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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"It is the anniversary of my fiance's death. I am having extreme depression and saddness.". | usr : Hi. I am looking for support for depression. My fiance died four years ago today and I am very sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear about your loss. How do you feel throughout the day?
usr : Very sad. I think about him often.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is sad indeed having a loved one past. Having time will help.
usr : Yes but how much time?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Some takes weeks. Others take month or years. It's different for everyone. I know where you are coming from. I lost my husband a couple years ago and it took me awhile to move on as well.
usr : I'm so sorry. It is very hard, isn't it? I know time is helping, but sometimes, like today, it's just overwhelming how much I miss him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think perhaps you could think of the wonderful times that you spent with your fiance, and cherish those feelings.
usr : Yes, I do try. Thank you.
usr : May I ask what helped you move forward?
| (Question) I thought of the good times that we spent together. What are some of your happy memories with your fiance? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"It is the anniversary of my fiance's death. I am having extreme depression and saddness.". | usr : Hi. I am looking for support for depression. My fiance died four years ago today and I am very sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear about your loss. How do you feel throughout the day?
usr : Very sad. I think about him often.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is sad indeed having a loved one past. Having time will help.
usr : Yes but how much time?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Some takes weeks. Others take month or years. It's different for everyone. I know where you are coming from. I lost my husband a couple years ago and it took me awhile to move on as well.
usr : I'm so sorry. It is very hard, isn't it? I know time is helping, but sometimes, like today, it's just overwhelming how much I miss him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think perhaps you could think of the wonderful times that you spent with your fiance, and cherish those feelings.
usr : Yes, I do try. Thank you.
usr : May I ask what helped you move forward?
sys : (Question) I thought of the good times that we spent together. What are some of your happy memories with your fiance?
usr : Some of my favorites are playing games together or watching movies. Curling up on the couch. He had kidney failure, so we didn't do much outside, but spent as much time together as we could. He used to call me his sunshiney baby doll. Whenever I see sunflowers I think of him.
usr : But most of all, it was that he loved me. He loved me for me ... he didn't want me to be anyone or anything else. That was a miracle.
| (Question) That is so sweet. How are you feeling now with all these memories coming back to you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"It is the anniversary of my fiance's death. I am having extreme depression and saddness.". | usr : Hi. I am looking for support for depression. My fiance died four years ago today and I am very sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear about your loss. How do you feel throughout the day?
usr : Very sad. I think about him often.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is sad indeed having a loved one past. Having time will help.
usr : Yes but how much time?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Some takes weeks. Others take month or years. It's different for everyone. I know where you are coming from. I lost my husband a couple years ago and it took me awhile to move on as well.
usr : I'm so sorry. It is very hard, isn't it? I know time is helping, but sometimes, like today, it's just overwhelming how much I miss him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think perhaps you could think of the wonderful times that you spent with your fiance, and cherish those feelings.
usr : Yes, I do try. Thank you.
usr : May I ask what helped you move forward?
sys : (Question) I thought of the good times that we spent together. What are some of your happy memories with your fiance?
usr : Some of my favorites are playing games together or watching movies. Curling up on the couch. He had kidney failure, so we didn't do much outside, but spent as much time together as we could. He used to call me his sunshiney baby doll. Whenever I see sunflowers I think of him.
usr : But most of all, it was that he loved me. He loved me for me ... he didn't want me to be anyone or anything else. That was a miracle.
sys : (Question) That is so sweet. How are you feeling now with all these memories coming back to you?
usr : actually i am feeling somewhat better. still sad, but it's good to remember those things. thank you.
usr : i appreciate your time and understanding. I hope you are able to remember your good times as well.
| (Self-disclosure) Other ways to cope is perhaps taking a new hobby. Do you have any new interest that you would like to try? I took up a cooking class a few months after my husband past away, and I really enjoyed it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"It is the anniversary of my fiance's death. I am having extreme depression and saddness.". | usr : Hi. I am looking for support for depression. My fiance died four years ago today and I am very sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear about your loss. How do you feel throughout the day?
usr : Very sad. I think about him often.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is sad indeed having a loved one past. Having time will help.
usr : Yes but how much time?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Some takes weeks. Others take month or years. It's different for everyone. I know where you are coming from. I lost my husband a couple years ago and it took me awhile to move on as well.
usr : I'm so sorry. It is very hard, isn't it? I know time is helping, but sometimes, like today, it's just overwhelming how much I miss him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think perhaps you could think of the wonderful times that you spent with your fiance, and cherish those feelings.
usr : Yes, I do try. Thank you.
usr : May I ask what helped you move forward?
sys : (Question) I thought of the good times that we spent together. What are some of your happy memories with your fiance?
usr : Some of my favorites are playing games together or watching movies. Curling up on the couch. He had kidney failure, so we didn't do much outside, but spent as much time together as we could. He used to call me his sunshiney baby doll. Whenever I see sunflowers I think of him.
usr : But most of all, it was that he loved me. He loved me for me ... he didn't want me to be anyone or anything else. That was a miracle.
sys : (Question) That is so sweet. How are you feeling now with all these memories coming back to you?
usr : actually i am feeling somewhat better. still sad, but it's good to remember those things. thank you.
usr : i appreciate your time and understanding. I hope you are able to remember your good times as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Other ways to cope is perhaps taking a new hobby. Do you have any new interest that you would like to try? I took up a cooking class a few months after my husband past away, and I really enjoyed it.
usr : i've been trying to figure out a hobby ... but i haven't really found anything that appeals to me. a cooking class sounds interesting though. i might learn how to do things in the kitchen without injuring myself.
usr : I tend to be clumsy at the best of times and have done things such as (most recently) dropping a scalding bowl of chili on my foot. I tend to wait to do new things til the last injury heals.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you will do fine in the kitchen once you get the hang of it. What are some of your favorite food? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"It is the anniversary of my fiance's death. I am having extreme depression and saddness.". | usr : Hi. I am looking for support for depression. My fiance died four years ago today and I am very sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear about your loss. How do you feel throughout the day?
usr : Very sad. I think about him often.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is sad indeed having a loved one past. Having time will help.
usr : Yes but how much time?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Some takes weeks. Others take month or years. It's different for everyone. I know where you are coming from. I lost my husband a couple years ago and it took me awhile to move on as well.
usr : I'm so sorry. It is very hard, isn't it? I know time is helping, but sometimes, like today, it's just overwhelming how much I miss him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think perhaps you could think of the wonderful times that you spent with your fiance, and cherish those feelings.
usr : Yes, I do try. Thank you.
usr : May I ask what helped you move forward?
sys : (Question) I thought of the good times that we spent together. What are some of your happy memories with your fiance?
usr : Some of my favorites are playing games together or watching movies. Curling up on the couch. He had kidney failure, so we didn't do much outside, but spent as much time together as we could. He used to call me his sunshiney baby doll. Whenever I see sunflowers I think of him.
usr : But most of all, it was that he loved me. He loved me for me ... he didn't want me to be anyone or anything else. That was a miracle.
