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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: What do you do when it appears you're being ignored?
POST: We had been dating for a year and a half, but four months ago he broke it off. I truly felt I was falling in love with him. It was awkward the first month after because we still have items to exchange and the break-up to ... | He broke it off, he wanted to stop talking, he changed his mind and wanted to be friends because I'm "important," but now he barely tries. Looking for advice on being ignored/ approaching him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some things co-workers have done to try to get you in trouble with your boss/fired?
POST: I'll start: I am required to take 30 minute breaks during my shifts. I work as a lifeguard, and one of the maintanence man here (there are several, but this one in particular is always sent o... | New assface maintanence guy complains multiple times to my boss that I am exceeding my 30 minute breaks when I'm really not. What an assface. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: 21f and I 20m broke up argued then had phone sex
POST: My gf and I have been fighting for about a week and I told her I couldn't do this anymore and I needed some time. She wouldn't give me it, told me she'd come see me if I didn't see her (she didn't come and I didn't go to her), told me s... | Gf and I broke up, argued then had phone sex. Since I still can't bring myself to see her yet she feels used. Am I wrong and all to blame? Or is it part her too? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [31M] think I'm just not interested in a relationship. But at the same time I feel alone.
POST: I've never had any real luck with dating. My only 'relationship' was a brief few dates with a girl who broke up with me after a month. All I kinda had the feeling afterwards that the whole... | Don't know if I want to try dating again, but feeling alone at the same time. Not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: just got out of jail, 3 days for $11.
POST: so i need to get this off my chest, i am devastated, on Wednesday, i was at work and my background check came back that i have an active warrant for misdemeanor on false pretenses that came out 2 months ago. SO i called the county to ask what it... | went to jail for 3 days because of $11, work bailed me out for $1000. I don't even go 80mph on a 75mph coz i'm scared to get pulled over. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Really like a girl who is not ready to date again, should I tell her how I feel?
POST: Me 24 her 20. We have been hanging out for a while now. Sometimes as group sometimes her and I. Have not gotten more than a hug. We compliment each other. She is really smart, funny and very pret... | Hanging out with a girl who is not ready to date. I have feelings for her of more than friendship. I want to tell her I like her. Should I? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it ok for me [21F] to tell my ex [27M] to not be friends with someone else if he wants another chance? We were together for a year and have been broken up for about 4 months.
POST: My ex wants another chance to make things work, but I told him I wouldn't consider it if he is still t... | Ex wants to try again, but also wants to stay friends with a friend who threatened me, disrespected him and our relationship multiple times, and has a laundry list of other problems. Is it ok to tell him to cut ties? |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Help figuring out most minimal glassware rental for (almost) full bar (beer, wine, cocktails, non alcoholic drinks)?
POST: Hi all. Hoping to get some feedback or thoughts on glassware rental - this is less about cutting costs and more about simplifying. We are hoping our wedding wil... | Are stemless red wine glasses and pilsner glasses enough to cover a reception with beer, wine, cocktails and non alcoholic drinks? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I have a neighbor who is harrasing me and my family, what should I do?
POST: My family and I just moved from an apartment to a new Townhouse that we have been renovating for the last few weeks. One of the neighbors, I'm not sure who, has been complaining about our dog barking. While its tr... | Bitchy neighbor is complaining that our dog barks a lot, and is threatening to call animal control and take him away. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is it ever okay to approach a (shy) woman in public?
POST: There's a big idea going around these days: **if she's not interested, leave her alone.**
I completely agree that our culture has some strides to make in how women are treated and respected, specifically how there's a lot of c... | I like introverted girls, the kind that are unlikely to risk giving any signal of interest. How do I safely and respectfully approach them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How to get through to a shy guy (18F, 18M)
POST: I am usually interested in cocky, self centred guys but this time is different. I met this guy about 10 months ago and he's very interesting - he intrigues me because i've never met anyone like him.
From what I can see he is useless wi... | Like a guy that's shy and awkward with girls - how do I show him I like him without scaring him off? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [33 M] with my demon ex [39 F] off and on for 9.5 years messaged me Wednesday after 2 years of no contact.
POST: The most I've ever been hurt was by this woman. She broke up with me off and on 6-7 times throughout our relationship. The last break up was not a nice one, I professed l... | The worst person in my entire dating life contacted me after 2 years of no contact asking me to insult her and saying how she is a terrible person who cannot stop hurting people. What the hell is going on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [24 M] so confused with this girl [22 F] who says she doesn't have feelings for me. Advice please
POST: So I've known this girl for six months. We have hung out twice a week or more for 4 months now, watching movies, having fun, sleeping together, etc. and occasionally have sex. Th... | Girl tells me she doesn't feel the same way I do about her. Her actions say otherwise. Time to move on? Or distance? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being a bad football player and driver.
