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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've been feeling more depressed since quitting my job so that I could be around to take care of my children. Now that there's a pandemic raging I'm feeling even more depressed because I have to help my children with schoolwork and I don't have a ton of time to make money to help my husband out with our finances.". | usr : Hello, how are you this evening?
sys : (Question) Hello Doing good
sys : (Question) How are doing?
usr : I've been better. The holidays aren't helping me feel better about not bringing much money home to help pay for things.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear this,have you ever tried selling on Ebay
usr : I've thought about selling stuff online, but the cost of selling things online isn't really worth it. I've been trying to use facebook marketplace, but I never have anyone who's interested.
sys : (Question) Have you ever heard of QVC liquidations,its awesome with some very good returns.
usr : I've heard of QVC, but I've never heard of QVC liquidations. That might be something for me to consider. Can you give me more details about it?
sys : (Question) If your interested you will need to submit a sellers I.D. or tax id
usr : I see. Is this something that you've done to make money?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Absolutely
usr : If you don't mind me asking how much have you made using QVC liquidations?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have made close to 12,000.00 in one year just reselling the returns.Also ESTY is also a great place.
usr : Wow, what sorts of things have you sold?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Go to EBAY and scroll down to the the completed section and click it and this will show you the item your searching like homemade items or stuff like back packs that maybe on sell at Walmart and I buy them and see what they are selling for
usr : Okay, thanks for the suggestions.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have purchased a lot of stuff from walmart and resold it on EBAY
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Its fun
usr : I worked with someone whose boyfriend did that. I've never thought about doing that.
usr : I might have to consider doing that so I can feel more helpful to my husband.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Down load the Walmart app and when you go scan the item with app and sometimes its cheaper
usr : I don't shop at Walmart very much so thank you for that information.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I saw a seller on EBAY make small surf boards and sold them on EBAY well over a hundred dollars.They were 48 inches long but he made good money.
usr : That is very interesting. I wouldn't think you could make that much from small surfboards.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He painted them and they looked awesome.
usr : I wouldn't think that anyone would want a short surfboard, but I guess I don't know anything about surfing.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) People who own and rent their beach house always looking for some new looks
usr : I suppose you are right.
usr : Well thanks for the helpful suggestions to make more money.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your welcome Don't ever give up there is always ways to make a difference. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I've been feeling more depressed since quitting my job so that I could be around to take care of my children. Now that there's a pandemic raging I'm feeling even more depressed because I have to help my children with schoolwork and I don't have a ton of time to make money to help my husband out with our finances.". | usr : Hello, how are you this evening?
sys : (Question) Hello Doing good
sys : (Question) How are doing?
usr : I've been better. The holidays aren't helping me feel better about not bringing much money home to help pay for things.
sys : (Question) Sorry to hear this,have you ever tried selling on Ebay
usr : I've thought about selling stuff online, but the cost of selling things online isn't really worth it. I've been trying to use facebook marketplace, but I never have anyone who's interested.
sys : (Question) Have you ever heard of QVC liquidations,its awesome with some very good returns.
usr : I've heard of QVC, but I've never heard of QVC liquidations. That might be something for me to consider. Can you give me more details about it?
sys : (Question) If your interested you will need to submit a sellers I.D. or tax id
usr : I see. Is this something that you've done to make money?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Absolutely
usr : If you don't mind me asking how much have you made using QVC liquidations?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have made close to 12,000.00 in one year just reselling the returns.Also ESTY is also a great place.
usr : Wow, what sorts of things have you sold?
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Go to EBAY and scroll down to the the completed section and click it and this will show you the item your searching like homemade items or stuff like back packs that maybe on sell at Walmart and I buy them and see what they are selling for
usr : Okay, thanks for the suggestions.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I have purchased a lot of stuff from walmart and resold it on EBAY
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Its fun
usr : I worked with someone whose boyfriend did that. I've never thought about doing that.
usr : I might have to consider doing that so I can feel more helpful to my husband.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Down load the Walmart app and when you go scan the item with app and sometimes its cheaper
usr : I don't shop at Walmart very much so thank you for that information.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I saw a seller on EBAY make small surf boards and sold them on EBAY well over a hundred dollars.They were 48 inches long but he made good money.
usr : That is very interesting. I wouldn't think you could make that much from small surfboards.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) He painted them and they looked awesome.
usr : I wouldn't think that anyone would want a short surfboard, but I guess I don't know anything about surfing.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) People who own and rent their beach house always looking for some new looks
usr : I suppose you are right.
usr : Well thanks for the helpful suggestions to make more money.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Your welcome Don't ever give up there is always ways to make a difference.
usr : I appreciate your help.
usr : Have a good night!
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You too |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
| (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
| (Question) How was your day |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
| (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
| (Question) Are you doing good today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
| (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
| (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
| (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
| (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things tends to happens for the goodness |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things tends to happens for the goodness
usr : yes your good.
usr : i am only women in my office
| (Self-disclosure) Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things tends to happens for the goodness
usr : yes your good.
usr : i am only women in my office
sys : (Self-disclosure) Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it
| (Information) Ohhh really. But women have a equal rights as men. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things tends to happens for the goodness
usr : yes your good.
usr : i am only women in my office
sys : (Self-disclosure) Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it
sys : (Information) Ohhh really. But women have a equal rights as men.
usr : yes your corret i am equal rights as men
usr : and then thanks for support my feeling
| (Information) Women's are succeeding in all the fields now a days. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things tends to happens for the goodness
usr : yes your good.
usr : i am only women in my office
sys : (Self-disclosure) Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it
sys : (Information) Ohhh really. But women have a equal rights as men.
usr : yes your corret i am equal rights as men
usr : and then thanks for support my feeling
sys : (Information) Women's are succeeding in all the fields now a days.
usr : yes. but somewhat difficult in a days
usr : but i believe after some days that issue will sloved
| (Reflection of feelings) I am glad that, I could able to help u. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things tends to happens for the goodness
usr : yes your good.
usr : i am only women in my office
sys : (Self-disclosure) Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it
sys : (Information) Ohhh really. But women have a equal rights as men.
usr : yes your corret i am equal rights as men
usr : and then thanks for support my feeling
sys : (Information) Women's are succeeding in all the fields now a days.
usr : yes. but somewhat difficult in a days
usr : but i believe after some days that issue will sloved
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am glad that, I could able to help u.
