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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23f] found out my boyfriend [30m] of 1 year was married in the past. Should I tell him I know? POST: Hi, Reddit! So... pretty much explained the situation in the title. I found out a few months ago that my boyfriend was in a decade-long marriage in the past. (Being 23, I have n...
Found out boyfriend was in a marriage in the past that ended badly. Should I tell him I know so he doesn't have to worry about it, or let sleeping dragons lie?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [31M] with my gf [28F] 2 months, Learning to adapt to someone who occasionally works abroad POST: LDRs have never been anything I would have seriously considered, but in this case it came as apart of the package. My new GF (started dating mid-dec), who is pretty amazing, left two w...
GF goes away for work, usually for a couple of weeks a quarter, but sometimes for up to two months. How do you adjust from a close proximity relationship to an LDR one?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Dependent, depressive GF (30F) POST: I've been with my girlfriend (30F) for almost 2 years now. She's had issues with depression for most of that time. We get along very well and have great talks, she just can't find the motivation to do anything when she's having a depressive ep...
I feel like I do everything for both of us due to her unemplyment and health issues. How do I talk about this? Is there any hope?
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: They say pity parties accomplish nothing, but I think it feels good to let it out sometimes. POST: I'll share my little pity party and if you have one you've been bottling up just let it out. My girlfriend of 18 months and I broke up last night and it was really hard, we just weren't meant to b...
Got ditched by friends at a football game after a break up. Stand at the football game alone the whole time at a time when I really could use a friend.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19M] with my girlfriend [20F] may be moving too fast. "I love you after a month?" POST: I have been seeing this girl for about six weeks now. We moved into the same apartment building and attend the same university. I met her on one of the first days living there and we clicked ver...
So is one month to fast for "I love you?" And now that the honeymoon phase is over so fast, where do we go? I've never been this far and I think I arrived way way to quickly.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25F] have a major crush on my coworker [late20sM] but anxiety is holding me back POST: A little backstory: I'm very friendly with a few of my coworkers and one of them I started to become interested in. We text a lot, almost daily, and hang out fairly regularly. One time, we were su...
I'm majorly interested in my coworker, but he's so obtuse and my anxiety is taking over.
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: How to go about losing weight when living at your parents place? POST: Hi guys! I'm a 20 y/o female that is 5'6 tall and currently at 142lbs. I started my weight loss journey just over two and a half weeks ago and have lost 6 pounds so far :). I'm not overweight and I know that, but I was not...
Live at parents place, eat calorie dense dinners about twice a week. Want to know what's the best way to handle this while losing weight.v
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my Girlfriend [17 F] 9 months, nothing makes sense POST: So quick summary of the past: I come to this new private christian school after they heard about some stuff at my military school. They send me about half way through the year to this new christian school. I am not...
Girl is not christian, her mom is, forces her away from me. I`m not sure what to do.
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Ear canal infection to ear pressure? [Any advice welcome!] POST: First, let me apologize for the wall of text. I'm a 23 year old female with no history of ear infections. 2 weeks ago I was using a Q-tip in my left year and I heard the weirdest noise and suddenly a lot of pain. I thought mayb...
There's no longer an ear infection in my ear, however there's ear pressure that's driving me nuts. Help!
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend [19] saying I've [18] "changed" even though she's the one who has been getting distant. POST: My girlfriend of one year has been growing very distant since about a month ago. Not talking to me, hugs, ect. Whenever I try talking to her or try to understand what is going on s...
Girlfriend acting weird. Says it's because I've changed/don't love her anymore. Why is she acting like this? (willing to answer any questions asked if you need more info btw)
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [20] having trouble with unrealistic expectations and pushing my boyfriend [19] away when they are not fulfilled. POST: I'm a 20 year old guy, dating a 19 year old guy. I'm having trouble with having tons of unrealistic expectations for our relationship. Have been together for 4 mo...
I have unrealistic expectations for my boyfriend and when they don't get fulfilled, I push him away even more. How can I fix this?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Knee pain. Outside of the leg, under the kneecap pain when jumping/running. POST: Right knee, not the patellar tendon, but just to the right of it. My physiotherapist mentioned that I may need to strengthen my adductor when I was getting treatment for my patellar tendon. Now the pain has mov...
Jumping/running causes discomfort. Right knee, under the kneecap and just to the right. Need exercises to resolve this issue.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (19F) mom told me that my uncle cheated on my aunt years ago and I don't know how to handle that information POST: To make a long story short: My mom and I got into a huge discussion about infidelity and somehow my uncle was brought up. I did not know he cheated on my aunt, who is s...
