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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have a friend that has admitted that she was using heroin. She got help and is now on suboxone. However, I am not sure if she is really off the heroin. I will talk to her and it is like she gets sleepy and nods off. I have talked to her and she gets mad and denies and says I am not supporting her getting help and that this is why addicts go back to drugs because they are always accused.". | usr : Are you there?
usr : Just wanting advise on how to handle this?
sys : (Question) yes i am here, how are you today? what is the problem your having?
sys : (Others) hello im here thank you. how are you feeling today? whats the prpoblem your having?
sys : (Question) hello. what are you having problems with?
usr : Can you not see my problem above?
sys : (Others) what are you habving issues with today
usr : I wrote a long issue above
sys : (Others) sorry i was having technical difficutlties, but i did not receive a message regarding what your having issues with. can you tell me again please
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) im sorry about that, but im here to help you as much as i can
usr : I have a friend that was using heroin. She said that she has quit and is getting help and is now on suboxone. However, I am not sure if that is the case. There are times that I am talking with her and she has droopy sleepy eyes and kinda nods off. I have comfronted her but she denies any drug use and gets mad and says this is why addicts go back because they get acussed even when they arent using. Any advise on what I should do? Should I just leave it alone and home that she is getting the help she needs? She has 3 kids too.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so your probelm seems to be that you want to believe she is getting the help for her heroin problem, but you are hesitant becasuse of some of her actions when you see her>
usr : yes that is correct. I worry about her and her kids, but I am not sure if she is clean or not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) thats a tough situation to be in with someone you care about, i went through a similiar situation with one of my parents, so i have somewhat of an idea where your coming from.
usr : I just dont want to make her mad and steer her away from me
sys : (Question) are you familiar with anyone else that knows her and her situation and have they shared the same concern? the issue is, suboxone is a narcotic as well, so if shes still getting used to the effects of suboxone, it may seem like shes still using heroin, when in reality shes just struggling getting used to the suboxone
| (Others) maybe you could sit down with her, and without accusing her in any way, ask her how the new medicine is working for her and questions of the sort in order to get a judge of how she acts and how she answers, that may be able to give you a better idea of how much your suspicions are true or not |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have a friend that has admitted that she was using heroin. She got help and is now on suboxone. However, I am not sure if she is really off the heroin. I will talk to her and it is like she gets sleepy and nods off. I have talked to her and she gets mad and denies and says I am not supporting her getting help and that this is why addicts go back to drugs because they are always accused.". | usr : Are you there?
usr : Just wanting advise on how to handle this?
sys : (Question) yes i am here, how are you today? what is the problem your having?
sys : (Others) hello im here thank you. how are you feeling today? whats the prpoblem your having?
sys : (Question) hello. what are you having problems with?
usr : Can you not see my problem above?
sys : (Others) what are you habving issues with today
usr : I wrote a long issue above
sys : (Others) sorry i was having technical difficutlties, but i did not receive a message regarding what your having issues with. can you tell me again please
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) im sorry about that, but im here to help you as much as i can
usr : I have a friend that was using heroin. She said that she has quit and is getting help and is now on suboxone. However, I am not sure if that is the case. There are times that I am talking with her and she has droopy sleepy eyes and kinda nods off. I have comfronted her but she denies any drug use and gets mad and says this is why addicts go back because they get acussed even when they arent using. Any advise on what I should do? Should I just leave it alone and home that she is getting the help she needs? She has 3 kids too.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so your probelm seems to be that you want to believe she is getting the help for her heroin problem, but you are hesitant becasuse of some of her actions when you see her>
usr : yes that is correct. I worry about her and her kids, but I am not sure if she is clean or not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) thats a tough situation to be in with someone you care about, i went through a similiar situation with one of my parents, so i have somewhat of an idea where your coming from.
usr : I just dont want to make her mad and steer her away from me
sys : (Question) are you familiar with anyone else that knows her and her situation and have they shared the same concern? the issue is, suboxone is a narcotic as well, so if shes still getting used to the effects of suboxone, it may seem like shes still using heroin, when in reality shes just struggling getting used to the suboxone
sys : (Others) maybe you could sit down with her, and without accusing her in any way, ask her how the new medicine is working for her and questions of the sort in order to get a judge of how she acts and how she answers, that may be able to give you a better idea of how much your suspicions are true or not
usr : Yes and yes. I have thought it could be the suboxone. That is a good point.
usr : Thanks for your advice.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) thats what im here for. im glad i could give you some input today. i hope you can get this figured out and it isnt as it seems |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have a friend that has admitted that she was using heroin. She got help and is now on suboxone. However, I am not sure if she is really off the heroin. I will talk to her and it is like she gets sleepy and nods off. I have talked to her and she gets mad and denies and says I am not supporting her getting help and that this is why addicts go back to drugs because they are always accused.". | usr : Are you there?
usr : Just wanting advise on how to handle this?
sys : (Question) yes i am here, how are you today? what is the problem your having?
sys : (Others) hello im here thank you. how are you feeling today? whats the prpoblem your having?
sys : (Question) hello. what are you having problems with?
usr : Can you not see my problem above?
sys : (Others) what are you habving issues with today
usr : I wrote a long issue above
sys : (Others) sorry i was having technical difficutlties, but i did not receive a message regarding what your having issues with. can you tell me again please
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) im sorry about that, but im here to help you as much as i can
usr : I have a friend that was using heroin. She said that she has quit and is getting help and is now on suboxone. However, I am not sure if that is the case. There are times that I am talking with her and she has droopy sleepy eyes and kinda nods off. I have comfronted her but she denies any drug use and gets mad and says this is why addicts go back because they get acussed even when they arent using. Any advise on what I should do? Should I just leave it alone and home that she is getting the help she needs? She has 3 kids too.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so your probelm seems to be that you want to believe she is getting the help for her heroin problem, but you are hesitant becasuse of some of her actions when you see her>
usr : yes that is correct. I worry about her and her kids, but I am not sure if she is clean or not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) thats a tough situation to be in with someone you care about, i went through a similiar situation with one of my parents, so i have somewhat of an idea where your coming from.
usr : I just dont want to make her mad and steer her away from me
sys : (Question) are you familiar with anyone else that knows her and her situation and have they shared the same concern? the issue is, suboxone is a narcotic as well, so if shes still getting used to the effects of suboxone, it may seem like shes still using heroin, when in reality shes just struggling getting used to the suboxone
sys : (Others) maybe you could sit down with her, and without accusing her in any way, ask her how the new medicine is working for her and questions of the sort in order to get a judge of how she acts and how she answers, that may be able to give you a better idea of how much your suspicions are true or not
usr : Yes and yes. I have thought it could be the suboxone. That is a good point.
usr : Thanks for your advice.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) thats what im here for. im glad i could give you some input today. i hope you can get this figured out and it isnt as it seems
usr : Me too! To be honest it is my daughter so that is even more alarming!
