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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"my friend is bipolar and went off his meds, he is sick and won't get help, thinks he is fine. i am worried for his safetly.". | usr : hello
sys : (Others) Hello, how are you today.
usr : i am worried about my friend
usr : he is bipolar, went off his meds, is sick and won't get help
sys : (Question) Do you know how long he has been off his meds? Does he need help getting a refill? It can be hard to no our "normal" things when we don't feel; that's for sure.
usr : i am not sure....but he has gone manic, super hyper, and says he doesn't need his mads any more, he just doesn't want them
usr : so i can't help him get a refull no...
usr : i'm not sure how to help him, i've told him my concerns but he says he is just fine (he is not)
sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you are that worried about him, it does sound pretty severe, it may be time to call someone to get him help. Like his doctor or someone from the hospital.
usr : i don't know who his doctor is...i tried talking to his sister, she said the hospital can't help him unless he goes there, and he does not want to
sys : (Information) We definitely don't want him to hurt himself or someone else.
sys : (Information) We definitely don't want him to hurt himself or someone else.
usr : for sure
usr : i'm not sure how to help someone who doesn't want help, you know? so basically i am just stuck with all this worry, i care about him
sys : (Question) Has his sister seen this kind of replace before? And if so how did they address it then?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a really hard place to be. His doctors phone number is probably on his prescription bottle.
usr : she told me she doesn't want anything to do with him, apparently he goes off his meds a lot, and it has been super hard on the family...they can't handle it
usr : hey that's a good idea!
usr : I'd have to be sneaky....go visit him and hunt around....but I could try that
usr : its got me so worried it is affecting my sleep
sys : (Providing Suggestions) The doctor may not be able to get him in the office, but they would have his records and also be able to connect you to a facility to could maybe help him since the hospital can't
usr : hmm okay, i can try that
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can imagine, I'm worried now too and I don't even know your friend. I really hope you keep me updated on how things go.
usr : i will try to! I think you're right though that the doctors office is the best place to call, thankyou for that suggestion
usr : its tricky....with human rights they don't just haul people to hospital any more against their will lol
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You're so welcome. So it sounds like you'll call the doctor office (once you get the number) but please let me know if I can help any other way.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) lol, very true they do not. :)
usr : hmm i can't think of anything....but it really helps to get this off my chest and to have a plan of action, thank you
usr : its sad his family has given up on him
usr : but i guess everyone has their limits
sys : (Others) you're so welcome. glad I could help.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really sad, your friend is lucky to have you.
usr : aw thankyou
usr : i hope you have a good evening, thanks again, bye
| (Others) you as well |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | (Question) Hello, how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
| (Others) All's well with me thank you :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
| (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
| (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
| (Question) What sort of carrier? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
| (Others) Or did you mean to say career |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
| (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
| (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
| (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
| (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
| (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
| (Others) You're welcome |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
sys : (Others) You're welcome
| (Question) Have you started looking for your next job? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
sys : (Others) You're welcome
sys : (Question) Have you started looking for your next job?
usr : Yes.
| (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
sys : (Others) You're welcome
sys : (Question) Have you started looking for your next job?
usr : Yes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do.
usr : I'm looking forward to start a own business.
usr : Yes i hope so. i'll start planning
| (Others) Oh that's exciting! What sort of business? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
sys : (Others) You're welcome
sys : (Question) Have you started looking for your next job?
usr : Yes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do.
usr : I'm looking forward to start a own business.
usr : Yes i hope so. i'll start planning
sys : (Others) Oh that's exciting! What sort of business?
| (Self-disclosure) It's very liberating being your own boss. I used to have a small housecleaning business. I loved being in charge of my own destiny. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
sys : (Others) You're welcome
sys : (Question) Have you started looking for your next job?
usr : Yes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do.
usr : I'm looking forward to start a own business.
usr : Yes i hope so. i'll start planning
sys : (Others) Oh that's exciting! What sort of business?
sys : (Self-disclosure) It's very liberating being your own boss. I used to have a small housecleaning business. I loved being in charge of my own destiny.
usr : small scale business like taking up projects from outsourcing.
| (Question) What sort of projects? What field do you work in? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
sys : (Others) You're welcome
sys : (Question) Have you started looking for your next job?
usr : Yes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do.
usr : I'm looking forward to start a own business.
usr : Yes i hope so. i'll start planning
sys : (Others) Oh that's exciting! What sort of business?
sys : (Self-disclosure) It's very liberating being your own boss. I used to have a small housecleaning business. I loved being in charge of my own destiny.
usr : small scale business like taking up projects from outsourcing.
sys : (Question) What sort of projects? What field do you work in?
usr : Information technology.
| (Providing Suggestions) I have a small business centre in my city that was very helpful when I was starting up. I wonder if you have that in your city. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
sys : (Others) You're welcome
sys : (Question) Have you started looking for your next job?
usr : Yes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do.
usr : I'm looking forward to start a own business.
usr : Yes i hope so. i'll start planning
sys : (Others) Oh that's exciting! What sort of business?
sys : (Self-disclosure) It's very liberating being your own boss. I used to have a small housecleaning business. I loved being in charge of my own destiny.
