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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
| (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
| (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
| (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying.
usr : i appreciate your kind words. I feel very alone.
| (Others) I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying.
usr : i appreciate your kind words. I feel very alone.
sys : (Others) I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive.
usr : I was speaking with my sister on the phone last weekend and she said that I should go to the doctor.
usr : Unfortunately, I do not have insurance. I called and they said it would cost over $200 for an initial visit.
usr : I am not sure about my options.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) There is no harm in taking doctors advice. Sorry to here about that. you can try online counselling. there are so many website offering free counselling sessions. you can search on google |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying.
usr : i appreciate your kind words. I feel very alone.
sys : (Others) I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive.
usr : I was speaking with my sister on the phone last weekend and she said that I should go to the doctor.
usr : Unfortunately, I do not have insurance. I called and they said it would cost over $200 for an initial visit.
usr : I am not sure about my options.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) There is no harm in taking doctors advice. Sorry to here about that. you can try online counselling. there are so many website offering free counselling sessions. you can search on google
usr : I have not thought about online counselling, I have been focused on trying to find somewhere else to live. I will look online.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I would suggest follow your routine, stay motivated and keep looking to for the new place. Sometime sitting with the partner and having conversation with the person might help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying.
usr : i appreciate your kind words. I feel very alone.
sys : (Others) I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive.
usr : I was speaking with my sister on the phone last weekend and she said that I should go to the doctor.
usr : Unfortunately, I do not have insurance. I called and they said it would cost over $200 for an initial visit.
usr : I am not sure about my options.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) There is no harm in taking doctors advice. Sorry to here about that. you can try online counselling. there are so many website offering free counselling sessions. you can search on google
usr : I have not thought about online counselling, I have been focused on trying to find somewhere else to live. I will look online.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I would suggest follow your routine, stay motivated and keep looking to for the new place. Sometime sitting with the partner and having conversation with the person might help.
usr : I do not understand why my partner wants me to leave. I came suddenly one day about 2 months ago.
usr : The whole break up probably has to do with drug addiction. I know that I have a problem.
| (Question) Have you ever tried to quit this habit or had counselling before? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying.
usr : i appreciate your kind words. I feel very alone.
sys : (Others) I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive.
usr : I was speaking with my sister on the phone last weekend and she said that I should go to the doctor.
usr : Unfortunately, I do not have insurance. I called and they said it would cost over $200 for an initial visit.
usr : I am not sure about my options.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) There is no harm in taking doctors advice. Sorry to here about that. you can try online counselling. there are so many website offering free counselling sessions. you can search on google
usr : I have not thought about online counselling, I have been focused on trying to find somewhere else to live. I will look online.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I would suggest follow your routine, stay motivated and keep looking to for the new place. Sometime sitting with the partner and having conversation with the person might help.
usr : I do not understand why my partner wants me to leave. I came suddenly one day about 2 months ago.
usr : The whole break up probably has to do with drug addiction. I know that I have a problem.
sys : (Question) Have you ever tried to quit this habit or had counselling before?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That might be the reason. It is not impossible to quit it. you just need bit guidance. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying.
usr : i appreciate your kind words. I feel very alone.
sys : (Others) I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive.
usr : I was speaking with my sister on the phone last weekend and she said that I should go to the doctor.
usr : Unfortunately, I do not have insurance. I called and they said it would cost over $200 for an initial visit.
usr : I am not sure about my options.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) There is no harm in taking doctors advice. Sorry to here about that. you can try online counselling. there are so many website offering free counselling sessions. you can search on google
usr : I have not thought about online counselling, I have been focused on trying to find somewhere else to live. I will look online.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I would suggest follow your routine, stay motivated and keep looking to for the new place. Sometime sitting with the partner and having conversation with the person might help.
usr : I do not understand why my partner wants me to leave. I came suddenly one day about 2 months ago.
usr : The whole break up probably has to do with drug addiction. I know that I have a problem.
sys : (Question) Have you ever tried to quit this habit or had counselling before?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That might be the reason. It is not impossible to quit it. you just need bit guidance.
usr : I want to stop, but I am afraid. A couple years ago, I overdosed and was in the hospital for about a month. It is difficult for me to talk about it.
usr : I need drugs to feel normal. It's sad.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand is is not that easy. Time is really tough right now. We as human being nothing is impossible for us to do. Problem like drugs can be quitted if we stay strong and determined. It is hard to say that drugs can not make us normal. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying.
usr : i appreciate your kind words. I feel very alone.
sys : (Others) I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive.
usr : I was speaking with my sister on the phone last weekend and she said that I should go to the doctor.
usr : Unfortunately, I do not have insurance. I called and they said it would cost over $200 for an initial visit.
usr : I am not sure about my options.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) There is no harm in taking doctors advice. Sorry to here about that. you can try online counselling. there are so many website offering free counselling sessions. you can search on google
usr : I have not thought about online counselling, I have been focused on trying to find somewhere else to live. I will look online.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I would suggest follow your routine, stay motivated and keep looking to for the new place. Sometime sitting with the partner and having conversation with the person might help.
usr : I do not understand why my partner wants me to leave. I came suddenly one day about 2 months ago.
usr : The whole break up probably has to do with drug addiction. I know that I have a problem.
sys : (Question) Have you ever tried to quit this habit or had counselling before?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That might be the reason. It is not impossible to quit it. you just need bit guidance.
usr : I want to stop, but I am afraid. A couple years ago, I overdosed and was in the hospital for about a month. It is difficult for me to talk about it.
usr : I need drugs to feel normal. It's sad.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand is is not that easy. Time is really tough right now. We as human being nothing is impossible for us to do. Problem like drugs can be quitted if we stay strong and determined. It is hard to say that drugs can not make us normal.
| (Others) I can understand your situation. You think that its normal for you but other has different outlook. I think same thing is happening between you and your partner. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying.
usr : i appreciate your kind words. I feel very alone.
sys : (Others) I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive.
usr : I was speaking with my sister on the phone last weekend and she said that I should go to the doctor.
usr : Unfortunately, I do not have insurance. I called and they said it would cost over $200 for an initial visit.
usr : I am not sure about my options.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) There is no harm in taking doctors advice. Sorry to here about that. you can try online counselling. there are so many website offering free counselling sessions. you can search on google
usr : I have not thought about online counselling, I have been focused on trying to find somewhere else to live. I will look online.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I would suggest follow your routine, stay motivated and keep looking to for the new place. Sometime sitting with the partner and having conversation with the person might help.
usr : I do not understand why my partner wants me to leave. I came suddenly one day about 2 months ago.
