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### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you?
usr : Kind of angry and disappointed.
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that, did something not go as planned recently?
usr : My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So when she did this, it gave you the feeling of almost being replaced or abandoned by your own social circle?
usr : In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wants to be the leader of the group and feels like I am her competition.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's definitely frustrating to feel that your support system could possibly become a source of stress and competition anxiety. Especially since it's where we're supposed to feel safe and unjudged.
usr : Exactly. They are supposed to be the people I can go to with my problems. Now I feel like they all had a secret which I wasn't privy to and it made me feel disconnected and untrusting towards them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds that you're a person who really does care about keeping the relationships they've invested in healthy and open. That care level can definitely cause natural anxiousness in situations like this, when the place you stand with them and what they're thinking suddenly feels uncertain.
usr : I am a bit of an idealist. I like for everyone to be in harmony, to be nice, supportive, caring, open and honest. I don't know how to move on from this.
| (Information) Right, and there are endless possibilites the mind can create outside of ideal. But funnily enough, the imagination of an idealist that lets them visualize great things can also create equally strong fears before getting answers. And thankfully those fears can be addressed outside of the head where they're made. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you?
usr : Kind of angry and disappointed.
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that, did something not go as planned recently?
usr : My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So when she did this, it gave you the feeling of almost being replaced or abandoned by your own social circle?
usr : In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wants to be the leader of the group and feels like I am her competition.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's definitely frustrating to feel that your support system could possibly become a source of stress and competition anxiety. Especially since it's where we're supposed to feel safe and unjudged.
usr : Exactly. They are supposed to be the people I can go to with my problems. Now I feel like they all had a secret which I wasn't privy to and it made me feel disconnected and untrusting towards them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds that you're a person who really does care about keeping the relationships they've invested in healthy and open. That care level can definitely cause natural anxiousness in situations like this, when the place you stand with them and what they're thinking suddenly feels uncertain.
usr : I am a bit of an idealist. I like for everyone to be in harmony, to be nice, supportive, caring, open and honest. I don't know how to move on from this.
sys : (Information) Right, and there are endless possibilites the mind can create outside of ideal. But funnily enough, the imagination of an idealist that lets them visualize great things can also create equally strong fears before getting answers. And thankfully those fears can be addressed outside of the head where they're made.
| (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to these friends yourself and initiating your own plan with them since this group chat? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you?
usr : Kind of angry and disappointed.
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that, did something not go as planned recently?
usr : My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So when she did this, it gave you the feeling of almost being replaced or abandoned by your own social circle?
usr : In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wants to be the leader of the group and feels like I am her competition.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's definitely frustrating to feel that your support system could possibly become a source of stress and competition anxiety. Especially since it's where we're supposed to feel safe and unjudged.
usr : Exactly. They are supposed to be the people I can go to with my problems. Now I feel like they all had a secret which I wasn't privy to and it made me feel disconnected and untrusting towards them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds that you're a person who really does care about keeping the relationships they've invested in healthy and open. That care level can definitely cause natural anxiousness in situations like this, when the place you stand with them and what they're thinking suddenly feels uncertain.
usr : I am a bit of an idealist. I like for everyone to be in harmony, to be nice, supportive, caring, open and honest. I don't know how to move on from this.
sys : (Information) Right, and there are endless possibilites the mind can create outside of ideal. But funnily enough, the imagination of an idealist that lets them visualize great things can also create equally strong fears before getting answers. And thankfully those fears can be addressed outside of the head where they're made.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to these friends yourself and initiating your own plan with them since this group chat?
usr : I talked about it with one friend. He felt bad but what I couldn't understand why he was secretive about the chat too. If he thought we were close why hide stuff?
| (Reflection of feelings) Right, it can seem a bit confusing since you naturally would expect to feel comfortable with so much between each other already. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you?
usr : Kind of angry and disappointed.
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that, did something not go as planned recently?
usr : My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So when she did this, it gave you the feeling of almost being replaced or abandoned by your own social circle?
usr : In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wants to be the leader of the group and feels like I am her competition.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's definitely frustrating to feel that your support system could possibly become a source of stress and competition anxiety. Especially since it's where we're supposed to feel safe and unjudged.
usr : Exactly. They are supposed to be the people I can go to with my problems. Now I feel like they all had a secret which I wasn't privy to and it made me feel disconnected and untrusting towards them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds that you're a person who really does care about keeping the relationships they've invested in healthy and open. That care level can definitely cause natural anxiousness in situations like this, when the place you stand with them and what they're thinking suddenly feels uncertain.
usr : I am a bit of an idealist. I like for everyone to be in harmony, to be nice, supportive, caring, open and honest. I don't know how to move on from this.
sys : (Information) Right, and there are endless possibilites the mind can create outside of ideal. But funnily enough, the imagination of an idealist that lets them visualize great things can also create equally strong fears before getting answers. And thankfully those fears can be addressed outside of the head where they're made.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to these friends yourself and initiating your own plan with them since this group chat?
usr : I talked about it with one friend. He felt bad but what I couldn't understand why he was secretive about the chat too. If he thought we were close why hide stuff?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Right, it can seem a bit confusing since you naturally would expect to feel comfortable with so much between each other already.
usr : Do you think it is asking too much on my part?
| (Others) On the contrary, I think you might not be allowing yourself to ask enough! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you?
usr : Kind of angry and disappointed.
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that, did something not go as planned recently?
usr : My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So when she did this, it gave you the feeling of almost being replaced or abandoned by your own social circle?
usr : In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wants to be the leader of the group and feels like I am her competition.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's definitely frustrating to feel that your support system could possibly become a source of stress and competition anxiety. Especially since it's where we're supposed to feel safe and unjudged.
usr : Exactly. They are supposed to be the people I can go to with my problems. Now I feel like they all had a secret which I wasn't privy to and it made me feel disconnected and untrusting towards them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds that you're a person who really does care about keeping the relationships they've invested in healthy and open. That care level can definitely cause natural anxiousness in situations like this, when the place you stand with them and what they're thinking suddenly feels uncertain.
usr : I am a bit of an idealist. I like for everyone to be in harmony, to be nice, supportive, caring, open and honest. I don't know how to move on from this.
sys : (Information) Right, and there are endless possibilites the mind can create outside of ideal. But funnily enough, the imagination of an idealist that lets them visualize great things can also create equally strong fears before getting answers. And thankfully those fears can be addressed outside of the head where they're made.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to these friends yourself and initiating your own plan with them since this group chat?
usr : I talked about it with one friend. He felt bad but what I couldn't understand why he was secretive about the chat too. If he thought we were close why hide stuff?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Right, it can seem a bit confusing since you naturally would expect to feel comfortable with so much between each other already.
usr : Do you think it is asking too much on my part?
sys : (Others) On the contrary, I think you might not be allowing yourself to ask enough!
| (Information) Sometimes, the people who are closest to us can actually become even more anxious about how something might affect your feelings. It could be the case with him too |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My friend created a separate chat for planning hangouts and did not include me.". | usr : Hello
sys : (Question) Hello there, how are you?
usr : Kind of angry and disappointed.
sys : (Question) I'm very sorry to hear that, did something not go as planned recently?
