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SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: My most embarrassing moment
POST: It was during my first semester of my first year at college. At the time I was 18 years old and an undecided science major (taking biology and chemistry classes with labs). It was the day of the Chemistry final and in my agenda I wrote down that the exam time w... | Thought an exam was 2 hours later than it actually was, walked in an hour or more late, failed the test, failed the class. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 35/M with my 33/F - Want to propose on our overseas trip and buy the ring there -- how can I do this?
POST: So my girlfriend and I are pretty serious, and we've talked about marriage and we're both on basically the same page. I'm really ready to take the plunge and propose!
I got h... | Is proposing with a placeholder ring ok if I'm going to buy a super-fancy one a day or two later while we're in Paris together? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How expensive would it be per year to live in one of those 3x3m houses? (link inside)
POST: So, I'm a musician. More notably an electronica musician, which means I don't have to play with other people to make my stuff, and take up relatively a small amount of room. I currently live in a li... | I want to live as cheaply as possible, the Tiny homes in the links seem tempting. How much do you think it would cost per year to live in one? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] I [24F] feel torn between my parents/sick mother [50s] and my husband [29M].
POST: Hello reddit!
It's been a little while since I posted my initial question (which can be found here: but I thought I'd post an update anyways since there were so many lovely people who helped m... | Mom's sicker, but I moved to Canada anyway. I am so much happier. Relationships with husband and dad improving. Life is still hard, but we're all hanging in there. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [30F] can't stop thinking about my ex even though I love my bf [35M].
POST: I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and so far things are going swimmingly. We communicate well, he's met my family, and we took an awesome trip to Hawaii this winter. He's smart, loving, supportive,... | I'm in a happy relationship but am having recurrent thoughts about an ex-boyfriend which is causing me to wonder where my heart belongs. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by snubbing Amanda Palmer.
POST: This happened just yesterday. Let me start by saying I am a MASSIVE Dresden Dolls fan, and an even bigger Neil Gaiman fan. Last night my girlfriend, two mates and I took in a show in the Johannesburg Maropeng District. For those of you who don't know, this ... | Encountered Amanda Palmer in the middle of Johannesburg and casually went about my business, missing an opportunity to meet a personal heroine of mine. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (M15) just got dumped by my girlfriend (F15) (1st post on reddit) (fake account too ashamed for anyone to find out who I am)
POST: So I've known her for about 7 months its my first year in high school and I was fresh out of a bad relationship that I didn't care about. First day of sc... | my girlfriend dumped me and I've been home alone with no contact with anyone, being depressed and I want to try and get her back but don't know how and want advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21female) worried about my drug taking ex boyfriend (21male)
POST: I (21female) have known my ex boyfriend (21male) for around 10 years now. We started dating middle of last year for around 4 months and broke it off because he was moving to the other side of the country for universi... | Should I speak to him about his drug problem with the risk of having an argument with current boyfriend or just let him carry on the way he is? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (24F) Is becoming super jaded about relationships just part of life?
POST: I've been around the block with dating. I've had boyfriends and dates since I was in middle school. I've had multiple long-term relationships, a couple multi-month long ordeals, and a few things that fizzled aft... | I'm jaded and think everybody sucks. Taking a break from dating is what I'm doing now. How else can I stop being so jaded? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29M] with my wife [29F] of two years. Nothing *wrong* necessarily, but her best friendship is just "off."
POST: Throwaway.
My wife and I have been together three years, married two. She's a little quirky, but a brilliant, funny girl and absolutely dedicated to anything and anyone ... | My [M29] wife [F29] is best friends with a 56 year old married man. There's nothing technically inappropriate going on, but it just feels weird. Am I overthinking this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [21 F] sick of making excuses for my bf [31 M] of 6 months. He is lazy and still doesn't have a job. Is this relationship salvageable?
POST: This crossroads I'm at is even more stressful due to the fact that if this relationship continues that would mean we'd either have to move i... | I love bf very much but there are many bad qualities in him that I don't know if I can get past. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I deal with my boyfriend's anger?
POST: Me, 19F, him, 20M, dating for 9 months... friends for 5 years.
I've known this about him since we started dating, and I wouldn't say I have a problem with it, but I would like some advice on how to act when it happens. He gets really real... | My boyfriend gets really angry and punches things. I want to know how to act when it happens and if I can calm him down at all or if it's better to let him get it out of his system. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Physically cornered
POST: What is the best way to handle being physically cornered during an argument, especially when it is spiralling and escalating? Where the only way to leave the situation requires physically interacting with the other party, which likely will lead to a viol... | Person with history of abuse, having trouble with people who corner me during arguments leaving no option to physically remove myself from the situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: If you were to choose any MOMENT of your life, one that defines your ENTIRE life, what would it be?
