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<s> [INST] I need to speak to someone about sexual addiction and binge eating immediately.[/INST]Depending on your area and location, there may be therapists who provide services on a sliding scale. Additionally, churches will often times�offer counseling for free or for a small fee. I suggest doing a simple Google sea...
<s> [INST] I've been bulimic for about 6 years now. I'm in my early 20s. I am about to start back to school to become an RN, and I really need to get better once and for all. I lose control of myself and become angry and anxious and just eat and purge. Over and over. Can someone please point me in the right directio...
<s> [INST] I have a problem with binge eating, especially during times of stress. I binge eat and feel so overwhelmed with shame and disappointment that I end up going to the gym and trying to exercise the calories off. I am in my late 20s, and I have been dealing with this since I was a teenager. Are there any coping ...
<s> [INST] I have a problem with binge eating, especially during times of stress. I binge eat and feel so overwhelmed with shame and disappointment that I end up going to the gym and trying to exercise the calories off. I am in my late 20s, and I have been dealing with this since I was a teenager. Are there any coping ...
<s> [INST] I have a problem with binge eating, especially during times of stress. I binge eat and feel so overwhelmed with shame and disappointment that I end up going to the gym and trying to exercise the calories off. I am in my late 20s, and I have been dealing with this since I was a teenager. Are there any coping ...
<s> [INST] I have a problem with binge eating, especially during times of stress. I binge eat and feel so overwhelmed with shame and disappointment that I end up going to the gym and trying to exercise the calories off. I am in my late 20s, and I have been dealing with this since I was a teenager. Are there any coping ...
<s> [INST] I have no self control over food. Most people stop when they've had enough, but I keep eating for the pleasure of it. Especially with sweets - I'm never done eating dessert.[/INST]Hello! I'm so glad you decided to write in today. This is such a great question and I'm sure many others will relate to exactly w...
<s> [INST] I have no self control over food. Most people stop when they've had enough, but I keep eating for the pleasure of it. Especially with sweets - I'm never done eating dessert.[/INST]I would recommend removing yourself from the environment you are in after you have finished eating. A simple walk around the bloc...
<s> [INST] There's this boy who asked me out awhile ago. I said no because my friends and family would think weirdly of me. How do I be with him and tell him and tell my friends?[/INST]Since you've decided to be with the boy who already showed you his interest, then why not simply tell him you decided to accept his inv...
<s> [INST] I have suffered many things at home and school. We never went to the doctor to diagnose depression or anything like that, but I always feel like a part of my heart is missing. I try to fill it in with objects or, in this case, a woman.[/INST]Maybe the reason is not having confidence in the love you give to y...
<s> [INST] I have suffered many things at home and school. We never went to the doctor to diagnose depression or anything like that, but I always feel like a part of my heart is missing. I try to fill it in with objects or, in this case, a woman.[/INST]There could be many reasons but often people feel validated when th...
<s> [INST] I have suffered many things at home and school. We never went to the doctor to diagnose depression or anything like that, but I always feel like a part of my heart is missing. I try to fill it in with objects or, in this case, a woman.[/INST]There are a lot of ways to look at this. It sounds as if there is a...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]It is not the case of being right or wrong, in my view. If you are asking, I believe you truly�care for your boy...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]The most important thing to ask yourself here is, "how did this action affect my relationship, and is it worth t...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]Depends on your definition of "wrong" on this one. Was it objectively wrong to spend the weekend with a good fri...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]While you can't be responsible for your boyfriend's feelings, relationships do come with expectations. �Both peo...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]Hello. There are a number of factors playing into this situation. A former romantic partner coming back onto the...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]Ideally you and your boyfriend will reach a balance point where you and your boyfriend are each happy with the l...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]This can be a very complicated situation. The boundaries of relationship include the rules to follow in the rela...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]Thank you for submitting this question. I think this type of situation can be common for many couples struggling...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]That is a difficult situation and there is no right or wrong. You both need to discuss it and come up with a sol...
