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### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us.".
usr : Yes usr : hi sys : (Question) Hello! How are you? usr : fine what about you sys : (Others) I'm doing great, thank you for asking! sys : (Question) Is there anything you would like to talk about today? How was your week? usr : nice currently what doing sys : (Question) I'm currently at home, relaxing. Thank you for asking! Did you have a relaxing day today? usr : Yes, i'm stressed but my pets are given relaxation for me. do you have a pet ? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you have had a stressful time! Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel that way?
(Information) Yes, pets are proven to expand your lifespan!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us.".
usr : Yes usr : hi sys : (Question) Hello! How are you? usr : fine what about you sys : (Others) I'm doing great, thank you for asking! sys : (Question) Is there anything you would like to talk about today? How was your week? usr : nice currently what doing sys : (Question) I'm currently at home, relaxing. Thank you for asking! Did you have a relaxing day today? usr : Yes, i'm stressed but my pets are given relaxation for me. do you have a pet ? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you have had a stressful time! Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel that way? sys : (Information) Yes, pets are proven to expand your lifespan! usr : Relaxation and play do my pets
(Question) Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel stressed?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us.".
usr : Yes usr : hi sys : (Question) Hello! How are you? usr : fine what about you sys : (Others) I'm doing great, thank you for asking! sys : (Question) Is there anything you would like to talk about today? How was your week? usr : nice currently what doing sys : (Question) I'm currently at home, relaxing. Thank you for asking! Did you have a relaxing day today? usr : Yes, i'm stressed but my pets are given relaxation for me. do you have a pet ? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you have had a stressful time! Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel that way? sys : (Information) Yes, pets are proven to expand your lifespan! usr : Relaxation and play do my pets sys : (Question) Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel stressed? usr : I'm pet lover like mostly Dog. I'm having Husky usr : Yes usr : I'm fight with my friends some bad conversation started in between
(Self-disclosure) It sounds like you and your friends had an argument. This sometimes happens between friends who are very close with each other! When I had an argument with my friend, we both knew it was because we cared deeply for each other.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us.".
usr : Yes usr : hi sys : (Question) Hello! How are you? usr : fine what about you sys : (Others) I'm doing great, thank you for asking! sys : (Question) Is there anything you would like to talk about today? How was your week? usr : nice currently what doing sys : (Question) I'm currently at home, relaxing. Thank you for asking! Did you have a relaxing day today? usr : Yes, i'm stressed but my pets are given relaxation for me. do you have a pet ? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you have had a stressful time! Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel that way? sys : (Information) Yes, pets are proven to expand your lifespan! usr : Relaxation and play do my pets sys : (Question) Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel stressed? usr : I'm pet lover like mostly Dog. I'm having Husky usr : Yes usr : I'm fight with my friends some bad conversation started in between sys : (Self-disclosure) It sounds like you and your friends had an argument. This sometimes happens between friends who are very close with each other! When I had an argument with my friend, we both knew it was because we cared deeply for each other.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you are a very loyal and honest friend who just feels comfortable enough to disagree with your other friends!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Fights on my friends circle some conversation going to long and some bad talking to both of us.".
usr : Yes usr : hi sys : (Question) Hello! How are you? usr : fine what about you sys : (Others) I'm doing great, thank you for asking! sys : (Question) Is there anything you would like to talk about today? How was your week? usr : nice currently what doing sys : (Question) I'm currently at home, relaxing. Thank you for asking! Did you have a relaxing day today? usr : Yes, i'm stressed but my pets are given relaxation for me. do you have a pet ? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you have had a stressful time! Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel that way? sys : (Information) Yes, pets are proven to expand your lifespan! usr : Relaxation and play do my pets sys : (Question) Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel stressed? usr : I'm pet lover like mostly Dog. I'm having Husky usr : Yes usr : I'm fight with my friends some bad conversation started in between sys : (Self-disclosure) It sounds like you and your friends had an argument. This sometimes happens between friends who are very close with each other! When I had an argument with my friend, we both knew it was because we cared deeply for each other. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you are a very loyal and honest friend who just feels comfortable enough to disagree with your other friends! usr : Yes. Some movie talks going on starts with and then going to personal think touch my ego usr : again going to talk normal only but my mind is not support to talk
(Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great idea, and it shows how mature you are! Sometimes, it is a good idea to move on and continue to communicate normally.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
(Question) Hello! How are you tonight?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with
(Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand.
(Question) Do you live alone?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do
(Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online?
(Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online? sys : (Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. usr : I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face
(Providing Suggestions) I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online? sys : (Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. usr : I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face sys : (Providing Suggestions) I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you?
(Information) Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to meet others and help too.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online? sys : (Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. usr : I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face sys : (Providing Suggestions) I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? sys : (Information) Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to meet others and help too. usr : Sadly most people here spend Christmas with their families and are quite private about not inviting outsiders. Last year I spent it with a friend but he is going to his family this year usr : I can find out about churches, I have no idea
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online? sys : (Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. usr : I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face sys : (Providing Suggestions) I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? sys : (Information) Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to meet others and help too. usr : Sadly most people here spend Christmas with their families and are quite private about not inviting outsiders. Last year I spent it with a friend but he is going to his family this year usr : I can find out about churches, I have no idea sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too. usr : Yeah I'll give that a go
(Self-disclosure) There always seems to be people in the same boat I am in, it is just a matter of thinking outside the box and perhaps even calling friends and asking for suggestions.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online? sys : (Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. usr : I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face sys : (Providing Suggestions) I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? sys : (Information) Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to meet others and help too. usr : Sadly most people here spend Christmas with their families and are quite private about not inviting outsiders. Last year I spent it with a friend but he is going to his family this year usr : I can find out about churches, I have no idea sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too. usr : Yeah I'll give that a go sys : (Self-disclosure) There always seems to be people in the same boat I am in, it is just a matter of thinking outside the box and perhaps even calling friends and asking for suggestions.
