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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
sys : (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
| (Question) You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
sys : (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
sys : (Question) You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?
usr : Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work.
usr : It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
sys : (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
sys : (Question) You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?
usr : Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work.
usr : It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation.
| (Self-disclosure) When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
sys : (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
sys : (Question) You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?
usr : Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work.
usr : It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition.
| (Question) Would volunteering be something that appeals to you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
sys : (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
sys : (Question) You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?
usr : Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work.
usr : It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition.
sys : (Question) Would volunteering be something that appeals to you?
usr : It would probably be good to volunteer to get out of the house. I think I will do that once the pandemic restrictions ease.
| (Providing Suggestions) That would be great! There may also be opportunities to help out online until we can be more free to move around safely. It is important to be safe for us and others. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
sys : (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
sys : (Question) You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?
usr : Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work.
usr : It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition.
sys : (Question) Would volunteering be something that appeals to you?
usr : It would probably be good to volunteer to get out of the house. I think I will do that once the pandemic restrictions ease.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would be great! There may also be opportunities to help out online until we can be more free to move around safely. It is important to be safe for us and others.
usr : Can you think of any online volunteering opportunities? You have been very helpful so far.
| (Providing Suggestions) I know that there are many different opportunities available. If you google "places to volunteer online", they will have a list. Including places like The Smithsonian and Crisis Text Line. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
sys : (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
sys : (Question) You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?
usr : Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work.
usr : It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition.
sys : (Question) Would volunteering be something that appeals to you?
usr : It would probably be good to volunteer to get out of the house. I think I will do that once the pandemic restrictions ease.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would be great! There may also be opportunities to help out online until we can be more free to move around safely. It is important to be safe for us and others.
usr : Can you think of any online volunteering opportunities? You have been very helpful so far.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know that there are many different opportunities available. If you google "places to volunteer online", they will have a list. Including places like The Smithsonian and Crisis Text Line.
usr : Great. I will try that today. Thank you so much for your help.
| (Others) You are more than welcome.!! I expect life to start looking up for you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
sys : (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
sys : (Question) You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?
usr : Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work.
usr : It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition.
sys : (Question) Would volunteering be something that appeals to you?
usr : It would probably be good to volunteer to get out of the house. I think I will do that once the pandemic restrictions ease.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would be great! There may also be opportunities to help out online until we can be more free to move around safely. It is important to be safe for us and others.
usr : Can you think of any online volunteering opportunities? You have been very helpful so far.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know that there are many different opportunities available. If you google "places to volunteer online", they will have a list. Including places like The Smithsonian and Crisis Text Line.
usr : Great. I will try that today. Thank you so much for your help.
sys : (Others) You are more than welcome.!! I expect life to start looking up for you.
| (Others) Best wishes, I'm glad we spoke. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am currently unemployed and I worry about my financial situation due to the ongoing pandemic and the toll it is taking on the economy.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : I am feeling down and scared.
sys : (Question) What is having you feel scared at this moment?
usr : The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
sys : (Question) Have you been able to apply for work recently?
usr : Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
usr : I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
usr : I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
sys : (Information) Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
sys : (Question) You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?
usr : Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work.
usr : It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition.
sys : (Question) Would volunteering be something that appeals to you?
usr : It would probably be good to volunteer to get out of the house. I think I will do that once the pandemic restrictions ease.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That would be great! There may also be opportunities to help out online until we can be more free to move around safely. It is important to be safe for us and others.
usr : Can you think of any online volunteering opportunities? You have been very helpful so far.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I know that there are many different opportunities available. If you google "places to volunteer online", they will have a list. Including places like The Smithsonian and Crisis Text Line.
usr : Great. I will try that today. Thank you so much for your help.
sys : (Others) You are more than welcome.!! I expect life to start looking up for you.
sys : (Others) Best wishes, I'm glad we spoke.
usr : I hope so. I better go get started on the suggestions you gave me.
usr : Thanks again and have a great day.
| (Others) you too |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am very scare of this pandemic call COVID-19". | (Question) Hi! How are you tonight? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am very scare of this pandemic call COVID-19". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you tonight?
usr : Very good thanks
| (Question) Glad to hear that! Is there some way I can encourage you? :D |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am very scare of this pandemic call COVID-19". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you tonight?
usr : Very good thanks
sys : (Question) Glad to hear that! Is there some way I can encourage you? :D
usr : I don't now how to cope with this pandemic any more is getting out of hand
| (Question) What is the worst part of it for you? Can you identify that? I'll be honest, my husband and I don't even see anyone dying. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am very scare of this pandemic call COVID-19". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you tonight?
usr : Very good thanks
sys : (Question) Glad to hear that! Is there some way I can encourage you? :D
usr : I don't now how to cope with this pandemic any more is getting out of hand
sys : (Question) What is the worst part of it for you? Can you identify that? I'll be honest, my husband and I don't even see anyone dying.
usr : It is serious here about half of my neighbor are affected,
| (Question) Half your neighbors died? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am very scare of this pandemic call COVID-19". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you tonight?
usr : Very good thanks
sys : (Question) Glad to hear that! Is there some way I can encourage you? :D
usr : I don't now how to cope with this pandemic any more is getting out of hand
sys : (Question) What is the worst part of it for you? Can you identify that? I'll be honest, my husband and I don't even see anyone dying.
usr : It is serious here about half of my neighbor are affected,
sys : (Question) Half your neighbors died?
usr : Not really but every day ambulance must come to pick one or two because of an emergency
| (Others) So do you think you can identify the most difficult problem you have? Maybe we can look at that and possible find better ways to cope? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am very scare of this pandemic call COVID-19". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you tonight?
usr : Very good thanks
sys : (Question) Glad to hear that! Is there some way I can encourage you? :D
usr : I don't now how to cope with this pandemic any more is getting out of hand
sys : (Question) What is the worst part of it for you? Can you identify that? I'll be honest, my husband and I don't even see anyone dying.
