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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I (21/f) handle this with my ?? (20/m) so I don't embarrass myself?
POST: I fell for a guy long distance. We talked for two years until it was apparent we felt strongly about each other so we started making visits to see if a LDR is something we could do. We wanted to get to kn... | Guy and I didn't work out due to long distance but he's been posting a lot of relevant statuses. Deciding if I should make a move. |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Your change, Ma'am.
POST: I work at a sandwich shop in a local shopping center. The kind of shop where people get choose their sandwich fillings and the poor drone behind the counter (i.e. Me) fetches and creates said sandwich. I've had the unfortunate pleasure of dealing with this one ... | Asshat old lady is a bitch to me at work, so I gave her enough coins to drown a hobo as change. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F] am having trouble with finding a way to communicate to my boyfriend [M](dating for 10 months) my love for him.
POST: So, i would like to start this by saying i love my boyfriend. He is amazing, sweet, kind, understanding, and so much more. We both love each other a lot. However, ... | i dont know how to communicate my love in a way my boyfriend appreciates because he is very vague about what he likes and dislikes and i could really use some ideas. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24M] girlfriend [23F] of 7 months is acting strangely, saying inconsiderate things and being passive-aggressive
POST: I'm in my last year of university, she graduated early. I'm a full time student, about 22 hours in the classroom in a week. I also work 25 hours a week.
My girlf... | I went to Europe a while back and when I came home my girlfriend is acting like a totally different person. What do I do now? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By laughing at someone's accent
POST: Ok, so this actually happened a few years ago in high school. Also, this is my first post, so bear with me.
The group of friends I ate with at lunch were a funny bunch of guys. One of them, who also happened to have a thick accent, came up with a funn... | Said a friend's accent was funny when I actually laughed out of pity; ended up getting shut out by "friends" |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] have never had a girlfriend because of my fear of rejection and I don't know how to/ am too afraid to conquer it
POST: Kind of embarrassing, so I created a throwaway. Basically, I'm 17 years old and I have never had a girlfriend, never had a first kiss, etc. I know that this i... | Have never had a girlfriend because I've never approached due to my fear of rejection. Don't know/afraid to conquer it. I'm a fucking coward. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[23F] have been hiding a big secret from my fiancée [25M] of 3 years, that I think would potentially break us up if he found out.
POST: I can't believe I'm posting here, but this has been weighing on me for the past couple of days.
About 6 months back, I made the ridiculous mistake o... | I had a run in with the law 6 months ago and I never told my fiancée. How, if even possible, can I remedy this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: What should I do next, if anything at all?
POST: I applied to a job a couple of weeks ago and got a call almost immediately thereafter to schedule an interview (my first one as a university graduate). I had the interview last Thursday and it seemed to go fairly well, and we even went over by 15... | had an interview, told I was going to be flown down for another one, got stiffarmed, and am now confused about what I should do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my ___ [21 F] 2 months, some reason I cant get over the break up.
POST: So I have been dating my ex for only 2 months, I know this is nothing like most threads where the relationships have been for like over 2 years, but for some reason I can relate and cant get over the... | Broke up after 2 months, she wants to go back to square one but has recently started to give no contact, I cant deal with the nc. How do I stay with her but also deal with the nc? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [VA] So two types of black toxic mold were found in my bedroom. Where do I go from here?
POST: In February, my brother contacted our rental's office because of continuous leaks in our kitchen and in my bedroom. He even stated he was concerned about mold. They half-assed the job, and neve... | Complained for months about mold, hygienist just found extreme levels of toxic mold in my bedroom. Better yet remediation crews stole my brother's 9 mm. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Opening/starting a conversation with 'You look a lot like [celebrity]' - Yay or nay?
POST: 22M with no dating experience. There's this girl (22F) from my town who goes another college whom I stumbled upon online from mutual friends (Anyone thinking 'get your friends to introduce her'..... | Girl shares an uncanny resemblance to Emma Stone, coming to town next month and I'm thinking of using that to start a conversation with this complete stranger |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what have you had to endure because of either somebody with the same name as you, or somebody who looks just like you? My story inside.
POST: This is a new account because I don't want to associate my identity with my regular username. My name is Aaron Goldstein and I'm a musician ... | Guy with the same name as me has a youtube channel with a trillion videos of him either acting a creep with his girlfriend or shilling his pyramid scheme |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Can anyone help me with a Comcast email problem and Xbox Live?