POST: This literally just happened and I am having a pretty awful day but before I start you should know I am a university student and I have had to be really good with money this semester in order to pay for next years housing deposit. So today h... | I Didn't get to play which put me in a bad mood causing me to dent my car badly, and I have a deposit to pay. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Got a family issues, need a straight answer.
POST: So this is the story;
My parents got divorced quite a while ago but since 1 year ago I've not seen my dad. At first i didn't know the reason i didn't want to be there but I do know now. I can't stand people i care about fight. I just can't... | My dad-step mom fight, i hate it. Am i a dick for not being there or am i in the right to be with my mom? (this indicates me not meeting my dad at all) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (20f) bf (28m) of 2 years is too close to his female friends. Am I overreacting?
POST: My bf (28m) and I (20f) have been together for 2 years and he is
a very social person with a lot of friends. While he does have plenty
of male friends, he also has a lot of female friends. I never... | My bf of 2 years gives his female friends more attention than me and is too physically close to them. It bothers me, but he insists he does nothing wrong. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [19/M] my GF just suggested we stop having a sexual relationship till marriage.
POST: My gf is from a very religious family where as I am not. We have found ways to deal with this and even in the process I have found my self in some sort of spiritual way you could say. Regard... | GF and I used to have sex regularly now, because of religious beliefs, wants to bring it to a halt till marriage. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: replies on reddit
POST: I just answered on the question of a redditor in /r/Anxiety.
He asked, which jobs are for people who are afraid of making phone calls.
I replied that he should take a job where he has to do exactly that because in that way he can confront and overcome his fear.
Well ... | To put it in a nutshell I learned through reddit that if people don't agree with me they only reject my opinion or what I did in that single situation. They are not rejecting me as a person. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Potty training ideas or advice
POST: Hello we have a boy that will be 3 in 3 months. We are having some struggles with potty training. This is our first kid and have another coming in July. We are trying to get him trained before that point and daycare wants to move him into the 3 year roo... | 33mo. Boy, once suscessful at potty training, has issues going #2 in diaper and its getting crunch time on advancing. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How common is having a nightmare in the same setting as a previous dream?
POST: Almost the entire nightmare was in the third person, it only switched to first person right before I woke up. Last night, I dreamt that I was walking in the woods. It was the afternoon, as the sun was on its wa... | I had a nightmare and a non-nightmare dream of a forest on different nights. I was wondering if this was common because I had never heard of it before. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How should I [24/m] tell my parents [52/mf] that I'm not coming home for thanksgiving?
POST: Some background information: My girlfriend and I share the same hometown, but we live 6 hours away from our families. I have an okay relationship with my parents, but I am definitely much mor... | I'm not coming home for Thanksgiving, I predict this will be a strain on the relationship. How can I decline politely? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] found out my brother [14 M] got a girl pregnant and she had an abortion. Mom wants me to have a talk with him tonight.
POST: His grades have been slipping. He's an extremely talented musician.
Recently our mom accidentally (she says, but I mean, really) read some notes he'd g... | little brother got a girl pregnant, she got an abortion, he's becoming more and more distant and uncaring. Mom thinks I can help if I talk. What should I say? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My Girlfriend [17 F] used my [18 M] gift as a prop
POST: To start off, this is a relatively minor issue I'd say but I'm just trying to gauge if I'm overreacting or not in terms of my feelings.
Recently, for valentines day I bought my girlfriend this beautiful silver diamond necklace. ... | Girlfriend used an important necklace I gave to her in play with male romantic counterpart as a prop. Am I overreacting by being upset at this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20 F] [22 M] boyfriend of 9 months, thinks I don't care about his feelings because I have a "hard life".
POST: So this morning, my boyfriend unloaded a bunch of things on me. One of the comments was that he felt like he couldn't talk to me about little things like complaining about... | I travel 2 hours every day. Because of this my boyfriend feels like he can't talk to me about his problems ... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: So I (19) am in this situation where my girlfriend (19) wants to experience 'fun' with other guys.
POST: EDIT: Thank you for all the replies Reddit! I'm sorry I couldn't get back to all of them because I was talking to her at the time and it was late at night.