usr : small scale business like taking up projects from outsourcing.
sys : (Question) What sort of projects? What field do you work in?
usr : Information technology.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I have a small business centre in my city that was very helpful when I was starting up. I wonder if you have that in your city.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) What a great field to be in, so many opportunities. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
sys : (Others) You're welcome
sys : (Question) Have you started looking for your next job?
usr : Yes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do.
usr : I'm looking forward to start a own business.
usr : Yes i hope so. i'll start planning
sys : (Others) Oh that's exciting! What sort of business?
sys : (Self-disclosure) It's very liberating being your own boss. I used to have a small housecleaning business. I loved being in charge of my own destiny.
usr : small scale business like taking up projects from outsourcing.
sys : (Question) What sort of projects? What field do you work in?
usr : Information technology.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I have a small business centre in my city that was very helpful when I was starting up. I wonder if you have that in your city.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What a great field to be in, so many opportunities.
usr : Yes i would like to search it in my place. Thank you for the information
usr : Yes.
| (Others) You're welcome :) Whereabouts do you live? I'm in Canada. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says
"It the COVID that i lost my hope on building up my carrier in time.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you today?
usr : good, how are you doing?
sys : (Others) All's well with me thank you :)
sys : (Question) Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.
usr : have some issues on life matters !!
sys : (Question) Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?
usr : I'm afraid of what happens to my carrier because of this COVID?
sys : (Question) What sort of carrier?
usr : IT!!
sys : (Others) Or did you mean to say career
usr : Sorry!! yes it career!!
sys : (Question) And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.
usr : COVID affected me my financial status and have more debts
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was
sys : (Question) What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?
usr : Its not permanent.
usr : Thanks for listening to my problems.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure.
sys : (Others) You're welcome
sys : (Question) Have you started looking for your next job?
usr : Yes.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do.
usr : I'm looking forward to start a own business.
usr : Yes i hope so. i'll start planning
sys : (Others) Oh that's exciting! What sort of business?
sys : (Self-disclosure) It's very liberating being your own boss. I used to have a small housecleaning business. I loved being in charge of my own destiny.
usr : small scale business like taking up projects from outsourcing.
sys : (Question) What sort of projects? What field do you work in?
usr : Information technology.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I have a small business centre in my city that was very helpful when I was starting up. I wonder if you have that in your city.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) What a great field to be in, so many opportunities.
usr : Yes i would like to search it in my place. Thank you for the information
usr : Yes.
sys : (Others) You're welcome :) Whereabouts do you live? I'm in Canada.
usr : I'm in West Virginia USA
usr : Thank you it helped talking to you.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I'm glad, it was a pleasure speaking with you. I wish you all the best in your venture. I have faith you will get through this. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | (Question) Good morning how r u | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
| (Question) How r u today |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
| (Question) What seems to be the issue |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
| (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
| (Question) Had you been together for awhile |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
| (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
| (Question) Did he have children with his x |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
| (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
| (Question) Has he been contacting you lately |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
| (Question) was he your 1st love |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
| (Others) How did you meet each other |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
| (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
| (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
| (Others) There is another way to look at this |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
| (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
sys : (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while
| (Question) Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
sys : (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while
sys : (Question) Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you
usr : Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse.
usr : I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.
| (Reflection of feelings) It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
sys : (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while
sys : (Question) Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you
usr : Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse.
usr : I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break
usr : True. At least I can rely on my family.
| (Reflection of feelings) Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
sys : (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while
sys : (Question) Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you
usr : Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse.
usr : I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break
usr : True. At least I can rely on my family.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting
usr : Yes thank you for the encouragement.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
sys : (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while
sys : (Question) Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you
usr : Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse.
usr : I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break
usr : True. At least I can rely on my family.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting
usr : Yes thank you for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating
| (Reflection of feelings) Step out and be patient. Don't allow feelings to control u but let your heart tell you it is real |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
sys : (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while
sys : (Question) Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you
usr : Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse.
usr : I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break
usr : True. At least I can rely on my family.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting
usr : Yes thank you for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Step out and be patient. Don't allow feelings to control u but let your heart tell you it is real
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hope this helped |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
sys : (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while
sys : (Question) Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you
usr : Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse.
usr : I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break
usr : True. At least I can rely on my family.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting
usr : Yes thank you for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Step out and be patient. Don't allow feelings to control u but let your heart tell you it is real
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hope this helped
usr : It did. I needed to talk to someone about it and I needed some encouragement.
usr : Thank you for listening to me and thank you for your help.
| (Providing Suggestions) Just be yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
sys : (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while
sys : (Question) Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you
usr : Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse.
usr : I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break
usr : True. At least I can rely on my family.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting
usr : Yes thank you for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Step out and be patient. Don't allow feelings to control u but let your heart tell you it is real
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hope this helped
usr : It did. I needed to talk to someone about it and I needed some encouragement.
usr : Thank you for listening to me and thank you for your help.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just be yourself.
| (Others) Have a Merry Christmas |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.". | sys : (Question) Good morning how r u
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hope u r having a good dfay
usr : Hello
sys : (Question) How r u today
usr : Not really. I have been sad for a while.
