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survivorsofabuse | 6ajh8q | [0, 5] | Some monsters are real. I was abused by some as a kid and I was recently reminded that they are still out there. I sometimes manage to find myself in reddit threads with discussions about pedophilia. It bothers me to see people defending pedophila and I often feel the need to respond. I think it seemed a safe way to vent anger at surrogates for my abusers and I think I wanted a chance to say what I never had the chance to say as an abused kid. | 1,535 | 1 | 0.6 | 1,494,501,735 | 12 | 3.856282 | 88 | 71.61 | 32.48 | 80.39 | 1 | 17.6 | 14.77 | 90.91 | 55.68 | 18.18 | 13.64 | 12.5 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.14 | 4.55 | 6.82 | 17.05 | 5.68 | 5.68 | 5.68 | 1.14 | 18.18 | 4.55 | 3.41 | 1.14 | 0 | 2.27 | 7.95 | 1.14 | 6.82 | 0 | 5.68 | 0 | 9.09 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 15.91 | 5.68 | 0 | 2.27 | 7.95 | 1.14 | 0 | 4.55 | 1.14 | 2.27 | 1.14 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.68 | 0 | 0 | 3.41 | 0 | 2.27 | 5.68 | 11.36 | 0 | 10.23 | 0 | 4.55 | 5.68 | 1.14 | 1.14 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.14 | 0 | 1.14 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.68 | 5.68 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1 | 1.2 | 1 | 1.79797 | 1.45479 | 1.91717 | 1 | 6 | 4.599221 | 0 |
almosthomeless | 8os177 | [16, 21] | I’m freaking out and I don’t know what to do. I have no resources, my family is worse off then me. And I have to pay for everything on my own including phone and car insurance. Someone help, or help me find someone who can. Thank you so much for reading. | 1,113 | 1 | 1 | 1,528,214,840 | 21 | 0.493648 | 51 | 5.31 | 34.73 | 95.79 | 5.16 | 10.2 | 15.69 | 98.04 | 68.63 | 27.45 | 17.65 | 15.69 | 0 | 1.96 | 0 | 0 | 9.8 | 0 | 15.69 | 13.73 | 1.96 | 11.76 | 3.92 | 19.61 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 3.92 | 0 | 1.96 | 5.88 | 1.96 | 3.92 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 17.65 | 1.96 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.76 | 3.92 | 0 | 0 | 5.88 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 0 | 1.96 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.84 | 5.88 | 0 | 3.92 | 0 | 1.96 | 0 | 21.57 | 1.96 | 9.8 | 1.96 | 5.88 | 1.96 | 3.92 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 3.92 | 0 | 0 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 17.65 | 9.8 | 3.92 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.92 | 0 | 0 | 2.4444 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1.1429 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.83125 | 1.55833 | 1.9276 | 0.69 | 28 | 2.54934 | 0.133333 |
survivorsofabuse | 871ik7 | (5, 10) | I met my current boyfriend (42M), let’s call him V, back in November. Things were fine, there were no red flags. We dated about a month before one day I went to warm up his coffee for him and he started screaming at me for doing it wrong, and to never do it again. I have PTSD from being raped and abused, and I get uncomfortable when guys yell in the vicinity of me, when they yell at me, it’s debilitating. He knew this as I make it very clear to potential significant others. | 18,292 | 1 | 1 | 1,521,993,067 | 10 | 3.513108 | 94 | 18.64 | 58.41 | 77.49 | 1 | 18.8 | 10.64 | 92.55 | 62.77 | 25.53 | 18.09 | 9.57 | 2.13 | 0 | 5.32 | 1.06 | 7.45 | 2.13 | 15.96 | 7.45 | 8.51 | 7.45 | 2.13 | 17.02 | 7.45 | 2.13 | 2.13 | 1.06 | 0 | 9.57 | 2.13 | 7.45 | 1.06 | 4.26 | 0 | 12.77 | 0 | 2.13 | 0 | 7.45 | 6.38 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 0 | 1.06 | 2.13 | 1.06 | 6.38 | 2.13 | 3.19 | 1.06 | 2.13 | 0 | 0 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 8.51 | 4.26 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 6.38 | 9.57 | 1.06 | 19.15 | 1.06 | 6.38 | 12.77 | 0 | 1.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 17.02 | 5.32 | 7.45 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.13 | 2.13 | 0 | 2.6667 | 2.8571 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.70671 | 1.56456 | 1.85134 | 0.92 | 16 | 4.777172 | 0.052167 |
survivorsofabuse | 6tpicz | (10, 15) | My youngest who was 6 at the time had what seemed to be a bladder infection or UTI (urinary tract infection). She was literally peeing every five minutes. Since the doctors office was closed, I took her to the emergency room. Little did I know, my entire world was about to come crashing down. The nurses got us back to a room and once they were done checking her out and had her urine to test, we had to wait for the doctor. | 7,237 | 1 | 0.6 | 1,502,745,221 | 20 | 4.383414 | 83 | 72.69 | 72.65 | 62.38 | 25.77 | 16.6 | 13.25 | 90.36 | 56.63 | 15.66 | 13.25 | 4.82 | 2.41 | 0 | 4.82 | 1.2 | 2.41 | 8.43 | 14.46 | 13.25 | 2.41 | 3.61 | 0 | 20.48 | 1.2 | 1.2 | 2.41 | 3.61 | 2.41 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.64 | 0 | 0 | 4.82 | 0 | 7.23 | 2.41 | 1.2 | 0 | 2.41 | 2.41 | 1.2 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.64 | 3.61 | 6.02 | 0 | 0 | 8.43 | 2.41 | 0 | 3.61 | 2.41 | 0 | 15.66 | 4.82 | 0 | 19.28 | 1.2 | 10.84 | 8.43 | 4.82 | 0 | 2.41 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.05 | 6.02 | 3.61 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.41 | 0 | 2.6667 | 2.7273 | 3 | 1 | 1.2 | 1 | 1.64001 | 1.61875 | 1.79795 | 0.96 | 8 | 4.732711 | -0.088611 |
stress | 9tbgl3 | [3, 8] | I´m stressing this entire fall break, I´ve been learning for 5 days for about 8-10 hours a day, and I haven´t finished nothing, even after making a schedule (breaks every 45 minutes, dedicating one day to one thing). When I feel stressed, I feel like I´m about to throw up (or I´m about to cry) and I get anxious to the point of total mental breakdown. I have ADHD and stress gets to me really easily, because I can´t keep my attention in place. Any ideas on what to do in this situation? PS: I am 50/50 INFP/INTP-T (50/50 dominant and inferior functions), that might have something to do with it but I´m not quite sure about it. | 1,908 | 1 | 1 | 1,541,092,950 | 2 | 5.206054 | 130 | 57.94 | 6.21 | 96.04 | 1 | 26 | 13.08 | 80 | 50.77 | 16.92 | 10.77 | 10.77 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.15 | 2.31 | 16.15 | 6.15 | 5.38 | 6.15 | 1.54 | 13.08 | 3.08 | 1.54 | 1.54 | 7.69 | 3.08 | 6.92 | 1.54 | 5.38 | 3.08 | 0.77 | 1.54 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 15.38 | 3.85 | 1.54 | 0 | 3.85 | 3.85 | 3.08 | 1.54 | 0 | 0 | 1.54 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.85 | 0 | 0.77 | 2.31 | 1.54 | 0 | 1.54 | 9.23 | 0.77 | 13.85 | 1.54 | 5.38 | 6.15 | 1.54 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 23.85 | 3.08 | 5.38 | 0.77 | 0 | 0.77 | 0 | 1.54 | 0 | 0 | 4.62 | 7.69 | 2.7143 | 2.7143 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.74579 | 1.50833 | 1.80516 | 0.75 | 1 | 5.521973 | 0.097222 |
anxiety | 7zlm5t | [10, 15] | Why can’t I? I’d also add my dad was a bush pilot and I work in the travel industry so I know how safe it is. Why can’t I get over it? **Edit** I’ve rebooked my flight for this morning. I just have to do this. | 858 | 1 | 0.571429 | 1,519,362,549 | 11 | -4.329 | 46 | 1 | 1 | 99 | 66.89 | 9.2 | 6.52 | 95.65 | 69.57 | 28.26 | 19.57 | 19.57 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.7 | 4.35 | 8.7 | 13.04 | 13.04 | 8.7 | 4.35 | 19.57 | 2.17 | 0 | 6.52 | 0 | 2.17 | 2.17 | 2.17 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.17 | 2.17 | 0 | 0 | 2.17 | 13.04 | 2.17 | 6.52 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.04 | 0 | 2.17 | 4.35 | 4.35 | 2.17 | 2.17 | 23.91 | 0 | 10.87 | 4.35 | 4.35 | 2.17 | 6.52 | 2.17 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 28.26 | 6.52 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.7 | 0 | 8.7 | 2.625 | 3 | 3 | 1.2857 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.67263 | 1.49474 | 1.94497 | 0.92 | 4 | 0.048 | 0.5 |
anxiety | 6veeaj | [2, 7] | Public speaking in class frequently reduced me to tears in front of the class and I could think of nothing else for weeks, from the moment it was assigned. Even listening to other people having a conversation is tiring to me, even if I'm not an active participant. As a kid I never wanted to have friends over or go to their houses because a full day of school and being around so many people was exhausting, and that is also true today at work - I just want to go home and be by myself. When I say something stupid or awkward I think about it for weeks and I still berate myself for things that happened in interactions with people ten years ago. Does any of this ring true with those of you with diagnosed SD? | 687 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,503,438,861 | 1 | 9.353696 | 137 | 52.26 | 38.5 | 84.17 | 15.5 | 27.4 | 11.68 | 97.81 | 62.04 | 16.06 | 9.49 | 8.03 | 0 | 0.73 | 0 | 0.73 | 6.57 | 4.38 | 19.71 | 8.03 | 8.03 | 9.49 | 2.19 | 15.33 | 5.11 | 0.73 | 0.73 | 0.73 | 1.46 | 5.11 | 2.19 | 2.92 | 0.73 | 0.73 | 0.73 | 10.95 | 0 | 0.73 | 0 | 0 | 13.87 | 2.19 | 0.73 | 2.92 | 3.65 | 2.92 | 4.38 | 2.92 | 0 | 2.92 | 0 | 2.19 | 0 | 2.19 | 0 | 0 | 4.38 | 2.19 | 0.73 | 1.46 | 0 | 0 | 3.65 | 10.22 | 0 | 15.33 | 1.46 | 5.84 | 8.03 | 3.65 | 0 | 1.46 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.3 | 2.92 | 2.19 | 0 | 0 | 0.73 | 0 | 0.73 | 0 | 0.73 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.75 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.70408 | 1.54309 | 1.87223 | 0.67 | 0 | 8.856812 | -0.034028 |
relationships | 7to4ms | (20, 25) | Her parents didn't know about me at this point. I kept this bottled in for a long time, but exploded and was ready to break up with her over it but she said she would stop being in touch with him. She claims he has mental issues and had threatened numerous times to commit suicide. If I take her at her word, there was no sexual contact between them after we started dating. This contributed to me not trusting her. | 38,655 | 1 | 1 | 1,517,182,893 | 2 | 4.450741 | 80 | 34.05 | 77.33 | 21.42 | 49 | 16 | 13.75 | 92.5 | 63.75 | 25 | 20 | 5 | 1.25 | 0 | 12.5 | 1.25 | 5 | 1.25 | 18.75 | 8.75 | 2.5 | 6.25 | 3.75 | 16.25 | 5 | 1.25 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.75 | 2.5 | 1.25 | 1.25 | 1.25 | 0 | 21.25 | 1.25 | 1.25 | 10 | 2.5 | 10 | 1.25 | 0 | 2.5 | 1.25 | 1.25 | 6.25 | 2.5 | 0 | 1.25 | 1.25 | 1.25 | 0 | 0 | 1.25 | 0 | 11.25 | 3.75 | 0 | 3.75 | 1.25 | 3.75 | 8.75 | 5 | 0 | 18.75 | 0 | 10 | 7.5 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.25 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10 | 6.25 | 2.5 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.25 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.5714 | 3 | 1 | 1.25 | 1 | 1.69725 | 1.59467 | 1.80934 | 1 | 1 | 4.679938 | -0.04 |
domesticviolence | 5lezhz | [14, 19] | He came after me a few times so I got away and called cops. He was arrested, restraining order in place and he also had unregistered gun and no licence for them so he may be in trouble for that also. The hard part is he was good to my son, and now he is abruptly gone which is best, but I am not not sure how to explain to him. he is six and very sensitive and the spent a lot of time together. tl;dr boyfriend got aggressive and is jailed, how to tell young son why bf is gone now and we have to move soon? | 313 | 1 | 0.571429 | 1,483,274,218 | 4 | 0.531035 | 109 | 9.9 | 79.55 | 22.74 | 42.41 | 21.8 | 10.09 | 93.58 | 62.39 | 14.68 | 12.84 | 3.67 | 0.92 | 0 | 7.34 | 0.92 | 1.83 | 3.67 | 11.01 | 11.93 | 10.09 | 13.76 | 2.75 | 21.1 | 6.42 | 1.83 | 3.67 | 0.92 | 2.75 | 4.59 | 2.75 | 1.83 | 0 | 0.92 | 0 | 16.51 | 1.83 | 1.83 | 0 | 11.01 | 9.17 | 0.92 | 2.75 | 0 | 1.83 | 0.92 | 2.75 | 0.92 | 0 | 0 | 0.92 | 0.92 | 0 | 0.92 | 0 | 0 | 11.01 | 3.67 | 0.92 | 3.67 | 3.67 | 0.92 | 9.17 | 12.84 | 1.83 | 16.51 | 3.67 | 4.59 | 7.34 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0.92 | 0 | 0 | 0.92 | 0 | 0.92 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.17 | 3.67 | 3.67 | 0 | 0.92 | 0.92 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 3 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.72639 | 1.544 | 1.79885 | 0.84 | 3 | 2.442795 | 0.076333 |
relationships | 7ronkg | (0, 5) | **Tl;dr: Thinking my 2 friends who broke-up are soulmates but may be both heading for a second-best option. ** Very long post, please read only if you are interested in complicated realtionships and take it maybe as a short novel. I have 2 friends who got together when 19, they were inseparable, instant soulmates, I know they imagined their whole life together almost immediately, never even thinking they can break-up. For 10 years, they were the best couple I know, not fighting, respecting each other greatly and having a "higher" connection. | 55,699 | 0 | 1 | 1,516,428,017 | 0 | 7.243502 | 94 | 25.34 | 73.84 | 97.67 | 97.74 | 23.5 | 21.28 | 91.49 | 50 | 14.89 | 10.64 | 4.26 | 0 | 1.06 | 0 | 5.32 | 4.26 | 4.26 | 7.45 | 9.57 | 8.51 | 6.38 | 2.13 | 18.09 | 6.38 | 4.26 | 3.19 | 5.32 | 4.26 | 9.57 | 7.45 | 2.13 | 0 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 15.96 | 0 | 4.26 | 0 | 0 | 15.96 | 6.38 | 0 | 1.06 | 5.32 | 1.06 | 4.26 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.13 | 0 | 2.13 | 0 | 0 | 15.96 | 6.38 | 2.13 | 7.45 | 4.26 | 0 | 4.26 | 8.51 | 2.13 | 19.15 | 1.06 | 10.64 | 5.32 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 24.47 | 4.26 | 8.51 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 0 | 0 | 3.19 | 2.13 | 0 | 0 | 4.26 | 2.8333 | 2.8 | 2.8 | 1.1111 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.67393 | 1.45205 | 1.8728 | 0.36 | 18 | 7.101106 | 0.164545 |
relationships | 7ttoqq | [25, 30] | Especially because Jeff drinks and does drugs, which is very inconsistent with my lifestyle. Overall I regret agreeing to have him -- my bf and I have ruminated over it in couples counseling multiple times :( --- **tl;dr**: My boyfriend's brother is an almost college grad with very little direction. My bf wants him to move to our (expensive) city with no job and live in our 50/50 shared condo rent free. | 271 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,517,245,223 | 143 | 3.78846 | 72 | 45.11 | 75.64 | 11.8 | 51.78 | 24 | 20.83 | 88.89 | 50 | 16.67 | 13.89 | 8.33 | 2.78 | 0 | 2.78 | 0 | 2.78 | 1.39 | 12.5 | 6.94 | 5.56 | 5.56 | 1.39 | 12.5 | 1.39 | 0 | 1.39 | 2.78 | 1.39 | 6.94 | 4.17 | 2.78 | 0 | 0 | 1.39 | 13.89 | 1.39 | 4.17 | 0 | 8.33 | 8.33 | 0 | 1.39 | 2.78 | 2.78 | 1.39 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.56 | 0 | 4.17 | 0 | 1.39 | 12.5 | 9.72 | 0 | 2.78 | 0 | 0 | 1.39 | 11.11 | 1.39 | 11.11 | 1.39 | 8.33 | 1.39 | 5.56 | 1.39 | 2.78 | 4.17 | 0 | 0 | 4.17 | 0 | 4.17 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 26.39 | 4.17 | 1.39 | 1.39 | 1.39 | 0 | 0 | 6.94 | 0 | 1.39 | 2.78 | 6.94 | 2.875 | 2.6667 | 3 | 1.1667 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.76836 | 1.57857 | 1.89908 | 0.91 | 60 | 4.131905 | -0.055739 |
domesticviolence | 6ck72m | (40, 45) | So I drank wine and I started crying and since my husband was constantly telling me that I ruined his life and he regrets being married to me and I'm the devil and blah blah, for the first time in my life I picked up the knife and I thought I should just kill my self. When my husband saw me he started screaming and snatched the knife away from me and said I am trying to get him into trouble by committing suicide. He kicked me and spat on me. I kept on try to explain to him that I can't take him blaming me for everything and he believes everything he says so hard that every works out of my mouth is a lie. I tried telling him I am trying to fix myself. | 13,792 | 1 | 1 | 1,495,414,828 | 7 | 3.882101 | 136 | 21.35 | 35.64 | 61.77 | 1 | 27.2 | 14.71 | 96.32 | 62.5 | 29.41 | 25.74 | 18.38 | 0 | 0 | 7.35 | 0 | 3.68 | 3.68 | 13.24 | 5.15 | 3.68 | 9.56 | 0.74 | 21.32 | 0.74 | 0 | 0.74 | 0.74 | 0.74 | 5.88 | 0 | 5.88 | 0 | 1.47 | 2.21 | 16.18 | 2.21 | 0 | 0 | 8.82 | 11.03 | 2.21 | 1.47 | 1.47 | 2.21 | 2.94 | 0.74 | 3.68 | 0.74 | 2.21 | 0.74 | 4.41 | 1.47 | 1.47 | 0 | 1.47 | 9.56 | 2.21 | 4.41 | 0.74 | 1.47 | 0.74 | 8.09 | 8.82 | 0 | 10.29 | 0 | 5.15 | 5.15 | 0.74 | 0.74 | 0 | 0 | 0.74 | 1.47 | 1.47 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.47 | 5.88 | 3.68 | 0.74 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.47 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.8571 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.79315 | 1.6672 | 1.91112 | 1 | 10 | 4.66971 | -0.041667 |