sys : (Question) That is so sweet. How are you feeling now with all these memories coming back to you?
usr : actually i am feeling somewhat better. still sad, but it's good to remember those things. thank you.
usr : i appreciate your time and understanding. I hope you are able to remember your good times as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Other ways to cope is perhaps taking a new hobby. Do you have any new interest that you would like to try? I took up a cooking class a few months after my husband past away, and I really enjoyed it.
usr : i've been trying to figure out a hobby ... but i haven't really found anything that appeals to me. a cooking class sounds interesting though. i might learn how to do things in the kitchen without injuring myself.
usr : I tend to be clumsy at the best of times and have done things such as (most recently) dropping a scalding bowl of chili on my foot. I tend to wait to do new things til the last injury heals.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you will do fine in the kitchen once you get the hang of it. What are some of your favorite food?
usr : hmmm. i love tacos. and stews. cheesecake.
usr : i used to bake ... but i'm diabetic so that's probably not such a good idea any more. and since we're working at home now i can't bake and take it into the office for people to enjoy
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes, I enjoy tacos and cheesecake as well, especially from the Cheesecake Factory. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"It is the anniversary of my fiance's death. I am having extreme depression and saddness.". | usr : Hi. I am looking for support for depression. My fiance died four years ago today and I am very sad.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear about your loss. How do you feel throughout the day?
usr : Very sad. I think about him often.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is sad indeed having a loved one past. Having time will help.
usr : Yes but how much time?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Some takes weeks. Others take month or years. It's different for everyone. I know where you are coming from. I lost my husband a couple years ago and it took me awhile to move on as well.
usr : I'm so sorry. It is very hard, isn't it? I know time is helping, but sometimes, like today, it's just overwhelming how much I miss him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think perhaps you could think of the wonderful times that you spent with your fiance, and cherish those feelings.
usr : Yes, I do try. Thank you.
usr : May I ask what helped you move forward?
sys : (Question) I thought of the good times that we spent together. What are some of your happy memories with your fiance?
usr : Some of my favorites are playing games together or watching movies. Curling up on the couch. He had kidney failure, so we didn't do much outside, but spent as much time together as we could. He used to call me his sunshiney baby doll. Whenever I see sunflowers I think of him.
usr : But most of all, it was that he loved me. He loved me for me ... he didn't want me to be anyone or anything else. That was a miracle.
sys : (Question) That is so sweet. How are you feeling now with all these memories coming back to you?
usr : actually i am feeling somewhat better. still sad, but it's good to remember those things. thank you.
usr : i appreciate your time and understanding. I hope you are able to remember your good times as well.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Other ways to cope is perhaps taking a new hobby. Do you have any new interest that you would like to try? I took up a cooking class a few months after my husband past away, and I really enjoyed it.
usr : i've been trying to figure out a hobby ... but i haven't really found anything that appeals to me. a cooking class sounds interesting though. i might learn how to do things in the kitchen without injuring myself.
usr : I tend to be clumsy at the best of times and have done things such as (most recently) dropping a scalding bowl of chili on my foot. I tend to wait to do new things til the last injury heals.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think you will do fine in the kitchen once you get the hang of it. What are some of your favorite food?
usr : hmmm. i love tacos. and stews. cheesecake.
usr : i used to bake ... but i'm diabetic so that's probably not such a good idea any more. and since we're working at home now i can't bake and take it into the office for people to enjoy
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes, I enjoy tacos and cheesecake as well, especially from the Cheesecake Factory.
usr : oh my yes, the Cheesecake Factory has amazing cheesecake.
usr : I am going to go now. Thank you very much for your support. It helps to have an "ear" ... just to be able to talk about it and be reminded that it's all going to be okay. Plus, that there's cheesecake in the world, so it can't all be bad, right?
| (Others) Okay, I'm glad you are feeling better. Enjoy the rest of your day and stay safe. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
| (Question) hello, how are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
| (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
| (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
sys : (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way?
usr : I havent done really well on the other tests. I turn in all my work and study hard but I can not seem to pass the exams
| (Others) First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
sys : (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way?
usr : I havent done really well on the other tests. I turn in all my work and study hard but I can not seem to pass the exams
sys : (Others) First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials
usr : I have. I have been through the book, read my notes but when i take any practice tests, I still dont do as well as i would like.
| (Reflection of feelings) hmm I understand your frustration, have you talked to your professor about this? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
sys : (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way?
usr : I havent done really well on the other tests. I turn in all my work and study hard but I can not seem to pass the exams
sys : (Others) First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials
usr : I have. I have been through the book, read my notes but when i take any practice tests, I still dont do as well as i would like.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) hmm I understand your frustration, have you talked to your professor about this?
usr : No. He was not very kind to me the one time I asked. I felt stupid for asking questions.
| (Reflection of feelings) I'm so sorry you were treated that way, it's unacceptable |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
sys : (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way?
usr : I havent done really well on the other tests. I turn in all my work and study hard but I can not seem to pass the exams
sys : (Others) First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials
usr : I have. I have been through the book, read my notes but when i take any practice tests, I still dont do as well as i would like.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) hmm I understand your frustration, have you talked to your professor about this?
usr : No. He was not very kind to me the one time I asked. I felt stupid for asking questions.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm so sorry you were treated that way, it's unacceptable
| (Others) How about teaching assistant or your friends? You can form a study group and I've found friends can help even more than teachers |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
sys : (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way?
usr : I havent done really well on the other tests. I turn in all my work and study hard but I can not seem to pass the exams
sys : (Others) First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials
usr : I have. I have been through the book, read my notes but when i take any practice tests, I still dont do as well as i would like.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) hmm I understand your frustration, have you talked to your professor about this?
usr : No. He was not very kind to me the one time I asked. I felt stupid for asking questions.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm so sorry you were treated that way, it's unacceptable
sys : (Others) How about teaching assistant or your friends? You can form a study group and I've found friends can help even more than teachers
usr : That could help. I have a few friends in the class. Im just worried they will also think I am stupid.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh no don't worry about that,I believe they are understanding and as long as you ask nicely, they'll be more than glad to help you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
sys : (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way?
usr : I havent done really well on the other tests. I turn in all my work and study hard but I can not seem to pass the exams
sys : (Others) First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials
usr : I have. I have been through the book, read my notes but when i take any practice tests, I still dont do as well as i would like.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) hmm I understand your frustration, have you talked to your professor about this?
usr : No. He was not very kind to me the one time I asked. I felt stupid for asking questions.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm so sorry you were treated that way, it's unacceptable
sys : (Others) How about teaching assistant or your friends? You can form a study group and I've found friends can help even more than teachers
usr : That could help. I have a few friends in the class. Im just worried they will also think I am stupid.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh no don't worry about that,I believe they are understanding and as long as you ask nicely, they'll be more than glad to help you
usr : Okay. I think I will do that. Sometimes when my friends answer in class, it helps me understand more.
| (Others) Yeah, the problem with teachers is they usually don't see from students' perspective while your fellow students do |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
sys : (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way?
