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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you think she may, have started a relationship with someone else?
usr : Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ok, well that doesn't sound pleasant and must be difficult to hear. Perhaps her feelings have changed and there isn't necessarily another person involved?
usr : She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than me. I can't believe she is doing this to me!
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok so it seems like you are quite angry at the moment at the thought of her with someone else, is that true?
usr : Yes I suppose it is true. The thing is I thought things were going well and she is stressed out at work with her new job but we were getting on great!
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a similar experience myself. My partner was stressed and I was busy myself. It turns out that I wasn't paying him enough attention and this made him feel like I didn't think he was important to me any more.
usr : I haven't thought of it like that before but still I want to talk to her about it not just text me randomly and hint at ending things.
sys : (Self-disclosure) From my experience, when I actually talked to my boyfriend we agreed to make more time for each other and things did improve.
usr : Okay what do you think I should do about it because the text seemed very final? Looks like she has made her mind up already about things.
sys : (Information) Sometimes people say one thing but actually mean another. They are complicated and don't always say what they really mean.
usr : Do you think that she wants to talk rather than end the relationship?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I cannot say for certain however I think you should talk to her but also prepare yourself for the fact that she may actually want to spend some time apart or end the relationship. it would be wise to prepare for that outcome as upsetting as it may be.
usr : That makes sense but it is not what I want to hear. After all we have been through together, we were even talking about getting our own place together and now all that will be for nothing!
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think you are reflecting on your plans together and the thought of the relationship ending is making you upset and angry.
usr : Yes that's right. I know getting angry doesn't help but I want things to go back to the way they were.
sys : (Information) Ok so based on what you have told me I think that your girlfriend has got a new job and you are planning on moving in together is that correct?
usr : Yes that's right but that's what couples do isn't it?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is but that is a lot of change all happening at once. Perhaps she is getting a little bit scared and rather than dealing with the situation she is running away, perhaps you should talk about this and see how she responds?
usr : I still think there is someone else that has come between us.
sys : (Question) Have you got any evidence of this like seen a text message or has she behaves strangely?
usr : No I haven't, it is just a feeling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ok well it is natural to feel like this sometimes. People tend to fear the worst.
usr : So do you think I should try and talk to her and ask her outright if she has met someone else?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think rather than ask her that question directly, you could start the conversation and ask her why she is feeling this way. This would show you care and are prepared to listen without jumping to conclusions.
usr : I think I do need to calm down a bit and maybe talking to her would be the best way to start. I don;t know what I'd do though if she ended it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) The best thing to do would be prepared to have the conversation, stay calm and listen. She may just want to talk but also be prepared as it may not go the way you plan.
usr : Ok well maybe if I show her that I can stay calm and strong then she will stay with me?
sys : (Information) Be prepared that she may end the relationship but getting angry is likely not to change her mind. Getting angry does not improve difficult conversations.
usr : I suppose I could go into it and listen as you have said, there could be other reasons like the new job or maybe morning in that is causing some of it. I'll try and keep calm but it is hard when emotions run high.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Take a deep breath and try to relax beforehand. Staying positive and allowing her to speak will make for a better conversation. She will be more likely to open up to you.
usr : That is actually pretty good advice. I hope we stay together and there is nobody else though.
| (Others) I hope you manage to work it through and can at least talk about your feelings |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My girlfriend just told me our relationship isn't working by text. She has recently started a new job and I think she may have met someone else.". | sys : (Question) How are you doing today?
usr : I'm not feeling great. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So you think she may, have started a relationship with someone else?
usr : Yes, I think so although I don't have any proof. Things were going really well and then all of a sudden she text me and told me things aren't working.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ok, well that doesn't sound pleasant and must be difficult to hear. Perhaps her feelings have changed and there isn't necessarily another person involved?
usr : She has started a new job and I think she might have met someone at work that she likes better than me. I can't believe she is doing this to me!
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Ok so it seems like you are quite angry at the moment at the thought of her with someone else, is that true?
usr : Yes I suppose it is true. The thing is I thought things were going well and she is stressed out at work with her new job but we were getting on great!
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had a similar experience myself. My partner was stressed and I was busy myself. It turns out that I wasn't paying him enough attention and this made him feel like I didn't think he was important to me any more.
usr : I haven't thought of it like that before but still I want to talk to her about it not just text me randomly and hint at ending things.
sys : (Self-disclosure) From my experience, when I actually talked to my boyfriend we agreed to make more time for each other and things did improve.
usr : Okay what do you think I should do about it because the text seemed very final? Looks like she has made her mind up already about things.
sys : (Information) Sometimes people say one thing but actually mean another. They are complicated and don't always say what they really mean.
usr : Do you think that she wants to talk rather than end the relationship?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I cannot say for certain however I think you should talk to her but also prepare yourself for the fact that she may actually want to spend some time apart or end the relationship. it would be wise to prepare for that outcome as upsetting as it may be.
usr : That makes sense but it is not what I want to hear. After all we have been through together, we were even talking about getting our own place together and now all that will be for nothing!
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I think you are reflecting on your plans together and the thought of the relationship ending is making you upset and angry.
usr : Yes that's right. I know getting angry doesn't help but I want things to go back to the way they were.
sys : (Information) Ok so based on what you have told me I think that your girlfriend has got a new job and you are planning on moving in together is that correct?
usr : Yes that's right but that's what couples do isn't it?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) It is but that is a lot of change all happening at once. Perhaps she is getting a little bit scared and rather than dealing with the situation she is running away, perhaps you should talk about this and see how she responds?
usr : I still think there is someone else that has come between us.
sys : (Question) Have you got any evidence of this like seen a text message or has she behaves strangely?
usr : No I haven't, it is just a feeling.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Ok well it is natural to feel like this sometimes. People tend to fear the worst.
usr : So do you think I should try and talk to her and ask her outright if she has met someone else?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think rather than ask her that question directly, you could start the conversation and ask her why she is feeling this way. This would show you care and are prepared to listen without jumping to conclusions.
usr : I think I do need to calm down a bit and maybe talking to her would be the best way to start. I don;t know what I'd do though if she ended it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) The best thing to do would be prepared to have the conversation, stay calm and listen. She may just want to talk but also be prepared as it may not go the way you plan.
usr : Ok well maybe if I show her that I can stay calm and strong then she will stay with me?
sys : (Information) Be prepared that she may end the relationship but getting angry is likely not to change her mind. Getting angry does not improve difficult conversations.
usr : I suppose I could go into it and listen as you have said, there could be other reasons like the new job or maybe morning in that is causing some of it. I'll try and keep calm but it is hard when emotions run high.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Take a deep breath and try to relax beforehand. Staying positive and allowing her to speak will make for a better conversation. She will be more likely to open up to you.
usr : That is actually pretty good advice. I hope we stay together and there is nobody else though.
sys : (Others) I hope you manage to work it through and can at least talk about your feelings
usr : Hey thanks for the words of wisdom. Not sure I'll like the chat but I'll try and stay calm.
| (Others) You are very welcome and take care |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
| (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
| (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
| (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
| (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
| (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other.
usr : yeah but i had a good family right now.i don't want to hurt them either.
| (Information) That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other.
usr : yeah but i had a good family right now.i don't want to hurt them either.
sys : (Information) That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation.
usr : YEAH REALLY THANKS FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS.I REALLY WORK ON IT.
| (Others) Best wishes for you! Please let me know if you need any other help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other.