<s> [INST] I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends. I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?[/INST]It's completely understandable that you would have male friends and that you would want to spend time with them....
<s> [INST] I've been with my partner for 4 years. She's given me no reason not to trust her. But lately I've been overreacting a lot when she's just doing normal things. I think it's triggering my bad past relationships. How can I get rid of these insecurities and be more trusting with her?[/INST]Two paths are possi...
<s> [INST] I've been with my partner for 4 years. She's given me no reason not to trust her. But lately I've been overreacting a lot when she's just doing normal things. I think it's triggering my bad past relationships. How can I get rid of these insecurities and be more trusting with her?[/INST]Remember that all r...
<s> [INST] I've been with my partner for 4 years. She's given me no reason not to trust her. But lately I've been overreacting a lot when she's just doing normal things. I think it's triggering my bad past relationships. How can I get rid of these insecurities and be more trusting with her?[/INST]What's most importa...
<s> [INST] I�ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year. This past week she admitted to me that she has feelings for another guy. She says it�s �just a crush� but I don't know how to cope with it. How should I deal with this?[/INST]I can only imagine how hard that must have been ...
<s> [INST] I�ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year. This past week she admitted to me that she has feelings for another guy. She says it�s �just a crush� but I don't know how to cope with it. How should I deal with this?[/INST]Hi! It sounds like you are stuck in a difficult ...
<s> [INST] I�ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year. This past week she admitted to me that she has feelings for another guy. She says it�s �just a crush� but I don't know how to cope with it. How should I deal with this?[/INST]Long distance relationships are very difficult t...
<s> [INST] I�ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year. This past week she admitted to me that she has feelings for another guy. She says it�s �just a crush� but I don't know how to cope with it. How should I deal with this?[/INST]Thanks for writing in. Several things come to mi...
<s> [INST] I�ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year. This past week she admitted to me that she has feelings for another guy. She says it�s �just a crush� but I don't know how to cope with it. How should I deal with this?[/INST]Often, communication is the key within relations...
<s> [INST] I�ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year. This past week she admitted to me that she has feelings for another guy. She says it�s �just a crush� but I don't know how to cope with it. How should I deal with this?[/INST]No one can tell you how to deal with your own re...
<s> [INST] I�ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year. This past week she admitted to me that she has feelings for another guy. She says it�s �just a crush� but I don't know how to cope with it. How should I deal with this?[/INST]Long distance relationships have the addition st...
<s> [INST] I�ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year. This past week she admitted to me that she has feelings for another guy. She says it�s �just a crush� but I don't know how to cope with it. How should I deal with this?[/INST]Did your girlfriend tell you her reason to tell ...
<s> [INST] I�ve been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year. This past week she admitted to me that she has feelings for another guy. She says it�s �just a crush� but I don't know how to cope with it. How should I deal with this?[/INST]Those words must have been extremely difficult t...
<s> [INST] I've been with a man for four years. For the last year, he has said he is done, but he still talks, texts, visits, and has not moved on with anyone else. His words do not match his actions. I love this man, but it's hurting so much.[/INST]If I understand you correctly, this "maybe-boyfriend" has done a parti...
<s> [INST] I've been with a man for four years. For the last year, he has said he is done, but he still talks, texts, visits, and has not moved on with anyone else. His words do not match his actions. I love this man, but it's hurting so much.[/INST]That does sound very confusing...and hurtful.� You do not have to tole...
<s> [INST] I've been with a man for four years. For the last year, he has said he is done, but he still talks, texts, visits, and has not moved on with anyone else. His words do not match his actions. I love this man, but it's hurting so much.[/INST]Have you brought up the topic as to the way you're feeling?The best wa...
<s> [INST] I've been with a man for four years. For the last year, he has said he is done, but he still talks, texts, visits, and has not moved on with anyone else. His words do not match his actions. I love this man, but it's hurting so much.[/INST]This can be difficult and confusing.If you think your boyfriend would ...
<s> [INST] I'm having relationship problems and I want to fix them to make things right before I lose her. How can I learn how to listen and get myself together?[/INST]What an important question, and the fact that you're asking it is a big step in the right direction. To answer in detail would require having quite a bi...
