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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Car accident led to traumatic brain injury and PTSD having nightmares 2x a week.". | usr : Hello there. In the past 3 years, I have gotten into 2 car accidents. Neither of them were my fault. I sustained a concussion/traumatic brain injury and am experiencing depression and PTSD.
usr : I have nightmares of crashing at least 2x a week. I am seeing a therapist, but due to the pandemic we are not meeting in person to do EDMR for my PTSD
sys : (Question) Hello, I'm so sorry to hear that. That sounds like an awful lot to go through in a few years time, which now can feel like the time passes so quickly.
usr : I have a traumatic brain injury that creates a lot of overstimulation in my life. I used to be social and now I can't be in a social setting for too long without feeling exhausted
sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your therapist through video chat or is that something they offer?
usr : Yes, I talk to my therapist every other week
sys : (Others) That's great that they can offer that, I know it's very difficult to get regular care at the moment with the pandemic.
sys : (Question) Do you have any family or friends close by or something that you can talk to if you feel like you need some extra support?
usr : I do not have supportive or understanding friends and family
usr : I have lost a lot of them in the last few years or have created boundaries because when I got into my first car accident, legit someone said "are you not better yet?" and another said "can't you just walk it off?"
usr : When I got into my second car accident, people said "again? are you drunk?"
usr : Even though neither were my fault, people were not understanding or asked how scary those situations for me were
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am sorry to hear that, people are very quick to judge so it's very unfortunate that you were treated that way.
usr : After my first car accident, the tow truck guy was towing my car to my aunt's garage to hold for auto insurance appraisal. He said to my aunt "sorry for your loss" My aunt said "oh, she's right over there and alive"
usr : the car accident was so bad the tow truck guy thought I had died
usr : but even after seeing my car, friends and family acted like it was just something that happens to everyone. walk it off
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, I can't imagine what the car must have looked like then for such a comment to be made. I'm glad that you here and despite going through that trauma that you are still going.
usr : Thanks.
| (Self-disclosure) A women fell asleep at the wheel in 2013 and hit me going through an intersection and totaled by car as well, but I had only had a concussion and pain I had to go to physical therapy for a short time, so I can't imagine how you must have felt. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Car accident led to traumatic brain injury and PTSD having nightmares 2x a week.". | usr : Hello there. In the past 3 years, I have gotten into 2 car accidents. Neither of them were my fault. I sustained a concussion/traumatic brain injury and am experiencing depression and PTSD.
usr : I have nightmares of crashing at least 2x a week. I am seeing a therapist, but due to the pandemic we are not meeting in person to do EDMR for my PTSD
sys : (Question) Hello, I'm so sorry to hear that. That sounds like an awful lot to go through in a few years time, which now can feel like the time passes so quickly.
usr : I have a traumatic brain injury that creates a lot of overstimulation in my life. I used to be social and now I can't be in a social setting for too long without feeling exhausted
sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your therapist through video chat or is that something they offer?
usr : Yes, I talk to my therapist every other week
sys : (Others) That's great that they can offer that, I know it's very difficult to get regular care at the moment with the pandemic.
sys : (Question) Do you have any family or friends close by or something that you can talk to if you feel like you need some extra support?
usr : I do not have supportive or understanding friends and family
usr : I have lost a lot of them in the last few years or have created boundaries because when I got into my first car accident, legit someone said "are you not better yet?" and another said "can't you just walk it off?"
usr : When I got into my second car accident, people said "again? are you drunk?"
usr : Even though neither were my fault, people were not understanding or asked how scary those situations for me were
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am sorry to hear that, people are very quick to judge so it's very unfortunate that you were treated that way.
usr : After my first car accident, the tow truck guy was towing my car to my aunt's garage to hold for auto insurance appraisal. He said to my aunt "sorry for your loss" My aunt said "oh, she's right over there and alive"
usr : the car accident was so bad the tow truck guy thought I had died
usr : but even after seeing my car, friends and family acted like it was just something that happens to everyone. walk it off
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, I can't imagine what the car must have looked like then for such a comment to be made. I'm glad that you here and despite going through that trauma that you are still going.
usr : Thanks.
sys : (Self-disclosure) A women fell asleep at the wheel in 2013 and hit me going through an intersection and totaled by car as well, but I had only had a concussion and pain I had to go to physical therapy for a short time, so I can't imagine how you must have felt.
usr : What are some things you do when you have depression? Have you been in a scary car accident before or know anyone? Have you offered them kindness or you just dismissed them and thought it was their own problem?
usr : That sounds scary. And is extremely unfortunate.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry that you didn't get the support you needed after your accidents because it's hard enough to go through the pain and trauma (mental and physical) to begin with and the support is much needed. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Car accident led to traumatic brain injury and PTSD having nightmares 2x a week.". | usr : Hello there. In the past 3 years, I have gotten into 2 car accidents. Neither of them were my fault. I sustained a concussion/traumatic brain injury and am experiencing depression and PTSD.
usr : I have nightmares of crashing at least 2x a week. I am seeing a therapist, but due to the pandemic we are not meeting in person to do EDMR for my PTSD
sys : (Question) Hello, I'm so sorry to hear that. That sounds like an awful lot to go through in a few years time, which now can feel like the time passes so quickly.
usr : I have a traumatic brain injury that creates a lot of overstimulation in my life. I used to be social and now I can't be in a social setting for too long without feeling exhausted
sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your therapist through video chat or is that something they offer?
usr : Yes, I talk to my therapist every other week
sys : (Others) That's great that they can offer that, I know it's very difficult to get regular care at the moment with the pandemic.
sys : (Question) Do you have any family or friends close by or something that you can talk to if you feel like you need some extra support?
usr : I do not have supportive or understanding friends and family
usr : I have lost a lot of them in the last few years or have created boundaries because when I got into my first car accident, legit someone said "are you not better yet?" and another said "can't you just walk it off?"
usr : When I got into my second car accident, people said "again? are you drunk?"
usr : Even though neither were my fault, people were not understanding or asked how scary those situations for me were
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am sorry to hear that, people are very quick to judge so it's very unfortunate that you were treated that way.
usr : After my first car accident, the tow truck guy was towing my car to my aunt's garage to hold for auto insurance appraisal. He said to my aunt "sorry for your loss" My aunt said "oh, she's right over there and alive"
usr : the car accident was so bad the tow truck guy thought I had died
usr : but even after seeing my car, friends and family acted like it was just something that happens to everyone. walk it off
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, I can't imagine what the car must have looked like then for such a comment to be made. I'm glad that you here and despite going through that trauma that you are still going.
usr : Thanks.
sys : (Self-disclosure) A women fell asleep at the wheel in 2013 and hit me going through an intersection and totaled by car as well, but I had only had a concussion and pain I had to go to physical therapy for a short time, so I can't imagine how you must have felt.
usr : What are some things you do when you have depression? Have you been in a scary car accident before or know anyone? Have you offered them kindness or you just dismissed them and thought it was their own problem?
usr : That sounds scary. And is extremely unfortunate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry that you didn't get the support you needed after your accidents because it's hard enough to go through the pain and trauma (mental and physical) to begin with and the support is much needed.
usr : Absolutely! But I'm doing better now. You find out who your real friends and family are and you move on. The whole saying of "they don't deserve you at your best when they weren't there when you were at your worst"
| (Question) You are 100% correct. Have you looked into any support groups at all or tried to connect with anyone with similar experiences through social media? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Car accident led to traumatic brain injury and PTSD having nightmares 2x a week.". | usr : Hello there. In the past 3 years, I have gotten into 2 car accidents. Neither of them were my fault. I sustained a concussion/traumatic brain injury and am experiencing depression and PTSD.
usr : I have nightmares of crashing at least 2x a week. I am seeing a therapist, but due to the pandemic we are not meeting in person to do EDMR for my PTSD
sys : (Question) Hello, I'm so sorry to hear that. That sounds like an awful lot to go through in a few years time, which now can feel like the time passes so quickly.
usr : I have a traumatic brain injury that creates a lot of overstimulation in my life. I used to be social and now I can't be in a social setting for too long without feeling exhausted
sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your therapist through video chat or is that something they offer?
usr : Yes, I talk to my therapist every other week
sys : (Others) That's great that they can offer that, I know it's very difficult to get regular care at the moment with the pandemic.
sys : (Question) Do you have any family or friends close by or something that you can talk to if you feel like you need some extra support?
