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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.". | usr : Hi there.
sys : (Question) hi how are you today? How can I assist you?
usr : I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate.
usr : It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems you are working really hard and in stress due to your classes.
usr : Yes, I am working really hard.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) The good part is you are giving your best and keep doing it. don't think too much about the result. These kind of dreams are the worries inside you.
usr : It's hard not to think about the result when the stress is interfering with my studying. I don't know how to manage the stress.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can understand the situation you are going through. You are working hard and keep doing it and try to mediate for few minutes in a day. Hope that will release your stress.
usr : Okay, meditation. I can do that.
usr : But what else can I do?
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I am in stress I do mediation and it gives me relaxation and a new way to think. sometime our body and mind need peace to work better.
usr : I've never meditated before. I'm not sure how. I even worry about meditating, my goodness.
sys : (Others) Mediation is just to concentrate on your breath. There are so many videos on internet. You can take short break when you feel exhausted and talk to friend and family for a while. It will help you.
usr : Okay, I'll try that. Hopefully it helps. I'm just so worried about graduating now that I'm so close.
sys : (Others) You will graduate with flying colors. My best wishes are there with you. stay focused and calm. That's the mantra. Hope you will achieve whatever you want. Best wishes!
usr : Thank you!
usr : I'm so close to getting my degree, and it's been a long time coming!
sys : (Question) Is there something else that I can help you with? The time will go fast. don't worry
usr : I know, only two months left! And I only had two classes left this semester, so maybe that's why I keep dreaming I've forgotten a class.
usr : Did you have a similar experience sometime?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can do it I am pretty sure. Keep working on your goal.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I had such kind of anxiety when I was in college. The best way to come out from it is to stay focused and calm.
usr : It does make me feel better that it's a pretty universal feeling.
| (Others) yes, It happen with all human being I believe. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown". | (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown". | sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with today?
usr : Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is very understandable. Depression is tough to deal with. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown". | sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with today?
usr : Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is very understandable. Depression is tough to deal with.
| (Question) Do you have specific things that are causing you sadness right now or is it an overall feeling of being sad? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown". | sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with today?
usr : Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is very understandable. Depression is tough to deal with.
sys : (Question) Do you have specific things that are causing you sadness right now or is it an overall feeling of being sad?
usr : It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know?
| (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand. Losing your job is a very rough thing to go through, I'm sorry that happened to you. Feeling constantly at red alert is taxing both mentally and physically. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown". | sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with today?
usr : Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is very understandable. Depression is tough to deal with.
sys : (Question) Do you have specific things that are causing you sadness right now or is it an overall feeling of being sad?
usr : It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand. Losing your job is a very rough thing to go through, I'm sorry that happened to you. Feeling constantly at red alert is taxing both mentally and physically.
| (Self-disclosure) There is a concept called Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and sometimes I find it useful to think about if my needs are being met, and which is lacking. Which is to say, obviously financial security is your primary need at the moment, but there are other needs you must attend to as well, including your physical comforts. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown". | sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with today?
usr : Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is very understandable. Depression is tough to deal with.
sys : (Question) Do you have specific things that are causing you sadness right now or is it an overall feeling of being sad?
usr : It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand. Losing your job is a very rough thing to go through, I'm sorry that happened to you. Feeling constantly at red alert is taxing both mentally and physically.
sys : (Self-disclosure) There is a concept called Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and sometimes I find it useful to think about if my needs are being met, and which is lacking. Which is to say, obviously financial security is your primary need at the moment, but there are other needs you must attend to as well, including your physical comforts.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) In times of great stress and upheaval, there is only so much you can do. The rest is worry, a hamster running in a wheel, a huge output of energy that does nothing at all. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown". | sys : (Others) Good morning! What can I help you with today?
usr : Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is very understandable. Depression is tough to deal with.
sys : (Question) Do you have specific things that are causing you sadness right now or is it an overall feeling of being sad?
usr : It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I totally understand. Losing your job is a very rough thing to go through, I'm sorry that happened to you. Feeling constantly at red alert is taxing both mentally and physically.