POST: I just bought a new 250gb Xbox Elite today at Best Buy. It was $100 with the agreement that I would use Xbox Live Gold for 2 years. I believe the sales woman said that Microsoft would send me an email to my account. So I ... | Comcast says my email address and password don't match when I know they do. I want to know how to log into the account. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] found on my girlfriend's [20 F] phone that she has been texting other guys and hiding it.
POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months and live together. I just found out the other day that she has been texting some guy from her new job. Looking through the... | My girlfriend has been texting other guys behind my back. She hasn't cheated but should these signals be enough even though she shows clear remorse. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Talked to a girl at a bar, got a #, texted, asked her out and she agreed, gave her schedule then stops responding??
POST: (Both 21)That's the gist of it. Made eye contact with her 5 times before I rescued her from some old guys at the bar, motioned her over after the second guy so she ... | Girl, Bar, Number, Asked out, She agreed, Never finishes text conversation after telling me her schedule, hasn't responded in two nights. Beyond confused dying for a reply |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My [19/m] FWB turned gf (19/f) wants to be FWB again
POST: Hi all,
A few things before i start - this might get a bit long, so sorry in advance. Also, sorry for any formatting errors. And finally, my grammar might be really terrible at the moment.
Okay so, about 6 months ago i... | FWB turned gf wants to go back to being FWB, i really like her and want to keep seeing her but i am worried this might end in me getting hurt, what should i do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21/M] was just cheated on by my girlfriend [26/F] and could really use some advice
POST: So, girlfriend and I have been together for just over a year, and the past couple months haven't been too great. We've fought a lot lately but honestly I thought I was going to marry this girl. ... | My girlfriend who I lost my virginity to cheated on me 3 days ago and I just found out last night. I'm so broken right now. What advice can you give me to help me get through this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by attempting to mow the lawn
POST: I am a college student, and I'm home for the summer. Today, my mom asked me if I could mow the lawn. "Sure!" I replied enthusiastically. I proceeded to walk outside in just athletic shorts and shoes, deciding against a shirt due to the southern summer he... | Tried to mow my lawn, greeted by an ant colony and attacked by a swarm of bees for my troubles. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what's the most obnoxious thing you've done to get back at your roommates?
POST: Some context: I recently moved into an apartment on campus at my university. The school provides us with a roommate agreement form in which my roommates and I all agreed that the quiet hours would be f... | Blasted music at 10pm last night to get back at my roommate because he talks obnoxiously loud early in the mornings. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 32 M with my gf 29 F, 7 years together, i asked her 3 months ago to marry me, but i didn't take a clear answer yet
POST: Hello people
I am 32 and my gf is 29. She is the only child of her family and she lives just with her mother since she was 8. Now i live also with my father and ... | I love her and i asked her to marry me. 3 months now and she didn't make it clear to me if she is YES or NO I CAN'T |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [TX] I was hit by a car while walking across an intersection with right-of-way. What are my options?
POST: Hello /r/legaladvice!
I've never dealt with anything like this, and I'm very much in need of some professional help. I am a 21 year old male, and I was recently hit by a car while ... | I was struck by a turning car in broad daylight with right-of-way and a witness. I want to make sure my ER visit and ambulance ride are covered, and even more what exactly my options are from here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Bf [26m] seems inexperienced with relationships and somewhat closed. Is it worth my [21f] time persisting?
POST: As a bit of background, we've been going out about 3 months now. Both weren't looking for a relationship but we had so much in common and enjoyed each others company so beca... | Am I correct in thinking that you need to be open with a partner? How do I help him open up to me? Or alternatively, does this indicate that the relationship is not going to work? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: My puppy just got out of surgery and can't sleep or walk around with a cone on her head [help]
POST: Hi there! I just got a dog from a neighbor. She's an 8mo old puppy who had never been to the vet. Yesterday I took her to get spayed and get all her vaccinations and whatnot. She's really out of... | Any advice on how to keep her fed/hydrated/mobile/entertained while home alone and wearing a cone? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20F] Bestfriend [21F] Saved Nude Photos of my Boyfriend [20M]
POST: My bestfriend was at my house today and I left my phone in my bedroom while I was in another room, after she left I got an email notification for HER email. So I went to it and she had her account set up on my phon... | My bestfriend signed into her email on my phone to send nude pictures of my boyfriend from my phone to her email. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: When do I [24F] tell the guy I've been dating [24M] that I have schizophrenia?
