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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How would you deal with someone who's being bossy? POST: I come from Upland, CA. I'm one of over two hundred kids that belong in the Upland Highland Regiment. In the Regiment, we have leaders that control the band, from the Drum Majors to Assistant Section Leaders. I belong to the trombone...
Member of band who isn't in leadership position acts as though she is a leader. How do we tell her this without coming off as hateful/ mean?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My sister was anorexic/bulimic for about 2 months. Now she claims she's cured herself with no professional help. Bullshit? POST: A couple months ago, my sister came over and confessed that she had serious body image issues and had been throwing up. She tearfully told me she could "no longe...
My sister threw up after eating for a while. Now that she has to spend a month at home, she claims she's fine and has no issues.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] keep getting seduced big time by this girl [21 F] who has a long distance bf. POST: I work with this rather sexy girl who is a flirty free spirited type who is very much open about sex and such. She is flirty with other people too, but after careful watching I've noticed she f...
Girl seduces me BIG TIME at work every day but has a bf. What does she want from me?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] broke up with my GF [22 F] of three years; immediately regretting it. POST: My GF and I met almost 4 years ago now, started dating 3 and a half years ago, and had a great relationship. Long story short, I regrettably made the (I think smart, rational) decision to break thing...
After 3 years of a great relationship, I broke up with my girlfriend (who wants kids and marriage) because I'm not sure I ever want to have kids or get married. I think I fucked up.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [m24] wrong to trust my wife [f24] of 1 year? POST: A few days ago I went onto the browsing history of our shared desktop to find back a website I'd been on before. What I saw really shocked me: a ton of Craigslist casual encounters pages had been viewed, mainly male for female. I...
= wife was on Craigslist, supposedly cause she thimks it's interesting to read. Friend says I'm too trusting. What do you think?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my FWB [23F] 1 Week I think I said the wrong thing to soon. Wanted to hook up again later in the week. No response. Advice Please? POST: So about 2 days ago I met this girl we hit it off and decided to have sex. I was a virgin and it went as well as it could have despite...
Text my first fwb twice to see if she could come over another day this week and haven't gotten a response. Want to either apologize or say something to make up for it.
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Confessed my feelings to my best friend, now what? POST: Me and my friend have been best friends for 4 years now, and over that time period I've developed serious feelings for this girl. Today I finally grew the balls and told her. I was nervous as hell because I was pretty sure she didn't fe...
Long time crush and I admit to having feelings for each other, her's aren't as strong as mine. Halp.
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Today I was sitting on the toilet when it suddenly erupted underneath me and got my own feces on me. How "crappy" has your day been so far? POST: Today when I pulled in to work I saw one of those trucks with the tank and vacuum hose. The hose was going into the sewer/pipes in the ground in...
a toilet erupted underneath me and my own feces got on me and everywhere in the stall, but I got to go home to clean up on the clock
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [50/F] mom gets mad when I [19/M] try to communicate or have a relationship with my stepsister [21 /F]. POST: Okay so this might be little long and might have many spelling errors so i apologize in advance. So the story starts this year when my family and I found out that my dad che...
Dad cheated on my mom, had a child with other woman, try to have relationship with half sister, mom basically hates her.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22/m] think I'm in love with my best friend [22/f] POST: We live in different countries but talk every day, I visited her in summer and seeing her again next month then she's visiting me. I think I have strong romantic feelings for her, she's beautiful and funny and I love everythin...
I have strong feelings for my friend, she doesn't feel the same, how do I get over her and keep her as a best friend?
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by traumatizing myself while driving. POST: Today I was driving to the repair shop to get a new battery since mine was pretty much worthless and I couldn't find the shop, despite having put the address of the place in my phone's gps. My phone decided it would be funny to completely botch t...