usr : I havent done really well on the other tests. I turn in all my work and study hard but I can not seem to pass the exams
sys : (Others) First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials
usr : I have. I have been through the book, read my notes but when i take any practice tests, I still dont do as well as i would like.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) hmm I understand your frustration, have you talked to your professor about this?
usr : No. He was not very kind to me the one time I asked. I felt stupid for asking questions.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm so sorry you were treated that way, it's unacceptable
sys : (Others) How about teaching assistant or your friends? You can form a study group and I've found friends can help even more than teachers
usr : That could help. I have a few friends in the class. Im just worried they will also think I am stupid.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh no don't worry about that,I believe they are understanding and as long as you ask nicely, they'll be more than glad to help you
usr : Okay. I think I will do that. Sometimes when my friends answer in class, it helps me understand more.
sys : (Others) Yeah, the problem with teachers is they usually don't see from students' perspective while your fellow students do
usr : That is true. I am trying my best and really just want to pass. I think I will study with friends before the test.
| (Self-disclosure) There are a few free online website that can provide help too, I used to check Khan Academy for concepts I don't understand |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
sys : (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way?
usr : I havent done really well on the other tests. I turn in all my work and study hard but I can not seem to pass the exams
sys : (Others) First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials
usr : I have. I have been through the book, read my notes but when i take any practice tests, I still dont do as well as i would like.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) hmm I understand your frustration, have you talked to your professor about this?
usr : No. He was not very kind to me the one time I asked. I felt stupid for asking questions.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm so sorry you were treated that way, it's unacceptable
sys : (Others) How about teaching assistant or your friends? You can form a study group and I've found friends can help even more than teachers
usr : That could help. I have a few friends in the class. Im just worried they will also think I am stupid.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh no don't worry about that,I believe they are understanding and as long as you ask nicely, they'll be more than glad to help you
usr : Okay. I think I will do that. Sometimes when my friends answer in class, it helps me understand more.
sys : (Others) Yeah, the problem with teachers is they usually don't see from students' perspective while your fellow students do
usr : That is true. I am trying my best and really just want to pass. I think I will study with friends before the test.
sys : (Self-disclosure) There are a few free online website that can provide help too, I used to check Khan Academy for concepts I don't understand
usr : Oh that is a great idea! I forgot about those. I think that could really help me too.
| (Others) at the same time, you need to make time to relax too, you don't want to overwhelm yourself before the test |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I am afraid I an not smart enough to pass". | usr : Hi
sys : (Question) hello, how are you?
usr : I have been better
sys : (Question) Do you want to tell me what happened?
usr : Well its happening still. I have end of term exams coming up and I have been trying real ly hard to study but I am afraid I will fail my classes.
sys : (Question) Is there a reason for you to think that way?
usr : I havent done really well on the other tests. I turn in all my work and study hard but I can not seem to pass the exams
sys : (Others) First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials
usr : I have. I have been through the book, read my notes but when i take any practice tests, I still dont do as well as i would like.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) hmm I understand your frustration, have you talked to your professor about this?
usr : No. He was not very kind to me the one time I asked. I felt stupid for asking questions.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm so sorry you were treated that way, it's unacceptable
sys : (Others) How about teaching assistant or your friends? You can form a study group and I've found friends can help even more than teachers
usr : That could help. I have a few friends in the class. Im just worried they will also think I am stupid.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh no don't worry about that,I believe they are understanding and as long as you ask nicely, they'll be more than glad to help you
usr : Okay. I think I will do that. Sometimes when my friends answer in class, it helps me understand more.
sys : (Others) Yeah, the problem with teachers is they usually don't see from students' perspective while your fellow students do
usr : That is true. I am trying my best and really just want to pass. I think I will study with friends before the test.
sys : (Self-disclosure) There are a few free online website that can provide help too, I used to check Khan Academy for concepts I don't understand
usr : Oh that is a great idea! I forgot about those. I think that could really help me too.
sys : (Others) at the same time, you need to make time to relax too, you don't want to overwhelm yourself before the test
usr : You're right. Thank you so much I appreciate the help and feel a less anxious now.
| (Others) of course, I hope I could help a bit |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
| (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
| (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
| (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
| (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
| (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
sys : (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.
| (Question) Have any of your coworkers gotten covid? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
sys : (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.
sys : (Question) Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?
usr : Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is.
usr : I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine.
usr : My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers.
| (Others) I'm glad you're safe in that regard. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
sys : (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.
sys : (Question) Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?
usr : Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is.
usr : I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine.
usr : My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers.
sys : (Others) I'm glad you're safe in that regard.
| (Question) Is your husband working out of home or out in the field/office? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
sys : (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.
sys : (Question) Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?
usr : Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is.
usr : I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine.
usr : My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers.
sys : (Others) I'm glad you're safe in that regard.
sys : (Question) Is your husband working out of home or out in the field/office?
usr : I had one poor coworker get exposed to covid twice. She has been gone off and on for over 2 months.
usr : My husband does construction and has been laid off for a couple of months. Construction has gone down because of the pandemic. Everyone has put a halt to projects.
| (Reflection of feelings) Oh, I understand now. I thought he still how part time work. I can imagine how scary that is for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
sys : (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.
sys : (Question) Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?
usr : Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is.
usr : I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine.
usr : My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers.
sys : (Others) I'm glad you're safe in that regard.
sys : (Question) Is your husband working out of home or out in the field/office?
usr : I had one poor coworker get exposed to covid twice. She has been gone off and on for over 2 months.
usr : My husband does construction and has been laid off for a couple of months. Construction has gone down because of the pandemic. Everyone has put a halt to projects.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, I understand now. I thought he still how part time work. I can imagine how scary that is for you.
| (Self-disclosure) My husband's work was at a standstill until summer. It is better but shows signs of slowing down too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
sys : (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.
sys : (Question) Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?
usr : Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is.
usr : I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine.
usr : My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers.
sys : (Others) I'm glad you're safe in that regard.
sys : (Question) Is your husband working out of home or out in the field/office?
usr : I had one poor coworker get exposed to covid twice. She has been gone off and on for over 2 months.
usr : My husband does construction and has been laid off for a couple of months. Construction has gone down because of the pandemic. Everyone has put a halt to projects.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, I understand now. I thought he still how part time work. I can imagine how scary that is for you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My husband's work was at a standstill until summer. It is better but shows signs of slowing down too.
usr : It is worse because it is the holidays. Christmas presents and all. Yes- the work situation is definitely not good.
usr : I'm lucky because my employer is weathering the pandmemic pretty well.
usr : We are staying employed- just no annual raise but I'll take a job instead of a raise.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you're at least assured your income will be OK. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
sys : (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.
sys : (Question) Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?
usr : Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is.
usr : I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine.
usr : My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers.
sys : (Others) I'm glad you're safe in that regard.
sys : (Question) Is your husband working out of home or out in the field/office?
usr : I had one poor coworker get exposed to covid twice. She has been gone off and on for over 2 months.