| (Question) What kind of difficulties are u facing? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things tends to happens for the goodness
usr : yes your good.
usr : i am only women in my office
sys : (Self-disclosure) Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it
sys : (Information) Ohhh really. But women have a equal rights as men.
usr : yes your corret i am equal rights as men
usr : and then thanks for support my feeling
sys : (Information) Women's are succeeding in all the fields now a days.
usr : yes. but somewhat difficult in a days
usr : but i believe after some days that issue will sloved
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am glad that, I could able to help u.
sys : (Question) What kind of difficulties are u facing?
usr : my partner fight with me
| (Question) fight happens for? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things tends to happens for the goodness
usr : yes your good.
usr : i am only women in my office
sys : (Self-disclosure) Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it
sys : (Information) Ohhh really. But women have a equal rights as men.
usr : yes your corret i am equal rights as men
usr : and then thanks for support my feeling
sys : (Information) Women's are succeeding in all the fields now a days.
usr : yes. but somewhat difficult in a days
usr : but i believe after some days that issue will sloved
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am glad that, I could able to help u.
sys : (Question) What kind of difficulties are u facing?
usr : my partner fight with me
sys : (Question) fight happens for?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you could tell me little bit specifically, I would be able to help u out. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"i am breakup with my partner because some fight with my partner she is still stay at office. then she not return to home. i have 2 childrens the childrens are aks about they father i can not tell about my fight.". | usr : hai
sys : (Question) Hello. Hope you are doing fine.
sys : (Question) How was your day
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can i help you with anything?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I've been feeling blessed today
sys : (Question) Are you doing good today?
usr : oh! tell about
usr : i am much sad last 2 days
usr : because of my partner brakeup issue
sys : (Information) Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am really sorry to hear that.
usr : reason for i have more boy friends in my carrier
usr : but i am good
usr : my partner not believe me
sys : (Information) Having many boyfriend is not a big deal
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I believe that you are good
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Things tends to happens for the goodness
usr : yes your good.
usr : i am only women in my office
sys : (Self-disclosure) Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it
sys : (Information) Ohhh really. But women have a equal rights as men.
usr : yes your corret i am equal rights as men
usr : and then thanks for support my feeling
sys : (Information) Women's are succeeding in all the fields now a days.
usr : yes. but somewhat difficult in a days
usr : but i believe after some days that issue will sloved
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I am glad that, I could able to help u.
sys : (Question) What kind of difficulties are u facing?
usr : my partner fight with me
sys : (Question) fight happens for?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you could tell me little bit specifically, I would be able to help u out.
usr : for some more mens coworker
| (Question) Ahhh. Are they distrubing u? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.". | (Question) Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.". | sys : (Question) Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going?
usr : Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.". | sys : (Question) Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going?
usr : Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?
usr : That is correct.
| (Question) Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.". | sys : (Question) Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going?
usr : Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?
usr : That is correct.
sys : (Question) Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you?
usr : My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess.
| (Self-disclosure) That must be really difficult to go through, I know when my partner treats me badly, I am hurt and upset with them. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.". | sys : (Question) Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going?
usr : Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?
usr : That is correct.
sys : (Question) Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you?
usr : My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That must be really difficult to go through, I know when my partner treats me badly, I am hurt and upset with them.
usr : Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better.
| (Question) Are there any steps you can think of taking to express your frustrations with your husband? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.". | sys : (Question) Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going?
usr : Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?
usr : That is correct.
sys : (Question) Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you?
usr : My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That must be really difficult to go through, I know when my partner treats me badly, I am hurt and upset with them.
usr : Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better.
sys : (Question) Are there any steps you can think of taking to express your frustrations with your husband?
usr : I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bother anymore and just take it.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is easy to lose patience when the blame is always directed towards you. I am sorry that is occurring, but applaud you for your efforts in trying to express your frustration. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.". | sys : (Question) Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going?
usr : Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?
usr : That is correct.
sys : (Question) Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you?
usr : My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That must be really difficult to go through, I know when my partner treats me badly, I am hurt and upset with them.
usr : Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better.
sys : (Question) Are there any steps you can think of taking to express your frustrations with your husband?
usr : I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bother anymore and just take it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is easy to lose patience when the blame is always directed towards you. I am sorry that is occurring, but applaud you for your efforts in trying to express your frustration.
usr : Thank you. It gets trying at times. Tonight, I just sit in the dark alone because it isn't worth the hassle.
| (Reflection of feelings) I can tell from chatting with you that you are struggling and fed up with this situation because you are trying very hard in your marriage but get nothing but disrespect in return. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.". | sys : (Question) Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going?
usr : Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?
usr : That is correct.
sys : (Question) Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you?
usr : My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That must be really difficult to go through, I know when my partner treats me badly, I am hurt and upset with them.
usr : Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better.
sys : (Question) Are there any steps you can think of taking to express your frustrations with your husband?
usr : I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bother anymore and just take it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is easy to lose patience when the blame is always directed towards you. I am sorry that is occurring, but applaud you for your efforts in trying to express your frustration.
usr : Thank you. It gets trying at times. Tonight, I just sit in the dark alone because it isn't worth the hassle.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell from chatting with you that you are struggling and fed up with this situation because you are trying very hard in your marriage but get nothing but disrespect in return.
usr : That is for sure. Most of the time it is just the way life is but there are days I get fed up and it irritates me. It has been this way for a while.
| (Information) From what I have seen, if a situation like this continues, not only will you be consumed with anger towards your husband which will all come out at once, but it may also lead to divorce based on research I have read about. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"I have nobody in my life that supports me. No purpose to my life. My husband treats me like dirt. I am just so frustrated with being sad all the time but just when I think it is looking up, I get knocked down again.". | sys : (Question) Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going?
usr : Bad. Almost had a good day and then got treated bad in the end so I don't know why I try.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?
usr : That is correct.
sys : (Question) Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you?
usr : My husband mainly. He just doesn't want me to enjoy life I guess.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That must be really difficult to go through, I know when my partner treats me badly, I am hurt and upset with them.
usr : Yeah, just become part of life I guess. Doesn't make it any better.
sys : (Question) Are there any steps you can think of taking to express your frustrations with your husband?
usr : I have tried many times. It always ends up my fault in the end so I don't bother anymore and just take it.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is easy to lose patience when the blame is always directed towards you. I am sorry that is occurring, but applaud you for your efforts in trying to express your frustration.