domesticviolence | 7etlqf | [5, 10] | When I grew up, my parents were always working and were never home, didn't express interest in spending time with their children. I was alone all the time and it made me depressed. I wasn't able to make many friends because my parents never drove me to see people. I did parental duties for my siblings. I made my sister meals when she was 7 years old losing weight because my parents never cooked for her. | 1,642 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,511,379,340 | 6 | 5.934615 | 76 | 7.38 | 21.49 | 98.54 | 2.51 | 15.2 | 18.42 | 98.68 | 52.63 | 21.05 | 19.74 | 15.79 | 0 | 0 | 2.63 | 1.32 | 1.32 | 1.32 | 9.21 | 9.21 | 6.58 | 7.89 | 6.58 | 21.05 | 1.32 | 0 | 2.63 | 1.32 | 2.63 | 5.26 | 1.32 | 3.95 | 0 | 0 | 3.95 | 17.11 | 7.89 | 1.32 | 3.95 | 0 | 15.79 | 0 | 6.58 | 0 | 0 | 6.58 | 2.63 | 2.63 | 1.32 | 0 | 1.32 | 5.26 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.26 | 15.79 | 9.21 | 3.95 | 2.63 | 0 | 1.32 | 14.47 | 2.63 | 0 | 18.42 | 2.63 | 2.63 | 13.16 | 2.63 | 2.63 | 1.32 | 1.32 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.84 | 6.58 | 2.63 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.63 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.8333 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.78683 | 1.67945 | 1.95879 | 0.88 | 6 | 5.470923 | 0.366667 |
domesticviolence | 7x72so | [10, 15] | Broken bones, concussion. He broke my glasses in half, destroyed my TV and dvd player. He tore my clothes off but luckily didn't rape me. He did however scare me so much that I twice defecated in his room. The kicks to my face came about every 15-20 mins, when he would work himself up while yelling. | 1,891 | 1 | 1 | 1,518,498,052 | 5 | 3.230169 | 58 | 13.09 | 19.44 | 36.73 | 1 | 11.6 | 15.52 | 84.48 | 51.72 | 24.14 | 22.41 | 12.07 | 0 | 0 | 10.34 | 0 | 1.72 | 1.72 | 10.34 | 5.17 | 6.9 | 10.34 | 1.72 | 10.34 | 1.72 | 0 | 1.72 | 6.9 | 3.45 | 10.34 | 1.72 | 8.62 | 1.72 | 5.17 | 1.72 | 10.34 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.34 | 10.34 | 0 | 0 | 1.72 | 1.72 | 1.72 | 5.17 | 1.72 | 0 | 1.72 | 0 | 6.9 | 5.17 | 0 | 1.72 | 0 | 5.17 | 0 | 1.72 | 3.45 | 0 | 0 | 6.9 | 1.72 | 0 | 13.79 | 1.72 | 8.62 | 3.45 | 1.72 | 3.45 | 1.72 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 17.24 | 8.62 | 5.17 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.72 | 0 | 1.72 | 0 | 0 | 2.375 | 2.7 | 3 | 1.125 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.75105 | 1.82667 | 1.84203 | 1 | 3 | 3.612 | -0.008333 |
ptsd | 633tqg | (20, 25) | - Your letter or email has a medium-chance of being the nudge that convinces the foundation to take a closer look. **Next step** Please enter your name and email here, and I'll send info **[Google form for your name and <url> If you can't help out directly, I'd really appreciate if you share this page or form with anyone who might fit. | 35,628 | 0 | 1 | 1,491,184,278 | 7 | 0.408507 | 62 | 31.06 | 96.18 | 90.96 | 96.14 | 31 | 6.45 | 88.71 | 53.23 | 17.74 | 11.29 | 3.23 | 0 | 8.06 | 0 | 0 | 6.45 | 6.45 | 8.06 | 8.06 | 3.23 | 11.29 | 1.61 | 14.52 | 3.23 | 1.61 | 1.61 | 0 | 0 | 4.84 | 4.84 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 24.19 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 20.97 | 4.84 | 0 | 3.23 | 11.29 | 1.61 | 9.68 | 1.61 | 1.61 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.84 | 3.23 | 0 | 1.61 | 1.61 | 0 | 0 | 11.29 | 3.23 | 14.52 | 4.84 | 8.06 | 1.61 | 1.61 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 29.03 | 3.23 | 3.23 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.23 | 0 | 4.84 | 0 | 14.52 | 2.75 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1.25 | 1 | 1 | 1.65966 | 1.5375 | 1.8257 | 0.82 | 0 | 1.81703 | 0.2 |
anxiety | 8s2o5w | (8, 13) | I live in a different country than where I'm from and I feel like all my actual friends are back home and that I have very few good friends in this country that I can talk to and who want to spend time with me. I just suddenly don't really know what to do with myself or what I want. Like I'm kinda stuck and going nowhere and I hate feeling so insignificant. I don't know, maybe I'm making a big deal for nothing and my anxiety is getting to me. I have CBT tomorrow so I know I'll have a chance to talk about it there but I just feel so hopeless today and didn't know where else to turn but to reddit. | 19,930 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,529,352,983 | 2 | 3.763836 | 124 | 5.63 | 1.25 | 99 | 7.28 | 24.8 | 11.29 | 98.39 | 66.13 | 21.77 | 16.13 | 16.13 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.65 | 2.42 | 13.71 | 11.29 | 11.29 | 10.48 | 4.03 | 24.19 | 4.03 | 3.23 | 4.03 | 0 | 1.61 | 3.23 | 0.81 | 2.42 | 0.81 | 0.81 | 0.81 | 4.03 | 0 | 1.61 | 0 | 0 | 19.35 | 5.65 | 0.81 | 1.61 | 3.23 | 2.42 | 6.45 | 2.42 | 0 | 0 | 2.42 | 1.61 | 0 | 1.61 | 0 | 0 | 5.65 | 1.61 | 0 | 2.42 | 1.61 | 0 | 1.61 | 21.77 | 2.42 | 12.9 | 1.61 | 8.06 | 4.03 | 0 | 0.81 | 0.81 | 0.81 | 0 | 0 | 1.61 | 0 | 1.61 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.48 | 4.03 | 0.81 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.65 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.8 | 3 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.68359 | 1.4069 | 1.93479 | 1 | 1 | 5.028311 | -0.002626 |
relationships | 7on4th | [0, 5] | Hey, I (m, 18) don't know, what I should do, about my brother. Apart from many different things that are bothering me about him this one is at the moment a big problem, because I often have people here at my house: He doesn't clean the bathroom, which means he doesn't flush the toilet, pees on the ground, leaves sometimes condoms laying around etc. He doesn't listen to my parents or me. | 265 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,515,284,110 | 1 | 10.076667 | 72 | 17.96 | 20.24 | 74.76 | 2.09 | 24 | 12.5 | 91.67 | 59.72 | 23.61 | 16.67 | 11.11 | 0 | 0 | 5.56 | 0 | 6.94 | 6.94 | 11.11 | 12.5 | 6.94 | 2.78 | 5.56 | 18.06 | 4.17 | 1.39 | 2.78 | 2.78 | 1.39 | 2.78 | 0 | 2.78 | 0 | 1.39 | 0 | 12.5 | 2.78 | 0 | 0 | 6.94 | 13.89 | 2.78 | 1.39 | 2.78 | 4.17 | 0 | 4.17 | 1.39 | 0 | 1.39 | 0 | 1.39 | 0 | 1.39 | 1.39 | 0 | 5.56 | 2.78 | 0 | 1.39 | 0 | 1.39 | 0 | 15.28 | 0 | 15.28 | 1.39 | 9.72 | 4.17 | 0 | 1.39 | 2.78 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.39 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 25 | 4.17 | 11.11 | 1.39 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.56 | 2.78 | 0 | 2.5714 | 2.625 | 3 | 1.1111 | 1 | 1 | 1.69523 | 1.68525 | 1.84189 | 0.57 | 5 | 8.729474 | 0.166667 |
assistance | 7rrtvl | (5, 10) | If you would like to donate, please go to: <url> My fundraising goal is high and I am struggling to reach it, so donations would be very much appreciated. You can also see what I have done so far to collect money if you click the link. Any donations are welcome, no matter how big or small. It would also be greatly appreciated if you could share this. | 45,927 | 0 | 0.8 | 1,516,470,342 | 1 | 3.041476 | 68 | 1.42 | 61.58 | 9.79 | 99 | 17 | 14.71 | 91.18 | 58.82 | 16.18 | 10.29 | 4.41 | 0 | 5.88 | 0 | 0 | 5.88 | 1.47 | 5.88 | 17.65 | 8.82 | 14.71 | 1.47 | 20.59 | 5.88 | 0 | 2.94 | 0 | 2.94 | 10.29 | 8.82 | 1.47 | 1.47 | 0 | 0 | 8.82 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.12 | 4.41 | 1.47 | 10.29 | 7.35 | 0 | 5.88 | 2.94 | 1.47 | 1.47 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.71 | 7.35 | 1.47 | 5.88 | 1.47 | 0 | 1.47 | 16.18 | 0 | 8.82 | 1.47 | 7.35 | 0 | 1.47 | 0 | 0 | 5.88 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.71 | 5.88 | 4.41 | 1.47 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.94 | 2.7778 | 2.5714 | 3 | 1.2308 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.66715 | 1.36 | 1.99138 | 0.53 | 0 | 4.468571 | 0.172857 |
domesticviolence | 61qatw | (45, 50) | She doesn't pay for my tuition yet constantly puts me down by calling me dumb. Anyone have any tips on how to survive the next week? So far I've been playing super loud music in my headphones whenever she tries to come up and say something to me but I'm looking for options that are less likely to end up in my going deaf haha. Any tips for how I can quickly forge a future without her in my life would be helpful too. I'm in my third year of college and am hoping to have a job after I graduate but at the moment I feel so chained down to her. | 11,055 | 1 | 0.6 | 1,490,591,310 | 6 | 4.23399 | 112 | 44.84 | 14.19 | 97.72 | 87.2 | 22.4 | 14.29 | 95.54 | 61.61 | 18.75 | 16.07 | 12.5 | 0 | 0 | 3.57 | 0 | 2.68 | 3.57 | 20.54 | 10.71 | 7.14 | 8.04 | 1.79 | 17.86 | 6.25 | 1.79 | 2.68 | 0.89 | 2.68 | 5.36 | 4.46 | 0.89 | 0 | 0.89 | 0 | 7.14 | 0 | 0 | 3.57 | 0 | 12.5 | 0.89 | 1.79 | 1.79 | 6.25 | 0 | 2.68 | 5.36 | 0.89 | 3.57 | 0.89 | 1.79 | 0 | 1.79 | 0 | 0 | 7.14 | 0.89 | 2.68 | 3.57 | 0 | 0 | 0.89 | 13.39 | 2.68 | 22.32 | 3.57 | 9.82 | 9.82 | 3.57 | 1.79 | 0 | 1.79 | 0 | 0 | 1.79 | 0.89 | 0.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.04 | 3.57 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.57 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 3 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.73035 | 1.59615 | 1.89025 | 1 | 3 | 5.521133 | 0.007593 |
anxiety | 6mlgi9 | [0, 5] | I blame myself. Almost all the time. Especially when I feel bad, I see the uncomfortable feelings as wrong in the first place, and that it's my fault that I feel bad. This makes me feel worse. When I feel worse because I hate myself, I hate myself for hating myself for feeling bad. | 931 | 1 | 1 | 1,499,770,645 | 4 | 2.995636 | 54 | 11.88 | 1.38 | 99 | 1 | 10.8 | 9.26 | 100 | 55.56 | 31.48 | 24.07 | 24.07 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.41 | 5.56 | 7.41 | 1.85 | 7.41 | 9.26 | 0 | 20.37 | 7.41 | 5.56 | 3.7 | 1.85 | 1.85 | 22.22 | 0 | 22.22 | 1.85 | 7.41 | 0 | 1.85 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 20.37 | 11.11 | 3.7 | 0 | 1.85 | 3.7 | 0 | 12.96 | 1.85 | 0 | 11.11 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.81 | 0 | 1.85 | 0 | 0 | 12.96 | 0 | 20.37 | 0 | 11.11 | 0 | 3.7 | 7.41 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 16.67 | 9.26 | 5.56 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.85 | 0 | 0 | 2.7143 | 2.5 | 2.6 | 1 | 1.3333 | 1 | 1.83493 | 1.58776 | 1.9313 | 0.83 | 1 | 3.718182 | -0.477273 |
ptsd | 83z8rm | (0, 5) | If you have a survey you would like to share with us, you may do so here, please use the following format. Failure to do so will result in your survey being removed. Surveys not posted in here will result in a ban, the length of which will be decided at mods' pleasure. __Who I am__: _(Student, Researcher)_ __Affiliation__: _(university, company)_ | 40,155 | 0 | 1 | 1,520,894,169 | 25 | 0.901194 | 61 | 38.49 | 92.99 | 14.89 | 96.45 | 15.25 | 19.67 | 90.16 | 60.66 | 13.11 | 9.84 | 1.64 | 1.64 | 6.56 | 0 | 0 | 3.28 | 6.56 | 13.11 | 18.03 | 6.56 | 4.92 | 1.64 | 24.59 | 0 | 0 | 3.28 | 0 | 0 | 8.2 | 6.56 | 1.64 | 0 | 0 | 1.64 | 13.11 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.11 | 1.64 | 4.92 | 3.28 | 3.28 | 0 | 3.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.2 | 4.92 | 1.64 | 3.28 | 0 | 1.64 | 3.28 | 11.48 | 6.56 | 11.48 | 3.28 | 8.2 | 0 | 8.2 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 44.26 | 4.92 | 8.2 | 3.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.64 | 6.56 | 19.67 | 3 | 2.625 | 2.8 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.71487 | 1.53462 | 1.88007 | 0.89 | 13 | 2.938794 | -0.158333 |
assistance | 6j1br0 | [0, 5] | Hey folks, greetings from India. A friend of mine from school's father was diagnosed with non-alcoholic liver cirrhosis back in 2012. His liver's degenerated, and he needs to get an immediate transplant. Surgery cost and post-op are heavy. Frequent hospitalization's eaten up most of their reserve cash, and since my friend's still in college there's not much he can do. | 704 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,498,226,122 | 12 | 6.429851 | 62 | 78.03 | 79.01 | 13.99 | 25.77 | 12.4 | 22.58 | 85.48 | 46.77 | 9.68 | 9.68 | 3.23 | 0 | 0 | 4.84 | 1.61 | 0 | 3.23 | 16.13 | 8.06 | 4.84 | 4.84 | 1.61 | 11.29 | 4.84 | 1.61 | 0 | 1.61 | 3.23 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.52 | 3.23 | 1.61 | 0 | 6.45 | 8.06 | 1.61 | 1.61 | 1.61 | 1.61 | 0 | 1.61 | 1.61 | 0 | 0 | 1.61 | 11.29 | 3.23 | 6.45 | 0 | 3.23 | 8.06 | 3.23 | 0 | 3.23 | 1.61 | 0 | 3.23 | 9.68 | 0 | 14.52 | 0 | 6.45 | 8.06 | 1.61 | 1.61 | 0 | 3.23 | 0 | 0 | 3.23 | 0 | 1.61 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 24.19 | 8.06 | 4.84 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.23 | 0 | 8.06 | 0 | 0 | 2.6667 | 2.625 | 3 | 1.125 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.69942 | 1.61333 | 1.81533 | 0.74 | 4 | 6.191224 | 0.06 |
assistance | 7vpyi0 | [5, 10] | Participation takes approximately 5 minutes, helps me reaching my sample goal and yields interesting results for yourself! After granting access to some smartphone data (more detailed descriptions are given within the app), you need to fill out a survey. That’s it! Any collected data will, of course, be processed anonymously. The only prerequisite is a smartphone with Android 4.4 or newer. | 85 | 0 | 1 | 1,517,946,079 | 1 | 9.155645 | 61 | 89.06 | 74.41 | 9.45 | 83.88 | 12.2 | 27.87 | 77.05 | 40.98 | 9.84 | 6.56 | 3.28 | 0 | 3.28 | 0 | 0 | 3.28 | 6.56 | 13.11 | 8.2 | 1.64 | 3.28 | 0 | 14.75 | 4.92 | 4.92 | 0 | 3.28 | 8.2 | 3.28 | 3.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.2 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.84 | 0 | 1.64 | 1.64 | 6.56 | 0 | 1.64 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.2 | 1.64 | 1.64 | 0 | 4.92 | 1.64 | 1.64 | 11.48 | 1.64 | 9.84 | 0 | 4.92 | 4.92 | 4.92 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.64 | 0 | 1.64 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.67 | 4.92 | 6.56 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.28 | 0 | 0 | 1.64 | 3.28 | 0 | 2.75 | 2.6 | 2.6 | 1.2857 | 1.1667 | 1 | 1.7339 | 1.53333 | 1.88149 | 0.56 | 0 | 8.658903 | 0.245 |
assistance | 7b8zwo | (0, 5) | Hi everyone. Last month my daughter was delivered 11 weeks early and will be in the NICU for the next couple months. It's been a hard time, emotionally, physically, and financially. To help me deal with it all, I started journaling about our experiences and decided to turn them into mini zines (printable little comic books). I set up a patreon account, which allows you to pledge $1, $3, or $6 a month in return for rewards. | 24,947 | 0 | 1 | 1,510,009,732 | 53 | 6.207778 | 77 | 84.15 | 69.84 | 93.03 | 49.97 | 15.4 | 18.18 | 83.12 | 45.45 | 14.29 | 9.09 | 5.19 | 1.3 | 1.3 | 0 | 1.3 | 5.19 | 6.49 | 14.29 | 6.49 | 1.3 | 5.19 | 0 | 10.39 | 3.9 | 0 | 1.3 | 5.19 | 2.6 | 1.3 | 1.3 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.09 | 1.3 | 0 | 1.3 | 0 | 6.49 | 1.3 | 1.3 | 0 | 1.3 | 2.6 | 1.3 | 2.6 | 0 | 0 | 1.3 | 1.3 | 0 | 1.3 | 0 | 0 | 9.09 | 3.9 | 1.3 | 5.19 | 1.3 | 0 | 5.19 | 3.9 | 1.3 | 22.08 | 2.6 | 6.49 | 12.99 | 2.6 | 2.6 | 0 | 2.6 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 23.38 | 6.49 | 9.09 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.3 | 2.6 | 3.9 | 2.4 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1.2 | 1.2222 | 1 | 1.71921 | 1.62143 | 1.85738 | 0.96 | 12 | 7.626765 | -0.016146 |
assistance | 5sk85d | [0, 5] | Hi everyone! My girlfriend has loved doing color guard all of her life and has always wanted to march in a professional Drum Corps. She has a final audition in San Antonio, Texas in April but does not have the cash to fly there (she is in Ohio). I am going to be giving her a big contribution as a valentine's day present, but it would mean a lot if more people than just me helped her out. If anyone can throw in some money (even $1 or less), it would mean the world to her and to me. | 744 | 0 | 1 | 1,486,455,283 | 2 | 6.157624 | 99 | 59.39 | 58 | 38.14 | 64.08 | 19.8 | 8.08 | 92.93 | 58.59 | 14.14 | 10.1 | 4.04 | 0 | 0 | 6.06 | 0 | 4.04 | 7.07 | 14.14 | 12.12 | 3.03 | 8.08 | 1.01 | 19.19 | 8.08 | 4.04 | 0 | 1.01 | 5.05 | 2.02 | 2.02 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.14 | 0 | 2.02 | 6.06 | 0 | 18.18 | 2.02 | 0 | 5.05 | 6.06 | 3.03 | 7.07 | 1.01 | 1.01 | 0 | 0 | 2.02 | 0 | 1.01 | 0 | 0 | 7.07 | 4.04 | 0 | 2.02 | 0 | 1.01 | 2.02 | 13.13 | 1.01 | 17.17 | 3.03 | 8.08 | 6.06 | 2.02 | 1.01 | 0 | 2.02 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.14 | 4.04 | 3.03 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.01 | 0 | 0 | 1.01 | 4.04 | 1.01 | 3 | 2.8 | 3 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.74224 | 1.70361 | 1.9229 | 0.55 | 1 | 6.89196 | 0.130833 |