POST: For me, I would choose an event that happened a few nights ago.
I was on a flight back home and I was seated between two women. The first (let's call her Agatha) was a full on punker ... | A flight I shared with two ladies reminded me that what I want is never attainable while what I don't want is always there. However, I never leave a situation empty handed, which sometimes is just fine. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18F] parents [45M+49F) really need to get out of the house for a night.
POST: My parents have been out twice as a couple in the last 18 years: once when I was 6 weeks old, and once last year. At the latter event, they stayed out until 10pm because they're not particularly socialite... | parents have never been out of the house overnight or even done anything remotely couply in 18 years; I think my mum's getting stir crazy. What can I gently suggest to them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to function when you're heartbroken?
POST: I'm a girl who is almost 21, and I've been on then off with a guy who I care about more than almost anything who is 22. We live an hour apart. We were together for about half a year, and separated this past summer but we've still been seei... | he broke it off, I'm not looking for how to get over it, just how to go about my daily life without losing composure in public. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Should I message her?
POST: Hi reddit!
I kinda danced with a girl I like a bit on the school lesson today (dedicated for dancing, and it was plain luck that I got to dance with her) and now is my question, could I message her on Facebook? Is that normal or will it be awkward? And if ye... | Think a girl likes me abit, can I text her on Facebook without it getting awkward? She's 15 and me too. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 F] with my SO [26 M] of 7 years: I'm falling for another guy [27 M] but want to stop it. How?
POST: First of all, just to make it clear: I've been with my boyfriend 7 years and have an awesome relationship. I love him dearly and he is the one I want to spend my life with.
Abou... | I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm falling for my housemate. I don't want to do anything about it because I love my SO. How to stop falling for the guy? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what's the most complicated love triangle story you have?
POST: I'd love to see someone top this just so I can feel a bit better about myself...
Some might not see this directly as a love triangle, but I have strong feelings for my best friend's girlfriend, as does she for me. Rec... | Strong mutual feelings for my roommate/best friend's girlfriend. She won't leave him because he won't have the self-confidence to pick himself back up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Arrested for not showing up to court after paying a traffic ticket online
POST: My mother and I live right outside of Atlanta Georgia. Yesterday she was pulled over and told her license was suspended and there was a warrant out for her arrest because she didn't show up to a court date fo... | MY mother was arrested for a traffic ticket shed already paid. Could we consult a lawyer on how to get her drivers license reinstated? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[24F] have been with my "boyfriend"[26 M] for a little more than a year, but suddenly he doesn't want to commit anymore. Says all relationships are futile.
POST: We met around a year ago and instantly hit it off. So within a month, we were dating and were exclusive. We spent many a go... | Boyfriend of one year, doesn't want to commit anymore but doesn't want to give this up either. Feeling stuck and don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (18M)Utterly Confused about a situation with (18F)friend.
POST: Ok here goes, I(18M) have known my friend(18F) for about two and a half years. I have always enjoyed her company and liked her as more than a friend but she had always made it known that she did not date, she had never sa... | Female friend sending flirtatious signals even after admitting she did not see me as more than a friend, do I have a chance to make this work? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear AskReddit, what's the weirdest thing that you've ever witnessed on your school's campus?
POST: I was in between classes today, sitting outside of my campus library. I saw a man wearing nothing but underwear run into the library, while shouting random noises at the people he passed. A ... | [A guy in only boxer-briefs runs around my campus and eludes police] for an hour or so while causing a ruckus. Nobody was hurt, but many lols were had. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Sony ripped me off by $85, and I'm not sure what I can do.
POST: I ordered the NFL package for the
TL;DR: | Sony restarted a subscription service for $85 dollars without informing me, and won't give me my money back because their hands are tied. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [22F] just wants to be friends now after 5 months with me [21M], What do?
POST: I have been lurking reddit for quite some time now. Only till now have i felt the need to get some support from you lovely redditors.
So, This past semester at school i meet a chick at school. We hit it of... | Been seeing a girl for 5 months, now she just wants to be friends. Is it possible to just be friends, what should i do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M23] have feelings fot my best friend [F19], and I don't know what to do.