usr : They don't want to listen to family
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) that must make it that much harder. just do what you can for her without pushing her away, and pray to god she keeps herself on the recovery path. addiction is an evil and vindictive dicease, and it holds no boundaries. never give up on her, as its always key for someone struggling with addiction to always have someone they know they can talk to |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have a friend that has admitted that she was using heroin. She got help and is now on suboxone. However, I am not sure if she is really off the heroin. I will talk to her and it is like she gets sleepy and nods off. I have talked to her and she gets mad and denies and says I am not supporting her getting help and that this is why addicts go back to drugs because they are always accused.". | usr : Are you there?
usr : Just wanting advise on how to handle this?
sys : (Question) yes i am here, how are you today? what is the problem your having?
sys : (Others) hello im here thank you. how are you feeling today? whats the prpoblem your having?
sys : (Question) hello. what are you having problems with?
usr : Can you not see my problem above?
sys : (Others) what are you habving issues with today
usr : I wrote a long issue above
sys : (Others) sorry i was having technical difficutlties, but i did not receive a message regarding what your having issues with. can you tell me again please
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) im sorry about that, but im here to help you as much as i can
usr : I have a friend that was using heroin. She said that she has quit and is getting help and is now on suboxone. However, I am not sure if that is the case. There are times that I am talking with her and she has droopy sleepy eyes and kinda nods off. I have comfronted her but she denies any drug use and gets mad and says this is why addicts go back because they get acussed even when they arent using. Any advise on what I should do? Should I just leave it alone and home that she is getting the help she needs? She has 3 kids too.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so your probelm seems to be that you want to believe she is getting the help for her heroin problem, but you are hesitant becasuse of some of her actions when you see her>
usr : yes that is correct. I worry about her and her kids, but I am not sure if she is clean or not.
sys : (Self-disclosure) thats a tough situation to be in with someone you care about, i went through a similiar situation with one of my parents, so i have somewhat of an idea where your coming from.
usr : I just dont want to make her mad and steer her away from me
sys : (Question) are you familiar with anyone else that knows her and her situation and have they shared the same concern? the issue is, suboxone is a narcotic as well, so if shes still getting used to the effects of suboxone, it may seem like shes still using heroin, when in reality shes just struggling getting used to the suboxone
sys : (Others) maybe you could sit down with her, and without accusing her in any way, ask her how the new medicine is working for her and questions of the sort in order to get a judge of how she acts and how she answers, that may be able to give you a better idea of how much your suspicions are true or not
usr : Yes and yes. I have thought it could be the suboxone. That is a good point.
usr : Thanks for your advice.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) thats what im here for. im glad i could give you some input today. i hope you can get this figured out and it isnt as it seems
usr : Me too! To be honest it is my daughter so that is even more alarming!
usr : They don't want to listen to family
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that must make it that much harder. just do what you can for her without pushing her away, and pray to god she keeps herself on the recovery path. addiction is an evil and vindictive dicease, and it holds no boundaries. never give up on her, as its always key for someone struggling with addiction to always have someone they know they can talk to
usr : Thanks so much
| (Others) anytime. im glad i could help. have a wonderful day, and ill be sure to throw you and your daughter in my prayers. best of luck to you and god bless |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
| (Question) Hello, how are you doing today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
| (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
| (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
| (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
| (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
usr : they will not like those small places
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
usr : they will not like those small places
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding.
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you live somewhere hot or cold? Maybe you can plan something based on enjoying nature. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
usr : they will not like those small places
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you live somewhere hot or cold? Maybe you can plan something based on enjoying nature.
usr : yes oo, you are right
usr : cold
| (Reflection of feelings) It seems like you feel like you will be a disappointment to your loved ones if you can't provide a special holiday celebration for them, is that right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
usr : they will not like those small places
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you live somewhere hot or cold? Maybe you can plan something based on enjoying nature.
usr : yes oo, you are right
usr : cold
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It seems like you feel like you will be a disappointment to your loved ones if you can't provide a special holiday celebration for them, is that right?
usr : You know, it s a kind of tradition what you normally do every year, this year now, you refuse to do anything, think of how they will feel
usr : yes, you are getting my point
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You might be surprised how your loved ones will react though. I think a lot of times it is more about the effort & time that you put into planning something. People will see the effort that you make, you seem very sweet. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
usr : they will not like those small places
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you live somewhere hot or cold? Maybe you can plan something based on enjoying nature.
usr : yes oo, you are right
usr : cold
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It seems like you feel like you will be a disappointment to your loved ones if you can't provide a special holiday celebration for them, is that right?
usr : You know, it s a kind of tradition what you normally do every year, this year now, you refuse to do anything, think of how they will feel
usr : yes, you are getting my point
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You might be surprised how your loved ones will react though. I think a lot of times it is more about the effort & time that you put into planning something. People will see the effort that you make, you seem very sweet.
usr : I need a means to get instant money to hold the party
| (Question) How big of a party will it be? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
usr : they will not like those small places
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you live somewhere hot or cold? Maybe you can plan something based on enjoying nature.
usr : yes oo, you are right
usr : cold
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It seems like you feel like you will be a disappointment to your loved ones if you can't provide a special holiday celebration for them, is that right?
usr : You know, it s a kind of tradition what you normally do every year, this year now, you refuse to do anything, think of how they will feel
usr : yes, you are getting my point
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You might be surprised how your loved ones will react though. I think a lot of times it is more about the effort & time that you put into planning something. People will see the effort that you make, you seem very sweet.
usr : I need a means to get instant money to hold the party
sys : (Question) How big of a party will it be?
usr : neutral party of 1000 dollars
| (Question) That seems like a lot of money to get quick, what part of the party will cost the most money? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
usr : they will not like those small places
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you live somewhere hot or cold? Maybe you can plan something based on enjoying nature.
usr : yes oo, you are right
usr : cold
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It seems like you feel like you will be a disappointment to your loved ones if you can't provide a special holiday celebration for them, is that right?
usr : You know, it s a kind of tradition what you normally do every year, this year now, you refuse to do anything, think of how they will feel
usr : yes, you are getting my point
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You might be surprised how your loved ones will react though. I think a lot of times it is more about the effort & time that you put into planning something. People will see the effort that you make, you seem very sweet.
usr : I need a means to get instant money to hold the party
sys : (Question) How big of a party will it be?
usr : neutral party of 1000 dollars
sys : (Question) That seems like a lot of money to get quick, what part of the party will cost the most money?
usr : We normally hold a club party
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe this year you could have a party in your home? And cook a lot of delicious food & ask people to bring their own drinks |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
usr : they will not like those small places
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you live somewhere hot or cold? Maybe you can plan something based on enjoying nature.
usr : yes oo, you are right
usr : cold
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It seems like you feel like you will be a disappointment to your loved ones if you can't provide a special holiday celebration for them, is that right?
usr : You know, it s a kind of tradition what you normally do every year, this year now, you refuse to do anything, think of how they will feel
usr : yes, you are getting my point
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You might be surprised how your loved ones will react though. I think a lot of times it is more about the effort & time that you put into planning something. People will see the effort that you make, you seem very sweet.