POST: I was diagnosed with schizophrenia about a year ago. I was seeing someone at the time and when I was diagnosed he completely ditched me after I told him the news. Since then I've been single and haven'... | I have been seeing a guy for a while and I have schizophrenia. Not sure when is the right time to tell him about this. Or when's the right time to come out with this in general when dating someone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] just asked a 19/F out and she said not yet?
POST: So for the past month and a half I've been seeing a girl. Been on a couple of dates and we've been talking every day since. We've known each other for a year now and there has always been a bit of attraction.
However, we wer... | Have been seeing this girl for the past month and a half and I know she likes me. Asked her out and she said not yet |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Legal Questions Regarding Minors Serving Alcohol (in NY)
POST: My friend is having her college sports team's formal in her apartment. She and her roommate are both under 21, as well is most of the other girls on the team. Normally when we have parties here we don't worry too much about the... | My under 21 friend is hosting an alcoholic gathering in her dwelling. Can she be held accountable for serving [to minors] without a license? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18F] parents [50F 60M] are showering me with gifts bc I may die. What should I do?
POST: A couple months ago I found out that I have a cyst/tumor (doctors don't know 100%) on my brain and I may have to undergo surgery sometime next year to remove it. This news has been taking a tol... | Parents are being overbearing with gifts bc I may have to undergo risky surgery. Seeking advice on how to tell them everything is going to be okay. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I'm sick of no one taking me seriously [M20]
POST: I'm sick of everyone laughing at me when I don't hear them properly. I'm sick of them calling me a 'baby' when they just look at me, I literally can't do anything without them calling me 'cute'. Does no one realise how embarrassing and humili... | My 'friends' keep calling me cute and oblivious when I don't think they realise how annoyed it makes me feel. How can I stop this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: You're a fool.
POST: After knowing you since freshman year of high school, we've always been close. I've been there for you so many times, and vice versa. A few months ago when we were camping, I realized just how much I liked you. Something just clicked and it all made sense. I had been... | girl I like a lot, who likes me back is moving 1500 miles away to live with some guy who doesn't even have a job that she's known for two months. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] meeting up with [21 F] for first time and i need advice on how to handle it.
POST: Hi reddit,
This is my most visited subreddit by far coz i love reading a post and the comments to see if i would have handled things the same way as the advice of the top comments say.
On... | Meeting up with cute girl for first time, shes accepted to come to a party with me where ill be the only person she knows. Is she into me? How should i handl myself? Arrrrrgggg HELP |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What does this girl want in guys? What am I doing wrong that other guys do right?
POST: I am not a perfect guy, I'll admit that before I condescend upon others.
Also, I know the fact that she just doesn't like me is quite possibly all it boils down to however for the sake of this post... | My feelings for her were too strong to remain just friends. So for my own benefit I stopped talking to her, seeing her, and essentially ended our friendship. I have learned many things about life through this process. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [25/F] with my ex [24/M] of 3 years, pet custody
POST: Back in October of last year, my boyfriend and I broke up. We had been together for quite a while. We got our husky puppy on my birthday. She's was my present. I had researched and looked online for months and months. I finally fou... | My ex won't give me my dog or her AKC papers. The dog was my birthday present, and I helped raise this dog. I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Making a move on a guy friend
POST: Known this guy for about a year, when hanging out/watching a movie at a friend's we'd sit together and cuddle/hold hands. Im almost positive he's interested. He hasn't really made any other obvious moves and I think he's shy/doesn't have much experie... | like a close guy friend plan on just going for a kiss when alone with him. He's shown interest within the past week. Will it work/can I do this any better? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: M (28) needs advice on girlfriend (39)
POST: I've been seeing this woman for a while now on and off for about three years. She is divorced and had a pretty disastrous first marriage. We're of different nationalities too.
Initially, I only saw it as casual but slowly she started ... | I don't know what to do with my girlfriend. I love her on one hand but I don't trust her enough out of experience. She isn't also doing her part. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F23) fiancé (M24) (7 years) wants to sleep with other women. I have tried to be open to it, but I just don't think I can do it.
POST: We've been together for 7 years and are planning to get married in the next year or two. Our relationship is great other than this issue. We have fu... | Fiancé wants an open relationship despite me being okay with threesomes, I'm uncomfortable with the thought and don't know how to communicate it to him without sounding crazy, jealous, and possessive. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 18[M] Afraid to talk to 18[F], who just admitted she loves me
POST: Me and this girl have, over the course of almost 3 years, sent 21,000+ messages to each other, long winding conversations, music we both love and poems we made. It first started before the end of Year 10, I met who I t... | Girl likes me, I like girl, but I can only talk to her online when no one is around because I'm scared and insecure. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30 M] in love with a girl who is "to good for me"
POST: I know a girl who i am completely crazy about. We were together a short while some time ago. Since then i had gotten over her, but now she popped back up in my life and i immediately got strong feelings again. The problem whil... | Girl i like is really smart. I believe she thinks i'm kinda smart to - but i'm actually not. Disappointment imminent. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To text, or not to text! That is the question! [Me: 32, Her 25]
POST: I guess I want to use this more as a vote than an analysis but here's the quick and dirty!
