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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[23/M] dating [20/F] 3 months, She moved far away, how do I keep her interested without scaring her away
POST: I [23M] began dating a wonderful girl [20f] who peaked my interests in many ways. Wonderful taste in music, beautiful outlook on life, very adventurous and outgoing. She kne... | We met at school through a friend, fell hard for eachother spent lots of time together, did many things with eachother, and had a lot of great sex. She is now far away but I dont want to lose her |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, there is a huge life decision that I need help with... and it's been bugging me for a few years. People around me aren't being helpful and I am not sure how much it will affect my future. I don't even know whether or not I am exaggerating, but please... help me make my mind about c... | Can't choose college at all. It's really a good time to make my mind already, and nobody around me is helping.(My rating of how well I do in subjects at school might help you help me, haha...) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What do you do when you feel hopeless?
POST: So, I've been single for a long time. Partly due to the fact that I'm a little overweight, mostly due to the fact that I have no confidence at all. Anyway, being single for as long as I have been has made me feel really lonely. Recently, I final... | I asked a girl out, got happy and hopeful that she'd say yes, she ended up saying no. Now I feel like I will never have happiness and I want to change that. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (17M) just met a really cool gal (16F) in January and everything seemed to be going amazingly well until this past Monday.
POST: So I met her at a group I'm in that meets once a month. We seemed to really get along well. We started talking outside of the group, we had some video chat... | things were going great, but now, seemingly without reason, they have gone downhill and I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [23 M] and lost on how to form a quality relationship? Need some advice and feedback
POST: This is kind of a rant but I need to see if anyone else browsing on here has been or is in a similar situation as me.
I just turned 23 and really crawled out of a deep depressing hole over the p... | Inexperienced and confused suburban guy looking for some advice on how to get started forming a quality relationship with a woman. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is passion really so important, or is love and comfort enough?
POST: I am a 27 year old female who has been in a relationship with a man of the same age going on 5 years. He is an amazing friend and takes great care of me, but I rarely feel any passion for him.
We have been trying ve... | Lack of passion for boyfriend, but still love. Past drug issues, infidelity, depression etc. Continually flip flopping on whether to stay or go. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Is it wrong to compliment a strangers appearance at a social gathering?
POST: Bit of background:I went to a social gathering recently and you were required to get dressed up.
I show up just like everybody in required formal wear. I walk in and there is a women standing there in thin... | Questioning complimenting a woman who was absolutely beautiful at a social event, would it be right, even though they are a stranger technically? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [23 M] sleeping with a [23 F] tinder friend for 5 Months. When are we considered Boyfriend/Girlfriend?
POST: Hi Reddit.
I'm not sure whether or not I'm in a relationship or just a fuck buddy. Personally I'd like to be in the latter, but I'm quite terrible with guaging where the r... | Fucking a girl for 5 months. Not sure if we're still fuck buddies or actually in a relationship. What do you think? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My (20/f) best friend, who i thought was gay, just told me she has feelings for (21/m)e.
POST: We've been best friends going on two years now, and we have previously had discussions about a future together (Nothing to hint at how much she felt about me, basically just the ol' mar... | my lesbian best friend has fallen in love with me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me, i used to like her but i got over it and now im really confused about what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I (24f) being paranoid about my BF's (24m) new friend?
POST: So my boyfriend of 7 months has been getting closer to one of his coworkers, we'll call her S. A few weeks ago, they went out to a bar and met up with S's boyfriend, T. I wasn't invited to go, but I had to be up early the ... | BF's female friend from work showed him sexual photos of her and her BF. I'm wondering if I should let this bother me or let it go. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Most of my best friends have been gay but I'm not. How do I go about finding straight friends?
POST: Hi there, I'm a straight Asian teenager. I guess you could say I'm attractive although I've had very low self esteem up until recently. For some reason, a lot of my friends have d... | Most of my best friends were gay, how do I act uninterested in guys without being rude and find new, straight friends? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I hate myself for succumbing to Senioritis. Any ideas on how to stay focused in school?
POST: My GPA dropped by half a point already, and it's getting harder and harder to stay focused. I know I'm kidding myself when I say, "it's okay, everyone has senioritis," but I find myself pushing ... | How do you stay focused during study time? And how do you prevent yourself from procrastinating? (sorry if that's confusing) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F/21) mother (48) keeps invalidating my experiences by always talking about how she has it worse.