domesticviolence | 8zhvmy | (0, 5) | A little background here. The girlfriend[24f] of one of my husbands friends from high school made a detailed post on Instagram back in December describing the abusive relationships she was in with her boyfriend[24m]. About 2 weeks later, the post was gone and suddenly all was well and she is posting sappy/happy posts with him. I sent her a private message on Facebook asking her if everything was okay and if there was anything I could do, letting her know I was genuinely worried. The message was never opened and that profile was deactivated. | 55,354 | 0 | 0.6 | 1,531,799,576 | 3 | 7.418346 | 97 | 43.81 | 90.99 | 17.8 | 44.66 | 19.4 | 24.74 | 88.66 | 55.67 | 14.43 | 11.34 | 4.12 | 0 | 0 | 7.22 | 0 | 3.09 | 7.22 | 10.31 | 11.34 | 7.22 | 6.19 | 1.03 | 17.53 | 4.12 | 1.03 | 0 | 2.06 | 1.03 | 5.15 | 3.09 | 2.06 | 1.03 | 1.03 | 0 | 20.62 | 1.03 | 3.09 | 6.19 | 3.09 | 10.31 | 2.06 | 1.03 | 3.09 | 3.09 | 3.09 | 2.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.31 | 9.28 | 0 | 1.03 | 0 | 0 | 11.34 | 3.09 | 0 | 17.53 | 2.06 | 8.25 | 6.19 | 1.03 | 2.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.06 | 0 | 0 | 1.03 | 1.03 | 0 | 12.37 | 5.15 | 2.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.15 | 2.625 | 2.6667 | 3 | 1.25 | 1 | 1 | 1.66767 | 1.57108 | 1.88213 | 0.81 | 5 | 6.347068 | 0.141389 |
ptsd | 81woq5 | [25, 30] | But now, I can't. I literally have ONE therapist I can see. And ONE psychiatrist (who is actually a nurse practitioner). I have completely given up on getting the correct mental health treatment. I am doing the best I can. | 921 | 1 | 1 | 1,520,154,281 | 12 | 2.773659 | 40 | 11.24 | 1.28 | 93.3 | 72.57 | 8 | 22.5 | 90 | 62.5 | 17.5 | 15 | 15 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.5 | 7.5 | 5 | 17.5 | 7.5 | 5 | 2.5 | 20 | 5 | 2.5 | 2.5 | 5 | 0 | 2.5 | 2.5 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.5 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.5 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5 | 7.5 | 2.5 | 2.5 | 0 | 0 | 7.5 | 0 | 7.5 | 0 | 0 | 7.5 | 0 | 2.5 | 5 | 5 | 0 | 2.5 | 22.5 | 0 | 7.5 | 0 | 5 | 2.5 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 22.5 | 12.5 | 2.5 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.5 | 5 | 0 | 2.5556 | 2.5 | 2.8 | 1.375 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.82732 | 1.50857 | 1.96577 | 0.88 | 18 | 5.739707 | 0.25 |
homeless | 89l40j | (32, 37) | He's an awesome friend who has always been there for me when I had been struggling with depression, giving me great advice, and this put him over the top with this generosity. Between you guys, the three or four family members I have left that I can talk to without shaking with rage, and my friend in Indiana, I have actually cried tears of joy. Seeing people come through when I'm miserable and at rock bottom, I realize I'm not really at rock bottom when there's a hand to help me up. Thank you so much, again. I love you all ❤ | 5,641 | 0 | 1 | 1,522,806,429 | 16 | 7.743396 | 101 | 21.21 | 57.85 | 96.23 | 25.77 | 20.2 | 12.87 | 99.01 | 60.4 | 20.79 | 16.83 | 11.88 | 0 | 2.97 | 1.98 | 0 | 3.96 | 3.96 | 14.85 | 10.89 | 8.91 | 7.92 | 1.98 | 17.82 | 4.95 | 2.97 | 3.96 | 1.98 | 1.98 | 13.86 | 6.93 | 6.93 | 2.97 | 0.99 | 3.96 | 17.82 | 0.99 | 2.97 | 0 | 2.97 | 7.92 | 0.99 | 0 | 0 | 0.99 | 1.98 | 4.95 | 1.98 | 0.99 | 0 | 0.99 | 1.98 | 0.99 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.87 | 5.94 | 0.99 | 6.93 | 0.99 | 0 | 4.95 | 11.88 | 0 | 15.84 | 1.98 | 8.91 | 4.95 | 0 | 2.97 | 0.99 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0.99 | 0 | 0 | 0.99 | 0 | 0 | 14.85 | 3.96 | 6.93 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.96 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1 | 1.3333 | 1 | 1.77931 | 1.62174 | 1.91708 | 0.94 | 10 | 7.928943 | 0.27 |
ptsd | 5xr0zf | (0, 5) | /r/ptsd has voted, and the majority of users (who voted) would like surveys to be banned. Some users however expiressed interest in having a sticky post, so we will move to just a sticky post for now. Should this thread receive a majority of downvotes, surveys will be banned permanently So, if you have a survey you would like to share with us, you may do so here, please use the following format. Failure to do so will result in your survey being removed. | 3,512 | 0 | 1 | 1,488,770,934 | 32 | 7.073647 | 85 | 35.02 | 93.68 | 1.73 | 95.55 | 21.25 | 17.65 | 81.18 | 57.65 | 9.41 | 7.06 | 0 | 2.35 | 4.71 | 0 | 0 | 2.35 | 7.06 | 11.76 | 17.65 | 9.41 | 8.24 | 0 | 23.53 | 0 | 0 | 1.18 | 0 | 3.53 | 7.06 | 5.88 | 1.18 | 0 | 0 | 1.18 | 10.59 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.59 | 0 | 2.35 | 4.71 | 3.53 | 0 | 2.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.71 | 3.53 | 1.18 | 1.18 | 0 | 1.18 | 2.35 | 11.76 | 4.71 | 10.59 | 4.71 | 2.35 | 2.35 | 1.18 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.18 | 0 | 1.18 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 16.47 | 4.71 | 7.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.35 | 2.35 | 2.75 | 2.625 | 2.6 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.70694 | 1.43824 | 1.8619 | 0.95 | 5 | 7.004706 | -0.158333 |
domesticviolence | 74k1gv | (5, 10) | I think it was last year, we could hear the little girl crying out so loud inside their home, we called the cops. This is just a rumor, but our next-door neighbors say that the house is actually under police watch, and that they're drug dealers. The dad is some heavily obese man who should probably invest in larger shirts, and he doesn't leave the home. There are always cars coming and going from the house, sometimes the same cars, other times cars we've never seen before. Ya know, to buy drugs and shit. | 16,084 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,507,248,318 | 6 | 7.690612 | 95 | 39.54 | 94.27 | 64.06 | 4.46 | 19 | 6.32 | 94.74 | 51.58 | 14.74 | 8.42 | 1.05 | 4.21 | 1.05 | 1.05 | 1.05 | 6.32 | 8.42 | 7.37 | 10.53 | 6.32 | 6.32 | 2.11 | 21.05 | 4.21 | 3.16 | 1.05 | 0 | 1.05 | 2.11 | 0 | 2.11 | 0 | 1.05 | 1.05 | 17.89 | 1.05 | 1.05 | 1.05 | 3.16 | 12.63 | 2.11 | 0 | 2.11 | 3.16 | 2.11 | 3.16 | 5.26 | 2.11 | 3.16 | 0 | 5.26 | 2.11 | 3.16 | 0 | 1.05 | 9.47 | 5.26 | 0 | 4.21 | 0 | 0 | 4.21 | 12.63 | 2.11 | 20 | 3.16 | 8.42 | 8.42 | 2.11 | 0 | 6.32 | 2.11 | 0 | 0 | 2.11 | 1.05 | 1.05 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 17.89 | 5.26 | 8.42 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.05 | 0 | 3.16 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.7 | 3 | 1.1429 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.73689 | 1.72593 | 1.82185 | 1 | 6 | 6.743796 | -0.08125 |
ptsd | 6weto6 | [0, 5] | I just tried taking a nap in my bed today. I've been sleeping on the couch since March. I had dreams of stuff he did to me in that bed. Good memories that were ruined when he stopped hiding his temper, when I became the outlet to his anger. Yesterday, I also got choked in my self-defense class practically the same way he choked me. | 1,522 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,503,868,448 | 3 | 3.61791 | 66 | 31.44 | 32.48 | 85.21 | 1 | 13.2 | 9.09 | 98.48 | 57.58 | 25.76 | 21.21 | 13.64 | 0 | 0 | 7.58 | 0 | 4.55 | 6.06 | 12.12 | 7.58 | 7.58 | 4.55 | 0 | 16.67 | 3.03 | 1.52 | 3.03 | 0 | 0 | 7.58 | 1.52 | 6.06 | 0 | 3.03 | 1.52 | 9.09 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.58 | 6.06 | 3.03 | 1.52 | 0 | 1.52 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.55 | 1.52 | 3.03 | 0 | 0 | 10.61 | 0 | 1.52 | 0 | 4.55 | 4.55 | 13.64 | 3.03 | 0 | 18.18 | 0 | 7.58 | 10.61 | 1.52 | 3.03 | 4.55 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.64 | 7.58 | 3.03 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.52 | 0 | 1.52 | 0 | 0 | 2.75 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1 | 1.2 | 1 | 1.69911 | 1.68571 | 1.92451 | 0.72 | 2 | 4.43003 | 0 |
relationships | 7tnc9c | (77, 82) | The only person I live with is my husband. So basically she's trying to imply that I'm mad because my husband is abusing me (which he never has), not because I'm just sick of her shit. --- **tl;dr**: My alcoholic mother is a negative aspect of my life but she's guilting me into feeling sorry for her. I don't know what to do. | 39,113 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,517,175,636 | 3 | -0.575672 | 63 | 1.6 | 10.22 | 27.77 | 1 | 15.75 | 15.87 | 95.24 | 68.25 | 28.57 | 23.81 | 15.87 | 0 | 0 | 7.94 | 0 | 4.76 | 3.17 | 11.11 | 15.87 | 7.94 | 6.35 | 6.35 | 22.22 | 3.17 | 0 | 3.17 | 0 | 0 | 7.94 | 0 | 7.94 | 0 | 4.76 | 1.59 | 14.29 | 4.76 | 0 | 7.94 | 4.76 | 14.29 | 3.17 | 4.76 | 0 | 1.59 | 1.59 | 3.17 | 1.59 | 0 | 0 | 1.59 | 9.52 | 1.59 | 7.94 | 0 | 1.59 | 6.35 | 3.17 | 1.59 | 1.59 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.05 | 0 | 3.17 | 0 | 1.59 | 1.59 | 0 | 1.59 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.59 | 1.59 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 33.33 | 6.35 | 1.59 | 1.59 | 1.59 | 0 | 0 | 4.76 | 0 | 7.94 | 3.17 | 6.35 | 2.8333 | 2.8182 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.71447 | 1.52542 | 1.87406 | 0.8 | 2 | 3.049866 | -0.306615 |
anxiety | 9y39cu | [5, 10] | I want something that would help with a small does of social anxiety and also prevent any future panic attacks, anyone have any good experience with other SSRI's ? * tl;dr.. Been on Lexapro for panic attacks and social anxiety for 6 months. Got all the bad side effects of Lexapro and it made me have a few moments of almost going "insane". I haven't had panic attacks since and my anxiety is maybe slightly better but it's not worth the cons. Anyone have stories of switching off Lexapro to something else that made them less anxious and more confident? | 986 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,542,516,123 | 2 | 5.587847 | 99 | 50.85 | 34.29 | 26.17 | 1 | 16.5 | 20.2 | 89.9 | 49.49 | 14.14 | 5.05 | 4.04 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.01 | 9.09 | 4.04 | 12.12 | 10.1 | 3.03 | 7.07 | 2.02 | 15.15 | 7.07 | 3.03 | 0 | 1.01 | 6.06 | 14.14 | 3.03 | 11.11 | 7.07 | 3.03 | 0 | 7.07 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 21.21 | 1.01 | 4.04 | 2.02 | 8.08 | 2.02 | 5.05 | 1.01 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.13 | 3.03 | 2.02 | 6.06 | 4.04 | 2.02 | 5.05 | 8.08 | 2.02 | 9.09 | 1.01 | 4.04 | 4.04 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.01 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 15.15 | 5.05 | 1.01 | 0 | 1.01 | 2.02 | 0 | 0 | 2.02 | 3.03 | 0 | 1.01 | 2.75 | 2.8889 | 2.6 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.81894 | 1.41839 | 1.70938 | 1 | 2 | 5.690186 | -0.038333 |
relationships | 7p5sr2 | (20, 25) | I would like to have a relationship with his parents in the very least and let them actually get to know me, but he really doesn't want to introduce me to them. It's important for me to develop a relationship with my SO's family, especially if we intend on being long term. I don't see how we can continue our relationship like this. My question is, what can I do to improve the situation? What conversations do I need to have with my BF? | 41,017 | 1 | 0.6 | 1,515,486,584 | 0 | 5.942386 | 84 | 20.29 | 59.4 | 30.01 | 87.2 | 16.8 | 17.86 | 96.43 | 70.24 | 25 | 20.24 | 11.9 | 3.57 | 0 | 2.38 | 2.38 | 4.76 | 4.76 | 16.67 | 15.48 | 5.95 | 4.76 | 2.38 | 19.05 | 1.19 | 2.38 | 3.57 | 0 | 1.19 | 3.57 | 3.57 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 17.86 | 2.38 | 1.19 | 0 | 3.57 | 14.29 | 2.38 | 2.38 | 4.76 | 2.38 | 1.19 | 4.76 | 1.19 | 1.19 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 15.48 | 11.9 | 1.19 | 1.19 | 1.19 | 0 | 0 | 19.05 | 0 | 5.95 | 0 | 3.57 | 2.38 | 1.19 | 1.19 | 1.19 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.19 | 0 | 1.19 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.29 | 3.57 | 3.57 | 0 | 0 | 2.38 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.76 | 0 | 0 | 2.7143 | 2.625 | 3 | 1.375 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.72791 | 1.45897 | 1.95198 | 0.42 | 3 | 8.169455 | 0.026667 |
ptsd | 9jiu3i | (5, 10) | I mentioned that I am unhappy with my nametag having my first name on it, that I’ve been unhappy with it but I’ve been tolerating it since it hasn’t been too much of an issue until I transferred stores. My boss became LIVID. “Well we all call you _______” “it would be more confusing for customers if we call you _______ but your nametag says ______” “______ isn’t your [first] name” “you can deal with ______ being on your nametag, I’m not changing it just because you don’t like it.” Mind you, people named Jason can have their nametag day Jay. Other people have their last name on their name tag. | 43,620 | 0 | 0.8 | 1,538,099,150 | 3 | -1.218482 | 106 | 2.47 | 88.99 | 72.17 | 13.09 | 21.2 | 13.21 | 88.68 | 62.26 | 30.19 | 20.75 | 8.49 | 1.89 | 7.55 | 0 | 2.83 | 9.43 | 0.94 | 9.43 | 16.98 | 2.83 | 4.72 | 3.77 | 17.92 | 0.94 | 0.94 | 0 | 1.89 | 2.83 | 4.72 | 1.89 | 2.83 | 0.94 | 0 | 1.89 | 21.7 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.21 | 0.94 | 2.83 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 0.94 | 6.6 | 0.94 | 0 | 0.94 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.72 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 0.94 | 0 | 0 | 4.72 | 12.26 | 0 | 10.38 | 1.89 | 2.83 | 5.66 | 2.83 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0.94 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0.94 | 0 | 53.77 | 4.72 | 2.83 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.55 | 6.6 | 0 | 32.08 | 2.7143 | 2.4286 | 3 | 1.1 | 1.2222 | 1 | 1.71256 | 1.45287 | 1.84893 | 1 | 1 | -0.001786 | -0.047222 |
ptsd | 7rfs9u | (5, 10) | I looked everywhere for the possible cause, did everything to make it go away. I put vicks under my nose and that helped mask some of the smell, but it was still definitely there. It didn't go away until the next day. Has anyone else dealt with olfactory hallucinations? Should I seek out medical attention? | 45,646 | 0 | 0.6 | 1,516,335,443 | 11 | 4.860357 | 55 | 51.43 | 13.76 | 98.75 | 60.23 | 11 | 14.55 | 90.91 | 60 | 18.18 | 7.27 | 7.27 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.91 | 5.45 | 16.36 | 9.09 | 7.27 | 5.45 | 1.82 | 20 | 1.82 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.82 | 1.82 | 1.82 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.64 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 23.64 | 1.82 | 3.64 | 1.82 | 5.45 | 5.45 | 5.45 | 7.27 | 1.82 | 0 | 0 | 5.45 | 1.82 | 3.64 | 0 | 0 | 1.82 | 0 | 0 | 1.82 | 0 | 0 | 9.09 | 7.27 | 0 | 21.82 | 5.45 | 9.09 | 7.27 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.55 | 5.45 | 3.64 | 0 | 0 | 3.64 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.82 | 0 | 0 | 2.4444 | 2.4286 | 3 | 1.3333 | 1.2222 | 1 | 1.75624 | 1.475 | 1.85814 | 1 | 5 | 5.424429 | 0 |
anxiety | 6rfma5 | [0, 5] | Hi r/anxiety, So lately my anxiety/hypochondria has been through the roof. I convince myself that I have all of these symptoms and then my body actually feels like it produces them. I never know when something is actually wrong. Lately since my anxiety has gotten so bad I have begun biting my nails even worse than usual, picking my toe nails and picking any form of acne on my face or body. | 1,227 | 1 | 1 | 1,501,795,340 | 1 | 5.892027 | 74 | 6.34 | 2.94 | 99 | 1 | 18.5 | 17.57 | 91.89 | 58.11 | 21.62 | 16.22 | 14.86 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.35 | 5.41 | 1.35 | 9.46 | 8.11 | 12.16 | 9.46 | 1.35 | 14.86 | 5.41 | 4.05 | 1.35 | 0 | 2.7 | 8.11 | 0 | 8.11 | 4.05 | 0 | 0 | 2.7 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 20.27 | 4.05 | 5.41 | 0 | 4.05 | 2.7 | 5.41 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 1.35 | 8.11 | 5.41 | 2.7 | 0 | 0 | 6.76 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 1.35 | 4.05 | 2.7 | 10.81 | 1.35 | 12.16 | 0 | 1.35 | 10.81 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.35 | 0 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.81 | 5.41 | 2.7 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.7 | 2.7143 | 2.8 | 3 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.77225 | 1.47812 | 1.81956 | 1 | 0 | 6.446865 | -0.35 |
