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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[26M] with my girlfriend [20F] of over 2 years, having problems with age and experience
POST: So, first of all a little about us, like I said in the title i'm six years older than her and we've been dating for over two years. We both love each other very much and for the most part i'... | I'm six years older than my girlfriend which has caused some problems between us. She wants to experience other things and i'm wondering if an open relationship might be best. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] have been dating my girlfriend [18 F] for 1.5 years, but am having second thoughts.
POST: Allow me to preface this by saying, yes, I am relatively young. Arguably too young to be worrying about these things.
A bit about me: I've dealt with depression and anxiety pretty badly ... | I've been developing a lot as a person, but feel like I'm being held back by a 1.5 year relationship. Am I overthinking things or should I take action? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Am I crazy to have a large liquid savings account while carrying large loan balances if I feel like the savings is my security blanket?
POST: I have accumulated about $30k liquid savings over the past couple of years and I am reluctant to do anything with it, because I feel like it's... | Is it rational to have large amount of savings when you have debt and/or little non-pension retirement accounts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27M] want to break up with my girlfriend [23F] of five years, but don't know how.
POST: Long story short, I feel like I'm trapped in a relationship that is getting worse and worse. Unfortunately, I've been going through this relationship with a smile on my face, trying to get throug... | Want to break up with my live-in girlfriend from the past five years, but I do not know how to start and what to do to prepare me for her hatred. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25F] have been dating a guy [26M] for 2 months, and he told me he's only ever had casual sex. It makes me kind of uncomfortable.
POST: I [25f] met this guy [26m] at a rock climbing gym, and we hung out for about a month before we started dating and having sex. We've been exclusive t... | I [25f] have been seeing a guy [26m] for a month. He told me his sexual experience is entirely comprised of one night stands (5 of them). I feel weirdly uncomfortable about that. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by peeing myself in front of my crush
POST: This happened back in primary school, in year 4 during an outdoor adventure weekend.
The weekend started off amazing, so many cool things to do. I was in high spirits, until the Sunday when we were time tabled to do quad biking.
In my particu... | Tried to impress my crush, ignoring my bladder which resulted in me peeing myself and losing what little dignity I had. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by sending my BBM PIN to the entire college.
POST: So, like 90% of the post here, this wasn't today (Surprise, surprise). This was back when BBM had been released for Apple and Android whenever that was. This ones kinda long too. Sorry in advance.
I was in an ICT lesson which had a suppl... | Sent multiple emails with my BBM pin to my college. Should've only sent one. And also not sending a risky email like that again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Underemployed because I just got back to the US. Can't qualify for apartment and being encouraged to lie. Advice?
POST: Hi all, thanks in advance for some advice.
I just got back into the US last week and desperately need to set myself up with housing. I have plenty of money (~$10k)... | Leasing agent is encouraging me to lie about my income to qualify for an apartment. Just morally uncomfortable, or legally/financially dicey? Is there any other way that income is usually verified? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] am worried that my fiance [26M] is still having thoughts of his ex.
POST: So my fiance (M) and I have been together a little over two years. Prior to that he dated a girl (L) for 5 years on and off. She was very controlling and struggled with depression and an eating disorder w... | My (new)fiance got drunk last night and talked strangely/sort of fondly about his ex-gf. Now I'm worried he's having thoughts of her and is too afraid to tell me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend (20s) dumped me (20s F) unexpectedly. Have been left heartbroken and devastated. I'm also pregnant.
POST: Long story short, my (20 F) boyfriend (20 M) was my world, my best friend, my love. I thought we'd be together forever. He dumped me after a fight over him standing up to... | Boyfriend dumped me after refusing to stick up for me. He was my everything. Pregnant and hormonal now. How do I move on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by challenging someone I thought was robbing my parents.
POST: A few years ago my parents went on holiday and asked me to look after their dog. My Dad drops the dog round but in his rushing forgets to bring the dog food. No problem I tell him, I'll go pick some up from the shop for today a... | I thought a couple being shown round my parents house were robbers so I shouted at them until the estate agent swooped in and explained that I had not interrupted a robbery just a sales pitch. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [23m] Should I go for the girl I like [18f] or someone that likes me and I may end up liking eventually [21f]?
POST: I really connected with a younger (18) girl than I in college. I'm a senior she's a freshman. Since we connected so well we're almost like best friends we really like se... | Really like a 18 yo girl but conflicted by 21 yo girl, want a relationship not sure which to trust will be steady. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of 1 and a half years, having trouble with giving each other space!