usr : My friend created a group chat for planning activities and did not include me. She included people who are closer to me than to her. Almost like she is trying to steal my friends.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. So when she did this, it gave you the feeling of almost being replaced or abandoned by your own social circle?
usr : In a way. I was disappointed by the rest of them but mostly angry at her. It almost feels like she wants to be the leader of the group and feels like I am her competition.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) It's definitely frustrating to feel that your support system could possibly become a source of stress and competition anxiety. Especially since it's where we're supposed to feel safe and unjudged.
usr : Exactly. They are supposed to be the people I can go to with my problems. Now I feel like they all had a secret which I wasn't privy to and it made me feel disconnected and untrusting towards them.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds that you're a person who really does care about keeping the relationships they've invested in healthy and open. That care level can definitely cause natural anxiousness in situations like this, when the place you stand with them and what they're thinking suddenly feels uncertain.
usr : I am a bit of an idealist. I like for everyone to be in harmony, to be nice, supportive, caring, open and honest. I don't know how to move on from this.
sys : (Information) Right, and there are endless possibilites the mind can create outside of ideal. But funnily enough, the imagination of an idealist that lets them visualize great things can also create equally strong fears before getting answers. And thankfully those fears can be addressed outside of the head where they're made.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried reaching out to these friends yourself and initiating your own plan with them since this group chat?
usr : I talked about it with one friend. He felt bad but what I couldn't understand why he was secretive about the chat too. If he thought we were close why hide stuff?
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Right, it can seem a bit confusing since you naturally would expect to feel comfortable with so much between each other already.
usr : Do you think it is asking too much on my part?
sys : (Others) On the contrary, I think you might not be allowing yourself to ask enough!
sys : (Information) Sometimes, the people who are closest to us can actually become even more anxious about how something might affect your feelings. It could be the case with him too
usr : Sometimes I question if it is even worth talking to them about it. People often don't want to say what they really think. Instead they just say whatever to avoid confrontation.
| (Providing Suggestions) Some people express themselves best through their actions. Have you tried suggesting a meeting for something you'd usually do to see if they're willing to hang out just as always? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
| (Reflection of feelings) Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
usr : Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because the professor/advisor are not always available.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
usr : Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because the professor/advisor are not always available.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?
usr : I tried, but the coursework is difficult and the other solution is tutorials on youtube but there is so much you can do on your own. Plus I have a job as well, so limited hours
| (Reflection of feelings) I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
usr : Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because the professor/advisor are not always available.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?
usr : I tried, but the coursework is difficult and the other solution is tutorials on youtube but there is so much you can do on your own. Plus I have a job as well, so limited hours
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can.
usr : I wish so, do your best and hope for the best I guess.
| (Others) You are doing great I believe and really trying hard to do your schoolwork right. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
usr : Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because the professor/advisor are not always available.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?
usr : I tried, but the coursework is difficult and the other solution is tutorials on youtube but there is so much you can do on your own. Plus I have a job as well, so limited hours
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can.
usr : I wish so, do your best and hope for the best I guess.
sys : (Others) You are doing great I believe and really trying hard to do your schoolwork right.
usr : I just need to deal with the stress so it doesnt effect me
| (Question) Why do you think that might be? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
usr : Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because the professor/advisor are not always available.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?
usr : I tried, but the coursework is difficult and the other solution is tutorials on youtube but there is so much you can do on your own. Plus I have a job as well, so limited hours
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can.
usr : I wish so, do your best and hope for the best I guess.
sys : (Others) You are doing great I believe and really trying hard to do your schoolwork right.
usr : I just need to deal with the stress so it doesnt effect me
sys : (Question) Why do you think that might be?
usr : I feel that the stress is effecting my sleep and my work, because I constantly worry. Any tips?
| (Self-disclosure) I would try to have a regular to set a goal for each day by stating to yourself today is a new day, remain focus on the task at hand, try not to worry about all tasks at once, and lastly try to find a relaxing sleep schedule that fits your needs. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
usr : Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because the professor/advisor are not always available.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?
usr : I tried, but the coursework is difficult and the other solution is tutorials on youtube but there is so much you can do on your own. Plus I have a job as well, so limited hours
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can.
usr : I wish so, do your best and hope for the best I guess.
sys : (Others) You are doing great I believe and really trying hard to do your schoolwork right.
usr : I just need to deal with the stress so it doesnt effect me
sys : (Question) Why do you think that might be?
usr : I feel that the stress is effecting my sleep and my work, because I constantly worry. Any tips?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I would try to have a regular to set a goal for each day by stating to yourself today is a new day, remain focus on the task at hand, try not to worry about all tasks at once, and lastly try to find a relaxing sleep schedule that fits your needs.
usr : I see, I think making a schedule and breaking task into little ones will help complete them. I guess I will stress less.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, It will be hard at first because you are not use to it, but once you get started your life will be so much more relaxing. Your stress level will become more less than what is was before. Also, You will be able to have a clearer mind to concentrate on your schoolwork more by having this new schedule. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
usr : Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because the professor/advisor are not always available.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?
usr : I tried, but the coursework is difficult and the other solution is tutorials on youtube but there is so much you can do on your own. Plus I have a job as well, so limited hours
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can.
usr : I wish so, do your best and hope for the best I guess.
sys : (Others) You are doing great I believe and really trying hard to do your schoolwork right.
usr : I just need to deal with the stress so it doesnt effect me
sys : (Question) Why do you think that might be?
usr : I feel that the stress is effecting my sleep and my work, because I constantly worry. Any tips?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I would try to have a regular to set a goal for each day by stating to yourself today is a new day, remain focus on the task at hand, try not to worry about all tasks at once, and lastly try to find a relaxing sleep schedule that fits your needs.
usr : I see, I think making a schedule and breaking task into little ones will help complete them. I guess I will stress less.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, It will be hard at first because you are not use to it, but once you get started your life will be so much more relaxing. Your stress level will become more less than what is was before. Also, You will be able to have a clearer mind to concentrate on your schoolwork more by having this new schedule.
usr : These message is really helpful and I will start doing what you have told me as soon as possible. I just want to live happily but thank you for this conversation.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am glad to hear because you can do it. I believe in you. I am happy that this really help you and you are so very welcome. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"I have a lot of academic pressure from my program and I'm not receiving any help from my advisors.". | usr : Hey, how are you doing?