I'm not sure about my de... | We are each other's firsts, been in a long relationship, she's 'bored' and wants to meet new guys, but knows she'll want me back in the future. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me(21m) need advice about a woman I'm interested in/have been seeing(19F)
POST: Ok, so about 2 weeks or so ago, this girl that trains at the same gym as me started talking, and have been seeing each other. From what I can tell shes defineitely interested in me. I made dinner for her la... | Girl I have been seeing said she is afraid, and asked me to be paitent with her. Need advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help. Not sure what to do.
POST: So I (21M) and my girlfriend (22f) have been together for 3 years. My family does not like her and cut off communication with me because of it. She's always been here for me and I've been there for her. I work and she stays at home. She doesn't really t... | My girlfriend of 3 years has been talking to this guy online and he has mentioned sexual acts. I'm not against group sex, but have reservations. She only talks to me and the other guy. We are her only friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I recommend marijuana to my dad for his arthritis pain?
POST: Let me start off by saying that I'm an ent, if you haven't already assumed.
Anyway, my father is 56 and has extreme arthritis pain in his shoulders, arms and knees. It keeps him up for most of the night. His pain meds don... | My dad is in pain, I want him to try marijuana to ease pain, famiry think that dishonrabr. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: 18 no direction in life after dropping out of law school
POST: I'm 18, finished high school with great grades and entered law school (Australian so people can enter right out of high school) but it's a pretty tedious course with limited career opportunities. I skipped a year of high school so... | Dropped out of law school, passionate about everything so at a loss for what to study and what direction to take my life |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Advice on how to aproach this girl
POST: Hi guys, I went to a big festival with some friends and my sisters, thing is we met some of my sisters friends, and amongst them was a group of three girls, we liked the same artists but my sisters and their boyfriends wanted to go listen to oth... | =went to a concert with some friends, met some friends of them there, i liked a girl ALOT and now a month later she adds me on facebook for no reason, need advice! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (27/f) broke up with bf (31/m) 3 times and still want to get back together
POST: I (27/f) was in a relationship with someone(31/m) who was v. similar to me and had v. similar interests and goals in life. We started seeing each other in June 2014, and stayed in a relationship fo... | broke up and got back together with bf about 4 times. broke up mostly because family didn't like him and didn't want there to be friction. should I get back together with him? should I just see other people? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by cleaning shit out of the toilet.
POST: Today, 10 minutes ago, after taking a shit, I saw shit marks in the toilet and recalled my flatmate telling me about them. So I decided to very quickly clean that shit with the brush. Why "very quickly" you say? It's because I could hear my eggs fr... | Tried cleaning the shit out of a toilet a little too fast, splashed water so high I got pieces of shit stuck in my beard. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I accepted an internship. Now I'm not sure if it was the best decision. Advice please?
POST: Hey people of Reddit! I have a question. I accepted a marketing internship recently to broaden my horizons on top of university course content. It is my first ever internship, so I wasn't totally sure... | I accepted an internship that apparently doesn't have much work, so I'd like to get some advice on whether to stay or go as someone who likes to be busy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21 F] boyfriend[21M] of 3 years said I needed some space...?
POST: So we had a fight because he was really mean and almost abusive to me last night. Basically I have this female friend who's really bitchy by nature and sometimes jokes around by being mean...for example, she'll say ... | Boyfriend was mean and abusive, his mom is filling his head with ideas about how my anxiety is going to drive him insane, he decided I needed some space. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: [M] TIFU by eating graham crackers with sour milk.
POST: So, this happened like just a few minutes ago, so hooray! A FU that actually happened today! But anyway, here we go:
So, it came to be lunch time for me, and after a few moments of thinking, I decided to choose Graham crackers and milk. ... | ate a whole package of graham crackers while dipping them into sour milk. Didn't realize until after I finished. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Spontaneous party, I ended up at 2nd base with a girl who is not my girlfriend.
POST: 21 Male, got to 2nd base with a 18 year old from a different college. However I have a girlfriend of 3 months.
Maybe I did it out of anger, but my dick lead the night. I'm not a huge partier, but I c... | Cheated on my girlfriend, didn't get to sex. Girlfriend has no sex drive(don't even make out) and now I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [23m] have been talking to a girl [20f] recently, we never run out of things to talk about, but we have nothing in common.