usr : yeah but i had a good family right now.i don't want to hurt them either.
sys : (Information) That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation.
usr : YEAH REALLY THANKS FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS.I REALLY WORK ON IT.
sys : (Others) Best wishes for you! Please let me know if you need any other help.
usr : Really thanks for that.you done a great job.If i need any help means surely i'll revert you back.
| (Others) ok! Have a wonderful day! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other.
usr : yeah but i had a good family right now.i don't want to hurt them either.
sys : (Information) That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation.
usr : YEAH REALLY THANKS FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS.I REALLY WORK ON IT.
sys : (Others) Best wishes for you! Please let me know if you need any other help.
usr : Really thanks for that.you done a great job.If i need any help means surely i'll revert you back.
sys : (Others) ok! Have a wonderful day!
usr : Sure you to have a great day.
| (Others) I think you should submit the test now |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other.
usr : yeah but i had a good family right now.i don't want to hurt them either.
sys : (Information) That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation.
usr : YEAH REALLY THANKS FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS.I REALLY WORK ON IT.
sys : (Others) Best wishes for you! Please let me know if you need any other help.
usr : Really thanks for that.you done a great job.If i need any help means surely i'll revert you back.
sys : (Others) ok! Have a wonderful day!
usr : Sure you to have a great day.
sys : (Others) I think you should submit the test now
usr : May be you should submit the test.
| (Others) I don't have the option to do that as a Peer supporter |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other.
usr : yeah but i had a good family right now.i don't want to hurt them either.
sys : (Information) That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation.
usr : YEAH REALLY THANKS FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS.I REALLY WORK ON IT.
sys : (Others) Best wishes for you! Please let me know if you need any other help.
usr : Really thanks for that.you done a great job.If i need any help means surely i'll revert you back.
sys : (Others) ok! Have a wonderful day!
usr : Sure you to have a great day.
sys : (Others) I think you should submit the test now
usr : May be you should submit the test.
sys : (Others) I don't have the option to do that as a Peer supporter
usr : i too don't have an option like that.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It at right bottom below where we are typing chat |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other.
usr : yeah but i had a good family right now.i don't want to hurt them either.
sys : (Information) That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation.
usr : YEAH REALLY THANKS FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS.I REALLY WORK ON IT.
sys : (Others) Best wishes for you! Please let me know if you need any other help.
usr : Really thanks for that.you done a great job.If i need any help means surely i'll revert you back.
sys : (Others) ok! Have a wonderful day!
usr : Sure you to have a great day.
sys : (Others) I think you should submit the test now
usr : May be you should submit the test.
sys : (Others) I don't have the option to do that as a Peer supporter
usr : i too don't have an option like that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It at right bottom below where we are typing chat
usr : yeah but its not been only finish,its been finish and quit button.i don't want quit here.
| (Others) yes click on that. You can only do that. I have only quit option. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other.
usr : yeah but i had a good family right now.i don't want to hurt them either.
sys : (Information) That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation.
usr : YEAH REALLY THANKS FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS.I REALLY WORK ON IT.
sys : (Others) Best wishes for you! Please let me know if you need any other help.
usr : Really thanks for that.you done a great job.If i need any help means surely i'll revert you back.
sys : (Others) ok! Have a wonderful day!
usr : Sure you to have a great day.
sys : (Others) I think you should submit the test now
usr : May be you should submit the test.
sys : (Others) I don't have the option to do that as a Peer supporter
usr : i too don't have an option like that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It at right bottom below where we are typing chat
usr : yeah but its not been only finish,its been finish and quit button.i don't want quit here.
sys : (Others) yes click on that. You can only do that. I have only quit option.
usr : if i quit what happen then
| (Others) Your test will be summited , don't worry. After you have to if a short survey. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an Alcohol Abuse. The seeker says
"once am in love with someone but he left me alone as nothing happend". | usr : once i feel very happy when he was with me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct
usr : yeah but right now i would be recovering myself
sys : (Question) May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?
usr : yeah he is in Canada right now.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.
usr : yeah its been really hard for me before.But right now i am with my family.so i just recover from that.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.
sys : (Self-disclosure) When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often.
usr : yeah i realize that too
usr : no i think thats make me again hurt
sys : (Others) May I know do you have any issues with each other?
usr : no we dont have any issues between us.Its a situation that he decide to left me.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other.
usr : yeah but i had a good family right now.i don't want to hurt them either.
sys : (Information) That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation.
usr : YEAH REALLY THANKS FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS.I REALLY WORK ON IT.
sys : (Others) Best wishes for you! Please let me know if you need any other help.
usr : Really thanks for that.you done a great job.If i need any help means surely i'll revert you back.
sys : (Others) ok! Have a wonderful day!
usr : Sure you to have a great day.
sys : (Others) I think you should submit the test now
usr : May be you should submit the test.
sys : (Others) I don't have the option to do that as a Peer supporter
usr : i too don't have an option like that.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It at right bottom below where we are typing chat
usr : yeah but its not been only finish,its been finish and quit button.i don't want quit here.
sys : (Others) yes click on that. You can only do that. I have only quit option.
usr : if i quit what happen then
sys : (Others) Your test will be summited , don't worry. After you have to if a short survey.
| (Others) I can quit the test if you want me to do that, but we both won't be compensated then. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | (Question) Hi, can I help you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
| (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense.
usr : I feel guilty about it
| (Others) You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense.
usr : I feel guilty about it
sys : (Others) You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband?
usr : I have a wife and we have been together for 18 years, married for 5. I did alot of damage to our relationship when I was drinking and i'm not sure it will ever be the same
| (Others) Could you be transferring feelings because she has been there for you through a rough time and maybe you feel understood more than you do in your marriage? Can you talk to your wife about your feelings openly? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense.
usr : I feel guilty about it
sys : (Others) You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband?
usr : I have a wife and we have been together for 18 years, married for 5. I did alot of damage to our relationship when I was drinking and i'm not sure it will ever be the same
sys : (Others) Could you be transferring feelings because she has been there for you through a rough time and maybe you feel understood more than you do in your marriage? Can you talk to your wife about your feelings openly?
usr : about having feelings for another woman? NO...we have tried some marriage counseling apps things get better then go back.
| (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I was also married at one time and had similar issues. We never could get passed some issued like having kids or not. I understand it can be difficult coming to terms with someone. It doesn't always work out. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense.
usr : I feel guilty about it
sys : (Others) You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband?
usr : I have a wife and we have been together for 18 years, married for 5. I did alot of damage to our relationship when I was drinking and i'm not sure it will ever be the same
sys : (Others) Could you be transferring feelings because she has been there for you through a rough time and maybe you feel understood more than you do in your marriage? Can you talk to your wife about your feelings openly?
usr : about having feelings for another woman? NO...we have tried some marriage counseling apps things get better then go back.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I was also married at one time and had similar issues. We never could get passed some issued like having kids or not. I understand it can be difficult coming to terms with someone. It doesn't always work out.
usr : I have changed a great deal in the past 2.5 years even though it's been for the better it's difficult for my wife to reconcile the old and new
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes a lot of sense and good for you. That's an awesome testament to your hard work.Does your mentor feel the same way about you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense.
usr : I feel guilty about it
sys : (Others) You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband?
