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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
| (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
| (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
sys : (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
usr : No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
| (Self-disclosure) there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
sys : (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
usr : No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
sys : (Self-disclosure) there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.
usr : Did you have any suggestions
| (Information) there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
sys : (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
usr : No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
sys : (Self-disclosure) there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.
usr : Did you have any suggestions
sys : (Information) there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric
usr : Would they help with food and clothing
| (Information) yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
sys : (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
usr : No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
sys : (Self-disclosure) there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.
usr : Did you have any suggestions
sys : (Information) there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric
usr : Would they help with food and clothing
sys : (Information) yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff
usr : Yes that's great I will look into that because I do need help with a lot of different services and I wasn't aware that services were still available
| (Providing Suggestions) with the recent change in our economy i have found that there are many places willing to help , things are not hopless and it sounds like you are motuvated |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
sys : (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
usr : No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
sys : (Self-disclosure) there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.
usr : Did you have any suggestions
sys : (Information) there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric
usr : Would they help with food and clothing
sys : (Information) yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff
usr : Yes that's great I will look into that because I do need help with a lot of different services and I wasn't aware that services were still available
sys : (Providing Suggestions) with the recent change in our economy i have found that there are many places willing to help , things are not hopless and it sounds like you are motuvated
| (Others) motivated |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
sys : (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
usr : No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
sys : (Self-disclosure) there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.
usr : Did you have any suggestions
sys : (Information) there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric
usr : Would they help with food and clothing
sys : (Information) yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff
usr : Yes that's great I will look into that because I do need help with a lot of different services and I wasn't aware that services were still available
sys : (Providing Suggestions) with the recent change in our economy i have found that there are many places willing to help , things are not hopless and it sounds like you are motuvated
sys : (Others) motivated
usr : Yes I'm I'm very motivated continue my path of success
| (Providing Suggestions) thats great !! in the meantime, have you tried talking to your partner about the situation and asking her to help out ? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
sys : (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
usr : No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
sys : (Self-disclosure) there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.
usr : Did you have any suggestions
sys : (Information) there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric
usr : Would they help with food and clothing
sys : (Information) yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff
usr : Yes that's great I will look into that because I do need help with a lot of different services and I wasn't aware that services were still available
sys : (Providing Suggestions) with the recent change in our economy i have found that there are many places willing to help , things are not hopless and it sounds like you are motuvated
sys : (Others) motivated
usr : Yes I'm I'm very motivated continue my path of success
sys : (Providing Suggestions) thats great !! in the meantime, have you tried talking to your partner about the situation and asking her to help out ?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds to me like you are willing to do what it takes to be sucsessfull |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
sys : (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
usr : No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
sys : (Self-disclosure) there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.
usr : Did you have any suggestions
sys : (Information) there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric
usr : Would they help with food and clothing
sys : (Information) yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff
usr : Yes that's great I will look into that because I do need help with a lot of different services and I wasn't aware that services were still available
sys : (Providing Suggestions) with the recent change in our economy i have found that there are many places willing to help , things are not hopless and it sounds like you are motuvated
sys : (Others) motivated
usr : Yes I'm I'm very motivated continue my path of success
sys : (Providing Suggestions) thats great !! in the meantime, have you tried talking to your partner about the situation and asking her to help out ?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds to me like you are willing to do what it takes to be sucsessfull
usr : She refuses to help out with anything but when the paycheck comes she's ready to spend it
| (Reflection of feelings) oh im sorry to hear that, how does that make you feel? also there are also many midfullness activities you can use to reduce your level of stress and axiety like meditation |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My partner broke up with me and I'm really upset about this we've been together for 4 years and all of a sudden they decided that they didn't want to continue the relationship". | sys : (Others) hello, how are you tonight ?
usr : Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
usr : I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
sys : (Question) was there an argument
usr : Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
usr : My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
usr : I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
usr : What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
sys : (Others) This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
usr : No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
sys : (Self-disclosure) there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.
usr : Did you have any suggestions
sys : (Information) there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric
usr : Would they help with food and clothing
sys : (Information) yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff
usr : Yes that's great I will look into that because I do need help with a lot of different services and I wasn't aware that services were still available
sys : (Providing Suggestions) with the recent change in our economy i have found that there are many places willing to help , things are not hopless and it sounds like you are motuvated
sys : (Others) motivated
usr : Yes I'm I'm very motivated continue my path of success
sys : (Providing Suggestions) thats great !! in the meantime, have you tried talking to your partner about the situation and asking her to help out ?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it sounds to me like you are willing to do what it takes to be sucsessfull
usr : She refuses to help out with anything but when the paycheck comes she's ready to spend it
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh im sorry to hear that, how does that make you feel? also there are also many midfullness activities you can use to reduce your level of stress and axiety like meditation
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) its really hard to do everything all by yourself. It seems like you are a good person with a good heart. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | (Question) Hello how are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
| (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
sys : (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
usr : my love is broken up
usr : she left me alonr
| (Providing Suggestions) I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
sys : (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
usr : my love is broken up
usr : she left me alonr
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.