ptsd | 6eviyv | (0, 5) | Not entirely sure if this really belongs here, but here it goes: I (26yo F) have been diagnosed with ptsd due to many traumatic instances in my childhood including emotional/psychological abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, bullying etc. I have the best s/o anyone could ever ask for, he is extremely patient and understanding. His dad on the other hand, is a very complicated person. I'll call him P. When I first met P, he seemed pretty shy, but very nice. He is generous, likes to offer gifts etc to people around him. | 30,216 | 0 | 0.8 | 1,496,421,746 | 17 | 5.782241 | 94 | 30.45 | 66.48 | 31.36 | 25.77 | 15.67 | 17.02 | 88.3 | 50 | 15.96 | 11.7 | 5.32 | 0 | 0 | 6.38 | 0 | 4.26 | 3.19 | 9.57 | 8.51 | 9.57 | 5.32 | 1.06 | 13.83 | 6.38 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 2.13 | 12.77 | 6.38 | 6.38 | 1.06 | 3.19 | 0 | 17.02 | 1.06 | 0 | 0 | 7.45 | 18.09 | 4.26 | 0 | 2.13 | 4.26 | 4.26 | 6.38 | 1.06 | 0 | 0 | 1.06 | 4.26 | 1.06 | 2.13 | 1.06 | 0 | 4.26 | 2.13 | 2.13 | 1.06 | 1.06 | 0 | 3.19 | 8.51 | 1.06 | 10.64 | 1.06 | 3.19 | 6.38 | 1.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.06 | 0 | 1.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 22.34 | 6.38 | 9.57 | 1.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.06 | 2.13 | 2.13 | 2.8462 | 2.5455 | 3 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.76567 | 1.59259 | 1.90055 | 0.92 | 7 | 6.84391 | 0.121786 |
ptsd | 68cden | (82, 87) | I've "enjoyed" (didn't dislike, double negatives, oof) the jobs I've had, and some were pretty good - the people like me, so I had no reason to leave. What is the equivalent of my best friend has also gone so far as to label me as a psychopath..:/ I'm just looking for similar experiences and mostly understanding of the situation (maybe guidance in what kind of people to aim to talk to, or maybe steps to take to help in diagnosis, etc) - so far in my life every single person has pretty much told me to harden the "f" up and get the heck over it. Thanks.. **Edit 2** I forgot to say that my father is a completely different person now - but when I see him so much as take a sip of alcohol it all floods back to me and I get extremely terrified and nervous. | 51,027 | 0 | 0.6 | 1,493,507,997 | 11 | 5.05028 | 147 | 46.38 | 22.72 | 59.54 | 64.46 | 36.75 | 12.93 | 92.52 | 56.46 | 13.61 | 10.2 | 9.52 | 0 | 0 | 0.68 | 0 | 3.4 | 6.12 | 15.65 | 7.48 | 9.52 | 10.88 | 2.04 | 16.33 | 8.16 | 5.44 | 2.04 | 2.04 | 4.76 | 6.12 | 4.08 | 2.04 | 1.36 | 0 | 0 | 7.48 | 0.68 | 0.68 | 0 | 1.36 | 12.24 | 2.04 | 0.68 | 0 | 5.44 | 2.72 | 2.72 | 3.4 | 1.36 | 0.68 | 0.68 | 2.04 | 0 | 2.04 | 0 | 0.68 | 6.8 | 1.36 | 0.68 | 2.72 | 4.08 | 0 | 4.76 | 12.24 | 0 | 8.84 | 2.04 | 5.44 | 2.04 | 1.36 | 0.68 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.36 | 0.68 | 0.68 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 21.77 | 4.76 | 4.08 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.04 | 2.72 | 2.72 | 2.72 | 2.72 | 2.8462 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1.1111 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.73531 | 1.52913 | 1.91927 | 1 | 8 | 6.738764 | 0.244643 |
survivorsofabuse | 9pw9iv | [5, 10] | I don’t remember a lot of it I just remember little snip bits of what happened. I don’t even remember if there was penetration and I’m hoping there wasn’t. I still have problems trying to remember what happened and I feel like if I remember it all I’m going to have a breakdown. Now that I’m older I’m starting to have sex and be intimate with others. I’m noticing a pattern where my body is like rejecting my partner and I’m concerned it might be caused by my abuse at an early age. | 1,774 | 1 | 1 | 1,540,058,677 | 8 | 4.894118 | 93 | 4.63 | 1.25 | 98.66 | 4.24 | 18.6 | 18.28 | 94.62 | 64.52 | 23.66 | 16.13 | 16.13 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.53 | 4.3 | 10.75 | 18.28 | 7.53 | 6.45 | 3.23 | 32.26 | 2.15 | 3.23 | 3.23 | 0 | 3.23 | 5.38 | 1.08 | 3.23 | 0 | 1.08 | 1.08 | 1.08 | 0 | 1.08 | 0 | 0 | 19.35 | 7.53 | 1.08 | 4.3 | 6.45 | 1.08 | 4.3 | 1.08 | 0 | 0 | 1.08 | 2.15 | 1.08 | 0 | 1.08 | 0 | 5.38 | 1.08 | 1.08 | 2.15 | 0 | 1.08 | 9.68 | 17.2 | 3.23 | 10.75 | 1.08 | 3.23 | 6.45 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 15.05 | 5.38 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.68 | 0 | 0 | 2.7778 | 2.8182 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.72098 | 1.48571 | 1.91972 | 1 | 1 | 6.657647 | 0.055833 |
assistance | 7es918 | (0, 5) | <url> is looking for men and women 35-65 years of age in Chicago, to participate in a 2 hour, focus group market research study. Qualified individuals will receive $250 (Prepaid Visa Card) after they have completed the study. Link: <url> Job #: 2631NRC17 Location: Chicago IL | 55,670 | 0 | 1 | 1,511,368,757 | 5 | 3.895294 | 53 | 96.9 | 90.66 | 36.1 | 25.77 | 17.67 | 26.42 | 64.15 | 24.53 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 3.77 | 11.32 | 5.66 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 7.55 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 0 | 9.43 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.21 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 3.77 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.77 | 1.89 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 3.77 | 1.89 | 16.98 | 1.89 | 7.55 | 9.43 | 11.32 | 0 | 0 | 3.77 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 39.62 | 7.55 | 3.77 | 5.66 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 7.55 | 13.21 | 2.8 | 2.6667 | 3 | 1.5714 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.72547 | 1.83125 | 2.03626 | 0.62 | 0 | 5.972314 | 0 |
domesticviolence | 8fnfm4 | (20, 25) | He shouldn't be able to do that to anyone else. I'm just so scared. I wasn't perfect either and I'm scared people won't believe me, or he will twist it so he's the victim and I'm the bad guy, although I know what happened was wrong and I have evidence that he knows what he did was wrong. Im scared this will ruin my life, but I also can't bear the thought of him doing that to anyone else. If anyone needs details about what happened I can share | 16,014 | 1 | 1 | 1,524,956,351 | 7 | 0.33949 | 89 | 1 | 8.89 | 37.57 | 1 | 17.8 | 10.11 | 97.75 | 68.54 | 31.46 | 19.1 | 12.36 | 0 | 0 | 6.74 | 0 | 12.36 | 3.37 | 5.62 | 20.22 | 5.62 | 11.24 | 4.49 | 28.09 | 7.87 | 1.12 | 3.37 | 0 | 1.12 | 11.24 | 2.25 | 8.99 | 3.37 | 0 | 1.12 | 13.48 | 0 | 1.12 | 0 | 7.87 | 22.47 | 5.62 | 0 | 3.37 | 5.62 | 1.12 | 10.11 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.12 | 0 | 1.12 | 0 | 0 | 7.87 | 1.12 | 1.12 | 1.12 | 1.12 | 3.37 | 6.74 | 17.98 | 3.37 | 1.12 | 1.12 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 16.85 | 4.49 | 3.37 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.99 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.625 | 3 | 1 | 1.2222 | 1 | 1.70695 | 1.44524 | 1.81358 | 0.9 | 4 | 2.078939 | -0.045833 |
relationships | 7tr5qy | (15, 20) | I know this is kind of all over the place, but i want to ask: should I have broken up with her before? am I a bad person for sticking around? how can i find peace and happiness? Is it normal to feel hopeless and scared that i won't find love again? tldr: got cheated on a bunch and dumped because i cried on Christmas due to a breakdown re: being cheated on all the time and feeling worthless. | 10,266 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,517,217,667 | 10 | 6.58575 | 78 | 60.8 | 26.07 | 92.13 | 1 | 15.6 | 14.1 | 96.15 | 56.41 | 14.1 | 10.26 | 8.97 | 0 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 3.85 | 6.41 | 15.38 | 10.26 | 3.85 | 8.97 | 1.28 | 20.51 | 6.41 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 0 | 3.85 | 14.1 | 3.85 | 10.26 | 1.28 | 2.56 | 3.85 | 5.13 | 0 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 16.67 | 6.41 | 2.56 | 2.56 | 1.28 | 2.56 | 1.28 | 2.56 | 0 | 0 | 2.56 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.54 | 1.28 | 2.56 | 5.13 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 2.56 | 14.1 | 1.28 | 16.67 | 1.28 | 8.97 | 6.41 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.82 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 3.85 | 0 | 5.13 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.8 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.72688 | 1.4697 | 1.91088 | 0.86 | 16 | 6.5175 | -0.009375 |
ptsd | 7pj5li | [20, 25] | It's really fucking hard, but so far it has absolutely been worth it. I'm putting a lot more time and effort into improving myself. I've been much more productive. I'm doing things I used to love again. Things that used to seem a distant dream or completely unachievable now feel like they might be things I can tackle - if not now, then *someday*. | 270 | 0 | 0.6 | 1,515,621,776 | 14 | 4.742687 | 63 | 1.18 | 4.05 | 98.01 | 55.71 | 12.6 | 14.29 | 96.83 | 63.49 | 22.22 | 11.11 | 9.52 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.59 | 11.11 | 3.17 | 6.35 | 17.46 | 11.11 | 9.52 | 1.59 | 22.22 | 7.94 | 4.76 | 0 | 0 | 6.35 | 4.76 | 3.17 | 1.59 | 0 | 1.59 | 0 | 3.17 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 23.81 | 3.17 | 4.76 | 1.59 | 9.52 | 3.17 | 7.94 | 3.17 | 0 | 0 | 3.17 | 3.17 | 0 | 0 | 1.59 | 0 | 4.76 | 1.59 | 3.17 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.35 | 17.46 | 4.76 | 14.29 | 1.59 | 4.76 | 7.94 | 3.17 | 1.59 | 0 | 1.59 | 0 | 0 | 3.17 | 1.59 | 0 | 1.59 | 0 | 0 | 22.22 | 7.94 | 3.17 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.59 | 0 | 6.35 | 0 | 3.17 | 3 | 2.8 | 2.8 | 1.125 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.76194 | 1.4 | 1.88665 | 0.95 | 0 | 5.134507 | 0.200926 |
anxiety | 8yzm5q | [0, 3] | I feel like a become a mean monster. :( and I can’t stop or control myself and I feel this immense anxiety throughout my body as if I’m being pushed down by negativity and anyone will tell me anything even if it’s not even remotely threatening or meaning harm and I completely lash out and respond with mean things :/ and I feel soooo guilty afterwards and I don’t want to justify but it’s as if the worry/anxiety I feel in my head overtakes me and apperantly the only way to express it is through meanness :/ I’m seeking therapy guys very soon :/ because I’m hurting the ppl around me that I love and it’s not fair for them and I feel like a monster for it | 808 | 1 | 1 | 1,531,633,548 | 4 | 1.418371 | 129 | 9.62 | 3.16 | 98.01 | 1 | 64.5 | 19.38 | 94.57 | 65.12 | 22.48 | 14.73 | 13.95 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0.78 | 7.75 | 4.65 | 12.4 | 8.53 | 6.2 | 14.73 | 3.88 | 17.05 | 4.65 | 3.1 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.75 | 1.55 | 6.2 | 3.88 | 0.78 | 0.78 | 6.2 | 0 | 0.78 | 0 | 0.78 | 19.38 | 7.75 | 2.33 | 3.1 | 5.43 | 0.78 | 6.98 | 4.65 | 0 | 0 | 4.65 | 3.88 | 1.55 | 0.78 | 0 | 0.78 | 4.65 | 0.78 | 0.78 | 2.33 | 0 | 1.55 | 0 | 15.5 | 1.55 | 7.75 | 0.78 | 4.65 | 2.33 | 0 | 0.78 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.65 | 0 | 4.65 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.75 | 0.78 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.2 | 0 | 0.78 | 3 | 2.8 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.75512 | 1.47629 | 1.87129 | 0.84 | 4 | 3.483038 | -0.162037 |
assistance | 6g12e5 | [0, 5] | Good Morning, I am extremely moved by the members of this sub contributing to the good of society and answering the call for aid. Last week, footage was released of a mentally challenged man in Germantown, Philadelphia get sucker punched in the head by ruthless teenagers. The victim walked away but still fell victim to another punch. Fortunately the teenagers were arrested and charged. | 216 | 0 | 1 | 1,496,929,905 | 26 | 9.972813 | 64 | 98.29 | 73.4 | 45.44 | 55.21 | 16 | 31.25 | 79.69 | 46.88 | 4.69 | 1.56 | 1.56 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.12 | 10.94 | 17.19 | 4.69 | 4.69 | 4.69 | 0 | 10.94 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.56 | 10.94 | 6.25 | 4.69 | 0 | 1.56 | 0 | 9.38 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.56 | 4.69 | 1.56 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.56 | 1.56 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.56 | 1.56 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.06 | 1.56 | 1.56 | 6.25 | 4.69 | 0 | 7.81 | 3.12 | 0 | 15.62 | 4.69 | 4.69 | 6.25 | 1.56 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.94 | 6.25 | 4.69 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 3 | 2.8 | 1 | 1.2 | 1 | 1.78445 | 1.58261 | 1.80635 | 0.81 | 5 | 7.98125 | 0.0125 |
anxiety | 6dspim | [15, 20] | I had no good friends in my class, I never had a partner when it was time to pair up on our own, the work was going to get harder and we would be working on clients soon. When I came back all I could think about was how much I wanted to go home. So I didn't go back after that. I had to go back though and pick up my stuff. But everyone asked what was I gonna do next, why did I drop out. | 728 | 1 | 0.571429 | 1,495,958,309 | 2 | 3.028876 | 87 | 3.47 | 15.04 | 99 | 46.99 | 17.4 | 5.75 | 97.7 | 68.97 | 20.69 | 14.94 | 12.64 | 2.3 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.75 | 2.3 | 13.79 | 14.94 | 13.79 | 9.2 | 3.45 | 28.74 | 3.45 | 2.3 | 5.75 | 0 | 2.3 | 1.15 | 1.15 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.9 | 0 | 2.3 | 0 | 0 | 14.94 | 1.15 | 3.45 | 3.45 | 0 | 3.45 | 3.45 | 1.15 | 0 | 0 | 1.15 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.49 | 4.6 | 2.3 | 2.3 | 2.3 | 0 | 13.79 | 10.34 | 3.45 | 26.44 | 8.05 | 10.34 | 11.49 | 4.6 | 0 | 1.15 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.15 | 0 | 1.15 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.34 | 5.75 | 3.45 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.15 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.625 | 3 | 1.2308 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.7489 | 1.47619 | 1.86948 | 0.76 | 2 | 4.345258 | 0.04375 |
assistance | 9vdpf2 | [0, 5] | My mother has stage 4 bile duct cancer and it seems like her time is limited. She has a $5k insurance policy but I know that's not going to be enough. I've had to take a lot of time off work to take care of her and I just don't have the money to pay for what the insurance won't cover. What are some resources I can use to help pay for this? She does not want to be cremated and there's no way I could do that against her wishes just to save money. | 1,186 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,541,709,528 | 18 | 2.059434 | 95 | 26.07 | 20 | 2.77 | 65.65 | 19 | 6.32 | 92.63 | 62.11 | 17.89 | 11.58 | 6.32 | 0 | 0 | 5.26 | 0 | 6.32 | 4.21 | 14.74 | 17.89 | 3.16 | 4.21 | 5.26 | 27.37 | 0 | 1.05 | 2.11 | 1.05 | 2.11 | 2.11 | 2.11 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.37 | 1.05 | 0 | 6.32 | 0 | 12.63 | 2.11 | 1.05 | 3.16 | 3.16 | 0 | 4.21 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.05 | 0 | 1.05 | 0 | 0 | 6.32 | 1.05 | 2.11 | 2.11 | 2.11 | 0 | 1.05 | 24.21 | 3.16 | 5.26 | 1.05 | 2.11 | 2.11 | 5.26 | 0 | 0 | 6.32 | 0 | 1.05 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.58 | 4.21 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.05 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.26 | 0 | 1.05 | 2.8 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.69373 | 1.46744 | 1.87154 | 0.82 | 14 | 3.940113 | -0.035714 |
relationships | 7o83xh | [90, 95] | Sometimes one a week on the weekend. This worked greated. Until late june. She started to cancel my visits to see her. Asking if I was mad, when I constantly told her I supported everything she needed to do to succeed. | 1,633 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,515,119,816 | 1 | 2.429024 | 41 | 45.86 | 76.78 | 71.4 | 71.55 | 8.2 | 19.51 | 95.12 | 56.1 | 24.39 | 19.51 | 9.76 | 0 | 0 | 9.76 | 0 | 4.88 | 4.88 | 14.63 | 4.88 | 4.88 | 7.32 | 0 | 19.51 | 2.44 | 0 | 2.44 | 2.44 | 0 | 7.32 | 4.88 | 2.44 | 0 | 2.44 | 0 | 19.51 | 0 | 0 | 9.76 | 0 | 9.76 | 0 | 0 | 4.88 | 4.88 | 2.44 | 2.44 | 2.44 | 2.44 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.88 | 0 | 4.88 | 0 | 2.44 | 0 | 14.63 | 4.88 | 0 | 26.83 | 2.44 | 2.44 | 21.95 | 4.88 | 2.44 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.63 | 12.2 | 2.44 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.7778 | 2.625 | 2.6 | 1 | 1.2 | 1 | 1.78474 | 1.46486 | 1.93858 | 1 | 5 | 4.012878 | -0.308333 |
