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I myself am very sick, pain conditions.	0
It's been a sexless relationship for about 5 years now. I don't even get any affection or closeness at all. I get incredibly sexually frustrated and lonely at night, to the point where it is unbearable.	2
I didn't really care until years later when I realised that I wasn't going to get them back, ever.	3
I’ve had a return of physical symptoms I had recur throughout last year - shortness of breath and feeling very unwell.	0
every time he says he'll improve but he doesn't. Lately this has escalated to full blown arguments because he keeps saying he’ll stop doing it but the behaviour doesn't change.	2
I feel like this is slowly becoming my	0
to she simply tells them what they want to hear.	2
There were some extremely delusional thoughts in there that made me beside myself with grief that he would feel such contempt towards me.	3
The negative thoughts are getting stronger. I feel like i’m failing everyone and everything. Im past the point of crying, i’m just empty now. I don’t know how else to ask for help.	3
I dislike him intensely. He is not the person I tried to bring up decently, he throws everything back at me and makes me feel like rubbish.	3
It is just an emotional rollercoaster.	3
I think distraction is the one of the best way in getting thru that awful wave… I do feel that mine lasts longer than it should by the time it’s about to pass a new one starts…	3
I feel noticeably less depressed, then the nausea kicks in and my mood plummets. It's very up and down. I really want this to work and there are good signs, but the nausea and accompanying depressed mood is vile.	0
I got BPD and is unsure of what to do, where to get help and what kind of help do one need to cope with this problem., I think distraction is the one of the best way in getting thru that aweful wave… I do feel that mine lasts longer than it should by the time it’s about to pass a new one starts… just don’t know how to distract myself when I’m too caught up with the idea of SH and/or suicide	0
I am 110% fed up with everything at the moment.	3
Neither my brother nor I, have any desire to be in relationships or marry, having grown up witnessing this behaviour and I can’t even imagine what kind of damage might be lying underneath the obvious surface-level stuff like that.	2
As of late, my relationship with my mum has really taken a turn for the worse.	2
I honestly can not win! This life I have is hard, and it's sad, I shouldn't have to suffer.	3
This person even though I wasn't hired in the role to be their subordinate, took it on themselves to position me in such a way, that they we giving me directions on exactly how they wanted things done (my role was a support role), but they were getting me to do all the hard work.	1
risky sex	3
I work so hard at the office each day, alienating myself from colleagues and not taking breaks because I just want to completely exhaust myself so I can fall asleep that night.	2
There is nobody in my life who loves me. I'm in my 40's and my Sister won't talk to me at all and I don't know why. She has dragged my brother along for the ride and we used to get along well. My parents are emotional cripples and won't talk about anything.	2
I keep changing jobs because I get bored when there is no challenge and now I don't have a job at all because it is harder when you are female and 53.	1
Today I had to cancel an appointment with my employment agency because I was too unwell when I’d been looking forward to discussing my ideas for starting my own business on the NEIS program.	1
I often feel frustrated trying to explain myself, asserting my emotional needs, and just being heard or seen at times.	3
In the past 7 years we have become 2 people who share a house and separate beds. I cannot understand what is stopping me from leaving him, after overcoming such huge obstacles in my life, why am I finding this so hard.	2
Now I’m in a job where I don’t even feel like it’s for me. I’m in a new town, broke with all my animals. Plus my other animals still in the town I left because I can’t afford to move them. I just feel so so out of place and feel like I’m ticking time bomb that’s just hanging on by a thread.	1
I feel trapped in a nightmare I can't wake up from.	3
. This really hurt, because each time I was badly assaulted.	3
I currently have a beautiful girlfriend who is the best thing that has ever happened to me but I still have daily thoughts about my ex.	2
I don't have any motivation to do anything and my house is so messy but I can't seem to clean it up.	3
My anxiety is through the roof and quite frankly I currently feel like I am drowning.	3
ive been having nightmares and i really just dont know how to make it all ok beyond calling the police and having him committed to a mental hospital	3
That part of my heart has been left empty and hurting since and I don't want to mean to be nasty but when my father does pass away I want to be able to go to my mum and say why?	3
it’s so hard to recognise my achievements when it seems like other people do all those things so easily and I’m drowning.	3
My three adult children do not communicate and have not given me any reason why they have shut me out.	2
I still feel as if l cannot be my true self around her since she does not appreciate it and thinks my true self is rude or has behavioral issues.	2
he constantly gets angry at me when I say no.	3
My Dad passed away from cancer 4 months ago and I have fallen into a depression. I have so much emotion that I don't know how to process it	3
Therapy is currently fortnightly and I feel like I need to increase it back to weekly until I get on top of things at work. My head is saying this is a step backwards though and I don't want to look at it like that.	1
I try and put on a brace face but some days I end up a crying mess in bed.	3
I've always been oversensitive and let things affect me.	1
I am so unmotivated, it's stepped up since Covid... I feel I have cried almost every day at the same stage during day for 2 years.	3
I’ve just changed antidepressants and the cost has increased from $15 to $75 per script. I’m finding myself cutting them in halves sometimes to save money.	0
I feel like I don’t even deserve friends anymore	2
I talked to my manager who I’m close to about it and she agreed that I could’ve done things differently but said not to worry about it.	1
