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### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am depressed staying at home due to COVID.".
usr : Hi sys : (Others) hello there, how are you usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Good, im ok thanks. What would like to discuss? usr : I am depressed staying home due to COVID. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh so sorry to hear. Would you feel a little bit happy when you think when it is over, next year probably? usr : Absolutely... can't wait until its over !!
(Question) I know right! What would you do once it is over!?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am depressed staying at home due to COVID.".
usr : Hi sys : (Others) hello there, how are you usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Good, im ok thanks. What would like to discuss? usr : I am depressed staying home due to COVID. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh so sorry to hear. Would you feel a little bit happy when you think when it is over, next year probably? usr : Absolutely... can't wait until its over !! sys : (Question) I know right! What would you do once it is over!? usr : I just want to go to my favorite bar and have a drink... usr : Do you have any other suggestion? usr : I am person who wants to go to work not working from home. usr : So, I would be happy to get back to the office and see the other co-workers.
(Others) oh nice! I used to love drinking and partying.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am depressed staying at home due to COVID.".
usr : Hi sys : (Others) hello there, how are you usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Good, im ok thanks. What would like to discuss? usr : I am depressed staying home due to COVID. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh so sorry to hear. Would you feel a little bit happy when you think when it is over, next year probably? usr : Absolutely... can't wait until its over !! sys : (Question) I know right! What would you do once it is over!? usr : I just want to go to my favorite bar and have a drink... usr : Do you have any other suggestion? usr : I am person who wants to go to work not working from home. usr : So, I would be happy to get back to the office and see the other co-workers. sys : (Others) oh nice! I used to love drinking and partying. usr : Do you have any suggestion for me?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) My suggestion is to do all you want to do, really. Because I think you know yourself really well.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am depressed staying at home due to COVID.".
usr : Hi sys : (Others) hello there, how are you usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Good, im ok thanks. What would like to discuss? usr : I am depressed staying home due to COVID. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh so sorry to hear. Would you feel a little bit happy when you think when it is over, next year probably? usr : Absolutely... can't wait until its over !! sys : (Question) I know right! What would you do once it is over!? usr : I just want to go to my favorite bar and have a drink... usr : Do you have any other suggestion? usr : I am person who wants to go to work not working from home. usr : So, I would be happy to get back to the office and see the other co-workers. sys : (Others) oh nice! I used to love drinking and partying. usr : Do you have any suggestion for me? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) My suggestion is to do all you want to do, really. Because I think you know yourself really well. usr : That's true. usr : Do you think this will be over soon?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) For a social bees like yourself, staying home would be stressful. I would call all your friends and make some plans for the next year, plans for NYE 2022 etc
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am depressed staying at home due to COVID.".
usr : Hi sys : (Others) hello there, how are you usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Good, im ok thanks. What would like to discuss? usr : I am depressed staying home due to COVID. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh so sorry to hear. Would you feel a little bit happy when you think when it is over, next year probably? usr : Absolutely... can't wait until its over !! sys : (Question) I know right! What would you do once it is over!? usr : I just want to go to my favorite bar and have a drink... usr : Do you have any other suggestion? usr : I am person who wants to go to work not working from home. usr : So, I would be happy to get back to the office and see the other co-workers. sys : (Others) oh nice! I used to love drinking and partying. usr : Do you have any suggestion for me? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) My suggestion is to do all you want to do, really. Because I think you know yourself really well. usr : That's true. usr : Do you think this will be over soon? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) For a social bees like yourself, staying home would be stressful. I would call all your friends and make some plans for the next year, plans for NYE 2022 etc usr : That is an excellent suggestion. Thank you.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I am guessing sometime summer next year? We get all shots and good to go.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am depressed staying at home due to COVID.".
usr : Hi sys : (Others) hello there, how are you usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Good, im ok thanks. What would like to discuss? usr : I am depressed staying home due to COVID. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh so sorry to hear. Would you feel a little bit happy when you think when it is over, next year probably? usr : Absolutely... can't wait until its over !! sys : (Question) I know right! What would you do once it is over!? usr : I just want to go to my favorite bar and have a drink... usr : Do you have any other suggestion? usr : I am person who wants to go to work not working from home. usr : So, I would be happy to get back to the office and see the other co-workers. sys : (Others) oh nice! I used to love drinking and partying. usr : Do you have any suggestion for me? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) My suggestion is to do all you want to do, really. Because I think you know yourself really well. usr : That's true. usr : Do you think this will be over soon? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) For a social bees like yourself, staying home would be stressful. I would call all your friends and make some plans for the next year, plans for NYE 2022 etc usr : That is an excellent suggestion. Thank you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am guessing sometime summer next year? We get all shots and good to go. usr : I hope so. Do you think we would get the vaccine soon?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) My friend suggested to get a party ticket for 1.5 year later. You're welome!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am depressed staying at home due to COVID.".
usr : Hi sys : (Others) hello there, how are you usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Good, im ok thanks. What would like to discuss? usr : I am depressed staying home due to COVID. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh so sorry to hear. Would you feel a little bit happy when you think when it is over, next year probably? usr : Absolutely... can't wait until its over !! sys : (Question) I know right! What would you do once it is over!? usr : I just want to go to my favorite bar and have a drink... usr : Do you have any other suggestion? usr : I am person who wants to go to work not working from home. usr : So, I would be happy to get back to the office and see the other co-workers. sys : (Others) oh nice! I used to love drinking and partying. usr : Do you have any suggestion for me? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) My suggestion is to do all you want to do, really. Because I think you know yourself really well. usr : That's true. usr : Do you think this will be over soon? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) For a social bees like yourself, staying home would be stressful. I would call all your friends and make some plans for the next year, plans for NYE 2022 etc usr : That is an excellent suggestion. Thank you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am guessing sometime summer next year? We get all shots and good to go. usr : I hope so. Do you think we would get the vaccine soon? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) My friend suggested to get a party ticket for 1.5 year later. You're welome! usr : Yes, buying something in advance might provide some savings.. usr : Thanks for the suggestion.
(Information) Anytime, by the way, I bought a year worth tissues, kitchen papers and toilet tissues. Hoarding is not recommended but it relived my stress.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
(Question) Hi there, how are you doing today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you?
(Question) Im great, whats on your mind?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you?
(Self-disclosure) I actually have
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened?
(Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born. usr : After 18 months of trying, my marriage ended in divorce.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born. usr : After 18 months of trying, my marriage ended in divorce. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better. usr : How old are your children? It seem the children have it the hardest. usr : It has been 2 years ago for me, and I feel soooo much better now.