POST: So I've been talking to this girl strictly over text message for the past few months, we haven't gone on any dates or anything like that in the entire time... | Been talking with a girl for a few months, we both obviously have feelings for each other, crazy sexual tension, but nothing in common. Is it worth the risk to try dating this girl? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Today I got my revenge on the god awful computers that have cursed my existence at work, by punting 100 of them into a huge metal skip. Reddit, what oddly satisfying item based revenge experiences do you have?
POST: Ok so a little background: I'm an IT support tech and one of my responsibi... | I got to destroy 100 computers that have been the bane of my life for the past 3-4 years, by punting them into a skip. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Met a girl at a mental health facility
POST: So I met this chick at a mental health facility. I actually work there. She was a patient. Shes super cute. And she was really fun to talk to. And me and her were vibing really hard. She was discharged and her roommate told me she had a crush o... | I work at a mental health place, met a cute chick. She likes me and I like her back. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M/F early/mid 20s] Boyfriend insults me quite a lot (jokingly says I'm dumb, etc). Not sure if this is a problem or not.
POST: Hey, so here's the deal. My boyfriend and I generally have a good relationship. We never really fought about anything, except maybe once or twice over the cou... | Boyfriend is a nice guy, but insults me a lot and I'm not sure if this is a problem or not. Talking about it didn't help. Looking for advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] with my GF [23F] of 2 years, I turn 21 in 3 hours..need helP!
POST: Ill make this short. I turn 21 in 3 hours and my GF of 2 years is getting a limo and invited 2 of my friends and 5 of hers. She know's i don't like her friends and i don't like clubs. She is taking me to a cas... | GF taking me somewhere i don't want to go on my birthday with her friends i don't like. She knows this. Is it wrong of me to not want to go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My friend [18F] has started a LDR with an older guy [30'sM] half-way across the world and wants to visit him
POST: I've been friends with Alice [18, F] for a few years, but I've moved away this year, so we haven't been in as much contact. She's 18, she's studying Korean, and is obsesse... | Friend has a LDR with a much older guy who lives half-way around the world. What's in it for him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The lack of equality in sharing the housework in our relationship is making me strongly rethink marriage.
POST: Hi there, I am experiencing a relationship issue which I'm sure commonly plagues couples in committed relationships, so i'm looking for someone to help me rationalise my feel... | my partner's reluctance to help me with housework despite the significant mental toll it places on me is causing me to not want to marry him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I (23/M) take my girlfriends (20/F) emotions more seriously?
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months. About 1.5 months ago she moved back home and I found a job about 45 minutes away from her. The distance hasn't been much of a problem but we went fr... | Girlfriend of 9 months went from seeing each other everyday to a few days a week. Does not think I care about her emotions and thinks I am always making it about me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by accidentally causing my whole building to evacuate.
POST: So I was just sat there eating lunch at my desk like I always do when someone busts into the main office and says. "Oh my God, can anyone smell that Gas smell".
Everyone could smell it, and it had been circulating the building t... | I gassed the entire building with my soup and caused an evacuation and people only realised because I took my lunch with me outside. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey, Reddit. Did I get friendzoned?
POST: Okay, so I'm in 9th grade, and transferred to a new school about a month ago. In the time since then, I have become close with an amazing girl who I'd love to be with. Unfortunately, it came to my attention today that even before I started at the s... | A bitch got in the way of an otherwise happy relationship, and my gal told me we should be less public about our affection. Did I get friendzoned? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34/F] with my new Neighbors [40's M&F] of 3 months, constantly have horrible/loud fights with their kids in he house
POST: I live on a shared piece of property where there is a main house [duplex] and my cottage. The houses are fairly close together but are separate structures.
A... | New neighbors fighting EXTREMELY loud while young children present yelling for them to stop. I really don't want to involve police. Should I confront them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: should i [m/23] contact her[f/22] again ?
POST: I just want a little advice here regarding a girl and the possible one-night stand i had with her the other night. She is a friend of a friend, we have several mutual friends, and i met her for the first time less than a week ago at a b... | = had one night stand with a girl. i liked it, want to meet up again, but i dunno if i should rock the boat.... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [26M] girlfriend [23F] is mad at me for an interaction I had with a young woman the other day (and apparently that's not all).
POST: The other day, my girlfriend and I were going to one of our favorite restaurants to eat. It was crowded, as usual, so we were waiting for our table. W... | My girlfriend left to stay with a friend after she took a waitresses side after the waitress yelled at me. How do I go about getting an apology from her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [30M] am confused with my "relationship" with [20F] friend/co-worker.