My mom told me that my uncle (her brother) cheated on my aunt years ago. Aunt doesn't know. I don't know how to live with this information. I feel so guilty.
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Help with light bulbs and electricity (is my wiring borked?) POST: Ok, so last night the lights in my bedroom went out. They've been there since I bought my house (first house woo!). All the lights went out too, so I assumed a bulb blew. So I trudged into my cellar and flipped the lights f...
Light bulbs blew, replacement light bulbs aren't lighting up. I don't know what's wrong. (This is in the UK)
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: She (21F) wants me (21m) to "take it slow." POST: Alright so I just got involved with this girl last weekend, but now I'm kind of confused. To elaborate, we met while drinking with some mutual friends, had an amazing time. I walked her home, even got a goodbye kiss at the door. That ...
New dating interest wants me to go "tortoise slow"and I'm not sure how, or if its worth it to.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] and FWB [27M], need advice about how to approach him about condoms POST: There is this man I've known casually for a few months, he's in and out of town for work. This past weekend we had sex for the first time. There was alcohol involved and we didn't use a condom. The rest...
didn't use condoms first time having sex with friend, but want to continue, but need advice on condom talk, I'm awkward as hell.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by literally scaring the shit out of my dog. POST: It was my dad actually. I got a brand new puppy, was super stoked, and wanted to show him off to my parents. So I take him over to my parents' place, he is adorable, super playful, and my family are dog people, so, naturally, they love him...
my dad was chasing my pup, snuck up on him, and scared him so bad that the dog sprayed shit water everywhere.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M21) need help with something my dad (M51) about the new girl (F22) in my life. POST: Sorry in advance I'm posting this from my phone. I recently started talking to a new girl. By recently I mean 2 weeks ago. Anyway we decided to finally meet each other for the first time. Now me a...
Met a new girl for the first time. Had sex. Dad trying to tell me to leave her alone cause she is a whore. Need advice. We both just have really high libidos. Plus I really like her.
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Anybody think they have the worst luck ever? POST: I know there are worse situations that people went through, but my friend always jokes that I have the worst luck ever. I want to share my stories/I want to hear your stories. First of all I'm accident prone(well I'm kind of clumsy, but s...
Gets into frequent car accidents, went through some SH*T. I might have a bad luck. Share your stories!
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19M] Girlfriend [18F] of 1 year is telling me that our sexual relationship was non-consensual. POST: When I got into the relationship with my girlfriend, she told me that I was her first ever boyfriend. She asked me to take it slowly with her, so I did. It was about 5 months befor...
Girlfriend says she's not interested in sexual contact after 7 months of non-PIV sexual relationship, wat do?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Texting can make it too easy POST: Hey R_A. I received this text today and have been going back and forth in my head on how/if I should respond. **Just a little background:** -We broke up 4 or 5 months ago after a relationship going on 4 years. -Reason for breaking up was be...
GF of 4 years and I broke up. 3 months later, no communication, thanks to me. Receive this text. May still have feelings for her? Wat do, reddit?*
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: To be friends or not to be friends? That us the question. POST: Me [21] ex [22] bi. She dumped me about a month ago due to not being happy and feeling like I've stolen her independence. We still talk n text each other nearly everyday keeping things plutonic to a point. I'm still cut up...
ex wants to be friends and have sex, I want to work on our relationship through being friends first. Still not over her. She's over me.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by walking on ice POST: This TIFU actually happened few hours ago I was with my girlfriend on a walk after we ate together, and even tho it was cold, we thought it would be fun to walk together and speak as we oftenly do, we ended up in a nice place with tree and some kind of a river (we...
Walking with my girlfriend, there was almost all frozen river, stepped on it, felt in, soaked from my foot to under my knee, stood one hour with my half leg all soaked and cold.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[20M] with a girl i met through friends [21F] do i repulse her? POST: Firstly let me say i'm hopelessly insecure, pathetic etc etc, this doesn't need to be pointed out to be. I went out to a bar with a few close friends of mine, and they brought some girls that they knew - who i did...
i met a girl at a bar, everything was great, someguy asked us if were together and she laughed at me and said no - i think she hates me
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend has told me he isn't certain that he would never cheat on me. Healthy or not? POST: M27 F29 My boyfriend of 9 months has recently told me that he is unsure that he would never cheat on me. He has also been voicing his opinion on bringing another girl into our sexual lives ...
my boyfriend doesn't know if he won't cheat on me in the future, doesn't want sex but watches porn and hides it. I feel like the unstable one for having anxiety over this.