usr : My husband does construction and has been laid off for a couple of months. Construction has gone down because of the pandemic. Everyone has put a halt to projects.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, I understand now. I thought he still how part time work. I can imagine how scary that is for you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My husband's work was at a standstill until summer. It is better but shows signs of slowing down too.
usr : It is worse because it is the holidays. Christmas presents and all. Yes- the work situation is definitely not good.
usr : I'm lucky because my employer is weathering the pandmemic pretty well.
usr : We are staying employed- just no annual raise but I'll take a job instead of a raise.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you're at least assured your income will be OK.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is very good news. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
sys : (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.
sys : (Question) Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?
usr : Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is.
usr : I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine.
usr : My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers.
sys : (Others) I'm glad you're safe in that regard.
sys : (Question) Is your husband working out of home or out in the field/office?
usr : I had one poor coworker get exposed to covid twice. She has been gone off and on for over 2 months.
usr : My husband does construction and has been laid off for a couple of months. Construction has gone down because of the pandemic. Everyone has put a halt to projects.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, I understand now. I thought he still how part time work. I can imagine how scary that is for you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My husband's work was at a standstill until summer. It is better but shows signs of slowing down too.
usr : It is worse because it is the holidays. Christmas presents and all. Yes- the work situation is definitely not good.
usr : I'm lucky because my employer is weathering the pandmemic pretty well.
usr : We are staying employed- just no annual raise but I'll take a job instead of a raise.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you're at least assured your income will be OK.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is very good news.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe this is a good year not to worry too much about presents? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"The pandemic has made me depressed. My life feels out of control.". | usr : I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So COVID has been especially hard on you?
usr : My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.
usr : Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid.
usr : i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?
usr : They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.
usr : Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.
usr : I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?
usr : Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.
sys : (Self-disclosure) And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.
sys : (Question) Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?
usr : Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is.
usr : I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine.
usr : My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers.
sys : (Others) I'm glad you're safe in that regard.
sys : (Question) Is your husband working out of home or out in the field/office?
usr : I had one poor coworker get exposed to covid twice. She has been gone off and on for over 2 months.
usr : My husband does construction and has been laid off for a couple of months. Construction has gone down because of the pandemic. Everyone has put a halt to projects.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, I understand now. I thought he still how part time work. I can imagine how scary that is for you.
sys : (Self-disclosure) My husband's work was at a standstill until summer. It is better but shows signs of slowing down too.
usr : It is worse because it is the holidays. Christmas presents and all. Yes- the work situation is definitely not good.
usr : I'm lucky because my employer is weathering the pandmemic pretty well.
usr : We are staying employed- just no annual raise but I'll take a job instead of a raise.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you're at least assured your income will be OK.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is very good news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe this is a good year not to worry too much about presents?
usr : It is so at least things aren't as bad as they could be. i actually feel better talking about this.
usr : Thanks for everything and good luck in the future.
| (Others) I'm so glad to hear that. Good luck to you, and I hope you have a peaceful thanksgiving with your loved ones. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
| (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
sys : (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?
usr : I can't seem to decide anything with my life.
| (Self-disclosure) I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
sys : (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?
usr : I can't seem to decide anything with my life.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus.
usr : Does that really help? How do you start?
| (Providing Suggestions) I am glad you asked. At first, it can seem a little difficult. But the key is to start small and build as you go. For example, allocating 10 minutes after lunch or borrowing some time off of social media. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
sys : (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?
usr : I can't seem to decide anything with my life.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus.
usr : Does that really help? How do you start?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am glad you asked. At first, it can seem a little difficult. But the key is to start small and build as you go. For example, allocating 10 minutes after lunch or borrowing some time off of social media.
usr : What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious?
| (Information) From what I know, you can try to relax before making any decision. I usually follow my intuition and decide. I deal with the outcome later. But meditating has really helped me avoid anxiety. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
sys : (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?
usr : I can't seem to decide anything with my life.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus.
usr : Does that really help? How do you start?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am glad you asked. At first, it can seem a little difficult. But the key is to start small and build as you go. For example, allocating 10 minutes after lunch or borrowing some time off of social media.
usr : What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious?
sys : (Information) From what I know, you can try to relax before making any decision. I usually follow my intuition and decide. I deal with the outcome later. But meditating has really helped me avoid anxiety.
usr : I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as if you are low on self-confidence and are afraid about unfavourable outcomes. Please correct me if I am wrong. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
sys : (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?
usr : I can't seem to decide anything with my life.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus.
usr : Does that really help? How do you start?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am glad you asked. At first, it can seem a little difficult. But the key is to start small and build as you go. For example, allocating 10 minutes after lunch or borrowing some time off of social media.
usr : What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious?
sys : (Information) From what I know, you can try to relax before making any decision. I usually follow my intuition and decide. I deal with the outcome later. But meditating has really helped me avoid anxiety.
usr : I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as if you are low on self-confidence and are afraid about unfavourable outcomes. Please correct me if I am wrong.
usr : That sounds about right. I recognize it but I don't know how to deal with it. I'm so afraid of failing, I end up not doing anything.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety just through this chat conversation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
sys : (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?
usr : I can't seem to decide anything with my life.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus.
usr : Does that really help? How do you start?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am glad you asked. At first, it can seem a little difficult. But the key is to start small and build as you go. For example, allocating 10 minutes after lunch or borrowing some time off of social media.
usr : What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious?
sys : (Information) From what I know, you can try to relax before making any decision. I usually follow my intuition and decide. I deal with the outcome later. But meditating has really helped me avoid anxiety.
usr : I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as if you are low on self-confidence and are afraid about unfavourable outcomes. Please correct me if I am wrong.
usr : That sounds about right. I recognize it but I don't know how to deal with it. I'm so afraid of failing, I end up not doing anything.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety just through this chat conversation.
usr : I tend to expect the worse or nothing at all.
| (Providing Suggestions) In my experience, even if we were to fail, we are bestowed with a valuable life lesson which we can use in future decisions. Approaching the problem with positive mindset will help a lot! Is that something you'd be willing to try? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
sys : (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?
usr : I can't seem to decide anything with my life.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus.
usr : Does that really help? How do you start?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am glad you asked. At first, it can seem a little difficult. But the key is to start small and build as you go. For example, allocating 10 minutes after lunch or borrowing some time off of social media.
usr : What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious?
sys : (Information) From what I know, you can try to relax before making any decision. I usually follow my intuition and decide. I deal with the outcome later. But meditating has really helped me avoid anxiety.
usr : I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as if you are low on self-confidence and are afraid about unfavourable outcomes. Please correct me if I am wrong.
usr : That sounds about right. I recognize it but I don't know how to deal with it. I'm so afraid of failing, I end up not doing anything.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety just through this chat conversation.
usr : I tend to expect the worse or nothing at all.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) In my experience, even if we were to fail, we are bestowed with a valuable life lesson which we can use in future decisions. Approaching the problem with positive mindset will help a lot! Is that something you'd be willing to try?
usr : I suppose so, but it's hard to break habits and a mindset that I've cultivated.