usr : but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years
usr : suddenly she left me
| (Question) I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
sys : (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
usr : my love is broken up
usr : she left me alonr
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.
usr : but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years
usr : suddenly she left me
sys : (Question) I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?
usr : she is engaged to a richman
usr : and they prepared to get married soon
usr : i dont have any idea for what to do
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
sys : (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
usr : my love is broken up
usr : she left me alonr
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.
usr : but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years
usr : suddenly she left me
sys : (Question) I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?
usr : she is engaged to a richman
usr : and they prepared to get married soon
usr : i dont have any idea for what to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to.
usr : I tried to forget her, but whenever i tried the memories are repeating again and again
usr : which sometimes makes me mad
| (Providing Suggestions) Just try to focus on your hobbies, and hang out with your close friends. Keep yourself occupied on other things so you wouldn't have to think about her. Just think that you're lucky that it ended now, and it would've been worse if you found out about the cheating even later. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
sys : (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
usr : my love is broken up
usr : she left me alonr
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.
usr : but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years
usr : suddenly she left me
sys : (Question) I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?
usr : she is engaged to a richman
usr : and they prepared to get married soon
usr : i dont have any idea for what to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to.
usr : I tried to forget her, but whenever i tried the memories are repeating again and again
usr : which sometimes makes me mad
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just try to focus on your hobbies, and hang out with your close friends. Keep yourself occupied on other things so you wouldn't have to think about her. Just think that you're lucky that it ended now, and it would've been worse if you found out about the cheating even later.
usr : whenever i try to share my feelings with my friends, they are making fun on me
usr : and irritates me so much
| (Providing Suggestions) Awww maybe try to share you feelings with your family then |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
sys : (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
usr : my love is broken up
usr : she left me alonr
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.
usr : but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years
usr : suddenly she left me
sys : (Question) I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?
usr : she is engaged to a richman
usr : and they prepared to get married soon
usr : i dont have any idea for what to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to.
usr : I tried to forget her, but whenever i tried the memories are repeating again and again
usr : which sometimes makes me mad
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just try to focus on your hobbies, and hang out with your close friends. Keep yourself occupied on other things so you wouldn't have to think about her. Just think that you're lucky that it ended now, and it would've been worse if you found out about the cheating even later.
usr : whenever i try to share my feelings with my friends, they are making fun on me
usr : and irritates me so much
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awww maybe try to share you feelings with your family then
usr : but its not easy to me tell it to my family members
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see. Over time you'll definitely be able to get over it. There are so many other women out there that are better than her. She may have been the perfect woman for you at one point but you really should come to terms that she isn't the one for you anymore. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
sys : (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
usr : my love is broken up
usr : she left me alonr
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.
usr : but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years
usr : suddenly she left me
sys : (Question) I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?
usr : she is engaged to a richman
usr : and they prepared to get married soon
usr : i dont have any idea for what to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to.
usr : I tried to forget her, but whenever i tried the memories are repeating again and again
usr : which sometimes makes me mad
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just try to focus on your hobbies, and hang out with your close friends. Keep yourself occupied on other things so you wouldn't have to think about her. Just think that you're lucky that it ended now, and it would've been worse if you found out about the cheating even later.
usr : whenever i try to share my feelings with my friends, they are making fun on me
usr : and irritates me so much
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awww maybe try to share you feelings with your family then
usr : but its not easy to me tell it to my family members
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see. Over time you'll definitely be able to get over it. There are so many other women out there that are better than her. She may have been the perfect woman for you at one point but you really should come to terms that she isn't the one for you anymore.
usr : I will try to think like that
usr : is that really works
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes just focus on positivity, doing fun things. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
sys : (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
usr : my love is broken up
usr : she left me alonr
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.
usr : but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years
usr : suddenly she left me
sys : (Question) I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?
usr : she is engaged to a richman
usr : and they prepared to get married soon
usr : i dont have any idea for what to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to.
usr : I tried to forget her, but whenever i tried the memories are repeating again and again
usr : which sometimes makes me mad
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just try to focus on your hobbies, and hang out with your close friends. Keep yourself occupied on other things so you wouldn't have to think about her. Just think that you're lucky that it ended now, and it would've been worse if you found out about the cheating even later.
usr : whenever i try to share my feelings with my friends, they are making fun on me
usr : and irritates me so much
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awww maybe try to share you feelings with your family then
usr : but its not easy to me tell it to my family members
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see. Over time you'll definitely be able to get over it. There are so many other women out there that are better than her. She may have been the perfect woman for you at one point but you really should come to terms that she isn't the one for you anymore.
usr : I will try to think like that
usr : is that really works
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes just focus on positivity, doing fun things.
usr : I will try my level best
| (Reflection of feelings) Okay that's good. I can tell that you're making too big of a deal of the situation. You can think about the good times you've had with her, but that's in the past now so you should be focused on the future instead. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"breakup with my lover". | sys : (Question) Hello how are you feeling today?
usr : not so well
usr : what about you
sys : (Question) I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
usr : my love is broken up
usr : she left me alonr
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.
usr : but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years
usr : suddenly she left me
sys : (Question) I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?