sys : (Self-disclosure) There is a concept called Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and sometimes I find it useful to think about if my needs are being met, and which is lacking. Which is to say, obviously financial security is your primary need at the moment, but there are other needs you must attend to as well, including your physical comforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) In times of great stress and upheaval, there is only so much you can do. The rest is worry, a hamster running in a wheel, a huge output of energy that does nothing at all.
usr : Yeah that makes sense but I've spent so much time thinking about my finances that I've sort of burned myself out
usr : Like I have no energy even to be thankful for the other little stuff
| (Reflection of feelings) That makes sense. You sound emotionally exhausted. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
| (Others) Hello |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
| (Others) I am so sorry to hear. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
| (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
| (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
| (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
usr : CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen.
usr : Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
| (Providing Suggestions) Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
usr : CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen.
usr : Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
usr : I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city
usr : But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
| (Reflection of feelings) You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
usr : CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen.
usr : Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
usr : I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city
usr : But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.
usr : i really appreciate your encouragement
usr : i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps
usr : have you any other suggestions for me?
| (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
usr : CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen.
usr : Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
usr : I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city
usr : But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.
usr : i really appreciate your encouragement
usr : i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps
usr : have you any other suggestions for me?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.
usr : unfortunately i cannot afford to move
usr : the rents are too high in her city
| (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
usr : CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen.
usr : Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
usr : I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city
usr : But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.
usr : i really appreciate your encouragement
usr : i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps
usr : have you any other suggestions for me?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.
usr : unfortunately i cannot afford to move
usr : the rents are too high in her city
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help.
usr : hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion
| (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that I thought close contact will make her vigil and makes her more responsible. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
usr : CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen.
usr : Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
usr : I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city
usr : But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.
usr : i really appreciate your encouragement
usr : i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps
usr : have you any other suggestions for me?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.
usr : unfortunately i cannot afford to move
usr : the rents are too high in her city
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help.
usr : hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that I thought close contact will make her vigil and makes her more responsible.
usr : I'll tell you though....this was the issue I chose....but it's a past issue....she is now 3 months clean and doing well :)
usr : i am so relieved and happy for her
usr : just wanted to end up with some good news for you :)
| (Others) Oh very nice to hear and super proud of her. I would like to thank you as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
usr : CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen.
usr : Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
usr : I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city
usr : But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.
usr : i really appreciate your encouragement
usr : i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps
usr : have you any other suggestions for me?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.
usr : unfortunately i cannot afford to move
usr : the rents are too high in her city
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help.
usr : hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that I thought close contact will make her vigil and makes her more responsible.
usr : I'll tell you though....this was the issue I chose....but it's a past issue....she is now 3 months clean and doing well :)
usr : i am so relieved and happy for her
usr : just wanted to end up with some good news for you :)
sys : (Others) Oh very nice to hear and super proud of her. I would like to thank you as well.
usr : Thank you so much for your help today!
usr : All the best
| (Others) You were directly and indirectly helping her. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
usr : CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen.
usr : Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
usr : I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city
usr : But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.
usr : i really appreciate your encouragement
usr : i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps
usr : have you any other suggestions for me?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.
usr : unfortunately i cannot afford to move
usr : the rents are too high in her city
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help.
usr : hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that I thought close contact will make her vigil and makes her more responsible.
usr : I'll tell you though....this was the issue I chose....but it's a past issue....she is now 3 months clean and doing well :)
usr : i am so relieved and happy for her
usr : just wanted to end up with some good news for you :)
sys : (Others) Oh very nice to hear and super proud of her. I would like to thank you as well.
usr : Thank you so much for your help today!
usr : All the best
sys : (Others) You were directly and indirectly helping her.
usr : yes...was a tough slog lol
usr : Thank you again :)
usr : bye
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome. Strong and Beautiful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an Issues with Children. The seeker says
"my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.". | usr : hello
usr : i am so worried about my daughter
sys : (Others) Hello
sys : (Others) I am so sorry to hear.
usr : she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life
usr : which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
usr : yes, often
usr : but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
usr : i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually
usr : in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
usr : indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome.