| (Information) That's true. However, research shows that any habit can be broken or formed if you put your mind to it everyday for 5-10 minutes for 3 continuous weeks. Perhaps, replacing your negative thoughts with happy ones might help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
sys : (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?
usr : I can't seem to decide anything with my life.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus.
usr : Does that really help? How do you start?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am glad you asked. At first, it can seem a little difficult. But the key is to start small and build as you go. For example, allocating 10 minutes after lunch or borrowing some time off of social media.
usr : What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious?
sys : (Information) From what I know, you can try to relax before making any decision. I usually follow my intuition and decide. I deal with the outcome later. But meditating has really helped me avoid anxiety.
usr : I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as if you are low on self-confidence and are afraid about unfavourable outcomes. Please correct me if I am wrong.
usr : That sounds about right. I recognize it but I don't know how to deal with it. I'm so afraid of failing, I end up not doing anything.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety just through this chat conversation.
usr : I tend to expect the worse or nothing at all.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) In my experience, even if we were to fail, we are bestowed with a valuable life lesson which we can use in future decisions. Approaching the problem with positive mindset will help a lot! Is that something you'd be willing to try?
usr : I suppose so, but it's hard to break habits and a mindset that I've cultivated.
sys : (Information) That's true. However, research shows that any habit can be broken or formed if you put your mind to it everyday for 5-10 minutes for 3 continuous weeks. Perhaps, replacing your negative thoughts with happy ones might help.
usr : I guess it's a start. I can do three weeks, and hopefully move on from there.
| (Others) Awesome. I am glad I was able to get you started towards a positive mentality. Is there anything else that I can assist you with today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have been feeling lost and directionless and I feel like I'm a waste of time and space. I don't know what to do with my life and I hate myself.". | usr : I don't know what do with my life.
sys : (Question) I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?
usr : I can't seem to decide anything with my life.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus.
usr : Does that really help? How do you start?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am glad you asked. At first, it can seem a little difficult. But the key is to start small and build as you go. For example, allocating 10 minutes after lunch or borrowing some time off of social media.
usr : What exactly do you? How can it help me make decisions without getting anxious?
sys : (Information) From what I know, you can try to relax before making any decision. I usually follow my intuition and decide. I deal with the outcome later. But meditating has really helped me avoid anxiety.
usr : I often feel like I'm just going to mess up anyways so I don't see the point in even trying sometimes.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds as if you are low on self-confidence and are afraid about unfavourable outcomes. Please correct me if I am wrong.
usr : That sounds about right. I recognize it but I don't know how to deal with it. I'm so afraid of failing, I end up not doing anything.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can feel your anxiety just through this chat conversation.
usr : I tend to expect the worse or nothing at all.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) In my experience, even if we were to fail, we are bestowed with a valuable life lesson which we can use in future decisions. Approaching the problem with positive mindset will help a lot! Is that something you'd be willing to try?
usr : I suppose so, but it's hard to break habits and a mindset that I've cultivated.
sys : (Information) That's true. However, research shows that any habit can be broken or formed if you put your mind to it everyday for 5-10 minutes for 3 continuous weeks. Perhaps, replacing your negative thoughts with happy ones might help.
usr : I guess it's a start. I can do three weeks, and hopefully move on from there.
sys : (Others) Awesome. I am glad I was able to get you started towards a positive mentality. Is there anything else that I can assist you with today?
usr : That's all for now. Thanks for listening.
| (Others) You're welcome! Have a wonderful week ahead! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | (Question) Hi, can I help you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
| (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
usr : Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard.
usr : I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
| (Reflection of feelings) You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
usr : Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard.
usr : I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
usr : If he died it would be OK, I would mourn him and move on. But I have never had to give up a pet before. I just think most people. wont take care of him like I do. Because he is still alive, I will worry about him
| (Self-disclosure) I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
usr : Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard.
usr : I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
usr : If he died it would be OK, I would mourn him and move on. But I have never had to give up a pet before. I just think most people. wont take care of him like I do. Because he is still alive, I will worry about him
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together.
usr : Yes, I was depressed for 6 months after my parrot died, but eventually we move on. I dont know that I can move on after giving him up
| (Others) Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
usr : Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard.
usr : I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
usr : If he died it would be OK, I would mourn him and move on. But I have never had to give up a pet before. I just think most people. wont take care of him like I do. Because he is still alive, I will worry about him
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together.
usr : Yes, I was depressed for 6 months after my parrot died, but eventually we move on. I dont know that I can move on after giving him up
sys : (Others) Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him.
usr : No, except a seeing dog
| (Providing Suggestions) I am concerned that if you don't have a pet to care for you may have a more difficult time to recover and thrive. Mourning is a process and it might be easier if you can hare your ;love with another pet. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
usr : Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard.
usr : I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
usr : If he died it would be OK, I would mourn him and move on. But I have never had to give up a pet before. I just think most people. wont take care of him like I do. Because he is still alive, I will worry about him
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together.
usr : Yes, I was depressed for 6 months after my parrot died, but eventually we move on. I dont know that I can move on after giving him up
sys : (Others) Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him.
usr : No, except a seeing dog
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am concerned that if you don't have a pet to care for you may have a more difficult time to recover and thrive. Mourning is a process and it might be easier if you can hare your ;love with another pet.
usr : No other pets. I need to move and cannot take him with me.
| (Providing Suggestions) A seeing eye dog is a great idea. You are trying to think of ways to help yourself and that is really important. You are also reaching out and sharing your feelings. Do you have any friends with pets that you can visit with from time to time? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
usr : Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard.
usr : I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
usr : If he died it would be OK, I would mourn him and move on. But I have never had to give up a pet before. I just think most people. wont take care of him like I do. Because he is still alive, I will worry about him
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together.
usr : Yes, I was depressed for 6 months after my parrot died, but eventually we move on. I dont know that I can move on after giving him up
sys : (Others) Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him.
usr : No, except a seeing dog
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am concerned that if you don't have a pet to care for you may have a more difficult time to recover and thrive. Mourning is a process and it might be easier if you can hare your ;love with another pet.
usr : No other pets. I need to move and cannot take him with me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) A seeing eye dog is a great idea. You are trying to think of ways to help yourself and that is really important. You are also reaching out and sharing your feelings. Do you have any friends with pets that you can visit with from time to time?
usr : It isn't about a new pet it is about worrying that he will not be taken care of.
usr : I contacted a rescue place to get him a new home.
| (Information) I am sorry that makes a lot of sense. I am really thankful that you are sharing your feelings and expressing them. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
usr : Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard.
usr : I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
usr : If he died it would be OK, I would mourn him and move on. But I have never had to give up a pet before. I just think most people. wont take care of him like I do. Because he is still alive, I will worry about him
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together.
usr : Yes, I was depressed for 6 months after my parrot died, but eventually we move on. I dont know that I can move on after giving him up
sys : (Others) Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him.
usr : No, except a seeing dog
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am concerned that if you don't have a pet to care for you may have a more difficult time to recover and thrive. Mourning is a process and it might be easier if you can hare your ;love with another pet.