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?
usr : I'm doing alright, I'm facing a lot of academic pressure from my program and I feel trapped
sys : (Reflection of feelings) Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?
usr : Yes, I have a lot of coursework but I have no help from from my advisors. A few of my peers feel the same way. Not sure what to do. I don't believe remote learning is helpful in a master program because the professor/advisor are not always available.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?
usr : I tried, but the coursework is difficult and the other solution is tutorials on youtube but there is so much you can do on your own. Plus I have a job as well, so limited hours
sys : (Reflection of feelings) I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can.
usr : I wish so, do your best and hope for the best I guess.
sys : (Others) You are doing great I believe and really trying hard to do your schoolwork right.
usr : I just need to deal with the stress so it doesnt effect me
sys : (Question) Why do you think that might be?
usr : I feel that the stress is effecting my sleep and my work, because I constantly worry. Any tips?
sys : (Self-disclosure) I would try to have a regular to set a goal for each day by stating to yourself today is a new day, remain focus on the task at hand, try not to worry about all tasks at once, and lastly try to find a relaxing sleep schedule that fits your needs.
usr : I see, I think making a schedule and breaking task into little ones will help complete them. I guess I will stress less.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, It will be hard at first because you are not use to it, but once you get started your life will be so much more relaxing. Your stress level will become more less than what is was before. Also, You will be able to have a clearer mind to concentrate on your schoolwork more by having this new schedule.
usr : These message is really helpful and I will start doing what you have told me as soon as possible. I just want to live happily but thank you for this conversation.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am glad to hear because you can do it. I believe in you. I am happy that this really help you and you are so very welcome.
usr : Thanks for the distressing tips and other tips as well, I wish a happy holiday. I do feel a lot better.
| (Others) I wish you a great school semester because you deserve it. I am glad you feel better and continue keep this motivation about yourself to bring out the best you can be. Never settle less. You are so welcome, and I wish you a Happy Holiday as well. |
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The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | (Others) hello! | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today?
usr : Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
| (Question) Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today?
usr : Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
sys : (Question) Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
usr : Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
| (Question) Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today?
usr : Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
sys : (Question) Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
usr : Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
sys : (Question) Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?
usr : Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to take walks every day and spend time with family
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today?
usr : Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
sys : (Question) Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
usr : Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
sys : (Question) Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?
usr : Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to take walks every day and spend time with family
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself.
| (Question) Is there anything you want to have happen here? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today?
usr : Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
sys : (Question) Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
usr : Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
sys : (Question) Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?
usr : Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to take walks every day and spend time with family
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you want to have happen here?
usr : Thanks! I appreciate it. Just chatting with someone and getting some positive reinforcement helps. COVID-19 has given me a lot of anxiety in general, I haven't left the house except to grocery shop since March, and we've got some family members who take it a lot less seriously than we do and are asking us to go over for the holidays
usr : Just a lot of anxiety in general, but trying to stay positive helps. And the recent news about the vaccines also help!
usr : Thanks for listening :) I appreciate you cheering me on
| (Others) But of course! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today?
usr : Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
sys : (Question) Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
usr : Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
sys : (Question) Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?
usr : Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to take walks every day and spend time with family
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you want to have happen here?
usr : Thanks! I appreciate it. Just chatting with someone and getting some positive reinforcement helps. COVID-19 has given me a lot of anxiety in general, I haven't left the house except to grocery shop since March, and we've got some family members who take it a lot less seriously than we do and are asking us to go over for the holidays
usr : Just a lot of anxiety in general, but trying to stay positive helps. And the recent news about the vaccines also help!
usr : Thanks for listening :) I appreciate you cheering me on
sys : (Others) But of course!
| (Question) Tell me, what gold would you say you have reaped from this year? What goodness or strength have you discovered? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today?
usr : Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
sys : (Question) Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
usr : Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
sys : (Question) Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?
usr : Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to take walks every day and spend time with family
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you want to have happen here?
usr : Thanks! I appreciate it. Just chatting with someone and getting some positive reinforcement helps. COVID-19 has given me a lot of anxiety in general, I haven't left the house except to grocery shop since March, and we've got some family members who take it a lot less seriously than we do and are asking us to go over for the holidays
usr : Just a lot of anxiety in general, but trying to stay positive helps. And the recent news about the vaccines also help!
usr : Thanks for listening :) I appreciate you cheering me on
sys : (Others) But of course!
sys : (Question) Tell me, what gold would you say you have reaped from this year? What goodness or strength have you discovered?
usr : Well, spending a lot more time at home with my fiance has helped us grow closer. And I'm in very good physical shape because of all the walking, exercising , and self care, so that's good!
| (Question) Go you! Sounds like you've really found some gifts in all this hardship. What are some things that have brought you joy today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today?
usr : Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
sys : (Question) Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
usr : Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
sys : (Question) Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?
usr : Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to take walks every day and spend time with family
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you want to have happen here?
usr : Thanks! I appreciate it. Just chatting with someone and getting some positive reinforcement helps. COVID-19 has given me a lot of anxiety in general, I haven't left the house except to grocery shop since March, and we've got some family members who take it a lot less seriously than we do and are asking us to go over for the holidays
usr : Just a lot of anxiety in general, but trying to stay positive helps. And the recent news about the vaccines also help!
usr : Thanks for listening :) I appreciate you cheering me on
sys : (Others) But of course!
sys : (Question) Tell me, what gold would you say you have reaped from this year? What goodness or strength have you discovered?
usr : Well, spending a lot more time at home with my fiance has helped us grow closer. And I'm in very good physical shape because of all the walking, exercising , and self care, so that's good!
sys : (Question) Go you! Sounds like you've really found some gifts in all this hardship. What are some things that have brought you joy today?
usr : Haven't had much happen today, but I did make myself a great lunch. And my cooking skills have gotten a lot better during the pandemic!
usr : Thanks for the chat, I'm in a much better mood now than I was before!
| (Question) Wonderful! If I'd have to put on a bow on it, I'd ask....What kind of person stays positive, grows closer to their partner, and takes care of themselves? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"My company is cutting salaries next year because of the pandemic, with potential for layoffs". | sys : (Others) hello!
usr : Hi there
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) How are things going for you today?
usr : Things are okay, a little bit of anxiety about my job, but good for the most part
sys : (Question) Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?
usr : Yes, sure. I work in an industry heavily impacted by COVID-19, and my company has announced pay cuts as well as potential layoffs starting next year if things don't improve soon
sys : (Question) Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?
usr : Thank you. Self care is going well, I make sure to take walks every day and spend time with family
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself.
sys : (Question) Is there anything you want to have happen here?
usr : Thanks! I appreciate it. Just chatting with someone and getting some positive reinforcement helps. COVID-19 has given me a lot of anxiety in general, I haven't left the house except to grocery shop since March, and we've got some family members who take it a lot less seriously than we do and are asking us to go over for the holidays
usr : Just a lot of anxiety in general, but trying to stay positive helps. And the recent news about the vaccines also help!
usr : Thanks for listening :) I appreciate you cheering me on
sys : (Others) But of course!
sys : (Question) Tell me, what gold would you say you have reaped from this year? What goodness or strength have you discovered?
usr : Well, spending a lot more time at home with my fiance has helped us grow closer. And I'm in very good physical shape because of all the walking, exercising , and self care, so that's good!
sys : (Question) Go you! Sounds like you've really found some gifts in all this hardship. What are some things that have brought you joy today?
usr : Haven't had much happen today, but I did make myself a great lunch. And my cooking skills have gotten a lot better during the pandemic!
usr : Thanks for the chat, I'm in a much better mood now than I was before!
sys : (Question) Wonderful! If I'd have to put on a bow on it, I'd ask....What kind of person stays positive, grows closer to their partner, and takes care of themselves?
usr : A strong one :)
| (Others) Nailed it! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | (Question) hi how are you feeling today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
| (Question) why are you feeling sad? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
| (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
| (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
usr : I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
usr : I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.
| (Question) has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
usr : I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.
sys : (Question) has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past
usr : I am sure but I just wish she would not have said that to me. This is a new boyfriend that she started dating about 6 months ago.
| (Reflection of feelings) you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
usr : I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.