POST: I've been very depressed lately and I'm currently seeing a counsellor at my college. A lot of my depression comes from my dyslexia which some times makes me feel like I'm bad at ... | I'm going through a hard time with my studies and whenever I express my concerns, my mother tells me that she has it much worse than me. What can I say to that will make her be more sensitive? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [23m] saw my ex today, got too scared to even say hello yet I can't stop thinking about her...
POST: We dated for 3 months half a year ago (my first gf), she went away on a trip for 2 months, and told me it was over when she came back and moved away for the summer.
Even though it wa... | Saw my ex and was too scared to say hi, don't know what to do because I cant stop thinking about her and its ruining my life... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 F] with my ex [30 M] of two years, feeling guilty about our breakup
POST: My ex and I broke up in december....and continued on-off for about two months. Honestly it was a super messy break up, with each of us being confused about if it was the right thing.
I wanted to be nice ... | Ex and I had an 'emotional rollercoaster' and on-again off-again breakup. I said some things I regret. How do I make amends and make sure he's okay without bringing back our chaotic dynamic? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Want to know if I [21M] have a shot at fixing my relationship with my girlfriend [22F]
POST: I know it's a dumb overasked question but I just wanted a couple candid responses.
So this starts over a year ago. Me and my girlfriend had only been dating for a couple weeks and I was uncer... | I fooled around with a girl when me and my girlfriend first started dating, she finds out a year and a half later, shit unfolds predictably. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [23 M] Going from relationships to casual fun
POST: So recently I had to break it off with a girl I was seeing because we wanted different things. I wanted a relationship and she wanted to just have fun. The thing is I've only been in relationships before and never explored the realm o... | I've only been in monogamous relationships but want to try friends with benefits...except I know I'm a sensitive and jealous dude. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How do I stop running away from this woman who likes me?
POST: I'm a 27m, I'm not sure how old she is; probably a year or two younger than I am.
For the sake of anonymity, we'll say I do slam poetry in bars. There's a really gorgeous woman who has started doing slam poetry recently. ... | I'm too chicken to actually express that I like a woman and clam up when I know I like someone. What are some ways I can sorta test the waters? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my [18F] friend, developing feelings...
POST: I have known this girl for about 2 months and I feel like I am developing feelings for her. Most of our interactions are online and she recently invited to a weekend event which went great and we spent the entire time together... | Really clicked with this girl I met around 2 months ago went to a weekend event and really hit it off. Only problem is she has a long distance boyfriend and wondering If I should make a move. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Married couple (M,F, late 20s) trying to help friend (20s M) whose wife left him xPost with r/Advice
POST: Our friend is about the same age. They were married for 2 years, together for about 3 years before that. We found out only after the wife left the husband (about 6 weeks ago) that... | How do I act as a support system for my friend whose wife left him, and do so without sending myself into a tailwind of depression too? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Student, recently unemployed, in small debt
POST: I know that this is very minor compared to most of the post on here but here is my predicament.
I am student at a major university. I receive financial aid to cover most if my school expenses, but I am responsible for everything my F... | $850 in debt.$250 in checking. Recently unemployed. Searching for job. "Schedule is not flexible enough." |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My Boyfriend Wants to Move in With Me?
POST: I am 21 F and my boyfriend is also 21. We both are in college and we have been seeing each other for about 5 months.
The other day he said "WE should buy a king-sized bed" (emphasis added) while we were hanging out. Then, the next day, he ... | I think my boyfriend wants to move in with me and I don't know how to react if he does want to move in with me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My relationship feels like a lie and it's stressing me out and making me sad.
POST: I've been in a long term relationship for the past almost 5 years (got together when she as 18 I was 22). We live together, get along great and she's got the rest of her life planned out with me. I'm no... | my relationship feels like a lie and it's stressing me out and making me sad. And it's all me. Please ask any questions that might clarify or help you help me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by asking "What for?"
POST: *This happened a few days ago in the evening.*
**CONTEXT**
So I work as a receptionist at an English school for (mainly Latino) adults. It's quite small and I, as the receptionist, have to deal with the customers (translating/retailing the course). I also have ... | Lady asks for toilet paper, I ask her "what for?" she gets pissed off and I end up realising I just asked someone why they need toilet paper for the toilet. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How bad is it to ask your girlfriend to lose weight? I'm 19m she's 18. We've been together 2 years.
POST: She's always getting onto me to get contact lenses, she says I'd look much better with contact lenses. This is kind of insulting.