usr : No other pets. I need to move and cannot take him with me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) A seeing eye dog is a great idea. You are trying to think of ways to help yourself and that is really important. You are also reaching out and sharing your feelings. Do you have any friends with pets that you can visit with from time to time?
usr : It isn't about a new pet it is about worrying that he will not be taken care of.
usr : I contacted a rescue place to get him a new home.
sys : (Information) I am sorry that makes a lot of sense. I am really thankful that you are sharing your feelings and expressing them.
usr : Contacting a rescue place has helped me.
| (Providing Suggestions) Rescue centers usually make people apply to adopt to insure a good home for them. You have made him into a wonderful pet. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
usr : Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard.
usr : I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
usr : If he died it would be OK, I would mourn him and move on. But I have never had to give up a pet before. I just think most people. wont take care of him like I do. Because he is still alive, I will worry about him
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together.
usr : Yes, I was depressed for 6 months after my parrot died, but eventually we move on. I dont know that I can move on after giving him up
sys : (Others) Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him.
usr : No, except a seeing dog
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am concerned that if you don't have a pet to care for you may have a more difficult time to recover and thrive. Mourning is a process and it might be easier if you can hare your ;love with another pet.
usr : No other pets. I need to move and cannot take him with me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) A seeing eye dog is a great idea. You are trying to think of ways to help yourself and that is really important. You are also reaching out and sharing your feelings. Do you have any friends with pets that you can visit with from time to time?
usr : It isn't about a new pet it is about worrying that he will not be taken care of.
usr : I contacted a rescue place to get him a new home.
sys : (Information) I am sorry that makes a lot of sense. I am really thankful that you are sharing your feelings and expressing them.
usr : Contacting a rescue place has helped me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Rescue centers usually make people apply to adopt to insure a good home for them. You have made him into a wonderful pet.
usr : I think that will be best for him
usr : Thanks for listening
| (Information) You are welcome. You are doing what is right and i am proud of you for listening to your heart and providing the best all these years. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have to give up my parrot because I am now blind and have to move. I cant take teh parrot with me.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I have had my babu for 15 years and have to give him up. He is a parrot and so used to me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.
usr : Yes, I am worried that he wont be taken care of. I am worried that he wont be happy.
usr : I cook for him and take him outside. I grow fruit so he can eat it.
sys : (Question) Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets?
usr : NO other pets. I have gone leaglly blind, had to give up driving. I have to move to a condo from a single famuly home. He is too loud to live in a condo.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care.
usr : Going blind is bad enough, giving up driving was teh worst. But giving up my parrot is really hard.
usr : I did baby him, he can go outside through the dggie door. He gets fresh fruit, spaghettie, He has his own Alexa.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.
usr : If he died it would be OK, I would mourn him and move on. But I have never had to give up a pet before. I just think most people. wont take care of him like I do. Because he is still alive, I will worry about him
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together.
usr : Yes, I was depressed for 6 months after my parrot died, but eventually we move on. I dont know that I can move on after giving him up
sys : (Others) Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him.
usr : No, except a seeing dog
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am concerned that if you don't have a pet to care for you may have a more difficult time to recover and thrive. Mourning is a process and it might be easier if you can hare your ;love with another pet.
usr : No other pets. I need to move and cannot take him with me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) A seeing eye dog is a great idea. You are trying to think of ways to help yourself and that is really important. You are also reaching out and sharing your feelings. Do you have any friends with pets that you can visit with from time to time?
usr : It isn't about a new pet it is about worrying that he will not be taken care of.
usr : I contacted a rescue place to get him a new home.
sys : (Information) I am sorry that makes a lot of sense. I am really thankful that you are sharing your feelings and expressing them.
usr : Contacting a rescue place has helped me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Rescue centers usually make people apply to adopt to insure a good home for them. You have made him into a wonderful pet.
usr : I think that will be best for him
usr : Thanks for listening
sys : (Information) You are welcome. You are doing what is right and i am proud of you for listening to your heart and providing the best all these years.
| (Information) Thank you for your time today and please come back whenever you need to talk. I am happy to listen and do my best. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | (Others) Hello | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
| (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
sys : (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?
usr : A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.
usr : Nothing specific at the moment
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
sys : (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?
usr : A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.
usr : Nothing specific at the moment
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?
usr : yes
| (Self-disclosure) I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
sys : (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?
usr : A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.
usr : Nothing specific at the moment
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?
usr : yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression.
usr : Any advice on how to push past the racing thoughts?
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
sys : (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?
usr : A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.
usr : Nothing specific at the moment
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?
usr : yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression.
usr : Any advice on how to push past the racing thoughts?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people.
usr : Yes
| (Question) What suggestions did they give you for coping with this? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
sys : (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?
usr : A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.
usr : Nothing specific at the moment
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?
usr : yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression.
usr : Any advice on how to push past the racing thoughts?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people.
usr : Yes
sys : (Question) What suggestions did they give you for coping with this?
usr : Several. Did you succeed with your issues? Or do you have any advice for a random bad day?
| (Providing Suggestions) One thing that I did was really get back into some of the hobbies that I enjoyed in order to take my mind off of things. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
sys : (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?
usr : A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.
usr : Nothing specific at the moment
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?
usr : yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression.
usr : Any advice on how to push past the racing thoughts?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people.
usr : Yes
sys : (Question) What suggestions did they give you for coping with this?
usr : Several. Did you succeed with your issues? Or do you have any advice for a random bad day?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) One thing that I did was really get back into some of the hobbies that I enjoyed in order to take my mind off of things.
usr : That makes a lot of sense. Winter makes it tougher too I think.
| (Others) Yes, winter months are very tough. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
sys : (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?
usr : A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.
usr : Nothing specific at the moment
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?
usr : yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression.
usr : Any advice on how to push past the racing thoughts?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people.
usr : Yes
sys : (Question) What suggestions did they give you for coping with this?
usr : Several. Did you succeed with your issues? Or do you have any advice for a random bad day?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) One thing that I did was really get back into some of the hobbies that I enjoyed in order to take my mind off of things.
usr : That makes a lot of sense. Winter makes it tougher too I think.
sys : (Others) Yes, winter months are very tough.
usr : Well thanks for your thoughts on dealing with these things.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not a problem! I know things are tough right now, but I know you can make it through this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
sys : (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?
usr : A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.
usr : Nothing specific at the moment
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?
usr : yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression.
usr : Any advice on how to push past the racing thoughts?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people.
usr : Yes
sys : (Question) What suggestions did they give you for coping with this?
usr : Several. Did you succeed with your issues? Or do you have any advice for a random bad day?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) One thing that I did was really get back into some of the hobbies that I enjoyed in order to take my mind off of things.
usr : That makes a lot of sense. Winter makes it tougher too I think.
sys : (Others) Yes, winter months are very tough.
usr : Well thanks for your thoughts on dealing with these things.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not a problem! I know things are tough right now, but I know you can make it through this!