usr : The whole break up probably has to do with drug addiction. I know that I have a problem.
sys : (Question) Have you ever tried to quit this habit or had counselling before?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That might be the reason. It is not impossible to quit it. you just need bit guidance.
usr : I want to stop, but I am afraid. A couple years ago, I overdosed and was in the hospital for about a month. It is difficult for me to talk about it.
usr : I need drugs to feel normal. It's sad.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand is is not that easy. Time is really tough right now. We as human being nothing is impossible for us to do. Problem like drugs can be quitted if we stay strong and determined. It is hard to say that drugs can not make us normal.
sys : (Others) I can understand your situation. You think that its normal for you but other has different outlook. I think same thing is happening between you and your partner.
usr : I appreciate talking to you today, but I am going to go now. I will search online for help.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It was nice talking to you. Take care and stay positive. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.
usr : My partner understands my situation and how difficult it is for me to find another place to live, but they do not care.
sys : (Others) You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.
usr : I have no friends. I discovered this when I started to break up with my partner. What I called my friends have turned out to be their friends instead.
usr : i am from Texas and my family live there.
sys : (Others) It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying.
usr : I do not have a mother or father still living, just a sister.
usr : I am running out of time to find a place to live, and I have a small amount of money saved up. I do not think that I have enough for a deposit.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything.
usr : My partner said that I have until the January 1 before he will change the locks.
sys : (Others) Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around.
usr : I work in the restaurant industry as a waiter and I have been laid off. I have not worked since October.
usr : I live in a large city and rent is expensive. I feel sad about this.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.
usr : Sometimes I do not feel like it is worth my effort. I have a hard time getting out of bed. I tend to sleep a lot.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying.
usr : i appreciate your kind words. I feel very alone.
sys : (Others) I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive.
usr : I was speaking with my sister on the phone last weekend and she said that I should go to the doctor.
usr : Unfortunately, I do not have insurance. I called and they said it would cost over $200 for an initial visit.
usr : I am not sure about my options.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) There is no harm in taking doctors advice. Sorry to here about that. you can try online counselling. there are so many website offering free counselling sessions. you can search on google
usr : I have not thought about online counselling, I have been focused on trying to find somewhere else to live. I will look online.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I would suggest follow your routine, stay motivated and keep looking to for the new place. Sometime sitting with the partner and having conversation with the person might help.
usr : I do not understand why my partner wants me to leave. I came suddenly one day about 2 months ago.
usr : The whole break up probably has to do with drug addiction. I know that I have a problem.
sys : (Question) Have you ever tried to quit this habit or had counselling before?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) That might be the reason. It is not impossible to quit it. you just need bit guidance.
usr : I want to stop, but I am afraid. A couple years ago, I overdosed and was in the hospital for about a month. It is difficult for me to talk about it.
usr : I need drugs to feel normal. It's sad.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can understand is is not that easy. Time is really tough right now. We as human being nothing is impossible for us to do. Problem like drugs can be quitted if we stay strong and determined. It is hard to say that drugs can not make us normal.
sys : (Others) I can understand your situation. You think that its normal for you but other has different outlook. I think same thing is happening between you and your partner.
usr : I appreciate talking to you today, but I am going to go now. I will search online for help.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It was nice talking to you. Take care and stay positive.
usr : thank you, goodbye
| (Others) Bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
| (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen
usr : Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time.
| (Others) Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen
usr : Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time.
sys : (Others) Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then
usr : Yes. It helped me to get away from some of the a-holes that I went to high school with.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen
usr : Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time.
sys : (Others) Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then
usr : Yes. It helped me to get away from some of the a-holes that I went to high school with.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime
usr : Thanks. That gives me hope. O
| (Reflection of feelings) You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen
usr : Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time.
sys : (Others) Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then
usr : Yes. It helped me to get away from some of the a-holes that I went to high school with.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime
usr : Thanks. That gives me hope. O
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you
usr : , A lot of things this year have taken their toll on me. One of my cats died earlier this year; a former co-worker whom I respected died, I'm tired of wearing masks--I'm 53 years old, and I have more acne now than I did when I was a teenager. I'm tired of politics, and I'm tired of hearing my husband talk politics!
| (Self-disclosure) Wow, I know how you feel as I have had some really traumatic things happen to me over the past few months as well. I understand all too well especially since I had to cancel my trips that were already paid for this year. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen
usr : Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time.
sys : (Others) Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then
usr : Yes. It helped me to get away from some of the a-holes that I went to high school with.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime
usr : Thanks. That gives me hope. O
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you
usr : , A lot of things this year have taken their toll on me. One of my cats died earlier this year; a former co-worker whom I respected died, I'm tired of wearing masks--I'm 53 years old, and I have more acne now than I did when I was a teenager. I'm tired of politics, and I'm tired of hearing my husband talk politics!
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, I know how you feel as I have had some really traumatic things happen to me over the past few months as well. I understand all too well especially since I had to cancel my trips that were already paid for this year.
usr : That sucks. I hope you got your money back.
| (Others) Yes I did |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen
usr : Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time.
sys : (Others) Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then
usr : Yes. It helped me to get away from some of the a-holes that I went to high school with.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime
usr : Thanks. That gives me hope. O
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you
usr : , A lot of things this year have taken their toll on me. One of my cats died earlier this year; a former co-worker whom I respected died, I'm tired of wearing masks--I'm 53 years old, and I have more acne now than I did when I was a teenager. I'm tired of politics, and I'm tired of hearing my husband talk politics!
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, I know how you feel as I have had some really traumatic things happen to me over the past few months as well. I understand all too well especially since I had to cancel my trips that were already paid for this year.
usr : That sucks. I hope you got your money back.
sys : (Others) Yes I did
usr : Good.
| (Information) Based on what you described, you can find new ways to distract you from the missing State Fair and the fun it brought to your life |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen
usr : Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time.
sys : (Others) Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then
usr : Yes. It helped me to get away from some of the a-holes that I went to high school with.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime
usr : Thanks. That gives me hope. O
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you
usr : , A lot of things this year have taken their toll on me. One of my cats died earlier this year; a former co-worker whom I respected died, I'm tired of wearing masks--I'm 53 years old, and I have more acne now than I did when I was a teenager. I'm tired of politics, and I'm tired of hearing my husband talk politics!