usr : I have a wife and we have been together for 18 years, married for 5. I did alot of damage to our relationship when I was drinking and i'm not sure it will ever be the same
sys : (Others) Could you be transferring feelings because she has been there for you through a rough time and maybe you feel understood more than you do in your marriage? Can you talk to your wife about your feelings openly?
usr : about having feelings for another woman? NO...we have tried some marriage counseling apps things get better then go back.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I was also married at one time and had similar issues. We never could get passed some issued like having kids or not. I understand it can be difficult coming to terms with someone. It doesn't always work out.
usr : I have changed a great deal in the past 2.5 years even though it's been for the better it's difficult for my wife to reconcile the old and new
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes a lot of sense and good for you. That's an awesome testament to your hard work.Does your mentor feel the same way about you?
usr : I never intended to have these feelings for my friend...it just developed over time. I would never tell her though and ruin our friendship.
| (Reflection of feelings) Do you have sense that she has deeper feelings for you and that might be what you are picking up on and contributing to your feelings? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense.
usr : I feel guilty about it
sys : (Others) You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband?
usr : I have a wife and we have been together for 18 years, married for 5. I did alot of damage to our relationship when I was drinking and i'm not sure it will ever be the same
sys : (Others) Could you be transferring feelings because she has been there for you through a rough time and maybe you feel understood more than you do in your marriage? Can you talk to your wife about your feelings openly?
usr : about having feelings for another woman? NO...we have tried some marriage counseling apps things get better then go back.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I was also married at one time and had similar issues. We never could get passed some issued like having kids or not. I understand it can be difficult coming to terms with someone. It doesn't always work out.
usr : I have changed a great deal in the past 2.5 years even though it's been for the better it's difficult for my wife to reconcile the old and new
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes a lot of sense and good for you. That's an awesome testament to your hard work.Does your mentor feel the same way about you?
usr : I never intended to have these feelings for my friend...it just developed over time. I would never tell her though and ruin our friendship.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Do you have sense that she has deeper feelings for you and that might be what you are picking up on and contributing to your feelings?
usr : we have a very unique, strong loving, friendship that is completely platonic. she is happily married and has a strong faith, would never cheat.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a mentor who you don't have strong feelings for and slowing down your friendship? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense.
usr : I feel guilty about it
sys : (Others) You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband?
usr : I have a wife and we have been together for 18 years, married for 5. I did alot of damage to our relationship when I was drinking and i'm not sure it will ever be the same
sys : (Others) Could you be transferring feelings because she has been there for you through a rough time and maybe you feel understood more than you do in your marriage? Can you talk to your wife about your feelings openly?
usr : about having feelings for another woman? NO...we have tried some marriage counseling apps things get better then go back.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I was also married at one time and had similar issues. We never could get passed some issued like having kids or not. I understand it can be difficult coming to terms with someone. It doesn't always work out.
usr : I have changed a great deal in the past 2.5 years even though it's been for the better it's difficult for my wife to reconcile the old and new
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes a lot of sense and good for you. That's an awesome testament to your hard work.Does your mentor feel the same way about you?
usr : I never intended to have these feelings for my friend...it just developed over time. I would never tell her though and ruin our friendship.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Do you have sense that she has deeper feelings for you and that might be what you are picking up on and contributing to your feelings?
usr : we have a very unique, strong loving, friendship that is completely platonic. she is happily married and has a strong faith, would never cheat.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a mentor who you don't have strong feelings for and slowing down your friendship?
usr : I don't want to cheat either let me clarify that because i never want to ruin our friendship...but I do need to deal with these feelings
| (Providing Suggestions) I can understand. Have you ever consider starting a journal. A place to write your deepest secrets? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense.
usr : I feel guilty about it
sys : (Others) You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband?
usr : I have a wife and we have been together for 18 years, married for 5. I did alot of damage to our relationship when I was drinking and i'm not sure it will ever be the same
sys : (Others) Could you be transferring feelings because she has been there for you through a rough time and maybe you feel understood more than you do in your marriage? Can you talk to your wife about your feelings openly?
usr : about having feelings for another woman? NO...we have tried some marriage counseling apps things get better then go back.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I was also married at one time and had similar issues. We never could get passed some issued like having kids or not. I understand it can be difficult coming to terms with someone. It doesn't always work out.
usr : I have changed a great deal in the past 2.5 years even though it's been for the better it's difficult for my wife to reconcile the old and new
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes a lot of sense and good for you. That's an awesome testament to your hard work.Does your mentor feel the same way about you?
usr : I never intended to have these feelings for my friend...it just developed over time. I would never tell her though and ruin our friendship.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Do you have sense that she has deeper feelings for you and that might be what you are picking up on and contributing to your feelings?
usr : we have a very unique, strong loving, friendship that is completely platonic. she is happily married and has a strong faith, would never cheat.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a mentor who you don't have strong feelings for and slowing down your friendship?
usr : I don't want to cheat either let me clarify that because i never want to ruin our friendship...but I do need to deal with these feelings
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I can understand. Have you ever consider starting a journal. A place to write your deepest secrets?
usr : I have actually mentioned before that I think about distancing myself at times because i have never had such an influential friendship and she tells me she needs me as much as i need her and that she waited her whole life to find a friend like me...
usr : I don't journal anymore but I do write alot of poetry to work through things
| (Providing Suggestions) You need to put yourself first and distance is important. Sometimes writing your feelings down can make them practical in nature. You may read back what you write and learn about how you feel in a deeper way. Maybe you will learn you are craving attention from your wife and not getting it and that is contributing to this dilemma. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"During the past 2.5 years I have been sober, my mentor along the way turned into my very best friend and now the love of my life...but I am married, and so is she...and I have absolutely no one i can talk to now about this.". | sys : (Question) Hi, can I help you today?
usr : I'm having alot of anxiety
sys : (Question) I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?
usr : I got sober 2.5 years ago and my mentor became my very best friend along the way and now have fallen in love...i am married and so is she, she has no idea how i feel and i have no one i can talk to
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense.
usr : I feel guilty about it
sys : (Others) You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband?
usr : I have a wife and we have been together for 18 years, married for 5. I did alot of damage to our relationship when I was drinking and i'm not sure it will ever be the same
sys : (Others) Could you be transferring feelings because she has been there for you through a rough time and maybe you feel understood more than you do in your marriage? Can you talk to your wife about your feelings openly?
usr : about having feelings for another woman? NO...we have tried some marriage counseling apps things get better then go back.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I am sorry to hear that. I was also married at one time and had similar issues. We never could get passed some issued like having kids or not. I understand it can be difficult coming to terms with someone. It doesn't always work out.
usr : I have changed a great deal in the past 2.5 years even though it's been for the better it's difficult for my wife to reconcile the old and new
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That makes a lot of sense and good for you. That's an awesome testament to your hard work.Does your mentor feel the same way about you?
usr : I never intended to have these feelings for my friend...it just developed over time. I would never tell her though and ruin our friendship.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Do you have sense that she has deeper feelings for you and that might be what you are picking up on and contributing to your feelings?
usr : we have a very unique, strong loving, friendship that is completely platonic. she is happily married and has a strong faith, would never cheat.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered getting a mentor who you don't have strong feelings for and slowing down your friendship?
usr : I don't want to cheat either let me clarify that because i never want to ruin our friendship...but I do need to deal with these feelings
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I can understand. Have you ever consider starting a journal. A place to write your deepest secrets?
usr : I have actually mentioned before that I think about distancing myself at times because i have never had such an influential friendship and she tells me she needs me as much as i need her and that she waited her whole life to find a friend like me...