POST: Am I being unreasonable? We spend almost every hour together, during the day we're together mostly and in the evenings it's automatically assumed either that I am staying at he... | upon telling my gf that i cant stay over, she tells me her aunt is very ill and needs someone, i tell her i need space, she gets upset, tells me how sad she is feeling, and i feel bad |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (24m) with my colleague (40f). She's lazy and does noticeably less work than everyone in my team
POST: Okay so this isn't a new issue, it's been going on for the last 6 months at least.
We work in a small phone based customer service team (7 of us), taking calls and doing general... | colleague doesn't pull her weight and manager doesn't seem to care. Should i go to senior manager with complaint? How do i do this without painting a target on my own head? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] had a crush for 3 years on a girl[21F] I met during oWeek 3 years ago, how should I make a move on it?
POST: Using a throwaway cause I don't want to be linked back to my actual Reddit account and have the girl find out.
**Back Story**
So myself[M20] and this girl[21](girl A)... | liked a girl in first year and confessed->she said maybe later->been "friend zoned" for the past 3 years but still have feelings-> what to do about the feelings |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Political Science Colleges in California
POST: Hello everyone. I am an avid visitor of Reddit and regularly share posts from here to my facebook friends. I noticed that this community also houses intelligent people from around the world, most of whom are capable of giving great advice, so... | My girlfriend wants to study in CA. I need 1) names of good colleges and 2) ways of how to get into the top-notch ones. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it worth it in the long run reddit? Confused on weather I should stay or go. [18]M [17]F
POST: First of all sorry if I'm doing anything wrong I don't really post on reddit.
Well i've been dating my girlfriend for around 5 months (i know it's not alot) everything is great we don't r... | Been dating a girl for 5 months who I find perfect who thinks I'm "The One" but I feel that I'm no longer happy and confused over if I really love her or not |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Advice needed: I am good friends with an ex. This is problematic.
POST: I'm in a situation and I really need some advice. It involves me (call me C, 20/M), my girlfriend (call her N, 19/F) and my ex (call her J, 18/F).
J and I dated for two years senior year of high school and freshma... | Ex is good friend but still likes me, I just want to keep being friends with her, gf doesn't like any of it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] am trying to figure out how to respond to [28M]'s simple text. Casual dating. Why is this so hard?
POST: So, a mutual friend was talking to 28M, who is recently out of a relationship and looking for something casual. Mutual friend told him that I'm recently single and think he'... | How do you respond to "Text me whenever you want"? I've over-thought it and don't know what to say. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (25 m) monogamous girlfriend (24 f) of two years posted a pro polyamory article on Facebook, is this a red flag?
POST: so the situation isn't much more complicated than the title reads but after she posted it, I just asked her about it and her feelings on it and let her know that I ... | girlfriend posted a pro polyamory article on Facebook, didn't know how to take it, so I asked her about it. Now she is angry. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: I request revenge help from you creative minds. (X-post from r/askreddit
POST: I'm in highschool and I asked advice of a couple girls who I thought were friends, turns out two were two weren't. What I said to them was basically, I think I'm going to break up with my boyfriend because I ... | told four girls who i liked, they told him, pretended to kiss him, laughed at me behind my back. I need some help subtly getting revenge. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25F] need help letting someone down easy that I see regularly
POST: It's funny because someone I really liked just did this to me (through text initially) in a way I thought was a little hurtful. But now I need to let someone else down easy. We've been on 3-4 dates (one was a short... | Feeling stupid that I didn't say anything about not wanting to continue dating during what was supposed to be our last meet up (in my head.) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (24F) father (56M) mutters and whispers to himself and hits himself in the head. He thinks there's nothing wrong, and I'm unsure how to respond to it.
POST: I always thought it was just my father doing things my father does. My younger siblings find it quite funny because they don't... | My dad is a bit eccentric, and has behaved bizarrely ever since I was a small child. Unsure how to respond to it.* |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (f22) ex (m26) left me and I'm having trouble accepting it
POST: My ex left me because he wants freedom and I want commitment. I didn't want to open our relationship which ultimately ended in breaking up. That was the last thing I wanted... I just couldn't handle the idea of sharing... | boyfriend left me to have freedom, he is my best friend so I can't just let him go. Idk what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [20 M] trying to get back into the dating game after a horrible almost two year relationship with my ex [19 F] just wanted some advice.