usr : I do not have supportive or understanding friends and family
usr : I have lost a lot of them in the last few years or have created boundaries because when I got into my first car accident, legit someone said "are you not better yet?" and another said "can't you just walk it off?"
usr : When I got into my second car accident, people said "again? are you drunk?"
usr : Even though neither were my fault, people were not understanding or asked how scary those situations for me were
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am sorry to hear that, people are very quick to judge so it's very unfortunate that you were treated that way.
usr : After my first car accident, the tow truck guy was towing my car to my aunt's garage to hold for auto insurance appraisal. He said to my aunt "sorry for your loss" My aunt said "oh, she's right over there and alive"
usr : the car accident was so bad the tow truck guy thought I had died
usr : but even after seeing my car, friends and family acted like it was just something that happens to everyone. walk it off
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, I can't imagine what the car must have looked like then for such a comment to be made. I'm glad that you here and despite going through that trauma that you are still going.
usr : Thanks.
sys : (Self-disclosure) A women fell asleep at the wheel in 2013 and hit me going through an intersection and totaled by car as well, but I had only had a concussion and pain I had to go to physical therapy for a short time, so I can't imagine how you must have felt.
usr : What are some things you do when you have depression? Have you been in a scary car accident before or know anyone? Have you offered them kindness or you just dismissed them and thought it was their own problem?
usr : That sounds scary. And is extremely unfortunate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry that you didn't get the support you needed after your accidents because it's hard enough to go through the pain and trauma (mental and physical) to begin with and the support is much needed.
usr : Absolutely! But I'm doing better now. You find out who your real friends and family are and you move on. The whole saying of "they don't deserve you at your best when they weren't there when you were at your worst"
sys : (Question) You are 100% correct. Have you looked into any support groups at all or tried to connect with anyone with similar experiences through social media?
usr : I don't use social media
usr : I quit in 2016, which is also when I started realizing how vain people are
usr : Some of those same friends and family didn't bother to text me even though they had my number
usr : I did find a local group that did social stuff together but they were all really old like 50 years plus
usr : I'm in my 20s so it was hard to relate
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Gotcha! Well I'm glad I was able to connect with you this evening because sometimes it helps just to chat and have someone listen :-) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Car accident led to traumatic brain injury and PTSD having nightmares 2x a week.". | usr : Hello there. In the past 3 years, I have gotten into 2 car accidents. Neither of them were my fault. I sustained a concussion/traumatic brain injury and am experiencing depression and PTSD.
usr : I have nightmares of crashing at least 2x a week. I am seeing a therapist, but due to the pandemic we are not meeting in person to do EDMR for my PTSD
sys : (Question) Hello, I'm so sorry to hear that. That sounds like an awful lot to go through in a few years time, which now can feel like the time passes so quickly.
usr : I have a traumatic brain injury that creates a lot of overstimulation in my life. I used to be social and now I can't be in a social setting for too long without feeling exhausted
sys : (Question) Have you tried to talk to your therapist through video chat or is that something they offer?
usr : Yes, I talk to my therapist every other week
sys : (Others) That's great that they can offer that, I know it's very difficult to get regular care at the moment with the pandemic.
sys : (Question) Do you have any family or friends close by or something that you can talk to if you feel like you need some extra support?
usr : I do not have supportive or understanding friends and family
usr : I have lost a lot of them in the last few years or have created boundaries because when I got into my first car accident, legit someone said "are you not better yet?" and another said "can't you just walk it off?"
usr : When I got into my second car accident, people said "again? are you drunk?"
usr : Even though neither were my fault, people were not understanding or asked how scary those situations for me were
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am sorry to hear that, people are very quick to judge so it's very unfortunate that you were treated that way.
usr : After my first car accident, the tow truck guy was towing my car to my aunt's garage to hold for auto insurance appraisal. He said to my aunt "sorry for your loss" My aunt said "oh, she's right over there and alive"
usr : the car accident was so bad the tow truck guy thought I had died
usr : but even after seeing my car, friends and family acted like it was just something that happens to everyone. walk it off
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, I can't imagine what the car must have looked like then for such a comment to be made. I'm glad that you here and despite going through that trauma that you are still going.
usr : Thanks.
sys : (Self-disclosure) A women fell asleep at the wheel in 2013 and hit me going through an intersection and totaled by car as well, but I had only had a concussion and pain I had to go to physical therapy for a short time, so I can't imagine how you must have felt.
usr : What are some things you do when you have depression? Have you been in a scary car accident before or know anyone? Have you offered them kindness or you just dismissed them and thought it was their own problem?
usr : That sounds scary. And is extremely unfortunate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I'm sorry that you didn't get the support you needed after your accidents because it's hard enough to go through the pain and trauma (mental and physical) to begin with and the support is much needed.
usr : Absolutely! But I'm doing better now. You find out who your real friends and family are and you move on. The whole saying of "they don't deserve you at your best when they weren't there when you were at your worst"
sys : (Question) You are 100% correct. Have you looked into any support groups at all or tried to connect with anyone with similar experiences through social media?
usr : I don't use social media
usr : I quit in 2016, which is also when I started realizing how vain people are
usr : Some of those same friends and family didn't bother to text me even though they had my number
usr : I did find a local group that did social stuff together but they were all really old like 50 years plus
usr : I'm in my 20s so it was hard to relate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Gotcha! Well I'm glad I was able to connect with you this evening because sometimes it helps just to chat and have someone listen :-)
usr : Thanks! I appreciate it. Happy Holidays and Happy New Year
| (Others) I hope that for 2021 things can somewhat go back to normal so the routines can get back to what they were and that this next year is your best year yet. You have already been through so much to be in your 20's. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | (Question) Hi, how's life? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
| (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
| (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
| (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
sys : (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?
usr : not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues
| (Others) Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
sys : (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?
usr : not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues
sys : (Others) Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself?
usr : I was trusted before, but not now
| (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
sys : (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?
usr : not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues
sys : (Others) Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself?
usr : I was trusted before, but not now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that it is NOT your problem, it it's their's! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
sys : (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?
usr : not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues
sys : (Others) Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself?
usr : I was trusted before, but not now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that it is NOT your problem, it it's their's!
usr : i understand that. but i feel lonely when friend says i am having issues, i dont want to discuss with anyone, but other friends get to know of the issue and tell me about it in a casual conversation. i feel when some other had got to know of it, why it could not have been discussed with me
| (Self-disclosure) I do understand how it feels to be gossiped about - that has happened to me more than once and it is really painful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
sys : (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?
usr : not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues
sys : (Others) Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself?
usr : I was trusted before, but not now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that it is NOT your problem, it it's their's!
usr : i understand that. but i feel lonely when friend says i am having issues, i dont want to discuss with anyone, but other friends get to know of the issue and tell me about it in a casual conversation. i feel when some other had got to know of it, why it could not have been discussed with me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how it feels to be gossiped about - that has happened to me more than once and it is really painful.
usr : i feel sorry for the friend that the trusted ones have not been able to keep up and at the same time, i was not considered trusted one, where i would have kept it to myself
| (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you should consider getting some new friends? Are there any societies or anything that you could join? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
sys : (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?
usr : not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues
sys : (Others) Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself?
usr : I was trusted before, but not now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that it is NOT your problem, it it's their's!
usr : i understand that. but i feel lonely when friend says i am having issues, i dont want to discuss with anyone, but other friends get to know of the issue and tell me about it in a casual conversation. i feel when some other had got to know of it, why it could not have been discussed with me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how it feels to be gossiped about - that has happened to me more than once and it is really painful.
usr : i feel sorry for the friend that the trusted ones have not been able to keep up and at the same time, i was not considered trusted one, where i would have kept it to myself
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you should consider getting some new friends? Are there any societies or anything that you could join?
usr : i like your suggestion. i have started to do prayers and study more texts of my interest and this had surely given me a boost and I have now accepted the friend as it is.
usr : not really thinking too much of it, just accepting it as it is and moving on with my routine
| (Providing Suggestions) That sounds like a really positive outlook. Make a resolution not to let toxicity into your life in this coming year? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
sys : (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?
usr : not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues
sys : (Others) Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself?
usr : I was trusted before, but not now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that it is NOT your problem, it it's their's!
usr : i understand that. but i feel lonely when friend says i am having issues, i dont want to discuss with anyone, but other friends get to know of the issue and tell me about it in a casual conversation. i feel when some other had got to know of it, why it could not have been discussed with me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how it feels to be gossiped about - that has happened to me more than once and it is really painful.