(Self-disclosure) She was 2 at the time, so she really didnt know what was going on, Yes i do too. It is really a weight off you
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born. usr : After 18 months of trying, my marriage ended in divorce. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better. usr : How old are your children? It seem the children have it the hardest. usr : It has been 2 years ago for me, and I feel soooo much better now. sys : (Self-disclosure) She was 2 at the time, so she really didnt know what was going on, Yes i do too. It is really a weight off you usr : Two, wow! That is young. usr : How often do you see your daughter? usr : I have split custody, and have my son live with me every other week.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) She lives with me, Im glad that you get to see your kid. I know sometimes that can go south quick.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born. usr : After 18 months of trying, my marriage ended in divorce. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better. usr : How old are your children? It seem the children have it the hardest. usr : It has been 2 years ago for me, and I feel soooo much better now. sys : (Self-disclosure) She was 2 at the time, so she really didnt know what was going on, Yes i do too. It is really a weight off you usr : Two, wow! That is young. usr : How often do you see your daughter? usr : I have split custody, and have my son live with me every other week. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) She lives with me, Im glad that you get to see your kid. I know sometimes that can go south quick.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I am also glad that you are doing better now.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born. usr : After 18 months of trying, my marriage ended in divorce. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better. usr : How old are your children? It seem the children have it the hardest. usr : It has been 2 years ago for me, and I feel soooo much better now. sys : (Self-disclosure) She was 2 at the time, so she really didnt know what was going on, Yes i do too. It is really a weight off you usr : Two, wow! That is young. usr : How often do you see your daughter? usr : I have split custody, and have my son live with me every other week. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) She lives with me, Im glad that you get to see your kid. I know sometimes that can go south quick. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am also glad that you are doing better now. usr : Yes, my ex and I both have to live in the same city for school for our son. usr : He is 14 now, and will be able to drive to school in another year.
(Question) Exciting and scary times. How do you feel about that?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born. usr : After 18 months of trying, my marriage ended in divorce. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better. usr : How old are your children? It seem the children have it the hardest. usr : It has been 2 years ago for me, and I feel soooo much better now. sys : (Self-disclosure) She was 2 at the time, so she really didnt know what was going on, Yes i do too. It is really a weight off you usr : Two, wow! That is young. usr : How often do you see your daughter? usr : I have split custody, and have my son live with me every other week. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) She lives with me, Im glad that you get to see your kid. I know sometimes that can go south quick. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am also glad that you are doing better now. usr : Yes, my ex and I both have to live in the same city for school for our son. usr : He is 14 now, and will be able to drive to school in another year. sys : (Question) Exciting and scary times. How do you feel about that? usr : For 18 months, it was the lowest point in my life. Now, looking back on it, I believe it was the right thing to do. usr : I would never trust her again. Onward and upward now!
(Reflection of feelings) Well, you did say it made you stronger. It takes courage to move past it.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born. usr : After 18 months of trying, my marriage ended in divorce. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better. usr : How old are your children? It seem the children have it the hardest. usr : It has been 2 years ago for me, and I feel soooo much better now. sys : (Self-disclosure) She was 2 at the time, so she really didnt know what was going on, Yes i do too. It is really a weight off you usr : Two, wow! That is young. usr : How often do you see your daughter? usr : I have split custody, and have my son live with me every other week. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) She lives with me, Im glad that you get to see your kid. I know sometimes that can go south quick. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am also glad that you are doing better now. usr : Yes, my ex and I both have to live in the same city for school for our son. usr : He is 14 now, and will be able to drive to school in another year. sys : (Question) Exciting and scary times. How do you feel about that? usr : For 18 months, it was the lowest point in my life. Now, looking back on it, I believe it was the right thing to do. usr : I would never trust her again. Onward and upward now! sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well, you did say it made you stronger. It takes courage to move past it. usr : Yes, not sure if I will ever be married again. usr : I wish you the best. Keep your head up and look to the future. Bye.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, no harm in taking this time to focus on yourself and your kid. As long as you feel happy
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born. usr : After 18 months of trying, my marriage ended in divorce. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better. usr : How old are your children? It seem the children have it the hardest. usr : It has been 2 years ago for me, and I feel soooo much better now. sys : (Self-disclosure) She was 2 at the time, so she really didnt know what was going on, Yes i do too. It is really a weight off you usr : Two, wow! That is young. usr : How often do you see your daughter? usr : I have split custody, and have my son live with me every other week. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) She lives with me, Im glad that you get to see your kid. I know sometimes that can go south quick. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am also glad that you are doing better now. usr : Yes, my ex and I both have to live in the same city for school for our son. usr : He is 14 now, and will be able to drive to school in another year. sys : (Question) Exciting and scary times. How do you feel about that? usr : For 18 months, it was the lowest point in my life. Now, looking back on it, I believe it was the right thing to do. usr : I would never trust her again. Onward and upward now! sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well, you did say it made you stronger. It takes courage to move past it. usr : Yes, not sure if I will ever be married again. usr : I wish you the best. Keep your head up and look to the future. Bye. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, no harm in taking this time to focus on yourself and your kid. As long as you feel happy
(Others) Thanks, take care!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about guilt regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I see a text message from my ex-wife's phone that states "you look sexier now that you did this morning." I was the major sign that my marriage was in trouble and why would my wife cheat on me.".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing today? usr : Doing well. How are you? sys : (Question) Im great, whats on your mind? usr : Have you experienced your partner cheating on you? sys : (Self-disclosure) I actually have usr : Really? usr : What happened? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born. usr : After 18 months of trying, my marriage ended in divorce. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better. usr : How old are your children? It seem the children have it the hardest. usr : It has been 2 years ago for me, and I feel soooo much better now. sys : (Self-disclosure) She was 2 at the time, so she really didnt know what was going on, Yes i do too. It is really a weight off you usr : Two, wow! That is young. usr : How often do you see your daughter? usr : I have split custody, and have my son live with me every other week. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) She lives with me, Im glad that you get to see your kid. I know sometimes that can go south quick. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am also glad that you are doing better now. usr : Yes, my ex and I both have to live in the same city for school for our son. usr : He is 14 now, and will be able to drive to school in another year. sys : (Question) Exciting and scary times. How do you feel about that? usr : For 18 months, it was the lowest point in my life. Now, looking back on it, I believe it was the right thing to do. usr : I would never trust her again. Onward and upward now! sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well, you did say it made you stronger. It takes courage to move past it. usr : Yes, not sure if I will ever be married again. usr : I wish you the best. Keep your head up and look to the future. Bye. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, no harm in taking this time to focus on yourself and your kid. As long as you feel happy sys : (Others) Thanks, take care! usr : Make sure you seek a couselor if needed. I had to go for 6 months to get my head straight.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Thank you for the insight. If you ever feel down again thats good advice for yourself as well!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning
(Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind.
(Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :)
(Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking.
(Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding
(Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her.
(Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem
(Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively.
(Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively. sys : (Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there. usr : To be fair I am scared also to go such places. If somebody from work will see me I would get in real trouble as I am working from home and drinking.
(Reflection of feelings) I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively. sys : (Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there. usr : To be fair I am scared also to go such places. If somebody from work will see me I would get in real trouble as I am working from home and drinking. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential.
(Question) Whereabouts are you? (I'm in CAnada)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively. sys : (Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there. usr : To be fair I am scared also to go such places. If somebody from work will see me I would get in real trouble as I am working from home and drinking. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential. sys : (Question) Whereabouts are you? (I'm in CAnada) usr : I am in UK. usr : Maybe you know some online courses you are aware of?
(Information) Oh!! I just remembered. My daughter goes to meetings virtually because of the pandemic. I am pretty sure there would also be virtual AA meetings in the UK, via Zoom
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively. sys : (Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there. usr : To be fair I am scared also to go such places. If somebody from work will see me I would get in real trouble as I am working from home and drinking. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential. sys : (Question) Whereabouts are you? (I'm in CAnada) usr : I am in UK. usr : Maybe you know some online courses you are aware of? sys : (Information) Oh!! I just remembered. My daughter goes to meetings virtually because of the pandemic. I am pretty sure there would also be virtual AA meetings in the UK, via Zoom usr : Oh that's great I will try then. Do you know if there are any fees?
(Providing Suggestions) Hmm I am afraid I don't, have you tried a google search? That's a great idea, to find an online program of some sort, if AA does not appeal to you. And no, there are no fees, AA is completely free.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively. sys : (Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there. usr : To be fair I am scared also to go such places. If somebody from work will see me I would get in real trouble as I am working from home and drinking. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential. sys : (Question) Whereabouts are you? (I'm in CAnada) usr : I am in UK. usr : Maybe you know some online courses you are aware of? sys : (Information) Oh!! I just remembered. My daughter goes to meetings virtually because of the pandemic. I am pretty sure there would also be virtual AA meetings in the UK, via Zoom usr : Oh that's great I will try then. Do you know if there are any fees? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm I am afraid I don't, have you tried a google search? That's a great idea, to find an online program of some sort, if AA does not appeal to you. And no, there are no fees, AA is completely free.
(Information) And, you can get a sponsor, do you know about that?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively. sys : (Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there. usr : To be fair I am scared also to go such places. If somebody from work will see me I would get in real trouble as I am working from home and drinking. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential. sys : (Question) Whereabouts are you? (I'm in CAnada) usr : I am in UK. usr : Maybe you know some online courses you are aware of? sys : (Information) Oh!! I just remembered. My daughter goes to meetings virtually because of the pandemic. I am pretty sure there would also be virtual AA meetings in the UK, via Zoom usr : Oh that's great I will try then. Do you know if there are any fees? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm I am afraid I don't, have you tried a google search? That's a great idea, to find an online program of some sort, if AA does not appeal to you. And no, there are no fees, AA is completely free. sys : (Information) And, you can get a sponsor, do you know about that? usr : What do you mean by a sponsor?
(Information) My daughter has a sponsor, it's an important part of AA (and optional). Her sponsor has been clean for over 20 years. She is there to support my daughter, and help her work her way through learning the 12 steps. Beacuse she's been through it, her sponsor is very understanding and supportive.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively. sys : (Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there. usr : To be fair I am scared also to go such places. If somebody from work will see me I would get in real trouble as I am working from home and drinking. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential. sys : (Question) Whereabouts are you? (I'm in CAnada) usr : I am in UK. usr : Maybe you know some online courses you are aware of? sys : (Information) Oh!! I just remembered. My daughter goes to meetings virtually because of the pandemic. I am pretty sure there would also be virtual AA meetings in the UK, via Zoom usr : Oh that's great I will try then. Do you know if there are any fees? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm I am afraid I don't, have you tried a google search? That's a great idea, to find an online program of some sort, if AA does not appeal to you. And no, there are no fees, AA is completely free. sys : (Information) And, you can get a sponsor, do you know about that? usr : What do you mean by a sponsor? sys : (Information) My daughter has a sponsor, it's an important part of AA (and optional). Her sponsor has been clean for over 20 years. She is there to support my daughter, and help her work her way through learning the 12 steps. Beacuse she's been through it, her sponsor is very understanding and supportive. usr : Alright, Don't know if I need one yet. Will see eventually how it goes in AA.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I wish you all the best in your journey. You are doing all the right things in both recognizing that you have a problem, and seeking information on ways to deal with it. I admire your insight.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively. sys : (Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there. usr : To be fair I am scared also to go such places. If somebody from work will see me I would get in real trouble as I am working from home and drinking. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential. sys : (Question) Whereabouts are you? (I'm in CAnada) usr : I am in UK. usr : Maybe you know some online courses you are aware of? sys : (Information) Oh!! I just remembered. My daughter goes to meetings virtually because of the pandemic. I am pretty sure there would also be virtual AA meetings in the UK, via Zoom usr : Oh that's great I will try then. Do you know if there are any fees? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm I am afraid I don't, have you tried a google search? That's a great idea, to find an online program of some sort, if AA does not appeal to you. And no, there are no fees, AA is completely free. sys : (Information) And, you can get a sponsor, do you know about that? usr : What do you mean by a sponsor? sys : (Information) My daughter has a sponsor, it's an important part of AA (and optional). Her sponsor has been clean for over 20 years. She is there to support my daughter, and help her work her way through learning the 12 steps. Beacuse she's been through it, her sponsor is very understanding and supportive. usr : Alright, Don't know if I need one yet. Will see eventually how it goes in AA. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I wish you all the best in your journey. You are doing all the right things in both recognizing that you have a problem, and seeking information on ways to deal with it. I admire your insight. usr : Thank you very much for you help. Now I know what I have to do. All the best to you.
