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<s> [INST] Ever since I was little, I loved the idea of loving someone and spending my whole life with them. I treated everyone nice. For girls I liked, I would spend every second with them. It always ends the same way: �I like you as a friend,� or �I love your attention but not you.�[/INST]Attention is often something...
<s> [INST] I'm dating a guy I really love. We have our problems, but I could see myself with him long term. But there's this other guy who I've had feelings for for awhile now. He gives me butterflies when we talk, and my heart beats fast when I see he's texted me, which i never felt with my current boyfriend.[/INST]Th...
<s> [INST] My ex-boyfriend and I have been back and forth for over a year now. He's in his late 20s, divorced for like five years now with two kids. He has a lot of narcissistic behaviors. He lies and cheats, but I love him. I've tried to date other people, but I always go back to him.[/INST]There are a lot of pieces t...
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship, but I feel like I'm always putting more into it and not getting reciprocated. My ex told me that I will never find anyone else, and that's lingering in the back of my mind.[/INST]The most crucial key to any relationship is that mutual feeling you hold between you both: that you matter....
<s> [INST] I blame my past relationship for it. I know it is bad to be this way. I want to get past it.[/INST]We humans are social beings. We learn how to BE in relationship as children. The caregiving you received (or didn't receive) set the stage for how you show up in all your adult relationships. Insecurity in rela...
<s> [INST] I blame my past relationship for it. I know it is bad to be this way. I want to get past it.[/INST]How did you come to the conclusion that you are acting needy?Is this what your partner told you or are you feeling this way about yourself?The difference is that what you'd like from a relationship may be very ...
<s> [INST] I am currently suffering from erectile dysfunction and have tried Viagra, Cialis, etc. Nothing seemed to work. My girlfriend of 3 years is very sexually frustrated. I told her that it is okay for her to have sex with other men. Is that really okay?[/INST]Hi,�First and foremost, I want to acknowledge your eff...
<s> [INST] I am currently suffering from erectile dysfunction and have tried Viagra, Cialis, etc. Nothing seemed to work. My girlfriend of 3 years is very sexually frustrated. I told her that it is okay for her to have sex with other men. Is that really okay?[/INST]Hello, and thank you for your question. I completely a...
<s> [INST] i was addicted to porn since the second grade. I'm in my early 40s and overcame my addiction during my separation from my wife of 15 years.[/INST]The person who can answer this question is the person you want to rebuild that trust with.� They are the only one who can tell you what it will take for them to tr...
<s> [INST] He isn't violent, but he has anger issues and deep insecurities. He's working on them and has improved. We started counseling, and he participated in one or two individual sessions, but we broke up again shortly thereafter. Now his constant questions and accusations are getting really draining.[/INST]From wh...
<s> [INST] He isn't violent, but he has anger issues and deep insecurities. He's working on them and has improved. We started counseling, and he participated in one or two individual sessions, but we broke up again shortly thereafter. Now his constant questions and accusations are getting really draining.[/INST]Sometim...
<s> [INST] He isn't violent, but he has anger issues and deep insecurities. He's working on them and has improved. We started counseling, and he participated in one or two individual sessions, but we broke up again shortly thereafter. Now his constant questions and accusations are getting really draining.[/INST]Hello a...
<s> [INST] I have had a crush on this guy for years. I last talked to him a few years ago when we graduated from high school. We left off on a good note. Should I message him and see how he is doing, or is it too late?[/INST]You'll only find out whether or not it is "too late", by following through with wanting to mess...
<s> [INST] I have had a crush on this guy for years. I last talked to him a few years ago when we graduated from high school. We left off on a good note. Should I message him and see how he is doing, or is it too late?[/INST]It's never to late to let a person know how you feel.� You never know where it will take you.� ...
<s> [INST] I've been with him for a couple months. We will talk everyday and he will get mad over something I will say and not talk to me. We have our great moments, but I just need to focus on my personal situations, and I feel he is slowing me down with that. I still wanna be with him, but not now.[/INST]It sounds li...
<s> [INST] I've been with him for a couple months. We will talk everyday and he will get mad over something I will say and not talk to me. We have our great moments, but I just need to focus on my personal situations, and I feel he is slowing me down with that. I still wanna be with him, but not now.[/INST]I have learn...
<s> [INST] I've been with him for a couple months. We will talk everyday and he will get mad over something I will say and not talk to me. We have our great moments, but I just need to focus on my personal situations, and I feel he is slowing me down with that. I still wanna be with him, but not now.[/INST]Why don't yo...