usr : I need a means to get instant money to hold the party
sys : (Question) How big of a party will it be?
usr : neutral party of 1000 dollars
sys : (Question) That seems like a lot of money to get quick, what part of the party will cost the most money?
usr : We normally hold a club party
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe this year you could have a party in your home? And cook a lot of delicious food & ask people to bring their own drinks
usr : or may be I should borrow money and refund it later ,afte the year celebration
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you have to decide whether the party is important enough to borrow money for. Its been such a hard year for everyone, that a party could be good to raise everyone's spirits. However it could make your financial situation worse. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"No money to celebrate christiamass". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello, how are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing good
usr : and you
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.
usr : I need money to celebrate xmas and new year on a big party
usr : I friends and girl friend that I need to take out for this xmas
sys : (Self-disclosure) A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?
usr : yes
usr : and for party
sys : (Question) Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?
usr : around my town, Just to enjoy ourselves for this new year celebration
usr : I am even bordered, I don' t like to be broke
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them?
usr : they will not like those small places
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you live somewhere hot or cold? Maybe you can plan something based on enjoying nature.
usr : yes oo, you are right
usr : cold
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It seems like you feel like you will be a disappointment to your loved ones if you can't provide a special holiday celebration for them, is that right?
usr : You know, it s a kind of tradition what you normally do every year, this year now, you refuse to do anything, think of how they will feel
usr : yes, you are getting my point
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You might be surprised how your loved ones will react though. I think a lot of times it is more about the effort & time that you put into planning something. People will see the effort that you make, you seem very sweet.
usr : I need a means to get instant money to hold the party
sys : (Question) How big of a party will it be?
usr : neutral party of 1000 dollars
sys : (Question) That seems like a lot of money to get quick, what part of the party will cost the most money?
usr : We normally hold a club party
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe this year you could have a party in your home? And cook a lot of delicious food & ask people to bring their own drinks
usr : or may be I should borrow money and refund it later ,afte the year celebration
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you have to decide whether the party is important enough to borrow money for. Its been such a hard year for everyone, that a party could be good to raise everyone's spirits. However it could make your financial situation worse.
usr : okay
usr : I will look for a way out, if no means , I will do a parlor party as u said
usr : thanks for your time
usr : bye
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Don't be afraid to ask the people you love for help! Bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
| (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
| (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
| (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?
usr : That seems like a good idea.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?
usr : That seems like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk.
usr : I'll try to do that, thank you.
| (Providing Suggestions) Remember to take deep breaths, wait for the right time and see if that works for you. I know you can do it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?
usr : That seems like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk.
usr : I'll try to do that, thank you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Remember to take deep breaths, wait for the right time and see if that works for you. I know you can do it.
usr : Thank you so much. I feel like I can talk to someone now.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have faith in you. Is there anything else we need to talk about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?
usr : That seems like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk.
usr : I'll try to do that, thank you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Remember to take deep breaths, wait for the right time and see if that works for you. I know you can do it.
usr : Thank you so much. I feel like I can talk to someone now.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have faith in you. Is there anything else we need to talk about?
usr : No, I'm okay. I feel a little better. I hope I'll be able to talk to a friend soon
usr : Sad!
usr : Actually I need more help
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Remember, the outcome may not be perfect but slowly things will come together. Take it one step at a time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?
usr : That seems like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk.
usr : I'll try to do that, thank you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Remember to take deep breaths, wait for the right time and see if that works for you. I know you can do it.
usr : Thank you so much. I feel like I can talk to someone now.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have faith in you. Is there anything else we need to talk about?
usr : No, I'm okay. I feel a little better. I hope I'll be able to talk to a friend soon
usr : Sad!
usr : Actually I need more help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Remember, the outcome may not be perfect but slowly things will come together. Take it one step at a time.
usr : What step should I take after this one?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) See if the conversation gives you some insight on how things could be better. Maybe you could see things from someone else's perspective. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?
usr : That seems like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk.
usr : I'll try to do that, thank you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Remember to take deep breaths, wait for the right time and see if that works for you. I know you can do it.
usr : Thank you so much. I feel like I can talk to someone now.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have faith in you. Is there anything else we need to talk about?
usr : No, I'm okay. I feel a little better. I hope I'll be able to talk to a friend soon
usr : Sad!
usr : Actually I need more help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Remember, the outcome may not be perfect but slowly things will come together. Take it one step at a time.
usr : What step should I take after this one?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) See if the conversation gives you some insight on how things could be better. Maybe you could see things from someone else's perspective.
usr : Thank you so much!! You're helping me a ton
| (Question) Would you be willing to give it a try? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?
usr : That seems like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk.
usr : I'll try to do that, thank you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Remember to take deep breaths, wait for the right time and see if that works for you. I know you can do it.
usr : Thank you so much. I feel like I can talk to someone now.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have faith in you. Is there anything else we need to talk about?
usr : No, I'm okay. I feel a little better. I hope I'll be able to talk to a friend soon
usr : Sad!
usr : Actually I need more help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Remember, the outcome may not be perfect but slowly things will come together. Take it one step at a time.
usr : What step should I take after this one?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) See if the conversation gives you some insight on how things could be better. Maybe you could see things from someone else's perspective.
usr : Thank you so much!! You're helping me a ton
sys : (Question) Would you be willing to give it a try?
usr : Yes, of course~
| (Providing Suggestions) Also, if that works, then build from there. Remain calm and little by little talk about your concerns. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?
usr : That seems like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk.
usr : I'll try to do that, thank you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Remember to take deep breaths, wait for the right time and see if that works for you. I know you can do it.
usr : Thank you so much. I feel like I can talk to someone now.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have faith in you. Is there anything else we need to talk about?
usr : No, I'm okay. I feel a little better. I hope I'll be able to talk to a friend soon
usr : Sad!
usr : Actually I need more help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Remember, the outcome may not be perfect but slowly things will come together. Take it one step at a time.
usr : What step should I take after this one?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) See if the conversation gives you some insight on how things could be better. Maybe you could see things from someone else's perspective.
usr : Thank you so much!! You're helping me a ton
sys : (Question) Would you be willing to give it a try?
usr : Yes, of course~
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also, if that works, then build from there. Remain calm and little by little talk about your concerns.
usr : That seems very, very smart. Thank you
usr : Im ok noq
usr : now
| (Information) Get some good sleep the night before you try having the conversation so you are at your best. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have always felt like this. I am so sad.". | usr : Hi, I'm very depressed and sad.
usr : Please help
usr : Please help me I need help
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?
usr : I think it's because of my poor relationships in life
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?
usr : I'll try and see if that calms me down.
sys : (Question) Tell me more about the poor relationships you have
usr : My family doesn't like me because I'm bad at school. My friends don't really like me or talk to me much. I feel alone.
sys : (Information) Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?
usr : Not really. I try to talk to my friends but they avoid me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?
usr : That seems like a good idea.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk.