usr : Thank you. It gets trying at times. Tonight, I just sit in the dark alone because it isn't worth the hassle.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can tell from chatting with you that you are struggling and fed up with this situation because you are trying very hard in your marriage but get nothing but disrespect in return.
usr : That is for sure. Most of the time it is just the way life is but there are days I get fed up and it irritates me. It has been this way for a while.
sys : (Information) From what I have seen, if a situation like this continues, not only will you be consumed with anger towards your husband which will all come out at once, but it may also lead to divorce based on research I have read about.
usr : I won't divorce...even if I am miserable, that isn't an option.
| (Self-disclosure) I understand. I would prefer to work out a situation rather than use divorce as an option as well, but I am concerned with how miserable you have become. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I miss my girlfriend so much and she left me for my best friend.". | (Others) Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I miss my girlfriend so much and she left me for my best friend.". | sys : (Others) Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing?
usr : Not too well, I am feeling very sad this holiday season.
| (Question) I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad this holiday season. Why are you feeling sad? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I miss my girlfriend so much and she left me for my best friend.". | sys : (Others) Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing?
usr : Not too well, I am feeling very sad this holiday season.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad this holiday season. Why are you feeling sad?
usr : My girlfriend left me for my best friend, now I have no one in my life.
| (Reflection of feelings) I see, this sounds really difficult. How long were you dating your girlfriend? Do you have any friends, family or a support system by chance? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I miss my girlfriend so much and she left me for my best friend.". | sys : (Others) Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing?
usr : Not too well, I am feeling very sad this holiday season.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad this holiday season. Why are you feeling sad?
usr : My girlfriend left me for my best friend, now I have no one in my life.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see, this sounds really difficult. How long were you dating your girlfriend? Do you have any friends, family or a support system by chance?
usr : We were together for 7 years. I have no family. My friend and girlfriend were my only family, we were like the Gatsbys.
| (Self-disclosure) That is a very long time, I had a girlfriend and I was very vested in her and her family. She broke up with me around Christmas time as well. It has been awhile, but I remember getting her gift and it was over sometime afterwards. Do you have any co-workers or involvement with any local groups/organizations/church? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I miss my girlfriend so much and she left me for my best friend.". | sys : (Others) Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing?
usr : Not too well, I am feeling very sad this holiday season.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad this holiday season. Why are you feeling sad?
usr : My girlfriend left me for my best friend, now I have no one in my life.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see, this sounds really difficult. How long were you dating your girlfriend? Do you have any friends, family or a support system by chance?
usr : We were together for 7 years. I have no family. My friend and girlfriend were my only family, we were like the Gatsbys.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That is a very long time, I had a girlfriend and I was very vested in her and her family. She broke up with me around Christmas time as well. It has been awhile, but I remember getting her gift and it was over sometime afterwards. Do you have any co-workers or involvement with any local groups/organizations/church?
usr : My co-workers don't know about my personal life, I don't go to church. Maybe I should go see a therapist?
| (Providing Suggestions) I think a therapist would be a great way to process this situation since our time is limited. From what you shared, it sounds like you have some past hurts that you may want to share with someone you trust. Do you have insurance or are you uninsured? There are great therapist for the insured and uninsured. :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I miss my girlfriend so much and she left me for my best friend.". | sys : (Others) Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing?
usr : Not too well, I am feeling very sad this holiday season.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad this holiday season. Why are you feeling sad?
usr : My girlfriend left me for my best friend, now I have no one in my life.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see, this sounds really difficult. How long were you dating your girlfriend? Do you have any friends, family or a support system by chance?
usr : We were together for 7 years. I have no family. My friend and girlfriend were my only family, we were like the Gatsbys.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That is a very long time, I had a girlfriend and I was very vested in her and her family. She broke up with me around Christmas time as well. It has been awhile, but I remember getting her gift and it was over sometime afterwards. Do you have any co-workers or involvement with any local groups/organizations/church?
usr : My co-workers don't know about my personal life, I don't go to church. Maybe I should go see a therapist?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think a therapist would be a great way to process this situation since our time is limited. From what you shared, it sounds like you have some past hurts that you may want to share with someone you trust. Do you have insurance or are you uninsured? There are great therapist for the insured and uninsured. :)
usr : I do not have insurance, I am between jobs and have nothing currently. The holidays are an especially lonely time.
| (Self-disclosure) I see, that is very difficult. This season bring many feeling like this myself. If you had a magic wand and could change anything about your situation, what would you change assuming that we cannot fix this situation per se. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I miss my girlfriend so much and she left me for my best friend.". | sys : (Others) Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing?
usr : Not too well, I am feeling very sad this holiday season.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad this holiday season. Why are you feeling sad?
usr : My girlfriend left me for my best friend, now I have no one in my life.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see, this sounds really difficult. How long were you dating your girlfriend? Do you have any friends, family or a support system by chance?
usr : We were together for 7 years. I have no family. My friend and girlfriend were my only family, we were like the Gatsbys.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That is a very long time, I had a girlfriend and I was very vested in her and her family. She broke up with me around Christmas time as well. It has been awhile, but I remember getting her gift and it was over sometime afterwards. Do you have any co-workers or involvement with any local groups/organizations/church?
usr : My co-workers don't know about my personal life, I don't go to church. Maybe I should go see a therapist?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think a therapist would be a great way to process this situation since our time is limited. From what you shared, it sounds like you have some past hurts that you may want to share with someone you trust. Do you have insurance or are you uninsured? There are great therapist for the insured and uninsured. :)
usr : I do not have insurance, I am between jobs and have nothing currently. The holidays are an especially lonely time.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, that is very difficult. This season bring many feeling like this myself. If you had a magic wand and could change anything about your situation, what would you change assuming that we cannot fix this situation per se.
usr : I would treat my girlfriend better I think. She was pushing for a threesome with my best friend, but I told her no way. That is why she left me.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I am hearing, it sounds like you have a boundary and your girlfriend did not respect that. I think you deserve someone that respects you and your boundaries. If you do not feel comfortable, then you do not feel comfortable and should not be shamed for it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I miss my girlfriend so much and she left me for my best friend.". | sys : (Others) Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing?
usr : Not too well, I am feeling very sad this holiday season.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad this holiday season. Why are you feeling sad?
