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Defectiver, even, as they are thieves to boot.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}, {"content": "He called Zoey defective for buying and using expensive makeup, so she would look more like an adult. Then his child steals this makeup. Would that not also make the BILs child defective, by his standards?! 😂", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "chris-joy", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_2tllq67o", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "He called Zoey defective for buying and using expensive makeup, so she would look more like an adult. Then his child steals this makeup. Would that not also make the BILs child defective, by his standards?! 😂", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>He called Zoey defective for buying and using expensive makeup, so she would look more like an adult. Then his child steals this makeup. Would that not also make the BILs child defective, by his standards?! 😂</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625327546.0, "created_utc": 1625327546.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xi8ov", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xi8ov", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xcp6c", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xi8ov/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 534, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 534, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "chris-joy"}]	ocx94s	NA	reddit
Also, what the hell is Sammy's problem that he can even try to pretend that what his daughters are doing is "borrowing". Borrowing implies that they asked permission from Zoey before using her stuff. He knows damn good and well that's not what his kids are doing. Sammy is a shit brother, uncle, AND father. My god. The divorce thing seems significantly less surprising now, knowing that this is how he actually behaves as a grown ass adult.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	MissLadyLlamaDrama	reddit
No, "borrowing" implies that the item in question is being returned, presumably in the same condition in which it was loaned. In this case, we're talking about makeup, a consumable. Not only are Sammy's daughters sneaking into Zoey's bedroom to take (not borrow!) her stuff without permission, but they are consuming and ruining something that Zoey saved up to purchase. You are NTA for supporting your daughter's right to not have her possessions stolen and ruined under the guise of "borrowing."	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}, {"content": "Also, what the hell is Sammy's problem that he can even try to pretend that what his daughters are doing is \"borrowing\". Borrowing implies that they asked permission from Zoey before using her stuff. He knows damn good and well that's not what his kids are doing.\n\nSammy is a shit brother, uncle, AND father. My god. The divorce thing seems significantly less surprising now, knowing that this is how he actually behaves as a grown ass adult.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "MissLadyLlamaDrama", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4djvf5g4", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Also, what the hell is Sammy's problem that he can even try to pretend that what his daughters are doing is \"borrowing\". Borrowing implies that they asked permission from Zoey before using her stuff. He knows damn good and well that's not what his kids are doing.\n\nSammy is a shit brother, uncle, AND father. My god. The divorce thing seems significantly less surprising now, knowing that this is how he actually behaves as a grown ass adult.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Also, what the hell is Sammy's problem that he can even try to pretend that what his daughters are doing is "borrowing". Borrowing implies that they asked permission from Zoey before using her stuff. He knows damn good and well that's not what his kids are doing.</p>\n\n<p>Sammy is a shit brother, uncle, AND father. My god. The divorce thing seems significantly less surprising now, knowing that this is how he actually behaves as a grown ass adult.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625329455.0, "created_utc": 1625329455.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xlwq8", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xlwq8", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xcp6c", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xlwq8/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 304, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 304, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "MissLadyLlamaDrama"}]	ocx94s	NaeBean	reddit
Plus, sharing makeup is a disgusting and unsanitary practice, at the best of times, and we’re in the middle of a pandemic.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	Profreadsalot	reddit
My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, 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If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, 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I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3z6rlg7i", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625328099.0, "created_utc": 1625328099.0, "depth": 4, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xjawp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xjawp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xgk2o", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xjawp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "AffectionateAd5373"}]	ocx94s	doughnutmakemelaugh	reddit
I work in the industry, so I'm aware. But it's so ingrained (and I have OCD, which doesn't help) that I literally had to throw them all out. And seriously, if the alcohol thing really worked no one would get an infection from the testers.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, 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I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3z6rlg7i", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625328099.0, "created_utc": 1625328099.0, "depth": 4, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xjawp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xjawp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xgk2o", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xjawp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "AffectionateAd5373"}, {"content": "If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "doughnutmakemelaugh", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cwzuj1sz", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625331530.0, "created_utc": 1625331530.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xpylx", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xpylx", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xjawp", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xpylx/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 196, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 196, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "doughnutmakemelaugh"}]	ocx94s	AffectionateAd5373	reddit
Tell you a secret. Whole lot of testers out there not being cleaned at all.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. 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It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, 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I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3z6rlg7i", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625328099.0, "created_utc": 1625328099.0, "depth": 4, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xjawp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xjawp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xgk2o", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xjawp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "AffectionateAd5373"}, {"content": "If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "doughnutmakemelaugh", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cwzuj1sz", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625331530.0, "created_utc": 1625331530.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xpylx", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xpylx", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xjawp", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xpylx/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 196, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 196, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "doughnutmakemelaugh"}, {"content": "I work in the industry, so I'm aware. But it's so ingrained (and I have OCD, which doesn't help) that I literally had to throw them all out. And seriously, if the alcohol thing really worked no one would get an infection from the testers.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3z6rlg7i", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I work in the industry, so I'm aware. But it's so ingrained (and I have OCD, which doesn't help) that I literally had to throw them all out. And seriously, if the alcohol thing really worked no one would get an infection from the testers.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I work in the industry, so I'm aware. But it's so ingrained (and I have OCD, which doesn't help) that I literally had to throw them all out. And seriously, if the alcohol thing really worked no one would get an infection from the testers.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625331695.0, "created_utc": 1625331695.0, "depth": 6, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xqahh", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xqahh", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xpylx", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xqahh/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 219, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 219, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "AffectionateAd5373"}]	ocx94s	doughnutmakemelaugh	reddit