(Others) You are welcome, it was a pleasure speaking with you. All the best! You can do it :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says "I am drinkin beers almost every day".
usr : Good morning sys : (Others) Hello, good morning! How are you today? usr : Not too bad just wanted to talk with you about my alcohol addiction if you don't mind. sys : (Others) I would be happy to listen and help if I can :) sys : (Question) When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol? usr : The thing is I am drinking beer almost every day since I started to work from home. And with weather so nice in upcoming weeks I can't see myself stop drinking. sys : (Question) How many beer a day do you typically drink? usr : At least 4 pints. A lot of money goes on drinks as well. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially? usr : Yes, that's right. And I know I should stop but I just got addicted. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step! usr : Thank you for understanding sys : (Self-disclosure) I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting? usr : I think I am not quite confident in going somewhere in person. I don't want other people to see my addiction problem sys : (Information) The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively. sys : (Information) And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there. usr : To be fair I am scared also to go such places. If somebody from work will see me I would get in real trouble as I am working from home and drinking. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential. sys : (Question) Whereabouts are you? (I'm in CAnada) usr : I am in UK. usr : Maybe you know some online courses you are aware of? sys : (Information) Oh!! I just remembered. My daughter goes to meetings virtually because of the pandemic. I am pretty sure there would also be virtual AA meetings in the UK, via Zoom usr : Oh that's great I will try then. Do you know if there are any fees? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm I am afraid I don't, have you tried a google search? That's a great idea, to find an online program of some sort, if AA does not appeal to you. And no, there are no fees, AA is completely free. sys : (Information) And, you can get a sponsor, do you know about that? usr : What do you mean by a sponsor? sys : (Information) My daughter has a sponsor, it's an important part of AA (and optional). Her sponsor has been clean for over 20 years. She is there to support my daughter, and help her work her way through learning the 12 steps. Beacuse she's been through it, her sponsor is very understanding and supportive. usr : Alright, Don't know if I need one yet. Will see eventually how it goes in AA. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I wish you all the best in your journey. You are doing all the right things in both recognizing that you have a problem, and seeking information on ways to deal with it. I admire your insight. usr : Thank you very much for you help. Now I know what I have to do. All the best to you. sys : (Others) You are welcome, it was a pleasure speaking with you. All the best! You can do it :) usr : Thank you, bye :)
(Others) Bye :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
(Question) HI, how are you today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him.
(Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me.
(Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings.
(Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there.
(Question) Have you always had sleep issues?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there. sys : (Question) Have you always had sleep issues? usr : It does help but he's as frustrated and upset as I am. I can't sleep at night for dwelling on everything and I don't know how to stop the thoughts about all the terrible things that could happen. usr : When I'm upset about something I cannot sleep but if I'm in a good state of mind I sleep well.
(Reflection of feelings) Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there. sys : (Question) Have you always had sleep issues? usr : It does help but he's as frustrated and upset as I am. I can't sleep at night for dwelling on everything and I don't know how to stop the thoughts about all the terrible things that could happen. usr : When I'm upset about something I cannot sleep but if I'm in a good state of mind I sleep well. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all.
(Question) Have you ever gone through anything like this before?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there. sys : (Question) Have you always had sleep issues? usr : It does help but he's as frustrated and upset as I am. I can't sleep at night for dwelling on everything and I don't know how to stop the thoughts about all the terrible things that could happen. usr : When I'm upset about something I cannot sleep but if I'm in a good state of mind I sleep well. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all. sys : (Question) Have you ever gone through anything like this before? usr : Yes I've been dealing with my son's addiction and recovery and relapses for the last three years.
(Self-disclosure) I can relate to being close to someone who is addicted. It can feel very sad and lonely at times. I would want to change the person in my life but just has to learn to let go instead. It is a process that takes years to learn.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there. sys : (Question) Have you always had sleep issues? usr : It does help but he's as frustrated and upset as I am. I can't sleep at night for dwelling on everything and I don't know how to stop the thoughts about all the terrible things that could happen. usr : When I'm upset about something I cannot sleep but if I'm in a good state of mind I sleep well. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all. sys : (Question) Have you ever gone through anything like this before? usr : Yes I've been dealing with my son's addiction and recovery and relapses for the last three years. sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate to being close to someone who is addicted. It can feel very sad and lonely at times. I would want to change the person in my life but just has to learn to let go instead. It is a process that takes years to learn. usr : I am realizing that more every day. If it wasn't my son and just a good friend I would probably end the relationship but a mother can't do that to her own children, you know what I mean? usr : And you are so right. I can't change or control him, I can only change and control myself and my responses to him. That is so difficult to do.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I understand how it can feel like our children are always our babies and we want to fix everything for them. Sometimes it feels like we can change them or re raise them if we just do more for them.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there. sys : (Question) Have you always had sleep issues? usr : It does help but he's as frustrated and upset as I am. I can't sleep at night for dwelling on everything and I don't know how to stop the thoughts about all the terrible things that could happen. usr : When I'm upset about something I cannot sleep but if I'm in a good state of mind I sleep well. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all. sys : (Question) Have you ever gone through anything like this before? usr : Yes I've been dealing with my son's addiction and recovery and relapses for the last three years. sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate to being close to someone who is addicted. It can feel very sad and lonely at times. I would want to change the person in my life but just has to learn to let go instead. It is a process that takes years to learn. usr : I am realizing that more every day. If it wasn't my son and just a good friend I would probably end the relationship but a mother can't do that to her own children, you know what I mean? usr : And you are so right. I can't change or control him, I can only change and control myself and my responses to him. That is so difficult to do. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I understand how it can feel like our children are always our babies and we want to fix everything for them. Sometimes it feels like we can change them or re raise them if we just do more for them.
(Providing Suggestions) Have you had the chance to speak to a close friend or pastor about this situation?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there. sys : (Question) Have you always had sleep issues? usr : It does help but he's as frustrated and upset as I am. I can't sleep at night for dwelling on everything and I don't know how to stop the thoughts about all the terrible things that could happen. usr : When I'm upset about something I cannot sleep but if I'm in a good state of mind I sleep well. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all. sys : (Question) Have you ever gone through anything like this before? usr : Yes I've been dealing with my son's addiction and recovery and relapses for the last three years. sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate to being close to someone who is addicted. It can feel very sad and lonely at times. I would want to change the person in my life but just has to learn to let go instead. It is a process that takes years to learn. usr : I am realizing that more every day. If it wasn't my son and just a good friend I would probably end the relationship but a mother can't do that to her own children, you know what I mean? usr : And you are so right. I can't change or control him, I can only change and control myself and my responses to him. That is so difficult to do. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I understand how it can feel like our children are always our babies and we want to fix everything for them. Sometimes it feels like we can change them or re raise them if we just do more for them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had the chance to speak to a close friend or pastor about this situation? usr : Not really. Most of my friends haven't dealt with that so they don't really understand what I am going through, or even what my son is going through. But you're right, I have to learn to let go and let him fix his own problems with no intereference from me.
