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### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am afraid of failure, and it paralyses me to where I cannot study enough to score well on the tests.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you? usr : Hello! Life is treating me fair, what about you? sys : (Question) Well, I've been a bit worried this year due to Covid and everything. Have you been worrying about anything? usr : Yes, not covid tho. Mostly, it's academics. It paralyses me. sys : (Question) Do you work in academia then? Or are you a student? usr : I am a college student, and I miss my high school days. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So you feel that life was more simple when you were still in high school? usr : Yes, schoolwork wise. Now, I can never stay on top. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it is quite usual to feel a bit disorientated when transitioning from school to college. It is strange to feel like an adult all of a sudden usr : Do you have any experience with that?
(Self-disclosure) Yes I do. It took me quite a long time to adjust to college in my first year too.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am afraid of failure, and it paralyses me to where I cannot study enough to score well on the tests.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you? usr : Hello! Life is treating me fair, what about you? sys : (Question) Well, I've been a bit worried this year due to Covid and everything. Have you been worrying about anything? usr : Yes, not covid tho. Mostly, it's academics. It paralyses me. sys : (Question) Do you work in academia then? Or are you a student? usr : I am a college student, and I miss my high school days. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So you feel that life was more simple when you were still in high school? usr : Yes, schoolwork wise. Now, I can never stay on top. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it is quite usual to feel a bit disorientated when transitioning from school to college. It is strange to feel like an adult all of a sudden usr : Do you have any experience with that? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I do. It took me quite a long time to adjust to college in my first year too. usr : Woah, I am sorry it was rough for you.
(Self-disclosure) It was a bit but I think that it was not just me. It's a huge life change. Is your problem mainly with your grades or are there other issues?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am afraid of failure, and it paralyses me to where I cannot study enough to score well on the tests.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you? usr : Hello! Life is treating me fair, what about you? sys : (Question) Well, I've been a bit worried this year due to Covid and everything. Have you been worrying about anything? usr : Yes, not covid tho. Mostly, it's academics. It paralyses me. sys : (Question) Do you work in academia then? Or are you a student? usr : I am a college student, and I miss my high school days. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So you feel that life was more simple when you were still in high school? usr : Yes, schoolwork wise. Now, I can never stay on top. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it is quite usual to feel a bit disorientated when transitioning from school to college. It is strange to feel like an adult all of a sudden usr : Do you have any experience with that? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I do. It took me quite a long time to adjust to college in my first year too. usr : Woah, I am sorry it was rough for you. sys : (Self-disclosure) It was a bit but I think that it was not just me. It's a huge life change. Is your problem mainly with your grades or are there other issues? usr : I would say my grades is the most important part of my llife, so it's the only thing that worries me
(Question) Do you feel scared that you might fail your exams?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am afraid of failure, and it paralyses me to where I cannot study enough to score well on the tests.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you? usr : Hello! Life is treating me fair, what about you? sys : (Question) Well, I've been a bit worried this year due to Covid and everything. Have you been worrying about anything? usr : Yes, not covid tho. Mostly, it's academics. It paralyses me. sys : (Question) Do you work in academia then? Or are you a student? usr : I am a college student, and I miss my high school days. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So you feel that life was more simple when you were still in high school? usr : Yes, schoolwork wise. Now, I can never stay on top. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it is quite usual to feel a bit disorientated when transitioning from school to college. It is strange to feel like an adult all of a sudden usr : Do you have any experience with that? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I do. It took me quite a long time to adjust to college in my first year too. usr : Woah, I am sorry it was rough for you. sys : (Self-disclosure) It was a bit but I think that it was not just me. It's a huge life change. Is your problem mainly with your grades or are there other issues? usr : I would say my grades is the most important part of my llife, so it's the only thing that worries me sys : (Question) Do you feel scared that you might fail your exams? usr : All the time. I didn't fail any this semester, but the anxiety makes me irritable and worried.
(Information) There are personal tutors available who could help you with any academic problems you are having?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "I am afraid of failure, and it paralyses me to where I cannot study enough to score well on the tests.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you? usr : Hello! Life is treating me fair, what about you? sys : (Question) Well, I've been a bit worried this year due to Covid and everything. Have you been worrying about anything? usr : Yes, not covid tho. Mostly, it's academics. It paralyses me. sys : (Question) Do you work in academia then? Or are you a student? usr : I am a college student, and I miss my high school days. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So you feel that life was more simple when you were still in high school? usr : Yes, schoolwork wise. Now, I can never stay on top. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that it is quite usual to feel a bit disorientated when transitioning from school to college. It is strange to feel like an adult all of a sudden usr : Do you have any experience with that? sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I do. It took me quite a long time to adjust to college in my first year too. usr : Woah, I am sorry it was rough for you. sys : (Self-disclosure) It was a bit but I think that it was not just me. It's a huge life change. Is your problem mainly with your grades or are there other issues? usr : I would say my grades is the most important part of my llife, so it's the only thing that worries me sys : (Question) Do you feel scared that you might fail your exams? usr : All the time. I didn't fail any this semester, but the anxiety makes me irritable and worried. sys : (Information) There are personal tutors available who could help you with any academic problems you are having?
(Others) There is no need to feel ashamed that you are not doing as well as you hoped
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before
(Question) Hello how are you doing today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I am doing ok,and yourself?
(Others) I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I am doing ok,and yourself? sys : (Others) I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about? usr : yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I am doing ok,and yourself? sys : (Others) I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about? usr : yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges? usr : yes we did,there was an investigation and a trial that we had to testify at but unfortunatly he was found not guilty which I will never understand.
(Reflection of feelings) That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I am doing ok,and yourself? sys : (Others) I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about? usr : yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges? usr : yes we did,there was an investigation and a trial that we had to testify at but unfortunatly he was found not guilty which I will never understand. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault.
(Information) How is your daughter doing now?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I am doing ok,and yourself? sys : (Others) I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about? usr : yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges? usr : yes we did,there was an investigation and a trial that we had to testify at but unfortunatly he was found not guilty which I will never understand. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault. sys : (Information) How is your daughter doing now? usr : It was hard on her she felt like what was the point of it all for the jury not to believe her ..I kept telling her I was proud of her because it was a very brave thing to do..i also feel like this is why victims don't speak up out of fear of not being believed usr : she is doing well now,she has a job and she is now a mom herself,my grandson is 15 months old
(Providing Suggestions) That's true alot of people dont come forward with sexual assault due to being not believed.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I am doing ok,and yourself? sys : (Others) I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about? usr : yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges? usr : yes we did,there was an investigation and a trial that we had to testify at but unfortunatly he was found not guilty which I will never understand. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault. sys : (Information) How is your daughter doing now? usr : It was hard on her she felt like what was the point of it all for the jury not to believe her ..I kept telling her I was proud of her because it was a very brave thing to do..i also feel like this is why victims don't speak up out of fear of not being believed usr : she is doing well now,she has a job and she is now a mom herself,my grandson is 15 months old sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's true alot of people dont come forward with sexual assault due to being not believed.