<s> [INST] I found out my boyfriend takes anti-depression medicine. Lately he's been saying he has a lot on his mind, and he needs time to think about us. We've only been dating 3 weeks but I like him a lot.[/INST]Give him the time and space he needs.� Obviously something is going on with him that he needs time to proc...
<s> [INST] I found out my boyfriend takes anti-depression medicine. Lately he's been saying he has a lot on his mind, and he needs time to think about us. We've only been dating 3 weeks but I like him a lot.[/INST]Your boyfriend may like you a lot as well.People have different styles of reflecting on their lives, one o...
<s> [INST] I found out my boyfriend takes anti-depression medicine. Lately he's been saying he has a lot on his mind, and he needs time to think about us. We've only been dating 3 weeks but I like him a lot.[/INST]This seems like two questions. �The first is what may have happened to prompt him to back off. �The second...
<s> [INST] Me and the father of my child have been dating for a year. We had a big argument and at first he wanted to work it out. But with time he started asking others and they told him to leave me. Now he wants me to wait on him to mature. He wants to talk to other people. Then come back in four years. He doesn't wa...
<s> [INST] I have several issues like I don't like people. They make me sick. I have issues with talking to people. I feel like they are talking about me and making fun of me. I have felt this way for years. When I look people in the eyes I have voices that tell me to hurt them and if I don't stop looking at who I am t...
<s> [INST] Now that the other girl is out of the picture, our sex life isn't the same. Is it because he is still thinking about the other girl?[/INST]Or...better yet... Is it you still thinking about the other girl?� I am sure his cheating hurt you emotionally and�may have�affected your sexual performance�as well.� Mak...
<s> [INST] I was in a relationship with him for three years. My mom doesn't like it because she thinks I'm making a mistake. He got married a few months after we broke up, and now he is divorced. I forgave him for what he did in the past, and he says he�s sorry and he really loves me. I love him too, but is it bad that...
<s> [INST] I am currently living in a hotel and I don�t have a family. I met a guy a month ago. He is a bisexual. He has a lot of gay friends on social networking sites. He would not help pay for the room. When I asked for the TV remote control, he threw it elsewhere and asked me to get it. I slapped him and asked him ...
<s> [INST] About two and a half months ago, I met a woman on a dating site. We went out on two dates, and then despite her original plans on how to pace and conduct the relationship, I ended up at her house on a the Friday night one week after our first date. We respectfully tried not to have sex, but after hours of tr...
<s> [INST] About two and a half months ago, I met a woman on a dating site. We went out on two dates, and then despite her original plans on how to pace and conduct the relationship, I ended up at her house on a the Friday night one week after our first date. We respectfully tried not to have sex, but after hours of tr...
<s> [INST] I got involved with my best friend who is married but has been very unhappy for the last five years. We both fell in love and have been together for eight months. He left the house and filed for divorce. He decided to tell her about our relationship, and she is willing to forgive and work on things. This sho...
<s> [INST] I have been dating my boyfriend for a month, and we want a baby. We don't work or drive, and we haven't talked to our parents. What should we do?[/INST]Hi Athens, When a teenager wants to have a baby, it's usually for a specific, and not healthy, reason. Do you maybe hope that a baby will cement your relatio...
<s> [INST] I was hanging out with my close guy friend. We started kissing, but afterwards, he said that we should just stay friends because he doesn't want to ruin anything. We both just got out of relationships. His was very sexual. I'm not a sexual person, and he knows that. I want to be with him, but I'm not ready f...
<s> [INST] My partner seems to always get depressed over the fact that his kids have to see and go through the divorce process. It�s especially when the mother of his kids keeps making him feel bad and using the kids as an excuse to get back at him. I feel like just telling him to go back with his family and forget abo...
<s> [INST] My girlfriend broke up with me five months ago because I said awful things to her one night for no reason of hers. I have been trying to get her back, but it isn�t easy. She is in her 50s and I am in my 40s. She is the one I want for my life, and this is killing me. Every day, I cry, and I am desperate for h...
<s> [INST] I'm a female freshman in high school, and this question is for my male best friend. At the start of freshman year, we dated for about a week before his parents ended it because they said he is too young to date. He has been dating a really sweet senior girl for a month or two. I have nothing against her exce...