POST: I think it's time to get back into dating but I need some advice on a few things. I was reading through the front page and seen a post about... | Getting back into dating I would like some advice from you all. Specifically how to deal with how many previous sexual partners a potential gf has had, although general dating advice is also appreciated! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Would it be a bad idea for me [23F] to ask mutual friends for (platonic) updates on my ex [24M] from a few years ago?
POST: My ex [24M] and I [23F] were on and off and kinda unhappy for like two years before getting in a huge fight and deleting each others' numbers a few years ago. We ... | I usually use Facebook as a yearly newsletter of what friends and exes are up to, my old best friend/ex deleted everything and made crazy life changes, would it be a bad idea to ask his best friend wtf happened? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my prom date [17 F] 1 month relationship. Nothing defined. We got nothing to talk to each other about.
POST: I asked my 8th grade crush to junior prom. I don't have any classes with her but I saw her sometimes at random events briefly. I asked her to prom, and then decid... | Me and my prom date don't have anything to talk to each other about and I want to break up but I don't know if we are even exclusive. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Getting mixed signals - did i respond correctly? [25m]
POST: So this girl i've been chatting with for a while finally seemed like she was giving me an in (had previously been to movies with her and hung out together in public places - never alone) and we were going to meet up and go so... | girl giving mixed signals about getting together, flakes on plans, ask her to be direct about if she has feelings towards me, am i a dick for asking her to be direct and putting her on blast? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I had a little too much fun taking the SATs until....
POST: So I posted this somewhere else then saw this and decided to post it here, too.
A couple of months ago I took the SATs for the first time. I wore baggy sweat pants with huuuge pockets so I would be comfortable during the test.... | Started masturbating during the SATs, ended up skipping a few pages and got a low score. Didn't finish in either respect. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my GF [24 F] of 5 years. She wants a break for a month during the Christmas season. What to do?
POST: My girlfriend and i have been together for a while. Recently she has been unhappy with a few things in the relationship and a few occurrences in the past year that culmi... | Problems in our relationship have culminated into us taking a break for a month in December. Do i get presence, cards etc for her and her family? What are your thoughts on breaks in relationships? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Advice on financial stability after relocating at 19?
POST: I am a sophomore college student currently enrolled at a private university in New York with the intent to major in finance and economics. I have made the decision to change my life by moving to California for the continuati... | 19 studying finance in college, moving from New York to LA to attend UCLA or another UC school with intent to live there after. Best advice to manage expenses during move? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do people get back together? [m 20] [f19]
POST: Ok so I'll try to make this story as short as possible without leaving out the important details (I'm a 20 year old male, she's 19).
We dated for like a year, I was her first everything and it was awesome. She wanted to break up after a ... | ) can we get back together, is one option better than the other? help!? all help is very much appreciated, thanks |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19M] girlfriend [18F] of 7 months, is adding my friends on facebook and talking to them randomly and it's making me uncomfortable
POST: Earlier this morning, we just got done with a long conversation about how we need to give eachother more space, and about 20 minutes ago she just ... | I feel like my girlfriend isn't respecting my life outside of our relationship by talking to my friends on facebook, after I know if i did that with her she wouldnt like it |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by fighting too well.
POST: Last night at a Martial arts class. Practicing our grappling, me and another guy squared off. I managed to get in close enough to hip throw him, he landed on his back with me on top of him. We scrambled and I ended up taking his back. I got my legs hooked around... | I choked out my partner in martial arts grappling while he was standing. He fell, I landed on my neck, and I'm contemplating going to the hospital |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: To recent grads with decent/good credit looking to apply for a credit card with better perks...
POST: Recently I started a discussion about looking for a credit card with better perks. (Previously I had been using a card through a credit union) I was lead to this great site:
I was ... | Every situation is different, but just wanted to let people know that there may be better credit card signup deals than what is posted online. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend (19M) broke up with me (18F) last night. Completely devastated.
POST: so I'm a freshman in college now and he's gonna be a sophomore, we started dating the summer when I was a junior. he goes to Brown which is about 6 hours away from where we live so we had a long distance re... | basically my boyfriend who I love very much broke up with me because he didn't love me anymore and now we're still going to see each other as just friends and I just don't know how to feel better. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18F] am petrified about telling my parents [40s F, 50s M] I'm moving in with SO [20M] of two years.
POST: So, you've probably heard this before. I'm going away for college. It's just a state away, but my Dad in particular is very disappointed. It wouldn't matter if I had been accept... | I'm going out of state, boyfriend Jack and I moving in together, I don't know how to tell my Christian parents without potentially losing one of them. How can I do that? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Would you date someone you *really* liked despite the fact that they had genital herpes?