<s> [INST] I'm having relationship problems and I want to fix them to make things right before I lose her. How can I learn how to listen and get myself together?[/INST]Hello, and thank you for your question. First, I want to say that it is great that you are are willing to admit that you share some responsibility in so...
<s> [INST] I'm having relationship problems and I want to fix them to make things right before I lose her. How can I learn how to listen and get myself together?[/INST]Thanks for your question. Becoming a good listener is an essential piece in being a better communicator. Being an effective communicator will almost alw...
<s> [INST] I'm having relationship problems and I want to fix them to make things right before I lose her. How can I learn how to listen and get myself together?[/INST]The best tool for becoming a better listener that I know of is called Imago Dialogue. It consists of 3 steps:1. Mirroring what she says (without judging...
<s> [INST] I'm having relationship problems and I want to fix them to make things right before I lose her. How can I learn how to listen and get myself together?[/INST]I love that you are so thoughtful and proactive about this!� If only every client came in as solution focused as you, my job would be so much easier. I ...
<s> [INST] I'm having relationship problems and I want to fix them to make things right before I lose her. How can I learn how to listen and get myself together?[/INST]The first step for making this sort of change is being motivated to change and it sounds like you have that, so you are already on the right track.As fa...
<s> [INST] I'm having relationship problems and I want to fix them to make things right before I lose her. How can I learn how to listen and get myself together?[/INST]Let go of your ego, the ego tends to get in the way of things, be a man and listen, do not react so uch to life around you. life is not out to get you, ...
<s> [INST] I'm having relationship problems and I want to fix them to make things right before I lose her. How can I learn how to listen and get myself together?[/INST]I'm glad to read about your willingness to develop new ways to invest yourself with your partner.The easier way to fix a relationship is when both peopl...
<s> [INST] I'm having relationship problems and I want to fix them to make things right before I lose her. How can I learn how to listen and get myself together?[/INST]Hard to say a whole lot without knowing more. However, if you focus your attention on her, what she's saying, what she's feeling instead of trying to ma...
<s> [INST] Recently my boyfriend broke up with me because of my bad language. But he thinks I'm a total b***h. I know I'm bipolar and can be selfish. He called me today and says he can't go through with the breakup. I was broken and didn't want a breakup to begin with, but I know I'm horrible at times and can't help it...
<s> [INST] I told him I liked him. He called me lovely and pretty but he said he didn�t want a relationship. He would always flirt with me.[/INST]Well, as disappointed as you may very well feel from hearing this guy's answer, you know he doesn't want a relationship.What type of move would you like him to make?If you me...
<s> [INST] I'm in a long-distance relationship with my ideal man, but I'm not as attracted to him as I should be. Everything else is perfect about him, but I find myself lusting over more attractive men. The next step is marriage, but I want to marry someone who I can wake up to and fall in love with all over again. Ho...
<s> [INST] I'm in a long-distance relationship with my ideal man, but I'm not as attracted to him as I should be. Everything else is perfect about him, but I find myself lusting over more attractive men. The next step is marriage, but I want to marry someone who I can wake up to and fall in love with all over again. Ho...
<s> [INST] I'm in a long-distance relationship with my ideal man, but I'm not as attracted to him as I should be. Everything else is perfect about him, but I find myself lusting over more attractive men. The next step is marriage, but I want to marry someone who I can wake up to and fall in love with all over again. Ho...
<s> [INST] I met this girl in high school. She had switched schools at the end of the year, and I have not seen her since. It's been a few years. We had a very good and friendly relationship, and we seemed to have a lot in common. I never gained the courage to ask her out.[/INST]One way to make good use of the situatio...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend is in recovery from drug addiction. We recently got into a fight and he has become very distant. I don't know what to do to fix the relationship.[/INST]My empathy goes out to you. Relationships are tough enough and i'm sure your partner being distant has been upsetting for you. You are confused ...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend is in recovery from drug addiction. We recently got into a fight and he has become very distant. I don't know what to do to fix the relationship.[/INST]I'm sorry you have tension between you and your bf.A relationship means two people who relate, right?! � If only one person does all the work to...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend is in recovery from drug addiction. We recently got into a fight and he has become very distant. I don't know what to do to fix the relationship.[/INST]I would first suggest you sitting down with him and voicing your concerns about how distant he has been, or more importantly you have felt that ...
