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Where is she at now with the process with everything? Update if available. Thank you.
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Blaire White
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I hope Dave Chappelle is able to learn from his mistakes and also continue to bring up this important issue surrounding how there is white privileged in minority groups
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Jessie Gender
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Glad your encounter with that insecure idiot turned out safe in the end. Everyone has to be careful who they let in to their life whether trans, cis or whatever.
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Maya Henry
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Well you look great Kat... I'm not really sure to take offense to the whole white guy stick. I'm white I've never gotten any kind of hand out in my lifetime I live pretty much bottom of the barrel. But then again I grew up in Compton California as a white guy... Like I had any choice to be born White, not something I asked for humm honestly don't think that anyone be born any particular color. But if I did have a wish before I was born that would be to be born with lots and lots of money and have everyone love you. I don't got it out for anybody we're all here not by choice I don't hold anyone in particular for anything. When you keep putting a label on it there are a lot of people in control that would like to keep us all separated and WAR'ing with each... That's how the people in power stay in power. I personally don't view any race in any particular color race or gender people are people still put on one pant leg at a time, everyone still bleeds the same color, sweats the same color, and takes a s*** all the same way. We're all human beings here... You seem to be a bright and very intelligent woman. I love all colors even if I don't get it in return.
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Kat Blaque
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I think saying the t slur or other slurs is just wrong in general, still I think this is a terrible controversy, and I feel bad for Robbie.
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CopsHateMoe
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Damnnn he really did that with his door open
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Noahfinnce
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I remember hearing this talked about at cons. Glad to hear this in more detail. This stuff is crazy.
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CuppaJoey
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Dude did you even lift weights at all you made no gains whatsoever in three years WOW!! bunk gear man
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Skylar Kergil (skylarkeleven)
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You don’t need to try to be more beautiful
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Maya Henry
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Blaire, I don't know if you realize, but your tone of voice is so much softer and maternal in this video. It makes it obvious how much you care about kids like Elle❤
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Blaire White
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You should play around and create an opening for this! I'm so happy and excited for the both of you!!!!!! <3<3<3<3<3
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Jari Jones
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Happy birthday
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Chandler N Wilson
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Yo, these people would really hate Dante's Inferno
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Jessie Gender
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Special thanks to Elle for being so honest and telling her story.. What do you guys wanna see on my channel next?
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Blaire White
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Ryan you have a beautiful soul 🌷from Sarah in Australia ">#Lgbt pride
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Ryan Cassata
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I do think this is an interesting discussion to have, not necessarily just about Cave Town. It's been a bit of a thing recently with a more high profile case of someone being "forced to come out" because they were being "cancelled". I think "cancel culture" is now being thrown out whenever someone in the public eye doesn't like that they're being held accountable for their actions, yes minority creators face greater backlash but it doesn't mean that people who no longer want to support someone are invalid. When it comes to closeted queer people in particular I think the narrative that they're being forced out of the closet is a bit unfair. Essentially the way I see it is that if someone, as a person in the public eye, chooses to remain in the closet they cannot expect to get away with doing things that would be problematic if they were cis-het. The issue arises in my eyes in the 'having their cake and eating it too' attitude I've seen quite a lot wherein creators want to remain in the closet and also to be absolved from criticism that arises when they do something that a cis-het person can't really do without being problematic. In this case, it's an easy example to illustrate my point as using the T slur is excusable if he is trans however he is in the closet and so people have no choice but to believe him when he presents himself as cis-het. If people in the public eye choose to remain in the closet then that is their right, but when they do things that are problematic for a cis-het creator to do they face very warranted and reasonable backlash (for the most part, some of it is too far but honestly those are fringe weirdos) and seem to resent being held to account. The other case I have in mind is Kit Connor, and whilst the social media frenzy was out of line and over the top I do think that it is valid for people who chose not to support his career in the light that he was remaining in the closet and as far as anyone knew was cis-het. If they don't want to support a cis-het actor profiting off of gay roles and being the only member of a mainly gay cast to reach that level of international stardom then that's very valid. Creators can choose to remain in the closet and deal with the fact that they will be held accountable as if they were cis-het as long as that's what they imply they are. Or they can choose to come out and be able to do things that are now acceptable for queer people to do but not cis-het people. But they can't have both. They can't stay in the middle ground wanting the unwavering support of the queer community just being taken on their word that it's in good faith. Again, in this case people do have a right to choose not to support a creator if they do appear to be profiting off of trans experiences whilst not being trans. The context of them later being revealed as trans may excuse their actions, but it doesn't mean people were invalid for having an issue with it when they did not have that context. Creators can simply choose not to engage with queer issues in this way if they want to remain in the closet, but they can't expect special treatment based on context that they aren't willing to divulge. This attitude only works when the creator does later come out as queer, because if it turns out they weren't queer the whole time then their actions were a problem. Are we now disallowed from holding people accountable for their actions just in case it turns out that they had an excuse later on? I don't think that's reasonable.