usr : I'll try to do that, thank you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Remember to take deep breaths, wait for the right time and see if that works for you. I know you can do it.
usr : Thank you so much. I feel like I can talk to someone now.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have faith in you. Is there anything else we need to talk about?
usr : No, I'm okay. I feel a little better. I hope I'll be able to talk to a friend soon
usr : Sad!
usr : Actually I need more help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Remember, the outcome may not be perfect but slowly things will come together. Take it one step at a time.
usr : What step should I take after this one?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) See if the conversation gives you some insight on how things could be better. Maybe you could see things from someone else's perspective.
usr : Thank you so much!! You're helping me a ton
sys : (Question) Would you be willing to give it a try?
usr : Yes, of course~
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also, if that works, then build from there. Remain calm and little by little talk about your concerns.
usr : That seems very, very smart. Thank you
usr : Im ok noq
usr : now
sys : (Information) Get some good sleep the night before you try having the conversation so you are at your best.
usr : Yes, I promise I will. I'm going to go rest now. Thank you again.
| (Others) You are welcome. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | (Question) Hello, how are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
| (Question) I am good. What is on your mind? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness.
usr : Thank you. I really would like to get my motivation back
| (Reflection of feelings) You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness.
usr : Thank you. I really would like to get my motivation back
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.
usr : Yes, with some hard work, I'm certain it can return. Do you do anything to keep yourself motivated?
| (Self-disclosure) I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness.
usr : Thank you. I really would like to get my motivation back
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.
usr : Yes, with some hard work, I'm certain it can return. Do you do anything to keep yourself motivated?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum.
usr : That is a good advice
usr : I will start to focus on smaller tasks first
| (Information) It helps to get things moving and becomes a good habit. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness.
usr : Thank you. I really would like to get my motivation back
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.
usr : Yes, with some hard work, I'm certain it can return. Do you do anything to keep yourself motivated?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum.
usr : That is a good advice
usr : I will start to focus on smaller tasks first
sys : (Information) It helps to get things moving and becomes a good habit.
usr : Yes, sometimes it is hard to just get into that groove
| (Providing Suggestions) Getting yourself to bed and waking up at a good time will help too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness.
usr : Thank you. I really would like to get my motivation back
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.
usr : Yes, with some hard work, I'm certain it can return. Do you do anything to keep yourself motivated?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum.
usr : That is a good advice
usr : I will start to focus on smaller tasks first
sys : (Information) It helps to get things moving and becomes a good habit.
usr : Yes, sometimes it is hard to just get into that groove
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Getting yourself to bed and waking up at a good time will help too.
usr : Yes, I am not very good at getting good night rests
| (Providing Suggestions) Make sure to cease intake of caffeine at least 6 hours before you want to go to bed. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness.
usr : Thank you. I really would like to get my motivation back
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.
usr : Yes, with some hard work, I'm certain it can return. Do you do anything to keep yourself motivated?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum.
usr : That is a good advice
usr : I will start to focus on smaller tasks first
sys : (Information) It helps to get things moving and becomes a good habit.
usr : Yes, sometimes it is hard to just get into that groove
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Getting yourself to bed and waking up at a good time will help too.
usr : Yes, I am not very good at getting good night rests
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Make sure to cease intake of caffeine at least 6 hours before you want to go to bed.
usr : Should I stop playing on my mobile device as well?
| (Information) True. The blue light emitted tricks your body in to thinking that it wants to be alert still. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness.
usr : Thank you. I really would like to get my motivation back
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.
usr : Yes, with some hard work, I'm certain it can return. Do you do anything to keep yourself motivated?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum.
usr : That is a good advice
usr : I will start to focus on smaller tasks first
sys : (Information) It helps to get things moving and becomes a good habit.
usr : Yes, sometimes it is hard to just get into that groove
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Getting yourself to bed and waking up at a good time will help too.
usr : Yes, I am not very good at getting good night rests
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Make sure to cease intake of caffeine at least 6 hours before you want to go to bed.
usr : Should I stop playing on my mobile device as well?
sys : (Information) True. The blue light emitted tricks your body in to thinking that it wants to be alert still.
usr : I will try and stop using it right before bed then.
| (Self-disclosure) I think that taking care of your basic needs like eating and sleeping will help in other aspects of life. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness.
usr : Thank you. I really would like to get my motivation back
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.
usr : Yes, with some hard work, I'm certain it can return. Do you do anything to keep yourself motivated?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum.
usr : That is a good advice
usr : I will start to focus on smaller tasks first
sys : (Information) It helps to get things moving and becomes a good habit.
usr : Yes, sometimes it is hard to just get into that groove
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Getting yourself to bed and waking up at a good time will help too.
usr : Yes, I am not very good at getting good night rests
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Make sure to cease intake of caffeine at least 6 hours before you want to go to bed.
usr : Should I stop playing on my mobile device as well?
sys : (Information) True. The blue light emitted tricks your body in to thinking that it wants to be alert still.
usr : I will try and stop using it right before bed then.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think that taking care of your basic needs like eating and sleeping will help in other aspects of life.
usr : i think that is great advice and I will start there!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will do great. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Procrastination. The seeker says
"I have no motivation to finish my work assignments". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
usr : I'm ok. How are you?
sys : (Question) I am good. What is on your mind?
usr : I have had little motivation to get out of bed and go to work lately.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.
usr : Yes, do you have any advice to help me?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness.
usr : Thank you. I really would like to get my motivation back
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.
usr : Yes, with some hard work, I'm certain it can return. Do you do anything to keep yourself motivated?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum.
usr : That is a good advice
usr : I will start to focus on smaller tasks first
sys : (Information) It helps to get things moving and becomes a good habit.
usr : Yes, sometimes it is hard to just get into that groove
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Getting yourself to bed and waking up at a good time will help too.
usr : Yes, I am not very good at getting good night rests
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Make sure to cease intake of caffeine at least 6 hours before you want to go to bed.
usr : Should I stop playing on my mobile device as well?
sys : (Information) True. The blue light emitted tricks your body in to thinking that it wants to be alert still.
usr : I will try and stop using it right before bed then.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I think that taking care of your basic needs like eating and sleeping will help in other aspects of life.
usr : i think that is great advice and I will start there!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You will do great.
usr : Thank you, I appreciate your time. I hope you have a great day.
| (Information) Thanks and I hope you do too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
| (Question) HI! May I help you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
sys : (Question) HI! May I help you?
usr : yes our team seems to be failling the senior project
usr : advisor never said that there was issues, prof does not want to hear it. team mates not doing a lot and I had 3 surgeries in the past 2 month
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
sys : (Question) HI! May I help you?
usr : yes our team seems to be failling the senior project
usr : advisor never said that there was issues, prof does not want to hear it. team mates not doing a lot and I had 3 surgeries in the past 2 month
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team
usr : now i might have to go an addittional semester to college
usr : well we either succeed all or nobody
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Let's calm down. You can discuss with your professor |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
sys : (Question) HI! May I help you?