sys : (Question) What seems to be the issue
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you talk about what is going on
usr : I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
sys : (Question) Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I can assume you had been together for awhile
usr : It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
sys : (Question) Had you been together for awhile
usr : We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So he wanted you and made you feel special
sys : (Question) Was the other person someone you knew as well
usr : Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl.
usr : She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well
sys : (Question) Did he have children with his x
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand your sadness
usr : He was. Except she still doesn't know about me.
usr : No children.
sys : (Question) Has he been contacting you lately
usr : It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
sys : (Question) was he your 1st love
usr : Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
sys : (Others) How did you meet each other
sys : (Others) He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
usr : His family member was a friend of mine.
usr : I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
sys : (Question) Has the COVID interfered with you
sys : (Others) There is another way to look at this
usr : Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r
sys : (Others) So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while
sys : (Question) Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you
usr : Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse.
usr : I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break
usr : True. At least I can rely on my family.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting
usr : Yes thank you for the encouragement.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Step out and be patient. Don't allow feelings to control u but let your heart tell you it is real
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hope this helped
usr : It did. I needed to talk to someone about it and I needed some encouragement.
usr : Thank you for listening to me and thank you for your help.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just be yourself.
sys : (Others) Have a Merry Christmas
usr : Will do. Thanks again, you have yourself a Merry Christmas too.
| (Others) ok. Bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
| (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
| (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you.
usr : It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. I am not mad at him, he's a good guy. He was separated when we met. But as all life, it's complicated
| (Self-disclosure) I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you.
usr : It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. I am not mad at him, he's a good guy. He was separated when we met. But as all life, it's complicated
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Each person is put in our life for a reason or season. This may just be the stepping stone to finding your soul mate. The perfect relationship won't feel so tricky in the long run and will make you feel on top of the world! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you.
usr : It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. I am not mad at him, he's a good guy. He was separated when we met. But as all life, it's complicated
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Each person is put in our life for a reason or season. This may just be the stepping stone to finding your soul mate. The perfect relationship won't feel so tricky in the long run and will make you feel on top of the world!
usr : Yes, I had my eyes wide open during the process and he and I were very open with our communication. I can see lots of blessings but I am just so sad. Each day is a challenge to focus
usr : I can't imagine a relationship right now
| (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you really but your heart in to this and I'm sure it hurts. No need to rush relationship. Falling back in love with yourself is the key first. Finding your inner happiness will make the next relationship that much better and stronger! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you.
usr : It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. I am not mad at him, he's a good guy. He was separated when we met. But as all life, it's complicated
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Each person is put in our life for a reason or season. This may just be the stepping stone to finding your soul mate. The perfect relationship won't feel so tricky in the long run and will make you feel on top of the world!
usr : Yes, I had my eyes wide open during the process and he and I were very open with our communication. I can see lots of blessings but I am just so sad. Each day is a challenge to focus
usr : I can't imagine a relationship right now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you really but your heart in to this and I'm sure it hurts. No need to rush relationship. Falling back in love with yourself is the key first. Finding your inner happiness will make the next relationship that much better and stronger!
| (Providing Suggestions) Treat yourself to a few solo dates to find joy in the day to day life you are now building without him. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you.
usr : It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. I am not mad at him, he's a good guy. He was separated when we met. But as all life, it's complicated
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Each person is put in our life for a reason or season. This may just be the stepping stone to finding your soul mate. The perfect relationship won't feel so tricky in the long run and will make you feel on top of the world!
usr : Yes, I had my eyes wide open during the process and he and I were very open with our communication. I can see lots of blessings but I am just so sad. Each day is a challenge to focus
usr : I can't imagine a relationship right now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you really but your heart in to this and I'm sure it hurts. No need to rush relationship. Falling back in love with yourself is the key first. Finding your inner happiness will make the next relationship that much better and stronger!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Treat yourself to a few solo dates to find joy in the day to day life you are now building without him.
usr : I have heard the idea of dating ones self
usr : I haven't been out to eat for over a year due to the pandemic situation
| (Others) It can be fun! No decisons on who wants to go where. It is all about you enjoying the moment and your own company! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you.
usr : It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. I am not mad at him, he's a good guy. He was separated when we met. But as all life, it's complicated
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Each person is put in our life for a reason or season. This may just be the stepping stone to finding your soul mate. The perfect relationship won't feel so tricky in the long run and will make you feel on top of the world!
usr : Yes, I had my eyes wide open during the process and he and I were very open with our communication. I can see lots of blessings but I am just so sad. Each day is a challenge to focus
usr : I can't imagine a relationship right now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you really but your heart in to this and I'm sure it hurts. No need to rush relationship. Falling back in love with yourself is the key first. Finding your inner happiness will make the next relationship that much better and stronger!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Treat yourself to a few solo dates to find joy in the day to day life you are now building without him.
usr : I have heard the idea of dating ones self
usr : I haven't been out to eat for over a year due to the pandemic situation
sys : (Others) It can be fun! No decisons on who wants to go where. It is all about you enjoying the moment and your own company!