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CopsHateMoe
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I like new and old Noah. You have so much spirit. I'm not transphobic, but never really saw myself interacting with a ftm, or mtf person. But just recently watching some of ur vids. Its kind of changed me. And people who are transphobic, should watch ur stuff, it digs deep sometimes. And that's good, posting awfully late, but seeing u and ur bf's vids are fun to watch. And just keep it up, u have many fans, (me being one of them now). Stay healthy, and again just keep this up, from my pov at least. Seems like ur doing pretty good.
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Noahfinnce
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I love my Carl junior also. I did not bury my little man but yet he has become a part of my entire organ and I love both equally, yet as one. No one would understand this but my trans brothers and I am so thankful for my brothers. Life is good, and sex better!!
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FinnTheInfinncible (Finlay Games)
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A year after you released this video I had the courage to come out. A year and a half after I started T. I have been on T for four years. I have top surgery in two days. Thank you for helping me hold out. Thank you for being Miles
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Miles McKenna (MilesChronicles)
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It’s funny that they claim that they’re a progressive company where they’re racially diverse and accept all types of people, but they treat them like money making machines, where they don’t care about them. It’s also funny that they treat their employees like expendable trash and claim they can replace them, but they don’t like it when their best employees leave them to make their own content and beg for them to return. What a funny hypocritical world we live in.
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Kat Blaque
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there was a definite trend where whenever someone on tumblr find out their post was linked by buzzbeed (never BY buzzfeed btw) to edit the post to say BUZZFEED PAY ME ROYALTIES bc buzzfeed wasn't even screenshotting lol
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Kat Blaque
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Alternate title: calling my mom saying I'm delusional.
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Ash Hardell
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You should take eye rolling lessons from my daughter lol!! I forget what the context of the conversation was, and I dont believe it was meant to be particularly disrespectful as we both laughed at her, but once my daughter rolled her eyes so hard at our martial arts instructor that im pretty sure i heard them rolling lol! Pretty sure they rolled all the way back in her head too lol
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Sam Collins
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6:23 was so sad.😭
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Kevin Ninh (FlawlessKevin)
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Of every group in the US, people who call themselves trans have the LOWEST chance being murdered, and this is by a gigantic margin.
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Jackson Bird
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Oh my. Buck they rarely ever talk about vaginal atrophy to menopausal women. Or gals with PCOS. Or people like me with intersex chimeras. It’s like they either don’t know or don’t care. But estrogen vaginal cream if you have a vagina and have any of the above mentioned issues including being Transsexual you should use estrogen cream in that space to keep the lining of the vagina healthy. I personally don’t make estrogen at all so I take a small amount of cream and a pill for that since my ovotesties don’t do the estrogen thing. That almost killed me with sepsis. Cervix already poorly made wasn’t getting any estrogen. The gynecologist should stay on top of that. If not get it all removed. Eventually cancer did get it all taken out straight away. So you have to pay that attention.