<s> [INST] I was never single, afraid to be alone, and I looked for my boyfriend to make me happy. I finally worked on my self, was in a relationship, and I did everything a healthy girlfriend does and it didn't work out. Now months later, no man peaks my interest. Am I ready to date again? Is there a reason no one spa...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend is always saying he's done with me and says he's leaving, but then at the end of the night, he's still here. He wakes up in the morning, acts like nothing happen, and repeats this every night.[/INST]Do the two of you ever talk over why he does this or your reaction to it?Are you asking your ques...
<s> [INST] I was with my boyfriend for years on and off. We dated and broke up three times. Since we broke up five months ago I can't move on. I want to get back together but he won't talk to me. What should I do?[/INST]Probably being sad to lose the relationship would be a good next move for you.When a relationship en...
<s> [INST] I really like this guy and I think he likes me back, but his sister is my bestfriend. I'm afraid that if I tell her I have a crush on her brother she would loose it. I once told her I thought her brother was cute and she got really angry. I've gotten to know her brother better lately and I've realized he may...
<s> [INST] I feel like I took our relationship for granted and he's now to the point that he's giving up. I have had trouble feeling like I could trust him but he's given me no reason not to trust him. I know my attitude is also a big issue for him. I have a lot of obligations at home so we don't spend a lot of time...
<s> [INST] Whenever I sing along with a song that I like (even if it's just for the beat and not the lyrics), my boyfriend assumes that the words of the song mean something negative about our realationship. I don't why he gets so mad and assumes I mean something negative from every song. Now I can't enjoy and sing a...
<s> [INST] I have a lot of child custody concerns, financial issues, insecurities and weigh gain. I also have no local family support. It's hard for me to stay positive. I get very emotional and take it out on the people I love. How can I stay strong?[/INST]There's online forums and blogs, some of which have interactiv...
<s> [INST] I was talking to my fiance about changing my hair. He recommended a very specific hair style. Then I found out his ex has that exact same hair. I feel like he must know she has that hair style. Am I nuts, or does this show that he's still in love with her?[/INST]Maybe your finance's hair preference for you r...
<s> [INST] My girlfriend recently started hanging out a lot more with one of her friends who did her wrong in the past and just walked out on her. So for the past 3 years its been just me and my girlfriend. Things have been great up until the last month. Now she ignores me and texts and hangs oit with her friend more a...
<s> [INST] I don't know how to tell someone how I feel about them. How can I get better at expressing how I feel?[/INST]"Practice makes perfect"!Simply by expressing yourself and listening to if others listen and understand you, then modifying your next try with whatever improvements you think of based on the impressio...
<s> [INST] I don't know how to tell someone how I feel about them. How can I get better at expressing how I feel?[/INST]Let's just start with being real. Expressing yourself is vulnerable, and being vulnerable is hard. It takes courage and work to be vulnerable. My guess is that you have been shown in your lifetime tha...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. I've been really sad lately and for the past few months I've realized I'm just way too dependent on him. It makes me really upset to be so dependent on someone else, but I can't help it. I don't even know who I am without him. How can I be less depen...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. I've been really sad lately and for the past few months I've realized I'm just way too dependent on him. It makes me really upset to be so dependent on someone else, but I can't help it. I don't even know who I am without him. How can I be less depen...
<s> [INST] I feel so alone. I have so many people around me, but it seems as they just listen and dont understand. They say it will all be okay, or they don't listen to me st all. Everyone says they are here for me but it doesn't feel like they are. Why do I feel so alone?[/INST]We feel alone because we are not comfort...