| (Providing Suggestions) No need to go out if you feel uncomfortable. Find a movie you have been wanting to watch and order some take out! Or do some online shopping while enjoying your favorite dessert or adult beverage! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you.
usr : It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. I am not mad at him, he's a good guy. He was separated when we met. But as all life, it's complicated
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Each person is put in our life for a reason or season. This may just be the stepping stone to finding your soul mate. The perfect relationship won't feel so tricky in the long run and will make you feel on top of the world!
usr : Yes, I had my eyes wide open during the process and he and I were very open with our communication. I can see lots of blessings but I am just so sad. Each day is a challenge to focus
usr : I can't imagine a relationship right now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you really but your heart in to this and I'm sure it hurts. No need to rush relationship. Falling back in love with yourself is the key first. Finding your inner happiness will make the next relationship that much better and stronger!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Treat yourself to a few solo dates to find joy in the day to day life you are now building without him.
usr : I have heard the idea of dating ones self
usr : I haven't been out to eat for over a year due to the pandemic situation
sys : (Others) It can be fun! No decisons on who wants to go where. It is all about you enjoying the moment and your own company!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) No need to go out if you feel uncomfortable. Find a movie you have been wanting to watch and order some take out! Or do some online shopping while enjoying your favorite dessert or adult beverage!
usr : During this time with the affair, I had the strength to leave a narcissistic spouse that abused me emotionally. I am proud of myself for that.
| (Reflection of feelings) That is a lot to handle! I am proud of you for that as well! No one ever deserves to be abused. Some solo time to rebuild your independance may do you wonders and give you back your strength and self confidence! Seems like the past year has been emotionally draining. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"7 weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop having an affair.". | usr : Hi, I am having a tough time processing a correct decision today
sys : (Question) Good morning. What type of decision is troubling you?
usr : A few weeks ago, my lover and I decided to stop our affair. It is the right choice for him because he feels he should work on his marriage. I admire that, yet It is very lonely for me right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you.
usr : It was a fantastic experience. we were together for 3 years. I am not mad at him, he's a good guy. He was separated when we met. But as all life, it's complicated
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Each person is put in our life for a reason or season. This may just be the stepping stone to finding your soul mate. The perfect relationship won't feel so tricky in the long run and will make you feel on top of the world!
usr : Yes, I had my eyes wide open during the process and he and I were very open with our communication. I can see lots of blessings but I am just so sad. Each day is a challenge to focus
usr : I can't imagine a relationship right now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you really but your heart in to this and I'm sure it hurts. No need to rush relationship. Falling back in love with yourself is the key first. Finding your inner happiness will make the next relationship that much better and stronger!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Treat yourself to a few solo dates to find joy in the day to day life you are now building without him.
usr : I have heard the idea of dating ones self
usr : I haven't been out to eat for over a year due to the pandemic situation
sys : (Others) It can be fun! No decisons on who wants to go where. It is all about you enjoying the moment and your own company!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) No need to go out if you feel uncomfortable. Find a movie you have been wanting to watch and order some take out! Or do some online shopping while enjoying your favorite dessert or adult beverage!
usr : During this time with the affair, I had the strength to leave a narcissistic spouse that abused me emotionally. I am proud of myself for that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That is a lot to handle! I am proud of you for that as well! No one ever deserves to be abused. Some solo time to rebuild your independance may do you wonders and give you back your strength and self confidence! Seems like the past year has been emotionally draining.
usr : It has been. You are right about me focusing on solo time.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I think you know yourself better than anyone else and are about to leap in to a new chapter of your life. You received lessons from both the past relationships and can take that forward knowing what you wish for and deserve. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
| (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.
| (Question) How can I help? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.
sys : (Question) How can I help?
| (Question) How can I help? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.
sys : (Question) How can I help?
sys : (Question) How can I help?
usr : It's okay. Thank you for replying.
usr : So I have some issues with time management.
| (Question) I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.
sys : (Question) How can I help?
sys : (Question) How can I help?
usr : It's okay. Thank you for replying.
usr : So I have some issues with time management.
sys : (Question) I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management?
| (Self-disclosure) I have also struggled with time management. I have found that reminders on my phone, and a planner have been most beneficial to me personally. I understand every situation is different. Do you have a deadline you're trying to meet? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.
sys : (Question) How can I help?
sys : (Question) How can I help?
usr : It's okay. Thank you for replying.
usr : So I have some issues with time management.
sys : (Question) I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have also struggled with time management. I have found that reminders on my phone, and a planner have been most beneficial to me personally. I understand every situation is different. Do you have a deadline you're trying to meet?
usr : I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much.
usr : I have used those tools. With the current environment in the world, I feel like dealines are a waste of time. I'm trying to go with the flow and just set daily goals.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can see how this would be very overwhelming. I have a child learning virtually as well. Similarly, I am a student. I am not working on my masters degree... I can't even imagine. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.
sys : (Question) How can I help?
sys : (Question) How can I help?
usr : It's okay. Thank you for replying.
usr : So I have some issues with time management.