relationships | 7tra4e | [105, 110] | I tried to reply to most but I think I'd like to forget about this post for a bit and move on. So I'm going to stop replying. If there is advice or information that someone hasn't given me yet and you think would be helpful, please feel free to private message me. I'm planning to go to the wedding. I will not be going out of my way to help with the wedding. | 975 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,517,219,529 | 269 | 1.049121 | 74 | 46.8 | 29.43 | 99 | 91.56 | 14.8 | 12.16 | 100 | 62.16 | 17.57 | 13.51 | 12.16 | 0 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 4.05 | 4.05 | 20.27 | 12.16 | 5.41 | 8.11 | 2.7 | 25.68 | 4.05 | 2.7 | 0 | 0 | 2.7 | 4.05 | 4.05 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.86 | 2.7 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 16.22 | 5.41 | 0 | 2.7 | 5.41 | 0 | 6.76 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.81 | 6.76 | 2.7 | 1.35 | 0 | 1.35 | 2.7 | 16.22 | 5.41 | 13.51 | 5.41 | 4.05 | 2.7 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.51 | 6.76 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.41 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.8889 | 2.8 | 1.125 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.77816 | 1.44928 | 1.96138 | 0.89 | 86 | 3.278791 | 0.3 |
ptsd | 8f9aen | (5, 10) | He kept holding my arm while talking to me. He kept saying how beautiful I was. Even after he finished the exam he did another sweep with his hand idk wtf he was checking because we were all done I’m almost positive he just wanted to fucking touch me because every chance he could he would. I was so close to tears I know this isn’t like so bad, but to a girl with ptsd from assault it was the end of the world. I felt so gross and grimy having his nasty hands on me calling me beautiful. | 44,555 | 1 | 0.6 | 1,524,807,004 | 19 | 2.088438 | 99 | 7.76 | 45.96 | 1.64 | 1.59 | 19.8 | 13.13 | 95.96 | 63.64 | 25.25 | 22.22 | 11.11 | 1.01 | 0 | 10.1 | 0 | 3.03 | 4.04 | 11.11 | 12.12 | 7.07 | 9.09 | 2.02 | 20.2 | 6.06 | 2.02 | 1.01 | 0 | 3.03 | 9.09 | 3.03 | 6.06 | 0 | 3.03 | 1.01 | 15.15 | 0 | 0 | 1.01 | 10.1 | 15.15 | 2.02 | 3.03 | 3.03 | 2.02 | 3.03 | 2.02 | 7.07 | 2.02 | 1.01 | 4.04 | 4.04 | 3.03 | 0 | 1.01 | 0 | 4.04 | 1.01 | 0 | 1.01 | 1.01 | 1.01 | 12.12 | 3.03 | 0 | 6.06 | 0 | 3.03 | 3.03 | 1.01 | 0 | 1.01 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.03 | 2.02 | 2.02 | 0 | 0 | 1.01 | 8.08 | 5.05 | 1.01 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.02 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.8571 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.71388 | 1.70115 | 1.91462 | 1 | 10 | 3.390627 | -0.109091 |
anxiety | 6dxadt | [0, 5] | I have been having anxiety sense I was 16, I'm now 20. This 4 years have been difficult, lots of ups and downs, on and off medication and therapy (never really had more then just 3 appointments with the same professional ever). Then it came university and I had to move away from my family which didn't helped a lot. I had the last 6 months without anxiety but in April everything changed. I have been having anxiety attacks almost everyday, then it came the intrusive thoughts. | 1,817 | 1 | 1 | 1,496,019,211 | 2 | 6.1497 | 87 | 13.98 | 8.4 | 99 | 1 | 17.4 | 18.39 | 89.66 | 60.92 | 14.94 | 8.05 | 8.05 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.9 | 4.6 | 10.34 | 16.09 | 6.9 | 9.2 | 3.45 | 21.84 | 3.45 | 2.3 | 1.15 | 5.75 | 3.45 | 5.75 | 0 | 5.75 | 3.45 | 1.15 | 0 | 2.3 | 1.15 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 16.09 | 2.3 | 1.15 | 0 | 3.45 | 4.6 | 4.6 | 1.15 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.3 | 0 | 2.3 | 0 | 0 | 3.45 | 1.15 | 0 | 1.15 | 0 | 1.15 | 13.79 | 6.9 | 3.45 | 21.84 | 4.6 | 4.6 | 12.64 | 2.3 | 1.15 | 1.15 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.94 | 5.75 | 4.6 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.3 | 2.3 | 0 | 2.6364 | 2.8571 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.75931 | 1.44054 | 1.77426 | 0.76 | 0 | 7.033202 | -0.028571 |
anxiety | 8yr2tp | (0, 4) | Last few weeks I’ve overcome some serious issues and I was traveling most the time and it helped me a lot. But now that I’m home I’m falling back to my old self I’m isolating myself in my house. I barely go out again I can’t even manage to get myself a haircut and I don’t want fall back in this hole again. I picked myself up and going falling back can someone help me. | 32,432 | 1 | 0.6 | 1,531,546,668 | 3 | -0.400741 | 75 | 4.68 | 1.22 | 99 | 2.41 | 18.75 | 10.67 | 98.67 | 61.33 | 26.67 | 21.33 | 21.33 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.33 | 4 | 8 | 9.33 | 10.67 | 6.67 | 2.67 | 18.67 | 4 | 1.33 | 0 | 0 | 5.33 | 2.67 | 0 | 2.67 | 0 | 0 | 1.33 | 4 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12 | 0 | 1.33 | 1.33 | 6.67 | 0 | 2.67 | 1.33 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.33 | 1.33 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.67 | 1.33 | 1.33 | 4 | 1.33 | 0 | 4 | 16 | 1.33 | 28 | 8 | 10.67 | 13.33 | 1.33 | 1.33 | 2.67 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.33 | 5.33 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1.2 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.71303 | 1.76508 | 1.87824 | 0.8 | 3 | 1.991222 | 0.012963 |
ptsd | 9hrerk | (0, 5) | If you have a survey you would like to share with us, you may do so here, please use the following format. Failure to do so will result in your survey being removed. Surveys not posted in here will result in a ban, the length of which will be decided at mods' pleasure. **Who I am**: (Student, Researcher) **Affiliation**: (university, company) | 28,461 | 0 | 1 | 1,537,546,092 | 41 | 1.49535 | 61 | 38.49 | 92.99 | 14.89 | 96.45 | 15.25 | 19.67 | 90.16 | 60.66 | 13.11 | 9.84 | 1.64 | 1.64 | 6.56 | 0 | 0 | 3.28 | 6.56 | 13.11 | 18.03 | 6.56 | 4.92 | 1.64 | 24.59 | 0 | 0 | 3.28 | 0 | 0 | 8.2 | 6.56 | 1.64 | 0 | 0 | 1.64 | 13.11 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.11 | 1.64 | 4.92 | 3.28 | 3.28 | 0 | 3.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.2 | 4.92 | 1.64 | 3.28 | 0 | 1.64 | 3.28 | 11.48 | 6.56 | 11.48 | 3.28 | 8.2 | 0 | 8.2 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 37.7 | 4.92 | 8.2 | 3.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.64 | 6.56 | 13.11 | 3 | 2.625 | 2.8 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.71487 | 1.53462 | 1.88007 | 0.99 | 35 | 3.402235 | -0.454167 |
assistance | 7h0dfh | (30, 35) | I e-mailed him a few times and received no response from him when I really needed one. Because of his lack of response, I was forced to drop out of school, University of [State (Go Mascots!! )], and I could not finish the quarter and now owe them much more money than before. But it is NOT entirely his fault. Yes I resent him at times, but I could have just as easily approached him about the subject and gotten everything taken care of, but my anxiety hadn't made me comfortable around them, so I couldn't bring my self to do it. | 54,298 | 1 | 0.6 | 1,512,185,801 | 5 | 10.274135 | 102 | 17.96 | 16.34 | 40.84 | 25.77 | 20.4 | 13.73 | 96.08 | 61.76 | 20.59 | 17.65 | 9.8 | 0 | 0 | 5.88 | 1.96 | 2.94 | 2.94 | 14.71 | 7.84 | 6.86 | 10.78 | 4.9 | 17.65 | 5.88 | 3.92 | 0.98 | 1.96 | 3.92 | 5.88 | 2.94 | 2.94 | 0.98 | 0.98 | 0 | 11.76 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.88 | 18.63 | 0 | 4.9 | 4.9 | 0 | 1.96 | 6.86 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.88 | 0 | 0 | 0.98 | 2.94 | 1.96 | 6.86 | 8.82 | 0 | 13.73 | 4.9 | 2.94 | 6.86 | 1.96 | 0 | 0 | 1.96 | 0 | 0 | 0.98 | 0 | 0 | 0.98 | 0 | 0 | 18.63 | 3.92 | 5.88 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.96 | 0.98 | 0 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 3 | 2.8 | 3 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.69944 | 1.47957 | 1.83855 | 0.86 | 9 | 9.753846 | 0.08724 |
survivorsofabuse | 6kfce5 | [5, 10] | I truly hope it finds it's way in the hands of the ones most in need. It is available on Amazon for only $2.99 and I also have a countdown deal event coming up next month (July 22.-29.) when you can purchase it for only $0.99. Here is the link to it: <url> I also produced a trailer/teaser for it if you'd like to check it out: <url> | 1,377 | 0 | 1 | 1,498,822,256 | 3 | 3.976558 | 70 | 55.47 | 55.67 | 62.17 | 52.57 | 17.5 | 7.14 | 81.43 | 60 | 17.14 | 7.14 | 4.29 | 0 | 2.86 | 0 | 0 | 10 | 7.14 | 17.14 | 8.57 | 10 | 7.14 | 0 | 12.86 | 2.86 | 2.86 | 1.43 | 5.71 | 1.43 | 4.29 | 2.86 | 1.43 | 0 | 1.43 | 0 | 4.29 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.43 | 2.86 | 1.43 | 4.29 | 4.29 | 1.43 | 1.43 | 1.43 | 0 | 0 | 1.43 | 1.43 | 1.43 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.43 | 0 | 0 | 1.43 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10 | 2.86 | 18.57 | 1.43 | 10 | 7.14 | 1.43 | 0 | 0 | 1.43 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 25.71 | 5.71 | 0 | 2.86 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.43 | 0 | 2.86 | 2.86 | 10 | 3 | 2.3 | 3 | 1.3333 | 1 | 1 | 1.64409 | 1.4 | 1.8614 | 0.81 | 0 | 5.862955 | 0.18 |
ptsd | 89lfg3 | (16, 21) | I get flashbacks from ptsd at home, and now my home is full of these spider and insect memories. And I feel like so few people in my life can really handle this and that’s even more isolating. I’m sorry. I needed a place to put this down and try and stop crying. I know my thoughts are disorganized right now and I’m finding it hard to organize them. | 37,991 | 1 | 1 | 1,522,808,712 | 1 | 2.625 | 69 | 13.05 | 12.32 | 98.89 | 1 | 13.8 | 10.14 | 91.3 | 56.52 | 21.74 | 14.49 | 13.04 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.45 | 7.25 | 1.45 | 11.59 | 8.7 | 7.25 | 11.59 | 0 | 17.39 | 7.25 | 2.9 | 0 | 0 | 2.9 | 4.35 | 0 | 4.35 | 0 | 0 | 4.35 | 2.9 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.59 | 7.25 | 0 | 1.45 | 1.45 | 0 | 1.45 | 2.9 | 0 | 0 | 2.9 | 1.45 | 0 | 1.45 | 0 | 0 | 5.8 | 0 | 1.45 | 1.45 | 1.45 | 1.45 | 1.45 | 18.84 | 0 | 14.49 | 1.45 | 8.7 | 4.35 | 1.45 | 0 | 2.9 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.04 | 7.25 | 1.45 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.35 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.7 | 3 | 1.2857 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.69049 | 1.51333 | 1.89566 | 1 | 2 | 4.167778 | -0.001279 |
assistance | 8bu9vx | [19, 24] | His best chance is to seek treatment abroad, in a specialised sarcoma clinic. He is a young, resilient man with huge support from his family and friends. Sean is a fighter and he just needs an opportunity to beat this cancer. We cannot accept there is no hope for Sean and wish to exhaust all options. Please help Sean to get the best shot he’s got to fight the sarcoma and get back to living life to his full potential. | 473 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,523,572,002 | 28 | 5.954634 | 80 | 82.35 | 91.53 | 1 | 96.76 | 16 | 15 | 86.25 | 47.5 | 10 | 8.75 | 0 | 1.25 | 0 | 7.5 | 0 | 1.25 | 7.5 | 13.75 | 7.5 | 3.75 | 5 | 2.5 | 18.75 | 5 | 2.5 | 0 | 0 | 1.25 | 12.5 | 8.75 | 3.75 | 0 | 2.5 | 0 | 16.25 | 1.25 | 1.25 | 0 | 8.75 | 11.25 | 1.25 | 0 | 3.75 | 5 | 1.25 | 1.25 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.25 | 0 | 6.25 | 0 | 0 | 16.25 | 5 | 6.25 | 6.25 | 7.5 | 0 | 1.25 | 13.75 | 3.75 | 6.25 | 0 | 5 | 2.5 | 0 | 1.25 | 1.25 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10 | 6.25 | 2.5 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.25 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.72932 | 1.5746 | 1.94891 | 0.91 | 0 | 5.915756 | 0.407143 |
assistance | 9fev87 | (5, 10) | I have neuropathy in my feet and clinical depression and rage bouts. I have no insurance, no treatment, no medication. Just myself and my family to keep me going. My wife has fibromyalgia, which characterizes itself through chronic fatigue, chronic pain, as well as depression with severe anxiety. I am currently pending for disability, while basically killing myself doing Amazon Flex runs to make some semblance of money. | 4,307 | 1 | 1 | 1,536,811,927 | 0 | 9.266324 | 68 | 29.74 | 7.08 | 66.34 | 1 | 13.6 | 29.41 | 85.29 | 51.47 | 16.18 | 13.24 | 13.24 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.94 | 0 | 13.24 | 7.35 | 4.41 | 8.82 | 4.41 | 13.24 | 2.94 | 2.94 | 1.47 | 0 | 1.47 | 13.24 | 1.47 | 11.76 | 1.47 | 2.94 | 4.41 | 2.94 | 2.94 | 0 | 1.47 | 0 | 2.94 | 0 | 1.47 | 0 | 1.47 | 0 | 0 | 1.47 | 0 | 0 | 1.47 | 10.29 | 1.47 | 8.82 | 0 | 0 | 2.94 | 2.94 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.76 | 1.47 | 10.29 | 2.94 | 1.47 | 5.88 | 0 | 1.47 | 1.47 | 2.94 | 0 | 1.47 | 1.47 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.47 | 0 | 16.18 | 7.35 | 8.82 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.7778 | 2.8 | 3 | 1 | 1.2 | 1 | 1.78577 | 1.56 | 1.81847 | 0.43 | 4 | 9.149294 | 0 |
relationships | 7oqi6s | (15, 20) | She then said to me "Am I not worth the effort because you don't want to fix this?" after I told her I did not want to see her. There is plenty of other passive aggressive stuff that she says, but right now I'm so blinded by my disbelief I can't even tell if she is just being emotional or manipulative. What bothers me is this behavior happens every time we have gotten into a fight and then I have to apologize and make it right. tl;dr: Got into a fight with gf of 2 years since highschool - I've hit my breaking point. | 39,927 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,515,331,011 | 0 | 3.217126 | 104 | 11.24 | 31.54 | 57.38 | 1 | 20.8 | 12.5 | 95.19 | 62.5 | 24.04 | 17.31 | 10.58 | 0.96 | 0.96 | 4.81 | 0 | 6.73 | 2.88 | 11.54 | 10.58 | 4.81 | 8.65 | 3.85 | 22.12 | 2.88 | 0.96 | 0.96 | 0.96 | 1.92 | 4.81 | 0 | 4.81 | 0 | 3.85 | 0 | 14.42 | 0 | 0.96 | 5.77 | 0 | 13.46 | 0 | 3.85 | 2.88 | 1.92 | 0.96 | 6.73 | 3.85 | 1.92 | 1.92 | 0 | 1.92 | 0 | 1.92 | 0 | 0 | 8.65 | 1.92 | 0.96 | 3.85 | 1.92 | 0 | 4.81 | 17.31 | 1.92 | 12.5 | 0.96 | 4.81 | 6.73 | 1.92 | 0 | 0 | 0.96 | 0 | 0 | 0.96 | 0 | 0.96 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.42 | 3.85 | 0.96 | 0.96 | 0.96 | 0.96 | 0 | 0.96 | 1.92 | 3.85 | 0 | 0 | 2.4286 | 2.6923 | 3 | 1.125 | 1.1 | 1 | 1.7121 | 1.45495 | 1.85322 | 0.4 | 7 | 4.844942 | 0.059286 |
anxiety | 6pzgke | (10, 15) | The problem is is that the kinds of mistakes I have made are the ones I can't even fix, because I won't be on shift to. I don't know what to say to be helpful, and to diffuse tensions. I am pretty sure all of my coworkers hate me. Just like everybody always has. I have already had panic attacks 3 different times at work now. | 24,077 | 1 | 1 | 1,501,193,529 | 2 | 2.808261 | 66 | 24.18 | 6.5 | 70.57 | 1 | 13.2 | 16.67 | 92.42 | 63.64 | 16.67 | 12.12 | 12.12 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.55 | 4.55 | 13.64 | 18.18 | 6.06 | 3.03 | 4.55 | 24.24 | 3.03 | 3.03 | 1.52 | 1.52 | 1.52 | 13.64 | 4.55 | 9.09 | 3.03 | 3.03 | 0 | 6.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.7 | 1.52 | 3.03 | 3.03 | 1.52 | 6.06 | 4.55 | 1.52 | 0 | 1.52 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.06 | 1.52 | 1.52 | 1.52 | 0 | 1.52 | 4.55 | 24.24 | 1.52 | 9.09 | 0 | 3.03 | 6.06 | 3.03 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 15.15 | 7.58 | 3.03 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.55 | 0 | 0 | 2.8462 | 2.8571 | 2.6 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.71007 | 1.38 | 1.84196 | 1 | 0 | 4.499246 | -0.0125 |
relationships | 7u659x | [18, 23] | I just feel really left out by someone who is supposed to be one of my best friends. Is it too late to say something? Should I even say anything at all? --- **tl;dr**: Friends threw a birthday party for themselves on my actual birthday, didn't include me as a 'birthday girl' but invited me to the party anyways. | 761 | 1 | 0.5 | 1,517,362,189 | 4 | 1.336992 | 59 | 50.46 | 50 | 94.33 | 97.07 | 14.75 | 22.03 | 94.92 | 61.02 | 20.34 | 11.86 | 10.17 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.69 | 8.47 | 5.08 | 16.95 | 8.47 | 8.47 | 3.39 | 1.69 | 18.64 | 5.08 | 3.39 | 1.69 | 1.69 | 1.69 | 5.08 | 5.08 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 16.95 | 0 | 3.39 | 1.69 | 0 | 16.95 | 1.69 | 0 | 1.69 | 6.78 | 1.69 | 5.08 | 5.08 | 0 | 3.39 | 1.69 | 1.69 | 0 | 1.69 | 0 | 0 | 10.17 | 6.78 | 1.69 | 3.39 | 1.69 | 0 | 6.78 | 11.86 | 0 | 15.25 | 1.69 | 6.78 | 6.78 | 0 | 3.39 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.69 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.69 | 28.81 | 3.39 | 1.69 | 1.69 | 1.69 | 3.39 | 0 | 5.08 | 0 | 5.08 | 0 | 6.78 | 2.6667 | 2.75 | 3 | 1.3333 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.76301 | 1.57358 | 1.96053 | 0.67 | 7 | 2.88625 | 0.175 |