Met a girl about a month ago and she's fucking awesome and we immediately start getting along amazingly. Talk every day, alw... | Met girl. Like lots. Great times together yay. Suddenly no talking, not yay. One last text: Yay or nay? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mother [46 F] is being very pessimistic and It is maddening me [18 M] to the point where our relationship is failing.
POST: I live my mother in a two small suburban home. We don't have it
easy in the fiance department and that is all I have been hearing
about from her lately. The f... | Mother Is Pessimistic about our current living situation (money, house, ect.) and is venting and that bothers me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [me- F22 bf- M26] Is it normal to go through periods of not wanting to talk to or spend time with a S.O.?
POST: I [22f] have been in a relationship with my boyfriend [26m] for three years. I routinely go through periods where I feel mad at him for no apparent reason, feel like he is im... | I go through period where I don't want to talk to or spend time with my bf. Is this abnormal or am I fine? What do you think? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (26F) just found out my boyfriend of one year (or 3 yrs) (32M) has been cheating on me through reddit
POST: We were in a relationship on and off from 2011 and have been in a relationship for a year now.
I knew something was going on in our relationship recently because every weekends... | i just found out through reddit that my boyfriend has cheated on me and I do not know what to do. I need advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend [24M] broke up with me [22F] as he wants to travel for four months - what do I do?
POST: I'm hoping for any words of encouragement or wisdom at this rubbish time!
Background: my BF and I have been together for a year (on and off seeing each other for two years before that a... | boyfriend and I broke up. Says he wants to get back together after four months travelling. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: How is your irresponsibility my fault?
POST: Context: I live with a married couple in a house on the outskirts of a town where there is lots of wildlife. We have three cats, and one of them is mine. I've been trying to move into a nearby city for several months with very little luck, and ... | My roommates' irresponsibility has lead to the endangerment of my cat twice in the last two days, adding to an already extremely stressful weekend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Should I bring it up or not?
POST: So I started hooking up (no sex, but everything but) with a girl, lets call her Tracy, a few months ago. I was very forward saying that I didn't want anything serious at the time. A few weeks later I started hooking up with another girl, lets ... | I told a girl I'd be with her when I was drunk and broke my promise and she now dislikes me. This was 6 weeks ago and I want to talk to her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Current girlfriend[24f] found out about the gifts I[24m] made for my past girlfriends, now she is flipping out.
POST: Over the last 4 years I really got into art. I don't make any money off my work, but I like to do it after a long day of work as a way to relax before I go to bed.
I ... | Made my last two girlfriends really nice gifts, current girlfriend found out about it and is now insanely jealous, and our relationship is coming towards a breaking point. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm an [18m] who is batshit crazy about my sort of ex [17f] in a bad way. Very cringeworthy, but i can't stop
POST: Me and my SO dated for about two years before and we seemed to have a great relationship. She was amazing and put in 100% effort because she was ditsy and in love with me... | I dated a girl, i ended things because i could, sort of back together, i'm bat shit crazy about her in a bad way. Very cringeworthy |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M18] promised my girlfriend [F19] not to look at porn.
POST: I love my girlfriend a lot. We've been dating for over 5 months. We are perfect for each other. She means the world to me, and we are pretty serious.
But there was this one time before we were going to sleep and we were ... | I made a promise that I wouldn't masturbate to porn that's hard to keep, but I really don't want to hurt her feelings. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The girl I've been with for about a year and a half has had a huge personality change. What do I do?
POST: Basically whats happening is that after a year and a half of us knowing each other, being together, sharing secrets and what I thought was genuine happiness this girl just suppose... | Girl I knew over a year has had a huge change in who she is and says she doesn't care whether or not she liked me for real. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I screwed up Reddit, help please!