usr : it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
sys : (Self-disclosure) You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
usr : CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen.
usr : Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
usr : I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city
usr : But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.
usr : i really appreciate your encouragement
usr : i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps
usr : have you any other suggestions for me?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.
usr : unfortunately i cannot afford to move
usr : the rents are too high in her city
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help.
usr : hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Sorry to hear that I thought close contact will make her vigil and makes her more responsible.
usr : I'll tell you though....this was the issue I chose....but it's a past issue....she is now 3 months clean and doing well :)
usr : i am so relieved and happy for her
usr : just wanted to end up with some good news for you :)
sys : (Others) Oh very nice to hear and super proud of her. I would like to thank you as well.
usr : Thank you so much for your help today!
usr : All the best
sys : (Others) You were directly and indirectly helping her.
usr : yes...was a tough slog lol
usr : Thank you again :)
usr : bye
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome. Strong and Beautiful.
| (Others) Bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | (Question) Hi, How are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
| (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
| (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
| (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
| (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
| (Question) Do they know that you are struggling? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.
| (Providing Suggestions) Is there someone else you could talk to? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there someone else you could talk to?
usr : I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much
| (Question) Do you listen to his or her problems too? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there someone else you could talk to?
usr : I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much
sys : (Question) Do you listen to his or her problems too?
| (Providing Suggestions) You could check in with your friend to see how they are feeling about your communication. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there someone else you could talk to?
usr : I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much
sys : (Question) Do you listen to his or her problems too?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could check in with your friend to see how they are feeling about your communication.
usr : yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes
| (Information) When people feel they are burdening their friends, it sometimes means they should find a counsellor to talk to. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there someone else you could talk to?
usr : I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much
sys : (Question) Do you listen to his or her problems too?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could check in with your friend to see how they are feeling about your communication.
usr : yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes
sys : (Information) When people feel they are burdening their friends, it sometimes means they should find a counsellor to talk to.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Venting is important, it's true. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there someone else you could talk to?
usr : I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much
sys : (Question) Do you listen to his or her problems too?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could check in with your friend to see how they are feeling about your communication.
usr : yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes
sys : (Information) When people feel they are burdening their friends, it sometimes means they should find a counsellor to talk to.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Venting is important, it's true.
usr : yea I did that and it helped me cope a lot better since I don't hurt myself anymore at least
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really positive. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there someone else you could talk to?
usr : I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much
sys : (Question) Do you listen to his or her problems too?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could check in with your friend to see how they are feeling about your communication.
usr : yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes
sys : (Information) When people feel they are burdening their friends, it sometimes means they should find a counsellor to talk to.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Venting is important, it's true.
usr : yea I did that and it helped me cope a lot better since I don't hurt myself anymore at least
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really positive.
usr : yea! also thank you very much for letting me vent it does help a lot
| (Others) You're welcome. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there someone else you could talk to?
usr : I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much
sys : (Question) Do you listen to his or her problems too?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could check in with your friend to see how they are feeling about your communication.
usr : yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes
sys : (Information) When people feel they are burdening their friends, it sometimes means they should find a counsellor to talk to.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Venting is important, it's true.
usr : yea I did that and it helped me cope a lot better since I don't hurt myself anymore at least
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really positive.
usr : yea! also thank you very much for letting me vent it does help a lot
sys : (Others) You're welcome.
| (Self-disclosure) I know what it's like to not know the future and to be depressed. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,". | sys : (Question) Hi, How are you?
usr : i'm kind of tired, you?
sys : (Question) I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
usr : This job I work in because its hard getting a better one
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you are looking for a better job?
usr : I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected
sys : (Self-disclosure) Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.
usr : yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are feeling down about that situation.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?
usr : yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Everyone progresses at their own rate.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.
sys : (Others) Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.
usr : thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also
sys : (Question) Do they know that you are struggling?
usr : yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there someone else you could talk to?
usr : I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much
sys : (Question) Do you listen to his or her problems too?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You could check in with your friend to see how they are feeling about your communication.