usr : I hope you are doing well also.
usr : Times are weird.
| (Others) Thank you, I am well. It is a very strange time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"There aren't any specific events currently happening to cause anxiety, it's more of an inability to turn off my brain. If there are issues in my life, I definitely overthink them and that causes a downward spiral into depression.". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.
sys : (Question) They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?
usr : A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.
usr : Nothing specific at the moment
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?
usr : yes
sys : (Self-disclosure) I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression.
usr : Any advice on how to push past the racing thoughts?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people.
usr : Yes
sys : (Question) What suggestions did they give you for coping with this?
usr : Several. Did you succeed with your issues? Or do you have any advice for a random bad day?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) One thing that I did was really get back into some of the hobbies that I enjoyed in order to take my mind off of things.
usr : That makes a lot of sense. Winter makes it tougher too I think.
sys : (Others) Yes, winter months are very tough.
usr : Well thanks for your thoughts on dealing with these things.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not a problem! I know things are tough right now, but I know you can make it through this!
usr : I hope you are doing well also.
usr : Times are weird.
sys : (Others) Thank you, I am well. It is a very strange time.
usr : Take care!
| (Others) You too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | (Question) hello. what is on your mind today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
| (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
| (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
| (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter . |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
| (Question) what will that do in the long run though? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
sys : (Question) what will that do in the long run though?
usr : I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
| (Self-disclosure) i've made that mistake too honestly |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
sys : (Question) what will that do in the long run though?
usr : I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
sys : (Self-disclosure) i've made that mistake too honestly
usr : I thought that she would look out for me the same way i did for her.How wrong i was!
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
sys : (Question) what will that do in the long run though?
usr : I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
sys : (Self-disclosure) i've made that mistake too honestly
usr : I thought that she would look out for me the same way i did for her.How wrong i was!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) people can be selfish! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
sys : (Question) what will that do in the long run though?
usr : I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
sys : (Self-disclosure) i've made that mistake too honestly
usr : I thought that she would look out for me the same way i did for her.How wrong i was!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) people can be selfish!
usr : I think it is,that way one will not be hurt that bad when a friend or a partner decides to be disloyal
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) true |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
sys : (Question) what will that do in the long run though?
usr : I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
sys : (Self-disclosure) i've made that mistake too honestly
usr : I thought that she would look out for me the same way i did for her.How wrong i was!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) people can be selfish!
usr : I think it is,that way one will not be hurt that bad when a friend or a partner decides to be disloyal
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) true
usr : Some people are very selfish and do not care about friendships
usr : Did you forgive your partners from the past?
| (Reflection of feelings) it seems like that is becoming quite a trend these days |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
sys : (Question) what will that do in the long run though?
usr : I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
sys : (Self-disclosure) i've made that mistake too honestly
usr : I thought that she would look out for me the same way i did for her.How wrong i was!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) people can be selfish!
usr : I think it is,that way one will not be hurt that bad when a friend or a partner decides to be disloyal
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) true
usr : Some people are very selfish and do not care about friendships
usr : Did you forgive your partners from the past?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) it seems like that is becoming quite a trend these days
usr : The world is becoming more shallow and unjust by the day
| (Reflection of feelings) i've learned its better jut to forget the past and move on. dwelling on it only auses more paind and heartache and take longer to get back to happy |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
sys : (Question) what will that do in the long run though?
usr : I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
sys : (Self-disclosure) i've made that mistake too honestly
usr : I thought that she would look out for me the same way i did for her.How wrong i was!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) people can be selfish!
usr : I think it is,that way one will not be hurt that bad when a friend or a partner decides to be disloyal
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) true
usr : Some people are very selfish and do not care about friendships
usr : Did you forgive your partners from the past?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) it seems like that is becoming quite a trend these days
usr : The world is becoming more shallow and unjust by the day
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i've learned its better jut to forget the past and move on. dwelling on it only auses more paind and heartache and take longer to get back to happy
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) i think you will be okay though : you seem to have your head on straight! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
sys : (Question) what will that do in the long run though?
usr : I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
sys : (Self-disclosure) i've made that mistake too honestly
usr : I thought that she would look out for me the same way i did for her.How wrong i was!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) people can be selfish!
usr : I think it is,that way one will not be hurt that bad when a friend or a partner decides to be disloyal
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) true
usr : Some people are very selfish and do not care about friendships
usr : Did you forgive your partners from the past?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) it seems like that is becoming quite a trend these days
usr : The world is becoming more shallow and unjust by the day
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i've learned its better jut to forget the past and move on. dwelling on it only auses more paind and heartache and take longer to get back to happy
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i think you will be okay though : you seem to have your head on straight!
usr : I agree,i will just forget and move on to a better and more prosperous life
usr : Thank you for such insightful remarks
| (Others) you are welcome! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner was seeing someone else on the side". | sys : (Question) hello. what is on your mind today?
usr : I am sad because my partner and i broke up
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) its normal to feel sad when you break up
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times
usr : Wow that's huge!How did you get through the break ups each time it happened?
sys : (Information) my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad
sys : (Self-disclosure) this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself
usr : Mine also ended because my partner cheated.What made it worse is the fact that he cheated with my close friend
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .
usr : I also feel like revenging but in a way that will make him regret why he ever left me
sys : (Question) what will that do in the long run though?
usr : I have always been a loyal friend and as such wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my relationship with my friends.The mistake i made however is believing that all people have the same intentions
sys : (Self-disclosure) i've made that mistake too honestly
usr : I thought that she would look out for me the same way i did for her.How wrong i was!
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) people can be selfish!
usr : I think it is,that way one will not be hurt that bad when a friend or a partner decides to be disloyal
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) true
usr : Some people are very selfish and do not care about friendships
usr : Did you forgive your partners from the past?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) it seems like that is becoming quite a trend these days
usr : The world is becoming more shallow and unjust by the day
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i've learned its better jut to forget the past and move on. dwelling on it only auses more paind and heartache and take longer to get back to happy
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i think you will be okay though : you seem to have your head on straight!
usr : I agree,i will just forget and move on to a better and more prosperous life
usr : Thank you for such insightful remarks
sys : (Others) you are welcome!
usr : Have a good day
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) you too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have had a lady who has been a friend for one year now. We have been in good terms until recently when she no longer has time for me and she does not explain the reason for the same. I have scheduled several meetings but she turns down my request every time. I dont know what to do at such a time when i need her support the most.". | (Question) How are you doing today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have had a lady who has been a friend for one year now. We have been in good terms until recently when she no longer has time for me and she does not explain the reason for the same. I have scheduled several meetings but she turns down my request every time. I dont know what to do at such a time when i need her support the most.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : Am not very fine though tring to cope with the situation at hand
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What situation specifically are you speaking of, if you would like to tell me? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have had a lady who has been a friend for one year now. We have been in good terms until recently when she no longer has time for me and she does not explain the reason for the same. I have scheduled several meetings but she turns down my request every time. I dont know what to do at such a time when i need her support the most.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : Am not very fine though tring to cope with the situation at hand
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What situation specifically are you speaking of, if you would like to tell me?