True. But surface sanitizing with alcohol is never going to kill everything. When I was doing makeup professionally, I used to scrape a bit of the shadow or whatever onto a clean surface, and use that. I never put the brush into the container from the skin.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. 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It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. 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That's my fav thing about the pandemic, no one at sephora or ulta trying to get me to try the 'testers' on my skin	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. 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But surface sanitizing with alcohol is never going to kill everything. \n\nWhen I was doing makeup professionally, I used to scrape a bit of the shadow or whatever onto a clean surface, and use that. I never put the brush into the container from the skin.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3z6rlg7i", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "True. But surface sanitizing with alcohol is never going to kill everything. \n\nWhen I was doing makeup professionally, I used to scrape a bit of the shadow or whatever onto a clean surface, and use that. I never put the brush into the container from the skin.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>True. But surface sanitizing with alcohol is never going to kill everything. </p>\n\n<p>When I was doing makeup professionally, I used to scrape a bit of the shadow or whatever onto a clean surface, and use that. I never put the brush into the container from the skin.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625334245.0, "created_utc": 1625334245.0, "depth": 8, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xva3p", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xva3p", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xuy1i", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xva3p/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 135, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 135, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "AffectionateAd5373"}]	ocx94s	NA	reddit
Agreed... testers that are open to the aisle are chocked full of plague and leprosy until proven otherwise. TIL some people are testing them on their FACE. I always do the back of the hand. If literally never occurred to me someone put it on their eyes.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. 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It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. 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Plus, I find the formula is never quite the same after it. Cheapo makeup, whatever. But when I’m buying expensive makeup because of their very specific formulas, warping it with alcohol means it’s essentially a junk palette now.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, 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I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3z6rlg7i", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My mother always told me never to share makeup. I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625328099.0, "created_utc": 1625328099.0, "depth": 4, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xjawp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xjawp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xgk2o", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xjawp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "AffectionateAd5373"}, {"content": "If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "doughnutmakemelaugh", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cwzuj1sz", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625331530.0, "created_utc": 1625331530.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xpylx", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xpylx", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xjawp", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xpylx/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 196, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 196, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "doughnutmakemelaugh"}, {"content": "I work in the industry, so I'm aware. But it's so ingrained (and I have OCD, which doesn't help) that I literally had to throw them all out. And seriously, if the alcohol thing really worked no one would get an infection from the testers.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3z6rlg7i", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I work in the industry, so I'm aware. But it's so ingrained (and I have OCD, which doesn't help) that I literally had to throw them all out. And seriously, if the alcohol thing really worked no one would get an infection from the testers.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I work in the industry, so I'm aware. But it's so ingrained (and I have OCD, which doesn't help) that I literally had to throw them all out. And seriously, if the alcohol thing really worked no one would get an infection from the testers.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625331695.0, "created_utc": 1625331695.0, "depth": 6, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xqahh", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xqahh", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xpylx", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xqahh/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 219, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 219, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "AffectionateAd5373"}]	ocx94s	terraformthesoul	reddit
Yep. I've always found it makes a film over the top, and then you wind up having to scrape half the pan out to get past it.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, 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I remember walking in on my roommate using my expensive Aveda palette to do one of her friend's makeup. I almost died. I could never use it again, and some of those colors were discontinued.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3z6rlg7i", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My mother always told me never to share makeup. 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That's what makeup artists do.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "doughnutmakemelaugh", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cwzuj1sz", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. That's what makeup artists do.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>If it's just powder, you can disinfect it with rubbing alcohol. 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But it's so ingrained (and I have OCD, which doesn't help) that I literally had to throw them all out. And seriously, if the alcohol thing really worked no one would get an infection from the testers.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateAd5373", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3z6rlg7i", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I work in the industry, so I'm aware. 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Cheapo makeup, whatever. But when I’m buying expensive makeup because* of their very specific formulas, warping it with alcohol means it’s essentially a junk palette now.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "terraformthesoul", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_ferog5t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Plus, I find the formula is never quite the same after it. Cheapo makeup, whatever. 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Yeah OP should also demand the father replace that $60 makeup pallet. And not some shitty Wal-Mart one either. Ooh that would incense me.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	al_m1101	reddit
Definitely. I don't personally have a preference between brands like Wal-Mart and Ulta, but I am a strong believer in repaying somebody with the fair equivalent of what they spent. I have accompanied my friends to Ulta and Sephora more than enough times to know how much this stuff costs, and giving them a cheaper brand wouldn't be right.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}, {"content": "Yeah OP should also demand* the father replace that $60 makeup pallet. And not some shitty Wal-Mart one either. Ooh that would incense me.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "al_m1101", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_16uu2y6f", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Yeah OP should also demand the father replace that $60 makeup pallet. And not some shitty Wal-Mart one either. Ooh that would incense me.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Yeah OP should also <em>demand</em> the father replace that $60 makeup pallet. And not some shitty Wal-Mart one either. Ooh that would incense me.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625331460.0, "created_utc": 1625331460.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xptms", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xptms", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xcp6c", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xptms/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 91, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 91, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "al_m1101"}]	ocx94s	SubstantialDrawing7	reddit
Exactly. OP is definitely NTA. Quite frankly, as soon as that worthless BIL opened his mouth to insist his daughters "aren't thieves," I would have let him know that taking items from someone without their knowledge or consent constitutes theft, and those who engage in theft are, in fact, thieves. OP needs to throw them all out of the house yesterday, his AH wife included. The sheer lack of respect she has for the well being of her own child is shocking and completely unacceptable.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	TheCrankyRunner	reddit
“Defect” is where I would have thrown him out of the house.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	TallBobcat	reddit
Also Sammy opining that she should wear cheap ass Wal Mart makeup. Don't get me wrong there are wonderful, inexpensive products at Wal-Mart but nothing there will give you the beautiful finish like MAC, and other pricy brands, will give you on eye colors. And when did Sammy become this financial wizard. I mean, he's the one who is homeless.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	NA	reddit
Exactly and the mother seem to be okay with someone calling her daughter defective I would have kicked out everyone and anyone who called my daughter that	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	Fanartist_Kitty	reddit
I'm sensing some religious, clutching of pearls mentality here with the BIL.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	CalculatedPerversion	reddit
Yeah the defective comment should have been met with Sammy’s bag being packed for him. For someone to speak that way of OPs daughter while living with OP is grounds for a boot in the ass out the door.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	gorramfrakker	reddit
His kids are stealing and ruining other people's property.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	zeenzee	reddit