<s> [INST] I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year. Back in August, he asked for us to step back for now. Since then, he has still been in contact with me every day. We spent some time together over the holidays, but then I was gone for New Years with family. I came to find out that he put himself on a dat...
<s> [INST] My girlfriend and I have broken up and gotten back together numerous times in the past two years. We recently just broke up again last night on New Year�s Eve. When we break up, the very next day, she calls me and acts as if nothing has happened. She acts like everything is alright. This has been going on fo...
<s> [INST] I broke up with him three weeks ago because I felt that he needed to be more respectful. He has since had a rebound relationship. He says he loves and misses me but refuses to see me. He says it's going to be too difficult to see me. Every time we talk, it feels like I'm being pushy to see him. He used to be...
<s> [INST] I'm an early 20 something year-old virgin, and my boyfriend is in his early 20s with kids. He's cheated on me twice: once in the beginning and then four months ago. He wasn't use to dating a virgin and broke up with me three times because he wasn't sure. We both work at the same job (where we met) and it�s w...
<s> [INST] I find that I imagine things sexually, and I hate it because it puts strain on my relationship. I feel helpless and guilty. I want it to go away, and I want to make my woman happy again.[/INST]It is completely understandable that you would like to find a way to make these intrusive thoughts go away, however,...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend moved in with me a few months ago. I love him, but his dog is wrecking my house. Every day we get home, there is a huge mess on the floor, and several things will be ripped up (including the couch). He's slowly eating all of the doors, and there will be food and poop everywhere. Even though I co...
<s> [INST] I had to go to the emergency room today to get an X-ray of my spine. My boyfriend didn't want to sit there and wait with me. Instead, he wanted to go do things for his friends while I waited. When I was done, he was twenty minutes late in picking me up. He doesn't understand why I'm mad, and we keep bickerin...
<s> [INST] I had to go to the emergency room today to get an X-ray of my spine. My boyfriend didn't want to sit there and wait with me. Instead, he wanted to go do things for his friends while I waited. When I was done, he was twenty minutes late in picking me up. He doesn't understand why I'm mad, and we keep bickerin...
<s> [INST] My fianc� doesn't think I trust him because I was cheated on before. However, he hides his phone and has been texting his ex-girlfriend, who he has two kids with. What should I do?[/INST]Oh Chino, I only have half the picture here so I will be cautious. There's a chicken and an egg, and I don't know which ca...
<s> [INST] My long-distance girlfriend is in a sorority, and it's changing her. I feel like I'm becoming less important to her and it hurts. She just wants me to support the sorority, but it's so hard. I try every day to show her she's the most important thing to me, but she can't even stay relatively sober at a frater...
<s> [INST] Every once and a while, I think about my ex-boyfriend from four years ago, and my current friend. It�s like I can't get past it, and I need some kind of closure. I keep thinking about how we had something, but it got cut off due to parental intervention. Nothing was ever wrong with it. Now we've become frien...
<s> [INST] After 25 years, I fell in love for the first time. The person acted for a week and left me without even saying goodbye. My heart is burning, and I can't take this pain.[/INST]Ouch. Losing someone you love hurts so much. We all long to be loved and to love and to have that experience and then lose it is awful...
<s> [INST] After 25 years, I fell in love for the first time. The person acted for a week and left me without even saying goodbye. My heart is burning, and I can't take this pain.[/INST]Hi, San Diego.�I'm sad that this was your first experience (in 25 years) with feeling in love. You deserve better. My understanding of...
<s> [INST] My ex-boyfriend and I met over a year ago. We hit it off and fell in love pretty quick. However, he has trust issues and assumed I was cheating. When I found out I was pregnant, we had just broken up. Five months later, I lost the baby, and we did not speak for a few weeks. Now we are talking, and he says he...
<s> [INST] My ex-boyfriend and I met over a year ago. We hit it off and fell in love pretty quick. However, he has trust issues and assumed I was cheating. When I found out I was pregnant, we had just broken up. Five months later, I lost the baby, and we did not speak for a few weeks. Now we are talking, and he says he...
<s> [INST] My ex-boyfriend, will not stop harassing and stalking me. We work together. I honestly think he needs help to move on. His accusations are angry lies. But I think he may believe them to be true.[/INST]The specific laws about this will vary from state to state. �Generally, the only way to "force" someone to g...