usr : It is serious here about half of my neighbor are affected,
sys : (Question) Half your neighbors died?
usr : Not really but every day ambulance must come to pick one or two because of an emergency
sys : (Others) So do you think you can identify the most difficult problem you have? Maybe we can look at that and possible find better ways to cope?
usr : I am feeling depression right now
| (Reflection of feelings) I can understand feeling depressed. I think that can be debilitating at times, however there are ways to cope and help you get out of it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am very scare of this pandemic call COVID-19". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you tonight?
usr : Very good thanks
sys : (Question) Glad to hear that! Is there some way I can encourage you? :D
usr : I don't now how to cope with this pandemic any more is getting out of hand
sys : (Question) What is the worst part of it for you? Can you identify that? I'll be honest, my husband and I don't even see anyone dying.
usr : It is serious here about half of my neighbor are affected,
sys : (Question) Half your neighbors died?
usr : Not really but every day ambulance must come to pick one or two because of an emergency
sys : (Others) So do you think you can identify the most difficult problem you have? Maybe we can look at that and possible find better ways to cope?
usr : I am feeling depression right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand feeling depressed. I think that can be debilitating at times, however there are ways to cope and help you get out of it.
| (Self-disclosure) I used to struggle a lot with depression, but not much anymore. I learned a lot of coping strategies. I can share a few of those with you if you want. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I am very scare of this pandemic call COVID-19". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you tonight?
usr : Very good thanks
sys : (Question) Glad to hear that! Is there some way I can encourage you? :D
usr : I don't now how to cope with this pandemic any more is getting out of hand
sys : (Question) What is the worst part of it for you? Can you identify that? I'll be honest, my husband and I don't even see anyone dying.
usr : It is serious here about half of my neighbor are affected,
sys : (Question) Half your neighbors died?
usr : Not really but every day ambulance must come to pick one or two because of an emergency
sys : (Others) So do you think you can identify the most difficult problem you have? Maybe we can look at that and possible find better ways to cope?
usr : I am feeling depression right now
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand feeling depressed. I think that can be debilitating at times, however there are ways to cope and help you get out of it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I used to struggle a lot with depression, but not much anymore. I learned a lot of coping strategies. I can share a few of those with you if you want.
| (Providing Suggestions) One of the best ways is to take a walk. Get outside, get fresh air. Look at the sky and the clouds and the trees and the grass. This will not only physically refresh you but help your health as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you?
usr : I am pretty depressed and stressed out
| (Question) Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you?
usr : I am pretty depressed and stressed out
sys : (Question) Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you?
usr : I overspent and now feel gulity and I have no idea how I can pay my credit cards off
usr : I just saw sale and couldn't pass it up now I am overwhelmed
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, maybe we can find a solution? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you?
usr : I am pretty depressed and stressed out
sys : (Question) Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you?
usr : I overspent and now feel gulity and I have no idea how I can pay my credit cards off
usr : I just saw sale and couldn't pass it up now I am overwhelmed
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, maybe we can find a solution?
usr : sure thats why I m talking to you . so what do you recommend
| (Providing Suggestions) Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you?
usr : I am pretty depressed and stressed out
sys : (Question) Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you?
usr : I overspent and now feel gulity and I have no idea how I can pay my credit cards off
usr : I just saw sale and couldn't pass it up now I am overwhelmed
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, maybe we can find a solution?
usr : sure thats why I m talking to you . so what do you recommend
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it?
usr : No I got on sale on line . no returns
| (Providing Suggestions) I see, so you have to pay it. I suggest making a plan of action, trying to pay at least the minimal balance, and try work out a saving plan to pay it off. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you?
usr : I am pretty depressed and stressed out
sys : (Question) Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you?
usr : I overspent and now feel gulity and I have no idea how I can pay my credit cards off
usr : I just saw sale and couldn't pass it up now I am overwhelmed
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, maybe we can find a solution?
usr : sure thats why I m talking to you . so what do you recommend
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it?
usr : No I got on sale on line . no returns
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I see, so you have to pay it. I suggest making a plan of action, trying to pay at least the minimal balance, and try work out a saving plan to pay it off.
usr : Yes I realize that but I have no job. I have minimal balance in a week of 100
| (Information) Okay, can you reduce any expenses? Maybe a subscription? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you?
usr : I am pretty depressed and stressed out
sys : (Question) Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you?
usr : I overspent and now feel gulity and I have no idea how I can pay my credit cards off
usr : I just saw sale and couldn't pass it up now I am overwhelmed
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, maybe we can find a solution?
usr : sure thats why I m talking to you . so what do you recommend
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it?
usr : No I got on sale on line . no returns
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I see, so you have to pay it. I suggest making a plan of action, trying to pay at least the minimal balance, and try work out a saving plan to pay it off.
usr : Yes I realize that but I have no job. I have minimal balance in a week of 100
sys : (Information) Okay, can you reduce any expenses? Maybe a subscription?
usr : I don't have a job and husband pays all the bills and subscriptions. We live paycheck to paycheck and he said this is my fault i pay
usr : this would be fine if i had an income and had money that i could do that but I told you before I don't have a job so that doesn't help me
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you have more free time, you can spend it on Amazon Mturk? It is a good way to earn extra money. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you?
usr : I am pretty depressed and stressed out
sys : (Question) Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you?
usr : I overspent and now feel gulity and I have no idea how I can pay my credit cards off
usr : I just saw sale and couldn't pass it up now I am overwhelmed
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, maybe we can find a solution?
usr : sure thats why I m talking to you . so what do you recommend
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it?
usr : No I got on sale on line . no returns
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I see, so you have to pay it. I suggest making a plan of action, trying to pay at least the minimal balance, and try work out a saving plan to pay it off.