There's no nice way of saying this but she has le... | My girlfriend says I'd be so much more attractive with contact lenses, so is it so wrong to ask her to drop a bit of weight? |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Hey Reddit, I am suffering from all kinds of joint pains that don't seem to go away. Any insight?
POST: I know I should perhaps visit a doctor but I cannot afford to see one right now. :( Also, I apologize for the wall of text.
I have had pretty bad knee pains and neck pains for years. I've le... | Developing pains in most of my joints, including tendon/tissue inflammation. I don't know why as I'm not doing anything that would seemingly cause this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I let my girlfriend sleep at another guys house?
POST: So my girlfriend texts me today asking me if I would mind or be jealous if she slept over at her ex-boyfriends house with another guy because "she knows I get jealous easily". She reassures me that she's not interested in her ex... | = girlfriend wants to sleepover at ex-boyfriends house with another guy, reassures me she has no feelings for either, asks me if I would be jealous/mind. Should I? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [FINAL UPDATE] My[24F] father in law [67M] does not understand boundaries and is disrespectful
POST: Hey Reddit. This will be my final update to the saga (previous update [here](
I'll try to keep this as short as I can. My father in law wrote back to my husband today and it was an ess... | father in law blames my husband for everything and uses mother in law and brother in law's names in untrue statements to hurt my husband |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my bf [18M]. How do I know he difference between crazy and justified?
POST: This is a general question that can apply to all relationships, but I was just wondering how I know if I'm being crazy or if my feelings are justifiable?
I tend to be a jealous and very paranoi... | how can I know the difference between me being demanding and him slacking off? I can't decide whether to suck up my problems or to say something about it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (29 M) still lives with his parents and follows them around everywhere. Am I (27 F) wasting my time here?
POST: I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 8 months, at first things were great - he was gorgeous and funny and we had great chemistry and that was all I need... | My boyfriend who is almost 30 is overly close to his parents and doesn't want to leave the nest, ever. Am I wasting my time? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 F] with my Abusive Ex Husband [35 M] Social media whinging after our breakup, I want to tell my story but I don't want to ruin his reputation forever.
POST: I just got out of a marriage (separated, not yet signed papers) with an emotionally manipulative and physically abusive hu... | Ex is having a very public grieving session on social media. I want to post about the abuse I suffered but I don't want to ruin his life. Talk me down reddit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Can women read guys this easily?
POST: Let me apologize beforehand, this might be a bit unorganized and long but I'm just going off the top of my head because this just happened.
Hi gals, I just got done talking with a girl I work with (we're both 21). Let's call her Karen. To prefac... | To all the women on here, I need help understanding how this works. Can y'all really read a guy that easily? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: How do I get my EIGHT YEAR OLD to sleep in her own bedroom??
POST: I am tearing my hair out right now!!!
Background: Having left my (now) ex husband when my daughter was 18 months old, I had to stay with my mother for a year until I got back on my feet.
A few moves later and we make a ha... | How do I get my daughter, who is used to sleeping with me, to sleep in her own bed? It's a battle every night! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: There is a brown recluse in my room right now, I'm freaking the fuck out. How can I protect myself and kill it?
POST: 1:30 am now.
About 2 days ago, a brown recluse glided right down with its web string right next to me as I was sitting on my computer chair. I quickly grabbed an object n... | Found brown recluse in bedroom 2 days ago in computer area, saw it again today, now it's running around all over the floor and room. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my Coworkers [~26+/-5 F] Want to ask them to movies, don't know if it would be weird.
POST: A few months back I made plans to see the new Tarantino movie with a couple friends(both guys, totally platonic) They were on a trip up north and bailed on me to watch it then. I ... | Don't want to go to the movies alone. Afraid of being the creepy coworker with a crush on everyone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (20F) boyfriends roommate is cheating on his girlfriend of 3 months, do I tell?
POST: Ages all the same. Gonna keep this short because there's not much info needed.
My boyfriend told me that he heard his roommate having sex with someone 4 times in the last 24 hours, and said roomma... | Boyfriend's roommate is cheating on his girlfriend, she's on holiday, do I tell her and how and when? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I suspect that my [28M] girlfriend [24F] is cheating after looking on her phone. Should I break it up / cancel new years plans?
POST: So I have been noticing the disconnect lately between me and my girlfriend. She is going to a different school that is further away. She has been making... | Checked my gf's phone and I think she is cheating. Is the evidence enough to cancel plans for new years? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My(18f) boyfriend(18M) of 3 years broke things off right before we leave to college.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together since the 10 grade. Before we started dating, he had been my best friend since 7th. He broke up with me out of no where telling me that he "Does't feel the w... | My boyfriend of 3 years (each others first) dumped me while i wasn't home right before we both embark into our college lives in different states with no warning. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my bf [21 M] 9 months. How do I make him listen to me?