POST: I am a long time lurker, finally asking for some advice. Ill keep this as short as possible. I have been with my SO for 3 years. We are happy, and in love, and get along great for the most part. We have had our bumps in the road like all re... | I lied for a year about a past sexual experience and swore on our relationship. I came clean but need advice on repairing the trust. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not understanding Snapchat stories
POST: So, this is actually my roommate's fuck-up, but it's too good not to share. At our 4th of July party, it's pretty late and we're all pretty drunk. We've been on a kick of enjoying the [Fuck Her Right In The Pussy guy] recently, and Roommate 1 wan... | made a Snapchat story of roommate yelling "FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY" and sent it to 9-year-old cousin only. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Issues with school and where I live. What should I do?
POST: Okay, I will try to keep it as short as possible.
My issues with school are that I am not motivated to attend class. It isn't exactly what I was thinking it would be. I am interested in the subject, but it hasn't lit a fire under m... | I am not motivated in my program and I want to leave my city. I need advice on what I should do about these issues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Having A Terrible Time Getting Over My Ex.
POST: I will start with the finer details. I hope it doesn't end up being too long winded. She is about to be 23 and I am about to be 27. Back in November I took this girl on our first date. She slept over that night and so the story begins.
Soon ... | I need help getting over a girl who took comlpete advantage of me, made me feel like I was good only for sex and my money. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I don't know if this goes here, but I need some help with this.
POST: Hey AskReddit! I need some help concerning an issue that has recently come up in my life. My father is a Southern Baptist preacher, and I am a agnostic with neo-pagan tendencies. I decided to be what I am instead of pret... | I was naive and told a douche-bag christian about my religious preferences, and now my pastor father may lose his job. What do?* |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Ive been seeing a girl with a boyfriend, need advice please.
POST: The manager and me at my workplace are really flirty and friendly, smacking butts playfully and such and i make her laugh constantly, shes got a great personality. the only thing is she has a boyfriend that also works at our w... | I love a girl with a boyfriend, she likes me aswell and is contemplating whether to stay with him or date me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] with my friend [21F], just after a break-up.
POST: So she broke up with her bf a bit over a week ago ...she's been emotionally cheating with me for at least 6-8 weeks. About 5 days after she broke it off it just so happens we're making out and doing relationship-y stuff (this ... | Bit after break up, we're having a movie night at hers? We have a bit of history so it's not just a typical 'rebound' situation. Should I just be there as a friend? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to kill a snowman.
POST: I don't know if anyone else does this. My friend and I were on our way home from a long day and a long road trip; needless to say we were delusionaly tired. We turned on a street and there was a snowman in the yard of a guy we know. We both looked at each... | Tried to smash a snowman, turned out to be ice. Got shovels, man chased us, almost literally died. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25/F] constantly worry i'm going to lose my bf [27 M/] of 3 years.
POST: I realise that i'm insecure, i try not to be but i always worry that my bf is going to leave me. He has improved my life massively since meeting him 3 years ago and i feel like if he was to leave me now i would... | I feel that my bf is too good for me and will eventually leave, i think he misses being single and better looking girls than me are interested in him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How can i [19M] tell if my crush [19F] still has some feelings for me?
POST: This has been going on way to long and its been driving me a little crazy but i feel like i either do something now or just walk away.
Ive had a crush on this girl for 5 months. Shes amazing, and we ge... | Mate said my crush might still have some feelings for me. How can i tell if she does and what should I do in this situation/ |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [21 M/F] of 1 year: She loves me but likes another guy
POST: My job started taking up a lot of my free time. I guess while I was busy my gf made a new friend. They started hanging out a good deal, and then she developed feelings for him. The past few weeks ... | Girlfriend loves me but likes another, says she can't be with me until she figures it out because its not fair to me |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[15 M]need help motivating my girlfriend[15 F] of 1 year to study/do her work for school
POST: My girlfriend is a very smart person. She's completely capable of taking all the hardest classes and getting A's in all of them. But now she's falling behind in school because she doesn't st... | GF isn't studying/doing homework and says there's no time left to fix her grade. I really need help motivating her to get back on track. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The gym is my boyfriends [M,31) life, I (F,24) spend most nights by myself (4 yrs) Not sure how to handle this anymore
POST: We have been living together for 6 mo's. I used to work at the gym until 10pm and he usually would be getting there around 8pmand spending most of his night ther... | The gym is my boyfriends [M,31) life, I (F,24) spend most nights by myself (4 yrs) Not sure how to handle this anymore |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: F21 Trouble communicating "No" with an SO--not as dramatic as it sounds
POST: First Reddit post, so here goes.
Premise: F21 in relationship with M20. In college, I know I'm stressed which is certainly affecting the mental state.