<s> [INST] I feel so alone. I have so many people around me, but it seems as they just listen and dont understand. They say it will all be okay, or they don't listen to me st all. Everyone says they are here for me but it doesn't feel like they are. Why do I feel so alone?[/INST]Hello there.� Thank you for sharing your...
<s> [INST] I feel so alone. I have so many people around me, but it seems as they just listen and dont understand. They say it will all be okay, or they don't listen to me st all. Everyone says they are here for me but it doesn't feel like they are. Why do I feel so alone?[/INST]Although we can have moments when we fee...
<s> [INST] I feel so alone. I have so many people around me, but it seems as they just listen and dont understand. They say it will all be okay, or they don't listen to me st all. Everyone says they are here for me but it doesn't feel like they are. Why do I feel so alone?[/INST]You ask a very deep and sensitive questi...
<s> [INST] I don't speak up if I'm uncomfortable and hardly ever make plans for us when we hang out. He is a very open and straightforward person, so he is getting upset with me for my lack of proper communication. We've been together two years and have identified this as our main problem. Arguments have arised from th...
<s> [INST] We�ve been together almost three years. We argue and he ends it by telling me he doesn�t love me. It's hurtful because I am all about resolving the problem, and he dwells on the issue even if I drop what he's done and just swallow my pride and say I am sorry. How can this be resolved? We have kids, and I don...
<s> [INST] We�ve been together almost three years. We argue and he ends it by telling me he doesn�t love me. It's hurtful because I am all about resolving the problem, and he dwells on the issue even if I drop what he's done and just swallow my pride and say I am sorry. How can this be resolved? We have kids, and I don...
<s> [INST] We�ve been together almost three years. We argue and he ends it by telling me he doesn�t love me. It's hurtful because I am all about resolving the problem, and he dwells on the issue even if I drop what he's done and just swallow my pride and say I am sorry. How can this be resolved? We have kids, and I don...
<s> [INST] We�ve been together almost three years. We argue and he ends it by telling me he doesn�t love me. It's hurtful because I am all about resolving the problem, and he dwells on the issue even if I drop what he's done and just swallow my pride and say I am sorry. How can this be resolved? We have kids, and I don...
<s> [INST] I'm dating this guy, Peter. My friend Jennifer used to date him a while ago, and she's fine with us dating. My ex-boyfriend, Paul, broke up with Jennifer, and she's devastated about it. Peter and I are going through a rough patch in our relationship. All of a sudden, Paul is in "love" with me, and he wants m...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend called me a particular profanity and I broke up with him. This is the third time he's called me this and I'm just completely done with giving him chances. He knows how much it bothers me. I just want to know if I'm over reacting.[/INST]It sounds like you are reacting to an issue in communication...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend is in Ireland for 11 days, and I am an emotional wreck.[/INST]It sounds like you and your boyfriend are very close. �Do you typically spend most of your time together? �If so, it may be important to reflect on how you feel when you are apart. �If any separation is difficult, you may need to exam...
<s> [INST] I have high functioning autism and I have been on a lot of dating sites like meet me, match, and zoosk. I haven't had any luck on any of the dating sites I have been on. I really want a boyfriend but I don't know what I should do. I just want to be in a relationship. How can I meet someone?[/INST]Are the...
<s> [INST] We've been in a long distance relationship for two and a half years. I recently saw his phone and saw the people he texts the most and one of them was a female coworker. I don't know how to approach this situation. How do I ask him about it?.[/INST]I agree with Sherry that in a close intimate relationship, y...
<s> [INST] We've been in a long distance relationship for two and a half years. I recently saw his phone and saw the people he texts the most and one of them was a female coworker. I don't know how to approach this situation. How do I ask him about it?.[/INST]I think honesty is the right approach in this situation. Sha...
<s> [INST] We've been in a long distance relationship for two and a half years. I recently saw his phone and saw the people he texts the most and one of them was a female coworker. I don't know how to approach this situation. How do I ask him about it?.[/INST]The best way to get an answer is to just ask. I would defint...