GPS on my phone sucks, which made me a pissed off, reckless driver, almost crashed my car, and now I'm scared to drive my car.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [18/m] and I'm worried i might loses my gf [20/f] how can i get over it ??? POST: i have always had a problem with trusting people to stay with me. my mum left me when i was a kid and girls have always been bitches to me. so it makes me feel like i dont really deserve to be w...
how can i get other the feeling of losseing her and how do i get other the feeling that im not good enough for her
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the worst that has happened to your new car? POST: Let me start off first by telling you a story about my moms gift to my dad. On July 9th she bought him a 2011 Toyota Camry and he got to drive it back home. The next day she used the car to drive to work and on her way home she slid...
My mom rear-ended someone one day after purchasing a new car and after she got the car repaired she got rear-ended
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Me and my Dad have been arguing over this for month's. Whose right? POST: So a little back story. A couple years ago a new pizza place came to town and it instantly became a weekly tradition to get a pizza from there for us to split with some brew. We both think this place has great pizza ...
My Dad ordered chicken wings and got only wings and no drumsticks. He thought he was gypped and proceeded to yell at the guy on the phone for unethical business.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Did I (23f) do the right thing to stop my boyfriends (24m) behavior? POST: I've come from abusive relationships, one of which was very verbally abusive. Yesterday, my boyfriend of around a month kept critizing me over dumb things. I wanted to get a Bloody Mary and he told me about how ...
boyfriend criticizes me too much. Told him to stop, worried he won't and want to know what I should do if he gives a negative response.
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, how do I tell my parents I want to perform during my gap year? POST: Hey guys, I know you guys have helped out fellow redditors in the past for this kind of thing... So after next year I will have the option to take a gap year, yes I shall be taking one. However my parents do not k...
I want to sing in a band/duo during my gap year instead of something charitable like the traditional gap year. Not sure how to ask my parents about it, what do guys?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my friend of 8 years [18 M] has recently started a new drug. What do I tell him? POST: Hi. My friend who I've known for 8 years has been doing marijuana for the past couple of years. I'm not very smart and he always convinces me that the green is good, and it's not as ba...
friend has done marijuana for couple of years, just very recently did another possibly more addictive drug (hallucinogen). what do I tell him?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Why am I so hesitant? POST: My boyfriend (24M) and I (22F) have been together about five years. We have lived together for about 3 months (we share a room in a house with 3 other friends). He is a great boyfriend. I trust him completely, he is caring and respectful, we value the sam...
I could see myself marrying the guy or breaking up with him. How do I deal with my ambivalence?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [49F] having trouble dealing with my SO of 6 months [42 M] kinky past. POST: A few weeks after moving in together, "M" told me that he had a long term affair with his friend's wife 12 years ago (while she was married to his friend). They all (his friend, the wife, and "M") have rema...
How can I feel secure in my relationship when my guy wants me to socialize with his kinky ex and chooses porn over me?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26M] Seeking advice on how to approach past girl [24F] of interest. POST: I briefly hung out with a girl a couple years ago, nothing serious, just bar hopped a little bit (with date like intentions). We sort of just stopped talking as we both lived in different towns and were together...
Saw old fling and wasn't aware she is no longer engaged. Friend informs me she's interested after she leaves. My Current dating game is a bit rusty.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Parents bought a car and house for my brother (28M) after graduating, gave me (24M) jackshit POST: After my brother graduated in 2007 they bought him a BMW in cash and paid a down payment on his house and his pregnant wife. He went to law school and they gave it to him as a 'reward' fo...
My parents gave my brother a house, car and a way more expensive college education, they gave me a used jeep. Am I right to be mad and should I confront them?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25F] have been dating this guy [26M] for about for month much to his best friend's [26M] dismay. POST: You may recall me typing about this a month or so ago, but I forget the password to my old account. I recently moved 3000km to my hometown to get out of a bad marriage. The papers...
I am dating my ex-boyfriend's best friend (we broke up in 2008) and he is making it very difficult for me to have a normal relationship.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [20M] and I [20F] are in an LDR, looking to open the relationship. Advice appreciated! (x-post from r/nonmonogamy) POST: My boyfriend and I have always had really open conversations about sexuality, desire, and experience. We've had a monogamous relationship. He's away wo...
looking to open our relationship so we can fulfill our sexual needs throughout the LDR. What advice to you have for this kind of situation? I'm open to hear any perspectives and opinions.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: We (group 30-40M) may need to fire a guy (30-40M) from our troupe due to his personal life POST: There are 8 of us in a local improv comedy group. We have had a decent amount of success locally and have some fans, but for the most part, it's about having fun and expressing ourselves. W...