usr : My girlfriend left me for my best friend, now I have no one in my life.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see, this sounds really difficult. How long were you dating your girlfriend? Do you have any friends, family or a support system by chance?
usr : We were together for 7 years. I have no family. My friend and girlfriend were my only family, we were like the Gatsbys.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That is a very long time, I had a girlfriend and I was very vested in her and her family. She broke up with me around Christmas time as well. It has been awhile, but I remember getting her gift and it was over sometime afterwards. Do you have any co-workers or involvement with any local groups/organizations/church?
usr : My co-workers don't know about my personal life, I don't go to church. Maybe I should go see a therapist?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think a therapist would be a great way to process this situation since our time is limited. From what you shared, it sounds like you have some past hurts that you may want to share with someone you trust. Do you have insurance or are you uninsured? There are great therapist for the insured and uninsured. :)
usr : I do not have insurance, I am between jobs and have nothing currently. The holidays are an especially lonely time.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, that is very difficult. This season bring many feeling like this myself. If you had a magic wand and could change anything about your situation, what would you change assuming that we cannot fix this situation per se.
usr : I would treat my girlfriend better I think. She was pushing for a threesome with my best friend, but I told her no way. That is why she left me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I am hearing, it sounds like you have a boundary and your girlfriend did not respect that. I think you deserve someone that respects you and your boundaries. If you do not feel comfortable, then you do not feel comfortable and should not be shamed for it.
usr : I agree. She made me watch them have sex once, it was sick.
usr : Can a therapist help me with that?
usr : Are you still there sir?
| (Others) Sorry i was having wifi issues |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I miss my girlfriend so much and she left me for my best friend.". | sys : (Others) Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing?
usr : Not too well, I am feeling very sad this holiday season.
sys : (Question) I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad this holiday season. Why are you feeling sad?
usr : My girlfriend left me for my best friend, now I have no one in my life.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I see, this sounds really difficult. How long were you dating your girlfriend? Do you have any friends, family or a support system by chance?
usr : We were together for 7 years. I have no family. My friend and girlfriend were my only family, we were like the Gatsbys.
sys : (Self-disclosure) That is a very long time, I had a girlfriend and I was very vested in her and her family. She broke up with me around Christmas time as well. It has been awhile, but I remember getting her gift and it was over sometime afterwards. Do you have any co-workers or involvement with any local groups/organizations/church?
usr : My co-workers don't know about my personal life, I don't go to church. Maybe I should go see a therapist?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I think a therapist would be a great way to process this situation since our time is limited. From what you shared, it sounds like you have some past hurts that you may want to share with someone you trust. Do you have insurance or are you uninsured? There are great therapist for the insured and uninsured. :)
usr : I do not have insurance, I am between jobs and have nothing currently. The holidays are an especially lonely time.
sys : (Self-disclosure) I see, that is very difficult. This season bring many feeling like this myself. If you had a magic wand and could change anything about your situation, what would you change assuming that we cannot fix this situation per se.
usr : I would treat my girlfriend better I think. She was pushing for a threesome with my best friend, but I told her no way. That is why she left me.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) From what I am hearing, it sounds like you have a boundary and your girlfriend did not respect that. I think you deserve someone that respects you and your boundaries. If you do not feel comfortable, then you do not feel comfortable and should not be shamed for it.
usr : I agree. She made me watch them have sex once, it was sick.
usr : Can a therapist help me with that?
usr : Are you still there sir?
sys : (Others) Sorry i was having wifi issues
usr : So what should i do?
usr : I think I need to have the threesome with them. She would like to get spitroasted, then I can get her back.
| (Self-disclosure) If it were me, i would seekout a couselor. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | (Question) Hi. What brings you here today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
| (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
usr : I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just saying it makes me feel weird
usr : anyone there?
| (Providing Suggestions) She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
usr : I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just saying it makes me feel weird
usr : anyone there?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
usr : I agree with you, just seems really strange since we were inseparable before the pandemic. I am also aware many are going through this situation just thought my friendships were stronger and distant would not be an issue.
usr : I will, never did I think I would hesitate whats going on..
| (Question) It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
usr : I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just saying it makes me feel weird
usr : anyone there?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
usr : I agree with you, just seems really strange since we were inseparable before the pandemic. I am also aware many are going through this situation just thought my friendships were stronger and distant would not be an issue.
usr : I will, never did I think I would hesitate whats going on..
sys : (Question) It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?
usr : Yes, I have. The conversation have been superficial, like small talk. There is nothing to share, I am guessing. My daughter has had lots of dance functions despite the pandemic and yet I have not felt supported. Perhaps shes not okay with venturing out during the pandemic.. though I do see on social media shes meeting other friends in social settings.
usr : Perhaps I need to be more open and not be so distant? Maybe its me and I am not seeing it?
| (Question) How long have you been friends? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
usr : I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just saying it makes me feel weird
usr : anyone there?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
usr : I agree with you, just seems really strange since we were inseparable before the pandemic. I am also aware many are going through this situation just thought my friendships were stronger and distant would not be an issue.
usr : I will, never did I think I would hesitate whats going on..
sys : (Question) It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?
usr : Yes, I have. The conversation have been superficial, like small talk. There is nothing to share, I am guessing. My daughter has had lots of dance functions despite the pandemic and yet I have not felt supported. Perhaps shes not okay with venturing out during the pandemic.. though I do see on social media shes meeting other friends in social settings.
usr : Perhaps I need to be more open and not be so distant? Maybe its me and I am not seeing it?
sys : (Question) How long have you been friends?
usr : we are both 35 and we met in pre K. we are lifetime friends. shes a sister to me. At some point our parents use to live in the same apartment complex, our parents are great friends as well.
usr : I was there for her babies birth, when she found out what she was having. We have shared grand moments together.
| (Providing Suggestions) You both have been friends for such a long time. I'm so jealous of friendships like that. I would definitely ask her for lunch. You all have been through so much together. This conversation with her would be a weight off your shoulders. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
usr : I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just saying it makes me feel weird
usr : anyone there?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
usr : I agree with you, just seems really strange since we were inseparable before the pandemic. I am also aware many are going through this situation just thought my friendships were stronger and distant would not be an issue.
usr : I will, never did I think I would hesitate whats going on..
sys : (Question) It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?