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Met a guy at the bar last night who works at my dream job and who offered to put a word in for me - but I want to move to another city POST: So I met kind of a crazy guy last night at the bar. He kept going on about how awesome and amazing I am. I mean, I'm a pretty great person, but I know ...
Opportunity for a great job in a place where I don't want to live. Possibility of a recommendation from a rather overenthusiastic guy - what should I do?
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Question about normal toddler behavior POST: I have a friend who has a 3.5 year old daughter. My own child is eight, so it has been awhile since I have dealt with toddlers. I know that toddlers and morals don't really go hand in hand, but at what point is a lack of morals considered abno...
Friend's toddler does violent, destructive, and hurtful things and never shows regret or remorse for her actions. I'm wondering how normal this is?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advice on how to be more easygoing, selfless, and stop being an asshole to everyone. Me [21M] with my friends and girlfriend [20s M/F]. POST: I have been blessed with a wonderful girlfriend and friends and family that care about me. But I have problems such as selfishness, insecur...
I need advice on how to stop being an asshole, stop being selfish, and start loving others all the time and overall being a nice easygoing guy.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20/m) think I fucked up my relationship with my (20/f) girlfriend of three years. POST: Hey reddit, so I am trying to find an unbiased opinion. So recently my girlfriend and I have not been having very much sex, which is okay since we only get to see each other on the weekends. Unfo...
I asked my girlfriend of three years if she was bi. This made her depressed and I don't know if I actually did something wrong.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Starting over. I need help please. POST: 30f here. Throw away account. Short back story: Divorced in the middle of last year. Married 3 years total. I left him. Felt like a mother and not a lover and he wasn't ever going to change. It's my own fault and I admit it was a mistake...
Kinda recently divorced. New guy in picture. Looking for things that remind me of my past relationship. Getting a bit freaked out.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update 2: My girlfriend (f20) just broke up with me (m20) 2 1/2 years POST: First post and TL;DR:
thought we got back together, girlfriend says otherwise, I tell her to be more clear and communicate with me if she wants to fix things, she's now getting drunk at a party.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my good friend/FWB [28M] 3.5 years, he's lied to me with really obvious lies. POST: So, we're FWBs but he has also called me his best friend, and I think that he's one of my best friends as well. We are very close and he plays an active role in my life. I can call him for...
FWB and very good friend just lied to me of his whereabouts, im disappointed and wallowing in my stupidity. What do, reddit?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: [SERIOUS] Reddit, how do you help a family member through depression? POST: More specifically, how can I help my siblings through their depression? **Story time for those interested:** *Using a throwaway because almost everyone I know, knows my username.* At least one member of my famil...
Our entire family is being torn apart by depression. Have you ever dealt with this? How can my family get through this?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [35 M] girlfriend [31 F] went out for "work drinks" last night. Didn't come home til 3am. Work finishes at 6. POST: We live together. We've had some rocky times recently, and this week was our first week back together, 'trying to do things differently'. Showing each other that we re...
Girlfriend last night chose tearing it up with her co-workers over coming home to spend time with me. Feel pretty marginalized and looking for perspective and insight of all flavors.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help me, veterans of LTR's, you're my only hope. POST: So my SO (27, M) and I (24, F) live together. We have been together a year and a few months. We have had a very difficult summer, starting with job loss (him), moving in together(to my hometown. neither of us has lived with an SO...
My live-in SO and I are coming through a major dark period, he's depressed, I want to show support without crowding him. How?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] friend [26M] seems to have feelings for me. Help! POST: First off, let me being by saying that I am in a happy relationship and have been since I met this guy. I was new to the area (moved to be with my SO), and it has been very hard. He works a lot and I didn't get to see hi...
My only friend in a new town now has feelings for me and plans to purse me despite me being in a happy relationship. I'm torn between staying friends and disregarding his feelings and cutting all ties and being alone again.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] discovered that my GF [18F] keeps really creepy memorabilia associated with me. POST: I'm really distraught at the moment but I'll try to stay coherent. I've known my current girlfriend essentially since we were born. We grew up as neigbors until my family moved away when I wa...