<s> [INST] My boyfriend�s sneaky and puts his friends before me. He fights just to leave. One day, he's happy. The next, he's mean and blames me for everything. He can't admit faults. He thinks he's perfect and does no wrong.[/INST]Hi, Ontario. I live in the other Ontario; in Canada. I'll try to help you sort this out....
<s> [INST] My boyfriend says I'm nuts. I need to get help because I get an overwhelming feeling that he is cheating on me. Whenever I try to talk with him about it, he always turns it around on me by telling me what I'm doing wrong. I know that accusing him does not help. When his whole demeanor shifts towards me, I ca...
<s> [INST] I want us all to get along, but feel that I am not being respected. Of course I do have some insecurities because he was with his ex for 8 years. He wants to see his step daughter and ex makes it so he has to go there to see her, but she doesn't want me around. She has a boyfriend, but mine fixes their vehic...
<s> [INST] Then turn right back around and say he loves me and needs me. This rollercoaster is crazy.[/INST]Your partners obviously very confused when it comes to love. Sometimes people shy away from good and positive relationships and companionship because their afraid. They know that it's something worth holding on t...
<s> [INST] Then turn right back around and say he loves me and needs me. This rollercoaster is crazy.[/INST]Yes, I agree with your view about the "rollercoaster" sounding "crazy"!Concentrate on knowing what your reasons are for staying with this guy, given the broad facts that you state.What are you gaining from being ...
<s> [INST] I have been with my best friend for over a year, and we have had a beautiful baby girl. We were in love, and I still love her dearly. I am in my late teens and so is she. She says she has lost her connection with me. She is talking to a random guy that she says is just someone to talk to. But she says she st...
<s> [INST] Why am I attracted to older men?[/INST]What a wonderful question!Good for you on clearly knowing your priorities.If I was sitting with you now, I'd ask you to list your reasons.Start with whatever answers you do come up with and examine each of these a little further.If, for example, you feel you need a man ...
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship with my fianc� and I currently found out that she's been cheating on me with a co-worker. I was very upset none the less. I understand what she did was wrong, but I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So I'm willing to forgive and move on. We have been together for a little over...
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship with my fianc� and I currently found out that she's been cheating on me with a co-worker. I was very upset none the less. I understand what she did was wrong, but I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So I'm willing to forgive and move on. We have been together for a little over...
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship with my fianc� and I currently found out that she's been cheating on me with a co-worker. I was very upset none the less. I understand what she did was wrong, but I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So I'm willing to forgive and move on. We have been together for a little over...
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship with my fianc� and I currently found out that she's been cheating on me with a co-worker. I was very upset none the less. I understand what she did was wrong, but I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So I'm willing to forgive and move on. We have been together for a little over...
<s> [INST] We went out had great sex and I was really liking her. Then one day she says we should just be friends, but I can't stop thinking about her. She's always on mind and I want her back.[/INST]It can be really difficult when someone you care about doesn't feel the same about you. The most important thing to reme...
<s> [INST] I know someone who is extremely sensitive to stress and very sensitive to a negative tone of voice. Sometimes during a disagreement he tells me that my communication is having a harmful impact on him. Once he believes I am being negative I can't seem to find a better way of communicating. In fact, it is ofte...
<s> [INST] What do I do if I have been feeling like I could never be with anyone because no one would want me. Or I couldn't have many friends because of who I am. It's strange I want to be loved but I'd hate to be because I always lose.[/INST]As a relationship therapist I work with a lot of people who feel similar fee...
<s> [INST] What do I do if I have been feeling like I could never be with anyone because no one would want me. Or I couldn't have many friends because of who I am. It's strange I want to be loved but I'd hate to be because I always lose.[/INST]I'm sorry you are feeling uncared for. I'm sure there are plenty of people t...
<s> [INST] What do I do if I have been feeling like I could never be with anyone because no one would want me. Or I couldn't have many friends because of who I am. It's strange I want to be loved but I'd hate to be because I always lose.[/INST]What would make you feel no one wants to be with you?</s>
<s> [INST] He goes out with her to dinner/brunch/movies when we are not together (we live 2 hours apart).[/INST]Would you have the same desire to meet this friend if she were a he? If you are concerned that their friendship is a substitute for you when you aren't present,�talk to him. It sounds like you are concerned t...
<s> [INST] We kissed and he grabbed my boobs and we exchanged some texts and a few calls. It went on for about 8 months. Just when we were all together and our spouses were out of the room. Once I met him for lunch to tell him that we needed to stop. We ended up kissing after lunch and then I sent him a few more texts ...