sys : (Question) I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have also struggled with time management. I have found that reminders on my phone, and a planner have been most beneficial to me personally. I understand every situation is different. Do you have a deadline you're trying to meet?
usr : I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much.
usr : I have used those tools. With the current environment in the world, I feel like dealines are a waste of time. I'm trying to go with the flow and just set daily goals.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see how this would be very overwhelming. I have a child learning virtually as well. Similarly, I am a student. I am not working on my masters degree... I can't even imagine.
usr : So you understand how the virtual learning has affected the day to day goals? I used to work during the day, complete my school work when the kids are in bed, but now everything seems so stressful.
| (Providing Suggestions) Is your child old enough to do some of it on their own? I have "independent" or "together" next to each task. I purchased a large magnetic chalk board for our fridge. If your child is to young to do this I could see how this would be much more challenging for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.
sys : (Question) How can I help?
sys : (Question) How can I help?
usr : It's okay. Thank you for replying.
usr : So I have some issues with time management.
sys : (Question) I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have also struggled with time management. I have found that reminders on my phone, and a planner have been most beneficial to me personally. I understand every situation is different. Do you have a deadline you're trying to meet?
usr : I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much.
usr : I have used those tools. With the current environment in the world, I feel like dealines are a waste of time. I'm trying to go with the flow and just set daily goals.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see how this would be very overwhelming. I have a child learning virtually as well. Similarly, I am a student. I am not working on my masters degree... I can't even imagine.
usr : So you understand how the virtual learning has affected the day to day goals? I used to work during the day, complete my school work when the kids are in bed, but now everything seems so stressful.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is your child old enough to do some of it on their own? I have "independent" or "together" next to each task. I purchased a large magnetic chalk board for our fridge. If your child is to young to do this I could see how this would be much more challenging for you.
usr : That's a great idea! Two of my kids are old enough to work independently most of the time, they are 11 and 8. However, I also have a 3 year old that requires constant attention. Unfortunately, her daycare is closed. Even more, I had to take on my nephew because his mother could not handle the virtual learning.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely understand how you feel. Virtual learning has affected our daily goals, though we are doing prerecorded lessons. That does make it easier I am sure. I have a 10 and 2 year old at home with me. One thing that has helped me is support groups. There are so many moms going through the same thing we are at this time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.
sys : (Question) How can I help?
sys : (Question) How can I help?
usr : It's okay. Thank you for replying.
usr : So I have some issues with time management.
sys : (Question) I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have also struggled with time management. I have found that reminders on my phone, and a planner have been most beneficial to me personally. I understand every situation is different. Do you have a deadline you're trying to meet?
usr : I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much.
usr : I have used those tools. With the current environment in the world, I feel like dealines are a waste of time. I'm trying to go with the flow and just set daily goals.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see how this would be very overwhelming. I have a child learning virtually as well. Similarly, I am a student. I am not working on my masters degree... I can't even imagine.
usr : So you understand how the virtual learning has affected the day to day goals? I used to work during the day, complete my school work when the kids are in bed, but now everything seems so stressful.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is your child old enough to do some of it on their own? I have "independent" or "together" next to each task. I purchased a large magnetic chalk board for our fridge. If your child is to young to do this I could see how this would be much more challenging for you.
usr : That's a great idea! Two of my kids are old enough to work independently most of the time, they are 11 and 8. However, I also have a 3 year old that requires constant attention. Unfortunately, her daycare is closed. Even more, I had to take on my nephew because his mother could not handle the virtual learning.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely understand how you feel. Virtual learning has affected our daily goals, though we are doing prerecorded lessons. That does make it easier I am sure. I have a 10 and 2 year old at home with me. One thing that has helped me is support groups. There are so many moms going through the same thing we are at this time.
usr : I never even thought of support groups. It would help to connect with other moms, just to remind myself that I am not alone in this. Thank you so much. You also have a busy bee on your hands!
| (Information) You are not alone in this. You could take the 3 year old to another room if possible and work on phonics/numbers, then help the older children during naptime. Then maybe they could help entertain the 3 year old while you work on your own schoolwork? This is similar to my daily schedule... but as you know with kids you have to go with the flow most of the time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I am trying to complete my Master's degree while having to help my children learn virtually because of the pandemic. Managing my time has not been easy.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.
sys : (Question) How can I help?
sys : (Question) How can I help?
usr : It's okay. Thank you for replying.
usr : So I have some issues with time management.
sys : (Question) I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have also struggled with time management. I have found that reminders on my phone, and a planner have been most beneficial to me personally. I understand every situation is different. Do you have a deadline you're trying to meet?
usr : I am trying to manage having my kids's learn virtually at home, while I'm completing my Master's, and working at night. I feel like I have to drop my Master's because it all seems like too much.
usr : I have used those tools. With the current environment in the world, I feel like dealines are a waste of time. I'm trying to go with the flow and just set daily goals.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see how this would be very overwhelming. I have a child learning virtually as well. Similarly, I am a student. I am not working on my masters degree... I can't even imagine.