ptsd | 8cx609 | [85, 90] | I am on a paid assassin’s hit-list. That’s it, I need to reformat all my hard drives. “Fuck it, I’ll just microwave those fuckers and then give myself the decency to have a painless death.” “Ok ok, deep breaths. We learned this in therapy. | 250 | 1 | 0.833333 | 1,523,977,188 | 1 | -0.375 | 45 | 38.89 | 18.71 | 58.07 | 25.77 | 9 | 20 | 93.33 | 51.11 | 24.44 | 13.33 | 11.11 | 2.22 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.11 | 6.67 | 8.89 | 8.89 | 2.22 | 4.44 | 0 | 22.22 | 4.44 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.22 | 11.11 | 4.44 | 4.44 | 0 | 4.44 | 0 | 4.44 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.67 | 2.22 | 0 | 2.22 | 0 | 2.22 | 0 | 2.22 | 0 | 0 | 2.22 | 8.89 | 2.22 | 4.44 | 2.22 | 0 | 2.22 | 2.22 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.44 | 15.56 | 4.44 | 11.11 | 2.22 | 6.67 | 2.22 | 2.22 | 0 | 2.22 | 2.22 | 0 | 4.44 | 8.89 | 4.44 | 0 | 4.44 | 0 | 0 | 33.33 | 11.11 | 6.67 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.22 | 6.67 | 6.67 | 0 | 0 | 2.5556 | 2.7778 | 3 | 1 | 1.3333 | 1 | 1.72118 | 1.52 | 1.97532 | 0.6 | 0 | 1.5 | 0.061667 |
anxiety | 75vnuw | [3, 8] | I'm quitting my job in a couple of months but right now I don't feel great. I should work out a bit to feel better. I know that there isn't much to do but I needed to write it somewhere. Also I was so excited to quit my job and start working on building my app but I found out that I would need at least 30k$ and I don't have it. Now I feel like I'll need to take another shitty job to realise my dream some day | 1,923 | 1 | 0.571429 | 1,507,797,055 | 2 | -0.223842 | 89 | 13.48 | 1 | 98.92 | 68.2 | 17.8 | 7.87 | 96.63 | 60.67 | 23.6 | 16.85 | 16.85 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.62 | 2.25 | 14.61 | 11.24 | 6.74 | 7.87 | 3.37 | 25.84 | 4.49 | 3.37 | 0 | 0 | 6.74 | 4.49 | 3.37 | 1.12 | 0 | 1.12 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 17.98 | 5.62 | 0 | 5.62 | 2.25 | 0 | 4.49 | 3.37 | 0 | 0 | 3.37 | 1.12 | 1.12 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.99 | 0 | 5.62 | 0 | 4.49 | 0 | 3.37 | 20.22 | 1.12 | 13.48 | 0 | 7.87 | 5.62 | 6.74 | 1.12 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.25 | 1.12 | 1.12 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.24 | 4.49 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.62 | 0 | 1.12 | 2.7143 | 2.9091 | 3 | 1 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.77985 | 1.5012 | 1.93362 | 0.76 | 0 | 2.04078 | 0.310119 |
anxiety | 7kimsg | (5, 10) | Ever since I left school, I’ve felt much more in control of my fears and my emotions, I’ve had a happier outlook on life and I’ve been happier overall. But now, it just seems like every time I’m sick, if I’m nauseous or dizzy, it has to be my anxiety. And if I don’t try to plough through that kind of problem, I’m letting anxiety ruin me, according to my family. I know they don’t get how real it feels when you’re sick from anxiety but I know the difference in myself. I know the difference between anxiety-sick and having an illness caused by something else. | 3,076 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,513,567,860 | 2 | 4.843042 | 106 | 12.23 | 1.57 | 98.97 | 1 | 21.2 | 19.81 | 95.28 | 58.49 | 22.64 | 17.92 | 16.04 | 0 | 0.94 | 0 | 0.94 | 4.72 | 3.77 | 12.26 | 13.21 | 4.72 | 10.38 | 1.89 | 21.7 | 7.55 | 5.66 | 1.89 | 0 | 2.83 | 12.26 | 1.89 | 9.43 | 4.72 | 0 | 0.94 | 2.83 | 0.94 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 23.58 | 5.66 | 3.77 | 2.83 | 7.55 | 1.89 | 7.55 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 6.6 | 0 | 6.6 | 0 | 0 | 4.72 | 0.94 | 0.94 | 0.94 | 0.94 | 0.94 | 3.77 | 17.92 | 0 | 8.49 | 0 | 3.77 | 4.72 | 0.94 | 0.94 | 0.94 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 20.75 | 4.72 | 6.6 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0.94 | 0 | 8.49 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.8 | 2.6 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.74281 | 1.44545 | 1.84647 | 1 | 3 | 6.334926 | -0.018367 |
ptsd | 8n627t | [90, 95] | I learned how to manifest that love in actions good for my body. I cooked a diabetic-friendly meal every night - even if it was just cutting up a block of cheese and opening a package of pepperoni. I spent a little extra on tissues, found the ones I liked best - and kept boxes in every room in the house. I “splurged” on $10 bath bombs once I could be naked in the bathroom again. I brushed my hair before bed every night. | 113 | 0 | 1 | 1,527,658,024 | 12 | 5.4175 | 83 | 88.6 | 16.75 | 95.72 | 96.07 | 16.6 | 16.87 | 85.54 | 48.19 | 13.25 | 10.84 | 10.84 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.41 | 8.43 | 14.46 | 3.61 | 4.82 | 4.82 | 0 | 9.64 | 4.82 | 2.41 | 1.2 | 2.41 | 4.82 | 6.02 | 4.82 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.41 | 0 | 1.2 | 0 | 0 | 9.64 | 2.41 | 1.2 | 2.41 | 1.2 | 3.61 | 1.2 | 1.2 | 0 | 0 | 1.2 | 8.43 | 2.41 | 1.2 | 1.2 | 3.61 | 6.02 | 2.41 | 1.2 | 2.41 | 2.41 | 0 | 6.02 | 2.41 | 0 | 19.28 | 1.2 | 12.05 | 6.02 | 1.2 | 3.61 | 6.02 | 1.2 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.46 | 6.02 | 1.2 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.61 | 2.41 | 0 | 0 | 1.2 | 3 | 2.9167 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.73753 | 1.78841 | 1.95565 | 0.82 | 12 | 5.712 | 0.19125 |
ptsd | 5xqnq5 | [25, 30] | "We also want people to feel as if they are away from a lot of the stress and tension. We really want them to focus on themselves for a change." The center is located on a 15-acre plot of land, "designed to support fire fighters as they seek treatment and recovery." "This is the first of it's kind," said Patrick Morrison, a former Fairfax County Firefighter, and a member of the IAFF. "It's a center that doesn't exist anywhere else." | 465 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,488,766,289 | 6 | 2.013976 | 81 | 88.48 | 83.84 | 20.47 | 10.27 | 16.2 | 16.05 | 83.95 | 55.56 | 12.35 | 7.41 | 0 | 2.47 | 0 | 0 | 4.94 | 4.94 | 12.35 | 17.28 | 7.41 | 3.7 | 8.64 | 1.23 | 13.58 | 3.7 | 3.7 | 0 | 2.47 | 1.23 | 6.17 | 2.47 | 3.7 | 2.47 | 1.23 | 0 | 12.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.11 | 1.23 | 1.23 | 3.7 | 3.7 | 0 | 3.7 | 3.7 | 0 | 1.23 | 2.47 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.17 | 3.7 | 2.47 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.47 | 12.35 | 0 | 14.81 | 1.23 | 11.11 | 2.47 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 25.93 | 6.17 | 4.94 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.23 | 9.88 | 3.7 | 0 | 0 | 2.6667 | 2.5714 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.69066 | 1.51875 | 1.84165 | 0.88 | 2 | 3.285554 | 0.141667 |
almosthomeless | 6mfhhl | (15, 20) | She is willing to surrender her cat it's just difficult to find a place rn that can take him. 2. She can't move in with me because I live in a studio apt with my boyfriend and we just renewed our lease and cant have a 3rd person plus no animals allowed. 3. She has called 211 and has tried to speak with someone from a local shelter called Mercy house but they haven't gotten back to her. | 28,843 | 1 | 0.714286 | 1,499,703,565 | 7 | 1.271341 | 78 | 35.66 | 77.92 | 3.7 | 9.85 | 15.6 | 12.82 | 87.18 | 60.26 | 19.23 | 15.38 | 3.85 | 2.56 | 0 | 7.69 | 1.28 | 3.85 | 5.13 | 14.1 | 8.97 | 3.85 | 7.69 | 5.13 | 19.23 | 2.56 | 0 | 0 | 3.85 | 0 | 2.56 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.23 | 0 | 1.28 | 6.41 | 2.56 | 10.26 | 1.28 | 2.56 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 5.13 | 1.28 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 14.1 | 3.85 | 1.28 | 2.56 | 5.13 | 1.28 | 5.13 | 17.95 | 0 | 7.69 | 1.28 | 6.41 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 0 | 3.85 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.26 | 6.41 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.85 | 0 | 0 | 2.625 | 2.6667 | 3 | 1.2308 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.71059 | 1.67164 | 1.89518 | 0.99 | 2 | 2.653841 | 0.069481 |
ptsd | 7tvris | (5, 10) | That completely threw me. I don't know why I'm finding it so difficult to cope. I'm crying frequently for some reason and I don't know why. I haven't done the whole uncontrollable crying thing since my last episode which was all the way back in November 2016. (I spent 2017 learning to shut down my emotions so crying had become a thing of the past.) | 50,523 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,517,261,618 | 9 | 3.176048 | 65 | 9.98 | 2.31 | 99 | 1 | 13 | 13.85 | 93.85 | 61.54 | 21.54 | 13.85 | 13.85 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.69 | 6.15 | 10.77 | 13.85 | 10.77 | 4.62 | 4.62 | 27.69 | 3.08 | 0 | 4.62 | 3.08 | 4.62 | 9.23 | 0 | 7.69 | 1.54 | 0 | 4.62 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 20 | 9.23 | 6.15 | 0 | 1.54 | 3.08 | 1.54 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.08 | 0 | 0 | 1.54 | 0 | 1.54 | 9.23 | 12.31 | 0 | 16.92 | 1.54 | 7.69 | 9.23 | 1.54 | 0 | 0 | 1.54 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 18.46 | 7.69 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.69 | 3.08 | 0 | 2.5455 | 2.7 | 2.8 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.71023 | 1.53448 | 1.85497 | 0.79 | 3 | 3.962857 | -0.100463 |
food_pantry | 9kbpe8 | (10, 15) | I dread what it would be like to inject myself with insulin. I am out of work due to a lot of health problems I have chronicled on Reddit. I have put in for my short term disability but it has been almost a month and I survive off the small amounts I make on surveys. It is frustrating in so many ways. But I am really tired of being hungry because I cannot grab a healthy snack. | 35,929 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,538,354,969 | 6 | 1.920072 | 78 | 49.96 | 2.76 | 96.7 | 2.7 | 15.6 | 12.82 | 94.87 | 64.1 | 17.95 | 12.82 | 12.82 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.13 | 5.13 | 17.95 | 14.1 | 3.85 | 6.41 | 1.28 | 17.95 | 5.13 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 0 | 3.85 | 5.13 | 1.28 | 3.85 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.82 | 0 | 2.56 | 2.56 | 2.56 | 0 | 5.13 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 1.28 | 7.69 | 0 | 5.13 | 0 | 2.56 | 6.41 | 0 | 2.56 | 1.28 | 0 | 2.56 | 1.28 | 12.82 | 0 | 16.67 | 1.28 | 10.26 | 5.13 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.41 | 6.41 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.4545 | 2.8 | 1.1 | 1 | 1 | 1.71627 | 1.46364 | 1.84896 | 0.75 | 12 | 3.59877 | -0.025 |
stress | 8oqc11 | (3, 8) | I'd be really grateful for any feedback please. The idea behind these articles is that they should be helpful! You can find the homepage for the series here <url> I'll post each article as they're published here too — but only if someone is finding it useful. Looking forward to any constructive feedback. | 37,244 | 0 | 1 | 1,528,201,122 | 6 | 3.812632 | 52 | 19.2 | 57.63 | 26.92 | 99 | 13 | 25 | 90.38 | 57.69 | 15.38 | 7.69 | 3.85 | 0 | 1.92 | 0 | 1.92 | 7.69 | 5.77 | 9.62 | 17.31 | 9.62 | 5.77 | 0 | 19.23 | 3.85 | 1.92 | 0 | 0 | 7.69 | 7.69 | 7.69 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.62 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.23 | 5.77 | 0 | 3.85 | 7.69 | 0 | 5.77 | 1.92 | 1.92 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.92 | 1.92 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.46 | 1.92 | 5.77 | 1.92 | 3.85 | 1.92 | 5.77 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 17.31 | 5.77 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.92 | 0 | 0 | 5.77 | 0 | 3.85 | 2.7778 | 2.5 | 2.6 | 1.3333 | 1 | 1 | 1.61896 | 1.36 | 1.89813 | 1 | 0 | 4.469386 | 0 |
relationships | 7o14jt | (6, 11) | "Indefinitely grounded" according to my father. How do I proceed with this situation? --- **tl;dr**: Parents basically fucking hate me and have called me all sorts of terrible things because I was arrested for small weed possession, and are threatening to demolish my social life. What do I do to improve the situation? | 21,116 | 1 | 0.6 | 1,515,046,820 | 0 | 3.995385 | 53 | 28.86 | 22.52 | 36.1 | 1 | 13.25 | 30.19 | 84.91 | 52.83 | 18.87 | 13.21 | 13.21 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.66 | 1.89 | 11.32 | 11.32 | 3.77 | 7.55 | 0 | 15.09 | 5.66 | 0 | 3.77 | 0 | 1.89 | 9.43 | 1.89 | 7.55 | 1.89 | 5.66 | 0 | 7.55 | 3.77 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 9.43 | 0 | 3.77 | 0 | 3.77 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.66 | 0 | 3.77 | 1.89 | 0 | 11.32 | 3.77 | 1.89 | 5.66 | 0 | 1.89 | 3.77 | 11.32 | 0 | 5.66 | 0 | 3.77 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 30.19 | 3.77 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 3.77 | 0 | 5.66 | 3.77 | 0 | 0 | 7.55 | 2.8333 | 3 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.83801 | 1.51064 | 1.86008 | 0.41 | 30 | 5.953385 | -0.504167 |
anxiety | 69b8mh | (5, 10) | I am frantically trying to figure out what distractions I can rely on during down-time. The group I will be with are ecstatic about the cruise, and have no issue with sitting in a recliner and doing nothing. I, however, don't want to be alone with my thoughts. I plan on bringing books, audio books, podcasts, and whatever videos I can cram on my device(s), but reading or listening to something during an activity or around the group will probably be seen as rude or anti-social. The wifi on the ship is supposedly terrible and expensive, so I can't even casually browse reddit - which is normally my go-to distraction. | 6,758 | 1 | 1 | 1,493,941,410 | 1 | 10.338684 | 113 | 47.89 | 7.85 | 91.41 | 2.44 | 22.6 | 19.47 | 90.27 | 61.95 | 12.39 | 8.85 | 8.85 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.54 | 6.19 | 16.81 | 12.39 | 6.19 | 9.73 | 3.54 | 17.7 | 3.54 | 0.88 | 2.65 | 0 | 1.77 | 7.08 | 0.88 | 3.54 | 0.88 | 0.88 | 0.88 | 3.54 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 15.04 | 3.54 | 0 | 1.77 | 6.19 | 0.88 | 5.31 | 3.54 | 1.77 | 1.77 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.31 | 2.65 | 1.77 | 0.88 | 0 | 0 | 0.88 | 12.39 | 2.65 | 13.27 | 2.65 | 7.96 | 2.65 | 1.77 | 5.31 | 0 | 0.88 | 0 | 0 | 0.88 | 0 | 0.88 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 18.58 | 4.42 | 7.08 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.54 | 0 | 1.77 | 1.77 | 0 | 2.6667 | 2.625 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.69919 | 1.51325 | 1.82337 | 1 | 3 | 10.484456 | -0.43 |
anxiety | 5oau89 | (0, 5) | I've suffered from a mild anxiety disorder w/ depression (diagnosed) for about 4 years, all while I've been with my (now) DH. DH is logical/rational to a fault, and while generally supportive, cannot understand how I feel and act when depressed, or suffering from particularly bad anxiety. No matter how I try to explain to him, tell him that I literally cannot help it or just magically lift myself out of it, he insists that I'm being "dramatic". It makes me feel all the more vulnerable, and all the more difficult to speak for myself. What advise/experience do you have for helping someone understand who has never experienced depression and/or anxiety that the disorder is "real" and not in active control of the victim? | 15,725 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,484,573,440 | 2 | 12.523435 | 127 | 20.01 | 26.44 | 62.03 | 1 | 25.4 | 23.62 | 89.76 | 57.48 | 18.11 | 11.02 | 7.87 | 0 | 0.79 | 2.36 | 0 | 7.09 | 4.72 | 11.81 | 9.45 | 7.09 | 10.24 | 3.94 | 18.11 | 3.94 | 1.57 | 3.94 | 0.79 | 3.94 | 12.6 | 2.36 | 10.24 | 3.15 | 0 | 3.94 | 9.45 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.36 | 20.47 | 6.3 | 3.94 | 0 | 4.72 | 3.94 | 4.72 | 3.94 | 0 | 0.79 | 1.57 | 0.79 | 0 | 0.79 | 0 | 0 | 6.3 | 0.79 | 0.79 | 3.15 | 0 | 2.36 | 1.57 | 15.75 | 0 | 6.3 | 0 | 1.57 | 4.72 | 0.79 | 0.79 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0.79 | 0 | 0.79 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 20.47 | 3.15 | 5.51 | 0 | 0 | 0.79 | 0 | 0 | 3.15 | 2.36 | 3.15 | 2.36 | 3 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.76272 | 1.4463 | 1.80616 | 1 | 3 | 12.733344 | -0.016026 |