sys : (Question) has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past
usr : I am sure but I just wish she would not have said that to me. This is a new boyfriend that she started dating about 6 months ago.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right?
usr : Yes, and I am not sure how to react to what she said. Should I just leave her alone and let her come back around to me or reach out after a week or so?
| (Question) has she ever spoken to u in this way before? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
usr : I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.
sys : (Question) has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past
usr : I am sure but I just wish she would not have said that to me. This is a new boyfriend that she started dating about 6 months ago.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right?
usr : Yes, and I am not sure how to react to what she said. Should I just leave her alone and let her come back around to me or reach out after a week or so?
sys : (Question) has she ever spoken to u in this way before?
| (Others) or similarly |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
usr : I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.
sys : (Question) has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past
usr : I am sure but I just wish she would not have said that to me. This is a new boyfriend that she started dating about 6 months ago.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right?
usr : Yes, and I am not sure how to react to what she said. Should I just leave her alone and let her come back around to me or reach out after a week or so?
sys : (Question) has she ever spoken to u in this way before?
sys : (Others) or similarly
usr : She never has that is what is weird to me and makes me thing it is something or someone else that caused her to want to say it.
| (Information) A lot of times, people lash out in times when they are feeling stressed and the people closest to them can end up getting the brunt of it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
usr : I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.
sys : (Question) has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past
usr : I am sure but I just wish she would not have said that to me. This is a new boyfriend that she started dating about 6 months ago.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right?
usr : Yes, and I am not sure how to react to what she said. Should I just leave her alone and let her come back around to me or reach out after a week or so?
sys : (Question) has she ever spoken to u in this way before?
sys : (Others) or similarly
usr : She never has that is what is weird to me and makes me thing it is something or someone else that caused her to want to say it.
sys : (Information) A lot of times, people lash out in times when they are feeling stressed and the people closest to them can end up getting the brunt of it.
usr : That makes sense but I just wish I knew why she said it. Did I do something to her, did someone say something to her etc? Maybe I should just wait to talk to her when she needs me for something?
| (Providing Suggestions) maybe you should let her know that you love her and say that you would never want to hurt her, so if you've hurt her, you'd like to know what you've done so you can avoid doing it in the future |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
usr : I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.
sys : (Question) has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past
usr : I am sure but I just wish she would not have said that to me. This is a new boyfriend that she started dating about 6 months ago.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right?
usr : Yes, and I am not sure how to react to what she said. Should I just leave her alone and let her come back around to me or reach out after a week or so?
sys : (Question) has she ever spoken to u in this way before?
sys : (Others) or similarly
usr : She never has that is what is weird to me and makes me thing it is something or someone else that caused her to want to say it.
sys : (Information) A lot of times, people lash out in times when they are feeling stressed and the people closest to them can end up getting the brunt of it.
usr : That makes sense but I just wish I knew why she said it. Did I do something to her, did someone say something to her etc? Maybe I should just wait to talk to her when she needs me for something?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) maybe you should let her know that you love her and say that you would never want to hurt her, so if you've hurt her, you'd like to know what you've done so you can avoid doing it in the future
usr : Thank you, that is really great advice.
| (Providing Suggestions) but you have to make it clear that you cannot accept that kind of disrespect in the future if she can not come up with a reason for why she said it |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says
"My best friend of 5 years said they hated me.". | sys : (Question) hi how are you feeling today?
usr : I am feeling sad
sys : (Question) why are you feeling sad?
usr : My friend of 5 years said that they hated me.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use
usr : Yes it was and I am dealing with family problems as well and she just told me she hated me with no reason.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally overwhelmed
usr : I am, why would someone want to do something like this. I am not sure if it was brought on by her boyfriend or what but she was one of my best friends
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.
sys : (Question) has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past
usr : I am sure but I just wish she would not have said that to me. This is a new boyfriend that she started dating about 6 months ago.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right?
usr : Yes, and I am not sure how to react to what she said. Should I just leave her alone and let her come back around to me or reach out after a week or so?
sys : (Question) has she ever spoken to u in this way before?
sys : (Others) or similarly
usr : She never has that is what is weird to me and makes me thing it is something or someone else that caused her to want to say it.
sys : (Information) A lot of times, people lash out in times when they are feeling stressed and the people closest to them can end up getting the brunt of it.
usr : That makes sense but I just wish I knew why she said it. Did I do something to her, did someone say something to her etc? Maybe I should just wait to talk to her when she needs me for something?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) maybe you should let her know that you love her and say that you would never want to hurt her, so if you've hurt her, you'd like to know what you've done so you can avoid doing it in the future
usr : Thank you, that is really great advice.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) but you have to make it clear that you cannot accept that kind of disrespect in the future if she can not come up with a reason for why she said it
usr : Do you think I should do this sooner than later or just wait?
| (Others) absolutely. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
| (Question) What do you think is the cause of that? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
sys : (Question) What do you think is the cause of that?
usr : I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
sys : (Question) What do you think is the cause of that?
usr : I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?
usr : Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
sys : (Question) What do you think is the cause of that?
usr : I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?
usr : Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.
usr : I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
sys : (Question) What do you think is the cause of that?
usr : I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?
usr : Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.
usr : I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking.
usr : The last class I had with her she was very aggressive when I asked questions aloud. Almost if she was put out. Also told me that my bumper sticker that says "stop heroin" was ignorant.
| (Self-disclosure) Well she sounds like kind of a pain in the ass honestly, I had a teacher like that one time myself. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
sys : (Question) What do you think is the cause of that?
usr : I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?
usr : Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.
usr : I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking.
usr : The last class I had with her she was very aggressive when I asked questions aloud. Almost if she was put out. Also told me that my bumper sticker that says "stop heroin" was ignorant.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well she sounds like kind of a pain in the ass honestly, I had a teacher like that one time myself.
usr : I have so much anxiety and emotional conflicts going into the last assignment. Just wish I had some good coping mechanisms to practice to get me through this.
usr : Oh yes! a PITA!
usr : That made me giggle a bit. Thank you for that
| (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could try and just put things in perspective. I mean this will all be behind you soon enough, and no matter how it goes it's not like you're going to wind up on skid row over it, I wouldn't think. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
sys : (Question) What do you think is the cause of that?
usr : I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?
usr : Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.
usr : I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking.
usr : The last class I had with her she was very aggressive when I asked questions aloud. Almost if she was put out. Also told me that my bumper sticker that says "stop heroin" was ignorant.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well she sounds like kind of a pain in the ass honestly, I had a teacher like that one time myself.
usr : I have so much anxiety and emotional conflicts going into the last assignment. Just wish I had some good coping mechanisms to practice to get me through this.
usr : Oh yes! a PITA!
usr : That made me giggle a bit. Thank you for that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could try and just put things in perspective. I mean this will all be behind you soon enough, and no matter how it goes it's not like you're going to wind up on skid row over it, I wouldn't think.
usr : You are right, only skid row I know is 18 and life. Best with Sebastian Bach
| (Providing Suggestions) So in the short term I'd just try to get a good night's sleep, give it your best shot, and keep in mind that it's not really all that significant in the grand scheme of things. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
sys : (Question) What do you think is the cause of that?
usr : I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?
usr : Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.
usr : I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking.