Found a box of werid me memorabilia in my gf's room, including a used condom. Should I break up with her?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Semi-NSFW] Should I [19M] tell my girlfriend of 3+ years [19F] whom I live with that I watch hentai? I'm worried that it might cause her self-esteem issues and emotional distress, but I also feel obligated to tell her. POST: Some time ago, my girlfriend and I had a discussion about po...
girlfriend said she really dislikes porn but also mentioned she didn't find hentai to be very weird, do I tell her?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: A hypothetical: What if the 99% abstained from voting in the 2012 election? POST: What would be the ramifications of almost the entire nation refusing to cast a vote in the presidential race of 2012? Would this be enough to withdraw our [consent] How would our State Representatives vote...
If we assume that the political institutions of the U.S. are fractured, can we take aim at rattling its foundations by refusing to take part in our own governance?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He (26m) told me (25f) he would marry his cousin if he was single in a few years. What? POST: We've been together a year and a half. He's Muslim, I'm not. He doesn't practice but does respect his parents and go with them to anything related as well as family events. They're very Americ...
Muslim bf who isn't practicing said he would marry his cousin to please his parents if he couldn't find a girl he wanted. They talk and it's weirding me out.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by plugging a laptop charger into a portable vacuum. POST: The roommate and I decided it was a good idea to charge our vacuum (one of those tiny handheld ones) with a laptop charger that conveniently fit inside of the charging port! Everything was normal for about an hour, and then we star...
used a powerful laptop charger on a shitty vacuum and made black smoke and a terrible plastic smell fill and linger in my room, almost reaching combustion.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] 1 year, concerning trust over intrusive guy POST: I have an amazing girlfriend lets call Emily in high school and we are inseparable, we barely ever fight, always have a great time and she is nearly perfect in every way. We have a very strong relatio...
Girlfriend is talking to guy who has long time crush on her and he is both mean + flirty with her.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] broke up with my GF [22F] of 4 years and got a handjob from another woman soon after. Regret it all and want my GF back. POST: Hi Reddit. I recently broke up with my long-term girlfriend, for a number of reasons (which I now see were bullshit, and just me looking for excuses t...
Broke up with GF, then hooked up with someone else. Now want to get back with her - how do I tell her?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25F) am unsure whether to write a letter to my father who abandoned me when I was six. POST: When I was six, my father left my family in the middle of the night, taking most of the money and the only car. I had eventually learned that he was cheating on my mom with another woman. I ...
May have found out where my father, who abandoned me, lives. I am unsure if it's a good a idea to write a letter towards him venting my feelings and asking why.
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Issues with controlling parents I'm a 21 year old guy. POST: Often times it's just an issue with my mom or grandmother as my step dad is usually pretty relaxed about most stuff, every now and then I spend maybe a week at a friend's house and I get yelled at through text often while I do so ab...
controlling parents won't let me do anything without permission or I risk getting yelled at constantly. I'm a 21 year old guy in college.
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: A dead friend's ex girlfriend is leaving annoying posts on his Facebook Page. Should I say anything? POST: The backstory: A good friend of mine passed away in Dec due to cardiac arrest, he had pulmonary hypertension. (33 y.o) Three years ago, he met the love of his life, until the dumb...
A girl who cheated on my friend who passed away is leaving annoying Facebook posts on his page. I can see thru her B.S. What should I do?
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: [Advice] Found out an incompetent coworker is making more than I am, how should I go about asking for a raise? POST: This week, two unpleasantly surprising things were brought to my attention regarding my compensation at work. 1. A friend at work discovered the internal guidelines for salari...
Shitty~~ Underachieving coworker is making a lot more than me and doing a lot less work. Found out that my salary is a lot lower than the internal guidance. How do I fix this?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21M] brother [11M] wants me to work on his YouTube videos at the expense of my own POST: I have a YouTube channel and have been working on a fairly large project for the past few weeks. My brother wants to start a YouTube channel and put out gaming videos every day like his favorit...
Brother is impatient for me to work on his videos, I want to help him but also get my own projects done, can't communicate that to him.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Stop me from falling in love. POST: I'm (21M) afraid that I'm going to fall in love with my co-worker (24F), and I don't want to. Normally, I have no problem maintaining relationships with both men and women, but this specific set of circumstances is making me uneasy. My coworker who ...
Well be spending a lot of time with a girl and I want to be sure that I don't develop romantic feelings and ruin out friendship.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21/f] with my (kind of) ex[21/m] He wants to do everything but be in a relationship POST: So I'm going to make this super long story as short as possible. Basically he broke up with me after a year, out of the blue, because of personal problems. Things were pretty shit for ages bu...