He struggled with drug addiction for years and despite my attempts to get him help…nothing did. Meanwhile he kept using and went on a downhill spiral and would keep getting an infection at the site of where he was using heroin.	0
I am a Christian and lean on that faith, but sometimes the hurt runs so deep.	3
it's only been a week since my Mumma has passed away but it feels like a life time allready. I am missing her Love,talks,cuddles and words of wisdom daily.	2
Becoming withdrawn from friends, distant from my kids, short fused, arguing with my absolutely awesome wife over nothing.	2
I feel I am also being affected by my overthinking a lot of stuff that probably isnt there and I need help.	3
I don’t know why. But I know deep down I am not worthy of love or care. I shouldn't be taking up people's valuable time when they could be helping people who are worthy and actually would respond to treatment and follow through.	2
every day seems miserable and I'm broken.	3
Even my mum, step dad, sister and brother-in-law have no idea what I’m going through.	2
I feel so shut out, so unloved.	3
Don't know what to do.	3
I feel like I’m grieving, and feel also guilt all the time. I try to just go about life - I feel so sorry for him but that doesn’t help me to co trip how I feel when I’m around.	3
He has been battling himself for many years, searching for happiness, peace, and ease in his life but forever battling his thoughts and emotions.	3
I’m also worried about him breaking all our things before property and items can be divided.	3
I have been feeling so many feelings at once, i can't keep up anymore.	3
I have struggled with manic depression, anxiety and PTSD since a young teenager. Fam suffers from manic depression, anxiety, PTSD, grief and a history of drug and alcohol addiction and abuse.	3
I feel like I’m failing. I am so jealous of people who can do 'all the things' without feeling like they need to cry every day from the stress.	3
I am so sad and full of grief from the losses which he understands but the jealousy and resent toward him parenting his other children is driving a wedge between us and our relationship is suffering.	2
I was groomed and sexually abused by my uncle when I was 16.	3
She had to see her husband’s health rapidly deteriorating and him passing away	3
I feel broken, because on one hand I really want a friend to hang out with and chat with. But there is another part of me that doesn’t have the energy to contribute into any friendships.	2
Along with my experiences with alcohol, I think another reason I might be a bit jealous is because I don't really have any good friends for myself.	2
I am feeling downhearted about working with her.	3
However, ever since she has been here, we have no intimacy	0
happy people make me angry, people reaching out to me make me angry and think they’re talking about me.	2
I’m really anti-social so I feel like I won’t be able to say what I wanna say or I’ll say the wrong thing causing them to just dismiss me and move me along without helping.	2
Although my history of multiple trauma’s and childhood abuse caused specific responses in me from an early age, I thought I was normal and everyone was the same.	3
I applied for a urgent payment this morning due to my partners medicalcondition having invasive breast cancer.	0
I'm a terrible person for saying this!	3
I find it tiring having to put on a face for people, having to smile and act happy when in reality I’m exhausted and my social battery is already on -5789%.	2
My relationship between my husband and myself just deteriorated because I just didn’t want to be touched at all not even for a hug.	2
Pretty much all my work mates are now belittling me and gaslighting me. I feel like they’re trying to set me up to fail. it’s been so frustrating and confusing as I just want the truth as to why ?!?!?	2
Anyway, feeling so scared & alone right now, I didn’t know where else to reach out	2
I'm having a horrible week	3
My family seem to have a history of depression and anxiety but i feel i have copped the worst of it .	0
all you want is what we should all want, a sense of belonging, intimate friendships, romantic companionship, then, tough luck. Everyone loses except a tiny minority who	3
I'm having some serious intrusive thoughts and being incredibly hard on myself.	3
He cheated on my partner twice in the past and they have been separated for 6 years. I don't trust his motivations in wanting to go, as he has said he didn't want to miss out on the trip with his daughters who are 25 and 22. I am being assured there is nothing to worry about, however the bpd and overthinking in me is another story.	2
By the time I was 12 I had anorexia.	0
Sometimes our dynamic causes breakdowns. I put in a lot of effort to get this right, but it's too complex and too big	2
One of his anxiety trigger points is money and he will soon run out of sick leave.	1
I have so much regret about not spending their last day with them and not being there in their final hours.	3
At this point I fear our marriage is at risk. I find this situation difficult to deal with as I'm helpless thank you	2
I’m terrified it won’t be enough, or that I’ll crack under the pressure.	3
My mother is quite disturbed, has a lot of trauma herself and was extremely deregulated my entire upbringing - and still is to this day.	3
I am really struggling like so many others and can't even get my daughter to School the next 2 days, hardly any fuel in my car.	1
This life is so hard, I have a headache right now and its really killing all vibes I had left.	3
I couldn't keep it in me no more, i have been hurting so much these last few weeks.	3
I'm feeling a bit lost.	3
For about 12 months I have been emotionally disconnected except for at times of stress. So at the moment I am not really used to feeling, and when things are coming up my instinct is to push them away however I can. It's not working though.	3
I feel bad that I'm thinking this.	3
I don't know what to do. I love her very much but am tired of always being the emotional punching bag. I want to be there for my kids and can't leave them.	2
I no longer have friends to smile with. I no longer have family I can trust.	2
I feel a mix of Anxiety, Depression, and PTSD all rolled into one	3
I lost my best mate almost 3 years ago. He was my Dad and my heart ached today just like it did on the day I lost him. I’m trying to make sense of it.	2