(Others) I will definitely say a prayer that you find some people to share a meal with.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online? sys : (Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. usr : I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face sys : (Providing Suggestions) I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? sys : (Information) Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to meet others and help too. usr : Sadly most people here spend Christmas with their families and are quite private about not inviting outsiders. Last year I spent it with a friend but he is going to his family this year usr : I can find out about churches, I have no idea sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too. usr : Yeah I'll give that a go sys : (Self-disclosure) There always seems to be people in the same boat I am in, it is just a matter of thinking outside the box and perhaps even calling friends and asking for suggestions. sys : (Others) I will definitely say a prayer that you find some people to share a meal with. usr : Thanks for listening and for your suggestions
(Others) You are welcome. Don't give up, keep trying. It is hard. I've been alone a few times in my life and while I like to be alone, sometimes I really want some people in my life! :D
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online? sys : (Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. usr : I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face sys : (Providing Suggestions) I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? sys : (Information) Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to meet others and help too. usr : Sadly most people here spend Christmas with their families and are quite private about not inviting outsiders. Last year I spent it with a friend but he is going to his family this year usr : I can find out about churches, I have no idea sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too. usr : Yeah I'll give that a go sys : (Self-disclosure) There always seems to be people in the same boat I am in, it is just a matter of thinking outside the box and perhaps even calling friends and asking for suggestions. sys : (Others) I will definitely say a prayer that you find some people to share a meal with. usr : Thanks for listening and for your suggestions sys : (Others) You are welcome. Don't give up, keep trying. It is hard. I've been alone a few times in my life and while I like to be alone, sometimes I really want some people in my life! :D usr : Yeah I do enjoy my alone time, just not around the holidays haha
(Reflection of feelings) I totally get it.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online? sys : (Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. usr : I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face sys : (Providing Suggestions) I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? sys : (Information) Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to meet others and help too. usr : Sadly most people here spend Christmas with their families and are quite private about not inviting outsiders. Last year I spent it with a friend but he is going to his family this year usr : I can find out about churches, I have no idea sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too. usr : Yeah I'll give that a go sys : (Self-disclosure) There always seems to be people in the same boat I am in, it is just a matter of thinking outside the box and perhaps even calling friends and asking for suggestions. sys : (Others) I will definitely say a prayer that you find some people to share a meal with. usr : Thanks for listening and for your suggestions sys : (Others) You are welcome. Don't give up, keep trying. It is hard. I've been alone a few times in my life and while I like to be alone, sometimes I really want some people in my life! :D usr : Yeah I do enjoy my alone time, just not around the holidays haha sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally get it. usr : Thanks and have a good night!
(Others) You are welcome! You have a blessed afternoon and evening!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have no close friends who live locally, they are all in other cities".
sys : (Question) Hello! How are you tonight? usr : Hey. It's the middle of the day where I am located and I'm well thanks. I have the day off work today. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today? usr : I have no local close friends, they all live overseas. With the holiday season it gets lonely as there's no one in my city to celebrate Christmas with sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. sys : (Question) Do you live alone? usr : Yeah I do sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. usr : How did you meet them online? sys : (Providing Suggestions) On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. usr : I feel like I would struggle to establish a connection with someone over the phone. There are no restrictions in my city at the moment so I would really like to meet some people face to face sys : (Providing Suggestions) I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? sys : (Information) Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to meet others and help too. usr : Sadly most people here spend Christmas with their families and are quite private about not inviting outsiders. Last year I spent it with a friend but he is going to his family this year usr : I can find out about churches, I have no idea sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too. usr : Yeah I'll give that a go sys : (Self-disclosure) There always seems to be people in the same boat I am in, it is just a matter of thinking outside the box and perhaps even calling friends and asking for suggestions. sys : (Others) I will definitely say a prayer that you find some people to share a meal with. usr : Thanks for listening and for your suggestions sys : (Others) You are welcome. Don't give up, keep trying. It is hard. I've been alone a few times in my life and while I like to be alone, sometimes I really want some people in my life! :D usr : Yeah I do enjoy my alone time, just not around the holidays haha sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally get it. usr : Thanks and have a good night! sys : (Others) You are welcome! You have a blessed afternoon and evening!
(Others) I believe you have to end the conversation and then we are done! :D
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there
(Question) Hey, how's it going?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever!
(Question) What is it about your job that you don't like?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience?
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics.
(Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean?
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave.
(Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. sys : (Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? usr : That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it?
(Question) Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. sys : (Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? usr : That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it? sys : (Question) Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? usr : I think maybe consider what I actually enjoy and how could I make that profitable.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Nice! That's a good first step.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. sys : (Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? usr : That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it? sys : (Question) Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? usr : I think maybe consider what I actually enjoy and how could I make that profitable. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Nice! That's a good first step.
(Question) And it's a step that doesn't cost anything to do. Just some time, maybe. Do you think you have enough time nowadays to start looking into that?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. sys : (Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? usr : That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it? sys : (Question) Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? usr : I think maybe consider what I actually enjoy and how could I make that profitable. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Nice! That's a good first step. sys : (Question) And it's a step that doesn't cost anything to do. Just some time, maybe. Do you think you have enough time nowadays to start looking into that? usr : I think maybe I could do something on the side while I'm still working until I'm sure of what I want to so. Finding time with a family and a full time job is hard though. That's why so many people get trapped.
(Reflection of feelings) Yep, for sure. It's not going to be easy.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. sys : (Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? usr : That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it? sys : (Question) Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? usr : I think maybe consider what I actually enjoy and how could I make that profitable. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Nice! That's a good first step. sys : (Question) And it's a step that doesn't cost anything to do. Just some time, maybe. Do you think you have enough time nowadays to start looking into that? usr : I think maybe I could do something on the side while I'm still working until I'm sure of what I want to so. Finding time with a family and a full time job is hard though. That's why so many people get trapped. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yep, for sure. It's not going to be easy. usr : Do you think it's even possible?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Most likely! The only thing keeping me from saying definitely is because I don't know all the info. But sure.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. sys : (Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? usr : That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it? sys : (Question) Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? usr : I think maybe consider what I actually enjoy and how could I make that profitable. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Nice! That's a good first step. sys : (Question) And it's a step that doesn't cost anything to do. Just some time, maybe. Do you think you have enough time nowadays to start looking into that? usr : I think maybe I could do something on the side while I'm still working until I'm sure of what I want to so. Finding time with a family and a full time job is hard though. That's why so many people get trapped. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yep, for sure. It's not going to be easy. usr : Do you think it's even possible? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Most likely! The only thing keeping me from saying definitely is because I don't know all the info. But sure. usr : At least that's positive. I need to do something about this because I think it's starting to affect my mental health!