(Others) She was very brave, and is a role model for others!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I am doing ok,and yourself? sys : (Others) I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about? usr : yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges? usr : yes we did,there was an investigation and a trial that we had to testify at but unfortunatly he was found not guilty which I will never understand. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault. sys : (Information) How is your daughter doing now? usr : It was hard on her she felt like what was the point of it all for the jury not to believe her ..I kept telling her I was proud of her because it was a very brave thing to do..i also feel like this is why victims don't speak up out of fear of not being believed usr : she is doing well now,she has a job and she is now a mom herself,my grandson is 15 months old sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's true alot of people dont come forward with sexual assault due to being not believed. sys : (Others) She was very brave, and is a role model for others! usr : it was good she had really supportive friends to help her through it
(Others) Yes friends are very helpful, Im glad she had that.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I am doing ok,and yourself? sys : (Others) I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about? usr : yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges? usr : yes we did,there was an investigation and a trial that we had to testify at but unfortunatly he was found not guilty which I will never understand. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault. sys : (Information) How is your daughter doing now? usr : It was hard on her she felt like what was the point of it all for the jury not to believe her ..I kept telling her I was proud of her because it was a very brave thing to do..i also feel like this is why victims don't speak up out of fear of not being believed usr : she is doing well now,she has a job and she is now a mom herself,my grandson is 15 months old sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's true alot of people dont come forward with sexual assault due to being not believed. sys : (Others) She was very brave, and is a role model for others! usr : it was good she had really supportive friends to help her through it sys : (Others) Yes friends are very helpful, Im glad she had that. usr : She was also in therapy for a time
(Providing Suggestions) Therapy can be a great thing especially if you find that one therapist you feel comfortable with. It always helps to talk about things.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "There is an event that happened about 5 years ago that I think started this emotion for me.It is ongoing and has affected all parts of my life.".
usr : Hello...I have never done this before sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I am doing ok,and yourself? sys : (Others) I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about? usr : yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges? usr : yes we did,there was an investigation and a trial that we had to testify at but unfortunatly he was found not guilty which I will never understand. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault. sys : (Information) How is your daughter doing now? usr : It was hard on her she felt like what was the point of it all for the jury not to believe her ..I kept telling her I was proud of her because it was a very brave thing to do..i also feel like this is why victims don't speak up out of fear of not being believed usr : she is doing well now,she has a job and she is now a mom herself,my grandson is 15 months old sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's true alot of people dont come forward with sexual assault due to being not believed. sys : (Others) She was very brave, and is a role model for others! usr : it was good she had really supportive friends to help her through it sys : (Others) Yes friends are very helpful, Im glad she had that. usr : She was also in therapy for a time sys : (Providing Suggestions) Therapy can be a great thing especially if you find that one therapist you feel comfortable with. It always helps to talk about things. usr : I think it was beneficial,I just wished she continued on with it..she stopped because her therapist left the practice usr : Thanks for the chat,but I got to go
(Others) No problem, have a great day!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
(Question) What brings you online today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today?
(Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss.
(Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help
(Question) Great! What’s going on?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. usr : That's exactly it. Do you have any advice on what I can do?
(Question) Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. usr : That's exactly it. Do you have any advice on what I can do? sys : (Question) Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate? usr : I'm working in a desk job so spend almost all day sitting down. That could be part of the problem.
(Self-disclosure) I’ve found that physical activity helps me to get to sleep even when I’m troubled mentally. Another option is to slow your brain down so that your mind is relaxed. That is much harder for me though!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. usr : That's exactly it. Do you have any advice on what I can do? sys : (Question) Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate? usr : I'm working in a desk job so spend almost all day sitting down. That could be part of the problem. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’ve found that physical activity helps me to get to sleep even when I’m troubled mentally. Another option is to slow your brain down so that your mind is relaxed. That is much harder for me though! usr : That's a good idea. I could try go out for a walk either before or after work as a starting point and see if that makes a difference.
(Information) That sounds like a good plan! It also helps to make sure that it’s dark and very quiet. Surprisingly enough, when they did research on sleep disorders they found that a lot of people just needed quiet and darkness.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. usr : That's exactly it. Do you have any advice on what I can do? sys : (Question) Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate? usr : I'm working in a desk job so spend almost all day sitting down. That could be part of the problem. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’ve found that physical activity helps me to get to sleep even when I’m troubled mentally. Another option is to slow your brain down so that your mind is relaxed. That is much harder for me though! usr : That's a good idea. I could try go out for a walk either before or after work as a starting point and see if that makes a difference. sys : (Information) That sounds like a good plan! It also helps to make sure that it’s dark and very quiet. Surprisingly enough, when they did research on sleep disorders they found that a lot of people just needed quiet and darkness. usr : Have you tried lavender? I have heard pillow or room sprays can be good for sleep.
(Information) Yep, I’ve tried a LOT of things. I’m currently struggling with this myself. I’m even trying out melatonin, tryptophan, and even CBD (not stoney weed oil)! So far no success, but I’m still trying!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. usr : That's exactly it. Do you have any advice on what I can do? sys : (Question) Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate? usr : I'm working in a desk job so spend almost all day sitting down. That could be part of the problem. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’ve found that physical activity helps me to get to sleep even when I’m troubled mentally. Another option is to slow your brain down so that your mind is relaxed. That is much harder for me though! usr : That's a good idea. I could try go out for a walk either before or after work as a starting point and see if that makes a difference. sys : (Information) That sounds like a good plan! It also helps to make sure that it’s dark and very quiet. Surprisingly enough, when they did research on sleep disorders they found that a lot of people just needed quiet and darkness. usr : Have you tried lavender? I have heard pillow or room sprays can be good for sleep. sys : (Information) Yep, I’ve tried a LOT of things. I’m currently struggling with this myself. I’m even trying out melatonin, tryptophan, and even CBD (not stoney weed oil)! So far no success, but I’m still trying! usr : I've heard people mention melatonin - I might use that later if other methods dont work. It's good to know other people are in the same boat.