POST: I am trying to figure out what to do, if anything at all, about a strange friendship that has developed with a much younger co-worker. We met over a year ago but for the last 7 months we have had a secret fri... | Have feelings for a friend, not sure if she has same feeling as she says it would make things complicated but acts like she wants more. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24M] partner expects me [24F] to taxi him everywhere and refuses to learn to drive.
POST: We've been together a few years now, and this has been going on for most of that time. While I usually do not mind driving him around to his appointments, he has come to totally expect it and ... | BF refuses to learn to drive, and expects me to be his taxi, getting argumentative and manipulative when I refuse to do it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27F] with my [29 M] 10 years, breaking up because of children vs no children
POST: my boyfriend and i have been together for ten years (since i was 17 and he was 19) and we have what i would describe as a strong and happy (for the most part) relationship. we have owned a house for ... | how do i know if my boyfriend of 10 years really wants children or is just grasping at straws to keep me around? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: I [28/M] on NC with ex [25/F], but last night I dreamt of her and feel like crap
POST: We broke up a year ago, but I forced NC from her about 3 months ago. Things have been getting better for me. Though of her less, missed her less, and overall she's become more of a stranger to me. I kn... | Had dream of ex hooking up with someone, feel like crap. Fishing for kind words to not feel like crap over stupid dream. Sorry. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years, she made a new guy friend and for the last week, she has constantly been texting him. What signs should I look for if our relationship is going to fail?
POST: My girlfriend and I are both full time college and we live together. I have a f... | Girlfriend made a new guy friend in one of her classes and has been texting him all day and night and has cut down texting me. What are some signs that are obvious indicators that our relationship might fail? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Is it really possible to know whether you'll like a job if you've never worked in it?
POST: As the title says, I am looking for some serious mentoring on how to set my career objectives. I'm 24, have just found my first real job with a livable salary in sales. But the profession really gets on ... | first real job, hating the profession, studying on the side to prepare for another profession that I have no idea if I'll like, looking for advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [20f] worried about pursuing a guy [23m] because I don't know what he sees in me
POST: I met a guy about 3 weeks ago at a gaming event, and we hit it off instantly. We spent a few hours talking, got each other's screen names, played online together and just had a blast. We go... | Why does someone like him want to date someone like me? I would rate him a solid 8.5-9 where as I feel like a 5.5-6 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [21F] for 6 months, got in a fight and broke up, need advice.
POST: So here's what happend, I'll leave the backstory out of it. So we're in a LDR and talk daily, obviously this will higher the chance of fights so the neccesary amount of fights have taken pl... | Girlfriend refused to say get well soon about my mom, i got mad because personality is number 1 for me so i deleted her off everything |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I Found Out My[28M] Wife[24F] Discusses Our Every Argument With her Friends.
POST: Reddit, my wife of 5 years discusses every small argument we have with her friends and family and I feel this will eventually kill our relationship due to unforseen resentment. Or maybe we're already pas... | Found out wife has been back chatting our arguments to her friends and sisters. Feel hurt and want to confront her, but don't have much faith in feeling she will understand. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by saying soggy biscuit in front of my teacher's
POST: This occurred earlier today before my history lesson. If you guy's don't know what soggy biscuit is click on this link for the definition:
Background: I am your typical Asian guy. My history teacher already thinks I am weird because ... | Said I wanted to play soggy biscuit, teacher heard me, now thinks I am weirder than before |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 F] trying to connect with my estranged father [30 M] and it doesn't seem to be working
POST: I was basically a mistake. You can extrapolate how old he was when I was born from the ages up there and my mother was only a bit older. My mother basically died in childbirth and my fat... | I'm trying and failing to connect with my father who has been absent pretty much my entire life and I have no idea how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[21 F] just got dumped by my [22 M] boyfriend of three years because his parents are racist
POST: So this is a throwaway for obvious reasons. I had been dating my now ex-boyfriend for three years and not only did we graduate on Thursday, but he broke up with me because his parents tho... | Ex broke up with me because his parents didn't like the fact that I'm black and not Jewish. I've been crying for what seems like an eternity and I have no appetite :( |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My best friend of 6 years is being emotionally destroyed by a "man", and I fear if she doesn't leave him she'll be physically destroyed too.
POST: She's been dating him for a year and a half, she is nearly 20 and he is nearly 23. When he gets angry because she's doing something he doesn't ... | best friend is in a controlling/emotionally abusive relationship and it's destroying her life. what can i do to help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: PLUR Bitch
POST: Back story so this girl whose an acquaintance lets call her B is all about her rave lifestyle and is sooooo proud of her not so accurate knowledge of every kind of drug. (she said it took years to grow a pot plant but the fine fellas at r/microgrowery would gladly disagre... | Raver gets feisty because i don't rave and wore a spirit hood and runs everywhere saying plur without backing it up |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My asian, single mother [63F] is controlling my[21F] life and I have no idea what to do.