Guy in our group shows up on time but has F-d up priorities. Should we fire him "for his own good"? Or should we mind our own business, and let him live his life and deal with the consequences.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] Think something bad happened back home and my family is hiding it from me. POST: I'm studying abroad but going back home in less than a week. My grandfather has been having health issues for the last months (or thats at least what I know). Yesterday I was on on facebook and I s...
Family is hiding from me that grandfather passed away, should I tell them/ask them or wait till I get home next week? Why am I not crying?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] just got a job where I'm away from home about 85% of the time. How do I tell the woman I've been talking to [21 F] that I can't have a serious relationship right now, but still want a "friends with benefits" type relationship without sounding like a complete douche-canoe? POST...
Got job where I'm rarely home and I still want to have sexual relations with the woman I was talking to before I left even though I can't have a serious relationship with her.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] Him[22 M] Shall I ask him on a date? POST: So basically we met via social media site over a year ago now he randomly saw me shopping in the store he worked at and messaged me saying hey i recognise you. We got talking some more, exchanged numbers and he invited me to come back...
I think I'm falling for this guy I don't know whether or not to come clean and tell him how I feel but by doing this I don't want to lose him. Helppp
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (29) had sex with prostitutes on several occasions before meeting girlfriend (29). Should I tell her? POST: When I was younger I was weak and stupid and had sex with prostitutes on several occasions. I wont go into much more detail than that. I've hated myself for doing it ever since...
I had sex with several prostitutes before meeting my current girlfriend. I doubt she'd ever find out, but I am still full of guilt and i don't want to lie to her. Should i tell her?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How is there still a debate on Gay marriage. Do you not think the church has the right to wed who they please? POST: Okay, before you go off on me, let me have a few words. How the argument is framed right now is ridiculous. LGBT individuals and their supporters claim they have every right...
As a free society we shouldn't be allowed to force book clubs to let people do their traditions. Why can't LGBT people be happy being together in a legal union... heck, why do we even need legal unions?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] mom [56F] wants to un-invite my mentally unstable family friend [24M] from my sister's wedding. POST: A bit of background: I have a family friend who was diagnosed with Aspergers at a very young age and has also recently been diagnosed with depression and bipolar disorder. His...
my mother doesn't want my mentally unstable relative at my sister's wedding anymore and we don't know how to tell his mom.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [20M] falling in love with my best friend [22F] and I don't want to. POST: When I was sixteen, I was a typical high schooler. I was the "popular" funny fat kid. As the fat kid, my confidence with the ladies was not as high as my calorie intake. I was asked to write an argumentative...
Talked to hot Christian girl. We hit it off. Best friends for 4 years. I like her, I have a girlfriend. Don't want to like her that way.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26/F] have been dating a guy [26/M] for 1 month who has a dad that is a registered sex offender. I'm not sure if the guy I'm dating knows. What do I do? POST: I've been dating a guy for about a month now, and I accidentally discovered that his dad is a registered sex offender. I alw...
Guy I'm dating for the past month has a dad who is a registered sex offender. He hasn't told me himself--I found it online. I'm not sure if he knows. How do I approach the subject with him?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How would the people of Reddit go about turning a friend into a boy/girlfriend? POST: *Just a little background info: This post is comming from someone who has zero experience with intimate relationships. I have never managed to make it this far with a member of the opposite sex and on a p...
Dear Reddit, how do I find out if the feeling is the same from both sides and if so how do I go from friendship to a intimate relationship?
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [26M]Wracked by indecision weeks into dating a girl [25F]. Do you ever make it work after being so unsure? POST: I've been dating a girl for 3 or 4 weeks for maybe 8 dates. We've been getting along really well and I like her a lot. We've been physical but haven't had sex. We get along ...