(Information) It’s one of the reasons that it’s good to get outside. Your body makes melatonin from sunshine, so going for a walk outside helps in 2 ways!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. usr : That's exactly it. Do you have any advice on what I can do? sys : (Question) Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate? usr : I'm working in a desk job so spend almost all day sitting down. That could be part of the problem. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’ve found that physical activity helps me to get to sleep even when I’m troubled mentally. Another option is to slow your brain down so that your mind is relaxed. That is much harder for me though! usr : That's a good idea. I could try go out for a walk either before or after work as a starting point and see if that makes a difference. sys : (Information) That sounds like a good plan! It also helps to make sure that it’s dark and very quiet. Surprisingly enough, when they did research on sleep disorders they found that a lot of people just needed quiet and darkness. usr : Have you tried lavender? I have heard pillow or room sprays can be good for sleep. sys : (Information) Yep, I’ve tried a LOT of things. I’m currently struggling with this myself. I’m even trying out melatonin, tryptophan, and even CBD (not stoney weed oil)! So far no success, but I’m still trying! usr : I've heard people mention melatonin - I might use that later if other methods dont work. It's good to know other people are in the same boat. sys : (Information) It’s one of the reasons that it’s good to get outside. Your body makes melatonin from sunshine, so going for a walk outside helps in 2 ways! usr : If we had a little more sunshine where I live that would be fantastic!
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Getting good sleep is critical. Supplementing with melatonin might help compensate for your lack of sunshine!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. usr : That's exactly it. Do you have any advice on what I can do? sys : (Question) Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate? usr : I'm working in a desk job so spend almost all day sitting down. That could be part of the problem. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’ve found that physical activity helps me to get to sleep even when I’m troubled mentally. Another option is to slow your brain down so that your mind is relaxed. That is much harder for me though! usr : That's a good idea. I could try go out for a walk either before or after work as a starting point and see if that makes a difference. sys : (Information) That sounds like a good plan! It also helps to make sure that it’s dark and very quiet. Surprisingly enough, when they did research on sleep disorders they found that a lot of people just needed quiet and darkness. usr : Have you tried lavender? I have heard pillow or room sprays can be good for sleep. sys : (Information) Yep, I’ve tried a LOT of things. I’m currently struggling with this myself. I’m even trying out melatonin, tryptophan, and even CBD (not stoney weed oil)! So far no success, but I’m still trying! usr : I've heard people mention melatonin - I might use that later if other methods dont work. It's good to know other people are in the same boat. sys : (Information) It’s one of the reasons that it’s good to get outside. Your body makes melatonin from sunshine, so going for a walk outside helps in 2 ways! usr : If we had a little more sunshine where I live that would be fantastic! sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Getting good sleep is critical. Supplementing with melatonin might help compensate for your lack of sunshine! usr : I'll look into it for sure. It's something I hadnt considered before this chat.
(Others) Glad I could help.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. usr : That's exactly it. Do you have any advice on what I can do? sys : (Question) Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate? usr : I'm working in a desk job so spend almost all day sitting down. That could be part of the problem. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’ve found that physical activity helps me to get to sleep even when I’m troubled mentally. Another option is to slow your brain down so that your mind is relaxed. That is much harder for me though! usr : That's a good idea. I could try go out for a walk either before or after work as a starting point and see if that makes a difference. sys : (Information) That sounds like a good plan! It also helps to make sure that it’s dark and very quiet. Surprisingly enough, when they did research on sleep disorders they found that a lot of people just needed quiet and darkness. usr : Have you tried lavender? I have heard pillow or room sprays can be good for sleep. sys : (Information) Yep, I’ve tried a LOT of things. I’m currently struggling with this myself. I’m even trying out melatonin, tryptophan, and even CBD (not stoney weed oil)! So far no success, but I’m still trying! usr : I've heard people mention melatonin - I might use that later if other methods dont work. It's good to know other people are in the same boat. sys : (Information) It’s one of the reasons that it’s good to get outside. Your body makes melatonin from sunshine, so going for a walk outside helps in 2 ways! usr : If we had a little more sunshine where I live that would be fantastic! sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Getting good sleep is critical. Supplementing with melatonin might help compensate for your lack of sunshine! usr : I'll look into it for sure. It's something I hadnt considered before this chat. sys : (Others) Glad I could help. usr : Thanks, the help was appreciated.
(Question) Anytime. Is there anything else you wanted to discuss?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "I've been feeling low for the last few months, and have been finding it hard to sleep at night.".
sys : (Question) What brings you online today? sys : (Question) Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’m Kim. What’s your name? usr : Hi there, I'd love some help sys : (Question) Great! What’s going on? usr : I've been struggling with sleep over the last few months, and it's making me tired during the day. usr : I have been finding it hard to stay asleep, and wake up tossing and turning constantly. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night? usr : I can't think of anything particular, but my mood has been low generally for the last wee while which I imagine is probably the cause. I'm so tired during the day but as soon as my head hits the pillow at night I'm wide awake. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. usr : That's exactly it. Do you have any advice on what I can do? sys : (Question) Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate? usr : I'm working in a desk job so spend almost all day sitting down. That could be part of the problem. sys : (Self-disclosure) I’ve found that physical activity helps me to get to sleep even when I’m troubled mentally. Another option is to slow your brain down so that your mind is relaxed. That is much harder for me though! usr : That's a good idea. I could try go out for a walk either before or after work as a starting point and see if that makes a difference. sys : (Information) That sounds like a good plan! It also helps to make sure that it’s dark and very quiet. Surprisingly enough, when they did research on sleep disorders they found that a lot of people just needed quiet and darkness. usr : Have you tried lavender? I have heard pillow or room sprays can be good for sleep. sys : (Information) Yep, I’ve tried a LOT of things. I’m currently struggling with this myself. I’m even trying out melatonin, tryptophan, and even CBD (not stoney weed oil)! So far no success, but I’m still trying! usr : I've heard people mention melatonin - I might use that later if other methods dont work. It's good to know other people are in the same boat. sys : (Information) It’s one of the reasons that it’s good to get outside. Your body makes melatonin from sunshine, so going for a walk outside helps in 2 ways! usr : If we had a little more sunshine where I live that would be fantastic! sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Getting good sleep is critical. Supplementing with melatonin might help compensate for your lack of sunshine! usr : I'll look into it for sure. It's something I hadnt considered before this chat. sys : (Others) Glad I could help. usr : Thanks, the help was appreciated. sys : (Question) Anytime. Is there anything else you wanted to discuss? usr : That was all for today, thank you.