POST: I'll begin at the begining.
Me and my boyfriend met on an internet game, and we hit it off right away. After talking for a few months online and a lot of Skype Calls, we met up. We were living a 4 hours drive ... | How do I talk to him to get him to listen to me? How do I aproach the sex problem? What would you do in my situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [23F] stuck after break up with boyfriend [33M]
POST: My boyfriend and I dated for 2.5 years, and we moved in together at the beginning of this year. We had a nice house, and a puppy and I got comfortable. I work in a nursing home and I'm a senior in college, and both of those stre... | had a good boyfriend but my poor stress management pushed him away, and I don't want to get over it but I need to so I can get a job and feed my puppy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [22/F] of 4 years told me she is no longer attracted to me [24/M] anymore
POST: Hello, this is my first post and since I am hopeless and consider reddit to be full of nice people I would like to ask you for help.
I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years and just recent... | I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years and just recently she told me she is no longer attracted to me - mentally or physically. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Please help, I just adopted a dog and now I'm freaking out. Worried if I can do this.
POST: Its a tale as old as time, yesterday we went to a shelter "just to look" and fell in love. My boyfriend and I both work a lot, so we needed a medium energy dog that could be ok with a dogwalker or daycar... | Adopted a dog and may have bit off more than we chew- should we cut our losses or keep him and figure it out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need advise on my (24, m) relationship.
POST: I've (24,M) been dating my fiance (25,F) for almost 2 years. We've had a few arguments over the past few weeks, but nothing too big. Mostly financial or usual relationship fights.
Lately she's been very hostile towards me saying things li... | Fiance (F) has recently gotten very hostile towards me and claims she's pushing everyone away to be alone. Not sure if holiday depression or complications from a disease she has. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I'm extremely tired and at work. The combo leaves me with this question.
POST: What should I do? Anything. I'll do it. 23,000 times.
But seriously. I work in a billing department and I don't think people understand me. Not because I have an accent or anything. They just don't unde... | I'm a bored billing agent for a major company and I get extremely strange calls. What calls have you received/made that made you say WTF? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: [Personal] I'm fed up of friends that won't commit.
POST: Hi,
Specific town names etc removed to avoid any risk of someone this concerns reading this.
So, I used to live in a city on the south cost of the UK. I grew up there, school, college and 3 years of working in an office there. I wasn... | moved from city a to city b, whenever I return to city a old friends never available to see me. Unsure if bs or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm a 22F with a boyfriend of a similar age. Should I forgive or dump if he ignores me?
POST: So my boyfriend told me to come over to hang out with his friend. I ended up being ignored throughout most of this evening. I felt really hurt by it and even though they kept asking me if I wa... | ! I guess my question is should I dump him or try to talk it through although he might do it (ignore me in front of his friend) again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is my sister in danger from all this medication?
POST: I'll try to explain as concisely as possible. My sister age 14, is diagnosed with asperger's. My mother has always been a little over confident in drugs, she has had my two younger brothers on medication and me as well. The older of my... | My mom might be crazy with how many drugs she is giving my sister who is diagnosed with Asperger's, an autism spectrum disorder. Her case is mild she functions quite normally. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am [23/m] I asking too much from my girlfriend [22/f]? Advice appreciated.
POST: Our relationship has been going for a little over 9 months. Before we started dating I was in the military and now I'm a civilian going to college. Before I started school in January I had a full-time job.... | girlfriends parents disrespect me. I asked her to talk to them about how I feel. She feels I should talk to them. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Scum Bag Gym.
POST: I canceled my membership in December, pay the early termination fee, sign papers saying our contract is terminated and I no longer owe them money. FWIW, I paid the termination fee with my debit card, so it's linked to my bank account.
I read the entire contract becau... | Signed a termination contract with a gym, made TRIPLE SURE they would not charge me more after terminating, was charged for two things, should I lawyer up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my BF [26M] of a year. I'm dealing with shadows from a past relationship and it's hurting my bf.
POST: I've been in a relationship for one year. The one before this was long and emotionally toxic. When I met my current bf I hadn't fully gotten over my ex. He was fully awa... | Not entirely over ex because of past abuse but bf insists on maintaining relationship. Is it right? How do I make it easier for him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (25M)fell in love with my best friend (24F) and I'm afraid I will lose her if I tell her.