(Providing Suggestions) You are very self aware and have good insight. I notice that you are very in touch with your feelings. You can use writing as a way to release emotions and express yourself, as you are now.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there. sys : (Question) Have you always had sleep issues? usr : It does help but he's as frustrated and upset as I am. I can't sleep at night for dwelling on everything and I don't know how to stop the thoughts about all the terrible things that could happen. usr : When I'm upset about something I cannot sleep but if I'm in a good state of mind I sleep well. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all. sys : (Question) Have you ever gone through anything like this before? usr : Yes I've been dealing with my son's addiction and recovery and relapses for the last three years. sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate to being close to someone who is addicted. It can feel very sad and lonely at times. I would want to change the person in my life but just has to learn to let go instead. It is a process that takes years to learn. usr : I am realizing that more every day. If it wasn't my son and just a good friend I would probably end the relationship but a mother can't do that to her own children, you know what I mean? usr : And you are so right. I can't change or control him, I can only change and control myself and my responses to him. That is so difficult to do. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I understand how it can feel like our children are always our babies and we want to fix everything for them. Sometimes it feels like we can change them or re raise them if we just do more for them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had the chance to speak to a close friend or pastor about this situation? usr : Not really. Most of my friends haven't dealt with that so they don't really understand what I am going through, or even what my son is going through. But you're right, I have to learn to let go and let him fix his own problems with no intereference from me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You are very self aware and have good insight. I notice that you are very in touch with your feelings. You can use writing as a way to release emotions and express yourself, as you are now. usr : Thank you, I will try that. Like a journal maybe?
(Information) Yes, I can recommend a journal on Amazon that I also use. Thank you for sharing with me today.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there. sys : (Question) Have you always had sleep issues? usr : It does help but he's as frustrated and upset as I am. I can't sleep at night for dwelling on everything and I don't know how to stop the thoughts about all the terrible things that could happen. usr : When I'm upset about something I cannot sleep but if I'm in a good state of mind I sleep well. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all. sys : (Question) Have you ever gone through anything like this before? usr : Yes I've been dealing with my son's addiction and recovery and relapses for the last three years. sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate to being close to someone who is addicted. It can feel very sad and lonely at times. I would want to change the person in my life but just has to learn to let go instead. It is a process that takes years to learn. usr : I am realizing that more every day. If it wasn't my son and just a good friend I would probably end the relationship but a mother can't do that to her own children, you know what I mean? usr : And you are so right. I can't change or control him, I can only change and control myself and my responses to him. That is so difficult to do. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I understand how it can feel like our children are always our babies and we want to fix everything for them. Sometimes it feels like we can change them or re raise them if we just do more for them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had the chance to speak to a close friend or pastor about this situation? usr : Not really. Most of my friends haven't dealt with that so they don't really understand what I am going through, or even what my son is going through. But you're right, I have to learn to let go and let him fix his own problems with no intereference from me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You are very self aware and have good insight. I notice that you are very in touch with your feelings. You can use writing as a way to release emotions and express yourself, as you are now. usr : Thank you, I will try that. Like a journal maybe? sys : (Information) Yes, I can recommend a journal on Amazon that I also use. Thank you for sharing with me today.
(Information) Please reach back out anytime.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My son is a recovering meth addict and has relapsed again. After two weeks of using he admitted himself back into rehab as he as done many times in the past without a lot of success. I am afraid it will be the same this time, that he will get out of rehab and then start using again.".
sys : (Question) HI, how are you today? usr : I am not doing well. I am very worried about my son's chances of recovery after so many relapses and frustrated because I know there is really nothing I can do to change things for him. sys : (Reflection of feelings) You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something. usr : I am. He is a different person when he's not on drugs but when he is using he can get really mean and he scares me. sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone you can talk to? usr : I try not to think about the situation, because I don't see him since he lives in another state. But I can't get everything out of my mind. And yes I have my husband to talk to, that helps some. It's when I'm trying to sleep or when my husband isn't home that's the worst for me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there. sys : (Question) Have you always had sleep issues? usr : It does help but he's as frustrated and upset as I am. I can't sleep at night for dwelling on everything and I don't know how to stop the thoughts about all the terrible things that could happen. usr : When I'm upset about something I cannot sleep but if I'm in a good state of mind I sleep well. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all. sys : (Question) Have you ever gone through anything like this before? usr : Yes I've been dealing with my son's addiction and recovery and relapses for the last three years. sys : (Self-disclosure) I can relate to being close to someone who is addicted. It can feel very sad and lonely at times. I would want to change the person in my life but just has to learn to let go instead. It is a process that takes years to learn. usr : I am realizing that more every day. If it wasn't my son and just a good friend I would probably end the relationship but a mother can't do that to her own children, you know what I mean? usr : And you are so right. I can't change or control him, I can only change and control myself and my responses to him. That is so difficult to do. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I understand how it can feel like our children are always our babies and we want to fix everything for them. Sometimes it feels like we can change them or re raise them if we just do more for them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had the chance to speak to a close friend or pastor about this situation? usr : Not really. Most of my friends haven't dealt with that so they don't really understand what I am going through, or even what my son is going through. But you're right, I have to learn to let go and let him fix his own problems with no intereference from me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You are very self aware and have good insight. I notice that you are very in touch with your feelings. You can use writing as a way to release emotions and express yourself, as you are now. usr : Thank you, I will try that. Like a journal maybe? sys : (Information) Yes, I can recommend a journal on Amazon that I also use. Thank you for sharing with me today. sys : (Information) Please reach back out anytime. usr : Thank you so much! I appreciate what you do!
(Others) Thank you!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely.
(Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again.
(Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life.
(Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you?
(Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you? sys : (Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work? usr : No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary.
(Others) Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you? sys : (Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work? usr : No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary. sys : (Others) Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually. usr : I think we are in a long period of recovery because the country has too many laws in different states that are causing demands on the health system.
(Others) I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you? sys : (Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work? usr : No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary. sys : (Others) Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually. usr : I think we are in a long period of recovery because the country has too many laws in different states that are causing demands on the health system. sys : (Others) I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one. usr : Too much politics behand the virus and helping the people. usr : Florida is mandatory, but Georgia is lacks. Tennessee is mandatory but other states are not as caring.
(Reflection of feelings) I totally agree. And you never know what is true or not. Its stressful. I'm in georgia now and most people do not wear them unless asked. I've only been required to at dr appointment. Is it mandatory where you are now?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you? sys : (Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work? usr : No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary. sys : (Others) Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually. usr : I think we are in a long period of recovery because the country has too many laws in different states that are causing demands on the health system. sys : (Others) I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one. usr : Too much politics behand the virus and helping the people. usr : Florida is mandatory, but Georgia is lacks. Tennessee is mandatory but other states are not as caring. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally agree. And you never know what is true or not. Its stressful. I'm in georgia now and most people do not wear them unless asked. I've only been required to at dr appointment. Is it mandatory where you are now? usr : No except at WalMart usr : Georgia has a high virus rate, yet no mandatory masks.