(Others) My pleasure! Hope your day goes well. Sweet dreams!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
(Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you?
(Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies?
(Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor?
(Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids?
(Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids? sys : (Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? usr : I have a problem with finding work that doesn't need me to work on the weekend.
(Self-disclosure) Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids? sys : (Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? usr : I have a problem with finding work that doesn't need me to work on the weekend. sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day. usr : I wouldn't mind it if I had local daycares that were opened on the weekend.
(Reflection of feelings) Ah, so I hear you saying that one of the things that you are struggling with is finding affordable childcare?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids? sys : (Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? usr : I have a problem with finding work that doesn't need me to work on the weekend. sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day. usr : I wouldn't mind it if I had local daycares that were opened on the weekend. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ah, so I hear you saying that one of the things that you are struggling with is finding affordable childcare? usr : Isn't the affordable part but finding a daycare open on the weekend at all. I don't want a private person. I would feel more comfortable with a daycare setting.
(Question) What are your objections against a private person? Is it that you feel you could not trust them? Do you have any family members who could help?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids? sys : (Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? usr : I have a problem with finding work that doesn't need me to work on the weekend. sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day. usr : I wouldn't mind it if I had local daycares that were opened on the weekend. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ah, so I hear you saying that one of the things that you are struggling with is finding affordable childcare? usr : Isn't the affordable part but finding a daycare open on the weekend at all. I don't want a private person. I would feel more comfortable with a daycare setting. sys : (Question) What are your objections against a private person? Is it that you feel you could not trust them? Do you have any family members who could help? usr : I have no family that can help. Yes, its me not trusting some random person. In a daycare their cameras and others being around makes me feel more comfortable.
(Providing Suggestions) Could someone come to your home perhaps? You could set up your own cameras there. And you could make sure to get someone with excellent references
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids? sys : (Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? usr : I have a problem with finding work that doesn't need me to work on the weekend. sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day. usr : I wouldn't mind it if I had local daycares that were opened on the weekend. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ah, so I hear you saying that one of the things that you are struggling with is finding affordable childcare? usr : Isn't the affordable part but finding a daycare open on the weekend at all. I don't want a private person. I would feel more comfortable with a daycare setting. sys : (Question) What are your objections against a private person? Is it that you feel you could not trust them? Do you have any family members who could help? usr : I have no family that can help. Yes, its me not trusting some random person. In a daycare their cameras and others being around makes me feel more comfortable. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could someone come to your home perhaps? You could set up your own cameras there. And you could make sure to get someone with excellent references usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin to look. Any suggestions?
(Information) You might be able to find good advice on local parenting forums. There must be other people there who are in the same situation.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids? sys : (Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? usr : I have a problem with finding work that doesn't need me to work on the weekend. sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day. usr : I wouldn't mind it if I had local daycares that were opened on the weekend. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ah, so I hear you saying that one of the things that you are struggling with is finding affordable childcare? usr : Isn't the affordable part but finding a daycare open on the weekend at all. I don't want a private person. I would feel more comfortable with a daycare setting. sys : (Question) What are your objections against a private person? Is it that you feel you could not trust them? Do you have any family members who could help? usr : I have no family that can help. Yes, its me not trusting some random person. In a daycare their cameras and others being around makes me feel more comfortable. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could someone come to your home perhaps? You could set up your own cameras there. And you could make sure to get someone with excellent references usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin to look. Any suggestions? sys : (Information) You might be able to find good advice on local parenting forums. There must be other people there who are in the same situation. usr : Where would I find a local parenting forums? I'm not very tech savy so I'm lost on all of that.
(Information) Try going to google, inputting your local area and searching for parenting advice forums :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids? sys : (Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? usr : I have a problem with finding work that doesn't need me to work on the weekend. sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day. usr : I wouldn't mind it if I had local daycares that were opened on the weekend. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ah, so I hear you saying that one of the things that you are struggling with is finding affordable childcare? usr : Isn't the affordable part but finding a daycare open on the weekend at all. I don't want a private person. I would feel more comfortable with a daycare setting. sys : (Question) What are your objections against a private person? Is it that you feel you could not trust them? Do you have any family members who could help? usr : I have no family that can help. Yes, its me not trusting some random person. In a daycare their cameras and others being around makes me feel more comfortable. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could someone come to your home perhaps? You could set up your own cameras there. And you could make sure to get someone with excellent references usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin to look. Any suggestions? sys : (Information) You might be able to find good advice on local parenting forums. There must be other people there who are in the same situation. usr : Where would I find a local parenting forums? I'm not very tech savy so I'm lost on all of that. sys : (Information) Try going to google, inputting your local area and searching for parenting advice forums :) usr : That sounds easy enough! I never thought of this as being an option.
(Others) I hope you are able to find someone who can set your mind at ease! Thank you for talking and have a wonderful festive season.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids? sys : (Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? usr : I have a problem with finding work that doesn't need me to work on the weekend. sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day. usr : I wouldn't mind it if I had local daycares that were opened on the weekend. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ah, so I hear you saying that one of the things that you are struggling with is finding affordable childcare? usr : Isn't the affordable part but finding a daycare open on the weekend at all. I don't want a private person. I would feel more comfortable with a daycare setting. sys : (Question) What are your objections against a private person? Is it that you feel you could not trust them? Do you have any family members who could help? usr : I have no family that can help. Yes, its me not trusting some random person. In a daycare their cameras and others being around makes me feel more comfortable. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could someone come to your home perhaps? You could set up your own cameras there. And you could make sure to get someone with excellent references usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin to look. Any suggestions? sys : (Information) You might be able to find good advice on local parenting forums. There must be other people there who are in the same situation. usr : Where would I find a local parenting forums? I'm not very tech savy so I'm lost on all of that. sys : (Information) Try going to google, inputting your local area and searching for parenting advice forums :) usr : That sounds easy enough! I never thought of this as being an option. sys : (Others) I hope you are able to find someone who can set your mind at ease! Thank you for talking and have a wonderful festive season. usr : You do the same! Thanks for your advise and time :)
(Providing Suggestions) no worries :) remember to hit the button and take the survey ;)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I need a job but finding one that doesn't require weekends is almost impossible. There are no day cares in my area that watch kids on the weekend so that is another delima.".
sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? usr : It is treating me pretty well. How about you? sys : (Question) I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? usr : What are you hobbies? sys : (Self-disclosure) I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? usr : That's a unique interest. How much longer do you have before you are a counsellor? sys : (Question) About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? usr : Do you have any kids? sys : (Others) No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? usr : I have a problem with finding work that doesn't need me to work on the weekend. sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day. usr : I wouldn't mind it if I had local daycares that were opened on the weekend. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ah, so I hear you saying that one of the things that you are struggling with is finding affordable childcare? usr : Isn't the affordable part but finding a daycare open on the weekend at all. I don't want a private person. I would feel more comfortable with a daycare setting. sys : (Question) What are your objections against a private person? Is it that you feel you could not trust them? Do you have any family members who could help? usr : I have no family that can help. Yes, its me not trusting some random person. In a daycare their cameras and others being around makes me feel more comfortable. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could someone come to your home perhaps? You could set up your own cameras there. And you could make sure to get someone with excellent references usr : I wouldn't even know where to begin to look. Any suggestions? sys : (Information) You might be able to find good advice on local parenting forums. There must be other people there who are in the same situation. usr : Where would I find a local parenting forums? I'm not very tech savy so I'm lost on all of that. sys : (Information) Try going to google, inputting your local area and searching for parenting advice forums :) usr : That sounds easy enough! I never thought of this as being an option. sys : (Others) I hope you are able to find someone who can set your mind at ease! Thank you for talking and have a wonderful festive season. usr : You do the same! Thanks for your advise and time :) sys : (Providing Suggestions) no worries :) remember to hit the button and take the survey ;) usr : Thanks for reminding me!
(Others) I can't actually do it from my end until you do :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
(Question) Hi there, how are you doing
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet
(Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there
(Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get
(Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this? usr : I have been diagnosed with major clinical depression over 20years ago
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this? usr : I have been diagnosed with major clinical depression over 20years ago sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment? usr : I am under no treatment. I had over 20 medicines over the year and nothing helped .
(Providing Suggestions) Have you tried just talking to a therapist?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this? usr : I have been diagnosed with major clinical depression over 20years ago sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment? usr : I am under no treatment. I had over 20 medicines over the year and nothing helped . sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried just talking to a therapist? usr : years ago but nothing usr : now because my husband doesn't allow it or think it will help
(Providing Suggestions) Sometimes it can be as simple as not connecting with the right therapist. They are there to support you and if you dont feel the connection its ok to move on to another. Maybe its time to look again?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this? usr : I have been diagnosed with major clinical depression over 20years ago sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment? usr : I am under no treatment. I had over 20 medicines over the year and nothing helped . sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried just talking to a therapist? usr : years ago but nothing usr : now because my husband doesn't allow it or think it will help sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes it can be as simple as not connecting with the right therapist. They are there to support you and if you dont feel the connection its ok to move on to another. Maybe its time to look again?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, your husband does not control you. You are in control of yourself. It is not his mind and body its set to help. Its yours.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this? usr : I have been diagnosed with major clinical depression over 20years ago sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment? usr : I am under no treatment. I had over 20 medicines over the year and nothing helped . sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried just talking to a therapist? usr : years ago but nothing usr : now because my husband doesn't allow it or think it will help sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes it can be as simple as not connecting with the right therapist. They are there to support you and if you dont feel the connection its ok to move on to another. Maybe its time to look again? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, your husband does not control you. You are in control of yourself. It is not his mind and body its set to help. Its yours. usr : true but he s got me under his control long story
(Information) I think that might be an issue you need to deal with first. That is not an ok situation to be in.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this? usr : I have been diagnosed with major clinical depression over 20years ago sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment? usr : I am under no treatment. I had over 20 medicines over the year and nothing helped . sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried just talking to a therapist? usr : years ago but nothing usr : now because my husband doesn't allow it or think it will help sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes it can be as simple as not connecting with the right therapist. They are there to support you and if you dont feel the connection its ok to move on to another. Maybe its time to look again? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, your husband does not control you. You are in control of yourself. It is not his mind and body its set to help. Its yours. usr : true but he s got me under his control long story sys : (Information) I think that might be an issue you need to deal with first. That is not an ok situation to be in. usr : yes i know. and you are right but like i said its a long story
(Providing Suggestions) There are many organizations that can help you get out of an abusive relationship.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this? usr : I have been diagnosed with major clinical depression over 20years ago sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment? usr : I am under no treatment. I had over 20 medicines over the year and nothing helped . sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried just talking to a therapist? usr : years ago but nothing usr : now because my husband doesn't allow it or think it will help sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes it can be as simple as not connecting with the right therapist. They are there to support you and if you dont feel the connection its ok to move on to another. Maybe its time to look again? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, your husband does not control you. You are in control of yourself. It is not his mind and body its set to help. Its yours. usr : true but he s got me under his control long story sys : (Information) I think that might be an issue you need to deal with first. That is not an ok situation to be in. usr : yes i know. and you are right but like i said its a long story sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many organizations that can help you get out of an abusive relationship. usr : true. I m going to go lay down now. Thanks for your information
(Others) I really hope that you try to reach out to someone for help. Do not let him control your life. I hope you can get some rest.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this? usr : I have been diagnosed with major clinical depression over 20years ago sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment? usr : I am under no treatment. I had over 20 medicines over the year and nothing helped . sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried just talking to a therapist? usr : years ago but nothing usr : now because my husband doesn't allow it or think it will help sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes it can be as simple as not connecting with the right therapist. They are there to support you and if you dont feel the connection its ok to move on to another. Maybe its time to look again? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, your husband does not control you. You are in control of yourself. It is not his mind and body its set to help. Its yours. usr : true but he s got me under his control long story sys : (Information) I think that might be an issue you need to deal with first. That is not an ok situation to be in. usr : yes i know. and you are right but like i said its a long story sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many organizations that can help you get out of an abusive relationship. usr : true. I m going to go lay down now. Thanks for your information sys : (Others) I really hope that you try to reach out to someone for help. Do not let him control your life. I hope you can get some rest. usr : Thanks for trying . It s more than one 15 min conversation can do when it took years to get this way
(Others) Oh i know, thats why you need to branch out and find professionals. I know you can.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "ongoing depression every day . It s hard to even get out of bed".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you doing usr : Good evening. I am so ready for bed. Is it bedtime yet sys : (Question) Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired? usr : I m in pa its 417pm and all I ever want to do is sleep usr : anyone there sys : (Information) Hello i am sorry for the delay sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Is there anything going on to make you so tired? usr : No just tired all the time . Doesn't matter how much sleep I get sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this? usr : I have been diagnosed with major clinical depression over 20years ago sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment? usr : I am under no treatment. I had over 20 medicines over the year and nothing helped . sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried just talking to a therapist? usr : years ago but nothing usr : now because my husband doesn't allow it or think it will help sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes it can be as simple as not connecting with the right therapist. They are there to support you and if you dont feel the connection its ok to move on to another. Maybe its time to look again? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, your husband does not control you. You are in control of yourself. It is not his mind and body its set to help. Its yours. usr : true but he s got me under his control long story sys : (Information) I think that might be an issue you need to deal with first. That is not an ok situation to be in. usr : yes i know. and you are right but like i said its a long story sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are many organizations that can help you get out of an abusive relationship. usr : true. I m going to go lay down now. Thanks for your information sys : (Others) I really hope that you try to reach out to someone for help. Do not let him control your life. I hope you can get some rest. usr : Thanks for trying . It s more than one 15 min conversation can do when it took years to get this way sys : (Others) Oh i know, thats why you need to branch out and find professionals. I know you can. usr : Keep safe and thanks for listening.