usr : Yes I realize that but I have no job. I have minimal balance in a week of 100
sys : (Information) Okay, can you reduce any expenses? Maybe a subscription?
usr : I don't have a job and husband pays all the bills and subscriptions. We live paycheck to paycheck and he said this is my fault i pay
usr : this would be fine if i had an income and had money that i could do that but I told you before I don't have a job so that doesn't help me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you have more free time, you can spend it on Amazon Mturk? It is a good way to earn extra money.
usr : That sounds interesting. How do I make money
| (Question) Aren't you an Amazon Mturk worker? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you?
usr : I am pretty depressed and stressed out
sys : (Question) Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you?
usr : I overspent and now feel gulity and I have no idea how I can pay my credit cards off
usr : I just saw sale and couldn't pass it up now I am overwhelmed
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, maybe we can find a solution?
usr : sure thats why I m talking to you . so what do you recommend
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it?
usr : No I got on sale on line . no returns
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I see, so you have to pay it. I suggest making a plan of action, trying to pay at least the minimal balance, and try work out a saving plan to pay it off.
usr : Yes I realize that but I have no job. I have minimal balance in a week of 100
sys : (Information) Okay, can you reduce any expenses? Maybe a subscription?
usr : I don't have a job and husband pays all the bills and subscriptions. We live paycheck to paycheck and he said this is my fault i pay
usr : this would be fine if i had an income and had money that i could do that but I told you before I don't have a job so that doesn't help me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you have more free time, you can spend it on Amazon Mturk? It is a good way to earn extra money.
usr : That sounds interesting. How do I make money
sys : (Question) Aren't you an Amazon Mturk worker?
usr : Yes thats how I m doing this survey but not sure if we are supposed to talk about it
usr : I think you are supposed to chat to me as a stranger coming to you for help
| (Providing Suggestions) Oh I see, I was only suggesting an avenue that can help you pay off you debt. I can reword it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I went and spent so much money on xmas gifts and now I don't know how I can pay the credit cards off". | usr : Good evening
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Hey, how are you?
usr : I am pretty depressed and stressed out
sys : (Question) Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you?
usr : I overspent and now feel gulity and I have no idea how I can pay my credit cards off
usr : I just saw sale and couldn't pass it up now I am overwhelmed
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see, maybe we can find a solution?
usr : sure thats why I m talking to you . so what do you recommend
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it?
usr : No I got on sale on line . no returns
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I see, so you have to pay it. I suggest making a plan of action, trying to pay at least the minimal balance, and try work out a saving plan to pay it off.
usr : Yes I realize that but I have no job. I have minimal balance in a week of 100
sys : (Information) Okay, can you reduce any expenses? Maybe a subscription?
usr : I don't have a job and husband pays all the bills and subscriptions. We live paycheck to paycheck and he said this is my fault i pay
usr : this would be fine if i had an income and had money that i could do that but I told you before I don't have a job so that doesn't help me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you have more free time, you can spend it on Amazon Mturk? It is a good way to earn extra money.
usr : That sounds interesting. How do I make money
sys : (Question) Aren't you an Amazon Mturk worker?
usr : Yes thats how I m doing this survey but not sure if we are supposed to talk about it
usr : I think you are supposed to chat to me as a stranger coming to you for help
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Oh I see, I was only suggesting an avenue that can help you pay off you debt. I can reword it.
usr : ok go ahead
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can find work online doing surveys or freelance work. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | (Question) hello, what is on your mind today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
| (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
| (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
| (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
| (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
| (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
| (Question) are you in a relationship? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
| (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
| (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
usr : except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
usr : lot of blood *
| (Self-disclosure) i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
usr : except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
usr : lot of blood *
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given
usr : yes , we need to do and arrange the house
| (Reflection of feelings) I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
usr : except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
usr : lot of blood *
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given
usr : yes , we need to do and arrange the house
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me
usr : yes dear , we will do like that ..you a such a brave and caring person
| (Providing Suggestions) well, you have time to get the house ready and when covid restrictions lift get yourself in a moms group so you have support and people to answer questions when they come up! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
usr : except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
usr : lot of blood *
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given
usr : yes , we need to do and arrange the house
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me
usr : yes dear , we will do like that ..you a such a brave and caring person
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, you have time to get the house ready and when covid restrictions lift get yourself in a moms group so you have support and people to answer questions when they come up!
| (Providing Suggestions) i found a moms group on facebook. They were great to answer pregnancy questions and offer support and suggestions. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
usr : except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
usr : lot of blood *
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given
usr : yes , we need to do and arrange the house
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me
usr : yes dear , we will do like that ..you a such a brave and caring person
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, you have time to get the house ready and when covid restrictions lift get yourself in a moms group so you have support and people to answer questions when they come up!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i found a moms group on facebook. They were great to answer pregnancy questions and offer support and suggestions.
usr : wow is it ..please share the name
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) the depression is normal too. you suffered a loss. Your hormones are still out of whack, those take some time to get back to normal |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
usr : except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
usr : lot of blood *
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given
usr : yes , we need to do and arrange the house
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me
usr : yes dear , we will do like that ..you a such a brave and caring person
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, you have time to get the house ready and when covid restrictions lift get yourself in a moms group so you have support and people to answer questions when they come up!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i found a moms group on facebook. They were great to answer pregnancy questions and offer support and suggestions.
usr : wow is it ..please share the name
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the depression is normal too. you suffered a loss. Your hormones are still out of whack, those take some time to get back to normal
| (Providing Suggestions) i just searched for the county i live in and moms group. i bet there is one in your area too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
usr : except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
usr : lot of blood *
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given
usr : yes , we need to do and arrange the house
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me
usr : yes dear , we will do like that ..you a such a brave and caring person
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, you have time to get the house ready and when covid restrictions lift get yourself in a moms group so you have support and people to answer questions when they come up!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i found a moms group on facebook. They were great to answer pregnancy questions and offer support and suggestions.