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I gotta believe that switching careers is much more common nowadays than it was one or two generations ago. People you meet along the way will understand.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. sys : (Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? usr : That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it? sys : (Question) Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? usr : I think maybe consider what I actually enjoy and how could I make that profitable. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Nice! That's a good first step. sys : (Question) And it's a step that doesn't cost anything to do. Just some time, maybe. Do you think you have enough time nowadays to start looking into that? usr : I think maybe I could do something on the side while I'm still working until I'm sure of what I want to so. Finding time with a family and a full time job is hard though. That's why so many people get trapped. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yep, for sure. It's not going to be easy. usr : Do you think it's even possible? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Most likely! The only thing keeping me from saying definitely is because I don't know all the info. But sure. usr : At least that's positive. I need to do something about this because I think it's starting to affect my mental health! sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I gotta believe that switching careers is much more common nowadays than it was one or two generations ago. People you meet along the way will understand.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Absolutely. Work can affect mental health particularly when it seems like your efforts aren't going towards anything meaningful. Is that how it feels at your job now?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. sys : (Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? usr : That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it? sys : (Question) Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? usr : I think maybe consider what I actually enjoy and how could I make that profitable. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Nice! That's a good first step. sys : (Question) And it's a step that doesn't cost anything to do. Just some time, maybe. Do you think you have enough time nowadays to start looking into that? usr : I think maybe I could do something on the side while I'm still working until I'm sure of what I want to so. Finding time with a family and a full time job is hard though. That's why so many people get trapped. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yep, for sure. It's not going to be easy. usr : Do you think it's even possible? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Most likely! The only thing keeping me from saying definitely is because I don't know all the info. But sure. usr : At least that's positive. I need to do something about this because I think it's starting to affect my mental health! sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I gotta believe that switching careers is much more common nowadays than it was one or two generations ago. People you meet along the way will understand. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Absolutely. Work can affect mental health particularly when it seems like your efforts aren't going towards anything meaningful. Is that how it feels at your job now? usr : That's true actually. Yes that's how I feel right now. You get it. It's like I'm part of a meaningless machine. I think I'm definitely going to do something about it now. usr : Thanks for your input today it has helped
(Information) Good to know. Because maybe that's something you could keep in mind when you think about new jobs. Does this job allow me to see meaningful outcomes from my effort, and so on.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I can't seem to find a job that I find satisfying and feel like working for a big company just isn't for me but it's all I know.".
usr : Hi there sys : (Question) Hey, how's it going? usr : Not bad but I'm just getting fed up with work. working for a big corporate just bored me to tears. It's all I know and I feel trapped like I can't escape. I don't want this to be my life for ever! sys : (Question) What is it about your job that you don't like? usr : I think it's all the politics of working in an office, the endless meetings and the people trying to get one over on each other. I find it draining. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying. usr : Have you had a similar experience? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics. sys : (Self-disclosure) Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar? usr : It does indeed, actually it's like you work in my office. I'm just fearful that if I try something new I won't be able to support myself financially, do you know what I mean? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave. sys : (Question) Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job? usr : That is a very good question. I hadn't thought about it like that. I think I want to try something new and you have helped me realise this. I don't think I actually want to be happier in my current position. The question is how should I approach it? sys : (Question) Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be? usr : I think maybe consider what I actually enjoy and how could I make that profitable. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Nice! That's a good first step. sys : (Question) And it's a step that doesn't cost anything to do. Just some time, maybe. Do you think you have enough time nowadays to start looking into that? usr : I think maybe I could do something on the side while I'm still working until I'm sure of what I want to so. Finding time with a family and a full time job is hard though. That's why so many people get trapped. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yep, for sure. It's not going to be easy. usr : Do you think it's even possible? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Most likely! The only thing keeping me from saying definitely is because I don't know all the info. But sure. usr : At least that's positive. I need to do something about this because I think it's starting to affect my mental health! sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I gotta believe that switching careers is much more common nowadays than it was one or two generations ago. People you meet along the way will understand. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Absolutely. Work can affect mental health particularly when it seems like your efforts aren't going towards anything meaningful. Is that how it feels at your job now? usr : That's true actually. Yes that's how I feel right now. You get it. It's like I'm part of a meaningless machine. I think I'm definitely going to do something about it now. usr : Thanks for your input today it has helped sys : (Information) Good to know. Because maybe that's something you could keep in mind when you think about new jobs. Does this job allow me to see meaningful outcomes from my effort, and so on.
(Others) That's cool, thanks for saying that. It was nice talking with you!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
(Question) Hi, how are you doing today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly.
(Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them.
(Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage
(Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately.
(Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble.
(Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you
(Information) Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you sys : (Information) Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date. usr : That sounds like a great idea but I am not sure if they will have any sympathy for me.
(Providing Suggestions) You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you sys : (Information) Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date. usr : That sounds like a great idea but I am not sure if they will have any sympathy for me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think. usr : You're right. I guess it would be worth the time and effort to at least ask. That is probably better than just suffering.
(Self-disclosure) I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you sys : (Information) Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date. usr : That sounds like a great idea but I am not sure if they will have any sympathy for me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think. usr : You're right. I guess it would be worth the time and effort to at least ask. That is probably better than just suffering. sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to.
(Question) Are you feeling any external pressure from your family or advisor to do really well?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you sys : (Information) Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date. usr : That sounds like a great idea but I am not sure if they will have any sympathy for me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think. usr : You're right. I guess it would be worth the time and effort to at least ask. That is probably better than just suffering. sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to. sys : (Question) Are you feeling any external pressure from your family or advisor to do really well? usr : I don't really have much of a support system. I really am just trying to self motivate.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds so hard, I think it's awesome that you're trying so hard on your own. Just the fact that you're in a program in the first place is really impressive.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you sys : (Information) Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date. usr : That sounds like a great idea but I am not sure if they will have any sympathy for me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think. usr : You're right. I guess it would be worth the time and effort to at least ask. That is probably better than just suffering. sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to. sys : (Question) Are you feeling any external pressure from your family or advisor to do really well? usr : I don't really have much of a support system. I really am just trying to self motivate. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds so hard, I think it's awesome that you're trying so hard on your own. Just the fact that you're in a program in the first place is really impressive. usr : Thank you.