usr : I don't journal anymore but I do write alot of poetry to work through things
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You need to put yourself first and distance is important. Sometimes writing your feelings down can make them practical in nature. You may read back what you write and learn about how you feel in a deeper way. Maybe you will learn you are craving attention from your wife and not getting it and that is contributing to this dilemma.
usr : I believe you are right about that! thanks for the advice and the chat
| (Information) Thank you for sharing and please reach out anytime. Have a great day. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | (Question) Hi there, how are you today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : been better how are you?
| (Question) I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : been better how are you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
usr : That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
| (Others) I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : been better how are you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
usr : That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?
usr : My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me.
usr : you there?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : been better how are you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
usr : That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?
usr : My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me.
usr : you there?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now!
usr : That's good.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) With the holidays coming up, maybe that's a good opportunity to reunite and spend some quality time with her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : been better how are you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
usr : That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?
usr : My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me.
usr : you there?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now!
usr : That's good.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) With the holidays coming up, maybe that's a good opportunity to reunite and spend some quality time with her?
usr : By law though I don't think that my ex husband can keep her from me? I feel like I have a right to see my child. I have 4 kids altogether. My other 2 daughters are older and have already moved out and my son is still at home. I've dealt with teenagers and it's not easy but this is too extreme.
usr : I asked about the holidays and she said she didn't know. It's gonna be hard not having her here.
| (Question) Does she have a good relationship with her siblings? Maybe they can help convince her to spend some family time at home? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : been better how are you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
usr : That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?
usr : My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me.
usr : you there?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now!
usr : That's good.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) With the holidays coming up, maybe that's a good opportunity to reunite and spend some quality time with her?
usr : By law though I don't think that my ex husband can keep her from me? I feel like I have a right to see my child. I have 4 kids altogether. My other 2 daughters are older and have already moved out and my son is still at home. I've dealt with teenagers and it's not easy but this is too extreme.
usr : I asked about the holidays and she said she didn't know. It's gonna be hard not having her here.
sys : (Question) Does she have a good relationship with her siblings? Maybe they can help convince her to spend some family time at home?
usr : She did but not so great anymore. I sure hope so.
usr : It's been hard on everybody. especially her little brother.
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe she just needs some time to decompress. Being a teenager is a stressful time, especially this year with everything with COVID. I'm hopeful that she will come out of this phase. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : been better how are you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
usr : That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?
usr : My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me.
usr : you there?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now!
usr : That's good.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) With the holidays coming up, maybe that's a good opportunity to reunite and spend some quality time with her?
usr : By law though I don't think that my ex husband can keep her from me? I feel like I have a right to see my child. I have 4 kids altogether. My other 2 daughters are older and have already moved out and my son is still at home. I've dealt with teenagers and it's not easy but this is too extreme.
usr : I asked about the holidays and she said she didn't know. It's gonna be hard not having her here.
sys : (Question) Does she have a good relationship with her siblings? Maybe they can help convince her to spend some family time at home?
usr : She did but not so great anymore. I sure hope so.
usr : It's been hard on everybody. especially her little brother.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe she just needs some time to decompress. Being a teenager is a stressful time, especially this year with everything with COVID. I'm hopeful that she will come out of this phase.
usr : I'm gonna keep praying. Thank you. You made me feel better.
usr : very true. been a tough year.
usr : you've been very helpful. thank you.
usr : you have a good day.
| (Others) I'm glad I could help! Keep your chin up |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : been better how are you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
usr : That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?
usr : My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me.
usr : you there?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now!
usr : That's good.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) With the holidays coming up, maybe that's a good opportunity to reunite and spend some quality time with her?
usr : By law though I don't think that my ex husband can keep her from me? I feel like I have a right to see my child. I have 4 kids altogether. My other 2 daughters are older and have already moved out and my son is still at home. I've dealt with teenagers and it's not easy but this is too extreme.
usr : I asked about the holidays and she said she didn't know. It's gonna be hard not having her here.
sys : (Question) Does she have a good relationship with her siblings? Maybe they can help convince her to spend some family time at home?
usr : She did but not so great anymore. I sure hope so.
usr : It's been hard on everybody. especially her little brother.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe she just needs some time to decompress. Being a teenager is a stressful time, especially this year with everything with COVID. I'm hopeful that she will come out of this phase.
usr : I'm gonna keep praying. Thank you. You made me feel better.
usr : very true. been a tough year.
usr : you've been very helpful. thank you.
usr : you have a good day.
sys : (Others) I'm glad I could help! Keep your chin up
| (Others) You too |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have a daughter who has decided to go live with her dad. I'm having a hard time with this. She is 16. And that's her decision. I'm fine with that part but I'm not fine with her not seeing me or spending time with me. 3 months age I grounded her and she's been upset with me ever since. She needed it though. She was getting out of hand. This is my baby girl. Her dad thinks everything is ok. like it is but I feel I have a right to see my daughter as well.". | sys : (Question) Hi there, how are you today?
usr : been better how are you?
sys : (Question) I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?
usr : That's good. yes about my daughter. I typed it all in already.
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?
usr : My daughter is 16 and got out of hand for a little while. I grounded her. And since that time, she has decided to move in with her dad. which is fine. But I've only gotten to see her once in 3 months. She don't want to see me.
usr : you there?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now!
usr : That's good.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) With the holidays coming up, maybe that's a good opportunity to reunite and spend some quality time with her?
usr : By law though I don't think that my ex husband can keep her from me? I feel like I have a right to see my child. I have 4 kids altogether. My other 2 daughters are older and have already moved out and my son is still at home. I've dealt with teenagers and it's not easy but this is too extreme.
usr : I asked about the holidays and she said she didn't know. It's gonna be hard not having her here.
sys : (Question) Does she have a good relationship with her siblings? Maybe they can help convince her to spend some family time at home?
usr : She did but not so great anymore. I sure hope so.
usr : It's been hard on everybody. especially her little brother.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe she just needs some time to decompress. Being a teenager is a stressful time, especially this year with everything with COVID. I'm hopeful that she will come out of this phase.
usr : I'm gonna keep praying. Thank you. You made me feel better.
usr : very true. been a tough year.
usr : you've been very helpful. thank you.
usr : you have a good day.
sys : (Others) I'm glad I could help! Keep your chin up
sys : (Others) You too
usr : bye
| (Information) Have a great day! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
| (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
| (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
| (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
sys : (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
usr : the banks are driving me into depression
usr : am struggling to make ends meet
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
sys : (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
usr : the banks are driving me into depression
usr : am struggling to make ends meet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it.
| (Providing Suggestions) Would recommend seeking conversations with friends or family |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
sys : (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
usr : the banks are driving me into depression
usr : am struggling to make ends meet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would recommend seeking conversations with friends or family
usr : thank you yes i think that will do me better
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) By speaking to those who are close with you, you will definitely feel relief. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
sys : (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
usr : the banks are driving me into depression
usr : am struggling to make ends meet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would recommend seeking conversations with friends or family
usr : thank you yes i think that will do me better
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) By speaking to those who are close with you, you will definitely feel relief.