The only thing not 'relationshipy' about our relationship is the title, but he would rather cut off everything than to date me. This has been going on too long
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (Update) Me [27 f] with my boyfriend [25 m] of two years have a 4 month old son. I have been living with my [33 m] friend for the past 8 months. POST: My [first post] didn't go over too well here and didn't get much visibility, but I wanted to update and make some things clear anyway. ...
Talked to Dan more and talked to Josh. Will be filing for child support and letting Josh see his son so he can get to know him and working on being reasonable with each other for the sake of our son.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF [23 F] caused a huge fight, she is stubborn and wont apologise but I [23 M] don't want it to become an even bigger issue, how do I put a stop to it? POST: I could make this a long post but I guess the background of the fight itself isn't that important. Essentially, she treated m...
how do I stop a fight that I didn't really cause from becoming a bigger issue than it possibly is?? What sort of approach do I take with someone who is very defensive?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can anyone help me find a job in Germany? POST: I'm an American and I have been searching for a job in Germany for about half a year without any luck. Though it may sound stupid, the reason I want to work and move over there is to be with my girlfriend. Love makes you do lots of stupid thi...
I need help finding a job in Germany near Munich or Augsburg where I can earn €800 a month so I can finally live with my German girlfriend and live my dream.
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I could use some opinions here to help my g/f. POST: This is the first time I've ever gone to reddit for ideas, but I think I might be able to get some good ideas since I think a decent amount of redditors work/have worked in the restaurant industry. So my g/f works for a corporat...
corporate restaurant manager likely retroactively cut the hours my g/f worked for so that she can work a busy holiday without being on OT.
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: My landlord let someone enter my apartment with absolutely no notice. (US, IL, not Chicago) POST: Sorry for the wall of text! I was getting ready for work on Friday, when I had a knock on my door, which I almost didn't answer because I wasn't expecting anyone. Anyways, it was an elec...
Landlord had electrician enter my apartment with NO notice to instal a dusk-to-dawn light outside that is hooked to my electric, and to remove my inside switch to the light so I can never turn it off.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [17, F] I am friends with benefits with my best friend (17,F) and I do not know what to do about it. I need advice. POST: Alright, so I need some advice. I am 17(f) and my best friend is also 17(f) and we are what some people may call friends with benefits. We fool around pretty ...
Me and my best friend are friends with benifits. I don't want either of us to get hurt in the end. What should I do?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my friends with benefits [23M] of one year. I'm developing romantic feelings for him POST: I have been friends with befits with a great guy for about a year. At first we would only see each other about once a month. Recently we started hanging out every weekend. We have s...
I am developing romantic feelings for my friend with benefits and im not sure if I should tell him or how to tell him without ruining our friendship.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [16M] having issues with my girlfriend's [18F] past and i don't know what to do. POST: First of all, i'd like to apologize for all the grammar and general english mistakes i'm about to make. English is not my native language. Secondly, i hope you guys won't discriminate me regardi...
I'm starting to feel bad about my girlfriend's number of men she's been with, and i don't know exactly what should i do.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[m] a 27 yo in a four year relationship with my 23 yo[F] GF. I need out. Help! POST: Ladies and Gentlemen, I am in a toxic relationship and I need to figure a way out of it. To summarize quickly the girl I am with has physically abused me, put me down, has a very short temper, and ma...
Unhappy boy in a toxic relationship wants to know how to break it off with a girlfriend of 4 years in as dignified a way as possible.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting my school banned from our Tech Finals server POST: This happened four years ago. At my old school, we had a technology class covering various aspects of technology, and the final was in 3D design. We used Minecraft because the school was in Finland and Finns like Minecraft alm...
I screwed with an admin and he IP-banned me and my entire school from our finals server, and everyone in tech class lost their projects and pretty much failed.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by resting my arm on a fire extinguisher POST: A friend just reminded me about the most embarassing day of my existence (so far- for you, brightsided beings-), so I figured I will share it with you. It was 2012, I was in my second to last year of High School, my 40 classmates and I were ...
Unintentionally activated a fire extinguisher on a bus, causing its evacuation and a delay of two hours in our trip.
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: [Advice] Can I hurry along a job offer? POST: So here's the situation. I am a college graduate working in metro Detroit at a job I detest. Last week I had 2 very good interviews; one with a university in downtown Detroit and another with a national camp in Colorado. I know I want to leave m...
Need to get out of crap job. 2 interviews last week. Job offer out in Colorado, but want other job more. Can I hurry the second employer without dooming myself?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22M] am worried that I don't like spending time with my partner [23F] after 8 years. I don't want to break up, though I don't want to spend my life like this. Please help. POST: Sounds like a silly concern, doesn't it? I'm *worried* that I don't like spending time with my partner? W...