POST: She is the Greatest Person I have ever met in my entire Life and this is what breaks my Heart. She is in a serious Relationship with a good Friend of mine so I can't tell her and because I... | fell in love with best friend shes in a relationship with a good friend and can't tell her my feelings because I'm afraid to lose her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Need help picking a baby shower present for someone who may hate me.
POST: About a year ago, I made an accusation about my cousin (true or not is irrelevant) that created a huge problem in my family. Basically my side of the family hasn't spoken to her side of the family for about a year. ... | Haven't spoken to my cousin in over a year because of a fight. Don't know what to get her for a baby shower. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Shit, idk what to do with my friend
POST: Alright so this is gonna be kinda long. So i have this friend and she has a brother and i had a crush on him for about a year. I knew him and had a crush on him before i met his sister(she is a year younger than me) and last year i tried to ask him ou... | Former crush is best friends brother, now he ignoring me and their family is inviting me on a sleepover trip with them, idk what to do |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do you need to know the reason why your lover breaks up with you? [19M]
POST: My girlfriend broke up with me a 6 months ago. She was my first and I haven't seen anyone else since then. I'm a dorky geek. It still hurts a lot.
My girlfriend broke up with me saying she had this illness,... | Girlfriend broke up with me telling me she was sick and I don't know whether she is lying or not, and won't give me the details. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16M] have had some... feelings for a friend [16F] ever since I met her, and I need some help
POST: Hey Reddit, I could use... assistance.
This friend, henceforth known as C, I have known for years. By this I mean most of my life. We both went to the same infants, primary, and highs... | Socially incompetent teen's crush develops into (possible) love, but can't get courage to do anything about it. Wat do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my "friend" [29 M]- left me heartbroken
POST: A couple of days ago, I made a post in r/needafriend. I received a LOT of responses but there was one person who I got to know that really, really peaked my interest. Not quite in a romantic manner but as a friend. Let's call ... | Had an amazing friendship like nothing I've ever had before and it was ended abruptly due to mentor's advice. What should I do? Should I try to talk to him about it or let it be? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Issues dealing with Amazon refusing to refund a missing order
POST: So i've been dealing with Amazon for over a week not trying to get a refund for an order I placed. I purchased an Olympus EM5II and Olympus 17mm. One item was shipped via On-Trac and the other was shipped via UPS. I didn't... | I'm out about $1400 right now and Amazon has refused to refund me or take responsibility. What do I do now? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Whats a good punishment for my irresponsible roomate?
POST: This guy's been one of my good friends for a few years, but he absolutely refuses to grow up, he's like a 5 year old and it wasn't until we moved in together that I realized how bad it was. He leaves his shoes in the middle of th... | Roomate refuses to grow up, wont lock door when he leaves and has left it wide open 4 times. What's a good way to get back at him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 25/M currently dating 19/F for about four weeks. What's the easiest method of telling her it's not going to work out?
POST: Been dating about four weeks. She seemed mature when we met up, however after noticing many things, which is rapidly turning immature for me.
One instance is... | What is the best way for letting her know it's not going to work out? Phone/Text/Meetup? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Me [30M] going through rough times with wife [29F]. Feeling very down and full of despair, can use a pick me up.
POST: My wife and I have been together for almost ten years, married for 7. We've been going through some very difficult relationship struggles for a while now and thi... | marriage failing due to a pattern of disfunction that I can't seem to break out of. Feeling depressed and despair due to constant failure. Need help not sinking into a hole. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [24F] found my boyfriend [26M] sexting a girl [27F] he hooked up with 4 years ago.
POST: I was playing with my bf's phone when I accidentally opened his Facebook messenger. Out of curiosity, I opened the first one, which was a conversation between him and the girl he hooked up ... | saw some dirty messages on bf's phone to this girl he hooked up with four years ago who is a thousand miles away. Should I check again next time and how do I confront him about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it worth it to start talking to her again? [19m, 18f]
POST: My ex [18] and I [19,m] went out [2.5+ year] since high school (her as a sophomore and me a junior) all the way to college (2nd year for me, 1st quarter of her first year). It was a high school sweetheart relationship, her ... | After 2.5+ long relationship gf lost attraction to me and we ended breaking up. It's a month later and we are on winter break, is it even worth trying to talk to her and making it work? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by pronouncing a food wrong pretty much my entire life
POST: Okay so I went to my local bakery with a few work colleagues in my break today to get a cheese and onion PASTY. I asked the woman (who was very cute) for a cheese and onion PASTRY and my work colleagues turned around to me and st... | Pronounced pastry as paistree for the better of 20 years of my life. Found out today it's not pronounced like that and they're two complete different things |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 m] and my Fiancée [23 f] for 6 years, want to buy a condo or house
POST: hello everyone. We have been together for 6 years, and we really want to live our own life because we are living with our parents at the moment. We dont want to rent. In my opinion it is a waste of money if... | Me and my girlfriend are wondering if we should buy a condo if we want to raise a child in a couple of years. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I wish I was born male, but I'm female and it bugs me.
