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{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 14th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, August 27, 1997 at 12:00 pm.\nHello, Alex, please come in. How are things with you this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm a little saddle sore from riding the bike so much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I noticed that you don't have a helmet with you. I remembered that last week as well. Do you use a helmet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't want to hear it, man. And I've already heard it from Ralph, and my mom, and Aunt Sofie. I don't like wearing it; it's too uncomfortable."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand how you feel. I felt the same way when I first wore one. I felt like it looked funny, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well then, you understand where I'm coming from. So don't give me any shit about it, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, but..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't want to hear it!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. So tell me what's going on? How you are feeling and...Alex? What's that smell? Have you started smoking again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I haven't. Well, not really, but...Roly likes to smoke dope. And lately I've been feeling pretty wound up, you know? Real tight--like a spring. So anyway, I smoked some with him the other day, and this seed or something popped and landed on one of my dreads and burned it and...well, I can't seem to get rid of the smell. That's what you smell--my hair."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Alex, I don't want to give a you a lecture on the use of illegal drugs, but..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then don't. I don't want to hear any lectures about it, okay? Jeez! What's with you anyway? You think you're my father or something? First, the helmet and now the pot--what are you going to come down on me for next?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not my intention to \"come down\" on you, Alex. But I'm going to tell you when I think you are taking actions which aren't in your best interest. And riding without a helmet is stupid, and smoking pot really isn't such a good idea."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, but I'm no dummy. I know what I can handle and what my limits are, so let it go already."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Let's talk about your feelings. You said you've been feeling all wound up. What's going on there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't give up, do you? Okay, okay, I'll tell you what's been going on. First, this week I got a call from guess who?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Benny?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bingo! And he wants me to forgive him and help him. I mean, hello? I'm ready to kill, and he wants me to help him? Ha! I laughed at him. He was so sincere and sweet and apologetic. But you should have heard him when I laughed--he just went off. Even Ralph could hear it from all the way across the room. I asked him, \"What? They let you guys use the phones? I was hoping your fingers would be broken by now.\" But when he was yelling at me, he told me that he knew what I did to his precious little car and that he would get me for it. And he said that he'd get me for turning him in, too. When I tried to say something, he yelled over me and then the line was cut-off. I bet they pulled the plug on him when he started yelling. Or maybe somehow he snuck a phone call when he was in some office or something, I don't know. So Dora spilled the beans on me and Roly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And how did it make you feel to hear Benny's voice again? It's been a while..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At first, I felt like a deer in the headlights--paralyzed. But then, when I realized why he was calling me, something changed and I had to just laugh--it was so ridiculous, you know? It was like he had no clue what's going on with me. And he thought I turned him in--good old Dora didn't spill all of it. I'm a little pissed at her right now. But after the call, I went straight to my bathroom and hurled my guts out. Poor Ralph got the distinct pleasure of cleaning up after me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. You mentioned Roly. When was he released from the hospital?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, ah...um...he was kind of...sort of not released. But he's out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I'll tell you. But you've got to promise me that you won't try to interfere or anything. I think I can trust you and all, and I don't want to think that after all this time I won't be able to trust you. So you have to promise."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure what I would promising. Tell me what happened, Alex, and we'll go from there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I went to visit him a few more times, and he was still android-boy--no Roly behind those eyes. He was still heavily drugged. But when I'd visit him, he'd sort of come on and be there with me for a minute or two. Then last week--Friday I think--I went down there and they had moved him from the locked unit to the open unit. We even got to take a walk. So we're walking along and no one's speaking, then all of a sudden Roly just stops and grabs my shoulders and tells me that he has got to get out of there. He said that he was hiding his drugs, and when the nurse wasn't looking he dumped them down the toilet. So there he was--his old self again. And I was looking at him, hearing what he was saying. He told me that he thought that they were going to give him electroshock treatment. And I was like, \"No way, dude.\" And so we just kept on walking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, I know your intentions were honorable--you were trying to help your friend. But Roly was prescribed those medications for a reason. If he just stops taking them, there could be very serious consequences. Where is he staying?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, I can see you and I aren't going to agree on this either. I don't think I should tell you anymore about Roly. So, let's change the subject. How about those Giants?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is very serious, Alex. I'm worried that Roly's health might be in danger. Alex, I think you should talk Roly into seeking some help."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You look like you saw a ghost or something. What's the matter with you today anyway? Haven't I asked you that already?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, all I know is what you told me about Roly--he's very depressed, he's having problems coping, and there's a possibility that he could hurt himself. This is serious and you know it. You are getting help, and I believe that you know that Roly should too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, so tell me then, how would I go about getting him to go back there? It's not like I can go get him and then take him there without him knowing what I was up to, you know? I didn't force him to leave that place. Plus right now, I don't even know where he's staying. What if I tell him what you told me and then let him decide what he wants to do? How does that sound?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like the best I'm going to be able to do. So I think that would be good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. A couple of other things happened, and I want to tell you about them. I don't want to get into the dream shit...or maybe I should be calling them nightmares?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you still having nightmares?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Almost nightly. I'm just about afraid to go to sleep, but I do anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you remember your nightmares?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing. Everything. I don't know exactly. I dream about Benny practically every night, and now Dora's visiting me in my sleep. But that thing with the old fart--the art teacher--well, he was coming up there too, until I talked to Ralph about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did Ralph have to say about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him what my suspicions were, and he said I was right on the money."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean he was really trying to prostitute you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No! No way! Gosh, you have a dirty mind. That's not what I meant. The guy was acting weird and all, but Ralph told me he does that to anything that moves. All I needed to do with him was to lay down the law, and he would have respected that. But I told Ralph that I don't want to learn from that guy right now, maybe later on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was a good thing to talk to Ralph about it and let him know how you were feeling."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I felt better telling him all that. It seems as though Ralph really does respect my wishes a lot more than I give him credit for. Oh, and I decided to take your advice and talk to mom about what was going on with her. It totally backfired on me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I started to ask her about it, she kept changing the subject. But I pressed her some more. Well, she blew up in my face and got all pissed off at me, calling me names and shit. I had to cut and run, you know? I even asked Mark about it before I tried to talk to her, and he just told me to ask her. He was weird about it though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I asked him, he was all stuttering and saying stuff like, \"It's not my place to talk about this with you. There's nothing to worry about\"--bull like that. He knows what is going on, but he won't give. But I did something else where he's concerned."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I went over to the house when I knew everyone would be gone, and I got into his stuff. Found a photo of his \"ex-wife.\" She is my mom's clone, it's real scary. And her name is Lori--kind of like the Twilight Zone, you know? I even found some letters she wrote him, and I don't think they are divorced at all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In one of the letters she said something like she can't even come to California to see him and the girls. It seemed to me that she might be in jail or something. The way it was said was as though she were being held somewhere against her will and that Mark held the key to her release or something. But I'm going to get to the bottom of this. She didn't come right out and say these things, you know? It's just the tone of the letters and the way she wrote the words. The more my mom acts weird and the more Mark tries to hide from my questions, the more I want to know the truth. And it's just like her to keep secrets from me, you know? It really pisses me off. Lately, I can't stop thinking about that, or about Benny's threats--as if he was in a position to do anything to me, that fool! Or I just can't seem to turn it off, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Turn it off?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, like my head won't stop spinning around with all these thoughts going on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, we are almost out of time. I would like to show you a trick that sometimes helps to keep the mind from wandering and helps keep the focus on the here and now. Now, humor me, okay? First, stomp both you feet on the floor. Harder. Good. Tell me what you feel."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Duh, the floor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You feel your feet hitting the floor, right? Good. Now, slap your knees with your hands and then rub them like this. Yes, that's right. What do you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My hands are stinging and my knees hurt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This would be the thing to do when you find yourself drifting--something physical. Even a little thing like this can sometimes force you into the moment and out of your head. And I'll bet you can figure out other ways to achieve this goal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I'll try that. You know, I'm pretty hard on you sometimes and I don't mean to be. I know you are helping me and I do appreciate it, see?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand perfectly, Alex. Well, this is it. Same time next week then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, dude, thanks a lot! See you!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 15th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, September 3, 1997 at 12:00 pm.\nWell, Doctor, you won."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. What did I win?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The damned helmet--I got a helmet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What made you decide to get one?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ralph had already bought it along with the bike, and after those two bicycle riders bit it over the last week, I decided to put the stupid thing on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You'll get accustomed to it, Alex. I did. It can make all the difference in the world if you ever have an accident and hit your head. You made a good decision. How are you feeling this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Still muddled, I guess. I don't know. I think I'm cursed, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What would make you say that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My head keeps on running around with stuff. And then this week, I started waking up in the middle of the night with a song stuck in my head, and I can't make it stop. Oh yeah, by the way, here's another picture I did. It's just a simple sketch, but Ralph liked it. He got me going on it when he came home last Sunday morning with concert tickets in his hands. So I drew a picture of her, my favorite, Stevie Nicks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You got tickets to see Fleetwood Mac? I know a lot of people want to go see them."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know what you mean, but I'm the older generation and I'm not supposed to have an opinion on such things. Tell me more about these running thoughts you are having."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I already told you about the phone call from Benny. Well, he called again and I've been having these dreams again--or nightmares, take your pick, it makes no difference. He called the other day and just spoke real quiet and monotone. He told me he was going to get me. I told him to come on down! Of course, he's not going to be going anywhere for a long time, except maybe in Bruno's cell as his butt-buddy! I'll bet he's the bell-of-the-ball in there! But I did manage to tell him that it was Dora who turned him in--she was the one who had the videotape that the police used against him. You could hear a pin drop after I told him--he was dead silent. It made him think about it, I bet. If he puts all the pieces together, he'll figure out it wasn't me. I just thought of Benny being Bruno's butt-buddy and the bell-of-the-ball--there's a real tongue twister; say that ten times! Then after I got off the phone, I went straight for the porcelain god and heaved my guts up again. It was then that I realized that I was cursed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that before. What makes you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello? It doesn't take much to figure it out, really. You see my curse is making the people I care about disappear from my life. First, it was my dad. Then, my grandmother. Now, it's Benny and Roly. Hell, even Sael hasn't called me in weeks! Mom and I aren't talking at all again--no surprise there. Oh, and I forgot to mention Tony--he was the third one to disappear."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, the only thing in common between all these people is that you cared about each of them. You didn't cause any of them to leave. Your grandparents were ill and then died. There wasn't anything you could have done to make that turn out differently. According to what you told me about Tony, he went away on his own--it didn't sound like it had anything to do with you. And with Benny..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, okay. Stop, already. If it weren't for me, Tony would have never met Benny. And if they'd never met, Tony wouldn't be in the situation he is in...ah...now, I guess. And Roly--well, he went crazy, and that was because of what came down between all of us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Right. And the thing to keep in mind is that both Benny and Roly were in an explosive situation to begin with, and you're not to blame."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why do I feel so lonely all the time then? Why do I feel like I'm alone in a crowded room? No one wants to come near me because of the curse. If they come near me, then they will either die or be thrust away from here, from me. My mom is on her way out now. And that means that Mark, Racyl, and Rhea won't be far behind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you're describing the normal happenstance of life. People come and go. People die. These are things that would happen in your life regardless of what you do. This is what happens to everyone at one time or another. Now about your mother, I had an idea that came to me and I'd like to bounce it off you, would that be okay? Good. Alex, has it occurred to you that she may be pregnant?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh great! Not you too! Ralph said the same damned thing--she's pregnant. That idea thoroughly disgusts me. Shit! She's too old to get pregnant! She couldn't do that to me, could she? No. No way. Uh, um...do you really think that she could be?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Think about the things you have told me--Mark's reaction when you approached him; your mother's frequent trips to the bathroom..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yuck! This is so sick, you know? I mean, she's too damned old to get pregnant, isn't she? Oh, I don't know. I don't want to think about it. I mean yuck!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I just thought I'd bring it up as a possibility."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you, I don't want to think about it!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I would like to ask you again about pot smoking and Roly. These were things that disturbed me a lot last time. Do you want to talk about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Here we go! I knew you were going to bring that up again. I just knew it! Well, first of all, I still don't know where Roly is. And as far as pot is concerned, I wouldn't even know where to get it. I just smoked it a few times with him. Anyway, no big deal. Shit, the only thing it did was to make me paranoid, you know? So no, I'm not going to go out and become a pot-head, if that's what you are worried about. As for Roly, I think that he went back to a hospital somewhere. I went down to that place in Belmont, and he wasn't there. But they told me that even if he was there, I wouldn't be allowed to see him anyway after what happened. Shit! And he hadn't had a single visitor when he was there. Not even his own father came to see him. Only me. And now, I don't even know where he is. You know, I was just thinking about Tony. I wonder if Benny did it to him like he did me and Roly. I should ask him, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you know where he is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, ah...yes, I do. But Marney can't see him like this--the way he is now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you at least told her you know where he is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, no. It all happened so fast, you know? I was sitting there when the phone rang. I didn't recognize the number on the caller ID box, but I picked up anyway and it was Tony. He has been here in the city all along. And this old dude--way older than you--is keeping him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why can't Marney see Tony? What's wrong with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why would he lie to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because the old dude will kill him if he gets away. I think that he's a prisoner or something, in a way. And I don't think that Marney will just sit by and allow it to happen, you know? Even if Tony says this is what he wants, she won't have any of it. But it's all too complicated for me. And I have my own crap to deal with right now, so I won't be getting too involved in this one. He's on his own, as far as I'm concerned."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. But it's important to tell Marney the truth about what you know, Alex. Remember how you felt when you found out that people have lied or simply kept the truth from you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But it's hard, because I know that as soon as I tell her, she's going to want me to help her get him out of there. And I don't think I can do that right now. It's too much. It's way too much! I think my head is going to explode or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand how overwhelming it is for you, Alex. You have a lot of problems that you need to deal with right now. Have you been able to get some control over your run-away thoughts? Have you tried the knee slapping or foot stomping techniques we talked about last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I did. But I'll do you one better; I found that if I sit at the desk in my art room and draw, my mind clears itself. It's amazing what I'm doing with color right now. I'll bring some of those in soon. Ralph is having some of them photographed and made into little cards. He thinks that I have a special style--unlike anything he's ever seen before. And I'm beginning to think that he's right. A few people who've seen these drawings go 'ooh' and 'ah' over them, and I really like what I've created, too. It's the first time that I've been real proud of my work, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's a good productive way of getting your feelings out, and I would love to see your drawings. But I'm worried that you might use your art sorely as a means of escaping..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't let it bug you--I'm not that bad off...yet. Oh yeah, another interesting thing happened this week. I was at mom's house one day looking through Mark's stuff again, and the phone rang. I automatically picked it up. This woman asked for Mark, and I told her he was at work. And then I asked who she was. She told me Lori. So I asked her where she was and why won't she come over? Well, she told me that she was on her way to San Francisco right now, and that she can't wait to be reunited with her family. I'm certain that Mark and this woman aren't divorced--I'd bet my last nickel on it. But she did sound kind of weird, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In what way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like she was wired up. Or like she was on the run or something. I don't know how to describe it really, except that she was in a rush to get off the phone. And she was speaking very quietly like she didn't want someone else to hear her talking. It should be fun to see what happens when she gets here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell anyone that she called?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Why? You think I should? I thought it would be a nice surprise for them--for all of them. Don't you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I don't know what to make of it, to be honest with you. It may be a good idea to at least let Mark know that you spoke with her."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I figured you'd say something like that. Aren't we out of time yet?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Almost. Alex, I wanted to ask you about the community work in Delores Park that you've been doing this summer. That should be ending soon, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This week, and then I go back to hell--that fucking school in San Mateo."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Which school?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Serra High School. The school for boys. I don't fit in there, and I don't really want to go back. I'd much rather continue to work in the park, you know? Since Cal and I made up, things've been great. And I've really begun to like the work, if you can believe that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can believe it. Physical work is very rewarding in many ways. Well, Alex, we've covered a lot of ground today. See you next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. But we'll have to do it later in the day, since I'll be in purgatory during the day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have an opening at five o'clock next Wednesday, September tenth. Will that work for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Cool, that works. See you then, dude."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 60th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, September 9, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doc! How you doing? Were you sick or something?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. I'm all right, I wasn't sick. I had to go back to New York on a family emergency. I hope you got my messages."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I did. Is everything cool?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay, Alex. Thank you for asking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, sure..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I guess. The weirdness never ends, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, not everything is weird. Did I tell you that I saw Katherine? Now she had some funny stories to tell."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is she?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she's been back from Alaska for a few weeks now. We spent some time together just last week. She's buying a house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. We went to see this house in Seacliff, it's real close to where that house almost went into the ocean this past winter. You should see the place! It's huge. The ceilings go up pretty high, and the windows are big and tall from floor to ceiling. And the views! You can see the Golden Gate Bridge from just about every room. It's so cool. Plus, we were having such a good time catching up and all. She even let me drive her Jaguar. Man! What a car! But...well, I kind of fucked up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you put a dent in it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No! No, nothing like that. I wasn't paying attention to the signs, and neither was Katherine. When we went to see the house, I parked in a tow away zone and...well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You got towed again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess I kind of got what I deserved. I really need to start paying attention to the signs, you know? First, she asked me where the car was, and I said it was right there, where I parked it, in front of the house. My heart totally stopped. Then I jangled the keys to make sure I still had them. For a minute, I even thought I might have left them in the ignition. But for like a split second, Katherine thought that maybe the car had gotten stolen, and she was saying something about the neighborhood until I pointed out the sign. That's when we realized the car had been towed, and I was all shitting in my pants. But she was so cool about it, she even laughed. That's why I like her so much, she handles things like no other adult I know. That girl has really got her shit together, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Anyway, it took hours to get it back, and it cost a lot of money, just like Ralph's car did. But by then, I was an old pro at getting towed cars out. Even though I was totally embarrassed, we both had a good laugh about it after. Katherine is like the coolest person in the entire world, dude."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad everything worked out. I can imagine your distress."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm telling you! If it had been my mom's car, she would've gone completely ballistic, not at all like Katherine. But Katherine told me all sorts of stories about her trip to Alaska. Did you know her father was a bush pilot? I think that's what they are called. There are seventeen air strips in Anchorage, and he used to fly the mail and supplies out to the people who lived out in the wilderness. He sounds like such a cool dude, you know? What a job. Now I want to go to Alaska! She told me about this train that rides out of Anchorage into the sticks. There are no stations, it just stops at the mile markers along the tracks. The conductor takes down a list of all the markers people want to stop at, and then they stop only at those. Or the people who are waiting to get on just flag it down, waving a white flag over their heads to make it stop when they see it coming. It's called The Alaskan Pickup Line."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds fascinating."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, she made it sound better, though. She and Philip also went to this place called Talkeetna or something like that. There, they have what is called a Moose Dropping Festival."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Huh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You heard me. Someone decided to celebrate moose poop. They shellac them and call them nuggets. Nice, huh? She told me they hold this \"Doo Drop\" where you buy a numbered nugget and then they string them up in small, hot, air balloons and drop them to the ground. The one that lands closest to a marker wins the prize. And I thought there was nothing to do up there!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like Katherine had a good time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She did. She showed me some of Philip's paintings he did, and wow! He did some incredible work. He even asked me if I wanted to assist him on a project that he's going to do--a project inspired by their trip. I haven't decided if I'm going to have the time for it yet, so I told him I'd let him know soon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That could be a nice opportunity."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I'm hoping that we can get another nurse for Ralph soon, that would take some of the load off my back. Maybe then, I'll have more time to do stuff like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That would be good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, that's why we're trying to get a few people over to the house to see if he likes one. So here's the weird part of what I wanted to tell you. Benny called."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He did?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Out of the total fucking blue, he called me. So much for closing that book--remember that gypsy woman who told me that part of my life was over with?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did Benny say to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It totally blew me away that he called me like that. I was so shocked, but secretly, I was happy to know he was thinking about me. I knew that if this was so heavy on my mind, it couldn't be too far from his thoughts either, you know? I told him how much hurt he caused, how damaged I...uh...hmm, how hard it was for me. I said that it would have been easier if he had just been honest with me from the beginning instead of lying. And the way he ended things...I told him how wrong it was--I deserved better treatment from him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you had an opportunity to say those things to him. How did he respond?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I don't think so. It sounds like it did you some good to express some of your feelings and anger to Benny. Perhaps this is the beginning of the end. Maybe you got some closure from that conversation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe. I don't know. He asked me to come to see him sometime, and I am actually thinking about it. He's over in Copperopolis, so it's only about a three-hour drive from here. But...I don't know. I don't want him to think that just because he called, everything is cool now, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But then Luke happened. He was there when I got the call from Benny, and he wasn't too happy that I talked with Benny as long as I did. And then the doorbell rang. You'll never guess who it was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It wasn't Benny."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, that would have given me a heart attack. But you're close. Ralph had called Waiters on Wheels, and do remember that guy I told you about? The one at Dore Alley? The one I had that vivid nasty dream about? He was the delivery guy for Waiters on Wheels. When I opened the door, I became the proverbial deer in the headlights. He just looked me up and down with a big grin on his face, and he said something like, \"So, we meet again. And now I know where you live.\" Well, after the phone call with Benny, Luke was already getting pissed, and then that happened. Luke was all, \"Who the fuck was that? What did he mean by 'so we meet again?' \" And what was I supposed to say?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ralph...well, he's been on those Vicodin pills, and so he was all loose and free, totally chowing down by then. He went, \"Oh, that's the guy who looks like Benny. He really does, Alex, doesn't he?\" Luke had never seen Benny before, not even a picture, so he had no idea. And I was gritting my teeth going, \"Okay, Ralph, you can shut-up now.\" But by then, Luke was completely pissed and just stormed out in a fury. Plus, the next morning, Luke's flight left for New York early, so I didn't get a chance to set it right with him. He didn't call me when he got there, like he normally does. So now I'm fucked. Luke totally bagged on me, and I blew it. But...I don't really know what I did wrong, other than talk to Benny for so long. If Luke would actually spend some time here with me instead of using San Francisco just as a stopping point, maybe he'd know what's going on. I don't know, I'm kind of pissed now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This must be frustrating for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It is! It really is frustrating. I mean...well, I don't know. Now that guy is on my mind again. He knows where I live, and if you could've seen the look he gave me...he practically undressed me with his eyes. I felt so...so...naked. He made me feel the blood pumping up into my face, you know? And Luke saw it all, too! What luck. What dumb fucking luck!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure that once you get a chance to sit down and talk with Luke, you will work this out..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, man. This time it felt...it was sort of...it had this feeling like it was over, like this was final. I wish he would call me or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He will. After all you've been through together, I don't think your relationship will end over petty jealousies."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, we'll see. I really should be going, I promised Tony that I would go with him to one of those druggie meetings. He needs the moral support. He's still spinning over that girl, what's her name? I don't want to be late, he'll get all nervous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, Alex. I'll see you next week, same time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Talk to you later, dude!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 16th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, September 10, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex. Where's your hair?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Here, let me take off my beanie. There, see? It's still there, only a lot less of it. I had to cut some off to get that burned part out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It looks nice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well thanks. It really makes a difference when I'm wearing my helmet. Ralph says I should go all the way and cut it short, but I think to my shoulders is short enough, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It looks nice this way, Alex. So tell me what's been going on with you this week? Oh, and how is school?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do we have to talk about school? It's there, that's about all I can say. The only good thing is that I was able to get into a couple of art classes including sculpting. I like papier m��ch�� and perspective drawing. They are offering these little mini courses within a class. So that should be cool. The other classes I have are Economics, the typical Algebra and History, and the other shit that we have to take. Oh, and I got into an advanced English class. But everything is so controlled these days, you know? Even the media--all controlled."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Did you ever call a business and got someone who put you on hold or transferred you around and around? I just want to scream when they do that. People are totally rude to each other. The other day, I saw this old lady, I mean she was really old or something. She was driving along the freeway, and this dude cut her off. So she jutted her car around and in front of him and then slammed on her brakes while giving him the finger. It was an old lady, for Christ sakes. What an example for the younger generations, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And controlled. Our society is totally controlled by these fucked-up old white dudes who don't even have a clue how real people live. Now they have cameras at stoplights, and if you run a red it takes your picture and then you get a ticket in the mail. Happened to me while I was driving mom's car. She was pissed because the ticket got mailed to her. So now I try to stop at the lights more than before. Before I used to race to get through the intersection. Soon, I'll bet, they'll put up scanner devices on the freeways--if you go too fast, you'll get a speeding ticket. And they won't need as many cops and stuff, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you seem very wound up today. How are you feeling right now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's a hard question, Doctor. How am I feeling? Well, I'll tell you. Ralph was getting irritated with my irritation last week--I've been real irritated lately, you know? So he goes out and buys...see? There we go again--brash consumerism. He buys a huge punching bag and installs it in the garage. When he took me down there to see it, I had no idea what he wanted me to do with it. So he gives me the gloves and then hands me a marking pen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was the marking pen for?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what I wanted to know. He told me to write anything on the bag that would help me get my aggressions out and then wail away on it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You better believe I did! Man! It was exhilarating, too. I was a little hesitant at first, but then he showed me how to punch it and stuff. And when I did, I let out a yell and then kept punching and yelling. Guess what I wrote on it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a good way to release your aggressions, Alex. Better than some past actions you've taken. How do your arms feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right now, they feel pumped. But the first day or two, they felt like rubber."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll bet. If this is helping you, then I would encourage you to keep it up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know I will. I haven't missed a day hitting that thing. Marney watched me do it, and then she did it, too. It was so cool to see her do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you told her about her brother yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean? What happened to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, her drama and antics put a lot of pressure on her. For every lie she made, she had to make up another one. And then before she knew it, it was all too much to deal with, and she totally stressed out and ended up in the hospital for a few days. Now she has to lie in bed all day long or she will lose the baby, at least that's what Rhea told me. Got what she earned, you know? The bitch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds pretty serious, Alex. Did your mom finally tell you the truth?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Mark did. Then when she realized I knew, she told me to get out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She threw you out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm the cause for her problems, you know? She always needs someone to blame, and who's better to blame than me? I'm the bad seed, the rotten son--you name it and she's called me it. You know what I told her? I told her that the only reason she's pissed at me is because this pregnancy reminds her of when she was pregnant with me and now everyone's going pay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You act like you don't seem to care either way about her pregnancy. How do you really feel about it, Alex? Are you relieved to know that she's not dying or very ill?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I hope that baby gives her morning sickness all the way up to the end, you know? She deserves it. I think it is pretty sick--someone her age having a baby. Especially since there will be such a big age difference between me and it, you know? Sick, sick, sick! That's how I feel about it. As far as what I thought before, this is better because now she gets to suffer!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Alex, have you thought about writing your mother's name on that punching bag?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're a real funny guy, you know that? But it's a good idea. Maybe I'll do just that. Maybe I'll write her name all over it. Hmm, hadn't thought about it before now, but that really is a good idea. Thanks, Doctor. I'm going to go do that right now. Bye!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, we still have plenty of time. I would like to talk a bit more about Marney. What happened after you told her about Tony?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you already. She pummeled that punching bag, remember?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what happened after that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she wanted to go right over there and get him--just like I told you she would. But I kept her from doing that right away. We made a plan, and I got Roly in on it, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You found Roly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Alex, this could be a very dangerous thing for you to do. What if that man comes home and tries to stop you? What if Tony doesn't want to be saved? Have you thought everything through?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look at me, Doctor. I'm bigger than most adults, and I've seen that old fucker. He's big, but he's not that big. I know I can take him. Roly and I together surely can overpower him, if we need to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is what I'm talking about, Alex. If it comes to blows..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not a problem. He won't give us any trouble. And don't try to talk me out of it, because Tony and Marney are my friends, probably my only true friends besides Ralph and maybe you. And it's the least I can do for them. So don't give me any shit about it, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I can certainly understand wanting to help your friends, but in case something goes wrong..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've thought of that already, Doc. I'm going to call Marney as soon as we get up to Castro street--she'll give us thirty minutes to get in and out. So we already covered that part of it. The next part is to get Tony to a doctor. He's in real bad shape. He told me that he is HIV positive, but he isn't showing any symptoms yet. And the drugs aren't helping any--his addiction to them is what's been keeping him there. I just have to keep Tony and Roly from spending too much time together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you're taking on a lot of responsibility here. And you don't really have to..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No shit, remember? I told you to not give me any shit about it!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm concerned that by taking on all of these worries and responsibilities...please keep in mind that I'm a phone call away, if you need me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess you're telling me that we are out of time?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm telling you that if you feel things get out of control or over your head, to call me. And yes, we are out of time for today. Same time next week then? Oh and Alex, I'm glad to hear about the art classes. And Ralph's punching bag idea--it's good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I'm glad he got it. Oh well, got to catch that bus, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where's your bike today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I took it over for its first tune-up. They told us to bring it in after a month or so for some adjustments and stuff. I'll get it back tomorrow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, then. Take care, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hanging loose, man. Hanging loose!"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 61st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, September 16, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex. Alex? What is it? What's wrong?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm all fucked up, that's what's wrong! And I don't know what I was thinking by going there...what a fool I am! Now I understand why I come here to see you--I am crazy. I am totally certifiable!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened? Where did you go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doc, I saw him. Him! After all this time..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Benny?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Benny! I saw him. I don't know what I was thinking, you know? Something inside me couldn't resist when he asked me to come see him. I am such a fool! I drove out to see him; Cami came along for the ride, and it was a good thing, too! I practically went to pieces. Right now, it doesn't feel like any of it really happened, but it did. I'm like...I'm all, I don't know. It was so weird. I said a lot--too much. I revealed everything to him, and I probably shouldn't have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When our eyes met, it was...well, it was like we were both frozen and speechless, like a thousand years could have passed without either of us realizing any time had gone by. It seemed like an eternity of silence passed until he finally asked me how I was. I couldn't even answer him at first, I just wanted to look at him...to see him again like that. It was so strange--him being locked up like that. I never in a million years thought I would ever see him again, look into his eyes, and hear his voice. He tried to touch me through the divider thing, but the guard put a stop to that instantly. Benny told me he knew how badly he left things between us and that he wanted to make amends. I couldn't believe my ears at first. I wanted so much to believe him. And then I wondered how sincere he was. What was he up to? I couldn't trust him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And for a good reason."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You really don't like him, do you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, Benny..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I...uh, I know, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it felt like the old times there for a while. He was so charming and nice to me. He seemed interested in the things I had to say, and, naturally, it felt good when he did that. But then I...well, I...uh, I sort of unleashed a whole torrent of emotions on him. I told him I loved him. I told him I hated him. I told him that I didn't want to go through my life hating him for what he did to me. I don't want to be someone who isn't able to trust anyone ever again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did he respond?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He stayed cool and good-natured, I guess, for the most part. But then, I told him how he hurt me, dumping me the way he did. And he said, \"There's that word again.\" And I was all, \"What else can it be called? You dumped me!\" He could have talked to me, you know? He could have clued me in to what was going on with him, but he didn't. He just yanked the rug right out from under me and left me scrambling to get my balance again on my own. Leaving things so unsettled made me crazy. Shit! I'm still crazy--I told him that I still loved him and that I wished we were back together, can you believe that? I can puke my guts out, knowing that I said that to him. I did puke my guts out later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you're only human..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "By then, a full range of emotions had overcome me. I didn't expect to react so ballistic. And I was doing pretty well there for a while, these past few months...but I pointed out to him that people, especially people like me, are not disposable. I believed that nothing could ever come between us. I told him that the way he treated me in the end made me think that nothing between us ever really mattered to him. He said that wasn't true. I told him I needed him to be loyal, to not betray me. Then I mentioned Roly, and he tensed up--it was very noticeable. He said that he really did always care about us, about me. He said that he was sorry. That's when I just...well, that's when I...uh...uh, I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's okay, Alex. Here's a tissue."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fuck! I saw his eyes well with tears, and he was shaking. Soon after, our time was up. As I walked away from him, I realized that I may never see him again, and I got even more emotional. Plus, I didn't get a chance to say everything I needed to say to him. And he hardly said enough to me. He was still so vague and so shielded from me. Lucky for us both, that chain link divider kept us apart. There were points when I felt like spitting in his face and swearing at him. And sometimes, I felt like wrapping my arms around him tightly and never letting go. I'm so embarrassed..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When you saw Benny, you dropped your guard. He was familiar to you. He seemed comfortable. But you were still able to say things to Benny that you needed him to hear. You told Benny that you weren't disposable. That was very important. It was important for you to say that. You were able to stand up for yourself in front of Benny. That was a big step. I'm proud of you for being able to do that, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For a split second, I saw a tear in his eye. But you know, now I wonder how real that was. Did I imagine all of it? Or...I don't know. I saw by the way Benny acted that he wasn't any different now than he was then. It was that vague thing that he does...some things never change, you know? And sometimes, saying you're sorry just isn't enough. Did you ever hear the term \"too little, too late?\" Well, that's kind of how I feel about this, you know? But on the drive home, I was so twisted up about this, crying and shit, I had to pull over and let Cami drive. That was when I hurled my guts out on the side of the road. I was shaking all over, like I was ice-cold. I never shook like that before. Cami kept talking to me and tried to calm me down, but I wasn't able to stop shaking. Even my teeth were chattering. That's when she gave me something to calm me down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did she give you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A pill, I don't know what it was called. Here, I still have the bottle. It says Nembutal. I even took some before I went to bed that night, and that stuff works so much better than Melatonin, especially when you smoke a little..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you know what I'm going to say about this..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then don't say it, man."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Using marijuana as a sleeping aid is bad. Taking someone else's prescription drugs is very bad, Alex. You didn't even know what it was. The consequences could have been...I would like you to give me what you have left there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you kidding? Really? What's wrong with this stuff? It helps me sleep, and I'm able to get calm and relaxed after I take one."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, Nembutal is highly addictive. Please, let me see that bottle."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I don't know. It's only a little capsule."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you are having trouble sleeping, Melatonin is the best thing for you to take. And if worse comes to worst, I will prescribe for you something less addictive than Nembutal and with fewer side effects."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah. Well, I can't give them to you, I have to give them back to Cami. They're her mom's or something. I'm not an addict, like those freaks in Tony's Rational Recovery meetings."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, Alex, if you won't give me the pills, then promise me that you won't take any more. Please, just stick to Melatonin. You seem to be handling the anxiety pretty well now; you don't need to take these. Promise?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay! Enough already, all right? I'll give them back to Cami, and I won't take anymore. Jeez! Next thing I know, you'll be insisting that I go to those meetings with Tony or something. Those drug addicts--you should see them--are all pale and starved. This one guy had pimple scars or something all over his face--gross! Plus, they're supposed to be clean and sober, and I could tell some of them weren't. And they were all drinking coffee--they gave up speed and switched to caffeine. Such hypocrites! I won't let myself end up like that. Speaking of hypocrites, did I tell you I almost ended up in jail?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound like you're bragging about it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Those damn hypocrite sheriffs gave me and Mr. Wow tickets."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Mr. Wow?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know--he's that guy who looks like Benny. The one who works at Waiters on Wheels? That's why I call him Mr. Wow. His name is Ted, and he called and invited me to go to the beach with him. This time he left his codpiece at home, and wow! I was like, \"Oh my!\" That's the other reason I named him Mr. Wow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I take it you went to a nude beach?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You got it! It was hard, uh...I mean I had a hard time...uh, no. I mean I had a little trouble hiding my, uh...my interest in him. Yeah, that's it, my interest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What didn't happen?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did you have trouble with the sheriff?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, this was at that beach that's just south of Devil's Slide on Highway 1. When we went up the trail to go back to the car, the sheriff was waiting for us. He told us that hiking or climbing is prohibited there. I told him that we just walked up a trail, but he wrote out the tickets anyway. But what burned my ass was the fact that the only reason the sheriff was there was because they were practicing rappelling down the rocks. And he told us that hiking or climbing was prohibited--hypocrite."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope you didn't tell him that to his face."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not to his face. But when he handed me the pen to sign the ticket, I told him that I didn't want to sign it. That's when he told me that he would take me to jail. So I snatched that pen up and signed without delay--I may be lonely, but I'm not that lonely! So now, I have to go to court next month to fight it. Ted said he got a ticket before for the same thing, but they dismissed the case when he went to court. So I'm hoping they'll do the same with me. It was a good thing they didn't search us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Two reasons. One, I had my prized knife on me. And two, I had a joint."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you got lucky, Alex. I'm afraid to ask but..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then don't ask, dude. But I do think I got lucky--I've been weak in the knees ever since."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Alex, I'd like to ask you about the..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You want to know why I am smoking again, don't you? Well, it's because it's there. Because it feels good. I don't know. Since Benny, I've been all tense, and I feel kind of shaky, you know? When I take a few hits from a joint, I feel better for a while. And I keep having these weird dreams. But when I smoke, I notice that I don't dream as much. So that makes it better, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That could also have been the result of Nembutal. Alex, I would be remiss if I didn't tell you that your drug use concerns me. Please don't abuse drugs, they really are only a temporary fix and not a good solution. They only lead to more problems."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Now, don't get all preachy with me, I'm not addicted. Shit! I haven't been taking enough of it to become addicted! Don't worry, dude."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do worry, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't. I'll be fine. That thing with Benny was just temporary insanity. And what better way is there to cure that than with something else that's temporary? They'll cancel each other out. Get it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Somehow I don't get the logic in that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't have to, I do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, it looks like we're out of time for today, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, dude. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex. And please, be careful, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Dude! Don't worry, I'll be all right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, Alex. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 17th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, September 17, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doctor Balis. How are you doing?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. What..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The black eye? I knew you'd ask me about it. Got into a fight at school."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh Alex, that isn't good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're telling me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And what about your outfit? I wasn't actually looking at your shiner when you first walked in. Velvet, isn't it? I can't decide if you are dressed for a funeral or a party."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're too funny. It does look like velvet, huh? Everyone wants to feel it. It's made of leather, brushed leather. Nala designed it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Nala?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh hum. The one and only."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Get with it, man. Nala of San Francisco? See, last week Ralph and I were having dinner at Il Fornaio, and she came over and started talking to us. Ralph knows her because she used to style-up the photo shoots for the ads he ran for his shows. You know the ads, I'll bet. I mean, you've probably seen them at one time or another. The real sexy ones--mostly naked men usually in some sort of acid-house rock-video styled scenes. Anyway, Ralph and Nala go way back. And she seemed to fall in love with me for some reason. She went back to her table and brought over Beilund Tajje, the photographer, and they joined us for dinner! By the time it was all over, Beilund and Nala told me that I had 'the look' that they were searching for and it would be grand if I would come and work with them and all. So this past weekend I spent with the two of them, and I brought along Rhea--they liked her, too. We went out to the coast. It was so nice out there, and we went through rolls and rolls of film. The shiner I got on Monday. And since I'm not in school for the rest of this week, I'll be going over to Nala's to get some fittings done. You sure you don't know who Nala is?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you're going to be a fashion model? But are you going to be in these ads you've just described?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're always thinking smut, aren't you? No, no way! Nala owns two lines now. Attaboy designs...you know what those are? The ones that look sort of retro beatnik except with a lot of vibrant colors? Those are for the twenty-something guys. And of course there's her namesake line, \"Nala of San Francisco,\" where she's putting out a line of clothing that is best described as...what would you call it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm afraid I'm not up on the latest fashion..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Gothic! Goth-rock stuff, that's what I call it. But, oh man, it's so expensive. I don't know how anyone can afford any of it. But I guess people are buying it, so there's got to be a lot of money somewhere out there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It fits you well. Have you ever thought about doing this before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why do you think I hate my father so much?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Huh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A couple years before he died, I was doing modeling a little bit. I did some ads for the old Bullock's stores mainly, and I did a lot of live shows here in The City. I really liked doing it. But he hated the idea, made me feel like I was this small."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think he hated it so much?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess he thought that it was making me a sissy. He'd say that only sissy-boys model, and he'd rant and rave like he ranted and raved about everything else. But he'd complain about the modeling thing all the time--I was getting so much attention and stuff. I remember one time, he and my grandmother were fighting about it and he hit her. He hit her! I was in shock, I guess, but that's what he did. So the next day, I was over at this woman's house--she used to manage me, I guess--and I told her that he died, because I wished him dead. She was so shocked that she wrapped her arms around me and cried."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did that make you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I really felt guilty about it. I mean about telling such a story. Then she went over to my house and offered her condolences to my grandmother. And then it came out that I lied, and I was in so much trouble. My grandmother told me she understood why I lied and why I was angry with him. But I was wrong and I knew it. I'll never forget what it was like to have all that come down, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like you learned a valuable lesson. You mentioned something about Tony earlier. I was very concerned about your involvement in all that. What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Roly and I went up there to the house on Saturday, just like we planned. But the old man didn't go out, so we couldn't go in and get Tony. Marney was so mad when we came back. She went up to the house herself and tried to smash her way in. But the old guy called the cops and had us removed from the premises. Tony was helpless, and when I talked to him on the phone later, he told me that he got in big trouble over that. I'll bet the guy beat him up, but I don't know--I haven't seen him yet. But Marney...well, I never saw her like that. Later, we got into a huge yelling match out in the street over it. She wants him out of there. Her parents want him out. And I want him out, too. But going about it that way--causing a scene and all--well, that's blowing it, you know? We're going back this weekend. This time, Marney's coming with us, but I'm going to make her wait outside."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This still concerns me. Concerns me a great deal, actually. Alex, have you thought about all the things that could go wrong? Does Tony realize that you are planning to get him out of there? Does he want to go himself?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, why not get the authorities involved? If this man is beating up Tony, then the authorities..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But Tony's an adult, see? That's the thing, isn't it? The old guy has been in a lot of trouble with the law for quite some time, according to some people I've spoken to. The thing is he gets away with it, or they don't have enough evidence, or the witness won't talk, or whatever. The police know who he is. That guy put a lot of people in the hospital, and he's not beating them up if you get my meaning..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rough sex. He hurts people because he's real rough and he doesn't care if they get hurt. But no one will come forward and press charges against him, because he knows a lot of people in this town and people are really afraid of him. So he gets away with it. And I heard some really gross stories of how some guys needed a colostomy after he was done with them--he ripped their insides all up! Pretty sick dude, eh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a dangerous man, Alex. I am very concerned about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't worry, Doctor. Anyone ever tell you that you worry too much? I'll be fine. He can't hurt me. I mean I'm not going to have sex with him or anything like that, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But still, Alex, you are putting yourself at unnecessary risk by trying to save Tony. I would rather you got some professional help, a detective or..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, okay, enough already. You know you're not going to change my mind about this, so why are you even trying? I have to help my friend. And since he told me that he does want out, then I've got to help him despite himself. It's the least I can do. I mean it's not like I tried real hard to find him when he slipped away, you know? But that's enough of that subject, let's talk about my mom. I've finally figured out why she's so hateful about this pregnancy, why she's taking it out on me, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think it's all about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When she was pregnant with me, she didn't want me. She still doesn't want me and she never did, that's no secret. Now she's all pregnant and has Mark here with her this time. And she's bound and determined to have this kid. I still think she's too old. I mean what's a thirty-two-year-old woman doing pregnant? She's too old!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She's just thirty-two? Alex, women are having children much later--even ten years older than you mom. Your mother is in her prime child-bearing years. She's not too old for childbirth."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But the bitch shouldn't be having any more children, at this stage. I mean look at me. I'm almost seventeen and will be close to eighteen by the time it's born. That's too much of an age difference. Plus, when she was pregnant with me, she treated herself like shit--taking drugs and attempting to induce miscarriage and stuff like that. Now she's Pollyanna--taking the best care of herself, eating right, getting rest, and all that. The bitch wants this one. I'll bet she won't be tossing this one aside like she did with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, has it ever occurred to you that your mother did you a favor when she gave you to her parents to raise as their son?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Huh? What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She was unable or unwilling to care for you. Under those circumstances, I think she did the right thing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did you put her name on your punching bag yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I did. Why?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just curious."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It'd great to concentrate on her when I'm punching that bag. Yeah. That's a plan, dude. It won't be hard, I can tell you that much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Our time is up, Alex. I'll see you next week, same time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Oh, no. I need to miss next week. Can it be the week after?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. Something you want to talk about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nah, it's bullshit, man. Thanks for cutting me some slack. I'll catch you later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay then, take care of yourself, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Always do, man. No one else is going to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And try to straighten things out in school--education rules in this world. Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 62nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, September 23, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doc. Well, it's official--Luke and I are broken up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it all started with the fire."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Fire?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, we had a fire at Ralph's. Oh, it was small, really--just one little wall in the kitchen is burned, along with the stove top, hood, and all the pots and pans hanging there. There was some water damage to the floor and the basement below. And smoke...the smell of smoke was everywhere. I still smell it sometimes. But we were really lucky. And it was an excellent and not so excellent timing on Luke's part."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why's that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess he got back from the East Coast and decided to just drop by. He hasn't called in three weeks or so, and then he just slipped into town unannounced and dropped by. No phone call, no letter, nothing from him in all that time, and then he just dropped over. But if he hadn't, Ralph would probably be in the hospital right now or maybe even dead, and we wouldn't have broken up the way we did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was Ralph and his stupid Vicodin pills. He told me that he put something on the stove and then took one of those pills. Next thing you know--charcoal city! He passed out! And you were worried about me taking drugs; Ralph is totally addicted to those things."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He passed out while the kitchen was catching on fire. Luke came to the door and smelled smoke, and no one answered the door of course. So Luke went around to the garden and saw smoke pouring out of the kitchen window. I guess he went up the steps and saw Ralph passed out in his chair. So he got inside and pulled Ralph out. By then, the smoke alarm had gone off--it's one of those kind that calls emergency when it goes off. Well, when we got back to the house, the fire department was there, and the fire was out. I was thinking that Ralph...well, I mean...I didn't know right away that there was a fire, and I pictured Ralph....well, you know. My heart totally stopped when we came around the corner to see all that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I completely understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, anyway...Ralph was in the ambulance, and he was breathing oxygen through one of those mask things. And then I saw Luke, and he was fuming! His face was...I don't know, he looked like he wanted to murder me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why was he so upset? Was it because of Ralph?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no. It wasn't. It was because of Ted."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ted?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Ted! You don't remember him? The guy who..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The guy who looks like Benny."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you! I had gone out with him again. Well actually, I've gone out with him four times. No, five times since I saw you last. I really like him, and he's here and not off somewhere in New York or Milan or something. But he and I were just coming back from the beach again when we came upon this pandemonium."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You do? See what? You're getting that funny look again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, you mentioned before that you didn't like Luke traveling so much."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't like it! I mean, how am I supposed to have a relationship with someone who is never here? I really thought we had something good going there for a while, but then...well, he got all wound up in this modeling career and shit. It's because Luke's so damned good looking. I don't know. Things have been kind of weird between us since that time with Cami, you know? He didn't get over it or something. Or maybe it was me who didn't get over it, I don't know. But things were different between us. It was like I was walking on eggshells around him and he was ready to explode at any moment. And he did explode. A few times. But where were we?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, you were telling me..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yeah! Yeah, I remember. So Luke was standing there glaring at me. If he could have done it, I would have been reduced to ashes right there. I was all...well, I just stood there. What was I supposed to do? Ted was standing there wondering what the hell was going on, and Luke did his little cut and run act on me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Cut and run?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But, Alex, you can see Luke's point, can't you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What is this? You're suppose to be on my side!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Actually, I'm supposed to help you see things from different perspectives. I do see your side of it, too, Alex. I understand how difficult it is to always wait for someone's return."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, waiting. Well, I'm through waiting!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Did you ever find out why Luke came to the house in the first place?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when he was yelling at me, he said he came by to talk to me and find out where we stood. But when he saw me and Ted together, he knew right away where we stood. Well, that was what he said, not me. I told him so, too. I told him that if he had paid more attention to me and not to his career..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That is what I was getting at, Alex, when I asked you to see Luke's point of view. He has his career and it puts a lot of demands on him and his time. From what you've told me, he's required to travel, and I'm sure there are other demands as well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There are, you don't have to remind me. Luke was weird about food, about eating in particular. Oh, I don't know. We don't need to go there. And I don't really feel all that bad about it. Tony always said that Luke was my rebound relationship, and maybe that's why I don't feel bad about the break up. I don't know. Well, maybe the fact that Benny was still on my mind...and the fire...all of it has kind of blown me away. Somehow my mind managed to merge that thing with Regina with the fire, producing this strange and bizarre dream I had."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to tell me about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure if I can explain it and make sense, too. In the beginning of the dream somewhere, I think I saw Regina, acting crazy like she always does. And then I saw Benny, only I was running away from him. Then I was in this room, and the walls were dripping in flames. The curtains were slowly getting eaten up by the flames, and the ceiling was engulfed. The fire was roaring across the ceiling, and I could hear the smoke alarm going off, louder and louder. Before I knew it, I couldn't breathe, and I fell to my knees--I didn't want to get up and run. Then, all of a sudden, the door was kicked down, and a silhouette of a fireman came toward me. I yelled at him to stop and get out, to save himself. And as he scooped me up in his arms, his helmet flipped up, and I was looking into a mirror. He said, \"I am. I am trying to save myself.\" And then I woke up, covered in sweat. My pulse was pounding strong. I've been thinking about the dream ever since. It really bugged me. It was me in the fireman's uniform. I was trying to save myself. And now I'm trying to figure out what I'm trying to save myself from. Tony said that clearly I'm trying to save myself from myself. And I told him I wanted to slap him. And he just said, \"Please do!\" Well, I don't want to go there, either, thank you very much! But it really made me think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was a powerful dream."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You just don't know, dude. Uh...oh, I'm sorry. I can't seem to control this yawning thing I've been doing. It's just that I'm really sleepy lately. I guess it's because of school; I'm still trying to get adjusted to that pace again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't realize you were back in school already."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, it's been a few weeks now. The only class I like is my art class. The instructor is teaching us how to paint in watercolor, and it's a real challenge for me. If I do anything worthwhile, I'll bring it in so you can see it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thanks, I'd like that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Well, maybe I should be going. I have to pick up some more drugs for Ralph today. Oh, we got a nurse for him, a girl nurse named Rita. I call her Dita because she's such a dominatrix. My guess is that she goes home and whips the shit out of some drooling guy. But she is a no nonsense kind of woman and gets her job done, and Ralph likes her. She thinks...I don't know what she thinks, but you can tell she is thinking something...I think it's something about me, something about Ralph, and then something about the both of us. I don't know. She's a trip. One of these days, I'm going to follow her and I'll find out what she does when she's not working."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're not really going to do that, are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, maybe. She intrigues me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So just ask her questions, get her to open up to you. I know you know how to turn on that charm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. So, Doctor, are you ever going to tell me whether it's a boyfriend or a girlfriend?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's been driving me wild ever since I thought about it. Maybe I ought to follow you sometimes, hmm?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, I think this is not productive..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't worry. I'm just playing with you! I was just wondering who helped you when your father was sick recently."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Helped me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes? I'm waiting!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, this is definitely not the reason we are here. Let's get back on track, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Damn! You aren't going to give it up, are you? Oh well, one of these days, I'm going to figure you out. This curiosity..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, just drop it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You have that look. Well, dude, I am leaving now, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, certainly. We're out of time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, yes, certainly!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 63rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, September 30, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, right..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex? What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, in case you can't tell by just looking at me, I haven't been getting much sleep lately. And I'm not really in the mood for this...uh, this shit, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is there a reason why you are not sleeping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Is there a reason? Ha! Sometimes, I think I'd be better off dead or something! A reason! Well, I'll give you twenty guesses."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd much rather not play a guessing game with you, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, you'll figure it out if you just think for a second. I'll bet you'll get it on the first guess. Well? Okay, you have that stupid look you get! It's Benny again. Again, again, and again! It always goes back to him. Jeez! The fucking bastard!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He's still on your mind..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, no shit, Sherlock! He's always on my mind. That fucking asshole!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has something happened to make you so angry?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No kidding! Sharp as a meatball, that's what I always say about you! Okay. Well, Cecil called the other day. He asked me to come to his office alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did he tell you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Since he knows the lawyer that tried to help Benny, he has some inside information. Damn! I still can't fucking believe it! It's like...it's like I've been dreaming, and I can't wake up from this nightmare. You can't know a dream until you know a nightmare, especially this nightmare."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he's going to get out! That's what I've been trying to tell you!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He's getting out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You heard me right. Out! O. U. T. Out! They're letting him loose. It's something about an appeal or something like that. They're letting him out of fucking jail. And he's going to come back! He's going to come back to get me. He's going to get revenge. Or maybe he wants me back. I don't know! I...well, I just...well, I can't believe...I couldn't believe my ears! I'm all...uh, I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, please. Take a few slow, deep breaths. Good. That's it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was beginning to hyperventilate. Again!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were starting to turn blue."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, maybe I can hyperventilate into a coma or something. Anything would be better than this. He knew, Doc! He knew all along that he was getting, and that's why he called me. He knew when he called. And he knew when he saw me, when I went to see him in prison, and he didn't say a word! Remember? I told you he had ulterior motives, that he was up to something. I told you! Not even a hint, you know? And he seemed so real, too. But he wasn't, was he? He was playing with me like that...everything was going so well for me, too...well, everything except for what happened between Luke and me. But now, he just...he...uh, he pops up right out of the blue. And he tried to act like we were...like we are best friends, like nothing ever came down between us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was so sincere, so charming. All this has brought it back up like it was yesterday, like we broke up just yesterday. He brought it all back to me like a bad relapse."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And some things never change...nothing ever changes, you know? He's still the same manipulative mother fucker that he always was. And me...well, I'm all tangled up in it. I have been sitting in my room or in the studio, by myself, crying my eyes out. And now I'm all cried out. It was nonstop sometimes, for hours, all night. I went over to his house, where he used to live, and I remembered the rage that Roly and I went into that night, the night we trashed his car. I don't even know...no, he couldn't have seen what we did, he was in jail by then, but Dora probably told him. Fuck! I don't know...I just don't know what I'm going to do, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The first thing you need to do is get a restraining order. Benny should not be allowed to come into any contact with you. You can tell Cecil to help you. I'm sure it will be fairly easy, given that you were a witness at his trial. Then you need to..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah...everyone says the same damn thing. He's no good, and I know that already. He's no damn good. Cami never knew him, but she said that I am a completely different person when he's in my consciousness. And I am, I can see that much. And I don't like who I am when he's in the picture. I don't like how he effects me at all. He effects me like alcohol effects an alcoholic! When I'm around him or talking to him on the phone, something takes hold of me. I become...I'm a different person. I'm a wimp, and I feel so creepy. He has this weird hold over me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You can break that hold, Alex. Look where you were then and compare it to where you are in your life now. You've come a long way and made many positive changes since then. Alex, you don't have to let him..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Part of me wants him back. Isn't that sick? I always did want him back, secretly. Well, I think you knew that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I did. But is that the right thing for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I don't think so. He is so wrong! So wrong! And another part of me wants revenge, revenge for me and revenge for Roly's death. Roly wouldn't have thrown himself in front of that BART train if it hadn't been for what Benny did to us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, revenge will only hurt you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I...uh, I can...but he deserves to be in jail! He deserves to suffer! He deserves to burn in hell. I want to...I want...well, I wish I could rip him limb from limb, bit to bit with my bare hands. I wish I could make him suffer the same way he made me and Roly suffer. Part of me wants to accept him back into my life just so I could yank the rug out from under him, like he did to me. And then we'll see just how he will feel. I want to spit in his face and laugh at him. He is such a loser--a cheating, lying, thieving loser! And I want to kill him..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, any physical action you take against Benny will only hurt you. It would most certainly backfire on you, I'm certain of that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't ruin it, dude. Don't spoil my fantasy, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So long as it's only a fantasy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Cecil say when Benny would be released?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Huh? Uh, yes, he did. I think. He said it may be any day now. How could they do this? How could they let this happen? They did this thing--an \"appeal\" he called it...and now they are going to just let him go. Just like that! One day, he's a convicted child molester, and the next day, he walks. How fair is that? What about me? What about Roly? And the tapes! They had enough evidence on the tapes to keep him locked up for years. Cecil tried to explain it to me, but none of it makes any sense. Everything he said just became a blur, white noise. It just blended into everything else. He could have been rambling on for all I knew. He could have been insulting me something fierce, and I wouldn't have known the difference. It's just that I...nothing anyone can say will ever make me understand all of this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't understand it, either. But sometimes the law works in very strange and unpredictable ways, Alex. Lawyers figure out every angle--that's their job."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, but is it their job to let criminals go free? It's not fair!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know it isn't fair. But sometimes things just work out that way. Do you know if there's going to be a new trial?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A new trial--you're shitting me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I don't know about that. But I do know that you have got to get yourself together and get prepared, Alex. You need to be ready when Benny tries to come and see you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he better be prepared to get his ass kicked good, too! But he doesn't know that I live with Ralph. Oh, wait! Yes, he does. He does know, because that's where he's been calling me. Fuck! He knows where I live! It's just what I need right now, too. And Ralph is so sick. Shit! The only good thing to have happened lately is the fact that crazy bitch Regina isn't going to be able to sue Ralph. After she got arrested for stalking me, the lawyer said she doesn't have a leg to stand on. They dismissed the whole thing. It was too ridiculous. Ralph's lawyer said she was lucky Ralph didn't get her for trespassing. I guess she can sue the guy who hit her with his car or something. She had that accident...I hear she's been milking that good. She claims to not remember anything just before the accident--she has amnesia or something. But I know she's just faking it, the evil little thing she is!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad that her lawsuit against Ralph has been dismissed."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, he has enough on his mind right now. This week, they started him on radiation. So now he is on chemotherapy and radiation, and it isn't pretty, I'm telling you. He isn't handling it well at all. It's a good thing we have Dita around to help him out while I'm not there. And with all that's been on my mind, I'm not very good for him right now anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't be so hard on yourself..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why can't Benny just drop off the face of the Earth or something? Why can't a Mack truck just flatten him? That would make my life so much easier. I just wish he would go away...go away forever. As long as he's breathing, I'm not going to get any rest at all. Someone has got to stop him, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But not you, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, I'm concerned about all this talk of revenge. You really need to understand that you can't take justice into your own hands..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, you just gave me an idea...well, I've got to go now, Doctor. Bye!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, wait!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm out of here, dude. See you!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, hold on a minute."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry, dude, I've got to go! Later!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex. Alex!"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 18th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, October 1, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex. How was your week? Did you go away somewhere?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, no, we didn't. Actually, I had to go back to school last week. But on Wednesday, Ralph took me to San Jose to see the Cirque du Soleil. That's why I didn't schedule an appointment for last week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you like the Cirque du Soleil? I hear it's very good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It is...uh, I mean it was...it's amazing what those people can do. It's so athletic, you know? All the costumes and colors and movements they make--it's like a big Broadway production with the dance and drama thing. It is so cool, and it reminded me of my silly little fantasy of running away and joining the circus."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Many people have this same fantasy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ah, yeah. But how realistic is it really? I mean I can't legally be recognized as a person until I'm eighteen. So even if I did do something so drastic, I wouldn't be able to make a living. At least not legally, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well Alex, I'm sure that whatever you put your mind to, you will succeed. And waiting until you're a legal adult isn't so bad, you'll be one before you know it. When do you turn eighteen anyway?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "January, nineteen ninety-nine. And that's a long way off by my calendar. Shit! They won't even let me try for my GED until November of next year!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean? Who won't let you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The damned State of California, that's who! Their rule is that I must be seventeen years and ten months before I can take the test. And even then, if I were to take it and pass it, I wouldn't be able to get the diploma until I was eighteen. So what difference does it make? I could take the pretest and the preparation classes earlier, but I can't take the real test until then. By then, I'd just have under a year left of high school! They got us all by the balls, that's for sure!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand your disappointment, Alex. Until then, there's plenty of time to get prepared for your life. A high school education--and I mean the one where you actually go to school, interact with others, and have a plotted out course of learning--is very important. And that kind of discipline can be very rewarding in it's own right."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Gee, Doctor, if I want discipline, I could always go over to Tony's house--he has a whole bunch of stuff that can be used for that!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tell me what happened there, with Tony?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess you can say that things worked themselves out. We didn't have to go and rescue him after all. Well, we did go and everything, but he wasn't there--neither of them were there. See, as I suspected, Tony did get in trouble with Tim after Marney had her tirade on their front porch. That old dried-up asshole beat the shit out of Tony, and he needed medical care including a couple of nights in the hospital. But the best part is that the old fucker is dead!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When? How? I mean, really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He had a business?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I thought I told you that. He owns Paradise Leather on Polk. They make custom leather fashions--made to order stuff. It's the kind of place where you can go and design your own leather bustier or corset or anything else leather you can think of. Tony got it all--lock, stock, and barrel. He did pretty well for himself, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's a hell of a way to come across a fortune, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But now, he can get the help he needs. He's up in St. Helena right now in a hospital for addiction, and I guess he'll be there for a while, you know? That crank is some pretty heavy shit! It takes a while to get it out of your system, and it's not going to be easy for him. It's the urge to do what's familiar that's going to be hard on him. And the HIV infection just adds to the pile of stuff to deal with, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It does complicate matters. It's a good thing that he has checked into a treatment program. Perhaps Roly can learn from his example."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Roly has a lot to learn, period! Man, you should see what he has become. I went over there to see him the other night, and he and I went to get some Chinese food. He's such a slob. I mean even livestock have better table manners. He eats with his mouth open and makes slurping noises and stuff. It's so pig-like that I can't stand it. It's the crank that does it to him, you know. It makes him not care about things, and he's so hyper all the time--he speaks so rapidly and loudly, as if he can't even hear himself. He needs to be where Tony is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds very bad. But maybe seeing Tony get himself straightened out will give Roly some incentive to follow suit."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess so. Just don't put any money on that idea. Oh yeah, I almost forgot. I spoke to Sael the other day. Haven't seen him in a long time. He's been so busy with his premeds--that's what he calls them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He's going to be a doctor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, he says he wants to do sports medicine. So he's a paramedic by night, and by day he's in college getting himself ready for medical school. I think he wants to go back East somewhere to study. It was nice to hear from him. Oh yeah, and another weird thing happened this week. I told you that Benny's trial date was set, and they also set his bail--which he couldn't make..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't recall that. So there's a trial date set?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. The letters...that's real strange. Doesn't it bother you, Alex, that you've been threatened like this? Do you think that Benny is behind it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Who else? The thing I can't figure out is who put the first note in the mailbox? The first note was just slipped in the box, it wasn't mailed. And the second one was mailed from within the city. So he's got someone helping him. It reminds me of when my dad got all twisted up in some murder thing here. One day, he was in a restaurant, and these guys came in and shot the place all up, and he saw who it was. It was because of him that they were caught. But after that happened, we got threatening phone calls and dead animals in the mail and stuff. This marked the time when he went all weird on us and became the tyrant that I remember him to be. He was always paranoid that we were going to be killed or something, and he was always flying into a rage over something. He even carried a gun everywhere he went."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Was he that worried about the safety of his family?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure he was. But he surely didn't have to go and become a total asshole over it. He'd start in about the dumbest things--my modeling, for one thing. And then there was this tutor I had. Dad said that I was being coddled--whatever that meant--but it was his idea in the first place to take me out of school and have a tutor come over. But what seemed to bug him most was when I'd get upset about something. See? I used to get real wimpy about things. And if I even started to act like I was going to cry, he would yell at me--which made everything worse of course. One time, he was teaching me how to ride a bike without training wheels. When I'd just started to wobble, he would grab a hold of the back of the bike, and shake it, and scold me for wobbling! I learned that with him--you do it his way and don't falter, or you're going to get it. He hated failure in anything. So obviously, I learned real fast how to keep my balance. It's a wonder I even like to ride these days, you know? He also hated the idea that I was a sissy-boy model who hung out with the girls all the time. He would have been real happy if I were the son he always wanted--one who liked to go out and get all dirty and didn't mind a little dirt under his fingernails. A guy who loved all sports not just baseball like me, but football--which I think is a pretty stupid game. I mean, what kind of a job is that anyway? A bunch of oversized guys with pea-sized brains jumping all over each other and getting hurt--sounds like the way I want to make a living! Plus, it looks so homo-erotic to me the way they pat each other on the butt. And the totally skin-tight uniforms--totally homo-erotic, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What? What? I didn't like the man. He was a jerk! What's wrong with that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There's nothing wrong with that, Alex. It's just the way you describe him--a tyrant. And you said that he was this way with your grandmother, too?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess he was. But it was usually because of me--I was his biggest disappointment more than Larraine ever was. He didn't want a Nancy-boy for a son."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A Nancy-boy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure. So, Alex, you've never quite come out and said it before, but are you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello? I can see the lights are on, but no one's home! Where the hell have you been? You think that my sleeping with Benny would have tipped you off. Or the fact that most everyone I spend any time with were gays. So yes, I am gay. You have a problem with that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I knew you were, Alex, but I haven't heard you identify yourself specifically that way before, that's all. And no, I don't have a problem with it. Do you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, when I asked you specifically about it, you seemed to be on the verge of a rage yourself. So again, are you comfortable with being gay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ah...well, I guess...I mean, I think I am. Why, uh...what do you mean am I comfortable? Of course I am. It's just that, well, it's just that I...I don't think the world is ready for a guy like me. I'm not a typical gay guy. I'm different. Most people don't assume that I'm gay, because I look so male, you know? I'm tall, and I have muscles, and I don't act all femme. It confuses people. Like it confused you, I guess. Most people seem to want an easy answer for everything. And if there is any ambiguity, then it's too much to handle."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, it's a question that has crossed my mind several times. Maybe we can discuss this more next time. And in the meantime, you could think about it, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I don't know what there is to think about or discuss. Gay is as gay does, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You know what I mean."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, we discussed it. End of subject!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "For now, because we are out of time. I'll see you next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Same time, same place, new shit! Okay, man, see you!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 64th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, October 7, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nAlex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hey, dude. Sorry, I was just..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Who was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That was Ted. I was just saying goodbye to him. He dropped me off today, and now he's off to work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. You look..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rested?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. You do look much better this week. You had me really worried last week when you ran out of the session..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Dude! I told you not to worry about me. I'm a cat, I always land on my feet, one way or another."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what's happened since last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you mean Benny?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's been a weird week. He's definitely out or back or whatever! We keep missing each other. And Ted and Cami sort of kidnapped me last weekend--I guess they kind of saved me from myself and from Benny. But wait. You have to remind me to tell you about Katherine, okay? Oh and...you should have seen it! Do you know those guys out there tearing up the street in front of your building?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not personally."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, one of them is real burly and hunky. And he was all...well, you probably don't want to hear this, but...too bad, you're going to hear it anyway! He was all bent over, practically grabbing his ankles, and I couldn't stop looking at him. So that's the other reason why I was a little late getting here today--I was transfixed by that incredible ass he has. Ted asked me what I was looking at, and I told him I was looking at that dude. Doesn't he know that he shouldn't be bending over like that in San Francisco? He could end up with quite a surprise doing that! I know I can't be the only one who notices stuff like that around this town. Talk about temptation knocking!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, okay, I'll knock it off. But I've been in this weird mood this week, ever since Cami and Ted took me up to Calistoga this past weekend. We went to the mud baths and got the works. Have you been there?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I haven't."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you had a nice time, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We did. Totally nice. We ate like pigs, too! We had dinner at a restaurant called Alex's Restaurant, can you believe it? It made me forget all about the jerk, you know? The one thing I noticed when we left The City was all this open space up there and all the trees. It made me uncomfortable--wouldn't someone have paved over all that by now? There should be super shopping malls and acres of parking lots all up there. And those trees, those damned trees were sucking up all my valuable oxygen!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are in a funny mood today, Alex. I haven't seen you like this in a long time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I can't help myself. Maybe it's because of the full moon we had the other day. Or maybe it's because of Ted. Or maybe it's because of Cami. I noticed that since Benny left my life, all these positive people have came into my life. First, it was Katherine, then Cami, and now Ted. And of course I can't leave out Ralph. But Ralph was there before Benny left, and he turned out to be so not like I originally thought he was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I'm glad you've noticed the positive influences in your life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, with the Asshole back in town...I think he did me a big favor, really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I realized he hasn't changed. It's like I told you last week, he knew he was getting out when he manipulated me into coming to see him in prison. And he didn't say a word about it, not even the slightest hint. And that is so like Benny to do something like that. He was feeling me out, probably to see if I was the same naive fool I was before. I don't know. But the thing is, he is still the same jerk he was before. That's for sure. But when I left here last week, I had a plan..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's what I was worried about. I though you might have been up to something. What was your plan?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I was...I don't know, dude. I still may do it, just for fun, just to fuck with his head a little."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think I'm going to like this..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I don't think Benny will like it either, once he realizes he's been had. I'm not the same stupid fool I was then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how are you going to prove that to him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hell, yes. I'm going to prove it to him! Hell, yes! When he and I finally come face to face, he's going to be in for a big surprise. I'm not going to fold into that blubbering idiot again. I'm going to stand up to him and tell him like it is. You don't fuck with someone the way he did with me and just walk away without getting something in return, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, this is what I was trying to tell you before..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm serious, Alex. If you act out a revenge fantasy, it's only going to make things worse and it might get you in a whole lot of trouble."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, if I don't do something, I think this will continue to be a whole lot of trouble. Benny's going to keep coming back to haunt me until I show him that I'm the one in charge now and that he can't manipulate me anymore. He needs to crawl back under the rock he came from and leave me the fuck alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What makes you think that Benny won't leave you alone?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, I really must encourage you to rethink this. Your plan to have a confrontation with Benny will only antagonize the situation. I think it's best if you simply ignore him and get that restraining order we talked about last time. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, right! Hello? Ignore him? Well, he isn't going to go away that easy. I just wish that someone would off him or something. The minute he stops breathing is the minute I'm going to be able to rest. But until then...I don't know. Do we have to keep talking about this?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I really want you to think about all the consequences..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah...well, whatever! Anyway, I wanted to tell you about Katherine. Remember I told you that I went with her to look at that huge house over in Sea Cliff?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I remember."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's buying it. I guess she's now waiting for escrow to close or something. I think that's what she called it. Escrow. I told her I would help her move if she wanted me to. I can get a bunch of guys together, and they would help with the move. She said she'd like that. But she's redoing the kitchen first or something. She expects to start moving soon. She is like a goddess, you know? Like I said before, I totally worship the water she walks on. I even said that to her, and she became sort of...I don't know. I could tell that she liked hearing it, but she was too proud to let me get away with saying it. She and Philip are both totally cool people. Their mom must be something else, too, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Katherine certainly seems fond of you, too, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, she does, doesn't she? I'm so lucky--all these cool and totally positive people...even you too, dude. You're totally cool, too, even though you won't tell me whether it's a boyfriend or a girlfriend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please, not that again..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well? One of these days I'm going to pry it out of you. You know you and Katherine would make a...no, never mind. That would be too weird, even for me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That would be unethical."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Whatever. But I can tell by that look on your face that you're thinking about it! Dude! You are so funny. I love that look you get when you get flustered! Ha! Ha! Ha!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, Alex, we're out of time for today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How totally convenient for you, uh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Same time next week then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, dude. You are so completely a trip, you know that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later, dude!"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 19th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, October 8, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHi, Doctor Balis! You'll never guess what just happened out there!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. Please, sit down. What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, you know Katherine? This is so weird and cool, too! Anyway, she and I have been passing each other outside since I've started coming here later in a day. And today, she gave me this card. I'm so excited! See? I have this picture to show you, and I was looking at it. When Katherine came out of your office, she saw it and told me that her boyfriend--I think his name is Jake. Yeah, that's his name, see? It's on the card. Anyway, he manages an art gallery here in the city, and she told me to call him. Maybe I could show my work there! Isn't that so cool? I mean she was like totally nice to me and seemed really interested in my work, especially these little mosaic-like things I do. She's seen some of the other stuff I've brought before. You know, besides maybe you and Ralph, no one else has ever been interested in my drawings and stuff?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's very interesting news, Alex. That was nice of Katherine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, she seems so...I don't know, maybe different. Yeah, different from a lot of women I know, particularly my mother. She seems like the kind of person who wouldn't need someone else to make her feel like a complete person, you know? I mean she's not like a bitch, but you can tell she means business. Or at least she really means what she says, but I'll bet she doesn't act like a bitch about it either. Does that make sense?