I'm probably a selfish douchebag who's whining that my partner doesn't want to do the same things as me. Please tell me if you think that's the case.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mother(57/F) wants me(23/F) to travel to walk for graduation, I don't want to. POST: I started going to college at a University in Florida. I lived in the town of the University for the majority of my time studying there. My last semester I moved to North Carolina to be with my sig...
I have no sentimental value about walking for graduation and my mother is forcing me to travel back down to Florida to walk without considering financial or time costs for me.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18M] need advice on being patient for "the one" POST: I know I am extremely young (18) to be thinking that I want to meet "the one" or "the futrue mother of my kids" and I have had no history with dating and while I know this journey is a process, it still gives me fits and feeling...
How did you stay positive and occupied while on your journey to meet the girl of your dreams? What are some good words of advice to go by between now and then?
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I'm 21 years old and I still don't know how to deal with my controlling parents :-( Help me! POST: I'm a 21 year old female. My parents are great for the most part except with certain things they make my life really hard. I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. The problem is tha...
My parents are going to give me all sorts of crap for wanting to visit my long distance bf and stay in a hotel. How do I deal with the crap/them trying to control me?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18f] with conman/fraudster dad[43m] who stole lots of cash from many people, my university professor included. Professor [50+M]found out that my dad is my dad, and is now acting harshly. What do I do? POST: Well, I'm changing my last name so this doesn't happen again. My dad was go...
Dad stole money from one of my profs, profs recognized me as his daughter, and I believe he is punishing me for what my dad has done. Do I do anything?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[24F] friend [28/F] wants to apply for a job with the Dad of the kids I nanny. Should I tell him she's a total flake? POST: Hey All-- Sorry if this isn't the right place? Anyways--I have been a nanny for an amazing family for 2.5 years. The Dad is a doctor with his own private pract...
Friend is a total flake and wants me to put in a good word for her to work at my bosses office.
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Free trip to Vegas or not worth the hassle? POST: Back a couple of months ago I stayed at a hotel off strip in Las Vegas. At 4 AM I got a phone call nobody wants to get: "This is hotel security, we have reason to believe your car has been broken into." They wound up catching the guy in m...
Car broken into in Vegas, city is paying for trip to testify. Is it worth the hassle or should I just sign their form and be done with it?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My girlfriend wants to have lesbian sex to see how it is. POST: We got drunk/high last night (which we often do as students) and my girlfriend was being a little flirty with a mutual friend of ours. No big surprise there, but later in the evening she straight up asked me if it wa...
My girlfriend got drunk and asked me if she could have sex with a girl. I don't know how to feel. Need advice.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: my boyfriend [25M] best friend [25M] sent me [26F] pictures of a porn star having sex on facebook that looks like me. POST: I want to start off by saying I love my boyfriend with all my heart. The 7 years we have been together have been amazing. Yesterday My boyfriends best friend se...
Boyfriends best friend sent me pictures of a porn star that looked like me and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO cheated on me with my best friend. Has anyone here ever has their SO cheat on them but continue the relationship? Is that possible? POST: Me: Age 25 Her: Age 24 I wont go into the details, but basically I caught my fiance of 5 years cheating on me with my best friend who i ha...
My SO cheated on me with my friend, I caught them. I want to reconcile but my friends and family are saying not to. Is it possible to continue a relationship after cheating?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I fucked up, what do you think I should do? POST: I've been dating my boyfriend for over 4 months, I love him more than anything, but we were just at a party and I got really really drunk and kissed my best friend (who is also a girl). I've wondered if I was bisexual for a while an...
I kissed my friend (who is also a girl) and my boyfriend is so mad he won't talk to me, am I totally fucked?
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: [Advice][26M] How to quit my dead-end marketing job, move to SoCal without anything lined up, and make it in a design/marketing agency. POST: I'm stuck. I'm at an ok-paying, white-collar, but overall unrewarding job. The culture is terrible. There's no room for advancement. And I'm at zero grow...
Keep getting turned down for jobs because I'm not a local candidate, but now's the time to seize my future career. Considering quitting my current job and moving to CA without anything lined up. How do I do that?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: GF of ~1mo. was kissed by another guy... having second thoughts about my reaction (m, both 19) POST: I have been apart from my recent girlfriend/coworker (of about 6 weeks) for around the last 3 due to our college's winter break (ending this coming weekend, also we're both **19 years o...