(Others) There are signs here but half the shoppers dont wear them. I think people here dont fear it as much as other places.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you? sys : (Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work? usr : No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary. sys : (Others) Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually. usr : I think we are in a long period of recovery because the country has too many laws in different states that are causing demands on the health system. sys : (Others) I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one. usr : Too much politics behand the virus and helping the people. usr : Florida is mandatory, but Georgia is lacks. Tennessee is mandatory but other states are not as caring. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally agree. And you never know what is true or not. Its stressful. I'm in georgia now and most people do not wear them unless asked. I've only been required to at dr appointment. Is it mandatory where you are now? usr : No except at WalMart usr : Georgia has a high virus rate, yet no mandatory masks. sys : (Others) There are signs here but half the shoppers dont wear them. I think people here dont fear it as much as other places. usr : There is no mandatory requirement for the mask, especially at the convenient stores. usr : You walk in and the employees don't even wear them. The screens aren't going to stop the spread.
(Reflection of feelings) So you travel because you want to? YES the gas station closest to me.... I have been in there every other day recently and never seen a person in a mask. The employees at the dollar general close to me dont wear them either. I dont think it will either honestly. Sometimes I feel guilty if I'm not wearing one. The uncertainty of everything gets to me.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you? sys : (Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work? usr : No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary. sys : (Others) Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually. usr : I think we are in a long period of recovery because the country has too many laws in different states that are causing demands on the health system. sys : (Others) I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one. usr : Too much politics behand the virus and helping the people. usr : Florida is mandatory, but Georgia is lacks. Tennessee is mandatory but other states are not as caring. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally agree. And you never know what is true or not. Its stressful. I'm in georgia now and most people do not wear them unless asked. I've only been required to at dr appointment. Is it mandatory where you are now? usr : No except at WalMart usr : Georgia has a high virus rate, yet no mandatory masks. sys : (Others) There are signs here but half the shoppers dont wear them. I think people here dont fear it as much as other places. usr : There is no mandatory requirement for the mask, especially at the convenient stores. usr : You walk in and the employees don't even wear them. The screens aren't going to stop the spread. sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you travel because you want to? YES the gas station closest to me.... I have been in there every other day recently and never seen a person in a mask. The employees at the dollar general close to me dont wear them either. I dont think it will either honestly. Sometimes I feel guilty if I'm not wearing one. The uncertainty of everything gets to me. usr : I wear mine for my own protection. What about you? usr : I have to travel to Virginia soon and I want to arrive clean usr : I am only traveling now because of issues otherwise I would be in FLorida usr : I miss the bneaches
(Others) I wear mine to protect other people.... I do have health issues that could complicate things but I dont thing it will stop me from getting it.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you? sys : (Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work? usr : No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary. sys : (Others) Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually. usr : I think we are in a long period of recovery because the country has too many laws in different states that are causing demands on the health system. sys : (Others) I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one. usr : Too much politics behand the virus and helping the people. usr : Florida is mandatory, but Georgia is lacks. Tennessee is mandatory but other states are not as caring. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally agree. And you never know what is true or not. Its stressful. I'm in georgia now and most people do not wear them unless asked. I've only been required to at dr appointment. Is it mandatory where you are now? usr : No except at WalMart usr : Georgia has a high virus rate, yet no mandatory masks. sys : (Others) There are signs here but half the shoppers dont wear them. I think people here dont fear it as much as other places. usr : There is no mandatory requirement for the mask, especially at the convenient stores. usr : You walk in and the employees don't even wear them. The screens aren't going to stop the spread. sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you travel because you want to? YES the gas station closest to me.... I have been in there every other day recently and never seen a person in a mask. The employees at the dollar general close to me dont wear them either. I dont think it will either honestly. Sometimes I feel guilty if I'm not wearing one. The uncertainty of everything gets to me. usr : I wear mine for my own protection. What about you? usr : I have to travel to Virginia soon and I want to arrive clean usr : I am only traveling now because of issues otherwise I would be in FLorida usr : I miss the bneaches sys : (Others) I wear mine to protect other people.... I do have health issues that could complicate things but I dont thing it will stop me from getting it.
(Reflection of feelings) I MISS THEM TOO. We were in PCB last summer and everyone was freaking about the water lol. we had no idea what was coming
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you? sys : (Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work? usr : No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary. sys : (Others) Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually. usr : I think we are in a long period of recovery because the country has too many laws in different states that are causing demands on the health system. sys : (Others) I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one. usr : Too much politics behand the virus and helping the people. usr : Florida is mandatory, but Georgia is lacks. Tennessee is mandatory but other states are not as caring. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally agree. And you never know what is true or not. Its stressful. I'm in georgia now and most people do not wear them unless asked. I've only been required to at dr appointment. Is it mandatory where you are now? usr : No except at WalMart usr : Georgia has a high virus rate, yet no mandatory masks. sys : (Others) There are signs here but half the shoppers dont wear them. I think people here dont fear it as much as other places. usr : There is no mandatory requirement for the mask, especially at the convenient stores. usr : You walk in and the employees don't even wear them. The screens aren't going to stop the spread. sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you travel because you want to? YES the gas station closest to me.... I have been in there every other day recently and never seen a person in a mask. The employees at the dollar general close to me dont wear them either. I dont think it will either honestly. Sometimes I feel guilty if I'm not wearing one. The uncertainty of everything gets to me. usr : I wear mine for my own protection. What about you? usr : I have to travel to Virginia soon and I want to arrive clean usr : I am only traveling now because of issues otherwise I would be in FLorida usr : I miss the bneaches sys : (Others) I wear mine to protect other people.... I do have health issues that could complicate things but I dont thing it will stop me from getting it. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I MISS THEM TOO. We were in PCB last summer and everyone was freaking about the water lol. we had no idea what was coming usr : I understand for protecting others, but when the people around you ignore the virus and refuse a mask, they aren't concerned about you. usr : What part of Florida. I was near Stuart and Jensen Beaches. usr : Masks are mandatory otherwise no entry at the stores
(Information) well I hope you are able to connect with people soon.. I think these are cool.. Its nice to talk to new. Youre right generally people dont care for other people, but I'm not that way. Panama City Beach.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "Loneliness. Just tired of being alone and feeling isolated. This is the time of year when family gatherings happen, but I live alone.".