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Buck Angel
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Thank you! For uniting international cultures over what an abomination you are! YWNBARW
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Kevin Ninh (FlawlessKevin)
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(I know I’m a bit late but) KT tape should be waterproof, it’s meant to stay on for days which means it’s made to be able to shower in. It also shouldn’t fall off if you move too much since it’s made to keep muscles together and therefore pulled tight when applied. It also shouldn’t take skin off with it since it’s meant to be applied to directly to skin and even on the pectoral muscle (however certain people might be allergic to the adhesive and that could happen, and they have hypoallergenic tape but it’s not as sticky) so I assume they probably meant the areola skin. I have no experience binding with kt but I put it on my moms arms, which are a little fatty like breast, and my knees. The biggest thing that can help the tape stay on is if you don’t stretch the ends. You’re supposed to pull it tight (at least during normal use) but on the first and last inch or so don’t stretch it. Also make sure the area is clean. Once applied use the waxy paper you took off the adhesive to rub the top of the tape on your skin, this can help the adhesive stick to your skin. You might need multiple tapes, there are some wide kt tapes but it’s harder to find. Try to experiment placing/pulling it at different directions or angles. And, like you mentioned, put something over your nipple first, I would recommend a bandaid or pasties since those are things commonly used by people who are gonna wear a tight shirt with no bra and such. But, like I said, I’ve never binded with KT tape so don’t take my word as gospel
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Jackson Miloh (JacksJourney)
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I'm trying to understand non-binary people. It's really confusing, but I'm getting there.
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Jake Edwards
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I can't afford my surgery, but I am happy that I am able to learn from You dude because I might be able to get it one day
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FinnTheInfinncible (Finlay Games)
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YOU CAN PISS IN THAT SHIT???
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Chase Ross (uppercaseCHASE1)
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Her voice is beautiful! Men's voices are beautiful
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Blaire White
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Your eyeliner is so fire Blaire, I wish I could learn how you do it!❤❤❤
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Blaire White
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When your dad and mum are shaggying , enjoying sex........you are in your room fighting how you will ever get an organism in your life, WHAT HAPPINESS ARE YOU HAVING NOW? ....WHAT ARE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN???? clearly you are not a MAN coz your dick was chopped off ... you are not A WOMAN coz you dont have a real vagina NO uterus!!!.... KEEP THIS MENTAL DISORDER DWARFISM IN THE WEST, TURN ALL YOUR BOYS INTO GIRLS DONT BRING TO AFRICA... we are waiting for you to TURN ALL MEN INTO TRANS we come and TAKE OVER your country and have all your women AND RULE THE WORLD!!!!!!.... SO ITS DECLASSIFIED!!
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Jazz Hennings
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It's always a topic that's talked about in terms of MTF, and i'n glad to have heard your story and perspective,.
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Ashton Colby
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youre doing important work, thanks for the mature approach to this one
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Jessie Gender
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So you were “not like the other girls” who love being oppressed and treated like crap? Aaawn how sweet! You just wanted to have all the freedom and safety that men enjoy, pose for photos without your shirt on while your stuck-up female friends just accept their inferior treatment in society? Go you, shame on all other females for being so in love with the oppression and violence they receive in society, you got it, DUDE!
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Skylar Kergil (skylarkeleven)
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Okay this is adorable and everyone disliking and leaving rude comments is just dumb.
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Milo Stewart
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This is so important, thank you for talking about this x
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Buck Angel
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Seeing this in 2020 thinking that’s a really fucked up mask
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Musing Moss (Luxander)
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The proposal was so sweet. The way she didn't expect it!
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Jamie Dodger (JammiDodger)
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I am a closeted transgender person (ftm) and watching these videos makes me have hope for the future. I wish to be myself, but it’s killing me to wait
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Ashton Colby
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Wow, pretty good on the body hair.
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Ashton Colby
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To those saying Becky isn’t a homophobe, her micro aggressions such as fetishizing gay couples and treating gay people as accessories to her life isn’t blatantly homophobic as the others but still is not okay. Hope y’all learn to recognize that treating LGBT+ in these ways is unacceptable since some couldn’t decipher why she’s problematic. Think of her as the liberal that would “vote Obama a third time” in Get Out. It’s the unintentional ignorance that makes it uncomfortable for gay people. Just because she’s nice doesn’t make the things she says okay.
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Kevin Ninh (FlawlessKevin)
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You looked 1000 times better as a male like so gorgeous! You ever think about going back? Why do people want to look like a fake Barbie doll?
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Eden The Doll
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did some of yall not understand that the Demi thing was a joke lmao
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Gigi Gorgeous
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U be who the heck u wanna be Jake like no matter what u identify as Ur still u and Ur not a different person I love both of u and living tht beard Alex xxx
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Jake Edwards
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We're wearing matching lipstick today!