(Others) You as well, thank you for sharing.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
(Question) Hi, how are you doing?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better.
(Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives.
(Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen.
(Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen. sys : (Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen. sys : (Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen usr : So you think this will continue to happen?
(Reflection of feelings) Most likely, she seems to need space to live for herself and is less willing to make sacrifices for you like you do for her
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen. sys : (Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen usr : So you think this will continue to happen? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Most likely, she seems to need space to live for herself and is less willing to make sacrifices for you like you do for her
(Providing Suggestions) But even it won't happen again, you shouldn't have to live worrying that it will
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen. sys : (Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen usr : So you think this will continue to happen? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Most likely, she seems to need space to live for herself and is less willing to make sacrifices for you like you do for her sys : (Providing Suggestions) But even it won't happen again, you shouldn't have to live worrying that it will
(Question) Have you spoken to her about how you feel?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen. sys : (Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen usr : So you think this will continue to happen? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Most likely, she seems to need space to live for herself and is less willing to make sacrifices for you like you do for her sys : (Providing Suggestions) But even it won't happen again, you shouldn't have to live worrying that it will sys : (Question) Have you spoken to her about how you feel? usr : I dont even know how to start the conversation. usr : I feel betrayed and that I have wasted the last 3 years.
(Providing Suggestions) Wow I can only imagine. But I think it wasn't a waste if there were good times and you had room to grow. In relationships you have to prioritize your own happiness and I'm sure if you mentioned that you're frustrated and hurt maybe you can understand how she feels and why she made the decisions she made
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen. sys : (Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen usr : So you think this will continue to happen? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Most likely, she seems to need space to live for herself and is less willing to make sacrifices for you like you do for her sys : (Providing Suggestions) But even it won't happen again, you shouldn't have to live worrying that it will sys : (Question) Have you spoken to her about how you feel? usr : I dont even know how to start the conversation. usr : I feel betrayed and that I have wasted the last 3 years. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow I can only imagine. But I think it wasn't a waste if there were good times and you had room to grow. In relationships you have to prioritize your own happiness and I'm sure if you mentioned that you're frustrated and hurt maybe you can understand how she feels and why she made the decisions she made usr : Its frustrating. I am sorry to complain. It seems silly with everything going on in the world.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Absolutely not! Individual frustrations are the best things to focus on before everything that happens in the world.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen. sys : (Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen usr : So you think this will continue to happen? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Most likely, she seems to need space to live for herself and is less willing to make sacrifices for you like you do for her sys : (Providing Suggestions) But even it won't happen again, you shouldn't have to live worrying that it will sys : (Question) Have you spoken to her about how you feel? usr : I dont even know how to start the conversation. usr : I feel betrayed and that I have wasted the last 3 years. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow I can only imagine. But I think it wasn't a waste if there were good times and you had room to grow. In relationships you have to prioritize your own happiness and I'm sure if you mentioned that you're frustrated and hurt maybe you can understand how she feels and why she made the decisions she made usr : Its frustrating. I am sorry to complain. It seems silly with everything going on in the world. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Absolutely not! Individual frustrations are the best things to focus on before everything that happens in the world. usr : What should I do? I feel like I just need to give up. I feel even worse because it is Christmas.
(Providing Suggestions) I think it's important that you talk to her and get the answers you need. She might not even have been aware you feel this way and assumed you were happy to move for her.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen. sys : (Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen usr : So you think this will continue to happen? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Most likely, she seems to need space to live for herself and is less willing to make sacrifices for you like you do for her sys : (Providing Suggestions) But even it won't happen again, you shouldn't have to live worrying that it will sys : (Question) Have you spoken to her about how you feel? usr : I dont even know how to start the conversation. usr : I feel betrayed and that I have wasted the last 3 years. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow I can only imagine. But I think it wasn't a waste if there were good times and you had room to grow. In relationships you have to prioritize your own happiness and I'm sure if you mentioned that you're frustrated and hurt maybe you can understand how she feels and why she made the decisions she made usr : Its frustrating. I am sorry to complain. It seems silly with everything going on in the world. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Absolutely not! Individual frustrations are the best things to focus on before everything that happens in the world. usr : What should I do? I feel like I just need to give up. I feel even worse because it is Christmas. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it's important that you talk to her and get the answers you need. She might not even have been aware you feel this way and assumed you were happy to move for her.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Although again, I'm really sorry you have to go through this during the holidays, definitely sucks but doesn't mean you can't at least get some answers and move on with your life
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "My significant other has started to become distant and I fear our relationship is over.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing? usr : Hello. I suppose I could be doing better. sys : (Question) Anything in particular you're having a hard time with? usr : Yep. Thanks for asking. It feels to me like my GF and I may be breaking up. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best? usr : No. I am very sad about it. She recently informed me shes going to go a graduate school far away after I made the decision to come to school near where she lives. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives? usr : Yes. I feel like I put my life on hold for someone else only to have them throw me to the curve. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices usr : At this point, yes. usr : I just wish we would of talked about this a year ago when I uprooted my life the first time. usr : I fear that this will continue to happen. sys : (Others) Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen usr : So you think this will continue to happen? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Most likely, she seems to need space to live for herself and is less willing to make sacrifices for you like you do for her sys : (Providing Suggestions) But even it won't happen again, you shouldn't have to live worrying that it will sys : (Question) Have you spoken to her about how you feel? usr : I dont even know how to start the conversation. usr : I feel betrayed and that I have wasted the last 3 years. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow I can only imagine. But I think it wasn't a waste if there were good times and you had room to grow. In relationships you have to prioritize your own happiness and I'm sure if you mentioned that you're frustrated and hurt maybe you can understand how she feels and why she made the decisions she made usr : Its frustrating. I am sorry to complain. It seems silly with everything going on in the world. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Absolutely not! Individual frustrations are the best things to focus on before everything that happens in the world. usr : What should I do? I feel like I just need to give up. I feel even worse because it is Christmas. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think it's important that you talk to her and get the answers you need. She might not even have been aware you feel this way and assumed you were happy to move for her. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Although again, I'm really sorry you have to go through this during the holidays, definitely sucks but doesn't mean you can't at least get some answers and move on with your life usr : Thank you.