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, I know how you feel as I have had some really traumatic things happen to me over the past few months as well. I understand all too well especially since I had to cancel my trips that were already paid for this year.
usr : That sucks. I hope you got your money back.
sys : (Others) Yes I did
usr : Good.
sys : (Information) Based on what you described, you can find new ways to distract you from the missing State Fair and the fun it brought to your life
usr : I have learned to be more resourceful this year. I went full-on serious about my vegetable garden.
| (Providing Suggestions) Create your own fun, head to the beach, go to the park, take a drive to the countryside and enjoy the fall. And of course spending more time in your garden will be a great distraction. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen
usr : Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time.
sys : (Others) Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then
usr : Yes. It helped me to get away from some of the a-holes that I went to high school with.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime
usr : Thanks. That gives me hope. O
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you
usr : , A lot of things this year have taken their toll on me. One of my cats died earlier this year; a former co-worker whom I respected died, I'm tired of wearing masks--I'm 53 years old, and I have more acne now than I did when I was a teenager. I'm tired of politics, and I'm tired of hearing my husband talk politics!
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, I know how you feel as I have had some really traumatic things happen to me over the past few months as well. I understand all too well especially since I had to cancel my trips that were already paid for this year.
usr : That sucks. I hope you got your money back.
sys : (Others) Yes I did
usr : Good.
sys : (Information) Based on what you described, you can find new ways to distract you from the missing State Fair and the fun it brought to your life
usr : I have learned to be more resourceful this year. I went full-on serious about my vegetable garden.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Create your own fun, head to the beach, go to the park, take a drive to the countryside and enjoy the fall. And of course spending more time in your garden will be a great distraction.
usr : Yeah...at least the park's still open !
| (Others) Yep, Well it was great that I can provide a short distraction |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"This COVID pandemic has really gotten to me! I'm not ready to die, but I can't stand living like this anymore!". | usr : I love the State Fair, and almost six months after it got cancelled, I'm heartbroken over it! I know that's trivial, but EVERYTHING I love about summer has been cancelled!
sys : (Question) Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?
usr : I love the animals, learning new things, picking up free stuff, eating the food, riding the rides, etc.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen
usr : Thanks. I also enjoy looking at the 4-H exhibits. I HATED high school. With. Every. Fiber. Of. My. Soul. That organization kept me sane during that time.
sys : (Others) Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then
usr : Yes. It helped me to get away from some of the a-holes that I went to high school with.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime
usr : Thanks. That gives me hope. O
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you
usr : , A lot of things this year have taken their toll on me. One of my cats died earlier this year; a former co-worker whom I respected died, I'm tired of wearing masks--I'm 53 years old, and I have more acne now than I did when I was a teenager. I'm tired of politics, and I'm tired of hearing my husband talk politics!
sys : (Self-disclosure) Wow, I know how you feel as I have had some really traumatic things happen to me over the past few months as well. I understand all too well especially since I had to cancel my trips that were already paid for this year.
usr : That sucks. I hope you got your money back.
sys : (Others) Yes I did
usr : Good.
sys : (Information) Based on what you described, you can find new ways to distract you from the missing State Fair and the fun it brought to your life
usr : I have learned to be more resourceful this year. I went full-on serious about my vegetable garden.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Create your own fun, head to the beach, go to the park, take a drive to the countryside and enjoy the fall. And of course spending more time in your garden will be a great distraction.
usr : Yeah...at least the park's still open !
sys : (Others) Yep, Well it was great that I can provide a short distraction
usr : Thanks for your help.
| (Others) Take care, It will get better. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | (Others) Good afternoon | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
| (Question) How can I be of service to you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
| (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
| (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
| (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
| (Question) Was the other person someone you knew |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
| (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
| (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
| (Question) Were you living together |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
| (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
| (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.
usr : Yes i will definitely try that
usr : Thank you for your advice
| (Question) What bright spots do you see in all this |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.
usr : Yes i will definitely try that
usr : Thank you for your advice
sys : (Question) What bright spots do you see in all this
usr : That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.
usr : Yes i will definitely try that
usr : Thank you for your advice
sys : (Question) What bright spots do you see in all this
usr : That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded
usr : Thank you , I will definitely try that
| (Question) Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.
usr : Yes i will definitely try that
usr : Thank you for your advice
sys : (Question) What bright spots do you see in all this
usr : That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded
usr : Thank you , I will definitely try that
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse
usr : Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.
usr : Yes i will definitely try that
usr : Thank you for your advice
sys : (Question) What bright spots do you see in all this
usr : That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded
usr : Thank you , I will definitely try that
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse
usr : Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome
usr : I do believe that but because of this break up I feel I can trust nobody
| (Self-disclosure) I understand about the pains of divorce |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.
usr : Yes i will definitely try that
usr : Thank you for your advice
sys : (Question) What bright spots do you see in all this
usr : That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded
usr : Thank you , I will definitely try that
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse
usr : Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome
usr : I do believe that but because of this break up I feel I can trust nobody
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand about the pains of divorce
usr : I could imagine the pain i would feel if it was when we were married
| (Reflection of feelings) Don't let yourself become the victim. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.
usr : Yes i will definitely try that
usr : Thank you for your advice
sys : (Question) What bright spots do you see in all this
usr : That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded
usr : Thank you , I will definitely try that
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse
usr : Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome
usr : I do believe that but because of this break up I feel I can trust nobody
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand about the pains of divorce
usr : I could imagine the pain i would feel if it was when we were married
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Don't let yourself become the victim.
usr : True
usr : Well i appreciate your time and help
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) He may have found what he thought was better but then again you will be the better. He may come back but the seed has been planted |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.
usr : Yes i will definitely try that
usr : Thank you for your advice
sys : (Question) What bright spots do you see in all this
usr : That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded
usr : Thank you , I will definitely try that
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse
usr : Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome
usr : I do believe that but because of this break up I feel I can trust nobody
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand about the pains of divorce
usr : I could imagine the pain i would feel if it was when we were married
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Don't let yourself become the victim.
usr : True
usr : Well i appreciate your time and help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) He may have found what he thought was better but then again you will be the better. He may come back but the seed has been planted
usr : I will not let him come back. I deserve better
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can find better because he will want you for you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing". | sys : (Others) Good afternoon
usr : Good afternoon
usr : How are you
sys : (Question) How can I be of service to you
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am well despite the virus
usr : I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up
usr : We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong
sys : (Question) Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse
usr : a boyfriend/fiance
sys : (Question) Sorry about that. How long ago
usr : Just 2 weeks ago
usr : He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year
usr : It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew
usr : I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together
usr : NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on
sys : (Question) Any idea how long he was dating this other girl
usr : I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) He definitely did not give you any clues
sys : (Question) Were you living together
usr : No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl
usr : Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also
usr : Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this
sys : (Others) It always hurts both partners when it happens.