POST: When I first met my boyfriend 5 years ago, he confessed to me that he had contracted genital herpes from an ex-girlfriend. I appreciated his honesty, and the fact that he was ok with a relationsh... | I got genital herpes from my long-term boyfriend and now want to break up because we no longer have a healthy relationship. Do I still have a shot at dating? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19/F] boyfriend [19/M] boyfriend is going it with his friends on my birthday and not me, am I right to be upset?
POST: It is my birthday this Saturday and it is my boyfriends birthday this Monday. We have been going out for about 4 months. He said that he would take me out to dinne... | boyfriend probably will not see me on my birthday because he is going out with his friends instead to celebrate his birthday 2 days later. Am I right to feel sad or is this just selfish of me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I don't know what to do.
POST: I'm not very good at writing papers, so here goes it. Okay so I'm a sophomore in high school, and there is this girl I like, let's call her Jane, Jane likes me too. The thing is, my friends think she is a loser, a nerd, and she's ugly. I don't think any of th... | girl and I have a crush on eachother, we don't talk, people don't like her, what do I do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it OK to watch sex tapes of my(m26) ex girlfriend (f25)?
POST: So I have some sex tapes that were made when I was with my exgf, we broke up about 3 months ago. These aren't like great quality cinema, but damn she was hot and we had a really kickin' sex life when we were together wit... | I occasionally watch sex tapes of my exgf, even though I am seeing a different girl now. Is this inappropriate or no biggie? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: If a teleporter were invented and shown to be "safe", would you use it? (Not as simple to me as it initially seemed)
POST: After thinking about it for a while, I don't think I would do it, and here's why: after stepping into a teleporter, even if the rest of the world saw the person coming... | I don't think there is a way for me to be teleported and not die in the process. What do you think? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Unsure how to proceed slash have a normal grownup conversation
POST: Hey all. I've been seeing this guy for a month. I'm 24f, he's 27m. At first, it was really awesome - he texted me and gchatted me all the time, we had great chemistry, etc. I did start noticing that he's extremely ne... | guy was into me, now he seems not to be, how do I either break up or call him out on being totally oblivious? barf |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with a girl [20 F] I met recently. We go out, hit it off but the next day says she's not ready for a relationship.
POST: I was at work on Monday when this girl comes to the register and we talk for around 30min and hit it off. Before she leaves she gives me her number and I t... | Meet girl Monday, go out Sunday, we have a great time, end up at her house but don't do anything. Next day says she's not ready for a relationship. Was I supposed to go through with it on Sunday? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] and my SO [23 F] of five years have just entered into an Open Relationship for the Next 10 months. I need advice.
POST: Because of the circumstances of our relationship me and my SO have spent a significant amount of time apart. Every time we found ourselves apart for a signi... | I'm in an open-relationship for the next ten months and need advice on how to respect my SO and the various girls who I will be sleeping with. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Dating my Receptionist of my building, however landlord says she can't be seen in building after hours. What can I do?
POST: Started dating my receptionist a few weeks back and she frequently comes up to my room after work. Things were going great with her but recently things have beco... | Manager of my building is on a power trip and refuses to let the receptionist I am dating come up to my room after working hours. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: New cat attempts to door dash (flee out the front door), meowing loudly
POST: Hello. I recently adopted a rescue cat from the shelter (roughly 2 weeks ago). She is 2 years old and spayed. She is a wonderful cat and doesn't mind being picked up and loves to hang out and get lovies and petting.
... | Cat wants to go outside and tries to door dash and also meows very loudly through the night and leads us to her full food bowl. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21/F] group project members [20's/M] aren't helping and it's due in a week- what should I do?
POST: I posted this yesterday but people downvoted me so I'm trying again today for some actual answers. If you have nothing to contribute just move on.
Anyways, I am in a summer class a... | My groupmates aren't pulling their weight and our project is due on the 20th, what should I do?!? It is too late to withdraw. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] with my girlfriend [21F], She wants to move away for 6 months, talk some sense into me.
POST: Me and my girlfriend have been together now for just over 5 months come tomorrow. I would say we have a pretty healthy and happy relationship, we get along really well and for the maj... | Girlfriend wants to move away for 6 months, I have no clue what to think of it and if it will work. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Can my employer change my job description without my consent?