<s> [INST] We've been in a long distance relationship for two and a half years. I recently saw his phone and saw the people he texts the most and one of them was a female coworker. I don't know how to approach this situation. How do I ask him about it?.[/INST]Just ask him.I'm not sure how you saw his phone if you're in...
<s> [INST] We've been in a long distance relationship for two and a half years. I recently saw his phone and saw the people he texts the most and one of them was a female coworker. I don't know how to approach this situation. How do I ask him about it?.[/INST]If you'd like to ask a question, then go ahead and ask!Boyfr...
<s> [INST] We weren't long distance until he joined the military. I love him and I know he loves, me but it's complicated. He said he's not going to find someone else, but I'm afraid. How do I keep our relationship going?[/INST]Hello. You are asking a very good question about how to sustain a long-distance relationship...
<s> [INST] We weren't long distance until he joined the military. I love him and I know he loves, me but it's complicated. He said he's not going to find someone else, but I'm afraid. How do I keep our relationship going?[/INST]Loving someone in the military is hard. My husband and I joined the USAF two months after we...
<s> [INST] We weren't long distance until he joined the military. I love him and I know he loves, me but it's complicated. He said he's not going to find someone else, but I'm afraid. How do I keep our relationship going?[/INST]You're wise to be aware of possible changes to your relationship once your bf is away from y...
<s> [INST] We weren't long distance until he joined the military. I love him and I know he loves, me but it's complicated. He said he's not going to find someone else, but I'm afraid. How do I keep our relationship going?[/INST]You're right that long-distance relationships can be complicated. If he loves you and you lo...
<s> [INST] When I ask him who he is talking to, he tells me no one. But, it sounds like he is holding a conversation with someone. I have even accused him of having a secret cell phone. I ask so much, I feel like I am losing it. Is he trying to make me question my sanity, or is he talking to himself?[/INST]A rare topic...
<s> [INST] Over a year ago I had a female friend. She turned out to be kind of crazy so I decided to stop talking to her. When she would call me I wouldn't answer the phone. This made my girlfriend really suspicious. She would ask me why I wouldn't ever answer that phone number. I told my girlfriend that I don't want t...
<s> [INST] Over a year ago I had a female friend. She turned out to be kind of crazy so I decided to stop talking to her. When she would call me I wouldn't answer the phone. This made my girlfriend really suspicious. She would ask me why I wouldn't ever answer that phone number. I told my girlfriend that I don't want t...
<s> [INST] Over a year ago I had a female friend. She turned out to be kind of crazy so I decided to stop talking to her. When she would call me I wouldn't answer the phone. This made my girlfriend really suspicious. She would ask me why I wouldn't ever answer that phone number. I told my girlfriend that I don't want t...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend and I have a toxic relationship due to his emotional and verbal abuse but he makes me feel like I could never find someone better, and that I can't be happy without him. How do I get away from this relationship?[/INST]I'm glad you recognize your own best interest and that your life will be mu...
<s> [INST] We had great chemistry, but then he became distant. I had the feeling that I can't be without him. As soon as I felt the difference, I was scared to lose him. I started freaking out if he did not answer, thinking that something bad happened.[/INST]People often care deeply for those whom they love. I don't kn...
<s> [INST] We had great chemistry, but then he became distant. I had the feeling that I can't be without him. As soon as I felt the difference, I was scared to lose him. I started freaking out if he did not answer, thinking that something bad happened.[/INST]The simplest answer is that love feels good, obsessions don't...
<s> [INST] I�m in my early 20s. My ex�s parents are friends with them and have told them bad things about me. I left my ex due to an abusive situation, and they are making me look like I was the bad one.[/INST]Maybe you can talk with your partner about this first look at the different elements of a possible conversatio...
<s> [INST] I try to do everything right just so we won't argue, and it doesn't help the only time he is calm is when he is drinking alcohol. I get anxiety over having fights with him.[/INST]Because of the way that you say your boyfriend is only calm when he is drinking and you have concerns about flights, it would prob...