I would have kicked them out of the house for this insane comment.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "SubstantialDrawing7", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5bt2qq3t", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey \"defective\" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.\n\nI have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in hll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This. It also bothers me that Sammy dared to call Zoey "defective" when his kids are taking and ruining other people's property.</p>\n\n<p>I have friends that I'm so close to, we will go to each other's gyno appointments to give support if need be. No way in h*ll am I messing with their makeup without permission. My closest friends are twins, and they don't even mess with each other's makeup without asking.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324620.0, "created_utc": 1625324620.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcp6c", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcp6c", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcp6c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1597, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1597, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "SubstantialDrawing7"}]	ocx94s	RuthlessKittyKat	reddit
Plus sharing makeup is so unsanitary. That goes on my face, I don’t want someone else also using it on theirs. So gross. Plus if the colors were mixed she was definitely double dipping. I think cousins owe her at least a new makeup pallet. NTA	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}]	ocx94s	JaxandMia	reddit
and heck if she buys a new one for Zoey she might as well just keep the one she used, and then she won't have a reason to go using someone else's makeup again, and no makeup will be wasted. She shouldn't have used it to begin with but either way Sloan's getting more than a good compromise here, she'll essentially have paid $60 and gotten a $60 makeup set so should have no reason to complain. But definitely needs to apologize and stay out of her stuff.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Plus sharing makeup is so unsanitary. That goes on my face, I don’t want someone else also using it on theirs. So gross. Plus if the colors were mixed she was definitely double dipping. I think cousins owe her at least a new makeup pallet. NTA", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JaxandMia", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_1nhnzbuw", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Plus sharing makeup is so unsanitary. That goes on my face, I don’t want someone else also using it on theirs. So gross. Plus if the colors were mixed she was definitely double dipping. I think cousins owe her at least a new makeup pallet. NTA", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Plus sharing makeup is so unsanitary. That goes on my face, I don’t want someone else also using it on theirs. So gross. Plus if the colors were mixed she was definitely double dipping. I think cousins owe her at least a new makeup pallet. NTA</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625326375.0, "created_utc": 1625326375.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xg0hw", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xg0hw", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xg0hw/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 267, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 267, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "JaxandMia"}]	ocx94s	Dangerous_Wishbone	reddit
I wonder what would happen if darling twins went dipping into AH mother's makeup instead....and whoops! ...someone forgot to tell the twin property liberators that AH mom had a world class case of pinkeye or herpes....	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Plus sharing makeup is so unsanitary. That goes on my face, I don’t want someone else also using it on theirs. So gross. Plus if the colors were mixed she was definitely double dipping. I think cousins owe her at least a new makeup pallet. NTA", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "JaxandMia", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_1nhnzbuw", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Plus sharing makeup is so unsanitary. That goes on my face, I don’t want someone else also using it on theirs. So gross. Plus if the colors were mixed she was definitely double dipping. I think cousins owe her at least a new makeup pallet. NTA", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Plus sharing makeup is so unsanitary. That goes on my face, I don’t want someone else also using it on theirs. So gross. Plus if the colors were mixed she was definitely double dipping. I think cousins owe her at least a new makeup pallet. NTA</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625326375.0, "created_utc": 1625326375.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xg0hw", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xg0hw", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xg0hw/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 267, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 267, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "JaxandMia"}]	ocx94s	Full_Key7756	reddit
Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}]	ocx94s	huskergirl-86	reddit
Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}]	ocx94s	NA	reddit
But it’s just Nutella! So next time you find an underwear with stains, just lick it.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x71t5", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x5flo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x71t5/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 6325, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 6325, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}]	ocx94s	madmaxturbator	reddit
Back in college, my roommate and I were exchanging pranks as part of an underlying feud. He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor. They went into his room and a few seconds later the girl walked out quickly. Turns out they walked in on our cat licking the peanut butter out of it and it totally grossed both of them out. I did not expect this but it made it more hilarious, looking back. My roommate was pretty upset. For him to believe it was peanut butter, I had to willingly take a whiff out of the “stain” with no disgust on my face, then he hesitantly tested it out. We agreed no more pranks after that, apparently he really liked that girl.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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I’m fucking DYING. My wife is pissed that I wouldn’t stop laughing for five minutes. This prank will be paying dividends for decades.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. 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Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor. \n\nThey went into his room and a few seconds later the girl walked out quickly. Turns out they walked in on our cat licking the peanut butter out of it and it totally grossed both of them out. I did not expect this but it made it more hilarious, looking back.\n\nMy roommate was pretty upset. For him to believe it was peanut butter, I had to willingly take a whiff out of the “stain” with no disgust on my face, then he hesitantly tested it out. 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He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor. \n\nThey went into his room and a few seconds later the girl walked out quickly. Turns out they walked in on our cat licking the peanut butter out of it and it totally grossed both of them out. I did not expect this but it made it more hilarious, looking back.\n\nMy roommate was pretty upset. For him to believe it was peanut butter, I had to willingly take a whiff out of the “stain” with no disgust on my face, then he hesitantly tested it out. We agreed no more pranks after that, apparently he really liked that girl.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Back in college, my roommate and I were exchanging pranks as part of an underlying feud. He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor. </p>\n\n<p>They went into his room and a few seconds later the girl walked out quickly. Turns out they walked in on our cat licking the peanut butter out of it and it totally grossed both of them out. I did not expect this but it made it more hilarious, looking back.</p>\n\n<p>My roommate was pretty upset. For him to believe it was peanut butter, I had to willingly take a whiff out of the “stain” with no disgust on my face, then he hesitantly tested it out. We agreed no more pranks after that, apparently he really liked that girl.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625335161.0, "created_utc": 1625335161.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 2, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xx0ca", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xx0ca", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xbjmo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xx0ca/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1913, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1913, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "AG-freeflyer"}]	ocx94s	xX_WarHeart_Xx	reddit
Honestly, if she was a keeper, she would have found it as hilarious as we do	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor. \n\nThey went into his room and a few seconds later the girl walked out quickly. Turns out they walked in on our cat licking the peanut butter out of it and it totally grossed both of them out. I did not expect this but it made it more hilarious, looking back.\n\nMy roommate was pretty upset. For him to believe it was peanut butter, I had to willingly take a whiff out of the “stain” with no disgust on my face, then he hesitantly tested it out. We agreed no more pranks after that, apparently he really liked that girl.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AG-freeflyer", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d386pmog", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Back in college, my roommate and I were exchanging pranks as part of an underlying feud. He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor. \n\nThey went into his room and a few seconds later the girl walked out quickly. Turns out they walked in on our cat licking the peanut butter out of it and it totally grossed both of them out. I did not expect this but it made it more hilarious, looking back.\n\nMy roommate was pretty upset. For him to believe it was peanut butter, I had to willingly take a whiff out of the “stain” with no disgust on my face, then he hesitantly tested it out. We agreed no more pranks after that, apparently he really liked that girl.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Back in college, my roommate and I were exchanging pranks as part of an underlying feud. He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor. </p>\n\n<p>They went into his room and a few seconds later the girl walked out quickly. Turns out they walked in on our cat licking the peanut butter out of it and it totally grossed both of them out. I did not expect this but it made it more hilarious, looking back.</p>\n\n<p>My roommate was pretty upset. For him to believe it was peanut butter, I had to willingly take a whiff out of the “stain” with no disgust on my face, then he hesitantly tested it out. We agreed no more pranks after that, apparently he really liked that girl.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625335161.0, "created_utc": 1625335161.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 2, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xx0ca", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xx0ca", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xbjmo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xx0ca/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1913, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1913, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "AG-freeflyer"}]	ocx94s	ThaneOfCawdorrr	reddit