POST: Background: I have been in my position for 19 months. I was asked into a meeting today where my direct manager asked if I would be interested in a move to a different team in our office. They have not been able to fill a positi... | I was asked if I wanted to move to a different postion in the office. I declined as there is no pay raise. I was told I may be forced to take the position. Office in NC, Company based out of GA |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21 M] girlfriend [19 F] still keeps gifts from her ex-boyfriend.
POST: My girlfriend has been my best friend for a long time now and recently confessed to me after a long relationship tension between us.
My girlfriend always wears her ex-boyfriend's gold necklace that he bough... | Gf keeps ex-bf's gifts and I'm paranoid. I want to be more trustworthy and more mature. Please help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm a [21/f] Wondering if the Nostalgia of Being Single Worth Losing a Great S.O. [21/m]?
POST: When I was seventeen I started dating my best friend, I just turned 21 and I'm still with that person (in fact, we live together). Though our relationship is great, at least in the sen... | I'm afraid my good college years will pass and I won't get to experience the single life, but I'm also aware that finding a guy as good as my current S.O. will be extremely difficult. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (26/F) Tomorrow night I'm going to a social function where I'll have to see and have dinner with my Ex. The big one, with the capital E.
POST: I won't get too into the backstory. Basically we dated for five years, almost got engaged, no one was at fault for the breakup (enacted b... | Have no way of avoiding social function/dinner with my ex tomorrow night, need advice on how to keep cool and not freak |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 28 M with my Fiance 29 F 4yrs, conflicting on wedding plans, Needs Space. What do I do?
POST: My fiance is a firm Feng Shui believer and wants to sign the marriage certificate on August 8th 2015. I proposed back on May 9th, 2015. I expressed that it was way too soon and we don't hav... | Fiance wants to rush into marriage cause of Feng Shui belief, I expressed I wasnt comfortable moving this fast, she wants space. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] having issues with my childhood friend [22F] that wont stop asking me to come visit her
POST: A friend I have that I've been close with since we were younger that lives a few hours away from me keeps asking me to come visit her for a weekend at the university she goes to. We w... | How do you get someone who keeps asking you to visit them to stop and not feel guilty when you say you can't visit them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me(21m) with ex (22f) of one year, at a loss for how to handle current situation
POST: Hi reddit. I'm kind of at a loss for what to do right now, and could really use some advice.
So about a month ago, my ex GF and I broke up. We were together for a year, and for the most part the bre... | Broke up a month ago, hanging out with other female friend, ex is upset and doesn't want the two of us hanging out. Trying to be friends with ex but not sure how to handle this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend doesn't communicate! need help please
POST: So this girl (21) and I (20), have been dating for about six months. Overall we have had a great relationship, we both trust each other, we have A LOT in common, we do almost everything together, and I do love her with all my heart... | Girlfriend doesn't know how to communicate and it is causing a little resentment in me, any suggestions of what I can do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [NY] How to deal with repeat trespassers on private property?
POST: I have my house at the end of a long driveway. Several years later, a house was built near me and we gave them a spoken-word agreement that they can build a small road to our longer driveway for them to use, instead of b... | Realtors using our private driveway to view a house next door since their driveway is snowed in. They won't take no for an answer. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (21/F) ambivalent about having children. Worried this is going to affect my ability to settle down.
POST: As of late, I find myself ambivalent about children, leaning towards not wanting them at all, for several reasons:
-If I ever have a baby it would be with a husband who I love... | I'm ambivalent about kids but worried I'll regret it. Need perspective/want to know if not wanting children will affect my ability to find someone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Anyone know the ins and outs of financial aid for college?
POST: Okay so like most people I need loans and aid to go to college. I have an English degree and am going back to get the classes I need to be able to teach high school English. I can either get a second degree in education( a lo... | Am I able to take out aid from one school take the classes i need quit go to another school, the degree one, take aid and take the last of the classes? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22m] girlfriend[18] came home from college to surprise a friend at the wedding that inspired her to break up with me.
POST: Okay so I'll try not leave anything out.
Iam 22 and a student working full time and trying to finish up school. Living in Texas. We worked together and she pu... | my girlfriend came home from school, spent the day with me, and then went to a wedding. Where she felt the need to break up with me after over text. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [32 M] girlfriend [30 F] of two years is severely bipolar and wants us to move in together, I don't know how to handle it at all.
POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for two years. We live happily in separate apartments (though we speak often about moving in together when t... | my girlfriend is bipolar and wants me to move in with her. I don't know how to explain my fears over it to her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me(25M) w/24(f) dating, not sure whether to bring up exclusivitiy or not.