Recent girlfriend "unintentionally kissed by" another guy, told me the next day, not sure if I reacted correctly.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33 F] and my boyfriend [36 M] of two years broke up, still living together, he is already dating up a storm (after a few days). POST: He is currently on a date while I'm home on reddit (thank you reddit for keeping me company) I promised myself that I would move out as fast as I co...
He is already dating other people a few days after the breakup while we still live together, I should move out but can't let go. Any advice on how to let go of a bad relationship?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (20/M)of a year says he is not in love with me ( 21/F) but he loves me and wants to stay with me. POST: We come from different backgrounds (emotionally). My parents are far from perfect, I have had abusive boyfriends also, I have a lot of scars, therefore I am not so posit...
He distances himself when arguing, and I am argumentative, which brought us to a point where he cannot let me close. Now he says he is not in love, but he loves me and wants to be with me.
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Discussion: State of popular music today: Is Electronic Dance Music the genre of the 10s? (cross- post from r/Music) POST: Whats up reddit, I'm writing a paper on electronic music- that which is commonly referred to as 'techno/electro/house' (as opposed to music produced electronically, ...
I'm not asking whether you like Electronic music / EDM, but whether you see it's popularity expanding to the point where it may represent a major decade in musical history or not.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (17f) with my best friend (18m). Both have feelings for each other but he wants to pursue a different girl first. Advice??? POST: Background: I (17f) have been best friends with B (18m) for about three years now. People have told us we should date many times but he has just brushed ...
best friend (18m) and I (17f) have feelings for each other but he wants to pursue a different girl first. What do I do?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (24/m) I move in a month & I want to tell a (23/f) close friend face to face how important they are to me POST: I am moving away in about a month & I have a female friend who I'm really going to miss. We never connected on a romantic level, just close friends but she has meant a ...
I leave in a month and want to tell a really important female friend in my life how important she is to me. Not sure how to find the right time.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my ___ [22 M] 1 1/2 years, 1 time hookup from before we were together refuses to stop contacting me POST: So just to preface, I've never cheated on my girlfriend and never plan to, she's awesome and we have a fantastic relationship. A few months before we started dating...
One time fling refuses to stop contacting me even after I've told her to stop, and now she's found me on Facebook.
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Met a really wonderful girl at a dog park and don't know when the next time I will see her will be. POST: Let me say this first; our dogs are like BFF's. So, about a month ago I met a girl at a dog park, like the title says. Her dog and mine got along so well playing with each other ...
I don't know when the next time I will see this girl I made a connection with, should I message her on FB?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M15) need relationship advice about talking to crush (F15) POST: I am a 15 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend, or kissed a girl for that matter. I really have no friends who are girls. I haven't really interacted with any girls my age since leaving primary school 3 years ag...
I am awkward with girls, there is a girl I like, we are in a facebook group chat together, I would like to get to know her better.
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Ex-Girlfriend is avoiding me and will not return valuable things to me POST: I'll give a short timeline to try and explain this. July: We broke up mutually while she was away for drum corps. She planned on giving me my things back when she returned for school. August: Didn't answer my ...
Ex-girlfriend wont respond to texts or phone calls and is refusing to give me my things back. Whats the next step?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29, M], dealing with an harassing girl on a forum [25,F] POST: Hello people So, here is the deal. 5 years ago, I met a girl online on an internet community and we had a night out that ended in bed. It was a very awkward moment. Some days after, I wanted to met her again to discus...
being harassed by an girl with who I had a one night affair 5 years ago, she now threatens me indirectly and I don't know what to do
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Think I cheated on my ex. Feel terrible. POST: I (M22) and my girlfriend (F20) split up a week ago due to difficulties with our long distance relationship. We'd been together a year. I really want her back but I found out a few days ago from a friend that a girl and I kissed on a night...
May have cheated on my ex when we were still together, unsure if I'll be able to get back together with her now I've found out.
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Study/University burnout POST: I started off studying biology at University. I enjoyed it and I was fairly good at it. However, I also had a newly discovered love for physics so I decided to instead head in that direction. Studying physics and calculus has been 10x the work load compared...
Unsure if I dislike my major or if i'm just burnt out. Exams coming up, any tips for a burnt out student?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I don't know how to "laugh off" unimportant arguments and it's really hurting my relationship. Any tips on how I can learn? POST: I'm 20/f and he's 20/m, we've been together for 2 years. This is both of our first real relationships and we both have been learning through dealing with ea...