usr : So you understand how the virtual learning has affected the day to day goals? I used to work during the day, complete my school work when the kids are in bed, but now everything seems so stressful.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is your child old enough to do some of it on their own? I have "independent" or "together" next to each task. I purchased a large magnetic chalk board for our fridge. If your child is to young to do this I could see how this would be much more challenging for you.
usr : That's a great idea! Two of my kids are old enough to work independently most of the time, they are 11 and 8. However, I also have a 3 year old that requires constant attention. Unfortunately, her daycare is closed. Even more, I had to take on my nephew because his mother could not handle the virtual learning.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I completely understand how you feel. Virtual learning has affected our daily goals, though we are doing prerecorded lessons. That does make it easier I am sure. I have a 10 and 2 year old at home with me. One thing that has helped me is support groups. There are so many moms going through the same thing we are at this time.
usr : I never even thought of support groups. It would help to connect with other moms, just to remind myself that I am not alone in this. Thank you so much. You also have a busy bee on your hands!
sys : (Information) You are not alone in this. You could take the 3 year old to another room if possible and work on phonics/numbers, then help the older children during naptime. Then maybe they could help entertain the 3 year old while you work on your own schoolwork? This is similar to my daily schedule... but as you know with kids you have to go with the flow most of the time.
usr : Definitely have to go with the flow. They make life wondefully unpredictable. Thank you and those are fantastic ideas. I'll have to create a naptime, that would be the most helpful.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It helps so much to talk to other moms who understand. Being a mom is hard enough without all the added extra stress of 2020. It sounds like you're doing the best you can, and your kids will remember that in the long run. You can do this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | (Others) Hello | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
| (Information) Sure. What can I help you with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
| (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
sys : (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?
usr : Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her.
| (Information) Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
sys : (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?
usr : Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her.
sys : (Information) Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative?
usr : They are a mix of both because at one point they were positive and now when I think about it, it brings me down in a negative way.
usr : What have you done in the past to help you move on from a break up?
| (Providing Suggestions) It’s hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
sys : (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?
usr : Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her.
sys : (Information) Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative?
usr : They are a mix of both because at one point they were positive and now when I think about it, it brings me down in a negative way.
usr : What have you done in the past to help you move on from a break up?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It’s hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered.
usr : Yeah I agree that's what I have been doing too, and it's nice to know that you do the same.
| (Self-disclosure) In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didn’t. I have them used this as a tool for the future. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
sys : (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?
usr : Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her.
sys : (Information) Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative?
usr : They are a mix of both because at one point they were positive and now when I think about it, it brings me down in a negative way.
usr : What have you done in the past to help you move on from a break up?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It’s hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered.
usr : Yeah I agree that's what I have been doing too, and it's nice to know that you do the same.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didn’t. I have them used this as a tool for the future.
usr : That's a good way to look at it.
| (Question) You are making good steps to rethink the situations. Is there anything else contributing to the heat rack you still feel? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
sys : (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?
usr : Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her.
sys : (Information) Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative?
usr : They are a mix of both because at one point they were positive and now when I think about it, it brings me down in a negative way.
usr : What have you done in the past to help you move on from a break up?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It’s hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered.
usr : Yeah I agree that's what I have been doing too, and it's nice to know that you do the same.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didn’t. I have them used this as a tool for the future.
usr : That's a good way to look at it.
sys : (Question) You are making good steps to rethink the situations. Is there anything else contributing to the heat rack you still feel?
| (Others) Heartbreak |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
sys : (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?
usr : Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her.
sys : (Information) Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative?
usr : They are a mix of both because at one point they were positive and now when I think about it, it brings me down in a negative way.
usr : What have you done in the past to help you move on from a break up?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It’s hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered.
usr : Yeah I agree that's what I have been doing too, and it's nice to know that you do the same.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didn’t. I have them used this as a tool for the future.
usr : That's a good way to look at it.
sys : (Question) You are making good steps to rethink the situations. Is there anything else contributing to the heat rack you still feel?
sys : (Others) Heartbreak
usr : Well I have also not met anyone since and fear that I will not fall in love again.
| (Self-disclosure) That is difficult. I understand how it feels to be lonely. Something I’ve done when I’ve felt that way was to learn to fall in love with myself. I like to do self care and make time for things I might not have time for if I were in a relationship. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
sys : (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?
usr : Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her.
sys : (Information) Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative?
usr : They are a mix of both because at one point they were positive and now when I think about it, it brings me down in a negative way.
usr : What have you done in the past to help you move on from a break up?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It’s hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered.
usr : Yeah I agree that's what I have been doing too, and it's nice to know that you do the same.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didn’t. I have them used this as a tool for the future.
usr : That's a good way to look at it.
sys : (Question) You are making good steps to rethink the situations. Is there anything else contributing to the heat rack you still feel?
sys : (Others) Heartbreak
usr : Well I have also not met anyone since and fear that I will not fall in love again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That is difficult. I understand how it feels to be lonely. Something I’ve done when I’ve felt that way was to learn to fall in love with myself. I like to do self care and make time for things I might not have time for if I were in a relationship.
usr : hmm interesting I have never thought about falling in love with myself..maybe I will give it a try. Thanks.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s so important to love yourself. Self love breeds confidence and confidence is not only attractive, but powerful in so many ways |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
sys : (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?