POST: So long story short:
Met great girl last summer, hit it off, long distance so not much happened for months after initial meeting but kept in touch.
Past 4 months had the chance to spend a couple weekends... | been dating girl long distance but no label or clearly set boundaries. Have become curious to know if were on the same page , not sure whether to bring it up or not. opinions please |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 F] with my bf [18 M] of a year. I found out bf's life-long friend [20 M] is a guy I had a huge crush on growing up b/c he was my bro's friend.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating a year and I don't know how I hadn't met his best life-long friend yet, but I finally did last... | Bf's best friend is a guy I used to have a huge crush on and still might. How do I go about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [39M] with my Wife [37F] of 12yrs, I don't have anyone to talk to about what am feeling and ...
POST: **Would like to start with the fact that I live in a 3rd world country where the medical/social security structure doesn't really exist.**
Am depressed and feel lonely all the time... | Depressed, Anxious, in a financial hole, don't have any friends... and I feel so bad that am letting her and the kids down... Just want to vent and talk and no one have talk to... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with girl I'm dating [22 F] for a little over a month from Tinder, how to communicate about wanting something more casual and NOT a relationship after sleeping with her
POST: I met a girl over Tinder last month. We are both recent college grads living at home with our parents... | Me and girl haven't talked about where we stand and I am clueless about casual dating. How do I communicate with girl I am dating about what we want? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my [22 F] 9 months, She said we are not compatible
POST: Last night, My gf and I are talking about the future. She wants to move in and all this. We start arguing and a few hours later we make up and start trying to have make up sex. Halfway through she stops and says I'... | GF said we are not compatible last night. Is there any way(s) to become compatible with someone? Or should we just call it quits? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Can reddit help me launch my vet career?
POST: I've always loved animals, and being a high school freshman, I've had to put much thought into my career. My step dad constantly tells me, "It doesn't matter if you struggle to get by when you love what you do."
There's always the boring, (su... | i want to help animals at a shelter but i need to be 18 to volunteer. I need to convince the shelter to let me volunteer with consent, without my parents present. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[21F] boyfriend [25M] brought home a friend[19F] without telling me.
POST: So, first off I'll apologize for any spelling mistakes, I'm using my phone. Been with my boyfriend for just over a year.
So my boyfriend(we'll call him Steve) has this female friend(we'll call her Susie). The... | Boyfriend doesn't tell me he's bring his female friend over because of my jealousy but I get more jealous because he doesn't tell me. Want to get over this jealousy. Need opinions. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my gf [25 F] of 7 months, Said "I love you" for first time. Need advice
POST: Have been with my girlfriend for 7 months now and we where in bed, really romantic, candles lit and she started to ask me about what the difference between love and like are. Iv been wanted to ... | Said i love you for first time, made funny noise and ruined romantic moment am now worried i have destroyed relationship cause of importance of first saying this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: A bit nerdy but...
POST: I don't know if the American public. or any other country really, truly realizes the sacrifice we make upon joining the military. Sure, the training can take a while, ranging up to a few years depending on what occupation you have chosen, but we are all called upo... | It doesn't matter what country you're from except for maybe the Vatican. Be thankful for your troops even if you disagree with policy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [Help] Keeping my Husky from escaping!
POST: Hi everyone. Wanted to pose a question to you all in desperation.
My family and I recently rescued a 1-year old Husky. We have a fairly spacious backyard to keep him in, but we have been having trouble as he continues to get out of the backyard when... | Husky keeps magically escaping from backyard - want advice on whether to get a crate or construct a kennel. Do not want him to be constrained but want him to be safe under our purview. Thank you! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How much information is too much when involved with a survey?
POST: I'm doing a research study over Men's personal care products that pays $175 for a two hour discussion. The catch is they want me to fill out 3 word document spread sheets before going on.
The first one was over my favorit... | a personal care study is asking me to give them details on pretty much every aspect of my life. This is only my second study to be involved in, is this normal for them to ask so many details? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: A good friend admitted their love for me Friday night. I had to deny them. What course of action should I take now?
POST: First of all, let me say, all the guys complaining about being in the friend zone, it's not the girls fault. I am a 21 yearold male and I certainly put this girl in the... | Girl admits her love to me, I deny her, not sure if i should ween myself out of her life or try to go back to normal. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I relax back into my relationship now my partner isn't depressed?
POST: 27 (M), been with 30 (F) for about 18 months. My girlfriend has had inconclusive cancer tests for about 9 months now.