usr : Yes, I have. The conversation have been superficial, like small talk. There is nothing to share, I am guessing. My daughter has had lots of dance functions despite the pandemic and yet I have not felt supported. Perhaps shes not okay with venturing out during the pandemic.. though I do see on social media shes meeting other friends in social settings.
usr : Perhaps I need to be more open and not be so distant? Maybe its me and I am not seeing it?
sys : (Question) How long have you been friends?
usr : we are both 35 and we met in pre K. we are lifetime friends. shes a sister to me. At some point our parents use to live in the same apartment complex, our parents are great friends as well.
usr : I was there for her babies birth, when she found out what she was having. We have shared grand moments together.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You both have been friends for such a long time. I'm so jealous of friendships like that. I would definitely ask her for lunch. You all have been through so much together. This conversation with her would be a weight off your shoulders.
usr : Yes, shes the serious one and I am the loud and carefree one. So having our roles a bit reverse has me a bit, weirded out. I am an only child, and perhaps that makes me feel extremely unconfident. I am sure if asked, she would respond I am just being needy. eh, I will ask, since the pandemic ive only seen her once.
| (Information) I do not think she would respond that way at all. Once she sees that this has you concerned about your friendship, she will take it serious and open up to you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
usr : I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just saying it makes me feel weird
usr : anyone there?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
usr : I agree with you, just seems really strange since we were inseparable before the pandemic. I am also aware many are going through this situation just thought my friendships were stronger and distant would not be an issue.
usr : I will, never did I think I would hesitate whats going on..
sys : (Question) It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?
usr : Yes, I have. The conversation have been superficial, like small talk. There is nothing to share, I am guessing. My daughter has had lots of dance functions despite the pandemic and yet I have not felt supported. Perhaps shes not okay with venturing out during the pandemic.. though I do see on social media shes meeting other friends in social settings.
usr : Perhaps I need to be more open and not be so distant? Maybe its me and I am not seeing it?
sys : (Question) How long have you been friends?
usr : we are both 35 and we met in pre K. we are lifetime friends. shes a sister to me. At some point our parents use to live in the same apartment complex, our parents are great friends as well.
usr : I was there for her babies birth, when she found out what she was having. We have shared grand moments together.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You both have been friends for such a long time. I'm so jealous of friendships like that. I would definitely ask her for lunch. You all have been through so much together. This conversation with her would be a weight off your shoulders.
usr : Yes, shes the serious one and I am the loud and carefree one. So having our roles a bit reverse has me a bit, weirded out. I am an only child, and perhaps that makes me feel extremely unconfident. I am sure if asked, she would respond I am just being needy. eh, I will ask, since the pandemic ive only seen her once.
sys : (Information) I do not think she would respond that way at all. Once she sees that this has you concerned about your friendship, she will take it serious and open up to you.
usr : You are right! thank you for the reinsurance. I hate that I am this way.
usr : you have helped me so much today, thank you for helping see things differently.
| (Others) I'm an only child as well so I understand how you are feeling :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
usr : I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just saying it makes me feel weird
usr : anyone there?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
usr : I agree with you, just seems really strange since we were inseparable before the pandemic. I am also aware many are going through this situation just thought my friendships were stronger and distant would not be an issue.
usr : I will, never did I think I would hesitate whats going on..
sys : (Question) It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?
usr : Yes, I have. The conversation have been superficial, like small talk. There is nothing to share, I am guessing. My daughter has had lots of dance functions despite the pandemic and yet I have not felt supported. Perhaps shes not okay with venturing out during the pandemic.. though I do see on social media shes meeting other friends in social settings.
usr : Perhaps I need to be more open and not be so distant? Maybe its me and I am not seeing it?
sys : (Question) How long have you been friends?
usr : we are both 35 and we met in pre K. we are lifetime friends. shes a sister to me. At some point our parents use to live in the same apartment complex, our parents are great friends as well.
usr : I was there for her babies birth, when she found out what she was having. We have shared grand moments together.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You both have been friends for such a long time. I'm so jealous of friendships like that. I would definitely ask her for lunch. You all have been through so much together. This conversation with her would be a weight off your shoulders.
usr : Yes, shes the serious one and I am the loud and carefree one. So having our roles a bit reverse has me a bit, weirded out. I am an only child, and perhaps that makes me feel extremely unconfident. I am sure if asked, she would respond I am just being needy. eh, I will ask, since the pandemic ive only seen her once.
sys : (Information) I do not think she would respond that way at all. Once she sees that this has you concerned about your friendship, she will take it serious and open up to you.
usr : You are right! thank you for the reinsurance. I hate that I am this way.
usr : you have helped me so much today, thank you for helping see things differently.
sys : (Others) I'm an only child as well so I understand how you are feeling :)
| (Others) you are welcome! Glad I could help! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
usr : I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just saying it makes me feel weird
usr : anyone there?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
usr : I agree with you, just seems really strange since we were inseparable before the pandemic. I am also aware many are going through this situation just thought my friendships were stronger and distant would not be an issue.
usr : I will, never did I think I would hesitate whats going on..
sys : (Question) It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?
usr : Yes, I have. The conversation have been superficial, like small talk. There is nothing to share, I am guessing. My daughter has had lots of dance functions despite the pandemic and yet I have not felt supported. Perhaps shes not okay with venturing out during the pandemic.. though I do see on social media shes meeting other friends in social settings.
usr : Perhaps I need to be more open and not be so distant? Maybe its me and I am not seeing it?
sys : (Question) How long have you been friends?
usr : we are both 35 and we met in pre K. we are lifetime friends. shes a sister to me. At some point our parents use to live in the same apartment complex, our parents are great friends as well.
usr : I was there for her babies birth, when she found out what she was having. We have shared grand moments together.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You both have been friends for such a long time. I'm so jealous of friendships like that. I would definitely ask her for lunch. You all have been through so much together. This conversation with her would be a weight off your shoulders.
usr : Yes, shes the serious one and I am the loud and carefree one. So having our roles a bit reverse has me a bit, weirded out. I am an only child, and perhaps that makes me feel extremely unconfident. I am sure if asked, she would respond I am just being needy. eh, I will ask, since the pandemic ive only seen her once.
sys : (Information) I do not think she would respond that way at all. Once she sees that this has you concerned about your friendship, she will take it serious and open up to you.