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think I follow you, Alex. You seem to be very taken by her."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, yes...I mean, no...I mean...well, I don't know what I mean. She's totally cool, okay? How often does someone like that come into your life and show interest? Usually older people don't even notice I'm around unless I light myself on fire or something. And then Katherine comes along and...well, I think I could really get into a woman like that, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't mean like date her, but maybe as a friend. Oh, I don't know. I wish my mom was more like that. You know--had her shit together and stuff? But it's so cool! Maybe I'll become a famous artist or something. Who knows? And since the modeling thing isn't going to work for me, well maybe then this will be a good opportunity."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I encourage you to pursue it, Alex. Why isn't the modeling working out for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I forgot to tell you about that. Well, remember I told you about Nala and Beilund? They wanted me to help them during the Macy's Passport show a few weeks ago--the weekend that Tony went to St. Helena. They had me in the dressing area backstage and these guys--these models...I mean, men--they were so wrong! This one guy was treating me like I was a slave, and that didn't sit too well with me. Each time he came back to change, he would talk down to me. And finally, after about ten nasty comments, I got pissed at him and gave it to him good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I kind of gave him a black eye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you don't just kind of give someone a black eye..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I punched him out. But he deserved it--he was such a jerk treating me like that. So Nala told me that runway--or catwalk or whatever they call it--isn't going to work because I need to be able to take shit like that. And then the print work they seemed to have for me suddenly disappeared soon after. I guess they didn't like me to stand up for myself. But that jerk deserved it, you know? He even told me that he deserved it himself, so go figure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, this is the reason you came here in the first place--to work out these anger issues that get you into trouble. Remember the mindfulness exercises we did?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I do. And?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you're going to be facing difficult issues like this for the rest of your life. It's important to learn now how to deal with things that make you angry. If you go around punching people because they upset you, you'll end up an outcast and in jail. There are times and ways to stand up for yourself in a socially acceptable and responsible manner. Do you understand?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I get what you mean. But you don't understand--what if they deserve it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What if everybody went around punching each other out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This guy was testing you. You tested me in the beginning of our relationship here, remember? He wanted to see how far he could go, to see what he could get away with, you see?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't gain anything by punching him out, did you? In fact, you lost out on a chance for a modeling career with Nala. You gave in to your impulses and lost. You see how important it is to think things out before acting? Take the guy at your school--the one who gave you a shiner..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tommy. And? So?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tommy gave into his impulse, too. Did you enjoy having a black eye? Of course not. Do you see what I'm getting at? Sometimes, doing nothing is the best defense. Getting suspended from school for fighting was yet another way your impulses worked against you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, okay. Enough already. I get it, man. Think first, then punch!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No! That's not what I'm saying."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I was just playing with you. But sometimes, I think I can't control it, you know? It just overcomes me--I get pissed and then I go off."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you still using the punching bag?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, just about every day lately. This thing with Tony...and now Roly is out on the streets. Well, it's all gotten to me. It's like the world has gone crazy. Oh, yeah, and I almost forgot. You remember the letter I told you about? Well, whoever is doing that did it again. Only this time, they sent a photo. This has been real weird--the picture they sent was one of those gay porn ads. It looked a lot like kiddy porn, and it had Ralph pretty upset. We turned it and the other stuff over to Cecil. Ralph figured that the sooner the lawyer gets involved the better. He's pretty worried over it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Doesn't it worry you, too?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why should it? I know that Benny is behind it, and there's nothing he can do to keep me from testifying. I'm going to do it--he's totally going to fry, you know? But Cecil went over to the district attorney and gave them everything I got so far. I guess they plan to have a chat with Benny about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's good that you got the lawyer involved. Maybe they need to watch Benny closer."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, I figure what goes around, comes around, you know? I've seen Karma do it's deed too many times. Like my dad, for instance--he got just what he deserved. And it wasn't a moment too soon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's talk about him some more. Last week you told me a story about the bike. You've told me a lot of other negative things about your grandfather, Alex. Do you have any positive memories of him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Ah, now...well, I can think of one happy moment with him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you care to tell me about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Before he witnessed that murder, we had a pretty good life, I think. At least I don't really remember him going off like he did. But there was this thing we used to do--it was in the early spring when the winds were high. My parents used to take me down to Montara Mountain, and we would fly kites up there. This one day--I remember because we climbed up to the highest peak--the clouds were all puffy and white, and the sky was real deep blue. The mountains seemed to roll on forever, and I remember the big butterflies that used to flutter around--Monarchs, I think. Not many of those these days, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So anyway, I must have been around six--I was still a little guy. But what I remember most is laughing and my dad running around getting the kite to go higher and higher. He had a huge smile. I don't really remember why that day sticks out in my mind so much, except that we were all real happy then. Long car drives up and down the coast, the smell of his cigarettes in the car...my grandmother used to just stare at him with these little stars in her eyes--he was very good-looking, even the cat used to stare at him. I loved it when he picked me up and held me close. I felt...I felt safe. But, I think that...uh...uh, I don't know why I'm getting all weird about this, but...oh, shit!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here, Alex. Take some tissues. This is a memory that evokes some very strong emotion in you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, shit! Damnit! I wish I wouldn't puss-out like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you're safe here, and anything you feel is right. It's okay to have sad or mixed feelings about your grandfather. He played an important part of your life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, well...he's gone now, so I don't have to worry about him anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The memories you have of that happy time will always be inside you. Sometimes it's good to remember that it wasn't always bad."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I try not to think of him at all. You're the one who wanted to know more. Thanks a lot!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, you know better than anyone else that he has been on my mind quite a lot lately. I don't know why, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's okay. It's just what you're thinking now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It just is...hmm, I like that. It just is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's a good way to look at some things in life--they just are. It helps to put things in perspective."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perspective...talk about it. You know, Roly is out on the streets now? He's homeless. Got his butt kicked out of that dump in the Tenderloin. And since he's persona non grata with his dad, he has no money except for the bucks he hustles and even that's getting harder for him. He's like a crazy person. I gave him some money the other day. He got his front tooth knocked out last week. He was sleeping under the freeway down there off Third Street, and these people came in and started rummaging through everyone's stuff. Roly tried to stop them. Well, he got himself all beat up. Now, he looks like a crazy person--like any other dirty, messed-up, crazy homeless. Ralph doesn't want him around the house. And between you and me, neither do I. You know, that could've been me out there? That was me for a while. This really gives me some perspective on my situation. Shit, if it weren't for Ralph, I could be out there, too, you know? But if Roly keeps this up...well, he's heading for a big fall, and he's desperate for some speed. I just got to stay away from him, you know? I hate to say that, but I think my gut feeling is totally right on the mark this time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry to hear about Roly. I can tell this is hard on you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No one wants to see someone they care about be such a big fuck-up. But I realize that there isn't anything I can do for him anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's admirable that you want to help Roly. But Roly needs to want to be helped, so your insight is probably correct in this case, unfortunately. He may need to hit rock bottom before anyone can help him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, I hope that it won't be too late for him. Tony is lucky, but Roly...well, I'm not so sure that anything good is going to come out of it. I can't stand to be around him too much anymore...enough of that. I know we're out of time, so here are the drawings I wanted to show you. These are the rough-drafts I did, and then I did them over again but much larger. The big ones I think I'll bring over to that guy Jake. What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you should, Alex. I'm interested in what might happen. So I'll see you next week. And, Alex, good work today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks a lot, man. I mean for your encouragement and all. It really means a lot to me. See you later, dude!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 65th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, October 14, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, dude!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. Have a seat. How are you this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's been a funny time for me, you know? And I don't mean funny as in \"ha ha,\" either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm, why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, with the return of Benny, and all that's been happening with Ralph and with Ted, and...I feel like I'm in one of those stupid soap operas. But believe it or not, I've been in a pretty good mood, considering. Oh, the other day, I played a trick on everyone at the Alliance. It was pretty funny!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you do, Alex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm always asked to change the bottle on the water cooler there. So I got this bright idea to just put the bottle on without taking the cap off. I watched and waited, and you should have seen how funny they were. If I only had a video camera or something...someone would go up to it and try to get some water out. And the first time, a little trickle came out, and then of course nothing happened. But everyone could see that the bottle was full. A couple of people tried pushing down on the button harder. They strained and got this totally serious look on their face."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And then this one girl decided to rattle the bottle. She got it rocking back and forth pretty good--I thought she was going to tip it off the cooler completely! Everyone who tried it yelled out, \"The cooler's broken!\" I was totally busting up! So when I thought no one was looking, I fixed it and filled up a big glass full of water and walked around the place drinking it, making sure everyone saw me. Dude, it was so funny!. Hmm, I guess you had to be there. Oh! And Tony has got me to tripping."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tripping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not like drugs! You know, weird stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh. How is Tony?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it's this coping thing he's doing. At least I hope this is only his strange way of coping. Ever since what's-her-name, you know, that bitch? Ever since she dumped him, he's been doing drag. No, he's living in drag. He's the six-foot-tall doll! And he hangs at the drag clubs and goes to drag parties. I think some of them are drag sex parties, too. One minute, he's all into leather, and the next, he's in Barbie doll drag. And you know how scary I find drag queens to be? Tony goes from one extreme to the other, it's kind of like that fine line between love and hate, I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, what you've described are both really a form of drag."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I know, but...oh well. That crazy bitch really fucked him up. Oh how I'd love to get my hands on her! Yeah. Talk about fucking people up...uh, never mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Cecil burst my little bubble the other day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "About Benny?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, about Benny. Well, I thought that he was out for good, but he isn't. They did this appeal, and they got some judge to say that the trial was screwed up. So Cecil told me that now Benny has to go to trial again. And guess what they want from me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're going to have to testify again, aren't you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bingo! Okay, so here I am, all worked up over the fact that he's out and free, thinking that I'm all fucked up because of what he did to me and of what he did Roly. And I'm all...I don't know. I thought this was finished. And now...well, now it's all right back in my face again! I feel betrayed all over again, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And the whole thing is that I hate him and I don't. This love thing just doesn't go away because you want it to, does it? For me, it seems to have stayed behind, lingering in my consciousness, kind of mixed up with pain and disappointment, making my heart burn with agonizing pain, confusing it all with hate and anger. I know that I'm not making any sense. Does that make any sense?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, it does, Alex. You need to remember to look back to where you were just a year ago..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I know, but...but even though I haven't seen him...actually, I'm not allowed to see him at all--they got another restraining order against him. He can't come near me. And it works the other way around, too. I can't go near him, lucky for us both I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that's a good thing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, well, you would. So I'm all goofed up over this. Like I've told you before, part of me wants him to rot in hell. He really should be paying the price for all the damage he's caused. And I'm not just talking about the damage he caused me, either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were the victim, Alex. You were one of many victims. And you should try to remember that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I know, but part of me wants to see him so badly. I get all mixed up in this love and hate thing. One part of me wants to make him pay--I want to just crush it out of him with my own hands. And then another part of me wants to figure out a way to make it right with him, so that we can both go on with our lives and not have to look back on all this as some huge monstrous mistake. But I don't think that either option is going to be possible, at least not with him, because he is not going to change. And this is where Ted comes into the picture."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He looks so much like Benny; it's eerie sometimes. And they have a lot in common, too. Well, not a lot really, but a few things are similar besides their looks. Ted is into the Weather Channel, just like Benny was. And Ted finds it so funny that the average temperature in San Francisco is sixty-nine degrees. Benny always laughed about that, too. I never paid attention to stuff like that. Both of them say that sixty-nine is the appropriate temperature for this town with all the fags running around here. It really struck me that they both said this. And another similarity is their perception of the bleeding heart liberals that seem to be everywhere here, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The other day, Ted and I were riding on the Muni, and we came upon some animal rights activists in front of Boston Market. They were all holding up signs, \"Animals are our friends\" and \"Go veggie.\" It was all shit like that. I know you've seen them, too. Well, Ted just opened up his mouth and said, \"Do you think that if animals had the chance, they wouldn't be eating us?\" Well, not only did I nearly fall over laughing, but later, I realized that's something that Benny would have said, too. It's so strange how similar they are to one another. The big difference is that Ted doesn't go around accosting young boys like Benny did...or does. As far as I know, Ted doesn't do that. I hope he doesn't do that, otherwise I'd have to kick his ass, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's hope not."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So, it's too bizarre sometimes. Oh well, I guess this Benny thing is so far from over for me, uh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Unfortunately, I do think you have a way to go on this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, a real long way to go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But I think you're doing the right thing by talking to me about all of your feelings about this. Remember that whatever you feel is okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You are so clich��, you know? Uh, I'm sorry. I know you're just trying to help."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No offense taken, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So, where were we? Uh, I don't know. Oh! I forgot to tell you about Ralph. This is real exciting! Remember I told you that he went on the radiation treatment and that he was not doing so well with that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I remember. How is he doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he's still sick as a rabid dog. I keep calling him the incredible glowing man because he's so pale. But the doctors told him that the size of the tumor has shrunk down to almost nothing, and that is such great news, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good news, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ralph is pretty skeptical still, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Understandably."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But this is totally a good thing. He still has a few weeks of radiation to go, but it looks pretty good. Miracles do happen sometimes! I remember when I told him that I don't want to inherit any of his stuff, that he needs to stay alive and keep all his shit. And now, it looks like he may just do that. So with all this other shit going on right now, at least Ralph is coming out of it. Now he won't be bagging on me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This's very good news, Alex. I'm very happy to hear that Ralph is doing better."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So am I, dude, so am I. Well, I've got to be going now. Ralph said he felt like a real meal tonight, and I promised to make him something special. So I need to get over to the store to pick up some groceries for dinner before it gets too late and he changes his mind. I hope you don't mind if I cut things short today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's fine, Alex. It's just a couple of minutes. We'll see each other next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Well, thanks a lot, dude. I'll see you later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take care, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You too, man. Bye!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 20th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, October 15, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. Are you feeling all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It shows, eh? I think I'm coming down with something...I don't know. But my stomach has been all gurgly lately, and it seems like the cold air is effecting me more than normal. This chill air seems early this year. But I don't know. I'm feeling sort of low, I guess. Maybe it's this change in the weather."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The seasonal change does effect people, Alex. But there's a lot going around, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought there was. Ralph isn't feeling too well these days either. But I've been blaming it on our nerves. We've both been in bad moods lately, you know? We're getting pissed off over the little things--the CD player breaking, Ralph's freshly washed car getting dirty too fast. Stupid stuff, you know? Me? Well, I seem to be having a lot of self-doubts about things."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You'd think I'd be a little more excited about having a real professional look over my artwork. But I'm more nervous about it, and it never really mattered all that much to me before. Well, maybe it did matter to me, but I never thought that this would happen. So I'm kind of wondering if my work is good enough now, you know? I mean, you should see the work in that place--the Range Galleries. It's some really cool stuff, and my work is very different from what I saw there. So I think that it's probably not good enough. I'm expecting Jake to call me and tell me to come and get my stuff and not to come back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. You're really having a lot of self-doubts. Have you asked yourself why you are feeling this way? Where did these ideas come from?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, I really don't. It's just...it's, uh...well, I can't figure it out. People aren't supposed to be able to do this sort of thing. It just doesn't seem possible that my work would interest anyone enough to buy it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you're only seventeen years old. Give yourself a chance. Not many wanted to buy Van Gogh's work during his lifetime."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know what this makes me think of? It makes me remember my dad telling me that boys don't color and draw. He used to say that was for girls and that no one can ever be able to make enough money doing art to live on. But art is what I think I could do well as a job, you know? Maybe cartooning or stuff like that. Or these things. I call them mosaics, but I really had stained glass in mind when I was painting them. I imagine my illustrations in a children's book or on greeting cards...postcards, maybe. I don't know. But see? Something in my head keeps reminding me of what my dad said about art. It really bugs me, because it just won't stop. But I bet that Jake'll call me and tell me to come get my stuff, and then he'll show me the door--see, I've got it all figured out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you don't know what will happen with Jake. Try to be patient and wait for him to get back to you. And even if Jake's reaction to your work is not positive, it doesn't mean you should give up art all together. Artists create because they have to, not because they think they can sell their work. It's nice to be able to make a living selling art, but that's not the only goal of an artist. As for your dad, he's wrong. There are plenty of successful male artists. In fact, for many years, art was almost exclusively a male trade. And even now...take Arthur Rackham, for example."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He did \"Alice in Wonderland,\" didn't he?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He did! And Maxfield Parrish."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's my favorite!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is he? Unfortunately, your father tried to misinform you on the subject of art."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, that man's mouth keeps opening up from the grave and tells me shit. I hate him so much! He thought that people who are gay chose to be gay. But it isn't a choice at all. Most guys I know wouldn't choose it. There's too much bad stigma attached to that label. Shit, I don't tell people at school that I'm gay, because it's just not cool, especially in San Mateo. They aren't as gay-friendly down there as they are up here in the City."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does your family know that you're gay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, they do. And I think they're okay with it. If they aren't, they don't let on. I think Aunt Sofie is the coolest about it, you know? She had a son who was gay--Randy. He was my mom's age, but he died from complications related to AIDS. I never knew him. He was one of the early ones who never had a chance. By the way, she's home from the hospital now. Did I tell you that already? She's staying with Mom and Mark and the girls. It's a full house again. She and Mark did a stupid thing though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your Aunt Sofie and Mark?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. You know what they tried to do? They tried to get me and my mom to make up. It backfired. Totally backfired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like what, Alex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Aw, don't get your tit in a tether, okay? I'm not going to hurt anyone or anything like that. I would really like to get along with her, and I try...I mean, I did go over to the house for a family thing like they all wanted me to. But then she started on me for trying to help out. You can always count on her getting pissed about something. She's such a perfectionist, and I don't have to take her shit, you know? She hates me. I just don't get along with her, that's all. But I know she hates me, the bitch. And now she's getting fat!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps it might be best to limit your interaction with your mother for now, while she's pregnant. Pregnancy can cause a lot of physical as well as emotional changes in a woman. And your mom also has to deal with your half-sister, Mark, and your Aunt Sofie."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You think I don't already know that? The little time I spend with her now is too much already. And with all the other things going on in my own life right now, I don't need her negative nagging bullshit. Cecil called last night. They talked with Benny about the threats and crap in the mail and stuff. He denies it all, of course. But I know better, and so do they. Ralph and I haven't gotten anything so far this week. So maybe the little talk they had with Benny made him think, you know? Hey! I just remembered! You want to know something funny? Remember that guy? Remember the model at the fashion show I punched out? He called me and asked me out on a date. Can you believe it? I was like, \"What did you ask me?\" So I thought that this dude just wanted some revenge, you know? But it turned out that wasn't it at all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean, did I go out with him? Yes, I did! And you know what the funny part was? We hit it off! He still had a little bruising around his eye. But when I saw him again, he was different--not in a model mode. He looked different, relaxed maybe. He was like...how do I describe him? He was smart and funny. He seemed to be able to finish my sentences and answer me before I said anything. It was too weird. But I like him, and I'm going to go out with him again this weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad that it went so well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, me too. I just hope that he doesn't want to have sex with me or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, this is going to sound strange, but I don't think I want to go there right now. I don't want that kind of relationship for now. I just want to have fun. But he's so handsome in a rugged sort of way--like a young Tom Selleck. And sometimes, I think that sex would be good. But I don't...I don't know. I don't feel comfortable about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you feel that way, then you should let him know about it. It's always best to be up front and honest about your feelings, especially while you're dating someone. It's smart to think about these things beforehand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I really like him a lot and can see something more coming of it, if I don't blow it. I don't want to disappoint him, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If he doesn't respect your feelings, then it is probably best that it comes out now rather than later."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But isn't it funny? He worked me over real bad that day, and I went and punched him out. And now, he wants to date me. I think that he liked me from the beginning and, like you said, was testing me. Sparks flew! They really flew, and then they flew again the other night, but in a better way. And you know what's even better? He's only seventeen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It is. Since he isn't over eighteen, neither of us can get into trouble over this, and that's cool. He's the first person my age that I've ever gone out with, you know? Most people in my age group are still so...I don't know. Immature I guess. But not Luke. He's different, and he has pretty good sense of humor about the black eye. I know we're almost out of time, so I want to show you another drawing. These are all the rough drafts. Jake has all the finished ones right now. God, I hope he likes them. But it doesn't matter if he does or not, huh? But I'm still real nervous about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's hope for the best. Well, Alex, next week then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right, man. Catch you later on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 66th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, October 21, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nAlex? What happened to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is nothing! Just take a look at this. See all the bruises? And it still hurts, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The beginning of the end--that's what happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Friday night, I was walking home from the Alliance when Benny comes to a screaming stop in his car, cutting the sidewalk off in front of me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh no..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yes! My heart totally started pounding. We're not even supposed to be seeing each other--the restraining order and everything. And then he went and made this spectacle of himself, in public. It wasn't like no one else saw that, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're right, it was wrong of him to try to seek contact with you. What did he want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tell me! He demanded that I get into the car with him. And I was all, \"No thanks, dude!\" And I kept on walking. Then he pulled out into the street and started pacing me with his car, telling me that all he wants to do is talk to me. I tried to look away, to ignore him, but then finally, I gave up and got into the car."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh Alex, you didn't."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I did. And that was my big mistake. But I told him, \"Okay, you want to talk to me, so talk.\" Well, we drove to his house. He started by telling me about jail, about the things that happened to him there. The way he was acting, it seemed like he was high on something. He asked me, \"Do you know what they did to me in there?\" I told him that I didn't care and that he deserved it, whatever it was. Then he slapped me, hard. He never did that before, he never hit me like that. I was furious, so I hit him back, harder."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think this was when something in me just snapped. I landed on top of him, and he was knocked out cold. I was certain he would kill me, if I didn't do something first. So I pulled the strand of Christmas lights from around the window and hog-tied him, wrists to ankles, and I dragged him up the stairs and back into the house. I found a knife and the video camera..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know! I know! I noticed he was bleeding from a gash on the back of his head, the carpet was soaking it up. I finally felt some sense of power over him. So I sat, rocking back and forth, thinking what to do next. I hurt all over from the fall, and my hands were all scraped up. I knew I wanted to make him pay, and now I had my chance. I was certain he wanted to kill me. He told me it was all my fault for testifying against him, for betraying him. Then I thought about Roly and how he died. I was crazy at that point myself. And then Benny started to wake up. I heard him moan, and it took him a minute to realize he was tied up. He tried to struggle free, but he couldn't. He screamed for me to untie him, I just laughed and told him it was payback time. I put the camera on the tripod and pointed it at him. Then, with the knife, I cut off his shirt and then his pants as he whimpered and started to beg me to let him loose. He promised to leave me alone. But I was all, \"Right, sure you will!\" So I kicked him. Then I ran the knife blade over his face and down his throat and chest. I asked him how it felt to be so powerless. He was crying, and I loved it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At that point, I went into the kitchen to look for something...I don't remember what anymore. Just then, the doorbell rang, and Benny yelled out, \"Help me!\" I heard the door crash open. I thought it was the police, so I ran out the back door. I just ran and ran. I was so afraid to get into trouble. I ran up the hill to the top of Twin Peaks and looked out over the city. It was a spectacularly clear night--so rare. Everything glittered and sparkled. Then I broke down--I realized just what I'd done and how crazy it all was. I cried and cried. I knew this could be a whole lot of trouble. I was shaking, and I hurled my guts out. Then, all of a sudden, I heard this voice call out my name, it was Katherine! She drove up there by herself to see the view and saw me. She wrapped her arms around me, and I cried some more while she held me. We drove down the hill, and I pretty much told her everything that happened. She called her doctor friend, Elgin, and we went over to his clinic so he could look me over. He took some pictures of me and said I was fine--bruised, but okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. It was very lucky to run into Katherine..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. We went to her penthouse afterwards. I was still shaking all over, and I was sick to my stomach. I took a long hot bath--she has this cool round bathtub. I had cuts and bruises all over my body. See my hands?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I noticed that. I also noticed the bruises around your throat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, and I don't even remember Benny choking me. Anyway, Katherine took my clothes--they were torn and bloodied--and gave me some of Philip's clothes she had. They were a good fit actually. Katherine gave me some hot chocolate and some food, and then I slept in her guest bedroom. I woke up around five in the morning after a horrible nightmare. I couldn't get back to sleep again. I kept thinking about Benny and what I did to him. That was when I realized that my backpack was still at his house. So I decided that I needed to go back and get it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I know--it was a bad idea. But I needed to see him for some reason. I knew what I did was very wrong, and I felt guilty about it. I felt real bad. I came to his house just as dawn was breaking. I noticed right away that the lights were still on and the door lay open, but there was no one inside. The tripod with the camera was toppled over on the floor. The house was wrecked from our fight. But Benny was gone. Blood stained the carpet and smeared the stairs. I knew that something was wrong. It was more than what I had done."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I gathered up my backpack and turned to leave. Just then, the next door neighbor pulled up in his car. I don't know if he saw me, but he was looking up at the house, and so I went out the back door again and walked home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As I walked, I thought about what I did, about what happened, and I felt sick again. I didn't hurl that time. I knew what I did was wrong. It was so wrong. I felt...no, I feel terrible about it. I wanted to tell Benny that I was sorry. I knew that things had gone too far this time, that it was too late. When I got to the house, Katherine was there, waiting for me. She practically wore a hole in the carpet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure she was very worried."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Katherine said that if she knew where Benny lived, she would have gone there herself--she said that she knew that I must have gone there. She told me to call Cecil, that I might need him. She offered to help me in any way she could. She kept telling me to call the police, but I didn't want to do that. What could they do to me? In addition to attacking me, Benny practically kidnapped me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, Katherine was right--you need to go to the police and tell them what happened, if you haven't already..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Katherine was right..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "About what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That I needed Cecil. Last Sunday, I went back to Benny's again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex! Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I needed to see if he was there. Something wasn't right when I went to get my backpack. If nothing else, I figured whoever broke through Benny's door helped him get untied, and so Benny would have been freed by then. Right? When I got to Benny's house, the house was all cordoned off with that yellow police tape, and the front door was shut. I didn't dare cross over the tape."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I needed Cecil--the police came looking for me. On Monday, my mom called and asked me to come to her house right away. She didn't say for what, but she insisted I come immediately. When I got there, I knew I had been ambushed--the police were there. They wanted to know what I was doing at Benny's house. I mean fuck me! I was so stupid! The tape! The goddamned videotape--I left it in the machine. And now they have it--they have me on the tape torturing Benny as he struggled and whimpered."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, Alex!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They wanted to know where Benny was because he's missing! I asked the cop what else they saw on that tape, you know? If they had me and all that stuff on tape, then they must have had that other guy...whoever it was that broke into Benny's house. Because whoever that person was, he was the one who got Benny. But they wouldn't say one way or another. I asked about fingerprints. Well, they have real good ones of me, that's for sure!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you arrested?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Almost, I think. They told me to stay around for more questions. Right now, Benny is just a missing person. But if he turns up dead or something, I could be in big trouble. Now I wish I had just kept on walking that night. Now I wish I didn't go there with him. See what he does? He makes me into a crazy person, into someone who would do anything without thinking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope they find Benny alive, Alex. Hmm. You know I'm surprised..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You are? Well, I'm not. I knew I had it in me. I just never thought I'd actually go through with it. I never thought I'd have a chance to get back at him that way. But now...now I wonder what happened to him? Where did Benny go? And who was it that broke down his door? Whoever it was, he must be with him, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I imagine so. You are telling me everything, Alex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Dude! How can you even think that? Of course I told you everything! I wouldn't...no, I couldn't do that! You think I killed him? Jeez! Thanks a whole fucking lot, dude! I thought you were on my side!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I am, Alex. I am on your side. But you are a prime suspect in a criminal investigation, Alex. The police have you on tape torturing Benny. You have the motive and the opportunity. Did you tell the police everything you told me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I told them everything, just like I've told you and Katherine. But they don't believe me. And you don't believe me either. At least Katherine is on my side!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not the point, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, so tell me, what is the point?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, if Benny turns up dead, you are a murder suspect. If he turns up hurt, you are an attempted murder suspect. If he turns up okay, you might be thought of as a potential victim. Maybe."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never thought about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You need to think about everything, Alex. Benny may come back to fulfill his own revenge fantasy against you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, thanks a whole fucking lot again, dude! Now I won't ever sleep again!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe you can stay somewhere...somewhere he doesn't know about..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I bet Katherine would let me stay at her place. No, that's no good. She may be in danger too if I do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good point. Alex, you need legal help, and I think you need to ask for police protection. You need to think..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Stop, okay? Just, stop. I know I need to think. I know that already, but isn't it a little late to remind me? Please don't make me feel worse about all of this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Alex. I don't mean to make you feel worse. I know how bad you must be feeling already."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I need to go and figure out what to do next."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Call Cecil, he is the one who can help you the most now, or at least he can recommend someone who might."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's a good idea. I think I'll go over to his office right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Well, all right, Alex. Please call me if you need anything, anything at all."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, dude. Sorry I'm such a disappointment to you..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You aren't, Alex. You aren't."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I'll see you later then..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex. And if you need me, I'm right here. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, dude."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 21st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, October 22, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doc. Sorry I'm late. I took the bus, and we were caught in traffic."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay, Alex. You're only a few minutes late. You look like you're feeling better this week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am, but Ralph's not. He's real sick; it got him bad. It hasn't been the greatest week at home--Ralph's been hurling big time, and I'm stuck cleaning up after him. It hasn't been pretty. He went to the doctor, and it's just the bug going around--an early flu thing, I think. But I wish he'd get better already. I'm getting sick of this, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's too bad about Ralph, but I'm glad you're not sick. Cleaning up after him is certainly no fun, but I do remember you telling me how Ralph cleaned up after you recently."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, he reminded me of that, too. Funny how we forget stuff like that, huh? I went out with Luke again. Actually, we went out three times last weekend. Friday, we went out dancing. Saturday, bike riding. And on Sunday, we hung out in the Castro. I'm almost afraid to say it, but I really like him a lot. And he seems to like me a lot, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why are you afraid to say it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I think if I say it too much or if I even think it enough, he'll figure out who I am and then go away from me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't understand. Are you unable to be yourself with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No! That's not it. I'm okay with that. I've told him all about myself. The questions he's asked I've answered and stuff like that. But if he really gets to know me, then he won't want to be with me anymore. The only thing I haven't told him about is the Benny thing. Well, he knows that I had something with someone before, but I didn't tell him any details. I just know that it's going to scare him off, I just know it will."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think it may scare him away?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, think about it. It's a lot of baggage to be carrying around. And what if Benny gets out? Better yet, what happens when he gets out? See? It would scare me away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I think it would be a good idea to tell him a little about this. After all, you mentioned to me that the court date is approaching, and that could be stressful..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Stressful? Tell me about it. Cecil called and told me that Benny got himself a lawyer now--no more public defender. And they got a doctor--a shrink, like you--and they petitioned the court for a hearing on whether he's fit to stand trial. In the meantime, they've moved him back into the psycho ward again. So he's got himself a delay and all. I'm so pissed. It's so unfair that he isn't getting what he deserves. I keep thinking that I'll wake up and he's going to be there, waiting for me and he's going to...he's...uh..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay, Alex. Just take a few deep slow breaths, that's it. Okay. I understand how all this can be upsetting, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're telling me? It makes me see cross-eyed when I think about it all. It's not fair! It's not!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know it's not fair, Alex. Unfortunately, there isn't anything we can do about these delays. But keep in mind that the delays give everyone, including you, more time to prepare for trial. So it's not necessarily as bad as it seems."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just want it to be over. I'm so over this now, you know? So over it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know. Now, we were talking about Luke. The trial is a big thing to try to hide from someone you want to be close with. You were upset just telling me abut the delays. I think it's best if you tell Luke at least a little about the trial. Otherwise it might lead to miscommunication and misunderstanding. And those are dangerous in a budding relationship."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just think it...that it may backfire or something. What if he thinks it's too much to get involved in and turns away from me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what if he doesn't? We talked about this last week; you can't predict the future or what other people are going to say or do. That's too much energy and emotion spent on what we can't control."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I really like him. I really, really do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Put yourself in Luke's shoes for a moment and think what you would do if he confessed to something so important and serious. What would you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I'd want to help him. I'd help him in any way I could even if that just meant being there for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There you go. There's your answer. If he likes you as much as you like him, then that's what he'll do. And remember how you feel about secrets?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I had enough secrets kept from me. I know. I just don't want to blow it, you know? I talked to Ralph about it, and he sort of said pretty much the same thing as you. Only he said to maybe wait and see how the relationship goes before I give him all the gory details. It's a lot to keep inside of me. Shit! It really has been on my mind, this Benny bullshit. When I got those notes in the mail, I thought, for some weird reason, that maybe I didn't get all the tapes he made--the ones he made of me, I mean. I thought for a split second that one would turn up suddenly. Wouldn't that be a surprise? But I know I got all the tapes, so I don't even know where that idea came from. And Cecil said the same thing about the court delays, too--we have more time to plan now. He calls it \"coaching.\" He's training me how to act when they call me to the stand--how to answer the questions and what questions might come up, stuff like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's important to be as prepared as possible. It can be very trying, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't I already know that. I thank Ralph everyday for that punching bag. My arms are getting bigger, and I can go a lot longer on it than before. Luke was quite impressed. He impressed me, too. When we went cycling, he kept up with me pretty well. We went all the way up to the top of Twin Peaks; too bad it was so foggy though. I love that ride. I do a big circle. I usually start my ride at home on Saturn Street. Then I ride past mom's on Seventeenth and over to Alamo Square. Then I cross over Market and over to Delores Park, zigzagging through the streets and back alleys all the way up to the top of Twin Peaks. It usually takes about two and a half hours, but with Luke I took it easy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very impressive. I'm exhausted just thinking about it! That's quite a ride, and you built up to that quickly. I'm impressed."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Sometimes, I think how lucky I am to be able to do that and to live, you know? I just love this city. There's always so much to do. It's almost impossible to do the same thing twice. Did I tell you about Jake at the Range Gallery?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We talked about it last week. What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I saw Jake again last Thursday, and he had a lot of things to say about my work. Damn! I wished I had run into Katherine, I wanted to tell her about this. Oh well, I guess Jake will tell her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm very curious to know what Jake thought of your work."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm very happy for you, Alex. I'm glad it went so well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Jake likes my style and everything, but he recommended me to use better quality stuff--better paper and drawing materials. He said that would really make a difference in the way my work would look, but I didn't tell Ralph that--he was the one who bought all the stuff in the first place. Jake also told me to go see this other guy who photographs and scans images. That way I can have a permanent record of my work and get cards made up--like I told you before I wanted to do. So, yes, it did go pretty well. But no promises were made by either of us, and we'll just see what happens from here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's great news, Alex. I'm very proud of you. It's something to be excited about."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am, but I'm not. Somehow, I'm waiting for it all to fall apart or something. I don't know. He--Jake, I mean--took me around the gallery and showed me other artists' work. We talked about color, and he gave me ideas on how to improve my use of it. These rough drafts tell it all. Sometimes, my colors become monotonous and blend together too much. Or more simply, I use very similar colors in one piece, so the tones all sort of blend together. I didn't see that before. Oh yeah, and you know what's funny? He gave me the number of Selvin James."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't recognize the name."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He isn't anyone famous or anything like that. He's the friend that Ralph brought over a few months ago. Remember? The one who I felt uncomfortable with? He used to teach at the now closed De Young art school. He retired from there before it closed down. He used to teach painting and color theory. Small world, huh? So Ralph and I are going to have him over for dinner later this week, if Ralph is feeling better by then. We can talk about some lessons for me. Ralph said that Selvin would teach me for free--no strings attached. But I think it's better if we pay him something. He's old, and he must not have very much--you should see the old clunker he drives around in. So Aunt Sofie is going to get mom to cough up some money to give this guy. I figure that way we both gain something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think taking art lessons is a good idea. I hope this man works out for you. But if not, there are plenty of other opportunities."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I figure that as long as I can learn something, I'm living life to the fullest, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a good attitude, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I'll probably be a student all my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We're just about out of time for today. Did you have something to show me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Here it is. \"Man's Best Friend.\" You can keep that one."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thanks, Alex. I will. See you next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, dude. See you then!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 22nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, October 29, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. How are you doing this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I guess. Gosh, I wonder what bug crawled up her butt? Katherine just brushed past me like I wasn't even there. I don't know--I guess I'm not so good, really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You look a bit tired. Have you been getting enough sleep? What's going on?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's been a weird week. And I mean real weird. Since Benny has got himself that delay we talked about, I've been having trouble sleeping again. But it's okay, really, because I've been spending more time painting. That's what I've been doing when I can't sleep--paint. It keeps my mind off him, and I'm able to do the work that I want to do. I got myself some good paints and started this huge painting--stippling, sort of. It's a bunch of splat-like dots, and it's real big. I picked out a six by four feet board. I'm doing a car, but that's beyond the point. I'm just stressing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad that you're able to spend your sleepless time productively, but I also want you to get the sleep you need. Have you tried taking the medication I previously prescribed for insomnia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I haven't even thought about it. But you know the weirdest thing that happened? This thing with Jake and my artwork has been bugging me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sounded so positive last week; what's bothering you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's just...it's like...oh, I don't know. I'm not ready for it. I followed Jake's advice and went down to that publisher and met Esther--she's the one that runs that place. It's a small publishing company. So I showed her my work, and we talked for awhile. We really hit it off. She's so cool, you know? She's very eclectic, kind of like a gypsy. Anyway, she and I were talking, and she told me that I wasn't ready. She didn't say it in a bad way, she just said that I needed more experience, more training. So I think Jake was humoring me, you know? He was trying to make me feel good about myself. And the finished pieces he has are real good, you know? It kind of surprised me how good they turned out. They are much better than the small rough drafts I showed you. And it totally surprised me that he hung them up. But Esther said I needed to get more work under my belt and get some professional training. She knew Selvin and said that he's one of the best art teachers around and that I need to really take advantage of his knowledge. She even said that Jake is too generous sometimes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I think Esther gave you very good advice. I'm not an artist, but I think that with training and art classes, your work would certainly improve. But I wouldn't assume right away that Jake was just trying to humor you. He probably did like your work."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So Esther and I did some painting together last weekend, and she helped me to see that I'm really not prepared for a professional art career at this point. I brought her over to the house and showed her my stippling. She seemed real impressed. Sometimes the work I do surprises even me--that I did it, I mean, that it came out of these hands. Did I really do that? But Esther was real honest and upfront with me, and she encouraged me to push forward. So now, when I can't sleep, I paint. The painting is almost finished now, and I just started it last week. This is the biggest thing I've done so far."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm looking forward to seeing it or at least a picture of it, I guess. But I do want to encourage you to take your medication when you're having trouble sleeping. Do you still have any left?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh, I don't know, dude. I don't want to feel drugged."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The medication I prescribed is very mild and shouldn't make you feel that way. It will, however, help you to get the rest you need. I'm just worried about you, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you think the psychic woman from TV meant Ralph?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. Don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it was good of Ralph to try to talk to you about that stuff."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you afraid of, Alex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's going to die on me, Doc. He's going to die, and then I'm all alone again. I don't want him to die. I want him to stay here with me and not leave. But I know he's going to go away just like everyone else. He's going to leave me here by myself. Oh, why do people do that? Why do they get sick? I wish I could do something to make him better, but I can't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're doing a lot for him, Alex. You're a good companion and a good friend. Ralph is lucky to have you around. Having HIV today is not the same as having HIV just a year or two ago. People who were once on the brink of death have made stunning comebacks with the new and highly successful drugs that have just came out on the market. It sounds like Ralph is doing very well. Now the flu he has is bothersome. Did Ralph say that it was a side effect or a complication due to HIV?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that it's not, but I don't really know. He seems to think the virus is gone--that this cocktail thing has chased it away. But if that was true, then people wouldn't still be dying, you know? He insists that his viral load is undetectable, but I have trouble believing that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's true that some HIV infected people now are showing no symptoms and their viral loads are down and their T-cell counts have increased. Right now, as long as the regimented drug therapy is continued, the most successful cases seem to be very stable."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I just know he's going die on me. I just...well, it's like I can't...uh, I'm real worried that he's going to die!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand how you feel. You have experienced a lot of loss in your life..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know what to do. I walked all over town that day and half the night, too. I can't abandon him; he needs me as much as I need him. I talked to Luke about it, and he said that having me live with Ralph probably really helps him--it gives him another reason to carry on. You know, Ralph doesn't have anyone. His parents have been gone for years, and he has no brothers or sisters or any other family that I know of. I'm all he's got, and that's almost too much for me to handle. But I can't just leave him. It wouldn't be right, not after all he's done for me. With Tony up in St. Helena, and Roly in la-la land somewhere out there in the streets, it's like I have no one left either. We need each other--I can't let him die."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I'm afraid that this is something well beyond your control. I know that the uncertainty is very hard on you, Alex. But none of us can predict the future. Ralph may live a long and full life. Going about worrying when he will die will just make you anxious. My best advice is to carry on like you have. Someday soon, HIV may be treated and regarded just like diabetes is now--with proper drug therapy, it will be under control, and the patient will be able to expect to live a fairly normal life. Be there for him, Alex, and let him be there for you, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But to do that, you need to care of yourself, too. You've got to get some sleep. Take the quazepam I prescribed"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. It's just that the drug thing kind of scares me, too. You know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's perfectly normal to feel that way. But I wouldn't prescribe it to you if I thought it would hurt you. Please do take it if you continue to lose sleep. Are you able to keep up with your school work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Shit, that stuff is so boring--I could've done that crap when I was five years old. You should see what they teach now--such useless shit. But yes, I get it done before I even get home each day. And my grades are good, so it's not affecting that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, then. I suggest you get some current literature on AIDS and HIV. The StopAIDS project may be a good place to start or the San Francisco Aids Foundation, they are very good, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll check them out. Oh, yeah. I brought another drawing for you. I call this one \"Performance Anxiety.\" See? He's got a cello. My grandmother used to play one in a symphony or something. I still have her cello, but don't know how to play it. I used it as a model for this drawing. Just about every piece of work I do involves something I either own or something I do. I started to do some animated drawings of Ralph's cats, too. I can't stop thinking of ideas for my next piece of work, and I don't seem to have enough time for it all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, keep up the good work, Alex. As you've figured out, keeping oneself productive is a good way to ease one's mind. And get some rest."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll try."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, dude, catch you later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye. And Alex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you need anything, please call."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks a lot, man. Later!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 67th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, November 11, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex. I'm very glad to see you. How are you doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You can cut the nicey-nice bullshit, Doc! How the hell do you think I am? You know, no one knows how I feel except for Katherine; even you didn't believe me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, it's not that I didn't believe you, I just had a strong sense that there was something missing in what you told me about your last encounter with Benny."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See? There you go again! There you fucking go! I told them coming here was useless, but no! Cecil said I absolutely must come here to see you--I have to keep coming here if I want to get out of this...this...this stupid bullshit! So, you don't believe me, do you? You want to know why I went off the way I did? Why did I really go off like that? You want me to tell you the real reason?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I do want you to tell me, Alex. I want you to tell me everything."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, so here goes. All right, first, let me say that Katherine was after me over this since the first night, that fateful night. Even Elgin said I needed to do it, but I...I don't...no, I mean I didn't want to tell anyone, I really didn't. But Katherine said I had to, she said that I owed it to myself, whatever that meant. You know, if it weren't for her, I wouldn't be here right now. I'd still be in jail, did you know that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I knew that Katherine posted the bail to get you out. Your mother told me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh shit! Why did you have to go and bring her up? That fucking bitch! She wanted me to stay in there and rot, you know? She didn't even care! It's the same old story with her...what did I expect anyway? What did I fucking expect from her? She'll never change; she'll always think the worst of me! I couldn't even talk to her--she was so irrational, I just had to ignore her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was she irrational?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you how! She told me she was coming here to see you, and she did, didn't she?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She did."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can tell by the look on your face that she gave you a bunch of shit, too, didn't she?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She wasn't happy about your situation, but I think you already know that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Did she tell you that I'm not allowed at her house anymore? That I can't even see my own little brother again? Even Mark is pissed off. Everyone is pissed at me, even Ralph. That's why I'm staying with Katherine right now. She's my saving grace, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Katherine cares a great deal about you and what happens to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she posted a lot of money to get me out. Before she did it, she came to me in jail and told me how important it was for her and for me not to bag on her and run off. She said it would be a huge betrayal if I ran off, not that I was thinking about doing that. Where would I go? But she told me that she trusted me to do the right thing--to go to court when I'm supposed to and to take responsibility for what I did. Katherine really knows how to make me see things with a clear head. You know, since I've been staying with her, I haven't even had the urge to go on one of my long walks in the middle of the night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's encouraging."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess. And she feeds me, too. She said she doesn't want me to get sick on top of everything else. She keeps urging me, almost haranguing me, to tell the whole story to the police and to totally come clean. And I keep saying that I didn't want to do that because...well, because I am so embarrassed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you embarrassed about? Is it about what you did to Benny?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, yeah, it's that too. But mostly it's what he did to me and why I went off so badly..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. All right. I guess I can...I mean...I know I can tell you. He...uh, he did it again, you know? He...hmm...well, he...he...uh, he practically tore my shirt right off me. He must have really built his muscles up while he was in jail. I just thought he got skinny, but no, he got buffed up, all muscular. He was so much stronger than I was, and it caught me by surprise."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, did Benny..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No kidding. Okay, so he raped me, I guess..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You guess?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes! Okay? He raped me, and that was the reason I went off on him! I wasn't going to let him get away with something like that again. I was so stupid to even get in the car with him. So stupid! It's all my fault, you know? If only...well, if I just hadn't gotten into that damned car, none of this would have happened. I wouldn't be in this mess right now. And he wouldn't have done it to me. Katherine and Doctor Elgin talked to the police about it. I didn't know until after they did it, but Katherine said they had no choice. Elgin took evidence from me...off me...whatever. He took pictures and some physical evidence to prove what Benny did. And they had to tell the police about what they knew. Katherine said she didn't want to betray my trust in her, but the police kind of forced it. And the truth needed to come out anyway. I guess she was right, after all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree, they had to tell the police what happened. Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, at first, I kind of blew up at her. But then...well, you know the way Katherine is--she calmed me down and made me see it her way--made me see it clearly. I don't blame her for it. She couldn't have kept quiet about it for too long anyway. She knew too much as it was. And Elgin, doing what he does--being a doctor in that clinic place--well, it was his legal responsibility to report this to the police. Well, that's what Katherine said. But...well, I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel real stupid. I feel like I deserved all this, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you didn't deserve to be raped..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I got into the car with him. I was practically asking for it! I got exactly what I deserved!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, Alex. No, you didn't. Getting into Benny's car was definitely not a good idea. But you didn't deserve being raped. Alex, you do hear me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I heard you, but this doesn't change how I feel! If only I had moved a little faster! If only I hadn't gotten tripped up like that! Shit! He caught up to me and threw himself on me. It was...it was like he...uh, he was out of control! I'm certain he was on something, probably crank. He was so sweaty and like a mad dog, practically foaming at the mouth. I can still feel his hot breath on my throat. God, that hot bath at Katherine's...well, let's just say that no amount of scrubbing can ever get me clean. Everything ached and burned. I totally felt raw inside. And there was a good amount of blood and...well...uh, I'm...uh, I'm sorry. It's just...it's so not like me to get like this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay, Alex. Here, take some tissues. It wasn't your fault, Alex. Alex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fuck me! Yes, it was my fault! I brought it all on myself. And then I had to go and make it worse by turning the tables on him! The only thing I didn't do was rape him back. I just wanted him to feel a little pain and to realize he didn't have any power over me any more. But the funny thing is, I don't know what I would have done if that person, whoever it was, hadn't broke through the front door just then. I was so fucking crazed myself, and that's what scares me--I still can't believe I went off so badly. And then to do that thing with the video camera...I must have been crazy or stupid! That was the stupidest thing I ever did in my life!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, do you know if the person who broke through Benny's front door was captured on camera?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm? What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The police probably have that person on tape, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Funny, I forgot about that. Cecil did say something about that, too. But I don't remember what. He did say something. So they found Benny all beaten up and in a coma. See? On the tape, they would be able to see that he wasn't all beat up when I was torturing him, because I didn't beat him up. I just terrorized him a bit, that's all. Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! See? It's all so easy. Too easy! He didn't get beat up by me. It's on the tape! They're not going to be able to make all these charges stick, you know? None of it! Even Cecil said there's too much in my favor. Benny practically kidnapped me. He assaulted and raped me. Man! You know I bled for like four days straight after that, and I had a hard time...well...uh, I had a little trouble going to the bathroom, too. I'm so ashamed of myself! This is too ridiculous. Look at me. People like me don't get raped. That only happens to women. No one would believe this. I can't tell my mother or Mark about it. I can't! No matter what I say, my mom is just going to think I started it all with Benny anyway. She'll think that I was the instigator. But I was even afraid to tell you about it. Can you believe that? You! I tell you everything, and I was too ashamed to tell you!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you told me, Alex. You can tell me anything. I'm not going to judge you. I care about what happens to you, Alex. And men do get raped, too, Alex. It happens all the time, unfortunately. And shame and embarrassment are natural reactions to..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, now I got to wait like six months before I can get an accurate AIDS test, and that scares me. I keep having dreams that I'm going to have it. Shit, I look at Tony and Ralph and think I'm going to go through what they are going through, all the pills, all the crap. And Tony isn't doing so hot these days. He's having trouble with his eyes or something, I don't know. They say it's AIDS-related. But anyway, I just don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, did you tell the police what you've told me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Cecil took me to talk to the DA, but I don't think it did any good. I think they were waiting for Benny to die or something so they could try to get me for murder. But luckily, he woke up the other day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He did?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, but he doesn't remember anything about that night, or so he says. Ralph went to see him. He said that Benny was all happy to see him. And according to what Ralph said, he acted like nothing had happened. His speech was slow, but he asked about me and wanted to know why I hadn't come to see him. But I'm all...I don't know...I find it hard to believe that Benny's got amnesia. I think he's probably playing one of his games again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. It's quite possible that he doesn't remember what happened that night. That's a common side effect of coma. And sometimes, the human mind tries to protect the person from the memory of the trauma..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Really? Hmm. I didn't know that. I never knew anyone who was in a coma before. I have known brain-dead people, but not comatose people. At least he didn't die. That's a positive on my side. I never really wanted him to die. I just wanted him to suffer a little, and I guess I got my wish, you know? So now I don't know where all this is going to go. Part of me wants to go see him myself, but I can't do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That wouldn't be wise, Alex. I strongly recommend against it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Ralph told me they have a guard outside his room anyway. And as fucking crazed as I have been, I don't really know what I may do next. Lucky for me, Katherine is sticking to my side right now. She's like the only person in the world I can count on, and I've been just a raw nerve lately. Every time she comes into the room, I practically jump through the roof. I wish she didn't have to work. When she went back to work finally, I didn't know what to do with myself while she was gone. That first morning she was gone, I sat in the bathtub and cried my eyes out until I had a headache. She gave me her pager number just in case, and she called me every other hour to check. That made me feel better. But...well, I feel bad that I let her down, too, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think she looks at it like that, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's still in the back of my mind anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she's probably waiting for me to get back to her place right now. I don't want to be late, she'll get so worried about me. Oh! Did I tell you she's moving into that new place this weekend? We got a bunch of guys--the burliest bunch I could round up--and we're going to move her over there in one day. What she has in the penthouse right now will hardly fill the house, so it shouldn't take very long really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. It would be good for you to do some physical work--you'll get your body tired and your mind might get some rest."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess. Well, I'll talk to you later, dude!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, Alex. I'll see you next week. But if you need me..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know. Bye, Doc!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 23rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, November 12, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hey, Doc. You don't want to ask, but I know you will anyway. It's been one hell of a week!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's going on, Alex? Why are you limping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I've been walking a lot again. When I found out about Ralph, I sort of walked, I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't understand. Did you move out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no. No, I just went out for a walk...for two days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Huh? I missed something. What happened to Ralph? Are you talking about Ralph having AIDS?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I mean, yes. No! No, I mean, no! Shit! Ralph went into the hospital last Wednesday. That's why I called and canceled at the last minute. He fucking went into the hospital! I was looking at him lying there in his hospital bed, his skin was all parched, and it looked like it was sagging or something. I was sure he was going to die on me. Right then and there, he was going to die. I just knew he was going to...just, ah...go! So, I went out for a walk and didn't go back until late Friday night. And then, they wouldn't let me in to see him, so I walked some more. I was so out of it, that I wasn't paying attention to the time. I walked up to Crissy Field, and then over that Golden-God-Damned Bridge, and right down into Sausalito before I realized even where I was. It was like I was sleep walking or something. It's a fucking miracle I didn't get run over by a car. And my ankles are still killing me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry about Ralph, Alex. But I'm also worried about you. Were you aware of your surrounding at all during these walks? Do you remember what was going on in your head?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ralph was going on in my head! I was thinking about Ralph and what I was going to do and stuff like that. Yeah, I knew what I was doing and where I was, if that's what you mean. I do remember certain things that stood out. Like the woman who was looking for her little kid that she lost somehow. How does someone lose a kid anyway? Lost a kid--huh, come on! And I remember seeing that bus crash into a car on the bridge. But I wasn't paying attention to the time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you just kept on walking for two whole days?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, no, not two entire days. I just walked all day Thursday and then slept under the girders on the north side of the bridge Thursday night. Man, it's so fucking cold up there! Then on Friday, I walked back into The City and over into Golden Gate Park and the beach. It was so nice that day. Then there was the woman who lost her dog. I was thinking, \"What's this about?\" Everyone was losing something, including me. By the time I got back Friday night, visiting hours were over. Since I'm not family--by blood at least--they didn't let me in. But the nurse did tell me that he was doing better and was going home the next day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. I'm still a bit worried, though. Has this kind of thing ever happened to you before? Have you ever spaced out like this before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hell, I wasn't spaced out. Jeez, you're making me sound like a drug addict or something. No, I get like this when I need to think. Walking helps me sort things out. I just lose track of time, that's all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you were aware of your surroundings the entire time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course! What's wrong with you? Is there something wrong with walking around to process things in my head?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not in the least. But I think what you experienced was a fugue stage."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Huh? A what?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A fugue stage. It can be described very much like what you explained happened to you on your walk--being sort of out of it or spacey, perhaps losing track of time--like sleep walking, you said. Some people describe it as a loss of consciousness while maintaining body functionality. One patient I had called it \"losing time.\""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very funny, Alex. But this can be a very serious condition. This sort of dissociative state can be dangerous. Remember you said that you were lucky not to have been hit by a car. So please, try to think back. Has this sort of thing happened to you before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look. Don't overreact here, okay? It has happened before, but it doesn't really trip me out or anything. It's just something I do. My feet and ankles never hurt that way before, because I usually don't walk around in my motorcycle boots. Satisfied?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Okay, let's talk about what was on your mind while you were out walking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Ralph didn't have the flu after all. He has some kind of intestinal infection or something. It could've come from anywhere. My guess is that it's the sushi he has a propensity for. So they did some stuff to him and gave him some medications that are supposed to get rid of it. He has been feeling a lot better these past few days. But when I was walking, I thought about everything, not just Ralph. I though about Benny--the asshole. And I thought about Luke and how I don't want to lose him, too, but I might anyway. I thought about mom and this new baby thing she's doing. I guess I'm okay with it now. I mean, whatever blows her skirt up, you know? I thought about Tony; he's coming home in another week. Oh yeah, and I thought about the tenant in Ralph's little in-law unit--crazy son-of-a-bitch. I just thought about everything. I keep trying to get myself to a place where my mind feels at ease, at peace, and just okay with things and with me. Oh yeah, I almost forgot. I walked past the gallery and noticed that my illustrations were taken down. They were closed then, so I went back on my second walk on Saturday and saw Jake. You know what he did? He took my work down since no one offered to buy them and put something else up instead. But before I felt myself get upset, I thought I was okay with it. Because if those sold, how would I ever top that at this point. You know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You have a lot to think about. I hope the walk helped. But you still look tired and very tense. It even shows in your posture, have you noticed? Are you having insomnia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, you really can stir it up, can't you? Yeah, I noticed the tension, how could I not? And yes, I'm still not sleeping. I know you're going to ask, so no--I didn't take any of those damn pills either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, then I guess you also know that I think you need to get some rest. Those \"damn pills\" just might help you do that. How can you expect to be of any help to Ralph while you are like this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's the drug-thing again. I don't want to feel drugged."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The quazepam I prescribed is in a very small dose and shouldn't make you feel drugged. You really must get some rest. I'm not fooling around, Alex. I'm very concerned about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So don't be. You're probably going to go away, too, you know? Everyone does, eventually."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's true. Someday I will die. But I hope that day is far far in the future. So while I can't guarantee that I'll be here for you forever, I promise that I plan to be around for a long time. There's no profit in sitting around and worrying about what horrible things the future might bring. Get out of the future, Alex, and join the present."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just like that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, just like that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just not that easy, because sometimes, it's hard to turn it off, you know? It's hard to stop my mind from running around with thoughts and ideas and stuff. When I wake up with a song stuck in my head, it's not so easy to turn it off."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, from what you have been describing to me today and for the past few sessions, I believe that you might be suffering a mild form of depression."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not depressed. That's when you're in a bad mood--crying and shit all the time. That's not me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But the insomnia is you. The psychomotor agitation is you, and so are the running thoughts. You described these symptoms to me yourself. And these are some of the symptoms that go along with depression. In your case, the depression is affected by what's going on in your life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I'm telling you right now, Doctor, I'm not depressed. I'm just preoccupied or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Or something? I have a pamphlet here on depression which you might find an interesting start, but a lot of this doesn't apply to you. Why don't you look up the symptoms of mild depression in the psychology section of your local library? You might find it a very interesting read."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess I can walk over there right now. It isn't a problem, if I walk there from here, is it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, Alex, it isn't a problem. I also believe that a good night's sleep might help to decrease the severity of some of your physical symptoms--edginess, tension, tiredness, the need to keep moving. If you are so very strongly against quazepam, then perhaps you should try melatonin. Melatonin is an ingredient in warm milk that helps one fall asleep. You might have heard a recommendation to drink warm milk before bed? Well, now melatonin is available in any drug store, just over the counter. You might want to pick some up downstairs."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, all right. Ralph has been on my case about it, too. And even Katherine asked me if I was okay--she noticed I looked tired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You talked to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. She actually apologized for breezing past me that day, and I had completely forgotten about that. I told her no problem--she hooked me up with Jake, and even though he took my work down, he's got them in his office right now. Plus, I've since met Esther, and now I'm working with Selvin. So Katherine helped to get me on the right path, and I told her how grateful I was to her. Maybe I'll do a painting for her, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That would be very nice, Alex. We're out of time. Try to get some rest, and I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I'll try. Thanks, man. I appreciate your concern for me, I really do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I am concerned, Alex. Please take care of yourself. Until next week then? Goodbye, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later, dude."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 68th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, November 18, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHey."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. Please have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm so not into this, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This! This...uh, whatever it is that we do here. I'm so not into talking today. Well? Aren't you going to say something instead of looking at me like that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What would you like me to say, Alex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Shit! Everything is totally messed up, you know? So messed up. My life is a mess and...well, I think I may need to find myself somewhere else to sleep, on top of everything else."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Because...just because. Okay, so I sense that something is up with Katherine, but she's not letting on. But I can just sense it, you know? It's like...it's...well, it's kind of like when you have this feeling inside and you can't really explain what it is or what it means, but you know it's there. It's that kind of feeling. Plus, Ralph called and asked me when I was coming home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you tell him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him I didn't know. He came down pretty damn hard on me for what happened with Benny, especially after he saw Benny in the hospital. I felt like he thought I was the one who beat him up like that. It was like he didn't really believe me. And he said some things that were pretty unforgivable. But now he wants me to come home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to go back to Ralph?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello? Haven't you been listening to me? He was so not nice to me, dude, so not nice. No one but Katherine believed me, not even you at first. But I think you believe me now, don't you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I believe that Benny kidnapped and assualted you, Alex. I believe that none of this would have happened if Benny hadn't lured you into his car."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But you don't really believe all of it, do you? Oh, it's all right. I'm getting used to this by now. I kind of feel like a pariah. I should have a sign around my neck that says, \"Kick me.\" And Ted...well, he pretty much bailed on me. I think it freaked him out when he heard what I did to Benny, and he totally bagged. No explanation. No excuses. No nothing! It's like what was I thinking anyway?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't understand what you mean."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What in hell was I thinking getting involved with Ted? He looked like Benny. He talked like Benny. He was Benny's mirror image. I'm so into this self-torture thing. I look for people who will treat me bad. So now, it's like I have nobody. I wonder if I ever did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm here for you, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah. You only say that because you're getting paid. I know what time here means, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not true, Alex. I do care about you, and I am here for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. I bet you say that to all your patients, you're supposed to say that. You know, I should just go now!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, Alex! Sit down, please! Look, I know what a difficult situation you are in right now, I know how hard it must seem. But running away from the people who are here to help you is not the answer. Talking it out, facing life head on is what going to make the difference. I'm here to hear you out and help you. And I do this because I care about you, not just because it's my job. I'm not going to leave you, Alex. I'm sticking with you, and we'll see it through together. Understand?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh, yeah, I guess. Dude, I never saw you get like that before. You can be pretty butch when you want, you know that? Wow! Makes me shiver when you deliver! Dude! I think I need a drink of water, or if you got something stronger..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Water!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, all right! Thanks, man. So now what?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do I do now? How do I make this mess go away? Every day, I'm haunted by these new memories. They intrude on me when I least expect it. It's so unforgiving how they creep into my thoughts."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is why it's important that we talk about this. By talking this out, you'll not only acknowledge your feelings, you'll also learn to accept them and come to terms with, and eventually, you'll learn to live with them."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. I hadn't thought of it like that. Well, this funny thing happened the other day after we came back from our boat ride to the Farallon Islands."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did you go out there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "On Sunday. Katherine took Philip and me as a way of saying thank you for helping her move."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, we moved her in last Saturday. It went pretty smoothly, too. Well, except for the truck breaking down. You should have seen it. We were halfway across the city when the stupid rental truck just died. I was so pissed. But Katherine...well, she just handled it. I'm telling you! She whipped out her cell phone, got the rental company on the line, and chewed them a new asshole for giving us a piece of shit truck, all the while with a smile on her face. She knows how to talk to people to get what she wants. She was like, \"Oh, God.\" I mean ho-hum! She was way cool about it. And all the guys...that was a sight! All these muscle-queens were out there standing around the truck, scratching their heads and of course, no one had the slightest idea of what to do. But Katherine just went, \"Easy as that!\" Then she grabbed the donuts and started eating one. Nothing rattles her. Before I knew it, a new truck was delivered and everything moved in no time. The best part of the day was what happened to Philip."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he's not much for moving furniture, so he kind of hung at the house, arranging things, trying to wire up the stereo. And he hasn't got a clue, really. He was making a mess of it. So Troy came walking in with an eye on Philip, chest out, and all pumped up. He thought he had it totally going on, and he took control and got the thing working. But Philip didn't have a clue that Troy was trying to seduce him with his cocky know-how and big muscles. Philip was like some wide-eyed kid watching Troy. Troy thought he was all that and a bag of chips! They would have made a cute couple, though. Katherine and I were laughing. We weren't sure who was funnier, Philip or Troy. And I don't think Philip ever did get a clue. When I finally told Troy that Philip was straight, he didn't believe me, or he didn't want to believe me. He was so out there! Anyway, what was I suppose to be talking about?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your trip to the Farallons."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yeah, right. Actually, it's what happened after we got back. It was pretty cold on Sunday, and Katherine wanted a fire in her fireplace. I remembered seeing some wood in the backyard and an axe, so I went out back and started chopping wood, except this one log wouldn't split. I had a hell of a time with it, but I kept trying anyway. I was hell-bent to get it split. Finally, when it broke open, inside, there was a stump that was blackened. The thing must have been in a fire at some point, but the tree lived, and a new bark grew around the burnt part, sealing it inside. I had a major epiphany from that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it stood as a metaphor, really. This is how I saw it. This tree was wounded in a fire, but it lived anyway. Eventually, it grew new bark, encompassing the wound. People do the same thing--we get hurt, but we go on, and like the burnt tree, we carry on building layer on top of layer. The scar eventually gets covered up and heals, but it's still there deep inside, only we grow stronger--that's why the log was so hard to split. The thing is I'm like that. We all are, I guess. And what I realized was that sometimes, with a lot of effort and chipping away, those buried scars could be reopened forcing a person...forcing me to face it again and maybe to learn some lesson from it or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think you have learned, Alex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I thought about Benny and me. And \"an eye for an eye\" isn't always the right answer, and it probably never is. I was wrong, so wrong. Now I may pay big time for my wrongness. I should have gotten out of there and went straight to the police, like Katherine said, but I let the pain make me crazy mad and...well, you know the rest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, dude. Ralph told me that Benny called, asking for me. He said that Benny still doesn't remember what happened and wants to talk to me. I know I can't go there, I just can't. It chills me to even think about it, about seeing him, about talking to him again. I realize that some people, like Benny, have this twisted need to control and dominate other people, wounding them in the process."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm.\nAnd the other lesson that burned log taught me was that I need to make myself stronger. But how do I use my situation to make me stronger? I have to make myself stronger so I can get through this without totally losing my mind.\nI think you've taken the first step, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are acknowledging your mistakes, and at the same time, you are realizing the impact of the violation done to you. You are sharing your fear and anger with me and others who care about you. You are making an effort to regain some control over your life. And you did all of this with very little help from me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I did all that? Hmm. Wow! Okay, dude, you're getting kind of deep now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I want you to understand, Alex, that there is no right or wrong way to react to the pain that you went though. But it's important not to push away the people who care about you. You need the support, Alex. You need help--my help and the help of others--to get though this. It's too hard to heal on your own."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, dude, I get what you mean."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. We've accomplished quite a lot today. So much for not wanting to talk, hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Somehow, dude, you bring it out of me. I don't know how you do it, but you do. Katherine does that, too. Oh well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, Alex, we're out of time for today. I'll see you next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, see you then!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex, take care of yourself."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 24th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, November 19, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. I see you're feeling better this week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I get some rest, but as for \"feeling better\"..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, how are you doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My legs are better than last time I saw you, but I'm still kind of freaked about Ralph I guess. He's doing so much better now than in the past few weeks, and he's looking much better, too. It's just...it's...uh, I don't know. I mean I am so over this, you know? And that stuff you wanted me to read up on--about depression? Well, that was something in itself, I'm telling you! Do you realize how much has been written on the subject? The least you could've done was give me a title or two. That would've saved me a lot of trouble, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry you had so much trouble, Alex. What have you discovered?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There's a lot of stuff written about it. That it's considered a chemical imbalance in the brain, and it affects a whole lot of people in this country. I found this book called \"Overcoming Depression\" or something like that. It lists the symptoms of different forms of depression and the treatments. It gets into some detail about the recommended treatments, including medications. The one thing that stuck out for me was the description of a depressed or irritable mood lasting most of the day. Well, I don't usually feel sad, but irritable I definitely feel. Actually, I feel irritable most of the time lately, except last weekend with Luke, but that's another story. I feel irritable, cranky, and just feel not nice mostly. And the psychomotor agitation--that's me, too. But the other things don't fit really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You failed to mention your insomnia. That's another frequent symptom of depression, too. Now, what other symptoms that you've read about that you don't think fit you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Insomnia? Yeah, that too. But the thing that struck me most was the description for manic depression. Now I know my mom is manic, that's for sure. And I think back to my...uh, my father. I mean my...no, never mind! You know what I mean. He was too, I think. I'm pretty certain that he was manic. And some of those symptoms fit me, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Which ones in particular?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Inflated grandiosity."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Tell me about it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I've told you about it, maybe you just didn't catch it before. Sometimes when I climb up into the girders under that bridge, I feel like I'm high, like maybe I could fly, if I wanted to. That's somewhat grandiose, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm...okay. Tell me the other symptoms you think fit you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Definitely the need for less sleep--I can go two or three days without even laying down sometimes. And sometimes, it's genuine insomnia, I think. I try going to sleep, but just toss and turn. I guess that's insomnia. Then, I'm easily distracted, and I tend to chatter on sometimes. But the biggest thing is the constant running thoughts that go on and on. Often, I feel like ideas are speeding through my mind so fast that my brain is going to explode. So many ideas that there isn't enough time to even attempt to begin to act upon them. So then, I get paralyzed by my thoughts."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You did your homework, Alex. I'm very impressed. Those are interesting symptoms that we should explore further. And I do believe that you have some of the classic symptoms of depression. Now, maybe we can talk about treatment. But before we do, I'd like to veer off onto a different but related subject. How have you been sleeping this past week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I broke down and used the medication that night--the night I saw you. But I didn't need it at all after that. Wednesday night, I took it and went to bed around seven-forty-five, I think. And I slept until around eight the next morning. I didn't feel drugged, and that made me feel better. But I didn't go back to school for the rest of the week. The weird part was--and I wasn't sure if I dreamed it or not, but I think it was real--I woke up sometime that night and found Ralph asleep in the chair that sits facing my bed. It was kind of a blur but there he was, sitting in the chair with a book in his lap, sound asleep."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ask him about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, but he denied it. I still think I saw him there, though, it's just that it was in a haze. He won't say so, but he is worried more about me than he is about himself--I can tell by the way he's acting. But Thursday night, I went to bed about nine-thirty and slept through until eight again. Anyway, Friday night, I went with Luke down to Carmel for the weekend, and we stayed at his father's house on the beach. Oh, man! It is so beautiful down there. And Luke drives a convertible. I insisted that we drive all the way with the top down. We ended up having the top down, and the heater on most of the way, but it was great. We got a little rained on, too, but that was fun. I slept every night and felt like it was all a dream or something. My sleep, especially in Carmel, was real deep and rejuvenating. I felt so rested when I awoke."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad. And have you been getting plenty of rest since?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess I have. When we were down in Carmel at his dad's house, I didn't want to leave. He has a big old stone house on some bluffs on the shore, and the waves were coming up real high and crashing down real loud. That sort of lulled me to sleep. The rain helped, too. But since we came back, I've been totally on the edge again, and I hate it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you on the edge about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "First, there's Ralph. I don't need to go back into that just now, I think you know what I mean. Then, I have this new and great guy in my life, and I'm so not ready for a relationship, but it seems to be going that way anyway. But while everything is looking so good, Monday night, I noticed this smell of smoke. It seemed to be coming from outside the kitchen, in back by the tenant's door. Ralph has this...this...uh, person who rents the little in-law unit in back by the garage. So I go to investigate, and guess what I found? That idiot was passed out on the floor, and a small fire had started in his garbage can. I had to put it out! It really pissed me off, and then it scared me, too. I'm not willing to be his personal fireman, you know? He's going to burn the whole place down or something. It really worried me. I mean what's next, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was wrong with him? What made him pass out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he's only the stupidest person who ever walked the planet, you know? He gets all tanked-up--totally blotto--each and every night. I told Ralph that that's not just the alcohol, it's got to be something else. But I don't want Ralph to get upset right now, he's still trying to get better and now this. The guy is so out of control. He's a damned drunk. And I think he pops pills and then washes them down with the booze. We've got to get rid of him, but Ralph just wants to make nice and keep the guy. But I don't trust him at all. There's just something not right about him, and I'm usually right about these things."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's a good thing you were there to put out the fire. Alex, you had a lot of stressful events happen to you in the last several months, and as the result you're experiencing sleeping problems. I think it might be a good idea to take a sleeping pill or melotonin before bed--whichever works best for you--all next week. After you had a whole week of good night sleep, we could assess the state of your other symptoms. How does that sound?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're the boss, I guess. It makes sense what you're saying. And so far this week, I feel a lot less stress. I attribute that to my nice weekend with Luke. We finally did it, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You did?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We did. And it was great! I loved it. Sometimes, I wonder why I waited so long, you know? He's real nice to me. And he's my age, and that's a big plus, you know? He's so good looking, and he seems to have his shit together. He knows what he wants to do with his life and stuff. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I'm still irritable and cranky most of the time anyway. I worry about when the bottom is going to drop out from under me--I mean as far as Luke is concerned--and I still wake up with a song running on and on in my head."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, let's see what this next week of rest will do for you. And take your time with things, allow yourself to feel whatever it is that you're feeling, think things through. Luke seems to be a positive influence on you, too. Alex, try to see the positive things that are happening to you right now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do try to see the good stuff. There is a lot of it right now, at least where Luke is concerned. And I haven't been fighting with anyone lately either, that's got to count for something. Oh, no! I probably shouldn't have said that. I hope I didn't just jinx myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure you didn't. And, Alex, I'm proud of you for taking the initiative and doing the research you've done on depression. It should prove invaluable to us both."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, yeah. That's just because it makes your job easier, I know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The more educated and informed you are, the better are the results of the therapy. We're out of time, Alex. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, later."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 69th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, November 25, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hey, dude. You don't have to say it. I know I look tired, and I am. I'm tired. I'm thirsty. I'm wild-eyed. You name it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here. Here's a glass of water. Tell me what's going on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like I said, you name it! I just saw Cecil and my fucking mother."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, her! You and I have that psychic energy when it comes to her, you know that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, as soon as I mentioned her, you got that look you get. Your face totally changed. You like her as much as I do, I can tell. It's okay, you don't have to say one way or another, but...well, I don't know. We'll just leave it at that, okay? So yeah, I went to see Cecil, and my mom tried to steam roll over us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I had an appointment with Cecil so we could talk about the hearing that's coming up and what I need to do to be prepared for it. But my mom...well, she's just my mom! Same old, same old, and she'll never change. She started some shit with Katherine again, too, I think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Katherine tell you that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I haven't seen her since...uh, I'm sorry, I lost my train of thought. Oh! My mom chewed me out for not being at Katherine's when she called. And I'm certain that Katherine didn't enjoy the ten thousand phone calls from her either. But my mom...well, she called around everywhere looking for me, being the bitch that only she can be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why didn't you take her calls when she called?