While that news would be scary enough for anyone, she has beaten it before and knows wh... | I know my GF loves me and wants to be with me, but I'm insecure and hurt as a result of her withdrawal during (totally understandable) depression. How do I relax? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (33M) and thinking of breaking up with my GF (32F). Not sure if it's premature on my part....if not, when is the best time to do it?
POST: We have been together since late April. I tend to fall for someone quickly but that wasn't the case here (this was actually kind of a relief). ... | Not sure I feel as strong about my GF as I should. Should I break up with her and, if so, when? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I [19F] get over my professor [20/30sM] that I've never even talked to? [X-Post from r/relationships]
POST: This is the second semester I've had this professor, and I'm completely infatuated with everything about him. I've always been really shy, so I honestly can't even b... | infatuated with a professor i've had for two semesters, never talked to him, but i know we have a lot in common. should i just get over it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] trying to make the first move on a girl [23 F]
POST: I met this girl last year at an event. We talked for a little bit, exchanged first names, and she mentioned an organization she was part of. Later on, when I got home, I googled the organization and found her picture on a f... | Met a girl, really great conversation. Talk on Facebook. Want to find a way to take things further without being weird. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Can only eat liquid foods for 1 week+, at a loss for what to do.
POST: So I've been kind of on-off dieting for a while now and this year I've list about 10 pounds, but slowed drastically the last few months because of depression, etc, etc.
Now I back on the horse and I've lost 3/4 pounds the... | have to sustain a liquid diet for 1week+ but not sure what foods I need or will be able to eat. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Is this a bad time to invest in index funds?
POST: Hi, I recently hit a personal savings goal and I'm looking to put some of my saved money into a better place than holding it as cash. I have more than enough for a six month emergency fund, have already maxed out my Roth IRA for 2013... | I want to reduce my cash holdings and I think index funds might be a good way to do this, but I'm not sure if this is a good time to buy into the stock market or which funds to choose. Any thoughts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Google Chrome lagging on reddit?
POST: I recently switched from Firefox to Chrome (due to a few bugs that have gotten too irritating for me to use FF) and have been pretty pleased with what I've found. Really, the only complaint I have (unfortunately pretty major) is how chrome works on re... | reddit makes Chrome lag out for several seconds whenever I click to read comments. I can still use other tabs during this "freezing," but reddit is unresponsive. It happens on all "comment" pages. Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Overwhelmed by technique and shoe choice. Help?
POST: I have been a long time cyclist as well as competing for my university in rowing, but I have always been troubled by running. I think I 'want' to like it more then I really do. Recently, after reading Born to Run (just like every other ... | Running is as frustrating technically as golf or rowing and I can't decide on shoes. Anyone else feel the same? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [40 M] with my partner [31/F] 3 years, said she loves me but not in love with me. Does that always mean the worst?
POST: Three years in, admittedly I said it to her first a while ago during an argument. Things started out great but we've had some tough spots. Due to some depression/... | Had some trouble, in therapy now and things seem to be improving but unsure of the future given some of the things we've said to each other. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I told my girlfriend [18/F] that she had small breasts.
POST: I'm 19 and a male. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now on Valentine's day. A couple months ago I told my girlfriend that she had small breasts by comparing hers to another friend of ours [19/F] saying our f... | Insulted my girlfriend by calling out her most insecure body part. Months later she isn't over it and I want her to be able to love herself. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M 27] Falling hard for a girl [23] who has been treated terribly by guys in the past. How to prove to her that I'm not like the others?
POST: We met a month ago and I think I'm falling in love with this girl. We have been taking trips together almost every weekend since we met. Last w... | Girl im falling for has major trust issues/abusive relationship history. Feelings are mutual, but need advice on how to show her i can be trusted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Stay friends with ex who has my virginity?
POST: I'm gonna keep it short and sweet, you can ask questions if you choose.
Me [F18], ex [M18]. Dated guy for 3 months. Had sex within that 3rd month probably twice. I have wanted to save my virginity for my future husband so im feeling bit... | Lost my virginity to ex. He broke up with me. Its been a month and we havent really talked. We said we would be friends tho and I kinda want his friendship, should I put any effort into a friendship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Movies referencing other movies, and the contradictions therein
POST: Whenever a film or TV show references another film or TV show, does anyone else try and see if that reference was possible without causing a contradiction or breaking the fourth wall?
For example, say TV Show X referenc... | Fiction 1 can contradict itself by referencing other fiction 2. Not because fiction 2 directly contradicts fiction 1, but because something fiction 2, in turn references, contradicts fiction 1. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do I (25M) tell her (23F) how I really feel, even though I probably know the outcome?