usr : yes our team seems to be failling the senior project
usr : advisor never said that there was issues, prof does not want to hear it. team mates not doing a lot and I had 3 surgeries in the past 2 month
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team
usr : now i might have to go an addittional semester to college
usr : well we either succeed all or nobody
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Let's calm down. You can discuss with your professor
usr : I tried but he does not want to hear it he said we all need to do this together and due to restrictions we would not be able to complete on time
| (Providing Suggestions) You can meet all the team members and may meet the higher official to solve the problem |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
sys : (Question) HI! May I help you?
usr : yes our team seems to be failling the senior project
usr : advisor never said that there was issues, prof does not want to hear it. team mates not doing a lot and I had 3 surgeries in the past 2 month
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team
usr : now i might have to go an addittional semester to college
usr : well we either succeed all or nobody
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Let's calm down. You can discuss with your professor
usr : I tried but he does not want to hear it he said we all need to do this together and due to restrictions we would not be able to complete on time
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can meet all the team members and may meet the higher official to solve the problem
usr : He said there is nothing that can be done...he just brushes it off, and how do i tell my parents i need another semester to finish my degree
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make an effort to solve it .Because there will be a solution for each and every problem |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
sys : (Question) HI! May I help you?
usr : yes our team seems to be failling the senior project
usr : advisor never said that there was issues, prof does not want to hear it. team mates not doing a lot and I had 3 surgeries in the past 2 month
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team
usr : now i might have to go an addittional semester to college
usr : well we either succeed all or nobody
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Let's calm down. You can discuss with your professor
usr : I tried but he does not want to hear it he said we all need to do this together and due to restrictions we would not be able to complete on time
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can meet all the team members and may meet the higher official to solve the problem
usr : He said there is nothing that can be done...he just brushes it off, and how do i tell my parents i need another semester to finish my degree
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make an effort to solve it .Because there will be a solution for each and every problem
usr : well it seems the solution right now is to start over and add a semester...
| (Providing Suggestions) You can provide the doctor certificate and meet your parents to professor so that the actual reason can be understood by him |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
sys : (Question) HI! May I help you?
usr : yes our team seems to be failling the senior project
usr : advisor never said that there was issues, prof does not want to hear it. team mates not doing a lot and I had 3 surgeries in the past 2 month
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team
usr : now i might have to go an addittional semester to college
usr : well we either succeed all or nobody
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Let's calm down. You can discuss with your professor
usr : I tried but he does not want to hear it he said we all need to do this together and due to restrictions we would not be able to complete on time
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can meet all the team members and may meet the higher official to solve the problem
usr : He said there is nothing that can be done...he just brushes it off, and how do i tell my parents i need another semester to finish my degree
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make an effort to solve it .Because there will be a solution for each and every problem
usr : well it seems the solution right now is to start over and add a semester...
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can provide the doctor certificate and meet your parents to professor so that the actual reason can be understood by him
usr : I understand that part but it takes 3 semesters for a senior project so if i resart since this one is declared a failure i will have to add a semester...thats more money and maybe i loose the job i was to start
usr : maybe I am just freaking out???
| (Providing Suggestions) semester may be started. so, don't worry. If professor not doing, you can directly approach you principal |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
sys : (Question) HI! May I help you?
usr : yes our team seems to be failling the senior project
usr : advisor never said that there was issues, prof does not want to hear it. team mates not doing a lot and I had 3 surgeries in the past 2 month
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team
usr : now i might have to go an addittional semester to college
usr : well we either succeed all or nobody
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Let's calm down. You can discuss with your professor
usr : I tried but he does not want to hear it he said we all need to do this together and due to restrictions we would not be able to complete on time
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can meet all the team members and may meet the higher official to solve the problem
usr : He said there is nothing that can be done...he just brushes it off, and how do i tell my parents i need another semester to finish my degree
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make an effort to solve it .Because there will be a solution for each and every problem
usr : well it seems the solution right now is to start over and add a semester...
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can provide the doctor certificate and meet your parents to professor so that the actual reason can be understood by him
usr : I understand that part but it takes 3 semesters for a senior project so if i resart since this one is declared a failure i will have to add a semester...thats more money and maybe i loose the job i was to start
usr : maybe I am just freaking out???
sys : (Providing Suggestions) semester may be started. so, don't worry. If professor not doing, you can directly approach you principal
usr : you think it makes me look like a failure???
| (Information) No, I dont think so |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
sys : (Question) HI! May I help you?
usr : yes our team seems to be failling the senior project
usr : advisor never said that there was issues, prof does not want to hear it. team mates not doing a lot and I had 3 surgeries in the past 2 month
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team
usr : now i might have to go an addittional semester to college
usr : well we either succeed all or nobody
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Let's calm down. You can discuss with your professor
usr : I tried but he does not want to hear it he said we all need to do this together and due to restrictions we would not be able to complete on time
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can meet all the team members and may meet the higher official to solve the problem
usr : He said there is nothing that can be done...he just brushes it off, and how do i tell my parents i need another semester to finish my degree
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make an effort to solve it .Because there will be a solution for each and every problem
usr : well it seems the solution right now is to start over and add a semester...
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can provide the doctor certificate and meet your parents to professor so that the actual reason can be understood by him
usr : I understand that part but it takes 3 semesters for a senior project so if i resart since this one is declared a failure i will have to add a semester...thats more money and maybe i loose the job i was to start
usr : maybe I am just freaking out???
sys : (Providing Suggestions) semester may be started. so, don't worry. If professor not doing, you can directly approach you principal
usr : you think it makes me look like a failure???
sys : (Information) No, I dont think so
usr : but if i was your kid would you be disapointed?
| (Others) Make a positive approach |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I seem to be failing my senior project by no fault of mine or very little fault of mine and proffessors do not want to hear about it.". | usr : we work in teams nobody besides me did anything and advisor did never say we where behind or anything
sys : (Question) HI! May I help you?
usr : yes our team seems to be failling the senior project
usr : advisor never said that there was issues, prof does not want to hear it. team mates not doing a lot and I had 3 surgeries in the past 2 month
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team
usr : now i might have to go an addittional semester to college
usr : well we either succeed all or nobody
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Let's calm down. You can discuss with your professor
usr : I tried but he does not want to hear it he said we all need to do this together and due to restrictions we would not be able to complete on time
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can meet all the team members and may meet the higher official to solve the problem
usr : He said there is nothing that can be done...he just brushes it off, and how do i tell my parents i need another semester to finish my degree
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Make an effort to solve it .Because there will be a solution for each and every problem
usr : well it seems the solution right now is to start over and add a semester...
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You can provide the doctor certificate and meet your parents to professor so that the actual reason can be understood by him
usr : I understand that part but it takes 3 semesters for a senior project so if i resart since this one is declared a failure i will have to add a semester...thats more money and maybe i loose the job i was to start
usr : maybe I am just freaking out???
sys : (Providing Suggestions) semester may be started. so, don't worry. If professor not doing, you can directly approach you principal
usr : you think it makes me look like a failure???
sys : (Information) No, I dont think so
usr : but if i was your kid would you be disapointed?
sys : (Others) Make a positive approach
usr : so you think i just need to talk to them?