(Others) Thank you for talking to me! I hope it all works out
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "My friend started posting on his wall that he believes that Democrats cheated on the election. I had known him for over 20 years and I don't know if I can trust him every again.".
usr : Hello
(Question) Hello!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "My friend started posting on his wall that he believes that Democrats cheated on the election. I had known him for over 20 years and I don't know if I can trust him every again.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! usr : How are you?
(Others) I'm fine. How are you? Is there any issue I can help you with?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "My friend started posting on his wall that he believes that Democrats cheated on the election. I had known him for over 20 years and I don't know if I can trust him every again.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! usr : How are you? sys : (Others) I'm fine. How are you? Is there any issue I can help you with? usr : Yeah I'm really depressed. I just found out my buddy of 20 years is now posting that he believes Trump and that the election is being stolen from him. I thought I knew him but now I don't know.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a really tough thing to deal with. It can be hard to be confronted with a different, unexpected side from a trusted friend.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping
(Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep???
(Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either
(Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer
(Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked
(Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows...
(Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age...
(Question) How old are you?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age... sys : (Question) How old are you? usr : I am 56 years old
(Self-disclosure) Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age... sys : (Question) How old are you? usr : I am 56 years old sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think? usr : I know it...LOL... things hurt i never even knew I had....
(Question) And sleeping problems start emerging, sigh. Do you get a chance to nap during the day?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age... sys : (Question) How old are you? usr : I am 56 years old sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think? usr : I know it...LOL... things hurt i never even knew I had.... sys : (Question) And sleeping problems start emerging, sigh. Do you get a chance to nap during the day? usr : NO I have never been able to sleep during the day unless I was sick, I work fulltime also. so i leave my house at 6 am and get back at 3 pm then dinner and household...
(Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you have a very packed life. Maybe you need more time to yourself to relax?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age... sys : (Question) How old are you? usr : I am 56 years old sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think? usr : I know it...LOL... things hurt i never even knew I had.... sys : (Question) And sleeping problems start emerging, sigh. Do you get a chance to nap during the day? usr : NO I have never been able to sleep during the day unless I was sick, I work fulltime also. so i leave my house at 6 am and get back at 3 pm then dinner and household... sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you have a very packed life. Maybe you need more time to yourself to relax? usr : Maybe just not sure how to get to that point
(Question) Is there anyone in your home that you can discuss this with? Spouse?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age... sys : (Question) How old are you? usr : I am 56 years old sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think? usr : I know it...LOL... things hurt i never even knew I had.... sys : (Question) And sleeping problems start emerging, sigh. Do you get a chance to nap during the day? usr : NO I have never been able to sleep during the day unless I was sick, I work fulltime also. so i leave my house at 6 am and get back at 3 pm then dinner and household... sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you have a very packed life. Maybe you need more time to yourself to relax? usr : Maybe just not sure how to get to that point sys : (Question) Is there anyone in your home that you can discuss this with? Spouse? usr : LOL...you are funny my husband is self employeed I do all his paperwork, and he is not the empathetic kind...
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) I hear you on that one too :(. I think you are being put under unnecessary stress
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age... sys : (Question) How old are you? usr : I am 56 years old sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think? usr : I know it...LOL... things hurt i never even knew I had.... sys : (Question) And sleeping problems start emerging, sigh. Do you get a chance to nap during the day? usr : NO I have never been able to sleep during the day unless I was sick, I work fulltime also. so i leave my house at 6 am and get back at 3 pm then dinner and household... sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you have a very packed life. Maybe you need more time to yourself to relax? usr : Maybe just not sure how to get to that point sys : (Question) Is there anyone in your home that you can discuss this with? Spouse? usr : LOL...you are funny my husband is self employeed I do all his paperwork, and he is not the empathetic kind... sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I hear you on that one too :(. I think you are being put under unnecessary stress usr : I think you are right and I am sure I put a lot on that myself by trying to do everything right
(Question) What are the chances of you doing something just for y ourself soon? A spa day maybe?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age... sys : (Question) How old are you? usr : I am 56 years old sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think? usr : I know it...LOL... things hurt i never even knew I had.... sys : (Question) And sleeping problems start emerging, sigh. Do you get a chance to nap during the day? usr : NO I have never been able to sleep during the day unless I was sick, I work fulltime also. so i leave my house at 6 am and get back at 3 pm then dinner and household... sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you have a very packed life. Maybe you need more time to yourself to relax? usr : Maybe just not sure how to get to that point sys : (Question) Is there anyone in your home that you can discuss this with? Spouse? usr : LOL...you are funny my husband is self employeed I do all his paperwork, and he is not the empathetic kind... sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I hear you on that one too :(. I think you are being put under unnecessary stress usr : I think you are right and I am sure I put a lot on that myself by trying to do everything right sys : (Question) What are the chances of you doing something just for y ourself soon? A spa day maybe? usr : I think I will do that ..it as good to talk to you....thanks for letting me vent
(Question) No worries, I have a couple of minutes more to spare if you'd like to talk about something else :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age... sys : (Question) How old are you? usr : I am 56 years old sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think? usr : I know it...LOL... things hurt i never even knew I had.... sys : (Question) And sleeping problems start emerging, sigh. Do you get a chance to nap during the day? usr : NO I have never been able to sleep during the day unless I was sick, I work fulltime also. so i leave my house at 6 am and get back at 3 pm then dinner and household... sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you have a very packed life. Maybe you need more time to yourself to relax? usr : Maybe just not sure how to get to that point sys : (Question) Is there anyone in your home that you can discuss this with? Spouse? usr : LOL...you are funny my husband is self employeed I do all his paperwork, and he is not the empathetic kind... sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I hear you on that one too :(. I think you are being put under unnecessary stress usr : I think you are right and I am sure I put a lot on that myself by trying to do everything right sys : (Question) What are the chances of you doing something just for y ourself soon? A spa day maybe? usr : I think I will do that ..it as good to talk to you....thanks for letting me vent sys : (Question) No worries, I have a couple of minutes more to spare if you'd like to talk about something else :) usr : NO I do appreciate it I got to get a shower...thanks again
(Others) No problem at all :) can you just wait for the fifteen minute mark before pressing quit, thanks and have a great day
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Sleep Problems. The seeker says "Unable to fall asleep and the sleep through the night have been like this for a very long time".