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've told you, I haven't been there. I mean...uh...well, I'm not at...uh...oops!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, what's going on? What are you not telling me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Shit! Sometimes I can be so stupid, and my lips get too loose, you know? Well, I kind of split Katherine's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Remember when I told you that I sensed something was up with Katherine? Ever since we got her moved into the new place, I had this feeling...so I wrote her a note Monday--while she was here with you--and left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you go back to Ralph's?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Um, yeah. That's it, Ralph's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex! Tell me the truth."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No...I mean, yes, but not for long, really. I just went there and got my laptop and some clothes and stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So where are you staying now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "With a friend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. What did you tell Katherine in your note?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just that...well, that I felt like I didn't want to be more trouble than I had already been and that I needed to go away for awhile. I told her I'd call her in a few days when I got settled, but I haven't had a chance to do that yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "To get settled or to call her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. Both, I guess. I've been kind of feeling like I'm reeling or something. Everything is moving so fast. And now that I'm all alone, I notice every little thing, every noise, every movement going on outside, stuff like that. I keep going around checking the door to make sure it's locked. And I keep feeling like I'm going to fall apart. I know none of this makes any sense, but I just didn't want to put Katherine through any more...uh, well...I'm sorry. It's just it's...well...uh, shit!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay, Alex. Here's a tissue."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I...uh, I don't know what's wrong with me, you know? One minute I'm okay, the next, I'm crying like a baby. I feel like I'm losing my mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you've gone through a very traumatic situation and I think that what you're describing may be caused by that event. You're describing symptoms of something we call Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. When people go through a serious trauma, as you have, they sometimes suffer in a way you've just described. And I can tell you are not sleeping well again. How are you eating?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I haven't had a chance to...uh, to get some food or anything yet. I just got myself into the condo this morning. Last night, I slept at this sleazy hotel in the Tenderloin, if you can call that sleeping--it was so fucking noisy. But Luke...well, he has been great about all of this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Luke? I thought he moved back East?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He did. He's in New York right now, but he still owns his condo here, in San Francisco. He's letting me stay there, rent free. He told the building manager to give me the spare key. Pretty nice of him, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It is. Alex, you have many people that really care a great deal about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, so many people...everyone but my...uh, my...well...uh, you know. Shit! I just don't know, you know? Every hour of fear I spend, I...but then...well, I don't know. It's just that...well, it's like...geez! I can't even think clearly! I hate being alone. I just hate it! The other night, I went to the movies all by myself. I saw two movies, and then I walked all over town, not knowing what I should do or where I should go. I ended up sitting there in my place, under the girders at the bridge, all night long, just thinking about things. It seems that no matter where I go or what I do, I bring trouble with me. I've fucked things up with Katherine. I know I have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Benny...well, he's just Benny--stupid as ever. And I even messed things up there, more than big time. Ralph probably hates me by now. I just don't want to be any more trouble to anyone. Everybody would be better off if I just fell off the face of the Earth, or got run down by a fast moving truck, or something. I know my mom would be pleased if that happened--I wouldn't be the major disappointment that I am to her any more, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Alex, that's pretty harsh. Would you give me your phone number and address at Luke's place?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why? So you can check up on me or something? I'm not going to hurt myself, if that's what you're thinking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. But I am somewhat concerned. Are you sure you won't do anything rash?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Dude, you should know by now that I have always been a storm. I'll get over myself, eventually. Do you know what the worst part of all of this is? It's that we live in a world where people find it easy to be mean-spirited and nasty. We all have the capacity for both kindness and cruelty, especially me--and that bothers the hell out of me. Look at what I did, at how crazy I became. I feel so guilty about it, and there's nothing I can do to fix it or take it back. But I want to take it back so badly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, at least I got the revenge factor out of my system, but at what price? That's what's been on my mind, too. At what price?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I'm glad to hear you aren't still having revenge fantasies. When you think in terms of revenge and hostility..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, it only puts me in an endless cycle of going around in mental circles. It's so self-defeating, it holds back my spirit. Someday, I'll look back at all of this, and I think I'll realize just how blind and irrational it all really was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's the same thing with making rash decisions, like the way I left Katherine's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree. So what are you going to do about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I need to call her right away, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That would be the considerate thing to do. I'm sure she is very worried about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I suppose so. Shit! I am such an idiot sometimes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, Alex. You just need to stop and think before you act."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know. But how many times do you have to remind me? You'd think I would have memorized that concept by now. Well, I guess I'll call her tonight, when I get back to the condo. Here, I'll write down the address and number for you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I didn't finish telling you about my mom and Cecil."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh yes, what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I went to see Cecil before I came here today. And while we were talking, my mom slammed open the door and barged in like a mad woman. She was so pathetic! So she interrupted us and started yelling at me, \"How could you do this?\" It was all shit like that. She was ranting and raving, and finally, Cecil said, \"Larraine, shut up!\" And she just stood there, with her mouth opened in shock. She hasn't been told to shut up nearly enough in her life, the bitch! But that caught me off guard, too, you know? I didn't expect Cecil to say something like that, but he had had enough of her, too--all her endless phone calls, and bitching, and all the other stuff. He told her, \"Sit down!\" And she just sort of crumbled into her chair."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So he laid it out for us. The tape the police have is proof that I didn't beat Benny up as badly as he was found to be. According to Cecil, when that person kicked open the front door, the camera got knocked over, but it was still running, only it was filming the ceiling or something. But they got a voice on tape, and it wasn't mine. So now the police are looking for someone else, a man."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And a day or so before he was so badly beaten up, Benny was in a couple of fights, and someone had left a message on his voice mail, threatening him. And it's the same voice as on the videotape. They have all this evidence that proves that I wasn't the one who put Benny in a coma. So Cecil thinks that they'll drop most of the case against me. There's still the matter of aggravated assault and torture, but Cecil seems to think that it will be dropped to a lesser charge. And they may even end up filing charges against Benny for breaking the restraining order and assaulting me, at least that's what Cecil hopes for. So it looks pretty good as long as Cecil can put up a good argument and convince the judge of all this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's hope, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, you and me both, dude! You and me both. My mom just sat there with her stupid mouth shut. When I got up to leave, she stopped me and started to say something, but I just told her not to start with me, I didn't want to hear anymore. For a minute there, she looked almost defeated and sunk back down into her chair. Then she said...and I, uh...well, I don't know. It's too strange, really. But it kind of tugged at my heart a little, too. And I got choked up, like I'm getting now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did she say to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She told me that she wanted me home for Thanksgiving, that she wanted her family to be together, like we should be, and that she'd be very happy if I would come. Can you believe that? She runs so hot and cold, it's no wonder I'm all fucked up half the time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you going to accept her invitation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told her I'd think about it as long as she promised me she wouldn't give me any shit, and she said she wouldn't. I told her I'd let her know in the morning. I think I'll probably go--I don't have anywhere else to go, and I really missed little Aaron and my...uh, Mark. I've missed them both a lot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope it goes well for you, Alex. I hope your Thanksgiving will turn out to be a happy one."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. Me too, dude. Well, I should be going now. I've got to call Katherine. Happy Thanksgiving, Charles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Happy Thanksgiving, Alex. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 25th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, November 26, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doc, how are you doing?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. You seem to be in a good mood today. How are things going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Things are going good, I guess. I just saw Katherine, and she invited me to go to dinner with her and her brother. I think she said his name was Phillip. He's doing this mural thing over at U.C.S.F., and she's going to take me to meet him and show me his work. She's so cool!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Great."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I can't wait to meet this guy and see his stuff. It always inspires me to check out someone else's work, you know? And then Katherine, well...I'm just so happy that she asked me. After dinner, I'm going to invite them over to the house, and she can see the painting that I'm doing for her. Or maybe she can pick out something else, if she doesn't like the one I started already. There's a lot to choose from."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I'm glad things are going so well with Kathereine. I'm like...so happy!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can see that. How are things going otherwise? Are you getting enough rest?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, actually I am. I've been sleeping pretty much through the night...well, except for the high drama last Thursday night. But other then that night, I've been sleeping."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened last Thursday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, remember that guy I told you about--Ralph's tenant, the drunk? He got himself thrown in jail or something. That night--and for the past few weeks really--he's been acting real weird and shit. He's so out of control, you know? Anyway, I guess one of his friends was over. Then the friend must have called the police on him after he left. First, I heard the sound of police radios outside, and then Ralph told me to come over to the window. The backyard was full up with cops, and they had their guns drawn and stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, and you know what was going on? He had all these guns all loaded up and laid out on the tables. And when the cops knocked on his door, he pointed one of them at the cop. It was like the angry white guy syndrome, you know? So they took him away on...what did they call it? A fifty-one fifty. They took him for a seventy-two hour observation or something. But now, they are keeping him longer because he's nuts. Shit! He's so lucky they didn't shoot him or something, you know? But Ralph...well, he had a fit over the guns. He's evicting the guy now. So we're finally going to be rid of him, and I say, \"Good riddance!\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like a dangerous person to have right in your backyard."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Remember I told you how wrong the dude was? I knew it all along--he was a live wire out of control. But now, he's gone, and that's just fine by me. Oh yeah, and Tony's back. We went up and picked him up last Saturday, Ralph and I. Tony got pissed at his mom and Marney and told them all to go back to France, so they aren't even around right now. They were meddling too much in his shit, you know? But he's home now, and what a mess he has at his house. I guess after they found Tom dead that day, the police or something went into the house and went through their stuff. So Tony has a bit of a mess to deal with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to hear he's home. St. Helena is a very good place."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah well, he has done okay. It hasn't been easy for him though, and he still has a lot to do--weekly meetings and stuff. But for the most part, he's done pretty well. I'm glad to have him back. Now, Luke's just a little jealous, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? Tony's just your friend, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He is. But he's also older, and he's very good-looking--he's almost as attractive as Luke. Luke just doesn't understand yet, but he will, I know it. I told him that Tony is an old friend--like a brother or something--and that's all, nothing more. He'll understand, eventually. I told him that his jealousy is his own insecurity and that he has nothing to worry about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, he'll get over it. I invited them both for Thanksgiving at my mom's, and they both accepted. By the way, what are you doing for Thanksgiving? Do you want to come over, too? You met my mom before, and I'm sure she would love to have you--in more ways than one! Oh, but she has Mark for that now, doesn't she? Why don't you come?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thanks for the invitation, Alex, but I already have plans. I appreciate the offer."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "After all you've done for me, it's the least I can do. But if you have something else lined up..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do, but thank you for asking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No problem. I baked some bread and made cranberry sauce, all from scratch. I even made some chocolate truffles, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds delicious."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It will be. Oh shit! I got to call my mom and tell her that I won't be bringing it all over there tonight. I forgot that I told her I would. She gets all worried if everything isn't in front of her face, you know? Maybe she'll come and get the stuff herself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure it will work out."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, it always does, you know? And Aunt Sofie is doing most of the cooking. She hasn't really ever gotten back to normal since being in the hospital, but she insists on doing most of the cooking anyway. It's fine by me, because my mom can't cook as good as Sofie."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like it will be a nice day."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As long as mom and I get along, it should be. Oh! You know what Jake did with my paintings? He has them hung up in his office, so that he can look at them from his desk. Isn't that cool?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's nice, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess he wants them himself. Since all the craziness has subsided, I'm understanding things better. Like I told you last time, if he actually sold them, I don't know how I could ever top that, you know? But Sunday, I went out with Selvin and Esther. We went to some galleries and looked at a lot of different styles of work. And then, the three of us went back to Ester's and did some painting together. It's been real nice working with them. I'm learning a lot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. Sounds like you're feeling much better. How are the racing thoughts?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I seem to always have that. But this week, they seem to not be so important. They're not running my life, you know? The songs still run in my head though, and that can be real annoying sometimes, particularly when I wake up with one in my head. When that happens, it doesn't go away that easily. If I find that song and play it a couple times on the CD player, then the song goes away. But it only goes away after I've played it a few times. This was driving Ralph crazy, so I had to start doing it with my headphones, only then I would sing along. Ralph says I should be an entertainer--I remember words and inflections of songs real well. He gets a big kick out of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. It seems like the sleep is doing its job; you don't appear irritable or cranky."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not. Not at all. You know, when I feel good, it's hard to describe what it's like to feel bad. And when I feel bad, I can't even remember what it's like to be okay. Does that make sense?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, it makes perfect sense. Many people feel the same way, Alex. I'm glad to know that you're better, and it really shows."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do feel much better. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, this year, Thanksgiving is not on Benny's birthday. Last year, it was. And I've been thinking about it a lot. Last Thanksgiving I spent with Benny and Dora, and we celebrated his birthday as well. When I think about stuff like that, I feel sad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wouldn't..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, doesn't sound incestuous?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why would you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes, I think it's sick because I did feel like he was the father I never had, you know? My mentor--I was so stupid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think you were stupid at all, Alex. There's nothing wrong with loving someone. And Benny was your mentor. And--as messed up as things became--you loved him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah? But look what he turned out to be. He lied to me and cheated me. He stole a part of me that can never be reclaimed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand what you mean. It's okay to have these feelings. As conflicting as they are, it's okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, it's just...well, it's like...I don't know. I guess I've been thinking about it these past few days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It takes a long time to get over an emotional trauma. I wouldn't be surprised if even years later, thoughts of Benny pop up every now and then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess. I don't know. I wish that the trial would get started, and we can be over that, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. It would help to get the trial behind you. Do you know when it will start?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "From what Cecil told me, as long as Benny is in the mental ward, it may be delayed for months. They say that he isn't fit for trial. It's so fucked! Damn it! How did we get on this subject? I don't want this dragging me down, not when I'm supposed to be going out with Katherine and meeting her brother. Shit!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can understand your frustration, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Frustration is a understatement! Damn it! Now, we got to stop talking about this for now. Aren't we out of time yet?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Almost."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe we should wrap this up now. Katherine is coming back to pick me up, and I don't want her to be waiting for me outside. Do you think I should invite her and her brother for Thanksgiving? And are you sure you don't want to come over, too?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, Alex, I can't make it. I'm going out of town."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's going to be a good Thanksgiving, I just know it. Now, if I can just get my mind off last Thanksgiving..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just keep your mind on the moment, on what's happening right now..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know. Sometimes, it's easier said than done, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know how it is."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I'm going to go now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you next week. Have a great Thanksgiving with your friends and family, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks and you, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 70th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, December 2, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. How are you doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I guess. I'm all right. It seems like a long time since I saw you last."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Mainly because so many things have came down since last week. Thanksgiving was so unpredictable and with a couple of twisted surprises. I talked to Katherine and worked things out with her. The shit with Benny has taken an interesting turn--so much stuff. Oh, and then there's Luke. Remind me to tell you about him, okay? But mostly, I've been spending a lot of time alone, thinking and trying to figure out who I am and stuff like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Any conclusions?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing much, really. Since Benny left my life last year, everything inside me kind of died and nothing had any meaning anymore. I felt lost, like I was drifting aimlessly. I think about things that happened since then--moving in with Ralph, meeting Katherine and Jake, the art fiasco, Cami and Regina, Luke, and then Ted the Benny's look-alike--all that stuff just proves to me that I didn't take the time to figure out who I was. I was just drifting in this huge, stormy sea."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have this picture in my mind of some ideal, of the way things should be, or rather, of how I want things to be. One of the things I realized was that my self-esteem just sort of crumbled when Benny dumped me, I felt very unworthy inside. I'm amazed that I found someone like Luke when I did. I was never really ready for him, for a real relationship, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tell me more about your ideal picture of life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I don't really know where to start. Let me see. I want to understand things completely, and I want to be understood. I feel like there's this huge void in me, and it goes way back, even before Benny was a part of my life. It's like I yearn so much to be accepted and loved by my...uh, my mother, as stupid as that sounds."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not stupid, Alex. We all want to be accepted by our family and friends."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, but we don't all get that, do we? Sometimes, I think she'll never be like that. Never! But then, when I least expect it, this big surprise would happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, the only time I've ever felt loved, really loved, was when my grandmother was still alive. She took time with me. She talked to me and listened to me, and she taught me things. I think most of what I know now I learned from her. She scolded me when I did bad things, but she never treated me like I was too much trouble for her. I have this image in my head of her as a hero. She died so long ago. There aren't many heroes around these days, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What makes someone a hero?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. How do I put this? A hero to me is someone I admire and look up to. It's a person who does great things, things that make me want to be like them. Benny was my hero for a while. Now it seems like Katherine is my hero."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess, someday, she may be replaced with another hero. But I can't even imagine that right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, it's true, Alex, as you grow and change, so will the heroes in your life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess. I try to learn what I can from a person. And when I'm done, I move on to the next lesson, the next person. I guess what's important about having heroes is the fact that they inspire us to emulate the things we admire in them the most. I think about the reasons I like Katherine so much. Mainly, it's because of the way she is--she's so easy going about life. She's what I hope to become one day--successful, and generous with people, and patient. Patience is the most important thing. That's definitely something my mother isn't. I've got to tell you what she did...she can be such a bitch. Last week, after I left here, I went over to Katherine's house and...well, she wasn't there. This is getting a little off the subject, but I'll get back to my mother in a minute. Anyway, I decided to wait for Katherine to get home, only I didn't know that she had gone away for Thanksgiving. So I was sitting there on the porch, waiting and waiting, when the police pulled up. One of her neighbors saw me and called them, thinking I was doing something suspicious, I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it was not as bad as it sounds. One of the cops recognized me. That felt great--I was being recognized by the police, real great! So they asked me what I was doing there and stuff like that. And I just told them the truth--I was waiting for Katherine, my friend, to get home. They told me someone thought I was trouble. Well, that is the story of my life. So this person called them out there, and the police came along and told me to go home. So I went back to Luke's condo and paged Katherine. Finally, she called me back and told me she was with her family for the holiday. She was pissed at me for leaving the way I did. She said I should have talked to her instead of just leaving like I did. I told her she was right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did your mother do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, can you just imagine? The night I left Katherine's, my mother called for me and was told I wasn't there. The next morning, she called again, and Katherine told her that she didn't know where I was, that I moved out. Well, my mother thought Katherine was lying to her or something because that afternoon, my mother paid Katherine a little visit in her office at SII. Katherine said that she arrived pissed as hell and poised for a fight."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Typical. She accused Katherine of all kinds of stuff. She called her a liar and wanted to know what business Katherine had keeping a sixteen-year-old boy at her house--my mother was implying that we were having sex or something. But sixteen? My stupid mother doesn't even know how old I am! Katherine told her that I was seventeen. And she also told my mother that her accusations were totally ridiculous. It took a few tellings for that to sink in. Well, Katherine said that my mother slammed the door closed as she stormed out of Katherine's office. And then she turned around and went right back in the office--I could just picture the whole thing, it is so like my mother to cause a scene. She warned Katherine that if she was lying, she would find out the truth and there would be hell to pay. And then Katherine firmly but quietly said, \"Larraine, get the hell out of my office. You have no right to be doing this.\" And my mom just left, of course she slammed the door again as she walked out. Katherine wasn't going to play my mom's high-school girl games, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, leave it to my mother to create such a ruckus. Well, I apologized to Katherine, and not only for what my mother did but for the way I left, making her worry like that. That was so unfair. Katherine accepted my apology and promised she would still help me in any way she could. She even offered to help me find a more permanent place to stay, but I told her that I was okay where I am at the moment. I'll probably see her in the next few days. This thing with my mother really boiled my blood, but I was determined not to let it get the best of me, like normally."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. So what happened on Thanksgiving?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is the best part. I went over to my mother's house, like I planned on. I saw Mark and got to spend some time playing with little Aaron, that was fun. He's so cute and such a happy little baby. I wonder how long it will take for my mother to fuck him up?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So anyway, Luke came home from the East Coast, early Thanksgiving morning. His father was away, and his sister was in Southern California, so he came along with me to my mother's. Ralph was there, too, and so was my cousin Rosemarie. There was also this guy, this glam-queen. He was all made up with mascara, and dark blue hair, and a ruffled shirt. It was too much. So this guy is yet another of my family's secrets--he's Rosemarie's son, Ethan. He came from New York to be with us, but I didn't know anything about him. I saw the family resemblance right away. It turns out that he's only six months older than me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess the Oscar Wilde gene runs in my family--I tell you this guy...well, you should have seen him. I was all, \"Girl, you need to get over yourself!\" Luke said there's a lot of people in New York who look like that. I was half expecting him to stand up and start singing Ziggy Stardust. Okay, so let me get to the point...Ethan has nothing to do with it by the way. I've only told you about him because...well, because there's something else there with him, something they still haven't told me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when I asked him where his father was, Rosemarie practically choked on her food, and my mother kicked Mark under the table. Not much gets past me in that house, I always have to be on my toes there anyway. Well, my mother turned pale. But Ethan said that he never knew his father and didn't even think about him--it didn't really matter to him, as if I'm supposed to believe that. But there was more to it, that's for sure. I just haven't figured it out yet. Anyway, after dinner, I did the dishes, while my mom and the girls cleared the table. My mom was actually nice to me, but then she had no idea that I knew about the thing with Katherine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, my mom is only nice when she's trying to hide something or get something from you. And in this case, she was hiding this thing with Katherine. When the girls were out of the kitchen, I stopped my mom and told her quietly that I didn't appreciate her taking her bad mood out on Katherine, that it was not cool."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how did she respond?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She hesitated for a minute--I think she was thinking of some excuse--but then she just said, \"You're right, Alex.\" I was all, \"Huh? Okay, who are you? And what have you done with my mother?\" Don't laugh, that's really how it went down! We both just stayed calm and didn't fight. She said, \"Look, Alex, I'm trying here, okay? I'm really trying to get along with you and understand you. You've got to give me some credit for that.\" I had to grab the counter to keep my knees from buckling, you know? Where in hell did that come from all of a sudden? So I said, \"Okay, if you really want to try this time and get along, then I need you to go to Katherine and apologize for how you treated her. And, tell her it will never happen again.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I sort of surprised myself, too. She agreed to speak to Katherine first thing next week. I asked her why she had acted the way she did in the first place. And my mother said that she wanted to talk to me and thought that Katherine was covering for me, trying to keep us apart. I told my mother that Katherine wouldn't do something like that, that she's an honest person. And I told my mother that if she just gave people a chance before she jumped on them, then...well...uh, that's when I saw myself in her eyes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She and I are just alike. We're just a couple of hotheads, you know? I just laughed out loud, right there. And do you know what? My mom got it, too! We both were laughing our heads off, right there in the kitchen. Mark walked in on us, and the look on his face was priceless. He was so totally relieved. At least we came to some understanding, for once. And it was too cool. I think my mom and I reached an important point in our relationship."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think Katherine is rubbing off on me. Yeah, something like that. But wait, there's more! Here's the very best part. I saved it for last. While we were all sitting around the table, eating dessert, the telephone rang. And guess who it was?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Who?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Cecil! It was Cecil. He called to tell us that the police arrested someone for Benny's assault! I was wondering how long it would take them to find the guy. Cecil said that they will have the guy's arraignment hearing early this week. And Cecil will see the judge to ask about dropping the charges against me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you know the person who is being charged with Benny's assault?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know that much yet. Cecil doesn't know either, but we'll find out, and I can't wait. I don't have any idea who it could be or where the hell he came from. I only know that they got him, and that's all that matters to me right now. I feel so...uh, so vindicated, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad, Alex. Things turned out pretty well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll say! I had a lot to be thankful for this Thanksgiving, more than I ever could have imagined, way more! And I owe it all to you, dude."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Me? How is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, if you hadn't kept after me--the way you do about my temper and my habit of acting before thinking--then I don't think I would have handled this the way I did. I could have just attacked my mother at the Thanksgiving dinner, but I thought about it first and thought better of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, Alex, I'm glad you handled yourself so well and exercised judgment and restraint even under provocation. I am very proud of you for that. You should be proud, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's great, isn't it? Wow! Look at the time, we went way over this time. I've got to go back to Luke's and take him to the airport."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't tell me about Luke."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's okay, that will wait. A little suspense won't hurt you! I'm out of here, dude!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, Alex, I'll see you next week. Take care of yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later!"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 26th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, December 3, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex. Please come in. What's happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's that obvious, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I can tell by the look on your face that something has happened. Do you want to tell me about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's a lot. I mean a whole lot. Too much, I guess. Now, don't get all worked up, at least I am sleeping. The melatonin idea you had was a pretty good one. But I guess it's time for me to put another notch in my belt buckle."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Aunt Sofie. First, it was my dad, then my grandmother. Then, Benny and Roly. Now, Aunt Sofie."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened to your aunt?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She died. And on Thanksgiving! Can you believe it? We were all having this great Thanksgiving. Even Mom and I were getting along pretty well. Sofie worked her butt off to make that dinner for everyone. Remember? I told you she never really got better since being in the hospital, and then she insisted on doing all the cooking. My mom is such a lazy bitch--she didn't protest enough against Sofie doing it all. But it was all too much for her in the end."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That is awful, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, at least she got to eat her last meal with the family, and it was a nice night. Everyone was getting along all right, even Tony and his parents. That's the other part of all this--Tony and his family. But she just looked like she was asleep. No one even bothered her. I don't even know how long she was dead before...I mean, there she was, sitting on the sofa between Racyl and Rhea, and it looked like she had just fallen asleep. You know what the worst part of it was? The last thing I remember her saying to me was that the truffles I made were \"to die for.\" That's the very last thing she said to me. It was too weird. And then mom totally freaked. The doctor has her on bed rest for a couple days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry about your aunt, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah...and then there's the part about Katherine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Katherine? Did she accept your invitation to Thanksgiving with your family?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, she didn't. But she missed out on a great dinner, except that the person who did all the cooking kicked the proverbial bucket. But what a strange and small world we live in, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Last Wednesday night after my session with you, I went out to dinner with Katherine and her brother, Philip. We had a real good time, and he was so nice. He's a little disheveled-looking, but he was way cool too, just like Katherine! And his mural at U.C.S.F. is a trip, too. But at dinner, I felt kind of...I don't know. I guess I was sort of like attracted to him, you know? We went to China Court for dinner, and I knocked over the teapot and spilled some of the rice. He made me nervous, in a way. But he wouldn't be interested in me. He was nice to me, though. Anyway, here we were, Katherine and I, going up the steps to Ralph's, when there was my mother going down the stairs with all the Thanksgiving food in her arms. I introduced her to Katherine, and my mom was looking Katherine up and down--giving attitude. I didn't know what was up with that, you know? Well, Katherine didn't seem too phased, but I did notice her distraction when Ralph and I gave her a little tour of his garden. She seemed to like the house though, so I didn't quite catch what the looks were all about until the wake Saturday night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened at the wake?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I spent the whole day on Saturday siting in Ralph's garden. He has this fancy garden in back with this old man--this quiet old Asian man--who comes and tends it every week for him. So I sat out there most of the day, just thinking. Even Ralph came out a few times to check on me since it was raining and I wasn't coming back in. But I didn't mind the rain, I just needed to think again and walking wasn't an option that day, you know? But I forgot what I was supposed to be talking about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were telling me about the wake."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yeah. Anyway, we were all talking a little after, and my mom had obviously got a huge bug up her butt. She was acting jumpy and bitchy--which was normal for her--except that she was like...to the \"nth\" power on bitchy. More family secrets came out, but a bizarre circumstance came up, too. My mom and Katherine work at the same company, which never even crossed my mind. Katherine is some sort of CEO or something, and my mom...well, she's just in charge of the mail room. So it's not like they work together or anything like that. But my mom announced, \"Alex, I want to talk to you in the other room!\" And she said \"in the other room\" like some movie queen or something--so dramatic! And then, she laid it into me about Katherine--\"How did I meet her? What were she and I doing together? What could a woman Katherine's age want from me?\" It was shit like that. And I was like, \"Why do you care?\" So she told me that she figured out how we met. We had to have met in her office, and she wanted to know what was going on. I was like, \"Mom, you're way off base here. Katherine only helped me to show my artwork.\" But she was ranting and raving about Katherine being too old for me to hang with. I was telling her to chill out, that it shouldn't be such an issue. What was her problem anyway? So later, I got to thinking. What kind of trouble can my nasty mother stir up for Katherine at work? I started to get worried about it. So I was wondering, do you think I should say something to Katherine about this? Or should I just pretend the conversation never happened?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Do you really believe that your mother would do something to Katherine? What could she really do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My mom could think of lots of ways to stir up shit, you know? I've told you about her crap."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, but do you really believe that she could do anything? Your mother and Katherine might both work for SII, but they don't work together."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. They probably see each other very little. Thinking back on it, I know Katherine didn't recognize my mom and my mom didn't recognize Katherine at first. But Katherine's face was plastered on SII newsletter because of some promotion she just got, and that was how my mom figured it out. If that newsletter hadn't been circulating so recently, my mom may have just walked right by Katherine. I don't know. Do you think my mom would be so stupid as to start trouble like that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, what do you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. With my mom it's hard to tell what she'll be doing next, you know? I think I probably should tell Katherine. Yeah. That's what I'm going to do. It's probably better for her if she was aware of this in case my mom does do something. That way, Katherine can be prepared for it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, well, whatever. If my mom does something like that, it'll all come back to her. And I have a feeling that Katherine won't put up with any shit, you know? Not from someone like my mom--someone so small-time, you know? Actually, she's already getting some of her shit back, anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, like I said earlier, more family secrets came out. Oh yeah, and I almost forgot the little trick she pulled on Tony. She got Tony's family to come over for Thanksgiving, but she didn't tell me or Tony that they were coming. And Tony had just told his mom and Marney to go away and leave him alone. It was the last thing he expected. But my mom...well, she had to play her little games with people. So we got there and were having a nice time when the doorbell rung. The door flew open, and there they all were--Tony's family all lined-up with smiles on their faces. It could've really blown up, but Tony was cool about it. He actually went for a walk with his dad, and they had a long talk and cleared the air of some important things. So it worked out okay. But the best part was the latest family secret--Rosemarie. She's my mom's nemesis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Who is she?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's Aunt Sofia's long-estranged daughter--the one no one ever spoke of and I knew nothing about. My mom said she was sniffing around for Aunt Sofia's money. But I instantly liked her. I mean, here was this educated woman from New York. She was way more sophisticated and far more attractive than my mom--you could tell they hated each other. You should have seen Luke. He was entranced by all the colorful events in my family's life. His face was priceless, I'm telling you! He was so taken by Rosemarie and my mom--the two bitches at each other's throats. It was the stuff legends are made of. So Rosemarie wanted to be back in the family. But Sofie--bless her heart--wrote her out of the will. There's nothing for Rosemarie. She was the bad seed of the family, and Sofie wrote her off years ago, according to what Mark told me. So here was my mom trying to be the controlling bitch that she can be, and then Rosemarie came along and snubbed my mom like an old cigarette. Man! She was boiling mad! She got what she deserved, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm going to miss my aunt and all, but...but at least she doesn't have to suffer anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. She had a lot of physical discomfort?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that too! But what I meant was that she doesn't have to suffer because of my mother anymore!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, I see. What kind of feelings do you have over her passing? You spoke of sitting in the rain in the garden and thinking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I did a lot of thinking out there. Things are so temporary. Everything is temporary, you know? I know she didn't mean to leave me, personally. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's just another person I care about who died and left my life. I don't really know how I feel, I guess. It's like I'm numb or something. Does that make sense?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It makes sense, Alex. Most people have a period of time where they feel numb or detached before the gravity of the situation takes hold. It's a normal reaction to the death of a loved one."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, she always treated me well. She talked with me as if I were her equal, never like I was a cheesy kid. She even was beginning to encourage me to pursue my artistic abilities. She was the only one in my family who encouraged me to do anything, and now she's gone. But she did leave me with something. She left me some money on the understanding that the money went toward art school or culinary school, but she stated that culinary school was what she preferred. It's just that...it's just that I don't know if I'll ever be able to make another truffle again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can understand that. But perhaps this feeling will change with time. It was nice of her to think of you this way and leave something of value for you. That's going to be a tremendous help to whatever schooling you ultimately decide upon."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. It's just that now I don't want to make any decisions about school or anything like that. But I'll always remember her for her encouragement."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a good, Alex. We've run out of time, I'm afraid. Same time next week, then? And, Alex, if you need me, I'm just a phone call away."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, dude. I know that. Catch you later!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 71st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, December 9, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex. How are you doing this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm doing pretty good, man, pretty good. This has been a good time for me, actually."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Remember I told you they arrested someone for assaulting Benny? I know who it was now. Brent Woodson."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Who is he?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's the father of the kid Benny molested--the one they arrested Benny for molesting in the first place."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Pretty weird, uh? According to Cecil, the guy had been harassing Benny ever since he came home from jail. He phoned and threatened him, and they had a little run-in one day at the Safeway store over on Market Street. I remember the guy, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You know him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I never actually knew him, I just knew who he was. He sat there in court every day of Benny's trial, and he always had this mad, frightening look on his face. It was like he was ready to kill or something. It was kind of scary, really. He was pretty obvious about it, sighing out loud sometimes at certain points in the trial. I know other people noticed him, too. He wasn't disruptive, but he got noticed because of the way he acted. I remember Cecil pointed him out to me one day. And once, after I knew who he was, he made eye contact with me. But he didn't look at me in a weird way, he just looked into my eyes and held me there for a minute or so. I remember that. So I guess he was following Benny around, waiting for the right moment to strike. And...well, you know the rest. The fact that I was there too was totally convenient timing for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yeah, Benny is home from the hospital."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, and it's with less than a full load, too, at least that's what Ralph said. I didn't go and check. Not that the thought didn't cross my mind, but I knew I couldn't go there. I just can't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that's a wise decision."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, do you think I don't know that? He affects me like alcohol affects an alcoholic; I think I've said that before. It's pretty scary what he does to me, you know? He's left a wide path of destruction behind him. And now he's been hurt so bad and has a room temperature IQ--I'm sure--so payback's a mother fucker, you know? It's hard to believe the guy beat out a million other sperm, if you think about it. Okay, that's enough of trashing Benny, because I could go on..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have the charges against you been dropped?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well...uh, no, they didn't do that. Cecil went to court the day they held the guy's hearing, but they didn't do things the way I thought they would. Cecil only got to sit and watch, just like everybody else. But he did get them to schedule another hearing in light of this new arrest and the evidence that came with all that. Apparently, the guy confessed; he told them he wanted Benny dead. I was all, \"Who doesn't?\" My hearing will be held soon. I can't remember the date--this month I'm a little screwed up with my dates. This year has gone by so fast! The hearing will be in a week or so. Cecil is pretty confident they will drop the charges against me, but I'm more skeptical."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, things just don't work out for me that way. I don't know. It's just...it's...uh, it's just that I got this feeling going on down there, in my gut. It's some sort of instinctual thing. But it's just a feeling. We'll see. Uh, we need to change the subject or something. So, what else is going on? Oh! I had a nice conversation with Katherine last Monday night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She called me the moment she got home from work. She wanted to know what was up with my mom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Over Thanksgiving, I told my mom I wanted her to apologize to Katherine, remember? Well, she did. First thing Monday morning, my mom was waiting at Katherine's office. Katherine told me that when she saw my mother, she thought, \"Oh shit, here we go again!\" And of course it was for a good reason, too--we both know how my mother can be. Imagine if my mom was waiting for you first thing on a Monday morning. Scary, huh? It's hard for her to open her mouth without sticking at least one foot in it and then trying to make it seem as if it was all your fault. But she did it! Just as I asked her to, she apologized to Katherine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you surprised?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Aren't you? Katherine said my mom asked for her forgiveness and promised she would try not to let something like that happen again. Katherine said she accepted her apology and then shooed her out of her office fast. Katherine said that all the while she was wondering what dirty little trick my mother had up her sleeve. I was all, \"Invasion of the Body Snatchers.\" But I didn't tell Katherine that I told my mom to do that, I just let her think she did it on her own."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So my mom did it, can you believe that? She didn't call me herself to say she did it, she wanted Katherine to tell me, I guess. It's funny, I knew she would do it when she said she would--I could see it in her eyes. I could see that for once her light was on and there was actually someone home. For once, she was being a real person and not someone who just walks away from their own mistakes and pain. I realize that when you run from the hard stuff, you just cut off all your possibilities to learn and grow from it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's an interesting way of seeing it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's not like she or I...uh...well, we've never given each other a chance to get to know one another. We were quick to fight and to disagree. That's where my mom and I are alike, I think, unfortunately. But we have to stay in the communication mode in order for anything positive to have a chance to come out of all of this, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Definitely. As long as you and your mother are willing to work on it, in time, you might be able to develop trust, love, and friendship. But keep in mind that you are both \"hot heads,\" as you put it. Don't be too quick to judge her. Nobody is perfect."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perfect as a smile."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They're both a lie, usually."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I know you're apprehensive when it comes to your mother, but remember she's probably apprehensive, too. It's hard to start a relationship with a grown son."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. You know I've always asked myself if there was something wrong with me or if it was her. It's pretty scary when you think it's always your own fault and you don't even know why things happened the way they did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you no longer believe that you're to blame for Tony's advances?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know that now. But...well, it made me feel bad because he just doesn't get out with other people enough."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Wait, let me take that back and say it differently. He just doesn't get out enough with normal people. He's always hanging out with the freaks, and drag-queens, and other scary monsters. And they're all...well, they're not...uh, never mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You have to make sure he knows how you feel."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello? I told him no two times already, and he still made these little advances on me. I don't know what's up with him. Why does he have to be like that? I told him it was so not cool. He finally backed away and then acted like this shamed puppy the rest of the night. One minute, he's aggressive, and the next, he's ridiculously passive. It's sickening! It makes me want to slap him...but he'd actually enjoy that. So what can I do except be mean to him and continue to tell him no?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Telling Tony that you don't want him to make physical advances on you is not being mean. It's just telling him like it is. You can say it calmly, without malice. You can tell him that he shouldn't be offended--you're not rejecting his friendship, just his sexual interest in you. Always remember that you have the right to say no, Alex, anytime and in any situation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I guess, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But what? Everyone has that right, Alex. Tony knows that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. Okay. I still don't know what I'm going to do about it, or if I'm going to do anything about it at all. I can always avoid him. I can make it so that I'm never alone with him--that's when he tries to get this creepy affection thing going. Or I can just go on as if nothing had happened..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I think it might be a good idea to try not to be alone with Tony for awhile."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What bugs me most is that he knows my trip. He knows where I've been and how it's all affected me. He knows! But he still does these pseudo-sexual antics with me, knowing how really bugged I get and how it creeps me out. I'm almost at the point where I may just bag on him if he does it again, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't have any other option. Luke says I can't go to Tony's alone anymore. He was pissed when I e-mailed him about what happened between Tony and me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would like to talk about Luke, if you don't mind. Your relationship with him is improving?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Have you been thinking about this all week, since I mentioned it last time?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He is an important person in your life..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, right. Well, we've been keeping in touch by e-mail, massaging each other a lot. He's coming back to San Francisco after the first of the year. He wants me back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He does? How do you feel about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ha! You are too funny, Doc. Yes, he does want me! But I don't know about it. We slept together in the same bed while he was here, but we didn't...uh, we didn't do anything. We just slept and kind of cuddled. He was thrilled to have me so close again, he could hardly contain himself, if you know what I mean. Well, I was kind of excited, too...secretly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Secretly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, yeah, secretly. I didn't get naked with him or anything like that. It would have been easy to go there with him. But I knew it wasn't the right way to begin again, if that's what we are going to do. I still need some time to figure things out, to figure myself out. For all I know, I could be in jail in a few months! So I really need to keep on figuring all of this out. And that's what I've told him. In the meantime, I'm staying at his place, and I'm okay alone for now. When he comes back, I may have to go someplace else, maybe back to Ralph's. Or I may just stay there. I don't know yet, but it's good to have a choice. I told Luke that I don't want him to come back if his only reason for doing so is his desire to get back together with me. He needs to have other reasons, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. And what did Luke say to that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that his main reason is that he just can't be away from the West Coast for very long and winter back East isn't pretty. Plus, he said he only went away because he was pissed at me. And that is a totally wrong reason to go all the way to New York. Plus, his sister is here, and his father's house is here, if not his father. Luke is homesick."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you've been putting so much thought into your relationship with Luke. That is very good. I'm proud of you, Alex. You need to give yourself a pat on the back."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I haven't been figuring all this out on my own. Katherine and I had a very good talk the other night. She really helps me to see things right, you know? She is the only other person, besides you, that I can talk to like this. And she knows what to say and how to say it. The woman is a goddess, I'm telling you. She's a good friend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, Doc, I guess this is it for today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, we are out of time. Alex, I'll be going out of town for a few weeks..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How few?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I won't be back until February."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I see. That's more than just a few weeks, hmm?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's a fairly long time. Doctor Whitestone will be covering for me while I'm gone. She's very nice, you'll like..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When are you leaving?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "After next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's a hell of a short notice, don't you think? How long were you planning on keeping me in the dark about this?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Last week didn't seem like the right time..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah...well, I've got to go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, I'm sorry about this, but I need to spend some time with my father. And you can always get in touch with me if you need to. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. I'll see you next week, Alex. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later, Doc."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 27th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, December 10, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doc. Sorry I'm late, I had to talk to Katherine for a minute. Shit! My fucking mom is causing trouble for Katherine at work, just as I suspected she would. That bitch! I'm so over this! So over it. Katherine wanted to know if I told her how we met, but I just told her that my mom--as stupid as she usually is--figured it out on her own. She remembered that SII's newsletter--and of course since she's in the mail room, she saw it more than anyone else--Katherine's picture was right on the cover. Well, she just managed to put the two and two together, anyone could've made that same conclusion. But Katherine seemed to think that it was I who told my mom about the therapy! My mom almost stirred up trouble between Katherine and me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem very angry, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Angry? I'm fucking infuriated at her. You know, I almost left here after I talked with Katherine. I was going to go over to the house, but I changed my mind. She's not going to get the fucking best of me over this. I hope she fries. I hope that Katherine burns her big time, you know? She deserves it. Katherine told her boss that we met through our mutual art connections. They don't have to know that Katherine actually made those connections for me after we met. But the most ridiculous part of it was that they thought Katherine might be dating me! Isn't that funny? My mom is such a stupid bitch. Katherine is as old as my mom. Well, maybe not as old, but she's at least ten years older than me. And anyway, she isn't the right gender, you know? I can just picture that! The thing that bugs me is why would my mom want to do something like this? Why does she do such stupid things?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you decided to stay, Alex. This is a good place to vent your feelings. It would probably be better if you talk to your mother when you're less agitated. I'm glad you got a chance to talk to Katherine, though."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wanted to warn her, and then she dropped the bomb on me about what my mom already did. Katherine asked if I could meet her tomorrow to talk about it, but I couldn't let this wait until tomorrow, you know? But I'll tell you one thing, my mom and I are going to have a talk about this. I'm not going to let this just lie, you know? I don't care what is going on between her and Rosemarie, and I don't care if she's pregnant--she'll try to get out of this by using one of those excuses. I just know she will."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, before you confront your mother, are you sure that this is the best thing to do? Such confrontation could make her even more determined to cause trouble for Katherine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know, Man, I don't know. She is going to have to stop this right now! That's what I'm saying. I'm not going to let Katherine suffer. No way!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm going over there right now!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex! Please sit back down. Thank you. Now, take some slow, deep breaths. Okay, good. You're very agitated, Alex. You need to try to get hold of yourself. Try to relax a bit."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But it's not helping! See? I can't...I...I can't...uh, I don't understand why she's doing this. The other day when we went to get the Christmas tree, Ralph and I talked about the possibilities, and we both thought that she wouldn't do anything like this. What has she got to gain? Nothing. It's like when she meddled with Tony and his family over Thanksgiving. She had nothing to gain there, and then it backfired on her. Now Rosemarie wants Aunt Sofie's things, and my mom isn't letting her into Aunt Sofie's house. What's up with that? She has no right to do any of this, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree with you, Alex. But sometimes, we can never understand why people do the things they do. We just have to accept..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Accept it? You're kidding! No way! That's like saying it's okay. If everybody did the kind of shit she does, then we'd all be killing each other. You know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Accepting people the way they are is not the same as agreeing with their actions. It's just accepting that you can't control people and their actions, just as they can't control your thoughts and opinions of them. Some people do bad things without any logical explanation at all. And sometimes, we don't have the power to stop them. But you can control your own reactions. Will confronting your mother improve this situation? Think this through, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I hadn't thought about it that much, I guess. Anything is possible where Larraine is concerned. I don't know, she has caused enough trouble for me in just these past two weeks to last a lifetime. That bitch! I think she even scared Luke off."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I told you about how she played that little game with Tony and his family. And then there was Rosemarie. My mom has locked her out of Aunt Sofie's house and won't let her get near the place. But Luke...well, he and I were supposed to go out last Saturday night, and he didn't show--didn't call, nothing. The last time I saw him was the day of the funeral, and that was a week and a half ago. He said he had some business in Carmel last week. But we were supposed to meet at Club Universe Saturday night, and he never showed. I called and called...all around, I called, but I haven't been able to reach him. I just know the antics from the weekend before scared him away, and it's mostly my mom's fault--she's such a troublemaker. If Ralph will let me, I may borrow one of his cars and drive down to Carmel to find him so I can figure out what's up with him. If it's my mom...well, I'll tell him she's out of my life. After all this, I don't know what I'm going to do about her. You know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, is there a possibility that Luke might have other reasons for not getting in touch with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe there's a reasonable explanation for Luke's behavior."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There better be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's talk a bit about your Aunt Sofie. What has been your reaction to her death?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I keep having these dreams about her--usually, she's hugging me, or she's cooking. But I also had the worst nightmare. She was telling me how my damn truffles were to die for, and when I realized what she said, I woke up in a cold sweat. It scared the hell out of me. I still can't believe that she died on us and on Thanksgiving, too. How am I ever going to be able to enjoy Thanksgiving again? And then there's the truffles. \"To die for,\" that's what she said. \"To die for,\" and then she did. I guess the reality of her death is settling in now, but I still can't believe she's gone. I keep expecting to hear her voice over the phone or to see her walking into the kitchen or something. Even Ralph is pretty broken up about it. I'm going to miss her a lot. She was the only sane person left in my family. And I kind of feel sorry for Rosemarie--my mom is being such a bitch to her. Rosemarie left the family when I was a baby. Now that her mom is dead, she never even got a chance to make up with her, to set things right. And now, my mom is holding a grudge, too. What a fucked-up family I have. But those dreams...well, they're pretty vivid and realistic."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, they don't really bother me...well, not like some dreams I have had. Usually, I feel weird for a little while and then it's over. I miss her, I know I do. Even though I didn't see her every day, I still miss her. I'm glad that she went so peacefully and that she was with us--the people she loved the most--when she died. I guess the reality of it has hit me finally. She was good to me, and I'll miss her for her kindness. Now, if I can just get Rosemarie past my mom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel it's your responsibility?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Huh? Well, no. It's not, really. But she deserves to at least get inside her mother's house. Maybe that way she can make peace with her or something. Mark told me that she left the family when I was small and that she and Larraine never got along--something to do with her brother, Jeff. He's the one I told you about who died from AIDS-related complications. My mom has no right, no right at all! If Rosemarie is going to remain here in San Francisco, she's going to need a place to stay. And if my mom has anything to say about it, that house is just going to sit there empty. Ralph offered Rosemarie the little cottage in back, after his tenant from hell leaves. By the way, Ralph's tenant--the gunslinger--is back. The police confiscated his guns, but he's still crazy. The day he returned, he was drinking again. Can you believe it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When is he going to leave?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ralph gave him an official eviction notice. He has one month to vacate the premises. If he isn't out by the first of the year, then legal eviction proceedings can begin. But he can end up staying there for another three months if he decides to, rent-free even."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "First, you have to serve notice. Then, if the tenant doesn't move--possession is nine-tenths of the law--he can stay for up to ninety days in that place without paying rent while the legal system's rusty old wheels crank away. It isn't any fun being a landlord, and Ralph has put up with it far too long. The guy is a slob and a drunk. I only saw the interior of the place that one time when I put out the garbage can fire, and it smelled something awful and was a total mess. So Ralph and I will have quite a clean up job when he goes. Being a landlord is thankless."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. I hope the guy goes without any trouble."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's all we can hope for. But I think he's going to milk the situation for all it's worth. In the meantime, Ralph is a nervous wreck over it, and I am worried that he's going to burn the place down or something. The more I think about it, the more worried I get."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is something beyond your control, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know and that's why I'm so worried. The guy is a real weirdo, there's no telling what he may do next. With all this shit coming down, it's a wonder that I'm still sleeping, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you are. Do you still take the melatonin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, every night now. It really must be working."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about the running thoughts, do you still have those?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello? Haven't I demonstrated that enough for you already? All this shit--my mom causing shit for Katherine--well, that's been on my mind even before Katherine told me what my mom did. And the stuff about Luke is driving me crazy. I wish I knew what was going on with him. Plus now, Rosemarie is here and my mom is playing games with her...well, like I said, I feel bad for her and all. She seems real nice to me. We had her over the house the other night, and she helped decorate the tree. She said that I remind her of herself when she was my age. We really have hit it off. I like her a lot. But I'm worried about what my mother has in store for her. So yes, the thoughts just keep right on running through my head. But they don't keep me up at night. You know what I'm going to do? Instead of going over to my mom's after I leave here, I think I'll go home and wail on that punching bag. Yeah, that's what I'll do. Fuck my mom. Karma will decide her fate. What goes around, comes around--she'll get hers."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think the punching bag is a better idea, at least for now. But you may still have to face your mom at some point."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean she's going to have to face me at some point! One way or another, she's going to have to deal with me on this. But the punching bag sounds real good right now. Thanks, Doc, for letting me unload all my shit on you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to be here for you. And Alex, try to think things through before acting with haste. You will get much better results if you do. And I encourage you to use that punching bag to get these feelings of anger and frustration out. Now, we're out of time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So, I'm out of here, Man. See you!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Alex. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 72nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, December 16, 1998 at 5:00 pm.\nHey, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Alex. How..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't have to be so nice, you know, especially since you're leaving for such a long time. You did this last year, and I was thinking that things were going to be different this year, but...well, I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's wrong, Alex? Last week, you seemed fine about this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that was last week, dude! This week, I'm not so sure. I didn't have time to think about it when you first told me. But now...well, now I've turned it over and over in my head for a week, along with everything else that's been on my mind. It's frustrating!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's frustrating?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This obsessive-compulsive thing I'm doing lately. I hate it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean by turning things over in your mind?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that's one of the ways that I get obsessive. The other ways in which I obsess are with my bicycle riding and with my baking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, while I ride my bike, I catch myself counting each time I pump the pedals. That's kind of weird, I think. I usually lose track, though, when I get into the high hundreds. The other thing I just realized I do is bake in extraordinarily excessive amounts. This past weekend, I baked eighteen dozen cinnamon rolls for the Alliance Art and Bake Sale--way more than they asked me for. Plus, I baked twelve dozen chocolate chip cookies. I made a bunch of truffles and...oh, baked a bunch of other kinds of cookies, too. I'm so prolific in the kitchen lately, I make Martha Stewart look lazy! Oh, that reminds me. Here's a pack of truffles for you. Merry Christmas!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you, Alex. They look wonderful."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, each time you bite into one, you're going to think of me, and how you left me here like this, and how pissed I am about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You were the one who said you were going to stand by me and help me see all this through. Now what am I going to do?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, I am standing by you. I'm not leaving forever; it's not that long really. You can go and see Doctor Whitestone in the meantime. She's very nice. I was very careful in picking my substitute. It will be all right, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where do you find the time for all this baking? It sounds like it takes both a lot of work and time to do all that you've described."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Why do you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, let me fill you in on what happened since last week, and you'll see why. We had the preliminary hearing with that weird judge. As soon as I saw him, I thought, \"Oh, great!\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? Who is he?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You haven't heard of the guy they call the Style Counsel?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's obsessed with what clothes people wear in his court. He'll look you up and down and sometimes make a comment about your clothes. There was a feature in the Sunday paper about him recently. He's friends with Mayor Willie Brown--figures, huh? The last time I saw this judge was when I beat up that guy about two years ago. I was wearing all black, with my nose ring and my long hair. He didn't like me then. I think he said I looked \"sickly,\" which I probably did. And this time, just like the police, he recognized me! Shit! He knew me by name, instantly. He looked down his nose at me and said, \"Well, Mr. Rozzi, I see you have discovered color for your wardrobe, hmm?\" I was all, \"At least my pants don't hang halfway down my ass looking twenty sizes too big!\" Well, that didn't impress him, but I think I saw a hint of a smile on his face after I said that. Anyway, he's a tough judge. And he decided there is enough evidence against me to hold a trial."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, they're charging me with an aggravated assault with a deadly weapon. Cecil was surprised when the judge said it, I could see that much. Later, Cecil said that the judge was going to make an example of me for being through his court before. He told me to keep my mouth shut from now on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds like a very good advice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Cecil tried to argue my defense--that I only acted after I was abducted and assaulted myself--but it didn't matter. That damn judge has it in for me. Benny was the one who violated the restraining order first by finding me that night. Cecil somehow managed to find two people who saw Benny blocking the sidewalk in front of me when we had our little exchange. Yet Cecil thinks that these witnesses could go either way--they could either help or hurt us. I'm just not sure what he meant by that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You should ask him. The more you know about your situation and the more you understand, the better off you are."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So, it was kind of a surprise to me that they're going to have a trial when everything was so clear to me. I wasn't the one who hurt him. I just terrorized him a bit. On tape. But I didn't do anything other than that. That tape is what did me in. If I hadn't done that, I wouldn't be in so much mess now. The only good thing is that Cecil went to the DA and plea-bargained my charge down from a felony to a misdemeanor assault, which is better for me, I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you going to take it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you going to take the plea bargain?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, my understanding is that the charge is reduced to a misdemeanor only if you plead guilty. If you insist on a trial, they'll try you on the felony charge."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that's important--leave it to you to point out the obvious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The big question is whether I'll get convicted--it's that \"if\" part. Doctor Elgin will testify on my behalf and will show all the evidence he collected for that kit-thing...the rape kit. I'm very lucky to have ran into Katherine that night. If I hadn't seen her then, I would never had gone to a doctor at all. Hell, I wouldn't have even thought about it. Since that night, I've been running like a crazy person--there's so many things to do. And I constantly feel like I have no time to do anything. One minute, I'm happy--I'm happy about the good things in my life, about Luke and Katherine, about Ralph getting better, about all those things that I make me happy. Then, with no warning, I'm on the floor with my head in my hands, down on my knees, crying like a baby. Everything is so confusing. And to top of it all, you're going away!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Alex. Doctor Whitestone..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Save it, Doc! I'm not talking to someone else, okay? No way! I'll be fine, really I will. It's okay. Just go and don't worry about me. I'll get through it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What? All right, I'm sorry. It's just that...well, it's kind of a shock to me that you're really going away. And in case you haven't noticed, I'm kind of having a rough time here lately, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know you are, Alex. But I'll come back. I promise."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, let's not talk about this anymore, okay? The other thing I'm obsessing about is Luke. He's decided to come back earlier than I originally thought."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm going around and around, wondering what I should do. He and I never lived together before, and I was just getting used to being alone at his place. It's not a small place, but it's not big either...well, compared to what I'm used to, that is. I've never lived in a house with less than four bedrooms before. Ralph has four. My mom has five. And Katherine has five, or maybe there's more than that, I can't remember. And now I'm alone in a one-bedroom place, and it's okay. But when Luke gets back, it will be cramped. Plus, I don't even know what he's going to expect from me. And right now, as we speak, he is packing his car and a trailer with his stuff, and he's going to drive back and be here in time for Christmas. I think he's overly-excited, and he's going to come back expecting a lot. And I'm just not sure I can give him a lot, at least right now. Do you see what I mean by things being not so easy?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You should have a conversation with Luke before he arrives. Tell him what you just told me--life is very difficult for you right now, and it's hard for you to make emotional commitments..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've told him that, but we're talking about Luke--when he puts his mind to something, he does it. I know I'm trying to predict the future here, but it's not so good. I know I can go back to Ralph's, but I just don't know right now. Oh, did I tell you what my mother did?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. What did she do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not a bad thing, actually, surprisingly. She sent Katherine a huge, fancy gift basket from Macy's, with a bunch of teas, hot chocolate, and all kinds of stuff. My mother put a card, saying \"Happy Holidays.\" And then she wrote a small note to Katherine, saying something like, \"Thank you for graciously accepting my apology and for being such a good friend to Alex.\" I was all, \"Check all the packages to make sure nothing's been tampered with!\" Katherine just laughed; she thought it surprising that my mother went to such expense and trouble to show her appreciation. I'm still not sure what this is about, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This thing going on with her...it's so surreal. My mother is being nice. Larraine? Nice? So unreal! Is she dying or what? Maybe I should ask her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand your apprehension. You have good reasons. But try to give her a chance, see what develops."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she hasn't really given me any reason to trust her yet. It's just that this is too bizarre. Why is she being nice all of a sudden? I still don't trust her. She can easily go off at any moment, she's such a psycho-bitch! Katherine is even wondering what she's up to, you know? Plus, you should see her. She's been dressing up real nice, not tacky but nice. She's wearing Christmas colors and smiling a lot. She even gave presents to everyone. I don't know, it makes me wonder. My cousin Ethan said to me the other day, \"Your mom is so cool.\" I wanted to punch him for that, but I just looked at him with little daggers in my eyes...little does he know. I've told you about Ethan, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, you've mentioned him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I've become his official tour guide. I just wish I could get him to lose the blue hair and mascara. He's escaping from something in New York, that's why he's here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What makes you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just a feeling. He probably got into some sort of trouble back home and came here to escape. He told me that when I asked him about his father I touched a nerve. He said he doesn't want Rosemarie to know that he had been trying to figure out who his father is because she won't tell him herself. I think now I'm beginning to see what's between my mom and her--they're too much alike. But Ethan plays his mother a little differently than I have. He just pretends that it doesn't really matter, and somehow he usually gets his way. I knew that something was up with that, I just knew it! So I got Ethan involved with the Alliance, and he's helping with the name tags for the big fund-raiser-dinner-party-dance-thing they're having this weekend. He knows calligraphy. Are you going to the fund-raiser?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. I got an invitation, but I'll be out of town then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's pretty expensive from what I've heard. Katherine is involved with it, and they're having it at the Marriott downtown. It's something like two hundred dollars a plate. I can't even imagine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a lot of money."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that will be the day. So I guess I've told you all the things I'm obsessing about. I don't know what to do about them. A lot of it is out of my hands anyway. The trial begins soon. It's going to happen while you're gone. Christmas is going to happen while you're away, too. You sure picked a screwed time to go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, you'll be fine. Just remember to seek out the support you need from the people who care about. Katherine is there for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's busy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And there's Ralph."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's busy, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And it sounds like you have a new friend in Ethan."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, you're reaching, dude."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And things are going fairly well with your mother..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't even go there! Dude, sometimes I can't tell if you are joking or not!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, there may be many things in your life that seem unsure or doubtful right now. But I know you have this natural faith in yourself, and it's that faith that will keep you going. In your darkest moments of doubt or fear, your faith in yourself will pull you through. You'll be fine. And the time will go by in a flash..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, for you, maybe. Well, I guess I should head out now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, happy holidays and please, take care of yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, dude. Uh, you too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you when I return. Here's Doctor Whitestone's card."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, but I've already told you that I'm not talking to anyone else. So you can save your card for the next person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, but if you find that you need her, my answering service can easily..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Well, later, I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex. I'll see you soon."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, okay, dude. Bye!"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 28th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Alex Rozzi, Wednesday, December 17, 1997 at 5:00 pm.\nHello, Alex. What..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't ask. Oh, fuck it! Okay, okay. I sort of got into a fight."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to tell me about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's my mom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your mother gave you that bruise?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not her! Shit! It was all about her and Katherine. See, I punched and punched that bag and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The punching bag, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ha! Ha! You're too funny. Have you ever thought about doing stand-up? Yes, I mean the punching bag. Do you think I would hit my mother? Shit, I wouldn't hit a female; I'd really hurt one if I did. But the punching bag...I punched and wailed and wailed on it, and it still wasn't enough. I couldn't get any of it out of my head, so I started walking around until I found myself at the door. I was putting my key in the hole, and she slammed open the door, scaring the holy-bejesus out of me. And she was like, \"What do you want?\" Well, I told her I knew what she did to Katherine. And then, I tried to warn her that--like the thing with Tony and his parents--it was all going to backfire on her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did she say to that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She started in on me again about Katherine's age. And I was like, \"Hello? I am gay, remember?\" We were both raising our voices, and then Mark got in the middle. And he pushed me back kind of hard, you know? Well, that didn't do anything to help matters, because then I went off big time. I screamed, \"Fuck you\" probably ten times. And the next thing I knew, I was on my ass on the floor--he hit me! Everything was a blur after that. But right now, I am not allowed to go back to the house. Mark has three cracked ribs, and I sort of dislocated his jaw. After all that, I went back to Ralph's and wailed on that bag some more. That's why this hand is bandaged up--I punched for too long with only one glove on and skinned my knuckles. I still feel pretty angry about it--about what that bitch did. She's probably blaming me for everything. Now I'm the bad guy, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Fighting with Mark was not smart, Alex. It wasn't the best way to handle the situation. And you still seem pretty wound up. Have you slept at all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What's that? Sleep? Me? Ha, ha, ha, ha! You missed your calling, Doc. You should've been a comedian."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not joking, Alex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, okay. I'll bite. What did you ask me again? Oh, come on! Why are you looking at me that way?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you slept at all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, yeah. Sorry. Ha, ha, ha! Oh, uh...sorry, I just kind of feel like I'm losing my mind or something. No. I'm not sleeping. Even the melatonin isn't working, and I don't have anymore of those pills you gave me. But it's okay...ha, ha...uh, I don't need to sleep right now. At least I don't feel like I really need to. Even when I went to Carmel last weekend, I couldn't sleep. So I walked along the beach in front of Luke's family's house. You should've seen the humongous waves crashing on the shore, it was awesome! But I don't feel like I lost any sleep. Funny, huh? Ha, ha!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I will write you another prescription for the sleeping pills. I want you to go downstairs after the session and fill it today. Take it tonight. You've got to get some sleep. You're not even able to sit still--your whole body is shaking. And you sound hysterical."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I don't need the medication, I really don't. This will all blow over soon, and then I'll be back to normal. Right now, I just want to run and run--just keep on going, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've got to get some sleep, Alex. Here's the prescription. Fill it today, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I can fill it..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then take it tonight, before you go to bed."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Alex, why are you trying to argue with me about this? You just told me that you feel like you're losing your mind. Need I say more?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, all right. Sometimes, you take everything so seriously. Luke wonders why I wasn't sleeping. Ralph told me that I can punch the punching bag until I drop for all he cares--he really wants me to get this out of my system."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The punching bag is a good idea if it works. But right now, it doesn't seem to be working. Your lack of sleep is probably the reason it isn't working. There are many studies on sleep deprivation..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, you don't have to go citing some stupid study, okay? I just do this sometimes.When things get heavy, I don't sleep. I feel a little light-headed, but other than that I don't feel bad. Actually, I feel pretty good right now. And since Luke has reappeared...well, I'm okay there, too. It's just that with him it's...uh, I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I told you how he stood me up the weekend before last? And then, when we finally did talk, he told me that he had some family business to attend to. And the night he didn't show, he was working and lost track of time. Beylund was right about him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he said that he saw Luke during the week--they did some print work--and Luke was obviously preoccupied. But then Luke showed up at the house Friday night full of affection. He couldn't keep his hands off me! He wanted to go to Carmel. So I went with him, and the thing I noticed after going there for the third time was that his family was nowhere to be found. There were pictures and stuff, but no one was home. It's weird."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where is his family?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, his mother died a few years ago, and his dad has some kind of import business and travels a lot. He has a sister who is away in school in Southern California. He also has an older brother who works in the Middle East. But the only time we go there is when his dad is out of town. I haven't met any of his friends or family. Isn't that weird?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've just explained where they all are. Why does it seem weird to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he has met everyone in my life except for you. He doesn't like to talk about his family. And when I asked him about friends, he told me that modeling kind of limits his ability to have time for friends. Then I saw pictures of him in his uniform--he played football in high school. There was this one picture of him and this girl in a cheerleader outfit, and they looked pretty chummy. When I asked him about it, he quickly changed the subject. It's like he doesn't want to talk about himself too much. Is that normal?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Some people are very private about their personal lives. I'm sure that with time, as the two of you get to know each other more, he'll open up to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Give it some time, Alex. Perhaps it's nothing. And the lack of sleep can generate paranoid..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let's not go back there, okay? I know that eventually I need to get some sleep. But right now, I just can't deal with that. My paintings are becoming more elaborate these days. That's what I've been doing--painting. Late at night, when Ralph is asleep, when the world is asleep, I paint. Katherine's painting is almost done. She picked a strange piece; maybe I'll show it to you when it's done. It surprised me that she chose that one. Ha, ha! Yup! She picked a strange one. It's a guy sitting contemplating with a baby elephant in the background trying to get his attention. I just didn't expect her to choose that one. Oh, yeah. When my mom, Mark, and I were fighting, I told her that Katherine wasn't going to take shit from her and that I gave Katherine permission to use anything to beat my mom down. I thought that maybe threatening her would make her back down. I hope she thinks about what I said. I told Katherine that too--she has my permission to do what she needs to do to get my mom off her back. I bet it would really embarrass my mom if people at work knew that I don't even live with her and that we don't even get along. How does it look when a family doesn't get along? Shit! Even Rosemarie is in on the family act, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she's got herself a lawyer and is contesting Aunt Sofie's will. She wants the house and the trust fund that my uncle set up for her when she was small, before all the trouble between her and Sofie started. I still don't understand everything there. I just don't have all the details. But next week before Christmas, she'll move into Ralph's little unit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The tenant is gone now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, he's gone. I guess I forgot to tell you that. Yeah, Ralph offered to give him back his rent money for the month if he would just pack up and go. And the guy took the money and left. So now he's gone. But the day after he left, the police came looking for him. Ralph didn't know where the guy went, but the police insisted that we contact them if we hear from him. The dude did something real bad--my gut feeling tells me that. My gut instinct told me that he was wrong before, and now the police confirmed it. I wonder what he did. Oh, well. After he was gone, we had a big mess to clean up. Ralph hired this guy to clean and paint the place, it should be all ready by the weekend. So my cousin Rosemarie is going to be my neighbor now. Ralph is way cool, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He does seems to like your family, and he is very generous to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I went out and bought him a couple of real nice cigars, he really loves those. And I'm doing a painting for him for his bedroom or bathroom. It's a guy in overalls standing in a cornfield. The overalls are coming unbuckled, and he wears nothing under the overalls. He's real hot looking--hairy chest and arms, muscular body, and curly blond hair. Ralph doesn't know about it yet, but by Christmas it will be done."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure he will be happy to have one of your paintings."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll bring some work in soon for you to see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd like that, Alex. I'm glad to know that you're using some of your time productively. We're running out of time, and I'd like to remind you to get that prescription filled on your way out. I'm very concerned about the lack of sleep and I hope that you heed my advice and take the medication. I can't emphasize enough how important your rest is to your well being."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know. Ha, ha, ha! Sometimes, you look so totally serious, you know? I don't know what you'd be like if you had kids of your own. You'd probably be a nervous wreck! But those looks on your face are so...see? You're doing it again! Ha, ha! All right already. I'll get the pills, and maybe I'll get to sleep tonight."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Now, next week is Christmas. I will only be seeing patients who absolutely need to come in between Christmas and New Years. Do you want to schedule a session sometime during the next two weeks? Or do you feel okay to wait and come in on January 7th?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No problem, Doc. I'll see you in three weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. But call me if you need to, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right. Later on, Dude."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Alex."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 2nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Claire Steven, Friday, February 27, 1998 at 10:00 am.\nHello, Doctor Balis. I'm so sorry I'm late. I just got caught up in this interview and...Christ, the kid asked a million fucking questions. Oh, sorry about the f-word. I'm just totally preoccupied this morning. I feel like my emotional front is about to crumble apart at any minute and I will be an emotional wreck. So, how are you this morning, Doctor Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good morning, Claire. Please, come in, sit down. Why don't we take a minute to relax and calm down a little bit. Good. Now, breathe easy. Close your eyes if you need to. Just relax. Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So, what's on you mind, Claire?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Can I open my eyes?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, of course."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good. I would've felt like an idiot talking to you with my eyes closed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I want you to be comfortable."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It might have worked if were a kitten, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're much calmer now then you were two minutes ago."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose you're right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think made you so hyper today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Stress, I guess. Maybe boredom. I don't really know. Work just blows; it's not what I want to do. I don't like to sit at my desk all day long and talk to eighteen year old kids trying to get jobs that for which they're not qualified. And then, I'm the one that has to tell them that they don't have a chance in hell of getting the job. The few that do make it to the next level are smart enough to know that the job they get might make them my boss. It's just not fun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not that easy to look for something that I would like to do. Did you always know that you were going to be a therapist?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd say that I was always pulled in that direction."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You see? You were pulled to it. I have nothing pulling me except unemployment. I'm twenty-two years old, and I don't know what I want to be when I grow up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There are a lot of people who are twenty-two years old that don't really know what they want to do yet."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but how many of them don't want to have sex?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Excuse me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, it's a bit of a non sequitur."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, I think there are a lot more twenty-two year olds than you'd think that have some sexual problems. But, I don't think sex is your main problem, Claire. You may not want to have sex as often as your husband, but you are not uninterested in sex."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's true. So you think it's something else?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, maybe it's something deeper than just a lack of interest in sex. What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it could be some deep-rooted psychological problems. I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were talking about interviewing kids that might become your own boss..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's just it. I was the one that was supposed to become the boss. I was the one that was going to become a CEO. My brother was never hounded about his grades. But if I received something below B+ on my report card, I had to do yard work for the entire summer. If it happened during the Christmas break, I had to open my gifts last while everyone else was eating breakfast in the kitchen. And I only got half of what my parents actually bought for me. They returned the rest because I didn't deserve it--Santa doesn't like children who don't give it their all. My brother was a D student. He almost didn't graduate from high school. Yet, he got everything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was he pressured in other ways?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, maybe. But it doesn't matter anymore. Kenny died when I was seven. He was nineteen. His buddy and he were out messing around one night, and some cops pulled them over. I was always told that the cops just opened fire on the car. Kenny was shot once through the right eye and was killed instantly. My parents always said the boys didn't do anything. But they never once did anything to right the wrong that was done to their son. Later, when I got into high school, I found out the truth. Kenny was into stealing car stereos and stuff like that. One night, they stole a car, and the cops pulled them over for a routine traffic stop. Kenny's friend pulled a gun, as the cop stepped up to the car. He shot the cop in the arm or something. Then the cop pulled out his gun and opened fire. The first shot caught Kenny in the head. The other kid was shot four times in the chest and neck. He died three days later in the ICU."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Claire. How did your parents take it? Ms. Steven. Mom was a mess. But dad just acted like nothing happened. I, on the other hand, get smothered. I couldn't do anything without my mom wanting to know where I was every second of the day. She used to call the school and talk to me just to make sure I made it there all right. Dad pretty much ignored me until report card day came along. Then, I was usually punished for not receiving all A's or whatever. I think they resented me for being there, for making them have to worry about me, too. That's why I did nothing in high school. If I ever failed to come home when I was told, my father would go crazy. Mom called all of my friends in hysterics sobbing when I was just five minutes late. They made me afraid to live, so I didn't do anything. They told me when and what I could do. It was like a prison.\nHmm. It sounds like you had a difficult time as a child."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't easy. They meant well, and they still do. It's just that I know I somehow let them down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you feel that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, here we go again. I know where you are coming from, Doctor Balis--that everyone feels that way. But it doesn't make it feel any better. I still feel like a loser."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your low self-esteem could easily spring from the effects on your parents when your brother died. I think if we use our therapy sessions to build your self-confidence, you might find that your sexual problem resolves itself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And if they don't?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't we try? We can evaluate if therapy is working for you in a couple of weeks. How does that sound?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it's too early to judge, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would like to see you every week, if that's possible."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I can do that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Does this time work for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's fine. Thank you, Doctor. I really hope therapy works for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it will, Claire, if you put yourself into it. I'll see you next Friday."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 1st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Claire Steven, Monday, December 8, 1997 at 10:00 am.\nDoctor Balis? Thank you for seeing me on such short notice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ms. Steven, I presume? Please come on in, sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I don't really know what took me so long to come and see you, considering."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Considering what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, please call me Claire. Ms. Steven is my mother-in-law, and God forbid...it doesn't take you long to jump into things."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Our time is all too short. Now, what were you going to say, Claire?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I meant considering how long I've had this problem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Claire? Here are some tissues. Can you tell me why you're crying? What are you feeling?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I've just been like this lately. My family is passing it off as PMS, but that's not it. They just don't understand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you noticed an association between crying and menstruation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'm just kind of bitchy, I guess. I've been bitchy a lot lately. I don't really know what is my problem. I know I just can't live like this anymore. If I don't pull myself out of this soon, my husband is going to leave me and that would kill me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. We're covering a lot of ground, and I'd like to slow it down a bit and find out about yourself and your life first. Does that sound okay? I can tell that you are very nervous and frustrated. Try to relax a bit. You're safe here. Breathe slowly. Good. Now, you're not a San Francisco native, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. I'm...uh, from Indiana. I grew up there, not far from Chicago. The area I'm from has many nick names--like \"The Region\"--but I like to call it the \"Armpit of the Nation.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what brought you out to California?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My husband. God! I love him so much. He is the only thing holding me together right now. He's the best thing that ever happened to me in my whole shit-filled life. Oh God, here I go again. I just can't seem to stop crying, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's all right, Claire. This is a good place to cry."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Christ, if I hear that one more time, I think I'll slit my wrists."