POST: My mother is Chinese and my father died when I was 9. I have no siblings or extended family and my mother is the only thing I have. She has always controlled my life, banning me from going ou... | My controlling asian mum will disown me if she finds out I am dating someone. I have no idea what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18m] don't know if I should text this girl [16f]. Please help, I'm new to this!!!!
POST: So a mutual friend put me on with this girl and everything was cool, we texted for about 2 weeks. Then she told me she doesn't want to talk (leading-to-relationship-talk, not normal talk) to me ... | Girl broke it off with me to be friends and then asked me on a date. Should I ask if she did it for romantic or Platonic reasons? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Getting a US Passport... under strange circumstances?
POST: So my mom was born in the US, ergo US citizen. She moved to Canada some (30+) years ago and married my dad(Canadian). In '98 my dad filed for US citizenship.
2000 we moved to Florida (minus my dad, papers hadnt come through, we ... | my mom stopped paying taxes when she moved out of the US despite their requests, will she encounter any trouble getting a passport to visit the US again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Thanks Dane cook, petty revenge ensues.
POST: My step dad is a lazy, no good bum. Sure, he works all day and helps with a couple bills, but when he is home, he vedges on the couch, drinks beer all night and is no fun to be around. He lives on the TV, expects everyone to cater to him onc... | Step dad lives on the TV, he's an asshole, so I switched the good batteries with used ones that are dead. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What advice can I [26M] do give to help my little brother [16M] with his social anxiety?
POST: Sorry for any formatting or spelling issue, I'm typing this up on mobile. My little brother has always been kind is shy. At least, I always thought it was just shyness. He seemed pretty outgo... | Little brother with social anxiety doesn't want to do science fair. Want to convince him it's a good idea without being the "preachy older brother" |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My 26 YO [F] girlfriend of almost a year thinks I'm 25 YO [M] immature for playing Pokemon Go
POST: My girlfriend is away on a business trip. She called me to talk to me about the dinner she went on with some of her co-workers. Apparently, one of her co-workers was hitting on her, some... | I mentioned Pokemon Go at the wrong time, and it upset the girlfriend who said I'm "too immature for a relationship" |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My younger brother's [12] destructive behavior is driving myself [21/f] and my family crazy.
POST: Between semesters in college I tend to go home,see my friends,get a job,and whatnot. Ever since I graduated from high school I have noticed this giant problem. My younger brother ke... | My younger brother breaks/ruins everything in the house,but nothing is being done. What should I do? Should I even do anything? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27F] friends say I use my phone too much when we go out [Non-romantic]
POST: I recently got upset because I was scolded for using my phone when socializing two of my friends. I really didn't think I was being rude or anti-social because they didn't tell me till later that they were... | Bruised ego. Friends say I am on my phone too much in one-on-one or small social situations. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] broke up with my GF [25 F] of 2 years, paid for everything, not sure whether it's a good idea to ask for my money back
POST: EDIT: well thanks guys, that's been very useful, just got to bite the bullet and get on with life, thanks for the help!
We got together when she had j... | Paid for rent and food for girlfriend for long time because she was ill, now she's better she has left me, should I ask for the money back? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (25M) have been seeing a widow (25F), its been nearly a year now. Just curious for some advice/maybe insight?
POST: So I have been seeing a girl now for nearly a year. She is semi recently widowed, about 2-3 years now. When we started talking is was all like nothing was wrong. We tal... | Started dating a widow, things went normal for away, stopped considered us being together, now have almost not talks after continuing talks. She pushing me out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is this plagiarism?
POST: So I work as a helpdesk person at a University. During my shift, a student asks me to help him with a webpage he's doing for a class (and I have taken this class in the past), so I go on over and help make his code half decent. Now, he's using a computer in the la... | I accidentally killed guys website file, so I redid it for him and am wondering if I was right to do so. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How long do I wait? .. Should I wait?
POST: My ex and I are both mid/ late twenties and broke up about 2 months ago, from a 3 year relationship. We broke up due to communication issues- he wasn't very good with getting across the way he felt and that led us to get into many point... | Ex boyfriend that I still love wants to get back together, but not now. I'm unsure whether to wait or just move on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Do i have a right?