anxiety | 6nkiln | [0, 5] | I have no friends. This has been both a cause and an effect of my anxiety and depression. I can open up and become confident once I get to know people and I have had friends before but I've gone almost a whole year with no actual friends since I have moved. Moving and the effects it had has greatly affected my confidence making new friends since I most of my interactions are with small town people who have had their friends and known other groups for years. I have a very hard time carrying on conversations with acquaintances and bridging the gap of relationships. | 1,337 | 1 | 0.571429 | 1,500,180,847 | 5 | 6.581051 | 105 | 43.31 | 46.19 | 99 | 25.77 | 21 | 17.14 | 97.14 | 58.1 | 15.24 | 11.43 | 10.48 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0.95 | 3.81 | 5.71 | 12.38 | 14.29 | 1.9 | 7.62 | 1.9 | 21.9 | 4.76 | 1.9 | 0.95 | 0.95 | 3.81 | 3.81 | 1.9 | 1.9 | 0.95 | 0 | 0.95 | 13.33 | 0 | 5.71 | 0 | 0 | 15.24 | 4.76 | 6.67 | 0 | 1.9 | 1.9 | 1.9 | 0.95 | 0 | 0 | 0.95 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.33 | 8.57 | 1.9 | 3.81 | 2.86 | 0 | 7.62 | 13.33 | 0 | 18.1 | 3.81 | 6.67 | 7.62 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.71 | 4.76 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0.95 | 0 | 0 | 2.8 | 2.8 | 3 | 1 | 1.25 | 1 | 1.83183 | 1.47292 | 1.89556 | 0.86 | 3 | 6.234582 | 0.13822 |
relationships | 7sjxl5 | [68, 73] | How do I figure out what is putting these guys off? Any advice is appreciated! TL;DR: Have been on 3 first dates over the last few months, and each I thought went well or above and beyond well, but each of them haven't wanted to go on a second date with me. What am I doing wrong? How do I figure out what I'm doing wrong? | 1,062 | 0 | 0.8 | 1,516,760,874 | 1 | 1.483578 | 67 | 21.93 | 18.53 | 99 | 53.85 | 13.4 | 4.48 | 97.01 | 62.69 | 16.42 | 10.45 | 8.96 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.49 | 5.97 | 2.99 | 16.42 | 16.42 | 7.46 | 8.96 | 1.49 | 22.39 | 4.48 | 0 | 7.46 | 4.48 | 5.97 | 7.46 | 4.48 | 2.99 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.97 | 0 | 2.99 | 0 | 1.49 | 16.42 | 5.97 | 2.99 | 1.49 | 2.99 | 0 | 4.48 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 0 | 8.96 | 0 | 1.49 | 4.48 | 0 | 2.99 | 4.48 | 13.43 | 0 | 23.88 | 4.48 | 11.94 | 7.46 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.99 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.99 | 0 | 16.42 | 1.49 | 2.99 | 1.49 | 1.49 | 4.48 | 1.49 | 0 | 0 | 2.99 | 0 | 0 | 2.6667 | 2.625 | 3 | 1.1429 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.72017 | 1.44262 | 1.81676 | 0.67 | 3 | 2.885882 | -0.0875 |
ptsd | 7kip3d | (15, 20) | I know he's never going to be the same, but it's hard seeing him like this. He's become very wreck less, too. He's Hanging out with punks who think are big ballers selling Xanax and weed, living at there moms apartment. --side note: His friend was thrown out of a car recently during a drop off at gun point. My brother lashes out when things don't go his way to and just has a nasty attitude at times.. | 27,866 | 1 | 0.666667 | 1,513,568,553 | 1 | 4.802048 | 78 | 46.3 | 73.93 | 83.83 | 9.85 | 15.6 | 8.97 | 89.74 | 56.41 | 15.38 | 10.26 | 2.56 | 0 | 0 | 7.69 | 0 | 5.13 | 5.13 | 16.67 | 12.82 | 7.69 | 5.13 | 2.56 | 23.08 | 6.41 | 5.13 | 2.56 | 0 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 12.82 | 2.56 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 8.97 | 6.41 | 3.85 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 2.56 | 1.28 | 0 | 1.28 | 2.56 | 0 | 2.56 | 0 | 0 | 3.85 | 2.56 | 0 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 2.56 | 15.38 | 1.28 | 26.92 | 6.41 | 14.1 | 6.41 | 0 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 21.79 | 7.69 | 3.85 | 1.28 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.56 | 0 | 6.41 | 0 | 0 | 2.7143 | 2.75 | 3 | 1 | 1.1667 | 1 | 1.74638 | 1.56061 | 1.77626 | 0.67 | 2 | 4.958699 | -0.179762 |
relationships | 7nz6aj | [30, 35] | IDK. I've applied to anything I can think of and have had no luck. But at least I'm not dealing with all this stress with someone who "loves" me not giving a damn if that happens. Thank you all for giving me perspective that no, I was not being unreasonable and it wasn't that he decided who lives in his home (which I NEVER disagreed with) but that it was messed up of him to offer, plan, go back on it, and then want to act like that never happened. And for the people who implied I have no "market value" to him, my divorce was because my ex cheated. | 2,330 | 0 | 0.8 | 1,515,026,435 | 1,189 | 7.709646 | 110 | 6.41 | 13.76 | 55.41 | 60.23 | 22 | 12.73 | 95.45 | 69.09 | 28.18 | 14.55 | 10 | 0 | 0.91 | 3.64 | 0 | 13.64 | 1.82 | 14.55 | 10 | 2.73 | 8.18 | 9.09 | 18.18 | 0.91 | 1.82 | 3.64 | 0 | 2.73 | 9.09 | 5.45 | 3.64 | 0.91 | 1.82 | 0 | 14.55 | 0.91 | 0 | 0 | 3.64 | 18.18 | 2.73 | 1.82 | 1.82 | 3.64 | 3.64 | 6.36 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.82 | 0 | 0.91 | 0 | 0 | 4.55 | 0.91 | 1.82 | 0.91 | 0.91 | 0 | 6.36 | 10.91 | 1.82 | 8.18 | 0.91 | 4.55 | 3.64 | 0.91 | 0 | 0.91 | 0.91 | 0 | 0 | 2.73 | 0.91 | 0.91 | 0 | 0 | 0.91 | 17.27 | 4.55 | 4.55 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.64 | 2.73 | 1.82 | 0 | 3 | 2.8 | 3 | 1.1111 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.78719 | 1.36699 | 1.85043 | 0.94 | 131 | 7.843469 | -0.15 |
domesticviolence | 6f5fy2 | [30, 35] | During the walk she made a lot of threats about how she was going to call the police, put me in jail, even try to get me deported (I'm a LPR.) She gets vindictive like this but usually calms down. Due to the threats I called the police to ask their advice. The officer wanted me to give him her information and I declined. Short story, he gave me two options. | 1,949 | 1 | 0.6 | 1,496,548,474 | 1 | 2.82125 | 71 | 80.52 | 80.09 | 17.93 | 1.98 | 14.2 | 12.68 | 91.55 | 54.93 | 21.13 | 19.72 | 9.86 | 0 | 0 | 8.45 | 1.41 | 1.41 | 9.86 | 15.49 | 2.82 | 5.63 | 4.23 | 0 | 19.72 | 1.41 | 1.41 | 1.41 | 1.41 | 1.41 | 2.82 | 0 | 2.82 | 2.82 | 2.82 | 0 | 19.72 | 0 | 0 | 5.63 | 2.82 | 12.68 | 1.41 | 2.82 | 1.41 | 5.63 | 0 | 1.41 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.68 | 0 | 1.41 | 8.45 | 2.82 | 2.82 | 7.04 | 9.86 | 1.41 | 12.68 | 4.23 | 4.23 | 4.23 | 2.82 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 15.49 | 7.04 | 4.23 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.41 | 2.82 | 0 | 2.7143 | 2.3333 | 3 | 1.125 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.76865 | 1.81311 | 1.82866 | 1 | 3 | 4.167778 | -0.126111 |
anxiety | 77j1hn | (0, 5) | Has anyone else gone through this? I’ve dealt with anxiety for 7+ years, depending on what you mark as the origin of it, and in the past several years I’ve tried every non-medical solution google came up with/my wallet allowed. I’ve thought very long and hard about seeking medical help for my anxiety, and finally did this week. Honestly, there was a lot of support and encouragement to seek treatment from people I talked to about it previously. The doctor I saw was amazing—seriously I had no idea how to broach the topic and I felt 100% comfortable discussing my concerns from the moment I opened my mouth until I left the office. | 35,051 | 1 | 0.5 | 1,508,464,125 | 1 | 6.04825 | 116 | 63.92 | 27.32 | 93.67 | 58.39 | 23.2 | 18.97 | 88.79 | 53.45 | 17.24 | 12.07 | 11.21 | 0 | 0.86 | 0 | 0 | 5.17 | 6.03 | 16.38 | 6.9 | 6.03 | 6.9 | 0.86 | 14.66 | 3.45 | 0.86 | 1.72 | 1.72 | 2.59 | 6.9 | 4.31 | 2.59 | 1.72 | 0 | 0 | 6.03 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.34 | 3.45 | 4.31 | 0 | 2.59 | 0.86 | 0.86 | 2.59 | 0.86 | 0 | 1.72 | 3.45 | 0.86 | 2.59 | 0 | 0 | 6.03 | 1.72 | 1.72 | 3.45 | 0 | 0 | 11.21 | 4.31 | 0 | 14.66 | 1.72 | 5.17 | 6.9 | 1.72 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.79 | 3.45 | 3.45 | 0 | 0 | 0.86 | 0 | 0.86 | 0 | 2.59 | 0 | 2.59 | 3 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.69546 | 1.48041 | 1.86053 | 1 | 2 | 6.583333 | 0.022667 |
anxiety | 8jy4ib | [15, 20] | I'm obsessing over my new relationship also. Like... its starting out, and I can't get clear from him what he thinks of us etc. I haven't heard from him all day, I'm thinking at this point he may have left his phone at home or something on accident. But I'm checking my phone CONSTANTLY. And even Facebook messenger to see if he's logged in at all today. | 1,111 | 1 | 1 | 1,526,501,715 | 2 | 3.806712 | 67 | 13.69 | 44.07 | 95.74 | 8.14 | 11.17 | 14.93 | 92.54 | 62.69 | 26.87 | 20.9 | 10.45 | 1.49 | 0 | 8.96 | 0 | 5.97 | 0 | 17.91 | 10.45 | 4.48 | 8.96 | 2.99 | 20.9 | 2.99 | 1.49 | 1.49 | 0 | 2.99 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 1.49 | 0 | 0 | 17.91 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.96 | 17.91 | 2.99 | 0 | 1.49 | 5.97 | 4.48 | 7.46 | 7.46 | 2.99 | 4.48 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.46 | 4.48 | 0 | 1.49 | 1.49 | 0 | 2.99 | 16.42 | 1.49 | 20.9 | 0 | 13.43 | 7.46 | 0 | 1.49 | 1.49 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 23.88 | 11.94 | 2.99 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.96 | 0 | 0 | 2.8333 | 2.4 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.68423 | 1.59032 | 1.89039 | 1 | 4 | 4.813589 | 0.047273 |
anxiety | 6gghv1 | (0, 5) | Someone I know has been compulsively chattering their teeth. They told me it started because they could feel their teeth wobble a little when they clenched their teeth together while feeling them with their finger (we all know this is just one of those weird tricks the teeth play on you) but it's become compulsive now. They told me they feel ill from it. They don't have any anxiety issues and the chattering is just a result of the above but I can see how it would become one. What can be done to make this go away? | 15,636 | 0 | 0.8 | 1,497,116,397 | 1 | 5.212257 | 98 | 6.39 | 92.33 | 65.98 | 4.76 | 19.6 | 11.22 | 95.92 | 64.29 | 26.53 | 17.35 | 4.08 | 1.02 | 1.02 | 0 | 11.22 | 9.18 | 5.1 | 8.16 | 15.31 | 5.1 | 7.14 | 1.02 | 24.49 | 1.02 | 0 | 3.06 | 2.04 | 2.04 | 4.08 | 1.02 | 3.06 | 1.02 | 1.02 | 0 | 19.39 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.39 | 8.16 | 4.08 | 2.04 | 2.04 | 1.02 | 2.04 | 5.1 | 1.02 | 0 | 4.08 | 6.12 | 5.1 | 1.02 | 0 | 0 | 5.1 | 4.08 | 0 | 1.02 | 0 | 0 | 5.1 | 20.41 | 0 | 11.22 | 2.04 | 5.1 | 4.08 | 0 | 3.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.18 | 4.08 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.02 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.04 | 2.04 | 0 | 2.7143 | 2.8 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.65355 | 1.44368 | 1.84171 | 0.67 | 1 | 4.613429 | -0.296875 |
almosthomeless | 77jmmy | [5, 10] | I'm trying to keep my mouth shut, but shit is so goddamn annoying. Oh, and my both of their first languages are not English. While I speak only English. I criticize my father by telling him he speaks like Donald Trump. I'm gonna donate plasma tomorrow, because I'm broke. | 342 | 1 | 1 | 1,508,470,907 | 4 | 2.09327 | 49 | 7.35 | 15.37 | 89.63 | 1 | 9.8 | 18.37 | 89.8 | 48.98 | 22.45 | 22.45 | 16.33 | 0 | 0 | 4.08 | 2.04 | 0 | 0 | 8.16 | 10.2 | 4.08 | 10.2 | 2.04 | 28.57 | 4.08 | 2.04 | 0 | 2.04 | 2.04 | 10.2 | 0 | 10.2 | 0 | 8.16 | 2.04 | 16.33 | 2.04 | 0 | 0 | 6.12 | 8.16 | 0 | 2.04 | 0 | 2.04 | 0 | 4.08 | 4.08 | 0 | 4.08 | 0 | 4.08 | 4.08 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.12 | 2.04 | 4.08 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.04 | 18.37 | 4.08 | 12.24 | 2.04 | 4.08 | 6.12 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.04 | 0 | 0 | 8.16 | 4.08 | 2.04 | 0 | 2.04 | 0 | 22.45 | 10.2 | 6.12 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.12 | 0 | 0 | 2.7143 | 2.6364 | 3 | 1 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.72384 | 1.53333 | 1.89339 | 0.54 | 21 | 3.439906 | -0.125 |
relationships | 7syh2x | (0, 5) | I'm worried about my friend. She's really pretty and carefree and intelligent and I've known her since highschool. We had a band back then. She played guitar and sang, I played bass and another friend of ours played drums. We were into the grunge scene and to be honest, we were kinda good for a bunch of 15 year olds trying to make a name for themselves. | 11,854 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,516,907,427 | 0 | 2.544571 | 67 | 36.38 | 94.96 | 6.57 | 99 | 13.4 | 8.96 | 92.54 | 58.21 | 19.4 | 17.91 | 5.97 | 5.97 | 0 | 4.48 | 1.49 | 1.49 | 5.97 | 13.43 | 10.45 | 4.48 | 10.45 | 0 | 20.9 | 2.99 | 0 | 0 | 1.49 | 2.99 | 13.43 | 11.94 | 1.49 | 1.49 | 0 | 0 | 17.91 | 0 | 2.99 | 4.48 | 0 | 10.45 | 1.49 | 2.99 | 0 | 4.48 | 0 | 1.49 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.94 | 8.96 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 11.94 | 7.46 | 1.49 | 7.46 | 0 | 2.99 | 5.97 | 1.49 | 10.45 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.93 | 7.46 | 2.99 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.48 | 0 | 0 | 2.8462 | 2.5 | 3 | 1.25 | 1.3 | 1 | 1.73538 | 1.56491 | 1.98585 | 0.46 | 27 | 2.975714 | 0.366667 |
assistance | 822x1t | (0, 4) | I don’t speak Amharic, but today I took him out and he bought a journal where he could write down words that confused him. I would like to make him a mini-dictionary of phrases like “I don’t feel well,” names of foods, and “I’m hungry/I’m thirsty/I’m tired” etc. in Amharic, with their English translations, so he can look for a phrase he needs and see how to say it in English. Absolutely any phrases and translations you have on hand will help. | 18,314 | 0 | 1 | 1,520,219,226 | 53 | 3.535146 | 85 | 21.04 | 68.09 | 1.01 | 47.53 | 21.25 | 16.47 | 83.53 | 58.82 | 21.18 | 18.82 | 8.24 | 0 | 1.18 | 8.24 | 1.18 | 2.35 | 3.53 | 14.12 | 11.76 | 5.88 | 8.24 | 2.35 | 22.35 | 2.35 | 1.18 | 2.35 | 0 | 1.18 | 3.53 | 2.35 | 1.18 | 1.18 | 0 | 0 | 15.29 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.24 | 11.76 | 1.18 | 2.35 | 3.53 | 2.35 | 1.18 | 1.18 | 7.06 | 2.35 | 2.35 | 2.35 | 5.88 | 2.35 | 1.18 | 0 | 3.53 | 3.53 | 1.18 | 0 | 2.35 | 1.18 | 0 | 2.35 | 18.82 | 1.18 | 8.24 | 0 | 7.06 | 1.18 | 1.18 | 0 | 0 | 1.18 | 0 | 0 | 2.35 | 0 | 0 | 1.18 | 1.18 | 0 | 24.71 | 4.71 | 5.88 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.18 | 4.71 | 5.88 | 0 | 2.35 | 2.7143 | 2.8889 | 2.8 | 1 | 1 | 1 | 1.71051 | 1.64412 | 1.8666 | 0.92 | 9 | 3.794675 | -0.125926 |
stress | 7e3oz6 | (20, 25) | In February 2015 I took time off and took Clark to his cabin and then again in September. On the second trip I decided to search for a job in Redding and in late October I moved to Redding. Clark and I would call each other to update on how my medical credential process was going and he would share about his family. He would always repeat to me, “Manuel, I don’t know how much longer I can handle the fast pace of the Bay Area. People are in a rush and they don’t even know what they are in a rush for.” One of the new grievances was the “Avenue” he lives on that he jokingly calls “an expressway.” The sound of constant vehicle traffic is definitely a contrast to an area previously filled with orchards. | 17,832 | 0 | 0.833333 | 1,511,127,401 | 1 | 2.374286 | 137 | 79.91 | 58.65 | 84.17 | 38.77 | 19.57 | 13.87 | 88.32 | 56.2 | 13.87 | 11.68 | 5.84 | 0 | 0 | 4.38 | 1.46 | 2.19 | 8.76 | 16.79 | 8.03 | 4.38 | 6.57 | 1.46 | 13.14 | 2.19 | 0.73 | 2.19 | 2.19 | 1.46 | 2.19 | 1.46 | 0.73 | 0 | 0 | 0.73 | 10.22 | 0.73 | 0 | 0 | 4.38 | 8.03 | 2.19 | 1.46 | 2.19 | 0 | 1.46 | 0.73 | 1.46 | 0.73 | 0.73 | 0 | 2.19 | 0 | 1.46 | 0 | 0.73 | 2.92 | 1.46 | 0 | 0 | 1.46 | 0 | 5.11 | 7.3 | 1.46 | 24.82 | 4.38 | 10.95 | 10.22 | 1.46 | 1.46 | 0.73 | 0 | 0 | 0.73 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.41 | 5.11 | 1.46 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.38 | 1.46 | 0 | 0 | 2.75 | 2.8 | 3 | 1.1111 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.72952 | 1.60351 | 1.79409 | 1 | 0 | 3.732503 | 0.082851 |
assistance | 6kuwt1 | [45, 50] | Thanks in advance! Edit: You guys are the best. I now have a more solid footing on what to do and how to plan for it. Thank you so much. Any other advice is welcome, and thank you to everyone who took the time to say something. | 488 | 0 | 1 | 1,499,021,679 | 36 | 0.707021 | 47 | 41.79 | 98.27 | 15.43 | 99 | 9.4 | 10.64 | 95.74 | 61.7 | 21.28 | 8.51 | 2.13 | 0 | 6.38 | 0 | 0 | 12.77 | 6.38 | 14.89 | 8.51 | 6.38 | 8.51 | 0 | 19.15 | 4.26 | 4.26 | 6.38 | 0 | 6.38 | 10.64 | 10.64 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.15 | 0 | 2.13 | 0 | 2.13 | 10.64 | 0 | 2.13 | 0 | 4.26 | 2.13 | 2.13 | 2.13 | 0 | 2.13 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.64 | 2.13 | 6.38 | 2.13 | 6.38 | 0 | 2.13 | 19.15 | 2.13 | 10.64 | 2.13 | 4.26 | 4.26 | 2.13 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.89 | 8.51 | 2.13 | 2.13 | 0 | 0 | 2.13 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.6 | 2.625 | 2.4 | 1.2857 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.68719 | 1.38049 | 1.88426 | 0.89 | 30 | 2.386638 | 0.375 |