Problem: This is my first relationship, his sec... | How do I tell him he's moving too fast and we need to slow WAY down without hurting his feelings/completely destroying the relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Can a former employee solicit her competing business to our customers legally?
POST: I live in CT and work for a grooming salon within a corporate pet supply chain.
A former employee of the salon has opened up her own grooming salon up the street (done so purposefully since she has brag... | Former employee is soliciting her business at our store. Openly telling people not to use or grooming services. Is it legal? |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Me and my 2 sisters had drug and alcohol fuelled sex on vacation.. (NSFW)
POST: my younger sister and I share this account.
One younger, one older. We decided to all pitch in and rent a little cottage out in the middle of nowhere for 1 week and just hang out. then we got bored and just wanted t... | went on a 1 week getaway with my sisters, a drug binge, had copious amounts of sex with them and we're still normal around each other. No awkwardness. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girl friend [23 F] of 6 months: I somewhat said my major is harder than hers.
POST: We were talking about summer classes, which are notoriously hard. I was talking about how I can't do 12 hours next summer (2 classes in each mini semester) because they are hard. She h... | Made a stupid remark saying my business degree is harder than her art degree. I want to retract and her to believe me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 F] am worried I made the biggest mistake of my life leaving my boyfriend [26 M] of almost 3 years
POST: I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago.
We broke up in the past once before. I dumped him because I felt he wasn't motivated enough and didn't do enough in life. I als... | not sure if my depression caused me to break up with my boyfriend or if I made the right decision. I don't know what to do. Should I reach out to him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Does this count as cheating? Need some clarification
POST: Hey everyone,
As on Monday, things between an ex girlfriend and I had ended on what I thought at that point was due to the academic challenges that we would face because of the start of college. Really, the academic excu... | Found ex's convo, said she's interested to a new guy on FB in a chat convo during the last week of our relationship, is this cheating? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] waited to long to make a move on [17 F], she's now gone no-contact.
POST: Here's the back story (I have posted parts of this before, you may recognize it).
I've known the girl for about a year or so, but we became a lot closer earlier this year. (she texted me out of the blu... | Waited too long to make a move on girl, she moved on to another guy that I know she won't date for long. Wondering what I should do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: The fire/smoke alarm in the apartment below me has been going off for close to 48 hours now, swiftly going from minor inconvenience to major problem. What can I do?
POST: So, for the last 2 days there has been an alarm going off in the apartment below mine. It's the model apartment for t... | Alarm going off in apartment below mine, no one lives there to shut it off and the office can't/won't. Can I do anything about it besides complain? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My ex (23f) and I (23M) broke up about 2 months ago
POST: We were dating for about 3 years and for the first 2 and a half years it was amazing.. but we moved in together and it seemed like everything went to hell. We were always fighting and arguing and near the end I was looking forwa... | Broke up with my ex and was fine until I found out she was dating someone else. Now it bothers good. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Girlfriend [34F] got really emotional when I [24M] got enthusiastic about sex, sex toys, exhibitionism, etc.
POST: She's asian and pretty inexperienced sexually. I've spent most of my sex-active life exploring all sorts of stuff - fetishes, munches, toys, positions, etc. We wen... | Girlfriend is comfortable in the sex shop until I ask if she's into exhibitionism. She got very upset that I would even consider it. Trying to understand why. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 29.9m, 27f, ex 31f, question on ex-etiquette
POST: Current relationship is almost a month old, after 10 of pursuing as friends. Ex relationship was ~2.5 years, ended something like 3 years ago.
It may happen, at some point in the next few months if I had to guess, that my current gf a... | New gf is way hotter than ex, don't want ex (or anyone, but I'm less sure how to handle ex) to be self-conscious if/when they meet |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I tell someone I don't like them back.
POST: Name = Person (Age) K = Me (17) A = Girl I like (17) P = Girl that likes me (17)
K and A both like eachother. K and A would both be together but P has liked K for 5 years. K and A are both good friends with P. K isn't supposed to know ab... | K and A like eachother. K is under dibs by P. K needs to tell P he doesn't like P like that. What does K say to P? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my manager [28M], is this illegal or just massively not cool?
POST: I work in a restaurant. Let me start by saying that the turnover rate here is insane. Aside from the manager, Derek, nobody who currently works there has been there longer than 8 months. People get fir... | Manager at restaurant has replaced write-ups with taking away our tips. I think it's fucked up. Is it even allowed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [29F] be there for my boyfriend [29M] of three years, during the last days of his grandmothers life?