I take arguments and my own anger way too seriously, and it's making me miserable. How do I start to change?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, how has someone you thought was your friend completely screwed you over? POST: Last year, I became roommates with a guy who was a very close friend the previous year of college. He had just recently lost his job, and I said I would help him until he got on his feet again. He couldn...
Guy who I thought was my friend ripped me off for 2,400 dollars and trashed my apartment, before leaving me a huge bill and a destroyed apartment.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my [21F] 9 months, obvious red flag, when is it acceptable to stop giving benefit of the doubt? POST: Her first serious relationship, my second. Celebrated nine months yesterday, day went swell and today was a good follow-up too. Had a long discussion reflecting on thin...
Girlfriend lies by omission about getting high with a "friend" on premise of me "looking down on her" because she knows it's bad
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 F] with my boyfriend [30 M] 3 months, he is getting dogs and I'm not sure I will be able to deal with them. Should I let him know? POST: My boyfriend (M30) and I (F29) have been together about 3 months. Everything has been really spectacular. We really like each other and have b...
MY BF is bringing his family dogs to move in with him and I'm worried about the inevitable change this will have on our relationship's dynamic. I'm wondering if I should let him know this.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Just starting out with an awesome girl. Before we go any further, give me some advice on avoiding past mistakes! Also, long-term we'll be long distance - advice on that? POST: I've recently started dating a beautiful girl, and have fallen head over heals. Though we've been chatti...
Amazing new girl. Past "relationships" fizzled out quickly. Don't want to do that again. If it doesn't fizzle out, we'll be long distance and even more prone to fizzling out.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [25/m] My boyfriend [24/m] of 1 yr and I are debating whether to stay together (long-distance) when I move away for law school. POST: In two months, I'm moving 1,000+ miles away to law school. My boyfriend is not moving with me. We've been together for a year. Months ago, when I ...
Is it better to try long distance (even though I am skeptical), or end things now (even though it hurts)?
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [Fluff] How does my dog read a calendar? POST: I work from home and most days my chihuahua sits quietly by my desk. She's not a yapper in general. Only goes to bark at the door if someone approaches. She's lazy. Every other week a maid comes. She loves to follow the maid around and bark at ...
My dog knows the maids are coming today and there have been NO clues tipping her off - how does she know?
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [MN/TX] HELP! My car got towed, and the title isn't in my name so I'm unable to get it out of the impound, what should I do? POST: So my car got towed because of a boneheaded mistake of not starting a meter. The people I bought the car from did not transfer the title to me when I bought ...
What should I do if my car isn't in my name and the other party is being unhelpful in giving me authorization to let the impound release the car to me?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15 M] and a former crush [13 F] are obligated to do a dance together, and it's SUPER awkward for her. POST: Here's the problem. I used to have a crush. I told her at valentines day, and she politely refused to date until she was 16. I didn't get friendzoned or have a violent act c...
I'm supposed to do a dance move with a crush who feels awkward of where the teacher wants me to place my hands on her, and that position can't change, what can I do?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Can I (21F) give my lab instructor (25F) a gift card along with a thank you note? POST: I suck at math. It took me three tries to pass statistics. This semester I have to take a required class that's basically stats again. My lab instructor told me that to pass the lab I'd need to ace ...
my lab instructor helped me a lot with tutoring can I include a gift card with my thank you note for her?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [25/M] Please shed some light on this and how she [20/F] interacts with me. POST: I met this girl 7 weeks ago. We started talking, and soon enough we were on our third date. She's very quiet, only had one boyfriend, and has a hard time even talking on the phone with me. We're not offic...
Soon to be gf 3 hours away is quiet and shuts down when I ask to talk on the phone. Has expressed she wants to move forward, but I'm not sure how to do it without being a stress on her life.
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Help with Barking Beagle (only on Walks) POST: We do not have a fully fenced yards, so we walk or two beagles a lot (3 times a day, long walks). The one in question is recently adopted as of March, 4 years old, female. Don't really know her background. She's fine in the house, rarely ...
Female, 4-year old, rescue beagle barks consistently on walks, at least 75% of the walk. Otherwise she's fine in the house, won't bark at things outside, etc.
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Help! Vibrams + P90X/Insanity Hybrid. POST: Hey Reddit! Yesterday I started my P90X/Insanity Hybrid and also bought a pair of Vibrams Bikila. I noticed yesterday that while I had the Vibrams on they worked well, except my right foot didn't feel quite right in them. I was able to do Chest and ...
Bought FiveFingers Vibrams Bikila. Tried to use in Insanity Cardio Workout, Couldn't. Right foot swollen + lots of pain. Help + feedback!