usr : Yes it does
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you are involved with a church
usr : Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you
usr : It is possible
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is good you are involved with a church.
usr : Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.
usr : Yes i will definitely try that
usr : Thank you for your advice
sys : (Question) What bright spots do you see in all this
usr : That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded
usr : Thank you , I will definitely try that
sys : (Question) Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse
usr : Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome
usr : I do believe that but because of this break up I feel I can trust nobody
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand about the pains of divorce
usr : I could imagine the pain i would feel if it was when we were married
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Don't let yourself become the victim.
usr : True
usr : Well i appreciate your time and help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) He may have found what he thought was better but then again you will be the better. He may come back but the seed has been planted
usr : I will not let him come back. I deserve better
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can find better because he will want you for you
usr : I agree! It will just take me some time
| (Reflection of feelings) And you will find better because he will want both of you. Remember you have child that will help you as well |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
| (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
| (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
| (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
| (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
| (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us.
usr : If i lose my main job I will use it
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us.
usr : If i lose my main job I will use it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them.
usr : sorry about that, but that's good, people help each other
usr : Absolutely! Volunteering is a great spirit.
| (Question) Do you feel you will be getting the vaccine when it is rolled out where you are? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us.
usr : If i lose my main job I will use it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them.
usr : sorry about that, but that's good, people help each other
usr : Absolutely! Volunteering is a great spirit.
sys : (Question) Do you feel you will be getting the vaccine when it is rolled out where you are?
usr : yes
usr : how about you
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a good idea - yes, I will get it. I think and hope it will help 2021 to be a better year than 2020 has been! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us.
usr : If i lose my main job I will use it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them.
usr : sorry about that, but that's good, people help each other
usr : Absolutely! Volunteering is a great spirit.
sys : (Question) Do you feel you will be getting the vaccine when it is rolled out where you are?
usr : yes
usr : how about you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a good idea - yes, I will get it. I think and hope it will help 2021 to be a better year than 2020 has been!
usr : Great, I agree with you completely.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So, you feel that the New Year might be a turning point for us all? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us.
usr : If i lose my main job I will use it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them.
usr : sorry about that, but that's good, people help each other
usr : Absolutely! Volunteering is a great spirit.
sys : (Question) Do you feel you will be getting the vaccine when it is rolled out where you are?
usr : yes
usr : how about you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a good idea - yes, I will get it. I think and hope it will help 2021 to be a better year than 2020 has been!
usr : Great, I agree with you completely.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So, you feel that the New Year might be a turning point for us all?
usr : I guess summer next year would be
| (Others) Yes it might take a little while - we are definitely not out of the woods yet and people do need to stick to the regulations to try to mitigate the situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us.
usr : If i lose my main job I will use it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them.
usr : sorry about that, but that's good, people help each other
usr : Absolutely! Volunteering is a great spirit.
sys : (Question) Do you feel you will be getting the vaccine when it is rolled out where you are?
usr : yes
usr : how about you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a good idea - yes, I will get it. I think and hope it will help 2021 to be a better year than 2020 has been!
usr : Great, I agree with you completely.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So, you feel that the New Year might be a turning point for us all?
usr : I guess summer next year would be
sys : (Others) Yes it might take a little while - we are definitely not out of the woods yet and people do need to stick to the regulations to try to mitigate the situation.
usr : totally!
| (Others) I sincerely hope that things pick up for you and for all of us. And that online work remains plentiful :D |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us.
usr : If i lose my main job I will use it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them.
usr : sorry about that, but that's good, people help each other
usr : Absolutely! Volunteering is a great spirit.
sys : (Question) Do you feel you will be getting the vaccine when it is rolled out where you are?
usr : yes
usr : how about you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a good idea - yes, I will get it. I think and hope it will help 2021 to be a better year than 2020 has been!
usr : Great, I agree with you completely.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So, you feel that the New Year might be a turning point for us all?
usr : I guess summer next year would be
sys : (Others) Yes it might take a little while - we are definitely not out of the woods yet and people do need to stick to the regulations to try to mitigate the situation.
usr : totally!
sys : (Others) I sincerely hope that things pick up for you and for all of us. And that online work remains plentiful :D
| (Providing Suggestions) Anyway it has been lovely to talk to you, enjoy the rest of your Christmas Day! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us.
usr : If i lose my main job I will use it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them.
usr : sorry about that, but that's good, people help each other
usr : Absolutely! Volunteering is a great spirit.
sys : (Question) Do you feel you will be getting the vaccine when it is rolled out where you are?
usr : yes
usr : how about you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a good idea - yes, I will get it. I think and hope it will help 2021 to be a better year than 2020 has been!
usr : Great, I agree with you completely.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So, you feel that the New Year might be a turning point for us all?
usr : I guess summer next year would be
sys : (Others) Yes it might take a little while - we are definitely not out of the woods yet and people do need to stick to the regulations to try to mitigate the situation.
usr : totally!
sys : (Others) I sincerely hope that things pick up for you and for all of us. And that online work remains plentiful :D
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Anyway it has been lovely to talk to you, enjoy the rest of your Christmas Day!
| (Information) (I can't end it from my end, you have to :)) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am looking for more online jobs. but it is hard to find.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you feeling at the moment?
usr : hi! I am good. you?
sys : (Question) I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now?
usr : Yes I have been wanting to find online jobs like this but it is so competitive
sys : (Self-disclosure) I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic.
usr : totally 1
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you struggling financially at the moment, then?
usr : Have you heard of Appen? They are similar to Mturk but they pay more
usr : I still have a main job but due to big increase of my house expense, I need to work more, way more
sys : (Others) I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time.
usr : anytime, true true
usr : i have applied to Appen a few times, and they always say there is no position available now
sys : (Information) Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help.
usr : ah yes, food banks, yeah I never thought about it but free food always helps.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us.
usr : If i lose my main job I will use it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them.
usr : sorry about that, but that's good, people help each other
usr : Absolutely! Volunteering is a great spirit.
sys : (Question) Do you feel you will be getting the vaccine when it is rolled out where you are?
usr : yes
usr : how about you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a good idea - yes, I will get it. I think and hope it will help 2021 to be a better year than 2020 has been!
usr : Great, I agree with you completely.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So, you feel that the New Year might be a turning point for us all?
usr : I guess summer next year would be
sys : (Others) Yes it might take a little while - we are definitely not out of the woods yet and people do need to stick to the regulations to try to mitigate the situation.
usr : totally!
sys : (Others) I sincerely hope that things pick up for you and for all of us. And that online work remains plentiful :D
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Anyway it has been lovely to talk to you, enjoy the rest of your Christmas Day!
sys : (Information) (I can't end it from my end, you have to :))
| (Others) Please? :D |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | (Question) Hello, how are you doing? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?
usr : To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known.
| (Reflection of feelings) You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?
usr : To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship.
usr : Yes, that's true. The worst part is that he doesn't seem to think I have a right to be hurt. How do I even deal with someone who hurt me but doesn't care to take any responsibility whatsoever?