usr : You are right! thank you for the reinsurance. I hate that I am this way.
usr : you have helped me so much today, thank you for helping see things differently.
sys : (Others) I'm an only child as well so I understand how you are feeling :)
sys : (Others) you are welcome! Glad I could help!
usr : AWESOME! then you know the overwhelming need (sometimes) of being included.
usr : I think I have a plan, lunch and talk to her about how I am feeling, shes always been so understanding, I miss her babies so much.
| (Providing Suggestions) Yes! It can be frustrating at times. But it sounds like you have a plan in order. You just need to execute it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"Since the pandemic started my once strong friendships have become weak. we barely talk. Even my daughters God mother is not as present. I am unsure how to fortified those connections.". | sys : (Question) Hi. What brings you here today?
usr : I am having a hard time with the realization that my once strong friendships are no longer as strong. I feel disconnected with them. The limitations the pandemic has set for all of us have been great. I am unsure if I will ever regain those friendships
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?
usr : Yes, I have tried to message them daily, but the responses have always been clipped and or the response comes after couple days. I do feel other friendships have formed within each community, feeling a bit left out. I feel silly, like a teenage girl, who wants to be included. Just want to feel as though I am still part of their lives.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.
usr : I was thinking the same thing, but I am unsure I feel awkward now, I feel like I do not them as I thought I did. I am unsure why I feel this way. one of them is my daughters god mother and the text are there but they are not like they use.. I am unsure if I should ask why she has time for others and not us... just saying it makes me feel weird
usr : anyone there?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her.
usr : I agree with you, just seems really strange since we were inseparable before the pandemic. I am also aware many are going through this situation just thought my friendships were stronger and distant would not be an issue.
usr : I will, never did I think I would hesitate whats going on..
sys : (Question) It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?
usr : Yes, I have. The conversation have been superficial, like small talk. There is nothing to share, I am guessing. My daughter has had lots of dance functions despite the pandemic and yet I have not felt supported. Perhaps shes not okay with venturing out during the pandemic.. though I do see on social media shes meeting other friends in social settings.
usr : Perhaps I need to be more open and not be so distant? Maybe its me and I am not seeing it?
sys : (Question) How long have you been friends?
usr : we are both 35 and we met in pre K. we are lifetime friends. shes a sister to me. At some point our parents use to live in the same apartment complex, our parents are great friends as well.
usr : I was there for her babies birth, when she found out what she was having. We have shared grand moments together.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) You both have been friends for such a long time. I'm so jealous of friendships like that. I would definitely ask her for lunch. You all have been through so much together. This conversation with her would be a weight off your shoulders.
usr : Yes, shes the serious one and I am the loud and carefree one. So having our roles a bit reverse has me a bit, weirded out. I am an only child, and perhaps that makes me feel extremely unconfident. I am sure if asked, she would respond I am just being needy. eh, I will ask, since the pandemic ive only seen her once.
sys : (Information) I do not think she would respond that way at all. Once she sees that this has you concerned about your friendship, she will take it serious and open up to you.
usr : You are right! thank you for the reinsurance. I hate that I am this way.
usr : you have helped me so much today, thank you for helping see things differently.
sys : (Others) I'm an only child as well so I understand how you are feeling :)
sys : (Others) you are welcome! Glad I could help!
usr : AWESOME! then you know the overwhelming need (sometimes) of being included.
usr : I think I have a plan, lunch and talk to her about how I am feeling, shes always been so understanding, I miss her babies so much.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Yes! It can be frustrating at times. But it sounds like you have a plan in order. You just need to execute it.
usr : Yes, I do , thank you! have a wonderful weekend.
| (Reflection of feelings) You as well! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | (Question) Do you need help? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
| (Question) What is the real issue? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
| (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
| (Question) When have you started feeling sad? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
| (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
| (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
| (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
| (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
| (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
usr : No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
usr : No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
usr : Yeah thanks
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
usr : No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
usr : Yeah thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.
usr : I believe it work if I try.
| (Reflection of feelings) I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
usr : No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
usr : Yeah thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.
usr : I believe it work if I try.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is important to believe in yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
usr : No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
usr : Yeah thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.
usr : I believe it work if I try.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is important to believe in yourself.
usr : I am thinking about uber
| (Providing Suggestions) I can also suggest Lyft... |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
usr : No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
usr : Yeah thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.
usr : I believe it work if I try.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is important to believe in yourself.
usr : I am thinking about uber
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I can also suggest Lyft...
| (Question) What other feelings and thoughts can I discern for you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
usr : No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
usr : Yeah thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.
usr : I believe it work if I try.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is important to believe in yourself.
usr : I am thinking about uber
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I can also suggest Lyft...
sys : (Question) What other feelings and thoughts can I discern for you?
usr : I can't think of any now thanks for being there for me
usr : Bye for now
| (Information) I think that I can be here to answer. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
usr : No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
usr : Yeah thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.
usr : I believe it work if I try.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is important to believe in yourself.
usr : I am thinking about uber
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I can also suggest Lyft...
sys : (Question) What other feelings and thoughts can I discern for you?
usr : I can't think of any now thanks for being there for me
usr : Bye for now
sys : (Information) I think that I can be here to answer.
usr : Thanks it time to go
| (Question) How are my suggestions helping to reduce your unhappy demeanor? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"Anxiety about losing my job". | sys : (Question) Do you need help?
sys : (Question) What is the real issue?
usr : I don't even know, because I am not happy
usr : Anxiety about losing my job
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.
sys : (Question) When have you started feeling sad?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I had fear of losing my job at times.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I suggest doing stress relieving tasks
usr : I can't think of that of now, because last three month a go pay cut and nest month payoff
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?
usr : Yeah and the company is planning layoff for some of the staffs
sys : (Question) How do you know that layoffs are coming?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?
usr : They sent circular to all staffs
sys : (Question) What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?
usr : No I think I will just do that now may be it will help
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.
usr : Yeah thanks
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.
usr : I believe it work if I try.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It is important to believe in yourself.
usr : I am thinking about uber
sys : (Providing Suggestions) I can also suggest Lyft...
sys : (Question) What other feelings and thoughts can I discern for you?
usr : I can't think of any now thanks for being there for me
usr : Bye for now
sys : (Information) I think that I can be here to answer.