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Kat Blaque
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People get the zero-depth surgery ("vulvoplasty") because it's less invasive, lower risks, cheaper, lower chances of certain complications. There's no canal so you can't have penetration meaning you can't dilate so obviously you don't have all the upkeep of a canal. I feel it's perhaps more popular with older males to get this, maybe at that age they care less about sex and worry more about their ability to do all the upkeep. All of it is bonkers IMO.
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Adea
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You look so much different today then in this video
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Adea
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This video paired with this song makes me proud to be a man and im not even trans
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Ty Turner
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And now he's a handsome dad! Amazing!!
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Aydian Dowling
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2,753
Did you have to workout a lot
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Ty Turner
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Tbh I think it would be hilarious going to a secondary school (I’m British) reunion provided… certain people weren’t there
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Jackson Bird
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Oh... I kinda came into this video anticipating that you were going to cover the song now to compare. Little disappointed that wasn't what happened. Hope you release a new cover of this soon!
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Noahfinnce
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Congrats on your new groinal belly button
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Adea
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You know, real patriotism. Not for an institution or a person, but an ideal. Why can't we be patriotic about peace and freedom? We should govern patriotism, not the other way around. I'm sick of flags and the national anthem and third grade "indoctrination" assemblies. It's all bullshit. We're being manipulated into loyalty to a government that doesn't give a shit about our interests. The next time someone tells me I'm unpatriotic for not saying the pledge of allegiance I'm going to secede from the union. My loyalties lie with the principles the government claims to stand for - NOT WITH THE GOVERNMENT. That is all.
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I am referring to this: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/04/22/us/politics/supreme-court-gay-transgender-employees.html I am gay, and I live in a state that specifically prohibits discrimination based on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity. I am also studying to be a teacher. If the Court decides to rule against LGBTQ individuals, are employees in states with statutes already in place still protected? Or would this "erase" the laws already put in place?
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In case you're still checking comments on this... I could get behind that, but my main concern is the indoctrination techniques used by our military. As I understand, their primary purpose is to make you into someone who follows orders. In a combat situation, that's necessary to keep things from going FUBAR. But in civilian life, critical thinking faculty and healthy skepticism are more desireable. However, you seem to have come through 4.5yrs perfectly capable of thinking, critizing, and disagreeing with the government. Did you join the Marines after high-school, or after college? Finally, do the Swiss and Israelis use the same techniques and intensity in their military indoctrination as we do?
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No, but I go off of that rule when determining what gender-set of pronouns or means of address to use when addressing others of unknown gender. Also, it is worth noting that in today's military, "Sir" is to be used regardless of gender. EDIT: Also, "Sir" **can** be a pronoun in the correct circumstances -- but that requires an individual whom has been knighted.
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Ron Paul said this: > Through perverse court decisions and years of cultural indoctrination, the elitist, secular Left has managed to convince many in our nation that religion must be driven from public view. The justification is always that someone, somewhere, might possibly be offended or feel uncomfortable living in the midst of a largely Christian society, so all must yield to the fragile sensibilities of the few. The ultimate goal of the anti-religious elites is to transform America into a completely secular nation, a nation that is legally and culturally biased against Christianity. No thank you. Revolutionary? Hardly. Obama isn't really revolutionary either....although he is at times a bit refreshing.
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> This is how it works, free market system are effective at getting things done. This is wrong. Unfortunately, you've been subjected to powerful indoctrination, so I won't be able to persuade you.
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From [the wiki article](http://enwp.org/Gender): > Gender, in common usage, refers to the differences between men and women. Encyclopædia Britannica notes that gender identity is "an individual's self-conception as being male or female, as distinguished from actual biological sex." Sounds like they use the term reasonably correctly.
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Religious indoctrination has no place in centers of learning. School should be about rational thought, logic, knowledge, and skills for the real world. School is not a place to train children to rely upon fairytales, mysticism and make-believe fantasies to solve problems and answer questions. If parents want to take their children to sunday school it should be their own choice, it is not a choice religious people should make on behalf of all parents.
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I grew up with my mother and grandmother (no father) in one household. We had a lot of problems because we weren't considered a "family." We ended up with similar issues with health insurance, health care, "parental rights", and many more. As such, fuck this "marriage" limitation. I support "households", no matter the composition.
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Didn't really need the WND source or the remarks about indoctrination. But it's an interesting story nonetheless.