usr : i feel sorry for the friend that the trusted ones have not been able to keep up and at the same time, i was not considered trusted one, where i would have kept it to myself
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you should consider getting some new friends? Are there any societies or anything that you could join?
usr : i like your suggestion. i have started to do prayers and study more texts of my interest and this had surely given me a boost and I have now accepted the friend as it is.
usr : not really thinking too much of it, just accepting it as it is and moving on with my routine
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That sounds like a really positive outlook. Make a resolution not to let toxicity into your life in this coming year?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I hope I have been able to help you a little and set your mind at rest. I wish you a very happy New Year! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
sys : (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?
usr : not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues
sys : (Others) Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself?
usr : I was trusted before, but not now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that it is NOT your problem, it it's their's!
usr : i understand that. but i feel lonely when friend says i am having issues, i dont want to discuss with anyone, but other friends get to know of the issue and tell me about it in a casual conversation. i feel when some other had got to know of it, why it could not have been discussed with me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how it feels to be gossiped about - that has happened to me more than once and it is really painful.
usr : i feel sorry for the friend that the trusted ones have not been able to keep up and at the same time, i was not considered trusted one, where i would have kept it to myself
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you should consider getting some new friends? Are there any societies or anything that you could join?
usr : i like your suggestion. i have started to do prayers and study more texts of my interest and this had surely given me a boost and I have now accepted the friend as it is.
usr : not really thinking too much of it, just accepting it as it is and moving on with my routine
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That sounds like a really positive outlook. Make a resolution not to let toxicity into your life in this coming year?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I hope I have been able to help you a little and set your mind at rest. I wish you a very happy New Year!
usr : yes, thank you and happy new year to you as well
| (Others) goodbye and thanks for talking |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too". | sys : (Question) Hi, how's life?
usr : good, feels better now
sys : (Question) I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?
usr : usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend
sys : (Question) That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?
usr : not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues
sys : (Others) Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself?
usr : I was trusted before, but not now
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that it is NOT your problem, it it's their's!
usr : i understand that. but i feel lonely when friend says i am having issues, i dont want to discuss with anyone, but other friends get to know of the issue and tell me about it in a casual conversation. i feel when some other had got to know of it, why it could not have been discussed with me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do understand how it feels to be gossiped about - that has happened to me more than once and it is really painful.
usr : i feel sorry for the friend that the trusted ones have not been able to keep up and at the same time, i was not considered trusted one, where i would have kept it to myself
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Perhaps you should consider getting some new friends? Are there any societies or anything that you could join?
usr : i like your suggestion. i have started to do prayers and study more texts of my interest and this had surely given me a boost and I have now accepted the friend as it is.
usr : not really thinking too much of it, just accepting it as it is and moving on with my routine
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That sounds like a really positive outlook. Make a resolution not to let toxicity into your life in this coming year?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I hope I have been able to help you a little and set your mind at rest. I wish you a very happy New Year!
usr : yes, thank you and happy new year to you as well
sys : (Others) goodbye and thanks for talking
usr : good bye and thanks for listening
| (Information) (you need to end from your end as I can't from mine :)) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | (Others) How are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
| (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
| (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
sys : (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others
| (Question) Are you having issues with focusing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
sys : (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others
sys : (Question) Are you having issues with focusing?
usr : I think so? I think it is just the way the material is taught now. We have these "Zoom" sessions where everything is taught online, but it just all feels so impersonal. We are expected to read things on our own and then come to class ready to do these activities. I just prefer the old style of attending classes, having someone teach me the material, and then going back and studying on my own.
usr : I think it is also the social aspect of this pandemic too. I haven't seen my firends in person in a very long time.
usr : I'm worried that if my poor performance continues, then I might loose my scholarship.
| (Question) What happened when you reached out to the teacher? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
sys : (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others
sys : (Question) Are you having issues with focusing?
usr : I think so? I think it is just the way the material is taught now. We have these "Zoom" sessions where everything is taught online, but it just all feels so impersonal. We are expected to read things on our own and then come to class ready to do these activities. I just prefer the old style of attending classes, having someone teach me the material, and then going back and studying on my own.
usr : I think it is also the social aspect of this pandemic too. I haven't seen my firends in person in a very long time.
usr : I'm worried that if my poor performance continues, then I might loose my scholarship.
sys : (Question) What happened when you reached out to the teacher?
usr : He just gave me some additional books to read, but I did not find that helpful. I really do well when I have someone teach the material to me, not just tell me to read on my own.
usr : But maybe I'm not able to do well because I'm stupid. I know I should be able to understand things on my own, but I just can't seem to do that.
| (Reflection of feelings) I think if you could teach yourself, the class wouldn't exist. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
sys : (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others
sys : (Question) Are you having issues with focusing?
usr : I think so? I think it is just the way the material is taught now. We have these "Zoom" sessions where everything is taught online, but it just all feels so impersonal. We are expected to read things on our own and then come to class ready to do these activities. I just prefer the old style of attending classes, having someone teach me the material, and then going back and studying on my own.
usr : I think it is also the social aspect of this pandemic too. I haven't seen my firends in person in a very long time.
usr : I'm worried that if my poor performance continues, then I might loose my scholarship.
sys : (Question) What happened when you reached out to the teacher?
usr : He just gave me some additional books to read, but I did not find that helpful. I really do well when I have someone teach the material to me, not just tell me to read on my own.
usr : But maybe I'm not able to do well because I'm stupid. I know I should be able to understand things on my own, but I just can't seem to do that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think if you could teach yourself, the class wouldn't exist.
| (Question) Does your class have a study group? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
sys : (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others
sys : (Question) Are you having issues with focusing?
usr : I think so? I think it is just the way the material is taught now. We have these "Zoom" sessions where everything is taught online, but it just all feels so impersonal. We are expected to read things on our own and then come to class ready to do these activities. I just prefer the old style of attending classes, having someone teach me the material, and then going back and studying on my own.
usr : I think it is also the social aspect of this pandemic too. I haven't seen my firends in person in a very long time.
usr : I'm worried that if my poor performance continues, then I might loose my scholarship.
sys : (Question) What happened when you reached out to the teacher?
usr : He just gave me some additional books to read, but I did not find that helpful. I really do well when I have someone teach the material to me, not just tell me to read on my own.
usr : But maybe I'm not able to do well because I'm stupid. I know I should be able to understand things on my own, but I just can't seem to do that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think if you could teach yourself, the class wouldn't exist.
sys : (Question) Does your class have a study group?
| (Information) Usually schools offer free tutoring, because students volunteer to do it for credits toward a teaching degree. have you heard of that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
sys : (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others
sys : (Question) Are you having issues with focusing?
usr : I think so? I think it is just the way the material is taught now. We have these "Zoom" sessions where everything is taught online, but it just all feels so impersonal. We are expected to read things on our own and then come to class ready to do these activities. I just prefer the old style of attending classes, having someone teach me the material, and then going back and studying on my own.
usr : I think it is also the social aspect of this pandemic too. I haven't seen my firends in person in a very long time.
usr : I'm worried that if my poor performance continues, then I might loose my scholarship.
sys : (Question) What happened when you reached out to the teacher?
usr : He just gave me some additional books to read, but I did not find that helpful. I really do well when I have someone teach the material to me, not just tell me to read on my own.
usr : But maybe I'm not able to do well because I'm stupid. I know I should be able to understand things on my own, but I just can't seem to do that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think if you could teach yourself, the class wouldn't exist.
sys : (Question) Does your class have a study group?
sys : (Information) Usually schools offer free tutoring, because students volunteer to do it for credits toward a teaching degree. have you heard of that?
| (Reflection of feelings) There is always a way. You have to be smart to get a scholarship. You deserve to be in that class as much as anyone else |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
sys : (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others
sys : (Question) Are you having issues with focusing?
usr : I think so? I think it is just the way the material is taught now. We have these "Zoom" sessions where everything is taught online, but it just all feels so impersonal. We are expected to read things on our own and then come to class ready to do these activities. I just prefer the old style of attending classes, having someone teach me the material, and then going back and studying on my own.
usr : I think it is also the social aspect of this pandemic too. I haven't seen my firends in person in a very long time.
usr : I'm worried that if my poor performance continues, then I might loose my scholarship.
sys : (Question) What happened when you reached out to the teacher?
usr : He just gave me some additional books to read, but I did not find that helpful. I really do well when I have someone teach the material to me, not just tell me to read on my own.