usr : Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her.
sys : (Information) Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative?
usr : They are a mix of both because at one point they were positive and now when I think about it, it brings me down in a negative way.
usr : What have you done in the past to help you move on from a break up?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It’s hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered.
usr : Yeah I agree that's what I have been doing too, and it's nice to know that you do the same.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didn’t. I have them used this as a tool for the future.
usr : That's a good way to look at it.
sys : (Question) You are making good steps to rethink the situations. Is there anything else contributing to the heat rack you still feel?
sys : (Others) Heartbreak
usr : Well I have also not met anyone since and fear that I will not fall in love again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That is difficult. I understand how it feels to be lonely. Something I’ve done when I’ve felt that way was to learn to fall in love with myself. I like to do self care and make time for things I might not have time for if I were in a relationship.
usr : hmm interesting I have never thought about falling in love with myself..maybe I will give it a try. Thanks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s so important to love yourself. Self love breeds confidence and confidence is not only attractive, but powerful in so many ways
usr : I appreciate the feedback and support, you have helped me take the next step to move on with my life.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m glad I could help. You will overcome this. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I was in a relationship with the most beautiful woman that I have ever seen or been with. We have been dating for about 3 years and I was planning on spending the rest of my life with her. But I eventually lost her and everything all in a matter of months.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi there I was hoping you can help me.
sys : (Information) Sure. What can I help you with?
usr : Well you see I am heartbroken and I can't seem to move on from a previous relationship, and its been over two years. Do you have any advice?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be.
sys : (Information) What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?
usr : Well I would say mentally because I frequently think about her and constantly have memories throughout the day. Also when i hear a certain song or see a restaurant it makes me think of her.
sys : (Information) Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative?
usr : They are a mix of both because at one point they were positive and now when I think about it, it brings me down in a negative way.
usr : What have you done in the past to help you move on from a break up?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It’s hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered.
usr : Yeah I agree that's what I have been doing too, and it's nice to know that you do the same.
sys : (Self-disclosure) In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didn’t. I have them used this as a tool for the future.
usr : That's a good way to look at it.
sys : (Question) You are making good steps to rethink the situations. Is there anything else contributing to the heat rack you still feel?
sys : (Others) Heartbreak
usr : Well I have also not met anyone since and fear that I will not fall in love again.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That is difficult. I understand how it feels to be lonely. Something I’ve done when I’ve felt that way was to learn to fall in love with myself. I like to do self care and make time for things I might not have time for if I were in a relationship.
usr : hmm interesting I have never thought about falling in love with myself..maybe I will give it a try. Thanks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s so important to love yourself. Self love breeds confidence and confidence is not only attractive, but powerful in so many ways
usr : I appreciate the feedback and support, you have helped me take the next step to move on with my life.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I’m glad I could help. You will overcome this.
usr : Thank you and hope to talk to you again. Have a good night.
| (Others) You too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
| (Others) yes |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
sys : (Others) yes
| (Others) i am here |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
sys : (Others) yes
sys : (Others) i am here
| (Question) Why are you not coming back? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
sys : (Others) yes
sys : (Others) i am here
sys : (Question) Why are you not coming back?
usr : Because of the health risks and also the unhealthy emotional environment with my family
| (Question) What kind of health risks are you concerned about? I imagine that hasn't been easy couple with the tough home environment. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
sys : (Others) yes
sys : (Others) i am here
sys : (Question) Why are you not coming back?
usr : Because of the health risks and also the unhealthy emotional environment with my family
sys : (Question) What kind of health risks are you concerned about? I imagine that hasn't been easy couple with the tough home environment.
usr : Health risks are primarily the pandemic. Covid-19 cases have gotten very high where I live and my family members are not very careful.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are doing the right thing by being careful. During these times, keeping loved ones safe is more important than having gatherings. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
sys : (Others) yes
sys : (Others) i am here
sys : (Question) Why are you not coming back?
usr : Because of the health risks and also the unhealthy emotional environment with my family
sys : (Question) What kind of health risks are you concerned about? I imagine that hasn't been easy couple with the tough home environment.
usr : Health risks are primarily the pandemic. Covid-19 cases have gotten very high where I live and my family members are not very careful.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are doing the right thing by being careful. During these times, keeping loved ones safe is more important than having gatherings.