usr : Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter? usr : I am just looking for a friend to chat with. usr : Just feeling lonely. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year. usr : The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? usr : I don't know if life will ever be normal again. sys : (Self-disclosure) Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. usr : I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. usr : The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in? usr : Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you? sys : (Reflection of feelings) You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work? usr : No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary. sys : (Others) Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually. usr : I think we are in a long period of recovery because the country has too many laws in different states that are causing demands on the health system. sys : (Others) I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one. usr : Too much politics behand the virus and helping the people. usr : Florida is mandatory, but Georgia is lacks. Tennessee is mandatory but other states are not as caring. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally agree. And you never know what is true or not. Its stressful. I'm in georgia now and most people do not wear them unless asked. I've only been required to at dr appointment. Is it mandatory where you are now? usr : No except at WalMart usr : Georgia has a high virus rate, yet no mandatory masks. sys : (Others) There are signs here but half the shoppers dont wear them. I think people here dont fear it as much as other places. usr : There is no mandatory requirement for the mask, especially at the convenient stores. usr : You walk in and the employees don't even wear them. The screens aren't going to stop the spread. sys : (Reflection of feelings) So you travel because you want to? YES the gas station closest to me.... I have been in there every other day recently and never seen a person in a mask. The employees at the dollar general close to me dont wear them either. I dont think it will either honestly. Sometimes I feel guilty if I'm not wearing one. The uncertainty of everything gets to me. usr : I wear mine for my own protection. What about you? usr : I have to travel to Virginia soon and I want to arrive clean usr : I am only traveling now because of issues otherwise I would be in FLorida usr : I miss the bneaches sys : (Others) I wear mine to protect other people.... I do have health issues that could complicate things but I dont thing it will stop me from getting it. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I MISS THEM TOO. We were in PCB last summer and everyone was freaking about the water lol. we had no idea what was coming usr : I understand for protecting others, but when the people around you ignore the virus and refuse a mask, they aren't concerned about you. usr : What part of Florida. I was near Stuart and Jensen Beaches. usr : Masks are mandatory otherwise no entry at the stores sys : (Information) well I hope you are able to connect with people soon.. I think these are cool.. Its nice to talk to new. Youre right generally people dont care for other people, but I'm not that way. Panama City Beach.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) new people*
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
(Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good
(Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously
(Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy.
(Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy. sys : (Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? usr : It has not knocked my self confidence but its affecting my family right now because I need a job to help my family out
(Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy. sys : (Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? usr : It has not knocked my self confidence but its affecting my family right now because I need a job to help my family out sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me. usr : Sorry friend! This pandemic really affect every body
(Affirmation and Reassurance) It has been a terrible year hasn't it? Please know that there are lots of people out there in the same situation and we do understand.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy. sys : (Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? usr : It has not knocked my self confidence but its affecting my family right now because I need a job to help my family out sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me. usr : Sorry friend! This pandemic really affect every body sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It has been a terrible year hasn't it? Please know that there are lots of people out there in the same situation and we do understand. usr : You are very correct! I know very soon every thing will be ok.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) January should hopefully bring better things to the world I think. I am really looking forward to it, I think it will be good.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy. sys : (Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? usr : It has not knocked my self confidence but its affecting my family right now because I need a job to help my family out sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me. usr : Sorry friend! This pandemic really affect every body sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It has been a terrible year hasn't it? Please know that there are lots of people out there in the same situation and we do understand. usr : You are very correct! I know very soon every thing will be ok. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) January should hopefully bring better things to the world I think. I am really looking forward to it, I think it will be good. usr : By God grace I also hope so, Next year will be better.
(Question) Will you be getting a vaccine for Covid? I am really hopeful bout that
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy. sys : (Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? usr : It has not knocked my self confidence but its affecting my family right now because I need a job to help my family out sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me. usr : Sorry friend! This pandemic really affect every body sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It has been a terrible year hasn't it? Please know that there are lots of people out there in the same situation and we do understand. usr : You are very correct! I know very soon every thing will be ok. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) January should hopefully bring better things to the world I think. I am really looking forward to it, I think it will be good. usr : By God grace I also hope so, Next year will be better. sys : (Question) Will you be getting a vaccine for Covid? I am really hopeful bout that usr : I will if it is proof by government that is ok to take
(Others) That sounds like a good idea. It's been really nice talking, I wish you all the best for 2021!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy. sys : (Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? usr : It has not knocked my self confidence but its affecting my family right now because I need a job to help my family out sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me. usr : Sorry friend! This pandemic really affect every body sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It has been a terrible year hasn't it? Please know that there are lots of people out there in the same situation and we do understand. usr : You are very correct! I know very soon every thing will be ok. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) January should hopefully bring better things to the world I think. I am really looking forward to it, I think it will be good. usr : By God grace I also hope so, Next year will be better. sys : (Question) Will you be getting a vaccine for Covid? I am really hopeful bout that usr : I will if it is proof by government that is ok to take sys : (Others) That sounds like a good idea. It's been really nice talking, I wish you all the best for 2021! usr : Thanks friend 2021 will fruitful for us all
(Others) Take care and goodbye :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy. sys : (Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? usr : It has not knocked my self confidence but its affecting my family right now because I need a job to help my family out sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me. usr : Sorry friend! This pandemic really affect every body sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It has been a terrible year hasn't it? Please know that there are lots of people out there in the same situation and we do understand. usr : You are very correct! I know very soon every thing will be ok. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) January should hopefully bring better things to the world I think. I am really looking forward to it, I think it will be good. usr : By God grace I also hope so, Next year will be better. sys : (Question) Will you be getting a vaccine for Covid? I am really hopeful bout that usr : I will if it is proof by government that is ok to take sys : (Others) That sounds like a good idea. It's been really nice talking, I wish you all the best for 2021! usr : Thanks friend 2021 will fruitful for us all sys : (Others) Take care and goodbye :) usr : Nice talking to you goodbye.
(Information) You need to quit first .. I can't :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy. sys : (Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? usr : It has not knocked my self confidence but its affecting my family right now because I need a job to help my family out sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me. usr : Sorry friend! This pandemic really affect every body sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It has been a terrible year hasn't it? Please know that there are lots of people out there in the same situation and we do understand. usr : You are very correct! I know very soon every thing will be ok. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) January should hopefully bring better things to the world I think. I am really looking forward to it, I think it will be good. usr : By God grace I also hope so, Next year will be better. sys : (Question) Will you be getting a vaccine for Covid? I am really hopeful bout that usr : I will if it is proof by government that is ok to take sys : (Others) That sounds like a good idea. It's been really nice talking, I wish you all the best for 2021! usr : Thanks friend 2021 will fruitful for us all sys : (Others) Take care and goodbye :) usr : Nice talking to you goodbye. sys : (Information) You need to quit first .. I can't :) usr : ok thanks
(Providing Suggestions) you need to press quit and take the survey
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "COVID-19 made me lose my beautiful job which I admire a lot and I am searching for another one which is not fort coming. Please what can I do now?".
sys : (Question) Good evening! How are you feeling today? usr : Good evening! I am good sys : (Question) What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. usr : I am not happy now I need a job sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? usr : You are very correct, the situation now are very bad I need a job seriously sys : (Question) Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? usr : Yes if I can see one now I will be happy. sys : (Question) Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? usr : It has not knocked my self confidence but its affecting my family right now because I need a job to help my family out sys : (Self-disclosure) I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me. usr : Sorry friend! This pandemic really affect every body sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It has been a terrible year hasn't it? Please know that there are lots of people out there in the same situation and we do understand. usr : You are very correct! I know very soon every thing will be ok. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) January should hopefully bring better things to the world I think. I am really looking forward to it, I think it will be good. usr : By God grace I also hope so, Next year will be better. sys : (Question) Will you be getting a vaccine for Covid? I am really hopeful bout that usr : I will if it is proof by government that is ok to take sys : (Others) That sounds like a good idea. It's been really nice talking, I wish you all the best for 2021! usr : Thanks friend 2021 will fruitful for us all sys : (Others) Take care and goodbye :) usr : Nice talking to you goodbye. sys : (Information) You need to quit first .. I can't :) usr : ok thanks sys : (Providing Suggestions) you need to press quit and take the survey
(Information) Neither of us will be paid if you don't press the quit and take survey button.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello
(Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well
(Question) What makes your job stressful for you?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting
(Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted
(Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that.