usr : yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes
sys : (Information) When people feel they are burdening their friends, it sometimes means they should find a counsellor to talk to.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Venting is important, it's true.
usr : yea I did that and it helped me cope a lot better since I don't hurt myself anymore at least
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's really positive.
usr : yea! also thank you very much for letting me vent it does help a lot
sys : (Others) You're welcome.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know what it's like to not know the future and to be depressed.
usr : Thank you very much for listening and hope you have a good day!
| (Others) You too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | (Question) hello there, how is life treating you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
| (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
| (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
| (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
| (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
| (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
| (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?
usr : yes it is
| (Question) Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?
usr : yes it is
sys : (Question) Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you?
usr : I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small
| (Question) Can you tell me some more specific details |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?
usr : yes it is
sys : (Question) Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you?
usr : I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small
sys : (Question) Can you tell me some more specific details
usr : We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that
usr : we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that
usr : thus truly kicking me out
| (Self-disclosure) To me this sounds like a very toxic relationship. I have been in a similar situation and I really think that it is best that you move on from this. You do not need this level of toxicity in your life |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?
usr : yes it is
sys : (Question) Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you?
usr : I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small
sys : (Question) Can you tell me some more specific details
usr : We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that
usr : we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that
usr : thus truly kicking me out
sys : (Self-disclosure) To me this sounds like a very toxic relationship. I have been in a similar situation and I really think that it is best that you move on from this. You do not need this level of toxicity in your life
usr : I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide
| (Others) Unfortunately that is often how it works with such people. Would you be able to make a completely new break and move away? I know it's hard. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?
usr : yes it is
sys : (Question) Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you?
usr : I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small
sys : (Question) Can you tell me some more specific details
usr : We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that
usr : we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that
usr : thus truly kicking me out
sys : (Self-disclosure) To me this sounds like a very toxic relationship. I have been in a similar situation and I really think that it is best that you move on from this. You do not need this level of toxicity in your life
usr : I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide
sys : (Others) Unfortunately that is often how it works with such people. Would you be able to make a completely new break and move away? I know it's hard.
usr : I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trying hard to mend the quarrel but he is not putting in any effort himself? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?
usr : yes it is
sys : (Question) Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you?
usr : I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small
sys : (Question) Can you tell me some more specific details
usr : We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that
usr : we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that
usr : thus truly kicking me out
sys : (Self-disclosure) To me this sounds like a very toxic relationship. I have been in a similar situation and I really think that it is best that you move on from this. You do not need this level of toxicity in your life
usr : I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide
sys : (Others) Unfortunately that is often how it works with such people. Would you be able to make a completely new break and move away? I know it's hard.
usr : I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trying hard to mend the quarrel but he is not putting in any effort himself?
usr : I dont feel like he is. He still thinks I should apologize to him for what I said but I don't think what i said was bad at all or warrented his reaction
usr : he has not done any of the assignments th e therapist has given either
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do not feel that you are the one in the wrong. Unfortunately, there are some people that you just can't reach |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?
usr : yes it is
sys : (Question) Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you?
usr : I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small
sys : (Question) Can you tell me some more specific details
usr : We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that
usr : we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that
usr : thus truly kicking me out
sys : (Self-disclosure) To me this sounds like a very toxic relationship. I have been in a similar situation and I really think that it is best that you move on from this. You do not need this level of toxicity in your life
usr : I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide
sys : (Others) Unfortunately that is often how it works with such people. Would you be able to make a completely new break and move away? I know it's hard.
usr : I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trying hard to mend the quarrel but he is not putting in any effort himself?
usr : I dont feel like he is. He still thinks I should apologize to him for what I said but I don't think what i said was bad at all or warrented his reaction
usr : he has not done any of the assignments th e therapist has given either
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do not feel that you are the one in the wrong. Unfortunately, there are some people that you just can't reach
usr : i believe that is the case as well, thank you for your help
| (Others) You are more than welcome. I do hope that you can break free from this relationship and find some way to be happy though. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?
usr : yes it is
sys : (Question) Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you?