usr : But maybe I'm not able to do well because I'm stupid. I know I should be able to understand things on my own, but I just can't seem to do that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think if you could teach yourself, the class wouldn't exist.
sys : (Question) Does your class have a study group?
sys : (Information) Usually schools offer free tutoring, because students volunteer to do it for credits toward a teaching degree. have you heard of that?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is always a way. You have to be smart to get a scholarship. You deserve to be in that class as much as anyone else
usr : I have tried the group study sessions, but I feel like I don't retain as much. I just get very discouraged when I see how smart everyone else in my class is.
usr : I don't know if my school offers free tutoring now. They used to, but I am not sure if they are still offering it due to the pandemic.
usr : I'll try that though. It might help to get one on one attention from a past student who did well.
| (Information) Well, they most likely do it over zoom. But it's better because it's one on one |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
sys : (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others
sys : (Question) Are you having issues with focusing?
usr : I think so? I think it is just the way the material is taught now. We have these "Zoom" sessions where everything is taught online, but it just all feels so impersonal. We are expected to read things on our own and then come to class ready to do these activities. I just prefer the old style of attending classes, having someone teach me the material, and then going back and studying on my own.
usr : I think it is also the social aspect of this pandemic too. I haven't seen my firends in person in a very long time.
usr : I'm worried that if my poor performance continues, then I might loose my scholarship.
sys : (Question) What happened when you reached out to the teacher?
usr : He just gave me some additional books to read, but I did not find that helpful. I really do well when I have someone teach the material to me, not just tell me to read on my own.
usr : But maybe I'm not able to do well because I'm stupid. I know I should be able to understand things on my own, but I just can't seem to do that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think if you could teach yourself, the class wouldn't exist.
sys : (Question) Does your class have a study group?
sys : (Information) Usually schools offer free tutoring, because students volunteer to do it for credits toward a teaching degree. have you heard of that?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is always a way. You have to be smart to get a scholarship. You deserve to be in that class as much as anyone else
usr : I have tried the group study sessions, but I feel like I don't retain as much. I just get very discouraged when I see how smart everyone else in my class is.
usr : I don't know if my school offers free tutoring now. They used to, but I am not sure if they are still offering it due to the pandemic.
usr : I'll try that though. It might help to get one on one attention from a past student who did well.
sys : (Information) Well, they most likely do it over zoom. But it's better because it's one on one
usr : And thank you for the words of encouragement. \
| (Others) You're absolutely welcome |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I've been studying very hard for this class, but I have been performing very poorly. This is the first time I have done this bad and I just feel so incompetent. Nothing I do seems to work.". | sys : (Others) How are you feeling today?
usr : Hi, not so good to be honest.
usr : I've been feeling very depressed recently. I've been doing very bad in this class and that is just not like me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this
usr : I was up until this pandemic started. I feel like this shift to online learning has really taken it's toll on me and my learning.
usr : I've tried reaching out to my professors and doing virtual group study sessions with my class mates, but for some reason, things just don't seem to stick that well.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable
usr : Really? I feel like everyone around me is doing fine and that makes me feel that there is something wrong with me.
usr : Maybe I'm just slow?
sys : (Information) Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others
sys : (Question) Are you having issues with focusing?
usr : I think so? I think it is just the way the material is taught now. We have these "Zoom" sessions where everything is taught online, but it just all feels so impersonal. We are expected to read things on our own and then come to class ready to do these activities. I just prefer the old style of attending classes, having someone teach me the material, and then going back and studying on my own.
usr : I think it is also the social aspect of this pandemic too. I haven't seen my firends in person in a very long time.
usr : I'm worried that if my poor performance continues, then I might loose my scholarship.
sys : (Question) What happened when you reached out to the teacher?
usr : He just gave me some additional books to read, but I did not find that helpful. I really do well when I have someone teach the material to me, not just tell me to read on my own.
usr : But maybe I'm not able to do well because I'm stupid. I know I should be able to understand things on my own, but I just can't seem to do that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think if you could teach yourself, the class wouldn't exist.
sys : (Question) Does your class have a study group?
sys : (Information) Usually schools offer free tutoring, because students volunteer to do it for credits toward a teaching degree. have you heard of that?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) There is always a way. You have to be smart to get a scholarship. You deserve to be in that class as much as anyone else
usr : I have tried the group study sessions, but I feel like I don't retain as much. I just get very discouraged when I see how smart everyone else in my class is.
usr : I don't know if my school offers free tutoring now. They used to, but I am not sure if they are still offering it due to the pandemic.
usr : I'll try that though. It might help to get one on one attention from a past student who did well.
sys : (Information) Well, they most likely do it over zoom. But it's better because it's one on one
usr : And thank you for the words of encouragement. \
sys : (Others) You're absolutely welcome
usr : I'll try your advice. Hopefully, things will take a turn for the better.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm confident that it will. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
| (Question) Hello? Anyone there? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
| (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
| (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
| (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.
usr : That sounds like a good idea regarding putting it down on paper.
| (Self-disclosure) It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.
usr : That sounds like a good idea regarding putting it down on paper.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week.
| (Providing Suggestions) Then as you check off items, you will see you are moving, even if at a snail's pace, you are moving, and that always encourages me. Sometimes I do not realize how much I AM doing, until I see it on paper. Paper doesn't lie, but my emotions sometimes cloud my thinking. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.
usr : That sounds like a good idea regarding putting it down on paper.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then as you check off items, you will see you are moving, even if at a snail's pace, you are moving, and that always encourages me. Sometimes I do not realize how much I AM doing, until I see it on paper. Paper doesn't lie, but my emotions sometimes cloud my thinking.
usr : My other problem is that I'm a perfectionist. I tend to over-analyze and get bogged down, especially when doing research.
| (Providing Suggestions) Another idea is rewards, when you finish one goal, perhaps put a reward for yourself, a yogurt with sprinkles or something like that |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.
usr : That sounds like a good idea regarding putting it down on paper.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then as you check off items, you will see you are moving, even if at a snail's pace, you are moving, and that always encourages me. Sometimes I do not realize how much I AM doing, until I see it on paper. Paper doesn't lie, but my emotions sometimes cloud my thinking.
usr : My other problem is that I'm a perfectionist. I tend to over-analyze and get bogged down, especially when doing research.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Another idea is rewards, when you finish one goal, perhaps put a reward for yourself, a yogurt with sprinkles or something like that
| (Self-disclosure) You sound like me! I had to learn that I need to strive for EXCELLENCE, not perfection. Perfection will drain us. Do the best I can, leave the rest to God. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.
usr : That sounds like a good idea regarding putting it down on paper.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then as you check off items, you will see you are moving, even if at a snail's pace, you are moving, and that always encourages me. Sometimes I do not realize how much I AM doing, until I see it on paper. Paper doesn't lie, but my emotions sometimes cloud my thinking.
usr : My other problem is that I'm a perfectionist. I tend to over-analyze and get bogged down, especially when doing research.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Another idea is rewards, when you finish one goal, perhaps put a reward for yourself, a yogurt with sprinkles or something like that
sys : (Self-disclosure) You sound like me! I had to learn that I need to strive for EXCELLENCE, not perfection. Perfection will drain us. Do the best I can, leave the rest to God.
| (Information) That is why a time line is good. For example, you make a goal that you will work on your reference and citation page for one hour, after that, you are DONE, If you have time at the end, you can revisit it. The hour is my suggestion, you make your own. lol THAT way, you don't get caught going on and on for 6 hours to make it perfect. One hour is reasonable. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.
usr : That sounds like a good idea regarding putting it down on paper.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then as you check off items, you will see you are moving, even if at a snail's pace, you are moving, and that always encourages me. Sometimes I do not realize how much I AM doing, until I see it on paper. Paper doesn't lie, but my emotions sometimes cloud my thinking.
usr : My other problem is that I'm a perfectionist. I tend to over-analyze and get bogged down, especially when doing research.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Another idea is rewards, when you finish one goal, perhaps put a reward for yourself, a yogurt with sprinkles or something like that
sys : (Self-disclosure) You sound like me! I had to learn that I need to strive for EXCELLENCE, not perfection. Perfection will drain us. Do the best I can, leave the rest to God.
sys : (Information) That is why a time line is good. For example, you make a goal that you will work on your reference and citation page for one hour, after that, you are DONE, If you have time at the end, you can revisit it. The hour is my suggestion, you make your own. lol THAT way, you don't get caught going on and on for 6 hours to make it perfect. One hour is reasonable.