usr : I am currently facing some sadness. I have had a fiancee whom we have been in good terms for the past one year. She has suddenly changed and no longer has ime for me. I have prompted her on several occasions but she does not respond to my calls and texts.I have requested her so that we meet and talk but she is not willing either. I am confused what to do at this time i need her support the most
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what I hear you saying is that you are engaged and your fiance will not speak to you. However, you are unsure as to why she is behaving this way? Is that correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have had a lady who has been a friend for one year now. We have been in good terms until recently when she no longer has time for me and she does not explain the reason for the same. I have scheduled several meetings but she turns down my request every time. I dont know what to do at such a time when i need her support the most.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : Am not very fine though tring to cope with the situation at hand
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What situation specifically are you speaking of, if you would like to tell me?
usr : I am currently facing some sadness. I have had a fiancee whom we have been in good terms for the past one year. She has suddenly changed and no longer has ime for me. I have prompted her on several occasions but she does not respond to my calls and texts.I have requested her so that we meet and talk but she is not willing either. I am confused what to do at this time i need her support the most
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what I hear you saying is that you are engaged and your fiance will not speak to you. However, you are unsure as to why she is behaving this way? Is that correct?
usr : Yea i really dont know the reason behind the breakup coz all along we have been in good terms and can hardly remember us having a disagreement
| (Reflection of feelings) Unfortunately sometimes people do just grow apart. There may not be any concrete reason behind it. It appears that, for whatever reason, she does not want to talk. I can understand how this would be upsetting and that it would be hard to obtain closure and move on. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I have had a lady who has been a friend for one year now. We have been in good terms until recently when she no longer has time for me and she does not explain the reason for the same. I have scheduled several meetings but she turns down my request every time. I dont know what to do at such a time when i need her support the most.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : Am not very fine though tring to cope with the situation at hand
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What situation specifically are you speaking of, if you would like to tell me?
usr : I am currently facing some sadness. I have had a fiancee whom we have been in good terms for the past one year. She has suddenly changed and no longer has ime for me. I have prompted her on several occasions but she does not respond to my calls and texts.I have requested her so that we meet and talk but she is not willing either. I am confused what to do at this time i need her support the most
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So what I hear you saying is that you are engaged and your fiance will not speak to you. However, you are unsure as to why she is behaving this way? Is that correct?
usr : Yea i really dont know the reason behind the breakup coz all along we have been in good terms and can hardly remember us having a disagreement
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Unfortunately sometimes people do just grow apart. There may not be any concrete reason behind it. It appears that, for whatever reason, she does not want to talk. I can understand how this would be upsetting and that it would be hard to obtain closure and move on.
usr : Sure. I really dont know what to do in this case
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried emailing her? Perhaps she would be willing to explain in a more neutral environment? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.". | (Others) Hi | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.". | sys : (Others) Hi
usr : hi, how are you?
| (Question) good how are you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.". | sys : (Others) Hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good how are you
| (Question) can you talk more about your feelings at this time? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.". | sys : (Others) Hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good how are you
sys : (Question) can you talk more about your feelings at this time?
usr : Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression
usr : I feel overwhelmed and hopeless.
usr : have you ever struggled with depression or anxiety?
| (Reflection of feelings) it sounds like you're really anxious and stressed about this situation let's try to figure out a path to move foward |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.". | sys : (Others) Hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good how are you
sys : (Question) can you talk more about your feelings at this time?
usr : Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression
usr : I feel overwhelmed and hopeless.
usr : have you ever struggled with depression or anxiety?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) it sounds like you're really anxious and stressed about this situation let's try to figure out a path to move foward
| (Self-disclosure) Yes I have also struggled with depression and anxiety |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.". | sys : (Others) Hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good how are you
sys : (Question) can you talk more about your feelings at this time?
usr : Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression
usr : I feel overwhelmed and hopeless.
usr : have you ever struggled with depression or anxiety?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) it sounds like you're really anxious and stressed about this situation let's try to figure out a path to move foward
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have also struggled with depression and anxiety
usr : absolutely
usr : I am sorry that you too, know what that is like
usr : how are you coping with that now?
| (Providing Suggestions) I try to do yoga and meditate in order to deal with stress |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.". | sys : (Others) Hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good how are you
sys : (Question) can you talk more about your feelings at this time?
usr : Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression
usr : I feel overwhelmed and hopeless.
usr : have you ever struggled with depression or anxiety?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) it sounds like you're really anxious and stressed about this situation let's try to figure out a path to move foward
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have also struggled with depression and anxiety
usr : absolutely
usr : I am sorry that you too, know what that is like
usr : how are you coping with that now?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I try to do yoga and meditate in order to deal with stress
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's great that you are trying to find solutions |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.". | sys : (Others) Hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good how are you
sys : (Question) can you talk more about your feelings at this time?
usr : Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression
usr : I feel overwhelmed and hopeless.
usr : have you ever struggled with depression or anxiety?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) it sounds like you're really anxious and stressed about this situation let's try to figure out a path to move foward
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have also struggled with depression and anxiety
usr : absolutely
usr : I am sorry that you too, know what that is like
usr : how are you coping with that now?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I try to do yoga and meditate in order to deal with stress
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's great that you are trying to find solutions
usr : That is awesome! Meditation is my go to. I love nature, crystals and meditation.
usr : Thank you
usr : I am trying my best.. it is challenging
usr : Im good at helping others, but I have neve been able to help myself or listen to my own advice for some reason.
| (Self-disclosure) I have struggled with the same, have you considered counseling or another form of therapy ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am a mother of two and I have been a stay at home, homeschooling mom since Covid hit last year. Can hardly make ends meet.". | sys : (Others) Hi
usr : hi, how are you?
sys : (Question) good how are you
sys : (Question) can you talk more about your feelings at this time?
usr : Ive been better, but thank you for asking. I have suffered through depression my entire adult life. Now its at its all time worst. I am financially struggling and trying to provide for my 3 kids. I can no longer afford doctors visits or my prescription meds for anxiety and depression
usr : I feel overwhelmed and hopeless.
usr : have you ever struggled with depression or anxiety?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) it sounds like you're really anxious and stressed about this situation let's try to figure out a path to move foward
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I have also struggled with depression and anxiety
usr : absolutely
usr : I am sorry that you too, know what that is like
usr : how are you coping with that now?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I try to do yoga and meditate in order to deal with stress
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it's great that you are trying to find solutions
usr : That is awesome! Meditation is my go to. I love nature, crystals and meditation.
usr : Thank you
usr : I am trying my best.. it is challenging
usr : Im good at helping others, but I have neve been able to help myself or listen to my own advice for some reason.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have struggled with the same, have you considered counseling or another form of therapy ?
usr : I have, but I haven't followed through because of money constraints. It also makes me very nervous to open up and talk face to face about my struggles
usr : HAve you done that, if so, did it help you?
| (Self-disclosure) I have tried different methods of therapy, and have found low cost options in my area |
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