POST: I don't consider myself transgender, because I never felt like I am in fact a man.
I have a really feminine side. I like dresses, boots, stockings and all that. But I always wished to wear them as a man sort of. I'm a huge drag... | I just really, really hate the fact that I was born female. But I don't consider myself transgender, because Identify myself as female. |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Is it me, or is this tacky?
POST: Last week, I spent half a day souring the internet to get mailing addresses for my side of the guest list. I got all my friends and all my family except for my aunt who just moved.
So then I told my fiance to start getting mailing addresses for his... | Fiance invited people to our wedding through Facebook to ask for their mailing addresses for real invites. Is that tacky? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I'm a university professor, artist, make some money on my art but mostly lose it. . .help me understand my tax situation.
POST: So I teach at a university and have even paid an accountant to do my taxes but the guy had no clue how to deal with a university professor who needs to 'res... | I lose money on my career, but being an exhibiting artist is what helps me keep my teaching job. How does the fed view this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (32m) missing that feeling that I get when I'm with her (27f)
POST: I recently broke up with my long time girlfriend and I miss her so much. I miss sleeping next to her and waking up next to her. I miss watching movies with her. I miss making her laugh. Most of all I just miss bein... | Broke up with the love of my life and trying to be friends together. Need advice to deal with lingering feelings of love and longing. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: tifu by going into work
POST: So I was honestly thinking of calling off today but my attendance hasn't been good lately and I need the job so I didn't. I really should have though. After working for about three hours my supervisor approaches me and says I need to check on the women's bathroom. ... | felt like calling in, didn't wanna lose my job so I sucked it up, ended up toilet diving for used tampons. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I need help finding a specific kind of job
POST: Note: This is a bit more realistic than my previous posts. I want to make ok money (over 10$ an hour), doesn't require education or experience. I don't mind working hard though, like "I can't get up the next day" hard. All the easy jobs either ... | I want a high paying job (at least $10 an hour) & I don't mind busting my ass/getting my hands dirty. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19f] How to Stop Being Jealous in Relationship?
POST: I get jealous every time other girls talk to my boyfriend and it's gotten really bad. He's 17 and our relationship is over a year old and my feelings of jealousy and possessiveness keep getting worse and worse. Yesterday everything... | My boyfriend called me a psycho and broke up with me, we're still together now but I want to stop being so jealous about everything, so then he'll want to stay with me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by bringing up a SFW event from the past with my son and unintentionally making it NSFW in a public setting.
POST: Drove with my son [u/-MagicMan-] to go get some pictures of him sipping tea [context] processed. (his mothers idea not mine) Anyways, we to get some fast food and started talk... | Brought up the past with son at fast food place about how he 'chocked on sausage'(pigs in a blanket) and got publicly humiliated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I think if I tell my SO it will be a deal breaker. But I need to tell him :(
POST: To start off, I *did not cheat*. I realize the title sounds like that. Okay.
Me (f) and bf, 20. Dating 10 months.
He is very religious. He loves his church and it is the most important thing in his lif... | Bf is religious wants me to be, but I don't think I ever will be. Tell him or no? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[22M/F] just got engaged to my bf [23/m]. I am terrified that we have moved too fast.
POST: My bf and I have been together for 11 months and it has been amazing so far. We rarely fight and if we do its nothing serious and get resolved quickly. I have had 3 semi serious relationships b... | bf proposed and said yes because i love him and was excited but now am scarred that we are moving too fast!help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Quick, job ideas for 50-year-old guy needing money fast?
POST: What's the fastest way a 50-year-old guy could find a job in the peninsula of the Bay Area that'd pay enough to afford a low-end 2-BR apartment for me and my teenage kid?
I'm not very personable so would fail at obvious... | old guy made some very stupid decisions, been divorced for years, now needs to make enough to have a roof over my head and support an almost-grown kid for a few years. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Should I say this in a potentially new LDR?