POST: So I've known my best friend for over a year. We met online, but she lives in another country...5000 miles away. When we first met, she told me she was gay, but end of last year we had a "thing" (she tol... | I have feelings for my best friend. She lives in another country. Should I tell her how I feel about her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My parents [59] are angry that my [23F] fiance's [23M] parents are offering to pay for our wedding.
POST: My fiance and I are engaged with no immediate wedding plans. My fiance's parents are pretty well off and are offering to help pay for our wedding. My parents, while not poor by a... | My parents do not want to contribute to my wedding and are angry that I'm considering taking money from my in-laws. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: College guy asking a girl out (both 21). I'm pretty shy and introverted, and this is the first time asking anyone out, so I'm hoping I can get some encouragement here!
POST: Hey, college guy here. I met a girl in a league of legends lan party a couple years ago. I didn't really think ... | College kid asking a girl out. Pretty introverted personality, and we are friends already so I want to ask her right. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18 M] am about to enter Senior Summer out of highschool and I want to replace my freinds
POST: I'll be graduating in the next few weeks, and I do not plan to stay connected with my current group of friends.
A bit of background: High School was not a fun time for me, for various re... | I'm a graduating high school senior who'll be going off to college in the fall. How should I go about making new friends this summer? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My 19[F] girlfriend just broke up with me 19[M] we had been dating for 2.5 years
POST: Me and my girlfriend are both 19 we had been dating for 2.5 years, she broke up with me and I don't know what to do.
She said she wants to be single so she is care free and can be spontaneous. She s... | My GF of 2.5 years broke up with me because she says she wants to be single and has been having more fun with friends then with me for a while. I want her back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I'm in trouble at school, really need some advice
POST: Today, in the totally unserious mood of a Friday afternoon at school, I made a huge mistake. People at my school play this game called "Oreo". If you lose, the winner picks a person for you to ask out. Well, today, I was asked out (... | I flipped off a kid at school, it was all laughter, he did it back, then proceeded to turn me in. I don't usually get in trouble, advice is desperately needed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: I think my ex is trying to give away my son
POST: The other day, out of nowhere, my ex-girlfriend sends me a text saying she'll need me to submit to a paternity test. The baby is apparently due next week and she's planning on giving it up for adoption. At first I don't believe her, I tho... | Ex-gf having my baby, no notice. I'm in CA, she's in WA. I think she's trying to sneak an adoption before I can react. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [25 M] of 3 years, having a hard time consoling him.
POST: SO: my bf tends to be of the feeling sort whereas i am of the more logical sort. we get together pretty well for how different we seem to be but it gets really bad whenever he comes home after a bad ... | I need help trying to figure out how to console my emotional/feeling boyfriend properly without him getting frustrated at me for being logical |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [31 M] with my wife [26 F] of 6 years, told me "I feel like I'm making you resent me", I said no... but now that I think about it she might be right?
POST: My wife and I decided we weren't happy with our relationship so we started going to couples therapy together. We have been goin... | declining sex life, it might be making me resent my wife but I don't want to. How can I better myself? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24M] am trying to comfort my girlfriend [25F] and I feel I'm falling short
POST: I am more or less a typical California guy. She was born and raised in Thailand and sent here by here family at age 15 and I still don't fully understand the circumstances (it's too the point that I wa... | My girlfriend was shipped out to the US from Thailand at 14 I don't know I can comfort that void she has - I need more ideas. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Am I [19/f] expecting too much from my boyfriend [19/m]?
POST: Background: We've been together for almost a year. Other than this issue, he's usually a great boyfriend. He is, however, my first serious relationship, so I don't really have anything to compare it to.
My boyfrien... | My boyfriend doesn't call when he promises to, which REALLY pisses me off. What should I do and am I overreacting? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: How to stop stress eating and gaining weight during a really stressful time?
POST: This is my first post actually, long time lurker!
I'll try to keep this short and sweet:
I'm female 5'8" and in my late teens. My starting weight was 185lbs and I got all the way down 150lbs. I did it by count... | Gained 10lbs and am seriously depressed after my parents divorce. Can't stop binge eating and have no motivation to exercise. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] got blackout drunk at a birthday party and slapped my wife [24 F] for NO reason.
POST: When I came around my friend (bill) was putting me in a cab and my wife was waiting for a friend to take her to her friends house. I had no Idea what was going on. I asked bill who explained... | Hit my wife for NO reason. First and only time. friends saw. Wife is coming home now. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by almost fucking a friend while she was wasted.