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Claire, try to relax. Have you been thinking of suicide recently?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Weed-out classes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure you're familiar with the format--large class, no access to the professor, and extremely difficult to pass. Only about a third to a half of the original class remains at the end. They were set up to weed-out those people who weren't really interested in that field. Higher level classes were smaller and more individual. And the profs seemed to care more about their students because they remained in that major. Anyway, Aaron was a senior and these large classes didn't mean anything to him. So I knew that he was there just for me. After a while, I decided to go out to dinner with him. He was a pure gentleman. And the next day, I broke off my other relationship--which didn't seem to bother him too much. And, like they say, the rest was history. Aaron and I got married during the Christmas break of my junior year. Mom and dad were not too happy, but they got over it. Aaron had already graduated and was working for the university while I finished school. I graduated this past May, and in June we moved here. Aaron has a degree in finance and wants to start an accounting firm here, so we moved. Things were not going quite as we planned, so I had to get a job here at SII. I work in Human Resources. I basically set up interviews with prospective employees and conduct the first ones. If they are qualified and seem like sensible people, I set up a second interview with whatever department they are trying to get in. I have a lot of contact with the heads of all the departments at SII. I really don't know how I got the job, but I like it. It's just that I don't like who I am as a person. I don't like the way I look. Although Aaron tells me every chance he gets just how beautiful I am, but he is supposed to tell me that--he's my husband, for Christ's sake."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does your husband know how you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. He doesn't know I am here, though. He knows that I've been very down lately, but I'm not sure he realizes just how bad it is. I know he is frustrated with me in one respect, though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what would that be?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I haven't been interested in having sex. It's not that I don't want to have sex with him, it's that I just don't want to have sex. So I need to learn to like it before he decides to leave me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Let me ask you, did you come here today expecting to learn some trick that would help you appreciate sex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I guess I did come in here expecting you to give me an answer today. But I'm willing to work with you for as long as it takes--I'm getting desperate."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad you're willing to commit to working with me, because therapy is work. I believe that with time we could improve your situation and raise your libido. Now let me ask you another question. Was there ever a time in your life when sex was fun for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, never. I thought that after I got married, everything would fall into place. But after our wedding night, I knew there was a problem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Aaron was very gentle and loving towards me. He was soft and caring. I was very nervous. I didn't want to do it, but I didn't tell him. Right in the middle of it, I burst into tears. Aaron thought he was hurting me, so he instantly stopped and just held me telling me that he loved me and everything would be all right. I felt horrible. I knew from that moment that sex was something that was going to be a problem in our relationship. We've been married for almost two years, and I still..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take a deep breath, Claire. Good. Do you have sexual relations with your husband at all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, we have sex. But I'm sure it's not enough to please him. There are times when I'm in the mood, but those are few and far between. During those times, I enjoy sex. But then afterwards, for some reason, I feel guilty...or dirty. Aaron is very good in bed. But since I turn him down so much, I feel that he believes that I don't find him attractive. And that can't be further from the truth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How often do you have sex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe once or twice a month, sometimes less."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Do you believe that your husband has been unfaithful to you at any time during your relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not at all. We've had our little spats about it, but he has never threatened me with an affair. He is very supportive, and he believes that there is something in my past that causes me to feel this way. He has been wanting me to see someone for a long time now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What finally made you come in?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My mother. I talked about this with her, and she said that I needed to work this out before Aaron decides to leave me. I never thought Aaron would leave me until my mother said he might. I need to do something. I can't lose my husband."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like your husband believes that there's a problem as well. After just one hour together, Claire, I don't have enough information to tell you whether your problems are purely emotional in nature, or if there's a physical component to your aversion to sex. Hopefully, we can figure this out over the course of therapy. And I might want you to consult with a gynecologist as well. But perhaps I can suggest something."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, Doctor, please. I'm a desperate woman."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There's a difference between being intimate and having intercourse. It's obvious that intercourse is making you so uncomfortable that you lose your ability to be intimate with your husband."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never thought of it that way, but I guess that's true."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't you try setting up situations that are romantic and lead to intimacy. You can negotiate with your husband beforehand to avoid the possibility of having sex during such an encounter. This way, you won't get stressed over that issue and might fully enjoy the company of your husband and allow him to get close to you. This is not a solution, but it might help. I would also suggest that you tell your husband that you're seeking professional help. That would help him see just how serious you are about trying to restore sexual relations between the two of you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That sounds like something I can do. Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Our time is running out , Claire, but I'd like you to keep a journal if at all possible about your feelings. You can write down anything; it doesn't have to be about sex. You can show me the journal or not, as you choose. I'd like you to get into the habit of recording some of your thoughts--it'll be helpful to you later as we spend more time together."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll try."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, our time is up. Does Monday at ten work for you in general?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Monday's fine, but I don't think I'll be able to make it every week. Can we meet every other week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's fine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. I'll see you next time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, we're getting into the holidays. I know it's weird to start therapy and then have to put it on hold for so long, but two weeks from now is the 22nd of December. I'm going to be here during that week, but I'm just seeing patients who are in crisis that week and the next. So let's make our next session two weeks after that. That'll be Monday, January 5th at ten. Does that work for you Claire?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess so. I'm pretty busy over the holidays anyway. I'll think about what you said about intimacy, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Goodbye, Claire. I'll see you in January."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Call between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Claire Steven, Wednesday, February 18, 1998 at 2:00 pm.\nThis is Doctor Balis, may I help you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor. This is Claire. Claire Steven."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, yes. How are you, Ms. Steven?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't really sound like you remember me, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "On the contrary, I was actually just looking over your file and was contemplating on whether I should give you a call. But you beat me to it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I must say that I'm rather relieved that you remember me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, because I feel pretty silly. I kind of disappeared and all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You would be amazed at the number of patients that simply vanish. I've been in practice long enough now not to take it personally."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it wasn't you. After our session, I just felt like such a loser. I thought, \"Why in the world would this man want to hear about all my sexual problems?\" I mean surely you have better things and bigger problems with other patients to worry about than whether I'm getting it at home. I felt...oh, I don't know...stupid, for lack of a better word."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Many people have apprehensions about seeing a therapist. It's normal to feel somewhat ashamed to open up to a stranger. But I believe it's better to talk about personal problems than to keep them bottled up. And it's common to feel that one's problems are not important enough to warrant a therapist's attention. I'm constantly amazed that patients feel that they have to have entertaining problems. That's not what it's about at all. Problems are always serious and I'm here to help. I hope that I'm making you feel a little more comfortable. You sound a little nervous."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I do. You have a very calming voice, though. Do they teach you that in school?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think I talk this way all the time. This is not a professional voice, if that's what you mean."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, whatever the case, I like it and find it very relaxing. Look at me, I'm avoiding the purpose of my telephone call."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What can I do for you, Claire?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would like to set up a time so that I can resume my sessions."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would be happy to meet with you again, Claire. When can you come in?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How about some time Friday of next week, I believe that would be the 27th."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That would be fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's great. I'll..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, is something on your mind, Claire?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I've been pretty much the same since I saw you last. But tension is beginning to build between Aaron and I. I don't think it's all about sex. Actually, I've been a little horn-dog lately, and it's Aaron who is turning me down...well, not everytime, but he has turned me down. I'm almost afraid that because I turned him down so much in the past, he is afraid that he won't be able to satisfy me. I don't ask for sex often, and when I do he usually knows not to reject me--he may not get it again for a while. But he has been under quite a bit of stress lately, and I can understand that he just may not be in the mood sometimes. Hell, I know what it's like to not be in the mood."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Do you go through periods of time when you want to have sex a lot followed by periods when sex never crosses your mind?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, sex is pretty much always on my mind. However, I don't think it is on my mind the way you suggest. I'm always trying to get myself in the mood for Aaron. I want him to enjoy me, and I want to enjoy him. So I'm always trying to think of ways to excite myself to try and bring out those urges. So to answer your question, I have short periods--like a day or two--when I don't have to try very hard to get interested in sex. But it seems that there are many more days in between, when it is very difficult if not impossible to bring myself to that state. Do you understand?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I do. If you don't mind my asking, when was the last time you and Aaron had sex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Last night. It was very disappointing. I wanted it, Aaron didn't. I think he just did it because he was afraid that I would slip into my down times. He wasn't into it at all. It added a little tension to the evening. I'm going to work on him again tonight. What is it, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The last time I talked to you, you sounded like you were afraid of never having sex again. And now you're telling me how Aaron is the one who is not interested."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. It's good to hear from you, Claire. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, well...it's time to fix me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have a good week, Claire."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor Balis."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 2nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, January 5, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nGood afternoon, Olivia. You look rested."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi there. Yeah, no more circles under my eyes. Well, they're almost all gone, anyway. That Melatonin has been knocking me out night after night. It must be making me sleep really deep, too. I've been dreaming a lot more lately, more than probably ever before in my life!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good dreams or bad dreams?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I knew you'd ask that! Actually, I can't remember the dreams, I just remember that I had them. I usually wake up with a good feeling, though. If they were bad dreams, I think I'd be able to feel it when I woke up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad the Melatonin is helping. Have you tried sleeping without using the Melatonin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I did last night. It took me a while longer to fall asleep, but I was able to do it and I wasn't up all night. I'm going to keep trying to sleep on my own, but I'll use the Melatonin if I need it. Thanks for telling me about it; it's been great for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I'm glad it worked for you. Have you given any more thought to getting a restraining order?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have. But I just don't know how to go about doing something like that in Denmark."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Excuse me? Denmark?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, okay. Don't look at me like that. I know, I know--I should have mentioned that to begin with but...well, everyone gives me these weird looks when I mention how much of a computer geek I really am. You know, Doc, if your eyebrows go up much further, you'll never have to worry about a receding hairline."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No one really seems to think that online stalking is real. My friends think I should just ignore it. But it's scary and really creepy. Jonas has learned quite a bit about me that I never told him. And the things I have told him, he's used to learn even more. I'm scared of this guy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The tissues are on the table."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. Look at me--I'm trembling. You know, nothing has ever bugged me like this. But this guy...he just makes me shudder."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What things have you told him about yourself that he is using against you now, Olivia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I met Jonas online, and we started chatting. We had some similar interests. It seemed that he found me to be completely intriguing. To him everything I said was witty, intelligent, wise, blah, blah, blah. Now that I look back, I can see he was just buttering me up. I'm normally very cautious when I'm online--you never know who is on the other end. I never give out personal info. If he had hounded me for info, I would have clammed up and shut him out. But he didn't. He mentioned once or twice how nice it would be to hear my voice. After I felt like I knew him pretty well and didn't consider him a psycho--boy, was I wrong--I told him he could call me. Since I didn't want him to be able to find out where I live, I gave him my work number. I know I could have called him, but I figured that he could foot the bill a few times first. Just before he started getting all mushy on me, he called and got my voice mail. My message gives my name and the company name. He put two and two together and came up with Daddy-dearest. He asked me about it and was amused at how Daddy's little girl was trying to be so fiercely independent--as he put it--while working for Daddy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. So not only does he have your work phone number, but he knows where you work, and he knows that your father owns the company you work for. Do you think he might try to extort money from your father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think so. I don't have skeletons in my closet...well, besides this one. And this isn't even a big skeleton. It's just something I'd rather not broadcast."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it that he feels he can gain by hounding you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Me. I guess he thinks I'll see the error of my ways, realize what a wonderful man he is, and go flying into his arms. No need to worry about that, Doc, I can see him for what he really is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And that is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's selfish, insecure, and immature. He's also evil and conniving. He told a friend of mine--an online friend--that he got on a plane and flew all the way to New York before he realized that I would probably have his butt hauled to jail if he came near me. She said he was very depressed and that all he wanted was to be near me. He told her that he didn't care if I didn't love him back, that just being part of my life would be enough for him. On top of everything, he told me that he's married. To be honest, I don't know what to believe. The only thing I've been able to verify about him is that he lives in Denmark and works for a University. He is a professor. I checked with the phone operator to verify the country of the phone number he gave me, and she said that it was Denmark. Then, I checked the Internet to see if the university has an online presence. It does, and it even has a directory of all of their professors. I was able to verify that he does work at the University of Denmark and that he does work in the department he told me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you planning to do with this information, Olivia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Information is power. It means that I have something to hold over him. I have told him to quit e-mailing me. I contacted my ISP--Internet Service Provider--and told them what was going on. They will put a filter to block his e-mails to me. If he changes his e-mail address, he can still e-mail me, but at least my ISP knows what's going on. Their abuse department takes these things seriously. Since he uses his university e-mail address to e-mail me, I'll contact them as well if I need to. But I'd rather hold onto that ace."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He loves his job and is hoping to get a tenure. If they find out he's abusing their facilities in this way, I'm sure it wouldn't go over well for him. Doc, I don't want to hurt him. I just want him to leave me alone. I've configured my IRC client so that he is on \"ignore\" status and can't talk to me. I've blocked him out of e-mailing me. I think things are going to be okay now. But I'm still worried."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you have closed those avenues of communication..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He still has my work number, so that's a problem. He knows where I work and can probably find my work e-mail address if he's clever enough. He can also call my father directly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's look at each of these things objectively. Yes, he has your work phone number. It doesn't seem likely that the whole company will change their phone numbers just to keep this man from calling you. So that's not an option. As for your e-mail address, try to see if they can filter him out there as well--block him before he even has the chance to get through."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But if I can't stop him from calling me, I can't stop him from calling my father!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Correct."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just hate feeling like I'm at his mercy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has he ever threatened to call your father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, no. So, I guess I'm worrying over nothing. I know this is rather trivial compared to the schizos and people with multiple personality disorders you probably see, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thanks a lot, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But this is real to me, and I'm frightened. For once, I'd like someone to take me seriously, you know? I'm sick and tired of being this simple-minded showpiece that performs on command, speaks when spoken to, and wears pretty pink bows in her hair. I'm smart, and intelligent, and I'm independent, damn it! I don't need you to trivialize my life, too!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, please come back in and sit down. I think psychological manipulation and torment is very serious. So let's continue."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I need to cool down. I don't know if I'll be back or not. It really sucks to be minimized, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like you might have some issues with your fath..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My life is real and so are the things that happen to me! They might not seem significant enough to warrant media attention, but they are important to me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Olivia, I respect your desire to let your temper cool before continuing with our conversation. But I would like to work through this with you and not let this go until our next session. So please sit down. I apologize if I gave you the impression that your situation is insignificant. I do want to help you work through this, Olivia. Let's give it a chance."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry for screaming at you like that, Doctor Balis. But I'd just like to go home now, if you don't mind. What a scene I've made here. Please, I just want to get out and clear my head. I'll be back next week, and we can talk then, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. But I'll be out of town for the next few weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Then I'll call."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Please call me if you need to. Our next session will be Monday, January 26th at 4 pm. And I can always be reached in an emergency. Also, a doctor will be covering for me while I'm out of town."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, Doc. Again, I'm sorry for being so crazy a second ago. I usually don't lose control like that. I'll see you later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Olivia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 3rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, January 26, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Doctor Balis. It's good to see you again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, please come in. I'm glad to see that you've come back. Frankly, I was worried after our last session. Please, come in and sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I'm so sorry about our last session. I was just...well, I guess I'm a bit sensitive to how people perceive me. Tissue paper feelings and all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's quite all right, Olivia. And again, I do apologize if I somehow gave you the impression that I thought your problem was not serious. But walking out is not acceptable."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I understand. It was terribly rude of me and not helpful at all. Now I know you weren't making light of things and I just took things wrong. Well, Jonas won't bother me anymore anyway. I'm pretty sure he won't. And that was why I was here--to get your help understanding him. So I'm pretty pleased to see that we've accomplished what we set out to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. I'd be interested in hearing what happened with Jonas."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's been arrested. He's a really bad computer hacker from what I hear. I don't know all the details nor do I care to hear it all. I'm just glad that he's not going to be bothering me anymore."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you find all this out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I got online the day after our last session and was immediately bombarded with people sending me e-mail messages about Jonas. There are various versions of the story, but the bottom line is that he was caught hacking into a server. Evidently, he was posting pirated software and software license numbers. From what I've heard, someone alerted software police or something and his ISP about this. First, his home account was canceled. Then, he was arrested. I called the university and pretended that I was a reporter. I asked a lot of pointed questions and was told that he's on an extended sabbatical and his return was unknown at this time. I e-mailed the abuse desk at his ISP and was told that they had been monitoring his actions and that his account had been terminated for violation of their Terms of Service. I don't know what kind of punishment he's looking at in Denmark, but in the US they usually forbid convicted hackers to use computers as part of their punishment."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. I'd expect you to be happier with him out of your life and unable to harm you. But you don't seem all that relieved."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah...well, I have other things on my mind--good things, splendid things, yummy things!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Such as?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I managed a major coup while you were on vacation! Speaking of which, how was your vacation?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Quite relaxing, thank you. What was your coup?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been thinking a lot about getting out from under my father's thumb, personally and professionally. I started looking for a new job a couple months ago, but I was very picky about the ones I considered. I did my homework and came to the conclusion that Silicon Impressions was the best place to go. That is also how I found you. I did some snooping and found out that you were covered under their insurance plan. That was why I chose you. My father was bugging me about the bags under my eyes, and always being late to work, and being so tired, so I decided to appease him. In the process, I was allowing him to think he had more control. But actually, I was setting things up to take as much control away from him as possible."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So after our last session, I had a phone message at home from Vince Martinelli asking me to call him as soon as possible. I did, and he offered me a job! I'm in this group called Marketing Imagery. We come up with the logos and fonts and color schemes for all of SII's products. We set up guidelines on how a certain logo should look in color, reverse color, black and white, reverse black and white, and what fonts to use when the first choice font isn't available...all those things. We create the press packs. We work with the legal department to make sure we have everything properly licensed and trademarked. And we work with the graphic designers who come up with the logos. It's really a neat department."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did your father take the news of your new job?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not too well, and that's an understatement. He's beside himself. I turned in my notice the day after our last session. But since I had so much vacation time built up, I started working for SII immediately and took my two weeks notice at Stillwell as vacation. Essentially, I got double pay. I knew that if I worked my last two weeks, he'd be on me like white on rice. He would wear me down and make me give up my new job."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Didn't leaving on such short notice put your co-workers in a jam?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nope. I've been anticipating leaving for several months, so I made sure that I was always up to date on all my work. I even created procedure documents for everything that I do, so the next person just has to follow the steps. I've planned this for a while, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "While I understand your desire for more independence from your father, I hope this hasn't created a permanent rift between the two of you. Are you speaking to each other?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A little. It's still a bit strained. He's shocked that I ventured out on my own like I did, and I guess it hurt his pride a bit. I didn't do it to be spiteful or to make him look bad; I just had to have some breathing space and to know that I can do things on my own. He has always had such a watchful eye on me, and it's a smothering feeling at times."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Parents have a tendency to be protective of their children, Olivia. That's part of the child-rearing process."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a horrible story! And it sounds like your adopted father took a lot of responsibility onto himself. What did his family think about all this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They were in complete shock when Eric offered to marry Melissa, let alone when he adopted me after she died. They just couldn't fathom his guilt. They also thought he'd never be successful or be able to get ahead in life with a baby and no wife. I found a letter at their house once. Eric sent it to them shortly after he adopted me. He told them that even if they couldn't understand why he felt so responsible to Melissa's family, he hoped that with time they would try to accept me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And did they?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I really don't know. They lived back east, and we hardly ever saw them. They both passed away when I was in elementary school, so I never really knew them. Sometimes I feel like my father is trying so hard to protect me because he wasn't able to protect my mother."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem rather dispassionate about all this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I can see why he is so protective and, in a way, I guess I understand it. But I'm on the receiving end of this, and it's hard not to be resentful or angry at the smothering."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay for your father to express his wishes and desires for your life. And while you don't have to do what he wants, it's okay to hear him out. Do you agree?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, that's true. But he becomes so adamant about things sometimes. It's hard to say no to him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How about \"maybe?\" Saying \"maybe\" doesn't mean yes or no. \"Maybe\" could give you an opportunity to decide for yourself while relieving some of the immediate pressure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I use \"maybe\" a lot and then just don't tell him that the answer is really \"no.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Communication is very important, Olivia. If your decision is not to take his advice on something, try explaining your reasons to him. He just might surprise you and accept your decision. You're obviously not a child anymore, but maybe he needs some help cutting the strings."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's no understatement, Doc! Now with my new job, he has even less control, and it's just bugging him something fierce. I think I'm going to make a dinner date with him every week and see if that helps cool him down a bit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that's a wise decision. I don't get the impression that you want to exclude your father from your life. It sounds like you just want to lessen his impact on your decisions. He may be feeling alienated by you right now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He needs a woman. I've been checking out some of the women at work to see who is single and decent."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Playing Cupid can be a dangerous game, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I'm not real obvious about it. I've set him up before with my teachers, my friends' mothers and stuff. It's helped take the pressure off me for a while. Don't get me wrong, I want to see him happy. My matchmaking isn't entirely selfish."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I still advise caution. Love isn't something that can be forced or manipulated."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll be good; I'll be good! But if he won't fish off of his own company's pier, I'll just introduce him to my company's pier. Arranged meetings aren't bad. If nothing happens, nothing happens. I don't send love letters to them and sign them from my father! It's all innocent. I just arrange the first meeting and let nature take its course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just be careful, Olivia, okay? It looks like our time is almost up. Before we go, however, I'd like you to consider keeping a journal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like \"Dear Diary?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not necessarily. Just someplace you jot down your thoughts, feelings, doodles, or anything that comes to mind. You don't have to show it to me, if you don't want to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll think about it. I'm doing so much writing at work that it might feel like a chore. But I'll think about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Will your new job permit you to keep the same appointment time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yup! I go in early and leave early, so it's no big deal. Our group is really informal. As long as we get our stuff done, everyone's happy. I'll see you next week, Doc!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds good, Olivia. Have a good week."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 4th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, February 2, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Olivia. It's good to see you again."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi ya, Doc, sorry I'm late. Whoops! Sorry about that! I normally don't trip all over furniture. For what it's worth, I normally don't twirl into someone's office, either. I'm just absolutely giddy about life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's wonderful. What's been happening..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No need to ask, Doctor. I'm dying to tell you all about everything. My new job is fabulous; I absolutely love it. I've been taking work home on a regular basis and cutting down on my time in the office. My boss, Vince, is really cool about that stuff. And get this--yesterday, I had lunch with some of the secretaries and boy did I get an earful! I told you last week that I was going to do some snooping for a chick for my dad, right? Well, I casually asked the girls if they knew of anyone I could set my father up with. They all burst into peals of laughter and told me that I'd come to the right place for \"office incest.\" My jaw just dropped! Then, I found out what a soap opera SII is! There's one executive woman who was accused of sleeping with a 14-year-old boy and ended up getting the boy's mother fired--the mother worked at SII, too. And one guy is dating a woman here but got their roommate pregnant. That one shocked me. One of the girls tried to tell me that the roommate was really a cousin of the girl who is dating the guy, but I said that was a bit far fetched. But by far, the best one was the nympho who used the guys in her group to get pregnant. I wouldn't have believed that one at all--as a matter of fact, I refused to believe it until they brought out a newspaper article--it made the press. Here, I xeroxed a copy. I didn't think you'd believe me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, when I saw it, I just about passed out. What a hoot this company is. Have I lost you with all of this, Doc?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I'm just a bit surprised at the rumor mill at SII."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's vicious, that's for sure. I know I'll be keeping my personal life to myself. It just cracked me up to hear about all the inner-office dating; who was caught kissing whom on the sofas; who sleeps with whom. What a hoot!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do hope you take it all with a grain of salt, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, yeah...I know better than to believe that it's all 100% true. But there wouldn't be rumors if there weren't some sort of foundation for them. Each rumor has to be based on some sort of fact. I'm pretty sure they are all inflated though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What else has you so happy today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, my boss said that if I keep up my good work, I'd see a reward at my 3-month review. I'm absolutely tingling with excitement."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's wonderful! Does your father share the same excitement?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ugh. I knew we'd be going there today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No need for the dramatic sigh, Olivia. You need to work through your difficulties with your father. He is your father, after all, and a pretty important part of your life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello? Weren't you listening last week, Doc? He's not my father. He's just someone who took over my life and has been trying to make up for his mistake through me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I seriously doubt the situation is as simplistic as you put it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, my father is a nice person. He's very generous; he is very intelligent. He is also overbearing. If he were the father of a friend of mine, we'd probably get along wonderfully. But he's not. So I have to work with what I have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You can't work with what you have by shutting him out. Did you have lunch or dinner with him like you planned?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nope. He hasn't been answering his phone at home. He doesn't return my calls and has been having his secretary play interference for him when I call him at work. Phyllis is usually pretty slick and will...uh, accidentally let me through to him. He must have put the fear of God into her, because she gets off the phone with me as quickly as possible."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That doesn't sound good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not overly worried about it. He was like this when I decided to go to UC Santa Cruz instead of that uppity Mills College. No way was I going to an all girl-school. Ick! He was so furious with me for even applying to another college that he didn't talk to me for a week. Don't worry, Doc. He always comes around."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think this rift will put any permanent strain on your relationship with your father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nah. He's too committed to being the perfect father for any problem to last for very long. Oh, something weird happened this week though. It was really odd. At the time, I thought nothing of it, but now I wonder. At first, I thought my memory was just flaking out on me. But later, I tried really hard to remember and just couldn't, which I think is really odd considering that it was probably such a big event at the time. I mean, kids don't just forget about things like that, you know? Those are the things that make life-long memories."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, what are you talking about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh sorry, Doc! Guess it would help if I brought you in at the beginning of the thought rather than the middle. See, last week, I went over to my father's to pick up some of my stuff--college yearbooks and such. I was going through a box and came across a picture of me. I looked to be about 5 or 6 years old. The picture was taken at an amusement park, but I swear I've never seen the park before. My father happened to be walking by so I asked him when it was taken. He said I was probably too young to remember and stormed up to his den and shut the door."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is it an amusement park near here?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It doesn't look like any amusement park I've seen. It looks like it's all about dinosaurs or something. Maybe it's a theme park, not an amusement park with rides. Oh well, I guess I was just too young to remember. It just struck me as odd."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Memories often return at the oddest times. I wouldn't worry about it, Olivia. It's stored in your brain and could come out at any time. Our time is just about up, but before you leave, I'd like to know your thoughts on the journal that I asked you to consider."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, yeah. I thought about it and I think it would be a good thing for our sessions. The only problem is that I'm so overwhelmed right now. I'd probably never remember to write in it. Then, I'd just start to feel guilty for neglecting something that I'd committed to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This doesn't need to be a daily entry type of journal. It's just a way for you to write down your thoughts, feelings, any drawings...I don't want you to feel pressured to do this; however, I do think it would help you sort out your feelings."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, Doc. I'll see what I can come up with this week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Great, then we'll see each other next Monday."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Have a good week, Doc!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Olivia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 5th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, February 9, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nMy goodness, Olivia! What happened? Are you all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm okay, Doc. Really, it looks worse than it feels...sometimes. I was...uh, mugged."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did this happen?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Friday night. Last week, I was in the legal department talking to this girl, Caren. She introduced me to another \"admin\" there named Stephanie. Stephanie and I really hit it off, so we went out for drinks Friday night. When we left the bar, some guys jumped us and beat us up. Fortunately, other people were leaving the bar and helped fight off the attackers. Someone called the cops, so I spent the night in the emergency room talking to the fuzz."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did the doctors say? Are you on any medication?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, my neck is strained, so I have to wear this brace for a week and monitor how it feels. At first, they thought my nose was broken, but it's not. So aside from bad bruises, I escaped unscathed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wouldn't exactly call it unscathed, Olivia. Was your companion hurt as well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Poor Steffy. They managed to knock out two of her teeth. A fat lip and two less teeth is not a pretty sight. She also has a fractured rib. I'm going to take her some soup tonight and stay with her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do the police think they'll be able to apprehend the suspects?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They hope so, and so do we. No one deserves to hurt like this. But I have my doubts about the cops catching anyone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They kept giving us funny looks and asking weird questions. Like it's so uncommon for two girls to go out for drinks after work. Sheesh! I mean yeah--Steffy is pretty hot, and I'm no eyesore. But jeez! You'd think, living in San Francisco, they wouldn't bat an eye at two chicks going out for drinks, whether or not they are just friends. The damn cops didn't even patrol the area looking for those creeps. They just asked the people in the bar a few questions and took us to the hospital. Well, I don't plan to be unprepared the next time someone decides to use me as a punching bag."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you planning to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I don't know how yet, but I'll be ready. Ooooh. All this excitement is making my neck hurt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry. Can I do something to make you more comfortable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll be all right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Will your injuries keep you from work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nah. Vinnie lets me do a lot of my work at home. He's a pushover, so I'm sure it won't be a problem for a week or so. When I spoke to him this morning, he was really sympathetic. He made a comment about hate crimes being so outrageous in this day and age. That really got my dander up, but I let it slide. If he's willing to let me work from home for a week or two, I'm not about to challenge him on a slip of the tongue. He's a really nice guy. He even offered to bring me some meals and drop off my work so I didn't have to go into the office. I told him that it was really nice but I'd rather come in and get my stuff in the evening when most of the people have left for the day--I don't need people ogling me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did your father react to this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, what he doesn't know won't hurt him, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't necessarily agree with that philosophy. I'm sure he'd be upset to find out about this at some later date..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he's the one who blocked me out for the past few weeks. If he doesn't want to know, I'm not going to volunteer the information."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, I thought you enjoyed having some freedom from your father. That's what getting a job at SII was about, wasn't it? And finding someone for your father to date was about keeping his attention off you. So..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doesn't make much sense, does it? I guess...well, hmm. I guess it's about security."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's nice to have someone care for you. He's taken care of me, and I do love him. No one else wanted me, but he did. He has taken care of me all my life. He is all I have--like it or not--so when he's not there, it really is a punishment for me. Doc, if the only thing in the world you had for a companion was an ugly cat that scratched you and hissed at you most of the time but was always there, you'd miss it if it left. That's kind of how I feel about my father. I don't want him gone completely. I don't want to shut him out, nor do I want to be shut out of his life. I just want a lesser degree of butt-in-ski-ness."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds reasonable, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, what I need right now are a few painkillers. Do you mind if we end a bit early today, Doc?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. Please take it easy, Olivia. And give some thought to breaking through your father's silence. He probably misses you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll think about it. Thanks for letting me out early. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Olivia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 6th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Tuesday, February 17, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Olivia, sorry I'm a little late finishing up with my last patient. You look like you've improved this week. How are you feeling?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Better, much better. Thanks for asking. I've been getting headaches, but the doctor said that will subside once my neck is back to 100% working order. Since most of the bruising is gone, I'm back to work. Unfortunately, staying away from work didn't stop the rumor mill. SII is just thick with grapevines. And I'm sure that making a scene in one of the lounges didn't help either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Last Wednesday, the cops came to SII to see Steffy and me. They picked up a couple of punks and were holding them for questioning. They wanted us to come down and ID the kids, so we did. The whole way down to the station, I was scared to death. I was so afraid that they'd know it was Steffy and I, and that they would come after us again. I know the chances of that happening are slim, but I was still petrified."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's an understandable fear, Olivia. It takes a lot of courage to try to help the police catch these men. So many crimes remain unsolved--some never even get reported--because the victims are scared. You did the right thing, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, once I got there, I calmed down some. Steffy and I did the ID's separately. And, sure enough, we identified the punks that beat the crap out of us. We hung around a bit longer to talk to the cops, to go over our statements, to find out about what happens next. But then another cop came in and called out the other cops. When the first group of cops came back in, they told us that they had to let those little creeps go! I was so furious! I could see the steam shooting out of my ears!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did they let them go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Those punks have diplomatic immunity! Can you freaking believe it? Their parents are diplomats in DC; they are going to school out here and can do whatever the hell they want with no repercussions! Steffy and I just stood there in shock. Then, we saw them walking down the hall together. They were laughing. Laughing! I charged at them, but the cops held me back. I swear I would have torn out their eyes and shoved them in their filthy little mouths! I just wanted to claw their skin off. When we got back to work, Steffy and I were screaming at each other in the lounge. I just started kicking things and throwing things. Steffy punched me in the stomach and told me to chill. Then we both just started sobbing. We just stood there, the room in total disarray, holding each other and crying."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Olivia. You didn't get justice. What do you think makes you the angriest about this whole thing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All of it! Every single stinking part of it. I'm angry that it happened, that we were beat up, that people thought we were gay, that the butt-heads didn't have to pay for what they did, that they were laughing. Laughing..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The tissues are right there on the table. Olivia, let's work on your anger. First, I think it is important to understand what has hurt you. Although it's fairly obvious, let's discuss it anyway, all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, those guys hurt me. They hurt me physically and emotionally. I could have fallen off my bike and been hurt just as much physically. But this is different. I don't feel safe anymore; I'm afraid that someone else is going to prey on me again. I feel like a walking target. And when they laughed, it was like all the air was sucked out of my lungs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think can make you feel well again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I need to feel safe. When I thought that they were going to pay for their crime, it helped. But that's not going to happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They still might be punished, Olivia. Often times, colleges and universities will enforce some kind of punishment for inappropriate behavior, especially when there are legal ramifications involved. And I think that I would get the police to file a report with the State Department. Although these kids can't be prosecuted here in the United States, the State Department may decide to expel them. Maybe you can create a diplomatic incident."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah! Actually, that's a bit comforting. I feel so helpless knowing that they will get away with this and not have to pay for what they did. It seems like they have carte blanche to do this any time they want!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd like you to talk about what happened--how it has affected you and how it makes you feel. I'd also like you to talk about what you feel you need to get past this. And you don't have to just talk to me about this. Talk to your friends, your father, your co-workers, and talk to Steffy. It would make you feel better to release your feelings this way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I don't really like people to know my business."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just think of yourself as a balloon filled with air. Every time you talk about what happened, you will be releasing a bit of your anger, just like releasing air out of the balloon. Talking about it will help take the sting out and help you move closer to overcoming this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I understand. I shouldn't keep it all pent up inside me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's right. It will help you accept what has happened and move forward with your life. Mind you, I'm not advocating becoming obsessed with what happened. Rather, I'd like you to get to the point where you feel comfortable talking about what happened without any undue rage or anger. That will be our goal, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can do that. It does help to talk about it. I like talking to Steffy about it, because she understands how I feel. Steffy is still pretty sore. She's back at work, but it will take a while for her ribs to be completely healed. She's still so shook up about the whole thing. She even went to the woman in charge of security at SII to see if it would be okay to bring a dog to work. Steffy wants to get a guard dog, and she said she plans to take it with her everywhere. I told her that wasn't very practical, but she is insisting on taking the dog to work with her. It should be interesting. SII is pretty accommodating with its employees. I even heard that some of the guys get together and watch porn in the conference rooms after work! Anyway, the company is pretty liberal--with its flexible work hours, work at home situations, and all that--but bringing a dog to work? I'm not so sure how well that will fly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It would make for a very unique work environment."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, Doc, I do feel better. I can breathe, and don't feel so weighted down. I'm still really pissed about everything that has happened, but I can think about other things. Oh, this past week, I was down in the accounting department getting info on the advertising budgets for the different projects. We have to know how much money we can spend. And even though the project manager tells us we can have the moon, we know better and double check everything. Well, anyway, I was down there talking to this really nice guy, Jeff, when his boss came in. Wow, you want to talk about a cold, hard, executive woman! She's all business, let me tell you. Jeff said she's a good boss--fair and helpful and all that. I don't know though. If making the big bucks means you have to have this ultra-bitch persona and be so aloof, I don't think it's something that I want for myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you interested in becoming an executive?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Heck no, Doc! Not yet, anyway. I know I don't want to be a peon at the bottom of the barrel, but I'm not so sure the top of the heap is any better. I must say, though, there's something about that Ms. Lippard that is unique. There was a glimmer in her eye or something. I bet she's a real nice person and just has to be a bitch for work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Some people feel more comfortable in their work environment when the roles of leadership and responsibility are clearly defined."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We are out of time, Olivia. But before you leave, I want you to know that I think you're doing wonderfully. We will work together to get past this anger, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sounds groovy, Doc! See, I'm even snickering and being my old silly self."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Some days will be easier than others, so please keep that in mind. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you, Doc!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Olivia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 7th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, February 23, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nWell, Doc, today we're going to need the couch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Pardon me? And hello, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All hell has broken loose! I never thought I'd do the stereotypical shrink-thing and lay down on a couch, but let me tell you, I just want to sink in and never come back out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I took your advice and told my father what happened. You should have seen the fireworks. You'd have thought they raped me and peeled my skin off from the way he acted. He immediately got on the phone with his attorney. Somehow, they got the names of the creeps who did this, and now my father is planning to sue those punks' parents. He blew his top when he found out that the boys are brothers. I think they are a year apart in school. I'm sure the neighbors heard my father bellowing on the phone with Mr. Bergen, our attorney. He was yelling about attempted manslaughter, pain and suffering, mental anguish, and all this stuff. Uh, I can just see us on the Jerry Springer show now. His face was an odd shade of purple, and he just kept storming around the den, pacing back and forth while muttering to himself. He'd stop every once in a while and bang his fist on the desk. It was a terrible scene. The housekeeper kept checking in on us. Later, she told me that she thought he was going to have a heart attack because his face was so red."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, that was last Monday after our session. I finally got home and tried to sleep. I was up almost the whole night. My mind was just racing. Now that my dad is calling all his attack lawyers, I'm scared that these punks will come after Steffy and me again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't you think that would only bring more attention to their actions and cause more problems for them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, they have a heck of a problem coming their way as it is. My father even called the State Department. He's hounding them to do something about the incident. He said he won't rest until those hoodlums receive justice. He has even threatened to go to the press and make a big scene in the papers about this. I know for a fact that he's spoken with a writer for the Washington Post. Doctor, will you adopt me please? I need a sane father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Now, Olivia..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know--work with what you have. He's become such a freak, though. Doctor, look at my nails--they're all bitten down to the quick. My cuticles are all scabbed from picking at them. I can't concentrate at work. We had a staff meeting last Wednesday, and all I did was doodle. Here, take a look. Vinny kept giving me weird looks, so now I have to worry about my job, too. I'm going insane."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You do seem to be under a lot of stress."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Stressed, uptight, upset, scared, and angry. That's an accurate description, do you agree?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very stressed and very scared. I'm so jumpy. I can't sleep at night because I hear things. Every little bump, creak, or moan of the wind has me curled up in a ball, shivering. But what burns me up the most is that my father never once asked me how I am doing. He just went on this Alpha-rampage and became this Neanderthal man protecting his territory. I don't think he's stopped once to think how this all might turn around and bite him--or more likely me!--in the butt. If he makes all of this public knowledge, then the creeps will know my name and will be able to find me. They might hurt me again. I spent the weekend in my townhouse with the doors all double and triple locked, the curtains pulled, and no lights on. When it got dark, I didn't turn on any lights. I don't answer my phone or my door anymore. I have even been sleeping at work at night, so I don't have to go home after dark. My boss thinks I'm totally loony."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like your fear has really taken over. Let's work on that. You are a victim of a random attack."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They didn't premeditate their attack on you. That means that you are anonymous to them. Although they might remember what you looked like, they don't know your name."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh huh."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Except for seeing you as they left the police station, they have no way of knowing who you are. Doesn't it seem logical that they can't know your name or where you live?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I guess. But Steffy said that they could have followed us when we left the police station and then followed us home when we left work that day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That would take a considerable amount of determination on their part. What reason would they have? They were in no danger of legal recourse because of their diplomatic immunity. It seems to me that they would have nothing to gain by standing outside your office to watch you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I just don't feel safe. Are guns legal in California? Do you know what I would need to do to get a gun?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A gun, Olivia? There are other alternatives available to you besides firearms."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I guess I could get a dog like Steffy did. She tried bringing that monster to work and was escorted out of the building. I'm no authority on dogs, but I think she has a real problem on her hands. She wanted a mean, tough dog, and that's what she has now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What breed did she choose?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A Rottweiler. His name is Chain Saw. She has no idea what she's doing. I think the dog is dangerous."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I've done some checking, too. I've been talking to some rescue groups that handle the adoption of abandoned Rottweilers, and it sounds like Steffy has a poorly socialized dog that is going to hurt someone. She got the dog from a guy who kept Chain Saw chained in his backyard. The dog had almost no socialization. It scares me. Steffy's going to wish she'd listened to me when that dog bites someone. But then, she says that's why she got the dog--she wants it to bite anyone who messed with her. I think she's confusing loyalty with lunacy. She does have a good idea though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, a barking dog is a deterrent to any intruder. It might be worth looking into. It would be better than getting a gun, at least for me it would be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope you plan on doing some research before you make any final decisions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know how I plan things out, Doc. I'll be sure to do some research first. I couldn't imagine making any decisions without thinking through all the possible consequences. I just want to feel safe again. I've even considered moving back in with my father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wouldn't give up my place, but I've considered just staying with him for a bit. I was staying with Steffy for a while, until she got Chain Saw. He growled at me a few times, and I decided that I'd rather be safe than sorry when it comes to bone-crushing power."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Last week, we talked about letting out some of your anger by talking to other people. How is that going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. One day, I spent about an hour in Caren's cube talking about it. I don't think she'd gossip about me, so I felt safe telling her. She told me that people think Steffy and I are lovers. I just snorted at that--as if. Oh, I also called a couple of college friends and ran up a healthy long distance bill. It was good to catch up with them, even if it was to tell them about the horrors of my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think talking about your attack has helped?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A little, I guess. I'm not so much angry as I am scared. Doc, I'm trying so hard to be rational about this and not be paranoid. But sometimes, I get this feeling deep in my gut that I should run screaming and just hide for a few months. I don't like the feeling. Damn, there aren't any tissues left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, there is no need to throw things. Here is a new box. While I encourage you to express yourself freely here, please try not to be destructive."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "God, I'm so sorry, Doc. I'm acting like a brat. I just want to close my eyes and know that when I open them, all this will be gone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "One step at a time; one day at a time, Olivia. You can work through this. I'm going to be here for you and help you. Remember that you can call me anytime you need to talk. If I'm not here, my service can find me. Are you still taking the Melatonin?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Actually, I'm all out and should pick up a new bottle."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just get them downstairs on your way out. I'd like you to start taking them again to help you fall asleep."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. Thanks. I guess our time is up, huh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just about. I want you to try to focus on one day at a time, okay? I know you are worrying about a lot of things and that you're scared. Try to stay focused on each day as it comes. I think doing so will help you relieve some of your anxiety."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll try, Doc. I'll see you next week. And again, I'm sorry I threw that tissue box."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay; it was light. Have a good week, Olivia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 8th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, March 2, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nGood afternoon, Olivia. How are you doing today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Um, I'm okay. It's been a weird day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, how so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it started off when I walked in on a sultry phone call. Talk about weird! I went down to payroll to get some tax stuff straightened out. The admin down there told me to talk to Gary Hindle, and I headed to his office. The door was partly open, so I walked in. Now, I don't have virgin ears, so nothing he said really shocked me. But to hear it coming from someone and then have to talk to him about your paycheck...well, it's just really weird. He was totally embarrassed and kept stuttering and sweating. He kind of gave me the creeps. I was glad to finally get out of his office."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds like an uncomfortable situation for both of you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. At least I didn't burst out laughing. Caren just about fell out of her chair laughing when I told her about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What else happened today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had a reporter call me. It really freaked me out. Evidently, my father has been blabbing to any and every reporter he can find."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Evidently? I thought you were going to move in with your father for a while. Didn't he mention it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, good Lord. I could only handle being there for one night, Doc. He was even more smothering than I remembered. The one night I was there, I couldn't sleep, so I stayed up watching cable all night. He must have came down at least a dozen times to check on me. Finally, I threw a pillow at him, and he finally got the hint. Oh, but wait! I have some juicy news for you, Doc. Remember I told you about the executive at SII who was having an affair with a 14-year-old kid? Well get this, I saw them together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh huh. And man, what a doll he is! No wonder she's rolling in the hay with him. He was carrying out some gifts. I bet they were presents from her for her boy-toy. They were wrapped kind of girly, so maybe not. He looks a lot older than fourteen, so I have a feeling that someone exaggerated on his age."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Rumors are often inflated, Olivia. I wouldn't put too much faith in any of it being true."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh? Hey, do you know these two, Doc?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When have you ever known such an outrageous rumor to be true, Olivia? Just think about the rumors about you and Stephanie being lovers."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nice soft-shoe there, Doc. I see what you mean, though. Oh heck. It's more fun to believe the rumors."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Even when they are so blatantly untrue as those about you and Stephanie?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I can see how people would think that about Steffy and me. We do hang out together a lot, and we do sleep over at each other's houses, and sometimes come in to work wearing each other's clothes. But I figure that if people want to know the truth, they'll just ask."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then I suggest you take your own advice and ask this executive about her supposed affair with the underage son of one of her co-workers."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ouch! Calling the kettle black and all that, eh? The rumors are more fun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is the saying? \"Sometimes, truth is stranger than fiction.\""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ha! No kidding. I found out that an old friend of mine was kicked out by her husband. This was after she suggested that they each have one affair to help spice up their sex lives. Well, he did, and he fell in love. Now, she's at her wits end--no job skills, a small child to care for, and no hope of creating a decent income to support herself and her daughter. And all this after she herself had an affair first and was thinking about leaving him. What a mess."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, let's talk about you, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure, sure. I just thought that this little anecdote fit in well with the flow of our conversation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mentioned earlier about a reporter calling you. Tell me about what is happening with that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's amusing, Olivia. I'm glad that it's not a psychiatrist joke. But you do realize that you're avoiding any discussion relevant to your attack, don't you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't want to talk about it today, Doc. Is that okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't recommend it for the long term, but I think it'll be okay to discuss something else today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, Doc. By the way, I found a chick for my dad. At least, I think she's a possibility. Her name is Barbara, and she's not hard on the eyes, if you know what I mean. I'm going to do some snooping and see if she's attached or anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you meet Barbara?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She works at SII, of course. I saw her in passing and asked Vinny who she was. Vinny grinned and told me her name. When I asked what the big goofy grin was about, he changed the subject. Oh, that's the other weird thing that happened today. Vinny asked me to have a dinner meeting with him tonight. I was pretty shocked. He really took me off guard with that one. Since he said it was a meeting, I said okay. I'm assuming that Brad and Kelly will be there, too. They're the other two people in our group. I got the impression it's one of those Dilbert-Management, team-building types of things."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sometimes it helps morale and productivity to do things outside of the office."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We'll see. I'm not so sure I want to spend my off-time socializing with the people from work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, have you been sleeping well? You seem a bit edgy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doc, that melatonin stuff is not working very well. Besides, I'm not sleepy. I guess I get about 3 or 4 hours of sleep a night. But I'm getting up every couple hours to take the puppy out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You have a puppy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yup! I adopted her Friday night. She's a nine weeks old Rottweiler named Sherman. They found her tied to the mailbox of the animal hospital one morning. She'd been left out all night and was shivering when they brought her in. The vet kept her at the hospital and has had her for about 2 weeks now. She's so cute! She's only eleven pounds. The vet said she's going to gain about ten pounds every month and will be around ninety or a hundred pounds when she's full-grown. I'll bring some pictures in next time to show you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What made you decide to adopt a puppy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you that I'd been talking with a Rottweiler rescue group, right? Well Judy, the woman who runs the rescue, has been giving me lots of information about Rottweilers. I joined an e-mail list about Rotties and have read a ton of books in the past couple weeks. Judy wouldn't let me adopt a Rott from her organization because they don't adopt out guard dogs, only family pets. At first, that irritated me, then I realized that it's her organization and she can do what she wants. I can respect that. We talked about it for a while, and she told me that while Rottweilers are territorial, they are even more social. Lots of times, they become problems, like Chain Saw, when people leave them outside to be guard dogs and don't make them a part of the family. Anyway, I saw an ad in the paper about this puppy and checked it out. The vet said I could adopt Sherman only if I promised to take good care of her, get her spayed, and bring her in for all her shots. I can do that! Besides, if I have the dog from a really young age, she'll bond with me and be more likely to protect me later on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Puppies are a lot of work, as I'm sure you're realizing. I'm glad that you plan on being responsible about this dog, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, even though Sherman is just a teeny little thing, I feel safer having her. When I told my father about Sherman, he laughed. I told him that if someone were to break into my house, I could shout, \"Stop! Or I'll throw my puppy at you!\" Of course, I wouldn't do that, but it was funny to think about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Looks like we are out of time, Olivia. Next week, I'd like to talk some more about your attack and how you are doing, all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll be ready, Doc. Thanks for letting me off the hook this week. I can't come in next week, but I'll see you the week after, okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I guess it's all right, as long as it's not a stalling technique."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no. It's legitimate. Thanks. Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Olivia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 10th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, March 30, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHi, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good afternoon, Olivia. It's good to see you today. I'm sorry you had to cancel your last session."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good to see you, too. Yes, sorry about that. I had an opportunity to take a few days off and get away from the city life, so I took advantage of it. It was really relaxing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My father had booked a few cabins for a weekend excursion with some of the executives from Stillwell Enterprises. It's the type of excursion where executives can get away from the office and family, drink beer, and do manly things on the company tab. Male bonding, I suppose. Unfortunately for them, a big proposal came in, and they had to cancel their trip. They couldn't get a refund on the cabins on such short notice. So Phyllis, dad's secretary, called me and asked if I wanted to use a cabin for an extended weekend. And I was more than willing to relieve them of their burden! Sherman and I had a blast!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Lake Tahoe?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah! God was it fabulous! The snow was just gorgeous. A snowboard camp had just finished the day before I got there, so a lot of people from the camp hung around for the weekend to practice and goof off. I've never snowboarded in my life, but it was so cool to watch some of those guys clown around. You could tell who the serious ones were--you know, the fanatics--and who the vacationers were. Mmm! I just want to hug myself when I think about how much fun it was! I met some really great people, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, this one guy...what a dream! Oh, jeez! That sounded so fifties. But when I looked into his blue eyes, I just wanted to melt. There are beautiful people in this world, and he's one of them. Jordan and I had dinner together a few times. It was so nice to have someone be so considerate and attentive to me. Most guys are like an octopus with tentacles that just want to flail about attacking wherever they can and clinging like a leech. Uh, no offense, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "None taken, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I'm a prude that way, but I've never felt comfortable being that...uh, accommodating."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you dated much?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I've never really been too attracted to anyone in particular. There have been guys that I considered handsome or cute, but none of them really completely appealed to me. Besides, I was too busy earning good grades for my father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was your social life in college? I believe you mentioned previously that you opted for a more liberal school rather than the strict school your father chose for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That was more to peeve him than to party, although a good deal of partying did go on. I was more the \"giggly-drunk\" than the \"mattress-back\" sorority girl. I had a few casual dates, but no relationships. Like I said, no one seems to be able to elicit strong feelings from me. I guess I just haven't met Mr. Right yet. But I sure had a blast up at Lake Tahoe. It reminded me a bit of the carefree partying from school."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It seems that your get away was just what the doctor ordered, as it were."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ha! Funny, Doc. I really needed that break. I was feeling so...so...snowed under lately. See, I can do the puns, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know how avalanching circumstances can make you feel buried. But joking aside, Olivia, please tell me what has you feeling so stressed."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You'd think it was work, but it's not. My workload at the office has actually been exhilarating. It's my father. He's been putting pressure on me to proceed with legal action against the guys that attacked me. Between my father, his attorney, the attorney's associates and secretaries my answering machine is on overload. I'm past the \"maybe\" stage with this. I feel like a trapped animal. Eventually, I'll have to sit down and meet with these people. And don't think that just because I haven't mentioned it that the reporters have given up. There are a few who are holding onto this story for dear life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe Monica Lewinsky can come out with some new tidbit about the President, and all the scum sucking reporters will drop me like a hot potato. Wishful thinking, eh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's been a while since your attack, and the reporters are still interested? Something must be feeding their interest."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Someone. Daddy dearest, who else? He accidentally on purpose let Steffy's name slip, so the reporters swooped down on the other victim. Poor Steffy. She was so confused and surprised that she told them enough to pique their interests further. She's pretty pissed that my father gave them her name. I don't blame her much; I'm in the same boat. Oh, Steffy's going to North Carolina in April and has asked me to go with her. She's going to some Communications Exchange meeting or something and will visit some of her family while out there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's very nice of her."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I'll get to be introduced to her whole family."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Do you think that Steffy may have romantic intentions towards you, Olivia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Pardon me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, is it possible that she is enamored with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What are you talking about?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, it's just a question. I don't know Stephanie, you do. Could she have a romantic interest in you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I see. So you think I'm a....that...that I...this is ludicrous! I don't have to sit here and have you judge me and make these preposterous accusations about my character and personal life. I am not even sexually active, let alone interested in...in....How dare you assume such a thing about me! Really, Doctor Balis. Up until now, I've considered you a rather non-judgemental person, but this is beyond comprehension."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, I'm not making any assumptions or judgments about you. Rather, I'm exploring a possibility regarding someone else's intentions towards you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And what makes you think that I would attract the attention of a..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Lesbian. The word is lesbian, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know what that word is, Doctor. I'm just a bit ruffled at the moment and having a hard time thinking clearly. This revelation of your perspective on me is quite insulting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, this is not an assessment of who you are. Stephanie has become very close to you in the past few months. And I'm glad that you have her friendship. I just wanted to ask you if there was a possibility that she wanted more than friendship from you. And just because someone hasn't came out and pointedly told you the intimate details of their life, doesn't mean that the possibility is not there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But why on earth would you think she was interested in me if you didn't think that I'm....that I'm like that, too?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "One does not imply the other, Olivia. If a gay man was attracted to me, it wouldn't mean that I am gay simply because he desires me. If a heterosexual woman was to fall in love with a homosexual man, what does that say? Simply that we can't always control who we're attracted to. It's nothing more, nothing less."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry to see that I've offended you, Olivia. That was not my intention."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just...I don't know. This is all so...argh!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, in general terms, how do you feel about homosexuality?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you gay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We're not here to talk about me, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So you are. I see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, I'm sensing that you do gave a problem with homosexuality. Right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I...I don't think..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you do, you can tell me. You don't have to worry about how I feel about it or whether I'll judge you based on your feelings about homosexuality. I don't judge my patients' lives, nor do I push my opinions on them. What I want to do here is help you understand who you are."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I don't see any pictures of your wife or children, for example."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, imagine how those pictures might look to a patient who was grieving the loss of a child, for example. Or if I had happy family pictures, might it stifle the honest responses of a young man who was questioning his own sexuality? Can you see how detrimental that might be in therapy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Because I want to help my patients progress in their therapy, I leave my personal life at the door. I'm here as your doctor. I'm not unfeeling, but I try to be as non-judgemental, non-critical, and as neutral as possible."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So, are you gay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not gay, OIivia. This subject is clearly causing you a lot of discomfort. Let's move on. Where in North Carolina will you be visiting?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a suburb of the Raleigh-Durham area. Our plans aren't firm yet. Steffy has been doing some freelance stuff for another company, and they'd like her to attend this function."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Will you attend the conference as well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I think I'll just...um, hang out and stuff. There are some great outlet malls in the Burlington area, so we might go down there. Doc, I have a raging headache. Would you mind if we ended a bit early?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Before you go, Olivia..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's plan to talk about your childhood a bit more next session, okay? I'd like to have a better understanding of your formative years. I'd like you to try to remember some of your earliest memories. It might help to write them down so you can keep track."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh, sure, Doc. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 11th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, April 6, 1998 at 4:00 pm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Olivia. It's good to see you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi, Doc. Here are the memories I came up with. You wanted early childhood, right? I tried to limit it to my earliest memories."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you. I'll take a look at this later. That is a beautiful bouquet of flowers."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 12th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, April 13, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nGood afternoon, Olivia. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Who was that gentleman in the waiting room with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The Big Kahuna, the grand daddy of them all--my father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When he's determined about something, there's no stopping him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's going on, Olivia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He is going to shanghai me into talking to his attorney this evening. He wants me to give an affadivit about what happened on the night of the attack."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And are you reluctant to do so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's an understatement! It's odd. After the attack, I would have done almost anything to see those punks face justice. But I'm over it now, totally over it. I just want to go on with my life, such that it is, and put it all in the past. But my father keeps dredging it up and wants me to tell him all the details. He even hired someone to do a background check on Steffy. He said he doesn't want any \"surprises\" to come out in court, if this ever makes it to a courtroom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He does sound very determined."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And, Doctor, I owe you an apology. You were right. I went totally bananas on you, and there was no call for it. You were so right. Steffy is a...um, lesbian and...uh, she does...um, I mean...she is interested in..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She is interested in more than just a platonic relationship with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Uh, yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did all of this come out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My father showed me his findings on Steffy. Here's a page of it. I was only able to get this last page, but it's enough to give you an idea of what's in the rest of the report."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 13th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, April 27, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nGood afternoon, Olivia. Please have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Happy birthday!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why, thank you, Doc! You remembered."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know--it's in my files. Oh, sorry about last week. With this new product announcement, I had more than my usual load to deal with at work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's okay. I hope you had a chance to celebrate your birthday."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My father and I went out to dinner. Aside from that, my birthday was just another quiet evening at home with Sherman."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds very nice, actually."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did things go with your father and his attorney?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Pretty well. I stood my ground and explained to them why I did not want to go ahead with a lawsuit. Mr. Bergen was pretty pushy about it, but my father called him off when I burst into tears. I just cried and cried. I kept trying to make them understand that a lawsuit wouldn't help me get over this or feel any better about what happened. I think my father finally heard me...I mean really heard what I was saying when it was through tears."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Mm-hmm. Where did things go from there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My father asked Mr. Bergen to give us a few minutes to talk. After Mr. Bergen left, my father asked me why I hadn't told him this sooner. I was absolutely floored. How on earth could he not realize that I did not want to do this? It's not like that was the first time I'd voiced my opinion on the subject. Jeez! How long have I been telling him that I don't want to talk to reporters and that I don't want to deal with the State Department? I don't want to file a civil lawsuit period! Great Gertie-Schmertie! How many times do I have to tell him? So there I was sniffing, dripping, and whining. I'm sure Mr. Bergen thought I was a nut-case."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's good that your father finally understood your feelings about this, Olivia, even if it did take a while."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, there's no doubt now. He was a bit peeved because they had done a lot of preliminary work and it all went down the drain now. After that, we left Mr. Bergen's office and headed over to my house for a long talk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh huh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "By the time we got there, I was furious about everything. I said some pretty harsh things to him. I pretty much let off a lot of steam that had been building up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you tell him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, we started with the attack. His eyes teared up when I told him how much he hurt me the night I told him about the attack. He was really confused, so I spelled it out to him. When he realized that he totally blew off how I felt about the attack and my emotions so that he could go for blood and track down the attackers, he had to sit down and close his eyes for a while. I told him that when he did that, he made me feel like a tarnished trophy. And I told him that it felt like his only concern was getting retribution from the person who damaged his possession."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was his reaction?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said he was sorry and held me tight for a while. He tried to explain, but said that there was no way to justify his behavior."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did his remorse help you feel better?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not at the time. I was too caught up in telling him about all his faults. Upon reflection, it did help to know that he realized how he had hurt me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you continue talking after that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. I launched into what I call my Trophy Complex."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Trophy Complex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Trophy Complex is all about being that perfect daughter on a pedestal. It is always knowing that Daddy will be there to pad each step I take and to make sure the world is perfect for me. It's being afraid to live my life and do the things I want to do for fear of his disapproval. It's always wondering if my life measures up to his expectations of me. Oh, drat! Do you have more tissues, Doctor Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here you go. It seems that you were able to vent a lot that night. How did your father respond?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At first, he was angry and told me that he did not raise me to speak to him in such a disrespectful way. So I...um, I stuck my tongue out at him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Quite mature, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I know. It still makes me laugh when I think about it. Don't bother to try hiding your smile, Doc. It's pretty funny when you think about it. My poor father just blinked a few times. Then I just burst out laughing! He stared at me for a few moments longer, and then he laughed a little, too. Then he suggested that I lay down for a while and that we would discuss all this later when I wasn't so weary. And I told him to quit patronizing me and to treat me like an adult. I swear, Doc, I thought he was going to have a heart attack!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that your pager, Olivia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Oh, wow! It's Jordan. He's in town and wants to meet me for drinks and dinner. Doctor, I know we have a lot to discuss, but can I leave early please? See? I can get messages on my pager. I didn't know he was going to choose an address across town--this is in the outer Sunset. I need to leave now, if I want to meet him on time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. Go ahead, Olivia. Have a good evening."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks a million, Doctor Balis! Thank you, thank you, thank you, and thank you!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Olivia, I'm glad you and your father had that talk. I'm looking forward to hearing more about it next week. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor Balis! See you next week!"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 14th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, May 4, 1998 at 4:00 pm.\nHello, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi there, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem pleased today, Olivia. You're grinning from ear to ear."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Doc, things are really starting to shape up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll start with the good news and move up to the great news. How does that sound?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like a good place to start."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Steffy won't be sued by the parents of the kid that Chain Saw bit. The little boy had a few small scratches and was a bit shaken up, but no serious damage was done. The parents called Steffy at work today to let her know that they would not be pursuing the matter further."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That is good news for Steffy. What happens to her dog now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Steffy had him temperament tested over the weekend. Temperament testing is really neat. Someone interacts with the dog in a variety of circumstances, and based on the dog's responses, they can evaluate how aggressive or submissive the dog is. Well, Chain Saw is definitely an aggressive dog. The animal behaviorist said that unless Steffy is willing to put a lot of time and work into fixing Chain Saw's aggression problems, she should put him down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, bummer. But it would probably be the best thing. They told her that they can't guarantee that he can ever be considered a \"sound\" dog or that they would be able to correct all of his aggression issues. They also warned her that sometimes, the trauma a dog endures at an early age can never be erased. She will probably end up putting him to sleep. The good part in all of this is that the child was not seriously hurt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Steffy is upset about all of this--the bite, the possibly of a legal action, her landlord bearing down on her, and now having to decide whether or not to put Chain Saw to sleep. She was really starting to depend on Chain Saw as a kind of security blanket. She realizes that she needs to do what is best for the greatest number of people--she needs to put him to sleep. I think that she'll probably get another dog. Hopefully, she'll be a bit more judicious about finding the right dog for herself. Anyway..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's the other good news?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I found out who sent all those notes to me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A drum roll please! It was the butler in the kitchen with the candlestick. Just kidding. Brad sent them to me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Isn't Brad the cross-dresser in your group?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. And he's gay on top of that. I was so shocked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, he's a sweetie. And speaking of sweethearts, my father has a girlfriend. Can you believe it? He told me last Tuesday when we went out to dinner for my birthday. I totally forgot to tell you about it last week. My father is seeing some chick he met at a business conference. Her name is Kelly, and she sounds really nice. He even boasted that he found this one without any help from me. He has been dating Kelly since December. He thinks she might be a \"keeper.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did that surprise you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At first, it did. Then I was a little irritated that he didn't tell me about her sooner. But after I thought about it, I realized that he needs to have his life just as much as I need to have mine. The three of us will probably go out this coming weekend. It should be fun. Now for the second best news..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The lawsuit has been officially terminated. Talk about a load off my mind. My father even personally called all the reporters and told them that the story was dead. He also contacted the State Department and told them that we wouldn't be pursuing a civil suit but he hoped that they would act on his official complaint. Looking back, I'm glad that my father made the complaint to the State Department. I think they should be aware of problems even if diplomatic immunity prevents any criminal prosecution."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he bring all of this to a close because of your conversation with him or for some other reasons?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I asked him that, too. He said that he couldn't continue with this if it was hurting me. He felt pretty bad about being so caught up in seeking vengeance that he overlooked what I was going through. I really do believe that he felt that he was doing the right thing for me. It took a lot to get through to him, but in the end, he heard what I was telling him and immediately did what was necessary to make things right with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And the big news, the biggest news of all is sad news, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think my therapy is over, Doc. I originally came here to figure out that creep Jonas, but that's over. And I'm over my attack. So I think it's safe to release me back into society."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't sound too convinced. What's wrong?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There is nothing wrong. I think you're an outgoing, loving person, and basically pretty capable of taking care of yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But I also believe that you still have a few issues that we haven't fully explored and that need work. I'd like to help you with them. But the decision to continue or discontinue therapy is certainly yours, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doc, I'm not a psychopath. I think I'm a pretty well adjusted person. I do like being able to have a sounding board, though. I think you help keep me on track and help keep me focused, you know? Why don't we try this. Let's change the sessions to every other week and see how that works. This way, I could gradually quit. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that's wise. And for your next session, I'd like to you formulate a list of areas that you think you need to work on. I think it would help us both to have an agenda and a goal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I can do that. So, our next appointment will be...."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Monday, May 18th."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, great. I'll see you then, Doc."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Olivia. Have a good week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Couple of weeks."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 15th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, May 18, 1998 at 4:00 pm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good afternoon, Olivia. Please have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi, Doc. Isn't it gorgeous today? Just a few clouds but no rain. I just might try to do some gardening when I get home today. I'd like to have things all nice and tidy before I go on vacation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Vacation? Where are you going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm going to head to the East Coast for a week. Steffy was supposed to go to Washington, D.C. last month for some meeting, but it was postponed. They've rescheduled it for this week. I'll be tagging along with Steffy. It'll be nice to do some sightseeing while she's in her meetings."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, it should be fun. We've been collecting brochures for all the cheesy amusement parks and theme parks we can find in the area. We don't want to limit ourselves to D.C. only."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You might want to visit Luray Caverns. The stalagmites and stalactites are breathtaking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ooh! Thanks for the tip. I haven't told my father that I'll be going to the East Coast yet. I'm not sure how he'd take it considering that...well, considering everything that happened there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Birth, adoption. And with that nice segue, I put together my thoughts on issues that I need help with and my thoughts on them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Why don't we get started then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, first on my list is that people don't seem to take me seriously. I'd like to try and figure out why people don't take me seriously. I want to see if maybe it's something that I do or say, and then I want to try to change that. Mostly, I feel like my father doesn't think I can do things on my own. When I tell him about projects I want to get involved in, he just kind of pats me on the head and sends me on my merry way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that it's only your father who treats you this way or do other people do it as well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. It's mostly my father, but sometimes it's other people, too. When I was in college, people either thought I was stuck up or a complete ditz. But I can't help that I'm a bubbly person, can I?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel that people treat you this way in professional circles?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel pretty good about work. We all work well together and are able to joke around and still tackle the projects effectively. Vinnie lets me work on my own most of the time. I get the feeling that some of the executives are a bit snobby, but I don't think it's a reflection on me personally--it's just a superiority thing, I guess. It was different when I was working for my father in his company. There I really felt like a clod. But my father was the big boss, and people didn't want to give me the benefit of the doubt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree working for SII seems to have improved your sense of self-assurance."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you think? I'm sure it has on some levels. I do have more confidence in my ideas, and I definitely have more conviction when I feel that I'm right about an issue. I think that comes from increased skills as well as a new environment. I've learned a lot about project management, time and task management, organization, and prioritizing work since I started working for Vinnie."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about family, Olivia? You seem to focus on work rather intently but rarely on your family unless it's unavoidable."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well...I mean...I don't really have a family, Doc. My father and I aren't exactly the typical all-American family with two-point-five children, a dog, a cat, and a house with a white picket fence."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want that type of a family?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, who wouldn't? I know that every family is dysfunctional to some degree or another. No one is perfect. But it would be nice to have a mother and a father. I think that if things had been different...well, things aren't different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that it might be worthwhile to talk about your mother and the role she played in your life?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Her role? She's dead, Doc. She doesn't have a role in my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What? Whenever you give me that look, I know what you're thinking. You're thinking that there's more to it. Well, there isn't. I'm not heartbroken. I'm not devastated. I'm not trying to find the meaning of anything. I'm not trying to resolve why she died. It's a fact, and I've accepted it. End of story!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem to be expending a great deal of effort minimizing the impact your mother's death had on your life, Olivia. There's no need to feel defensive; my intent is not to attack you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. It's just...uh. I don't really think about where I came from. It's just easier to deal with things as they come up, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There you go again with that look. I swear! Can we please change the subject?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that this is something we should talk about, Olivia. However, I'd like you to take some time over the next two weeks to really think about your mother. Are there aspects of your life that are affected by her rape and her death? Those were very traumatic events. And I believe they have left an impression on you. I'd like to know what you feel and think about this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not much more than what I've just told you. Okay, okay! I'll think about it. Can we go on now please?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. What else do you have on your agenda, Olivia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Um, I think my dating standards are too high. Or maybe I'm just destined to be an old maid. Maybe I should buy stock in a vibrator company. Oh my God! I can't believe I said that. Oh God. I'm so embarrassed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There's no reason to be embarrassed. Everyone has sexual feelings and desires."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, but...well, that's just a very private thing for me. I...uh, I don't like to discuss things like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's fine. Let's go back to your original point. You said that you were feeling destined to be an old maid. You mentioned in another session that none of the young men you met were able to draw amorous feelings from you. But what about Jordan? How do you feel about him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Jordan is...he's like a dream. It's like he's not real or there's something wrong and I just haven't discovered it yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes, I think he's just too perfect. I like being around him and talking to him. We hold hands a lot and exchange soft kisses, but not much more than that. It's not that I'm looking to jump into bed with him right off the bat or anything, but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you like to develop a deeper relationship with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I might. But I don't know. It's an awful lot of work to go through. And if it doesn't work out in the end..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like you are thinking of a relationship as an investment. Perhaps you should approach it as a learning experience. You can learn how to be vulnerable, how to give yourself to another. You can also learn what you might want in a life-long partner. These are all very important things..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess. I don't know. Maybe I'll be happy spending my life on my own with gentlemen friends from time to time like that one executive. What's her name? Katie or Cathy Lippen or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We're almost out of time, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I think it would be a good idea to continue with therapy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think so, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Can we keep it to every other week? Things are really busy at work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's fine. I'll see you in two weeks. Have a good time on your trip, Olivia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks, Doc! Ta ta!"