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?
usr : To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship.
usr : Yes, that's true. The worst part is that he doesn't seem to think I have a right to be hurt. How do I even deal with someone who hurt me but doesn't care to take any responsibility whatsoever?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault.
usr : That's true. He didn't invite me over. I expected him to be at work that night. I was coming over to see our cats, which still all lived with him. I still had a key and it didn't occur to me that I could invade his privacy since I had been spending 3X a week with him, and he was fine with me using the key. The whole thing was a shock. I wouldn't have come in had I known what I'd find inside.
| (Providing Suggestions) That would definitely add to the distress of the situation to have a weird surprise like that. It doesn't really seem like your fault that you were there but it is unfortunate nonetheless. Have you tried talking to h im yet? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?
usr : To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship.
usr : Yes, that's true. The worst part is that he doesn't seem to think I have a right to be hurt. How do I even deal with someone who hurt me but doesn't care to take any responsibility whatsoever?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault.
usr : That's true. He didn't invite me over. I expected him to be at work that night. I was coming over to see our cats, which still all lived with him. I still had a key and it didn't occur to me that I could invade his privacy since I had been spending 3X a week with him, and he was fine with me using the key. The whole thing was a shock. I wouldn't have come in had I known what I'd find inside.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would definitely add to the distress of the situation to have a weird surprise like that. It doesn't really seem like your fault that you were there but it is unfortunate nonetheless. Have you tried talking to h im yet?
usr : Yeah. It's a long story to explain here, but at first he told me it was a first date... then he said it was a second date... then finally he said it was a third date. I had to figure out on my own that he met her through a dating app, which makes me feel extra icky because now I kind of feel like a stalker. (Don't worry, I didn't do anything illegal or immoral to figure this out at all. He left an easy breadcrumb trail for me to follow.... but it still feels gross that I felt compelled to research the situation because I could "feel" he was lying.)
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's ok, you have a vested interest in this person. It is natural to be interested in such things. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?
usr : To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship.
usr : Yes, that's true. The worst part is that he doesn't seem to think I have a right to be hurt. How do I even deal with someone who hurt me but doesn't care to take any responsibility whatsoever?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault.
usr : That's true. He didn't invite me over. I expected him to be at work that night. I was coming over to see our cats, which still all lived with him. I still had a key and it didn't occur to me that I could invade his privacy since I had been spending 3X a week with him, and he was fine with me using the key. The whole thing was a shock. I wouldn't have come in had I known what I'd find inside.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would definitely add to the distress of the situation to have a weird surprise like that. It doesn't really seem like your fault that you were there but it is unfortunate nonetheless. Have you tried talking to h im yet?
usr : Yeah. It's a long story to explain here, but at first he told me it was a first date... then he said it was a second date... then finally he said it was a third date. I had to figure out on my own that he met her through a dating app, which makes me feel extra icky because now I kind of feel like a stalker. (Don't worry, I didn't do anything illegal or immoral to figure this out at all. He left an easy breadcrumb trail for me to follow.... but it still feels gross that I felt compelled to research the situation because I could "feel" he was lying.)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's ok, you have a vested interest in this person. It is natural to be interested in such things.
usr : Yes. I'm not only invested in him. I have a SUPER close relationship with his two daughters. Some of the reason he wanted to see me after our "break up" is because he didn't want to tell his daughters that I might be out of their lives forever. He told me so much.
usr : And I love those girls so much.
usr : They're 13 and 16. They were 7 and 11 when I started seeing their dad.
| (Information) There are a lot of therapists out there that might be able to help you navigate this. It's OK to get some outside help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?
usr : To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship.
usr : Yes, that's true. The worst part is that he doesn't seem to think I have a right to be hurt. How do I even deal with someone who hurt me but doesn't care to take any responsibility whatsoever?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault.
usr : That's true. He didn't invite me over. I expected him to be at work that night. I was coming over to see our cats, which still all lived with him. I still had a key and it didn't occur to me that I could invade his privacy since I had been spending 3X a week with him, and he was fine with me using the key. The whole thing was a shock. I wouldn't have come in had I known what I'd find inside.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would definitely add to the distress of the situation to have a weird surprise like that. It doesn't really seem like your fault that you were there but it is unfortunate nonetheless. Have you tried talking to h im yet?
usr : Yeah. It's a long story to explain here, but at first he told me it was a first date... then he said it was a second date... then finally he said it was a third date. I had to figure out on my own that he met her through a dating app, which makes me feel extra icky because now I kind of feel like a stalker. (Don't worry, I didn't do anything illegal or immoral to figure this out at all. He left an easy breadcrumb trail for me to follow.... but it still feels gross that I felt compelled to research the situation because I could "feel" he was lying.)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's ok, you have a vested interest in this person. It is natural to be interested in such things.
usr : Yes. I'm not only invested in him. I have a SUPER close relationship with his two daughters. Some of the reason he wanted to see me after our "break up" is because he didn't want to tell his daughters that I might be out of their lives forever. He told me so much.
usr : And I love those girls so much.
usr : They're 13 and 16. They were 7 and 11 when I started seeing their dad.
sys : (Information) There are a lot of therapists out there that might be able to help you navigate this. It's OK to get some outside help.
usr : That's a good suggestion. I think individual therapy might benefit me. I could ask him if he's open to couple's counseling--even if it's over, it could help with closure.
| (Reflection of feelings) Considering how much time you've put in to this relationship, I can tell you have a lot of feelings about all of this. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?
usr : To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship.
usr : Yes, that's true. The worst part is that he doesn't seem to think I have a right to be hurt. How do I even deal with someone who hurt me but doesn't care to take any responsibility whatsoever?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault.
usr : That's true. He didn't invite me over. I expected him to be at work that night. I was coming over to see our cats, which still all lived with him. I still had a key and it didn't occur to me that I could invade his privacy since I had been spending 3X a week with him, and he was fine with me using the key. The whole thing was a shock. I wouldn't have come in had I known what I'd find inside.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would definitely add to the distress of the situation to have a weird surprise like that. It doesn't really seem like your fault that you were there but it is unfortunate nonetheless. Have you tried talking to h im yet?