usr : That definitely sounds reasonable. Putting micro deadlines in might be what I need to do to keep me focused.
| (Self-disclosure) I do this with EVERYTHING in life because I tend to go on and on too focused and lose track of everything. lol For example, I clean each room for 15 minutes a week. If it needs more, I do more, but I set the timer and you would be surprised how well that works, otherwise, I will spend all my time perfecting one room and the rest is a mess. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.
usr : That sounds like a good idea regarding putting it down on paper.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then as you check off items, you will see you are moving, even if at a snail's pace, you are moving, and that always encourages me. Sometimes I do not realize how much I AM doing, until I see it on paper. Paper doesn't lie, but my emotions sometimes cloud my thinking.
usr : My other problem is that I'm a perfectionist. I tend to over-analyze and get bogged down, especially when doing research.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Another idea is rewards, when you finish one goal, perhaps put a reward for yourself, a yogurt with sprinkles or something like that
sys : (Self-disclosure) You sound like me! I had to learn that I need to strive for EXCELLENCE, not perfection. Perfection will drain us. Do the best I can, leave the rest to God.
sys : (Information) That is why a time line is good. For example, you make a goal that you will work on your reference and citation page for one hour, after that, you are DONE, If you have time at the end, you can revisit it. The hour is my suggestion, you make your own. lol THAT way, you don't get caught going on and on for 6 hours to make it perfect. One hour is reasonable.
usr : That definitely sounds reasonable. Putting micro deadlines in might be what I need to do to keep me focused.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do this with EVERYTHING in life because I tend to go on and on too focused and lose track of everything. lol For example, I clean each room for 15 minutes a week. If it needs more, I do more, but I set the timer and you would be surprised how well that works, otherwise, I will spend all my time perfecting one room and the rest is a mess.
| (Information) Also, your Advisor will know tips to help you too. She has advised a lot of people, her objectivity and experience can give get RIGHT to the heart of any problem, quickly too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.
usr : That sounds like a good idea regarding putting it down on paper.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then as you check off items, you will see you are moving, even if at a snail's pace, you are moving, and that always encourages me. Sometimes I do not realize how much I AM doing, until I see it on paper. Paper doesn't lie, but my emotions sometimes cloud my thinking.
usr : My other problem is that I'm a perfectionist. I tend to over-analyze and get bogged down, especially when doing research.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Another idea is rewards, when you finish one goal, perhaps put a reward for yourself, a yogurt with sprinkles or something like that
sys : (Self-disclosure) You sound like me! I had to learn that I need to strive for EXCELLENCE, not perfection. Perfection will drain us. Do the best I can, leave the rest to God.
sys : (Information) That is why a time line is good. For example, you make a goal that you will work on your reference and citation page for one hour, after that, you are DONE, If you have time at the end, you can revisit it. The hour is my suggestion, you make your own. lol THAT way, you don't get caught going on and on for 6 hours to make it perfect. One hour is reasonable.
usr : That definitely sounds reasonable. Putting micro deadlines in might be what I need to do to keep me focused.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do this with EVERYTHING in life because I tend to go on and on too focused and lose track of everything. lol For example, I clean each room for 15 minutes a week. If it needs more, I do more, but I set the timer and you would be surprised how well that works, otherwise, I will spend all my time perfecting one room and the rest is a mess.
sys : (Information) Also, your Advisor will know tips to help you too. She has advised a lot of people, her objectivity and experience can give get RIGHT to the heart of any problem, quickly too.
usr : My advisor is a tough woman, I'm not going to beat around the bush. She tends to make everything miserable.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tough advisors are TOUGH. lol But You sound intelligent and you obviously WANT to do this, it is a goal of yours, I'm sure you can take it! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have been procrastinating on my senior thesis, and the pending deadline is making me extremely nervous and on-edge.". | sys : (Question) Hello there! How can I encourage you today?
sys : (Question) Hello? Anyone there?
usr : Hi sorry
usr : I'm having trouble getting motivated to finish my senior thesis
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?
usr : In about a month.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way.
sys : (Question) Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?
usr : Yes, but I've been really bad about keeping her in the loop. I feel bad when I fall behind, and then I'm fearful of getting back in touch with her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.
usr : That sounds like a good idea regarding putting it down on paper.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Then as you check off items, you will see you are moving, even if at a snail's pace, you are moving, and that always encourages me. Sometimes I do not realize how much I AM doing, until I see it on paper. Paper doesn't lie, but my emotions sometimes cloud my thinking.
usr : My other problem is that I'm a perfectionist. I tend to over-analyze and get bogged down, especially when doing research.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Another idea is rewards, when you finish one goal, perhaps put a reward for yourself, a yogurt with sprinkles or something like that
sys : (Self-disclosure) You sound like me! I had to learn that I need to strive for EXCELLENCE, not perfection. Perfection will drain us. Do the best I can, leave the rest to God.
sys : (Information) That is why a time line is good. For example, you make a goal that you will work on your reference and citation page for one hour, after that, you are DONE, If you have time at the end, you can revisit it. The hour is my suggestion, you make your own. lol THAT way, you don't get caught going on and on for 6 hours to make it perfect. One hour is reasonable.
usr : That definitely sounds reasonable. Putting micro deadlines in might be what I need to do to keep me focused.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I do this with EVERYTHING in life because I tend to go on and on too focused and lose track of everything. lol For example, I clean each room for 15 minutes a week. If it needs more, I do more, but I set the timer and you would be surprised how well that works, otherwise, I will spend all my time perfecting one room and the rest is a mess.
sys : (Information) Also, your Advisor will know tips to help you too. She has advised a lot of people, her objectivity and experience can give get RIGHT to the heart of any problem, quickly too.
usr : My advisor is a tough woman, I'm not going to beat around the bush. She tends to make everything miserable.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tough advisors are TOUGH. lol But You sound intelligent and you obviously WANT to do this, it is a goal of yours, I'm sure you can take it!
usr : I'll try to keep that in mind. It's something I do feel like I need to finish for my own sake.
| (Others) It is only one more month of your life. If you buckle down, it will be over and done with before you know it. And I assure you, you will look back in pride at your accomplishments! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | (Question) Hello How can I help u today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
| (Question) Hello? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
| (Question) Can you please state your issue? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
| (Question) Sure, How can I help you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
| (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
| (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
| (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
| (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
| (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
| (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
| (Information) You can learn a lot on there |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
| (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
sys : (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure
usr : ok I've never heard of skillshare, is that a website where you can get more information about work based qualifications etc?
| (Others) I think so |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
sys : (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure
usr : ok I've never heard of skillshare, is that a website where you can get more information about work based qualifications etc?
sys : (Others) I think so
| (Others) Doesn't hurt to check them out. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
sys : (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure
usr : ok I've never heard of skillshare, is that a website where you can get more information about work based qualifications etc?
sys : (Others) I think so
sys : (Others) Doesn't hurt to check them out.
usr : yeah that's very true. I've never heard of that before so thanks for the tip.
| (Question) Youre welcome |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
sys : (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure
usr : ok I've never heard of skillshare, is that a website where you can get more information about work based qualifications etc?
sys : (Others) I think so
sys : (Others) Doesn't hurt to check them out.
usr : yeah that's very true. I've never heard of that before so thanks for the tip.
sys : (Question) Youre welcome
| (Question) Is there anything else I can help you with today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
sys : (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure
usr : ok I've never heard of skillshare, is that a website where you can get more information about work based qualifications etc?
sys : (Others) I think so
sys : (Others) Doesn't hurt to check them out.
usr : yeah that's very true. I've never heard of that before so thanks for the tip.
sys : (Question) Youre welcome
sys : (Question) Is there anything else I can help you with today?
usr : also I'm not sure why this is making me feel so angry I think it's the stress of the situation. you mentioned what I can do to relax at the end of the day, do you think this will help see things more clearly?
| (Information) Skill share can help you learn new skills and try out yoga or mediation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
sys : (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure
usr : ok I've never heard of skillshare, is that a website where you can get more information about work based qualifications etc?
sys : (Others) I think so
sys : (Others) Doesn't hurt to check them out.
usr : yeah that's very true. I've never heard of that before so thanks for the tip.
sys : (Question) Youre welcome
sys : (Question) Is there anything else I can help you with today?