POST: I have always been very confident in my relationships, so asking the masses for advice is new to me, but this time there is distance involved and text/phone aren't the best mediums to read someone. I'm a 29 M, she's a 31 F and we've spe... | New potential LDR, should I respond to an off-hand concern about putting herself out there, or let it slide. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making an insensitive comment during a Make A Wish foundation visit
POST: So I've been browsing reddit for awhile now but just decided to create an account today to tell you all my fuck up.
This just happened a few hours ago...
So I am a game developer and today we had the incredible ... | I jokingly made a comment about a sick child's back hurting in reference to him carrying his team to victory. He didn't understand the joke and proceeded to answering my question in all seriousness. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (30m) am letting my wife (31f) stay overnight with her ex
POST: I'm regretting saying I'm ok with it, but I only agreed to it because I felt like she was challenging how much I trust her.
He's recently broken up with his girlfriend and she said she thought he was getting depressed ... | I'm worried my wife has tricked me into giving her a free pass with her good-terms ex so i won't seem like a jealous husband.. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my sister [20 F]. She's in a morally interesting relationship, and I don't know how to act around it.
POST: My sister was in a relationship with one guy for 2-3 years, ending long distance, and misery. She's been far more promiscuous and a little like a chameleon for the... | I'm worried my sister is setting herself up to be walked all over and it's straining our sisterly bonds. I don't know if I'm too nosy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my dad [51 M] not sure how to feel, should I say something?
POST: My parents have been split up since I was about 3 years old and both have since remarried. After switching programs once I realized I wasn't happy where I was going, I'm finally graduating in the next coup... | Limited number of seats at graduation, dad seems like he would rather sit in televised room with step mom than be in the ceremony room itself. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (F28) need advice on houseguests (F19 & M22)
POST: I met a couple about a week ago and we became quick friends. A couple days after I met them, the people they were staying with decided they wanted their house back and kicked them out that night. They are from another state and... | Let some friends stay with us, she is abusive towards him and he is not gentle with the baby. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [28/m] I hooked up with my collegue [21/f] over the past year. She got an official bf but we still have feelings for each other.
POST: Ok here is some background.
I'm [28/m] an average looking, shy, reserved person when it comes to relationships, but I'm also a latin dance instr... | Have history with my dance partner and both of us still have feelings for each other even though she now has a bf. Don't want to be a homewrecker. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My live-in boyfriend [29/M] of 10 months is too poor to take me [33/F] out on dates so we just stay home; he plays video games, I nap or read or watch tv.
POST: I already have depression (I'm on meds for it) and I feel like the isolation isn't helping. All of my friends have moved away... | I have no social life except for my boyfriend who is too poor to take me out so we just stay home and I'm bored and depressed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (21/M) Would this be really creepy?
POST: Story time: I go to a community college in Canada, in one of my class there is this cute girl (imo) that I find myself always looking at. Now she's one of those really quiet types and keeps to herself. But for weeks now, I can't seem to t... | Is adding someone (on fb) who doesn't know you online really creepy? When you know that she doesn't like to be found by others. Is there any other ways? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (M21) am not sure if I was abused as a child (M5-7)?
POST: fter doing some serious reflecting on my life and looking at some of the patterns of my behavior, I have come to wonder whether or not I was sexuality abused when I was young?
Get ready, reddit, this is gonna be weird.
I ... | Had "lightsaber" fights with pee streams with my dad and a few uncles for a few years. Developed a pervasive and intrusive pee fetish. Is this sexual abuse or am I misinterpreting normal behavior? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'v lost my bestfriend and i don't know why
POST: We'll call her Emily she's 17 and i'm 19, we've been really close best friends for around 5 years, very close to a relationship.
She stopped talking to me for like four days, wouldnt text me back was reading my bbms and just chosing not... | seems that best friend for five years has cut me out of her life because i said "f*** off" and has no intention of talking to me again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my friend[19 F] who I am trying to ask out but keeps getting cryptic responses.
POST: Ive been hanging out with this girl for the past couple of months (never alone, always with mutual friends) and it seems like she is into me, but whenever I make a move, I get put down.... | Can't tell if a girl is interested. Almost all of my friends tell me she is. I think she is but whenever I ask her to hang out, I get non replies or cryptic responses. Thinking about giving up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the worst way someone has ever taken advantage of you?
POST: A year ago I fell for one of those crappy pyramid schemes.