I myself am very sick, pain conditions.

0

It's been a sexless relationship for about 5 years now. I don't even get any affection or closeness at all. I get incredibly sexually frustrated and lonely at night, to the point where it is unbearable.

2

I didn't really care until years later when I realised that I wasn't going to get them back, ever.

3

I’ve had a return of physical symptoms I had recur throughout last year - shortness of breath and feeling very unwell.

0

every time he says he'll improve but he doesn't. Lately this has escalated to full blown arguments because he keeps saying he’ll stop doing it but the behaviour doesn't change.

2

I feel like this is slowly becoming my

0

to she simply tells them what they want to hear.

2

There were some extremely delusional thoughts in there that made me beside myself with grief that he would feel such contempt towards me.

3

The negative thoughts are getting stronger. I feel like i’m failing everyone and everything. Im past the point of crying, i’m just empty now. I don’t know how else to ask for help.

3

I dislike him intensely. He is not the person I tried to bring up decently, he throws everything back at me and makes me feel like rubbish.

3

It is just an emotional rollercoaster.

3

I think distraction is the one of the best way in getting thru that awful wave… I do feel that mine lasts longer than it should by the time it’s about to pass a new one starts…

3

I feel noticeably less depressed, then the nausea kicks in and my mood plummets. It's very up and down. I really want this to work and there are good signs, but the nausea and accompanying depressed mood is vile.

0

I got BPD and is unsure of what to do, where to get help and what kind of help do one need to cope with this problem., I think distraction is the one of the best way in getting thru that aweful wave… I do feel that mine lasts longer than it should by the time it’s about to pass a new one starts… just don’t know how to distract myself when I’m too caught up with the idea of SH and/or suicide

0

I am 110% fed up with everything at the moment.

3

Neither my brother nor I, have any desire to be in relationships or marry, having grown up witnessing this behaviour and I can’t even imagine what kind of damage might be lying underneath the obvious surface-level stuff like that.

2

As of late, my relationship with my mum has really taken a turn for the worse.

2

I honestly can not win! This life I have is hard, and it's sad, I shouldn't have to suffer.