usr : also I'm not sure why this is making me feel so angry I think it's the stress of the situation. you mentioned what I can do to relax at the end of the day, do you think this will help see things more clearly?
sys : (Information) Skill share can help you learn new skills and try out yoga or mediation.
usr : yeah I read that yoga I can be really good for your health and your mental well-being.
| (Information) There is an app called Calm that you can use for free or you can pay for it to unlock new features. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
sys : (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure
usr : ok I've never heard of skillshare, is that a website where you can get more information about work based qualifications etc?
sys : (Others) I think so
sys : (Others) Doesn't hurt to check them out.
usr : yeah that's very true. I've never heard of that before so thanks for the tip.
sys : (Question) Youre welcome
sys : (Question) Is there anything else I can help you with today?
usr : also I'm not sure why this is making me feel so angry I think it's the stress of the situation. you mentioned what I can do to relax at the end of the day, do you think this will help see things more clearly?
sys : (Information) Skill share can help you learn new skills and try out yoga or mediation.
usr : yeah I read that yoga I can be really good for your health and your mental well-being.
sys : (Information) There is an app called Calm that you can use for free or you can pay for it to unlock new features.
| (Reflection of feelings) It can and it keeps you fit |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
sys : (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure
usr : ok I've never heard of skillshare, is that a website where you can get more information about work based qualifications etc?
sys : (Others) I think so
sys : (Others) Doesn't hurt to check them out.
usr : yeah that's very true. I've never heard of that before so thanks for the tip.
sys : (Question) Youre welcome
sys : (Question) Is there anything else I can help you with today?
usr : also I'm not sure why this is making me feel so angry I think it's the stress of the situation. you mentioned what I can do to relax at the end of the day, do you think this will help see things more clearly?
sys : (Information) Skill share can help you learn new skills and try out yoga or mediation.
usr : yeah I read that yoga I can be really good for your health and your mental well-being.
sys : (Information) There is an app called Calm that you can use for free or you can pay for it to unlock new features.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can and it keeps you fit
usr : I didn't realise there was so much support available. thanks again for the suggestions!
| (Question) You are welcome anything else I can help with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I want to get a proper qualification know work but I can't seem to find a course that meets my needs whilst I'm working . I can't afford to quit and I feel stuck.". | sys : (Question) Hello How can I help u today?
sys : (Question) Hello?
sys : (Question) Can you please state your issue?
usr : Have there, I have a work issue that I'm hoping you can help me with
sys : (Question) Sure, How can I help you?
usr : I want to get a qualification but I'm working full-time at the moment and I also work very long hours. the problem is the courses that I want to do a huge time commitment. I'm really angry that I can't seem to get better qualifications to improve my life, because I need to work and need the income to keep me going. I feel stuck and don't know how to get past this.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.
sys : (Question) Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?
sys : (Question) Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?
usr : you are right this is very stressful. I've gotten used to the steady income and now we lie on it. the problem is I do work quite late hours so have limited time to study. any suggestions?
sys : (Others) I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.
usr : Perhaps I can ask for a different shift pattern yes, or reduce my hours. I may need to take a look at my finances and do a bit of recalculating. Have you ever had a situation like this?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I have not but I know people who are in your situation.
usr : I wonder if there are courses and qualifications that you can get just by studying maybe an hour a day or an hour every other day?
sys : (Information) I would look on sites like Skill share.
sys : (Information) You can learn a lot on there
sys : (Information) There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure
usr : ok I've never heard of skillshare, is that a website where you can get more information about work based qualifications etc?
sys : (Others) I think so
sys : (Others) Doesn't hurt to check them out.
usr : yeah that's very true. I've never heard of that before so thanks for the tip.
sys : (Question) Youre welcome
sys : (Question) Is there anything else I can help you with today?
usr : also I'm not sure why this is making me feel so angry I think it's the stress of the situation. you mentioned what I can do to relax at the end of the day, do you think this will help see things more clearly?
sys : (Information) Skill share can help you learn new skills and try out yoga or mediation.
usr : yeah I read that yoga I can be really good for your health and your mental well-being.
sys : (Information) There is an app called Calm that you can use for free or you can pay for it to unlock new features.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It can and it keeps you fit
usr : I didn't realise there was so much support available. thanks again for the suggestions!
sys : (Question) You are welcome anything else I can help with?
usr : No that's great. Thanks for your help
| (Others) Youre welcome have a nice day/night! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
| (Question) I am doing good. How are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
sys : (Question) I am doing good. How are you?
usr : I'm ok, I could be better. I'm trying to find a job currently.
| (Question) What kind of jobs are you looking for? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
sys : (Question) I am doing good. How are you?
usr : I'm ok, I could be better. I'm trying to find a job currently.
sys : (Question) What kind of jobs are you looking for?
usr : Anything involving my college degree. But when I do get to the interview stage, I feel like I don't know anything. I feel like an imposter.
| (Question) Was it a phone interview or in-person interview? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
sys : (Question) I am doing good. How are you?
usr : I'm ok, I could be better. I'm trying to find a job currently.
sys : (Question) What kind of jobs are you looking for?
usr : Anything involving my college degree. But when I do get to the interview stage, I feel like I don't know anything. I feel like an imposter.
sys : (Question) Was it a phone interview or in-person interview?
usr : In-person.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, you are good with initial assessment and phone interview, and get uncomfortable during in-person interview, is that correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
sys : (Question) I am doing good. How are you?
usr : I'm ok, I could be better. I'm trying to find a job currently.
sys : (Question) What kind of jobs are you looking for?
usr : Anything involving my college degree. But when I do get to the interview stage, I feel like I don't know anything. I feel like an imposter.
sys : (Question) Was it a phone interview or in-person interview?
usr : In-person.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, you are good with initial assessment and phone interview, and get uncomfortable during in-person interview, is that correct?
usr : Yes, I stumble over my words, I tend to ramble, and I'm afraid I don't even answer the questions the way they are looking for.
| (Question) Have you tried anything yet to overcome this challenge? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
sys : (Question) I am doing good. How are you?
usr : I'm ok, I could be better. I'm trying to find a job currently.
sys : (Question) What kind of jobs are you looking for?
usr : Anything involving my college degree. But when I do get to the interview stage, I feel like I don't know anything. I feel like an imposter.
sys : (Question) Was it a phone interview or in-person interview?
usr : In-person.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, you are good with initial assessment and phone interview, and get uncomfortable during in-person interview, is that correct?
usr : Yes, I stumble over my words, I tend to ramble, and I'm afraid I don't even answer the questions the way they are looking for.
sys : (Question) Have you tried anything yet to overcome this challenge?
usr : I try to prep myself beforehand by having lines ready for the common questions asked. But I struggle with questions where they present scenarios to me.
| (Providing Suggestions) There are several technics people use.. first one you can dress up as you are going for interview and practice talking in front of a mirror. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
sys : (Question) I am doing good. How are you?
usr : I'm ok, I could be better. I'm trying to find a job currently.
sys : (Question) What kind of jobs are you looking for?
usr : Anything involving my college degree. But when I do get to the interview stage, I feel like I don't know anything. I feel like an imposter.
sys : (Question) Was it a phone interview or in-person interview?
usr : In-person.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, you are good with initial assessment and phone interview, and get uncomfortable during in-person interview, is that correct?
usr : Yes, I stumble over my words, I tend to ramble, and I'm afraid I don't even answer the questions the way they are looking for.
sys : (Question) Have you tried anything yet to overcome this challenge?
usr : I try to prep myself beforehand by having lines ready for the common questions asked. But I struggle with questions where they present scenarios to me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are several technics people use.. first one you can dress up as you are going for interview and practice talking in front of a mirror.
usr : I really like that suggestion, I will have to try it. Do you have any difficulties with interviews?
| (Providing Suggestions) Not really, but I used one other technique. I asked my wife/gf to interview me. You know spouse or gf/bf would be very critical, and if you overcome him/her.. you would be very comfortable in front of the others. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
sys : (Question) I am doing good. How are you?
usr : I'm ok, I could be better. I'm trying to find a job currently.
sys : (Question) What kind of jobs are you looking for?
usr : Anything involving my college degree. But when I do get to the interview stage, I feel like I don't know anything. I feel like an imposter.
sys : (Question) Was it a phone interview or in-person interview?
usr : In-person.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, you are good with initial assessment and phone interview, and get uncomfortable during in-person interview, is that correct?