usr : wow is it ..please share the name
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the depression is normal too. you suffered a loss. Your hormones are still out of whack, those take some time to get back to normal
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i just searched for the county i live in and moms group. i bet there is one in your area too!
usr : yea dear ..sure will check and will add in that groups ..it will help for me
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) it will :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
usr : except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
usr : lot of blood *
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given
usr : yes , we need to do and arrange the house
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me
usr : yes dear , we will do like that ..you a such a brave and caring person
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, you have time to get the house ready and when covid restrictions lift get yourself in a moms group so you have support and people to answer questions when they come up!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i found a moms group on facebook. They were great to answer pregnancy questions and offer support and suggestions.
usr : wow is it ..please share the name
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the depression is normal too. you suffered a loss. Your hormones are still out of whack, those take some time to get back to normal
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i just searched for the county i live in and moms group. i bet there is one in your area too!
usr : yea dear ..sure will check and will add in that groups ..it will help for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it will :)
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) just hang in there and remember everything happens for a reason, even though we may not know the reason and we don't like that it happened! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"i am currently suffering from my recent miscarriage of my baby . In this winter i lost my baby in car itself while going to medical shop.Without doctor or any medical help i lost my baby in lot of bleeding.It leads to lot of depression". | sys : (Question) hello, what is on your mind today?
usr : my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
usr : i crying everyday and went to depression
usr : how to overcome this pain
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) miscarriages are really hard
sys : (Self-disclosure) I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
sys : (Self-disclosure) It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
usr : yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
usr : oh god , you are a such brave person
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
usr : this is my first pregnancy
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
sys : (Providing Suggestions) my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
usr : yes that is heard and not able to mingle
sys : (Question) are you in a relationship?
usr : yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
usr : yes ,married my childhood best friend
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) that is great, i hope he is supportive.
sys : (Information) you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
usr : yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that is a lot going on at once!
usr : yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
usr : except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
usr : lot of blood *
sys : (Self-disclosure) i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given
usr : yes , we need to do and arrange the house
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me
usr : yes dear , we will do like that ..you a such a brave and caring person
sys : (Providing Suggestions) well, you have time to get the house ready and when covid restrictions lift get yourself in a moms group so you have support and people to answer questions when they come up!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i found a moms group on facebook. They were great to answer pregnancy questions and offer support and suggestions.
usr : wow is it ..please share the name
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the depression is normal too. you suffered a loss. Your hormones are still out of whack, those take some time to get back to normal
sys : (Providing Suggestions) i just searched for the county i live in and moms group. i bet there is one in your area too!
usr : yea dear ..sure will check and will add in that groups ..it will help for me
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) it will :)
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) just hang in there and remember everything happens for a reason, even though we may not know the reason and we don't like that it happened!
usr : thank you dear for ur kind words
usr : sure dear , will do and time will solve many issues
| (Others) i wish you luck and health! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | (Question) Hi! How are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
| (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
| (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
usr : my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
| (Self-disclosure) Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
usr : my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.
usr : I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps
| (Others) Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
usr : my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.
usr : I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps
sys : (Others) Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild.
usr : She is beautiful and new to this world. I look into her face and I think maybe she knows more than everyone says..she has got her grandpa and grandma hooked...know what I mean?
| (Reflection of feelings) Yes definitely! That is wonderful, I am sure she looks forward to meeting you. And luckily with Facebook you are able to get updates and to virtually see her. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
usr : my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.
usr : I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps
sys : (Others) Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild.
usr : She is beautiful and new to this world. I look into her face and I think maybe she knows more than everyone says..she has got her grandpa and grandma hooked...know what I mean?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes definitely! That is wonderful, I am sure she looks forward to meeting you. And luckily with Facebook you are able to get updates and to virtually see her.
usr : I think it would be better when all of this is over so we can see her in real time
usr : time
| (Information) Oh yes of course that is something to look forward to. For now we just have to remain inside so that you and your new granddaughter can both stay healthy. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
usr : my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.
usr : I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps
sys : (Others) Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild.
usr : She is beautiful and new to this world. I look into her face and I think maybe she knows more than everyone says..she has got her grandpa and grandma hooked...know what I mean?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes definitely! That is wonderful, I am sure she looks forward to meeting you. And luckily with Facebook you are able to get updates and to virtually see her.
usr : I think it would be better when all of this is over so we can see her in real time
usr : time
sys : (Information) Oh yes of course that is something to look forward to. For now we just have to remain inside so that you and your new granddaughter can both stay healthy.
usr : my daughter knows I would do anything for her and for my grandchild...staying in should be easy...right?
| (Question) That awesome. Hobbies are definitely helpful for staying inside. Have you picked up any new hobbies with the extra time we have been spending inside? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
usr : my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.
usr : I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps
sys : (Others) Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild.
usr : She is beautiful and new to this world. I look into her face and I think maybe she knows more than everyone says..she has got her grandpa and grandma hooked...know what I mean?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes definitely! That is wonderful, I am sure she looks forward to meeting you. And luckily with Facebook you are able to get updates and to virtually see her.
usr : I think it would be better when all of this is over so we can see her in real time
usr : time
sys : (Information) Oh yes of course that is something to look forward to. For now we just have to remain inside so that you and your new granddaughter can both stay healthy.
usr : my daughter knows I would do anything for her and for my grandchild...staying in should be easy...right?
sys : (Question) That awesome. Hobbies are definitely helpful for staying inside. Have you picked up any new hobbies with the extra time we have been spending inside?
usr : because I am a wounded vet, I get craft kits from the wounded warrior site...I have learned how to sew and make jewelry..something I have never done before
| (Question) Thank you for your service. That is awesome. Have you made anything for your daughter/granddaughter yet? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
usr : my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.