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you think it would be helpful to express those health concerns with your family? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
sys : (Others) yes
sys : (Others) i am here
sys : (Question) Why are you not coming back?
usr : Because of the health risks and also the unhealthy emotional environment with my family
sys : (Question) What kind of health risks are you concerned about? I imagine that hasn't been easy couple with the tough home environment.
usr : Health risks are primarily the pandemic. Covid-19 cases have gotten very high where I live and my family members are not very careful.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are doing the right thing by being careful. During these times, keeping loved ones safe is more important than having gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think it would be helpful to express those health concerns with your family?
usr : I'm glad you said that. Yes, when I told my family that I wasn't coming, I stated health risks as the reason. But, I am worried that they may insist on me attending as we get closer to the holidays and in some ways I feel guilty because it isn't just the pandemic that makes me not want to go. I usually don't feel great during holidays with my family and I think they are harmful to me overall
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel. I'm currently saving up to move out myself because I think it would give me a chance to think for myself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
sys : (Others) yes
sys : (Others) i am here
sys : (Question) Why are you not coming back?
usr : Because of the health risks and also the unhealthy emotional environment with my family
sys : (Question) What kind of health risks are you concerned about? I imagine that hasn't been easy couple with the tough home environment.
usr : Health risks are primarily the pandemic. Covid-19 cases have gotten very high where I live and my family members are not very careful.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are doing the right thing by being careful. During these times, keeping loved ones safe is more important than having gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think it would be helpful to express those health concerns with your family?
usr : I'm glad you said that. Yes, when I told my family that I wasn't coming, I stated health risks as the reason. But, I am worried that they may insist on me attending as we get closer to the holidays and in some ways I feel guilty because it isn't just the pandemic that makes me not want to go. I usually don't feel great during holidays with my family and I think they are harmful to me overall
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel. I'm currently saving up to move out myself because I think it would give me a chance to think for myself.
usr : Yeah, I think people deserve to build whatever home, family, or environment is best for them and shouldn't be judged for it
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't think you should feel guilty about that because you are looking out for yourself which is the most important thing. And it always helps to voice your feelings to your family. Whether or not they choose to accept it, just getting things off your chest can help too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
sys : (Others) yes
sys : (Others) i am here
sys : (Question) Why are you not coming back?
usr : Because of the health risks and also the unhealthy emotional environment with my family
sys : (Question) What kind of health risks are you concerned about? I imagine that hasn't been easy couple with the tough home environment.
usr : Health risks are primarily the pandemic. Covid-19 cases have gotten very high where I live and my family members are not very careful.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are doing the right thing by being careful. During these times, keeping loved ones safe is more important than having gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think it would be helpful to express those health concerns with your family?
usr : I'm glad you said that. Yes, when I told my family that I wasn't coming, I stated health risks as the reason. But, I am worried that they may insist on me attending as we get closer to the holidays and in some ways I feel guilty because it isn't just the pandemic that makes me not want to go. I usually don't feel great during holidays with my family and I think they are harmful to me overall
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel. I'm currently saving up to move out myself because I think it would give me a chance to think for myself.
usr : Yeah, I think people deserve to build whatever home, family, or environment is best for them and shouldn't be judged for it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't think you should feel guilty about that because you are looking out for yourself which is the most important thing. And it always helps to voice your feelings to your family. Whether or not they choose to accept it, just getting things off your chest can help too.
usr : Yes, it made me feel powerful in some way to say no to going to holidays even if it was in the context of the pandemic
usr : Thank you for helping me. It feels good to at least talk about it.
| (Reflection of feelings) That's good! It's definitely a great thing to look out for yourself rather than trying to please people all the time especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable in the process. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an conflict with parents. The seeker says
"I am afraid of how my parents will react when I tell them that I am not going to attend the holidays". | usr : I am anxious right now about how my family will react when I tell them I'm not coming back for the holidays
usr : Hello?
usr : Are you there?
sys : (Others) yes
sys : (Others) i am here
sys : (Question) Why are you not coming back?
usr : Because of the health risks and also the unhealthy emotional environment with my family
sys : (Question) What kind of health risks are you concerned about? I imagine that hasn't been easy couple with the tough home environment.
usr : Health risks are primarily the pandemic. Covid-19 cases have gotten very high where I live and my family members are not very careful.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are doing the right thing by being careful. During these times, keeping loved ones safe is more important than having gatherings.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think it would be helpful to express those health concerns with your family?
usr : I'm glad you said that. Yes, when I told my family that I wasn't coming, I stated health risks as the reason. But, I am worried that they may insist on me attending as we get closer to the holidays and in some ways I feel guilty because it isn't just the pandemic that makes me not want to go. I usually don't feel great during holidays with my family and I think they are harmful to me overall
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel. I'm currently saving up to move out myself because I think it would give me a chance to think for myself.
usr : Yeah, I think people deserve to build whatever home, family, or environment is best for them and shouldn't be judged for it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't think you should feel guilty about that because you are looking out for yourself which is the most important thing. And it always helps to voice your feelings to your family. Whether or not they choose to accept it, just getting things off your chest can help too.
usr : Yes, it made me feel powerful in some way to say no to going to holidays even if it was in the context of the pandemic
usr : Thank you for helping me. It feels good to at least talk about it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's good! It's definitely a great thing to look out for yourself rather than trying to please people all the time especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable in the process.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome, I can relate so I definitely understand where you are coming from. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner says that I have to move out. I have been trying to find a place to live, but it is difficult.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling frustrated. I have been looking for an alternate place to live, but I have not been able to find a place that I can afford that is close to my work.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one.
usr : My partner said that if I do not move out, they will put my clothes and belonging outside and change the locks. I am very upset about that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?
usr : i do not have much besides my clothes and a dresser. I would prefer to live alone, but I would consider a roommate.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation. |
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