usr : I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small
sys : (Question) Can you tell me some more specific details
usr : We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that
usr : we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that
usr : thus truly kicking me out
sys : (Self-disclosure) To me this sounds like a very toxic relationship. I have been in a similar situation and I really think that it is best that you move on from this. You do not need this level of toxicity in your life
usr : I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide
sys : (Others) Unfortunately that is often how it works with such people. Would you be able to make a completely new break and move away? I know it's hard.
usr : I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trying hard to mend the quarrel but he is not putting in any effort himself?
usr : I dont feel like he is. He still thinks I should apologize to him for what I said but I don't think what i said was bad at all or warrented his reaction
usr : he has not done any of the assignments th e therapist has given either
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do not feel that you are the one in the wrong. Unfortunately, there are some people that you just can't reach
usr : i believe that is the case as well, thank you for your help
sys : (Others) You are more than welcome. I do hope that you can break free from this relationship and find some way to be happy though.
usr : Thank you very much, I hope your situation is not as bad anymore as well, its a hard situation for anyone
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things are very much better for me now. I promise that they will be for you soon too! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.". | sys : (Question) hello there, how is life treating you?
usr : life is pretty bad latley
usr : feels like stress after stress
sys : (Question) I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?
usr : 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him
usr : im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?
usr : I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life
usr : i feel wrong by the situation
sys : (Self-disclosure) I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?
usr : I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize
sys : (Information) There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?
usr : what other options are there?
sys : (Information) There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.
usr : I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Please know that you are not alone in this situation.
usr : Thank you i appreciate that
sys : (Question) Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?
usr : its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him
usr : i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?
usr : yes it is
sys : (Question) Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you?
usr : I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small
sys : (Question) Can you tell me some more specific details
usr : We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that
usr : we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that
usr : thus truly kicking me out
sys : (Self-disclosure) To me this sounds like a very toxic relationship. I have been in a similar situation and I really think that it is best that you move on from this. You do not need this level of toxicity in your life
usr : I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide
sys : (Others) Unfortunately that is often how it works with such people. Would you be able to make a completely new break and move away? I know it's hard.
usr : I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you feel that you are trying hard to mend the quarrel but he is not putting in any effort himself?
usr : I dont feel like he is. He still thinks I should apologize to him for what I said but I don't think what i said was bad at all or warrented his reaction
usr : he has not done any of the assignments th e therapist has given either
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I do not feel that you are the one in the wrong. Unfortunately, there are some people that you just can't reach
usr : i believe that is the case as well, thank you for your help
sys : (Others) You are more than welcome. I do hope that you can break free from this relationship and find some way to be happy though.
usr : Thank you very much, I hope your situation is not as bad anymore as well, its a hard situation for anyone
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things are very much better for me now. I promise that they will be for you soon too!
usr : thank you :) I will be ending this session now but i appreciate your time
| (Others) You are most welcome and all the best to you. Happy Holidays! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
| (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.
| (Question) Have you talked to anyone about this? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to anyone about this?
usr : Thank youu
usr : Not really spoken to anyone
usr : I just felt anger and called it quits
usr : And he woudnt stop lying about it
usr : and feeling entitled
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. He did not respect you and chose to lie until the end |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to anyone about this?
usr : Thank youu
usr : Not really spoken to anyone
usr : I just felt anger and called it quits
usr : And he woudnt stop lying about it
usr : and feeling entitled
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. He did not respect you and chose to lie until the end
usr : I guess
| (Others) However, he's not worth getting angry over. You should save your energy for yourself |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to anyone about this?
usr : Thank youu
usr : Not really spoken to anyone
usr : I just felt anger and called it quits
usr : And he woudnt stop lying about it
usr : and feeling entitled
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. He did not respect you and chose to lie until the end
usr : I guess
sys : (Others) However, he's not worth getting angry over. You should save your energy for yourself
| (Others) Use this time to invest in what you've always wanted to do |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to anyone about this?