Satan wants to know if you still accept apprentices	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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Is he now outsourcing or asking for a 'friend'? 😂	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say "my god is that shit on the wall?" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go "yep that's shit alright". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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Another one for my collection of "shit I'll do that makes people think I'm insane."	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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alright\". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "bigdave41", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8jy1p72", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say \"my god is that shit on the wall?\" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go \"yep that's shit alright\". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say "my god is that shit on the wall?" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go "yep that's shit alright". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625332295.0, "created_utc": 1625332295.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xrh0n", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xrh0n", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xbjmo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xrh0n/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1932, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1932, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "bigdave41"}]	ocx94s	Purple-Location-2565	reddit
Vanilla pudding in an emptied out mayo jar	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. 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Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "bigdave41", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8jy1p72", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say \"my god is that shit on the wall?\" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go \"yep that's shit alright\". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say "my god is that shit on the wall?" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go "yep that's shit alright". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625332295.0, "created_utc": 1625332295.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xrh0n", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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I did kind of the same thing with unshelled peanut m&ms. Piles of them here and there. It appeared to our 5yo that the Easter bunny was real, untrained & pooped chocolate. I like to amuse myself. I have no other reasonable excuse.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "bigdave41", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8jy1p72", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say \"my god is that shit on the wall?\" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go \"yep that's shit alright\". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say "my god is that shit on the wall?" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go "yep that's shit alright". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625332295.0, "created_utc": 1625332295.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xrh0n", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xrh0n", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xbjmo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xrh0n/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1932, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1932, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "bigdave41"}]	ocx94s	TheHobbyWaitress	reddit
Your grandfather is genius	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "bigdave41", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8jy1p72", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say \"my god is that shit on the wall?\" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go \"yep that's shit alright\". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say "my god is that shit on the wall?" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go "yep that's shit alright". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625332295.0, "created_utc": 1625332295.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xrh0n", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xrh0n", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xbjmo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xrh0n/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1932, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1932, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "bigdave41"}]	ocx94s	hallomakker	reddit
Fucking legend	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "bigdave41", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8jy1p72", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say \"my god is that shit on the wall?\" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go \"yep that's shit alright\". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My grandad would do this with gingerbread biscuits that apparently look convincingly like shit if you wet them and smear them on a wall - someone would say "my god is that shit on the wall?" then he'd wipe some on his finger, taste it and go "yep that's shit alright". Made one guy vomit on the spot apparently.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625332295.0, "created_utc": 1625332295.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xrh0n", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xrh0n", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xbjmo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xrh0n/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1932, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1932, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "bigdave41"}]	ocx94s	jorydale	reddit
This comment is disgustingly awesome. I love it.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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So is the username..."u/madmaxturbator" is a fucking gloriously terrifying username. Conjurs images of maniacal post apocalyptic masturbation with sand and rubbing alcohol. I approve.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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"subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 6325, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}, {"content": "But it’s just Nutella!\n\nSo next time you find an underwear with stains, just lick it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "madmaxturbator", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": 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I love it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CJsopinion", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_25c9qedo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This comment is disgustingly awesome. I love it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This comment is disgustingly awesome. I love it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625325259.0, "created_utc": 1625325259.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xdwmw", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xdwmw", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xbjmo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xdwmw/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 2180, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 2180, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "CJsopinion"}]	ocx94s	Muffin_Pillager	reddit
Not disgusting. Just delicious and awesome	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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"subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 6325, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}, {"content": "But it’s just Nutella!\n\nSo next time you find an underwear with stains, just lick it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "madmaxturbator", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_pg60o", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": true, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "But it’s just Nutella!\n\nSo next time you find an underwear with stains, just lick it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>But it’s just Nutella!</p>\n\n<p>So next time you find an underwear with stains, just lick it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625323994.0, "created_utc": 1625323994.0, "depth": 4, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xbjmo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": 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"report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 4699, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 4699, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "madmaxturbator"}, {"content": "This comment is disgustingly awesome. I love it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CJsopinion", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_25c9qedo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This comment is disgustingly awesome. I love it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This comment is disgustingly awesome. I love it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625325259.0, "created_utc": 1625325259.0, "depth": 5, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xdwmw", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xdwmw", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xbjmo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xdwmw/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 2180, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 2180, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "CJsopinion"}]	ocx94s	rudbek-of-rudbek	reddit