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politics
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The check on the government is for parents to be involved in public schools. School boards, PTA, funding initiatives, etc. Once parents start believing disengagement is the answer, the schools turn to shit. Not that any of these parents are prepared to replace every facet of the education process. Anyway, don't most families have two working parents? Oh well, sucks to be poor. Classic tragedy of the commons situation. Anyway, let's just admit this is mostly about religious indoctrination. =(
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Try again: workers have gotten to used to seeing themselves primarily as consumers, and acted as though union representation is a service they buy. Unions aren't only about wages, just as consuming isn't just about price. But after a few decades of cultural indoctrination to strip away notions of public good, knowledge of labor history, understanding of international solidarity and so forth, American workers are reasonably content to sit back and complain about being ripped off by the unions they can't be bothered to support, even as the gap between rich and poor widens obscenely. It's amazing, even to one who watched it unravel. But it's not the fault of unions, and it wasn't inevitable.
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It doesn't matter. McCain could be revealed to be serial killer, but the MSM will not cover it. He is meant to secure the Presidency for the neocons, who are grooming Lieberman to take McCain place, once he can no longer physically continue on.
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I agree that the potential for good is immense and that good people rarely get any real power. Having said that, the long arc of human social development, horrible scars notwithstanding, has been progressive over all. I think it's safe to assume that trend will continue. It's a checkered road. Indeed. But I don't imagine it would ever work any other way. Moreover, honestly, I don't see why assume you wouldn't make your own decisions any less than you do now, that's if you consider cultural indoctrination from the cradle to the grave a real get setup for own decision making. Or a sound basis for the illusion that you do make your own decisions while soundly conforming to the dictates of the social unconscious, such has how to be a terrific consumer, which is by one example.
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> Why should I work 20% harder for 10% extra dollars? Because you get $1 extra dollar. If you don't want more money, don't work harder. Besides, if you *do* work harder, a greater percentage of that money will be disposable, so you can in turn invest in and let it make money for you, which is exactly what the rich do. Almost no one in the top 10% income makes their money purely or even mostly from their labor. It's from investment. (J.K. Rowling comes to mind as a notable exception.)
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**Spoilers...** Ok, so get this. This old rich dude picks up a hitch-hiker, takes him home, steals his clothes, tricks him into dressing up as a girl, makes porn of him without permission, all but kidnaps him, throws him off balance by playing back the porn, and then fast-talks him into slavery and a sex change. By stark fluke he picks a victim who likes it and doesn't panic. My congratulations to the both of them. But if he ever tried it again...
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Congratulations to Josie! The world is definitely becoming a better place for transgendered people. I wonder where she was born. In the article they mention that all of her documents were changed already. I have the proper gender on my DL, but the SSA doesn't like to change anything until you have a Dr.'s letter saying you had surgery. Some states wont even let you change your BC, and the ones that do have similar requirements to the SSA.
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I used to go to the Transcenter in Houston. Cristan is a great person and doing what that city needs. I really wish there were something like the center here in San Francisco. There are different support systems here but nothing like I had in Houston. *hugs* to all my friends at the center and congatulations to Cristan and the TFA.
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I think the top commenter that mentions the high number of intersex people is right on. People make assumptions of peoples sex based primarily on secondary sex characteristics. This means if you are early in transition or don't "pass" well bathrooms become a very scary place.
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I'm interested in the question regarding costs, as I haven't researched it myself. However, to answer your testosterone question, I believe it works rather like steroids. It will increase muscle mass, make you go bald and kill your testicles.
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I think that orientation change during transition is a matter of acceptance. As I read on a forum somewhere, "If you can be in denial about your gender, why not your orientation too?"
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transgender
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*snicker* Whenever I flip down to EVIL COOKIE MONSTER MALE VOICE for comedic effect, my boyfriends *cringe* and tell me to *never do that again*. I shift back to my usual feminine sound and giggle and promise not to. But I'm lying.
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transgender
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Wow.. thats really, I dont even have words for this.
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> She also has a gay friend who is vocally anti-trans (and anti-bi), and has made it clear that he thinks that I'm making a mistake. > > ... She has agreed to read what I send her, but she doesn't want things by transpeople, for bias purposes. It's rediculous that people accept it as okay for non-trans people to speak on behalf of trans people. Trans people are used in movies as one-dimensional plot devices only. Academics use trans people to further their careers, but only in a way that imposes their own views, rather than giving trans people much input. Whenever a privileged group tries to speak on behalf of a less privileged group (males speaking on behalf of females, white people speaking on behalf of black people), society recognizes that the speaker is likely to be misinformed or not fully aware of all the issues. Why not here too?