(Others) I hope you're able to find a support system through your friends, even if you don't have one at home.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you sys : (Information) Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date. usr : That sounds like a great idea but I am not sure if they will have any sympathy for me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think. usr : You're right. I guess it would be worth the time and effort to at least ask. That is probably better than just suffering. sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to. sys : (Question) Are you feeling any external pressure from your family or advisor to do really well? usr : I don't really have much of a support system. I really am just trying to self motivate. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds so hard, I think it's awesome that you're trying so hard on your own. Just the fact that you're in a program in the first place is really impressive. usr : Thank you. sys : (Others) I hope you're able to find a support system through your friends, even if you don't have one at home. usr : I hope so too. usr : Thanks for talking with me.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's hard, but I think you're going to do a great job! And even if you fail a test, it really doesn't matter in the long run.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you sys : (Information) Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date. usr : That sounds like a great idea but I am not sure if they will have any sympathy for me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think. usr : You're right. I guess it would be worth the time and effort to at least ask. That is probably better than just suffering. sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to. sys : (Question) Are you feeling any external pressure from your family or advisor to do really well? usr : I don't really have much of a support system. I really am just trying to self motivate. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds so hard, I think it's awesome that you're trying so hard on your own. Just the fact that you're in a program in the first place is really impressive. usr : Thank you. sys : (Others) I hope you're able to find a support system through your friends, even if you don't have one at home. usr : I hope so too. usr : Thanks for talking with me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's hard, but I think you're going to do a great job! And even if you fail a test, it really doesn't matter in the long run. usr : You are absolutely right.
(Others) It was great talking with you
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am having trouble managing all 7 of my college classes and extracurricular activities.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Not too great, honestly. sys : (Question) Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong? usr : I am struggling to keep up with all of the assignments in my classes and I am anxious that I am going to fail some of them. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds really stressful usr : It really is hard to manage sys : (Question) Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes? usr : Three of them were required for majors in my year, unfortunately. sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help. usr : I have a couple friends in the same classes but there is so much material it is hard to find any time to get together. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you sys : (Information) Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date. usr : That sounds like a great idea but I am not sure if they will have any sympathy for me. sys : (Providing Suggestions) You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think. usr : You're right. I guess it would be worth the time and effort to at least ask. That is probably better than just suffering. sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to. sys : (Question) Are you feeling any external pressure from your family or advisor to do really well? usr : I don't really have much of a support system. I really am just trying to self motivate. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds so hard, I think it's awesome that you're trying so hard on your own. Just the fact that you're in a program in the first place is really impressive. usr : Thank you. sys : (Others) I hope you're able to find a support system through your friends, even if you don't have one at home. usr : I hope so too. usr : Thanks for talking with me. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's hard, but I think you're going to do a great job! And even if you fail a test, it really doesn't matter in the long run. usr : You are absolutely right. sys : (Others) It was great talking with you usr : Thanks again! Bye.
(Others) Bye!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there
(Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright?
(Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role.
(Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..)
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in
(Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up.
(Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol
(Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even..
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job? usr : No, completely unrelated jobs. It was more of a "really need a job right now" situation, and they were hiring quite unassumingly.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh i see.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job? usr : No, completely unrelated jobs. It was more of a "really need a job right now" situation, and they were hiring quite unassumingly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh i see.
(Self-disclosure) If this odd job tasks site exists maybe there a more related oppurtunites to get into that pay more. Or really, the green field is a good one to get into right now I think like solar companies and such. They are going to become more prevalent soon.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job? usr : No, completely unrelated jobs. It was more of a "really need a job right now" situation, and they were hiring quite unassumingly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh i see. sys : (Self-disclosure) If this odd job tasks site exists maybe there a more related oppurtunites to get into that pay more. Or really, the green field is a good one to get into right now I think like solar companies and such. They are going to become more prevalent soon. usr : Are you working in such a role? I doubt my qualifications translate THAT well haha
(Self-disclosure) I make a good case right so you might think I was but no, I am not I only wish to be. I wish to be much more than I am but ya know I work with what I can find to do. Id savd the world every day if zi could knowing my efforts were toowrads a good cause.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job? usr : No, completely unrelated jobs. It was more of a "really need a job right now" situation, and they were hiring quite unassumingly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh i see. sys : (Self-disclosure) If this odd job tasks site exists maybe there a more related oppurtunites to get into that pay more. Or really, the green field is a good one to get into right now I think like solar companies and such. They are going to become more prevalent soon. usr : Are you working in such a role? I doubt my qualifications translate THAT well haha sys : (Self-disclosure) I make a good case right so you might think I was but no, I am not I only wish to be. I wish to be much more than I am but ya know I work with what I can find to do. Id savd the world every day if zi could knowing my efforts were toowrads a good cause.
(Providing Suggestions) I always tell my other half, they might just take a chance and hire out of their skill zone if you have drive and interest in the field.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job? usr : No, completely unrelated jobs. It was more of a "really need a job right now" situation, and they were hiring quite unassumingly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh i see. sys : (Self-disclosure) If this odd job tasks site exists maybe there a more related oppurtunites to get into that pay more. Or really, the green field is a good one to get into right now I think like solar companies and such. They are going to become more prevalent soon. usr : Are you working in such a role? I doubt my qualifications translate THAT well haha sys : (Self-disclosure) I make a good case right so you might think I was but no, I am not I only wish to be. I wish to be much more than I am but ya know I work with what I can find to do. Id savd the world every day if zi could knowing my efforts were toowrads a good cause. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always tell my other half, they might just take a chance and hire out of their skill zone if you have drive and interest in the field. usr : I do like that idea. I might actually go and give that a shot and see what happens.
(Others) as we were told growing up the worst they could say is no,
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job? usr : No, completely unrelated jobs. It was more of a "really need a job right now" situation, and they were hiring quite unassumingly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh i see. sys : (Self-disclosure) If this odd job tasks site exists maybe there a more related oppurtunites to get into that pay more. Or really, the green field is a good one to get into right now I think like solar companies and such. They are going to become more prevalent soon. usr : Are you working in such a role? I doubt my qualifications translate THAT well haha sys : (Self-disclosure) I make a good case right so you might think I was but no, I am not I only wish to be. I wish to be much more than I am but ya know I work with what I can find to do. Id savd the world every day if zi could knowing my efforts were toowrads a good cause. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always tell my other half, they might just take a chance and hire out of their skill zone if you have drive and interest in the field. usr : I do like that idea. I might actually go and give that a shot and see what happens. sys : (Others) as we were told growing up the worst they could say is no, usr : True, but a lot of no's can take a toll on one's psyche
(Others) yes for sure dont go on like that for too long.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job? usr : No, completely unrelated jobs. It was more of a "really need a job right now" situation, and they were hiring quite unassumingly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh i see. sys : (Self-disclosure) If this odd job tasks site exists maybe there a more related oppurtunites to get into that pay more. Or really, the green field is a good one to get into right now I think like solar companies and such. They are going to become more prevalent soon. usr : Are you working in such a role? I doubt my qualifications translate THAT well haha sys : (Self-disclosure) I make a good case right so you might think I was but no, I am not I only wish to be. I wish to be much more than I am but ya know I work with what I can find to do. Id savd the world every day if zi could knowing my efforts were toowrads a good cause. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always tell my other half, they might just take a chance and hire out of their skill zone if you have drive and interest in the field. usr : I do like that idea. I might actually go and give that a shot and see what happens. sys : (Others) as we were told growing up the worst they could say is no, usr : True, but a lot of no's can take a toll on one's psyche sys : (Others) yes for sure dont go on like that for too long.