3

This person even though I wasn't hired in the role to be their subordinate, took it on themselves to position me in such a way, that they we giving me directions on exactly how they wanted things done (my role was a support role), but they were getting me to do all the hard work.

1

risky sex

3

I work so hard at the office each day, alienating myself from colleagues and not taking breaks because I just want to completely exhaust myself so I can fall asleep that night.

2

There is nobody in my life who loves me. I'm in my 40's and my Sister won't talk to me at all and I don't know why. She has dragged my brother along for the ride and we used to get along well. My parents are emotional cripples and won't talk about anything.

2

I keep changing jobs because I get bored when there is no challenge and now I don't have a job at all because it is harder when you are female and 53.

1

Today I had to cancel an appointment with my employment agency because I was too unwell when I’d been looking forward to discussing my ideas for starting my own business on the NEIS program.

1

I often feel frustrated trying to explain myself, asserting my emotional needs, and just being heard or seen at times.

3

In the past 7 years we have become 2 people who share a house and separate beds. I cannot understand what is stopping me from leaving him, after overcoming such huge obstacles in my life, why am I finding this so hard.

2

Now I’m in a job where I don’t even feel like it’s for me. I’m in a new town, broke with all my animals. Plus my other animals still in the town I left because I can’t afford to move them. I just feel so so out of place and feel like I’m ticking time bomb that’s just hanging on by a thread.

1

I feel trapped in a nightmare I can't wake up from.

3

. This really hurt, because each time I was badly assaulted.

3

I currently have a beautiful girlfriend who is the best thing that has ever happened to me but I still have daily thoughts about my ex.

2

I don't have any motivation to do anything and my house is so messy but I can't seem to clean it up.

3

My anxiety is through the roof and quite frankly I currently feel like I am drowning.

3

ive been having nightmares and i really just dont know how to make it all ok beyond calling the police and having him committed to a mental hospital

3

That part of my heart has been left empty and hurting since and I don't want to mean to be nasty but when my father does pass away I want to be able to go to my mum and say why?

3

it’s so hard to recognise my achievements when it seems like other people do all those things so easily and I’m drowning.

3

My three adult children do not communicate and have not given me any reason why they have shut me out.

2

I still feel as if l cannot be my true self around her since she does not appreciate it and thinks my true self is rude or has behavioral issues.

2

he constantly gets angry at me when I say no.

3

My Dad passed away from cancer 4 months ago and I have fallen into a depression. I have so much emotion that I don't know how to process it

3

Therapy is currently fortnightly and I feel like I need to increase it back to weekly until I get on top of things at work. My head is saying this is a step backwards though and I don't want to look at it like that.

1

I try and put on a brace face but some days I end up a crying mess in bed.

3

I've always been oversensitive and let things affect me.

1

I am so unmotivated, it's stepped up since Covid... I feel I have cried almost every day at the same stage during day for 2 years.

3

I’ve just changed antidepressants and the cost has increased from $15 to $75 per script. I’m finding myself cutting them in halves sometimes to save money.

0

I feel like I don’t even deserve friends anymore

2

I talked to my manager who I’m close to about it and she agreed that I could’ve done things differently but said not to worry about it.

1

He struggled with drug addiction for years and despite my attempts to get him help…nothing did. Meanwhile he kept using and went on a downhill spiral and would keep getting an infection at the site of where he was using heroin.

0

I am a Christian and lean on that faith, but sometimes the hurt runs so deep.

3

it's only been a week since my Mumma has passed away but it feels like a life time allready. I am missing her Love,talks,cuddles and words of wisdom daily.

2

Becoming withdrawn from friends, distant from my kids, short fused, arguing with my absolutely awesome wife over nothing.

2

I feel I am also being affected by my overthinking a lot of stuff that probably isnt there and I need help.

3

I don’t know why. But I know deep down I am not worthy of love or care. I shouldn't be taking up people's valuable time when they could be helping people who are worthy and actually would respond to treatment and follow through.

2

every day seems miserable and I'm broken.

3

Even my mum, step dad, sister and brother-in-law have no idea what I’m going through.

2

I feel so shut out, so unloved.

3

Don't know what to do.

3

I feel like I’m grieving, and feel also guilt all the time. I try to just go about life - I feel so sorry for him but that doesn’t help me to co trip how I feel when I’m around.