POST: After a great night of entertainment and conversation, we go back to her place, we have a few drinks (mostly consumed by her), I put her to bed and start to go into the living room to sleep off my alcohol, then she grabs me and starts ... | Finger banged my friend while she was drunk, almost had sex with her, now she hates me and I feel like a piece of shit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by telling the class I was dating a girl.
POST: It was middle school, 7th grade to be exact and a was hoping to kiss a girl I had grown up with who lived down the street. We shared an art class that I dreaded because I just wasn't that good at staying in the lines and the teacher always l... | I told my teacher I was dating a girl in class and embarrassed the girl into breaking up with me on the spot. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [21F] move on from my ex [22M] after being together for 5 years?
POST: Hey guys,
I really dont know how to start this. I guess I just really miss my Ex boyfriend. I broke up with him a few weeks ago because I felt like certain areas of our relationship were lacking and that w... | broke up with ex. miss him and don't know whether i should try and make it work or let go? How would i go about doing either of those things? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (F22) just had an abortion. Feeling confused and could do with advice.
POST: Not really sure what to write, but like the title says I had an abortion yesterday, (Wednesday). I know it was the right decision, as my boyfriend (24) and I (22) are not ready. Just to clarify I was on cont... | I had an abortion yesterday (Wednesday) and I'm feeling confused about it all, even though i know i made the right decision. could do with some advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [F21] boyfriend [M22] of 6 months let me know he has a crush on a co-worker, I need help dealing with the aftermath
POST: My boyfriend let me know about a week ago that he's been acting distant to me because he's developed a crush on a female coworker and had been feeling really gui... | boyfriend has crush on co-worker but has fully committed to me and apologized and is working hard to make sure I know he loves me, but now I'm struggling to believe he does. Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: How do i get this wild cat to trust me?
POST: My neighbour has a house in the country and one day she picked everything up and left, i havn't seen her in 2 years. She took all 3 of her dogs with her but left like 3 cats to fend for themselves. They've been causing a neuscence around the neighbo... | this cat has been wandering around the street without a home for almost 2 years, i think it survives off birds or whatever it can catch, how do i tame it and adopt it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Confused as to what my next step should be.
POST: So yesterday night I asked a girl if she was doing anything on the weekend and if she'd like to go out, she said she'd like to but that she was busy all weekend. We agreed to hang out some other time, which is fine.
So here's my proble... | Is two weeks too long to wait from the initial asking out to the date and how does a 16 year old guy avoid awkward silences when going out for coffee. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Asking out someone currently in a "relationship"?
POST: So, I (19/m) have liked this girl (19/f) ever since I met her about 7 months ago and haven't stopped thinking of her since. Most of the time was spent building up our friendship because I genuinely like her as a person, not ... | r/relationship_advice. I am almost smitten with this girl who happens to be a friend, but she is in a relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: my mother (46) told me (20 f) to go kill myself and constantly disrespects me
POST: Today my mom came home screaming at me to do things. I calmly said, I will when you can treat me like a human being. She kept screaming and insulting me so I went into my room and shut the door. s... | I suffer from mental illness and regardless, my mom told me to go kill myself when I refused to do what she requested when she did so by screaming at me. what can I do to get some respect from her |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Ex of four years already slept with two guys within a month. This breakup has turned into a Louis C.K. joke. I'm broken.
POST: Long story short:
My girlfriend breaks up with me on my 26th birthday. I tell her to go inside and take her stuff out and then proceed to take a two hour walk. I c... | Ex of four years who I thought was a *good* person (so rare) broke up with me on my birthday, and then hooked up with two guys in the following month and tells me about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [late 20s F] ended a long term relationship with a [late 20s M]. How do I figure out what I want?
POST: He [26/M] had a serious relationship before me [26/F] and because of that one, he knew that he was in love with me. I still don't know if I am because I don't feel the same things ... | Ended a long term relationship because I didn't know if I was in love anymore and I was unhappy. I don't know what to do now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I[25F] being unreasonable about my boyfriend[21M] of one month hanging out alone with a girl in his room?