usr : The last class I had with her she was very aggressive when I asked questions aloud. Almost if she was put out. Also told me that my bumper sticker that says "stop heroin" was ignorant.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well she sounds like kind of a pain in the ass honestly, I had a teacher like that one time myself.
usr : I have so much anxiety and emotional conflicts going into the last assignment. Just wish I had some good coping mechanisms to practice to get me through this.
usr : Oh yes! a PITA!
usr : That made me giggle a bit. Thank you for that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could try and just put things in perspective. I mean this will all be behind you soon enough, and no matter how it goes it's not like you're going to wind up on skid row over it, I wouldn't think.
usr : You are right, only skid row I know is 18 and life. Best with Sebastian Bach
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So in the short term I'd just try to get a good night's sleep, give it your best shot, and keep in mind that it's not really all that significant in the grand scheme of things.
usr : Now that helps take me back to a better time. It will be over before I know it. Thank you for the nice uplifting words
| (Others) Well my pleasure, I hope that was of some help! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
sys : (Question) What do you think is the cause of that?
usr : I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?
usr : Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.
usr : I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking.
usr : The last class I had with her she was very aggressive when I asked questions aloud. Almost if she was put out. Also told me that my bumper sticker that says "stop heroin" was ignorant.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well she sounds like kind of a pain in the ass honestly, I had a teacher like that one time myself.
usr : I have so much anxiety and emotional conflicts going into the last assignment. Just wish I had some good coping mechanisms to practice to get me through this.
usr : Oh yes! a PITA!
usr : That made me giggle a bit. Thank you for that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could try and just put things in perspective. I mean this will all be behind you soon enough, and no matter how it goes it's not like you're going to wind up on skid row over it, I wouldn't think.
usr : You are right, only skid row I know is 18 and life. Best with Sebastian Bach
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So in the short term I'd just try to get a good night's sleep, give it your best shot, and keep in mind that it's not really all that significant in the grand scheme of things.
usr : Now that helps take me back to a better time. It will be over before I know it. Thank you for the nice uplifting words
sys : (Others) Well my pleasure, I hope that was of some help!
usr : Thank you so much, I feel much better
| (Others) Well good! So now what do we do? Does this count as finishing the hit? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says
"My thesis is due tomorrow and we have to do an individual presentation about our topics. I feel prepared but I know one professor that knows she intimidates me. I am just a nervous wreck.". | usr : I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof
sys : (Question) What do you think is the cause of that?
usr : I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?
usr : Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.
usr : I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking.
usr : The last class I had with her she was very aggressive when I asked questions aloud. Almost if she was put out. Also told me that my bumper sticker that says "stop heroin" was ignorant.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Well she sounds like kind of a pain in the ass honestly, I had a teacher like that one time myself.
usr : I have so much anxiety and emotional conflicts going into the last assignment. Just wish I had some good coping mechanisms to practice to get me through this.
usr : Oh yes! a PITA!
usr : That made me giggle a bit. Thank you for that
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Maybe you could try and just put things in perspective. I mean this will all be behind you soon enough, and no matter how it goes it's not like you're going to wind up on skid row over it, I wouldn't think.
usr : You are right, only skid row I know is 18 and life. Best with Sebastian Bach
sys : (Providing Suggestions) So in the short term I'd just try to get a good night's sleep, give it your best shot, and keep in mind that it's not really all that significant in the grand scheme of things.
usr : Now that helps take me back to a better time. It will be over before I know it. Thank you for the nice uplifting words
sys : (Others) Well my pleasure, I hope that was of some help!
usr : Thank you so much, I feel much better
sys : (Others) Well good! So now what do we do? Does this count as finishing the hit?
usr : I tried to finish and quit, It states I have more time. you?
| (Information) Hang on, let me look and see |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes.
usr : I guess so...
| (Question) Is there anything you'd like to talk about? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes.
usr : I guess so...
sys : (Question) Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : Why does love hurt so much
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you hurt because you lost someone? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes.
usr : I guess so...
sys : (Question) Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : Why does love hurt so much
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you hurt because you lost someone?
usr : She broke my heart after all we had been through
| (Reflection of feelings) That's a tough one. I imagine you have a lot of pain after that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes.
usr : I guess so...
sys : (Question) Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : Why does love hurt so much
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you hurt because you lost someone?
usr : She broke my heart after all we had been through
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's a tough one. I imagine you have a lot of pain after that.
usr : Are all women the same
| (Providing Suggestions) How would you feel if you were her? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes.
usr : I guess so...
sys : (Question) Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : Why does love hurt so much
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you hurt because you lost someone?
usr : She broke my heart after all we had been through
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's a tough one. I imagine you have a lot of pain after that.
usr : Are all women the same
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How would you feel if you were her?
usr : I would have tried to square out things rather than acting selfish, however tough
usr : But again I will never understand her position
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is good to try. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes.
usr : I guess so...
sys : (Question) Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : Why does love hurt so much
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you hurt because you lost someone?
usr : She broke my heart after all we had been through
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's a tough one. I imagine you have a lot of pain after that.
usr : Are all women the same
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How would you feel if you were her?
usr : I would have tried to square out things rather than acting selfish, however tough
usr : But again I will never understand her position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is good to try.
usr : feel like the pain is becoming toxic
usr : i would love to, but without the truth I might be fooling myself
| (Information) Have you ever considered some outside help, like a therapist? There are many out there and you might find it helpful. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes.
usr : I guess so...
sys : (Question) Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : Why does love hurt so much
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you hurt because you lost someone?
usr : She broke my heart after all we had been through
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's a tough one. I imagine you have a lot of pain after that.
usr : Are all women the same
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How would you feel if you were her?
usr : I would have tried to square out things rather than acting selfish, however tough
usr : But again I will never understand her position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is good to try.
usr : feel like the pain is becoming toxic
usr : i would love to, but without the truth I might be fooling myself
sys : (Information) Have you ever considered some outside help, like a therapist? There are many out there and you might find it helpful.
usr : I hadn't thought of that
| (Self-disclosure) I myself have done it and it helped. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes.
usr : I guess so...
sys : (Question) Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : Why does love hurt so much
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you hurt because you lost someone?
usr : She broke my heart after all we had been through
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's a tough one. I imagine you have a lot of pain after that.
usr : Are all women the same
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How would you feel if you were her?
usr : I would have tried to square out things rather than acting selfish, however tough
usr : But again I will never understand her position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is good to try.
usr : feel like the pain is becoming toxic
usr : i would love to, but without the truth I might be fooling myself
sys : (Information) Have you ever considered some outside help, like a therapist? There are many out there and you might find it helpful.
usr : I hadn't thought of that
sys : (Self-disclosure) I myself have done it and it helped.
usr : Thank you
usr : How was the experience
| (Information) It helps to have someone to talk to. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says
"I met Ivy a couple of years ago at the park. It only took one glimpse to feel my heart sparked. We kicked off things slowly, its been two years now. She confessed her love to me and I did the same. I was planning to propose to her when i found out she is pregnant with another mans child. I am broken, my future is no more and I feel my life is meaningless". | sys : (Question) Greetings, how are you doing today?
usr : Don't know really how I'm feelin
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Hell, even that's ok sometimes.
usr : I guess so...