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 1st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Olivia Stillwell, Monday, December 15, 1997 at 4:00 pm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good day, Ms. Stillwell. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hi there, Doctor. Please, call me Olivia. I'm a rather informal person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm pleased to meet you, Olivia. So how may I help you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's really my father that you'll be helping. He's so over-protective. He seems to think there must be some deep-seated emotional trauma for me to deal with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I haven't been sleeping too well lately, and even though I live on my own, Daddy still worries--Daddy's little girl and all that. But, I have been feeling a bit stressed, I suppose. When Daddy suggested I see you, I just knew you'd be the answer I needed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Answer?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I need you to do some psychoanalyzing of someone. A stalker."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A stalker. Not you, I hope."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, me! No. I mean...I'm not the stalker. I'm the stalkee, or whatever you call it. I'm being stalked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you contacted..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The cops? No. They can't do anything until a crime has been committed. I just want to get into this guy's head and figure out how to shake him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please start at the beginning and explain to me your relationship with this man."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, we began talking a few months ago. Let's see...it was July or August, I believe. Sometime around there. He said he's thirty two, but I've since learned that he's actually forty five. And he's married. We just talked about stuff in general for a while. Then, out the blue, he said that he loves me and wants to marry me! I was totally shocked! We were just friends, you know? And here he is talking about the big \"forever.\" Okay, so I told him that I thought he was a great guy and all, but I was just not interested. I have my whole life in front of me, and I'm just getting started and all. Well, that's when he got a bit creepy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm, please go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For a week or two, it was like he was in denial or something. He didn't believe me, I guess. I wasn't rude or mean or anything, but I must have told him a zillion ways that there was no chance of us being together. Then, he just disappeared. Poof, gone. Not a peep out of him. I started getting worried. Then, I started getting weird messages from him. He...uh, said that he loved me more than life and that he was trying very hard to accept my refusal of his love. He told me that he was very, very sad--depressed, in fact--and that he hadn't slept for three days. He also had hardly eaten anything and sat in his room with the windows closed. And..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take a moment to breathe, Olivia. Close your eyes and concentrate on breathing a bit."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm okay now. It's just...it still freaks me out, you know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Olivia, let's stop here for a moment. If you're really in danger, you need to alert the authorities. Before you protest, I must stress to you that alerting the authorities could possibly save your life. Even if he hasn't committed a crime yet, you can still get a restraining order against him so that if he ever does come near you, he's breaking the law. Do you think he's likely to do something criminal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he said he tried to kill himself. He drank a lot of vodka, swallowed a lot of Benadryl, smoked some pot, and then tried to hang himself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Well, he didn't secure the rope or something and fell to the floor and hit his head. Then, he just slept it all off. You know I thought he was a decent guy. He seemed kind of stable. But now...jeez! He's like a freak! He's been trying to make me feel guilty, trying to guilt me into being with him. Forget that! I'm not stupid. But he's scaring me. He's...um, mentioned to some of my friends that he plans to show up at my work and beg me to go away with him. I've been getting a lot of hang-up phone calls lately, too. This is constantly on my mind, and I guess it's been stressing me out a bit. Like I said, I haven't been sleeping too well lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It can be very frightening when someone tries to intimidate you into loving them. Do you think that his threats of suicide are emotional blackmail or are they serious?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I hadn't given them that word, but yes. And then threats to show up at my work...sheesh! My dad would freak! I've been working at Stillwell Enterprises for a couple years now, and I'm finally at the point where I've proven to everyone there that I don't have my job because my dad owns the company. Daddy has always considered me his china doll, and the possible repercussion of all of this would send him ballistic!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What repercussion?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the scandal of being involved with a married man, for example, even though I'm not involved with him. And the scare Daddy will get when he finds out I'm being stalked. The gossip at work. Once the initial shock wears off for him, he'll be \"disappointed in my judgment\" and all that stuff. He really does think I'm incapable of making good decisions."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Let's set this matter aside for a moment, Olivia. You've mentioned some anxieties, you said you haven't been sleeping. Tell me a little about that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I'm just really restless. I feel tired. My body gets tired, but my mind isn't sleepy. That sounds kind of weird, but it's the best way I can describe it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Besides for dealing with your stalker, the first thing you and I will do is try to get you to sleep to get some rest. This will relieve some stress on your body and allow you to relax more, which in turn will allow you to deal better with your stalker problem."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I could definitely use the rest. I'd appreciate your help with that, yes. But other than that, I just want to figure out how to get this guy out of my life. But as for other possible therapy issues...I know my feelings. I haven't been abused. I'm not psycho. I just want to get this guy to leave me alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right. How often during the day do you think about this problem, Olivia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Huh? Um...often. A lot. Okay, almost all the time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. From what you told me so far, I don't have a real feel for whether this man is dangerous or not. I suggest that you go to the police and get a restraining order against this man. Get that little device that the phone companies have to identify the caller's number--caller i.d. If you suspect that the hang-up calls that you're getting are form him, you could tell the police about them and they will trace the number and try to deal with it. But you have to get the restraining order."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Restraining order? Won't that get him in trouble?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not like an arrest record. But remember, he shouldn't be bothering you either."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll think about it, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Next, I would like you to pick up some Melatonin in the pharmacy downstairs on your way out. Melatonin is the agent in warm milk that makes you sleepy. It's not addictive and it might help you sleep."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can do that. Oh, my father said he would send you the billing information. Did he?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. I'll send the bills to him. This does not mean that I share any information with him, Olivia. He is only going to be paying the bills. I want you to understand that what you and I discuss here will remain strictly between us unless you give specific permission to do otherwise."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was pretty sure about the confidentiality stuff, but it's nice to hear you say it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't we go ahead and schedule our next session?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would like that. But next week is Christmas, and then there's New Year's Eve..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's schedule a session on the first Monday of 1998. That's January 5th. Does this time work for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, it's fine. Since my dad insisted on therapy, I'm free to take time off during the week to see you. Four in the afternoon is just fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. In the meantime, if something comes up and you want to talk to me, you can call my number and my answering service will contact me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure I won't need to do that, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's just in case. Okay, Olivia. It was very nice to meet you. Have a Merry Christmas. And I'll see in the new year."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. And Merry Christmas to you too."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 1st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Tuesday, September 3, 1996 at 11:30 am.\nGood afternoon, Doctor. I'm Phylis Birch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Ms. Birch. My name is Dr. Balis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Phylis, please."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, Phylis. Please come in. Won't you get comfortable?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Should I lie on the couch and make it official?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You can if you wish."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry to be sarcastic Doctor. I just feel a little funny about finding myself in a psychiatrist's office."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. So why are you here?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Must we get into the heavy stuff right away? Can't we just talk at first?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that would be possible."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe I can tell you a little about myself, and you can tell me about yourself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, we're not here to talk about me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Come on, Dr. Balis, tit for tat. Didn't you see Silence of the Lambs?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, I did. But please don't confuse me with Hannable Lector."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't seem anything like him, thank goodness. Okay, I'm thirty-one years old. Married. No kids."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How long have you been married?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We were married in '92 in the Fall. The ceremony was outdoors at the Marin headlands just beyond the Golden Gate Bridge."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds lovely."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was beautiful. We said our vows in the afternoon. The day was clear and sunny, so we could see for miles around. Then the fog started coming in, wrapping us up in the billowy white. It felt so magical. Funny how a simple meteorological phenomenon can have an almost mystical effect. Listen to me, I sound like some New Age looney."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, it just sounds like you have very fond memories of your wedding."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, maybe."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you thinking about having children?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Um, sure. One day I'd like to have children. In fact, my husband has brought up the subject several times. But, I'm still in the \"one day\" stage, you know? I love my work, and I just can't see myself giving it all up yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is this becoming a point of conflict between you and your husband?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Not at all. My husband is very supportive of my career. Well, maybe a little."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean a little conflict?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not a big deal in our relationship yet. But I can see where he's coming from. After all, at thirty-one my clock should be ticking, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think it is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's hard to say."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can we talk about why you're here? Are you experiencing any emotional problems or difficulties?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Can we keep it more general right now, Doctor. I'm just not comfortable yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "As you like. Can you tell me more about your relationship with your husband?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think our relationship is the healthiest of all of our friends. Actually, though, that's not saying much. We almost never fight and, if we do, we talk it out right away. We made a deal never to go to bed angry. So far it's working."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're happy in your marriage then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And your work? Is it satisfying?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like I said earlier, I love my work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm a senior graphic artist at SII."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You do a lot of computer graphics work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, yes. And there's design. I get to design characters and backgrounds for some of our games."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you getting satisfaction out of your work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yes. It's very creative."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you getting on with your family?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We are quite close, thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So everything's perfect?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, of course not."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You make it sound perfect. We've been talking for awhile now and I have no idea why you're sitting on my couch."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. The fact is Jack thinks I'm having an affair."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Jack's your husband?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you having an affair?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But he doesn't believe you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he hasn't actually confronted me, but I know that he suspects me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't you talk to him about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is where it gets complicated. I can't tell Jack that I'm not having an affair."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I mean, I would in his place. He's called my office when I told him that I would be there at a meeting, for example, and was told that I had left for the day. He had also called in the morning on a couple of occasions, when I should theoretically be there, and no one knew where I was. In short, my story hasn't always been supported by fact lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean you've been lying to Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, yes. I've managed up to now to come up with excuses, but it's getting more and more difficult. He knows me too well not to notice that I'm acting strange when he asks me about these incidents."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why have you been lying to Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been pursuing a hobby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's quite time consuming and Jack doesn't know anything about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it's a little unusual, even a little strange, but I'm really into it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's dives."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Dives?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, and the people who go to dives."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "By dives, you mean bars, strip joints, greasy spoon places...?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Mostly I mean bars, but I've gone into the quarter booth type places too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not an alcoholic, if that's what you're trying to imply."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wasn't implying anything. I just wanted to understand your hobby. What is it that you get out of it? Is it about men?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been hit on, but I always turn them away. I try to be as inconspicuous as possible. I even change into extra drecky clothes when ever I go, so as to be totally unappealing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I dare say, Phylis, that I bet it doesn't work."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you for the compliment, but you underestimate the length to which I go to become invisible. When I say drecky, I mean drecky! Then, I put my hair up in a tight bun, and put on a little bit of stage make-up to to make me look tired and worn out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're serious about this. And you do all this and hang out in a bar in the span of a business meeting?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've gotten very fast at putting on my disguise. By now, I can do a total make-over in eight minutes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how often do you do this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do it about three times a week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How long has this been going on?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It depends on how you count. Three times a week for about two months. Before that maybe it was once or occassionally twice a week for about six months or so. That was easier to hide from Jack, so I did it for some time. I guess it's been eight or nine months total."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you find so interesting about dives?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. I've been attracted to them for many years, but I never had the courage to actually step in. Then I did one time, because I needed a light. Except that I stayed to smoke my cigarette there. There weren't very many people, as I recall. I think there were six in all, including the bartender. Their faces looked like they were from a Scorsese flick. I can't quite put it into words."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're doing fine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They were interesting, that's all. For no reason, I just felt drawn to them. Of course, all conversation stopped when I came in. I disturbed the flow, the routine. So I left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But came back?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, eventually. Then I started to step into more places, the ones I liked, the ones that had that special feel about them. Soon I figured out how to stand out less, and an actor friend taught me how to apply theater make-up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell your friend why you needed this skill?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sort of. I told him that I was thinking of writing a book, and that I wanted to do a character study. He thought it was cool. Later, I told him that I canned the idea because I didn't want word to get back to Jack. You see, I mentioned my little obsession to him, downplaying it of course, and he thought that I was nuts. That it was dangerous and that I was going to get myself in trouble. I couldn't really defend my idea. If I didn't look out for myself properly, it could have spelled trouble. So, I never mentioned it again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis, I think we need to talk more. Would you be willing to come in again next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I better. We barely got started today. Time went so fast!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sometimes seems to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What's one more secret to keep from Frank?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Frank? I thought your husband's name was Jack."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Jack. That's right. Jack. That's what I said."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, you're not going to tell you husband that you were here?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not unless I could make up another reason as to why I came. You see why I need you? My life is getting too complicated for me to handle. I'm afraid to blow it and give myself away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's schedule something for Monday of next week. That would be September 9th. Does that work for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I think I can make that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is three o'clock?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I'd prefer it around lunch time, like this appointment. There's less explaining to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, let's schedule it for Monday, September 9th at noon."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perfect."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "One last thing before you go. Do you write a journal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you doodle?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I draw a lot, sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd like to see your doodles. I'd also like you to start writing down some of your thoughts and feelings in a journal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Would it be for you to read?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you allow me to. It can be a useful tool for our sessions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll try, but I'll be really pressed for time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just see what you can do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. And I'm sorry if I was difficult."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not at all. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good day."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 2nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, September 9, 1996 at 12:00 noon.\nHello Phylis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor. It's good to see you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please sit down. How have you been?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been under a bit of stress. You see, I had another close call with Jack. He was being a real sweetheart and dropped by my work at around six, the time I normally go home, to pick me up for a surprise date. Just the two of us. He made reservations at one of our favorite spots. He even brought a flower, a single iris with baby's breath. That was the first thing that I ever gave him. He must be the only man on earth with a memory for such things. Imagine his surprise when I wasn't there. They told him that I had left over an hour ago, about the time that I had left him a voice mail saying that I was looking forward to coming home at the usual hour. He gave my flower to the secretary and left. By the time I got home, he was sitting in front of the T.V. eating a pizza."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I take it that he told you of his plans."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. And of his disappointment too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you tell him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I was lucky. On my way home, on an impulse, I stopped by a confection-makers to buy Jack's favorite dark chocolate champagne truffles. It would've been totally out of the way had I been coming from work, but since I was at one of my dives, it was en route. I told him that I left early especially to get them for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was lucky."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Jack felt guilty for doubting me. I felt even more guilty for causing him to experience undeserved guilt. The next day I got a snide comment from the secretary who refused to give me back my flower."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis, you are obviously aware of fact that you stand to lose much more than a flower unless you clear this up with Jack. Both of your impulses to treat each other to something special indicate that you both feel the need to pay particular attention to your marriage that you sense is in trouble. Would you agree with that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course I do, Doctor. That's why I'm here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then I would urge you to tell Jack the truth."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I can't! Weren't you listening last time when I told you about Jack's response to my activities?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, Phylis, I was. However, it is still my position that dealing with that issue is better than losing a husband that you clearly seem to love, and who, from what little you have told me, seems to love you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I won't give up my excursions."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Nobody is saying that you have to, just yet. But, perhaps there's a way of pursuing your hobby in a manner that is less destructive to your marriage."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you really think that's possible?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's entirely in your hands. You must express to Jack just how important these excursions are to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Alternatively, I was rather hoping that you would help me to devise a system for keeping information straight in my head. A trick or a technique that I could utilize."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that it would be possible or even desirable to continue with your deception for a prolonged period of time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure, but I don't think that I'm ready to have this conversation with Jack just yet. I would like to be able to present a reasonable argument as to why I'm doing this. It would also be nice to be able to tell Jack that I need X amount of time after which I would be done. But I'm not willing to set such limits. What if I'm never satiated?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that it's necessary to rationalize your desires to Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This has become more than a simple desire. It's now a necessity. But to answer your question, I prefer to have a sound, logical basis for my actions. That's way I want to justify my actions to myself as well as to others."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps we can try to get at some of the reasons why this hobby has become so important to you during our therapy sessions. Have you begun that journal that we discussed last time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I just haven't had the time. But I've thought about it. Would it be useful for you to see some of the places that I've been spending time in?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you mean go there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh no. I wouldn't want to bring you along. I'm talking about photographs. I could start a roll of film and take some pictures of these places. It would only be outdoors, of course. I don't want to upset anyone there. But at least it would be something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That could be interesting. Would you write down comments next to the photos describing your thoughts as you are about to enter or as you are leaving?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't give up easily, do you Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you like me to give up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I guess not."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Could you talk a little about your attraction to dives?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure what to say."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just tell me the first thing that comes to mind when you think of the last place that you went."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That would be my work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But we are not here to discuss your work or are we?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I'm sorry. My defense shields fly up just thinking about talking to someone about this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think that is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it's because this is so personal. I've even thought that the reason why I'm not able to explain it to myself is that I don't want to face or acknowledge it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We can go slow and take it one step at a time. What's the most common thing that you feel as you think about going out to a dive?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Excitement. If it's a place that I've gone to before, I often can't wait to get there. I know what to expect at least to some degree. There are specific people that I've befriended and want to see again. I start to know something about each one and their stories continue to unfold to me. Sometimes I'll buy them a drink. But not too often or they won't relate to me as one of their own. I'll appear too rich or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you tend to go to familiar places?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Generally, yes. That is until I get that explorer feeling."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Explorer feeling?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. It's a desire to discover a new hideaway, as if the ones that I've been frequenting have become too familiar. You know, if people get too used to you, they stop talking to you. At least they don't tell you quite so much anymore. When you're new, they try talking you up to out do each other's stories. That's when it's the most interesting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you just listen? Or do you tell stories too?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good question. I didn't expect you to ask that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does that mean that you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I have developed something of a persona over time. Her name is Martha and she has a definite personal history. It's mostly made up, but I try to stick with one story so as not to forget what I had said."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you always approached it this way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. In fact, there are some places that I don't go back to anymore because I don't remember the stories that I told there. I wouldn't want people to think that I was lying. I doubt if anyone remembers and I could always say that I was drunk and thus taking liberties, but why get into such a mess?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would like to hear more about Martha, but I'm afraid we are running short on time. In the meantime..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, try to write something in my journal or at least get one."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, that would be nice. However, what I was going to say is that you should think about approaching this subject with Jack. Just imagine how the conversation would go and see what you would say."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've tried that. That conversation inevitably ends in a scandal with me storming out of the house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps you could try to imagine that you don't storm out of the house. That instead, you stayed and continued to talk about it. I would like to hear what you imagine happens next."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, but I have to tell you, I don't think that I could master the patience to stay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Shall we make an appointment for the same time next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Next Monday at noon? Let me check my schedule."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can make that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Great. Then I shall see you next Monday."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Monday it is. Have a nice week, Dr. Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And you, Phylis. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 3rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, September 16, 1996 at 12:00 noon.\nMay I help you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ms. Birch?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, it's me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis, that's quite a transformation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just thought it'd be fun for you to see Martha since we started to talk about her last week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm interested. Now I know what you were describing. It is a very convincing disguise."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought perhaps we could go through this session with Martha instead of with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Certainly, as you like."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't do accents or dialects or anything. In fact, I use some real experiences of mine to fill out her story. But for the most part she, I mean this me, is a separate person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So tell me something about this self."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm divorced and have a thirteen year old daughter Emily who is currently living with her father in Minnesota. I left the Midwest when I was twenty-two. My husband and I split up. We got split custody of the girl, but he had money and I didn't. I couldn't give her a good, stable home, so I resigned to letting her father bring her up as he pleased. I moved to Boston for awhile because I knew some people there, then I came here. I haven't seen my Emily in eight years. At first I would call and visit, but soon visiting got too expensive, so I was coming less and less often. Not that I didn't want to. I always wanted to. Finally, her father asked me not to call so much (once a week or so), saying that it was affecting Emily in bad way. That he was seeing someone, and that he wanted for this woman to have a chance to be close to her. Maybe even a family. I wanted what was best for my daughter, so I agreed to call just twice a month. But when I did call he wouldn't let us talk for very long, or tell me that she was sleeping or something. With time, he asked me to stop calling all together because it was confusing the child. I was furious, but didn't know what to do. I couldn't come and get her, though I thought about it often, and she seemed to be doing well without me. Slowly, I let him pressure me into cutting off all contact. However I do have a P.O. Box that he writes to once a month to keep me current on Emily's life. That was the deal, you see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's quite specific. Do you usually tell your story all at once?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, rarely so. It generally comes up one tid bit at a time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Martha miss Emily?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very much. She says a prayer for her every night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about her ex-husband? Does he have a name?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Uh, I never gave him a name."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's interesting, considering how detailed the rest of your story is."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, you're referring to Martha as me only because we're playing this game, right? You understand that Martha is a character that I made up in order to keep my real life separate."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course. So, why would you not invent a name for Martha's ex-husband? Hasn't it ever come up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It has but I always managed to change the subject. You see, I'm afraid that if I were to give him a name, I might slip and use it instead of Jack. That would be extremely suspicious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Probably so, yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know Dr. Balis, since I'm all made and everything, I would like to cut our session short this week and stop by a local place before heading back to the office."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We've only just started these sessions, Phylis. I think it would be inappropriate for you to leave in the middle. We have over twenty minutes left."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry Doctor, but it's something I feel I must do. I'm already in the make-up and everything. I do hope you'll understand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Look, ultimately it's your call. But don't do this again. I'm not to become the excuse that you use to hang out in bars. Can you come again on Friday, the 20th? Say around noon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let's see. I have a lunch date with Jack. What about after work?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can't make that. How about this same time next Monday, the 23rd of September. Will that still work for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yom Kippur. Okay. See you then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do eat something Phylis. Alcohol on an empty stomach and then back to work..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. I will. I know how to look after myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ciao."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 4th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, September 23, 1996 at 12:00 noon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis, you're your old self again. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor. Sorry for the surprise last week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you talking about Martha or leaving early?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Martha, but I take it you were not very happy with me for leaving early."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's just say that I wouldn't like you to do that again. After all, we are trying to work through some of your problems."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I appreciate that. It was simply too tempting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how was your visit to the local place?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you for not asking the name. I'd like to keep that information to myself. Frankly it was a little disappointing. Nobody that I had ever met was there. Even the bartender was new, apparently the woman who used to be there was fired for stealing from the register."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what the new bartender told me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk about anything else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The weather. You know, nothing in particular. I was more interested in listening to other conversations, or should I say waiting for other conversations to happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was rather quiet then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Then some kids came in and I left. I had to get back to work anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tell me more about Martha. How long has she existed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The name I've used from the very beginning, ever since I started to do the stage make-up. My friend, the one who taught me how to apply it, wanted some inspiration the first time that he made me up--a name that he could work towards. I came up with Martha on the fly and it stuck."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about the persona?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That I filled in over time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you ever known anyone like her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not exactly. One of my roommates in college was adopted, and she hired a detective to find her birth mother. The woman turned out to be an alcoholic, not doing much with her life. This woman, whose name I don't remember anymore, was from the mid-west. She had my roommate when she was eighteen and gave her up when my roommate was three years old. She wanted a new chance at life, she told Jessy. That was my roommate's name--Jessy. This woman had a P.O. box that Jessy's parents agreed to write progress reports to, but I guess she fell behind on her payments or something, because the letters started to come back. At least that's what Jessy's parents claimed happened. The woman, the birth mother, didn't want anything to do with Jessy. They met once in a bar, talked for a couple of hours, and as far as I know, never saw or spoke to each other again. Martha is loosely based on this woman's story."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Did Jessy ever find her natural father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. She only found out that his name was Frank."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's get back to you. Have you thought about talking to Jack about what you've been doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, the crisis seems to have passed for now. I have been more careful about when I go. I try to be less spontaneous and plan in advance instead. That's helped. I've also tried to be more attentive to Jack and to our relationship, and I think that's having a reassuring effect on Jack."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what effect is it having on you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel like things are a little more in control now. I'm less anxious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you plan to continue keeping Martha a secret?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just don't want to upset Jack unless I absolutely have to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then being secretive is entirely for the benefit of your husband, or are there more reasons?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's mainly for Jack's benefit, but I confess that I like having a secret life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you see it as something romantic? Something out of a novel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A little. I sometimes imagine having a biography written about me. That is, if I do something extraordinary in my life that would warrant one. And then I imagine reading it. Up to now, it would be pretty boring."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Martha makes it more interesting?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't you think so?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps. But then again, I'm a psychiatrist."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, well there's that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you really think that's the real reason for the bars and for Martha? To make your life appear more interesting?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's more complicated than that. That alone would be stupid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not stupid Phylis, but you have to carefully consider whether is is really worth enough to jeopardize your marriage."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I repeat, this is not the only reason for my doing any of this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What would you say is another?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're the psychiatrist, maybe you can tell me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I am the psychiatrist, but I think that you have more information on this matter than I."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Can't I just like it? Can't I just have a taste for the dark side?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would it be fair to say that through Martha you are exploring your own dark side?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well naturally to some extent I am. But I think of it more as getting a glimpse into other people's lives. People that I otherwise would never get to meet. And it isn't that they are so different from the people I interact with in my daily life as Phylis, it's that they have different problems. Different problems and a different perspective on things. Not necessarily a healthy one, but there is always a logic to it, often a twisted logic. The trick is getting into a mind frame where you can easily follow it, where it starts to make sense. I think I have grown a lot through this experience. When I strip myself of the mind that I am used to and make room for Martha, I am able to sympathize without feeling pity. There's compassion, but it's eye to eye. My having a statistically successful life--marriage, my career--no longer gets in the way of humility. It's funny, I'm even becoming more politically-minded nowadays."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just in terms of issues that I support, and sometimes even speak out on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Have you ever considered the fact that while you adjust your thinking to be more in line with the people that you're meeting, and thus encourage an uninhibited discourse, you are blatantly deceiving them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You have such a way with words."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It wasn't meant as an affront."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. That makes it worse. What I do, I do without malicious intent. Furthermore, I do not believe that I cause harm unintentionally. I simply make myself less threatening in their eyes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does that include Martha's personal history?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes it does. When people think that I am worse off, then they are more likely to have a real conversation with me. It's a kind of ice breaker."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What reaction do you suppose you would get from your new friends..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Acquaintances."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well, acquaintances--if they were to find out your true identity?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "First, they never will. Second...what's the point of this? It will never happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The point is in order for you to able to start reconciling your two disparate faces, you will need to be able to answer such questions to yourself. It will also help you if you ever choose to discuss this matter with Jack, which I would still suggest as a sensible thing for you to do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perhaps you're right. But I just don't think that I could do it with the results I want."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I am quite confident that you can do it, Phylis. However, you would be welcome to bring Jack here in order to tell him in a more controlled environment."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It would have to be a complete surprise. He hates therapists."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That is entirely up to you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would want more time or at least not to have to go back to work afterwards. Would it be possible to arrange something in the evening."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It might be. You would need to call my office when you know Jack's schedule and then we could choose a suitable day."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "All right, I'll give you a call in a couple of days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would like for us to meet at the usual time, 12 noon next week on the 30th of September, regardless of what we schedule with Jack."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. I think that I would want to see you in any case."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Now what about the homework that I asked you to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean the journal?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The journal, some sketches, anything that you elected to do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll bring you something next week, I promise."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I look forward to seeing it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess the session is coming to an end."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. Unfortunately we're running out of time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well thank you Doctor. I definitely have some things to think about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Monday then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Monday. Have a nice week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you Phylis. And you too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 5th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, September 30th, 1996 at 12:00 noon.\nMs. Birch welcome. I've been thinking about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Dr. Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So I never heard from you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah I'm sorry. Things were really crazy at work this week. I had a deadline to meet for the investor's meeting and my computer crashed big time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope you were backed up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was, but some things vanished into space and I couldn't work on my machine because the hard drive had to be sent to Drivesavers. Boy, did they save my ass. Anyway I got through it and got the system upgrade I've been pushing for to boot. Now I just have to break it in but hopefully it's not going to be too bad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hopefully."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've also had a rather disturbing experience at Wi... at a bar that I've been going to for quite a while. Incidentally, it was my only outing this week because of the chaos at work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I met a young woman who apparently has been going there for months. We've managed to always just miss each other. She's sort of punky--blue highlights in her hair and stuff. She was bright and articulate, despite the fact that she was nursing her third Rum and Coke. She said that she has a degree from the University of Texas in International Relations. She's been out of school for two years, works in Noah's Bagels, and hates her life. It was so frustrating to hear her story."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "More so than other stories you've heard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In a way. Most people that I strike up conversations with, or they with me, are older. They have their troubles but there's usually a long string of events that has lead them to the point where they are now. Some are vets, some are wives of vets, some have had run-ins with the law. All kinds of stories are out there but I rarely get to be present for the beginning of the fall. It's devastating."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What makes you believe that she's at the beginning of a fall and not on the verge of getting out of her situation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For one thing, she comes off as depressed and defeated. It's hard to make good things happen when you have given up trying. For another, she was on her third drink at four in the afternoon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There's that. But at least she's employed."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. She works for four days in a row, then drinks for two, and dries out on the last day before starting the cycle anew."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you say to her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I didn't really know what to say. I never expected to meet her. She didn't fit the mold, if there's such a thing. She was too green. I wanted to help her snap out of it. Nobody goes to college, especially one as reputable as University of Texas, to work in a bagel shop. She still owed tons of money on her student loans. God, I'm glad that I never took any out! Anyway, I didn't know how to make her see things differently. I didn't stay long. I came home early, sat on the couch, and waited for Jack to come home as I stared out of the window. I really wanted to tell him about this girl. I don't know why, hers is certainly not the most tragic story I've ever heard but it got to me. Maybe because when I got out of college I drifted for a while. Things were different then. I was confident that I would make it even when I didn't know in what capacity."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does this woman remind you of yourself some years back?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In a way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well if she has your determination, she'll make it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How can you be so callous?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She really shook you up, didn't she? Is this the first time that you got so emotionally involved with a person that you've met in this context?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's been a while, but I used to be quite affected when I first started to do this. I guess I wasn't as good at keeping my shield up then. But this spun me for a loop."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it about her that you're reacting to so strongly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe its her eyes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Her eyes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, she had very intense eyes. I generally make a point of looking at the person's eyes when we speak. But with her I had to pull free of her gaze, almost as if she would swallow me up if I didn't. I've only felt that from men before. Usually slimos who are trying to get up my skirt, so to speak. This wasn't like that. She didn't seem to want anything from me other than my attention at the moment."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What else did you notice?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, she was soft spoken though that could have been the alcohol. She was unusually up front."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "About what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Everything. Her situation, her state of mind, everything. She made no bones about anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe she had nothing to hide, especially from someone she met in a bar."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe, but it's usually not like that. People will ration out their stories, make them a bit more colorful too. Not her though. She answered me simply and it was the naked truth. Something else was striking about her eyes. One was different from the other. Her right eye was green and her left one was gray."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did you meet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We met last Friday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that you'll meet again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never know in these cases. She says she's a regular. So I'll try to catch her at the same time this week. If I'm lucky, she'll be there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you hope to gain by seeing her again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not hoping to gain anything. I would like to talk more with her, that's all. You men always think in terms of losses and gains."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your husband too?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh the lot of you in my opinion."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a pretty strong opinion. You're full of strong opinions today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And what if I am? Jack's always talking to me about my \"strong convictions.\" I say, if a man can't handle a woman with a little back bone, he should marry a slug."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Now that's an appealing suggestion."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. I aim to please."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Indeed but whom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor Balis!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're out to get me today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No Phylis. I'm just trying to understand you and to help you understand yourself. Does Jack often try to pressure you to be something that you are not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's not too bad. But admittedly, when I'm tired or stressed, I've noticed that I'm somewhat less flexible. The double life thing is quite draining. I know I should tell Jack."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It would take some pressure off of you. Though there will undoubtedly be new tensions for a period until you and Jack iron things out."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But bringing Jack into this means compromising. And I don't feel like compromising on this one."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's true. However, you have the advantage of opening up the negotiations. That's a clear indication that you're trying."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's a good point. So by talking about it and disclosing my secret, I'm taking the first step."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Exactly."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So then it would be Jack's turn."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, except that you were the one lying to him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For a moment there it sounded really good. Why does it sound so awful again?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps you put yourself in Jack's place and didn't like what you saw?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know that what I'm doing is a little out of the ordinary. But that's why he married me, because I'm not ordinary."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that that is why he fell in love with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It better be part of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It did have a lot to do with it. Dr. Balis, I'm not a miserable bitch to my husband. I love Jack. I do a lot to make certain that he is happy and satisfied with our marriage. But I know him. He wouldn't understand my passion for going to places with questionable appearances and reputations. I've not even managed to convince you of their appeal and you're a neutral party. More then neutral, you're paid to listen to me. You're my therapist! And that would also take a lot of explaining."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think that you are a bitch, Phylis. I think that you feel guilty for deceiving Jack. And while I may not yet fully understand your reasons for dive-hopping, I do see that it is very important to you. I believe that you'll be able to convince Jack of the same and begin to work things out."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you saying that I'm underestimating Jack?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm saying that you need to believe more in your own ability to communicate, especially with your husband."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll think about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay Phylis, our time is about up. You can call me if you need to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. I wish that girl had someone to call."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think that she doesn't?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just an impression."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd like to hear more about these impressions. Same time next week okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, October 7th. But I might take you up on your offer and call."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's fine. I'll be here. Or else leave a message and I'll get back to you right away."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. Goodbye Phylis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 6th Session between Dr. Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, October 14th, 1996 at 12:00 noon.\nAh Phylis. Please come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's good to see you, Dr. Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It is indeed good to have you back. What's been going on?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, it seems like all this happened so long ago."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, that awful night that Jack came to take me home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take you home from where?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I should start at the beginning."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "On Thursday, the 3rd of October, I went out to a little place in the Tenderloin that I had never been to before. I sat down, ordered a gin and tonic, and immediately some guy started talking to me. It was like I was fresh blood or something. Anyway, as he's chatting me up, Jack walks in. Apparently he's been following me--it just took a few minutes for him to work up his courage to actually confront me. I didn't see him at first with this creep bugging me. He comes over to me and in a cold and steady voice tells me to get my bag and that we're leaving. I was startled and shocked to see him. I hesitated. For a moment I thought that I should pretend not to know him, maybe he'd believe me and leave. But his eyes were so stormy. There was a lot of pain there. So I reached for my pack and followed him out. As we were walking away, the creepo that was talking to me kept calling after us. Then he rushed after us, asking Jack who he was and me whether I knew him. Jack used the \"wrong\" name--he called me Phylis and, of course, I was Martha to the creep. I was too scared and too shocked to say anything. I just looked at him. Jack didn't bother to reply. Sometimes he's like that. If it is insignificant and bothersome, he simply won't respond. That's when the creepo jumped him. He beat Jack to a bloody pulp before Jack even knew what was happening. By that point I was incapable of dealing. I was incapable of thinking. I could barely believe that any of this was happening. So now my husband is lying unconscious on the sidewalk. It's late, maybe ten thirty. There are no cops to be had. Who knows where they were, all hanging out over donuts. The creepo, he told me his name was Joe, takes me back to his place. I felt as if I was watching a movie--that none of this was actually happening. When we got to the rat hole that this guy calls home, he washed my face and gave me something to drink. I can't quite remember how I got to the next point, I guess I blocked it out, but this slime was on top of me. My clothes were mostly gone and his dick was between my legs. I freaked out, pushed him off, and scrambled to get my jeans. He asked where I was going, but I didn't answer. All I could think about was Jack, lying there in the filth bleeding. I ran out to find him. When I got to the place, Jack was still unconscious. I called for an ambulance and we went to the emergency room. He looked real bad. Blood was all over his face. When he finally came to, he could hardly move. This Joe creep had broken three of Jack's ribs, his nose, and his right leg. He was in a shit load of pain."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh Phylis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They kept him in the hospital for two days because of internal hemorrhaging. I stayed there with him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you all right? Are you all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The emergency waiting area was horrible. Drug addicts and alcoholics shivering in cold sweat. Gun shot wounds. Motorcycle accident victims. There were tons of motorcycle accident victims being brought in one after another. The river of cripples kept flowing. Jack did not have to wait because of the internal bleeding but I did. I swear I lost years of my life sitting there. Watching. I remember that for a moment I thought of some of the people that I had gotten to know as Martha. Most of them had had the occasion to wait in an emergency ward. But primarily I was scared. Scared for Jack, scared for us, or just plain scared. I'm still scared. But at least I know that Jack is going to be fine. With one less tooth but fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is he still on bed rest?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. He isn't supposed to go anywhere for at least two weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what about you? Are you going to work or staying home with Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I took most of last week off, but as of today I'm back. I can't afford to stay away for so long. The last thing that we need now is for me to lose my job."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you coping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Who said anything about coping? I'm going through the motions but...well, let's just say that I could stand to get a little more productive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You must know that I am less worried about your productivity at work than I am about your well being, both physically and emotionally."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't quite know what to say. I am trying real hard to hold strong, so that I can be there for Jack. I got him into this after all. I haven't told him what he missed while he was unconscious. I'm not sure that I ever will. As for Martha, I've got some explaining to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you all right? You went through some pretty horrific things."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I think I'm still in denial."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you physically hurt in anyway?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry. That's my pager. One second. It's Jack. May I use your phone?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. Hello Love. How are you? What? What?! Well don't move, okay? Don't move. I'll be right over. Call the doctor. Tell her I'm on my way. Take care. I love you. I'm sorry Dr. Balis. I've got to go. I'll explain later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Jack all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll call you."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 7th Session between Dr. Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Thursday, October 24th, 1996 at 3:15 pm."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes? Come in. Phylis! Come in, come in."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Would you have a half hour for me Dr. Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was hoping for now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Right now? What time is it? Hmm, I could see you, but I have another patient coming in at four."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's splendid. Now before you ask, I'm really sorry about Monday. I had this meeting that I just couldn't get out of."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Dr. Balis, I've been just terrible to everyone. I can't seem to get my head on straight. I'm sorry. I'm really sorry. Oh, please excuse me. I seem to be having these crying fits all the time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis, it's all right. Take your time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't know the half of it. I can't sleep. I'm a walking zombie. I haven't had sex with Jack since the incident, forget about making love! We used to do it every day! He shows some interest, but I just can't. I see that monster's face everywhere. Today I thought that I saw him at SII. I'm going crazy. I fantasize about what I would do to him if I ever saw him. Then I start thinking that he did nothing wrong, that I encouraged him to fuck me. And Jack...I still haven't told him anything about what actually happened. He believes that I never left his side, that I took care of him, as a loving wife would have done. I must be a sadist, or a stone to leave him bleeding in the gutter. Who knows what could have happened to him? I don't know what did happen. Did some drunk come along and kick him some more? Or worse? Or what if he woke up at some point and called for me and I wasn't there? What if he's keeping something from me? Maybe he hates me and is biding his time for cold vengeance. He would be perfectly in the right, you know. I deserve everything he can do to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis slow down. Let's take things one at a time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I'm truly sick. Sick, I tell you. Would you believe that I want to go back to my dives? I miss them. I need them. I'm like a drug addict. Worse!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Wait a second. Calm down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But don't you see? Despite everything that I've done or caused in some way, I'm not satisfied. I want to do more damage. I'm drawing some of the regulars when no one is looking. But they turn out terrible. I think that my ability to draw diminishes with every drink, every conversation. It's like these excursions were sucking at my very soul, but I love it. I think I might even go tonight. Martha is calling me. Sometimes I hear her talking to me, whispering. She's there when I lie awake at night. She talks me out of wanting Jack. When she's in my head, I look at him with complete indifference. Then, the next minute, I love him deeply and can cry rivers for what I've done to him. I think that he still believes that I had an affair. He never mentioned that night again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I brought it up a couple of times, but he dodged the issue--some pain would suddenly get worse. He said once that now it is all over. At the time I thought that he meant all the trouble, but now I think he meant us. The marriage."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What makes you think so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because I think that it is. He'll never forgive me, nor should he. I'm hardly repentant. I regret what happened, of course, but I'd do it all again. I will do more as I said, perhaps tonight."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Now hold on. Before you commit to anything let's talk about this. You've mentioned several issues. Let's tackle them one by one."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you like a glass of water?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah that'd be great. Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's start with a non-emotional one. You said that you are having problems sleeping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I maybe get a couple of hours per night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is your trouble that you can't get to sleep or are you waking up during the night?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Both actually."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm going to prescribe some sleeping pills for you. I'm only going to give you a small number because I just want you to get past this bad spell. At least you will be able to rest and be in better shape to make judgments."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Will they make me tired in the mornings?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Less so than you've been feeling lately."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good point, okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Here's a prescription. Take one at bed time. If they're not working, don't take another one. Just call me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks. What is this stuff?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Halcion. I'm only prescribing 20 pills because I don't want you to become dependent on them. Now you mentioned that you've been haunted by the face of your attacker, let's talk about that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I must tell you that I'm a little overwhelmed right now. It's difficult to keep my thoughts straight and I have to go back to work after this. Shit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's okay. Don't worry, it'll get better. We'll go slow. If you start getting upset again, we'll stop. Now about the guy in the bar, he's on your mind a lot. Tell me more about that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's in my dreams."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What kind of dreams?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nightmares mostly, but not all of them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Could you describe a dream that you've had recently?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know if I can reconstruct one properly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's all right. Just tell me the parts you remember."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I had this one dream where I was in a different time. In retrospect, it's like a scene out of the life of Jack the Ripper. Old streets, definitely not in California. It's dark, late at night. I'm walking down the street or more like an alley and man in a black cloak grabs me and drags me away. Only when we go around the corner of some house, to where the garbage bins are at their most pungent, the man turns his face to the light-- a yellow street light--it's me in the cloak. I look down to see who the victim is and it's that Joe guy. The next thing that I remember is me striking him with a knife over and over again. But he won't die. I can remember the feeling, the adrenalin rush from stabbing him. It's exciting even now to think about it. But there was also fear and panic. I remember the panic of not being able to kill him. The fear that someone will find me. That's when Jack appears in the shadows. He watches me silently then approaches. At that point the cloaked figure becomes Joe again. He strikes at Jack with the bloody knife and Jack falls to the ground. The last thing that I remember is standing over Jack's body with the knife in my hand alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what do you think this dream means?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually I was hoping that you could tell me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I could try to analyze it, but that would be much less illuminating than if you talked your way through it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well okay. I definitely see Joe as a threat to both Jack and myself. But that's obvious. Maybe the cloak was a symbol of evil and since both Joe and I wore the cloak I'm ambivalent as to who is actually the bad guy in my life, Joe or myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It does sound that way to me. But you were also a victim in your dream."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. A victim turned aggressor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What else does this dream mean to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perhaps the stench and the darkness demonstrate the ugliness of what happened that night. It definitely occurred on the dark side of town, on the dark side of my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you recall how Jack looked?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let me think. Yes, he also wore black. What does that mean? Do I think that Jack is equally evil? But he was the only real victim!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that what you really feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You think I blame Jack? That's horrible. I'm horrible."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're not horrible. If you were, you wouldn't care so much. But perhaps there is a part to this story that has to do with Jack. Maybe he is at the heart of your obsession with bars and the dark side of life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know that nothing is ever black and white, but my little habit is mine. It's my idea. It's my sickness. Jack has nothing to do with it. I wish he had, in fact. But he doesn't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you resentful about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe. He didn't have to be so god damn straight--so kosher."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There is definitely some hostility there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Had he been willing to explore with me--though it would have been much different and I think not as good--none of this would ever have happened. Oh god. It sounds like I'm blaming Jack. I am blaming Jack. That's outrageous! All that Jack was doing, the wonderful man, was looking out for the well-being of his wife. Well that's not entirely true. He was spying on me. He followed me to the bar and tried to force me to go home with him. How dare he? The nerve. I'm my own woman, thank you. I don't need to be told what to do and what not to do. On the other hand, I kept it a secret. Naturally he was worried. He's right. Anything could have happened. And it did. I was raped. Well not exactly. He probably didn't see it that way. He probably thought that he was saving me from some lunatic. How gallant. I hate it. They both tried to save me. Great. Fucking men."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis I know this is bad-timing, but my other patient will be here any minute. I could meet with you again tonight, if you like."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No forget it. I can't make it tonight. I'll just see you on Monday. Noon is still okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Noon is perfect. I know that you probably don't want to hear this right now, but I really have to urge you to get checked out by your gynecologist?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Checked out--you mean for AIDs?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, for AIDs and for other possible sexually transmitted diseases. It's been two weeks, so the tests would be able to show something if it was there. I don't want to alarm you, but I don't think you would feel good about yourself if you transmitted something unknowingly to Jack."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What would you suggest I get checked for?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Unfortunately, gynecologists do this way too often. They know exactly what to check for."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Shit. That sounds like good advice. I better go. Thanks for talking to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Call me if you want to, anytime. And let me know how the Halcion works."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll be fine. Don't worry. See you Monday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Phylis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 8th Session between Dr. Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, October 28th, 1996 at 12:00 pm.\nHi Dr. Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Phylis. Please come in. I've been waiting for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I'm on time, even with the time change!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I simply meant that I've been anxious to talk to you. How are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm much better, thank you. The sleeping pills are working wonders."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I'm glad."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Remember I mentioned that I was doing some sketches of people that I met at my dives?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well perhaps I could tell you something about them now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure, if you would like."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For starters, do you recall a young woman that I'd mentioned to you a few sessions ago, before the mess, that I was getting kind of close to? The one from The Blue... from one of my haunts?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, you identified with her quite a bit as I recall."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. One of the sketches is of her. It's from memory of course, so it's quite a bit off, but it will give you a sense of her. She is very compelling. I find myself thinking about regularly. I miss her in some strange way. Not in the way one would miss someone close, but her manner of speech, her voice. I hope she's okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are there other portraits among your drawings?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I made a sketch of the bartender from the place where I used to meet the girl. Some drawings are so personal that I don't even think I can talk to you about them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Some of my drawings I don't even let Jack see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you made any drawings relating to Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Some of them are about Jack. But mostly I don't show my drawing to Jack because I don't want him to get the wrong idea about me. He can be a little on the conservative or, perhaps better put, conventional side sometimes. Don't get me wrong--Jack can be real quirky and offbeat. It's just that sometimes his proper upbringing gets the better of him and I never know when that side of him is going rear its ugly head."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you ever discussed that with Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I should say that I'm hardly in a position to complain about him!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But perhaps you can talk to Jack about these feelings. I think they might be in part the reason for your obsession with the darker side. Mind you, I'm not suggesting that there might not be other reasons completely independent from Jack."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess you have hit upon something that I've been trying not to think about. I don't want to become as straight as Jack by osmosis. I somehow feel that I need to reaffirm my world outside of the nine to five and husband in the burbs. When I started going to all these places, it was in part out of curiosity and in part because it was taboo. Young women just aren't \"supposed to\" go to places like that if they know what's good for them. Men can go. They'll be safe. For them it's just a little drink or thrill. But for a woman...anyway, I think that sucks. I know how to look out for myself. I wouldn't do anything stupid. Well I wouldn't if somebody wouldn't interfere. There I go blaming Jack again. Poor Jack, he should leave me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want him to leave you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He wouldn't leave me. He worships the ground I walk on. It sounds conceited, but it's true. Jack is very proud of being my husband. I'm proud to be his wife too, but it's not the same."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So would you like him to leave you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'm a happily married woman. I don't want a divorce. I need a little time to sort things out maybe. But I definitely don't want a divorce."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has there been any change in your sex life since I saw you last?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. I tried once to initiate something. I thought maybe if I got the ball rolling...but my heart wasn't in it. Jack noticed it right away and that was the end of that. He said that we should wait until I'm ready, but the more time passes the less interested I become. It feels like having sex with your brother. Or so I imagine. I love him but the sexual tension is not there. I don't crave him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So have you lost interest in sex in general or just with Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh I could definitely use a good fuck, excuse my language here. But I don't think our marriage would benefit from this. You know?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean because it wouldn't be with Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What else?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you have someone specific in mind?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh just someone who knows how to be discreet and is sensitive to my needs. No one in particular."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It sounds awful of me doesn't it? I mean, here I am saying that I want to have sex but not with my husband. Joe would be thrilled. What a horrible thought! Oh."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what about Martha? Does she still have a strong influence over you? Do you hear her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's as if you're talking about a separate person. Like Martha exists in the world outside of me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well in a way she does. It is a persona that a group of people, including you, know and relate to. And she has a voice of her own. One that apparently affects me...but it's odd for me to talk about her that way. I sometimes think of her that way, but saying it out loud is peculiar."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can see that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "To answer your question, yes I do still carry on conversations with Martha. She is sort of my wild side. She's more adventurous, more daring. But she is also reckless. Sometimes that scares me. I'm not sure that I could catch up. Does that make any sense?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. Do you think Martha is against Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, if I think in real simplistic terms, Jack is her antitheses. Everything...no not everything, but a lot of what constitutes Martha's character is contrary to what Jack would think is reasonable. Not that everything has to be reasonable. Jack is certainly not always reasonable, but...I don't know how to put it. Compared to the average guy on the street, Jack is quite remarkable and unusual. But he sets limits for himself and never crosses them. He has tremendous discipline. Whereas Martha is always looking for ways to break some limits. So naturally there is a conflict. Sometimes I enjoy breaking limits and rules too. When I feel that way I am allied with Martha. Other times I expel her from my mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And is that easy for you to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Last night it was practically impossible. But I can still function even when she's bugging me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Martha the first character that you've ever created?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That depends on how you look at it. I mean I have different personas depending on what I'm doing or who I'm with. I bet that two different people would give descriptions of me that would be so different that you wouldn't recognize them as the same person, much less as me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened to Thomas?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As I got older I started to think that it was odd of me to have an imaginary friend. So I stopped talking to Thomas. I also met a real person that I could argue with so I didn't need Thomas anymore. Perhaps this would be a good time to bring him back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How old were you when you gave up Thomas?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Completely?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes completely."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not until I met Jack. Before that I would think of him now and again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you say that Martha and Thomas have a lot in common?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. They are almost opposites. Thomas was a conservative force, one that erred on the side of caution. While Martha...well you've met Martha. I bet if I reincarnated Thomas, he and Martha would cancel out each other out. That's an interesting idea. So if I'm having a conversation in my head, I would think in terms of Martha and Thomas debating any given point, leaving me to choose the victor, instead of arguing one side so hard that I talk myself into believing that side."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is this what usually happens?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not necessarily. Often Martha wins."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis, our time is up for today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Say no more. You'd like me to make an appointment for next week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes I would."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Monday at noon as usual?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Monday the fourth of November at noon. That would be great. And please try to bring some of your sketches."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. Count on it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Phylis. Remember, call anytime, for any reason."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Any reason? Bye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anytime you think you need me. Goodbye Phylis."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 9th Session between Dr. Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, November 11th, 1996 at 12:00 pm.\nHello Phylis. I'm glad you were able to make it this week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry Doctor. Sometimes time just gets away from me. And now...I'll try not to let it happen again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how have you been doing? How is Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Skeletal evidence mounts to prove syphilis was taken by sailors from the New World to the Old World not vice versa."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Excuse me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was in The Grab Bag last week. The S.F. Chronicle?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh right on Sundays. I don't always get through the whole paper."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was just thinking about that bit of trivia. It's interesting, isn't it? We always blamed the Europeans for everything and now it seems that at least some of the ill came out of the people of this continent. Unless it's revisionist history. We see a lot of that nowadays."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So why did that particular piece of trivia stick with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. It caught my eye. And I've been thinking about those kinds of diseases lately. Doing some research."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "For yourself?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For myself. I've been thinking about exactly what happened that awful night with Joe. I still don't have a perfect picture from beginning to end, but what I do remember certainly is enough to give cause for concern. I've had some tests done, just for peace of mind you know? He was a pretty sleazy character. I thought I saw him again at work today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? Was it really him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. In fact, I'm sure it wasn't. There must be guy who looks like him at the company. No, no. I would have chased him down and done some major damage had I believed that it was really him. I'm hallucinating. Or paranoid. Or both. The very idea of seeing Joe, or anyone else from that part of my life, at SII is highly disturbing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about these tests? Have you received results or had any disturbing symptoms?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Symptoms! I wish it was as straight forward as that. Many of these kinds of diseases do not have any symptoms, only permanently damaging results. Something like herpes, for which there is no cure, is impossible to detect outside of an outbreak. Of course you can only get it during an outbreak, but who was looking? The moment I was able to think straight, I jumped off the bed and fled. I even forgot to put on my underwear. The creep is probably still masturbating with it! And even if I had looked, which I wouldn't have, I would have simply used a condom. Herpes is hard to tell even with an outbreak. A girlfriend of mine has it, from when she was a stupid teenager in heat, so I asked her to let me see. She said that most of her outbreaks are very small so I had a hard time recognizing it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Did you know that there is an epidemic? Or at least herpes is on the rise again. Apparently something like one out of six people have it. Or was that one out of every six men? At any rate, the chances are high that Joe had herpes or was at least a carrier. I read up on some other goodies too. Have you ever seen cauliflower-shaped vaginal warts?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No I never studied gynecology."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What about long, thin warts, almost like hair?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're getting lost in speculation here. What have you actually found out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing. I went to the Berkeley Women's Health Center since I couldn't see my regular doctor, Jack would see the bill you know. It's a wonderful place--clean and pleasant. If someone can't afford to pay, it's free. And they just take your word for it. No official checking. I hated having to pretend that I was broke. It was taking advantage of the policy and that health center deserves better but what could I do? Maybe I can make a donation later. The point is, they said that they can't test for herpes. They can only tell you what it is if you have an outbreak. So I talked to the nurse who gave me some advice and she told me to take an AIDS test in six months. In the meantime, I should just relax. I hate that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The six months?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, having to wait. I'm scheduled for an AIDS test next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you understand that what happened to you recently will have no impact on the results?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes I know that. I'm not totally clueless. I just want to know. Maybe I'm already HIV positive and don't know it. I haven't always been as practical about my approach to sex as I am now. I've had a pretty wild past if I do say so myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And then you'd test again after the six months?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm. There's another thing that I need to test for."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Chlamydia. People don't talk much about it, though I don't see why not. Have you heard of it Dr. Balis?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes I know something about it. It can leave a woman sterile, I believe."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Exactly! It scars the uterus to the point of infertility. And not just in women. I read somewhere that 40% of the female koala bears in Australia are suffering from chlamydia. Forty percent! Do you realize the catastrophic effect that this is going to have on their population?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like it would be significant."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Damn right. As for treatment...I can't imagine that there are good gynecological clinics for koalas. Well at least it's treatable if detected early. That's why I'm going tomorrow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like you've been spending quite a bit of time on this. How have you managed to fit it into your schedule?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's been fun. Jack is feeling better and he's doing some work at home. And when he's busy we have less time to nit pick about each other's schedules."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to hear that Jack is doing better. Is he still on bed rest?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Officially, yes. But he's stubborn. When his ribs were really sore, he listened to his doctors. He didn't really have a choice. But now that he's little better, he's not the perfect patient that he used to be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I brought something for you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Three photographs I took recently. As you've pointed out, the demand on my time has been great lately, so I haven't had the chance to be in the darkroom. I hope that I can get you a couple more next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well may I see the ones you did bring?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. That's why I brought it up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They're very interesting. Could you tell me something about them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not used to explaining my stuff. Normally one just puts it out there and the audience, whoever that may be, makes up its own mind. Sometimes people even find meaning where there was none. That's always entertaining. Some people are so pretentious. They think they know everything. Of course it's also possible that a stranger gives you insight into yourself. I've had that happen to me. But never in an art gallery. A couple of times in a bar, once in a strip joint, but never at a gallery opening."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Who is the woman in the rain?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not rain. It's motion blur, an effect of how I took the picture. And it's not a real person, but a statue. Though none of that is really the point. I wanted to portray a blurring of lines, an uncertain state. Maybe a melancholy feeling as well. To me she's floating in space. I guess similarly to the way in which I'm currently floating in space. You look a bit confused."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No not confused. I'm just waiting for you to give me a real story."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You think that I'm just spewing artist's dribble?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know, are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks a lot Dr. Balis. As I've said, I'm not used to talking about my work. I'm trying."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I appreciate that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Should I go on?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay then. Let's see. The one with the flag, it's the election day special. My politics have been as confused as I've been lately. I voted though. Did you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. I always do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good for you! I won't ask who you voted for, that's your business. But I'm glad to hear that you did vote. All around the office I heard \"I'm too busy,\" or \"I don't care about politics,\" or \"Clinton is going to win away, so what's the point?\" It drove me crazy. There's nothing worse than apathy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree that voting is important."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The one with the dog is the home of a friend of mine. He's totally insane, but I love him. He's the perfect bohemian--lives day to day financially, smokes like hell, drinks like a fish, is better read than anyone I know, and can talk the pants off the president. Any president. He's a bit of a perve, but aren't we all? In any event, when I saw his dog laying there, surrounded by paintings and sexuality, with a \"no visitors permitted\" sign I was kind of jealous. They say it's a dog's life, but what do they know? She was beautiful, well cared for, and she looked happy. Oh hey, I can stop incriminating myself--our hour is up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Unfortunately that's true."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's my exit cue Doctor. Next week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Same time. Will you come?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. As you know, things are a bit hectic with me now. Lets say that I truly look forward to seeing you, so I'll make every effort to be here. If not, I'll call."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I'll schedule you for an appointment, but if you can't make it please at least call and cancel. Take care of yourself Phylis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 10th Session between Dr. Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch and Mr. Jack Birch, Wednesday, November 27th, 1996 at 10:00 am."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis! Good morning. I'm surprised to see you. I was expecting you on last Monday. And the Monday before that. I thought you've given up our sessions all together."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good morning Dr. Balis. I know and I'm very sorry. I told you I was having problems with time and...are you terribly busy?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have a flight to catch to New York in a few hours. But I guess I can make some time for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks so much. This is the second time you've been so accommodating. Come on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Excuse me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is Jack. I hope that's okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please come in Mr. Birch. I'm Dr. Balis.\nOkay. Please sit down. You're looking quite fit.\nThe session only lasts for about an hour--nobody's staying that long. Have a seat."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We've just come out of Jack's physical. The doctor was very pleased with Jack's recovery. He's doing better than the doctor had expected."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's wonderful. Your wife must be taking very good care of you.\nYou don't sound very enthusiastic."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just want you to follow doctor's orders. He's supposed to be on bed rest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes I remember."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He's my psychotherapist. Naturally I speak to him of things that are important to me like your health.\nJack! You never accused me of that before. Do you really feel that way?\nBut...but why do you bring it up now? In front of company?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "None taken."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't believe how rude you're being. I'm sorry about this Doctor Balis. I had no idea that Jack was going to behave like this. We're leaving."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Settle down Phylis. I don't mind Jack airing out his frustrations here."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Should I open my mouth and start bitching too?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If that would make you feel better."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wouldn't. I don't think that solves anything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right then, why don't you tell me what you had in mind for today? Why did you bring Jack here with you? I know this wasn't by accident--you missed two appointments without even bothering to call in and cancel and then you showed up here today, Wednesday, on the day that I usually don't see any patients just hoping to catch me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Basically, I just wanted Jack to meet you and to see and experience what one of our sessions is like."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see.\nOkay. What did you mean when you said that your injuries were Phylis' fault?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes Jack, why don't you tell us more?\nThank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis? Any thoughts?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just that Jack had no business being there in the first place. If he didn't shadow me, none of this would've happened.\nIf you weren't, what were you doing in that neighborhood at ten-thirty at night?\nA likely story. Why didn't you tell me this before? You told me that you would be at a concert that night.\nI see.\nI do. I have plenty of street smarts. I'm not the one who got beat up.\nNo Jack. That isn't it. You've been a fine husband and a wonderful lover. I never had any affair. I'm a happily married woman!\nI am being honest with you.\nI...no. I never have.\nLook Jack, you've got to believe me. When you came into the bar that night, it was the first time that I'd ever seen that guy.\nI was shocked. I didn't expect to see you.\nDoctor Balis tell him. Tell him that I'm telling the truth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's the same thing that she had told me previously in complete confidence."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm trying to work things out here. Can't you tell that I'm being sincere?\nThat's true. Would you be willing to accept that I had a good reason to be there and allow me a little more time to find an adequate way of explaining myself?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis why not take this opportunity to be completely candid with Jack. Waiting will only complicate things."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But...I...I can't just...I had a plan...I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh shit! Very well. Thanks a lot Doc. Isn't it time for us to go?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No I still have a few minutes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh. Jack, I've been doing some dive hunting.\nHow can I explain? Do you recall some months back I talked to you about the difference between a seedy place and a run down place with character?\nYou can?\nYes exactly! You do understand.\nNo. I'm just looking to find some funky places, you know? That includes more than just bars.\nYes. And strip joints.\nYes I do it alone and I've been going for just a few months now.\nLook, it doesn't matter how few or how many. I'm fine. Nobody's tried to kill me or even mug me or anything. I can look out for myself. At least as long as you stay away.\nI've developed this disguise, you see? The way that you saw me that night--\"looking like shit,\" as you put it.\nI love it.\nThe people that I've met, the glimpse of life that I'm normally sheltered from, creating another identity that I always use when I'm out and the ability to maintain it, the insight into my own life that can only come from a radically different perspective...all of it. It's the many things that have congealed into a totally engrossing experience for me. I'm addicted to these things. I need them now. They make me feel alive.\nI mean them full-heartedly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis. Jack. You've got a critical dialogue going here that I don't want to interrupt. But I do have a plane to catch and I must get going. Do you think you could continue this discussion on your own?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh Doctor, we understand and appreciate the time you gave us. Thank you very much and have a good Thanksgiving. Enjoy your trip."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please call me if you need to. Otherwise is the Monday after the long weekend okay--at noon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah maybe. I'll call."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad I could help. But I hope you will continue after you leave.\nThank you and you. It was a pleasure to meet you Jack."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, October 7th, 1996 at 11:20 am.\nHello, art department. Phylis speaking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis, this is Dr. Balis. I wanted to confirm your appointment for this afternoon."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, you have great timing. I've been meaning to call."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? Are you all right? Did something happen to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I really need to speak with you, but I can't make our appointment this afternoon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If this is an urgent matter, you really should try to arrange it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just can't. I'll explain everything when we meet. Either that, or I'll call you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'd rather not talk details at the office."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. You don't sound good at all. Are you okay for the moment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm managing. Would you have time to see me another day this week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Definitely. I'll find the time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. Can you please hold on for one moment while I get my date book?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. When do you have free?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How about tonight? After work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, that doesn't work at all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, how about tomorrow?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tomorrow could work. When do you have free?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anytime other than four to five."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Really? How about after work. Can it be around five-thirty?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes that's fine. I'll expect you then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Dr. Balis. This means a lot to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just make sure that you show up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. Goodbye Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Phylis. I hope you'll be okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh Dr. Balis... oh, well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What? What is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Never mind. I'll see you tomorrow. We'll talk then. Bye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, October 14th, 1996 at 8:35 am.\nHello, Dr. Balis speaking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor. I'm so glad to reach you in person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yes. I'm sorry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't make it in last Monday or last Tuesday. I'm worried about you. How are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm as well as can be expected."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What does that mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I ran into some trouble last Thursday that I'm still dealing with. I know I've been rather unreliable lately, but could you please see me soon? Maybe our usual time today? I know it's last minute."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Will you come if I agree?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very well, today at noon it is. I'd like to speak with you as well. I must tell you that I'm greatly concerned about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually you are right to be. But don't be alarmed. I have gotten something of a grip on myself, kind of."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're calling from a pay phone? Can you speak freely? Where are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well I'm at a coffee shop so I guess I could, but I would rather just see you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's fine. Save the details for when we meet."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. Thanks Dr. Balis. You're the best."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anytime. You know I'm here for you, Phylis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Bye Phylis. I'll see you at noon."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Friday, October 18th, 1996 at 10:30 am.\nHello?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor. Phylis here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Phylis! How are you? How's Jack?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Jack is fine. The problem turned out to be minor. I'm holding in there but looking forward to seeing you on Monday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Me too. So what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Jack's temperature spiked up suddenly. His gum got infected where the tooth was knocked out during the attack in the Tenderloin. Basically, that rapist almost killed my husband. But Jack is a tough guy--with some antibiotics he kicked it pretty quickly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Minor, eh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, considering everything we've been through, a little fever doesn't seem like a such a big deal, if you know what I mean."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you discussed what happened that night?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let's just say it's a hard one to tackle."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes I understand. Phylis, I sorry to have to say this, but now is a really bad time for me. If you are okay, may I call you later?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am, and please don't. Nobody knows that I've been seeing you and I'd like to keep it that way for a while."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll be fine. We'll talk Monday. I just wanted to let you know what's going on, considering the way I ran out on you last week. And thanks for caring."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course I care."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "See you Dr. Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Phylis."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Phylis Birch, Monday, December 2, 1996 at 9:10 am.\nHello, Dr. Balis speaking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, good morning. Phylis here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good morning Phylis. What's up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I wanted to get in touch with you to let you know that we--that is Jack and I--have decided to go away for a few weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A few weeks? Really? That's rather sudden. When are you leaving?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tomorrow. We have a two-thirty flight out. Actually, it's very exciting. We were talking last night...about our last session with you, in fact. Not that we hadn't discussed it before that, but...anyway, Jack gets this idea that what we need is some time away from the city, away from our daily routines, etc. I agreed, so he immediately jumps on the phone and calls our travel agent. Sometimes they're open Sunday evenings. It's a long story as to why, but we love it. Anyway, he calls and books a flight for Mexico. At this point I'm so flabbergasted that I'm not saying no."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why should you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Work mainly. But I thought about it. This is the slow time for us. Several key personnel are going to be out of town. We don't have new projects starting until next year. Now, I think that it's a wonderful idea. Jack, as you've seen, is certainly well enough to travel. We won't do too many strenuous activities, even if it will be tempting. The bottom line is that I think that this will be good for our marriage. We need to spend some time alone. We have a lot to talk about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would have to agree with you there. But how will you organize a trip like this so quickly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Leave that kind thing to Jack. He used to travel a lot so he can pack two weeks worth in a little suitcase. I'm running around trying to close up the house and get the mail and newspaper stopped--that kind of stuff."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I assume you won't have time to come in for today's appointment."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry that such a flake about our dates. Things keep coming up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well send me a postcard from Mexico."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Will do. Thanks for understanding."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have fun."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've never been there before. I know I'll have a blast."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Best of luck to you both in your adventure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thanks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you when you get back."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You bet, with tall tales to tell."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Bye Phylis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Tom Bows, Tuesday, January 14, 1997 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor. I'm Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello. We finally get a chance to meet in person."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it's about time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How's Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's doing all right for the moment. Her contractions are under control, so she feels more confident about the pregnancy. But the medications she is on are wearing her down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In what way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Loss of appetite, sleeplessness, and an over all feeling of being ill."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry to hear that. But from what I've been reading about this subject, those are very common complaints. The good news is that there are only fourteen more weeks to go."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Or the bad news, depending on the point of view."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see my job as making Sylvia realize that that's good news."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Unfortunately I don't think you'll be able to do your job today, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sylvia finally fell asleep about half hour ago and I think that she needs to sleep even more than talk with you, Doctor. She hasn't slept for a couple of nights now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course. I agree with you. I can come and see her some other time. She definitely needs to get a lot of rest. And by the way, it's probably a good idea for you to get some rest too. You look like you haven't slept in a long time either."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't require a lot of sleep, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I work with the East Coast a lot and they start three hours earlier."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia told me that you work long hours. But she also mentioned that you've been cutting down some."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As you said--fourteen weeks is not a long time and there is too much at stake."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Last week Sylvia mentioned that you've been very helpful and supportive."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm glad that she is beginning to notice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She seems to have come to rely on you quite a bit in the last couple of weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think you really know Sylvia, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Huh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Your experience with her has been...let's just say that I don't think that you've ever met the real Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that I've come to know her pretty well these last six months."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She came to you confused and irrational and you drugged her up before even understanding what the situation was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound like you have a lot of hostility against me, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm getting over it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I sincerely believe that I've always acted in Sylvia's best interests."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You should have spent the time to investigate and learn Sylvia's situation and motives."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When Sylvia first came to me, she had serious physical problems that needed to be addressed right away."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't you think I'd noticed that, Doctor? I'm her husband. I've lived with her most of my adult life. I can tell the changes in her mood just by the way she breathes. That's why I think that you jumped the gun with your dependence on chemical solutions and quick fixes. Do you know that I was the one who insisted that Sylvia should seek medical help?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I watched as she seemed to melt under her clothes in just a matter of days. I knew she needed help. Maybe I was hoping for a miracle, but instead..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry you feel this way, Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look it doesn't matter now. I just want to make sure that these kids turn out to be fine. You probably won't believe this Doctor, but I think of them as mine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia mentioned that you're seeking custody."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think that Sylvia is in any shape to be able to provide care or be responsible for anyone right now. Including herself. I don't want to take away these children from Sylvia. I just want to insure their well-being. And I hope some day Sylvia will come to understand this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "May I ask if you're still in love with Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've always been in love with Sylvia and I always will be. But this is irrelevant right now, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I think it's very important. I think you should tell Sylvia you feel this way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sylvia knows. But it no longer holds any significance to her. I'm glad that I can make this time easier for her. And I'm happy that she is letting me help her. But after this is all over...Sylvia made up her mind. Or her mind was made up for her. But whatever the case may be, she is no longer interested in how I might feel about her. She made it quite plain."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look Doctor, it's getting late and I didn't mean to keep you so long. I will make sure Sylvia knows that you've been here. She'll probably call you and set something up. I hope it wasn't too inconvenient for you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It wasn't a problem. Please give my best to Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll do that, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you. Goodbye Tom, please believe me when I tell you that it really was good to meet you in person."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Likewise Doctor. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of conversation between Charles Balis, M.D., Ms. Rene Wolff, Dr. Brian Malleson, and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, March 11, 1997 at 9:10 am at the California Pacific Medical Center.\nHello, Sylvia. How are you doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Magnesium Sulfate. Hello, Rene. Thank you for calling me and letting me know.\nGood. How's she been feeling?\nDoes Tom know that she's here?\nI see. Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are a very brave woman. You've done what everyone thought was impossible--you carried your boys as close to term as average twins ever get. Congratulations. This will soon be over and you'll have the product of your love and labor, so to speak, to meet in person."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Rene, what did Doctor Malleson say last night? Does Sylvia have to stay on this medication for long?\nI understand. Did you stay here all night?\nYou do look like you need some rest.\nAre they coming?\nYes I do.\nThat's very good of you, Rene.\nI spoke with Tom last Friday."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What did he say?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, I thought you were sleeping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What did he say, Doctor? What did he say?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom is feeling very hurt and angry right now..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene, please. Did you make him understand, Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I tried. I think he needs some time to think things through--to figure out what's really important to him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene blames Tom for all my misfortunes. But, Doctor, do you think he will come?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know. I hope so. Doctor Malleson! It's good to see you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm fine, Doctor Malleson.\nI'm not sure. I think so.\nI trust you completely, Doctor Malleson."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When do you expect Sylvia will deliver?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes.\nI..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was good to see you too. Well, sounds like everything is going according to plan.\nWell, I'm going to go too. Looks like you're going to be very busy soon. Rene, please keep me informed.\nSylvia, I'll try to stop by in a few days. I'd like to see you at least one more time before birth, if you don't mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll look forward to it, Doctor. Thank you for stopping by."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No problem. Keep your spirits up. Goodbye, Rene."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of conversation between Charles Balis, M.D., Ms. Sylvia Bows, and Mr. Tom Bows, Friday, March 14, 1997 at 6:15 pm at the California Pacific Medical Center.\nHello, Sylvia. How are you feeling?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello, Doctor. I feel just horrible. I have to keep reminding myself that this will all be over soon or I'll lose my mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, you sound much better. Last time you barely said a few words to me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The end is in sight. And Tom is here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He is here in the hospital?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. He went out to get some food, but he should be back shortly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm very glad to hear that. Are you patching things up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not really clear on exactly where we stand right now. But I'm so happy that he wants to be here with me. And it's not just for the boys. It's for me too. He cares for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did he come?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He showed up Tuesday afternoon. I was asleep and my dad was here. He sat next to the bed and just held my hand. When I woke up, he was still sitting next to me. My dad had apparently gone home. Tom didn't realize right away that I was up. I was able to watch his face as he stared at the baby monitor readouts. He had tears in his eyes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk about what's going to happen next?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I want to give him time to think. I also want him to spend this time with me--to see and feel me next to him. I want him to realize how much I care about him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell him that? Did you tell him that you love him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Words don't mean much. There were a lot of things said between us. A lot of things that weren't true. I want him to feel and experience the bond between us. I think that is more powerful than anything that I might say."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Experiencing the closeness--the bond--is important. But you should also try to tell Tom how you feel about him. I don't know if you noticed, but I certainly have. You never actually say the words, \"I love Tom.\" Even now you managed to avoid it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Those are very scary words, Doctor. Once said, there is no going back. If I say that out loud and Tom leaves, I think I'd die. Maybe not physically, but I would cease to exist as a person."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Loving someone is a risk. But you have to be willing to make that risk, if you want Tom to do the same. You can't just wait for Tom to tell you that you are in love with each other. If you really want him, take the first step."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, here is Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Tom. I'm glad to see you here.\nNo problem. I just stopped by to see how she was doing. Do you know when Doctor Malleson is planning to allow labor?\nI didn't realize that it was going to be so soon.\nHow are the boys doing?\nGood. Well if you don't mind, I would like to come and visit early next week. I would love to actually meet the boys after all this time.\nI understand. Did you come up with names yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We haven't really talked about it yet.\nThat's a good name."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Are you all ready at home?\nGood. Then I'll see all of you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor. Thank you for coming."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sylvia. Good luck. Goodbye, Tom. I am really very happy to see you."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of conversation between Charles Balis, M.D., Mr. Tom Bows, and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, March 18, 1997 at 4 pm at the California Pacific Medical Center.\nHello, Sylvia. Congratulations!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I got a message from Tom last night that the boys have arrived. Are they around? I'd love to meet them."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They are around. I don't know if Tom told you that one of them, Grant, had to go into intensive care."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I didn't know. Is he all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was only 3 pounds, 2 ounces. That's not unusual for preemies of his gestational age. But he was having breathing difficulties and they whisked him away right after delivery. He is doing much better now. But he'll have to stay in the hospital for about two weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How about the other boy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We named him Roald, after my grandfather."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean like Roald Dahl?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've always liked his books. But he's the only one other than my grandfather who've I've ever heard of with that name. I'd hate to name him Bob or something and have three kids with the same name in kindergarden. There'll only be one Roald."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's a nice name."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It made my mother very happy. Roald is doing fine. He was four pounds and five ounces. He was the first to come out and he came out screaming and kicking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you've got a fighter on your hands."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He is wonderful. Despite his size, Doctor Aicardi, our pediatrician, said that we can take him home when they are ready to discharge me. Oh, and you'll love this, Doctor Balis. Tom is right now over at the hospital administration, fighting their release policies."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well they said that they are going to discharge me from the hospital on Thursday. They are discharging Roald at the same time. But they will keep Grant hospitalized for the next few weeks. I'm breast feeding both of them, every two hours. Do you see the problem? I can't bring Roald with me into the infant ICU and frankly I don't want to. But I need to stay here at the hospital for Grant. We just assumed that they would just let me stay here while Grant is not ready to go home. But they are kicking me and Roald out. How am I supposed to be here for both of them?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds ridiculous. You clearly have special circumstances and should be allowed to stay at the hospital while you need to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently it's not hospital policy. If I didn't have a caesarean, they would have kicked me out even sooner."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You had a caesarean? I thought you just said that..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never seem to get a break, Doctor. I had it both way--Roald was first and was delivered vaginally. But Grant wasn't doing well. The prolonged labor stressed him out and left him completely exhausted. When his heart started showing irregularities, the doctors thought it would be best to get him out in the gentlest way possible. Hence the caesarean."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry, Sylvia. How are you feeling now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm okay. I wouldn't recommend this as a form of entertainment. But then again, pregnancy wasn't all that amusing either. I will never understand women who swear that they enjoy being pregnant and that bringing a new life into this world is the most wonderful experience that they ever had. As much as I adore my boys, I think the process of getting them was the most physically and emotionally draining thing I will ever do in this life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have to say that you are a poster girl for teen pregnancies."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, absolutely! If those kids had glances into my reality, teenage pregnancy wouldn't be an issue. I should probably think about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "About what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Writing an article on the hazards of pregnancy to one's health."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I bet it would be very good reading and quite illuminating."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see you got quite a collection of flowers."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Everyone came through. That basket over there is from SII. The roses are from Richard. And that huge monstrosity over there in the corner is from Lloyd."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Wow."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They had to move an armchair out of the room to fit it in. I don't know what he was thinking sending something like that to a hospital room. I guess he was trying to impress me. Everything Lloyd does has to be over the top."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A small moving van could probably get it into your house."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm donating it to the hospital gardens. Oh, here is Roald."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He is a beautiful baby, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know just what to say to a new mother, Doctor. You must have professional training."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He has no hair."