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes, but I make an effort to solve it. So, I need you to talk again. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
| (Question) How may I assist you ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong
usr : That’s right. I have three final exams next week and I’ve had the flu so I haven’t been able to study at all.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong
usr : That’s right. I have three final exams next week and I’ve had the flu so I haven’t been able to study at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way
usr : I’m sure I can figure something out. I’ll definitely have to study all weekend. I just really need to pass. Do you know any good tricks to help study?
| (Reflection of feelings) I can easily see your seriousness and dedication for your studies. That is awesome thing |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong
usr : That’s right. I have three final exams next week and I’ve had the flu so I haven’t been able to study at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way
usr : I’m sure I can figure something out. I’ll definitely have to study all weekend. I just really need to pass. Do you know any good tricks to help study?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can easily see your seriousness and dedication for your studies. That is awesome thing
usr : Thanks! Education is very important in my family. My dad was a teacher so I’ve always had to live up to high expectations.
| (Self-disclosure) you should take a complete rest for 2-3 hours without worrying and then get up and eat something tasty and healthy. Afterwards sit for preparing for your exam. That's what I do and it helps me a lot. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong
usr : That’s right. I have three final exams next week and I’ve had the flu so I haven’t been able to study at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way
usr : I’m sure I can figure something out. I’ll definitely have to study all weekend. I just really need to pass. Do you know any good tricks to help study?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can easily see your seriousness and dedication for your studies. That is awesome thing
usr : Thanks! Education is very important in my family. My dad was a teacher so I’ve always had to live up to high expectations.
sys : (Self-disclosure) you should take a complete rest for 2-3 hours without worrying and then get up and eat something tasty and healthy. Afterwards sit for preparing for your exam. That's what I do and it helps me a lot.
usr : I love that idea! I think I’ll feel much better if I take that time to just relax before I really start working.
| (Information) There is a famous quote " Worry is a total waste of time. It doesn't change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keep you busy doing nothing." |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong
usr : That’s right. I have three final exams next week and I’ve had the flu so I haven’t been able to study at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way
usr : I’m sure I can figure something out. I’ll definitely have to study all weekend. I just really need to pass. Do you know any good tricks to help study?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can easily see your seriousness and dedication for your studies. That is awesome thing
usr : Thanks! Education is very important in my family. My dad was a teacher so I’ve always had to live up to high expectations.
sys : (Self-disclosure) you should take a complete rest for 2-3 hours without worrying and then get up and eat something tasty and healthy. Afterwards sit for preparing for your exam. That's what I do and it helps me a lot.
usr : I love that idea! I think I’ll feel much better if I take that time to just relax before I really start working.
sys : (Information) There is a famous quote " Worry is a total waste of time. It doesn't change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keep you busy doing nothing."
usr : Whoever said that sure knew what they were talking about. It’s so true!
usr : Any snack recommendations? I’ve got some fruit on hand, but it’s a little boring by itself lol
| (Providing Suggestions) I definitely recommend trail mix or chex mix and one of my favorites is banana chips! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong
usr : That’s right. I have three final exams next week and I’ve had the flu so I haven’t been able to study at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way
usr : I’m sure I can figure something out. I’ll definitely have to study all weekend. I just really need to pass. Do you know any good tricks to help study?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can easily see your seriousness and dedication for your studies. That is awesome thing
usr : Thanks! Education is very important in my family. My dad was a teacher so I’ve always had to live up to high expectations.
sys : (Self-disclosure) you should take a complete rest for 2-3 hours without worrying and then get up and eat something tasty and healthy. Afterwards sit for preparing for your exam. That's what I do and it helps me a lot.
usr : I love that idea! I think I’ll feel much better if I take that time to just relax before I really start working.
sys : (Information) There is a famous quote " Worry is a total waste of time. It doesn't change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keep you busy doing nothing."
usr : Whoever said that sure knew what they were talking about. It’s so true!
usr : Any snack recommendations? I’ve got some fruit on hand, but it’s a little boring by itself lol
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I definitely recommend trail mix or chex mix and one of my favorites is banana chips!
usr : I don’t think I’ve ever tried banana chips! I’ll have to see if my grocery store has got them. Maybe I can get some delivered by the time I’m ready to study
| (Others) you can find it in any grocery store easily known as Plantain chips |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong
usr : That’s right. I have three final exams next week and I’ve had the flu so I haven’t been able to study at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way
usr : I’m sure I can figure something out. I’ll definitely have to study all weekend. I just really need to pass. Do you know any good tricks to help study?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can easily see your seriousness and dedication for your studies. That is awesome thing
usr : Thanks! Education is very important in my family. My dad was a teacher so I’ve always had to live up to high expectations.
sys : (Self-disclosure) you should take a complete rest for 2-3 hours without worrying and then get up and eat something tasty and healthy. Afterwards sit for preparing for your exam. That's what I do and it helps me a lot.
usr : I love that idea! I think I’ll feel much better if I take that time to just relax before I really start working.
sys : (Information) There is a famous quote " Worry is a total waste of time. It doesn't change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keep you busy doing nothing."
usr : Whoever said that sure knew what they were talking about. It’s so true!
usr : Any snack recommendations? I’ve got some fruit on hand, but it’s a little boring by itself lol
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I definitely recommend trail mix or chex mix and one of my favorites is banana chips!
usr : I don’t think I’ve ever tried banana chips! I’ll have to see if my grocery store has got them. Maybe I can get some delivered by the time I’m ready to study
sys : (Others) you can find it in any grocery store easily known as Plantain chips
| (Others) hope you are feeling much better now |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong
usr : That’s right. I have three final exams next week and I’ve had the flu so I haven’t been able to study at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way
usr : I’m sure I can figure something out. I’ll definitely have to study all weekend. I just really need to pass. Do you know any good tricks to help study?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can easily see your seriousness and dedication for your studies. That is awesome thing
usr : Thanks! Education is very important in my family. My dad was a teacher so I’ve always had to live up to high expectations.
sys : (Self-disclosure) you should take a complete rest for 2-3 hours without worrying and then get up and eat something tasty and healthy. Afterwards sit for preparing for your exam. That's what I do and it helps me a lot.
usr : I love that idea! I think I’ll feel much better if I take that time to just relax before I really start working.
sys : (Information) There is a famous quote " Worry is a total waste of time. It doesn't change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keep you busy doing nothing."
usr : Whoever said that sure knew what they were talking about. It’s so true!
usr : Any snack recommendations? I’ve got some fruit on hand, but it’s a little boring by itself lol
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I definitely recommend trail mix or chex mix and one of my favorites is banana chips!