usr : Yeah. It's a long story to explain here, but at first he told me it was a first date... then he said it was a second date... then finally he said it was a third date. I had to figure out on my own that he met her through a dating app, which makes me feel extra icky because now I kind of feel like a stalker. (Don't worry, I didn't do anything illegal or immoral to figure this out at all. He left an easy breadcrumb trail for me to follow.... but it still feels gross that I felt compelled to research the situation because I could "feel" he was lying.)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's ok, you have a vested interest in this person. It is natural to be interested in such things.
usr : Yes. I'm not only invested in him. I have a SUPER close relationship with his two daughters. Some of the reason he wanted to see me after our "break up" is because he didn't want to tell his daughters that I might be out of their lives forever. He told me so much.
usr : And I love those girls so much.
usr : They're 13 and 16. They were 7 and 11 when I started seeing their dad.
sys : (Information) There are a lot of therapists out there that might be able to help you navigate this. It's OK to get some outside help.
usr : That's a good suggestion. I think individual therapy might benefit me. I could ask him if he's open to couple's counseling--even if it's over, it could help with closure.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Considering how much time you've put in to this relationship, I can tell you have a lot of feelings about all of this.
usr : I do. I appreciate your talking the time to listen to me. Sometimes just talking about an issue can help organize one's feelings and thoughts.
| (Providing Suggestions) Really, it is no problem. It helps to let it out sometimes, I feel that. Make sure you take care of your own needs before starting to smooth things over. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?
usr : To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship.
usr : Yes, that's true. The worst part is that he doesn't seem to think I have a right to be hurt. How do I even deal with someone who hurt me but doesn't care to take any responsibility whatsoever?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault.
usr : That's true. He didn't invite me over. I expected him to be at work that night. I was coming over to see our cats, which still all lived with him. I still had a key and it didn't occur to me that I could invade his privacy since I had been spending 3X a week with him, and he was fine with me using the key. The whole thing was a shock. I wouldn't have come in had I known what I'd find inside.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would definitely add to the distress of the situation to have a weird surprise like that. It doesn't really seem like your fault that you were there but it is unfortunate nonetheless. Have you tried talking to h im yet?
usr : Yeah. It's a long story to explain here, but at first he told me it was a first date... then he said it was a second date... then finally he said it was a third date. I had to figure out on my own that he met her through a dating app, which makes me feel extra icky because now I kind of feel like a stalker. (Don't worry, I didn't do anything illegal or immoral to figure this out at all. He left an easy breadcrumb trail for me to follow.... but it still feels gross that I felt compelled to research the situation because I could "feel" he was lying.)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's ok, you have a vested interest in this person. It is natural to be interested in such things.
usr : Yes. I'm not only invested in him. I have a SUPER close relationship with his two daughters. Some of the reason he wanted to see me after our "break up" is because he didn't want to tell his daughters that I might be out of their lives forever. He told me so much.
usr : And I love those girls so much.
usr : They're 13 and 16. They were 7 and 11 when I started seeing their dad.
sys : (Information) There are a lot of therapists out there that might be able to help you navigate this. It's OK to get some outside help.
usr : That's a good suggestion. I think individual therapy might benefit me. I could ask him if he's open to couple's counseling--even if it's over, it could help with closure.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Considering how much time you've put in to this relationship, I can tell you have a lot of feelings about all of this.
usr : I do. I appreciate your talking the time to listen to me. Sometimes just talking about an issue can help organize one's feelings and thoughts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Really, it is no problem. It helps to let it out sometimes, I feel that. Make sure you take care of your own needs before starting to smooth things over.
usr : That is good advice. I haven't been eating or sleeping as well as I should since this all started. I'll work on that. --- Thank you so much for your time and help and kindness. :) I wish you a great weekend!
| (Others) Thanks and you too, stay strong! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My (ex)fiancé and I recently broke up, but we're still spending a great deal of time together, and we both say we're not sure if our relationship is 100% "done" and agreed to tell each other if we start dating other people. He said he doesn't want to see anyone else, but I came over one night to find him with a woman. It was their third date.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing?
usr : Well, my fiance and I "sort of" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?
usr : To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, "stand up guy" I've ever known.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship.
usr : Yes, that's true. The worst part is that he doesn't seem to think I have a right to be hurt. How do I even deal with someone who hurt me but doesn't care to take any responsibility whatsoever?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault.
usr : That's true. He didn't invite me over. I expected him to be at work that night. I was coming over to see our cats, which still all lived with him. I still had a key and it didn't occur to me that I could invade his privacy since I had been spending 3X a week with him, and he was fine with me using the key. The whole thing was a shock. I wouldn't have come in had I known what I'd find inside.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would definitely add to the distress of the situation to have a weird surprise like that. It doesn't really seem like your fault that you were there but it is unfortunate nonetheless. Have you tried talking to h im yet?
usr : Yeah. It's a long story to explain here, but at first he told me it was a first date... then he said it was a second date... then finally he said it was a third date. I had to figure out on my own that he met her through a dating app, which makes me feel extra icky because now I kind of feel like a stalker. (Don't worry, I didn't do anything illegal or immoral to figure this out at all. He left an easy breadcrumb trail for me to follow.... but it still feels gross that I felt compelled to research the situation because I could "feel" he was lying.)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's ok, you have a vested interest in this person. It is natural to be interested in such things.
usr : Yes. I'm not only invested in him. I have a SUPER close relationship with his two daughters. Some of the reason he wanted to see me after our "break up" is because he didn't want to tell his daughters that I might be out of their lives forever. He told me so much.
usr : And I love those girls so much.
usr : They're 13 and 16. They were 7 and 11 when I started seeing their dad.
sys : (Information) There are a lot of therapists out there that might be able to help you navigate this. It's OK to get some outside help.
usr : That's a good suggestion. I think individual therapy might benefit me. I could ask him if he's open to couple's counseling--even if it's over, it could help with closure.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Considering how much time you've put in to this relationship, I can tell you have a lot of feelings about all of this.
usr : I do. I appreciate your talking the time to listen to me. Sometimes just talking about an issue can help organize one's feelings and thoughts.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Really, it is no problem. It helps to let it out sometimes, I feel that. Make sure you take care of your own needs before starting to smooth things over.
usr : That is good advice. I haven't been eating or sleeping as well as I should since this all started. I'll work on that. --- Thank you so much for your time and help and kindness. :) I wish you a great weekend!
sys : (Others) Thanks and you too, stay strong!
usr : Thank you!!! Take good care, stranger. I sincerely wish you the very best. <3
| (Others) Fare thee well sweetheart, best indeed. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
| (Others) Hello. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello.
| (Others) How are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello.