3

He has been battling himself for many years, searching for happiness, peace, and ease in his life but forever battling his thoughts and emotions.

3

I’m also worried about him breaking all our things before property and items can be divided.

3

I have been feeling so many feelings at once, i can't keep up anymore.

3

I have struggled with manic depression, anxiety and PTSD since a young teenager. Fam suffers from manic depression, anxiety, PTSD, grief and a history of drug and alcohol addiction and abuse.

3

I feel like I’m failing. I am so jealous of people who can do 'all the things' without feeling like they need to cry every day from the stress.

3

I am so sad and full of grief from the losses which he understands but the jealousy and resent toward him parenting his other children is driving a wedge between us and our relationship is suffering.

2

I was groomed and sexually abused by my uncle when I was 16.

3

She had to see her husband’s health rapidly deteriorating and him passing away

3

I feel broken, because on one hand I really want a friend to hang out with and chat with. But there is another part of me that doesn’t have the energy to contribute into any friendships.

2

Along with my experiences with alcohol, I think another reason I might be a bit jealous is because I don't really have any good friends for myself.

2

I am feeling downhearted about working with her.

3

However, ever since she has been here, we have no intimacy

0

happy people make me angry, people reaching out to me make me angry and think they’re talking about me.

2

I’m really anti-social so I feel like I won’t be able to say what I wanna say or I’ll say the wrong thing causing them to just dismiss me and move me along without helping.

2

Although my history of multiple trauma’s and childhood abuse caused specific responses in me from an early age, I thought I was normal and everyone was the same.

3

I applied for a urgent payment this morning due to my partners medicalcondition having invasive breast cancer.

0

I'm a terrible person for saying this!

3

I find it tiring having to put on a face for people, having to smile and act happy when in reality I’m exhausted and my social battery is already on -5789%.

2

My relationship between my husband and myself just deteriorated because I just didn’t want to be touched at all not even for a hug.

2

Pretty much all my work mates are now belittling me and gaslighting me. I feel like they’re trying to set me up to fail. it’s been so frustrating and confusing as I just want the truth as to why ?!?!?

2

Anyway, feeling so scared & alone right now, I didn’t know where else to reach out

2

I'm having a horrible week

3

My family seem to have a history of depression and anxiety but i feel i have copped the worst of it .

0

all you want is what we should all want, a sense of belonging, intimate friendships, romantic companionship, then, tough luck. Everyone loses except a tiny minority who

3

I'm having some serious intrusive thoughts and being incredibly hard on myself.

3

He cheated on my partner twice in the past and they have been separated for 6 years. I don't trust his motivations in wanting to go, as he has said he didn't want to miss out on the trip with his daughters who are 25 and 22. I am being assured there is nothing to worry about, however the bpd and overthinking in me is another story.

2

By the time I was 12 I had anorexia.

0

Sometimes our dynamic causes breakdowns. I put in a lot of effort to get this right, but it's too complex and too big

2

One of his anxiety trigger points is money and he will soon run out of sick leave.

1

I have so much regret about not spending their last day with them and not being there in their final hours.

3

At this point I fear our marriage is at risk. I find this situation difficult to deal with as I'm helpless thank you

2

I’m terrified it won’t be enough, or that I’ll crack under the pressure.

3

My mother is quite disturbed, has a lot of trauma herself and was extremely deregulated my entire upbringing - and still is to this day.

3

I am really struggling like so many others and can't even get my daughter to School the next 2 days, hardly any fuel in my car.

1

This life is so hard, I have a headache right now and its really killing all vibes I had left.

3

I couldn't keep it in me no more, i have been hurting so much these last few weeks.

3

I'm feeling a bit lost.

3

For about 12 months I have been emotionally disconnected except for at times of stress. So at the moment I am not really used to feeling, and when things are coming up my instinct is to push them away however I can. It's not working though.

3

I feel bad that I'm thinking this.

3

I don't know what to do. I love her very much but am tired of always being the emotional punching bag. I want to be there for my kids and can't leave them.

2

I no longer have friends to smile with. I no longer have family I can trust.

2

I feel a mix of Anxiety, Depression, and PTSD all rolled into one

3

I lost my best mate almost 3 years ago. He was my Dad and my heart ached today just like it did on the day I lost him. I’m trying to make sense of it.

2