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "His brother got all of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really? Even though Grant is younger?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently gestational age is not an indicator or predictor of hair quantity. Grant came out needing a hair cut. If you excuse me, Doctor, I need to feed this little boy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't mind. I'll just sit right here and watch. I'm kidding, Sylvia. I'd like to go and visit with Grant, if it's okay with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. Thank you for caring so much, Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And he is one beautiful kid. I'll see you soon, Sylvia. Just let me know when I can come over."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you don't mind, I'd like to set up our regular meetings on Tuesdays again. Is it all right to meet in my house for a little while longer? It would be very difficult for me to go to your office right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you at your house next Tuesday at four."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sylvia. I bet you're soon going to be a whole lot less shy about breast feeding, too. I've seen women go from absolute secusion to wearing shirts with buttons down the front so that they can whip them out at the first sign of a demand. Oh Tom!\nOh, it's good to see you, Tom. Congratulations. You have beautiful little boys.\nI have. And I was about to go visit Grant."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye, Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how are you doing?\nI heard.\nSo you weren't successful at working out an arrangement with the hospital? They are making Sylvia go home Thursday?\nHow are you doing otherwise?\nI'm glad. I think it was a good decision--a good decision for you.\nI'd like to help you and Sylvia work it out.\nI'm perfectly healthy.\nNo problem. I understand completely.\nThat's a lot even for a large hospital like this.\nI'm amazed how different Grant is from his brother. Sylvia said that he had more hair. But even the expressions on his face...\nThank you for letting me see your boys, Tom. I arranged with Sylvia to visit at your house next Tuesday.\nThank you, Tom. I appreciate that.\nOh. Have good day, Tom. Good luck."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 25th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, January 7, 1997 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor. It's nice to see you. Did you have a good New Year's Eve?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I should be asking you that Sylvia. How do you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been better. But overall, I guess I got off easy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you figure?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I was in the hospital last week, I thought that was it--I'd lost my babies. I kept asking the doctor what were my chances and she never gave me a straight answer. So I knew it was bad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I talked to Tom and he filled me in a little."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom was fantastic. He just lifted me up and got me to the hospital and got everyone to fuss over me. He saved my babies' lives. I'm convinced that if it wasn't for him...oh I can't even think about what would have happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad that Tom's been there for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He is more than that Doctor. I feel like without him I wouldn't have a chance. He makes me believe that everything will turn out okay. I don't know how he does it, but his very presence calms me down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are placing a lot of trust in Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, without question he's the only person I would trust or believe at this point. I mean you too, obviously, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you, I hope so."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh of course. But I feel like doctors at the hospital, and nurses too, they just have too much to deal with there--a lot of patients and not enough hands to go around. It would be so easy for someone to forget or to miss something. And I was so out of it there. There was no way I could keep track of what was going on. I gave Tom my health care power of attorney--I wanted someone to be able to make decisions on the spot and I was just too drugged to make them myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are no longer worried about Tom's motivations?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess that was really silly. I was very paranoid but I do believe now that Tom actually cares. He genuinely wants to see these babies born and thrive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I got that impression as well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wished I had believed you, Doctor. It would have saved me a lot of aggravation, but it's not important now. You know, when I was in the hospital last week, I saw Tom cry. He didn't know that I was looking--I was so sick that he just assumed that I was too out of it to notice. But I was very touched. It was like finding out that your very best friend you'd thought died a long time ago is suddenly alive and well and is coming to your rescue. The last couple of days I've been seeing more and more of the old Tom that I fell in love with. He is caring and attentive and he is there for me. He is like a giant mountain ready to shield me from any trouble or to come to my defense."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what are your plans now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean regarding divorce and Tom?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you still planning on going through with it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We haven't talked about that. Frankly, I don't even know if he would want to stay married to me after all this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you two have a lot to talk about."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But I want to keep focused on the babies. They are my priority right now. There is nothing that is more important to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that's true for Tom as well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so too. But things are going so well between us right now. I want to give us a chance to fully explore our options before we commit to something by having this conversation too early. Does that make sense to you Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you haven't made up your mind about Tom yet."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess that's it. I feel like I'm operating in the emergency mode and this is the kind of decision I would like to make on a clear day. But I'm thrilled and extremely grateful that Tom is taking such a strong role right now. He is so strong and determined that I feel like he can make everything all right by sheer will power. On the other hand, I've been feeling almost paralyzed with terror and I'm very afraid of making the wrong decision."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What wrong decision?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Keeping the labor at bay seems such a delicate balance between the health of the mother and that of the babies. I would gladly sacrifice my health to make them all right. But it's not how it is. I have to stay relatively healthy so these babies will get the nourishment they need from me. The tocolitic drugs keep me sick and nauseated the entire time. Instead of gaining weight, I'm losing it. I force myself to eat every day. And my mind is all cloudy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm having trouble concentrating."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem to be doing fine now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. I'm constantly forgetting what I want to say to you. My thoughts seem to be slippery and I can't hold on to them long enough to make a point. I have trouble reading. I have a book that Doctor Rush gave to me in the hospital. It talks about all the drugs and all the procedures that they can do for me right now to keep my babies from being born. There is also a large section on premature infants. I keep trying to read all of this but I'm having trouble keeping it in my head and making connections between the ideas in the various sections of the book. This is one of the reasons I gave Tom the power of attorney. He is reading and researching all the alternatives so that if the time comes he can make an educated choice as to the course of action we should take. I trust that he will make the right decision."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure he will. You mentioned being terrified. Are you mostly terrified of losing the babies?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel guilty for saying this but no."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it then? Are you afraid of getting sick yourself?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. That's the least of my worries. What I'm mostly concerned with is the state...the medical condition these boys will be in when they're born. I'm worried about underdeveloped lungs and underdeveloped hearts. I'm worried about brain damage. I read some studies before and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The technology advances everyday. What was true yesterday is no longer true today. I recently heard about a girl who survived after being born at twenty-four weeks. She's okay and her parents are fine. They showed her on the news. She is a beautiful little girl now. And that was almost a year ago. And now you are even further along than she was--you are at twenty-five weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know Doctor. I mark off every hour. But I don't want to be lucky--I don't want to have a miracle survivor story that is featured on the news. I want an ordinary, even boring, birth story--a nothing to talk about story. Do you understand?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes I do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want to be a boring patient--the kind which nothing happens to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, one thing you are not is a boring patient."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But I want to be. Actually Doctor, I'm getting very tired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Should we stop for today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you don't mind. I'm feeling myself slipping away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No problem. I'll see you next week. Please give me a call if...if you just want to talk."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. Thank you Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia. Be well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll give it all I can. Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 26th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, January 21, 1997 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor. Please sit down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm very sorry about last time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were tired; I understand. It gave me a chance to meet Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I heard a little about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Anything you'd like to share?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually I was hoping you'd fill me in. Tom just told me that he said hello to you and apologized for my absence. I have a feeling there was more than Tom was willing to tell me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was a fairly short conversation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom expressed a lot of frustration and hostility toward me. I told him it was unfortunate that he felt that way since we both have a common goal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What's that?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We both want you to have a successful pregnancy and come out on the other side with two beautiful children and a sound mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have to say that I've been thinking a lot about Tom and what he's done for me and I'm beginning to believe that that's his goal as well. Just a month ago, I wouldn't have believed that Tom had any good intentions towards me, but lately...well, it's amazing how things can change in just a few days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you feel about Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm very grateful to him for what he's doing. I've been living day-to-day, hour-by-hour. It's hard not to do that in my situation. And I find myself forgetting how I got here in the first place. I'm forgetting the rage I felt toward Tom for what he did to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He is not responsible for your early labor, or your weak cervix, or your bedrest..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For that matter, he is not responsible for my pregnancy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "True. So the rage you felt towards him was for almost leaving you childless. It wasn't for your current condition. Now that it is certain that you'll be a mother, that old rage no longer has the fire to keep going."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it's true--it doesn't really matter anymore. I got what I wanted. Or almost."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just thirteen more weeks to go. You're almost there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. It's unbelievable to me. But I still feel like I'm holding my breath until it's all over."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's natural. Even women with perfect pregnancies feel that way sometimes. But you never finished telling me about how you feel about Tom. The rage is gone. But what's left?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. I need time to find out. Did Tom say anything about how he felt?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He is still feeling a lot of anger."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what I thought. We never really talk about anything other than the immediate situation. I'm not sure if it's fear or if we are just concentrating on the problems at hand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you afraid of talking to Tom about your relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If I was Tom, I would never forgive me for what I've done. But on the other hand, I don't think that I will ever be able to forgive him either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Even after the boys are born?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Maybe it would just stop being important. But that's just my side. For Tom--he would have to spend the rest of his life supporting these children knowing that...I'm not sure he would be able to look at them and not think about what I've done."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "At some point you will have to discuss some of these issues with Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I realize that Doctor. But I don't feel pressed to do it right now. Tom is willing to put all legal actions off for the next thirteen weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's very nice of him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure it's that, or that until these children are born and their medical situation is fully established, there is really nothing concrete to fight about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, I don't think that's right. There is still the ultimate issue of custody and there is no legal reason why Tom should wait to decide it. I think Tom is genuinely trying to make things easier on you right now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If he didn't and something happened to the kids because I was too upset, how would he be able to live with himself?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "While that might be a factor in his decision to put things off, I'm sure it's not the only thing that motivates him. I think Tom really cares about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let's not talk about it right now, okay Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure, we have time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I'm really tired now. Do you think we can call this a short session?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course Sylvia. I'll see you next week at this same time, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That'd be great. I'm sorry to crap out on you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Nonsense. It's important for you to rest too. Goodbye Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor. Thanks for being understanding."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No problem. I'll see myself out."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No kidding."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 27th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, January 28, 1997 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor. It's nice to see you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Sylvia. How are you feeling today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not bad. Tired. But I seem to always be tired lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You look wonderful--very pregnant."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You should keep looking--the boys have been very active today. My whole belly seems to have a life of its own. You can see them move from across the room!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tell me when you feel something."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. Tom says that sometimes it looks like I have kittens fighting under my shirt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd like to see that. So how was your week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's been all right. I don't get to get out much and being in this room day after day really focuses my attention on these kids and how my body is changing to accommodate them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Seems perfectly natural."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's strange how the outside world has lost most of its appeal to me. I don't even read the newspaper anymore. If you told me a year ago that I would care so little about the outside world I would have accused you of not understanding my very being--of not knowing what makes me tick. Now my whole world has shrunk to the size of my uterus. I pay a lot of attention to every twitch and every ache. I don't want to miss a single sign that my body is willing to give me. You see this computer next to my chair?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I was wondering about that. I thought it was a fancy telephone."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a device that links me directly to the hospital."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They brought it in yesterday. I put this belt around my waist and the sensors inside it record any contractions that I may have during a particular period. This allows me and the nurses to monitor how strong and how far apart my contractions are. If they get too strong or happen at regular intervals, the nurses call my doctors and they decide whether to increase the dose of my anti-contraction medication. Hopefully this device will keep the babies inside for a few weeks longer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So the sensors in this belt record the contractions and send them via modem to the hospital?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Except the data is first sent to this monitoring service which examines how far apart the contractions are, how many are in an hour, and how strong they are. Then they pass this information along to Doctor Malleson."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How many times a day do you have to monitor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do three times a day. What really surprised me was how hard it was for me to tell if I was having a contraction. I thought it would be easy. I thought it would hurt or something equally obvious. But since this is still so early in the pregnancy, I feel only the very strong contractions. They feel like my stomach tightens up like a drum and then relaxes again after about a minute. But some of the contractions that show up on this monitor I can't feel at all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad that there is this kind of technology."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Me too. I'm so grateful to my doctor and all the nurses too. If it wasn't for them...it's scary to think what would have happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So now you don't even have to leave your house to get a check-up, huh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, I was sort of looking forward to my outings even if they were only to the doctor's office."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How often did you have to go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Every Monday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So yesterday was your last time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For a while. Actually something strange happened yesterday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, when I was waiting for the ultrasound technician in the maternity ward of the hospital yesterday, I saw one of my writers from SII. I sort of got a feeling that he was there waiting for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You might remember me mentioning Hal Mainor--one of the potential fathers?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I remember Hal. You didn't seem to be too fond of him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was very strange."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then or now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Both actually. I had to send him home to work because he was constantly hanging around me for some reason. And in the hospital yesterday, he was very strange. I thought I recognized him when we first walked in there. But he pretended that he hadn't seen us and I let it go at that. Then Tom went to the bathroom and as soon as he left me, Hal came over."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did he want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At first it was the regular \"Hi, how are you.\" Except he constantly was looking around as if he was expecting someone. I asked if he was there with his wife--most men don't hang around the maternity ward of a hospital without a reason. But he told me that he and his wife are no longer really together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He continued by saying just how important our evening of passion together was for him. He said that it changed his life. That's how he put it, \"Our evening of passion.\" I was getting kind of uncomfortable. He kept looking at me with these sort of pleading, rodent kind of eyes. I kept thinking of a weasel. He was so furtive, always glancing around hurriedly like he was about to be caught. I guess he was afraid of Tom--that's all I can figure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So he's twitching around--he really is remarkably unattractive. And then he asked if he could feel my baby. I told him that it was actually two--two boys. But before I could really stop him, he's down on his knees next to the chair with his hands on my belly. You know Doctor, people ask me about my pregnancy all the time. Somehow being pregnant gives everyone permission to touch your tummy. Everyone in my family felt the boys punch around in there. But with Hal...that was really strange."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He made you feel uncomfortable? Do you think that Hal might believe that the babies are his?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought I made it very plain that they weren't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you remember actually talking to him about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought I did. But in any case, here was Hal on his knees with his hands on my belly looking into my face with the most bizarre expression and Tom comes back. So I introduced them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hal pulled his hands away like he got caught stealing a cookie or something. It was almost funny. He told Tom that he was a friend and a co-worker from SII. And then he told him that we were very close. Very close. I thought I was going to kick him right there in the hospital waiting room. The nerve! But Tom took his hand and shook it and pulled him up off his knees. Hal finally got embarrassed and, murmuring something about meeting someone, hurried away. I was left to explain to Tom who this weirdo was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was Tom understanding?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't go into too many details. I just said that he was a writer who worked for me and was having a nervous breakdown. I told him that I was forced to send him to work at home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you don't think Tom..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't think that Tom knows just how many men I had. I have a feeling that he thinks that I had an affair with Richard and no one else."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Tom tell you that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Not explicitly. I sort of gathered it from the conversations we had together about this subject. Not very numerous, I must admit, but that's the sense I get."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That Tom believes that there is only one possible father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I think so. So I don't think that Tom thought of Hal as anything but strange."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And what do you think Hal wanted from you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he's been trying to get in touch with me for weeks now. He said that there is something very important that he wants to discuss with me. But it's strange--I didn't get any messages or e-mail or anything from him. I should try to check it out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. To change the subject just a little bit--have you heard from Richard lately?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Not a thing. Come to think of it that's a bit odd too. Richard is not the kind of guy who would stop communicating. Maybe he's been sick or something. I'll give him a call."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that's wise?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why not? He was a very nice guy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want him to get involved at this point? Didn't he try to ask you to marry him last time you talked?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I would tell him about Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "My advice Sylvia is that it might be better to leave good enough alone for right now. Just let things lie. The situation between Richard and Tom is potentially a bit explosive, and I really think it would be better to wait until after your babies are born before you stir things up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess you're right Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wanted to ask you how you were keeping up with your work at SII? I know you were going to work at home. How's that going?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh god. It's just the last thing I have energy for these days. They've been very understanding at work and have really lightened up on the requests for my time. I really need to remember to tell Lloyd just how grateful I am for his understanding how important these babies are to me. Actually, Doctor, I think I need to stop for now. It's amazing how tired I get in just a few minutes of conversation. I hope you're not taking this personally. It's not just you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know that. I know you have very limited energy nowadays, Sylvia. I'll see you next week. Let me know if Hal tries to get in touch with you again."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. You're the only one I would care to discuss this with Doctor. I'll let you know if that lunatic surfaces again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Have a good week Sylvia. Feel well and I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll look forward to it. Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 28th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, February 4, 1997 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor. It's always good to see you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Sylvia. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I knew you were going to ask that question, so I thought about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Usually my patients don't think that's a complicated question."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not complicated. I just wanted to convey the exact sense of how I'm feeling."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh oh. There's a note of your voice that's making me worried."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The babies are just fine, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not what I was thinking about."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well you can clearly read me better than most people I know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what is it? Tom? Work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually I believe it's both. Remember I mentioned that I sort of slipped out of touch with SII?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that you thought Lloyd was very understanding of your situation and extremely accommodating to your present needs--bed rest with very few outside distractions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Now that you say it, I can't believe that I was this naive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So SII is not being as understanding and supportive as you thought?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well I thought it was strange that I never got any of the messages that Hal--that lunatic--claimed to have sent me. At first I was just curious. At heart, I'm still a reporter. So I wanted to investigate what was going on in my absence. But I didn't want to just call and ask. If people were really worried about me, they would keep quiet about anything distressing. So you can see Doctor, I couldn't simply get on the phone and start asking questions."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look around this room Doctor. This looks like command central. I have three computers set up in here, two modems--one's for my hospital monitoring, but still.... I have full access to the Internet and to the SII network. I should be able to have access to any information that I might be interested in. And certainly to my e-mail. E-mail is what Hal claimed he was sending me. So I started there. Well, guess what?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No e-mail?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, please calm down. You're flushed. I don't think elevating your blood pressure can be good for you right now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I'm more than just flushed! I'm outraged."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. Could it just have been a computer glitch?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I told you that I'm a reporter at heart and what reporter would stop this early in an investigation?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So there's more?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yes. Let's move on to my personal e-mail."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This has nothing to do with SII?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They pay for my Internet account but they have nothing more to do with it. It was one of the perks they offered when they were trying to seduce me into working for SII."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are the only one who has access?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In theory. But my password is in my log-in sequence and anyone can get onto the net via my account as long as they do it from this machine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And that includes your e-mail?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course. Please understand Doctor that I'm a great believer in e-mail as communication. I've been a big evangelist for it. With e-mail, I always get things in writing. I know if my e-mail has been received, and I have a record of my communications. E-mail is very valuable to me and I give out my e-mail address to a lot of people. On an average day, I probably get 70 messages."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Personal messages?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Some personal and some are newsgroups and listservs. But I do get a lot of personal messages. So when I log on, I expect to get a flood of e-mail. But this time, with the exception of the newsgroups and listservs which I filter into separate folders, I only received ten messages in two weeks! I got three messages from Rene, one message from Robert, one message from Cassie--my former secretary, three solicitations, and two notes from some personal friends in France. That's all! I know that there is something going on here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Most people know that you're on bed rest..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, very few people know that. Some close friends and people at work who need to know--my department mostly. The rest at SII just know that I'm on maternity leave and it was announced that I would be working at home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "People talk, the word gets around."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There wasn't a single message from Richard, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He knows your personal e-mail?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. In fact, the last time I checked my e-mail I had 8 messages from Richard. This time I had none. Strange don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you suspect that Tom has been deleting your e-mail correspondence?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Keeping track, censoring, and yes, deleting the mail that he finds inappropriate."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a tough accusation. Are you sure?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Who else? Who else would want to monitor my communications? As it is, I know that he censors my phone calls--I never receive messages from Richard and hardly ever from anyone at SII. I know that Tom is keeping me cut off from the outside world."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you knew that Tom was not letting you get phone calls from outside, why didn't you confront him on it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For a long time, I was just too sick to deal with the outside. I told you that I even stopped reading the newspapers. I knew that Tom set up a barricade to keep people from bothering me unnecessarily. I even thought it was...sweet. But it's one thing to tell people that I'm too sick to talk on the phone and it's another to start deleting my messages."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Tom talk to you about people who called?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He would always mention a few. But he made it sound like it wasn't a big deal if I didn't call them back."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what is it that makes you so upset about e-mail? It sounds as if you like the fact that Tom has protected you against stress."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "E-mail is different. When you call someone on the phone, you know someone else might answer the phone. And when you don't get through on the phone, you know you didn't get through. E-mail is different. It's addressed directly to somebody. You don't expect that the message is going to go through someone else first. You think it's going to be private. And when you send someone e-mail, if it doesn't bounce, you assume that they got it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you talked to Tom about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he was just trying to manage the flow of information--to keep the system from bogging down with too much e-mail. When I asked why he was deleting my messages, he simply said that he had a good reason and that if there was something that I needed to know urgently, he would certainly let me know. I know something's up. I think that there is something happening at SII and that everyone is trying to keep it from me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't think Tom might just be jealous of Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Could be, but I'm not getting e-mail from anyone at SII. I called my department last Friday, and my personal line was answered by this guy Nils Landors. From what I can remember, he works in the Advertising Department. I asked him who he was--I don't think he recognized my voice. He said that he's running the Technical Support Department. I asked where Ms. Bows was. He said that Ms. Bows retired and that he was appointed in her place. I said that I thought she was just having a baby, and he said that she had decided to pursue motherhood full time. We chatted about how a hard driving career woman could give it all up once the hormones took hold."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He told you all this on the phone without asking who you were?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not really. I had to get him talking, so I said that I was a reporter for Wired Magazine. I said that I was doing a piece on technical support provided by large companies--can you imagine?--and he was perfectly happy to believe it. Mr. Landors loved talking to me. I don't think he's really made the transition from advertising yet. What a sap."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Did you try to contact Lloyd?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That son of a bitch is vacationing on his private island near Bali. He's not due back for another week and a half. I think that I was replaced...fired...and that Tom knows about it. That would explain the freeze out of the SII Network, and Tom's weird secret \"good reason\" for deleting my e-mail. What I don't understand is how SII thinks they can get away with it? I'm on maternity leave. If, in my absence, they give away my job to someone else, do they think I'm just going to roll over? There are laws against this kind of stuff. They're going to have a hell of a lawsuit on their hands, and I think they'll find I can muster up a lot of negative publicity. I have friends, Doctor. I'm sure they'll find my story interesting and newsworthy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Whatever you do Sylvia, you have to wait until after the twins are born. I know they're your first priority and you just can't make yourself sick over work right now. Your lawsuit will wait. If you're right, Tom might have gone overboard trying to minimize your exposure, but he is correct that this can't be good for you or the boys right now. I'm sure he had a sense of the righteous indignation you'd feel at being ill-treated by SII. You have got to let all of this go for now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure I can do that, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you planning?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For now I just want Rene to visit SII and tell me first hand what's happening there. I can trust Rene to tell me things just as they are."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She can get access?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene's done some freelance stuff for SII in the past."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And once you have your proof?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know yet. I'll see. It's getting late Doctor. Thank you for listening to me and trying to keep me rational about all this. I really appreciate it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please keep me up to date on your decisions and plans. I can't help you if I don't know what's going on. And remember what you priorities are. It's easy to get lost in the passion of it all and lose sight of what's really important."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor for caring so much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Sylvia. Please take care."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will Doctor. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 29th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, February 11, 1997 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fine, thank you. Please sit down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So is there any news on the SII saga?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I got some interesting information. Did I tell you that I was going to send Rene over to spy for me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mentioned that you were planning it. Did she go yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She went last Friday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did it go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was interesting. First of all, she saw Lloyd there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you said that he was away at his private paradise or something."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what they told me. Now I don't know if it just happened that he came back early or they were just trying to throw some smoke in my eyes. But in any event he hasn't returned any of my phone calls yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't have much contact with Mr. Major. Is that normal for him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There is nothing normal about Lloyd."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I meant is he usually prompt at returning his messages."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know what you meant, Doctor. But the answer to that question depends on who left the message. Before this, I've always been in the \"get back to her quick\" category. But I guess things changed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene also visited my department. She knows a few people there and she stopped by to say hello. They told her that it's been very strange since I was gone. Everyone in the department has been interviewed and forced to answer questions about working conditions, fellow workers, and the relationship between management and the production teams. From what Rene was able to gather, the main purpose of these interviews was to gather information about me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sure?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene talked to several people in my department and they all believed it. They said that most of the questions had my name in it. It sounds like Lloyd is doing a witch hunt and I'm the witch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. But I haven't even begun to fight. Lloyd is not being very smart, you know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Do you know him Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've seen him a couple of times, even exchanged a few words, but that's it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well what you don't know is that Lloyd is a very easy target. And one would think that he'd know better than to mess around with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps you should wait to find out what he has in mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not planning on rushing into anything. You'll see. I'll play it just right. Rene saw the guy that Lloyd is thinking of replacing me with, uh, Niles something or other..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Nils Landors."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. For a moment his name just completely escaped me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Rene actually talk with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No and yes. Everyone in my department knows Rene is my cousin. So Rene played it really straight--just stopping by to say hello, nothing more. Nils briefly came out of his...my office and said hello. He asked how I was feeling, the usual bullshit polite conversation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what did Rene think of him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that he is clearly one of Lloyd's boys, if you know what I mean."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean he's a company man?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, that's not it at all. Do you know about Lloyd's sexual preferences?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Isn't Mr. Major married and has children?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think they have a very clear understanding--they stay out of each other's way and behave nicely for company and the press."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Mr. Nils Landors fits Lloyd's standard profile--he is in his late twenties. He has that pony tail hair thing going. He is into sports--rollerblading mostly. And Nils is very fond of the life of luxury--the style of the very rich."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are implying that Lloyd and Nils are..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not implying Doctor, I'm saying it--Lloyd and Nils are lovers. It's not the first time that a young attractive cadet got promoted at SII in such a fashion. They tend not to stay long though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Lloyd's homosexuality common knowledge?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Lloyd is firmly in the closet, if that's what you mean."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But if he's sleeping with people in the company..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would be surprised if someone in SII's upper management didn't have direct knowledge or involvement with some of Mr. Major's affairs. But I don't think it is a common knowledge outside that ring. But there's certainly a few people who know about it. There's a young man who was interning in my department's secretarial pool who had an encounter with Mr. Major. He came to me hysterical one morning saying that his life was completely ruined."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he tell you what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, in detail. Lloyd did his usual seduction thing. He took Tony out to dinners and theater, in Europe of course--wouldn't want the local crowd to notice the relationship. Tony even got a tour of Lloyd's island paradise. Finally, completely overwhelmed by Lloyd's attentions, Tony declared his love. Apparently, it was Tony's first time--he was just seventeen. But Lloyd's fickle and has a very short attention span. After about a month, he moved on to his next victim."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think Tony talked about this with others in your office?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. It's not his way. He was terrified of Lloyd and kept on talking about being afraid of Lloyd's goons."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did he talk to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It just happened. He was working with me that morning and he was incredibly distracted. I called him on it a couple of times and then I noticed that he was crying. I took him into my office and we talked. I never told anyone about this until now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you planning on using this information against Lloyd?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right now I don't know enough to plan anything effectively. But if that rollerblading snowboarding son of a bitch is really planning to do me in, I guess I would find something to do with this information. God, Tony was a minor for Christ's sake. And Lloyd is old enough to be Tony's grandfather! Do you know how Mr. Major made his fortune?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I've never heard the story."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you interested?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Lloyd has a degree in chemistry or biochemistry, I don't exactly remember. After he graduated from college, he managed to get involved with a group of young chemists who came up with this new super weather-resistant material. Lloyd became a partner in the company that they started. The material they patented became indispensable in making high quality ski suits and other outdoor gear. In a couple of years, Lloyd was a millionaire. He had a good head for business and made several very good investments. And now he's got the private jet, and the yacht, and the private island, and the houses in London and Florence."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about SII?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Lloyd likes high tech toys."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think I ever worked for a toy before."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "SII is a good company and it's responsible for many technological innovations in computing. But for Lloyd, it's just a way of being cool and technologically hip."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "By the way, I also asked Rene to find Richard and give him a hello from me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, he was trying to get in touch with me for a long time. He said that he even talked with Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought Tom got a restraining order."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He managed to get through and tell him about what was going on with Lloyd and Nils and my department. So I was right. Tom knew about what was going on at SII and tried to keep it away from me by censoring my e-mail, phone calls, and snail-mail. That explains why I didn't get a single message from Richard all this time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He was trying to warn you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And otherwise...how is Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene said that he was still incredibly attached to me although he understood my need to keep the emotional noise level down and will stay away until the babies are born. But Rene had to promise to keep him informed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Rene tell him about you and Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene is not thrilled about Tom and me trying to work things out. She hasn't been coming over as much as I would want her to--she is staying out of Tom's way. So I don't know what she told Richard about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Rene disapprove of you and Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's not as much as that. Rene thinks that what Tom did to me can never be forgiven or forgotton. But she also understands my need to try to make things okay again. She lost the man she loved very early in her life and she never managed to find anyone else to fill that void. She raised Robert alone and I don't think she wants me to share that fate. I used to be very much in love with Tom. Rene knows that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you still?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's different now. It's getting late Doctor and you should go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Wow. Okay, we'll take this up again next week, Sylvia. Take care."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. Have a good week Doctor and thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 30th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, February 18, 1997 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor. It's nice to see you. You know, sometimes I think that our sessions are the only islands of sanity in my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Had a bad week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I feel like I live in a soap opera--there's never a dull moment and there is always some sort of crisis going on. I swear if I ever write a book about my life people would just assume it's a work of fiction. Could anyone ever be asked to believe this?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean your twins?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Them too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are they doing? How was your check up with Doctor Malleson yesterday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The boys seem to be doing fine. They are getting to be a respectable size--about three and a half pounds for one and two pounds for the other. Together, I'm carrying the weight of a newborn infant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But they are still much too small, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not planning on giving birth this minute, Doctor. I'm hoping for a few more weeks. That should give their lungs and hearts time to mature a bit more. But I'm confident now that if I do give birth today, the boys will live."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm very glad to hear that. So what happened last week to put you in such a strange mood today? Did you finally talk to Mr. Major?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Indeed I have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And? Are you being fired?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not according to Lloyd."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what's going on? What about Nils?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, let me explain. Lloyd finally called me back Wednesday of last week. As always, he was extremely charming and pretended that he just didn't understand my agitation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell him that you knew about Nils?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I said that Rene visited my department last week and she got a very strong impression that I was being replaced by Mr. Landors."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell Lloyd that you spoke with Nils personally?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Well Mr. Major was extremely apologetic for Mr. Landors."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Apologetic?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He basically told me that he was having a fling with Mr. Landors and that somehow Mr. Landors got it into his head that he would be replacing me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Lloyd make him believe that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I suppose. Mr. Major is big on making promises that he never plans to keep, especially to his lovers."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Lloyd actually tell you that Nils was his lover?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He checked out the waters first--he made sure that I all ready knew about his little habit and then he was much freer with the rest of his account. Lloyd told me that he assumed that I would be out of commission for some time. He said that he was surprised that I was willing to do a lot of work at home given the difficulties with my pregnancy. But he was willing to accommodate me and try to work it out so that I had the ability to work from here if I so desired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But he still put Nils in charge of your department."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I asked him about that. He told me that he didn't think Nils could do much damage there--my staff is very well trained and I left at a time when a lot of the work could be taken care of without much supervision. Basically Lloyd was trying to make Nils feel good about himself. He even assured me that he would keep Mr. Landors away from the office as much as possible so that he would keep out of my business."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How nice of Mr. Major."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Lloyd tries to be accommodating to everyone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Did his explanation satisfy you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course not. I told him that I also knew about the interviews."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he know about them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At first he pretended that he didn't know anything about them. But I pressed on--it's not like it's a regular procedure to question everyone in the department about their boss while she is away on maternity leave. Nils was clearly trying to find some information and I have to presume that it was under the direction of Mr. Major."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did Lloyd have to say about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He told me that he was amazed to hear it. He wanted to know if I was sure about this. I told him that he hired an investigative reporter and should know better than to try to blow smoke in my eyes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did that work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Lloyd admitted that he might know where Nils got the idea to question my people although he said that Nils was completely on his own about this and that he, Lloyd, would have never given such an instruction to that little pipsqueak. He even went farther to say that if Nils, \"that little cocksucker\" as he called him, was trying for my job he was in for one hell of a surprise. Lloyd assured me that he worked hard getting me for this job and was not about to lose me over a piece of tail no matter how good he might be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I guess that's reassuring."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I asked Lloyd where Nils might have gotten the idea that there might be something valuable in questioning the people in my department."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, that's right. And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's where I felt that Lloyd was clearly avoiding telling me the truth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What made you think so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just the way he started to phrase things and the tone in his voice. He was trying very hard to circumvent the issue. But when pressed, he did admit that he told Nils that there were rumors about my sexual conduct at SII."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you surprised?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A little. Who I socialized with after hours is strictly my business."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You did break into SII's health records and get the HIV status information on every male SII employee."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Lloyd apparently knew about that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I found out from Ms. Wolf, if you remember."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That bitch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's safe to assume that Mr. Major got the same memo."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But that was months ago."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What else did Lloyd indicate he knew?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that there were rumors that my babies were fathered by someone at SII."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he tell you why he would care about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. He was trying to get a reaction out me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that the father of my babies was Tom Bows. And it's true. Tom is the legal father of my boys even if he is not their biological parent."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was Lloyd satisfied with that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He seemed to be. I also asked him about my SII account."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I was interested in what happened with it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He told me that they were upgrading their firewall and he would be happy to get someone to investigate my log-on problems for me. And that was that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So do you believe him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I believe some of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You still think that Lloyd is responsible for the interviews?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think he told a very interesting story to Nils and made a few implications..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If Nils did some footwork, gathered some information..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Precisely--then Lloyd would show his appreciation by giving Nils my job. I'm not saying that that is in fact what Lloyd would have done if Nils was successful. It's just what he could have made Nils believe. So Nils took Lloyd's advice and started the investigation. I also believe that it wasn't an accident that I was cut off from the SII network."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You think that Lloyd is responsible for that too?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If Nils wanted to go through my personal computer records...well I might be a bit paranoid there. I don't know. We'll see how things turn out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what will happen now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My guess is Lloyd is going to have a little talk with Nils. But I still don't know why Lloyd wanted to know so much about me that he would risk a scandal. He knew I wouldn't take this lying down."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps he thought that he had a good cover story."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perhaps. I talked with Tom about this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What does Tom think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He thinks that Lloyd is up to something. But he is urging me to stay out of it until the boys are born. You know Doctor, I'm just amazed at how obsessed Tom is about these kids. For a man who never wanted to have children, this is practically a miracle turn around in world view. But our time is up. Thank you for listening to me Doctor. By the way, do you see what I mean about soap operas?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I must admit that your story is a bit wild right now. But don't worry, in a couple of weeks, you'll be too tired and sleep-deprived to care."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. You always know just what to say to make me feel better. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 31st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Wednesday, February 26, 1997 at 4 pm.\nHow are you doing today Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm all right Doctor. Thank you for being able to reschedule for today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That wasn't a problem. You switched your prenatal check-up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Only for yesterday. Dr. Malleson couldn't make it on Monday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are the babies?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They're fine too. But I've been getting a lot of attention lately."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "More then usual?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess you can decide."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like there is a story."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You bet. Remember Hal?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh God. What did he do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You remember him Doctor? Good. Well let's start with my prenatal checkup yesterday. Hal was at the hospital."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You told me a couple of weeks ago that Hal was there. You said that he acted a bit peculiar."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you can call a grown man kneeling and clasping my tummy like a religious artifact, and then telling Tom that we are very close friends just a bit peculiar."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay--strange."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well that strange man was there again. Unfortunately Tom wasn't with me this time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were alone?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I went with my nurse. But Hal didn't know that. He spent the entire time shadowing me from the hospital's corners. Since he didn't want to approach me, thank God, I was happy to pretend that I didn't notice he was there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hal just watched you from the distance for the entire time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He didn't wave hello or..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I get the picture."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No you don't Doctor. Not yet. Hal followed me home, blatantly trailing my car across town."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh huh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When we pulled into the garage, he parked his car across the street. When I got to my room, I had to see if he was still out there. I looked out of the window and there he was standing outside his car, staring at my house. I waved hello. Hal finally waved back, then jumped in the car and drove away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you didn't actually interact with him other than waving from afar?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not yesterday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At about noon today, my nurse brought me some lunch and told me that the bald guy from the hospital was outside the house. Bed rest or no bed rest I had to look. Hal was puffing and straining, trying to unstrap a ladder that he had attached to the top of his station wagon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A ladder?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, one of those things you climb to get to things that are too high up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know what a ladder is, Sylvia. What was Hal doing with it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry Doctor. I'm surprised that he didn't get pulled over with that thing on top of his car. It was a big ladder. It looked like he could have easily taken out a window or two on his way here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So Maria and I are both looking out the window as Hal drags the ladder over the fence and the bushes to lean it against the house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your house?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right here. Right up to this window."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So he's got the ladder leaning against the window, but he goes back to his car. He reappears carrying a basket of flowers and a boom box."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So he's got all this stuff and he starts to climb the ladder."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "With the basket and the boom box?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. He turns on the boom box and it's playing the love song from the Phantom of the Opera--\"Let me be your shelter, let me be your light; you're safe, no one will find you, your fears are far behind you...say you'll share with me one love, one life-time...\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know the song."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please understand Doctor, his hands are full and he is using his elbows for support as he is climbing up to this window over here. He is also singing the words, exchanging my name for Christine's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And you have to understand that Hal's is no athlete. I told Maria to go get Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom was at home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was working in the study at the back of the house."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At first Hal didn't see him. He is busy singing and balancing himself with all that stuff up here on the second story. I tried to help him by taking the basket of flowers which I assumed were for me. By now, there were quite a few spectators watching from the sidewalk below."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not surprised."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I took the flowers, Hal saw Tom. I guess the sight of Tom made Hal lose his nerve, because he tried to scramble back down. Unfortunately, the boom box got in his way. Hal lost his footing and tumbled down the ladder into the bushes below."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ah ha."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor you're laughing. The man was hurt."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry Sylvia. The way you described the story, I could picture it perfectly in my mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I was laughing too. It was like watching a comedy show, Fawlty Towers or something. Unfortunately Hal was really hurt. Tom had to drive him to the hospital, completely against his wishes. He just kept telling everyone to leave him alone. But he clearly broke his left leg and the boom box hit him on the face giving him a bloody forehead and a black eye. Tom insisted on taking him to the emergency room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Poor Hal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I don't know what he was thinking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think he was trying to propose marriage. But I'm married. I told him I was married. He saw me with Tom at the hospital. What other proof does he need?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You did have an affair with the man."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had a one night stand. And I've been regretting it ever since."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It clearly meant more to Hal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think so. I get a feeling that it's about something else. Maybe he is going through a mid-life crisis. Except that I'm way too old for that. It would make more sense if I was some twenty-two year old lemon tart."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Hal still at the hospital?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom didn't get back yet, so I assume so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Tom know what he was doing at your window?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was pretty obvious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes I guess so. Is Tom angry?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. I think he knows that I'm completely uninterested in Hal. Tom is probably more sympathetic then anything else. But I'll have a talk with him when he gets home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds good. Okay. I have a couple of things to do tonight. If you don't mind, Sylvia, I'd like to end our session a few minutes early."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No problem Doctor. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. On Tuesday. Have a good week Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 32nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, March 4, 1997 at 4 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Sylvia. Hmm. Are you feeling okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's been a hard week, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The twins?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That too. I'm getting very tired now. Days seem to grow longer and harder. Sometimes I feel like this pregnancy will never end."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're at 34 weeks for one and 32 for the other. I think the end is nearer than you think."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I try to look at it that way too. But I'm just so big and so uncomfortable. And I'm understating the uncomfortable. But it's not just that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And it's Richard. It's like they waited for this week...god, don't they have any compassion? I was beginning to feel like Tom really cared about me and the boys."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just everything. Well it started with Richard showing up at Rene's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did he want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He wanted to know just exactly what was going on between Tom and me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "At one point we discussed that you and Richard needed to have a talk about your situation. You never did that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. It just never happened."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what did Rene say to Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Basically she told him that, against her better judgment, Tom and I are attempting to reconcile. Rene said that even though she was against it, I wanted to reconcile to create a family for the boys."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like Rene is really against this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She is. And she let her opinion be known. But she does think that we need to put some kind of closure on our relationship, just for our own peace of mind--even if it won't work."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So trying to make it work is putting closure on a relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene really means well and I hope, with time, she'll see that she might have been wrong about this. Although the whole thing is rather moot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Moot? I interrupted your story. How did Richard react?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene said that he turned ashen and stood there completely frozen until Rene finished telling him about Tom and me. Then he thanked her and left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he try to contact you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He called me that evening and asked if I loved Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you tell him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that if he wanted to know if I wanted to get back together with Tom, the answer was yes. He hung up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you never answered his question Sylvia. Do you love Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor you keep pressing me on this issue too and for now I don't...I just don't want...let's just drop it. Really Doctor, I don't want to talk about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "At some point you will have to answer this question, even if only to yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But not now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Let's move on. I'm rather surprised that Richard let you go just like that. Didn't you tell me that he believes that the twins are his?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard didn't let it go at that, Doctor. He is suing me for the custody of the boys."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard thinks that he can prove that he is the genetic father of my twins."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But since you were and are still legally married to Tom..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "His argument is that I made him believe that Tom and I were in the process of getting a divorce. And that I accepted his marriage proposal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course not. Sure we...he talked about it. But I was and am still married to Tom and I hope to stay that way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that Richard has a chance of getting the twins?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh God. I don't know. He is using the same arguments as Tom--I'm irresponsible, I'll jeopardize the happiness of these children by keeping them in a loveless home, and so on. Richard even implied that Tom might do harm to them as a revenge for my indiscretions. And then he listed most of the men I slept with and the approximate dates."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't see how that information is in his favor."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "His suit is full of tables of probabilities with the conclusion that he, Richard, is the only possible father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Wouldn't the DNA testing prove that conclusively?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It probably would. But I think he has to try to convince the judge there is a reason to go that far. But I don't really care about that right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's Tom, isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He saw the suit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I imagine he didn't take it well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's worse than that Doctor. For some bizarre reason he assumed that Richard was the only one."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The only one who could be the father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. The only one period."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean Tom thought that you only had one affair--with Richard? And that there was no one else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know why he thought that. I never said anything to indicate that I chose Richard as the father. I specifically wanted the parenthood of the babies to be ambiguous. I didn't even keep track--I didn't want to know who the father was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But Tom thought you chose Richard."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know why it should be such an issue. I would think that having multiple one-night stands is better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Better for Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. It proves that I didn't particularly care about any of them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom clearly doesn't see it that way. Maybe that's why Richard put in that information--to try to break up your reconciliation with Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's like Tom lost any feelings or respect he had for me just by looking at that stupid chart. He said that he had tried desperately to understand me and to forgive me. But that now there was nothing to forgive--I was nothing more that a whore and had just acted my nature. Doctor, he was so cold, so distant. It's like the bridge that we were so carefully building collapsed with one stroke into an impassable chasm. He told me that he wishes me luck with the birth and that once they're born he fully intends taking custody of the boys. He said that I could stay here at the house until I go into the delivery and that he expects that I won't come back here after I leave the hospital. I feel like my head is about to explode, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you try to talk to Tom again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He left. I don't know where he is. I keep saying to Maria that I desperately need to speak with him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You think Maria knows where Tom is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He hired her. I assume she tells him everything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know what to do, Doctor. I feel helpless--completely out of control. I want to go look for him but I'm trapped here. Trapped!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Look, Sylvia. I know you feel overwhelmed right now. But your priority is still the twins. You have to take a deep breath and put this on hold for the next couple of weeks until they are born. All of this...no, look at me Sylvia! All of this, Tom and Richard, can wait. Tom is reacting to unexpected news. He'll get over it. He needs time to appreciate the situation and learn to live with it. His current reaction is not necessarily how he'll end up thinking and feeling on this issue. But he needs time. Let it be for now. Concentrate on the boys."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's easy for you to say this, Doctor. But..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not important. You know that. You are an extremely intelligent woman, Sylvia. Please try to look at your situation from another perspective. You and Tom were beginning to find each other again. Tom is reacting to something that happened in the past and that he was already willing to forgive you for. Just let it rest for now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You make me feel better, Doctor. But when you're gone and not by my side talking to me and calming me down, I'll have to face another night alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know it's hard, Sylvia. But you can do this. You can get though it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know it's going to sound comical Doctor, but I've got to get some food. Let's just end now. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure, if you like. Just please call me, day or night. I promise to be here for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia. If I have an opportunity to talk to Tom, do I have your permission to talk about some of these issues?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yes, Doctor. That would be great. Explain it to him, won't you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let me think about it, Sylvia. But I really think you need to relax. I'm not sure if Dr. Malleson would approve, but I don't think a glass of wine each night would be amiss."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sylvia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 33rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Wednesday, March 26, 1997 at 4 pm in the California Pacific Medical Center.\nHello, Doctor. Thanks for rescheduling for today. Although I'm tired today, I just felt too exhausted yesterday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand, Sylvia. Anything I can do to accommodate the mother of twins. Hi, Roald. He's changed a lot in just one week. Looks like he is gaining weight fast."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Him and his brother both. Grant is doing so well that they are thinking about releasing him early."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's wonderful news, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I can't wait. It's been a very long week. I don't think I got more then two hours of continuous sleep the entire time. And that was only because Tom took pity on me and fed Roald formula instead of me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So the hospital didn't let you stay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. We stretched it out to Friday afternoon, and then we had to leave. But Tom managed to set up camp in one of the waiting rooms near the Infant ICU. Labor and Delivery lent us a fold-away cot and we brought in a porta-crib. But it is very difficult. There is little privacy and I'm still very sore from the delivery. But at least we could be with both boys."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The hospital allowed you to stay in the waiting room all this time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We never asked. The nurses seem to be very understanding of our predicament and, for the most part, leave us alone. You don't mind if I feed Roald, do you? I'd rather he ate this way. I do too much pumping as it is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go right ahead. I told you that you wouldn't be shy about this for long."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's true. But most people are pretty good about this. I have to pump my breasts for milk to feed Grant--he is still having problems suckling. I do it in the waiting room and, as you can imagine, it's not the kind of thing that one wants to do in public. But everyone understands. People leave the room, or pretend to look away, trying to give me at least a perception of privacy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you spend most of your time here at the hospital?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About eighty percent. And I'm tired as hell. I look like shit. And I feel myself falling asleep in mid-thought sometimes. There were a few times when I didn't know what was a dream and what actually happened. I could swear I had certain conversations with Tom--they were nothing serious, just about feeding schedules for the boys and something about my mother...I don't remember now. But Tom said that they never happened. It's not a big deal, Doctor. I feel like I'm just rambling on. I'm sorry. I'm just dead tired."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. It's not uncommon to mix real events with realistic day dreams in the state of exhaustion that you seem to be in. So don't worry about it. You're not losing your mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't think I was. But thank you for your confidence, Doctor. It's not like I don't have reasons to go over the deep end."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The usual or is it something I don't know?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard showed up at the house over the weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "At your house?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently he called the hospital first and they told him that I was discharged on Friday. So he went there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did he want?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he wanted to see the children. He still thinks that he is the natural father and he's claiming that he has rights."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you let him in?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom was at the hospital, so I thought it would be a good opportunity to talk with Richard. I introduced him to Roald."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For all his incredible annoying qualities and self-righteousness, Richard was surprisingly good with Roald. He has that magic touch with babies. But when I tried to talk to him seriously about the whole situation, he got really excited and stormed out. I wanted to make Richard understand that I saw my future with Tom. I really want to be with Tom for the rest of my life, despite all that's happened between us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Richard didn't take rejection well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No one takes rejection well, Doctor. Richard accused me of selfishly using people for my own personal gain. I can't say that I don't agree with him. I did use him. I wanted his sperm and, frankly, I wanted his companionship at a time when I thought my world was falling apart. Richard was happy to provide both in ample quantities. But now I wish he would be a gentleman and go away quietly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think Richard will do that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I know he filed more papers. He is trying to get visitation rights while he is battling for custody of the boys. And while his lawsuit is absurd, he might be able to rationalize his rights to visit and \"bond\" with the boys, as he put it, while final decisions are being made."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When Richard left the house on Saturday, he said that he was going to the hospital to see Grant. Tom didn't say a word to me about that visit. But one of the ICU nurses told me that Richard claimed that he was the father in front of the whole nursing staff. Tom apparently got pretty ticked off, but when Richard tried to touch Grant, Tom got violent. Security was called and I guess they didn't want to decide between the two of them, so they threw both of them out for being disruptive. On top of all this Hal showed up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was here at the hospital. He was actually very nice and apologized for embarrassing me with his balcony scene theatrics. But before he saw me, he went over to visit Grant. They asked him if he was a relation to Grant and he said that he was the father. I can just imagine the rumors flying about the hospital. I was a strange enough case--twins with two gestational ages--everyone talked about that. But now three men are battling over paternity. I won't be surprised if I get a call from Oprah."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is Tom talking all this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We don't talk about it. In fact we pretend like there is absolutely nothing strange going on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That doesn't sound too healthy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom's big on repression. And frankly, I don't mind much right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You've got to start working things out with Tom. Talk to him about your feelings. Ask him about his. This is not going to go away by itself, Sylvia. You've got to find a way for both of you to come to terms and live with this situation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I tried talking with Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He knows when I'm about to bring it up and changes the conversation abruptly or finds a reason to leave. I don't think he's looked me in the eyes once since he found out about the affairs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sure?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At first I thought I was just imaging it. But I've tried to make him look at my face--look at me--and he's managed to avoid it every single time. Mind you, he's not being obvious about it, Doctor. He just doesn't look at me somehow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are there other changes in Tom behavior toward you that you've noticed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When we talk, it always seems to be about the children. You'll probably think that I'm paranoid, but it's like Tom can be with me, even touching me, and still be avoiding me at the same time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom has a lot of things to think about and figure out."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you for not attributing these observations to my exhaustion or paranoia."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do think that both of you are extremely tired. Physically and emotionally. I predict things will improve dramatically once Grant is home and you don't have to put up with the madness of living with a newborn baby in a hospital waiting room. I'm not sure I would fare well in these circumstances."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're probably right, Doctor. Tom seems to be so attached to Grant. When he is well enough to take home, I think Tom will be able to relax a bit. Sometimes I think that Tom feels so much empathy for Grant that he feels everything Grant feels--the tubes, the shots, the machines."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound unhappy about that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not. I want Tom to bond with the kids. I want him to feel like he is their one and only father. It's just that Tom spends all his time with Grant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Grant needs him more than you and Roald right now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You think that I'm jealous of Grant. I'm not. I'm just...I don't know what I feel. It's nothing. It's good that Grant has Tom to care so much about him. I mean...I care about him too. But I have two--Grant and Roald. Oh, this all sounds so insane. I really should go anyway. I need to get to the ICU before they'll feed Grant without me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want me to go with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No thank you, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I'll see you next week, Sylvia. Good luck."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 1st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, July 15, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello. I am Sylvia Bows. It is nice to meet you in person Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I am glad to meet you too, Ms. Bows. Won't you please sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please call me Sylvia. We will be talking intimately so it is silly to be so formal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I took some notes during our phone conversation. I would like to start by going over them with you, if you don't mind..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not at all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It would help me understand the situation a little better if I had some of your history. You said that you are 38 years old and were born in France."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually I spent my childhood there and moved to United States with my parents and brother in 1970."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's makes you about 12 years old at the time of the move."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What part of the US did your family settle in?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My parents visited San Francisco on their honeymoon, and ever since then they always wanted to live here. When we finally made the move, there was never a question of the final destination."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And how was it for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, my teenage years were in San Francisco during the decline of the Flower Power. It was definitely an interesting place to be for a little French girl."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you don't mind, what do you parents do or did?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My mom is a chef and worked in a small restaurant in Paris. When she and my dad moved to the Bay Area, they started their own place."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do they still?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, yes. Of course it is much different now. My mom spends only two days a week at the Gardens. She and my dad like to travel."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "During our telephone conversation, you mentioned that you were married and are having some problems with your husband."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Some problems. Yeah, I guess that's right. Some problems. I was married to Tom for seven years. When we first met it was like a dream. We both liked the same things. Voted the same way on the political issues. Even my parents liked him a lot. I guess the main problem developed when I decided that I did want to have children after all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You did not want children at first?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We both thought that the world was too over populated and there were enough little children and someone had to do the work and keep it all going. Now it all sounds kind of childish but at the time...frankly, I think we were too scared or egotistical or selfish to have children."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What changed your mind?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Time, I guess. I grew older and realized that being an editor, even for a big city daily newspaper like The Chronicle, just wasn't what it is all about. Not that I had a revelation about the meaning of the universe, but I knew that wasn't it and I felt that it had a lot to do with children. Some people would say my hormones were talking. But I think it is more than that. I spent most of my life pleasing myself and it felt like it was time to please someone else. Not in a sexual or intellectual way like with Tom. But somehow deeper. I am not sure I could put it into words."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're doing fine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I confronted Tom with my revelations, well he...let's just say he did not take it well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was a well established and respected businessman at the time. He traveled a lot. And worked even more. There were days when we would barely say hello to each other and we communicated through voice and e-mail. The idea of sacrificing all that for a child seemed too much for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, after a while he did agree to have a kid. Although our relationship suffered from that. But I decided to take it one thing at a time. First get pregnant, then have the baby, and then I figured our relationship would get back to normal. Tom was a good man, he was bound to love his child."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We made love a lot. I even came to his office one afternoon. But six month went by, and then a year. I started to get worried. Sex became more like work. Tom become more irritable. He spent even more time, if it is possible, traveling. I finally decided it was time to seek professional help. I talked to my regular doctor first. She scheduled me for all sorts of tests. I didn't want to get Tom involved, so I just went by myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you learn?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That I was perfectly fine. My body was ready and willing to have children."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So it was Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That was the common belief. My doctor mentioned a few places Tom might go for consultation. So I had to talk to Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did he take it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was strange."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well you would think a man, even if he did not want to have children, would not take the news of his inability well. But he just shrugged it off and even made a joke about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe he was just trying to hide his true feelings from you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom? No. It was weirder than that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About two years ago when I first started to talk about having kids, Tom went on a one week business trip to New York. I offered to go with him. It would have given me the opportunity to see some friends as well. But Tom said that he would not have any time and he would just feel more stressed and guilty for leaving me in the hotel room by myself day after day. I would have had to beg off from work anyway, so I stayed home. He called me a couple of time from New York. I thought he was kind of distant, but I just attributed it to stress and being away from home. Sleeping on a strange bed and all. When he returned, he was sick and very tired. I figured it was a cold that you get from flying in airplanes. No big deal. In a week or two he was perfectly normal and I did not give it another thought."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It wasn't a cold?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You are very perceptive, Doctor. And a good listener too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't a cold. Tom had had a vasectomy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you find out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a small world. Even smaller when you get into infertility problems. Last week I was talking with one of the women in my infertility group that I was using for moral support. She had a brother-in-law who was a urologist in private practice in New York. Tom's name came up and, well, I found out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So it wasn't a business trip that Tom went on?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No it wasn't. It seems that Tom planned ahead. Like he always does."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you do when you found out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I confronted him with it. I wanted him to deny it. But he just stood there. I knew it was true."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, sometimes I want to kill him. Sometimes, I'll just lie there feeling sorry for myself. It seems like such a betrayal. And those last two years when he knew the monthly agonies I was going through--was I pregnant or not. Now I keep getting these anxiety attacks. My heart beats fast. I cannot breath. My stomach hurts. I feel sort of dizzy. And I can't sleep. When I see him I want to rip his face off. He just looks at me with big, sad eyes. He keeps saying that everything was fine before my hormones kicked in. But he feels cold, like a stranger to me. I think I want a divorce. But I thought I needed to talk to someone first. I know I'm not rational right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you're handling it pretty well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Really? Thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But handling it is about how you seem to the outside world. What we deal with here is how things are on the inside. Maybe trying to smother your feelings right now is not the healthiest thing for you. Maybe we should work on releasing your rage. I know that you were kidding when you said that you wanted to kill your husband, but I think you were maybe only half kidding. If we can get you to understand your feelings here, maybe you wouldn't feel the need to express your anger towards your husband physically. You also have some physical symptoms that I think we can control with some medication. I'm going to give you a prescription and I want to hear from you after two doses as to how they are making you feel. If they aren't working, we can easily switch to another medication."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You really think drugs are the answer?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "They certainly aren't the whole answer. But they will help with your anxiety attacks and get you to sleep at night. I can give you some literature about the medication."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I want to see you again in a couple of days. How about Thursday, the 18th in the afternoon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have a meeting scheduled then. How is Friday for you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't see patients on Friday. Can we pick another time on Thursday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I can skip lunch. I'm not eating anyway. How about noon?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Noon will be fine. I'll see you on noon on Thursday, then. And give me a call tomorrow morning about how the drugs feel to you. If something doesn't feel right about the drugs, you can get ahold of me, even after hours. Just call here and the service will page me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 2nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, July 18, 1996 at 12 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello. Please sit down. So how were the last couple of days? Do you feel any effects of the drug?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Doctor. I think so. I have been sleeping a lot better. I'm also feeling more together at work. I seem to get more done and my concentration is a lot better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Sounds like this is working for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just needed to know my options."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let's not talk about that right now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. You were starting to tell me about your current relationship with Tom. You mentioned that he thinks that he is doing everything for your own good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Isn't that interesting? Tom's been talking with my mother. Telling her how he is just trying to protect me from myself. That I'm really too old to have children now and he doesn't want me to go through what his sister did. She got pregnant at thirty-eight and about five months into it found out that it was a Down's syndrome kid. She had an abortion and a nervous breakdown. She lost her job. And now she and Kent are maybe splitting up. So you can see how my mother could easily transfer the whole situation of my sister-in-law onto me. Especially when Tom is quoting statistics to her. Tom is so good at convincing everyone that he is right. I think that that is his major talent. That's how he got as far as he did in business."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk with your mother?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I tried. We spoke about a week ago. But as you could see from seeing me last time, I was in no form to argue with anyone. Especially my mother. Maybe in my new Zoloft state, I would be better at it. I am certainly surprising Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, in different ways. I don't break down in tears during our conversations. In fact, I can get so cold now during talking with him that he starts to get emotional. I think I am getting him worried. He probably thought that he would be able to talk and ride himself through this whole thing and come up on top."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean by \"on top?\""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Winning has always been very important to Tom. Being the best at everything. He graduated at the top of his class from Columbia University. Then went on and got his MBA with honors. We met in New York. He was in his last year for his MBA and I was finishing up my double degree in journalism and psychology at NYU. We were both driven perfectionists. We both wanted to be the best at what we do. I guess it was then that we decided not to have children, they would have interfered with the lifestyle we envisioned for ourselves. Now it all seems so stupid."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that Tom considers the current situation as something that he needs to win? To come out on top of?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You are beginning to understand him. It is definitely what he thinks. His poor wife had temporary delusions about parenthood and children. He was there to prevent a terrible mistake. And now his job is to get me well and back to normal again. And all of this with a minimum of interruptions to his busy work schedule. I don't think so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing, Doctor. I'm just talking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mentioned that you are getting Tom to be emotional."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah. Last night when I came home, he was there. But unlike other nights, I was civil with him. I said hello, asked if he had dinner yet. I was able to maintain my cool and to distance myself enough from my emotions and feelings not to show them to Tom. He was taken aback. Then I took a long bath. I left the door open. I wanted Tom to see me naked. I'm not sure why I did it. But it felt really good to know that he was looking at me, even though I didn't actually catch him doing it. I know he was. Then I just wore this light cotton nightgown to bed. Nothing else. I knew it would turn Tom on to see me in it. I wanted him to want me a lot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did Tom react?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He noticed. But he didn't touch me. Needless to say, we stopped having sex when I found out about his indiscretions with the urologist. This morning, I got dressed in front of him. I gave him the whole show. He kept pretending that everything was as usual. But he was looking. I could see him from the corner of my eyes in the mirror. I took off my nightgown by letting it drop at my feet and got into the shower. When I came out, I carefully dried myself with a towel, bending down and stretching to carefully absorb every drop of liquid from my body. Then I walked into our bedroom and put cream on my arms, legs, and thighs. I put on a very sexy pair of underwear. With all the weight that I lost, it really looks great on me now. I don't know if you can tell, Doctor, but I am not wearing a bra. Tom knows. I know he was shocked that I would go to work like this. But he didn't dare say a word. I wished him a good day and left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think you acted like this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wanted him to want me. To want me and not be able to have me. I want him to think of me all day today. I want him to go crazy and lose his concentration. I want to feel on top for awhile."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel like you are on top?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Doctor. More than you might think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't go to work today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought you had meetings all day today. We even had problems finding time for your appointment."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I canceled my meetings this morning."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I met someone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Today? This morning?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "At Starbucks down the street. I went there before work for a cup of cappuccino."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He had an espresso."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem reluctant to talk about this, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am. A little. Richard and I shared a table. I saw him sitting alone, and invited myself to join him. He said that he was delighted but surprised."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently he works for SII too and had seen me on few occasions around the building. And I seem to have a reputation for being a bit cold and standoffish. All business. So when I asked his permission to join him, he was..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Surprised."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that you didn't go to work today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard and I spent the rest of the morning together. Richard also noticed that I wasn't wearing a bra. Do you think my shirt is unbuttoned a little too much?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I really couldn't say. I haven't been looking at your shirt."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't believe you, Doctor. From where you are sitting you should be able to see a part of my left nipple. I made sure before I came into the room that you could."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Ms. Bows, are you sure you are feeling all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In some ways, Doctor, I never felt better. Would you like to know what happened next?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard and I got our drinks to go and went back to his place. Should I go on?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you like."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard has a beautiful body. He reminds me of Tom about ten years ago."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He made me feel beautiful, and sexy, and very desired. Do you think it was wrong of me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's not my job to judge your actions, Sylvia. But I am a bit concerned over what seems to be a major change in your behavior since you started the Zoloft. Maybe we should adjust your dosage."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, it's not the medication. I just feel that I need to take control now. And if having sex with strangers is part of it, then I think that's okay. I never let myself have this kind of freedom before and I think I need to experiment a little now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, I'm just worried about you. I want to make sure that you are fully aware of all of the consequence of your actions. I don't want you realize later that you made a mistake."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't worry, Doctor. I won't blame you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not what I'm saying. I just want you to be sure you are doing this because you really want to and not because of some medication."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As I said, don't worry Doctor. I know what I'm doing. And I think you are doing a wonderful job with me so far."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope so. Let's set up our next session. I would like to see you next Tuesday. Can you make a 4 pm appointment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am learning to make time for myself. I will be there, Doctor. And thank you so much for worrying about me. But I am really okay. Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sylvia. And don't hesitate to call me over the next few days if you feel the need."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 3rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, July 23, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Sylvia. Please sit down. So do you want to talk about this weekend?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Wow. Right to business. Well, I would like to give you this first. This is my family tree. When Rene and I spent the night together, we talked about our past and about our families and our futures. While we talked, we made collages out of the old magazines the hotel had around. They are supposed to represent portraits of Rene and me, my brother, my mother and father, and Rene's father--my uncle. We took some artistic license in coming up with these images. I think there's some emotion in there too. Yesterday, I took them to work and scanned them in to produce a short computer version. I brought you a disk. I thought you might want to take a look at it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would, indeed."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There is also some text with each image. Most of it I wrote. But some sections have been heavily influenced by Rene. I think it is obvious where her contributions are."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll take a look at it tonight. Unless you would like me to take a look right now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, tonight is just fine and I think that now we have some important things to discuss. I know that you're worried about the effect that Zoloft has had on me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, Zoloft can have some behavioral side effects. I have some concern that recent changes in your behavior could be caused by the drugs rather than by events in your life."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have to say that after seeing Rene and her reaction to me, I have some concerns, too. Well, not concerns exactly, but I guess I really am a little different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh? How did Rene react?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, Rene was surprised that I was so...so bold. She thought I was bolder. Not just my actions but even my mannerisms. She didn't think it was a bad thing. Actually, she said it was kind of refreshing after so many years of what she called \"corporate contamination.\" But she did think it was different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When you're talking about actions, do you mean your affair with Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please understand, I don't regret anything I have done so far. In fact I think I needed some sort of catalyst to get my true self out in the open again. If Zoloft has been that catalyst, then all the better. You have to understand, Doctor, that living with Tom all these years has greatly altered my behavior and even personality. I used to be more daring in the past. I took more chances. I felt stronger about things. I marched for causes I believed in and wrote passionate articles which I hoped would change the world. I even got arrested once in a march and spent time in jail. I might have been over the top sometimes, but I always gave all of my intellect and passion to the causes I fought for."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said there was a change?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Because of Tom's urgings, I made career moves that, while intellectually challenging, were more and more devoid of emotion and social content. When I was a technology reporter, I wasn't a techno-geek like so many of my colleagues. I could report on advances in medicine along with a new Nintendo model, so there was a sense that it was still partly for the public good, somehow. I just wasn't part of the \"gee whiz\" school of technology reporting. But then I got this job offer that Tom insisted I take...the pay raise was huge...and I moved into the private sector. But it's hard for me to get very passionate about a circuit board. Personally I don't get too teary-eyed about advances in computer gaming technologies."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you're saying that by moving away from journalism and the political causes of your youth, you felt a lack of public service?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess what I'm saying is that these sessions have made me realize that there is something that I was missing in my life. I don't know if it is public service, because I think that my decision to have children is also a consequence of feeling this emotional void. Really, I think it is trying to have a purpose in life, sort of a reason for existing. My purpose for doing things has changed. Perhaps my behavior last week was a bit too much of a change all at once. But I think I can handle it now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "By the way, I felt bad about that nipple thing last week. It was very naughty of me. I guess that I was just trying to shock you a little. I promise to behave better in your company. I really like you, Doctor, and I'm surprised just how important it is to me that you have a good opinion of me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think very highly of you, too. And it's natural that in the course of these intimate conversations that you are concerned about how you come across. Because in therapy you are opening up who you are in a very fundamental way to another person. That can be really frightening, in addition to very rewarding. And when you have shared yourself at that level, it's important not to feel rejected. So believe me when I say that you are really a very sensitive, intelligent, and warm person for whom I have the greatest measure of regard."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Wow. Thank you very much, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Now, bringing out your emotions and getting in touch with your feelings is important. But I'm still not convinced about your ability to handle the medication. I'd be very unhappy if the drugs were responsible for changes in your behavior that you later regret when the drug has worn off."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I really think that the drug's major effect has been to make it possible for me to get some perspective and be able to see my life sort of from the outside. I don't want to give that up now. I don't think it is an aphrodisiac or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Look, if it's important to you, I am willing to give it another week or so, but please let me know of all the changes in your behavior and feelings. I want you to be able to enjoy your emotions and feel in control of your life without long term dependence on any medication. You have a very strong character and a lot of will power. I believe that, through our sessions, you'll be able to achieve the same perspective as you can with Zoloft."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor. I'll be good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll let that pass. Now, I gather Rene has been a great influence in your life. Would you like to talk about your relationship with her?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're right, Doctor. Rene has been a strong force in my life. Her mother died in a terrible car accident when Rene was only five. Uncle Phillip, her father, took her death very hard. I think he might have blamed himself for what happened. He owns a vineyard in the South of France. During one of the local wine festivals, he got a really bad flu. So Aunt Angelina took his place in representing their winery during a wine tasting at the festival. It has always struck me how little things can lead to catastrophic consequences. When she was ready to come home, her car wouldn't start. It was something that Phillip had dealt with before by taking the car a couple of times to a mechanic in town and getting it fixed, but they never really quite got it. Anyway, the car wouldn't start so someone at the festival offered to give her a ride home. He turned out to be drunk and lost control of the car. Ironically, the driver was basically fine, but Aunt Angelina broke her neck. I was only two, but it was really hard on all of us. After that, Rene used to live with us in Paris during the school year and, in the Summers, Rene and I would go and live with Uncle Phillip at the vineyard."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mentioned you had a brother."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My brother wasn't born yet. Jeorge is five years younger than me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Rene and you were close since early childhood?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene was..is three years older than I am. In the beginning, I thought of her as a grown woman. When she first came to live with us, I was only about two. I have vague memories of when Aunt Angelina died. I remember my Papa crying and my Mother's face. Aunt Angelina's funeral was in April. At that time of year, there are no leaves on any of the vines and they just look like a bunch of scary sticks. I remember being scared of the vines. They were black, gnarled, and disfigured. I also have a memory of Rene tickling me on my feet, unmercifully. I guess it was that first summer she spent with us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How old were you when you spent your first summer with your Uncle?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was the next summer. I was almost four by then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were very young to be without your mother for the whole summer."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was okay. Rene took good care of me. She sort of adopted me and even told me that she was my \"summer mother.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Rene was very protective of you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very! Still is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tell me about your relationship later on as you got older."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "After a while we became best friends. We were inseparable. Although she never let me forget that she was older than me. By three whole years."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did this difference in ages express itself?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think Rene thought that it was her job to experience things first. She would decide whether something was a good or bad thing and, if she approved, she would share her knowledge with me and introduce me to whatever the new experience was. There were quite a variety of new experiences which she approved of."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "For example?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, Rene taught me how to smoke. And how to hide the fact from my parents. Rene had sex first and thought it was her job to properly prepare me for the experience. Rene even arranged my first time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Rene's leadership bother you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes. Once, when I was in the fifth grade, I told Rene that a boy in my class touched my breasts. She thought that it was too early for me to engage in this kind of activity. She went to my school and punched this poor boy out in front of everyone. I felt very humiliated. I didn't talk to her for a whole day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like Rene still behaved like your mother-protector."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I guess that's true. But she also did a lot of things that a mother wouldn't do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like teaching you how to smoke?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And how to kiss. And how to get high. I guess she was sort of a cross between a mother and an older sister."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How old were you when you first tried illegal substances?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Fourteen. I remember that it was quite an adventure. Rene was visiting us in San Francisco. She was approached by this older guy who was selling some marijuana. She called me at home and told me she was going with this guy to his boat, where he apparently kept his stash. She called me to let me know just in case this guy killed her. She thought that he might try to dispose of her body in the river, weighted down with stones. I told her that she was insane to go with him if she felt this way. Rene laughed and said that she was exaggerating. But she did manage to mention that he was thin and blond in his thirties, that he limped, and that he had a boat named Elizabeth. I think she was really scared, but she was going to do it anyway. I was supposed to cover for her, but Rene was gone the whole night and only came back at about four the next morning. By that time, I was ready to tell everything to my parents and call the police. The next evening, I smoked my first joint."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, nothing happened. I was expecting to really get stoned. Hallucinate and everything. But I didn't feel anything at all. It was quite a disappointment. Rene said that it was just because it was the first time, and I guess she was right because it definitely worked later on."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, our time is up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's fine, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'd like to schedule another appointment in a week. How is this same time and day next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's okay for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All right, 4 pm on Tuesday, July 30th. And Sylvia, I want you to seriously examine your changes in behavior and at our next session we will decide on your medication. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Doctor. I'll do my homework."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll take a look at your computerized family tree tonight. Goodbye, Sylvia. I know I always say it, but please feel free to give me a call for any reason."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Doctor. Thank you. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 4th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, July 30, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello, Doctor. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello. I am very well, thank you. Won't you please sit down?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am guessing that you are still wondering about Zoloft and me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I am not just wondering. I am concerned. You promised to keep an eye on yourself and tell me about any changes in your behavior."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You would be happy to hear that I have been spending most of my time working. I took too much time off and things just piled up. I carefully observed my behavior during meetings and when I worked by myself. I'm relieved to say that Zoloft didn't seem to result in any memory loss or changes in either my attention span or my ability to concentrate. So after a week of careful observations, I'm convinced my ability to perform my duties are unaffected by this medication. Of course, I acknowledge that this is just my opinion. But it is hard to be completely objective when you are the laboratory rat as well as the scientist. But seriously Doctor, I don't think that my cognitive functions have been adversely effected."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I noticed that you are emphasizing your work life in your analysis. How about your personal life?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're right Doctor. I am. But there are a lot of changes in my personal life. Please keep in mind that Rene is here and my behavior would have been altered in her presence with or without Zoloft."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll keep that in mind. So tell me about the changes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For starters, I've been spending most of my free time with Rene. We went out this weekend to find her an apartment in the City."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "She's planning to move to San Francisco?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's not sure yet. But she would like to spend a few months down here and it seems silly and expensive to stay in a hotel. Ordinarily she would stay with Tom and me, but...it's much better this way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you find anything?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. It's not finalized yet. But I think it will work out. It's a small two bedroom apartment on top of Pacific Heights. From the living room and kitchen windows you can see most of the Bay. It's beautiful! And it is also close to the Presidio."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds nice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. And I think it's in a good school district."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that important?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene has a twelve-year-old boy, Robert. He is a very sweet kid even if a bit too serious at times."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Robert with Rene now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Robert is with his grandfather, my Uncle Phillip. He spends his summers at the vineyard just like Rene and I used to. Only difference is that he really likes it. Robert wants to be a wine maker just like his grandfather. Phillip couldn't be happier. At last he's found his soulmate and a successor for the family business."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where is Robert's father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He died when Robert was just a baby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Rene is a widow?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought I told you that. Rene met Tad in New York. He was mad about her. He wouldn't let anything stand between them including her boyfriend at the time. They got married and Robert was born six months later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you don't mind me asking, what happened to Tad?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "One day on the way to work he passed out in the car. The car smashed into a tree on the side of the road. When he came to, the car was smashed up but he was okay. But he went to see a doctor to find out why he passed out. A week later, he was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor. He was dead in two months."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's a horrible story. I am very sorry."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Me too. I actually liked Tad. Most of the other men Rene associated with were...well let's just say Rene doesn't go for the cerebral type. But Tad was sweet and compassionate. It's a shame that Robert never had an opportunity to get to know his dad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you close to Robert?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. He's becoming a teenage and it is hard to tell. But when he was a baby, he was the most charming and possibly the cutest child I have ever seen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you love your nephew very much."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I do. I love the possibility of living in the same city with him. He is very bright and I look forward to taking him to places like the Exploratorium."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, I would like to get back to your self assessment of your behavior. You mentioned that in your personal life there has been some major changes. I understand that the presence of Rene is a large change. Is there anything else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Now Doctor, this is where I want you to have an open mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As I said, I have been spending most of my free time with Rene. This includes night times. As you can imagine living with Tom the last couple of weeks has been anything but pleasant. Rene thought that I might benefit from just taking a break and living with her for awhile. Frankly, I am surprised that Tom hasn't called you. He hasn't, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. Tom didn't call me since our last session."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Last week, I only spent one night at home. I just got so angry at Tom for calling you and...I just needed to get some sleep. I think that I feel much better now partly because I don't have to go home and face him. Now I have the option of staying with Rene."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You always had an option of leaving."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's true. But it is much easier with Rene around. She just took charge, packed my bags, and told Tom that he has to cope without me for a while. This is not a permanent thing. But I think it is good for the next couple of weeks or so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are planning to move with Rene into the Pacific Heights apartment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. At least until Robert comes back from France."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is Tom taking this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think he is partly relieved. I am surprised he didn't take off on one of his business trips. I think he might have wanted to keep an eye on me or something. He hates it when things aren't under his control. But with me acting cold towards him, I think it made him very uncomfortable. He still thinks that he knows everything that goes on through my parents but he doesn't have to deal with me on a day-to-day basis. I did tell you that he has been talking with my mother almost every day?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mentioned that he was trying to convince your mother that all of his actions were completely for your benefit."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Well, I think she is convinced. She was very effected by Tom's sister's tragic pregnancy story and all of its consequences. I think she looks at me and sees Down's Syndrome, divorce, depression, and unemployment. She's very upset and Tom is taking advantage of it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't you talk to your mother again? You said you're feeling better. Perhaps now it would be easier for you to express your point of view?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. It's just not time yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't tell you about all the changes yet, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had two affairs last week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think that qualifies as a big change in behavior."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, it does. Remember about keeping an open mind."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I remember."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The first was the evening after our last session. I came back to SII to pick up some papers because I wanted to do some work at home. I went into the copy room but the copy machine on our floor was out of order. So I went downstairs to the engineering department. At six o'clock in the evening, the engineering department turns into a dinner party. Some of our engineers only get to work at this time. They say they can get more work done at night when no one bothers them. They are an interesting and eccentric bunch of individuals. Some of them, when they have an exciting project, sleep on the floor under their desks. Rene was going on a photo shoot that night, so since I wasn't seeing her I got talked into staying for pizza."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds innocent so far."