you saying.

reflection

communication behavior

98_322

Mm. Sure.

other

communication behavior

98_324

Right.

other

communication behavior

98_326

Yeah. So--

other

communication behavior

98_328

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

98_330

Um, it's one drink per hour.

therapist_input

communication behavior

98_332

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

98_334

Or one shot or-

therapist_input

communication behavior

98_336

-one glass of wine or one beer.

therapist_input

communication behavior

98_338

Um-

other

communication behavior

98_340

Mm-hmm.

other

communication behavior

98_342

Yeah. Uh, the, uh- the idea of, um, having the friends and not drinking, is that something that i-- Would be even, uh, a reality?

question

communication behavior

98_344

Then, who are- who-who-who are they?

question

communication behavior

98_346

Would it--

other

communication behavior

98_348

Yeah, so wha-what would-- What do you think it would do to the relationship of you not drinking but still being with the-these folks-- These friends?

question

communication behavior

98_350

Would-would it work out and--

question

communication behavior

98_352

It's uncomfortable.

reflection

communication behavior

98_354

What makes it uncomfortable?

question

communication behavior

98_356

How-- So, messing with you would be like what?

question

communication behavior

98_358

Oh, and-and-- Oh, I see, yeah.

other

communication behavior

98_360

Yeah, like sort of-

other

communication behavior

98_362

Oh, yeah, yeah.

other

communication behavior

98_364

Right, so you make--

other

communication behavior

98_366

Mm-hmm, and-

other

communication behavior

98_368

-it's [unintelligible 00:24:05]. I-I-I know that you, um- you value friendship and-and friendship is very important, uh, and, I'm just wondering how important, um, it would be for, uh, you to remain friends with them and still have your-your sobriety.

question

communication behavior

98_370

And see what happens.

reflection

communication behavior

98_372

Yeah-yeah, how important would it- would it be? Zero being not so important and 10 being pretty important that you--

question

communication behavior

98_374

Mm-hmm. Okay. [unintelligible 00:24:52] something you'd be willing to try. Okay.

therapist_input

communication behavior

98_376

It sounds-- That sounds good.

other

communication behavior

98_378

Well, maybe that's something that we could talk about next time if you- if you want to.

therapist_input

communication behavior

98_380

Yeah.

other

communication behavior

98_382

Well, I sure-sure would, um, tell the-the people who-who need to know-

therapist_input

communication behavior

98_385

-and then, um- and then it would be up to you mostly. The choice is-is completely yours. And, um, it sounds like to me that there's no reason why you wouldn't be able to do this. You've given it a lot of thought, and you have some plans in place, and anything else that you might come up with, uh, to help you stay out of the driver's seat when you've been drinking.

other

communication behavior

98_387

Then you wouldn't have to worry.

reflection

communication behavior

98_389

Yeah, because worry's no fun.

other

communication behavior

98_391

All right. Well, thank you Mike. I appreciate this.

other

communication behavior

98_393

Thank you.

other

communication behavior

99_0

Steve, before we're done with our visit today, I was wondering if you'd be willing to take a few minutes to talk about your drinking.

question

communication behavior