usr : she is engaged to a richman
usr : and they prepared to get married soon
usr : i dont have any idea for what to do
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to.
usr : I tried to forget her, but whenever i tried the memories are repeating again and again
usr : which sometimes makes me mad
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Just try to focus on your hobbies, and hang out with your close friends. Keep yourself occupied on other things so you wouldn't have to think about her. Just think that you're lucky that it ended now, and it would've been worse if you found out about the cheating even later.
usr : whenever i try to share my feelings with my friends, they are making fun on me
usr : and irritates me so much
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Awww maybe try to share you feelings with your family then
usr : but its not easy to me tell it to my family members
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see. Over time you'll definitely be able to get over it. There are so many other women out there that are better than her. She may have been the perfect woman for you at one point but you really should come to terms that she isn't the one for you anymore.
usr : I will try to think like that
usr : is that really works
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes just focus on positivity, doing fun things.
usr : I will try my level best
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Okay that's good. I can tell that you're making too big of a deal of the situation. You can think about the good times you've had with her, but that's in the past now so you should be focused on the future instead.
usr : thankyou
usr : i try to do this
| (Others) I'm happy to provide you advice. If you need advice in the future, you could always find a counselor for you. I hope you are feeling a bit better. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
| (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
usr : It started a couple of days ago.
| (Question) what seems to be the problem? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
usr : It started a couple of days ago.
sys : (Question) what seems to be the problem?
usr : we got into a fight
| (Question) What was the fight about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
usr : It started a couple of days ago.
sys : (Question) what seems to be the problem?
usr : we got into a fight
sys : (Question) What was the fight about?
usr : It was over an item he didnt return
| (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
usr : It started a couple of days ago.
sys : (Question) what seems to be the problem?
usr : we got into a fight
sys : (Question) What was the fight about?
usr : It was over an item he didnt return
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life
usr : really? what did you do?
| (Providing Suggestions) What I did is to avoid us fighting I sat down and we had a conversation to solve a problem |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
usr : It started a couple of days ago.
sys : (Question) what seems to be the problem?
usr : we got into a fight
sys : (Question) What was the fight about?
usr : It was over an item he didnt return
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life
usr : really? what did you do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I did is to avoid us fighting I sat down and we had a conversation to solve a problem
usr : so you think I should talk it over with my friend?
| (Providing Suggestions) I believe that is the best way to handle the situation instead of fighting |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
usr : It started a couple of days ago.
sys : (Question) what seems to be the problem?
usr : we got into a fight
sys : (Question) What was the fight about?
usr : It was over an item he didnt return
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life
usr : really? what did you do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I did is to avoid us fighting I sat down and we had a conversation to solve a problem
usr : so you think I should talk it over with my friend?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I believe that is the best way to handle the situation instead of fighting
usr : I see, I will talk to him. how should I start it off?
| (Information) you should approach him with a calm voice |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
usr : It started a couple of days ago.
sys : (Question) what seems to be the problem?
usr : we got into a fight
sys : (Question) What was the fight about?
usr : It was over an item he didnt return
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life
usr : really? what did you do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I did is to avoid us fighting I sat down and we had a conversation to solve a problem
usr : so you think I should talk it over with my friend?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I believe that is the best way to handle the situation instead of fighting
usr : I see, I will talk to him. how should I start it off?
sys : (Information) you should approach him with a calm voice
usr : Ok I'll take that into consideration.
| (Providing Suggestions) do not let the situation get the best of you. You should handle the situation in a appropriate manner. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
usr : It started a couple of days ago.
sys : (Question) what seems to be the problem?
usr : we got into a fight
sys : (Question) What was the fight about?
usr : It was over an item he didnt return
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life
usr : really? what did you do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I did is to avoid us fighting I sat down and we had a conversation to solve a problem
usr : so you think I should talk it over with my friend?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I believe that is the best way to handle the situation instead of fighting
usr : I see, I will talk to him. how should I start it off?
sys : (Information) you should approach him with a calm voice
usr : Ok I'll take that into consideration.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) do not let the situation get the best of you. You should handle the situation in a appropriate manner.
usr : He can be aggressive at times.
| (Providing Suggestions) I can most definitly understand when he becomes aggressive just leave the situation alone and let him calm down |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Me and my friend got into an argument and are not in speaking terms". | usr : Hello good afternoon.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hello what can i help you with today?
usr : having problems with a friend
sys : (Reflection of feelings) i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
usr : It started a couple of days ago.
sys : (Question) what seems to be the problem?
usr : we got into a fight
sys : (Question) What was the fight about?
usr : It was over an item he didnt return
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life
usr : really? what did you do?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I did is to avoid us fighting I sat down and we had a conversation to solve a problem
usr : so you think I should talk it over with my friend?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I believe that is the best way to handle the situation instead of fighting
usr : I see, I will talk to him. how should I start it off?
sys : (Information) you should approach him with a calm voice
usr : Ok I'll take that into consideration.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) do not let the situation get the best of you. You should handle the situation in a appropriate manner.
usr : He can be aggressive at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I can most definitly understand when he becomes aggressive just leave the situation alone and let him calm down
usr : that is great advice I think I'm ready to talk to him
| (Others) Hope I helped you in some way today. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
| (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
| (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
sys : (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having?