POST: Well my boyfriend and I have a pretty great relationship, we're open with each other and we communicate well enough that we don't have to fight. When we disagree on some... | Normally open and communicative boyfriend shut off communication when he found out his grandmother is at the end of her life, I don't know if I should do anything. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [17/m] don't want to make her [16/f] think I just used her for sex
POST: So, I met this girl on a dating app and I thought I liked her a lot. I hung out with her and had an okay time. We ended up getting really stoned and having sex (my first time). I don't really think a relat... | I had sex with a girl I thought I really liked, now I don't really like her and don't want her to think I just used her for sex. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Did my girlfriend[20F] and I[24 M] define our relationship too soon?
POST: We're both college students that share a class together. We made it official after only 2 weeks of dating. She's been in 2 relationships whereas I've been in none. (I dated two other people before meeting her ... | Became boyfriend and girlfriend in about 2 weeks followed by groping and oral sex soon after. Should I be worried that we're moving too fast? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Somewhat of a clean slate, and I have no idea how or where to start.
POST: I will summarize as best I can. I live in California, and Since 2005, my parents have had complete control of me financially. Between 2005-08 four properties (one in Dubai), a couple of large loans, and a car ... | FILED BANKRUPTCY AFTER YEARS OF FINANCIAL RUIN. NO IDEA WHAT TO DO NEXT! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Brink of breakup:My boyfriend and I just had a serious talk about long term or breakup, he said he needed more time to decide
POST: My boyfriend (23M) and I (23F) just had a serious talk 4 days ago. I told him that he either moves to NYC or SF as discussed, or we break up. He said that... | Brink of breakup:My boyfriend and I just had a serious talk. I told him that he either moves to NYC or SF as discussed, or we break up. He said he needs more time to decides |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (19m)felt like our (19f) relationship was falling apart I thought we should break up and now we are better than ever. Is that normal?
POST: My girlfriend and I had been going strong for about 7 or 8 months when things started to fall apart. We would fight all the time, usually about no... | girlfriend and I were having trouble. Tried to break up with her but we decided to give it another shot and now I feel like we are better than ever but I'm afraid of another period where we fight all the time. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Friend [23F] with boss [40 M], possibly unprofessional conduct?
POST: Well, a close female friend of mine went to a nice dinner with her boss. She is 23 years old, he is around 40 or so. No, she is a paid intern at a company, and it is not unusual nor completely unexpected for bosses ... | Friend went to dinner with boss, he said he doesn't get to have much fun usually, kissed her on the cheek, and said they should do it again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I need help deciphering my (19f) SO's behaviors (25M) of over a year
POST: We have a great relationship. We started dating early may of 2013, and things have been great. We fight like anyone else, but we always make up and fix things moving forward if there was a problem.
Theres a mi... | relationship with SO is good but the way he acts confuses me. I'm not paranoid or need to know everything that will happen but I have no idea if we're in it for the long run |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Boyfriend [30M] cheated on me [29F] and got girl pregnant. Confused about whether it is any of my business or not.
POST: I need guidance on what I am supposed to feel, not break up/make up advice so I am giving very little background.
My long distance boyfriend has just told me... | boyfriend got another girl pregnant, she is possibly getting an abortion, I don't know how to deal with conflicting feelings of betrayal and guilt. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girlfriend [27 F] 4 months, she wants to shave her head
POST: The headline says it all I guess. My girlfriend of 4 months decided that she wants to shave her head, just because.
I love her - she's the most amazing person I've ever been with. We have an awesome relati... | girlfriend of 4 months plans to shave her head on a whim. I do not find that (or that decision) easy to accept. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Does it impact the ex for you to be polite and forgive?
POST: Just asking because me and my ex are supposed to talk soon after I've request NC for a 3 months. He's [22M] contacted me [22F] twice so far and I've just been polite and brief.
I do want to him realize the weight of his ac... | When telling someone you don't want them to be in your life anymore, should you be utterly indifferent, angry, or forgiving to have the most possible impact on them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is it time to give him a little "pressure?"
POST: Ok so I met this guy late October. I am 31 [f] hes 27[m]. A week later we "hooked up". A week after that we had a little issue... irrelevant i believe. Anyway we had a little talk, I gave him 2 options. 1.) we could continue to see each... | Been with a guy for almost 8 months.. No BF/GF label, now i have feelings for him, he may have them for me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] and my girlfriend of 3 years [19 F] just told me, at a club, that she's been hooking up with one of my childhood friends. Just got home. Can't sleep. How do you guys even deal with this shit?