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I think that it is probably greater self acceptance and hormones. Before transition I had no interest in sex. After I met a girl and was interested in her and we got together. And then my hormone dosage changed (less estrogen) and I became a lot more horny. I had never felt that way pre transition. I've felt female orgasms as well. However after my dosage changed I was a little less interested in having them (The best way to describe it is that I became more interested in sex as a release from horniness rather than about orgasming)
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POTI = .... ? People of trans identity, or? Also, there, their, they're. >.< Am I missing the point of this blog post, or is there not one? What does it mean by "appropriation"? Is drag stealing the trans experience? Is it borrowing? Is it purchasing? Is it adopting? And of any of these, how is that interesting or relevant?
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I certainly wouldn't vote for her based on [her stance on the issues she lists on her website](http://donnamilo.com/Issues.html), but the trans visibility - and moreover, the presence of a greater level of queerness in the Republican party - is quite noteworthy in how it could help in the fight for things like equal marriage and trans rights, positions the Republican party is staunchly against generally. She even has an ex-wife and two children, and they're all on good, friendly terms as far as this article states. So who says LGBT people can't raise children and have normal families, eh? That's what I like about this development. And yes I wonder what her stance on LGBT issues is... would be interesting to know... her site does not talk about that, though it does mention very briefly that she transitioned.
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Ever see a young child learn a swear word for the first time? Seeing a cute little toddler cuss is kinda adorable and if you don't nip it in the bud quick, everyone will be laughing their asses off about it. Then you're stuck with a kid running up to people swearing their little head off. I feel like this is what's happening with O'reilly and is ilk. They said a swear word and everyone flipped out, but they love the attention so now they just keep saying anything they can to keep the attention. I'm sure theirs a psychological term for it, but damn it i'm tired.
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Awesome. In my part of the world, ladies are pretty terrible about remembering that whole safe sex thing. There's a lot of "lesbians can't catch anything from each other except yeast infections" going around. Is this the case in your town?
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you should look into this brand called "Foreplay" srsly, foreplay will open the flood gates. stop fucking around
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I am often shocked by the lack of boob love I see in my local lesbian community.
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What do you need to talk about? I am sure most of the people in this subreddit would be more than willing to help you. I am just one of them. Let me know what I can do. PM me if you need to.
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I've always had a huge problem getting into hetero porn because there is so much of it that degrades the women involved and does not show any real enjoyment for her. The excessive name calling and violent way in which women are often treated in hetero porn really turns me off from it.
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I just got this book earlier this evening. I'm so excited about reading it.
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I say go for it. Just don't try to pursue things any further if she is with someone. If she is single maybe she has the "If you love something let it go...." mentality .... I would never be upset for someone calling to say they are sorry.
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Great idea! There is no such thing as not trans\* enough. I would love for people to get that idea too.
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And I see nothing wrong with that! Only replace blackjack and hookers with acceptance and education! :D
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I'm at 2 years and not much has changed. Though masturbation just sucks now and I have to remind myself to do it every so often to keep the the material stretched. Actually I guess a lot has changed. Haha
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I'm still surprised the numbers are still steadily rising!
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/r/ftm, there is an ftm group on livejournal. He can come here and ask questions as well.
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i just started my transition, so done, done, and done *flies the ratta flag*
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I just picked something I liked. I tried out a name for awhile that I had just liked for a long time, but my sister didn't like it and eventually I decided it just wasn't me anyway. I looked through lists of names, meanings, origins, and decided on Sabrina, which I have also already liked and I feel suits me better than Cassandra, the name I was using previously. My sister's middle name is the girl name my parents had for me and the feminine versions of my given name are goofy sounding old lady names, so those were out of the question for me. I guess the biggest thing for me is to have something that is aurally pleasing to me and that I feel fits my perception of myself.
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So fucked up. There is a campaign to report this to the Advertising Standards Authority.
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Ah, good old Cassandra. The bitchy trampoline. She was an interesting character, to be sure.
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