There’s a German proverb: if it looks like shit, smells like shit and tastes like shit then it probably is shit	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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Do you not have ducks down there in Germany?	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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You’re deep mate, but you definitely got a chuckle outta me! 👍🏾😬	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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The thing about shit is it never tastes as good as it smells.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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Thank you for the prank that I am going to pull on my husband now.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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Thank you for making me spit out my soda all over my phone. OMG, that's evil.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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I just want to thank you for help me with my diet. After reading this, I would eat nutella.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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"subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 6325, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}, {"content": "But it’s just Nutella!\n\nSo next time you find an underwear with stains, just lick it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "madmaxturbator", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": 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Don’t underestimate how grotesque people can be. When I was 18 I lived with 4 other girls…. The one girl (22f) used to take my underwear, wear them, and then put them back in my room in my dirty clothes (she didn’t like to do laundry and would run out). Needless to say when I discovered this, I started locking my door every time I left. NTA OP- teenagers typically want privacy anyways. Please continue sticking up for your daughter & hopefully your wife comes to her senses since it sounds like she’s being a real ass right now. Your daughter will remember forever that dad has got her back, no matter what!	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x71t5", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x5flo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x71t5/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 6325, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 6325, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}]	ocx94s	CatsRuleHoomansDrool	reddit
Tea stains cloth a lovely shade of yellowissh brown	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}, {"content": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Lol, return underwear with stains? Man, I'd never mess with you.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321542.0, "created_utc": 1625321542.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x71t5", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x71t5", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x5flo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x71t5/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 6325, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 6325, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}]	ocx94s	Nightstone42	reddit
Ah see I’d agree with you here, but they are excusing this behavior because they are “teenage girls” and this is “what teenage girls do.” They would say it’s not the same thing if OP did it or gave them his wife’s make up. Idk why but they make up kit makes me irrationally angry. I hope someone replaces that for her. Also, when the BIL said it’s “just like the $15 kit from Walmart” why doesn’t he get a couple of those for his girls? And if they have them, ask him why he’s okay with them taking hers if they are the same thing? NTA. Keep the lock on the door.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}, {"content": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "huskergirl-86", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_yeajq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Bonus if OP goes into Sammy's room to borrow things without asking. Underwear, an expensive watch or something. Returning it with visible wear and tear. Nutella would be my friend for his favorite pants.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320641.0, "created_utc": 1625320641.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5flo", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5flo", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wz5w4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5flo/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 11921, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 11921, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "huskergirl-86"}]	ocx94s	UDontKnowMe__206	reddit
Exactly this! Op is def NTA. The twins are rude as hell. Sammy trying to justify and push blame onto Zoey is unforgivable. He should be teaching his twins to respect others belonging instead of shifting blame. Zoey should have the right to feel safe and protected in her own HOME.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}]	ocx94s	Ok-Bad-14	reddit
Also sharing makeup is unhygienic. Bacteria city. So they basically ruined Zoe’s makeup, not borrowed. The mom should understand this and want to prevent her daughter from waking up with a face full of cold sores or styes.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}]	ocx94s	drouoa	reddit
100% Using another person's things without permission is not borrowing - it's stealing. OP, NTA. I'd be furious.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}]	ocx94s	pipestream	reddit
OP should lend his daughter his wife's makeup, then when your nieces steal it and return it in horrible shape, give it back to your wife with the expectation that using other people's things, and ruining it is perfectly fine. That will open up the discussion as to why is it not ok for her own belongings when it's happening to her daughter. It doesn't matter if it's $15 dollars or $120 dollars, touching other people's things without permission is stealing. But, I feel this on a spiritual level. So I'm gonna rant about it. This is a serious discussion about boundaries. If a person, especially a young woman, cannot feel comfortable setting boundaries at home, how the hell are they gonna grow up feeling comfortable setting boundaries with others when they are in hard pressed situations when they are older? I get that some people have relationships that will allow them to take their friends things comfortably, but if everyone involved is not comfortable, then it is stealing, and returning it in bad shape is vandalism. The uncle telling OP he shouldn't be allowing his own daughter to buy makeup WITH HER OWN MONEY, he is crossing a boundary. She is your daughter and teaching your daughter to save up and buy nice things is a great way for her to take pride in her hard work. Allowing other people to step in and destroy the things she earned teaches a lesson that says her hard work doesn't matter. The uncle should either pay for the makeup his daughters ruined, or have a serious discussion with his daughters about respecting boundaries. And OP's wife is completely supporting this behaviour of theft and vandalism. She should be the one to pay for it with her own makeup and her own laptop and her own belongings. If you don't set boundaries at home, then that teaches a lesson that says boundaries do not matter. I believe it's important to not only set the expectation that taking, and ruining other people's belongings is wrong, but to do it in a way that sets an example to your daughter that it is important for her to stand up for herself, and that she needs to take pride in owning the things she worked so hard for.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. 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He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}]	ocx94s	meservyjon	reddit
When my sister was in high school and used to borrow my dad's flannel shirts without asking, and sneak them out of the house in her backpack so no one would know. My dad finally had enough, put on one of her baby Ts, and went to her school, walked into her class, and demanded his shirt back.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Featherymorons", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-f8a6-11e8-a46f-0e06b36127fc", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Aficionado [16]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_4oqinkad", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I love this idea. NTA OP - you have your daughters back and totally get her need for privacy and autonomy over her stuff. I’m disgusted that her own mother isn’t more supportive. Please lend some mothers makeup to the twins, because obviously it’s what girls do, isn’t it? They love to borrow and use each other’s stuff. Without asking. Not.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316785.0, "created_utc": 1625316785.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wz5w4", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wz5w4", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wz5w4/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 19659, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 19659, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Featherymorons"}]	ocx94s	BoozeIsTherapyRight	reddit
“Your daughters don’t need to be using expensive adult makeup… that they stole, not borrowed. Teach them some manners.”	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}]	ocx94s	human8ure	reddit
Lol. Wish Id thought of that!	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}]	ocx94s	Stoat__King	reddit
For all of us please don’t back down. The asshole move is redirecting b.s. which is what sammie and his daughters are doing. Even blood sisters beat each other over going through one another’s stuff	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}]	ocx94s	jarmstrong2485	reddit
This is a great idea. Invite your nieces to borrow your wife’s makeup and clothes. Invite yourself to borrow your BIL’s stuff. Then see how much they like “sharing.” NTA	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}]	ocx94s	NA	reddit
NTA Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}]	ocx94s	amyhenderson_	reddit
They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}]	ocx94s	Splatterfilm	reddit
Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}]	ocx94s	amyhenderson_	reddit