usr : Thank youu
usr : Not really spoken to anyone
usr : I just felt anger and called it quits
usr : And he woudnt stop lying about it
usr : and feeling entitled
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. He did not respect you and chose to lie until the end
usr : I guess
sys : (Others) However, he's not worth getting angry over. You should save your energy for yourself
sys : (Others) Use this time to invest in what you've always wanted to do
usr : Yea i know right
usr : I had only felt anger at the initial sage i guess for both him and my friend
usr : However, that stage passed
| (Reflection of feelings) You are a strong person. Just cut tie with both of them, you deserve better |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to anyone about this?
usr : Thank youu
usr : Not really spoken to anyone
usr : I just felt anger and called it quits
usr : And he woudnt stop lying about it
usr : and feeling entitled
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. He did not respect you and chose to lie until the end
usr : I guess
sys : (Others) However, he's not worth getting angry over. You should save your energy for yourself
sys : (Others) Use this time to invest in what you've always wanted to do
usr : Yea i know right
usr : I had only felt anger at the initial sage i guess for both him and my friend
usr : However, that stage passed
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are a strong person. Just cut tie with both of them, you deserve better
usr : Certainly did
usr : Its totally ok
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It seems like you're doing very well despite what happened |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to anyone about this?
usr : Thank youu
usr : Not really spoken to anyone
usr : I just felt anger and called it quits
usr : And he woudnt stop lying about it
usr : and feeling entitled
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. He did not respect you and chose to lie until the end
usr : I guess
sys : (Others) However, he's not worth getting angry over. You should save your energy for yourself
sys : (Others) Use this time to invest in what you've always wanted to do
usr : Yea i know right
usr : I had only felt anger at the initial sage i guess for both him and my friend
usr : However, that stage passed
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are a strong person. Just cut tie with both of them, you deserve better
usr : Certainly did
usr : Its totally ok
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It seems like you're doing very well despite what happened
usr : I chose not to dwell in the negative but rather be happy and look forward to better relationship both sides in the future
| (Others) that's absolutely the right attitude. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to anyone about this?
usr : Thank youu
usr : Not really spoken to anyone
usr : I just felt anger and called it quits
usr : And he woudnt stop lying about it
usr : and feeling entitled
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. He did not respect you and chose to lie until the end
usr : I guess
sys : (Others) However, he's not worth getting angry over. You should save your energy for yourself
sys : (Others) Use this time to invest in what you've always wanted to do
usr : Yea i know right
usr : I had only felt anger at the initial sage i guess for both him and my friend
usr : However, that stage passed
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are a strong person. Just cut tie with both of them, you deserve better
usr : Certainly did
usr : Its totally ok
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It seems like you're doing very well despite what happened
usr : I chose not to dwell in the negative but rather be happy and look forward to better relationship both sides in the future
sys : (Others) that's absolutely the right attitude.
| (Self-disclosure) I believe if you invest in yourself to become a better version, someone deserves you will appear soon |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I had a nasty breakup with my boyfriend. He stepped out on me and lied to my face.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, what's on your mind today?
usr : Hello Gday
usr : How are you tiday?
sys : (Question) I'm good, anything I can help you with?
usr : I had to break up with my boyfriend cos he was cheating with a friend of mine
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) oh no... I'm sorry to hear that.
sys : (Question) Have you talked to anyone about this?
usr : Thank youu
usr : Not really spoken to anyone
usr : I just felt anger and called it quits
usr : And he woudnt stop lying about it
usr : and feeling entitled
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You did the right thing. He did not respect you and chose to lie until the end
usr : I guess
sys : (Others) However, he's not worth getting angry over. You should save your energy for yourself
sys : (Others) Use this time to invest in what you've always wanted to do
usr : Yea i know right
usr : I had only felt anger at the initial sage i guess for both him and my friend
usr : However, that stage passed
sys : (Reflection of feelings) You are a strong person. Just cut tie with both of them, you deserve better
usr : Certainly did
usr : Its totally ok
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It seems like you're doing very well despite what happened
usr : I chose not to dwell in the negative but rather be happy and look forward to better relationship both sides in the future
sys : (Others) that's absolutely the right attitude.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I believe if you invest in yourself to become a better version, someone deserves you will appear soon
usr : Thank you so much for listening
usr : Absolutely
| (Others) you're welcome, it's nice to meet someone with positive attitude |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
| (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
| (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
| (Others) okay |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
| (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
| (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
| (Question) what's happening with your woman friend? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
| (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
sys : (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do
| (Question) what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
sys : (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do
sys : (Question) what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing
usr : ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
sys : (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do
sys : (Question) what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing
usr : ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going
| (Question) does she ask your advice? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
sys : (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do
sys : (Question) what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing
usr : ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going
sys : (Question) does she ask your advice?