| (Providing Suggestions) I want to let you know that you are going to make it. There is light at the end of the tunnel and only you can be alter it with your willpower. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
sys : (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
usr : the banks are driving me into depression
usr : am struggling to make ends meet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would recommend seeking conversations with friends or family
usr : thank you yes i think that will do me better
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) By speaking to those who are close with you, you will definitely feel relief.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I want to let you know that you are going to make it. There is light at the end of the tunnel and only you can be alter it with your willpower.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I believe in you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
sys : (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
usr : the banks are driving me into depression
usr : am struggling to make ends meet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would recommend seeking conversations with friends or family
usr : thank you yes i think that will do me better
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) By speaking to those who are close with you, you will definitely feel relief.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I want to let you know that you are going to make it. There is light at the end of the tunnel and only you can be alter it with your willpower.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I believe in you.
usr : thank you i feel energized now
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm really glad you are feeling that way! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
sys : (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
usr : the banks are driving me into depression
usr : am struggling to make ends meet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would recommend seeking conversations with friends or family
usr : thank you yes i think that will do me better
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) By speaking to those who are close with you, you will definitely feel relief.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I want to let you know that you are going to make it. There is light at the end of the tunnel and only you can be alter it with your willpower.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I believe in you.
usr : thank you i feel energized now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm really glad you are feeling that way!
usr : will speak to a close friend and a family member
| (Others) please do and remember that they are only there to help you, as I am sure they love you very much. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
sys : (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
usr : the banks are driving me into depression
usr : am struggling to make ends meet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would recommend seeking conversations with friends or family
usr : thank you yes i think that will do me better
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) By speaking to those who are close with you, you will definitely feel relief.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I want to let you know that you are going to make it. There is light at the end of the tunnel and only you can be alter it with your willpower.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I believe in you.
usr : thank you i feel energized now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm really glad you are feeling that way!
usr : will speak to a close friend and a family member
sys : (Others) please do and remember that they are only there to help you, as I am sure they love you very much.
| (Information) Likewise, I will in contact with you and there are plenty of resources online that you may consult if you are not feeling well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"am sinking into depression". | sys : (Question) Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far
usr : Hello ,y day was good though stressed
sys : (Question) Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?
usr : i have been auctioned
sys : (Question) I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?
usr : my properties have been auctioned by the bank
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong
usr : Yes you are correct the problems with the bank how do i solve not to sink into depression
sys : (Self-disclosure) So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!
usr : the banks are driving me into depression
usr : am struggling to make ends meet
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Would recommend seeking conversations with friends or family
usr : thank you yes i think that will do me better
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) By speaking to those who are close with you, you will definitely feel relief.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I want to let you know that you are going to make it. There is light at the end of the tunnel and only you can be alter it with your willpower.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I believe in you.
usr : thank you i feel energized now
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm really glad you are feeling that way!
usr : will speak to a close friend and a family member
sys : (Others) please do and remember that they are only there to help you, as I am sure they love you very much.
sys : (Information) Likewise, I will in contact with you and there are plenty of resources online that you may consult if you are not feeling well.
usr : do onlo ne help
usr : do online help
| (Information) yes, there are plenty of online help! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
| (Others) Hi, how are you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
| (Others) I am pretty good. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
| (Question) What is going on with you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you> |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>
usr : Right now is hard for me to keep a job and the economy its crazy
usr : Exactly
| (Reflection of feelings) From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this, |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>
usr : Right now is hard for me to keep a job and the economy its crazy
usr : Exactly
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this,
usr : Yes i am. This is one of those days that I think about it and make me up set
| (Self-disclosure) I myself have had issues with feeling like I haven't been able to give back to my parents what they have given me, it is a really hard situation to be in, |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>
usr : Right now is hard for me to keep a job and the economy its crazy
usr : Exactly
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this,
usr : Yes i am. This is one of those days that I think about it and make me up set
sys : (Self-disclosure) I myself have had issues with feeling like I haven't been able to give back to my parents what they have given me, it is a really hard situation to be in,
usr : It is because it makes you feel bad and you start being negative
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Those are completely normal feelings to have, but I know you can get through this! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>
usr : Right now is hard for me to keep a job and the economy its crazy
usr : Exactly
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this,
usr : Yes i am. This is one of those days that I think about it and make me up set
sys : (Self-disclosure) I myself have had issues with feeling like I haven't been able to give back to my parents what they have given me, it is a really hard situation to be in,
usr : It is because it makes you feel bad and you start being negative
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Those are completely normal feelings to have, but I know you can get through this!
usr : I do, Im trying to keep my head up and think positively. I know some day God will give me that little push I need to give my family the happiness they deserve
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to your parents about this? I think that it would help you to tell them what you are feeling. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>
usr : Right now is hard for me to keep a job and the economy its crazy
usr : Exactly
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this,
usr : Yes i am. This is one of those days that I think about it and make me up set
sys : (Self-disclosure) I myself have had issues with feeling like I haven't been able to give back to my parents what they have given me, it is a really hard situation to be in,
usr : It is because it makes you feel bad and you start being negative
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Those are completely normal feelings to have, but I know you can get through this!
usr : I do, Im trying to keep my head up and think positively. I know some day God will give me that little push I need to give my family the happiness they deserve
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to your parents about this? I think that it would help you to tell them what you are feeling.
usr : I talk to them sometimes about this they cheer me up and they know that I would give them everything if I could.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out and tried to talk to a professional about this as well? I know when I was struggling with anxiety and depression I went to counseling and it helped me a lot. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>
usr : Right now is hard for me to keep a job and the economy its crazy
usr : Exactly
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this,
usr : Yes i am. This is one of those days that I think about it and make me up set
sys : (Self-disclosure) I myself have had issues with feeling like I haven't been able to give back to my parents what they have given me, it is a really hard situation to be in,
usr : It is because it makes you feel bad and you start being negative
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Those are completely normal feelings to have, but I know you can get through this!
usr : I do, Im trying to keep my head up and think positively. I know some day God will give me that little push I need to give my family the happiness they deserve
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to your parents about this? I think that it would help you to tell them what you are feeling.
usr : I talk to them sometimes about this they cheer me up and they know that I would give them everything if I could.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out and tried to talk to a professional about this as well? I know when I was struggling with anxiety and depression I went to counseling and it helped me a lot.
usr : To be honest I haven't try it. I thought about it but I haven't try. But I should keep that in mind
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that would be a great start and I know it would make you feel better! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>
usr : Right now is hard for me to keep a job and the economy its crazy
usr : Exactly
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this,
usr : Yes i am. This is one of those days that I think about it and make me up set
sys : (Self-disclosure) I myself have had issues with feeling like I haven't been able to give back to my parents what they have given me, it is a really hard situation to be in,
usr : It is because it makes you feel bad and you start being negative
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Those are completely normal feelings to have, but I know you can get through this!
usr : I do, Im trying to keep my head up and think positively. I know some day God will give me that little push I need to give my family the happiness they deserve
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to your parents about this? I think that it would help you to tell them what you are feeling.
usr : I talk to them sometimes about this they cheer me up and they know that I would give them everything if I could.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out and tried to talk to a professional about this as well? I know when I was struggling with anxiety and depression I went to counseling and it helped me a lot.
usr : To be honest I haven't try it. I thought about it but I haven't try. But I should keep that in mind
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that would be a great start and I know it would make you feel better!
usr : Well, Im going to do it as soon as I can.
usr : Thanks for texting me and giving me all those advise. It really helped
| (Others) Not a problem, I am glad I was able to talk to you! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>
usr : Right now is hard for me to keep a job and the economy its crazy
usr : Exactly
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this,
usr : Yes i am. This is one of those days that I think about it and make me up set
sys : (Self-disclosure) I myself have had issues with feeling like I haven't been able to give back to my parents what they have given me, it is a really hard situation to be in,
usr : It is because it makes you feel bad and you start being negative
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Those are completely normal feelings to have, but I know you can get through this!