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I don't know how to cope with Martins anymore
usr : I am fine anyway
| (Question) What is Martins? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello.
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I don't know how to cope with Martins anymore
usr : I am fine anyway
sys : (Question) What is Martins?
usr : WE have been friends for the past 10 years, I have been trying to ignore his fake and lie life style
| (Question) My sorry this is happening to you. Would you like to talk about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello.
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I don't know how to cope with Martins anymore
usr : I am fine anyway
sys : (Question) What is Martins?
usr : WE have been friends for the past 10 years, I have been trying to ignore his fake and lie life style
sys : (Question) My sorry this is happening to you. Would you like to talk about it?
usr : he will never tell you, truth, last week we fix an appointment at the park by 4pm, you will not believe it that I waited from 4pm till 6.30pm... he will tell you I will so on be there
usr : all kinds of lying
| (Self-disclosure) I have had old friends do that do me. The best thing to do is let go of them and try to find a better friend. I had a friend that I was friends with for 11 years and she dropped out of the blue. Since then, I have come across a lot of amazing friends. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello.
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I don't know how to cope with Martins anymore
usr : I am fine anyway
sys : (Question) What is Martins?
usr : WE have been friends for the past 10 years, I have been trying to ignore his fake and lie life style
sys : (Question) My sorry this is happening to you. Would you like to talk about it?
usr : he will never tell you, truth, last week we fix an appointment at the park by 4pm, you will not believe it that I waited from 4pm till 6.30pm... he will tell you I will so on be there
usr : all kinds of lying
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had old friends do that do me. The best thing to do is let go of them and try to find a better friend. I had a friend that I was friends with for 11 years and she dropped out of the blue. Since then, I have come across a lot of amazing friends.
usr : he will never tell you truth. If Martins is seeing red like this in your front , he will tell you is white
usr : mmmmh
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really had to deal with. Try to surround yourself with loyal and truthful people. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello.
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I don't know how to cope with Martins anymore
usr : I am fine anyway
sys : (Question) What is Martins?
usr : WE have been friends for the past 10 years, I have been trying to ignore his fake and lie life style
sys : (Question) My sorry this is happening to you. Would you like to talk about it?
usr : he will never tell you, truth, last week we fix an appointment at the park by 4pm, you will not believe it that I waited from 4pm till 6.30pm... he will tell you I will so on be there
usr : all kinds of lying
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had old friends do that do me. The best thing to do is let go of them and try to find a better friend. I had a friend that I was friends with for 11 years and she dropped out of the blue. Since then, I have come across a lot of amazing friends.
usr : he will never tell you truth. If Martins is seeing red like this in your front , he will tell you is white
usr : mmmmh
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really had to deal with. Try to surround yourself with loyal and truthful people.
usr : I really wish to drop this guy out of the blue but it is our business that still attaché us together
usr : He do help me collect my goods from Canada a
| (Question) Do you guys run a business together? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello.
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I don't know how to cope with Martins anymore
usr : I am fine anyway
sys : (Question) What is Martins?
usr : WE have been friends for the past 10 years, I have been trying to ignore his fake and lie life style
sys : (Question) My sorry this is happening to you. Would you like to talk about it?
usr : he will never tell you, truth, last week we fix an appointment at the park by 4pm, you will not believe it that I waited from 4pm till 6.30pm... he will tell you I will so on be there
usr : all kinds of lying
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had old friends do that do me. The best thing to do is let go of them and try to find a better friend. I had a friend that I was friends with for 11 years and she dropped out of the blue. Since then, I have come across a lot of amazing friends.
usr : he will never tell you truth. If Martins is seeing red like this in your front , he will tell you is white
usr : mmmmh
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really had to deal with. Try to surround yourself with loyal and truthful people.
usr : I really wish to drop this guy out of the blue but it is our business that still attaché us together
usr : He do help me collect my goods from Canada a
sys : (Question) Do you guys run a business together?
usr : not really
usr : at a time , I will not want to leave my family to go to Canada for some goods, he do go there often
usr : that is only major thing that still bind us
usr : I should have let he go off my life
| (Providing Suggestions) I understand. Maybe you could find a better friend to help you go to Canada or take a vacation to Canada sometimes. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello.
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I don't know how to cope with Martins anymore
usr : I am fine anyway
sys : (Question) What is Martins?
usr : WE have been friends for the past 10 years, I have been trying to ignore his fake and lie life style
sys : (Question) My sorry this is happening to you. Would you like to talk about it?
usr : he will never tell you, truth, last week we fix an appointment at the park by 4pm, you will not believe it that I waited from 4pm till 6.30pm... he will tell you I will so on be there
usr : all kinds of lying
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had old friends do that do me. The best thing to do is let go of them and try to find a better friend. I had a friend that I was friends with for 11 years and she dropped out of the blue. Since then, I have come across a lot of amazing friends.
usr : he will never tell you truth. If Martins is seeing red like this in your front , he will tell you is white
usr : mmmmh
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really had to deal with. Try to surround yourself with loyal and truthful people.
usr : I really wish to drop this guy out of the blue but it is our business that still attaché us together
usr : He do help me collect my goods from Canada a
sys : (Question) Do you guys run a business together?
usr : not really
usr : at a time , I will not want to leave my family to go to Canada for some goods, he do go there often
usr : that is only major thing that still bind us
usr : I should have let he go off my life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand. Maybe you could find a better friend to help you go to Canada or take a vacation to Canada sometimes.
usr : ok
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Its really hard but I think you can do it. You will feel much better about not having to deal with lies all the time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't cope with Martins any more, he is a big liar". | usr : hi
sys : (Others) Hello.
sys : (Others) How are you?
usr : I don't know how to cope with Martins anymore
usr : I am fine anyway
sys : (Question) What is Martins?
usr : WE have been friends for the past 10 years, I have been trying to ignore his fake and lie life style
sys : (Question) My sorry this is happening to you. Would you like to talk about it?
usr : he will never tell you, truth, last week we fix an appointment at the park by 4pm, you will not believe it that I waited from 4pm till 6.30pm... he will tell you I will so on be there
usr : all kinds of lying
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have had old friends do that do me. The best thing to do is let go of them and try to find a better friend. I had a friend that I was friends with for 11 years and she dropped out of the blue. Since then, I have come across a lot of amazing friends.
usr : he will never tell you truth. If Martins is seeing red like this in your front , he will tell you is white
usr : mmmmh
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really had to deal with. Try to surround yourself with loyal and truthful people.
usr : I really wish to drop this guy out of the blue but it is our business that still attaché us together
usr : He do help me collect my goods from Canada a
sys : (Question) Do you guys run a business together?