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. But there's this one young man, David. I have seen him in the past once or twice around SII. He is very handsome and self assured. Not exactly the stereotype of a computer nerd. I'm not sure how it happened, but I ended up in his cubicle. David showed me his latest project. It was good. He clearly had some artistic talent as well as being a good programmer. When I leaned over him to see the computer screen better, I could feel his breath on my breasts. It was very exciting. I moved in closer so his face touched my skin. He kissed me and then his hand started to slowly move up my legs. I was trembling and almost lost my balance. David held me up and I ended up in his arms. I wanted him so much then. We went up to my office and...well, Doctor, I am sure you understand what happened next."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The second time was with Rene. Last Friday I took her to work with me to show her SII. Somehow I just never had done that before although she had visited me in San Francisco a couple of times since I started work there. She was only moderately interested and I decided to take her for lunch in a nearby restaurant. So there in the restaurant, sitting by himself, was one of my freelance photographers. Rene is also a photographer so I decided to introduce them. Matthew is very nice. He gave Rene his card and offered her his assistance in possibly getting some freelance work from an advertising agency he was doing some work for. Rene insisted that we all have lunch together. Matthew is very intelligent and witty and I was happy to have his company."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Matthew was next."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Doctor. You're very perceptive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was it just you and Matthew or..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was the three of us in Rene's hotel room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Had you and Rene ever done this before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Once, when I was still going to NYU, Rene and I made love to one of her artist friends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So I am safe in assuming that this is a large deviation from your normal, pre-Zoloft, behavior?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Doctor. But it is not abnormal behavior. It might be a bit unusual for me, but I want this. I want to break out of my day-to-day life. I want to experience and feel things that are different and new. And, what is most important, I like this. I like feeling the excitement of seduction. It's wonderful and I had almost forgotten about it with Tom. Before I knew about Tom's vasectomy, our sex lives were very much centered around getting pregnant. At least it was for me. Sex almost became like work. Now it is as if I am rediscovering sex. But rediscovering it as an adult who is confidant of her looks and herself and has none of the hangups that adolescence burdens us with. I hope you understand, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand that this is very exciting. But this is not proper behavior for..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor! You surprise me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You surprise me, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tell me Doctor, if I were a man would you respond the same way?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think you would. It's okay for men to have sex and have sex with multiple partners and to pick women up at bars and restaurants. Right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it is sometimes okay for men to do this. But..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it is okay for me to do this right now. It's good for me psychologically. And anyway, Doctor, we are out of time. How about meeting the same time next week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Same time next week? Wait a second, Sylvia. While there is a double standard which I recognize is unfair, that is not at all what we are talking about here. If a man came in here who had been monogamous for years and I prescribed a drug which suddenly caused that man to completely change his sexual behavior and begin engaging in sexual experiments with multiple partners, sometimes at once, I would be concerned in exactly the same manner as I am with you. I might be a bit old fashioned in my views in general, but this is not about your gender. This is about a drug which may be causing an unintended side effect."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But a desirable side effect, in my case. Look, if you gave a man some drugs to cure depression, say, and it also increased his sexual interest...or let's make it easy, how about if it cured his acne. It might be an unintended side effect, but you wouldn't discontinue the drug just because it had an unexpected, but desirable, side effect would you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm going to have to think about that. I guess in some cases an increased sexual appetite could be a desirable side effect, but I'm not sure that you are getting what you really need from these relatively meaningless sexual encounters."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, you're wrong there, Doctor. I know for a fact that I'm getting precisely what I need."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, if you like the drug I'm not going to discontinue it right now. And I do appreciate your being honest with me about the behavior changes that you are noticing. I know that it would be easier to just lie about your various encounters and assuage my suspicion. But I would like you to continue monitoring the drug's effects. If you ever feel like you are following a compulsion over which you don't have full control, then we will have to stop the drugs right away. So let's pick up our conversations next week, okay? Will you be staying with Rene?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you please call and leave me you new telephone number where I can reach you, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sylvia. I'll see you on Tuesday, August 6th at 4 pm, then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor. Please don't worry about me."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 5th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, August 6, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Sylvia. Won't you please sit down? How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm well. Actually I'm a little tired. How are you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm fine, thank you. I haven't heard from you. Have you moved in with Rene yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I did help her move last weekend. She got her roommate in New York to send her some stuff over. But she still needed a lot of the basics. We went out and got her some furniture--two beds and a table. And I also had some chairs and a dresser in storage. So we did a lot moving. But it looks very nice. Rene is very good at taking a place and making it feel like it was lived in for years."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like it was a lot of work. So are you moving in this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been thinking about it. And I think I'll just visit her a lot. Tom and I are getting very good at avoiding each other. He even moved into the guest bedroom. And frankly, Doctor, I love my house. I'm not willing to give it up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you come to any decisions about your relationship with Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean am I getting a divorce? No, I want to wait."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure I understand why. Are you still in love with Tom and interested in working it out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'm not sure I can fully express or describe what my feelings for Tom are. But they are definitely not love."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then why? What are the factors going into your decision?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not saying this is what I want to do forever. But right now I just want to have things stay still for a bit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want to keep things just the way they are for a little while longer. I know that's puzzling to you. But please be patient with me. I have my reasons even if I want to hold off discussing them with you for now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Do you have any drug reaction observations for me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You'll be happy to know that I have not had an affair in a whole week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is not about my happiness, Sylvia. You know that I'm very concerned. I'm giving you medication that apparently radically alters your behavior."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I do understand, Doctor. I constantly monitor to see if what I'm doing is compulsive rather than based on my desires and rational thought. If I'm a slightest bit unsure of the origin of my motivations, I stop myself until I'm sure. But I have to tell you that it has not happened yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean there hasn't been a situation when you felt that your behavior might be as a result of medication? I think it is difficult to reconcile that with the vast behavior changes you've experienced in the last couple of weeks."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh there are lots of things that I do that are the result of Zoloft, I think. I'm much calmer. I sleep much better. I am more self assured. The list just goes on. But I know you're asking about my sex life. And I am very confidant and sure about my decisions. In fact, even more so now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I ran into Richard again last week. Remember Richard?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yeah, he was the Starbuck's guy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like Richard made quite an impression on you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yes. I think I would like to get to know him better. He makes me feel very optimistic about the future. And he definitely makes me think in new ways. I remember when Tom and I used to talk like that. Sometimes we would get so excited about a topic that we would stay up all night talking. I really miss that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did your relationship with Tom start to change?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. It was so gradual. At first, even when we were very busy, we always found time for each other. But then Tom got this job that made him travel all the time. And somehow we started to drift apart. Nothing really obvious, but we no longer knew everything about each other. We didn't have time or energy to share each other anymore. And then when I changed professions, and the child issue, our relationship just started to unravel, I guess. The web of ideas and emotions that keeps people together has to be in progress all the time or the links break or get old. We stopped spinning our web some time ago and just didn't notice it. I wonder how long we would have stayed together even if Tom never did get a vasectomy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It doesn't sound like a good situation in which to have any children. Perhaps, in some sense, Tom was right about not having children."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I see what you mean. You think that Tom might have understood that our relationship was flawed and his decision to get a vasectomy was partly based on that. No, I don't think that's right. Tom is basically too selfish. I think he had the relationship that he wanted. He had a wife that he could introduce to his associates and not lose face. He had a house that was mentioned in Architectural Digest. People enjoyed his dinner parties. I think he was happy with his situation and wasn't willing to change it. He thought that kids would cramp his lifestyle."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Remember that you used to be in love with Tom. So there were things about him that you found worthy of admiration."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I met Tom, he was young and adventurous and emotional. But even then there was this hardness about him. I knew that he was very controlling and arrogant even when I met him. And I identified with him somewhat. I felt very driven and I always had a strong sense of being right. But even though we possessed similar qualities, they've developed differently over the course of our lives."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you believe that at one point in your relationship you were more similar. And with time you've grown apart."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, essentially that's it. I'm really talking about character traits. It's like Tom was seduced by the dark side of the force. When I was talking with Richard, I was thinking how my life would have been different if I spent it with him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you regret your whole life with Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, not exactly. But I was just thinking 'what if.' What if I met Richard ten years ago? What if I met Richard two years ago?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you thinking that you might have had a relationship with Richard? An affair?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I was thinking what a surprise it would have been for Tom if I got pregnant about two years ago. I wouldn't have known that it couldn't possibly have been Tom's. How would have he reacted? Would he have told me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom was safe because of the kind of person you were. So these hypotheticals are based on the situation after you found out about Tom's vasectomy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're right. I never had an affair and never would have even if I met Richard and liked him. My relationships with men in the last couple of weeks I don't consider affairs. I don't feel like I'm cheating on my husband. Whatever our legal status is now, I don't regard Tom as my husband anymore. I don't feel like I am doing anything wrong."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that you are acting out of revenge?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Then I'd feel bad about making love to Richard, and to David, and maybe even to Matthew. I'd feel bad not because of Tom but because I was not sincere with these wonderful, intelligent, and charming men. Do you understand?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, Doctor, you will have to excuse me early today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have a date with Richard. We are meeting for an early dinner and then he is taking me to see the Phantom of the Opera. Do you believe in all these years I have never seen it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I saw it in New York and thought it was very good. I hope you have a good time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I'm planning on it. I'm wearing a tear-away suit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just kidding, Doctor! But I am hoping to stay out all night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Should we make our next appointment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Same time, same place?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "On Tuesday, August 13th at 4 pm, then."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very good. Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sylvia. Enjoy the show."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 6th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, August 13, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello, Doctor. Nice to see you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Sylvia. How are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm very well, Doctor. I have to say again how pleased I am that you came on Saturday. I really didn't think you'd come. I even had a bet with Rene--she won."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry I lost your bet for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, not at all. It was nice to see you as a person. You know that in all the time I've known you, I've never seen your legs? I didn't realize you were so tall."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I want to thank you again. I really had a good time at your Martian Party. I have to say, Sylvia, that you surround yourself with a very interesting group of people."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I try. By the way, Rene really liked you. She said that I did not exaggerate about you a bit--that you are as intelligent and charming as I said. She also asked me to tell you that she would be very pleased if you would ask her out for dinner."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no, Doctor. Here's Rene's number. I'm putting it here on the desk. So now you have her number and I'm just a messenger. You'll have to talk to her yourself. Now to get back to me, I didn't introduce you or tell anyone at the party that you're my therapist. I thought it wouldn't be a good idea to stress our relationship, since my parents were there and I didn't want them to talk to Tom about you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I guess I'm glad, although I felt a bit awkward about it. Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to move our conversation in another direction. How was your week, Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was very busy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Socially or professionally?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, both actually. I have a couple of projects that we are about to ship and that's always hectic. And socially, let's see. After our last session, I went out with Richard. Dinner and The Phantom were great. We had a very good time. After the show we drove around the city in his little convertible Camaro. A very impractical car but a hell of a lot of fun. I love the city at night. It is such a jumble of lights and sounds and people and smells. When you drive around in a convertible, it's almost as if you can just reach out and touch everything. Things are so right there. You have a feeling of being part of it. Experiencing the city this way is almost intoxicating. And Richard understood how I felt. He took me everywhere. We saw the street walkers urging us on and the bridge lights twinkling as the fog settled in. We even walked on the beach next to the old San Francisco air strip. Richard made me feel so young and carefree and happy. I'm disappointed that you didn't get a chance to meet him. I invited him to the party but he couldn't make it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps some other time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, perhaps. I guess it won't surprise you that we made love that night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you even mentioned last time that it was part of the plan."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, yes, the \"tear-away suit.\" Sorry, Doctor. Sometimes I just get this uncontrollable urge to try and shock you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You made love to Richard. Was he the only one last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, now you shock me. Is that what you expect of me?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem to be developing a pattern, Sylvia. Am I wrong?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. There were three."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not counting Richard."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you trying to shock me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, but there were four all together. Does that shock you, Doctor? How pleasant! I still feel very much in control, though. So please don't worry."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you like to talk about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It or them?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "As you like."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bruce Redot is an artist. I think he does very interesting sculpture. He also specializes in ergonomics and we use him a lot to design the casings for our hardware. He has an engineering background, so he understands the technical parameters. But he is also able to visualize the most comfortable and esthetically appealing shapes for electronic devices based on their intended and sometimes not intended use."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like a very interesting job."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And Bruce is brilliant at it. We actually met a number of years ago. I was still a reporter and I went to his studio in Sausalito for an interview. We became friends although in the last couple of years we sort of drifted apart. I ran into him last Friday morning. We realized that we hadn't spoken to each other in almost eight months. He insisted that we have lunch together that same day. So we had lunch in a little French place Le Central downtown. We were thinking that it would be very private, but the Mayor came in with an entourage and reporters and had lunch there too. So actually it was kind of hectic. Anyway, he asked me about Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That we were having some difficulties and currently trying to figure out what we want to do. I was surprised when Bruce said that he was very happy to hear it. He never did have tact but still always managed to make me feel good somehow. He said that he never understood our relationship and always felt that Tom was stifling me and robbing me of my creativity."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think he's right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was number two."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Number three happened the night of the party. The strangest part was making love to someone other than Tom in our bed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't see Tom at the party."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He decided not to attend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The fourth was last night. I was working late last night to finish up one of our technical manuals, except now we call them \"information supplements.\" One of my jobs is to restructure the support materials into a more accessible format. We use a lot more diagrams and illustrations and all our materials go through rigorous beta-testing. We also use a different format now--longer and more narrow. We found that a lot of our clients like to lean the manuals on the computer screens for support and use them to get directions for a particular task that they are working on. This means that we use lots of example and...oh, I'm sorry, Doctor. When you think about this kind of thing all day, it is hard to switch gears."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was actually quite interesting. I have a few experiences when manuals just did not work as intended because not enough thought when into them."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "For example?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is totally off the topic."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh no, please. I would be very interested."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I remember one time trying to set up a limited e-mail system for my colleagues on this one project. Unfortunately the instructions were on-line and I couldn't get to them without having setup my system already."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's unfortunate. We have problems like that from time to time. I hope you were able to work it out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I was. But please let's get back to our conversation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, about last night. I guess it was very unprofessional of me. I know that the rule is never to have sex with any of one's employees. But, he's a technical writer on my staff. We finished editing the final version by eleven-thirty last night. Everyone had left by then. We were just going over the last bit he wrote over the weekend. We had a few changes and we had to redo a large section. We were both tired and hungry, we had skipped dinner, and I offered to buy him coffee before he went home. He accepted my invitation. We went to a diner around the corner. It turns out that he used to be an author and started to write technical manuals to support his family. I know how hard it is to break through in the writing business. He told me some of his stories. I thought they were very entertaining--adventure mostly, the kind of stuff I used to read when I was nine or ten. But the stories had charm and were very compassionate. You know, I worked with this man for a long time and never really had the chance to get to know him before. I asked him if he needed a ride home--it was too late for public transit. He said yes and then asked if I minded taking the long route home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was happy to. We went to the top of Twin Peaks and watched the city for a while. Then he asked if I would mind if he kissed me. I said I would like that. The rest..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you mind telling me his name?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I can't. He made me promise not to--it was the first time he ever did anything like this and apparently he's married. I guess I just assumed that it wasn't an issue since he initiated the first move. But...well, I can't give his name. I promised."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're a very intelligent woman, Sylvia and I know that you understand the need for precautions if you are to take up a promiscuous life style. Are you practicing safe sex?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, actually I hate condoms. But please Doctor, don't worry. I have it all figured out. I'm not about to risk my life stupidly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You can't just trust your instincts on this, Sylvia. Just because a man looks nice or clean or something doesn't mean that he hasn't been exposed to the AIDS virus."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look, I know about safe sex and I understand how the transmission of the HIV virus is spread. I could probably explain to you things about mucus contact and germ transmission, Doctor. But really you don't have to be concerned for my sake."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, I'll leave it at that, although I don't understand. You aren't spending enough time with these guys to drag them to a testing lab in advance. I hope that you really do know what you are doing. Our time is up now, Sylvia. Should we make the next appointment at the same time next week? That's Thursday, August 20th at 4 pm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have a good week, Sylvia. And don't try to shock me on purpose next session."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor. I'll do my best but I'll make no promises."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 7th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, August 20th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello, Doctor. It's always a pleasure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Sylvia. And how are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm very well, thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Shall we talk about your week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure, but my week was hectic as usual. The best thing that happened this week was the arrival of my nephew, Robert."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is Robert?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, he's great, thank you. He is all grown-up. He's looking forward to becoming a teenager. He brought us some wine from my uncle's vineyard. The wine is about two years old now and it is the first batch that Robert made himself. He's very proud. He kept talking about it. He really is a good boy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is he starting school here?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Rene has decided to stay in San Francisco awhile. I'm not sure whether it will be forever, but she's giving it a go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does school start soon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. I think he starts eighth grade in a week or two. I hope Robert likes his new school. Robert grew up in New York in the same neighborhood since he was a baby. Now he has to find all new friends...it's just going to be hard for him for a while."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure he'll be fine."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But I guess I'm just a worried aunt. I'm thinking about taking him to SII on a tour and maybe trying to arrange some part-time job for him. It would be fun to have him around. He always lived so far away from me that I never got a chance to really get as involved as I would have liked. But now...I'm just really looking forward to spending time with Robert and getting to know him better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I didn't realize you were so attached to your nephew."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, more then that. I think he is one of the reasons I changed my mind about having children. I kept listening to stories that Rene would tell me about him and...well there was a lot of stuff. But the most pronounced impression that I got from Rene was the feeling of being needed, of being essential to someone's very life, of being loved so completely and without reservations, and of loving someone back with such intensity. I think these feelings are so primal, carefully developed over millenniums of evolution. I think the only way for a human being to experience these feelings is to have a child. I don't know if the emotions are the same in men. So a man's reaction could be completely different. But for a woman...I'm not sure I am making a lot of sense. These are all the things that I feel and they are not really verbal. This is what I mean when I say that I think this is all so instinctual."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, I thought you would. I watched Rene go through the experience of getting pregnant and having a child and I've seen him grow up. In any case, I'm very happy he's here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How have you been feeling this last week? You haven't mentioned eating and sleeping problems in a while. I assumed you were doing better in that regard."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I think I'm stabilizing. I think Zolax changed some of my eating habits. I tend to eat more frequently but smaller amounts. And I might require more sleep lately. But these are all things that I could live with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And as I mentioned before, I think Zolax also allows me to take things more in stride."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, for example I had this incident at work. I think before I would have reacted quite badly. But now...well let's just say I feel more in control of my situation and myself. For example, last week I had another run in with Brenda Wolfe, Chief of Security at SII."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About a month ago, I looked something up in SII's computer files. No big deal. No files were changed or erased. I just needed some information. Brenda confronted me with breaking into a restricted database. I don't know how she found out it was me or how she knew the files were accessed, for that matter. I told her at the time to just relax and let go of the whole thing. No harm was done. I thought the matter was settled. Then, last week I get this memo, that she apparently sent out to the whole SII management, about the security issues and break ins. She's going on about industrial espionage and theft. This just made me furious. She knew I did it. I didn't deny it. What an idiot! I told her it was none of her business and she should just forget about it. But I guess some people just need to feel powerful in what ever inconsequential ways they can. And this way she can look really important. But what I'm trying to say is that I think before I would have felt really anxious and upset about this whole thing. Now, it's like a mosquito bite. I can feel it but it's not such a big deal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I got a letter from Ms. Wolfe, too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It specifically mentioned that the break in occurred in the medical records of SII personnel. In particular, the files were searched for AIDs and HIV related information."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, you were wondering why I wasn't worried about AIDs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you searched all of SII files to get the names of HIV infected..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wasn't going to risk my life, Doctor. I want to have some sexual freedom but I'm not willing to die for it. Is that wrong?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This sentiment is not wrong. But don't you think searching through everybody's personal records was an invasion of their privacy? How would you feel if this was done to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess I wouldn't have been too thrilled. But I didn't mean any harm. And the men on my list are receiving a certain benefit that they all seem very happy about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you have a list of men, cleared of HIV, with whom you're planning to initiate sexual contact?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, you are making me sound really bad. I have never had sex with anyone that I later regretted. I like all my men. I find them smart and stimulating and sexy. I am not just sleeping with them because they are healthy. I just don't want to get into a sexual relationship which can put me in jeopardy. That seems reasonable, doesn't it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So all the men you have slept with so far have been on this list?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, although the first time I had sex with Richard I didn't know his medical history. That scared me, so the following day I did some research in the company files. You know that there is this push for early HIV detection and everyone in SII is strongly encouraged to take the test, so it was really easy to find out who was okay and who...actually I'm happy to say there were very few who did not qualify, so to speak."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what is your plan?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you planning to go through your whole SII list?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor! I'm just being careful, that's all."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But so far you had Richard, David, Hal, and a whole bunch of others. I can't even remember their names now, there were so many."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They were all wonderful men, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are saying you do not have a plan?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What kind of a plan?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know. A plan to have sex with all the eligible SII men."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, don't be silly! I just had sex with a few men that I found attractive. Attractive both spiritually and physically. Trust me, I have no intention to to do the rounds, so to speak. I'm just trying things out. Really, Doctor, relax. I'm not a crazed drug-induced nymphomaniac."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to hear that. But you do make me wonder, Sylvia. I understand the need for experimentation, but I'm worried when the behavior of my patient goes so far from the norm, after taking a drug I prescribed. And by the norm I mean the your normal behavior patterns, not something imposed on women generally--that argument just doesn't fly. I really think we should reconsider Zolax."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, please..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would feel better if I knew for a fact that I'm not witnessing a Zolax side effect. There are other serotonin reuptake inhibitors we could try, so that you could keep the positive benefits of the drug."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I'm sure that the drug isn't causing my behavior. I don't know how to prove it to you beyond what I've already explained. But I know what I'm doing. I also know that what I'm doing could be perceived the wrong way. But please, give me time to show you that you're wrong about the Zolax. I know myself and I'm very sure of my intentions. Please, I need time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How many affairs did you have last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Two. But it was with the same two man as before--Richard and Bruce."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do they know about each other?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. I never thought about it. We never talk about this. I don't think it's that important."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't think they might have developed some expectations from your relationship?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I hope not. I think we all know that we're doing this for fun. I'm a married woman, for God's sake."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, but you made it clear to them that isn't an issue. I would assume that they think that you are either separated or getting a divorce."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I might have led them to believe this. But not intentionally. As I said before, I'm not ready to divorce Tom just yet. Again, I feel that I need time to sort things out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay, Sylvia. Now our time is up for today. Shall we meet the same time next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'd like that. Doctor, please think well of me. I have my reasons and I would like to discuss them with you some time in the future. But, for now, just give me some time. It's really important to me. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Sylvia. That's August 27th at 4 pm. Please take care of yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will, Doctor. Thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 8th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, August 27th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello, Doctor. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Sylvia. Fine, thank you. And you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, I'm tired. I think I need to get away for a couple of days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You sound like you didn't have a good week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had a confrontation with my parents. My mother in particular. My Dad and I are just saying hello to each other and not much more then that. I think he just doesn't know how to handle the whole situation. I'm sure that he and my mother talk about me all the time. But he just can't face me directly. My mother, on the other hand, got brave last week and we sort of had it out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did your mother have to say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A lot of things. Mostly that she thought that I was making a mistake. Her basic point was that Tom is not all that bad compared to other men. She even went as far as telling me that she had to put up a lot with my dad. And I know that's true. Moving to the U.S. was definitely not her idea."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said that your mother had a successful business in Paris."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. She made a lot of sacrifices for my dad. But that's her life and those are her decisions."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you tell her that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I tried. But it's like we are from two completely different worlds. I don't think that she could really understand what I'm going through even if she wanted to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think your mother is trying to see your point of view?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know she loves me and is trying to understand me. But there is this barrier. People talk a lot about the generational gap, whether it's real or not. I think that this might be that. You have to understand that I think my mother is a very strong woman. She was managing a business when most women were staying home and raising families. Not that I think that staying home is bad. That's not it. It's just that I think that my mother was very progressive for her time. There were not that many women running businesses back than. For that matter, there are not that many now. But somehow, our attitudes about life and living are different. The ultimate life choices in our family were always made by my father. There is this dynamic between them and my mother seems to be on the submissive side. And all her life decisions and all her attitudes come from that perspective. When Tom discussed his vasectomy with my mother, he kept stressing that that was a decision made for the benefit of our family and for my benefit in particular. And my mother believed that he knew better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That Tom knew better than you what is ultimately good for the two of you as a family?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. She did not perceive what Tom did as cowardly, but as courageous. He knew that I would be upset and furious and yet he did it anyway because he believed that that was the right thing to do. I think that this is how my parents see the situation."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you try to explain to your mother your point of view?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course. But as I said, I feel like there is this barrier between us. I can not seem to get through to her. And Tom is instigating my parents by telling them that I went insane and have drug induced behavioral problems."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do your parents know about your recent sexual activity?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Somehow I just don't think that they would understand my interesting social life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you're having difficulties with it, Doctor, then think of my mother. Or father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Tom never mentioned to them your..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My indiscretions? I don't think so. I bet he doesn't think that it's in his best interests. Although, I don't know what his plan is. But he seems to leave me alone and that's all I want for now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what about your parents?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean Tom talking with them?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll just deal with it later. One thing at a time. I'm sure I can work it out with them later."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are just going to leave things with your mother the way they are?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. It takes a lot out of me to talk to her. I just need some time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You keep saying that you need time, Sylvia. But it is not clear to me what you are waiting for."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I don't know. For things to settle down a bit. Maybe I should get away, even if only for a weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where would you want to go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There is this little place down the coast. It has a feeling of being nowhere. It's a collection of cottages but each cottage is a treehouse."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A treehouse?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. It's very charming. The rooms are nestled in trees right on the coast. And none of the rooms are rectangular. They're all made up of strange angles and shapes. There is something very soothing about being there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were there before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About five years ago, Rene and I went down there for a week. I think this is what I'll try to do this weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It might be tough on a Labor Day weekend."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have connections."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Victor Woodward's sister is part owner. And Victor just might be the perfect companion. It could be very romantic."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Is he on your approved list?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor! Well, as a matter of fact, he is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think we should talk more about your list."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought we settled that last time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Not really. I think we raised several ethical issues with you behavior. Aside from the basic rights of these men to keep their medical records private, there were several others. One of which is a consideration for these men's feelings. You said that you are not worried about them because they know that you're a married woman."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I did think about it, Doctor. And you are right. I'm not really being fair with them if they are expecting to start and develop a relationship with me. By the way, I only think that my actions could be misinterpreted and deemed unfair in regards to Richard and possibly Bruce. The rest were strictly one night stands. And I think it was clear from both sides that there were absolutely no expectations or follow-ups to be made. But I do think that I might need to have a discussion with both Richard and Bruce."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There are other issues as well."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't understand. What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are having affairs indiscriminately without regard for these men's positions in the company."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Ah?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll be more direct. When you have sex with someone in your company whose corporate ranking is below yours, your actions could be misinterpreted as sexual harassment. Did you ever consider that some man would feel like he couldn't say no to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Look, I know it's possible, but this is really only an issue when a man is the boss. Besides for that movie with Demi Moore, I've never heard of a woman as the harasser. I bet the men would get laughed out of court. And I would never force anyone to have sex with me. Please Doctor, believe me when I say that all of the men I made love to so far were very willing participants. And I don't think that any one of them regretted spending time with me. Trust me, Doctor, I was there. I should know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I just want you to keep in mind that you might be very difficult to refuse."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will take that as a compliment, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would rather you took it to heart and thought about it the next time you made a pick from your list."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will, Doctor. It is not my intention to hurt anybody."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "On that note, how was your week? Socially, I mean."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know just what you mean. There were three, including Victor. Victor is also from the Future group at SII. He and Richard work together and this is one of the reasons that I will talk to Richard about our relationship. Although I don't believe that I will break Richard's heart. Richard has a very open mind when it comes to love and sex. But you are right. I would rather not have a misunderstanding."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Now how many men are in this Futures department?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I cannot help if I find men with a high intellect sexy, Doctor. And SII seems to have a high concentration of these men in its Think Tank. This doesn't mean that I'm planning to do the whole department."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm just considering a few."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry, Doctor. I just couldn't resist."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You said you had three affairs?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The other two men are also from SII. One writer and one programmer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is the writer from your department?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, why?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is what I meant when I was talking about sexual harassment. People who are working for you, directly or indirectly, might feel pressured to say yes to you even to their personal detriment."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will make it a rule never to have sex with anyone from my department."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, I hope you are being serious."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry, Doctor. I do think that it is probably best that way, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Our time is up now. I will see you next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Absolutely, unless I decide to spend more time in my tree house with Victor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Then please give me a call."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no, Doctor. I'm just kidding. It's so easy to get a reaction out of you sometimes. I will definitely be here next Tuesday at 4 pm as usual. I came to depend on you to provide some center and stability in my otherwise crazy life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you next week, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye, Doctor. Thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sylvia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 9th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, September 3rd, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello, Doctor. It's nice to see you. How was your weekend?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello, Sylvia. I had a good weekend, thank you. Took some time to explore the city a bit more, get to know my neighborhood. How was your weekend? Did you get into the tree house place you were talking about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Victor's sister came through. Although we only got Sunday and Monday night. They were completely booked on Friday and Saturday. But we still drove down there early Saturday. They have a couple of hiking trails and the hostess was nice enough to make us a picnic lunch. We had a great time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you been friends with Victor long?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's hard to say. I met him at one of the SII functions a couple of years back. I immediately liked him. And even though we never tried to make a specific time to see each other before this, we never missed an opportunity to say hello and have a brief conversation. When I found out that he was on my list, I was very happy to extend our friendship. If he didn't mind, of course."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Doesn't sound like he had a problem with it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I found him very cooperative."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Did you have a chance to have a little talk with Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not yet. But I made a date with him tomorrow and we'll talk then. I really don't think it's going to be a problem, Doctor. As I said before, Richard is very open minded. I don't think he will have a problem with my nonexclusivity, shall we say."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps not."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told Victor and he was okay with it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mentioned that you prefer not to use condoms and since you know the medical histories of your partners, I understand that you are not particularly worried about HIV. But how about them? Did you tell Richard or Victor that they are on your safe list?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't think that telling them about my list was a good idea. As open-minded as they are, they might not understand and could even be offended. And I don't want that. I want them to feel good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how do you handle this situation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Since all of us have been tested recently, we all know. As the moment approaches, I say that I would prefer not to use condoms, if they don't mind. So far they have all volunteered the information about their HIV status. They are the ones that tell me not to worry, and reassure me, and tell me to do what feels comfortable to me. And I let them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a bit manipulative, don't you think Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perhaps. But I don't mind, they feel good, and I get to have sex the way I want."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "By the way, I don't remember if you told me or not, but what are you using for birth control?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Aren't you worried about getting pregnant?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'm not worried, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Because I think I am."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I'm pregnant. I haven't been to the doctor yet, but I peed on the stick and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was this on purpose?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean you intentionally tried to get pregnant?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, you shouldn't be that surprised. I did fuck everyone in sight."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, are you trying to shock me again?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I want you to be happy for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wish you told me what you were up to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I couldn't. I don't think I would have the guts to do what I did without the medication and I really do want to have a child. I told you that during our first meeting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The medication! You're not supposed to take this medication while you're pregnant!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There are no adequate and well-controlled studies of Zoloft intake in pregnant women. Animal reproduction studies are not always predictive of human response. And from what I remember..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, I need to know for sure. Where are your references?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hold on. Here is the PDR. And I would also like to get on-line and check out the latest."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Give me the book."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, please calm down. I will look it up right now. Please sit down."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh god. Please don't let anything be wrong with my baby. Oh, Doctor, please hurry! I've got to know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. As I thought, there are no human studies. Reproduction studies have been performed in rats and rabbits at doses up to approximately 20 times and 10 times the maximum daily human dose. There was no evidence of teratogenicity at any dose level. At doses approximately 2.5-10 times the maximum daily human dose, sertraline was associated with delayed ossification in fetuses."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh god!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This is at extremely high dozes. And from everything it says here, the effects of taking Zoloft during pregnancy is just not known. Now, let's just slow things down here a bit. How many weeks pregnant do you think you are?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I didn't care about that. Oh god, I didn't even want to know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, this is our ninth session together. My records show that you've been taking Zoloft for only seven weeks. What is the date of your last menstrual period?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have never been particularly regular. My last period was just before I met you. But it doesn't mean anything. I could have been ovulating at anytime!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are maximum seven weeks pregnant. Do you have any idea of who the father is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No! I didn't want to know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, this definitely explains your recent behavior. What we need to do is get you to an obstetrician right away. Do you know one?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. My gynecology group does obstetrics also."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Please see them as soon as possible. I'll do some research too in the meantime. Sylvia, it's going to be okay. I'm not an obstetrician, but a fetus at 7 weeks is generally not at risk of birth defects from these types of drugs. If there's a problem, it is catastrophic and there would be a miscarriage. You might have to worry about losing the baby, but you don't have to worry about some form of birth defect as a result of your previous intake of Zoloft. From what I see here, the consequences of taking Zoloft during pregnancy are just not known. And at the bottom it even says that for patients who require Zoloft it could be administered but under strict supervision."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Are you saying it is okay for me take Zoloft?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. I would recommend that you stop taking it completely, now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I agree. It's just not worth the risk. And it's served its purpose."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Right. You'll go get an obstetrician and we'll get his opinion on all this. Now you had severe set of symptoms of post traumatic depression. Zoloft was responsible for stabilizing your physical and mental symptoms. After you stop taking Zoloft, I suspect that these symptoms will return. If they return, I think we would need to figure out another medication."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, Doctor. I will handle whatever happens. I would rather not jeopardize my baby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't want to do anything that would put your baby at risk. But your symptoms included dramatic weight loss, insomnia, anxiety attacks, and loss of concentration. All of those are not good for pregnancy. I will work with your obstetrician to figure out the best therapy for you and your baby."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would like to do some research, too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure. I'll give you some references including Internet resources. But before you come to any conclusions, please talk to me. There is a lot of information out there. It's quite complicated and not all accurate. And any self diagnosis might lead to problems."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I understand. But I would like to feel like I'm in some kind of control of the situation. And I always believed that a person should try to be as informed about their medical situation as they can."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a very sound attitude. Now, you should start feeling the absence of Zoloft in the next couple of days. Please monitor you symptoms and call me if you start to feel like you are starting to lose control or you notice new physical symptoms. During the first trimester of pregnancy, you could be experiencing nausea, tiredness, urinary discomforts, unusual appetite tendencies. It will be hard, at first, to sort out the true cause of your symptoms. But with careful observation..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm used to treating myself as a lab rat. I got very good at running through my check list."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you felt any pregnancy symptoms so far?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. I'm unusually tired, especially in the early mornings. I'm eating more and, when I get just a little bit hungry, I need food right away or I feel like I'm going to pass out. I haven't experience any urinary discomforts yet. And I only had two nausea spells so far."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This all sounds perfectly normal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what I thought too. I have been reading a lot on this subject for years."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. Now, you've mentioned that you not only don't know who the father is but specifically avoided knowing. At some point you will begin to show and some of your men will notice. Not to mention that Tom will notice. What are your plans? Are you going to tell Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Remember when I mentioned to you that I went to see a lawyer?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. In our first or second session. You wouldn't tell me much more then that at the time."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I asked her what would happen if I got pregnant but was still married to Tom. She said that under California laws, any child conceived during the marriage is legally recognized as the child of the husband. This is regardless of any genetic issues. So even though this child is not Tom's, Tom is still considered to be the father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You want Tom to be the father of your child?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I want Tom to be the legal parent of my child. Of course, I will file for divorce as soon as I meet with my obstetrician."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean you just want Tom to be responsible for the child financially?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it is appropriate for Tom to have this responsibility. Don't you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He lied to me, Doctor. His lie could have cost me my motherhood. My little indiscretion is nothing compared to that. Besides, he agreed to have a child two years ago, the bastard! And if he wanted it to be his, he shouldn't have had the vasectomy. Now, he will have all of the responsibility and none of the fun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia! I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, it's okay. I'm just still very angry and wasn't really able to talk about it with anyone including you. I will file for total custody of the child. Not to mention the story he could tell to his friends and associates. I'm sure they will all be very sympathetic to him. I've found the best divorce attorney in the state and I'm going to bleed him dry, the bastard!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, you sound very bitter."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll get over it. I now have what I wanted. Actually if I don't think of Tom, I'm very happy. Now I just need to figure out the Zoloft problem. But you have put my mind at ease somewhat. If there were women that had to take Zoloft during pregnancy and there were complications, I'm sure it would have been mentioned even as anecdotal evidence. Since the PDR doesn't mention that, it makes think that it's not really all that bad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I still would like to do more research and talk to your obstetrician."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course. I'm insisting that you do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Our time is up now. Please give me a call after you see your obstetrician and I would like to arrange to speak with him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No problem, Doctor. I'll e-mail you the information tonight. What's your e-mail address?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm CBalis@SIIComputers.com. Thank you. I would also like for you to call me in the next couple of days just to check on how you're feeling. I do think that you might have to continue taking an antidepressant of some sort. And I'll discuss this with your obstetrician."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nothing that would harm my baby."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course. So same time next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tuesday at 4 pm. I'll be there. Goodbye, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye, Sylvia. Please take care."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. And I think I will stay with Rene for the next week or so. You understand."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do. I will reach you there, if necessary."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you, Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 10th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, September 17th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Sylvia. I'm fine. How are you? You're looking well. Have you begun to feel the effects of the medication I prescribed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes Doctor, stop worrying. I'm feeling much better. The horrible feelings of anxiety and listlessness are going away. And I have begun to sleep at night again. Over all I'm feeling fine physically."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. And emotionally?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, as you can imagine there has been a lot of changes in my life since the stick turned blue. First of all, please understand that I'm extremely happy. I got more than I ever hoped for. And I'll do everything and anything to keep my babies happy, healthy, and to term. At least as much as is possible in this situation. The question of the day is how to break the news to my parents and Tom. I think I need to deal with Tom first. I think my mother will ultimately be happy for me even though she'll be totally freaked in the meantime. Maybe I should recommend you to her. What do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think that would be proper."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess not."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you want to wait on telling your parents? And what's your plan with Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That is what I want to talk to you about. Last weekend I moved back home. I was feeling stronger emotionally and thought that I could deal with him. And normally I think I could have. But Tom is really edgy. He looks like he lost a lot of weight. He is not speaking but barking out monosyllabically. He looks and acts like a caged animal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, Tom's life hasn't been exactly uneventful or stressless. Are you surprised at his reaction?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I shouldn't be, but I was."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It seems like you're holding all the cards right now. If Tom is that controlling..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know, I know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has he done something particularly that upset you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wasn't feeling well Sunday. I got a terrible case of morning sickness, which lasted all day. I even threw up a couple of times. Tom noticed and he just exploded at me. He told me that if I'm there just to give him my stomach virus he's going to throw me out of his house. That I only come home when I'm not feeling well and that I should have stayed with Rene and got her sick instead. He told me that I look awful. That I got fat and swollen. That the life of a prostitute is beginning to take hold of my appearance as well as my intellect. He said that he is ashamed of me. That he kept hoping that this will pass and that it's all just a drug induced nightmare. He said that he should have sued you a long time ago. Well, he just lost it. And I was feeling way too sick to cope with it. I started crying. I haven't done that in such a long time. I'm not even sure Tom has ever seen me cry. He was shocked. He got really quiet and then walked away. He didn't come home until Monday night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you worried about him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. It's the way he looked at me just before he left. It made me tremble."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you sure it's a good idea for you to still share a household?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm pretty sure that it's a bad idea. I went to my lawyer again. I didn't want to start anything until much later. Second trimester maybe. But with twins it will be too difficult to hide the fact of pregnancy for that long."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you planning to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I want to start the divorce machinery as soon as possible and I want Tom out of my house right away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was your lawyer's advice?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She suggested something that I just don't feel comfortable doing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She asked if I would be willing to get a restraining order for Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He hasn't threatened you has he?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I don't think that Tom would ever resort to violence."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So why the restraining order?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kelly's argument was that he has resorted to extreme measures to avoid having children. He has been actively hostile and extraordinary deceitful. Kelly said that she could make an argument that he might turn violent if confronted with what I have done. She said that my condition is delicate and that I should consider what would be best for me and my children."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think that would be?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I know that it wouldn't be having Tom live under the same roof with me. But I don't think I can do the restraining order. I just don't think that physical violence is Tom's style. Oh, he would hurt me but it would all be mental anguish."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what do you want to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure yet. I guess I have several options. One is tell him right away and hope that he'll just move out. But I don't think he'll do that. Another option would be to serve him with divorce papers as a surprise. The problem is that he might demand to keep the house until the divorce is final. And since I moved out and rented another place with Rene already, I don't want to chance it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is there another option?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can have all the legal papers ready and ask Tom to come with me to one of our sessions and then you could explain the situation to him. I'd give him the divorce papers at the end of our meeting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think so."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I'm sure you could keep Tom rational and make him understand that all of this is just a logical result of his actions. He was the one to have a vasectomy. I would have been perfectly happy to have his children."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, I'll do all that I can to help you through this ordeal. But I'm not a divorce mediator or a lawyer. And I don't think it would be thereupeutic for you to hide behind me instead of directly facing Tom. You really have to confront him yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I don't know if I can. I'm very tired and I don't want to fight him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you want to keep the house and get alimony and child support. The phrase you used, I believe, is \"I will bleed him dry.\""
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You have a good memory Doctor. Yes, I do want all of those things. I think I deserve it after what he put through. It wasn't my intention to have to sleep with every man in sight to get pregnant. He made me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure it wasn't his intention either."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, he drove me to it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It was also my impression that you enjoyed it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, just a little."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "By the way what are your plans regarding the possible father of your twins? And have you thought that it might be more then one?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It seems entirely possible that your twins might have two different fathers. After all, they were conceived about two weeks apart and you did have multiple partners during this period."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been too busy to think of it that way. I've just been concentrating on keeping the father's identity questionable. I don't want there to be any paternity issues. These children are mine exclusively. But having two different fathers...I guess it's possible. Even likely given my schedule. Well, it doesn't matter to me. I'm happy with the genetics of all of the candidates."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good. But what about all of your men? Do you think they might be interested in who the father was?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's none of their business. I'm married and by law these children are Tom's."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Plus there is no way to tell, right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about DNA testing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have to agree to that and I won't. Doctor, most of the men I slept with were one night stands. They didn't count on me wanting to get pregnant and probably would rather I didn't raise the issue."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that true for Richard for example? He was more regular than that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Richard might be a problem."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ever have that talk with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About multiple partners?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. And your relationship with him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought it would be best to wait until I'd seen my obstetrician. And then it was just too crazy to have to deal with that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think you should talk to him. Tell him everything. As unpleasant as it might be right now, it might be worse later."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're right, of course. But it's just too much right now. I want to deal with Tom first. Then my family. And after I know that my pregnancy is okay, after the twelve weeks are up, I'll deal with the rest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That seems reasonable. Do you think you can hide the fact that you are pregnant at work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can try. Cassie, my secretary, knows apparently. She left me a message. But I talked to her and explained that I don't want anyone to know just yet. She seemed very understanding about keeping my secret. And as for people noticing, the winter is coming up and I can start wearing bulky clothing and sweaters. I think I can get away with it for a while. It's more difficult with Tom. He already noticed a little. It won't be too long before he puts two and two together. I really need to start dealing right away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you are afraid to confront him alone, why don't you ask Rene to be with you when you talk to him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I might do that, although Rene is a very emotional and volatile person. She might not be the best choice for an arbitrator."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you looking for an arbitrator or for partner/protector?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess the later. But it'll be quite a scene. Are you sure you're not willing to participate Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm very sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh well, I had to try."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure you'll get what you want Sylvia. Or most of it anyway."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes Doctor. I guess our time is up? Same time next week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Next Tuesday at 4 pm. Let's see, that's the 24th of September."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I might call you for moral support."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm always here for you, Sylvia. You know that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. I'll see you next week. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia. Take care of yourself and your babies."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 11th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, September 24th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor. How are you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Sylvia. I'm fine. How are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm 10 weeks today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Congratulations! But what do you mean? How are you counting?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, I count by the older one. I can't go 42 weeks, or something, so the younger one is going to be premature no matter what I do. So the older one is 10 weeks today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel big and tired. I don't think I can get away with hiding the pregnancy for as long as I thought."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I agree. You are definitely showing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think Tom knows."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? Has he said something?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But I'm pretty sure he knows. He has been very quiet and even attentive to me at times. And he's looking at me funny. He is making me nervous. He is going to do something that I will regret."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has Tom actually done or said anything to make you feel this way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no, Doctor. It's nothing that obvious. But he made breakfast the other morning and then offered it to me when I came into the kitchen. I turned him down of course, but he did try to be nice to me. And he keeps looking at me. I feel like he is examining me--scrutinizing every part of my body. I feel naked when he does that. Like he could see through my clothes. See directly into my uterus. I know, now I definitely sound paranoid. But I can't help it. I feel my flesh starting to crawl and my hair standing on ends when he looks at me. I can't wait until he's gone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you been talking some more to your lawyer?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kelly said that she has everything ready and I just have to say go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what's keeping you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel that I have to tell Tom about the twins before I serve him the divorce papers. I know it'll be ugly. Especially now that I think he knows already that I'm pregnant. I'm so sick lately that I feel all my energy draining out. To confront Tom when I'm weak I think would be a mistake. So I'm waiting. Although as time goes on I realize that I should just do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The morning sickness is usually gone by twelve weeks or so, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not necessarily. Sometimes these symptoms last all the way up to five months of pregnancy. And I hate calling it morning sickness. I've been feeling nauseous during the day, in the evenings, at night, as well as during the customary morning hours."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like putting off talking with Tom just won't work."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're right. I'll take him out for dinner sometime this week and tell him then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why dinner?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just want to get him in a public place. Regardless of how explosive his reaction is going to be, it will be contained by being in the public eye. Tom would never let his composure down in public. And after dinner I can go to Rene's and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hide out?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Precisely Doctor. I'm admitting that I'm a coward but I'm also a woman in a delicate condition and I'm trying to treat myself nicely."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe I can ask Rene to stay in a getaway car just outside the restaurant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm just kidding Doctor. I'm very nervous about talking to Tom and I'm making light of it. When it really comes down to it, Tom really can't do much at this point. The most important thing is that I'm going to be a mother. I won the war. The rest are just residual battles."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Battles that you are planning on winning."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That would be nice. Although being pregnant is definitely a handicap. I had no idea that it would be like this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There is just a slew of problems. Some are even comical. I'll get up in the night because I have to go pee and then I realize that I'm very nauseous. So I put crackers next to my bed. I was told that eating saltine crackers reduces nausea. Well, while I'm not sure of the medicinal properties of crackers, I'm positive that they're not the right food to eat in bed. Between going to the bathroom, eating the crackers, and shaking the sheets, I get no sleep."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds rough."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I'm acquiring the most outrageous eating habits. I seem never to feel hungry. But every couple of hours I feel like I'm going to die if I don't get food. And when I feel that way, I have to have food now. And I mean immediately. I had to run out of a meeting last Friday to grab a candy bar and a coke. Luckily, as a computer company, we're well supplied with these necessities of life. I do have some crackers at my desk too, but sometimes a cracker just won't do. I'm beginning to feel like I should buy Hershey's stock."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Cravings for sugar are fairly common during pregnancy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can testify to that. Bathroom is the other thing. I feel like I'm spending half my days in the bathroom. I think I go there every half hour, a drop at a time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your uterus is still very low right now and is pressing against your bladder making it feel full and creating an urge to urinate frequently. This should pass in the next month or so, although it will come back near the end of your pregnancy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You are making it sound so clinical, Doctor. I find it exasperating."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Doesn't sound like you're enjoying being pregnant."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know who ever came up with this idea. The joys of pregnancy--what a joke! I don't understand how we ever reached our evolutionary level with such flawed reproductive system."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well think about it Doctor. Our ancestors were prayed upon by numerous predators. A pregnant female seems particularly vulnerable to an attack. She's getting bigger. Her center of balance shifts and she gets clumsier in her movements--bumping into things so to speak. She will have problems running and climbing, making escape from her predators dubious. She feels a constant urge to urinate and throw up--clearly an inferior design in the life and death struggles of the wild. And from what I hear, delivery doesn't sound like it enhances survival. At least now there are drugs and going off to the bushes seems to be optional. But survival of the fittest...?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see you've thought a lot about it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Just a bit. I was talking to Rene about it. She seems to have forgotten all the horrors of her pregnancy. She said that there must be a built-in mechanism for automatically erasing all the unpleasant memories of child bearing and birth, because women tend to have more than one baby and, most importantly, want to have a second baby after going through the experience of having the first. Rene maintains that if women and then men took turns having babies, human population would be on the decline--after watching their wives going through pregnancy and delivery, husbands would never consider going through that themselves."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Some women do enjoy being pregnant and don't experience all the unpleasant side effect that you seem to be having."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't get me wrong Doctor. I'm happy to be pregnant. I bought a ton of books. I know how each of my babies looks like on a given week of my pregnancy. I'm very excited about all their accomplishments."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Developing hearing, growing fingernails, moving their arms and legs."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you felt the babies moving yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean kicking?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. Can you feel them yet?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No not yet. I know that they are moving around a lot now. But what they are kicking is mostly water. My obstetrician said that I should start to feel something at about fourteen or fifteen weeks. I'm really looking forward to that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you scheduled for another ultrasound soon?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "In two weeks. By then, the older baby will be developed enough to tell if it's a boy or a girl."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is it important to you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. It would be nice if one was a boy and the other a girl. But I would be happy with any combination. Two boys, two girls--I'm just so happy regardless."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you planning on having amniocentesis performed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was told that due to my age they strongly recommend that procedure. But I'm worried about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Regularly it is done at about sixteen weeks. But since one of the twins is younger, this date would probably be moved to eighteen weeks. If they find that there is something wrong with either of them, what could they really do? I wouldn't do anything that would put either of them at risk. Let's say one has down's syndrome. Am I supposed to have an abortion? But what about the other one? I don't see much sense in doing this test."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not an expert, Sylvia. But it seems to me that it would be wise to follow the advise of your obstetrician. I spoke with Dr. Malleson and I find him a very knowledgeable and compassionate man. I'm sure he would only do what is in the best interest for you and your babies."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I trust him too. But I'm also doing a lot of research in this area. I want to be as informed as I can about my pregnancy and about any decision I might have to make regarding it or me. I know that I'm a very unusual case. There will be a number of issues that will come up. And I have a feeling that doctors are trained to act and sound confidant even when they are not sure which course of action they should take. I feel that this is my only chance and I don't want to blow it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it is very wise to stay as informed about your condition as you can."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so too. I read that a lot of women surrender themselves to their doctors. They seem to be unwilling to make any decisions or take any responsibility for their own care. That's strange to me. Having a child is one of the major decisions and life changes that a person can make. I think the responsibility for the well being of the child should start the moment a woman finds out that she is pregnant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you believe in abortion?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it is a very personal decision. It's right for some and a mistake for others. I don't think that it is right for me. But I believe that it is wrong to make these kind of decisions for others, so I support free choice. When I still worked as a journalist, I wrote an article on women's rights and the abortion issue. It was published in the New York Times. You can look it up if you like."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would be interested in reading some of your articles. I might do that. Our time for today is up. I'll see you next week at 4 pm on Tuesday, October 1st. Please call me if you get into difficulties with Tom and need to talk."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. I want you to know that you have been a tremendous help and support to me. I'm not sure how my life would have turned out if you were not around. Goodbye Doctor. As always, I will be looking forward to our next session."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you Sylvia. Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 12th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, October 1st, 1996 at 4 pm.\n[Sneezes]"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bless you. Hello Doctor, how are you? Do you have a cold? If you do perhaps we should reschedule--I'm worried about getting sick. When you're pregnant, there aren't too many options on what you can do for your cold other than some nose drops perhaps."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Sylvia. I'm fine. I just have an allergy. And I would never expose you or any of my other patients to my germs if I was sick. Now how are you doing Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry about being so jittery. I didn't mean to jump on you; I'm just feeling a bit edgy today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Maybe it's the pregnancy thing. I just feel like I'm on an emotional roller coaster--my moods go up and down, up and down, not to mention my digestive system. But I'm at 11 weeks and things should start to get better soon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you counting each day?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sort of. There are dangers at each stage of the pregnancy and as I pass that stage I feel like I can start to breathe easier."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is there anything in particular that you're worried about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. There are clearly more problems associated with carrying twins and even more with twins of different gestational ages. I would venture to guess that every first time mother has a slew of worries. But why do you ask?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I had an interesting conversation with your brother last week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Jeorge?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have to say that I had quite a different image of him from your description."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Jeorge is a master at first impressions--I'm not surprised. So what did good old Jeorge have to say?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Quite a bit. He seems to be genuinely worried about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's nice. He came to see me at work last Friday. Just showed up in the middle of the morning, unannounced, expecting me to drop everything and talk to him. I explained to him that I was rather busy and, if he was interested in talking to me, we could try to set a date convenient for both of us. He got angry, told me that I looked horrible, said something about Tom, and stormed out of the office. It's just like Jeorge to cause a scene. He does everything on a grand scale and is full of theatrics--a frustrated actor at heart. If he was really interested in talking to me--or even interested in my life--he would have tried to meet with me in private and not embarrass me in front of my office staff. Jerk. But I'm glad you liked him Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He was actually somewhat hostile on the phone to me, Sylvia. I just was expecting something else. But he did show what seemed to be genuine concern."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah? What else did he say?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He said you had cervical cancer a few years back and that you were told that you would have difficulties carrying a child to term. Is that true?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That seems like an important piece of information to neglect to mention."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "There are always risks, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "True. But..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm willing to take this risk. I want to be a mother. I wasn't willing to play it safe and then spend the rest of my life playing the \"what could have been\" game. If you play your life, Doctor, in your head, what are the chances that you, a hard-core New Yorker, would end up living in San Francisco treating a pregnant woman for severe depression caused by her husband's vasectomy?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see your point."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I'm not some starry-eyed optimist. I'm doing everything I can to improve my chances. When I was at the hospital, they put a stitch in my cervix. This is to provide extra support to the growing uterus which my body can't do on it's own. I'm also cutting down on my working hours. I ordered a new chair for my office that will allow me to shift the weight away from my dysfunctional cervix. I will no longer take business trips or go to any meeting outside of SII's headquarters. I've stopped exercising including walking for any distance further than my parking place. And I stay off my feet as much as I can. I'll probably end up on bed rest for the last few months. I hope you won't mind turning our sessions into telephone conversations. As I said before, I'll do all that I can to keep my babies."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll be happy to accommodate your situation in any way I can. But why didn't you tell me?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Look Doctor, if I told you about all of this, you would have tried to stop me. Right?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You would have. You would have insisted on acting rationally and playing it safe, just like Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And Tom is another thing. Jeorge painted quite a different picture of Tom and your relationship."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What a surprise. Jeorge? Tom's little pet? He would take Tom's side? How remarkable!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sarcasm aside Sylvia, Jeorge described Tom's perspective. He said that Tom is genuinely in love with you and always was. Jeorge told me that Tom was very concerned about you. That he was worried about your physical and mental health after the surgery. Jeorge said that you became obsessed with the notion of becoming a mother. He said that your whole family was worried about what could happen to you if you lost a child."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Did he mention Tom's noble sacrifice?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He said that Tom felt that that was the only way to insure birth control."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well he was wrong, wasn't he?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes he was."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, there are always two sides to every story. As a journalist I know that better than most. But after I found out about what Tom did to me, I sat down and tried hard to write his story from a neutral perspective. But there's just no justification. None. What that miserable son of a bitch did was so horrible...he made a carefully considered conscious decision to unilaterally take away any chance I had at being happy. I shudder to think what would have happened if I didn't find out in time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're talking about understanding Tom's actions from a neutral perspective. Don't you think that you'd be the last person to be able to do that? As a journalist you understand how biases and prejudices creep into a story. Would you trust a reporter who is this close to a story? Who has so much to gain or lose from taking one side over the other?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was always my job to be impartial and look for the truth."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Come on Sylvia, this is not that kind of situation. There is no way a person in your situation could stay impartial. You took the only side you could--yours."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Perhaps. But this is also the only side that makes me happy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "We'll talk more about that later. Did you ever discuss any other alternatives with Tom? What about adoption?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't want to adopt and Tom would have never accepted an adopted child as his own. It just wasn't an option."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't think Tom will accept your twins, do you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "His acceptance stopped being an issue as soon as I knew about his vasectomy. Whatever voice he might have had on this subject he cut off two years ago."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am no longer interested in Tom's fathering services. Or anyone else's for that matter. These children are mine and mine alone!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about a surrogate mother? The genetic material would have been yours but you would have avoided the risk of miscarriage."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought a lot about it. I also did a lot of research. It's my impression that the surrogate business is still in its infancy, so to speak. There are too many cases of surrogate mothers trying to keep the kids even if biologically the child isn't theirs. In the United States, the courts seem to favor the rights of the surrogate mother. And frankly, when I put myself in a surrogate's position, I don't see how I could give up the child either. We're the products of a long evolutionary process whose main purpose is reproduction. Our whole biology, down to the molecular level, is geared toward finding the right mate and conceiving and raising our own replacements. When a body is carrying a child, the hormones and instincts don't know on whose chromosomes this baby is built. The body does everything it can to give life to the child. And it makes no difference who the father or the biological mother is. It's all the same. The body just takes over. I don't know if it's right to ask anyone to give up the child that they brought into this world. I don't think I could do it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand that most times it's not an issue. Surrogate mothers are trained and experienced and understand what they are doing. I think many view it as giving a gift to couple like yours which has problems carrying children of their own."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You said the crucial words--most times. And then there is that other time when your child is not given to you and there is nothing you can do about it. You can never see your child grow up. You never have an opportunity...there'll be this person out there. This person might look like your mother or father, they might walk just like your grandfather did, they might sneeze a dozen times in a row just like your aunt does. There's this person who is a part of you and who you'll never know. And then every time you see a child about the right age, you'll look and wonder. I couldn't bear it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you felt that having a child yourself was the only option?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't see any other way. And as I said, I think the benefits outweigh the risks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom clearly didn't think so."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No Tom didn't."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Jeorge mentioned that Tom was always actively against the idea of having children and never pretended to go along with your attempts at getting pregnant. That is not exactly how you presented the situation to me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What, are you going to turn on me too? You're my therapist. You are supposed to be on my side. Do I have to battle you and my parents and Jeorge and Tom all by myself? I can you know. I can take you all on!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, you know this isn't about taking sides. My job is not about being your advocate. My job is to help you understand yourself better. You certainly don't have to explain yourself to me, but if I am to do any good as your therapist, I need to understand the entire situation and not just a sanitized version designed to insure my sympathies."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay Doctor. I know. I implied that we were both trying to get pregnant, when really only I was. But Tom knew I wasn't taking birth control pills."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Tom try to practice other forms of birth control? Condoms? Withdrawal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom was big on withdrawal. It matched his style--control over everything he does."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It seems to me that it's not only his style."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You have been exhibiting quite similar tendencies. You are one of the most controlling people I know, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think I'll take that as a compliment. I like to keep close rein over my life."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You clearly do. Well our time is up. Same time next week? Or do you want to make it a telephone call?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not ready for voluntary asylum just yet. I'll see you here next Tuesday at 4 pm, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Take good care of yourself and your babies, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. Or yes, I will also be bringing you some pictures next time. I'm going for my ultrasound next Monday morning. It's never too early to start a baby photo album."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll look forward to the pictures. Goodbye Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 13th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, October 8th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is the new medication?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess it's okay. Doctor, I'm feeling like events and circumstances are just taking hold of my life and I'm losing all control."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're talking about Friday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. But not just then. Look at me. I'm huge! The only way a person wouldn't guess that I'm pregnant is if they haven't seen me in the last couple of weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well are you surprised? Did you think you could go through your pregnancy keeping it a secret?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No of course not. But I find myself so unprepared. I was trying to get pregnant for so long that I just expected it would take a long time even with men who aren't shooting blanks. Did you ever see the documentary \"The Miracle of Life?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes, actually I have."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Remember all the events and conditions that had to be just right in order for conception to occur?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I remember being surprised that the chances were so low."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. Most sperm are duds and never even go past the cervix. The rest face a hostile environment all the way to the end, the female body regarding them as unwelcomed intruders. Even the ones that make it as far the fallopian tubes face these great \"Lady and the Tiger\" dilemma--two tubes, one of which has an egg and the other nothing. And out of billions of sperm only one makes it. But all of this is futile if the timing is not just right. I watched this documentary and wondered how we ever manage to reproduce at all?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Whatever the obstacles, it seems to have worked pretty well for the human race."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And I'm the living proof."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes you are."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "After I left Dr. Malleson office on Friday I never went home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Stayed with Rene?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't know what else to do. Tom shocked me. I was completely helpless. You've got to understand that I'm dressed in this little blue paper gown that's open everywhere and otherwise I'm naked. I'm lying on my back with my feet up in the air in these stirrups. The Doctor is sitting on his little stool checking my cervix and in walks Tom. The Doctor actually motioned him to come on in. It's like he had a right to be there. And Tom acts as if he's known all along. After I freaked out, Dr. Malleson took him into his office and filled him in on all the details. I felt like such an ass. I couldn't do anything. Everyone just assumed they were his children and treated him as an expectant father. Dr. Malleson thinks that I'm having a nervous breakdown. I can just imagine the conversation he had with you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Dr. Malleson was very concerned about you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I really lost it in his office. I wasn't prepared for Tom. But I guess now he knows everything."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Maybe not everything."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure Dr. Malleson did a thorough job of filling him in."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Dr. Malleson thinks the twins are Tom's."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would assume Tom told him otherwise."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think so. Dr. Malleson never mentioned anything but the concern about you that Tom expressed to him. In fact, Dr. Malleson quoted Tom's description of your adverse reaction to the previous antidepressant that you took. I think Tom pretended that the twins were his."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Great! Thank you Tom for defending my honor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you haven't talked to Tom since that scene in the examination room?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't you think you should?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh god I know. But what am I suppose to say to him now? \"Dear Tom, as you know that I'm pregnant and...\" I should just give him the divorce papers and get it over with."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would that make you happy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh who cares? At least it would be over with and it would be one less thing to worry about."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What are you worried about right now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm very worried about my pregnancy. I'm worried about not being able to carry to term. I'm worried about the divorce. I thought I knew how it would play out, but Tom surprises me every step of the way. I keep expecting him to do something horrible."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Like what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. Like running a story about me in the Chronicle--\"Whore Wife Sleeps with 100 men and Gets Pregnant with Twins of Different Fathers.\" Read all about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't really think Tom would do that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. But he'll come up with something just as awful. He'll leave me destitute. Take away my house, my job."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you worried about losing your job?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A little. I will clearly not be able to work soon. In a high pressure business like this if you're not right on top of things you lose. Technology is changing at such an overwhelming rate that it is hard to keep up even if you're working all the time. Taking almost a year off could easily cost me my position."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are not the first executive at SII to have children, are you? Other women leave on maternity leave."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As an executive I'm supposed to be immune to this sort of thing. It's still a man's world. Not to mention that my recent behavior is just a bit controversial even for an advanced cutting-edge kind of company."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would say that's probably an understatement. Have any of the prospective fathers noticed your present condition?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's the other thing. I'm keeping a low profile. But the more I try to be invisible the more rumors are going around SII. I walk into the room and everyone stops talking. I have to pretend that I don't notice anything. But I feel like screaming at them--haven't they ever seen a pregnant woman before?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think that it's the fact of your pregnancy that is sparking people's interest. Do you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. The game of the day is \"Who is the Father.\" Even Lloyd mentioned something until I cut him off. But I'm surprised how anyone knows. I never did anything in public and I can only assume that one of them talked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I remember you had sex in someone's cubical. That's not exactly in public but..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No one saw us. I'm not into having people watch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. But don't you think that once the knowledge of your pregnancy becomes public knowledge--and it clearly has--every man who's slept with you will begin to wonder? And perhaps talk? You deliberately avoided using contraceptives. I'm surprised that you haven't been confronted directly by them. Did you ever talk to Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh god. He calls me several times a day. Every day. Everywhere I turn, he is there watching me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk to him at all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that I needed some time and then I'll explain everything to him. I think he just assumes that I'm getting a divorce and can't speak to him because of that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think he believes that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "His messages are always full of discretion. He talks about how he understands my situation and how he's there for me. I think he thinks that I'm afraid of being followed by some detective that Tom hired and that my phones are tapped or something. He never says anything straight out. I'm having a ton of problems and he is living in a fantasy world. I know that he believes that he is the father. I dread having the little talk with him about the paternity issue. And it wouldn't be above him to try to do the noble thing either. I wish they all would just leave me alone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has anyone else confronted you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "David sent me an e-mail message saying that it's \"cool\" that I'm having a baby. I replied telling him that it's not his. He sent another message--\"thank you.\" At least he is honest about his relief."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about Hal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hal has been reaching the heights of strange paranoid behavior. If I hadn't known him for years I would fire him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "About two weeks after we had sex, he came into my office to tell me that he hoped that I wasn't disappointed but we just couldn't have a relationship. He insisted on telling me that our affair was just a one night stand and that he is really in love with his wife. I kept trying to tell him that I wasn't interested anyway. But he kept on pressing the sanctity of the marriage and so on. If he really felt that way why did he go with me? I don't want to feel bad for his indiscretions. His marriage is his problem and if he really loved his wife he wouldn't have done what he did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But the last week or so he's been simply impossible. Every time I need to talk to him he jumps, turns pale as if he is about to pass out. If I pass him in the office or in the hallway, he bolts away from me with a maniacal look in his eyes as if I have rabies and I'm about to attack him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't work with him. If this continues I'll have to do something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He is probably concerned that he might be the father. Getting his boss pregnant would probably not be the best thing for his marriage."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If he'd just give me half a chance I'd put his mind at ease. Hopefully neither of the babies are his. I would hate to introduce insanity into my genetic lineage."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a bit cold."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know it is. But I have little sympathy for a man who cheats on his wife."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well you knew he was married."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm married too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Let's move on. Did anybody else express interest in the paternity of your children?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No one else has openly confronted me yet. But I assume it's just a matter of time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So when are you planning on talking to Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh we're back to that. I'll do it this week. Perhaps when I come home tomorrow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. And your family? Jeorge clearly already knows."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He wouldn't have told my parents. I'll tell them after I speak with Tom. I'll inform them about the divorce and the twins. It's going to be an interesting week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Call me if you want to. I'm here for you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. I know. And I'm sorry about getting angry at you last week. It's been really hard keeping it together."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's okay. That's what I'm here for. I'll see you next week, Tuesday October 15th at 4 pm. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's fine Doctor. I'll tell you all about my wonderful family."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure your parents will ultimately support you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. Thank you Doctor. Oh, I almost forgot. Here are copies of my ultrasounds. I thought you might like them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I would very much. Thank you Sylvia. I think you've got very good looking...boy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, one of them is a boy. The other kept its legs crossed the entire time--so we don't know. He or she wasn't giving anything up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The baby just wanted to keep up the mystery."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Great. I'll see you next week Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia. Thanks again for the family pictures."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's never too early to start a baby album. I'll be the kind of mother that makes everyone suffer through hundreds of pictures and cute little stories. Can't wait to get invited to my first slideshow, right Doctor? Bye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 14th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, October 15th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. You know each time you walk into my office I'm impressed by how big you're getting. Thirteen weeks now, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor. You always know just the right thing to say. It is thirteen weeks and I think that I'm quite huge too. Each week I get a little bigger and a little closer to motherhood."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So have you come out of the closet, so to speak?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean have I spoken to Tom and my parents?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you like to talk about it? How did it go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It seems that just like all things in life as soon as you begin to feel you have things under control the world shifts and leaves you without a firm foothold on reality."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So it didn't go very well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tuesday night, after I left your office, I went back to Rene's. As I got out of the cab and started to walk towards the door, my father walked towards me. He and my mother were waiting for me in the car."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Had either of them seen you recently?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think last time was about seven, eight weeks ago? I'm not exactly sure."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And they did didn't know about the pregnancy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never told them. My father just kept looking at me. Or more precisely, at my belly. Finally I said hello. He looked up at me and said, \"So it's true.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So they knew."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently. But I don't know how."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him that he was going to be the grandpa of a little boy. He seemed pleased. His expression softened somewhat. Then I heard a cry. We both turned around and saw my mother crying in the car. I started to walk toward her but he stopped me. He said that my mother hadn't been feeling well. That he is really worried about her. He said that I had made my mother sick."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's wrong with your mother?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Nobody told me anything and I wish I had known."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Known what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's been having some heart problems. My dad told me that ever since my fight with Tom...they are calling it a fight...my mother's been feeling worse. They had to take her to the hospital a couple of times with chest pains. The doctor told them that she needs to cut down on excitement and worry in her life. He suggested that they sell the restaurant because running it might be too much for my mother."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't know any of this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I wasn't speaking to my parents. The last conversation we had was so explosive--them trying to convince me that Tom was only doing what's best for me--that I just stopped communicating with them. I felt that I needed all the strength I could muster to carry out my plan. I thought that once they saw me pregnant it would all be okay somehow. Anyhow, my dad and I walked over to the car. She looked so frail different than I've ever seen her before. She was always the strong one, bending everyone to her will. It was frightening to see her like that. I don't think I ever saw her cry. I felt like a little girl who did something horribly wrong and is now about to hear what her punishment is going to be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk to your mother?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I started to cry too. She looked up at me and started to comfort me just as if I was a child. She was telling me it was going to be all right. She was being strong for me. She kept telling me that she will make everything better, that she would take care of it. I kept crying in her arms and telling her I was sorry. Finally dad said that we'd better get inside."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you go up to Rene's apartment?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No they didn't want to. I went home with them in the car. I kept having this feeling of being a little girl. And them being the parents again. Not like they are now. As adults we all seem to lose the sense of protection, love, and a feeling that our parents are all powerful beings. But being with them that night, it was like dropping back into childhood. It was like being five again. Except that there was an underlying feeling of dread everytime I looked at my mom. It was as if I needed to recapture that feeling of being young quick before something happened to her. Like there's not enough time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You think that your mom's health problem is that serious?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't inquire further about your mom's medical condition?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't appropriate then. I couldn't break the illusion of that night. It was like being in the Twilight Zone--all so surreal. At some point I even thought that if all this was a dream I wouldn't be all that surprised."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk to your parents later on in the week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Later in the week Tom happened. So no. I just didn't have a chance. You know I didn't even tell them that I have twins? Somehow it just never came up again. They think I'm having a boy and that's it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you going to tell them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually I don't know. I'm worried that if I tell them about the twins, it would kill my mother. She is already freaked out. I think she looks at me and sees a dead grandchild and a life of insanity for me. I don't think she could handle the weight of knowing that I'm carrying two. She knows that the risks are high enough with one."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "On the other hand, if she finds out about the twins in some other way..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought about that, Doctor. I'll have a miscarriage or go into early labor--the two are sometimes synonymous--and she'll learn that she might lose two grandchildren at once."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not exactly what I had in mind. Although that is pretty bad, I was thinking about finding out about the twins from other sources. Like Tom, for example."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I''ll talk to Tom about this. He won't say anything to hurt my mother."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how did that conversation go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As I said life is full of surprises. I had a plan. I was going to sit him down and tell him in the morning over coffee. Very civilized discussion. I'll give the divorce papers and he will start packing his bags to be gone by evening."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That is not a very realistic dream."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. But it would have been nice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what did happen?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I got to my house on Wednesday night. When I walked in, I thought that there was no one home. All the lights were off. There were no sounds. I was so relieved. I planned on going straight into my bedroom and shutting the door. I was going to get my self psyched for the morning confrontation. I was also going to get some rest. I'm a lot more tired now and I get very irritable and stupid when I'm tired. I get too tired to think."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Uh oh."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well when I got home and there was nobody there, I just let go. It was as if I had been holding my breath all day and now it was safe to breathe again. I turned on some lights, got into my pajamas, and decided to make myself a snack before going to bed. I'm eating for three these days. The day before with my parents was so hard. I really needed the time to regroup and pull myself together again for the conversation with Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom was home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, Tom was home. He was watching me go through my routine for getting ready for bed. When I finally made it to the kitchen and turned on the lights, he was waiting for me, sitting at the breakfast table. He must have been there for hours waiting in the dark for me. He asked me if I am ready to talk. I felt sick and my heart was beating so hard that I could feel it in my fingertips. I was not ready. I realized that I wasn't even ready for the planned conversation the following morning. I haven't said a word and he has won already."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There is not winning or losing. You are not playing a game, Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No I'm not. But I felt like he had the upper hand again. I was going to give him the papers and yet he was the one in control."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you give him the divorce papers?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He sat there looking at me, not saying another word, just waiting for me to make a move. It was as if he was a snake charming me into immobility before he would strike. I thought time stopped. The watch on the wall was ticking so slowly. Finally I told him that I needed something to drink. He got up, helped me to a chair, and poured me a glass of milk. He waited for me to finish it and asked his question again. I had to talk right then on his terms. It just wasn't the way I planned it at all. I finally decided to just give him the envelope and wait to see what he was going to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did he take it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that I must have carried it with me for awhile. The envelope was becoming a bit ragged around the edges from being in my briefcase for so long. He said it very casually like he was expecting it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like he was expecting it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I did give him a number of hints."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes you did."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He looked over the papers and asked me if I was expecting for him to agree to all that. I said that I hoped he would. Then he looked up at me and stared into my eyes. I felt like a deer in a truck's headlight. I couldn't move or look away. Then he suddenly got up and walked away. When I got control over my legs and body again I went up to my bedroom and shut the door. In the morning, when I got up and went downstairs, Tom was gone and so were the papers."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was Thursday morning. Did you speak with Tom after that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't see him Thursday night. I'm not sure he ever came home. Friday I packed my bags and took them with me to work. Rene, Robert, and I spent the long weekend together up in Sonoma. Robert had Monday off from school for Columbus Day. I wanted to do something nice for him. It's been very hard on him adjusting to a new school and new friends."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was nice of you. Have you been home since you came back?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'll go home tomorrow night. Last week was pretty hard on me. I decided to take a break from my immediate family."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The sooner you deal and face your obligations the easier your life is going to be."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. I need to have everything settled before I go on bed rest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When are you planning on starting?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Dr. Malleson thinks that I might have to start on restricted activity in the next couple of weeks and go on full bed rest some time after that depending on how my cervix is holding up."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you like to move our sessions to a telephone format?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not yet Doctor. I would like to continue coming to your office for as long as possible. I find being here clears my thoughts. I get a better perspective on my life from this chair than from any other location."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad our sessions are working for you. I also like being in the same room with you when we talk. Should we schedule our next session?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. This same time next week would be fine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I'll see you then. That's October 22nd at 4 pm. Please take of yourself. And try calling your mom. I think it would be good for both of you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll see. I'll see you next week and thank you Doctor. You are always good for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 15th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, October 22th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. How are you feeling today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor. I'll let you decide."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not a good start. What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The most inconceivable thing in the world."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I need a better hint than that Sylvia. You have one of the most improbable stories so far--I think it would be hard to surprise me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wish I could joke with you but..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry Sylvia. I didn't mean to make light of your situation. Something bad happened? Are the babies all right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The babies are fine. I even think that I'm beginning to feel them move and kick around in there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are at fourteen weeks now? It's very possible that you might actually be feeling some movement. Especially with twins. Soon you'll think that you have a couple of kick-boxers in there."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't wait."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, no Sylvia. That's the good part."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe they are just training how to escape their father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What? You found out who the father is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I know who the father isn't. Although that's not stopping him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia you are talking in riddles today. What happened? Did Tom do something?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You can say that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did he do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was like a shadow all last week. I knew he was in the house. I could feel him. But I never saw him. Finally on Saturday, I was going to confront him about it. I gave him the papers, so to speak, and I want him out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well you never actually expected for him to go quietly, did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was hoping he was going to be a gentleman about it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Really Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was hoping. So on Saturday, I get up really early and I waited for him in his room--he was still taking a shower so I just came in. When he got out and saw me, for a moment dozens of expressions and thoughts moved quickly across his face and then it turned back to stone. He looked at me and then proceeded to go about his business as if I wasn't there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He dried himself off and threw the towel on the bathroom floor. It was a long time since I'd seen him nude. It looked like he lost some weight. Actually he looked really good. As I was sitting in the chair, he proceeded to make the bed and pick out the clothes he was going to wear. He didn't even look at me after that first initial glance. I knew he cared and I knew that I surprised him. But he was all control. Finally I asked if we could talk. He turned to me--he was still completely naked--and asked if there was time for him to get dressed or if I preferred him as he was? I told him that I could wait and quickly left the room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So that bothers you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It wasn't that he was naked in front of me. That was my fault. What got me really uncomfortable is how he made me feel. If he caught me naked by surprise I don't think I would have maintained my cool the way he did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If I remember correctly, that's just what you did. You told me about putting on a show for Tom. Letting him watch you take a shower and get dressed and purposely trying to arouse him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That was different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It seems the difference is who was putting on a show for whom, don't you think?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was more about control. I was going to confront him. I came in to his room. He was surprised and naked. And he was in control. So completely in control."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were in control when you were putting on a show for him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not in this way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is the difference?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think my motivations were as evil as his."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Evil?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was just trying to make him want me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were flouting the fact that he couldn't have you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I was just trying to get back at him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't think that that is what he was trying to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. It was more than that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you have your conversation with Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not on Saturday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom did go back and find you after he dressed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I got scared and left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I couldn't. I could feel that something horrible was about to happen. I started to get a panicky feeling as I was waiting for him in the kitchen. The next thing I knew I was in car driving across the Golden Gate Bridge."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I kept driving north for a while. I felt that I needed to get away as far as I could. I finally ended up somewhere near Fort Bragg and stayed in a little hotel there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are developing a pattern of running away in the face of confrontation. This is not the first time you chose escape rather than facing the reality of a situation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I noticed that too. I think pregnancy is making me a lot more cautious."