usr : Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
usr : Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
sys : (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having?
usr : Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
usr : Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.
usr : Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
sys : (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having?
usr : Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
usr : Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.
usr : Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried telling them how they make you feel? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
sys : (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having?
usr : Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
usr : Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.
usr : Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?
usr : Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace
| (Question) After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
sys : (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having?
usr : Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
usr : Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.
usr : Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?
usr : Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace
sys : (Question) After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.
usr : No. Whenever I do get to say my peace, i'll just cut contact completely. Lately i've been holding it in and just barely responding if at all.
usr : I've told one of them that i have no money and she hasn't contacted me since. But if she tries again i'll say something about the issue. I don't like feeling used. Who even has the nerve to blatantly use somebody like that? It's irritating
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
sys : (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having?
usr : Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
usr : Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.
usr : Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?
usr : Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace
sys : (Question) After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.
usr : No. Whenever I do get to say my peace, i'll just cut contact completely. Lately i've been holding it in and just barely responding if at all.
usr : I've told one of them that i have no money and she hasn't contacted me since. But if she tries again i'll say something about the issue. I don't like feeling used. Who even has the nerve to blatantly use somebody like that? It's irritating
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you
usr : Agreed. I just hope that one day I can meet people and form actual friendships with them
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really hard to stand up for yourself but it sounds like you are off to a good start. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
sys : (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having?
usr : Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
usr : Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.
usr : Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?
usr : Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace
sys : (Question) After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.
usr : No. Whenever I do get to say my peace, i'll just cut contact completely. Lately i've been holding it in and just barely responding if at all.
usr : I've told one of them that i have no money and she hasn't contacted me since. But if she tries again i'll say something about the issue. I don't like feeling used. Who even has the nerve to blatantly use somebody like that? It's irritating
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you
usr : Agreed. I just hope that one day I can meet people and form actual friendships with them
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really hard to stand up for yourself but it sounds like you are off to a good start.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you taken any steps in trying to form new more meaningful relationships |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
sys : (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having?
usr : Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
usr : Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.
usr : Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?
usr : Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace
sys : (Question) After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.
usr : No. Whenever I do get to say my peace, i'll just cut contact completely. Lately i've been holding it in and just barely responding if at all.
usr : I've told one of them that i have no money and she hasn't contacted me since. But if she tries again i'll say something about the issue. I don't like feeling used. Who even has the nerve to blatantly use somebody like that? It's irritating
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you
usr : Agreed. I just hope that one day I can meet people and form actual friendships with them
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really hard to stand up for yourself but it sounds like you are off to a good start.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you taken any steps in trying to form new more meaningful relationships
usr : I thought I did. My husband and I made a couple friends. Theyre a couple and so are we so we go on double dates but they seem more drawn to him. Me and the other girl got very close and then boom she randomly decided she only wants to talk to me when shes mad or bored
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So feel that this new couple might value the friendship with your husband more then you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends suck at being friends. They use me, ignore me, and i'm only a benefit for them.". | usr : Hey
sys : (Question) How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
usr : I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
sys : (Question) Can you share the dilemma you are having?
usr : Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
usr : Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.
usr : Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?
usr : Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace
sys : (Question) After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.
usr : No. Whenever I do get to say my peace, i'll just cut contact completely. Lately i've been holding it in and just barely responding if at all.
usr : I've told one of them that i have no money and she hasn't contacted me since. But if she tries again i'll say something about the issue. I don't like feeling used. Who even has the nerve to blatantly use somebody like that? It's irritating
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you
usr : Agreed. I just hope that one day I can meet people and form actual friendships with them
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It's really hard to stand up for yourself but it sounds like you are off to a good start.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you taken any steps in trying to form new more meaningful relationships
usr : I thought I did. My husband and I made a couple friends. Theyre a couple and so are we so we go on double dates but they seem more drawn to him. Me and the other girl got very close and then boom she randomly decided she only wants to talk to me when shes mad or bored
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So feel that this new couple might value the friendship with your husband more then you
usr : yeah it seems that way. Most people like him more than me and it's weird because he sucks at socializing and doesn't even like them that much
usr : It just doens't make sense but that's just the way the ca rds were dealt
| (Self-disclosure) I used to have a hard time forming a meaningful relationship but then I realized it's because I had nothing in common with the people I was trying to form them with. Once I discovered something I was really drawn to I met people that way like volunteering in my community. Have you tried finding people you have more in common with. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
| (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation.
| (Question) Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation.
sys : (Question) Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?
usr : Yes, specially with the disastrous winter storm I underwent. Makes me nervous if our state decides to shut down to combat the pandemic. I am unsure as to what to do
usr : I believe its more of a general sense of anxiety. I had to take a 25% pay cut with reduced hours, it was a complete lifestyle change. Not only for myself but for my children
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation.
sys : (Question) Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?
usr : Yes, specially with the disastrous winter storm I underwent. Makes me nervous if our state decides to shut down to combat the pandemic. I am unsure as to what to do
usr : I believe its more of a general sense of anxiety. I had to take a 25% pay cut with reduced hours, it was a complete lifestyle change. Not only for myself but for my children
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances.