POST: Wow. I feel like total shit. This girl was, what I think, the love of my life.... | Long term girlfriend (ex-girlfriend) told me tonight that she's been hooking up with my childhood friend. Just need a little help coping with the situation. I feel fucking small and alone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[31M] with my girlfrield [31F] for a few months, is it worth it?
POST: I've been dating someone now for a few months. She lives about an hours train ride away, so we only get to see each other at weekends but it's been pretty much all weekend every weekend since we've been together, ... | Good times are very good, Bad times are bad, but all over very silly issues that shouldn't matter but seem to keep coming up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [25/f] dating a separated (34/m) with no divorce date.
POST: He has been separated and living apart from his wife for 3 years and has no intention of filing for divorce any time soon. He walked away from the relationship and she really didn't want him too. They have two girls tog... | [25/f] dating a separated (34/m) with no divorce date. Should I be ok with this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26M] feel jealous about my wife's [30F] interactions with other men, because I have no one else to talk to. [Together 7 years, married 4]
POST: Ok, so, i want to retain some anonymity here, but... my wife and i recently went through rough times (started with a miscarriage and only g... | Wife wants me to make female friends to stop jealousy issues, but i'm not sure how and know if it's a good idea... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20 M] best friend [21 F] is acting in an inappropriate way towards me.
POST: My best friend has started acting in a very suspicious manner towards me (shes been acting like this for 2-3 months now). We've been friends for around 3 years now, and we've never had any kind of sexual t... | Best friend of 3 years starting to act inappropriate towards me, she has a boyfriend. How do I bring it up? Am I in the wrong, is this normal? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Buyer's remorse on expensive prescription glasses
POST: I'm an idiot. Despite being quite good at being frugal and investing in the last year, I'm still given to occasional idiotic mistakes.
I just got covered under my company's health insurance, and got vision insurance. Went to th... | Idiot with new health insurance spent too much on glasses, regrets it, can't get refund. Any hope for him aside from being a not-idiot in the future? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I 22(F) fantasize about a different life without my (22M) boyfriend, after a year together.
POST: Before I get in to this, I want it to be known that I love him, and I deeply care about his happiness. We bicker quite a bit though and recently my bf has become a jealous person.
Now, h... | I have had fantasies about a life without my boyfriend. Don't know if this is a phase or if it means I'm not happy anymore. Need advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (18F) girlfriend hates all drugs due to past abuses and says she can't get over me (18M) doing them or even having a different opinion on them
POST: We have only been together a little over 3 months and I'm afraid this issue will snowball into something much larger in the future. My... | gf was abused all through childhood and blames drugs for it. I used to do them but stopped for her and she told me she wants me to change my idea on them completely. |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Contact lens help
POST: I'm fairly new to contact lenses, and my optometrist is a pretty big advocate of monthly lenses because they're much more exact in their ability to match my prescription (I have astigmastism. an astigmatism? whatever). I love dailies, but I've been trying different... | do contact lenses irritate the shit out of you when watching tv/computer whether you use drops to re-moisturize or not? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Messy SAH SO, I'm overwhelmed with housework
POST: My so (m, 22) of 3 years and I (f, 21) just moved back in together. We have lived together for 2 of those years and lived separately from last November until a few weeks ago. We have a one year old daughter together and currently, SO s... | My SO is extremely messy and I am not. Working full time and doing most of the housework- how do I get him to help more? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 F] just started seeing someone [23 M] who has recently gotten out of a long term relationship. Should I continue seeing him or should I just give him space? Am I just a rebound?
POST: Long-time lurker on another account, first-time poster.
Anyway, I recently started seeing a guy... | Guy I'm seeing was in a long-term relationship. Don't want to be a rebound because I really like him. Should I keep dating him or let him have time to be single? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20/F] with my husband [28/M] haven't had sex in two years
POST: My husband and I haven't had sex in two years and I'm starting to think it has done irreparable damage to our relationship. He masturbates regularly, so I just don't understand what is going on.
When we first started... | My husband and I haven't had sex since I gave birth. Any advice on why he is acting this way? What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34/m], [all Fs] and being good at lying
POST: In a previous life I was in a senior position within one of the large protest movements (NOT Occupy - it was another country) which made international news. I had to manage an intense and serious historic event and navigate between riv... | Involved in historic political event, became good at lying. Women always ask about being good at lying and I say yes but it becomes uncomfortable. What to say? |
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