POST: I mean, I know what most people here would say about a significant other hanging out with someone of the opposite sex (it depends on their relationship, you have to be tru... | My boyfriend is hanging out with a female friend alone in his room, I'm uncomfortable with it and he doesn't get it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: New Year's Eve Reminded Me How Things Change
POST: New Year's Eve is not always a happy time for everyone. This year mine sucked. If anyone actually cares enough to read this, I'll give you some background. I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over two years. Two years ago on New... | New Year's Eve two years ago was the first time I told my boyfriend I love him. This year the night ending with him telling me he hates me |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [37/F] with my boss [40/M] of one week, I just found out he is a wife-beating felon.
POST: Last week I started a new job at a very small company. I'm the owner's assistant, and we are alone together in the office 90% of the time. His wife stopped in yesterday and something seemed of... | Not sure if I am safe at work because my boss of one week has multiple felony domestic violence convictions and we are usually alone in the office together. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my [21M] live in boyfriend. Not sure if I should stay with him or not.
POST: I'm using a throwaway because my main account is very obvious that's it's me.
My boyfriends name is John.
We've been dating for about 6 months now, moved pretty quickly with our relationship. ... | ex texted me saying he wanted me back and the only reason I can see not going back is because I don't want to ruin my current relationship just in case it doesn't work. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (16 M) need help breaking off a relationship
POST: So I've had feelings for this girl for around 4 years now. We've always been great friends and I'm I've been open about wanting to take it further but she always shoots me down. The thing is, she has still wanted to remain friends th... | I need to tell a girl I've known for years I can't talk to her again. Any advice on how to do it as painlessly as possible? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] need a brutally honest perspective of what might a potential SO think of dating me because of my chronic disease and history of illness in my semi strict family.
POST: So a bit of background about myself, I am an immigrant and I come from a Middle Eastern country, now my family... | My family is strict and I have type one diabetes and my sister is autistic, would you still want to try and date me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Question about very early car refinancing
POST: Hi,
My girlfriend got a used car recently; it was more or less an emergency so we did not have time to go through and look for institutions (credit union) that would offer us loans with relatively low interest rates.
So anyways, she ... | Is refinancing a loan right after you got it with another institution that offers you a better deal detrimental to the relationship you have with the first institution and does that matter at all? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Breakups] and/or [Non-Romantic] I (17m) broke up with my girlfriend (17f) of 4 months over what i initially thought was trust issues, but post-breakup she told me that her ex had been abusive and raped her, now i feel like shit and don't know what to do
POST: About a week ago, i asked... | I ended my 4 month relationship due to trust issues over what i thought was a small issue, turned out it was due to abuse and rape and now i feel awful and don't know what to do |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Work is stressing SO [F/25] big time. I [M/25] am seriously not sure how to be of help for her.
POST: So for some background,
Recently my girlfriend is very stressed up by her job. She's one of the best performers in the office, if not the best, which is why there is so much pressure... | SO is stressed up big time by her job. Recently, refused to tell or share with me anything about her job. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Potentially offered a job when I've just started at another company, should I leave?
POST: Hey guys,
Right, I just started a new job on Monday (10th) So far, it sucks. Also on Monday I noticed my old job from a few years back was available again. Now, my old job I loved and to this day has be... | Just started new job less than a week ago, might be offered a job I used to have that I loved. How should I say bye to new employer? |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: How would you handle this situation?
POST: In light of recent events, many travelers are on edge. I choose not to let acts of terror affect my travel plans, but I do try to stay vigilant while in airports or high-traffic tourist areas. During our trip through CDG yesterday, we encountered a... | Man left bags unattended in a crowded airport line, outside of security checkpoint. Airport security did nothing when alerted. What would you have done? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm not looking forward to Senior Year. Terrible things keep happening.
POST: To begin, this year has not started off well for me. On my birthday, my mom had a surgery so I didn't even get to celebrate it until the next day. At that point, it was just cake. There was nothing special about... | Mom had surgery on my birthday, sister broke her arm, brother in car accident, bad lab partner, parents almost sent out Amber Alert, religious kids hate me... Senior year is gonna suck |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I think I [25 M] am self sabotaging my relationships with my gf [23F] due to my ex.
POST: About a year ago I broke up with my ex. I was madly in love with her and since I was deployed, it was a long distance relationship for the most part. I was fairly certain that she was the woman I ... | Ex messed me up mentally and emotionally. Now I am kind of ruining it with a really great girlfriend. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] and my boyfriend [19M] have been together 8 months, I like him but am I using him?
POST: Me and this guy have been going out for about half a year now. He really pursued me in the beginning, asking me to hang out all the time. I knew he liked me but I didn't feel much for him.... | I don't know if I like him enough to stay with him, and whether or not it's harming us both. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU I helped introduce an invasive species into my home state.