POST: So I've been seeing a girl for just around a month now, we haven't entered an official relationship but have come as far as sleeping together and talking on the phone frequently. IAmA 26 m she is a 23 f. One night while drinking she said she was asked by ... | Dating a girl for a month who was asked by her ex bf of 2 years to go to a wedding with her. Do i have a right to say yes or no? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do you feel about your SO dancing with other people at a club?
POST: Me (F22) and my bf (M21) have been in a long distance relationship for the past five months (will stop being long distance in about a month). He feels like it's OK to dance with other people (that's how his last r... | In a LDR, Boyfriend wants to be able to dance with girls when he goes out with his friends to clubs, I think it's disrespectful and he shouldn't want to. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] can't seem to get over a little "thing" my girlfriend [18 F] had over the summer while I was back home
POST: I met this girl at the beginning of my freshman year of college. Started dating, everything's perfect. Summer rolls along and I go home and everything continues to be p... | girlfriend made a guy friend that's "just a friend" while I've been gone for summer break. Nothing serious but it bothers me. Thoughts/opinions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Short term career/academic advice question
POST: Basically a question about where I should take my summer as a college student studying industrial engineering. I recently got a job at company doing work in a department that isn't my field. Nothing spectacular, just data entry. The last se... | Should I quit my data entry job irrelevant to my field or reduce my courses that would prevent me from graduating in a timely manner? |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: People who transferred between universities (not CC to university) one or more times, why did you decide to switch and – in retrospect – how do you feel about your decision?
POST: First, I have no desire to transfer, so you needn't talk me into or out of anything. That being said, I *always*... | my poorly informed opinion is that sometimes transferring between schools is precipitated by unhappiness with one's current school, and that in some cases this might just be a consequence of not liking college life itself, rather than a particular school |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Being made redundant at my work, I drew a picture for them that they're using for the cover [AUS]
POST: Hi LegalAdvice, my current situation is that I've worked for my current employer as a receptionist for nearly 3 years and about a month ago I drew them a picture to be used as the cove... | should my employer pay to use my drawings on the cover of a magazine if I'm no longer employed? Will I be burning bridges? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Self-Employed and Mortgages
POST: **Goal**: Husband(24M) and I(24F) want to purchase a house before our lease is up in July 2016.
**Given**: We have a combined income of around $72,000. We currently have $24,000 in savings and can put away at least $2,000 per month. That will leave ... | I am self employed. Husband and I want to buy a house next year. What should we do to make banks want to give us a loan? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the Craziest/Most Depressing/Most Awkward Wedding you have ever attended?
POST: I once went to the wedding of a friend of my ex. It was a renaissance themed wedding at a renaissance fair. Everyone was dressed very nice, but it was pouring rain. They had to move the party to a picni... | Rained out Ren. Fair themed wedding. Groom meets Bride's Mother 10 minutes before the wedding starts! Awkward Hilarity ensues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: So I slept with her (update)...
POST: [Backstory](
So we'd been in a relationship since then (for the last 10 months), but it has just finished, we agreed that we are just not compatible.
She said I'm not letting her into my life. It's true, I'm quite an introverted and private perso... | slept with co-worker, got dragged into a relationship I disliked which hurt both of us and I somehow came out of it looking like an asshole, I should have followed your advice reddit |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [27M] girlfriend's [25F] mom[late 50s] is involved in Multi-Level Marketing(MLM). I am concerned. How do I approach this?
POST: I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now, and lived together for half of that time. Today, she texts me asking if I want any free stuff from co... | Long-term relationship girlfriend's mother appears to be involved in MLM. She might be getting scammed. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Having trouble disconnecting from (F/23). Its putting me (M/24) into depression or nearing that point.
POST: First: We have not seen each other for about 4 months because of traveling.
Long story short; we have never dated due to life circumstances (AKA distance and life plans p... | Not sure if I should remove someone completely from my life or try to enjoy what time we have left before she moves. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is he still interested?
POST: [f] 20. We met last weekend.
So I went to my friend's party last weekend and met a really cool guy. We just talked for the whole time, about half way through he started holding my hand, just casual. We ended up just talking and holding hands the whole nig... | Met a really cool guy at a party. Casual holding hands, spooning, sleeping (no hooking up) getting numbers next morning. Doesn't text me after a week, is he still interested? Should I text him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Did I just make a "creep" move?