usr : I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps
sys : (Others) Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild.
usr : She is beautiful and new to this world. I look into her face and I think maybe she knows more than everyone says..she has got her grandpa and grandma hooked...know what I mean?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes definitely! That is wonderful, I am sure she looks forward to meeting you. And luckily with Facebook you are able to get updates and to virtually see her.
usr : I think it would be better when all of this is over so we can see her in real time
usr : time
sys : (Information) Oh yes of course that is something to look forward to. For now we just have to remain inside so that you and your new granddaughter can both stay healthy.
usr : my daughter knows I would do anything for her and for my grandchild...staying in should be easy...right?
sys : (Question) That awesome. Hobbies are definitely helpful for staying inside. Have you picked up any new hobbies with the extra time we have been spending inside?
usr : because I am a wounded vet, I get craft kits from the wounded warrior site...I have learned how to sew and make jewelry..something I have never done before
sys : (Question) Thank you for your service. That is awesome. Have you made anything for your daughter/granddaughter yet?
usr : if you need more info contact Help Heal Veterans online...they send kits at no charge to vet
usr : yes I have main a couple of things but daughter says she might wait until the little one is older...you know to be safe...
usr : I made a beaded "choker" for my daughter
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes that makes sense. You could always get a head start on future birthday presents for your granddaughter haha. I am sure she would love any jewelry made by you to wear in the future. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
usr : my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.
usr : I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps
sys : (Others) Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild.
usr : She is beautiful and new to this world. I look into her face and I think maybe she knows more than everyone says..she has got her grandpa and grandma hooked...know what I mean?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes definitely! That is wonderful, I am sure she looks forward to meeting you. And luckily with Facebook you are able to get updates and to virtually see her.
usr : I think it would be better when all of this is over so we can see her in real time
usr : time
sys : (Information) Oh yes of course that is something to look forward to. For now we just have to remain inside so that you and your new granddaughter can both stay healthy.
usr : my daughter knows I would do anything for her and for my grandchild...staying in should be easy...right?
sys : (Question) That awesome. Hobbies are definitely helpful for staying inside. Have you picked up any new hobbies with the extra time we have been spending inside?
usr : because I am a wounded vet, I get craft kits from the wounded warrior site...I have learned how to sew and make jewelry..something I have never done before
sys : (Question) Thank you for your service. That is awesome. Have you made anything for your daughter/granddaughter yet?
usr : if you need more info contact Help Heal Veterans online...they send kits at no charge to vet
usr : yes I have main a couple of things but daughter says she might wait until the little one is older...you know to be safe...
usr : I made a beaded "choker" for my daughter
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes that makes sense. You could always get a head start on future birthday presents for your granddaughter haha. I am sure she would love any jewelry made by you to wear in the future.
usr : yes I will keep that in mind...sorry to end this but I have a phone call to attend to..okay?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes of course. I hope you have a great night and enjoy your phone call. Just remember all these covid restrictions are temporary and soon you will be able to reunite with your daughter and granddaughter! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have developed "cabin fever". not being able to go out and do something has put me in depression.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : not too great at the moment
sys : (Question) Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
usr : because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
usr : and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
usr : yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
usr : my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.
usr : I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps
sys : (Others) Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild.
usr : She is beautiful and new to this world. I look into her face and I think maybe she knows more than everyone says..she has got her grandpa and grandma hooked...know what I mean?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Yes definitely! That is wonderful, I am sure she looks forward to meeting you. And luckily with Facebook you are able to get updates and to virtually see her.
usr : I think it would be better when all of this is over so we can see her in real time
usr : time
sys : (Information) Oh yes of course that is something to look forward to. For now we just have to remain inside so that you and your new granddaughter can both stay healthy.
usr : my daughter knows I would do anything for her and for my grandchild...staying in should be easy...right?
sys : (Question) That awesome. Hobbies are definitely helpful for staying inside. Have you picked up any new hobbies with the extra time we have been spending inside?
usr : because I am a wounded vet, I get craft kits from the wounded warrior site...I have learned how to sew and make jewelry..something I have never done before
sys : (Question) Thank you for your service. That is awesome. Have you made anything for your daughter/granddaughter yet?
usr : if you need more info contact Help Heal Veterans online...they send kits at no charge to vet
usr : yes I have main a couple of things but daughter says she might wait until the little one is older...you know to be safe...
usr : I made a beaded "choker" for my daughter
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes that makes sense. You could always get a head start on future birthday presents for your granddaughter haha. I am sure she would love any jewelry made by you to wear in the future.
usr : yes I will keep that in mind...sorry to end this but I have a phone call to attend to..okay?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes of course. I hope you have a great night and enjoy your phone call. Just remember all these covid restrictions are temporary and soon you will be able to reunite with your daughter and granddaughter!
usr : I want to thank you for your time and support..you are very courteous and respectful...may you have a great holiday and new year
| (Others) Of course anytime. I enjoyed talking with you too. Have a wonderful holiday too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
| (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
| (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
| (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
| (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
sys : (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
usr : she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
| (Self-disclosure) What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
sys : (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
usr : she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
usr : i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
| (Others) Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
sys : (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
usr : she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
usr : i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
sys : (Others) Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think!
usr : haha yep. i think my dog is thrilled with having the extra bed space, as mean as that sounds
| (Providing Suggestions) LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
sys : (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
usr : she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
usr : i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
sys : (Others) Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think!
usr : haha yep. i think my dog is thrilled with having the extra bed space, as mean as that sounds
sys : (Providing Suggestions) LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over?