relationships | 7u2d6k | (7, 12) | Plus, we’re using his car, which will eventually result in the usual wear and tear and expenses. We equally split all shared expenses like gas, food, rent, and bills, but we both have the same salary and similar assets. Do any cohabiting couples pool and split their commuting expenses equally, or do you just chalk it up to a difference in individual expenses and each pay your own way? tl;dr : My boyfriend's commute is twice as expensive as mine and it doesn't really seem fair. Should we split it? | 47,757 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,517,331,075 | 3 | 5.568494 | 90 | 27.46 | 78.17 | 65.14 | 67.75 | 18 | 17.78 | 91.11 | 48.89 | 15.56 | 11.11 | 2.22 | 4.44 | 2.22 | 1.11 | 1.11 | 4.44 | 3.33 | 8.89 | 7.78 | 3.33 | 13.33 | 1.11 | 13.33 | 10 | 8.89 | 1.11 | 1.11 | 6.67 | 2.22 | 2.22 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.22 | 0 | 1.11 | 0 | 2.22 | 14.44 | 1.11 | 2.22 | 1.11 | 3.33 | 1.11 | 7.78 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.33 | 1.11 | 1.11 | 0 | 1.11 | 14.44 | 6.67 | 0 | 2.22 | 1.11 | 4.44 | 1.11 | 8.89 | 2.22 | 14.44 | 3.33 | 8.89 | 2.22 | 4.44 | 1.11 | 1.11 | 10 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 18.89 | 3.33 | 7.78 | 1.11 | 1.11 | 2.22 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.33 | 0 | 0 | 2.875 | 2.625 | 3 | 1.125 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.71269 | 1.55949 | 1.83932 | 0.72 | 27 | 6.081366 | 0.075 |
assistance | 9reuzf | [6, 11] | I hate asking for help and I would ask my family but they disowned me when I moved due to my adoptive mom being mentally abusive. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Even if you don't have $20 anything helps. Thank you so much. Edit: I have PayPal and Cash App. | 45 | 1 | 0.8 | 1,540,505,306 | 0 | 0.367028 | 51 | 1.55 | 65.27 | 40.84 | 62.94 | 10.2 | 13.73 | 90.2 | 52.94 | 21.57 | 19.61 | 13.73 | 0 | 3.92 | 0 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 0 | 3.92 | 13.73 | 5.88 | 11.76 | 1.96 | 25.49 | 0 | 0 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 3.92 | 9.8 | 5.88 | 3.92 | 0 | 3.92 | 0 | 19.61 | 3.92 | 0 | 1.96 | 0 | 13.73 | 1.96 | 0 | 5.88 | 5.88 | 0 | 3.92 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.8 | 7.84 | 0 | 5.88 | 0 | 0 | 1.96 | 15.69 | 0 | 5.88 | 1.96 | 0 | 3.92 | 3.92 | 1.96 | 1.96 | 3.92 | 0 | 0 | 1.96 | 0 | 1.96 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 15.69 | 9.8 | 0 | 1.96 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.96 | 0 | 1.96 | 2.6667 | 2.8889 | 3 | 1.2 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.79643 | 1.41818 | 1.94435 | 0.4 | 7 | 2.578656 | -0.125 |
survivorsofabuse | 9jpn1o | (10, 15) | I'm a guy, . When I was 13, i started talking with a girl on an online forum. Being quite bullied (nothing physical, mostly social stuff, shaming and that kind of jive), I really didn't have alot of people to talk to. But this girl, man oh man I really liked her. We spoke at first about nothing in special but quickly it got really personal and in depth. | 5,446 | 0 | 1 | 1,538,160,390 | 7 | 2.006286 | 67 | 32.48 | 50 | 88.99 | 80.01 | 13.4 | 16.42 | 91.04 | 56.72 | 16.42 | 10.45 | 7.46 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 5.97 | 4.48 | 13.43 | 7.46 | 8.96 | 7.46 | 4.48 | 14.93 | 4.48 | 0 | 1.49 | 2.99 | 1.49 | 4.48 | 2.99 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.4 | 0 | 1.49 | 4.48 | 4.48 | 17.91 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.97 | 2.99 | 8.96 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 0 | 5.97 | 2.99 | 1.49 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 8.96 | 4.48 | 0 | 13.43 | 1.49 | 7.46 | 5.97 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.49 | 0 | 22.39 | 7.46 | 8.96 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.99 | 2.99 | 0 | 3 | 2.5714 | 3 | 1.1429 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.71706 | 1.49492 | 1.96562 | 0.77 | 12 | 4.155714 | 0.263757 |
relationships | 7tugqx | (0, 5) | I might sound a bit bridezilla here, but I’m extremely annoyed. We set our wedding date last August for July 15th. We specifically picked this date after looking at the average temperatures for that date for the last 5 years. We determined the highs were about 7 degrees cooler than the following weekends in July, so we went with the 15th. Wouldn’t you know it, but my FMIL booked their family vacation for July. | 51,815 | 0 | 0.6 | 1,517,251,308 | 43 | 5.478596 | 74 | 69.11 | 94.74 | 95.33 | 25.77 | 14.8 | 18.92 | 87.84 | 51.35 | 17.57 | 13.51 | 4.05 | 6.76 | 1.35 | 0 | 1.35 | 4.05 | 8.11 | 13.51 | 5.41 | 6.76 | 4.05 | 1.35 | 12.16 | 5.41 | 4.05 | 0 | 2.7 | 2.7 | 2.7 | 1.35 | 1.35 | 0 | 1.35 | 0 | 17.57 | 2.7 | 4.05 | 1.35 | 0 | 13.51 | 2.7 | 1.35 | 1.35 | 1.35 | 2.7 | 4.05 | 4.05 | 1.35 | 1.35 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 10.81 | 9.46 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.05 | 2.7 | 1.35 | 21.62 | 2.7 | 2.7 | 16.22 | 1.35 | 5.41 | 1.35 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.51 | 6.76 | 4.05 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.7 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.8 | 3 | 1.2 | 1 | 1 | 1.70016 | 1.64286 | 1.96661 | 0.95 | 66 | 5.807895 | -0.025 |
ptsd | 5pgezx | (0, 5) | I used to be a very touchy feely person pre trauma, hell I'd have stood out in a big city with a sign for free hugs, I *wanted* to. I'd touch a leg for sympathy, throw an arm around shoulders for comradeship. My family was never like that growing up. Until recent years, I rarely got hugs from parents or my brother and when we'd brush legs while sitting, it'd be an awkward "oh sorry" and a shuffle to separate. The latter is still true but I make it a joke. | 22,049 | 1 | 0.5 | 1,485,082,942 | 9 | 2.956241 | 91 | 69.94 | 33.02 | 94.81 | 45.98 | 18.2 | 10.99 | 94.51 | 54.95 | 13.19 | 9.89 | 8.79 | 1.1 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.3 | 9.89 | 15.38 | 9.89 | 6.59 | 7.69 | 1.1 | 18.68 | 5.49 | 2.2 | 1.1 | 0 | 0 | 9.89 | 5.49 | 4.4 | 1.1 | 1.1 | 1.1 | 8.79 | 3.3 | 2.2 | 0 | 1.1 | 8.79 | 0 | 2.2 | 1.1 | 1.1 | 2.2 | 3.3 | 3.3 | 0 | 0 | 3.3 | 4.4 | 4.4 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.09 | 8.79 | 0 | 2.2 | 1.1 | 0 | 5.49 | 6.59 | 0 | 19.78 | 2.2 | 8.79 | 8.79 | 0 | 2.2 | 1.1 | 1.1 | 1.1 | 0 | 2.2 | 1.1 | 0 | 0 | 1.1 | 0 | 19.78 | 5.49 | 5.49 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.2 | 4.4 | 0 | 2.2 | 2.8 | 2.7143 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.72438 | 1.67467 | 1.92471 | 1 | 26 | 4.359699 | 0.016667 |
assistance | 7n95v2 | (2, 7) | I'm trying to improve my Hebrew and I would really like to be able to pray while at home on Shabbat and Festivals. I live very far from the nearest Jewish community and it's very difficult to learn and become more observant on my own. Due to financial restrictions I have been unable to purchase my own Siddur. Wishlist link below but of course, if you have your own Siddur you would like to donate that's great too! <url> | 22,257 | 0 | 1 | 1,514,735,689 | 12 | 3.578214 | 79 | 39.98 | 35.19 | 69.44 | 89.4 | 15.8 | 15.19 | 86.08 | 58.23 | 15.19 | 12.66 | 8.86 | 0 | 3.8 | 0 | 0 | 2.53 | 1.27 | 17.72 | 13.92 | 5.06 | 8.86 | 0 | 18.99 | 6.33 | 3.8 | 0 | 0 | 1.27 | 6.33 | 5.06 | 1.27 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.06 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.39 | 3.8 | 0 | 3.8 | 2.53 | 0 | 3.8 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.27 | 0 | 1.27 | 0 | 0 | 11.39 | 2.53 | 5.06 | 1.27 | 1.27 | 1.27 | 1.27 | 12.66 | 1.27 | 11.39 | 0 | 8.86 | 2.53 | 3.8 | 1.27 | 1.27 | 3.8 | 2.53 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 12.66 | 3.8 | 1.27 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.27 | 0 | 0 | 3.8 | 0 | 2.53 | 2.8333 | 2.6667 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.71415 | 1.3942 | 1.91928 | 0.76 | 5 | 4.96381 | 0.213669 |
domesticviolence | 74uvrg | (25, 30) | Even as I’m cooking, he’s still screaming in my face, telling me that I’m done at my job and I need to quit now. I yell back, something about him not having a job and he grips me up from behind with an arm around my throat, and I grab the knife I was using to cut chicken and tell him to get off of me. He lets go, and we scream a bit more. I made a smart remark, and he jabbed me in my face. It busted the inside of my lip and I was bleeding. | 18,779 | 1 | 1 | 1,507,383,271 | 9 | 1.406563 | 98 | 30.73 | 23.75 | 65.98 | 1.53 | 19.6 | 6.12 | 95.92 | 68.37 | 28.57 | 25.51 | 17.35 | 2.04 | 0 | 6.12 | 0 | 3.06 | 6.12 | 17.35 | 7.14 | 6.12 | 8.16 | 1.02 | 18.37 | 3.06 | 2.04 | 0 | 0 | 2.04 | 5.1 | 1.02 | 4.08 | 0 | 1.02 | 0 | 10.2 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 6.12 | 5.1 | 0 | 2.04 | 1.02 | 1.02 | 0 | 1.02 | 6.12 | 0 | 4.08 | 2.04 | 7.14 | 6.12 | 1.02 | 0 | 1.02 | 5.1 | 2.04 | 1.02 | 1.02 | 1.02 | 0 | 4.08 | 10.2 | 0 | 12.24 | 1.02 | 9.18 | 3.06 | 2.04 | 1.02 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.29 | 5.1 | 6.12 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.06 | 0 | 0 | 2.8 | 2.8571 | 3 | 1 | 1.125 | 1 | 1.77635 | 1.75 | 1.86997 | 0.91 | 9 | 3.122291 | -0.057143 |
anxiety | 9q5nwz | [4, 9] | Next, I'll get nice and comfy and ready to sleep in a position where I can feel my heartbeat. Then, I'll start listening hard for my wristwatch. At first it's difficult to hear, because your mind is focusing on your heartbeat, but after a little while you adapt and your heartbeat stops being the center of your attention. Works for me really well, and I've been able to fall asleep in any position since. Hope it works for some of you. | 1,848 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,540,145,180 | 3 | 6.242471 | 81 | 48.61 | 73.14 | 98.76 | 88.52 | 16.2 | 13.58 | 91.36 | 58.02 | 18.52 | 16.05 | 8.64 | 0 | 7.41 | 0 | 0 | 2.47 | 3.7 | 17.28 | 9.88 | 3.7 | 9.88 | 0 | 18.52 | 7.41 | 1.23 | 1.23 | 1.23 | 2.47 | 6.17 | 4.94 | 1.23 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.88 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.11 | 2.47 | 2.47 | 1.23 | 3.7 | 0 | 2.47 | 4.94 | 0 | 2.47 | 2.47 | 3.7 | 3.7 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 8.64 | 0 | 4.94 | 0 | 1.23 | 2.47 | 1.23 | 13.58 | 4.94 | 22.22 | 1.23 | 11.11 | 9.88 | 2.47 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.23 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.23 | 0 | 17.28 | 6.17 | 6.17 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.94 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.4286 | 2.8 | 1.2857 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.66657 | 1.44 | 1.90331 | 1 | 2 | 6.171765 | 0.067083 |
assistance | 6o396w | [5, 10] | * Do I have to leave something for my children in a will? * What if the police pull me over for whatever reason, and how do I treat a situation like that? * Does an agreement have to be given in a written form? Questions like that would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much! | 1,746 | 0 | 1 | 1,500,407,466 | 3 | 0.989104 | 53 | 49.27 | 35.28 | 48.36 | 99 | 10.6 | 16.98 | 94.34 | 69.81 | 18.87 | 9.43 | 7.55 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 9.43 | 9.43 | 16.98 | 16.98 | 3.77 | 7.55 | 0 | 26.42 | 0 | 3.77 | 5.66 | 0 | 1.89 | 7.55 | 7.55 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3.77 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 13.21 | 5.66 | 3.77 | 3.77 | 5.66 | 0 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.66 | 0 | 0 | 5.66 | 0 | 0 | 3.77 | 16.98 | 1.89 | 9.43 | 3.77 | 5.66 | 0 | 3.77 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 16.98 | 1.89 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 5.66 | 1.89 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 5.66 | 2.75 | 2.625 | 3 | 1.1429 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.80086 | 1.4875 | 1.96419 | 0.72 | 3 | 2.801297 | 0.225 |
survivorsofabuse | 7ummeo | [40, 45] | One night, early, early into this, we were kind of flirting. He suggested we shower together. I was scared. Uncomfortable. Not sure. | 442 | 0 | 0.571429 | 1,517,524,060 | 7 | 2.821364 | 21 | 17.96 | 99 | 89.63 | 25.77 | 4.2 | 23.81 | 100 | 42.86 | 23.81 | 19.05 | 4.76 | 9.52 | 0 | 4.76 | 0 | 4.76 | 0 | 4.76 | 9.52 | 0 | 0 | 4.76 | 14.29 | 14.29 | 0 | 0 | 4.76 | 0 | 19.05 | 9.52 | 9.52 | 9.52 | 0 | 0 | 28.57 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.76 | 14.29 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.76 | 4.76 | 4.76 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 19.05 | 19.05 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 9.52 | 0 | 0 | 23.81 | 0 | 9.52 | 14.29 | 0 | 0 | 4.76 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 38.1 | 23.81 | 14.29 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.375 | 2.5455 | 2.8 | 1 | 1.3333 | 1 | 1.69742 | 1.70909 | 1.8248 | 0.82 | 5 | 4.362364 | 0.01 |
homeless | 5p5tzf | (6, 11) | I'm hoping that I can get some of the community to share into the database to make it as useful as possible. Does this sound like something that would be used? Would you, if you were homeless, use it? I've volunteered in homeless shelters and have had friends who have found themselves homeless, but I'm not sure how/if many actually have smartphones with app capabilities. What are your thoughts? | 54,992 | 0 | 1 | 1,484,938,560 | 8 | 6.516575 | 70 | 6.76 | 55.67 | 5.55 | 98.56 | 14 | 21.43 | 94.29 | 64.29 | 22.86 | 11.43 | 5.71 | 0 | 4.29 | 0 | 1.43 | 11.43 | 2.86 | 12.86 | 20 | 2.86 | 10 | 1.43 | 27.14 | 2.86 | 4.29 | 4.29 | 0 | 2.86 | 5.71 | 5.71 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.43 | 0 | 1.43 | 0 | 0 | 25.71 | 2.86 | 5.71 | 7.14 | 8.57 | 1.43 | 7.14 | 1.43 | 0 | 1.43 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 11.43 | 4.29 | 1.43 | 4.29 | 1.43 | 0 | 5.71 | 20 | 1.43 | 2.86 | 0 | 2.86 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1.43 | 0 | 1.43 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 17.14 | 2.86 | 4.29 | 0 | 0 | 4.29 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 4.29 | 0 | 1.43 | 2.7778 | 2.8 | 2.6 | 1.125 | 1.1429 | 1 | 1.68395 | 1.31875 | 1.87511 | 0.9 | 13 | 5.945096 | 0.158333 |
homeless | 7kp8uq | [10, 15] | This Crippling Pain Is Getting Stronger. Cant, you see I cant do this much longer This Fearless drip, The subconscious Tears. Hope someone Can see my Fear. | 1,734 | 1 | 1 | 1,513,640,764 | 7 | 3.542644 | 27 | 7.43 | 13.32 | 15.12 | 25.77 | 9 | 22.22 | 88.89 | 48.15 | 25.93 | 11.11 | 7.41 | 0 | 3.7 | 0 | 0 | 14.81 | 3.7 | 0 | 11.11 | 0 | 0 | 7.41 | 22.22 | 7.41 | 7.41 | 0 | 0 | 3.7 | 22.22 | 11.11 | 11.11 | 3.7 | 0 | 3.7 | 7.41 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.81 | 0 | 0 | 3.7 | 7.41 | 0 | 7.41 | 11.11 | 7.41 | 0 | 3.7 | 3.7 | 0 | 3.7 | 0 | 0 | 11.11 | 0 | 0 | 3.7 | 7.41 | 0 | 0 | 29.63 | 3.7 | 3.7 | 0 | 3.7 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 18.52 | 11.11 | 7.41 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 3 | 2.625 | 2.8 | 1 | 1.1818 | 1 | 1.89859 | 1.57 | 1.89856 | 1 | 3 | 2.421379 | 0.1 |
assistance | 9laa3i | [0, 5] | Hello r/Assistance. I want to go to rehab for my cocaine addiction I live in the USA where rehab has a bad stigma sadly. I was wondering what would be the best way for me going about getting into rehab for my cocaine addiction and since I don’t have insurance if they would even accept me with no criminal background and it’s not going to be court ordered admission but a voluntary self admission to the facility. Feel free to pm me if you like with advice if you rather do that than reply to this post. Thank you everyone for taking the time to read this I’ll be sure to respond as quickly as I can to any responses. | 1,441 | 1 | 0.571429 | 1,538,644,680 | 18 | 4.146953 | 121 | 58.87 | 25.41 | 47.74 | 84.21 | 24.2 | 16.53 | 90.08 | 58.68 | 17.36 | 12.4 | 9.09 | 0 | 2.48 | 0 | 0.83 | 4.96 | 4.96 | 18.18 | 10.74 | 3.31 | 6.61 | 2.48 | 20.66 | 4.13 | 3.31 | 1.65 | 0 | 0.83 | 6.61 | 4.96 | 1.65 | 0 | 0 | 0.83 | 8.26 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 14.88 | 2.48 | 1.65 | 5.79 | 4.13 | 1.65 | 5.79 | 0.83 | 0 | 0 | 0.83 | 4.96 | 0 | 4.96 | 0 | 0 | 4.96 | 0.83 | 0.83 | 1.65 | 2.48 | 0.83 | 0.83 | 12.4 | 2.48 | 9.09 | 3.31 | 3.31 | 2.48 | 1.65 | 0 | 0 | 1.65 | 0 | 0 | 0.83 | 0 | 0.83 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 7.44 | 4.13 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2.48 | 0 | 0.83 | 2.8571 | 2.6667 | 3 | 1.125 | 1 | 1 | 1.71489 | 1.49505 | 1.93934 | 0.75 | 17 | 5.865591 | 0.171212 |
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