usr : Thanks it time to go
sys : (Question) How are my suggestions helping to reduce your unhappy demeanor?
| (Information) OK. You can click the Quit/Finish |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
| (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
| (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
| (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
usr : What kind of tools would you suggest?
| (Providing Suggestions) What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
usr : What kind of tools would you suggest?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
usr : I can talk to my friends sometimes.
usr : I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
| (Information) You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
usr : What kind of tools would you suggest?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
usr : I can talk to my friends sometimes.
usr : I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
sys : (Information) You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example.
| (Question) What are your goals? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
usr : What kind of tools would you suggest?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
usr : I can talk to my friends sometimes.
usr : I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
sys : (Information) You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example.
sys : (Question) What are your goals?
usr : Wow that's amazing. I want to start my own business but I have no money to start with.
| (Providing Suggestions) Thank you! Yeah money is tight these days especially with the pandemic going on. If your business has a good idea there are many venture capitalist that are willing to invest in your idea. You can search for websites and pitch it to them. But don't let anyone stop you, you can do it! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
usr : What kind of tools would you suggest?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
usr : I can talk to my friends sometimes.
usr : I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
sys : (Information) You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example.
sys : (Question) What are your goals?
usr : Wow that's amazing. I want to start my own business but I have no money to start with.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Thank you! Yeah money is tight these days especially with the pandemic going on. If your business has a good idea there are many venture capitalist that are willing to invest in your idea. You can search for websites and pitch it to them. But don't let anyone stop you, you can do it!
| (Providing Suggestions) Or even search for people in different forums with the same ideas as you, you guys can collaborate and possibly bounce your ideas off each other. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
usr : What kind of tools would you suggest?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
usr : I can talk to my friends sometimes.
usr : I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
sys : (Information) You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example.
sys : (Question) What are your goals?
usr : Wow that's amazing. I want to start my own business but I have no money to start with.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Thank you! Yeah money is tight these days especially with the pandemic going on. If your business has a good idea there are many venture capitalist that are willing to invest in your idea. You can search for websites and pitch it to them. But don't let anyone stop you, you can do it!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or even search for people in different forums with the same ideas as you, you guys can collaborate and possibly bounce your ideas off each other.
| (Providing Suggestions) There are also loans you can get from the bank. Don't get discouraged. It's never too late. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
usr : What kind of tools would you suggest?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
usr : I can talk to my friends sometimes.
usr : I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
sys : (Information) You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example.
sys : (Question) What are your goals?
usr : Wow that's amazing. I want to start my own business but I have no money to start with.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Thank you! Yeah money is tight these days especially with the pandemic going on. If your business has a good idea there are many venture capitalist that are willing to invest in your idea. You can search for websites and pitch it to them. But don't let anyone stop you, you can do it!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or even search for people in different forums with the same ideas as you, you guys can collaborate and possibly bounce your ideas off each other.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are also loans you can get from the bank. Don't get discouraged. It's never too late.
usr : That is a great suggestion
usr : What else do you know?
usr : THank you for the encouragement by the way
| (Others) Check out crowd funding websites. Like go fund me, indi gogo, kick starter, and just giving. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
usr : What kind of tools would you suggest?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
usr : I can talk to my friends sometimes.
usr : I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
sys : (Information) You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example.
sys : (Question) What are your goals?
usr : Wow that's amazing. I want to start my own business but I have no money to start with.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Thank you! Yeah money is tight these days especially with the pandemic going on. If your business has a good idea there are many venture capitalist that are willing to invest in your idea. You can search for websites and pitch it to them. But don't let anyone stop you, you can do it!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or even search for people in different forums with the same ideas as you, you guys can collaborate and possibly bounce your ideas off each other.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are also loans you can get from the bank. Don't get discouraged. It's never too late.
usr : That is a great suggestion
usr : What else do you know?
usr : THank you for the encouragement by the way
sys : (Others) Check out crowd funding websites. Like go fund me, indi gogo, kick starter, and just giving.
| (Others) No problem! I'm glad I got to help! Please check out those websites especially kick starter because you basically pitch your idea and people invest in real time. Right away. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"My mind is consumed by depression". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today?
usr : Hi. It has been better.
sys : (Question) We all have those days :/ what's bothering you?
usr : I can't seem to get motivated.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason?
usr : I don't feel like it is worth it.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going?
usr : What kind of tools would you suggest?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life.
usr : I can talk to my friends sometimes.
usr : I have big goals but can't seem to get little things right.
sys : (Information) You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example.
sys : (Question) What are your goals?
usr : Wow that's amazing. I want to start my own business but I have no money to start with.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Thank you! Yeah money is tight these days especially with the pandemic going on. If your business has a good idea there are many venture capitalist that are willing to invest in your idea. You can search for websites and pitch it to them. But don't let anyone stop you, you can do it!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or even search for people in different forums with the same ideas as you, you guys can collaborate and possibly bounce your ideas off each other.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are also loans you can get from the bank. Don't get discouraged. It's never too late.
usr : That is a great suggestion
usr : What else do you know?
usr : THank you for the encouragement by the way
sys : (Others) Check out crowd funding websites. Like go fund me, indi gogo, kick starter, and just giving.
sys : (Others) No problem! I'm glad I got to help! Please check out those websites especially kick starter because you basically pitch your idea and people invest in real time. Right away.
| (Others) I'm really glad I got to talk to you, you can do it. At least you have goals right?! That's already passed the first step. You got this! I hope everything works out for you. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
| (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/ |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
| (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again? |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
| (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
| (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you? |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
| (Others) or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ? |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
sys : (Others) or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?
usr : I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.
| (Providing Suggestions) Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again? |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
sys : (Others) or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?
usr : I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
sys : (Others) or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?
usr : I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal
usr : Yes, I guess that is all I can do for now. Since he won't answer and it's putting pressure on us both. However, the anxiety of this is killing me.I can't eat or sleep. I don't know how to handle it for myself. But yes you are right, the one thing I need to do is leave him be for a bit.
| (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
sys : (Others) or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?
usr : I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal
usr : Yes, I guess that is all I can do for now. Since he won't answer and it's putting pressure on us both. However, the anxiety of this is killing me.I can't eat or sleep. I don't know how to handle it for myself. But yes you are right, the one thing I need to do is leave him be for a bit.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious.