usr : Yep, ill be getting back to my life and plans after. i have a bad heart condition so ive had to stay inside pretty much all year. also another messed up thing my ex did to me, cheated on me and then came back into the house. she could have passed it to me.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear about your heart condition, that obvious compounds your problems. I believe that things are going to improve in the New Year though |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
sys : (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
usr : she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
usr : i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
sys : (Others) Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think!
usr : haha yep. i think my dog is thrilled with having the extra bed space, as mean as that sounds
sys : (Providing Suggestions) LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over?
usr : Yep, ill be getting back to my life and plans after. i have a bad heart condition so ive had to stay inside pretty much all year. also another messed up thing my ex did to me, cheated on me and then came back into the house. she could have passed it to me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear about your heart condition, that obvious compounds your problems. I believe that things are going to improve in the New Year though
| (Others) Let's face it, there does come a time when it seems that not much can get worse |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
sys : (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
usr : she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
usr : i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
sys : (Others) Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think!
usr : haha yep. i think my dog is thrilled with having the extra bed space, as mean as that sounds
sys : (Providing Suggestions) LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over?
usr : Yep, ill be getting back to my life and plans after. i have a bad heart condition so ive had to stay inside pretty much all year. also another messed up thing my ex did to me, cheated on me and then came back into the house. she could have passed it to me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear about your heart condition, that obvious compounds your problems. I believe that things are going to improve in the New Year though
sys : (Others) Let's face it, there does come a time when it seems that not much can get worse
usr : and thats when it gets worse haha
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to look on the bright side of things :) At least you can't be dumped twice ;) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
sys : (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
usr : she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
usr : i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
sys : (Others) Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think!
usr : haha yep. i think my dog is thrilled with having the extra bed space, as mean as that sounds
sys : (Providing Suggestions) LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over?
usr : Yep, ill be getting back to my life and plans after. i have a bad heart condition so ive had to stay inside pretty much all year. also another messed up thing my ex did to me, cheated on me and then came back into the house. she could have passed it to me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear about your heart condition, that obvious compounds your problems. I believe that things are going to improve in the New Year though
sys : (Others) Let's face it, there does come a time when it seems that not much can get worse
usr : and thats when it gets worse haha
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to look on the bright side of things :) At least you can't be dumped twice ;)
usr : haha thats true. thats comforting thanks
| (Others) I hope that one day you feel that you will be able to date and trust another person though. Don't let one bad apple put you off for life. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
sys : (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
usr : she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
usr : i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
sys : (Others) Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think!
usr : haha yep. i think my dog is thrilled with having the extra bed space, as mean as that sounds
sys : (Providing Suggestions) LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over?
usr : Yep, ill be getting back to my life and plans after. i have a bad heart condition so ive had to stay inside pretty much all year. also another messed up thing my ex did to me, cheated on me and then came back into the house. she could have passed it to me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear about your heart condition, that obvious compounds your problems. I believe that things are going to improve in the New Year though
sys : (Others) Let's face it, there does come a time when it seems that not much can get worse
usr : and thats when it gets worse haha
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to look on the bright side of things :) At least you can't be dumped twice ;)
usr : haha thats true. thats comforting thanks
sys : (Others) I hope that one day you feel that you will be able to date and trust another person though. Don't let one bad apple put you off for life.
| (Others) Anyway it has been very nice to chat, I hope that I was able to be of help |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"my girlfriend dumped me. sad.". | sys : (Question) Hello there, how is life treating you today?
usr : terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
usr : 7 years
sys : (Question) Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
usr : probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
usr : they cheated on me
sys : (Self-disclosure) I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
usr : thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
sys : (Others) Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
usr : thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
sys : (Others) Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
usr : she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
sys : (Self-disclosure) What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
usr : i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
sys : (Others) Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think!
usr : haha yep. i think my dog is thrilled with having the extra bed space, as mean as that sounds
sys : (Providing Suggestions) LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over?
usr : Yep, ill be getting back to my life and plans after. i have a bad heart condition so ive had to stay inside pretty much all year. also another messed up thing my ex did to me, cheated on me and then came back into the house. she could have passed it to me.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear about your heart condition, that obvious compounds your problems. I believe that things are going to improve in the New Year though
sys : (Others) Let's face it, there does come a time when it seems that not much can get worse
usr : and thats when it gets worse haha
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Try to look on the bright side of things :) At least you can't be dumped twice ;)
usr : haha thats true. thats comforting thanks
sys : (Others) I hope that one day you feel that you will be able to date and trust another person though. Don't let one bad apple put you off for life.
sys : (Others) Anyway it has been very nice to chat, I hope that I was able to be of help
usr : totally, thanks.
| (Others) Enjoy the rest of your day! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
| (Question) Hi! How are you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : am good ..what about you?
| (Question) I'm doing well. How can I help you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : am good ..what about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well. How can I help you today?
usr : a break up with my partner please read up
| (Self-disclosure) I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : am good ..what about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well. How can I help you today?
usr : a break up with my partner please read up
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened?
| (Question) Are you there? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : am good ..what about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well. How can I help you today?
usr : a break up with my partner please read up
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened?
sys : (Question) Are you there?
usr : yes i am ahere
usr : i and this lady dated for 2weeks
usr : suddenly she said she doesn't love me anymore imagine that
| (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry, I'm sure that has made you feel rejected. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : am good ..what about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well. How can I help you today?
usr : a break up with my partner please read up
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened?
sys : (Question) Are you there?
usr : yes i am ahere
usr : i and this lady dated for 2weeks
usr : suddenly she said she doesn't love me anymore imagine that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry, I'm sure that has made you feel rejected.
usr : very well
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it is hard to express how you feel with it being a short relationship, people may not understand. But sometimes we can feel such a strong connection and have faith in people very fast. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : am good ..what about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well. How can I help you today?
usr : a break up with my partner please read up
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened?
sys : (Question) Are you there?