usr : at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it
| (Question) Does she ask you for advice or do you offer it without her asking? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
sys : (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do
sys : (Question) what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing
usr : ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going
sys : (Question) does she ask your advice?
usr : at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it
sys : (Question) Does she ask you for advice or do you offer it without her asking?
usr : OH yeah lot of rules are lifted and will go back to normal
usr : yes she asked me but when I went out of my way to help she never comply
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see....so it sounds like she asked your advice, you gave her your advice, but she didn't follow it... |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
sys : (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do
sys : (Question) what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing
usr : ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going
sys : (Question) does she ask your advice?
usr : at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it
sys : (Question) Does she ask you for advice or do you offer it without her asking?
usr : OH yeah lot of rules are lifted and will go back to normal
usr : yes she asked me but when I went out of my way to help she never comply
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see....so it sounds like she asked your advice, you gave her your advice, but she didn't follow it...
usr : ok we been together for almost 14 minutes another one minute will say goodbye
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe she needs time to think over all of her options for herself, maybe it would help if you are patient while she does |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
sys : (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do
sys : (Question) what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing
usr : ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going
sys : (Question) does she ask your advice?
usr : at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it
sys : (Question) Does she ask you for advice or do you offer it without her asking?
usr : OH yeah lot of rules are lifted and will go back to normal
usr : yes she asked me but when I went out of my way to help she never comply
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see....so it sounds like she asked your advice, you gave her your advice, but she didn't follow it...
usr : ok we been together for almost 14 minutes another one minute will say goodbye
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe she needs time to think over all of her options for herself, maybe it would help if you are patient while she does
| (Others) ok |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
sys : (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do
sys : (Question) what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing
usr : ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going
sys : (Question) does she ask your advice?
usr : at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it
sys : (Question) Does she ask you for advice or do you offer it without her asking?
usr : OH yeah lot of rules are lifted and will go back to normal
usr : yes she asked me but when I went out of my way to help she never comply
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see....so it sounds like she asked your advice, you gave her your advice, but she didn't follow it...
usr : ok we been together for almost 14 minutes another one minute will say goodbye
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe she needs time to think over all of her options for herself, maybe it would help if you are patient while she does
sys : (Others) ok
usr : what else you have to do today besides helping people?
| (Self-disclosure) i am going for a walk later...I live in Ontario CAnada....it's a bit cool and windy today but I try to get out every day |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise". | sys : (Question) hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?
usr : I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?
sys : (Question) ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know I have been finding it really challenging
usr : lets starts from chatting from scratch
sys : (Others) okay
usr : you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?
sys : (Question) hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?
usr : I have relation issue with a woman friend
usr : yes yes that was the question
sys : (Self-disclosure) I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back
sys : (Question) what's happening with your woman friend?
usr : I probably in the near future will try to help people too
sys : (Others) I hope you will find it reward like i do
sys : (Question) what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?
usr : I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing
usr : ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going
sys : (Question) does she ask your advice?
usr : at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it
sys : (Question) Does she ask you for advice or do you offer it without her asking?
usr : OH yeah lot of rules are lifted and will go back to normal
usr : yes she asked me but when I went out of my way to help she never comply
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see....so it sounds like she asked your advice, you gave her your advice, but she didn't follow it...
usr : ok we been together for almost 14 minutes another one minute will say goodbye
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe she needs time to think over all of her options for herself, maybe it would help if you are patient while she does
sys : (Others) ok
usr : what else you have to do today besides helping people?