(Providing Suggestions) any who my computer is going to die i want to finish befoe it does, it that ok?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job? usr : No, completely unrelated jobs. It was more of a "really need a job right now" situation, and they were hiring quite unassumingly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh i see. sys : (Self-disclosure) If this odd job tasks site exists maybe there a more related oppurtunites to get into that pay more. Or really, the green field is a good one to get into right now I think like solar companies and such. They are going to become more prevalent soon. usr : Are you working in such a role? I doubt my qualifications translate THAT well haha sys : (Self-disclosure) I make a good case right so you might think I was but no, I am not I only wish to be. I wish to be much more than I am but ya know I work with what I can find to do. Id savd the world every day if zi could knowing my efforts were toowrads a good cause. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always tell my other half, they might just take a chance and hire out of their skill zone if you have drive and interest in the field. usr : I do like that idea. I might actually go and give that a shot and see what happens. sys : (Others) as we were told growing up the worst they could say is no, usr : True, but a lot of no's can take a toll on one's psyche sys : (Others) yes for sure dont go on like that for too long. sys : (Providing Suggestions) any who my computer is going to die i want to finish befoe it does, it that ok? usr : Sure, let's call it here. usr : Have a good christmas.
(Others) ok nice chat you too
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "End of job contract".
usr : Hi there sys : (Others) Hello, Merry Christmas Eve usr : And to you usr : You doing alright? sys : (Question) How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell. usr : That sounds like a cozy scene :) usr : I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role. sys : (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today? usr : No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..) sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in sys : (Others) yes it does, on top it says inputing usr : Ah fair, that's good to know usr : Yes, still it doesn't quite help that no matter how many CVs you submit, hit rates for jobs just don't go up. sys : (Others) what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol sys : (Question) but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into? usr : I get what you mean about other lines of work. I'm trained as an academic research associate and had to spend a few months last year working in an Amazon warehouse. I feel like I've wasted enough time outside of aimed-for career to go back to doing manual labour. usr : *this year even.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job? usr : No, completely unrelated jobs. It was more of a "really need a job right now" situation, and they were hiring quite unassumingly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) oh i see. sys : (Self-disclosure) If this odd job tasks site exists maybe there a more related oppurtunites to get into that pay more. Or really, the green field is a good one to get into right now I think like solar companies and such. They are going to become more prevalent soon. usr : Are you working in such a role? I doubt my qualifications translate THAT well haha sys : (Self-disclosure) I make a good case right so you might think I was but no, I am not I only wish to be. I wish to be much more than I am but ya know I work with what I can find to do. Id savd the world every day if zi could knowing my efforts were toowrads a good cause. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I always tell my other half, they might just take a chance and hire out of their skill zone if you have drive and interest in the field. usr : I do like that idea. I might actually go and give that a shot and see what happens. sys : (Others) as we were told growing up the worst they could say is no, usr : True, but a lot of no's can take a toll on one's psyche sys : (Others) yes for sure dont go on like that for too long. sys : (Providing Suggestions) any who my computer is going to die i want to finish befoe it does, it that ok? usr : Sure, let's call it here. usr : Have a good christmas. sys : (Others) ok nice chat you too
(Others) good luck
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you.
(Question) Thank you. How are you?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you. sys : (Question) Thank you. How are you? usr : Honestly, I've been feeling very depressed lately. My dog died a month ago and I've just been feeling very empty.
(Question) Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you. sys : (Question) Thank you. How are you? usr : Honestly, I've been feeling very depressed lately. My dog died a month ago and I've just been feeling very empty. sys : (Question) Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog? usr : 7 years. I had him since he was a puppy. He would have turned 8 years old next month.
(Reflection of feelings) I understand what you are going through. This is one of most difficult time of someone's life.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you. sys : (Question) Thank you. How are you? usr : Honestly, I've been feeling very depressed lately. My dog died a month ago and I've just been feeling very empty. sys : (Question) Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog? usr : 7 years. I had him since he was a puppy. He would have turned 8 years old next month. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand what you are going through. This is one of most difficult time of someone's life. usr : Thank you. One of my coworkers told me that "he was just a dog and that I should get over it," but I just can't. He brought so much joy to my life and now that I don't have him anymore, I just feel so empty.
(Reflection of feelings) It is not just a dog. How insensitive of someone say that.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you. sys : (Question) Thank you. How are you? usr : Honestly, I've been feeling very depressed lately. My dog died a month ago and I've just been feeling very empty. sys : (Question) Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog? usr : 7 years. I had him since he was a puppy. He would have turned 8 years old next month. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand what you are going through. This is one of most difficult time of someone's life. usr : Thank you. One of my coworkers told me that "he was just a dog and that I should get over it," but I just can't. He brought so much joy to my life and now that I don't have him anymore, I just feel so empty. sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is not just a dog. How insensitive of someone say that. usr : Well, my coworker lost his mother to COVID so I guess he is going through some tough times too.
(Providing Suggestions) I suggest you pretty soon adapt another dog. This might help you fill up the emptiness.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you. sys : (Question) Thank you. How are you? usr : Honestly, I've been feeling very depressed lately. My dog died a month ago and I've just been feeling very empty. sys : (Question) Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog? usr : 7 years. I had him since he was a puppy. He would have turned 8 years old next month. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand what you are going through. This is one of most difficult time of someone's life. usr : Thank you. One of my coworkers told me that "he was just a dog and that I should get over it," but I just can't. He brought so much joy to my life and now that I don't have him anymore, I just feel so empty. sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is not just a dog. How insensitive of someone say that. usr : Well, my coworker lost his mother to COVID so I guess he is going through some tough times too. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you pretty soon adapt another dog. This might help you fill up the emptiness. usr : I have been trying to get out of my slump. I even thought about getting a new dog, but that just brings up sad memories. What do you think I should do?