usr : I don’t think I’ve ever tried banana chips! I’ll have to see if my grocery store has got them. Maybe I can get some delivered by the time I’m ready to study
sys : (Others) you can find it in any grocery store easily known as Plantain chips
sys : (Others) hope you are feeling much better now
usr : Thanks so much! I’ve added them and some of my favorite trail mix to my cart. Should be delivered in 1 hour!
usr : I am feeling better. Thanks so much for the advice :)
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's great to know and best wishes for your exams. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"College finals are next week and I have been sic so I gave them been able to study like I wanted to.". | sys : (Others) hi! Hope you are doing well today
sys : (Question) How may I assist you ?
usr : Hey! I’ve been better. Just so stressed out! I don’t handle pressure well.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong
usr : That’s right. I have three final exams next week and I’ve had the flu so I haven’t been able to study at all.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way
usr : I’m sure I can figure something out. I’ll definitely have to study all weekend. I just really need to pass. Do you know any good tricks to help study?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can easily see your seriousness and dedication for your studies. That is awesome thing
usr : Thanks! Education is very important in my family. My dad was a teacher so I’ve always had to live up to high expectations.
sys : (Self-disclosure) you should take a complete rest for 2-3 hours without worrying and then get up and eat something tasty and healthy. Afterwards sit for preparing for your exam. That's what I do and it helps me a lot.
usr : I love that idea! I think I’ll feel much better if I take that time to just relax before I really start working.
sys : (Information) There is a famous quote " Worry is a total waste of time. It doesn't change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keep you busy doing nothing."
usr : Whoever said that sure knew what they were talking about. It’s so true!
usr : Any snack recommendations? I’ve got some fruit on hand, but it’s a little boring by itself lol
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I definitely recommend trail mix or chex mix and one of my favorites is banana chips!
usr : I don’t think I’ve ever tried banana chips! I’ll have to see if my grocery store has got them. Maybe I can get some delivered by the time I’m ready to study
sys : (Others) you can find it in any grocery store easily known as Plantain chips
sys : (Others) hope you are feeling much better now
usr : Thanks so much! I’ve added them and some of my favorite trail mix to my cart. Should be delivered in 1 hour!
usr : I am feeling better. Thanks so much for the advice :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's great to know and best wishes for your exams.
usr : Thank you. Enjoy the rest of your day!
| (Providing Suggestions) you too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
| (Others) Hello! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
| (Question) How are you doing tonight? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
| (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
| (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
| (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
| (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
| (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
| (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
| (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
sys : (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better?
usr : She said that she was busy with other stuff
| (Question) Has that happened to you in other relationships? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
sys : (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better?
usr : She said that she was busy with other stuff
sys : (Question) Has that happened to you in other relationships?
usr : Never been in another one
usr : I've had crushes, but it never went past that for various reasons
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have not had any successful relationships since then? Do you think that is why you feel depressed? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
sys : (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better?
usr : She said that she was busy with other stuff
sys : (Question) Has that happened to you in other relationships?
usr : Never been in another one
usr : I've had crushes, but it never went past that for various reasons
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have not had any successful relationships since then? Do you think that is why you feel depressed?
usr : I don't think so
usr : The thing is, I'm still friends with her
| (Reflection of feelings) So that is good, that even after the end of your romantic relationship you were still able to maintain a friendship. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
sys : (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better?
usr : She said that she was busy with other stuff
sys : (Question) Has that happened to you in other relationships?
usr : Never been in another one
usr : I've had crushes, but it never went past that for various reasons
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have not had any successful relationships since then? Do you think that is why you feel depressed?
usr : I don't think so
usr : The thing is, I'm still friends with her
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So that is good, that even after the end of your romantic relationship you were still able to maintain a friendship.
usr : It's rather awkward, tho. We don't even talk often
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about volunteering in a position where you could be helpful to others? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
sys : (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better?
usr : She said that she was busy with other stuff
sys : (Question) Has that happened to you in other relationships?
usr : Never been in another one
usr : I've had crushes, but it never went past that for various reasons
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have not had any successful relationships since then? Do you think that is why you feel depressed?
usr : I don't think so
usr : The thing is, I'm still friends with her
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So that is good, that even after the end of your romantic relationship you were still able to maintain a friendship.
usr : It's rather awkward, tho. We don't even talk often
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about volunteering in a position where you could be helpful to others?
| (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that you are still friends even though you don't speak to each other often? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
sys : (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better?
usr : She said that she was busy with other stuff
sys : (Question) Has that happened to you in other relationships?
usr : Never been in another one
usr : I've had crushes, but it never went past that for various reasons
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have not had any successful relationships since then? Do you think that is why you feel depressed?
usr : I don't think so
usr : The thing is, I'm still friends with her
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So that is good, that even after the end of your romantic relationship you were still able to maintain a friendship.
usr : It's rather awkward, tho. We don't even talk often
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about volunteering in a position where you could be helpful to others?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that you are still friends even though you don't speak to each other often?
usr : I've done such thing during the summer
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that you spoke to her this summer and that made you feel depressed about the breakup? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
sys : (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better?
usr : She said that she was busy with other stuff
sys : (Question) Has that happened to you in other relationships?
usr : Never been in another one
usr : I've had crushes, but it never went past that for various reasons
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have not had any successful relationships since then? Do you think that is why you feel depressed?
usr : I don't think so
usr : The thing is, I'm still friends with her
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So that is good, that even after the end of your romantic relationship you were still able to maintain a friendship.
usr : It's rather awkward, tho. We don't even talk often
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about volunteering in a position where you could be helpful to others?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that you are still friends even though you don't speak to each other often?
usr : I've done such thing during the summer
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that you spoke to her this summer and that made you feel depressed about the breakup?
usr : Oh no, I mean volunteering
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a great idea, did it give you satisfaction? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
sys : (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better?
usr : She said that she was busy with other stuff
sys : (Question) Has that happened to you in other relationships?
usr : Never been in another one
usr : I've had crushes, but it never went past that for various reasons
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have not had any successful relationships since then? Do you think that is why you feel depressed?
usr : I don't think so
usr : The thing is, I'm still friends with her
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So that is good, that even after the end of your romantic relationship you were still able to maintain a friendship.
usr : It's rather awkward, tho. We don't even talk often
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about volunteering in a position where you could be helpful to others?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that you are still friends even though you don't speak to each other often?
usr : I've done such thing during the summer
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that you spoke to her this summer and that made you feel depressed about the breakup?
usr : Oh no, I mean volunteering
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a great idea, did it give you satisfaction?
usr : Yes, I most certainly enjoy it
| (Providing Suggestions) That is really good to hear. Hopefully you can continue to do that and help yourself by helping others. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner called me during the summer and has broken up with me.". | usr : Hello?
sys : (Others) Hello!
sys : (Question) How are you doing tonight?
usr : I'm doing alright
usr : How about you?
sys : (Others) You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?
usr : I've just been feeling a little down about the breakup, even though it was like 4 years ago
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?
usr : Yes
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.
usr : Initially, I was sad about being heart broken, but later I became more concerned about why I had a strange complex I never even knew I had
usr : Which I never discovered until recently
sys : (Question) Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?
