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You are welcome dear !!!
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Oh my bad sorry, still a cute kid!
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Stop. You'll make me cry haha.
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I don't even know what a GigaChad is lmao I feel so boomerish
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Without tooting my own horn I'd say that's rather accurate.
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Says the man who crushed Oberyn Martel's skull.
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I got ya https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Giga%20Chad
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A Chad is like a badass (in the positive connotation) adding Giga means making it “even more that thing.” So basically you are a super badass dad
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Honestly, once you’re past a certain age using internet slang just makes the young folks uncomfortable. Back in aught-two I had a professor in his late 40s who would not stop talking about how much he loved Radiohead and it made the whole class feel weird. The point is: you’re a great father and you can just use regular old English—no need to read up on what the kids are calling it these days.
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Lmaooo
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I’m so confused because I’m 31 and growing up calling someone a chad was insulting lol
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Radiohead had been around almost a decade in 02, not really a "fellow kids" moment...
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Agreed. 36 here and Chad was always an insult for like a meat head or something.
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Yeah, but kids gatekeeping shit that never "belonged" to them has always been a very real thing.
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It was taken back
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Not a professional and barely internet, but: I think it became more of a meme and a joke and then it took on a positive connotation because people used it in a positive way ironically… then it changed to be “serious” (as serious as saying something that goofy can be, at least).
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Yeah, I definitely mean it this way—we had no claim to Radiohead, it was just what we were listening to, therefore it was gross that anyone significantly older than us also liked it.
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Is it because I used the word gatekeeping?
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Most supportive subreddit that I’ve found not only for dads, but for men altogether
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I read your original post, glad to hear things are looking up for you. Also, great meme. Fantastic work.
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There’s some good in this world, Mr. OP. And it’s worth fighting for
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I got into such an argument with my son when he was around 6. I don't remember what it was about, but when he finally went upstairs. I just started bawling. The thing that made me feel really shitty is I tried to talk to my wife about it and she didn't seem to give a shit, basically calling me a pussy.
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I pointed out some toxicity in a mom group this morning. "99% of our problems are caused by useless piece of shit males"... Just said "that's a bit of a toxic attitude"... Got told "take it back to r/daddit where you belong". Yeah, I love this group, even the lady-dads that show up here are awesome.
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I feel fortunate to have found this subreddit/ joined the ranks. Unfortunately I have no idea what it means to be a good dad because I didn't really have one, but I'll be damned if I don't try for my son. Thanks my guys, reading your stories, both good and bad, helps me get some much needed perspective.
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We are the ones who help behind the scene for all dads and mothers who need help once the beacon is lit we must respond! Also I’ve read the post from a few days ago that you made and I’m happy things are looking up! We will still be here to support you and everyone whenever anyone needs it.
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So much imposter syndrome. What can men do against such reckless uncertainty?
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I posted here about a month ago completely distressed with purple crying and just life in general at the time. Got dozens of helpful, thoughtful, and supportive responses and messages. The whole experience really helped me turn a corner and things have improved immensely since then. Another redditor actually just reached out a few days ago to check in and see how things are going, which really blew me away since the post was weeks ago. This place really is awesome and so are all of y'all.
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Good for you mate, a lot going on in the UK these days and difficult to keep our heads above water at the best of times. I'm a sucker for deriving my worth from my job so I know how you might be feeling, but then my boy comes out with something telling me it's all right and it all seems okay again. Enjoy the new role and I hope it opens doors to something even better in the future!
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My friend, you bow to no one.
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The mods on this sub are unsung heroes.
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>I am in the UK I work as a Problem Analyst In the US I kinda work as a "problem employee" so you're way more qualified to be reemployed than I am!
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And my axe(body spray)
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Everyone loves Daddit
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Legit the best sub on Reddit. Helped me sooooo much.
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"Remember, I'm pulling for ya, we're all in this together" - Red Green
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Dude, this was *exactly me* on Tuesday. From the bottom of my heart I love y’all!
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Glad to hear you found the next gig! More so, I'm glad you seem to be feeling better about your situation.
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I love how this sub will go from super serious post about a family in shambles, then the next one you see will be a discussion about Bluey
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As a fairly fresh dad, I mainly lurk here but this has routinely been the most supportive and thought provoking subs I’m in. I’ve seen so many different povs of this wild journey we’re all on. I’m so glad I found this place.
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Fun side note - after story time with my 2 1/2 year old son, if he’s having trouble falling asleep I’ll read LOTR while he lays it bed. I thought he’d conk out right away but now at least once a week he asks to read the “story of the wizards and the rings” book.
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Fuckin A. It do be like that.
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Man this is cringe and I am here for it
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Internet Randos: ”But how can we define masculinity without toxicity?” Daddit: “Behold the Daddit, the pillars of true masculinity!”
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You're not a worthless dad:) you memes are though.
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Keep it up mate, you're doing a great job!
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Love this
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FOR DADDITT!!!
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Shit sucks but I got these memes
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This is probably the most wholesome subreddit
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You men are champions
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Off topic, but... Is your username The USS Excelsior?