usr : yes i am ahere
usr : i and this lady dated for 2weeks
usr : suddenly she said she doesn't love me anymore imagine that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry, I'm sure that has made you feel rejected.
usr : very well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it is hard to express how you feel with it being a short relationship, people may not understand. But sometimes we can feel such a strong connection and have faith in people very fast.
usr : its very hard
usr : i loved the girl with all my heart
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand feeling connected to someone you've only known for a short amount of time. I'm sure you feel like you wont be able to let your guard down again anytime soon. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : am good ..what about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well. How can I help you today?
usr : a break up with my partner please read up
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened?
sys : (Question) Are you there?
usr : yes i am ahere
usr : i and this lady dated for 2weeks
usr : suddenly she said she doesn't love me anymore imagine that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry, I'm sure that has made you feel rejected.
usr : very well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it is hard to express how you feel with it being a short relationship, people may not understand. But sometimes we can feel such a strong connection and have faith in people very fast.
usr : its very hard
usr : i loved the girl with all my heart
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand feeling connected to someone you've only known for a short amount of time. I'm sure you feel like you wont be able to let your guard down again anytime soon.
usr : yes i have faith in people very fast
usr : seriously its like your seeing my mind
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe this could be a learning experience? I always try to see the best in people, but have learned to let people earn my trust. Not just get it for free. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : am good ..what about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well. How can I help you today?
usr : a break up with my partner please read up
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened?
sys : (Question) Are you there?
usr : yes i am ahere
usr : i and this lady dated for 2weeks
usr : suddenly she said she doesn't love me anymore imagine that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry, I'm sure that has made you feel rejected.
usr : very well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it is hard to express how you feel with it being a short relationship, people may not understand. But sometimes we can feel such a strong connection and have faith in people very fast.
usr : its very hard
usr : i loved the girl with all my heart
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand feeling connected to someone you've only known for a short amount of time. I'm sure you feel like you wont be able to let your guard down again anytime soon.
usr : yes i have faith in people very fast
usr : seriously its like your seeing my mind
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe this could be a learning experience? I always try to see the best in people, but have learned to let people earn my trust. Not just get it for free.
usr : yeah
| (Question) Is there anything positive in your life that you can try to focus your attention on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i and this lady went on a date last week, we were both in love and so i asked her out on our first date.... she told me yes the next day slept over at her place and we had sex... after a week she started behaving strange.. by the time i called her so we could talk she said she doesn't love me anymore". | usr : hi
sys : (Question) Hi! How are you today?
usr : am good ..what about you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well. How can I help you today?
usr : a break up with my partner please read up
sys : (Self-disclosure) I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened?
sys : (Question) Are you there?
usr : yes i am ahere
usr : i and this lady dated for 2weeks
usr : suddenly she said she doesn't love me anymore imagine that
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I'm sorry, I'm sure that has made you feel rejected.
usr : very well
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sure it is hard to express how you feel with it being a short relationship, people may not understand. But sometimes we can feel such a strong connection and have faith in people very fast.
usr : its very hard
usr : i loved the girl with all my heart
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand feeling connected to someone you've only known for a short amount of time. I'm sure you feel like you wont be able to let your guard down again anytime soon.
usr : yes i have faith in people very fast
usr : seriously its like your seeing my mind
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe this could be a learning experience? I always try to see the best in people, but have learned to let people earn my trust. Not just get it for free.
usr : yeah
sys : (Question) Is there anything positive in your life that you can try to focus your attention on?
usr : i heard is better to let a girl love you thank for you loving her
usr : yes
usr : my ACHEIVEMENT IN LIFE AND WORK
| (Question) Do you enjoy your job? What are some of your achievements? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | (Question) Hi! How are you doing today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
| (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
| (Others) What was he in NYC for? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
sys : (Others) What was he in NYC for?
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried getting counseling together? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
sys : (Others) What was he in NYC for?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried getting counseling together?
usr : He went to school there and left school to get acting jobs. He did get his sag and equity cards. He was also working as a caterer. Everything dried up due to Covid. In June, I convinced him to get into therapy but it is slow and I see jealousy with directed at my boyfriend.
| (Providing Suggestions) Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
sys : (Others) What was he in NYC for?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried getting counseling together?
usr : He went to school there and left school to get acting jobs. He did get his sag and equity cards. He was also working as a caterer. Everything dried up due to Covid. In June, I convinced him to get into therapy but it is slow and I see jealousy with directed at my boyfriend.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together.
| (Self-disclosure) I know my brother had a lot of tension with my mom and finding something they could bond over really helped. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
sys : (Others) What was he in NYC for?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried getting counseling together?
usr : He went to school there and left school to get acting jobs. He did get his sag and equity cards. He was also working as a caterer. Everything dried up due to Covid. In June, I convinced him to get into therapy but it is slow and I see jealousy with directed at my boyfriend.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know my brother had a lot of tension with my mom and finding something they could bond over really helped.
usr : I have tried biking and hiking as well as other activities. He is openly hostile. He does not want anything to do with my boyfriend. He does not want me to go to therapy with him.
| (Question) Does he give a reason why? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
sys : (Others) What was he in NYC for?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried getting counseling together?
usr : He went to school there and left school to get acting jobs. He did get his sag and equity cards. He was also working as a caterer. Everything dried up due to Covid. In June, I convinced him to get into therapy but it is slow and I see jealousy with directed at my boyfriend.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know my brother had a lot of tension with my mom and finding something they could bond over really helped.
usr : I have tried biking and hiking as well as other activities. He is openly hostile. He does not want anything to do with my boyfriend. He does not want me to go to therapy with him.
sys : (Question) Does he give a reason why?
usr : He says to he does not like my boyfriend. He does not seem to appreciate that he is an adult living in our house. He is rather moody.