usr : Yes, I stumble over my words, I tend to ramble, and I'm afraid I don't even answer the questions the way they are looking for.
sys : (Question) Have you tried anything yet to overcome this challenge?
usr : I try to prep myself beforehand by having lines ready for the common questions asked. But I struggle with questions where they present scenarios to me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are several technics people use.. first one you can dress up as you are going for interview and practice talking in front of a mirror.
usr : I really like that suggestion, I will have to try it. Do you have any difficulties with interviews?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Not really, but I used one other technique. I asked my wife/gf to interview me. You know spouse or gf/bf would be very critical, and if you overcome him/her.. you would be very comfortable in front of the others.
usr : That makes a lot of sense, I'll have to ask my husband to interview me. I'm feeling a lot better about this now, thank you :)
usr : Did you ever feel silly or out of place when your wife would interview you?
| (Reflection of feelings) yes, making your self uncomfortable means you are learning |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
sys : (Question) I am doing good. How are you?
usr : I'm ok, I could be better. I'm trying to find a job currently.
sys : (Question) What kind of jobs are you looking for?
usr : Anything involving my college degree. But when I do get to the interview stage, I feel like I don't know anything. I feel like an imposter.
sys : (Question) Was it a phone interview or in-person interview?
usr : In-person.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, you are good with initial assessment and phone interview, and get uncomfortable during in-person interview, is that correct?
usr : Yes, I stumble over my words, I tend to ramble, and I'm afraid I don't even answer the questions the way they are looking for.
sys : (Question) Have you tried anything yet to overcome this challenge?
usr : I try to prep myself beforehand by having lines ready for the common questions asked. But I struggle with questions where they present scenarios to me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are several technics people use.. first one you can dress up as you are going for interview and practice talking in front of a mirror.
usr : I really like that suggestion, I will have to try it. Do you have any difficulties with interviews?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Not really, but I used one other technique. I asked my wife/gf to interview me. You know spouse or gf/bf would be very critical, and if you overcome him/her.. you would be very comfortable in front of the others.
usr : That makes a lot of sense, I'll have to ask my husband to interview me. I'm feeling a lot better about this now, thank you :)
usr : Did you ever feel silly or out of place when your wife would interview you?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) yes, making your self uncomfortable means you are learning
usr : I have never thought about it like that.
usr : That makes a lot of sense, I'm going to keep that in mind in all aspects of my life.
| (Information) Yes, this is make you over come the fear. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Don't feel qualified for job I am applying for.". | usr : Hey there, how's it going?
sys : (Question) I am doing good. How are you?
usr : I'm ok, I could be better. I'm trying to find a job currently.
sys : (Question) What kind of jobs are you looking for?
usr : Anything involving my college degree. But when I do get to the interview stage, I feel like I don't know anything. I feel like an imposter.
sys : (Question) Was it a phone interview or in-person interview?
usr : In-person.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) so, you are good with initial assessment and phone interview, and get uncomfortable during in-person interview, is that correct?
usr : Yes, I stumble over my words, I tend to ramble, and I'm afraid I don't even answer the questions the way they are looking for.
sys : (Question) Have you tried anything yet to overcome this challenge?
usr : I try to prep myself beforehand by having lines ready for the common questions asked. But I struggle with questions where they present scenarios to me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are several technics people use.. first one you can dress up as you are going for interview and practice talking in front of a mirror.
usr : I really like that suggestion, I will have to try it. Do you have any difficulties with interviews?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Not really, but I used one other technique. I asked my wife/gf to interview me. You know spouse or gf/bf would be very critical, and if you overcome him/her.. you would be very comfortable in front of the others.
usr : That makes a lot of sense, I'll have to ask my husband to interview me. I'm feeling a lot better about this now, thank you :)
usr : Did you ever feel silly or out of place when your wife would interview you?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) yes, making your self uncomfortable means you are learning
usr : I have never thought about it like that.
usr : That makes a lot of sense, I'm going to keep that in mind in all aspects of my life.
sys : (Information) Yes, this is make you over come the fear.
usr : Yeah, I do let fear take control of most of my decision making. That's something I can work on, too. Thank you bird-person
| (Providing Suggestions) Is there something else I can help you with? If not can you close the discussion? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
| (Question) Hello. How are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.
usr : that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch
usr : she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$
usr : before I know, she requested for my bank details
usr : last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.
usr : that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch
usr : she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$
usr : before I know, she requested for my bank details
usr : last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.
usr : I called her no not reacheable
usr : chatted her up not replyig
| (Reflection of feelings) Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.
usr : that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch
usr : she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$
usr : before I know, she requested for my bank details
usr : last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.
usr : I called her no not reacheable
usr : chatted her up not replyig
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start.
usr : she is a bitch
usr : I was lost
usr : thanks to my bank manager, that make my eyes to open
| (Reflection of feelings) That person is just a scammer. They probably reach out to hundreds of potential victims every day, waiting for someone to bite. I'm sorry you were taken in by them. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.
usr : that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch
usr : she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$
usr : before I know, she requested for my bank details
usr : last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.
usr : I called her no not reacheable
usr : chatted her up not replyig
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start.
usr : she is a bitch
usr : I was lost
usr : thanks to my bank manager, that make my eyes to open
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That person is just a scammer. They probably reach out to hundreds of potential victims every day, waiting for someone to bite. I'm sorry you were taken in by them.
| (Question) Were you able to recover any of your loss? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.
usr : that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch
usr : she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$
usr : before I know, she requested for my bank details
usr : last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.
usr : I called her no not reacheable
usr : chatted her up not replyig
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start.
usr : she is a bitch
usr : I was lost
usr : thanks to my bank manager, that make my eyes to open
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That person is just a scammer. They probably reach out to hundreds of potential victims every day, waiting for someone to bite. I'm sorry you were taken in by them.
sys : (Question) Were you able to recover any of your loss?
usr : i can believe now
usr : if u tell me two months ago I will never accept what you are saying
usr : thanks for your time
| (Reflection of feelings) Scams like that have been going on for years. They just change how they go about it and what platform they use. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.
usr : that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch
usr : she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$
usr : before I know, she requested for my bank details
usr : last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.
usr : I called her no not reacheable
usr : chatted her up not replyig
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start.
usr : she is a bitch
usr : I was lost
usr : thanks to my bank manager, that make my eyes to open
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That person is just a scammer. They probably reach out to hundreds of potential victims every day, waiting for someone to bite. I'm sorry you were taken in by them.
sys : (Question) Were you able to recover any of your loss?
usr : i can believe now
usr : if u tell me two months ago I will never accept what you are saying
usr : thanks for your time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Scams like that have been going on for years. They just change how they go about it and what platform they use.
| (Others) You're very welcome. Please be more careful in future. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.
usr : that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch
usr : she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$
usr : before I know, she requested for my bank details
usr : last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.
usr : I called her no not reacheable
usr : chatted her up not replyig
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start.
usr : she is a bitch
usr : I was lost
usr : thanks to my bank manager, that make my eyes to open
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That person is just a scammer. They probably reach out to hundreds of potential victims every day, waiting for someone to bite. I'm sorry you were taken in by them.
sys : (Question) Were you able to recover any of your loss?
usr : i can believe now
usr : if u tell me two months ago I will never accept what you are saying
usr : thanks for your time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Scams like that have been going on for years. They just change how they go about it and what platform they use.
sys : (Others) You're very welcome. Please be more careful in future.
usr : okay
usr : bye
| (Others) I do hope you were able to recover your loss. I wish you luck and hope you can find someone honest and true. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.
usr : that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch
usr : she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$
usr : before I know, she requested for my bank details
usr : last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.
usr : I called her no not reacheable
usr : chatted her up not replyig
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start.
usr : she is a bitch
usr : I was lost
usr : thanks to my bank manager, that make my eyes to open
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That person is just a scammer. They probably reach out to hundreds of potential victims every day, waiting for someone to bite. I'm sorry you were taken in by them.
sys : (Question) Were you able to recover any of your loss?
usr : i can believe now
usr : if u tell me two months ago I will never accept what you are saying
usr : thanks for your time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Scams like that have been going on for years. They just change how they go about it and what platform they use.
sys : (Others) You're very welcome. Please be more careful in future.
usr : okay
usr : bye
sys : (Others) I do hope you were able to recover your loss. I wish you luck and hope you can find someone honest and true.