sys : (Question) Is there anything you'd like to talk about?
usr : Why does love hurt so much
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Are you hurt because you lost someone?
usr : She broke my heart after all we had been through
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's a tough one. I imagine you have a lot of pain after that.
usr : Are all women the same
sys : (Providing Suggestions) How would you feel if you were her?
usr : I would have tried to square out things rather than acting selfish, however tough
usr : But again I will never understand her position
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is good to try.
usr : feel like the pain is becoming toxic
usr : i would love to, but without the truth I might be fooling myself
sys : (Information) Have you ever considered some outside help, like a therapist? There are many out there and you might find it helpful.
usr : I hadn't thought of that
sys : (Self-disclosure) I myself have done it and it helped.
usr : Thank you
usr : How was the experience
sys : (Information) It helps to have someone to talk to.
usr : Thank you. I will make an effort
usr : thank you for listening to me
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) You are very welcome. Good luck! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | (Others) Hello | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
| (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
| (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.
usr : i have no money and cant find a job. its so hard
| (Question) What field of work were you previously involved in? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.
usr : i have no money and cant find a job. its so hard
sys : (Question) What field of work were you previously involved in?
usr : nanny
| (Providing Suggestions) There are a lot of resources for nannies and child care online. Have you tried signing up for any of those resources? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.
usr : i have no money and cant find a job. its so hard
sys : (Question) What field of work were you previously involved in?
usr : nanny
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are a lot of resources for nannies and child care online. Have you tried signing up for any of those resources?
usr : yes i have but because i am also at home with my son for school i need a work from home job which has been hard to find
| (Reflection of feelings) That sounds like a really tough situation. I feel your frustration. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.
usr : i have no money and cant find a job. its so hard
sys : (Question) What field of work were you previously involved in?
usr : nanny
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are a lot of resources for nannies and child care online. Have you tried signing up for any of those resources?
usr : yes i have but because i am also at home with my son for school i need a work from home job which has been hard to find
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds like a really tough situation. I feel your frustration.
usr : it is. no income and bills are pilling up. its a lot to handle
| (Question) Have you explored any other fields of work that would allow you to stay at home with your son while allowing you to work? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.
usr : i have no money and cant find a job. its so hard
sys : (Question) What field of work were you previously involved in?
usr : nanny
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are a lot of resources for nannies and child care online. Have you tried signing up for any of those resources?
usr : yes i have but because i am also at home with my son for school i need a work from home job which has been hard to find
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds like a really tough situation. I feel your frustration.
usr : it is. no income and bills are pilling up. its a lot to handle
sys : (Question) Have you explored any other fields of work that would allow you to stay at home with your son while allowing you to work?
usr : i have looked on job sites but the work from home don't seem legit and there is a lot of them that are scams. i keep looking daily but having no luck
| (Information) Apparently many companies are moving or switching to moving over to remote work. Hopefully you are able to find something soon. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.
usr : i have no money and cant find a job. its so hard
sys : (Question) What field of work were you previously involved in?
usr : nanny
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are a lot of resources for nannies and child care online. Have you tried signing up for any of those resources?
usr : yes i have but because i am also at home with my son for school i need a work from home job which has been hard to find
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds like a really tough situation. I feel your frustration.
usr : it is. no income and bills are pilling up. its a lot to handle
sys : (Question) Have you explored any other fields of work that would allow you to stay at home with your son while allowing you to work?
usr : i have looked on job sites but the work from home don't seem legit and there is a lot of them that are scams. i keep looking daily but having no luck
sys : (Information) Apparently many companies are moving or switching to moving over to remote work. Hopefully you are able to find something soon.
| (Question) Are there any other resources or options you have explored? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.
usr : i have no money and cant find a job. its so hard
sys : (Question) What field of work were you previously involved in?
usr : nanny
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are a lot of resources for nannies and child care online. Have you tried signing up for any of those resources?
usr : yes i have but because i am also at home with my son for school i need a work from home job which has been hard to find
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds like a really tough situation. I feel your frustration.
usr : it is. no income and bills are pilling up. its a lot to handle
sys : (Question) Have you explored any other fields of work that would allow you to stay at home with your son while allowing you to work?
usr : i have looked on job sites but the work from home don't seem legit and there is a lot of them that are scams. i keep looking daily but having no luck
sys : (Information) Apparently many companies are moving or switching to moving over to remote work. Hopefully you are able to find something soon.
sys : (Question) Are there any other resources or options you have explored?
usr : no i have not. i guess i just gave up and lost my ambition
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Don't beat yourself up for it. You will find something, it just takes a bit of time! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.
usr : i have no money and cant find a job. its so hard
sys : (Question) What field of work were you previously involved in?
usr : nanny
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are a lot of resources for nannies and child care online. Have you tried signing up for any of those resources?
usr : yes i have but because i am also at home with my son for school i need a work from home job which has been hard to find
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds like a really tough situation. I feel your frustration.
usr : it is. no income and bills are pilling up. its a lot to handle
sys : (Question) Have you explored any other fields of work that would allow you to stay at home with your son while allowing you to work?
usr : i have looked on job sites but the work from home don't seem legit and there is a lot of them that are scams. i keep looking daily but having no luck
sys : (Information) Apparently many companies are moving or switching to moving over to remote work. Hopefully you are able to find something soon.
sys : (Question) Are there any other resources or options you have explored?
usr : no i have not. i guess i just gave up and lost my ambition
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Don't beat yourself up for it. You will find something, it just takes a bit of time!
usr : thank you for the kind words
| (Others) No problem! I hope your situation gets better! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says
"no money and cant find work". | sys : (Others) Hello
usr : i am depressed
sys : (Others) I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?
usr : when i lost my job in march
sys : (Self-disclosure) I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.
usr : i have no money and cant find a job. its so hard
sys : (Question) What field of work were you previously involved in?
usr : nanny
sys : (Providing Suggestions) There are a lot of resources for nannies and child care online. Have you tried signing up for any of those resources?
usr : yes i have but because i am also at home with my son for school i need a work from home job which has been hard to find
sys : (Reflection of feelings) That sounds like a really tough situation. I feel your frustration.
usr : it is. no income and bills are pilling up. its a lot to handle
sys : (Question) Have you explored any other fields of work that would allow you to stay at home with your son while allowing you to work?
usr : i have looked on job sites but the work from home don't seem legit and there is a lot of them that are scams. i keep looking daily but having no luck
sys : (Information) Apparently many companies are moving or switching to moving over to remote work. Hopefully you are able to find something soon.
sys : (Question) Are there any other resources or options you have explored?
usr : no i have not. i guess i just gave up and lost my ambition
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Don't beat yourself up for it. You will find something, it just takes a bit of time!
usr : thank you for the kind words
sys : (Others) No problem! I hope your situation gets better!
usr : i hope yours does as well. i appreciate it
| (Others) have a good rest of your day! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
| (Others) i am good how can i help you today? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
| (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
| (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing
usr : I have a BA but that doesn't seem to help me find a job, much. Seems like all I see are jobs for construction type jobs.
| (Providing Suggestions) have you tried looking online for jobs? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing
usr : I have a BA but that doesn't seem to help me find a job, much. Seems like all I see are jobs for construction type jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) have you tried looking online for jobs?