the way the OP described how the colors were ruined i can take a pretty good guess it was probably a face or lip palette (most likely cream) because eyeshadow would be an easy fix. if it is cream (which is probably is) there’s no fixing those colors once you mix them in the palette. EDIT: i’m pretty positive it’s a lip palette or some sort of cream pro palette from MAC. either way VERY expensive and high quality product that i wouldn’t even touch with the decent makeup skills i have as an adult.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320200.0, "created_utc": 1625320200.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4nxv", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4nxv", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x4214", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4nxv/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 2453, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 2453, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}]	ocx94s	AromaticPersimmon0	reddit
Absolutely. I LOVE makeup and Mac isn't cheap. Mixing colors in the palette pans doesn't even make sense unless you're a two year old who got into mommy's stuff or a total amateur. At 18, that was definitely some mean girl shit.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320200.0, "created_utc": 1625320200.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4nxv", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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a lip palette or some sort of cream pro palette from MAC. either way VERY expensive and high quality product that i wouldn’t even touch with the decent makeup skills i have as an adult.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>the way the OP described how the colors were ruined i can take a pretty good guess it was probably a face or lip palette (most likely cream) because eyeshadow would be an easy fix. if it is cream (which is probably is) there’s no fixing those colors once you mix them in the palette.</p>\n\n<p>EDIT: i’m pretty positive it’s a lip palette or some sort of cream pro palette from MAC. either way VERY expensive and high quality product that i wouldn’t even touch with the decent makeup skills i have as an adult.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, 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Good point - I see palette and think eyeshadow, but yeah … I even own more than one non-eye palette, I just assumed! lol Still gross using anyone’s makeup without sanitizing it which I doubt the cousins did - I may share a powder blush or powder highlighter with my sister or a friend (with their own clean brushes), but even cream face products or any lip products are not shareable IMO. Or Zoey may not know how to fix a powder product that got messed up - if it is powder, maybe some YouTube videos could help her fix it? Or it’s just ruined in her eyes even if it is fixable because she saved up and bought something nice for herself and her cousins thoughtlessly gunked it up.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320200.0, "created_utc": 1625320200.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4nxv", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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a lip palette or some sort of cream pro palette from MAC. either way VERY expensive and high quality product that i wouldn’t even touch with the decent makeup skills i have as an adult.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>the way the OP described how the colors were ruined i can take a pretty good guess it was probably a face or lip palette (most likely cream) because eyeshadow would be an easy fix. if it is cream (which is probably is) there’s no fixing those colors once you mix them in the palette.</p>\n\n<p>EDIT: i’m pretty positive it’s a lip palette or some sort of cream pro palette from MAC. either way VERY expensive and high quality product that i wouldn’t even touch with the decent makeup skills i have as an adult.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, 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It sounds like the Pro Palette Paintstick to me, which is a palette of creams that you could completely fuck up. :(	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320200.0, "created_utc": 1625320200.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4nxv", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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a lip palette or some sort of cream pro palette from MAC. either way VERY expensive and high quality product that i wouldn’t even touch with the decent makeup skills i have as an adult.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>the way the OP described how the colors were ruined i can take a pretty good guess it was probably a face or lip palette (most likely cream) because eyeshadow would be an easy fix. if it is cream (which is probably is) there’s no fixing those colors once you mix them in the palette.</p>\n\n<p>EDIT: i’m pretty positive it’s a lip palette or some sort of cream pro palette from MAC. either way VERY expensive and high quality product that i wouldn’t even touch with the decent makeup skills i have as an adult.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, 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Or Zoey may not know how to fix a powder product that got messed up - if it is powder, maybe some YouTube videos could help her fix it? Or it’s just ruined in her eyes even if it is fixable because she saved up and bought something nice for herself and her cousins thoughtlessly gunked it up.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Good point - I see palette and think eyeshadow, but yeah … I even own more than one non-eye palette, I just assumed! lol Still gross using anyone’s makeup without sanitizing it which I doubt the cousins did - I may share a powder blush or powder highlighter with my sister or a friend (with their own clean brushes), but even cream face products or any lip products are not shareable IMO. Or Zoey may not know how to fix a powder product that got messed up - if it is powder, maybe some YouTube videos could help her fix it? Or it’s just ruined in her eyes even if it is fixable because she saved up and bought something nice for herself and her cousins thoughtlessly gunked it up.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Good point - I see palette and think eyeshadow, but yeah … I even own more than one non-eye palette, I just assumed! lol Still gross using anyone’s makeup without sanitizing it which I doubt the cousins did - I may share a powder blush or powder highlighter with my sister or a friend (with their own clean brushes), but even cream face products or any lip products are not shareable IMO. Or Zoey may not know how to fix a powder product that got messed up - if it is powder, maybe some YouTube videos could help her fix it? Or it’s just ruined in her eyes even if it is fixable because she saved up and bought something nice for herself and her cousins thoughtlessly gunked it up.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625327970.0, "created_utc": 1625327970.0, "depth": 4, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xj1wm", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xj1wm", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3xgtnu", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xj1wm/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 208, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 208, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}]	ocx94s	scarlettsarcasm	reddit
I’m pretty sure it’s literally [this.](https://www.maccosmetics.com/product/21085/60269/products/makeup/pro-products/all-pro/pro-palette-paintstick-x-12)	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320200.0, "created_utc": 1625320200.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4nxv", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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a lip palette or some sort of cream pro palette from MAC. either way VERY expensive and high quality product that i wouldn’t even touch with the decent makeup skills i have as an adult.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>the way the OP described how the colors were ruined i can take a pretty good guess it was probably a face or lip palette (most likely cream) because eyeshadow would be an easy fix. if it is cream (which is probably is) there’s no fixing those colors once you mix them in the palette.</p>\n\n<p>EDIT: i’m pretty positive it’s a lip palette or some sort of cream pro palette from MAC. either way VERY expensive and high quality product that i wouldn’t even touch with the decent makeup skills i have as an adult.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, 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I was told by my dermatologist not to share any makeup. Not even foundation.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320200.0, "created_utc": 1625320200.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4nxv", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4nxv", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x4214", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4nxv/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 2453, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 2453, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}]	ocx94s	WildflowerSunrise	reddit
MAC has a generous return/exchange policy for their items from what I heard. I hope OP takes advantage of this and helps his daughter replace her damaged items with a fresh new palette.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Oh, 100% agreed. Plus, it’s disgusting - do NOT share eye makeup with other people! Gah! Bet they are also using the same brushes, not cleaning them - gross. It’s not just about taking something Zoey saved up for and destroying it, they could have given Zooey an eye infection.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320200.0, "created_utc": 1625320200.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4nxv", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4nxv", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x4214", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4nxv/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 2453, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 2453, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}]	ocx94s	CircadianChai	reddit
They’re probably jealous and acting out methinks	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}]	ocx94s	buttercupbeuaty	reddit