POST: I met this girl earlier this year while looking to buy a used car from someone off Craigslist. I was with my mother and her dad was selling the car. We were at their house so while the parents were talking about paperwork, the girl and I made small... | Met a girl over the summer. Talked a bit. Ran into her a few times at school. Decided to add her on facebook and sent her a message. She hasn't replied. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25M] with my [24F] wife of 2 years, long distance temporarily and need help relating
POST: Hello,
My wife and I have to be apart/long-distance for the next three months for work reasons. We will be reunited physically at the end of the time, and this is not on our calendar again an... | My wife and I are long-distance for three months, and we need help improving our verbal skills since our sex can't fill in as a crutch anymore. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've (27m) been with my girlfriend (28f) for 8 years, We have 2 kids, but I'm not happy, what should I do?
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for 8 years now, we have 2 children but I'm just not happy,
I now she loves me to bits and would be devastated if I left and her, but the feeli... | I've been with my girlfriend for 8 years, We have 2 kids, but I'm not happy, what should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My extended family [60s M/F] is hosting me [26 F] for a weekend, what do you gift people who have everything?
POST: My extended family lives thirty minutes outside of a major city that I am traveling to. I used to live there and see them quite frequently but I moved to a lower cost are... | Traveling to major city known for ridiculous prices - aunt and uncle are going to host me for two days but are high middle class people with everything. What do you gift them as a thank you? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34F] with my roommate[26F], she have dissapeared and Im not sure what I should do.
POST: About 2 month ago, a girl that I know had some issue with her previous roommate and needed to leave asap. She asked me if I could welcome her.
She went last week to go see her family, in Onta... | Roommate have dissapeared, no contact or news. No info on her familly or friends. She was to suppose to be back 48 hours ago. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Asset allocation question for retirement, need to buy bonds
POST: I think I know the right thing to do here, but I want to double check. I'm rereading the Bogleheads' Guide to Investing now that it makes more sense to me, but I think I already have the answer.
I'm 27 years old. I ha... | I'm overweighting stocks in my portfolio right now, should I rebalance now to buy more bonds, even though bonds aren't a great deal at the moment? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: It's been over a year since my [20M] ex [20F] broke up with me. Thought I was over her, saw her again. Everything flooded back.
POST: She brought up the idea of hanging out for coffee or something, a few months over a year after she broke up with me. Honestly, I thought I was well over... | Thought I was over my ex, but I'm not. Hung out with her, realized I'm still madly in love with her, now I have no idea what the hell I am supposed to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it ok for me to not see my girlfriend three days in a row? Because apparently it's not...
POST: We've been dating for almost two years. I'm 27/M and she is also 27.
I was sick on Monday and Tuesday so I didn't see her. Last night we had a softball game and I saw her for a bit ther... | My gf is mad that I won't come over for dinner bc I made plans to watch the game with the guys. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Aughh!! How the hell does one get snakes out of their yard?
POST: So I have an irrational fear of snakes. Just something about them freaks the hell out of me. A couple years back I saw a garter snake in my yard. Startled me, because I had just stepped out of my front door and there it was ... | version: I, a grown man who is afraid of snakes, is reasonably sure there is a snakes den somewhere in his yard. Anyone have any recommendations on getting rid of them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: First date with a girl who can't be around most people: What do we do?
POST: (Throwaway account) Some background:
We're both students in a university of a fairly large city and living in dorms. I dated her suite-mate a year ago but we parted later that year. The whole time I've been ... | Going on a first date with a girl who is chemically sensitive and doesn't always do well in large groups of people. Need ideas for a safe date where she can be without her mask and have a good time. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Credit card balance still exceeds the original limit....10 years later! Help!
POST: My wife has a credit card that she opened through a small credit union 10 years ago. She opened it at the bank's suggestion when she started an auto loan with them. She was young, and let the prospect... | Wife has an old credit card that has an enormous balance compared to its initial limit. It's almost all fees. Anything that can be done? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I don't know how to connect with my roommate, and he comes into the dorm crying late at night sometimes
POST: Because of annoying housing things, I am a freshman in college and my roommate is an upperclassman. He seems nice and reads a lot of fantasy books and seems like a cool person, bu... | My roommate was crying and might be having a hard time, I don't really know why, I don't know how to connect, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24M] in love with my female friend [29F] should i confront her or move on?
POST: this is my story with my female friend.
we met 4 years ago, we were roomates for 6 month, since the first time i saw her visit the place i was attracted to her but since we were roomates i got friend... | am i in love with my female friend to the point the i can't be with another woman or move on in life should i move on ? |
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