POST: So, to give some context, my family has a large Louisiana crayfish boil every year. Everyone in the family shows up, and a lot of family friends show up too. There's drinking, catching up with old friends, and a lot of food. ... | I accidentally helped to put a non-native crayfish into the Columbia River that's out competing the other, native crayfish. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 F] with my BF [29 M] of 8 months, should we disclose our sexual past?
POST: My partner and I have been seeing each other for a year and have been dating for 8 months. We have previously ghosted over things such as how many partners etc we've had etc etc and when he has asked me ... | BF asked me if I have ever had a threesome, I told him. I asked him the same and he wouldn't answer. Am I being unreasonable by wanting to know? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Update: My [25f] bosses [26M & 30sF] are bullying me and hindering my studies
POST: Original Post:
My first post got a little bit of attention so I thought I would post an update! After reading everyone's amazing advice, I decided to stick it out at the hotel until I could transfer. ... | Found new job, put in notice, and was guilted into staying for another month. Need help getting out of it! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22 F] asked my guy [28 M] what 'this' was. He gave a reasonable answer, but I'm still crushed. What do I do now?
POST: blah blah throwaway blah blah I'm a little bitch.
I have been seeing this guy for a short while now, and have grown rather fond of him. I don't like many people, b... | Asked the guy I'm seeing to TDR, he gave me a completely reasonable 'not right now' to moving further. I'm still crushed and don't know how to feel/what to do/what to say. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Changing [M]y [21] mind about Marriage to F[22]
POST: I have been in an intense romantic relationship with my girlfriend for the past 6 months, and before that we had never known each other. We have moments of extreme joy together, but also some fighting every other week or so about r... | Fell in first love, agreed to her idea for fast marriage, have changed my mind, not sure what to do, afraid she'll leave me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Turbo Tax shows i should get a Federal return of 0? is this right?
POST: Filling my own taxes for the first time this year since i just got a full time job that pays the bills and moved out from my parents and into an apartment. Since i just got the job start of the year only my BSA ... | Dependent on parents taxes for last year but have unpaid work and charity items over 10% income for last year and am expecting $0 back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Bachelorette parties for those of us who don't have many girlfriends?
POST: I'm feeling a little stressed over the bachelorette party guest list, and need some advice/reassurance/commiseration. And let's face it... I'm feeling a little sad and friendless too.
Of my 5 bridesmaids, e... | I'm lacking in the girlfriend department, as many of my friends are male. Don't know what to do about bachelorette party guest list. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [30M] with my [25F] 1.5 years, she loves me but isn't in love with me...
POST: ...I'm apparently cursed by this phrase because this is the fourth such breakup for me, each with very different women. This relationship, however was cosmically and mutually positive -- a first for both of... | It was pretty short to begin with, but...GF loves me but isn't in love. Is there hope? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Me (20M) been hanging out with a friend (20M), need some opinions if he's interested or not.
POST: So I met this friend at school that I have been hanging out with. At first I was only looking for friends and befriended this guy. Over time, I started noticing things, that tipped... | Met a friend at school, he started showing interest and I am oblivious to it. Want to know if I am just imagining things or are things good to go. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 F] found illegal porn on my in laws [26] computer.
POST: My father in law needed help reformatting his hard drive and I offered to do it because I know how. Was having lots of problems taking the files off to reformat so I decided to take half of them off and leave the rest for m... | Found child porn on my brother in laws computer who we live with, told my father in law. I'm worried if I did the right thing and what to do now? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: On Reddit, what are the boundaries that define karma-whoring and not karma-whoring? (confused redditor, dont post often).
POST: Okay, like lets start off by saying incase this post takes off (which really, not many do) that I have 103 karma at time of posting; most of which is from one pi... | Maybe I'm not as funny on the internet and you guys aren't havin it. I'd like to know why. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My brother's fiancee's [31 F] mother [late 50's] is refusing to agree to their marriage, it is tearing my family apart and now I'm afraid she is being pushed to her limits. [UPDATE]
POST: I had posted here earlier [relating] to my brother's fiancee. I got good advice, but things have c... | My brother has been with his fiancee for 6 years. Her mother refuses to accept the relationship on flimsy grounds. The fiancee called my mother today and stated her intention to break up. How to deal with the situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 25F with my friend/maybe more than friends 26M... Am I in the wrong to be dating him since he dated an ex-best friend of mine three years ago when she and I weren't friends?