usr : Yes, it's the main way I search. I've seen gas station and fast food jobs posted most lately.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't let this get the best of you just know everything will be ok and you will find a job |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing
usr : I have a BA but that doesn't seem to help me find a job, much. Seems like all I see are jobs for construction type jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) have you tried looking online for jobs?
usr : Yes, it's the main way I search. I've seen gas station and fast food jobs posted most lately.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't let this get the best of you just know everything will be ok and you will find a job
usr : I hope so. To make matters worse I've messed up my UI paperwork it seems and now that is delayed.
| (Reflection of feelings) we are all going through a tough time right now with the coronavirus going around and it will make everyone get depressed but don't let it get to you |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing
usr : I have a BA but that doesn't seem to help me find a job, much. Seems like all I see are jobs for construction type jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) have you tried looking online for jobs?
usr : Yes, it's the main way I search. I've seen gas station and fast food jobs posted most lately.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't let this get the best of you just know everything will be ok and you will find a job
usr : I hope so. To make matters worse I've messed up my UI paperwork it seems and now that is delayed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) we are all going through a tough time right now with the coronavirus going around and it will make everyone get depressed but don't let it get to you
usr : I
usr : am trying, thanks for all your helpful words!
usr : I am trying to work in the mall now, as I think holidays are going to cause good business. Hope to get something.
usr : Maybe I will get a job where I can get a discount!
| (Providing Suggestions) you should go to places and talk to the hiring manager and see if they are hiring |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing
usr : I have a BA but that doesn't seem to help me find a job, much. Seems like all I see are jobs for construction type jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) have you tried looking online for jobs?
usr : Yes, it's the main way I search. I've seen gas station and fast food jobs posted most lately.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't let this get the best of you just know everything will be ok and you will find a job
usr : I hope so. To make matters worse I've messed up my UI paperwork it seems and now that is delayed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) we are all going through a tough time right now with the coronavirus going around and it will make everyone get depressed but don't let it get to you
usr : I
usr : am trying, thanks for all your helpful words!
usr : I am trying to work in the mall now, as I think holidays are going to cause good business. Hope to get something.
usr : Maybe I will get a job where I can get a discount!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should go to places and talk to the hiring manager and see if they are hiring
usr : I've tried that a few times, but it hasn't worked out that well...it seems like the managers are usually not there. I need a plan/time that I think I'll have more success. So far it's been hard.
usr : I'd like to find a job fair, but they are all cancelled from the pandemic.
| (Reflection of feelings) yes i can understand they are never there when you go try to talk to them |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing
usr : I have a BA but that doesn't seem to help me find a job, much. Seems like all I see are jobs for construction type jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) have you tried looking online for jobs?
usr : Yes, it's the main way I search. I've seen gas station and fast food jobs posted most lately.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't let this get the best of you just know everything will be ok and you will find a job
usr : I hope so. To make matters worse I've messed up my UI paperwork it seems and now that is delayed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) we are all going through a tough time right now with the coronavirus going around and it will make everyone get depressed but don't let it get to you
usr : I
usr : am trying, thanks for all your helpful words!
usr : I am trying to work in the mall now, as I think holidays are going to cause good business. Hope to get something.
usr : Maybe I will get a job where I can get a discount!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should go to places and talk to the hiring manager and see if they are hiring
usr : I've tried that a few times, but it hasn't worked out that well...it seems like the managers are usually not there. I need a plan/time that I think I'll have more success. So far it's been hard.
usr : I'd like to find a job fair, but they are all cancelled from the pandemic.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) yes i can understand they are never there when you go try to talk to them
usr : Or maybe they are there but they are hiding?
| (Providing Suggestions) but all you can do is try right now |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing
usr : I have a BA but that doesn't seem to help me find a job, much. Seems like all I see are jobs for construction type jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) have you tried looking online for jobs?
usr : Yes, it's the main way I search. I've seen gas station and fast food jobs posted most lately.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't let this get the best of you just know everything will be ok and you will find a job
usr : I hope so. To make matters worse I've messed up my UI paperwork it seems and now that is delayed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) we are all going through a tough time right now with the coronavirus going around and it will make everyone get depressed but don't let it get to you
usr : I
usr : am trying, thanks for all your helpful words!
usr : I am trying to work in the mall now, as I think holidays are going to cause good business. Hope to get something.
usr : Maybe I will get a job where I can get a discount!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should go to places and talk to the hiring manager and see if they are hiring
usr : I've tried that a few times, but it hasn't worked out that well...it seems like the managers are usually not there. I need a plan/time that I think I'll have more success. So far it's been hard.
usr : I'd like to find a job fair, but they are all cancelled from the pandemic.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) yes i can understand they are never there when you go try to talk to them
usr : Or maybe they are there but they are hiding?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) but all you can do is try right now
usr : I have a feeling most of the places I email just file it in the circular folder.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) things will get better soon for you and you will get a call from a job |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing
usr : I have a BA but that doesn't seem to help me find a job, much. Seems like all I see are jobs for construction type jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) have you tried looking online for jobs?
usr : Yes, it's the main way I search. I've seen gas station and fast food jobs posted most lately.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't let this get the best of you just know everything will be ok and you will find a job
usr : I hope so. To make matters worse I've messed up my UI paperwork it seems and now that is delayed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) we are all going through a tough time right now with the coronavirus going around and it will make everyone get depressed but don't let it get to you
usr : I
usr : am trying, thanks for all your helpful words!
usr : I am trying to work in the mall now, as I think holidays are going to cause good business. Hope to get something.
usr : Maybe I will get a job where I can get a discount!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should go to places and talk to the hiring manager and see if they are hiring
usr : I've tried that a few times, but it hasn't worked out that well...it seems like the managers are usually not there. I need a plan/time that I think I'll have more success. So far it's been hard.
usr : I'd like to find a job fair, but they are all cancelled from the pandemic.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) yes i can understand they are never there when you go try to talk to them
usr : Or maybe they are there but they are hiding?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) but all you can do is try right now
usr : I have a feeling most of the places I email just file it in the circular folder.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) things will get better soon for you and you will get a call from a job
usr : Thanks for your support...sometimes I feel like I am the little fish in the big pond.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) sometimes all we need is some support |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I can not seem to find a job no matter how hard I try. My last job was cut short because of all the pandemic restrictions. I'm so depressed.". | usr : Hello. How are you?
sys : (Others) i am good how can i help you today?
usr : I'm feeling so depressed!
sys : (Others) i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling.
usr : I can't seem to find a job...I've been trying so hard.
usr : I will run out of money, soon...