Seeing as they are 1: 18 and 2: living with their homeless father after the divorce, I'm betting their own mother has decided she wants nothing further to do with them.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": 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And honestly, with how the BIL and the 2 18 year olds act, I don't blame her in the least.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": 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"r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "They’re probably jealous and acting out methinks", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "buttercupbeuaty", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddca-f967-11e8-9b44-0e5dff284156", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Enthusiast [5]", "author_flair_text_color": 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Yeah seriously, 10 months is pushing it already, time for the three amigos to kick rocks	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": 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Actually, it's 4 amigos, since OP's wife seems so intent on siding with her brother.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": 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"Three amigos to kick rocks". Can i marry you please?	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": 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"r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "They’re probably jealous and acting out methinks", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "buttercupbeuaty", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddca-f967-11e8-9b44-0e5dff284156", "author_flair_text": "Asshole Enthusiast [5]", "author_flair_text_color": 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You forget 3: Their own family refused to take them in. I'm guessing there's a good reason for that.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": 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For sure. I’m 18 and I hardly use makeup - I don’t even own a palette. Even I know that mixing shades and shit like that is like, the number one thing not to do lol	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": 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Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}]	ocx94s	Jeb764	reddit
Nothing low key about it.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jeb764", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3szph1w1", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625322963.0, "created_utc": 1625322963.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x9nn1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x9nn1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x4214", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x9nn1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 388, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 388, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Jeb764"}]	ocx94s	Splatterfilm	reddit
Her brother probably bullied her her whole life & she just rolls over and takes it. The twin apples probably didn't fall far from the tree.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jeb764", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3szph1w1", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625322963.0, "created_utc": 1625322963.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x9nn1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x9nn1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x4214", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x9nn1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 388, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 388, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Jeb764"}]	ocx94s	ccmitch84	reddit
If the adults don't notice, it's because they willfully don't want to or are completely stupid. I'm going with the former.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}, {"content": "Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Jeb764", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3szph1w1", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Seriously I was just thinking that this sounds like low key bullying. Just enough bullying that the “adults” don’t notice. The fact that your wife is going along with it it awful.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625322963.0, "created_utc": 1625322963.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x9nn1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x9nn1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x4214", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x9nn1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 388, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 388, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Jeb764"}]	ocx94s	NA	reddit
I hadn’t thought of that. Wow! I can totally see this now. And they are 18! Adults who should and probably do know better!	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}]	ocx94s	Contrariwisey	reddit
I'd be willing to bet mom allows this because the brother bullied her her whole life so she just rolls over and takes it, and his daughters are probably bullies as well.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}]	ocx94s	ccmitch84	reddit
It's a teenage 'horse's head equivalent' of forcing an issue.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}]	ocx94s	hamishjoy	reddit
Holy shit I missed that bit!! I thought the twins were much younger by how immature they were acting. They are older and purposefully ruining her things!	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}]	ocx94s	TyPo_1130	reddit
18?!? Too old to be going into someone’s room uninvited wtf	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}, {"content": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Splatterfilm", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_mld4z", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They are 18; this is 100% vindictive. Mixing and destroying a new palette and leaving it on Zoey’s BED screams of malice.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319858.0, "created_utc": 1625319858.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x4214", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x4214", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wy7le", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x4214/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5202, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5202, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Splatterfilm"}]	ocx94s	elzibet	reddit
I don't get how anyone could be upset about someone having a lock for their own room. The only reason to be upset is if they are stealing or taking advantage of her in some way, nothing about that is right.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}]	ocx94s	JuicyJay	reddit
Sounds like there’s a good reason Sammy’s wife kicked her shit head husband and daughters to the curb	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "amyhenderson_", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7ni0ll7", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nYour daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. \n\nGood for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>Your daughter doesn’t feel like she has any privacy or respect in her own home and you gave her a lock to give her back her privacy. You tried talking to your wife, your BiL and your nieces and that got you nowhere - if your daughter has to accept 3 additional adults living in her home, they need to accept her very reasonable boundaries of not taking and ruining her things. </p>\n\n<p>Good for you showing your daughter you respect and support her.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316126.0, "created_utc": 1625316126.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wy7le", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wy7le", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wy7le/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8672, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8672, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "amyhenderson_"}]	ocx94s	PenilePhrenology	reddit
NTA >my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" [...quoted text...] His daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT. His daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again. You are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it. ^(Also, funny how it went from "my daughters aren't thieves" to "my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(".)	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}]	ocx94s	NA	reddit
I have no patience for people like this. I flat out would have told their parents “Borrowing without permission is theft. Your daughters are thieves. Locks are used to protect against thieves. The lock stays.”	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n[...quoted text...]\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff"</p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>His daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.</p>\n\n<p>His daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.</p>\n\n<p>You are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.</p>\n\n<p><sup>Also, funny how it went from "my daughters aren't thieves" to "my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(".</sup></p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316666.0, "created_utc": 1625316666.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625317127.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyznp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyznp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyznp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5908, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5908, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}]	ocx94s	OkExtension944	reddit
They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n[...quoted text...]\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff"</p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>His daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.</p>\n\n<p>His daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.</p>\n\n<p>You are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.</p>\n\n<p><sup>Also, funny how it went from "my daughters aren't thieves" to "my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(".</sup></p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316666.0, "created_utc": 1625316666.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625317127.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyznp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyznp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyznp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5908, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5908, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}]	ocx94s	calling_water	reddit