usr : Thank you I have been trying to do that. Though I don't want to bother my friends too much. I've been keeping myself busy though. Most important is to stay away from my phone. haha.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good. at least you found ways to get out of the anxiety. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
sys : (Others) or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?
usr : I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal
usr : Yes, I guess that is all I can do for now. Since he won't answer and it's putting pressure on us both. However, the anxiety of this is killing me.I can't eat or sleep. I don't know how to handle it for myself. But yes you are right, the one thing I need to do is leave him be for a bit.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious.
usr : Thank you I have been trying to do that. Though I don't want to bother my friends too much. I've been keeping myself busy though. Most important is to stay away from my phone. haha.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good. at least you found ways to get out of the anxiety.
| (Providing Suggestions) and social media can cause anxiety too, so staying from your phone also helps :) |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
sys : (Others) or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?
usr : I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal
usr : Yes, I guess that is all I can do for now. Since he won't answer and it's putting pressure on us both. However, the anxiety of this is killing me.I can't eat or sleep. I don't know how to handle it for myself. But yes you are right, the one thing I need to do is leave him be for a bit.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious.
usr : Thank you I have been trying to do that. Though I don't want to bother my friends too much. I've been keeping myself busy though. Most important is to stay away from my phone. haha.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good. at least you found ways to get out of the anxiety.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) and social media can cause anxiety too, so staying from your phone also helps :)
usr : Well it is not helping much. But I guess it will get better over time. I suppose the second I start to feel better, he'll call. haha. It always works that way, right?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah. given enough time and when things cool off, people do dwell on their behaviour and often times feel stupid for the way they act. i hope its the same case with your boyfriend as well. I have a feeling he is going to give you a call soon |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
sys : (Others) or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?
usr : I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal
usr : Yes, I guess that is all I can do for now. Since he won't answer and it's putting pressure on us both. However, the anxiety of this is killing me.I can't eat or sleep. I don't know how to handle it for myself. But yes you are right, the one thing I need to do is leave him be for a bit.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious.
usr : Thank you I have been trying to do that. Though I don't want to bother my friends too much. I've been keeping myself busy though. Most important is to stay away from my phone. haha.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good. at least you found ways to get out of the anxiety.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) and social media can cause anxiety too, so staying from your phone also helps :)
usr : Well it is not helping much. But I guess it will get better over time. I suppose the second I start to feel better, he'll call. haha. It always works that way, right?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah. given enough time and when things cool off, people do dwell on their behaviour and often times feel stupid for the way they act. i hope its the same case with your boyfriend as well. I have a feeling he is going to give you a call soon
usr : Thank you very much. I really hope so! :)
| (Others) you bet :) |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.". | usr : Is anyone there??
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Hey there, how are you doing/
usr : Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?
sys : (Question) Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?
usr : Sure
usr : my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why
usr : I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh, i am so sorry.
usr : he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.
usr : Thanks! :)
sys : (Question) Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?
sys : (Others) or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?
usr : I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal
usr : Yes, I guess that is all I can do for now. Since he won't answer and it's putting pressure on us both. However, the anxiety of this is killing me.I can't eat or sleep. I don't know how to handle it for myself. But yes you are right, the one thing I need to do is leave him be for a bit.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious.
usr : Thank you I have been trying to do that. Though I don't want to bother my friends too much. I've been keeping myself busy though. Most important is to stay away from my phone. haha.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's good. at least you found ways to get out of the anxiety.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) and social media can cause anxiety too, so staying from your phone also helps :)
usr : Well it is not helping much. But I guess it will get better over time. I suppose the second I start to feel better, he'll call. haha. It always works that way, right?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yeah. given enough time and when things cool off, people do dwell on their behaviour and often times feel stupid for the way they act. i hope its the same case with your boyfriend as well. I have a feeling he is going to give you a call soon
usr : Thank you very much. I really hope so! :)
sys : (Others) you bet :)
usr : Thanks again! You did make me feel better and i think we are allowed to proceed now :)
| (Self-disclosure) Nice. i am glad, i could be of some help. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.". | usr : I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend.
usr : I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end.
usr : I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thanks for sharing that with me. I'm so sorry you've been feeling like that. Breakups are so hard and can cause so much grief. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.". | usr : I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend.
usr : I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end.
usr : I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thanks for sharing that with me. I'm so sorry you've been feeling like that. Breakups are so hard and can cause so much grief.
usr : Yes, I feel like I will never meet anyone else and that I wasted so much time.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know those feelings of sadness can feel like they will never end- I have felt that way too before. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.". | usr : I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend.
usr : I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end.
usr : I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thanks for sharing that with me. I'm so sorry you've been feeling like that. Breakups are so hard and can cause so much grief.
usr : Yes, I feel like I will never meet anyone else and that I wasted so much time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know those feelings of sadness can feel like they will never end- I have felt that way too before.
usr : Do you feel like the best part of your life was over? That is how I feel now. Its seem like all of my plans for the future are over and ruined.
| (Reflection of feelings) But they do pass eventually and become easier to manage- with time and care. Do you have anyone in your life, a friend or family member who you can lean on when you're feeling so sad? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"My boyfriend cheated in me and then broke up with me after I told him that I knew what he did.". | usr : I am having a deep sense of sadness after the break up with my boyfriend.
usr : I feel like crying all the time and I feel like the sadness will never end.
usr : I have sense of overwhelming sadness as if my heart is sinking or like I am on a sinking ship. I wake up in the middle of the night and I am gasping for air, too.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Thanks for sharing that with me. I'm so sorry you've been feeling like that. Breakups are so hard and can cause so much grief.
usr : Yes, I feel like I will never meet anyone else and that I wasted so much time.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know those feelings of sadness can feel like they will never end- I have felt that way too before.
usr : Do you feel like the best part of your life was over? That is how I feel now. Its seem like all of my plans for the future are over and ruined.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) But they do pass eventually and become easier to manage- with time and care. Do you have anyone in your life, a friend or family member who you can lean on when you're feeling so sad?
usr : I have a best friend but she told me that she didn't like my boyfriend from the beginning so she is glad that we broke up. Well, that I got dumped.
| (Reflection of feelings) It sounds like it's hard to have your best friend not be as supportive as you want during this hard time. What has been helping you to pass the time these days- do you have any activities or hobbies that you like to do to relax, have fun, or take your mind of things? |
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