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic
usr : Yes....and wearing masks is hard, too....I get claustrophobic a lot. I get through it though.
sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing
usr : I have a BA but that doesn't seem to help me find a job, much. Seems like all I see are jobs for construction type jobs.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) have you tried looking online for jobs?
usr : Yes, it's the main way I search. I've seen gas station and fast food jobs posted most lately.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) don't let this get the best of you just know everything will be ok and you will find a job
usr : I hope so. To make matters worse I've messed up my UI paperwork it seems and now that is delayed.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) we are all going through a tough time right now with the coronavirus going around and it will make everyone get depressed but don't let it get to you
usr : I
usr : am trying, thanks for all your helpful words!
usr : I am trying to work in the mall now, as I think holidays are going to cause good business. Hope to get something.
usr : Maybe I will get a job where I can get a discount!
sys : (Providing Suggestions) you should go to places and talk to the hiring manager and see if they are hiring
usr : I've tried that a few times, but it hasn't worked out that well...it seems like the managers are usually not there. I need a plan/time that I think I'll have more success. So far it's been hard.
usr : I'd like to find a job fair, but they are all cancelled from the pandemic.
sys : (Reflection of feelings) yes i can understand they are never there when you go try to talk to them
usr : Or maybe they are there but they are hiding?
sys : (Providing Suggestions) but all you can do is try right now
usr : I have a feeling most of the places I email just file it in the circular folder.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) things will get better soon for you and you will get a call from a job
usr : Thanks for your support...sometimes I feel like I am the little fish in the big pond.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) sometimes all we need is some support
| (Others) just keep searching online and going to different places and putting in job applications i am really sure you will get a job soon |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | (Information) Hello! How are you? | |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
| (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
| (Question) Are you feeling down about something? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
| (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
sys : (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself?
usr : I actually haven't chosen yet. I feel overwhelmed with options and I'm lacking direction.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay thats completely normal! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
sys : (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself?
usr : I actually haven't chosen yet. I feel overwhelmed with options and I'm lacking direction.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay thats completely normal!
| (Question) What are your interests/what do you like to do? Thats a good starting question |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
sys : (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself?
usr : I actually haven't chosen yet. I feel overwhelmed with options and I'm lacking direction.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay thats completely normal!
sys : (Question) What are your interests/what do you like to do? Thats a good starting question
usr : Maybe another path involving animals. Either that, or something geared more toward counselling for humans, which is actually what I was interested in a long time before I decided on the veterinary route.
| (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay! Well thats a good start I would continue looking in that. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
sys : (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself?
usr : I actually haven't chosen yet. I feel overwhelmed with options and I'm lacking direction.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay thats completely normal!
sys : (Question) What are your interests/what do you like to do? Thats a good starting question
usr : Maybe another path involving animals. Either that, or something geared more toward counselling for humans, which is actually what I was interested in a long time before I decided on the veterinary route.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay! Well thats a good start I would continue looking in that.
| (Providing Suggestions) Also if you miss working animals, you can always volunteer in a pet store. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
sys : (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself?
usr : I actually haven't chosen yet. I feel overwhelmed with options and I'm lacking direction.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay thats completely normal!
sys : (Question) What are your interests/what do you like to do? Thats a good starting question
usr : Maybe another path involving animals. Either that, or something geared more toward counselling for humans, which is actually what I was interested in a long time before I decided on the veterinary route.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay! Well thats a good start I would continue looking in that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also if you miss working animals, you can always volunteer in a pet store.
usr : Okay, I'll give it a shot.
usr : That's a great idea.
| (Question) Do really like working with pets? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
sys : (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself?
usr : I actually haven't chosen yet. I feel overwhelmed with options and I'm lacking direction.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay thats completely normal!
sys : (Question) What are your interests/what do you like to do? Thats a good starting question
usr : Maybe another path involving animals. Either that, or something geared more toward counselling for humans, which is actually what I was interested in a long time before I decided on the veterinary route.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay! Well thats a good start I would continue looking in that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also if you miss working animals, you can always volunteer in a pet store.
usr : Okay, I'll give it a shot.
usr : That's a great idea.
sys : (Question) Do really like working with pets?
usr : I do. I have a dog and I love her very much and want to be prepared if anything were to happen to her.
| (Providing Suggestions) Also if you want to go into counseling, I'd recommend trying to get some practical experience to see if you like it. |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
sys : (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself?
usr : I actually haven't chosen yet. I feel overwhelmed with options and I'm lacking direction.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay thats completely normal!
sys : (Question) What are your interests/what do you like to do? Thats a good starting question
usr : Maybe another path involving animals. Either that, or something geared more toward counselling for humans, which is actually what I was interested in a long time before I decided on the veterinary route.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay! Well thats a good start I would continue looking in that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also if you miss working animals, you can always volunteer in a pet store.
usr : Okay, I'll give it a shot.
usr : That's a great idea.
sys : (Question) Do really like working with pets?
usr : I do. I have a dog and I love her very much and want to be prepared if anything were to happen to her.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also if you want to go into counseling, I'd recommend trying to get some practical experience to see if you like it.
| (Self-disclosure) Oh sweet I've always wanted a dog! |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
sys : (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself?
usr : I actually haven't chosen yet. I feel overwhelmed with options and I'm lacking direction.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay thats completely normal!
sys : (Question) What are your interests/what do you like to do? Thats a good starting question
usr : Maybe another path involving animals. Either that, or something geared more toward counselling for humans, which is actually what I was interested in a long time before I decided on the veterinary route.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay! Well thats a good start I would continue looking in that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also if you miss working animals, you can always volunteer in a pet store.
usr : Okay, I'll give it a shot.
usr : That's a great idea.
sys : (Question) Do really like working with pets?
usr : I do. I have a dog and I love her very much and want to be prepared if anything were to happen to her.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also if you want to go into counseling, I'd recommend trying to get some practical experience to see if you like it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh sweet I've always wanted a dog!
usr : Yeah, mine is super awesome. She's a Presa Canario and just the sweetest and smartest.
| (Others) Well it seems no matter what you can't go wrong. Do you want to talk about anything else? |
### Dialogue background ###
The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says
"I had my heart set on a Veterinary Technology program at a particular school and I just found out that I won't be able to apply in time. I feel like I have to reassess my future plans.". | sys : (Information) Hello! How are you?
usr : I'm okay but I've been better.
sys : (Others) I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!
sys : (Question) Are you feeling down about something?
usr : Thanks! I hope you are too.
usr : Yes. I feel like I have to change my plans for my career when I thought I had everything figured out and it feels really depressing.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently.
sys : (Information) Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself?
usr : I actually haven't chosen yet. I feel overwhelmed with options and I'm lacking direction.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay thats completely normal!
sys : (Question) What are your interests/what do you like to do? Thats a good starting question
usr : Maybe another path involving animals. Either that, or something geared more toward counselling for humans, which is actually what I was interested in a long time before I decided on the veterinary route.
sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Okay! Well thats a good start I would continue looking in that.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also if you miss working animals, you can always volunteer in a pet store.
usr : Okay, I'll give it a shot.
usr : That's a great idea.
sys : (Question) Do really like working with pets?
usr : I do. I have a dog and I love her very much and want to be prepared if anything were to happen to her.
sys : (Providing Suggestions) Also if you want to go into counseling, I'd recommend trying to get some practical experience to see if you like it.
sys : (Self-disclosure) Oh sweet I've always wanted a dog!
usr : Yeah, mine is super awesome. She's a Presa Canario and just the sweetest and smartest.
sys : (Others) Well it seems no matter what you can't go wrong. Do you want to talk about anything else?
usr : Nope, I think I'm good.
usr : Thank you so much and have a lovely day!
| (Others) Okay well have a good day! |
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