POST: Long story short, I met a great guy Mark* and we immediately hit it off. We have been talking literally... | My guy used to date my ex-best friend... but it was during the 5 year period after our friendship ended because she was gossiping relentlessly about me. Am I wrong? What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [28 F] brother [22 M] recently moved to the town I live in and became friends with my friends, and he won't stop lying.
POST: My brother just moved back into the state and didn't have any more friends from high school really so he moved to the college town I live in and is getting h... | Brother lying, people are starting to catch on, I don't want him to be hated, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19/F] want more than a casual thing but he [23/M] isn't looking for a relationship.
POST: The whole thing with the guy started out as casual hook-ups.
He comes over,we talk,watch movies together,stuff a couple would do and then we hook up. He is a really pleasant person to be around... | We're only hooking up but I want more and he doesn't. Should I let go and move on or wait and see how it turns out,possibly breaking my heart in the proccess ? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] feel uneasy about my gf's [18F] past but not sure if I am just over-reacting.
POST: Thanks for reading my post, I'd appreciate any advice!
I have been dating my gf since Christmas of this past year (3 months). I asked her to a dance through a mutual friend and we hit it off.
... | My gf had multiple sexual partners up until we started dating. Unsure as to if I should make this a big deal |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30F] dad [65M] may be having an affair
POST: I stayed at my parents' house over the weekend to say what's up to my dad, since my mom is out of town. My dad always keeps his cell charging downstairs when he goes to sleep and on Saturday night around 11:30, his alarm kept going off. ... | saw a a text on my 65yo dad's phone that points to him having an affair. Wondering if anyone who's gone through this has any advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[19M] recently found out a friend I've had feelings for is now single and I need some help.
POST: Okay so here's our past, we kinda dated for awhile but I was new to relationships back then and we stopped whatever it was we were doing. That was 2-3 years ago.
Now I'm better and she ... | Girl I used to kinda date is single again, and I want to see if she still feels the way I do. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [32M] been fucking around at work lately but was just promoted to manager
POST: I've been working at a shitty job for the last year and I generally do really well there because I was able to automate most of my job and a few other people's so management really respects me. I got s... | I've been a shitty employee for the last month because I had been planning on leaving but now I'm going to be the boss. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Question about cat coughing and shedding
POST: Hello,
I have a 9 year old long haired tabby. I have had her for 5 months (first pet ever)
I keep her indoors exclusively. She came fixed, and declawed, and hasn't had any procedures of any kind as long as I've had her.
Recently, I've noticed th... | Anyone ever have a cat that coughs but doesn't cough anything up, and do cats shed more in the summer, and if so is there anything I can do to make the cat more comfortable? |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: [Serious] Hello, I'm Charlie and I have Bipolar Disorder
POST: I had not been diagnosed until about a month ago after my third hospitalization, though the disorder has been giving me issues since senior year of high school with anxiety and major depression affecting me since sophomore yea... | Do you think, as a college student with the above disorder and rigorous college and work schedule would be in the best light to acquire a Psychiatric Service Dog. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I've had a crush on this girl for 3 years, but have been friendzoned. What do reddit?
POST: I met K in my freshman year. I've liked her ever since. In my sophomore year. I was going to ask her to homecoming. I had an elaborate scheme that I was going to use, then this other kid walks up wi... | I've had a crush on this girl for 3 years, but she has a boyfriend and I'm stuck in the friendzone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do we deal with an awkward situation between our neighbours and landlord?
POST: Last fall, my roommates had to call the police on our neighbours. While it wasn't unusual for us to hear them fighting through the walls, things seemed to escalate quite quickly on this particular night. Af... | we called the cops on our neighbours and have to testify against them in the summer, and now our landlord wants a copy of the subpoena. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17M] feel that I need to tell my friend [17F] (who is in a relationship) that I'm in love with her, what to do?
POST: Well this is a throwaway account because I have friends that use reddit and such.
Well how to begin, there's a girl (let's call her Alex) that I've had a thing for,... | fell in love with girl, became really close with girl, had an it's complicated thing girl gets boyfriend, I'm crushed like Rhonda Rousey's reputation |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [22 F] I don't know how to deal with my boyfriend [24 M] of one year who is somewhat spoiled.