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's really not my style to run."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So when did you have your conversation with Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was trying to leave the house for work on Monday morning. Tom caught me just as I was leaving. He asked how was my weekend. I told him that it was fine and that I was sorry about missing him Saturday. He replied that it was no problem and it allowed him to get a few things settled anyway. As he was saying that I begun to feel the floor giving away from under my feet. I knew it was going to be bad. He asked if I could come into the office with him for just a minute. I felt like a cow being taken to a slaughterhouse."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did Tom have in mind for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Custody papers."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That was my reaction as well. Tom wants custody of the twins."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But they are not his."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well legally they are."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But genetically they are not."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He doesn't care about that. He said that as long as the kids were conceived during the marriage, he is their father. And he wants full custody. He said that he has consulted a lawyer and, given my irresponsibility toward the well-being of these children, he is petitioning for full custody."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can he do that? And what irresponsibility?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He mentioned the unknown biological father as one of the factors. There was a statement about my medical condition and the possibility of endangering the twins. Everything sort of turned gray after some point. I remember Tom giving me a glass of water and I was sitting behind the desk trying to read the papers. Finally Tom suggested that I should go and consult my attorney and then he left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you speak with your attorney?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She was shocked that Tom would do that. She took all the papers and said that she'd get back to me soon. I haven't told anyone about this yet. I don't even feel like it is really real. Why would Tom want them. They are mine not his. He has nothing to do with them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You were going to use the fact that they were conceived during the marriage to get Tom to pay child support and..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. I was trying to get back to him for what he'd done to me. But what does he want? I know he doesn't really want the kids. He never wanted to have children. So this is just some sort of a game."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you think Tom is trying to gain by this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The only thing I could think of is that he is trying to use the children as a bargaining chip--for me to give up all my claims against him and, in return, he will let me have my children."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a really low blow even for Tom. I know you like him Doctor, but don't you think it is?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know Sylvia. I would be interested in getting more details about his position, claim, and motivation."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't really tell you more than I already did. After Tom left I was just too...everything gets me so tired lately. I just had no energy to deal. I gave the papers to Kelly and basically just left them for her to deal with. I suppose that she will get back to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. You don't seem too upset about all this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just don't think Tom can really get away with this, although it is very creative, I have to give him that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. You know our time is up?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Time has a tendency to fly when we are talking about Tom. Should we schedule for next week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. Next Tuesday at 4 pm. That's October 29th."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay. I let you know how this all plays out. I assume it will be all over in the next couple of days. I wonder what he will do next."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It doesn't sound to me like this problem will go away so soon. Please call me if you need to talk."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will Doctor. Thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh and how is your mother?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We spoke on the phone a couple of times last week. No real content but I think it made her feel better."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. I'm glad she's feeling better."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Me too. Thank you for asking Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 16th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, October 29th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. How are you? How are the twins?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor. We're doing fine. Thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good, good. How is the paternity suit?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Now that's the real question."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It looks like it's going to take longer than I thought. I spoke with Kelly and she started to cite all kinds of problems and complications. The up-shot is that I have to live with Tom until all this gets sorted out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why? What's the problem?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He is pursuing the notion that I'm not responsible enough to deal with this pregnancy on my own and that I need guardianship. His argument is that since the children are legally his and that he is fighting for full custody, until all this gets settled he wants to be in a position to \"protect\" them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Protect them from what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what I said. It's clear to everyone that I went to extreme measures to get these children. So why on Earth would I do something to jeopardize my chances of becoming a mother now? Not to mention that Tom went to extreme measures not to have children and he has plenty of motive to see that the twins are never born."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia are you saying that you believe that Tom is doing all this to harm the twins? Do you think that he will hurt you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I'm not really saying that. Kelly was saying most of this. It's her argument."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you don't believe that Tom would do anything to harm you or the twins?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I don't know what his motivations are anymore. But I know that he would never harm me physically. Mentally and spiritually...well that's another matter."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So in the meantime you have to live with Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It looks that way. It won't be for long. What judge in the world wouldn't take my side? It's just that things always take longer than we expect."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How do you feel about living with him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As long as he stays out of my hair it will be fine. And when it gets to be too much, I'll stay with Rene for a couple of nights."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How is Rene?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's been terrific. I don't know what I would do without her. She has been so supportive--taking me maternity shopping, talking to my mother, making me dinner, keeping me sane in general."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do your parents know about Tom's custody suit?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't tell them. My mom is still feeling rather fragile and I don't want to add to her plate of worries. Plus it's just a matter of time. Tom doesn't have a chance and in a few weeks it will all be over. Maybe I'll tell her then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So your mother is still feeling sick?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Off and on. You don't have to tell me that I'm the primary reason for her ailment."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wasn't planning on it Sylvia. Your mom has heart problems, right? You are not responsible for heart disease."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, that's not what I meant. I feel responsible for adding so much stress to her life. She should be somewhere nice and warm with soothing music playing in the background. Instead she has me and all my problems."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure she doesn't see it that way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My father does. But I guess it will all straighten out in about twenty weeks."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Dr. Malleson thinks you will deliver at thirty five weeks?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He didn't exactly say that. But from what I read it seems to be the average length for twin pregnancies. I obviously want to have them as late as possible, but I'm just being realistic."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You seem to be in a very calm and resigned mood today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes I know. I've just decided to take things as them come. I'm letting other people worry for a change while I stand back and just observe."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did anything else happen last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why? Am I making you nervous Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. I just thought I'd ask. How is work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well everyone knows. And I mean everyone. I'm the current topic of conversations. I think there might be bets going around the office on who the father is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So people in SII know that the twins are not Tom's?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently some people know. I guess men are just not very good at keeping their mouths shut--but I learned that in high school. I assume that one or more of my conquests talked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Seeing you so pregnant they just might be nervous. You told me about David and a little about Hal. You also mentioned that Richard's been acting a bit strange too. Anyone else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well let me fill you in on all the dirt. I just assumed that you would be on top of it since everybody else seems to be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No. I'm pretty isolated out here. I only get to hear what you tell me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Let me see. I told you that Hal was acting like a lunatic. In fact I suggested that he should come and talk to you. But by the reaction I got from him when I said that my guess is that he didn't run to the nearest phone to call you. He is such a strange man."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You talked about firing him at one time. Are you still considering it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The man is an idiot and a spineless creep. But he has two children and a wife to support...he is also not a bad writer when he actually does it. I don't know. Maybe it will pass. I gave him a big assignment and told him...no rather insisted that he should work at home more. It's been better this way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. And what about Richard and the rest?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard I just don't understand. He is a very smart man. I would love to be friends with him and share his company. But he is just so over the top."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "In what way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think that he honestly believes that there is some kind of conspiracy going on. He follows me around trying to be as inconspicuous as possible. But he has this bright red car. I always know when he is behind me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Richard is following you in a car?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hard to believe isn't it? About a week and a half ago he was staking out me out--he was parked a couple of driveways away from the front of my house. He's done this a few times before. So I went outside and walked to his car. I was going to talk to him. As I approached, he ducked and covered up. I asked him what was he doing there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he was just trying to make sure that I was all right. When I asked him why wouldn't I be, he mentioned Tom. I think he believes that Tom is trying to do something bad to me or something. Not that he is wrong but--I told him that I can take care of myself and that, as touching as his attempts to protect me are, I want him to cut it out."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you think Richard believes that Tom is out to get you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure. Every one knows that I had affairs. But I don't think anyone knows that Tom had a vasectomy. I was always very careful to keep it a secret from everyone at SII. I wanted all the prospective fathers to believe that my child could be Tom's. This way I was hoping to avoid all the fuss. Although it didn't seem to help."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "San Francisco is a small town. Your friends knew about Tom. It's not inconceivable that the news has spread."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Could be."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ever sit down with Richard and have a conversation about what your plans for the future are?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We spoke a little. But I got an impression that Richard didn't believe me when I told him that the twins were not his. More than that, he acted as if what I was saying had a double meaning, with the real message being that I simply couldn't talk to him about my pregnancy and my plans for the future before my divorce with Tom is final. I tried to convince him otherwise but the more I talked the more conspiratorial he got. I had to just let it go."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that Richard might be in love with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have no idea. He certainly expresses it in a strange way. No. I really don't think so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what about others?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I got an e-mail message from Bruce. He is in Italy and is having a great time. Said that he missed me and wished I would join him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Bruce is the sculptor."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. He doesn't know about the pregnancy. I saw Matthew the other day. He congratulated me on being pregnant. Asked how far along I was. I told him that I was about halfway. I saw him do the math in his head and then he was visibly relieved."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did you lie to him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What difference does it really make whether I told him I was fifteen or twenty weeks pregnant? I told him what I thought he wanted to hear."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Matthew believes that he cannot be the father."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. And then there's Victor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He's the one who works with Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You have a very good memory Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I made a list of all the prospective fathers."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Did you? I would like to take a look at it sometime."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're welcome."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would want to check it for accuracy, fill in any omissions, compare it against my list..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh come on. You have a list too?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well it's not actually my list. It's Rene's. She said that her memory is just not good enough anymore to remember them all. She even has all the dates."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Rene can potentially extrapolate who the father is?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She would never do that. She is interested in keeping that information a mystery as much as I am. I think she is feeling very possessive of my babies--she doesn't want to share them with some father or something."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Are there more?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean do I have more to tell about the men on the list?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I think I got you up to date more or less."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you. Well out time is up for today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes I can see. With the time change it gets so dark so fast. Shall we make an appointment next week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Next Tuesday, November 5th at 4 pm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's good. I'll see you then Doctor. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia. Have a happy Halloween."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh, you too Doctor. Enjoy the show."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you dressing up on Halloween?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yeah, I'm thinking of Humpty Dumpty. How about you Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I just thought I'd throw on a white lab coat and a stethescope."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Wow, that's very original. I bet you've never worn that costume before."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yeah, every year."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why don't you go as a caveman? I think you'd make a good primitive. Give you a chance to exercise your id."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Gee thanks Sylvia. See you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Bye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 17th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, November 5th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. You look tired, how are you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor. And yes I'm tired. I'm also pissed, freaked, outraged, and I want to kill Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. I seem to remember you in a similar state of mind during our first session."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't make light of my situation Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry Sylvia. It wasn't my intention. But what happened? I saw you on Halloween and..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, yes. I had a good time on Halloween too. That's not my problem now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Take it easy Sylvia. You're shaking and turning red. That's not good for you or the twins."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You and everybody else in this world seem to know exactly what's good for me and my babies. If you all just left me alone, I would probably have a perfectly normal pregnancy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, I'm just inquiring about what happen. Please sit down, you are making me very uncomfortable watching you pace around my office. Didn't you say something about bed rest?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, you are not my obstetrician. You job is to keep me sane and not to worry about the twins."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, please sit down, take a deep breath, and perhaps drink a glass of water or something. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll sit down if that's what it takes to make you happy Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That makes me happy. Thank you Sylvia. Now would you like a glass of water?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Is that for me or for the twins?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I was thinking it was for you. But the twins could have some too, I suppose."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The twins are parasites--they have everything I have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is the pregnancy getting you down?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I love being pregnant! You know that Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I was just asking."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well stop asking ridiculous questions."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll try. Now why do you want to kill Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A much better question."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you. I'm doing my best."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom pulled another stupid legal trick."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Would you like to tell me about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor stop talking like a therapist! I want you to be sympathetic--like a friend. I come to you for help."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia I'm very sympathetic and I would very much like to know what has happened to make you so unhappy."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom left a bunch of papers for me on Wednesday. But with work and Halloween, well I just didn't get around to it. On Friday I just gave the whole envelope to Kelly and left her to deal. On Saturday I got my first message from Kelly. She sounded very amused and said that she would like to talk to me right away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Rene, Robert, and I were going to have dinner with my parents and I just didn't want to spoil the mood listening to some legal acrobatics. Especially coming from Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you have a nice dinner?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was very good. Thank you. And my mother is feeling much better. Until she hears about this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you called Kelly and?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't call Kelly. When I got home on Saturday night, I had ten voice mail messages from her each increasingly more agitated. Needless to say, after that the last thing I wanted to do was to call her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor you said yourself that I should keep my level of aggravation down to a necessary minimum. I figured that whatever it was, it could keep until the business week starts on Monday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Kelly try to get in touch with you before then?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I refused to answer the phone all day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was Tom home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. He answered all the calls and meticulously took down messages. He gave me huge stack of them and mentioned that perhaps I should call Kelly back since she was so desperate to get in touch with me. If I've only known what that bastard had planned for me!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was a little something that he and his lawyers thought up for me. The envelope I gave to Kelly outlined their general plan."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I guess it's safe to assume you disapprove of their plan?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sometimes you are just too mild mannered Doctor. I not only disapprove of their plans, I would like to rip..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Keep your blood pressure down Sylvia. What does Tom want you to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well let me see if I can remember it all. It starts by advising me that I will be on bed rest as of November 15th of this year."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Doctor Malleson prescribe bed rest for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. This has nothing to do with Doctor Malleson. They did mention another obstetrician that was advising them on my medical condition, but it was not Doctor Malleson. In fact, it's someone whose name I've never even heard of--Doctor Brezdon--Doctor Frezdon--Doctor something \"don.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm not sure I understand."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sure I don't understand how they got the nerve to get some charlatan to look at my records behind my back and, what is really unbelievable, how he gets the right to tell me what to do!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Calm down Sylvia. What else does this document advise you to do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well I can no longer leave my house without presenting Tom with a complete itinerary of all the locations I will be at during the day and a brief description of all physical actions I will be performing while there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have to present him with the list of all the drugs I'm currently taking, legal and illegal, for an evaluation by his obstetrician."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have to create a diet plan for the entire pregnancy and have it approved as well. Oh and if I deviate from the proposed menu for a particular day, I have to notify Tom or his obstetrician by what and how much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm no longer allowed to drive a car."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why not?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was deemed to be excitable and too irresponsible to be trusted with the operation of heavy equipment."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you get to work today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I drove."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. What else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh you'll love this. I'm no longer allowed to have any sexual relations. Can you believe this? Not that I've been having any lately but...oh, and this includes the use of a vibrator and of any other method."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I am no longer allowed to have orgasms Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. No orgasms. I'm not allowed to have sex with men or women. I'm not allowed to masturbate manually or with any other object or person. And I'm not allowed to have an orgasm...to come...to reach climax."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I got all that. They are worried about your cervix?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think they had my cervix on their minds when they were preparing this document Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps not. But I think the instructions in this document are designed to protect your cervix. Sexual intercourse could lead to a thinning of the cervix and in your condition..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know what my condition is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Orgasms could also lead to cervical and uterine contractions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm destined to explode from sexual tension."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know it sounds horrendous to you right now, but I think what Tom is trying to do is to prevent an onset of early labor. In fact, Doctor Malleson might have given you these same instructions in the not so unforeseeable future."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor I..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "As for the diet, bed rest, and all that other stuff..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Doctor, if Doctor Malleson talked to me and told me that it was time for me to be on bed rest, if he told me that I have to adhere to a particular diet, if he told me that I have to abstain from sex for the next six months, even if he told me that I have to avoid having orgasm, if Doctor Malleson told me all that I might...no I would listen to him. But all this is in a legal document drafted with the sole purpose of driving me so insane that I would walk away from Tom leaving him with everything we both worked so hard for most of our lives. This is not about me or my babies. No Doctor, this is all about Tom. I'm telling you that man is truly evil."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you believe that there is no chance that any of the instructions presented to you in that legal document were designed to protect the twins?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh I believe that these documents were carefully drafted to make everyone think that that is what they are intended for."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is your lawyer's recommendation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kelly advised me to make an appointment with Doctor Malleson. She wants to be present during the examination. She is also setting up his deposition. She wants to record Doctor Malleson's official position on the condition of my cervix."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Can you think of any other divorce case which required an expert's testimony about the wife's cervical condition?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No, I cannot say I have."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "When I was talking with Rene, she couldn't decide whether she should laugh hysterically or be intensely outraged."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I could see how this could be a dilemma for her."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have to say that when I step aside and think as a reporter, I cannot help but think that all of this would make a terrific story for the National Inquirer."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So when is your appointment with Doctor Malleson?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Friday. He was out of town and couldn't make it any sooner than that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you be required to stay at home and..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No chance! In fact I called Richard and asked him if I could stay with him for the next couple of nights."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Now Doctor, you told me that I should spend some quality time with him, didn't you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why don't you stay with Rene if you can't be at home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why does Tom serve me with these papers?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't you think..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think all the time Doctor. Here is Richard's home number. You can reach me there if you have to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'll see you in your office next Tuesday at 4 pm Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "November 12th at 4 pm. I'll see you then. Goodbye Sylvia and good luck."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 18th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, November 12th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. How are you this week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor. I guess I'm all right."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't know?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel okay physically. I mean considering."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well you are almost halfway through."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "With twins seventeen weeks is halfway through."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how are the boys?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Very active, thank you. They sleep when I'm awake and they party when I try to sleep. But we try to get along and that's more than I can say for Tom and me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was my next question. Did you stay with Richard last week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I spoke with Richard right after our last session and he was delighted that I wanted to spend some time with him. I took a cab to work on Wednesday and we went to his apartment that night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did Tom react to all this."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it would be accurate to say that he did not take it well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Basically I left him a little note saying that I would be out for the next couple of nights and that the gardener is coming on Thursday morning and he needs to leave the gate open for him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Tom wasn't pleased with that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I heard from Kelly Wednesday afternoon around 4 pm. I guess Tom found the note earlier than I expected. I assume that he called his lawyer and his lawyer got in touch with Kelly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I assume that Kelly wasn't pleased either."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Her recommendation was for me to go home immediately and to stay there until this whole thing is settled. I think she is worrying too much about this. I don't think any judge in the world would take Tom's demands seriously."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But don't you think that it would be better to play it safe? Just in case?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel that if I start giving in now it will never end. I don't know what Tom's goals are but they clearly not in my best interests. It makes more sense to me to counter his every move. I think of it as a chess game. Tom is trying to make me panic by taking my minor pieces in hopes that I will lose sight of the whole game. He is playing to win. But I have a different strategy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think that his demands are outrageous. Not only are they outrageous legally, but they sound insane. With every new demand, Tom is sounding more and more like a raging lunatic. I don't think that his manipulations will play well in court. Do you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't know. Law is not my specialty."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But I'm sure you've treated a lot of patients with marital difficulties, perhaps some even as part of a divorce case."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I do...I did have a lot of patients who experienced problems in their relationships. But as a therapist, I'm rarely put in a position to be part of the legal manipulations attendent in a contested divorce. For example, I've never testified in court for one spouse against another."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What about in my case?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope that it will never come to that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I hope so too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So that's all that Tom did? Call his lawyer?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He started that way. I told Kelly on Wednesday that I would be unavailable for the next couple of days and that she should just deal by herself. But Thursday I got a ton of messages from her, including e-mail. Friday she got hold of Rene."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Rene knew about you and Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course. I gave Rene strict instructions not to give out Richard's phone number to anyone. But Rene called me herself. Apparently Tom and his legal crew decided that my behavior not only clearly exhibited irresponsibility on my part but it could also be interpreted as kidnapping."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Kidnapping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you that Tom is beginning to sound more and more like he is losing his marbles. This is a clear example of it. Kidnapping! How could I kidnap unborn children? They are part of my body--everywhere that I go, they go. Is it kidnapping when I go to visit my parents? How about when I go to work? What if I go out for dinner? You see? I think I am playing it right. The more insane Tom makes himself out to be the better for me. Why should I cater to his lunacy? I have to stand my ground. That's the only way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you explain your position to Kelly?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kelly likes to play it safe."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So she doesn't agree with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She said that she sees my point but...I know I'm right, Doctor. You'll see."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope so. So how was it with Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was surprisingly wonderful. We finally had the talk that you kept insisting that I should have with him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him about what Tom did--the vasectomy and all. Richard thought that it was outrageous and that he never heard of such devious and extremely manipulative behavior."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Did you mention you had cervical problems?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe in passing. I don't quite remember."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I also explained that while my initial reaction to him was completely genuine--that first time we met at Starbucks, I was very attracted to him both intellectually and sexually--after our first encounter I saw the possibility of becoming a mother despite Tom's efforts to the contrary."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did Richard think of that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he was flattered. He said that he never inspired motherhood before and that it was a very good feeling."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you talk about the other men on your list?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well he knew that he was not the only one. If you remember I spent a weekend with a friend of his from the same department at SII."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I remember."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard said that now he understood my motivations and that he respected them. He also said that he wished that I had just settled on his services."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you explain to him that that's exactly what you tried to avoid?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course I did Doctor. I told him that he was just one of many and that almost any one or two of my lovers could have been the father of the twins."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But Richard surprised me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He made a guesstimate of my due date and extrapolated to the week of conception and decided that it was 87 percent likely that he was the father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of both?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well that's where he went wrong. Nobody at work really knows that I have twins."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why didn't you tell?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought that there were enough rumors already. Well Richard guessed wrong. He assumed that I was further along because of my size and naturally that would make him the most likely candidate for fatherhood."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you are big because of the twins, so..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I gave him all the information I had--the due date for each of the twins and the most likely conception weeks. Of course these are just rough estimates but it's all I have. And it's all I really want to have."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was Richard disappointed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We had these discussion on Wednesday night. Richard made me a very elaborate dinner. He is quite an accomplished cook. In fact, he spent the rest of the week spoiling me with little culinary surprises and exquisite service--breakfast in bed, a four course lunch, evening snacks, just on and on. And all of this he told me was prepared with the nutritional requirements for pregnancy. You know if Tom really wants me to have a nutritional consultant and a caregiver, he couldn't find a better candidate than Richard. He was just terrific."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad that Richard was taking such good care of you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "But as I was saying, after he put me to bed and kissed me good night, Richard left me to do some work as he said. The next morning, he gave me a schedule which contained all our sexual encounters with their respective dates and even times. It also had the time range for the possible conception for each twin. He tried to include information about my other attempts at getting pregnant. He included David and Matthew and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You told him about them?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I'm not heartless."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So it's SII's general information distribution system?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, it's gossip. But the information he had was suprisingly accurate except for a missed date or two."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Richard was recreating a conception scenario."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And he was very thorough. I've been an executive long enough to recognize a carefully prepared numerical analysis. At the bottom of the list there were two numbers. They were the probabilities of Richard's paternity for each boy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What were the chances of him being the father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Quite high for both of them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was he happy about that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually, he was thrilled. More than that, he asked me to marry him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that he had been thinking about this for weeks. That he never met a woman that he cared for more than me. That he loves the prospect of becoming a father. He is even more happy that he will be the father of two boys. That when he found out that I was pregnant it all came together for him--how much he loved me and how much he wanted me and a life with me and the boys. He even had a ring ready."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did you do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Under different circumstances, I would have been happy and would probably even had said yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you love Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I care for him. A lot. But it's all wrong now. I have a bunch to go through before I have the luxury of even considering offers like these. And I also have to be sure that it's for me and not just for the boys."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well, we can return to that. For now you told Richard no?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had to. I'm still married."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you give him a reason to hope?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think it almost didn't matter what I said. He was prepared to interpret my answer to mean yes regardless. I just don't know. There is just too much to deal with right now. Richard will have to wait."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want him to wait?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I honestly don't know. I thought I just wanted the twins and that's all. But now Richard...I don't know Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did it turn out with Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I came home yesterday night so I don't know about that either."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. We really need to spend some time on all of this. Shall we schedule an appointment for next week?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. The same time would be good for me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. November 19th at 4 pm. I'll see you then. Have a good week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. You too. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 19th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, November 19th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. How are you feeling? How are the boys?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm fine. I think the boys are getting ready to join the circus."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Moving around a lot?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It feels like they are wrestling and doing gymnastics in there. You don't even have to touch my stomach--you can just see them move even through my clothing."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are they active now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Like true performers, they do their acts mostly at night and sleep during the day."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You are getting quite big. What does Doctor Malleson say about bed-rest?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh it's imminent. I just wish that it all would happen on my terms."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean? I know you'll do everything you can for the twins."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If Doctor Malleson puts me on bed-rest today I wouldn't hesitate for a minute. But it's Tom. He was really freaked about Richard and me last week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He knows about Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, it looks like I might have encouraged Richard just a bit too much."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You mean letting him think that you are considering his marriage proposal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I never said that I was considering it. I was just really flattered that he was seriously thinking and hoping to be the father of my children and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. You have to admit that it is a big step--a lot of commitments all at once."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understood that Richard was really serious about his proposal. But I was also led to believe from our last session that you are more than flattered and that under different circumstances you might..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Exactly--under different circumstances I might have found myself saying yes to Richard. But now...I'm still married and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about after you divorce Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That seems so far off right now. But I'm thinking about the boys and the future. I would like to tell you about something that happened a few days ago, Doctor. It really affected me quite a bit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had dinner with Rene and Robert. We talked about children and parenting during dinner. Afterwards, as Rene was cleaning up, Robert came to me and said that he would like to talk to me seriously. He pulled up a chair and sat right across from me and looked straight into my eyes as he spoke."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He told me how it was growing up without a father. He said that he always envied other kids who had both parents, even if they are divorced. He told me that when he was a kid, he would watch other children at the playground with their fathers and then go home and cry in his room. He even told me that for a while he had an imaginary father. He said that he never told this to anyone before but that he wanted me know how it really is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did he do with his imaginary father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The way Robert explained it, it was his real father but he pretended that he was still alive. Robert's room is full of pictures of his dad. It's almost a shrine. I don't know why I never really noticed that. I guess I was never close to my dad so...well Robert told me about his fantasy. It's quite elaborate. Robert said that he imagined that he found his father's body and was able to bring it back to life. But he had to keep it a secret from everyone or something bad would happen."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Robert say what that bad thing would be?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I asked him, but he said that he never really knew. He just knew that it would be bad and so he kept his father a secret. Robert told me that he and his father would go for walks and talk about all kinds of things. He said that his father even taught him how to play chess. When I asked Robert how it was possible since he clearly knew now that it was all a fantasy, Robert got really evasive."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you get a feeling that Robert might still believe in his fantasy?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. He was strange about it. On the one hand, he clearly knew that it was all a fantasy but there was also a sense of reality to it. I'm not sure I'm communicating this right. It was almost as if Robert believed that his father was real and unreal at the same time. It was clearly a very difficult thing for him to do--to come to me and speak to me about all of this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Robert was telling you all this because you're about to have children without a father?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. He was trying to tell me how hard it would be for them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was he trying to persuade you to stay married to Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He was never that specific. He said that he just wanted me to understand what it was like. I asked him if he ever wanted for his mom to get married again--this way he could have a step dad. But Robert said that while that might be nice, it was not the same as a real father."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A real father being a biological one?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. He told me that when my sons come to him for help in finding their true fathers, he would do all he could to help them discover the true identity of those men."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ask how he was planning to go about doing that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't have to--Robert told me that he was keeping careful records and that he would reveal them to my children if they ever asked."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does he have knowledge of your sexual encounters over the last couple of months?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently. I asked how he knew. But Robert just told me that he had his ways. I was worried that he might actively suggest to my boys the need to find the identities of their true fathers. But Robert assured me that he would only come forth with his information if they came to him first."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What else did Robert tell you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He described some really tender moments in his childhood--when his imaginary dad came to his rescue, how they used to play together all the time, how he used to read books to him, secret Christmas presents he got from his dad...there was a lot. It was very difficult for me not to cry as Robert was telling me about all this. I thought that I was close to him but I never suspected...I wish I knew."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Robert's mom...does Rene know about all this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Robert made me promise never to tell his mom. I feel bound by that promise even though I think that she should know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think that Rene might suspect it independently--just from observation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If Rene ever suspected something like this, I would have been the first to know. I don't think Rene knows anything about this. Robert was always such a quiet child, very introspective and introverted. He would play by himself for hours at a time. I never suspected that he was actually playing with his father. God, I hope this is not the fate of my children!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Robert's revelations really affected you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been thinking about nothing else since that evening. I want my children to be very happy. I don't want them to have to invent an imaginary father to fill an emotional gap in their lives."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just because an imaginary father was Robert's way of coping with his loss, does not mean that your children would adapt the same strategy. Robert never got to know his dad. And because of his tragic death, Robert created a myth that helped him deal with his own emotional needs. Your children will not be faced with the death of their father but rather with the mystery of their origins. If there'll come a time when they ask you about their real fathers you..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I won't be able to tell them much. What should I say Doctor? Should I tell them about the list? Should I make probability charts for them like Richard made for me? I just don't know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you never really thought about this problem before?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia stop it. You are going overboard speculating about this. Your children haven't even been born yet. Let's concentrate on the problems at hand, okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sorry Doctor. I'm really a lot more emotional and moody now."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's since you were pregnant?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess. And I think I'm also tired and that contributes to my inability to deal. I guess I was talking about Tom when I got sidetracked?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad we talked about Robert. We will come back and talk about him some more in the future."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. I hope you don't think he is crazy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I really don't. Robert is not the first child to have an imaginary friend."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sure. You are right. So about Tom. Tom was furious about my stay with Richard. He's hired a live-in nurse to watch over me. I feel like I'm being spied on in my own home. I've seen her writing reports about me--what I ate and when I ate, how much I slept, when I left for work and when I came home...she even brings me lunch."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you are still going to work?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The nurse takes me. I no longer have driving privileges. It's just absurd. I don't know why Kelly is letting them get away with this. And I'm crazy for going along. I just feel that sometimes I need a little break from fighting everybody all the time. But this is what happens when I do--a live-in pest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I gather that you don't like her very much?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh she is probably fine. It's just that she is working for Tom and not for me. Her loyalties are not where they are supposed to be. You know what I mean? I think that Tom made her believe that I'm some sort of a monster trying to murder my children. I hate the way that woman looks at me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So bed-rest has been postponed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not for long. As I said, if only this was coming from Doctor Malleson, I would still hate it but I would be the most exemplary patient. But I feel like this is all just bullshit. Just a way of wearing me down physically and emotionally."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Have you talked to Doctor Malleson about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "His recommendation is to start bed-rest at about twenty-two weeks. By that time, the twins will be heavy enough to potentially cause problems for my cervix."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're eighteen weeks now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Oh and I forgot to tell you, Richard spoke with Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did he?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what I meant by encouraging him too much. He decided to take on the responsibility of protecting me from Tom. He called me at home and Tom answered the phone. We really should get separate numbers."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So what did Richard and Tom talk about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard told Tom that he thought that he should take my rejection as a man and let me go on with my life. Tom told Richard that a man who fucks another man's wife has no business calling and demanding favors from the husband. He told Richard that now that he knows who he is he is going to...I don't know what he is going to do but you get the picture Doctor. I was in my bedroom when Richard called and I could hear from Tom's voice that it must have been Richard on the phone. It was ugly. I had to speak with Richard the next day to calm him down and explain to him the rules of this game. I told him never to call me at home again. He seemed crushed by that but...I think it will be awhile before he calls me there again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I guess Tom now believes that Richard is the father. Perhaps I should have a talk with him as well. Maybe it's about time he found out about the list. Well Doctor, it's getting late. Same time next week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Same time. Tuesday the 26th at 4 pm. I'll see you than. Take care of yourself Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor. See you in a week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 20th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, November 26th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. How are you today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well Doctor, where shall I begin?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When my patients start their sessions that way it's usually not good news. What happened?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This Thursday is Thanksgiving."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The family holiday."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right. So let me start by filling you in on how the Bows' used to do holidays."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like it was a big deal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You got it. For a long time my mother used to do all the holiday dinners and we would all go to my parent's house and celebrate there as a happy little family. This included Rene and Robert flying in from New York and, of course, my brother would be there with his latest flame--or victim, depending on your point of view--and sometimes even my uncle would come all the way from France. The last three years this changed somewhat--my mom decided that it was time for me to take over the holidays."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you want to host these celebrations?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh it was fine. In fact I used to look forward to these gatherings. In was especially great on Christmas when Robert was still a little boy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "He is the only child in your family?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So far. So my mom taught me how to make all the traditional holiday family recipes and we would all get together in our house. It's a good party house--there's lots of room. We have several guest rooms so Rene and Robert always stayed with us. Tom's parents were also getting older and, since his sister got a divorce, they would fly in from New York as well and join us for Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Easter."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a lot of people."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes we had a full house. But it was happy and fun. I like large family holidays. Well as you can imagine, this year things will be quite different."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "This Thanksgiving will be the first holiday after your break up with Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "And it will be ugly."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Obviously you can't host Thanksgiving dinner this year even if Tom wasn't a problem. Can someone else take over your family duties for this year?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My mom can't do it. She hasn't been feeling well and that kind of pressure just wouldn't be good for her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about Rene?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Rene can hardly boil water and her apartment is too small to host that many people."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And your brother?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't make me laugh Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure you do yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom's parents and sister are coming tomorrow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are they staying in your house?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you know about this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, honestly Doctor, I just assumed that given my current situation with Tom, they would not come out to San Francisco for the holidays. In fact, I thought that maybe Tom would fly out there to join them. Silly me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When did you find out that they were coming?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom started preparing for their visit last weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you confront Tom on this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He said that just because I was pregnant, it didn't mean the world had to stop spinning. He said that he was perfectly capable of hosting the dinner himself. In fact, he told me that he invited my parents and my brother, even Rene and Robert. Oh and I was welcome to join them as well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom's parents know about the divorce, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I didn't tell them. But I'm sure Tom did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And they know you are pregnant?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so. Tom does talk to them on occasion. I imagine he would have mentioned it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you are not sure?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I don't know this for a fact."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did your parents receive a formal invitation?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's what they said."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are they coming?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My brother is. I couldn't really talk to my mother, she is so easily upset now that she starts crying right after I say hello."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is she getting worse?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean is my mother feeling worse now than a couple of weeks ago?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. I remember asking you about your mother and you said that she's been feeling better. Has that changed?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's on and off. Bad days and good days. She stopped working at the restaurant completely."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry to hear that. I understand her business was very important to her."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She is too weak to be there now. But she says that she didn't give it up; she's just putting it on hold for a while. We all know better though."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm very sorry."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Me too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you don't know whether your parents are coming to Tom's Thanksgiving dinner?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have a feeling that that's up to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're planning on being there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm considering it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I like Tom's parents and I used to be friends with his sister until all this."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Don't you think you would be..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Strange?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's one word for it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can try to get Rene to go and then it would be really bizarre."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can see that. Rene is not a big Tom supporter, is she?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, Rene is not really Tom's fan. And never was. This has been her big opportunity to say, \"I told you so.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So why would you do this to yourself and your family? Why not just go out somewhere if cooking and hosting is too hard to do? Let Tom take care of his family and you can celebrate your way."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That does sound nice. But I think I'm going to do it my way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom's been filing a lot of petitions with the court lately citing my negligence and irresponsibility. If he forces me into going to his Thanksgiving, don't you think it would be a point on my score card?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So it would all be for the judge's benefit? What about your family?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The only ones who would really hate it are Rene and I. My parents will probably enjoy even a pretense at normalcy. As I said, my brother is going anyway. And Robert likes it. Tom was always good with him. After our conversation last week about imaginary fathers...well I think it might be better this way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have to say Sylvia this is not an evening that I think will end well. I think you should think carefully about it before committing."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. I've been thinking about it since Sunday."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You know if things blow up--get out of hand, it would not be good for your mother or Robert. Not to mention that I would definitely recommend that you avoid this kind of excitement yourself."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will really think about it, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds to me like you've already made up your mind."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will call you if it gets bad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I will be out of town, but of course my answering service will know how to get ahold of me if you need me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Going to spend the holiday with your family?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes. I'm going to New York to see my parents."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's very nice. I'll try not to disturb you. I wouldn't want your parents to think you are working with a bunch of lunatics."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh, they'll never think that!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course not. And I almost forgot."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom put a restraining order on Richard."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom put a restraining order on Richard--Richard can no longer come within 100 feet of our house. I thought you might find it entertaining."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Richard do something to Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard called again when Tom was home. The conversation got a bit heated and Richard threatened Tom. It's not like Richard would ever do anything to Tom. It was just a convenient excuse to keep him out of the house and prevent me from seeing him when I get on bed rest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did Richard take this bit of news?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How do you think?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Well at least your life is never boring."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "True. But boredom is good every now and then, don't you think Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is there anything else you want to tell me about?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. It's same old, same old. Oh, Hal was in today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Creepy. He kept looking at me funny and at one point even put his hand on mine--in that \"I really like being with you\" kind of way. I shudder just thinking about it. I don't know what that man is thinking."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure he is just trying to be supportive."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't think so Doctor. But it's time for me to go home. Have a good holiday Doctor. I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I wish you all the best with your Thanksgiving. Call me if you need to."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 21st Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, December 3rd, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. How was your Thanksgiving dinner?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You don't mess around Doctor, do you?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just occasionally."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well I'm here."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My in-laws left."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I suppose that's good too."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's very good."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So the dinner--would you like to talk about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm still trying to digest it all--excuse my pun."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Rene and Robert come?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "My parents brought Robert early for dinner. But Rene said that she had an assignment--a photo essay about Thanksgiving dinner and San Francisco's homeless."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did she show up later or not at all?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She came after the dinner was over. So to answer your next question Doctor--she wasn't as much of a release valve as I had hoped."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was a very strange evening Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I still don't exactly understand why you agreed to go in the first place."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I thought it would be good. I told you, it's like a chess game with Tom and me. He is demanding that I stay home and rest. But at the same time he throws a Thanksgiving dinner party with, shall we say, a controversial guest list. Anyone would agree that having both sets of parents and in-laws for a holiday dinner during a nasty divorce would not contribute to the peace of mind of a pregnant woman on bed rest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've done a lot of strange things for which I will be held accountable. And I want the judge to see just how unreasonable Tom is. But to tell you the truth, now that it's over I feel that I made a mistake."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was too trippy. Here we all were pretending like there was nothing wrong. I've known these people longer than most of my friends. I met Tom while I was still a student at NYU. Just a little after that, he introduced me to his family. I've seen his sister get married, go through horrendous infertility problems, lose a baby, lose her husband, lose her job, lose her mind. I've stayed up nights worrying about Tom's mom after she was diagnosed with breast cancer. I've watched Tom's dad turn gray overnight as he waited for his wife's biopsy results. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I've been through a lot with these people. They are my family too now. I care for them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What was their reaction toward you now that they know that you and Tom are getting divorced?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The strange thing was that Tom's mom seemed mostly concerned that all the stress is having a negative effect on my pregnancy. I know that Tom's parents know that Tom's not the father but they acted as if they are expectant grandparents. I think this was the most surprising and uncomfortable thing for me. I would have preferred them to be angry with me for cheating on their son. But they expressed nothing but care and concern for my well being. Tom's mother brought me gifts for the babies--she had saved some of Tom's charming little baby clothing and blankets. I felt guilty about taking them but they insisted saying that they wouldn't think of giving them to anyone else. Tom's sister wanted to help me by offering her extensive knowledge and research about pregnancy complications. She said that she has first-hand experience with most of the drugs and procedures used to prevent early labor. It was very touching. I know how difficult it was for her to even look at me and now to offer to help me go through this...I don't know. I don't think I would have been able to do the same if our roles were reversed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How was the interaction between your parents and Tom's?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It was hard work for both of them. Since they live on opposite coasts, there never were that many opportunities for them to get to know each other. The last couple of years they've seen each other during the holidays. They just don't know each other, but they could be friends perhaps under different circumstances."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. To be thrown together in this situation would have been difficult even if they were the best of friends."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "That's right--\"So congratulations on your daughter's expectancy. Do you know who the fathers are?\" \"No we don't. And we are so sorry that your son gave up his ability to father children.\" \"That's okay. We wanted never to have grandchildren. We look forward to our family name dying off with this generation.\" God!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But they managed to be civil to each other all evening?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Oh yes. They even talked during dinner, although the main topic of conversation was the difference in weather between the East and West coasts. It was hell. The only one who seemed to be happy was Robert."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why is that?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know how he is obsessing about fatherhood? I think he misunderstood this all to mean that Tom and I might be trying to work things out. Who could blame him? There were some Oscar-winning performances that night around our dinner table."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What about your brother?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, the last time I saw him was when he stormed into my office about two months ago?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When he confronted you on having an affair?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know he disapproves of me. Hell, disgusted is probably a better term. But he was on his best behavior that night. I expected him to try to instigate a fight or at the very least to humiliate me. But he was civil and even charming. At one point when the conversation strayed into some rocky waters, he managed to change the topic and steer it away from danger. I found myself being grateful to him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did you feel that night?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I felt like I was in Twilight Zone. It would have been so easy to pretend like there was nothing wrong. I kept finding myself almost forgetting that Tom and I are getting a divorce. We are not even friends any more and there we were hosting a Thanksgiving Dinner right out of Norman Rockwell. It was so surreal."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "More than that. I found myself enjoying those moments of feeling like there was nothing wrong--like Tom and I were still family. I was looking at him and remembering Thanksgiving dinners of the past. We had eighteen Thanksgivings together. God, it's a very long time to spend with someone. I didn't live with my parents that long. I keep thinking about how it was when we still loved each other."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you still think about it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's just so easy to fall back into it--it's like an old habit, like being on automatic pilot. As the evening went on and I was getting tired, I had to constantly remind myself that this is not real. That this is just some sick game that Tom is playing with me. At the end, when everyone was leaving, Tom and I were standing at the door saying our goodbyes to my parents and Rene, and my brother and his date. When we closed the door, I instinctively found myself leaning on Tom's shoulder. It was as if my body had a memory and mind of it's own. When I realized what I was doing I jumped away with a shudder."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How did Tom react?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He just looked me straight in the face, smiled, and told me that I was a good hostess. He said that he admired just how well I held up knowing how tired I must have been. It was this general sense that there was nothing unusual that kept washing over the evening that I found the most frightening of all. Maybe Tom is trying to drive me mad."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You don't really think so?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know the movie \"Gas Light?\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A husband tries to drive his wife crazy? Ingrid Bergman won an Academy Award in that one."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, yes that's the one. I keep thinking about it Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you identifying with that story?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not exactly. But sometimes I feel that Tom is much stronger than I am and that I could easily slide down that slippery slope into insanity. Maybe that's what he wants. He knows me so well. For all those years he was the closest person in the world to me. He knows how I think. He knows my desires. It would be easy for him to destroy me if that's what he set out to do."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you really think that that's Tom's goal?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Why is he being so...so nice? So attentive? I sit down in the chair to read, Tom brings me pillows for my back and feet. I go into the kitchen, and Tom is there offering to make me a sandwich. He is trying to anticipate my every desire, my every impulse. But at the same time he is trying to restrict my freedom. He puts me in situations that he knows will be difficult for me to bear emotionally. It's like he wants me to be dependent on him. I've got to get out Doctor!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Get out where?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Anywhere away from Tom. Or I will lose myself!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Calm down Sylvia. Relax. Sit down. You are getting too worked up."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think about Tom and I get anxious. Almost frightened. What does he want from me? He doesn't really want these children, so what is it? It can't be just about money, can it Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think Tom is doing this all to get a better settlement?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I always thought that that was what it was all about. But maybe it's about revenge. Maybe he is trying to ruin me Doctor. I do need to go away. Maybe I can disappear for a couple of month until the boys are born. I can go to France. They have a very good medical facilities there so that wouldn't be an issue."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You can't just go away Sylvia. Think about it. In the custody battle, Tom would win. If you just disappear, you will lose your chess game. It's like giving up. You're a lot stronger than you think you are. Look at what you've accomplished so far. You were told you cannot have children. And here you are twenty weeks pregnant! You're almost there. Don't blow it. I think you are feeling a little anxious after a tough holiday. Don't turn this feeling into panic. Don't run. Ultimately it won't solve anything."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're right of course Doctor. Tom would just hire detectives and they would hunt me down. I'll have to talk to Kelly about making some kind of arrangements where Tom and I live apart. He could even have a spy in my house if he really wants to know what I am doing. I don't care. I'm not planning on doing anything very controversial anyway."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's better. Use Kelly to play your game for you. That's what the attorneys are for. And try to relax. You really need it. Maybe it would be a good idea to invite Rene over for a couple of days. It would calm your nerves."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're right Doctor. I'll ask her. Thank you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. And call me if you begin to feel anxious again."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay Sylvia. I'll see you next Tuesday at 4 pm. Let me know if you need to change our time or if you start on your bed rest before than. I'll be happy to come out and see you at your home."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. Hopefully I'll see you in your office--there is a certain smell here and it help me relax and look at things in a different way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you soon Sylvia. Goodbye."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 22nd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, December 10th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Sylvia. It's nice to see you. You're looking very big today."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You're very chipper today Doctor. Is anything the matter? You look like a man who hasn't slept all night. You know I still remember how it was even though I don't get much practice nowadays."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can't I be in a good mood without an implication of sexual activity?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Of course Doctor. Whatever you say. But in my opinion she is very good for you, whoever she is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia!"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't worry Doctor--if you don't want to talk about it, we won't. Now would you like me to tell you about my week?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Please."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know Doctor, I do believe you were embarrassed. But to get back to my life, I talked to Lloyd last week about staying home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Starting bed rest?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Doctor Malleson thought it would be best now. I'm wrapping up my affairs this week and..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You saw Doctor Malleson?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I had a check up yesterday. In fact here, you can have these, Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Baby pictures. Those are some very nice looking skulls Sylvia. They will be very handsome boys."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so too. Tom went to see Doctor Malleson with me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He got his copies framed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your ultrasound pictures?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been trying to tell you that that man is strange."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. What did Doctor Malleson have to say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm progressing quite nicely. The boys seem to be okay. One is still quite a bit smaller than the other, but there does not appear to be other problems."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "And what does Doctor Malleson think about your physical condition?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He thinks that I'm run down and need more rest. He also thinks that I'm a nervous wreck."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is that why he is putting you on bed rest?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. He felt that my cervix is being strained by the weight of the twins. He said that while he is not restricting me completely, he believes that it's time that my physical activity was cut way down. I mean way down--I'm allowed to walk to the bathroom and I'm allowed to take a shower. But the rest of the time I have to keep the weight of the uterus off my cervix. This means that I can't even remain in a sitting position for too long because, while that is easier on my legs, it still keeps the pressure on the cervix. It sounds like an absolute hell."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Some women have to spend their entire pregnancy in the hospital on medication and unable to even to get up and go to the bathroom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know that I'm lucky Doctor. I haven't forgotten that. But it will still be hard."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you come up with some kind of agreement with Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well, as you can see, I took your advice and didn't run away to France."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I was very happy to see you in my office today Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I noticed that you were happy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Relax Doctor. I did speak with Kelly about our current situation. She promised to negotiate a compromise of some sort very soon. I also realized something last week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom has not gone away on a business trip in weeks. Please understand that this is very unusual for him. He travels all the time. At least once a week. And this has been his routine for many years now. But he hasn't left town, as far as I know, for more than a couple of hours in these last weeks. He is home every night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does it bother you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "This is part of the problem. Before our interactions have been few and far in between, although very intense. When he went away, I could forget about him. I had the house all to myself and I could relax. Now he is around all the time. I feel that I have to be constantly on. All the time. It's wearing me down physically and emotionally."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Kelly propose a solution?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Kelly thought that perhaps Tom could rent an apartment. Something really close to the house. That way we would both get our privacy and he could still keep his eye on me if he so desires."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If Tom moves, Richard would be free to visit you at the house. The restraining order is to keep Richard away from Tom not you. Do you think that Tom would want to move and..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I see your point. I don't know. I hope he will be reasonable. We're getting a divorce; there is no real reason for Richard not to see me. In fact it would probably play to Tom's benefit if he did."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you want to see Richard?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Richard provides me with a release. He allows me to relax for a few hours and not worry about everything. He takes on the role of a protector. Sometimes it's annoying. But now it feels nice. Richard creates an illusion for me that he is going to take care of everything, including me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sounds like you are getting tired of fighting your battles."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, I'm holding my own. But even a good warrior needs some rest every now and then."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "When you left my office last time, you were going to ask Rene to come and stay with you for a couple of days. Did you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just ended up staying at her house. It really helped. But I was good--I left Tom a note and asked Kelly to start negotiating for my freedom. I didn't just run away."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad to hear that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know at one point in my life, I thought I knew Tom. I thought we were as close as two people could possibly be and still remain in separate bodies. But now he is an enigma to me. I try to understand his motives and intentions but every time he does something or makes another move, I guess it wrong. If I wasn't developing such a fear of him, I would find him fascinating."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why do you fear Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you last time Doctor, I think Tom is the only person on Earth who could drive me into madness. I'm an open book to him. I feel like he could do as he pleases. That scares me. Yet..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What is it Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm almost embarrassed to say it--I find that sort of exciting. It's sick, I know it."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You told me that you think of this divorce as a game of chess. Tom is a worthy opponent. You find the game exciting and thrilling. It's not sick. It's normal."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Maybe it is the thrill of a good game. You know I found him watching \"The Miracle of Life\" the other day. You know that documentary Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I've seen it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I caught Tom watching it on Saturday. He put it in and got it started and then fast forwarded it through all the descriptions of human conception. He just watched the parts on fetal development. Strange isn't it?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It sounds like he is really getting involved in the pregnancy--visits to Doctor Malleson, video research."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He also ordered what appears to be a complete collection of books relating to pregnancy and child rearing. What am I suppose to make of that? It seems like over-kill to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do you mean?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What's he trying to prove? How is this going to get him a better settlement? Or maybe it's just for the purpose of driving me insane."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I have to say Sylvia, from your descriptions of Tom's activities it sounds like Tom is genuinely interested in these children. It doesn't feel like his actions are motivated by revenge or a better divorce settlement."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Come on Doctor! This is the man who had a vasectomy so that he could avoid having children. And these aren't even his. Somehow I don't think it's Tom's biological clock."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you ever ask him why he stopped traveling?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I try to avoid starting conversations with him in general."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps it would be good if you could try to develop some sort of communication between the two of you. It seems like it will take a long time for your legal difficulties to get settled. For your peace of mind, it might be good to try to understand what Tom really wants. I'm not suggesting you become friends. Just try talking with him."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel if I talk with Tom, he will use what I say against me somehow."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds a bit paranoid Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": ""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Just think about it Sylvia. You don't have to bare your soul. Just ask Tom why he is not traveling as much anymore. If he doesn't tell you, no harm's done."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I might ask him about that. It's so totally unlike Tom to stay in one place for so long."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So let's talk about next time. Do you want me come to your house?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would like that very much Doctor. Do you have a car?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Good. It's not that far. And I really appreciate you being willing to go out of your way to see me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "No problem. I'll see you in your house next Tuesday at around four."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I won't be going anywhere Doctor. Take your time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Will Tom be there?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. But I don't think he would interfere with our sessions. Why would he prevent his crazy wife from seeking psychiatric help?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You certainly have a very particular point of view when it comes to Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've lived with him for a long time Doctor. I have experience."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. I hope you will try to talk to Tom before long. Call me if you need to and I'll see you next week at your house."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you again Doctor for being so flexible. I'll make sure that Tom stays out of your way when you come."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's not necessary. I don't mind meeting Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia. Take care of yourself."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 23rd Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, December 17th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor. I hope you found the house okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Sylvia. It was no problem--your directions were excellent. You have a very beautiful house."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. I love it. You can see that it is worth fighting for."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Where is Tom? Is he home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not yet. He is rarely home before six."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how is bed rest?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I've been so busy that I don't know yet."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Aren't you on maternity leave?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not really. I started to tell you last week but I guess I got diverted--I negotiated with Lloyd to work as close to full time as I can from home. There are a couple of big projects that will be launched soon and Lloyd and I felt that it would be best if I continued to supervise the production of all the technical materials and organization of technical support."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That sounds like a big job. Do you feel like you will be physically up to it?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I wasn't so sure but Lloyd was. We'll see. In the meantime I'm fully wired to the office and I'm considering getting my secretary to come here and work from my house for some part of the day. As you can see from my position, I can dictate a lot better than I can type."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well actually I'm surprised to find you in the chair. I thought bed rest meant being in bed. Are you sure that Doctor Malleson had a lounge chair in mind for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a compromise. I have to keep my feet up and remain in positions that prevent the weight of the uterus to bear down on my cervix, but other than that...I'm hoping that I can use this chair for most of my bed rest requirement."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're hoping for fifteen more weeks, right?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. I think if I make it to thirty-five weeks I'll be very lucky. Of course term would be nice."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Of course. So was Kelly able to negotiate some kind of compromise in your living arrangements with Tom?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Not yet. But Tom did something really nice and completely unexpected for me this last weekend."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well Friday was my last day at work and of course I didn't get out of SII until about nine-thirty at night. There was always something more, just one last thing, you know how it is."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom called to check up on me at least a dozen times. I told him that I'm doing the best I can, but he was furious that SII was trying to take advantage of me knowing that I was ordered to take it easy. He threatened to call Lloyd personally and give him a piece of his mind. Luckily for Lloyd he went on vacation to New York. Which, by the way, infuriated Tom even more. When I got home, Tom told me that he wants me to quit right away. He was arguing that no job is worth losing the twins."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom is right about that."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom is right, but he was overreacting. It was my last day at the office and I expected it to be a big deal. Plus I wasn't stupid about it--I got everyone around me to do all the work. I just gave orders and directed the show. But I had to talk with all my staff and explain the plan of action. On top of it all, my personal secretary took a medical leave of absence and for the last month and a half it's been a chore just to find something. Sorry Doctor, I know I'm rambling. It's just that I'm still trying to work out my job in my head."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's okay. Would you like to talk about your job and all the changes that are happenening with you professionally?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No, no. Hopefully there will really be nothing to talk about. But thank you. What I would like to talk about is Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So Tom was angry with you when you got home on Friday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes and no. He was strange about it. He was mostly upset with SII--he felt that the company was using me and trying to squeeze every available bit of energy out of me. Tom wasn't very reasonable or understanding. The funny thing is that I know he would have behaved exactly the same way in my place. Or in the place of Lloyd for that matter. But I didn't let Tom indulge in righteous indignation for too long--I was too tired and needed to go to bed right away. But it was Saturday morning that was the most interesting."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What happened Saturday morning?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I woke up kind of late and took my time getting down for breakfast. Tom was waiting for me in the kitchen. As I sat down to eat..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought you were on bed rest. Walking up and down the stairs, sitting down to eat--that's not bed rest."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I decided to start bed rest officially on Sunday. I just wanted one day to adjust to my new life style."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Doctor Malleson approves of this?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him what I was doing. And I've been very careful this whole last week. I was doing the minimum amount of moving around and I tried to keep my legs up as much as possible. I just needed Saturday to get my self set up--I wanted to arrange my life so that I can run it from this chair."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I understand. Actually I'm very impressed with your set up--a computer station, telephone, entertainment center--and that's even a little refrigerator?--all within arm's reach."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "The computer and telephone set up was done by SII. They had some experts come out last week and work this all out. I also have a little intercom system. I can get in touch with my nurse-guardian at any time."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Very impressive."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you. So I was telling you about Tom."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sorry, please go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom was waiting for my in the kitchen. He said that he had a little surprise for me. He said that if I felt up to it, he would like to take me on a little shopping trip."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Shopping?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Shopping for baby stuff. I had done nothing up to then. We needed baby cribs and changing tables, blankets, bathes, clothes...just to mention a few things."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom took you shopping for baby things?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was surprised too. But he was right. If I wanted to actually see the things that I was buying, Saturday was my last chance."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You could have shopped by catalogs."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "True. But it's not the same. Tom ordered a limo to take us to various baby shops."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom went with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He offered to let me go by myself. But I thought about it and he did go to all this trouble so..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you think Tom wanted to go?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. But if he was willing to come along and do all the purchasing and delivery negotiations while I did all the closing...I just didn't feel like stopping him. If he wants to claim custody of these kids, he should do some of the..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm surprised Sylvia. I would have thought you would oppose his involvement with the twins at any level. Did you want him to go with you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. It was really nice to just hang back and let him deal. At one point, I was sitting in this rocking chair with my feet up and Tom was directing the sales people to parade in front of me with all the goods. We got tons of stuff. We got stuff we never even heard of. Take a crib, for example. I thought you get a crib and maybe some sheets. Oh no. It's a crib and then a mattress and a mattress pad and a rubber under sheet and outer sheets and a comforter and a crib bumper and a dust ruffle and a special pillow to get the babies to sleep on their sides. And then you need the little wind-up mobile for entertainment. These people have it all worked out--they have long lists of things they say you need and they know that you're a vulnerable customer. I mean who wouldn't want to buy all the necessary equipment for their child? And we were getting at least two of everything. At some point, I was so tired that I stopped counting and figuring out what it was that we were actually getting. When Tom saw me getting so exhausted, he brought me some snacks and a bottle of juice. And while I ate and relaxed, he continued to shop."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was very nice of Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So did you get everything you need?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually I don't think I can answer that. Most of the stuff we got will not arrive until after the new year. But Tom didn't stop there."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "After we left this giant baby wonderland, Tom took me to a nice place for lunch. And then there was the final surprise for the day waiting for me at home."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "As we got out of the limo, I wanted to go straight into the house. But Tom motioned for me go into the garage first. In there, with a huge bow and ribbon tied around the middle, was one of these four wheel drive super family cars. The license place read \"TWINS.\""
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was very very nice of Tom."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes, he thought of everything. I have to say he made me feel very happy that day. It wasn't so much about all the stuff that we got for the kids. It was more about the feeling of reality that purchasing all the baby clothes and furniture and accessories gave to my pregnancy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "All you have to do is look in the mirror if you begin to doubt your pregnancy status. You look officially very pregnant."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know. And I can feel it too. But somehow Tom made me feel very excited about. He managed to raise the level of anticipation. I felt like it was happening. It stopped being so abstract somehow. Now I have little bathtubs for the kids and I'm thinking about how it will be to wash their little bodies. How they would feel in my hands. Before it was all about getting and being pregnant. Now I think more about them as little individuals. I wonder if they are going to like the color of the sheets I got for them. Or whether they'll like the tunes we chose for their music boxes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom changed the focus from you and your pregnancy onto the twins."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes I guess that's it. Before it was all about me and how the pregnancy was making me feel. Now I think about the kids. It was as if something clicked in. Maybe before I just never had time to think about it. I felt like I was fighting the world for the privilege of becoming a mother. But what it was actually going to be like to be a mother...I thought about it before when I first decided that I wanted to have children. But since then I was concentrating on getting there and not really giving any thoughts to the kids themselves. Am I making any sense?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think it happens to a lot of people. They decide on the goal but then lose sight of it in the process of obtaining it. And it's not selfishness because worrying about your pregnancy is worrying about the twins right now. The pregnancy is everything for them and for you right now."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you for understanding Doctor. I've been churning this in my head these last two days and was feeling very guilty about abandoning my children like that."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You didn't abandon your children Sylvia. You just got a little wrapped up in..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I was very selfish. But I know I can be a very good mother to them."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I know you will be Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know what Tom wants of me, but I'm really grateful to him for what he has done."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you try talking to him like we discussed last time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Last week was just too hectic. But now that I'll be home all the time, I'll try."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Now when shell we meet? Next Tuesday is Christmas Eve."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What about Monday?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can we make it a little later?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "How about five?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll see you at five o'clock next Monday--that's December 23rd. Take care of yourself Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I will. Thank you Doctor. Good night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good night Sylvia. Don't get up--you're on bed rest. I can see myself out."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of 24th Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Monday, December 23th, 1996 at 4 pm.\nHello Doctor. I guess you heard."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Sylvia. Tom left me a message that you were in the hospital all weekend."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just came home this afternoon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "How are you doing?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm scared."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You're home. That means Dr. Malleson thought it was safe for you to leave the hospital."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm still scared. If they're born now, they'd have no chance of survival. And what short life they would have would be spent in excruciating pain hooked up to life support systems. I couldn't even hold them. My touch, even my presence, would overstimulate their nervous systems and make them sick."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sylvia, you are okay for now. The twins are okay too. It sounds like you've been reading too much. You have to be very strong now and try to keep yourself relaxed and calm."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's so easy to say and so hard to do. My mind just keeps wandering. I can't get the image of a tiny premature baby all strapped up in a giant incubator fighting for its life. I just can't bear it. In the emergency room at the hospital, they were checking me out with ultrasound equipment and they got this really haunting picture of the face of one of the twins. Here I'll show you."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "It's a remarkable picture."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can't get this image out of my mind Doctor. I want so much for these babies to be healthy, to have wonderful lives..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Every day counts now. Every day your boys are growing bigger and stronger."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I just have to keep my legs crossed."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "There you go! That's the fighting spirit."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You know, I didn't even know that there was something wrong?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Why did you decide to go to the hospital?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom's sister is visiting for the holidays. On Friday night during dinner I just mentioned that I wasn't feeling very well. I mean nothing too bad. Just a bit crampy but not bad enough to even take a pain pill. I don't even know why I mentioned it. I think I might have used it as an excuse to go to bed early and not socialize with Tom's family. But on Saturday morning I felt worse. Still not bad enough to call a doctor. Just not feeling right. Tom's sister saw me and kept asking me questions about what kind of pain it was and just how it felt. And finally she insisted that I should call Doctor Malleson. I thought it was ridiculous to disturb him on a Saturday morning for nothing. But she went to Tom and Tom got very upset and insisted that we call him right away. Doctor Malleson was on call so I didn't have to feel very guilty when he asked me to come in \"and just take a look\" as he put it. His argument was that it wouldn't take that long to check and if it was nothing I could think of it as an outing--since I don't get to go out of the house anymore I should even enjoy it. But if I didn't come in and there was something wrong I would never forgive myself. So Tom drove me into the emergency room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Tom mentioned that you had contractions."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Apparently that was what my pains were all about. I was having a series of rather strong contractions but since I'm still so early on in my pregnancy they just felt like light cramps to me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Does Doctor Malleson think that you are in early labor?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He never used that term. He just gave me an injection of something to stop the contractions..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "A tocolitic, Terbutaline Sulfate. He mentioned it."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Right. And they kept me in the hospital in the delivery ward for two days to make sure that my contractions subsided. It was horrible to be surrounded by all these women in labor. They were all there to have their babies and I was there to keep mine in. I wish they had a special place for women in my situation. Someplace as far away from the delivery rooms as one could get."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Were you the only one who was there not to deliver?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I don't know. I was too sick to ask really."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I noticed that you're breathing rather hard and your hand is shaking. Did Dr. Malleson tell you to expect these symptoms?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. I don't know. The nurse mentioned something about my heart beating faster while I'm taking this medicine."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see. Are you taking the Terbutaline orally now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. Do you want to see the box?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Yes please."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Here. But there's nothing on it but the name. I got my instructions verbally."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. Did you talk to Doctor Malleson about feeling this way?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told him in the hospital that I wasn't feeling too well."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What did he say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He told me that I'll get used to it. It was just an initial reaction and it would go away after a few days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Can you give me your hand please?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "What do you want to do?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I just want to take your pulse. Hold still for just a minute."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Your pulse is about 130 beats per minute. That's pretty high."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Is there something wrong with the babies?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I don't think so. Can you tell me all your symptoms?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I can feel my heart beating. Even in my fingertips."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Anything else?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "It's a little bit hard to breathe. Like there is a weight on my chest."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Do you feel a little shaky?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You mean my hands?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I can see your hands are. How does the rest of you feel?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I feel sort of weak. But I think I'm just very tired. I didn't get much rest in the hospital--every time I got to fall asleep, a nurse would come in to take my vital signs and check on the babies."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The hospitals have never been known as a restful vacation spot."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No I guess not. But I didn't really get any sleep in the last couple of days. And I've really been worried sick--that baby face. I can see it every time I close my eyes."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well maybe that's it. When did you came back from the hospital?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A couple of hours ago."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did they check your vital signs just before you left?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told you--that's all they did for the last couple of days."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "You probably just have to get some sleep."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If it wasn't for Tom, I'd have been eating that horrible hospital food too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did Tom stay with you the entire time?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He never went home. They have these roll-out cots and Tom slept in my room the last two nights."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That was very nice."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He really came through for me--dealing with all the doctors and nurses and everything. I don't know what I would have done without him."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm glad he was with you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually me too."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Look, you clearly need to get some sleep. So why don't we make this a short session? I'll see you next week. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Next Tuesday is New Year's Eve."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hmm. How about Monday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll come to see you in the afternoon around four?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes please. Thank you Doctor for being so understanding."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Try to get some sleep and let me know if you still not feeling well. In fact call Doctor Malleson tomorrow if you still feel the way you do today. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tomorrow's Christmas Eve."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sure there will be someone on call in his office."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If I still feel this way..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Is Tom at home?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I think so, why?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I want to tell him that he should call Doctor Mal..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm a big girl Doctor. I can call myself."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Okay. Have a Merry Christmas and I'll see you next week."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor and Merry Christmas to you to."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Goodbye."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Session between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Jeorge Wolff, Friday, September 27th, 1996 at 2:15 pm.\nHello Doctor. This Jeorge Wolff. I'm Sylvia's brother."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Mr. Wolff. What can I do for you?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I would like to speak to you about my sister."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Mr. Wolff, I'm Ms. Bows therapist and as such I am not at liberty to discuss my patient even with a member of her family."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I understand. But I think Sylvia's situation has gone way past personal boundaries and is clearly adversely affecting quite a number of people. I think it's in everyones benefit that we talk."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "My position on this point will not change, but you are certainly free to tell whatever you wish."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I met with Tom Bows for lunch a few days ago. We're quite close. In fact I have always considered him my older brother. But in the last couple of months I've hardly had a chance to speak two words with him. Tom has not been himself. He's very depressed. He told me that he thinks that he is losing Sylvia. Doctor, I don't know every thing that happened between them, but I do know that they used to be very much in love. And I think Tom's feelings in this regard haven't changed, although I can't speak for Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Mr. Wolff..."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Please Doctor, let me say what I need to say."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Go on."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "A few years ago, Tom did something very courageous. If it was me, I don't think that I would have been able to go through with it. In fact I tried hard to talk him out of it. But he was resolved to do everything he could to save Sylvia."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Save Sylvia from what?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Five years ago Sylvia had cervical cancer. It was caught early and they were able to completely cut out all the cancerous cells. But it meant that Sylvia couldn't have children."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Oh?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Don't misunderstand. She could get pregnant all right, but she would have problems carrying--her cervix is too weak to support a growing uterus. Sylvia was weird about it. She never wanted to have children before but suddenly, after she was told that she shouldn't, she became obsessed by the idea. Our whole family tried to talk to her and convince her of the danger of trying to get pregnant. We just witnessed Tom's sister lose her child. It cost her everything including her sanity. It was clear that Sylvia was heading in the same direction. For a while it seemed to work--Sylvia changed professions and was happy with her work. We thought that was it. But Tom began to suspect that Sylvia stopped using birth control. Forgive me Doctor for being very graphic, but at one point Tom said that he saw Sylvia save his sperm after an oral copulation and inject it into herself in the bathroom. It was then that Tom confided in me that he was going to have a vasectomy. Tom loves his wife. He wasn't going to lose her to some irrational biological timebomb. He sacrificed his ability to ever have children to save Sylvia. That is more than most men would do, don't you think Doctor?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Perhaps."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I could never do that. Even if I resolved never to have children I couldn't do that. But Tom cared so much about his wife that he did. And he had to keep it a secret forever--never being able to speak of it to anyone."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "But you."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. As I said we are very close and Tom needed some moral support, not to mention he was not feeling well for a few days afterwards. But this is in the past now. What's important is that Tom's and Sylvia's marriage is falling apart. As you know, Sylvia found out about the vasectomy two or so months ago and she just blew up. We thought and hoped that after a while she would calm down and understand but it never happened. She came to you. And I believe you were her downfall, Doctor. You gave her drugs and she used them and you to get just what she wanted without regard for anyone including herself. Tom told me that she had an affair with someone and that he believes she's now pregnant."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Has Sylvia talked to him?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. So I went to see her myself. I was at SII this morning. I saw her. She's pregnant, I'm sure. In fact she's showing quite a bit. I'm surprised that she thinks she could hide it. I tried to confront her but she wouldn't let me. She's also very jittery--her hands were shaking and she had problems finding words to express herself. Sylvia is a journalist and a writer and she never had that problem before. Pregnancy is not agreeing with her. Well Doctor, I just thought that you should know how many lives you are responsible for ruining--Tom's, Sylvia's, and her unborn child, not to mention the rest of us."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm not sure you do. I'll do everything in my power to save my sister. Now goodbye Doctor. I hope you have a conscience that won't let you sleep."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Mr. Wolff."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Dr. Brian Malleson, Friday, October 4th, 1996 at 4:30 PM.\nHello Dr. Balis? This is Brian Malleson, Sylvia Bows' obstetrician. We spoke the other week."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Doctor. It's nice to hear from you. How is our patient?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Well I would like your opinion."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'll be happy to...what can I do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I have a situation here Doctor. Sylvia came in for her ultrasound today."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I thought that was on Monday?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm going out of town for a long weekend so I rescheduled. My receptionist apparently called and left a message with the new date and time on the Wolffs' answering machine. So I'm examining Sylvia and her husband walks in. I know Tom so I just motion for him to come in as I'm talking to Sylvia about her twins. They are doing fine, by the way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "The twins? That's good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "He looks a bit shaken but then most men facing twins would be. I told them after Sylvia's surgery a few years back that it would be very dangerous for her to have children but they just went for it anyway. And twins none the less! So I tell him to come closer and take a look at his children. All of a sudden Sylvia starts to scream for him to get out. I've known women who got really hysterical during their pregnancy, but this? She turned white, started to shake, hyperventilate. So Tom tells me he'll wait for me in my office and I try to calm Sylvia down. I asked her what the problem was--most couples do these visits together. Frankly, I was surprised that Tom didn't come last time but I figured he was out of town or something. During Sylvia's cancer scare, Tom came with her during every visit."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So how is Sylvia now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I finally had to give her a Valium and she is still resting in the examination room. I don't think the medication you gave her, Doctor, is doing her any good. I've never seen Sylvia in such a state. I just finished speaking with Tom and he said that Sylvia has been having a lot emotional difficulties for the last couple for months and he is not really surprised by her reaction. He said that he thought that her antidepressant wasn't working well either. I told him that they should have contacted you as soon as they noticed something. It's not good for the babies you know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What would you like me to do Dr. Malleson?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I told Tom and will tell Sylvia that they should really talk to you and straighten out Sylvia's medication situation. She should be taking it easy and not going into fits like she did in my office. Perhaps you can see both of them--I have bad feeling about their relationship and they are such a nice couple. It would be a shame with twins and all on the way."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Well Sylvia is currently on 75 milligrams of Sinequan once a day. I'd like to give that more of a chance. How about if I increase the dosage?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Okay, I'll go along with your recommendation. With your permission Doctor, I will write her a prescription right now. This way she can switch to the new dosage as soon as possible."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's a good idea. Write it for Sinequan 100 milligrams once a day at bedtime. And tell Sylvia that I'm at my office if she wants to talk to me."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Will do. Talk to you later Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Goodbye Doctor."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Mr. Tom Bows, Monday, December 30, 1996 at 11:30 AM.\nHello Dr. Balis? This is Tom Bows."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Mr. Bows. What's wrong?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You cut right to the chase Doctor."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What's wrong with Sylvia?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I'm sorry Doctor. It's been a long night. Okay, let me see. After you left our house last Tuesday, Sylvia started to feel worse and worse. At some point it was obvious that she was not tolerating the drugs that they gave her."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Terbutaline?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. She was having problems breathing and was beginning to shake--her whole body was trembling violently. We took her into the emergency room late that night."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I noticed during our session that she was not doing well, but...I wished I had followed my own instincts and called Doctor Malleson."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "You only saw her for forty minutes and she wasn't that bad yet. It's not your fault."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Thank you. Were you able to track down Doctor Malleson?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Unfortunately he was out of town for the holidays and we got somebody else from his office--Doctor Rush. She seemed very competent. She switched Sylvia to a different medication and they kept her overnight to check for side-effects."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "So you got home for Christmas night? What's wrong now?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "We did go home for Christmas night. Sylvia was tolerating this medication much better and we thought that we were on track again. But Saturday night Sylvia woke me up saying that she was having what she believed to be strong contractions again and she wanted me to take her back to the emergency room."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Are you still in the hospital?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. The medication they gave her didn't work and she is now on an IV of Warfarin Sodium, I believe. She looks awful."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm sorry."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "She's ashen and is hardly able to talk or lift her hand. And I think she is terrified of losing her babies. And frankly, Doctor, so am I."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What do the doctors say?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "They said that the IV is working great. The contractions have gone away completely but the damage is done."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "What damage?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Sylvia's cervix has developed a tear--the contractions that she was feeling pulled on the cervical stitch and tore it apart."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I see."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Although they are going to let her go home, Sylvia will spend the rest of the pregnancy lying on her back to prevent further damage to the cervix."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I'm very sorry Tom. Is there something I can do?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "If you can keep Sylvia from sliding into severe depression, it would be good. It would be a disaster if she gave up right now--one of the twins is just old enough to be saved. But the consequences would be disastrous--this child would be in pain for months and months with a slim chance for life and there's even less hope for the smaller one. I really need you to help Sylvia keep it together Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I will do all I can."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "I know."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Would you like me to come down to the hospital today?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "No. Sylvia is too out of it for it to do any good. I'll stay with her and make sure she is all right for now. I'll call you when we get back home Doctor and set something up then. Okay?"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Sure no problem. Just let me know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Great. So have a happy New Year Doctor. I'll be in touch soon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I hope your New Year is happy too, Tom."
}
] |
[
{
"from": "system",
"value": "Transcript of Telephone Conversation between Charles Balis, M.D. and Ms. Sylvia Bows, Tuesday, July 16, 1996 at 10 AM.\nHello. This is Sylvia Bows."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Hello Ms. Bows. This is Doctor Balis."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Hello Doctor. Thank you for calling me."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Did you get started on the medication?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Yes. But I have only taken one dose so far. I have been very busy."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Was it last night or this morning?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Actually I took it at about 3 AM this morning. I came home late and Tom was there. He asked me how our meeting went--I told him I was going to see a therapist. He was trying to be so nice. The bastard!"
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "If you took the first dose at night, you can take another one right now. Do you feel any effects so far?"
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Tom got me very worked-up. I could not sleep. Then I remembered the medication. I was able to fall asleep within about half hour or so."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's good."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Also I did not seem to have any dreams. Usually I am an avid dreamer. But this time..."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "That's okay. These types of medications have an adjustment period. In the beginning, an individual might experience a variety of side-effects. These vary greatly from one person to another. What's important is to know what these side-effects are and whether they are acceptable for the time being. After the initial reaction to the medication, the body gets used to it and most of the side-effects go away."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "So I will dream again."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "I think so. I am interested in what else you might notice. Are there any other changes physically or emotionally? Please take you medication right now and I will try to get back in touch with you this afternoon. And again, if you need to get hold of me for any reason, please call me. If I am in a session and cannot speak to you right then, please leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as possible. If it is an emergency, please let my receptionist or answering service know."
},
{
"from": "human",
"value": "Thank you Doctor. I'll speak to you this afternoon."
},
{
"from": "gpt",
"value": "Good. Goodbye."
}
] |
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