POST: So I have known this girl pretty much her whole life, we were really good friends in High School but was put in the friend zone. I went to college and we didn't get to be around each other much.... | I really like a girl I have known most of my life and want to tell her and not sure how to tell her, and will probably be shot down when I do it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34 M] with my gf [32 F] living together 5 years, I'm confused. Have a huge crush on a friend [32 F]
POST: I'm pretty confused and uncomfortable these days. I'm going through a big life transition at the moment, about to finish grad school and considering what is next. I've been wit... | In a Long term relationship, feeling like I might not have like romantic type affection for her despite loving her. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Probably just being paranoid, but I'm not sure
POST: Okay so earlier tonight my dog was out in the backyard and he started barking like crazy. This isn't terribly unusual because he's kind of territorial by nature, so we go out and sure enough, there are raccoons in the tree by the fence. He ... | A creepy sounding guy called my house to tell me to stop my dog from barking and asked a lot of strange questions, should I be worried? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (29F) husband (30M) says he wants a divorce, says there are no "fuzzy bunny" feelings for me.
POST: Hi reddit,
Once again I come to you guys for your advice on what to do. I am so lost and heartbroken right now. My husband and I have been married for a year and a half now and toget... | my husband wants a divorce due to lack of a spark, I don't. Is there anything I can do to show him a spark? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Pulled over - Can I fight this?
POST: First ever post on Reddit. Throwaway account. Excuse me if I fuck this up.
I just got home from running to the store. Got pulled over while I was out. I was going one way on an 8-lane street with a center divider It was a main street, a downtown area ... | Cop ticketed me for running a red light, he was too far away to judge it. Threatened me when I tried to fight the ticket. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] with 2 roommates [19 M] and [19 M] of 10 months are starting to have some issues.
POST: **BACKSTORY**
So last August I started staying in my college's housing with 3 other roommates. As that year went on it became clear that one of the roommates that we had was a huge slob an... | Group of 3 roommates left last roommate, wondering if I'm about to get the same treatment, as what we gave a past roommate. Not sure how to approach the situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by telling the entire high school to go fuck themselves
POST: So this happened last year and i still cringe when i think about it so yeah here it goes..
Last year at around august there was a discussion by most classes from high school about politics in our country (Brazil) , we spent the... | Went to a boring discussion about politics , told everyone to go fuck themselves and walked away awkwardly while everyone looked at me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Is this legal? What should I do?
POST: I work at a daycare that has a late fee policy if parents leave their kids past closing time. It states that if a child is left there any time past 6:30 they will be charged a fee that must be paid no later than the next working day or the child may ... | I work at a daycare and my work won't pay me after closing even if I'm still there with a kid. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Advice? Does that mean he loves me [20F] ?
POST: My boyfriend recently (2 days ago) told me, he didn't know what love was. it's been bother me. Does that mean he doesn't love me?
He asked me what I thought love meant. I told him, love is when you really care about someone. You would ... | i want our relationship to work out. All I want is for him to love me just like how much I love him. . |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, can you help me to come up with a name for the game I'm making?
POST: It's probably best described as a '*survival adventure game set on an uninhabited island*'.
The game will be mainly focused around survival in the wilderness, but it will also have building, digging/mining and o... | You become stranded on an island at the start of the game and have to survive. Need a name for the game. Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by loving Jean Reno films without judgment.
POST: Appropriately named throwaway occorse.
So, I am a guy in my mid 20s with a strong euro-latin accent (not french) , and for Christmas I went with some extended family members to the lake cabin that belongs to some other family member who w... | watched a movie about a little girls falling in love with a grown man, whilst alone with m little nice , no repercussions lucky. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Responding to her break up
POST: I've known and liked this girl for a good amount of time and her boyfriend cheated on her about a month ago. She is over it, but when I told her she was great and that she would find someone she responded with "I always end up with some jerk; clearly I ... | Girl ive known and liked says (over text) she can only find jerks and I'm considering going out on a limb asking her if shes ever considered dating a guy like me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] am worked up about being a virgin and my [23 F] girlfriend not being one. I know I'm in the wrong, please help me get over it.
POST: So, here's the thing.
I'm an incredibly shy guy when it comes to girls and relationships. I can talk to them normally, be friends with them, b... | I don't know how to get over the fact that I'm still a virgin and her not being one, I know I'm in the wrong about this. |
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