<s> [INST] He is in his late thirties and I am in my mid twenties. We have been together for about 5 months. I really like him. He says he cares about me and is willing to fight to make things right. He has been very apologetic and expressed he did it out of fear. I don't know if it's worth giving him a second chance.[...
<s> [INST] However, it seems as though he is really talking to someone other than himself. I have even accused him of having a secret phone. Is he trying to make me crazy on purpose, or is he really talking to himself?[/INST]Some people simply talk to themselves as a way of processing information. Have you checked in w...
<s> [INST] I keep getting into relationships with men that are in bad situations. I take them on and help them and do all I can and the relationship still fails. How do I learn to not get in relationships with men in bad situations? I see someone in need of help, I jump in. And it is getting me nowhere. I am alone sad ...
<s> [INST] My girlfriend's grandma passed away 5 months ago. They were very close. She took care of her till she died. Things kinda returned to normal few weeks later. Last month it feels like we hit a brick wall. Intimacy fell off. I asked what's up. She says she can't connect with anyone and that it's not me. She use...
<s> [INST] I'm currently dating someone else and I really like him. But I love and miss my ex so much. What do I do?[/INST]Finding the right person is a tricky thing to do. Why did you and your ex break up 3 months ago? In relationships with others you get to see a reflection of yourself. Sometimes you may enjoy that r...
<s> [INST] We have been fighting a lot and have 3 kids but we both want to stay together. I need some help to save our family.[/INST]Hello, I do not live in the California area. However, perhaps I could make some suggestions as to where you might look for free counseling. First, I must mention that most insurances now ...
<s> [INST] I find myself lying about small everyday things that there is really no need to lie about. How do I figure out what triggers me to do this? And how do I help overcome this problem? I would like to become more honest and open no matter the situation.[/INST]Well let's start with the awesome realization you've ...
<s> [INST] I have dog obsession disorder and I am having problems with my girlfriend because I am placing more importance to my two dogs over her. How do I get over this problem and prioritize my girlfriend over my two dogs?[/INST]Hey, dogs are cool. They adore pleasing humans and often LOVE to work on learning what yo...
<s> [INST] He's been losing feelings and he doesn't know why. I love him very very much. He sometimes thinks I'm obsessed when I'm not at all. I give him his space and I make sure he's okay but sometimes I think if me and him saw each other more it would be better? I truly want me and him to get better, it's kind of ha...
<s> [INST] We do communicate but one of us has trouble accepting what the other person says. How can I fix things?[/INST]Being able to accept your partner's influence is a key relationship skill. And it's very two sided. �Chances are if you don't feel your partner is being influenced by you, they likely don't feel you ...
<s> [INST] I haven't uttered one word to my boyfriend in days. Now I'm over it and don't know how to approach the situation?[/INST]In any relationship, it is important to be able to say "I'm sorry" because it shows vulnerability and openness. I recommend that you sit and have a discussion with him now that you are calm...
<s> [INST] I've been abused emotionally all of my life and for some reason I keep getting with men that I let emotionally abused me. How can I stop it? I know the mistakes that I've made in my life. I'm having a really hard time getting back on my feet. Can you help me please?[/INST]I want to applaud you for taking th...
<s> [INST] I have been with a guy for 4 years, he's a great guy and we also have a son together. The problem is that I'm in love with a guy that I've been talking to for about 2 years but I've never met him in person. Honestly I'm bored with the relationship I have with the first guy and he makes want to go after the s...
<s> [INST] I have been with this guy on and off for 8 years. At first, we used to do things together and our sex life was ok. Then things started to change, we'd break up and reconnect, and he cheated on me numerous times. We've also had two beautiful baby girls during this time. Now we argue and he says I am not affec...
<s> [INST] Me and my girlfriend just broke up. She said she loves me but is not in love anymore. This came out of nowhere. We seemed so happy together. It all started when she went to Missouri to visit her family. The first week she was there she was fine then once she went to this one sister�s house everything changed...
<s> [INST] After 40 years of being straight, how could I now find myself interested in people of the same sex? I have had a few same sex encounters of my own doing.[/INST]What most people don't know is that sexual preferences can be fluid, meaning our sexual orientation is not as fixed as most people believe.� Women in...