usr : not really
usr : at a time , I will not want to leave my family to go to Canada for some goods, he do go there often
usr : that is only major thing that still bind us
usr : I should have let he go off my life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand. Maybe you could find a better friend to help you go to Canada or take a vacation to Canada sometimes.
usr : ok
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Its really hard but I think you can do it. You will feel much better about not having to deal with lies all the time.
usr : I hate lies, it really pain me if a you lie to me
usr : yes of cause
usr : thanks , for you time
usr : bye
| (Others) bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
| (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
sys : (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem
usr : I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID
| (Self-disclosure) I had the same issue with my friends as well |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
sys : (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem
usr : I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same issue with my friends as well
usr : Really? What happened?
| (Self-disclosure) We stopped getting together and going out places cause they were all closed |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
sys : (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem
usr : I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same issue with my friends as well
usr : Really? What happened?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We stopped getting together and going out places cause they were all closed
usr : Yes, that happened here. But they still wanted to come over despite government orders limiting gatherings.
| (Providing Suggestions) We now have weekly video call meetings instead, it helps us stay connected |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
sys : (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem
usr : I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same issue with my friends as well
usr : Really? What happened?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We stopped getting together and going out places cause they were all closed
usr : Yes, that happened here. But they still wanted to come over despite government orders limiting gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) We now have weekly video call meetings instead, it helps us stay connected
usr : That sounds like a good idea. Is it hard to do?
| (Information) Not at all, we use a program called Skype, that's free. You can use it on your phone or PC |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
sys : (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem
usr : I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same issue with my friends as well
usr : Really? What happened?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We stopped getting together and going out places cause they were all closed
usr : Yes, that happened here. But they still wanted to come over despite government orders limiting gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) We now have weekly video call meetings instead, it helps us stay connected
usr : That sounds like a good idea. Is it hard to do?
sys : (Information) Not at all, we use a program called Skype, that's free. You can use it on your phone or PC
usr : My friends want to go out all the time. How can we connect during a Skype?
| (Information) Pick a time you'll both be available, and you'll both need the program. It's quite easy to use and there will be youtube videos that'll help you set it up, should you need it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
sys : (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem
usr : I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same issue with my friends as well
usr : Really? What happened?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We stopped getting together and going out places cause they were all closed
usr : Yes, that happened here. But they still wanted to come over despite government orders limiting gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) We now have weekly video call meetings instead, it helps us stay connected
usr : That sounds like a good idea. Is it hard to do?
sys : (Information) Not at all, we use a program called Skype, that's free. You can use it on your phone or PC
usr : My friends want to go out all the time. How can we connect during a Skype?
sys : (Information) Pick a time you'll both be available, and you'll both need the program. It's quite easy to use and there will be youtube videos that'll help you set it up, should you need it
usr : Do you do any activities together over Skype?
| (Self-disclosure) We usually just chat about our week or get advice on normal things, sometimes we'll play a drinking game and be goofy together. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
sys : (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem
usr : I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same issue with my friends as well
usr : Really? What happened?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We stopped getting together and going out places cause they were all closed
usr : Yes, that happened here. But they still wanted to come over despite government orders limiting gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) We now have weekly video call meetings instead, it helps us stay connected
usr : That sounds like a good idea. Is it hard to do?
sys : (Information) Not at all, we use a program called Skype, that's free. You can use it on your phone or PC
usr : My friends want to go out all the time. How can we connect during a Skype?
sys : (Information) Pick a time you'll both be available, and you'll both need the program. It's quite easy to use and there will be youtube videos that'll help you set it up, should you need it
usr : Do you do any activities together over Skype?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We usually just chat about our week or get advice on normal things, sometimes we'll play a drinking game and be goofy together.
usr : Are there other games people can play together on Skype because I don't drink?
| (Self-disclosure) Drinking isn't a requirement, usually we'll just chat if we don't feel like drinking |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
sys : (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem
usr : I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same issue with my friends as well
usr : Really? What happened?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We stopped getting together and going out places cause they were all closed
usr : Yes, that happened here. But they still wanted to come over despite government orders limiting gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) We now have weekly video call meetings instead, it helps us stay connected
usr : That sounds like a good idea. Is it hard to do?
sys : (Information) Not at all, we use a program called Skype, that's free. You can use it on your phone or PC
usr : My friends want to go out all the time. How can we connect during a Skype?
sys : (Information) Pick a time you'll both be available, and you'll both need the program. It's quite easy to use and there will be youtube videos that'll help you set it up, should you need it
usr : Do you do any activities together over Skype?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We usually just chat about our week or get advice on normal things, sometimes we'll play a drinking game and be goofy together.
usr : Are there other games people can play together on Skype because I don't drink?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Drinking isn't a requirement, usually we'll just chat if we don't feel like drinking
usr : I just want to connect and please my friends but it is hard to not have any physical contact and only be online.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that and it's definitely frustrating. But it'll be so much better once you can see other other again, cause absence makes the heart grow fonder |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID". | usr : Can you help me?
sys : (Question) sure, what seems to be the problem
usr : I can't figure out why my friends don't understand why I want to keep a bit distant during COVID
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had the same issue with my friends as well
usr : Really? What happened?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We stopped getting together and going out places cause they were all closed
usr : Yes, that happened here. But they still wanted to come over despite government orders limiting gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) We now have weekly video call meetings instead, it helps us stay connected
usr : That sounds like a good idea. Is it hard to do?
sys : (Information) Not at all, we use a program called Skype, that's free. You can use it on your phone or PC
usr : My friends want to go out all the time. How can we connect during a Skype?
sys : (Information) Pick a time you'll both be available, and you'll both need the program. It's quite easy to use and there will be youtube videos that'll help you set it up, should you need it
usr : Do you do any activities together over Skype?
sys : (Self-disclosure) We usually just chat about our week or get advice on normal things, sometimes we'll play a drinking game and be goofy together.
usr : Are there other games people can play together on Skype because I don't drink?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Drinking isn't a requirement, usually we'll just chat if we don't feel like drinking
usr : I just want to connect and please my friends but it is hard to not have any physical contact and only be online.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that and it's definitely frustrating. But it'll be so much better once you can see other other again, cause absence makes the heart grow fonder
usr : Wow, I didn't think of it that way. That puts a positive twist on it.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I always like to look for the positive in any given situation |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago". | (Question) how are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago". | sys : (Question) how are you feeling today?
usr : Not so great. I broke up with my boyfriend a couple days ago.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been feeling down since the breakup a couple days ago? |
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