usr : I do, Im trying to keep my head up and think positively. I know some day God will give me that little push I need to give my family the happiness they deserve
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to your parents about this? I think that it would help you to tell them what you are feeling.
usr : I talk to them sometimes about this they cheer me up and they know that I would give them everything if I could.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out and tried to talk to a professional about this as well? I know when I was struggling with anxiety and depression I went to counseling and it helped me a lot.
usr : To be honest I haven't try it. I thought about it but I haven't try. But I should keep that in mind
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that would be a great start and I know it would make you feel better!
usr : Well, Im going to do it as soon as I can.
usr : Thanks for texting me and giving me all those advise. It really helped
sys : (Others) Not a problem, I am glad I was able to talk to you!
usr : Me too. I hope you have a Merry Christmas and God bless you
| (Others) Merry Christmas and God Bless you as well. Thank you for chatting! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I am unemployed right now and its hard for me to find a job where I can earn enough to support my family". | usr : Hello
sys : (Others) Hi, how are you today?
usr : Not so well, but thanks for asking.
usr : How are you doing?
sys : (Others) I am pretty good.
sys : (Question) What is going on with you today?
usr : Well. I can of feel depressed because I haven't been able to return the happiness that my parents gave to me.
usr : One of my dreams is to give them everything they gave me as a child but I can reach there
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>
usr : Right now is hard for me to keep a job and the economy its crazy
usr : Exactly
sys : (Reflection of feelings) From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this,
usr : Yes i am. This is one of those days that I think about it and make me up set
sys : (Self-disclosure) I myself have had issues with feeling like I haven't been able to give back to my parents what they have given me, it is a really hard situation to be in,
usr : It is because it makes you feel bad and you start being negative
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Those are completely normal feelings to have, but I know you can get through this!
usr : I do, Im trying to keep my head up and think positively. I know some day God will give me that little push I need to give my family the happiness they deserve
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you been able to talk to your parents about this? I think that it would help you to tell them what you are feeling.
usr : I talk to them sometimes about this they cheer me up and they know that I would give them everything if I could.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you reached out and tried to talk to a professional about this as well? I know when I was struggling with anxiety and depression I went to counseling and it helped me a lot.
usr : To be honest I haven't try it. I thought about it but I haven't try. But I should keep that in mind
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that would be a great start and I know it would make you feel better!
usr : Well, Im going to do it as soon as I can.
usr : Thanks for texting me and giving me all those advise. It really helped
sys : (Others) Not a problem, I am glad I was able to talk to you!
usr : Me too. I hope you have a Merry Christmas and God bless you
sys : (Others) Merry Christmas and God Bless you as well. Thank you for chatting!
usr : Bye
| (Others) Bye |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
| (Question) Hey what's going on? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
| (Question) what are you mad about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
sys : (Question) what are you mad about?
usr : My work is driving me nuts.
| (Question) what's going on at work that's so frustrating? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
sys : (Question) what are you mad about?
usr : My work is driving me nuts.
sys : (Question) what's going on at work that's so frustrating?
usr : I just found out my boss cut my pay and my bonus to secure his own bonus
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that's super frustrating! I would be pretty upset too |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
sys : (Question) what are you mad about?
usr : My work is driving me nuts.
sys : (Question) what's going on at work that's so frustrating?
usr : I just found out my boss cut my pay and my bonus to secure his own bonus
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that's super frustrating! I would be pretty upset too
| (Question) How did you find out? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
sys : (Question) what are you mad about?
usr : My work is driving me nuts.
sys : (Question) what's going on at work that's so frustrating?
usr : I just found out my boss cut my pay and my bonus to secure his own bonus
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that's super frustrating! I would be pretty upset too
sys : (Question) How did you find out?
usr : I overheard a private phone call with his wife. He said that despite the tough year the company is having, he's expecting to get a large bonus because he cut costs so drastically.
usr : I also heard him discuss it with the director of sales. They were strategizing how to shift the costs around to cover the tracks. I heard the words "good thing we have the power, if others knew we were getting our full bonuses they'd walk out"
| (Question) wow... did anyone else hear? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
sys : (Question) what are you mad about?
usr : My work is driving me nuts.
sys : (Question) what's going on at work that's so frustrating?
usr : I just found out my boss cut my pay and my bonus to secure his own bonus
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that's super frustrating! I would be pretty upset too
sys : (Question) How did you find out?
usr : I overheard a private phone call with his wife. He said that despite the tough year the company is having, he's expecting to get a large bonus because he cut costs so drastically.
usr : I also heard him discuss it with the director of sales. They were strategizing how to shift the costs around to cover the tracks. I heard the words "good thing we have the power, if others knew we were getting our full bonuses they'd walk out"
sys : (Question) wow... did anyone else hear?
usr : no
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would be furious too. It puts you in a very strange spot. If you say something, you look bad, and if you don't you feel bad. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
sys : (Question) what are you mad about?
usr : My work is driving me nuts.
sys : (Question) what's going on at work that's so frustrating?
usr : I just found out my boss cut my pay and my bonus to secure his own bonus
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that's super frustrating! I would be pretty upset too
sys : (Question) How did you find out?
usr : I overheard a private phone call with his wife. He said that despite the tough year the company is having, he's expecting to get a large bonus because he cut costs so drastically.
usr : I also heard him discuss it with the director of sales. They were strategizing how to shift the costs around to cover the tracks. I heard the words "good thing we have the power, if others knew we were getting our full bonuses they'd walk out"
sys : (Question) wow... did anyone else hear?
usr : no
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would be furious too. It puts you in a very strange spot. If you say something, you look bad, and if you don't you feel bad.
usr : yeah, tell me about it. I'm pretty bummed. I'm slowly planning my exit strategy. I can't work there anymore.
| (Providing Suggestions) I absolutely understand. You know. the end of the year is coming up and it's probably not the best time to leave a job without having anything lined up. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
sys : (Question) what are you mad about?
usr : My work is driving me nuts.
sys : (Question) what's going on at work that's so frustrating?
usr : I just found out my boss cut my pay and my bonus to secure his own bonus
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that's super frustrating! I would be pretty upset too
sys : (Question) How did you find out?
usr : I overheard a private phone call with his wife. He said that despite the tough year the company is having, he's expecting to get a large bonus because he cut costs so drastically.
usr : I also heard him discuss it with the director of sales. They were strategizing how to shift the costs around to cover the tracks. I heard the words "good thing we have the power, if others knew we were getting our full bonuses they'd walk out"
sys : (Question) wow... did anyone else hear?
usr : no
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would be furious too. It puts you in a very strange spot. If you say something, you look bad, and if you don't you feel bad.
usr : yeah, tell me about it. I'm pretty bummed. I'm slowly planning my exit strategy. I can't work there anymore.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I absolutely understand. You know. the end of the year is coming up and it's probably not the best time to leave a job without having anything lined up.
usr : Yeah, I've been applying around a bit.
| (Providing Suggestions) that's good! I think budgets are going to be tight in many industries and you need to make sure you are okay financially and have insurance and unfortuantely both of those are tied to employers. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
sys : (Question) what are you mad about?
usr : My work is driving me nuts.
sys : (Question) what's going on at work that's so frustrating?