<s> [INST] After 40 years of being straight, how could I now find myself interested in people of the same sex? I have had a few same sex encounters of my own doing.[/INST]Sexuality is normally formed during adolescence. It would be extremely rare for someone to develop feelings of same-sex attraction later in life. I w...
<s> [INST] After 40 years of being straight, how could I now find myself interested in people of the same sex? I have had a few same sex encounters of my own doing.[/INST]Few people are actually 100% straight or 100% gay. �Sexual preference exists on a continuum. Over the course of many years a person's sexual preferen...
<s> [INST] After 40 years of being straight, how could I now find myself interested in people of the same sex? I have had a few same sex encounters of my own doing.[/INST]Sexuality is fluid. It is possible to find yourself attracted sexually or affectionally to different types of people at different times in your life....
<s> [INST] After 40 years of being straight, how could I now find myself interested in people of the same sex? I have had a few same sex encounters of my own doing.[/INST]During these encounters did you feel safe? accepted? Where you able to experience something new in your life?�It is natural to feel attraction to all...
<s> [INST] After 40 years of being straight, how could I now find myself interested in people of the same sex? I have had a few same sex encounters of my own doing.[/INST]There are many possible answers to your question.The best one will be the one you decide after reflecting on your own reasoning as to your sexual att...
<s> [INST] I'm a girl, and I can't tell whether I'm bisexual or gay. I like girls a little more than boys, but I don't really know.[/INST]I would ask you, "do you feel like you need to come up with a label?" Is there something about identifying as one or the other that would be helpful for you? From what current scienc...
<s> [INST] I'm a girl, and I can't tell whether I'm bisexual or gay. I like girls a little more than boys, but I don't really know.[/INST]Sexual orientation is not always something that is clearly definable. Some people look at it on a continuum where being attracted to only boys is at one end, only girls is at the oth...
<s> [INST] What should I do when we see each other?[/INST]I am so sorry this happened. �Sharing a part of your private life without your permission can be so painful. �I might suggest (depending on your relationship) reaching out to your sister and discussing this (or setting boundary that you don't want to discuss you...
<s> [INST] What should I do when we see each other?[/INST]Echoing others here, I'm sorry, she shouldn't have. Hopefully, you will have a conversation (or, in reality, several conversations) about relationship expectations of privacy~ Are there things your wife would prefer you not share with her family? Without explori...
<s> [INST] What should I do when we see each other?[/INST]I am so sorry that this happened. �Nobody deserves to be outed without their permission. �I would encourage you to get in touch with someone who is supportive and accepting and plan to touch base with them after you see your wife's sister. �You can also plan to ...
<s> [INST] I was born a girl. I look like a boy. I sometimes feel like a different variation of gender. I don't know what to say if someone asks my gender. I just get really confused and usually say my birth gender.[/INST]Hi, as an affirming gender therapist I like to let people know that like sexuality, gender is a sp...
<s> [INST] I was born a girl. I look like a boy. I sometimes feel like a different variation of gender. I don't know what to say if someone asks my gender. I just get really confused and usually say my birth gender.[/INST]If you're feeling like your gender is different than the gender you are born with, and there are m...
<s> [INST] I was born a girl. I look like a boy. I sometimes feel like a different variation of gender. I don't know what to say if someone asks my gender. I just get really confused and usually say my birth gender.[/INST]I agree with Sherry, it is OK to give the answer that you feel most familiar with. �The most impor...
<s> [INST] I was born a girl. I look like a boy. I sometimes feel like a different variation of gender. I don't know what to say if someone asks my gender. I just get really confused and usually say my birth gender.[/INST]It is ok to tell someone who is casually asking about your gender, what is written on your birth c...
<s> [INST] I've been going through a rough time lately. I been into nothing but women. I�ve never thought about men until a week ago. I�m very upset and depressed about this. It's not normal to me. I looked at gay porn more than once to prove that I�m not gay. I get the same results each time, and I feel disgust. This ...
<s> [INST] I've been going through a rough time lately. I been into nothing but women. I�ve never thought about men until a week ago. I�m very upset and depressed about this. It's not normal to me. I looked at gay porn more than once to prove that I�m not gay. I get the same results each time, and I feel disgust. This ...
<s> [INST] I've been going through a rough time lately. I been into nothing but women. I�ve never thought about men until a week ago. I�m very upset and depressed about this. It's not normal to me. I looked at gay porn more than once to prove that I�m not gay. I get the same results each time, and I feel disgust. This ...