| (Question) How does your boyfriend handle it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
sys : (Others) What was he in NYC for?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried getting counseling together?
usr : He went to school there and left school to get acting jobs. He did get his sag and equity cards. He was also working as a caterer. Everything dried up due to Covid. In June, I convinced him to get into therapy but it is slow and I see jealousy with directed at my boyfriend.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know my brother had a lot of tension with my mom and finding something they could bond over really helped.
usr : I have tried biking and hiking as well as other activities. He is openly hostile. He does not want anything to do with my boyfriend. He does not want me to go to therapy with him.
sys : (Question) Does he give a reason why?
usr : He says to he does not like my boyfriend. He does not seem to appreciate that he is an adult living in our house. He is rather moody.
sys : (Question) How does your boyfriend handle it?
usr : Not too well I am afraid. He wants Andrew not to yell or be disrespectful. They have gotten into many arguments with each ordering the other out of the house. I work 50 to 60 hour weeks and this is stressing me. I want to make them happy. I feel there are two alpha males in the house. My son clearly needs boundries, but I want him to finish school and stay safe during covid
| (Providing Suggestions) That's such a hard position to be in. I am so so sorry that you need to go through this. I think trying to get them to therapy would be realaly amazing for both of you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
sys : (Others) What was he in NYC for?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried getting counseling together?
usr : He went to school there and left school to get acting jobs. He did get his sag and equity cards. He was also working as a caterer. Everything dried up due to Covid. In June, I convinced him to get into therapy but it is slow and I see jealousy with directed at my boyfriend.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know my brother had a lot of tension with my mom and finding something they could bond over really helped.
usr : I have tried biking and hiking as well as other activities. He is openly hostile. He does not want anything to do with my boyfriend. He does not want me to go to therapy with him.
sys : (Question) Does he give a reason why?
usr : He says to he does not like my boyfriend. He does not seem to appreciate that he is an adult living in our house. He is rather moody.
sys : (Question) How does your boyfriend handle it?
usr : Not too well I am afraid. He wants Andrew not to yell or be disrespectful. They have gotten into many arguments with each ordering the other out of the house. I work 50 to 60 hour weeks and this is stressing me. I want to make them happy. I feel there are two alpha males in the house. My son clearly needs boundries, but I want him to finish school and stay safe during covid
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's such a hard position to be in. I am so so sorry that you need to go through this. I think trying to get them to therapy would be realaly amazing for both of you.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can incentivize your son to go somehow |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
sys : (Others) What was he in NYC for?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried getting counseling together?
usr : He went to school there and left school to get acting jobs. He did get his sag and equity cards. He was also working as a caterer. Everything dried up due to Covid. In June, I convinced him to get into therapy but it is slow and I see jealousy with directed at my boyfriend.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know my brother had a lot of tension with my mom and finding something they could bond over really helped.
usr : I have tried biking and hiking as well as other activities. He is openly hostile. He does not want anything to do with my boyfriend. He does not want me to go to therapy with him.
sys : (Question) Does he give a reason why?
usr : He says to he does not like my boyfriend. He does not seem to appreciate that he is an adult living in our house. He is rather moody.
sys : (Question) How does your boyfriend handle it?
usr : Not too well I am afraid. He wants Andrew not to yell or be disrespectful. They have gotten into many arguments with each ordering the other out of the house. I work 50 to 60 hour weeks and this is stressing me. I want to make them happy. I feel there are two alpha males in the house. My son clearly needs boundries, but I want him to finish school and stay safe during covid
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's such a hard position to be in. I am so so sorry that you need to go through this. I think trying to get them to therapy would be realaly amazing for both of you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can incentivize your son to go somehow
usr : I can try. I am trying to help him get through school, but if the behavior does not change he will have to leave. I don't want to chose my boyfriend over my son. I would rather side with my son, however he is acting like a spoiled child.
| (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes kids need some tough love which is really hard todo. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My 25 year old son moved back home from NYC last March due to Covid. My boyfriend and I own the home together. My son due to losing his job has gone back to school online. The problem is that my son is so moody and disagreeable that my boyfriend is ready to move out and break up. We have lived together for 3 years.". | sys : (Question) Hi! How are you doing today?
usr : I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
sys : (Question) That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
usr : Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
sys : (Others) What was he in NYC for?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried getting counseling together?
usr : He went to school there and left school to get acting jobs. He did get his sag and equity cards. He was also working as a caterer. Everything dried up due to Covid. In June, I convinced him to get into therapy but it is slow and I see jealousy with directed at my boyfriend.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know my brother had a lot of tension with my mom and finding something they could bond over really helped.
usr : I have tried biking and hiking as well as other activities. He is openly hostile. He does not want anything to do with my boyfriend. He does not want me to go to therapy with him.
sys : (Question) Does he give a reason why?
usr : He says to he does not like my boyfriend. He does not seem to appreciate that he is an adult living in our house. He is rather moody.
sys : (Question) How does your boyfriend handle it?
usr : Not too well I am afraid. He wants Andrew not to yell or be disrespectful. They have gotten into many arguments with each ordering the other out of the house. I work 50 to 60 hour weeks and this is stressing me. I want to make them happy. I feel there are two alpha males in the house. My son clearly needs boundries, but I want him to finish school and stay safe during covid
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's such a hard position to be in. I am so so sorry that you need to go through this. I think trying to get them to therapy would be realaly amazing for both of you.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you can incentivize your son to go somehow
usr : I can try. I am trying to help him get through school, but if the behavior does not change he will have to leave. I don't want to chose my boyfriend over my son. I would rather side with my son, however he is acting like a spoiled child.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Sometimes kids need some tough love which is really hard todo.
usr : Thank you. I did tell my parents who are in their 80's not to take him in. I feel that he needs to make decisions or at least have some kind of respect or gratitude while living here.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) What did your parents say? |
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