usr : I just found out my boss cut my pay and my bonus to secure his own bonus
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that's super frustrating! I would be pretty upset too
sys : (Question) How did you find out?
usr : I overheard a private phone call with his wife. He said that despite the tough year the company is having, he's expecting to get a large bonus because he cut costs so drastically.
usr : I also heard him discuss it with the director of sales. They were strategizing how to shift the costs around to cover the tracks. I heard the words "good thing we have the power, if others knew we were getting our full bonuses they'd walk out"
sys : (Question) wow... did anyone else hear?
usr : no
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would be furious too. It puts you in a very strange spot. If you say something, you look bad, and if you don't you feel bad.
usr : yeah, tell me about it. I'm pretty bummed. I'm slowly planning my exit strategy. I can't work there anymore.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I absolutely understand. You know. the end of the year is coming up and it's probably not the best time to leave a job without having anything lined up.
usr : Yeah, I've been applying around a bit.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) that's good! I think budgets are going to be tight in many industries and you need to make sure you are okay financially and have insurance and unfortuantely both of those are tied to employers.
usr : I know... This pandemic is frustrating. I wish I could just walk out but realistically It'd be pretty irresponsible to quit during a global pandemic and not have insurance.
| (Providing Suggestions) That's a good point. I suggest continuing to look and see what you can find. There will be people hiring. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"my boss cut my pay to save his bonus this year". | usr : hey!
sys : (Question) Hey what's going on?
usr : I'm mad! like mad mad!
sys : (Question) what are you mad about?
usr : My work is driving me nuts.
sys : (Question) what's going on at work that's so frustrating?
usr : I just found out my boss cut my pay and my bonus to secure his own bonus
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) wow, that's super frustrating! I would be pretty upset too
sys : (Question) How did you find out?
usr : I overheard a private phone call with his wife. He said that despite the tough year the company is having, he's expecting to get a large bonus because he cut costs so drastically.
usr : I also heard him discuss it with the director of sales. They were strategizing how to shift the costs around to cover the tracks. I heard the words "good thing we have the power, if others knew we were getting our full bonuses they'd walk out"
sys : (Question) wow... did anyone else hear?
usr : no
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I would be furious too. It puts you in a very strange spot. If you say something, you look bad, and if you don't you feel bad.
usr : yeah, tell me about it. I'm pretty bummed. I'm slowly planning my exit strategy. I can't work there anymore.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I absolutely understand. You know. the end of the year is coming up and it's probably not the best time to leave a job without having anything lined up.
usr : Yeah, I've been applying around a bit.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) that's good! I think budgets are going to be tight in many industries and you need to make sure you are okay financially and have insurance and unfortuantely both of those are tied to employers.
usr : I know... This pandemic is frustrating. I wish I could just walk out but realistically It'd be pretty irresponsible to quit during a global pandemic and not have insurance.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) That's a good point. I suggest continuing to look and see what you can find. There will be people hiring.
usr : yeah thanks. I'm still so mad but maybe I can redirect my energy into finding an new job
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think that's a good call, you should definitely get out of there though, but make sure you have good enough coverage. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | (Question) How can I help you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?
usr : I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?
usr : I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.
usr : That makes sense.
| (Question) Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?
usr : I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.
usr : That makes sense.
sys : (Question) Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way?
usr : Yes, that seems to be a good idea.
| (Self-disclosure) I've had friends in the past who didn't call and I found out later that they were having personal struggles and it wasn't anything against me. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?
usr : I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.
usr : That makes sense.
sys : (Question) Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way?
usr : Yes, that seems to be a good idea.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had friends in the past who didn't call and I found out later that they were having personal struggles and it wasn't anything against me.
usr : I see your point. Maybe I should be asking if my friend needs anything instead of expecting so much from them. I will have to talk to them to find out what is going on.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can see it being hard not knowing for sure. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?
usr : I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.
usr : That makes sense.
sys : (Question) Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way?
usr : Yes, that seems to be a good idea.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had friends in the past who didn't call and I found out later that they were having personal struggles and it wasn't anything against me.
usr : I see your point. Maybe I should be asking if my friend needs anything instead of expecting so much from them. I will have to talk to them to find out what is going on.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see it being hard not knowing for sure.
usr : You make a good point.
| (Question) Sometimes people also grow and change so relationships evolve as well. Is there something you would hope to gain from the friendship that you think could change? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?
usr : I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.
usr : That makes sense.
sys : (Question) Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way?
usr : Yes, that seems to be a good idea.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had friends in the past who didn't call and I found out later that they were having personal struggles and it wasn't anything against me.
usr : I see your point. Maybe I should be asking if my friend needs anything instead of expecting so much from them. I will have to talk to them to find out what is going on.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see it being hard not knowing for sure.
usr : You make a good point.
sys : (Question) Sometimes people also grow and change so relationships evolve as well. Is there something you would hope to gain from the friendship that you think could change?
usr : I just would like to get some answers if I am the one to blame. I feel guilty sometimes that I should have done something differently.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can see that being a challenge feeling guilty about whether you did something to affect the relationship. But, you sound like you are really trying to make things work and maintain the friendship. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?
usr : I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.
usr : That makes sense.
sys : (Question) Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way?
usr : Yes, that seems to be a good idea.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had friends in the past who didn't call and I found out later that they were having personal struggles and it wasn't anything against me.
usr : I see your point. Maybe I should be asking if my friend needs anything instead of expecting so much from them. I will have to talk to them to find out what is going on.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see it being hard not knowing for sure.
usr : You make a good point.
sys : (Question) Sometimes people also grow and change so relationships evolve as well. Is there something you would hope to gain from the friendship that you think could change?
usr : I just would like to get some answers if I am the one to blame. I feel guilty sometimes that I should have done something differently.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see that being a challenge feeling guilty about whether you did something to affect the relationship. But, you sound like you are really trying to make things work and maintain the friendship.
usr : I'm really trying but maybe again just having a hard conversation may help to improve things.
| (Self-disclosure) I had one of those hard conversations in college with a roommate who later revealed that she was in counseling and overwhelmed and struggling. She apologized for the strain in the relationship. I was so glad we talked about things because we went on to be better friends and not hold resentment toward one another. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?
usr : I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.
usr : That makes sense.
sys : (Question) Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way?
usr : Yes, that seems to be a good idea.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had friends in the past who didn't call and I found out later that they were having personal struggles and it wasn't anything against me.
usr : I see your point. Maybe I should be asking if my friend needs anything instead of expecting so much from them. I will have to talk to them to find out what is going on.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see it being hard not knowing for sure.
usr : You make a good point.
sys : (Question) Sometimes people also grow and change so relationships evolve as well. Is there something you would hope to gain from the friendship that you think could change?
usr : I just would like to get some answers if I am the one to blame. I feel guilty sometimes that I should have done something differently.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see that being a challenge feeling guilty about whether you did something to affect the relationship. But, you sound like you are really trying to make things work and maintain the friendship.
usr : I'm really trying but maybe again just having a hard conversation may help to improve things.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had one of those hard conversations in college with a roommate who later revealed that she was in counseling and overwhelmed and struggling. She apologized for the strain in the relationship. I was so glad we talked about things because we went on to be better friends and not hold resentment toward one another.
usr : I see what you mean. That looks like it helps to talk through things.
| (Question) Is there anything else I can help you with? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.". | sys : (Question) How can I help you?
usr : My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?
usr : Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?