| (Self-disclosure) One thing that helps me out in those moments, is to remember that there are things in the world and life that I can control, and others that I can't control. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation.
sys : (Question) Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?
usr : Yes, specially with the disastrous winter storm I underwent. Makes me nervous if our state decides to shut down to combat the pandemic. I am unsure as to what to do
usr : I believe its more of a general sense of anxiety. I had to take a 25% pay cut with reduced hours, it was a complete lifestyle change. Not only for myself but for my children
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances.
sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing that helps me out in those moments, is to remember that there are things in the world and life that I can control, and others that I can't control.
usr : Yes, I could not agree with you more. Specially now that I have tapped into my savings and retirement. Never in life did I think I would worry about paying my light bill.
| (Providing Suggestions) It seems like the best thing you can do at the moment is try your best to do the best you can at your job. If there will be paycuts, you might not be able to prevent it. But at least you will know that you gave a valiant effort. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation.
sys : (Question) Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?
usr : Yes, specially with the disastrous winter storm I underwent. Makes me nervous if our state decides to shut down to combat the pandemic. I am unsure as to what to do
usr : I believe its more of a general sense of anxiety. I had to take a 25% pay cut with reduced hours, it was a complete lifestyle change. Not only for myself but for my children
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances.
sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing that helps me out in those moments, is to remember that there are things in the world and life that I can control, and others that I can't control.
usr : Yes, I could not agree with you more. Specially now that I have tapped into my savings and retirement. Never in life did I think I would worry about paying my light bill.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It seems like the best thing you can do at the moment is try your best to do the best you can at your job. If there will be paycuts, you might not be able to prevent it. But at least you will know that you gave a valiant effort.
usr : Thank you for the kind words. I have control of some aspects. Perhaps I will apply for an additional job, just to ensure I have a steady income. Thank you for the guidance. If you dont have any other advice we can end our interchange after this reply.
| (Providing Suggestions) I just wanted to remind you to remember, anxiety about something that has not happened yet is not always helpful to yourself. By focusing directly on what you can do, you can make sure you are prepared for anything negative coming your way. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation.
sys : (Question) Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?
usr : Yes, specially with the disastrous winter storm I underwent. Makes me nervous if our state decides to shut down to combat the pandemic. I am unsure as to what to do
usr : I believe its more of a general sense of anxiety. I had to take a 25% pay cut with reduced hours, it was a complete lifestyle change. Not only for myself but for my children
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances.
sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing that helps me out in those moments, is to remember that there are things in the world and life that I can control, and others that I can't control.
usr : Yes, I could not agree with you more. Specially now that I have tapped into my savings and retirement. Never in life did I think I would worry about paying my light bill.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It seems like the best thing you can do at the moment is try your best to do the best you can at your job. If there will be paycuts, you might not be able to prevent it. But at least you will know that you gave a valiant effort.
usr : Thank you for the kind words. I have control of some aspects. Perhaps I will apply for an additional job, just to ensure I have a steady income. Thank you for the guidance. If you dont have any other advice we can end our interchange after this reply.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I just wanted to remind you to remember, anxiety about something that has not happened yet is not always helpful to yourself. By focusing directly on what you can do, you can make sure you are prepared for anything negative coming your way.
usr : Thank you, I will keep that in mind.
| (Others) Is there anything else you need help with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation.
sys : (Question) Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?
usr : Yes, specially with the disastrous winter storm I underwent. Makes me nervous if our state decides to shut down to combat the pandemic. I am unsure as to what to do
usr : I believe its more of a general sense of anxiety. I had to take a 25% pay cut with reduced hours, it was a complete lifestyle change. Not only for myself but for my children
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances.
sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing that helps me out in those moments, is to remember that there are things in the world and life that I can control, and others that I can't control.
usr : Yes, I could not agree with you more. Specially now that I have tapped into my savings and retirement. Never in life did I think I would worry about paying my light bill.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It seems like the best thing you can do at the moment is try your best to do the best you can at your job. If there will be paycuts, you might not be able to prevent it. But at least you will know that you gave a valiant effort.
usr : Thank you for the kind words. I have control of some aspects. Perhaps I will apply for an additional job, just to ensure I have a steady income. Thank you for the guidance. If you dont have any other advice we can end our interchange after this reply.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I just wanted to remind you to remember, anxiety about something that has not happened yet is not always helpful to yourself. By focusing directly on what you can do, you can make sure you are prepared for anything negative coming your way.
usr : Thank you, I will keep that in mind.
sys : (Others) Is there anything else you need help with?
usr : No, not today I feel a lot more calm and gained a better understanding of my emotions and the situation I am finding myself in.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Good, I am very glad to hear that. I am wishing you the best in the future and definitely feel free to contact me if you need support again! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation.
sys : (Question) Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?
usr : Yes, specially with the disastrous winter storm I underwent. Makes me nervous if our state decides to shut down to combat the pandemic. I am unsure as to what to do
usr : I believe its more of a general sense of anxiety. I had to take a 25% pay cut with reduced hours, it was a complete lifestyle change. Not only for myself but for my children
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances.
sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing that helps me out in those moments, is to remember that there are things in the world and life that I can control, and others that I can't control.
usr : Yes, I could not agree with you more. Specially now that I have tapped into my savings and retirement. Never in life did I think I would worry about paying my light bill.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It seems like the best thing you can do at the moment is try your best to do the best you can at your job. If there will be paycuts, you might not be able to prevent it. But at least you will know that you gave a valiant effort.
usr : Thank you for the kind words. I have control of some aspects. Perhaps I will apply for an additional job, just to ensure I have a steady income. Thank you for the guidance. If you dont have any other advice we can end our interchange after this reply.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I just wanted to remind you to remember, anxiety about something that has not happened yet is not always helpful to yourself. By focusing directly on what you can do, you can make sure you are prepared for anything negative coming your way.
usr : Thank you, I will keep that in mind.
sys : (Others) Is there anything else you need help with?
usr : No, not today I feel a lot more calm and gained a better understanding of my emotions and the situation I am finding myself in.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Good, I am very glad to hear that. I am wishing you the best in the future and definitely feel free to contact me if you need support again!
usr : Same to you, thank you for understanding and offering really good advice, i am guessing I had forgotten that there are things I can control
usr : I am unsure how to end our chat
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you need any help with any other questions? Otherwise, there is a quit button on the side. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am afraid of receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I feel that worried about my finances as I am tapping into my savings to feel afloat.". | usr : Thank you for listening to me today.
sys : (Question) No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?
usr : I am nervous about receiving another pay cut and reduced hours. I dont think I can handle it financially, the fear is real.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation.
sys : (Question) Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?
usr : Yes, specially with the disastrous winter storm I underwent. Makes me nervous if our state decides to shut down to combat the pandemic. I am unsure as to what to do
usr : I believe its more of a general sense of anxiety. I had to take a 25% pay cut with reduced hours, it was a complete lifestyle change. Not only for myself but for my children
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances.
sys : (Self-disclosure) One thing that helps me out in those moments, is to remember that there are things in the world and life that I can control, and others that I can't control.
usr : Yes, I could not agree with you more. Specially now that I have tapped into my savings and retirement. Never in life did I think I would worry about paying my light bill.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It seems like the best thing you can do at the moment is try your best to do the best you can at your job. If there will be paycuts, you might not be able to prevent it. But at least you will know that you gave a valiant effort.
usr : Thank you for the kind words. I have control of some aspects. Perhaps I will apply for an additional job, just to ensure I have a steady income. Thank you for the guidance. If you dont have any other advice we can end our interchange after this reply.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I just wanted to remind you to remember, anxiety about something that has not happened yet is not always helpful to yourself. By focusing directly on what you can do, you can make sure you are prepared for anything negative coming your way.
usr : Thank you, I will keep that in mind.
sys : (Others) Is there anything else you need help with?
usr : No, not today I feel a lot more calm and gained a better understanding of my emotions and the situation I am finding myself in.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Good, I am very glad to hear that. I am wishing you the best in the future and definitely feel free to contact me if you need support again!
usr : Same to you, thank you for understanding and offering really good advice, i am guessing I had forgotten that there are things I can control
usr : I am unsure how to end our chat
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you need any help with any other questions? Otherwise, there is a quit button on the side.
usr : No, thank you for putting everything in perspective for me. goodbye.
| (Others) You're welcome. Don't hesitate to contact me again! Have a great day. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
| (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
| (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
usr : I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
usr : My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
usr : I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
usr : My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16 |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
usr : I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
usr : My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16
usr : THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.
| (Others) I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
usr : I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
usr : My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16
usr : THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.
sys : (Others) I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution
| (Question) are they close friends or just friends |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
usr : I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
usr : My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16
usr : THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.
sys : (Others) I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution
sys : (Question) are they close friends or just friends
| (Providing Suggestions) Either way have you been able to have a heart to heart and be like I love xxx and I value our friendship how can we work together to make this work? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
usr : I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
usr : My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16
usr : THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.
sys : (Others) I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution
sys : (Question) are they close friends or just friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Either way have you been able to have a heart to heart and be like I love xxx and I value our friendship how can we work together to make this work?
usr : My best friends, I also left the major city that we all lived in. With COVID, i havent had a chance to meet other friends.
usr : That's a good approach. I should try it.
| (Self-disclosure) You are absolutely correct with Covid everything is not normal and I am afraid we have to accept this time as the new normal until this all clears up. Also, it wont do any good to be sad even though you have a right to it is just better to try to be positive. Believe me easier said than not. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
usr : I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
usr : My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16
usr : THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.
sys : (Others) I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution
sys : (Question) are they close friends or just friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Either way have you been able to have a heart to heart and be like I love xxx and I value our friendship how can we work together to make this work?
usr : My best friends, I also left the major city that we all lived in. With COVID, i havent had a chance to meet other friends.
usr : That's a good approach. I should try it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are absolutely correct with Covid everything is not normal and I am afraid we have to accept this time as the new normal until this all clears up. Also, it wont do any good to be sad even though you have a right to it is just better to try to be positive. Believe me easier said than not.