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Seriously, if there had been a place like this 25 - 30 years ago. I’m here for you guys now, your stories, your problems, your “graduation” photos. Oh, God, The feels..
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Much love fellowship!
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"Muster the Dadhirrim!"
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Love this and that its the standard for this community
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It's true. I had another account where I posted some dark shit here when I was going through the first months of fatherhood. Even if I didn't end up reading all the comments, it really did help me get through it.
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“My work here is done“ “…But you didn’t do anything”
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Hahaha. Top meming!
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This is why I joined this sub… dads being dads going through real dad shit asking for advice. The response will be truthful, unpopular, unfiltered, and ultimately helpful to the dad in need. Good for you OP!
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There's a reason I prefer to come here for advice or to rant than I do r/parenting or even /r/relationship_advice . I mean fuck, I went to r/parenting to get advice about my son who was hitting at daycare (and only at daycare) and I got called an enabler of abuse. I mean wtf? Plus I love seeing a bunch of dads who aren't afraid to show that they love being dads.
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Sons of Daddit! Of Reddit! My brothers. I see in your eyes the same fear that would take the heart of me. A day may come when the courage of Dads fails, when we forsake our white sneakers and break all bonds of cheesy puns, but it is not this day. An hour of whiny toddlers and emotionally shattered teenagers when the Age of Dads comes crashing down, but it is not this day! This day we help! By all that you hold dear on this good earth, I bid you stand, Men of Daddit!
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I posted here a few days ago asking for help and got roasted.
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Arise, arise fathers of daddit, Fell deeds awake, poo and peepee, Wipes shall be shaken, lego will be stepped on, A wet day, a brown day, ere the sun rises, Ride now, RIDE NOW, TO THE CHANGE TABLE!
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As a mom, daddit is the most kind and respectful parenting sub I've found. Whatever your genitals, we're accepting here.
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Unless you don't have enough carma
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I wish it was like this over at r/mommit
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Wish it was like that over at /mommit
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This really is a great sun and it’s a very supportive group. The posts here warm me up and make me feel normal after a long day.
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There is an insane amount of toxic sludge on the internet but this sub as a bastion of awesomeness
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This is great!
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You have my sword
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“Let this be the hour when we draw swords together. Fell deeds awake. Now for wrath, now for ruin, and the red dawn. Forth, Eorlingas!”
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I’ve had this experience! Grateful for it
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Great meme, glad to hear things are picking up for you.
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This really is an amazing resourceful subreddit… it’s the most reassuring thing when you read a post that’s directly Affecting you and you receive great tips and tricks through other dads experienceS. It’s like free therapy.
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Love it
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aw man... you made me feel something... stop it its too early for good feels
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I need to binge these movies now. Thanks...
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Love this sub, having 2 daughters the first in 2020 and one in 2022, Covid hit hard, everything seemed like a chore, to even get inside the hospital to see my kids born let alone keeping everyone safe from Covid and the Flu and etc. This forum has really helped even just reading things and not posting.
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*MUSTER THE DADDHIRRIM*
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Man, I've been having a hard time feeling exactly like the first photo. I was able to finished LOTR for the first time this year though and it's such a good book. So encouraging just reading how Frodo and Sam and Gandalf and all the many many other characters face their own challenges. ​ I dunno, it really helped me and I'd recommend it to anyone who has the chance. Being a parent is so hard and I have to stop telling myself I'm a bad dad. You have to actively argue against your intrusive thoughts and it's harder than you think
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We all fail ~~mum~~ *dad* school sometimes. But that's ok, we can just try again tomorrow.
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GROND!
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I have a 2 week old. First child. This sub has been an absolute blessing.
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The age of child neglect is over. The time of the caring parenthood has come.
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This is amazing. About to make my first post on daddit… hope it’s true !!!
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Even Moms show up and everyone is helpful AF
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Seriously. I'm not even a parent, but I absolutely love this community!
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I think /r/TrollYChromosome is the established "most supportive subreddit for men" but this one is a close second. There really are problems that only parents are likely to understand, and there is a wonderful community here.
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And they allow moms to ask questions. I got banned from mommit for asking a question in the comment section in a father pov.
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This and r/menslib
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If I might make another recommendation, /r/menslib is extremely good as well, for dad or non-dad conversation. It’s a feminist-aligned sub that stands in opposition to the toxicity and misogyny of the “men’s rights” movement, and is a great place to openly discuss issues that actually affect men.
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> Most supportive subreddit that I’ve found not only for dads, but ~~for men~~ altogether
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It's true -- I've looked for other Men's subs and this one is by far the most active and the most supportive.
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My 4 kids are all grown(well, in 2 months officially all grown.) One thing I have learned over the years, no matter how great your relationship is with your wife, there are some things they won't get/you shouldn't talk to them about. I don't mean that in a misogynist, my wife sucks way. We are wired different...and that is OK! I have figured those things out and I just avoid them. It will be different things for different couples, but they exist!
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That's not cool. That's really not cool. What does she think, that she's the only one who deserves their partners' support?
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She doesn’t see you as a whole person then. That’s a problem.