I was taking time off university (without any real plan of going back) and working a part-time job. My life was moving by slowly, problems at home sucked, I was... | guy I knew pulled the good-ol' friend card on me, convinced me to join his 'business' then stopped contacting me after I signed up for it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F], my parents and the guy I've just started dating -- heads up: Culture Conflict
POST: Ok so I'm probably going to get a lot of criticism, people telling me that I'm an adult and I can do whatever I want, blah, blah, blah but please consider that I am only 20 and am still going ... | Started dating Guy, might get serious. Parents don't want to meet anyone until I'm in professional school. Possible future heartbreak. Please give me guidance. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She [20/F] is lonely, wants closer friends. So do I [20/M]. Live in different cities, off for the summer.
POST: I'll try to keep this brief.
I go to university with this girl. We're friends.
I follow her on Tumblr. Every now and again, she'll post things; varying from little rants/ve... | Friend lives in a city two hours away and wants closer frineds. I'm in the same boat, but we can't meet this summer. Not sure if I should text, call (etc.) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [27M] did some snooping and found my boyfriend [35M] cheating. How can I verify and confront him with it?
POST: My partner and I have been together for over seven years. Just this year, I took a job outside the country that separated us such that we see each other every three ... | Together for a long time and now doing long-distance. He's cheating but we agreed not to do that. Should I confront and get jiggy with it myself? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my best friend [23 F] I found her boyfriend of 2 years on a dating website
POST: Hey reddit,
I've used online dating off and on for a a couple of years and I know many friends who've met significant others though that. Last night I reactivated my account after a year an... | found my best friend's bf on a dating website. Is there any way it's not what it looks like? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Girlfriend of two years found chat log of me talking to another girl.
POST: Yes, I did it. I fucked up, big time. I'm 21 male, my girlfriend is 22. We have been dating for over two years and I fucked up so bad. I was talking to another girl that I almost dated instead of my current gir... | Girlfriend of two years found chat logs of me talking to another girl about stupid shit basically I cheated on my girlfriend but only verbally. I just feel guilty and her feelings might be changing. I need her back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: I just got dumped over Facebook for standing up for myself..
POST: We're 19 and we've dated for almost 4 years..
Today is this huge St. Paddy's day parade, right? And while I'm at work slaving my butt off he wants to go to this huge field that all the teenagers go to and get trashed, whate... | Boyfriend of four years almost dumped me by deleting me off facebook because I stood up to him being sketchy. I'm crushed and lonely.. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by taking a shower in the University of Cambridge.
POST: (This happened last evening but I had no WiFi so yeah.)
My school and 5 other schools took a residential trip to the University of Cambridge to see what university life is like and what courses we can take.
So fast forward 5 hours ... | I go to take a shower in the Uni of Cambridge, end up putting a toilet roll in the toilet, can't show my face there ever again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Just ended a long distance relationship. (my first relationship)
POST: I (20, f) just ended my first relationship recently. It had been almost one and a half years, and was long-distance starting in september when I left for college. After going long distance I eventually found it hard to p... | I just ended a long distance relationship over the phone, I will be in town this weekend should I tell him, or should I not tell him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Being targeted at work. What to do?
POST: I recently became a cashier at a large box store in New England known for home improvement and DIY. Quickly I realized that a woman who had been employed by my girlfriend was also a cashier at my store (I'll call her Jennifer). My Girlfriend, being... | Woman who works for my GF makes trouble at work and threatens to get her fired. She ends up quitting and now I work with her where she is one of my supervisors and is harassing me and trying to get me fired. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] am having doubts about my relationship with my girlfriend of a year and five months [16 F], but I'm being critical of my reasons for my doubt.
POST: I have been dating my current girlfriend, lets call her Jane, for the
past year and five months, up until the beginning of thi... | I'm not as interest in my current girlfriend as I used to be, because I feel like I'm just supporting her. But I feel guilty because I have feelings for another girl. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: He (24/m) wants a DNR, I (27/f) don't like the idea of it
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year and lately his Dad has been going through a lot of medical problems right now and that made him bring up the fact that he wants a "Do not resuscitate." Placed on h... | He wants a DNR but I feel like you should always let the doctors try because it may not be "your time." |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21] realize her [20] defects are really bothering me and I fear that means the beginning of the end
POST: ** We have been together for two years and I have this feel since five or six months ago. **
**I start to realize her defects are bothering me**. In her intelligence, in her l... | I find my gf so imperfect and I'm thinking in other girls, this could be the begining of the end and it depressesme like no other thing |
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