(Providing Suggestions) If you are not ready to get a new dog, another thing you might try to spend some time volunteering in a dog shelter... that might give you different perspective
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you. sys : (Question) Thank you. How are you? usr : Honestly, I've been feeling very depressed lately. My dog died a month ago and I've just been feeling very empty. sys : (Question) Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog? usr : 7 years. I had him since he was a puppy. He would have turned 8 years old next month. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand what you are going through. This is one of most difficult time of someone's life. usr : Thank you. One of my coworkers told me that "he was just a dog and that I should get over it," but I just can't. He brought so much joy to my life and now that I don't have him anymore, I just feel so empty. sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is not just a dog. How insensitive of someone say that. usr : Well, my coworker lost his mother to COVID so I guess he is going through some tough times too. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you pretty soon adapt another dog. This might help you fill up the emptiness. usr : I have been trying to get out of my slump. I even thought about getting a new dog, but that just brings up sad memories. What do you think I should do? sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you are not ready to get a new dog, another thing you might try to spend some time volunteering in a dog shelter... that might give you different perspective usr : That actually sounds like a good idea. I hope the shelter near me will take volunteers with COVID and all.
(Providing Suggestions) If you are not comfortable going out due to COVID, you could involve some activities online promoting dog adaption and create awareness online and through social media..
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you. sys : (Question) Thank you. How are you? usr : Honestly, I've been feeling very depressed lately. My dog died a month ago and I've just been feeling very empty. sys : (Question) Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog? usr : 7 years. I had him since he was a puppy. He would have turned 8 years old next month. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand what you are going through. This is one of most difficult time of someone's life. usr : Thank you. One of my coworkers told me that "he was just a dog and that I should get over it," but I just can't. He brought so much joy to my life and now that I don't have him anymore, I just feel so empty. sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is not just a dog. How insensitive of someone say that. usr : Well, my coworker lost his mother to COVID so I guess he is going through some tough times too. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you pretty soon adapt another dog. This might help you fill up the emptiness. usr : I have been trying to get out of my slump. I even thought about getting a new dog, but that just brings up sad memories. What do you think I should do? sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you are not ready to get a new dog, another thing you might try to spend some time volunteering in a dog shelter... that might give you different perspective usr : That actually sounds like a good idea. I hope the shelter near me will take volunteers with COVID and all. sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you are not comfortable going out due to COVID, you could involve some activities online promoting dog adaption and create awareness online and through social media.. usr : That's a great idea. I would love to get involved in anything related to pets. They need a loving home, especially during times like these. usr : Thank you for suggesting that.
(Question) Anything else I could help you with today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you. sys : (Question) Thank you. How are you? usr : Honestly, I've been feeling very depressed lately. My dog died a month ago and I've just been feeling very empty. sys : (Question) Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog? usr : 7 years. I had him since he was a puppy. He would have turned 8 years old next month. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand what you are going through. This is one of most difficult time of someone's life. usr : Thank you. One of my coworkers told me that "he was just a dog and that I should get over it," but I just can't. He brought so much joy to my life and now that I don't have him anymore, I just feel so empty. sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is not just a dog. How insensitive of someone say that. usr : Well, my coworker lost his mother to COVID so I guess he is going through some tough times too. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you pretty soon adapt another dog. This might help you fill up the emptiness. usr : I have been trying to get out of my slump. I even thought about getting a new dog, but that just brings up sad memories. What do you think I should do? sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you are not ready to get a new dog, another thing you might try to spend some time volunteering in a dog shelter... that might give you different perspective usr : That actually sounds like a good idea. I hope the shelter near me will take volunteers with COVID and all. sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you are not comfortable going out due to COVID, you could involve some activities online promoting dog adaption and create awareness online and through social media.. usr : That's a great idea. I would love to get involved in anything related to pets. They need a loving home, especially during times like these. usr : Thank you for suggesting that. sys : (Question) Anything else I could help you with today? usr : No, I'll try following the advice you suggested. Hopefully, that'll help me get out of my slump. usr : I may even meet another dog that way too usr : Thank you again
(Providing Suggestions) Thank you. Please use "Finish and Quit" to end the discussion.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My dog died about a month ago and I've just been feeling very depressed. I can't move on yet.".
usr : Hello, it's nice to meet you. sys : (Question) Thank you. How are you? usr : Honestly, I've been feeling very depressed lately. My dog died a month ago and I've just been feeling very empty. sys : (Question) Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog? usr : 7 years. I had him since he was a puppy. He would have turned 8 years old next month. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand what you are going through. This is one of most difficult time of someone's life. usr : Thank you. One of my coworkers told me that "he was just a dog and that I should get over it," but I just can't. He brought so much joy to my life and now that I don't have him anymore, I just feel so empty. sys : (Reflection of feelings) It is not just a dog. How insensitive of someone say that. usr : Well, my coworker lost his mother to COVID so I guess he is going through some tough times too. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest you pretty soon adapt another dog. This might help you fill up the emptiness. usr : I have been trying to get out of my slump. I even thought about getting a new dog, but that just brings up sad memories. What do you think I should do? sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you are not ready to get a new dog, another thing you might try to spend some time volunteering in a dog shelter... that might give you different perspective usr : That actually sounds like a good idea. I hope the shelter near me will take volunteers with COVID and all. sys : (Providing Suggestions) If you are not comfortable going out due to COVID, you could involve some activities online promoting dog adaption and create awareness online and through social media.. usr : That's a great idea. I would love to get involved in anything related to pets. They need a loving home, especially during times like these. usr : Thank you for suggesting that. sys : (Question) Anything else I could help you with today? usr : No, I'll try following the advice you suggested. Hopefully, that'll help me get out of my slump. usr : I may even meet another dog that way too usr : Thank you again sys : (Providing Suggestions) Thank you. Please use "Finish and Quit" to end the discussion. usr : It says you need to send more messages?
(Question) Sure.. do you have any other pet?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
(Others) Hello
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi!
(Question) How may I help you today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work.
(Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way.
(Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again,
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but....
(Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay
(Providing Suggestions) Try to talk to them and be very firm with them
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to talk to them and be very firm with them usr : I feel that is abusive when I know how bad they are being affected psychologically. I actually feel like just locking them in their rooms until we get done working. Kind of like being grounded.... usr : I will try to talk with them again. I know I will probably be tearful which I know bothers them.
(Providing Suggestions) How about reward them with something if they listen and behave
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to talk to them and be very firm with them usr : I feel that is abusive when I know how bad they are being affected psychologically. I actually feel like just locking them in their rooms until we get done working. Kind of like being grounded.... usr : I will try to talk with them again. I know I will probably be tearful which I know bothers them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about reward them with something if they listen and behave usr : Maybe they will react to that... usr : I'm so glad the vaccine is here \ usr : Thats a better idea....