sys : (Self-disclosure) i am going for a walk later...I live in Ontario CAnada....it's a bit cool and windy today but I try to get out every day
| (Self-disclosure) we just entered another lockdown here |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I'm very nervous for them.". | usr : hello!
| (Others) hello there |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I'm very nervous for them.". | usr : hello!
sys : (Others) hello there
usr : I'm stressed about my finals :(
| (Question) When is your finals? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I'm very nervous for them.". | usr : hello!
sys : (Others) hello there
usr : I'm stressed about my finals :(
sys : (Question) When is your finals?
usr : They are in 1.5 weeks.
| (Question) Have you reviewed all of your materials? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I'm very nervous for them.". | usr : hello!
sys : (Others) hello there
usr : I'm stressed about my finals :(
sys : (Question) When is your finals?
usr : They are in 1.5 weeks.
sys : (Question) Have you reviewed all of your materials?
usr : I'm just getting started with doing that for three of my classes. One of my other classes I have already been studying for about a week.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) As long as you prepare, you shouldn't be too worried about it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I'm very nervous for them.". | usr : hello!
sys : (Others) hello there
usr : I'm stressed about my finals :(
sys : (Question) When is your finals?
usr : They are in 1.5 weeks.
sys : (Question) Have you reviewed all of your materials?
usr : I'm just getting started with doing that for three of my classes. One of my other classes I have already been studying for about a week.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) As long as you prepare, you shouldn't be too worried about it
usr : Yes but I'm still anxious that I won't prepare enough and I'll get bad grades
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are only 1.5 weeks away from the exam, the only thing you can do right now is studying as hard as you can. There's no point worrying |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I'm very nervous for them.". | usr : hello!
sys : (Others) hello there
usr : I'm stressed about my finals :(
sys : (Question) When is your finals?
usr : They are in 1.5 weeks.
sys : (Question) Have you reviewed all of your materials?
usr : I'm just getting started with doing that for three of my classes. One of my other classes I have already been studying for about a week.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) As long as you prepare, you shouldn't be too worried about it
usr : Yes but I'm still anxious that I won't prepare enough and I'll get bad grades
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are only 1.5 weeks away from the exam, the only thing you can do right now is studying as hard as you can. There's no point worrying
usr : That is true
| (Reflection of feelings) So as long as you try your best, you already did everything you could |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I'm very nervous for them.". | usr : hello!
sys : (Others) hello there
usr : I'm stressed about my finals :(
sys : (Question) When is your finals?
usr : They are in 1.5 weeks.
sys : (Question) Have you reviewed all of your materials?
usr : I'm just getting started with doing that for three of my classes. One of my other classes I have already been studying for about a week.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) As long as you prepare, you shouldn't be too worried about it
usr : Yes but I'm still anxious that I won't prepare enough and I'll get bad grades
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are only 1.5 weeks away from the exam, the only thing you can do right now is studying as hard as you can. There's no point worrying
usr : That is true
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So as long as you try your best, you already did everything you could
usr : I will try and study really hard the next couple days then
| (Others) Howeve, i would use the last day before the finals to relax and avoid overwhelming your brain |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have finals coming up and I'm very nervous for them.". | usr : hello!
sys : (Others) hello there
usr : I'm stressed about my finals :(
sys : (Question) When is your finals?
usr : They are in 1.5 weeks.
sys : (Question) Have you reviewed all of your materials?
usr : I'm just getting started with doing that for three of my classes. One of my other classes I have already been studying for about a week.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) As long as you prepare, you shouldn't be too worried about it
usr : Yes but I'm still anxious that I won't prepare enough and I'll get bad grades
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are only 1.5 weeks away from the exam, the only thing you can do right now is studying as hard as you can. There's no point worrying
usr : That is true
sys : (Reflection of feelings) So as long as you try your best, you already did everything you could
usr : I will try and study really hard the next couple days then
sys : (Others) Howeve, i would use the last day before the finals to relax and avoid overwhelming your brain
usr : ohh that's a good idea. thank you! I'll do some relaxing activities that day
| (Others) with that short of a time, maybe you should ask your friends and go over main points together |
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