usr : HI I have such trouble sleeping sys : (Question) Hello! How is life treating you right now? usr : Ok I guess but I can not shutt my brain off and relax sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? usr : I guess, that would be what it is called I just always thought I am unable to sleep??? sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? usr : No but I have been taking melatoning or pm medication but it does not really help either sys : (Question) I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? usr : Melatonin, for sleep...and like tylenol PM... I also have taken over the counter sleep meds all of them are over the counteer sys : (Self-disclosure) I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you? usr : no i do not, but i do not want a prescription afraid of getting hooked sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so usr : I am even worried that you could get hooked with the over the counter stuff...it is a rough spot, I see all the night time TV shows... sys : (Information) I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. usr : I guess I could...maybe it is age... sys : (Question) How old are you? usr : I am 56 years old sys : (Self-disclosure) Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think? usr : I know it...LOL... things hurt i never even knew I had.... sys : (Question) And sleeping problems start emerging, sigh. Do you get a chance to nap during the day? usr : NO I have never been able to sleep during the day unless I was sick, I work fulltime also. so i leave my house at 6 am and get back at 3 pm then dinner and household... sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sounds like you have a very packed life. Maybe you need more time to yourself to relax? usr : Maybe just not sure how to get to that point sys : (Question) Is there anyone in your home that you can discuss this with? Spouse? usr : LOL...you are funny my husband is self employeed I do all his paperwork, and he is not the empathetic kind... sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I hear you on that one too :(. I think you are being put under unnecessary stress usr : I think you are right and I am sure I put a lot on that myself by trying to do everything right sys : (Question) What are the chances of you doing something just for y ourself soon? A spa day maybe? usr : I think I will do that ..it as good to talk to you....thanks for letting me vent sys : (Question) No worries, I have a couple of minutes more to spare if you'd like to talk about something else :) usr : NO I do appreciate it I got to get a shower...thanks again sys : (Others) No problem at all :) can you just wait for the fifteen minute mark before pressing quit, thanks and have a great day usr : You too, you are very nice
(Others) It's a living :D
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I recently had a baby and iam facing postpartum depression".
usr : Hi..how are you doing today..
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hi..Iam doing good..How are you today
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I recently had a baby and iam facing postpartum depression".
usr : Hi..how are you doing today.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hi..Iam doing good..How are you today usr : Iam facing post partum depression as I recently had a baby..
(Reflection of feelings) Oh I can relate to that because I also had a baby a year ago and I can understand what you are going through..
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I recently had a baby and iam facing postpartum depression".
usr : Hi..how are you doing today.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hi..Iam doing good..How are you today usr : Iam facing post partum depression as I recently had a baby.. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can relate to that because I also had a baby a year ago and I can understand what you are going through.. usr : How did you manage to deal with that..
(Question) Do you have anyone to help you with the baby so that you can have some time to relax for yourselves.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I recently had a baby and iam facing postpartum depression".
usr : Hi..how are you doing today.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hi..Iam doing good..How are you today usr : Iam facing post partum depression as I recently had a baby.. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can relate to that because I also had a baby a year ago and I can understand what you are going through.. usr : How did you manage to deal with that.. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone to help you with the baby so that you can have some time to relax for yourselves. usr : No my husband works in different city and my parents live in a different country..I dont have anyone with me to take care of the baby..
(Reflection of feelings) Oh that will be difficult for you..Can you afford a nanny..
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I recently had a baby and iam facing postpartum depression".
usr : Hi..how are you doing today.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hi..Iam doing good..How are you today usr : Iam facing post partum depression as I recently had a baby.. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can relate to that because I also had a baby a year ago and I can understand what you are going through.. usr : How did you manage to deal with that.. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone to help you with the baby so that you can have some time to relax for yourselves. usr : No my husband works in different city and my parents live in a different country..I dont have anyone with me to take care of the baby.. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh that will be difficult for you..Can you afford a nanny.. usr : Yeah I can afford but iam skeptical because of the pandemic..
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Dont worry,just love your baby,when the baby sleeps,try to have some rest and practice yoga and meditation when you have time ,they helped me a lot whn Iam dealing with the depression..
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I recently had a baby and iam facing postpartum depression".
usr : Hi..how are you doing today.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hi..Iam doing good..How are you today usr : Iam facing post partum depression as I recently had a baby.. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can relate to that because I also had a baby a year ago and I can understand what you are going through.. usr : How did you manage to deal with that.. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone to help you with the baby so that you can have some time to relax for yourselves. usr : No my husband works in different city and my parents live in a different country..I dont have anyone with me to take care of the baby.. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh that will be difficult for you..Can you afford a nanny.. usr : Yeah I can afford but iam skeptical because of the pandemic.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Dont worry,just love your baby,when the baby sleeps,try to have some rest and practice yoga and meditation when you have time ,they helped me a lot whn Iam dealing with the depression.. usr : Oh Thank you for the suggestion..I will follow that..
(Providing Suggestions) Also you can connect on online forums and find help by chatting with other moms who are fcing the same issues..
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I recently had a baby and iam facing postpartum depression".
usr : Hi..how are you doing today.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hi..Iam doing good..How are you today usr : Iam facing post partum depression as I recently had a baby.. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh I can relate to that because I also had a baby a year ago and I can understand what you are going through.. usr : How did you manage to deal with that.. sys : (Question) Do you have anyone to help you with the baby so that you can have some time to relax for yourselves. usr : No my husband works in different city and my parents live in a different country..I dont have anyone with me to take care of the baby.. sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh that will be difficult for you..Can you afford a nanny.. usr : Yeah I can afford but iam skeptical because of the pandemic.. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Dont worry,just love your baby,when the baby sleeps,try to have some rest and practice yoga and meditation when you have time ,they helped me a lot whn Iam dealing with the depression.. usr : Oh Thank you for the suggestion..I will follow that.. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also you can connect on online forums and find help by chatting with other moms who are fcing the same issues.. usr : Oh that is a great idea..I will certainly look in to it and will consider it..
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Iam glad you like them..I hope you will be better soon and Iam positive about that..love your baby..