(Question) Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that. sys : (Question) Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make? usr : Probably not. I was with the same company for a long time and I consistently get a bonus every year
(Others) Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that. sys : (Question) Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make? usr : Probably not. I was with the same company for a long time and I consistently get a bonus every year sys : (Others) Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations? usr : I could try. It mostly gets to me at the end of the day
(Information) Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that. sys : (Question) Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make? usr : Probably not. I was with the same company for a long time and I consistently get a bonus every year sys : (Others) Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations? usr : I could try. It mostly gets to me at the end of the day sys : (Information) Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people usr : That is also true. Sometimes I wonder if it really is for me though
(Self-disclosure) I've had to deal with collections before when I was in bad financial condition. The person on the other line was really helpful though. She was understanding,
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that. sys : (Question) Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make? usr : Probably not. I was with the same company for a long time and I consistently get a bonus every year sys : (Others) Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations? usr : I could try. It mostly gets to me at the end of the day sys : (Information) Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people usr : That is also true. Sometimes I wonder if it really is for me though sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had to deal with collections before when I was in bad financial condition. The person on the other line was really helpful though. She was understanding,
(Providing Suggestions) It may not be for you. I think you should think about the pros and cons of keeping your position. It might make things clearer for you.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that. sys : (Question) Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make? usr : Probably not. I was with the same company for a long time and I consistently get a bonus every year sys : (Others) Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations? usr : I could try. It mostly gets to me at the end of the day sys : (Information) Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people usr : That is also true. Sometimes I wonder if it really is for me though sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had to deal with collections before when I was in bad financial condition. The person on the other line was really helpful though. She was understanding, sys : (Providing Suggestions) It may not be for you. I think you should think about the pros and cons of keeping your position. It might make things clearer for you. usr : That is true. Maybe I just need to sit down and really think about it
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) I wouldn't stay if it really impacts your mental health in a negative way. Still, you may need to zoom out and see the bigger picture: that you provide a needed service and you do it compassionately
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that. sys : (Question) Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make? usr : Probably not. I was with the same company for a long time and I consistently get a bonus every year sys : (Others) Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations? usr : I could try. It mostly gets to me at the end of the day sys : (Information) Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people usr : That is also true. Sometimes I wonder if it really is for me though sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had to deal with collections before when I was in bad financial condition. The person on the other line was really helpful though. She was understanding, sys : (Providing Suggestions) It may not be for you. I think you should think about the pros and cons of keeping your position. It might make things clearer for you. usr : That is true. Maybe I just need to sit down and really think about it sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I wouldn't stay if it really impacts your mental health in a negative way. Still, you may need to zoom out and see the bigger picture: that you provide a needed service and you do it compassionately usr : It really is a big decision usr : Thank you for the different perspective
(Affirmation and Reassurance) No doubt, but you know in your heart what is right for you.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that. sys : (Question) Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make? usr : Probably not. I was with the same company for a long time and I consistently get a bonus every year sys : (Others) Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations? usr : I could try. It mostly gets to me at the end of the day sys : (Information) Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people usr : That is also true. Sometimes I wonder if it really is for me though sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had to deal with collections before when I was in bad financial condition. The person on the other line was really helpful though. She was understanding, sys : (Providing Suggestions) It may not be for you. I think you should think about the pros and cons of keeping your position. It might make things clearer for you. usr : That is true. Maybe I just need to sit down and really think about it sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I wouldn't stay if it really impacts your mental health in a negative way. Still, you may need to zoom out and see the bigger picture: that you provide a needed service and you do it compassionately usr : It really is a big decision usr : Thank you for the different perspective sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No doubt, but you know in your heart what is right for you. usr : That is true. Thanks again usr : Bye
(Affirmation and Reassurance) It's no problem. I hope you can make a decision about this situation and then be at peace with it
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I hate my job but I am scared to quit and seek a new career.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello, what would you like to talk about? usr : I am having a lot of anxiety about quitting my current job. It is too stressful but pays well sys : (Question) What makes your job stressful for you? usr : I have to deal with many people in hard financial situations and it is upsetting sys : (Question) Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation? usr : I do, but often they are not going to get back to what they want. Many people are going to lose their home when safeguards are lifted sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run. usr : That is true but sometimes I feel like I should put my feelings and health first sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that. sys : (Question) Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make? usr : Probably not. I was with the same company for a long time and I consistently get a bonus every year sys : (Others) Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations? usr : I could try. It mostly gets to me at the end of the day sys : (Information) Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people usr : That is also true. Sometimes I wonder if it really is for me though sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had to deal with collections before when I was in bad financial condition. The person on the other line was really helpful though. She was understanding, sys : (Providing Suggestions) It may not be for you. I think you should think about the pros and cons of keeping your position. It might make things clearer for you. usr : That is true. Maybe I just need to sit down and really think about it sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I wouldn't stay if it really impacts your mental health in a negative way. Still, you may need to zoom out and see the bigger picture: that you provide a needed service and you do it compassionately usr : It really is a big decision usr : Thank you for the different perspective sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) No doubt, but you know in your heart what is right for you. usr : That is true. Thanks again usr : Bye sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's no problem. I hope you can make a decision about this situation and then be at peace with it
(Others) Ok, take care
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling very depressed due to work load".
usr : Hello
(Question) Hi, how are you doing?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling very depressed due to work load".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation
(Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about it?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling very depressed due to work load".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about it? usr : Yes, due to COVID life is messed up. Work load has increase and more responsibility of household.
(Question) COVID has really changed a lot of stuff. I understand your frustration. Has your work increased because of COVID conditions. Meaning you have to take extra work, or doing tasks that you dislike to do?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I am feeling very depressed due to work load".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : I am not doing well. I am feeling very depressed due to work load and current household situation sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about it? usr : Yes, due to COVID life is messed up. Work load has increase and more responsibility of household. sys : (Question) COVID has really changed a lot of stuff. I understand your frustration. Has your work increased because of COVID conditions. Meaning you have to take extra work, or doing tasks that you dislike to do?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) If you don't feel comfortable elaborating, we can always talk about how you feel and how you can maybe feel a bit better.