(Self-disclosure) Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to talk to them and be very firm with them usr : I feel that is abusive when I know how bad they are being affected psychologically. I actually feel like just locking them in their rooms until we get done working. Kind of like being grounded.... usr : I will try to talk with them again. I know I will probably be tearful which I know bothers them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about reward them with something if they listen and behave usr : Maybe they will react to that... usr : I'm so glad the vaccine is here \ usr : Thats a better idea.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay usr : I appreciate your support and maybe I will take them to the park where we all play family games but just with us four. They really love to do that. I think that they want attention from us more because we are right here. usr : Or maybe we'll have a picnic together. usr : It has been awhile since we have done something outside of the house together.
(Providing Suggestions) Yes maybe that will work for them and probably want to be outside
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to talk to them and be very firm with them usr : I feel that is abusive when I know how bad they are being affected psychologically. I actually feel like just locking them in their rooms until we get done working. Kind of like being grounded.... usr : I will try to talk with them again. I know I will probably be tearful which I know bothers them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about reward them with something if they listen and behave usr : Maybe they will react to that... usr : I'm so glad the vaccine is here \ usr : Thats a better idea.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay usr : I appreciate your support and maybe I will take them to the park where we all play family games but just with us four. They really love to do that. I think that they want attention from us more because we are right here. usr : Or maybe we'll have a picnic together. usr : It has been awhile since we have done something outside of the house together. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes maybe that will work for them and probably want to be outside usr : I feel it is like pent up frustration. They were very very busy before Corona
(Reflection of feelings) I understand the corona has messed everything up this year
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to talk to them and be very firm with them usr : I feel that is abusive when I know how bad they are being affected psychologically. I actually feel like just locking them in their rooms until we get done working. Kind of like being grounded.... usr : I will try to talk with them again. I know I will probably be tearful which I know bothers them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about reward them with something if they listen and behave usr : Maybe they will react to that... usr : I'm so glad the vaccine is here \ usr : Thats a better idea.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay usr : I appreciate your support and maybe I will take them to the park where we all play family games but just with us four. They really love to do that. I think that they want attention from us more because we are right here. usr : Or maybe we'll have a picnic together. usr : It has been awhile since we have done something outside of the house together. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes maybe that will work for them and probably want to be outside usr : I feel it is like pent up frustration. They were very very busy before Corona sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand the corona has messed everything up this year usr : Do you have kids?
(Question) are they having a good Christmas
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to talk to them and be very firm with them usr : I feel that is abusive when I know how bad they are being affected psychologically. I actually feel like just locking them in their rooms until we get done working. Kind of like being grounded.... usr : I will try to talk with them again. I know I will probably be tearful which I know bothers them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about reward them with something if they listen and behave usr : Maybe they will react to that... usr : I'm so glad the vaccine is here \ usr : Thats a better idea.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay usr : I appreciate your support and maybe I will take them to the park where we all play family games but just with us four. They really love to do that. I think that they want attention from us more because we are right here. usr : Or maybe we'll have a picnic together. usr : It has been awhile since we have done something outside of the house together. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes maybe that will work for them and probably want to be outside usr : I feel it is like pent up frustration. They were very very busy before Corona sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand the corona has messed everything up this year usr : Do you have kids? sys : (Question) are they having a good Christmas
(Others) No i have no kids but want some one day
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to talk to them and be very firm with them usr : I feel that is abusive when I know how bad they are being affected psychologically. I actually feel like just locking them in their rooms until we get done working. Kind of like being grounded.... usr : I will try to talk with them again. I know I will probably be tearful which I know bothers them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about reward them with something if they listen and behave usr : Maybe they will react to that... usr : I'm so glad the vaccine is here \ usr : Thats a better idea.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay usr : I appreciate your support and maybe I will take them to the park where we all play family games but just with us four. They really love to do that. I think that they want attention from us more because we are right here. usr : Or maybe we'll have a picnic together. usr : It has been awhile since we have done something outside of the house together. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes maybe that will work for them and probably want to be outside usr : I feel it is like pent up frustration. They were very very busy before Corona sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand the corona has messed everything up this year usr : Do you have kids? sys : (Question) are they having a good Christmas sys : (Others) No i have no kids but want some one day usr : They are SUPER happy today of course. Luckily they have received the same amount of presents they get any other Christmas because our income has stayed the same. These kids do not know how lucky they are right now. Maybe I can stress that to them a well. They need to know they have a lot to be grateful for. usr : Thanks for your ear and your help! I hope you have an awesome christmas and please stay safe!
(Others) Right i understand that. Just talk to them and be firm with them that will get them to listen more.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "My kids are driving me crazy now that we are all having to work and school our kids from home. My husband and I both work from home now because of Corona. My 15 year old boy and 8 year old girl argue after they finish schooling and my husband and I are still working. It is starting to interrupt the quality of our work, Any suggestions? They are going crazy since the emergence of the Corona Virus.".
sys : (Others) Hello usr : Hi! sys : (Question) How may I help you today? usr : What suggestions do you have for unruly kids who argue when their parent need quiet in their respective offices because we work at home? usr : Yelling does not work. sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your kids about that? usr : I'm thinking of taking away devices, but then Corona is still here. I feel that is very mean considering they are already stressed being in doors. usr : Talking is great when we are doing it and they all agree. But it never stays this way. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again, usr : I almost feel like crying. usr : I hear you but.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Everything will be okay sys : (Providing Suggestions) Try to talk to them and be very firm with them usr : I feel that is abusive when I know how bad they are being affected psychologically. I actually feel like just locking them in their rooms until we get done working. Kind of like being grounded.... usr : I will try to talk with them again. I know I will probably be tearful which I know bothers them. sys : (Providing Suggestions) How about reward them with something if they listen and behave usr : Maybe they will react to that... usr : I'm so glad the vaccine is here \ usr : Thats a better idea.... sys : (Self-disclosure) Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay usr : I appreciate your support and maybe I will take them to the park where we all play family games but just with us four. They really love to do that. I think that they want attention from us more because we are right here. usr : Or maybe we'll have a picnic together. usr : It has been awhile since we have done something outside of the house together. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes maybe that will work for them and probably want to be outside usr : I feel it is like pent up frustration. They were very very busy before Corona sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand the corona has messed everything up this year usr : Do you have kids? sys : (Question) are they having a good Christmas sys : (Others) No i have no kids but want some one day usr : They are SUPER happy today of course. Luckily they have received the same amount of presents they get any other Christmas because our income has stayed the same. These kids do not know how lucky they are right now. Maybe I can stress that to them a well. They need to know they have a lot to be grateful for. usr : Thanks for your ear and your help! I hope you have an awesome christmas and please stay safe! sys : (Others) Right i understand that. Just talk to them and be firm with them that will get them to listen more.