POST: This is my first time posting. My boyfriend still lives with his parents, and
while I don't have a problem with that, it doesn't help him grow
responsible when his dad keeps spoi... | My boyfriend can be a bit on the irresponsible side; his dad is not helping. I don't know if I should continue this relationship or not :/ |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20M) don't know what to do about my girlfriend(18F)'s mom (45F) because of harassment
POST: About 2 years ago, I started dating my current girlfriend. She was amazing and I really like her, but I also hung out with other females alone as well. (never anything sexual and did not hav... | I hung out with other girls while in a relationship (never anything sexual with the girls) and gf's mom found out. she now accuses me of being a cheater and constantly brings things up |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Job Offer Rescinded, In Hell.
POST: Two weeks ago I was given a call back after three interviews for a position at a company I really wanted to work for. They offered me what I asked in regards to Salary, and I immediately accepted over the phone. It was a position I pined for, and it's difficu... | Was offered dream job at salary I wanted. Retracted to "restructure the position" when they submitted approval for my salary and the job description. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 F] with my parents [60s M/F], found out about my eating disorder, can't go back home
POST: I know I'm sick, and it's something that I've been trying to fix, but I basically have this disgusting habit of not wanting to eat so I chew up food and spit it out because I'm fucking awf... | Parents searched my room and found about my disgusting eating disorder, possibly can't go back home except to clean and get my stuff because I don't want to clean with them around. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M] told girl [21 F] that I was falling for her and got rejected, still want to be friends, looking for help
POST: Let's get this out of the way real fast. This is a girl I met through a friend who I met online through video games. I've not met either of them face to face, but th... | I told this girl I was falling for her and got rejected, basically friendzoned, but now that I've said something, I feel things have changed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend's [18 F] sister [21 F] who just can't get enough drama.
POST: I don't even know where to begin, its so chaotic I feel like Jerry Springer could really cash out on an episode about this. So me and my girlfriend (calling her Bab) are wonderful together. We've... | Girlfriend's psychotic pregnant sister is harming our relationship by being destructing and physical, is our relationship going to work with her around? How can we deal with her toxic sister? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Friend's Boyfriend Might be Cheating on Her
POST: key:
mum = my mum
dad = my dad
brother = brother
M = brother's friend
Y = brother's other friend
girlfriend = my girlfriend
S = girlfriend's friend
myself = me
So I live with my mum, dad, brother, his friend (M), and my girlfriend. My girlfri... | close friend's boyfriend might be cheating, girlfriend found out from distant friend, told me; how should me and my girlfriend proceed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I am a [33/M] I recently started dating a [27/F]. Found out after we started dating she is pregnant (not mine). Logical advice wanted.
POST: Title says most of it. We met on Ok Cupid had a few dates and clicked right away. She has since then found out she is pregnant with the las... | Met girl she has terrible luck and got pregnant from first guy she dated in a year. Should I run or stick it out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [21 f] am struggling with attraction to people other than my boyfriend [21 m] of 5 years.
POST: I truly love him, and he's my best friend. But for about 2 years now, I've been feeling extremely attracted to other people. I have no intention of acting on it, but it's very worris... | I keep having serious crushes on people other than my boyfriend and I'm not sure if I should tell him or what I should do about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [32F] with my best friend [40M]. Best buds for a yr and a half, I like him but I'm not jealous of his dating...
POST: Like the title says I have an amazing best bud who is a guy. We just connected when we met and we've been in contact ever since. We can tell each other a lot. He is ... | Best friend is a guy, not jealous of his dating other women... does that mean I don't really want him sexually? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by crashing a $1,200 quadcopter
POST: A little background.
I've always wanted to be a photographer. I grew up using my dad's camera, then finally bought my own when I was 13. Since then I've been in love with taking pictures and making videos.
2 years ago I pitched the idea of making an... | Bought a quadcopter to make a business, gust of wind threw it into a tree. I now have a business without any way to make a product to sell and no money. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: First time filing taxes as independent, have a few questions on filing related to FAFSA
POST: I've been looking around the internet for answers to these question, but haven't really been able to find anything pertaining to my specific situation and I'm confused.
I'm a 21 year old un... | Switched my filing status from dependent to independent. Can no longer claim higher education deductions and don't know why. Also wondering how it will affect my FAFSA. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I was raped at knife point in college, when do I tell my boyfriend? Do I? How do I?
POST: About 2 and half years ago, I was raped at knife point by another student at my college. I went to the police and reported it but the DA basically said that there was not enough to prosecute the case,... | I was raped at knife point in college, I have flashbacks during sex and now I don't know how to tell my boyfriend? Or if I should? |
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