usr : I love your time
usr : amen
| (Others) Goodbye. Have a good night. I hope you feel better. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I did a very disgusting thing, I dated online without know, who is she, she tricked me with her naked pictures and I fell into her hand by sent 4000 dollar to her". | usr : hello
sys : (Question) Hello. How are you?
usr : I need to confide on someone, I just need to say it out so I can be relieve
usr : we met on instagram
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.
usr : that bitchtold me that she is from Cananda, and she will soon come to USA, i do tell her I love her, she will send different naked pictures of herself, I did'nt know she is a bitch
usr : she fuck defraud me with almost 4000$
usr : before I know, she requested for my bank details
usr : last two weeks my bank called me to come that someone is trying to access my account
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.
usr : I called her no not reacheable
usr : chatted her up not replyig
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start.
usr : she is a bitch
usr : I was lost
usr : thanks to my bank manager, that make my eyes to open
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That person is just a scammer. They probably reach out to hundreds of potential victims every day, waiting for someone to bite. I'm sorry you were taken in by them.
sys : (Question) Were you able to recover any of your loss?
usr : i can believe now
usr : if u tell me two months ago I will never accept what you are saying
usr : thanks for your time
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Scams like that have been going on for years. They just change how they go about it and what platform they use.
sys : (Others) You're very welcome. Please be more careful in future.
usr : okay
usr : bye
sys : (Others) I do hope you were able to recover your loss. I wish you luck and hope you can find someone honest and true.
usr : I love your time
usr : amen
sys : (Others) Goodbye. Have a good night. I hope you feel better.
usr : i really love your confidence
usr : that m oney has gone
| (Information) Oh, I'm so sorry. At least you won't ever fall for something like that again... |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
| (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?
usr : I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?
usr : I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that.
usr : I did it one time but it did not made a difference! I kept getting rejected from every company! It's like there is no place for me
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?
usr : I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that.
usr : I did it one time but it did not made a difference! I kept getting rejected from every company! It's like there is no place for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in?
usr : I'm currently looking on the NYC area, because it's not an option to move out!
| (Information) NYC probably has lots of jobs but it's probably also a competitive place, with lots of skilled workers. What kind of job are you looking for? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?
usr : I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that.
usr : I did it one time but it did not made a difference! I kept getting rejected from every company! It's like there is no place for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in?
usr : I'm currently looking on the NYC area, because it's not an option to move out!
sys : (Information) NYC probably has lots of jobs but it's probably also a competitive place, with lots of skilled workers. What kind of job are you looking for?
usr : I'm an Anaesthesiologist and i have a fellow on Regional Anaesthesia and Acute Pain Management
| (Information) Is it harder to find work because of the pandemic? This is an unusual situation for health care. Things might change for the labor market in the next few months. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?
usr : I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that.
usr : I did it one time but it did not made a difference! I kept getting rejected from every company! It's like there is no place for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in?
usr : I'm currently looking on the NYC area, because it's not an option to move out!
sys : (Information) NYC probably has lots of jobs but it's probably also a competitive place, with lots of skilled workers. What kind of job are you looking for?
usr : I'm an Anaesthesiologist and i have a fellow on Regional Anaesthesia and Acute Pain Management
sys : (Information) Is it harder to find work because of the pandemic? This is an unusual situation for health care. Things might change for the labor market in the next few months.
usr : Yes i know it has been difficult for everyone! I try to calm down and tell to myself that this are hard time for all of us and that i just have to keep going forward
| (Question) Ok, how is your life going outside of the work search? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?
usr : I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that.
usr : I did it one time but it did not made a difference! I kept getting rejected from every company! It's like there is no place for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in?
usr : I'm currently looking on the NYC area, because it's not an option to move out!
sys : (Information) NYC probably has lots of jobs but it's probably also a competitive place, with lots of skilled workers. What kind of job are you looking for?
usr : I'm an Anaesthesiologist and i have a fellow on Regional Anaesthesia and Acute Pain Management
sys : (Information) Is it harder to find work because of the pandemic? This is an unusual situation for health care. Things might change for the labor market in the next few months.
usr : Yes i know it has been difficult for everyone! I try to calm down and tell to myself that this are hard time for all of us and that i just have to keep going forward
sys : (Question) Ok, how is your life going outside of the work search?
usr : My wife and I have been arguing a lot, she's pregnant and that makes the whole situation more difficult
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a challenging situation for anyone! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?
usr : I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that.
usr : I did it one time but it did not made a difference! I kept getting rejected from every company! It's like there is no place for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in?
usr : I'm currently looking on the NYC area, because it's not an option to move out!
sys : (Information) NYC probably has lots of jobs but it's probably also a competitive place, with lots of skilled workers. What kind of job are you looking for?
usr : I'm an Anaesthesiologist and i have a fellow on Regional Anaesthesia and Acute Pain Management
sys : (Information) Is it harder to find work because of the pandemic? This is an unusual situation for health care. Things might change for the labor market in the next few months.
usr : Yes i know it has been difficult for everyone! I try to calm down and tell to myself that this are hard time for all of us and that i just have to keep going forward
sys : (Question) Ok, how is your life going outside of the work search?
usr : My wife and I have been arguing a lot, she's pregnant and that makes the whole situation more difficult
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a challenging situation for anyone!
usr : Yes I know! We've been able to keep things going because i had some savings and she is currently working at home! But expenses keep summing up
| (Providing Suggestions) Is there temporary work that you might be able to do from home for the time being? It might not pay as well as medicine, but it could help with the bills. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?
usr : I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that.
usr : I did it one time but it did not made a difference! I kept getting rejected from every company! It's like there is no place for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in?
usr : I'm currently looking on the NYC area, because it's not an option to move out!
sys : (Information) NYC probably has lots of jobs but it's probably also a competitive place, with lots of skilled workers. What kind of job are you looking for?
usr : I'm an Anaesthesiologist and i have a fellow on Regional Anaesthesia and Acute Pain Management
sys : (Information) Is it harder to find work because of the pandemic? This is an unusual situation for health care. Things might change for the labor market in the next few months.
usr : Yes i know it has been difficult for everyone! I try to calm down and tell to myself that this are hard time for all of us and that i just have to keep going forward
sys : (Question) Ok, how is your life going outside of the work search?
usr : My wife and I have been arguing a lot, she's pregnant and that makes the whole situation more difficult
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a challenging situation for anyone!
usr : Yes I know! We've been able to keep things going because i had some savings and she is currently working at home! But expenses keep summing up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there temporary work that you might be able to do from home for the time being? It might not pay as well as medicine, but it could help with the bills.
usr : I haven't think about that option until now, I guess my mind was set on getting the job I've always dreamed of and didn't look at other options that might help my situation
| (Reflection of feelings) That's understandable. You've trained for a job and you want to get the job. I think that in the long term, you will be able to achieve that! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I have not been able to find a job". | sys : (Others) Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
usr : Hi! I have been feeling really sad the last couple of months!
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?
usr : I haven't been able to find a decent job in a long time! I have great credentials but i doesn't matter what I do I never get called back!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that.
usr : I did it one time but it did not made a difference! I kept getting rejected from every company! It's like there is no place for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in?
usr : I'm currently looking on the NYC area, because it's not an option to move out!
sys : (Information) NYC probably has lots of jobs but it's probably also a competitive place, with lots of skilled workers. What kind of job are you looking for?
usr : I'm an Anaesthesiologist and i have a fellow on Regional Anaesthesia and Acute Pain Management
sys : (Information) Is it harder to find work because of the pandemic? This is an unusual situation for health care. Things might change for the labor market in the next few months.
usr : Yes i know it has been difficult for everyone! I try to calm down and tell to myself that this are hard time for all of us and that i just have to keep going forward
sys : (Question) Ok, how is your life going outside of the work search?
usr : My wife and I have been arguing a lot, she's pregnant and that makes the whole situation more difficult
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a challenging situation for anyone!
usr : Yes I know! We've been able to keep things going because i had some savings and she is currently working at home! But expenses keep summing up
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there temporary work that you might be able to do from home for the time being? It might not pay as well as medicine, but it could help with the bills.
usr : I haven't think about that option until now, I guess my mind was set on getting the job I've always dreamed of and didn't look at other options that might help my situation
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's understandable. You've trained for a job and you want to get the job. I think that in the long term, you will be able to achieve that!
usr : I am! But for now I guess I will just focus on finding a job to help with the bill and keep trying as hard as I can to find a job on my field!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea. I think that you can find something in the short-term. Companies are always looking for capable employees. |
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