usr : When I first met my partner, she was at a low point in her life
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?
usr : Yea
sys : (Question) Did her being depressed have an effect on you?
usr : Naturally, I wanted to help her, even though I felt somewhat uncomfortable at first
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable.
usr : So I stuck with her and saw her become better
usr : even made some friends along the way
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.
usr : However, I suddenly started to feel a little depressed for some reason
sys : (Question) So as she became better, you started to feel worse?
usr : I believe it's because I felt useless after that point
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?
usr : I didn't lose interest, it was just that I had this strange complex where I needed to feel needed
sys : (Question) or did she reject you once she felt better?
usr : She said that she was busy with other stuff
sys : (Question) Has that happened to you in other relationships?
usr : Never been in another one
usr : I've had crushes, but it never went past that for various reasons
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have not had any successful relationships since then? Do you think that is why you feel depressed?
usr : I don't think so
usr : The thing is, I'm still friends with her
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So that is good, that even after the end of your romantic relationship you were still able to maintain a friendship.
usr : It's rather awkward, tho. We don't even talk often
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you thought about volunteering in a position where you could be helpful to others?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you feel that you are still friends even though you don't speak to each other often?
usr : I've done such thing during the summer
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what you are saying is that you spoke to her this summer and that made you feel depressed about the breakup?
usr : Oh no, I mean volunteering
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like a great idea, did it give you satisfaction?
usr : Yes, I most certainly enjoy it
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is really good to hear. Hopefully you can continue to do that and help yourself by helping others.
| (Others) Maybe we can talk more at a later time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
| (Question) Hello! How are you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : I have been better. Staying home due to pandemic has been challenging.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : I have been better. Staying home due to pandemic has been challenging.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now.
usr : I feel like all i do is wait on my children!
| (Self-disclosure) I can agree with that! My children seems to always be needing something. It can sometimes feel overwhelming. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : I have been better. Staying home due to pandemic has been challenging.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now.
usr : I feel like all i do is wait on my children!
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can agree with that! My children seems to always be needing something. It can sometimes feel overwhelming.
usr : very overwhelming because there are no days off on the horizon.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to friends or other family members to help take some of the load off? It may help to even get an afternoon for yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : I have been better. Staying home due to pandemic has been challenging.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now.
usr : I feel like all i do is wait on my children!
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can agree with that! My children seems to always be needing something. It can sometimes feel overwhelming.
usr : very overwhelming because there are no days off on the horizon.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to friends or other family members to help take some of the load off? It may help to even get an afternoon for yourself.
usr : The pandemic has kept everyone at a distance.
| (Reflection of feelings) Yes this would also make me feel isolated as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : I have been better. Staying home due to pandemic has been challenging.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now.
usr : I feel like all i do is wait on my children!
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can agree with that! My children seems to always be needing something. It can sometimes feel overwhelming.
usr : very overwhelming because there are no days off on the horizon.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to friends or other family members to help take some of the load off? It may help to even get an afternoon for yourself.
usr : The pandemic has kept everyone at a distance.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes this would also make me feel isolated as well.
usr : without a paycheck like i received at work I also feel underappreciated
| (Information) I have heard of some people receiving assistance from their community by supplying food and basic needs. This may be worth looking into. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : I have been better. Staying home due to pandemic has been challenging.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now.
usr : I feel like all i do is wait on my children!
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can agree with that! My children seems to always be needing something. It can sometimes feel overwhelming.
usr : very overwhelming because there are no days off on the horizon.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to friends or other family members to help take some of the load off? It may help to even get an afternoon for yourself.
usr : The pandemic has kept everyone at a distance.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes this would also make me feel isolated as well.
usr : without a paycheck like i received at work I also feel underappreciated
sys : (Information) I have heard of some people receiving assistance from their community by supplying food and basic needs. This may be worth looking into.
usr : Thats a thought... I hadn't considered looking into community help.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I am sure it may help relieve some of the stress your are feeling. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : I have been better. Staying home due to pandemic has been challenging.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now.
usr : I feel like all i do is wait on my children!
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can agree with that! My children seems to always be needing something. It can sometimes feel overwhelming.
usr : very overwhelming because there are no days off on the horizon.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to friends or other family members to help take some of the load off? It may help to even get an afternoon for yourself.
usr : The pandemic has kept everyone at a distance.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes this would also make me feel isolated as well.
usr : without a paycheck like i received at work I also feel underappreciated
sys : (Information) I have heard of some people receiving assistance from their community by supplying food and basic needs. This may be worth looking into.
usr : Thats a thought... I hadn't considered looking into community help.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I am sure it may help relieve some of the stress your are feeling.
usr : I really do need to find a way to have some personal space once in awhile
| (Question) What type of activities do you enjoy when you do have time alone? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : I have been better. Staying home due to pandemic has been challenging.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now.
usr : I feel like all i do is wait on my children!
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can agree with that! My children seems to always be needing something. It can sometimes feel overwhelming.
usr : very overwhelming because there are no days off on the horizon.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to friends or other family members to help take some of the load off? It may help to even get an afternoon for yourself.
usr : The pandemic has kept everyone at a distance.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes this would also make me feel isolated as well.
usr : without a paycheck like i received at work I also feel underappreciated
sys : (Information) I have heard of some people receiving assistance from their community by supplying food and basic needs. This may be worth looking into.
usr : Thats a thought... I hadn't considered looking into community help.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I am sure it may help relieve some of the stress your are feeling.
usr : I really do need to find a way to have some personal space once in awhile
sys : (Question) What type of activities do you enjoy when you do have time alone?
usr : I like peace and quiet to read
| (Self-disclosure) Me too! I try to read whenever I can. It can take you out of the moment of the daily grind. I have a long list of books to get to. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Staying home with my children instead of going to work is making me anxious.". | usr : Good afternoon
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you today?
usr : I have been better. Staying home due to pandemic has been challenging.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now.
usr : I feel like all i do is wait on my children!
sys : (Self-disclosure) I can agree with that! My children seems to always be needing something. It can sometimes feel overwhelming.
usr : very overwhelming because there are no days off on the horizon.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to friends or other family members to help take some of the load off? It may help to even get an afternoon for yourself.
usr : The pandemic has kept everyone at a distance.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes this would also make me feel isolated as well.
usr : without a paycheck like i received at work I also feel underappreciated
sys : (Information) I have heard of some people receiving assistance from their community by supplying food and basic needs. This may be worth looking into.
usr : Thats a thought... I hadn't considered looking into community help.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes I am sure it may help relieve some of the stress your are feeling.
usr : I really do need to find a way to have some personal space once in awhile
sys : (Question) What type of activities do you enjoy when you do have time alone?
usr : I like peace and quiet to read
sys : (Self-disclosure) Me too! I try to read whenever I can. It can take you out of the moment of the daily grind. I have a long list of books to get to.
usr : Thank you for all your help
| (Others) You're welcome! I am glad that I could help. |
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