Thieving locusts perhaps?	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n[...quoted text...]\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff"</p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>His daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.</p>\n\n<p>His daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.</p>\n\n<p>You are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.</p>\n\n<p><sup>Also, funny how it went from "my daughters aren't thieves" to "my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(".</sup></p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316666.0, "created_utc": 1625316666.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625317127.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyznp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyznp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyznp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5908, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5908, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}, {"content": "They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "calling_water", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [4]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_9if0qipq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320817.0, "created_utc": 1625320817.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5qie", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5qie", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyznp", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5qie/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1871, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1871, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "calling_water"}]	ocx94s	Stoat__King	reddit
Thieving parasite locusts? 🤔 Where is the twins mother in this? This is theft and destruction of property. Don't let your wife and uncle and cousins bully your daughter, please. Op is an awesome dad. I'm glad Zoe has at least one parent in her corner. 4 adults behaving childishly. No wonder the rest of the family don't want to take them. NTA	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n[...quoted text...]\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff"</p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>His daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.</p>\n\n<p>His daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.</p>\n\n<p>You are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.</p>\n\n<p><sup>Also, funny how it went from "my daughters aren't thieves" to "my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(".</sup></p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316666.0, "created_utc": 1625316666.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625317127.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyznp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyznp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyznp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5908, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5908, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}, {"content": "They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "calling_water", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [4]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_9if0qipq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320817.0, "created_utc": 1625320817.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5qie", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, 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Not surprising giving their sponging father. Great parenting. No wonder he’s divorced.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n[...quoted text...]\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff"</p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>His daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.</p>\n\n<p>His daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.</p>\n\n<p>You are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.</p>\n\n<p><sup>Also, funny how it went from "my daughters aren't thieves" to "my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(".</sup></p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316666.0, "created_utc": 1625316666.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625317127.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyznp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyznp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyznp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5908, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5908, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}, {"content": "They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "calling_water", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [4]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_9if0qipq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320817.0, "created_utc": 1625320817.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5qie", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5qie", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyznp", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5qie/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1871, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1871, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "calling_water"}]	ocx94s	NA	reddit
It won’t be the last divorce in the family, if OP’s wife won’t decide to defend her daughter from her rapacious nieces and brother.	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n[...quoted text...]\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff"</p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>His daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.</p>\n\n<p>His daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.</p>\n\n<p>You are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.</p>\n\n<p><sup>Also, funny how it went from "my daughters aren't thieves" to "my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(".</sup></p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316666.0, "created_utc": 1625316666.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625317127.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyznp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyznp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyznp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5908, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5908, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}, {"content": "They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "calling_water", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [4]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_9if0qipq", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>They’re not thieves; they’re beyond thieves. They’re locusts. Helping themselves to whatever they can grab and not an ounce of gratitude.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320817.0, "created_utc": 1625320817.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x5qie", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x5qie", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyznp", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x5qie/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1871, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1871, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "calling_water"}, {"content": "Not surprising giving their sponging father. Great parenting. No wonder he’s divorced.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Not surprising giving their sponging father. Great parenting. No wonder he’s divorced.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Not surprising giving their sponging father. Great parenting. No wonder he’s divorced.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625324743.0, "created_utc": 1625324743.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xcxqc", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xcxqc", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x5qie", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xcxqc/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 14, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 14, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}]	ocx94s	calling_water	reddit
And the major difference is THEY ARE ADULTS. Zoey is a MINOR. So this could be classified as abuse on a minor. I don't know what the laws are in Quebec if that is where you are, but I would investigate this OP! u/OnlyInQuebec9	[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n[...quoted text...]\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "NA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": null, "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": null, "author_fullname": null, "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": null, "author_premium": null, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\n>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\"\n\nHis daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.\n\nHis daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.\n\nYou are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.\n\n^(Also, funny how it went from \"my daughters aren't thieves\" to \"my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(\".)", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff"</p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>His daughthers are in fact thieves because there's a thin line in between stealing and borrowing and that is our bestie CONSENT.</p>\n\n<p>His daughters don't ask yours for permission on whether they can take something from her or not. They help themselves into her room, into her cabinets/closet, take whatever they feel entilted to, use it however they want even if they drestroy it and then IF SO your daughter might see the object they stole from her again.</p>\n\n<p>You are being an amazing parent and Zoey will forever be grateful for having her back the way a parent should. Whereas, your wife... I don't know if it's the fact that those are her brother's daughters or if she just doesn't care about people getting through her daguther at whatever cost just to steal her property and damage it.</p>\n\n<p><sup>Also, funny how it went from "my daughters aren't thieves" to "my daughters just wanted to spend time with yours and now they aren't allowed to do so :(".</sup></p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316666.0, "created_utc": 1625316666.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625317127.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyznp", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyznp", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyznp/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5908, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5908, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "NA"}]	ocx94s	Special-Parsnip9057	reddit

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