usr : I can't wait until things are nromal again so i can take my frineds out for dinner again
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you guys talk on face time or face book or anything social media related? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
usr : I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
usr : My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16
usr : THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.
sys : (Others) I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution
sys : (Question) are they close friends or just friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Either way have you been able to have a heart to heart and be like I love xxx and I value our friendship how can we work together to make this work?
usr : My best friends, I also left the major city that we all lived in. With COVID, i havent had a chance to meet other friends.
usr : That's a good approach. I should try it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are absolutely correct with Covid everything is not normal and I am afraid we have to accept this time as the new normal until this all clears up. Also, it wont do any good to be sad even though you have a right to it is just better to try to be positive. Believe me easier said than not.
usr : I can't wait until things are nromal again so i can take my frineds out for dinner again
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you guys talk on face time or face book or anything social media related?
| (Self-disclosure) Amen everyone will be so much happier. May I say something with no disrespect since we just met |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house". | usr : Hello, i've been so sad lately.
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
sys : (Question) Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
usr : I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
usr : My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16
usr : THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.
sys : (Others) I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution
sys : (Question) are they close friends or just friends
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Either way have you been able to have a heart to heart and be like I love xxx and I value our friendship how can we work together to make this work?
usr : My best friends, I also left the major city that we all lived in. With COVID, i havent had a chance to meet other friends.
usr : That's a good approach. I should try it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are absolutely correct with Covid everything is not normal and I am afraid we have to accept this time as the new normal until this all clears up. Also, it wont do any good to be sad even though you have a right to it is just better to try to be positive. Believe me easier said than not.
usr : I can't wait until things are nromal again so i can take my frineds out for dinner again
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you guys talk on face time or face book or anything social media related?
sys : (Self-disclosure) Amen everyone will be so much happier. May I say something with no disrespect since we just met
usr : Facetime mostyl!
usr : You can say anything!
| (Providing Suggestions) God is on the throne and in Control . I am not just saying this because it happens to be Sunday. I haven't been to church since March due to Covid. I used to go weekly but that doesn't make me any better or worst than those who don't . I am just saying prayers help and most people say nothing left but to pray when it should be our first defense |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | (Question) Hi how can I help you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
| (Question) Hello?? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure, |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
| (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
| (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
| (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
sys : (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
usr : is ist ..is that much good app
usr : wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
| (Providing Suggestions) yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
sys : (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
usr : is ist ..is that much good app
usr : wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know
| (Others) give it a try its an amazing app |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
sys : (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
usr : is ist ..is that much good app
usr : wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know
sys : (Others) give it a try its an amazing app
| (Question) where are you from? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
sys : (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
usr : is ist ..is that much good app
usr : wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know
sys : (Others) give it a try its an amazing app
sys : (Question) where are you from?
usr : sounds really good dear. Is that shows all academic subjects
usr : sure will try
usr : how about collge fees ?
| (Information) no, its just a kind of google. so you have to take picture of the question and it will google all the results for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
sys : (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
usr : is ist ..is that much good app
usr : wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know
sys : (Others) give it a try its an amazing app
sys : (Question) where are you from?
usr : sounds really good dear. Is that shows all academic subjects
usr : sure will try
usr : how about collge fees ?
sys : (Information) no, its just a kind of google. so you have to take picture of the question and it will google all the results for you.
usr : my campus job lost . i fight very hard to pay all fee
usr : wow it is a bible for us then, surely will check and write exams in it ..
| (Information) ummm, fees give everyone a hard time I literally have to pay 8 grand which is due in a month lol |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
sys : (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
usr : is ist ..is that much good app
usr : wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know
sys : (Others) give it a try its an amazing app
sys : (Question) where are you from?
usr : sounds really good dear. Is that shows all academic subjects
usr : sure will try
usr : how about collge fees ?
sys : (Information) no, its just a kind of google. so you have to take picture of the question and it will google all the results for you.
usr : my campus job lost . i fight very hard to pay all fee
usr : wow it is a bible for us then, surely will check and write exams in it ..
sys : (Information) ummm, fees give everyone a hard time I literally have to pay 8 grand which is due in a month lol
usr : oh god, i barrow some money from all friends and paid and got loan on high interest..very hard times
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, everything will be good at the end. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
sys : (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
usr : is ist ..is that much good app
usr : wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know
sys : (Others) give it a try its an amazing app
sys : (Question) where are you from?
usr : sounds really good dear. Is that shows all academic subjects
usr : sure will try
usr : how about collge fees ?
sys : (Information) no, its just a kind of google. so you have to take picture of the question and it will google all the results for you.
usr : my campus job lost . i fight very hard to pay all fee
usr : wow it is a bible for us then, surely will check and write exams in it ..
sys : (Information) ummm, fees give everyone a hard time I literally have to pay 8 grand which is due in a month lol
usr : oh god, i barrow some money from all friends and paid and got loan on high interest..very hard times
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, everything will be good at the end.
usr : hope so , covid changed entire life
| (Others) true |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
sys : (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
usr : is ist ..is that much good app
usr : wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know
sys : (Others) give it a try its an amazing app
sys : (Question) where are you from?