(Information) Your welcome. Have a awesome Christmas to and stay safe to.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I have naturally suffer from clinical depression".
(Others) hello! How are you?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I have naturally suffer from clinical depression".
sys : (Others) hello! How are you? usr : So im struggling to figure things out in my life. I feel lost and im not sure if its just the depression or if its more. usr : Im hanging in there. Thanks for asking. How are you?
(Question) I'm good, but has anything happened for you to feel like this or are you in your feelings right now?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I have naturally suffer from clinical depression".
sys : (Others) hello! How are you? usr : So im struggling to figure things out in my life. I feel lost and im not sure if its just the depression or if its more. usr : Im hanging in there. Thanks for asking. How are you? sys : (Question) I'm good, but has anything happened for you to feel like this or are you in your feelings right now? usr : Nothing specifically. My life is very good i just happen to always become depressed, unmotivated and sad most the time. It creates issues in all aspects from friendships to my relationship and even my personal and professional life. usr : Im seeking mental health therapy as well as focusing on a number of other things ranging from sleep, diet, communication, social life and numerous things but happen to always feel the same way. Do you have any input?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are mental therapy is a good idea as I don't think your mind is as straight as it needs to be, it will be alright especially if your life is good
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I have naturally suffer from clinical depression".
sys : (Others) hello! How are you? usr : So im struggling to figure things out in my life. I feel lost and im not sure if its just the depression or if its more. usr : Im hanging in there. Thanks for asking. How are you? sys : (Question) I'm good, but has anything happened for you to feel like this or are you in your feelings right now? usr : Nothing specifically. My life is very good i just happen to always become depressed, unmotivated and sad most the time. It creates issues in all aspects from friendships to my relationship and even my personal and professional life. usr : Im seeking mental health therapy as well as focusing on a number of other things ranging from sleep, diet, communication, social life and numerous things but happen to always feel the same way. Do you have any input? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are mental therapy is a good idea as I don't think your mind is as straight as it needs to be, it will be alright especially if your life is good usr : It is a good idea and provides some insight on things that maybe i havent thought about before. Have you ever experienced depression thats lasted for long periods at a time?
(Self-disclosure) Yh, when I was in college i did go through that stage as I couldn't find a job
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I have naturally suffer from clinical depression".
sys : (Others) hello! How are you? usr : So im struggling to figure things out in my life. I feel lost and im not sure if its just the depression or if its more. usr : Im hanging in there. Thanks for asking. How are you? sys : (Question) I'm good, but has anything happened for you to feel like this or are you in your feelings right now? usr : Nothing specifically. My life is very good i just happen to always become depressed, unmotivated and sad most the time. It creates issues in all aspects from friendships to my relationship and even my personal and professional life. usr : Im seeking mental health therapy as well as focusing on a number of other things ranging from sleep, diet, communication, social life and numerous things but happen to always feel the same way. Do you have any input? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are mental therapy is a good idea as I don't think your mind is as straight as it needs to be, it will be alright especially if your life is good usr : It is a good idea and provides some insight on things that maybe i havent thought about before. Have you ever experienced depression thats lasted for long periods at a time? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yh, when I was in college i did go through that stage as I couldn't find a job usr : Ive found that exercise and diet helps greatly. But even then i still suffer. So your depression was situational?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) It was kinda like yours in the sense that nothing triggered it but it worked out somehow so yours will as well :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I have naturally suffer from clinical depression".
sys : (Others) hello! How are you? usr : So im struggling to figure things out in my life. I feel lost and im not sure if its just the depression or if its more. usr : Im hanging in there. Thanks for asking. How are you? sys : (Question) I'm good, but has anything happened for you to feel like this or are you in your feelings right now? usr : Nothing specifically. My life is very good i just happen to always become depressed, unmotivated and sad most the time. It creates issues in all aspects from friendships to my relationship and even my personal and professional life. usr : Im seeking mental health therapy as well as focusing on a number of other things ranging from sleep, diet, communication, social life and numerous things but happen to always feel the same way. Do you have any input? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are mental therapy is a good idea as I don't think your mind is as straight as it needs to be, it will be alright especially if your life is good usr : It is a good idea and provides some insight on things that maybe i havent thought about before. Have you ever experienced depression thats lasted for long periods at a time? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yh, when I was in college i did go through that stage as I couldn't find a job usr : Ive found that exercise and diet helps greatly. But even then i still suffer. So your depression was situational? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It was kinda like yours in the sense that nothing triggered it but it worked out somehow so yours will as well :)
(Providing Suggestions) If it is exercise and diet that helps you, go for it!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I have naturally suffer from clinical depression".
sys : (Others) hello! How are you? usr : So im struggling to figure things out in my life. I feel lost and im not sure if its just the depression or if its more. usr : Im hanging in there. Thanks for asking. How are you? sys : (Question) I'm good, but has anything happened for you to feel like this or are you in your feelings right now? usr : Nothing specifically. My life is very good i just happen to always become depressed, unmotivated and sad most the time. It creates issues in all aspects from friendships to my relationship and even my personal and professional life. usr : Im seeking mental health therapy as well as focusing on a number of other things ranging from sleep, diet, communication, social life and numerous things but happen to always feel the same way. Do you have any input? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you are mental therapy is a good idea as I don't think your mind is as straight as it needs to be, it will be alright especially if your life is good usr : It is a good idea and provides some insight on things that maybe i havent thought about before. Have you ever experienced depression thats lasted for long periods at a time? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yh, when I was in college i did go through that stage as I couldn't find a job usr : Ive found that exercise and diet helps greatly. But even then i still suffer. So your depression was situational? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It was kinda like yours in the sense that nothing triggered it but it worked out somehow so yours will as well :) sys : (Providing Suggestions) If it is exercise and diet that helps you, go for it! usr : Well in your case you mentioned it occurred because you couldnt find a job. Isnt that situational depression?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) No but I had another source of income so it only effected me a little. But i persevered through it so can you