usr : I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.
usr : That makes sense.
sys : (Question) Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way?
usr : Yes, that seems to be a good idea.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've had friends in the past who didn't call and I found out later that they were having personal struggles and it wasn't anything against me.
usr : I see your point. Maybe I should be asking if my friend needs anything instead of expecting so much from them. I will have to talk to them to find out what is going on.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see it being hard not knowing for sure.
usr : You make a good point.
sys : (Question) Sometimes people also grow and change so relationships evolve as well. Is there something you would hope to gain from the friendship that you think could change?
usr : I just would like to get some answers if I am the one to blame. I feel guilty sometimes that I should have done something differently.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can see that being a challenge feeling guilty about whether you did something to affect the relationship. But, you sound like you are really trying to make things work and maintain the friendship.
usr : I'm really trying but maybe again just having a hard conversation may help to improve things.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had one of those hard conversations in college with a roommate who later revealed that she was in counseling and overwhelmed and struggling. She apologized for the strain in the relationship. I was so glad we talked about things because we went on to be better friends and not hold resentment toward one another.
usr : I see what you mean. That looks like it helps to talk through things.
sys : (Question) Is there anything else I can help you with?
usr : No thanks. I am feeling more confident in handling the situation. Thanks!
| (Others) You are welcome. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My company is going through a restructure and i am worried about my job". | usr : Hi there
usr : i am worried about my job as my company is restructuring atm
| (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My company is going through a restructure and i am worried about my job". | usr : Hi there
usr : i am worried about my job as my company is restructuring atm
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that?
usr : really worried and anxious
usr : like i dont want to get up in the morning
| (Reflection of feelings) I hear you feel worried and sad. It must be hard |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My company is going through a restructure and i am worried about my job". | usr : Hi there
usr : i am worried about my job as my company is restructuring atm
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that?
usr : really worried and anxious
usr : like i dont want to get up in the morning
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you feel worried and sad. It must be hard
usr : everyone is fighting and trying to get the good jobs
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds very stressful. What is something you can do to get through your work day? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My company is going through a restructure and i am worried about my job". | usr : Hi there
usr : i am worried about my job as my company is restructuring atm
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that?
usr : really worried and anxious
usr : like i dont want to get up in the morning
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you feel worried and sad. It must be hard
usr : everyone is fighting and trying to get the good jobs
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds very stressful. What is something you can do to get through your work day?
usr : i guess i just want reassurance that i will have a job still after christmas
usr : i am worried as i have a family and money is tight
| (Providing Suggestions) I understand, I have faced similar circumstances. What can you do to prepare for a change one way or another? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My company is going through a restructure and i am worried about my job". | usr : Hi there
usr : i am worried about my job as my company is restructuring atm
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that?
usr : really worried and anxious
usr : like i dont want to get up in the morning
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you feel worried and sad. It must be hard
usr : everyone is fighting and trying to get the good jobs
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds very stressful. What is something you can do to get through your work day?
usr : i guess i just want reassurance that i will have a job still after christmas
usr : i am worried as i have a family and money is tight
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand, I have faced similar circumstances. What can you do to prepare for a change one way or another?
usr : i guess i could look for another job
| (Providing Suggestions) Could you look at jobs you think you would like even more? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My company is going through a restructure and i am worried about my job". | usr : Hi there
usr : i am worried about my job as my company is restructuring atm
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that?
usr : really worried and anxious
usr : like i dont want to get up in the morning
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you feel worried and sad. It must be hard
usr : everyone is fighting and trying to get the good jobs
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds very stressful. What is something you can do to get through your work day?
usr : i guess i just want reassurance that i will have a job still after christmas
usr : i am worried as i have a family and money is tight
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand, I have faced similar circumstances. What can you do to prepare for a change one way or another?
usr : i guess i could look for another job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you look at jobs you think you would like even more?
usr : or maybe learn a new skill
usr : i really like my current job tho
usr : i like the people who i work for
usr : and work with
| (Information) Perhaps it is a chance to gain new experiences or find an even better company! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My company is going through a restructure and i am worried about my job". | usr : Hi there
usr : i am worried about my job as my company is restructuring atm
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that?
usr : really worried and anxious
usr : like i dont want to get up in the morning
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you feel worried and sad. It must be hard
usr : everyone is fighting and trying to get the good jobs
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds very stressful. What is something you can do to get through your work day?
usr : i guess i just want reassurance that i will have a job still after christmas
usr : i am worried as i have a family and money is tight
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand, I have faced similar circumstances. What can you do to prepare for a change one way or another?
usr : i guess i could look for another job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you look at jobs you think you would like even more?
usr : or maybe learn a new skill
usr : i really like my current job tho
usr : i like the people who i work for
usr : and work with
sys : (Information) Perhaps it is a chance to gain new experiences or find an even better company!
usr : i guess so but there are not may other companies where i lkive
usr : live
| (Self-disclosure) Sometimes for me I have to change how I look at the situation. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My company is going through a restructure and i am worried about my job". | usr : Hi there
usr : i am worried about my job as my company is restructuring atm
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that?
usr : really worried and anxious
usr : like i dont want to get up in the morning
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you feel worried and sad. It must be hard
usr : everyone is fighting and trying to get the good jobs
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds very stressful. What is something you can do to get through your work day?
usr : i guess i just want reassurance that i will have a job still after christmas
usr : i am worried as i have a family and money is tight
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand, I have faced similar circumstances. What can you do to prepare for a change one way or another?
usr : i guess i could look for another job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you look at jobs you think you would like even more?
usr : or maybe learn a new skill
usr : i really like my current job tho
usr : i like the people who i work for
usr : and work with
sys : (Information) Perhaps it is a chance to gain new experiences or find an even better company!
usr : i guess so but there are not may other companies where i lkive
usr : live
sys : (Self-disclosure) Sometimes for me I have to change how I look at the situation.
usr : such as?
| (Others) When I think something is all bad, I have to look for the positive. I look at it as maybe you will find a great company that values it's employee's but you won't know unless you try. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My company is going through a restructure and i am worried about my job". | usr : Hi there
usr : i am worried about my job as my company is restructuring atm
sys : (Question) I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that?
usr : really worried and anxious
usr : like i dont want to get up in the morning
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I hear you feel worried and sad. It must be hard
usr : everyone is fighting and trying to get the good jobs
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds very stressful. What is something you can do to get through your work day?
usr : i guess i just want reassurance that i will have a job still after christmas
usr : i am worried as i have a family and money is tight
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I understand, I have faced similar circumstances. What can you do to prepare for a change one way or another?
usr : i guess i could look for another job
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you look at jobs you think you would like even more?
usr : or maybe learn a new skill
usr : i really like my current job tho
usr : i like the people who i work for
usr : and work with
sys : (Information) Perhaps it is a chance to gain new experiences or find an even better company!
usr : i guess so but there are not may other companies where i lkive
usr : live
sys : (Self-disclosure) Sometimes for me I have to change how I look at the situation.
usr : such as?
sys : (Others) When I think something is all bad, I have to look for the positive. I look at it as maybe you will find a great company that values it's employee's but you won't know unless you try.
usr : i cant see much positive as i like the job and the company and dont want to leave
| (Reflection of feelings) That seems like a hard situation. It must be difficult. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about disgust regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"It is not well to do better information for gather with my friends and they irritated me.". | (Question) Hi, can i help today? Please, tell me about yourself? |
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