usr : sounds really good dear. Is that shows all academic subjects
usr : sure will try
usr : how about collge fees ?
sys : (Information) no, its just a kind of google. so you have to take picture of the question and it will google all the results for you.
usr : my campus job lost . i fight very hard to pay all fee
usr : wow it is a bible for us then, surely will check and write exams in it ..
sys : (Information) ummm, fees give everyone a hard time I literally have to pay 8 grand which is due in a month lol
usr : oh god, i barrow some money from all friends and paid and got loan on high interest..very hard times
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, everything will be good at the end.
usr : hope so , covid changed entire life
sys : (Others) true
| (Question) where are you from? you didn't tell me |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"due to covid , all offline classes are closed in university. In online classes nobody teaching properly and we paid all fees for entire year.Our exams reaching very near.When we complained nobody taking care this .How we prepare and how to understand new syllabus". | sys : (Question) Hi how can I help you today?
sys : (Question) Hello??
usr : hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
usr : i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
usr : could you please help me out from this fear
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, that is a problem.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes for sure,
usr : yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
sys : (Information) I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
usr : i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
usr : wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
sys : (Information) yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
usr : is ist ..is that much good app
usr : wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know
sys : (Others) give it a try its an amazing app
sys : (Question) where are you from?
usr : sounds really good dear. Is that shows all academic subjects
usr : sure will try
usr : how about collge fees ?
sys : (Information) no, its just a kind of google. so you have to take picture of the question and it will google all the results for you.
usr : my campus job lost . i fight very hard to pay all fee
usr : wow it is a bible for us then, surely will check and write exams in it ..
sys : (Information) ummm, fees give everyone a hard time I literally have to pay 8 grand which is due in a month lol
usr : oh god, i barrow some money from all friends and paid and got loan on high interest..very hard times
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't worry, everything will be good at the end.
usr : hope so , covid changed entire life
sys : (Others) true
sys : (Question) where are you from? you didn't tell me
usr : yea..from chicago
| (Others) ooh okie nice |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19. has me needing people more.". | (Question) Hello, how are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19. has me needing people more.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
| (Question) Anyone there? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19. has me needing people more.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) Anyone there?
usr : Hi how are you?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hi! so nice to chat with you today. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"COVID-19. has me needing people more.". | sys : (Question) Hello, how are you?
sys : (Question) Anyone there?
usr : Hi how are you?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hi! so nice to chat with you today.
usr : I am haing a difficult time with COVID-19. I want to go out but can't. And I'm an introvert.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally understand, I also identify myself as an Introvert. Never thought that in my lifespan I would want to go out and be around other people. what have you done so far to alleviate the lonely feelings? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am overwhelmed with housework and I’m ashamed of the house". | usr : Hello! Anyone there?
| (Others) hello! it's nice to meet you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am overwhelmed with housework and I’m ashamed of the house". | usr : Hello! Anyone there?
sys : (Others) hello! it's nice to meet you
usr : Thank you you too
| (Question) What would you like to talk about today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am overwhelmed with housework and I’m ashamed of the house". | usr : Hello! Anyone there?
sys : (Others) hello! it's nice to meet you
usr : Thank you you too
sys : (Question) What would you like to talk about today?
usr : How I can feel less ashamed
usr : My house is so disorganized I won’t let anyone co e over
| (Question) What is making you feel ashamed? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am overwhelmed with housework and I’m ashamed of the house". | usr : Hello! Anyone there?
sys : (Others) hello! it's nice to meet you
usr : Thank you you too
sys : (Question) What would you like to talk about today?
usr : How I can feel less ashamed
usr : My house is so disorganized I won’t let anyone co e over
sys : (Question) What is making you feel ashamed?
usr : Every single room is disarrayed
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you feel ashamed because you are feeling messy? is this correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am overwhelmed with housework and I’m ashamed of the house". | usr : Hello! Anyone there?
sys : (Others) hello! it's nice to meet you
usr : Thank you you too
sys : (Question) What would you like to talk about today?
usr : How I can feel less ashamed
usr : My house is so disorganized I won’t let anyone co e over
sys : (Question) What is making you feel ashamed?
usr : Every single room is disarrayed
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you feel ashamed because you are feeling messy? is this correct?
usr : Yes
| (Question) When did this begin? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am overwhelmed with housework and I’m ashamed of the house". | usr : Hello! Anyone there?
sys : (Others) hello! it's nice to meet you
usr : Thank you you too
sys : (Question) What would you like to talk about today?
usr : How I can feel less ashamed
usr : My house is so disorganized I won’t let anyone co e over
sys : (Question) What is making you feel ashamed?
usr : Every single room is disarrayed
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you feel ashamed because you are feeling messy? is this correct?
usr : Yes
sys : (Question) When did this begin?
usr : Sorry
usr : It started about ten years ago
usr : I had emergency restroom call
usr : I have moved into this house almost ten years ago
usr : At first it was great everything was fine since it was new house but after we got settled it went down hill from that
| (Others) What do you feel like brought you into this situation? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
| (Question) Hi, How are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
| (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
| (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
| (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
| (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
| (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities. |
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