Do you think it's a bad idea to continue dating weeks into a relationship if you're still completely on the fence about the relationship?
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (19M College freshman) don't know how to approach my first "real" crush. POST: So I have just started my second semester of college. I have had a couple of tiny crushes throughout my life but I've never really acted on them and sometimes it's on girls who are already in relationships...
I don't know how to approach my first real crush because I don't want to be seen as "creepy".
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: High-school Junior Looking For Advice POST: Hi, I'm a decent 85% grade average New Yorker and I'm starting to stress pretty hard on college stuff. I don't know which ones to look at because I don't fully understand how the undergraduate system works. My older cousins tell me that first I mus...
New Yorker Jr. with around 85% average Looking towards becoming and English teacher as well as a type of educational specialist to help kids comprehend school better, should I be worrying too much.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22/M] Cousin [30/M] is getting married next month. The only way I can go is if I quit my job. Being a broke student, not too sure what I should do. I feel awful for choosing between family and work. POST: I'm not the closest to my cousin, but when I was younger he was like an older...
Cousin is getting married. I can only go if I quit my job, but I'm poor as it is. I feel awful for choosing between family and work.
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: X-Post from r/ADD Need help with Vyvanse Dosage POST: I am going to the doctor's office tomorrow and am going to request he prescribe me Vyvanse. I have always had terrible troubles with my mind (focus, organization, etc) and taken various tests for ADD/ADHD which have all pointed towards...
I'm big. Visiting doctor to request Vyvanse RX. What dosage should I ask for and how should I ask without sounding like a druggy? (legitimate need)
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28M] just moved in with my girlfriend [30F] of 2 years, apparently it can "still happen" with her colleague. POST: Last night I saw my girlfriend open her text messages, the lowest on the screen was "I love you too x" sent to her male colleague. Now I'm not one for snooping, but I...
Saw gf confess love for a colleague and interest in restarting things. Just bought a place together, not sure what to do now.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by calling my landlord from a summer house down the shore POST: 5 friends and I rented a house down the jersey shore for a week of the summer. I was the point man for the trip and set up everything from the phone calls to signing the lease. Everyone's driver licenses were on file etc etc. ...
I tried to inform a landlord of the law that she was violating and she decided to get mad about it and deny me any refund of my security deposit.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Can I uninvite my SO to my work party? [28M/F] together 2 years POST: I invited my SO (Jamie) to a company event for employees and family. At the time I thought it was a good idea to introduce my SO to my coworkers. Later on I found out people were only bringing spouses and children, n...
I invited my SO to a work event that's meant for employees and their family. We're not at that point in our relationship. Can I take back the invitation?
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Don't understand the interest rate on my savings account POST: Can anyone explain this to me? I have a savings account with my bank, and I also have their credit card. The account is set up that if I use my credit card so many times per month, I get 0.35% APY on my savings account....
How is APY calculated for interest on an account? The account I don't touch earns 0.35% APY but what I earn fluctuates slightly from month to month, including decreasing from the previous month.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16M] am feeling (possibly) stupid jealousy over my SO's [17F] male friend. POST: Alright, before I explain everything: Yes, I realize I am a stupid teenager that is going through a tough emotional period in everyone's life. That being said: I'm jealous of my girlfriend's male fr...
My girlfriend has a male friend that has a very intimately friendly relationship with her and it makes me uncomfortable. She misunderstood when I explained my feelings.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [18 F] of 8 months. I am no longer sexually attracted to her. Should I tell her, and, if so, how? POST: This is all made worse by the fact that her libido is already way higher than mine. When we got together, she was already on my upper limit as far as weight goes...
She's conventionally beautiful, but doesn't arouse me. I'd like to let her know that so I can see whether or not she'd work on herself. How can I do that?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my SO [22 F] 7 mo, I'm ruining it.. POST: Hey all. Been together 7 months. Lately I've been managing to fuck up about once a week in some way that is hurting her, and I absolutely hate it. I just don't know how to stop bringing up things that bother me a bit. The proble...
I keep saying things that hurt her or make her feel horrible and it needs to stop. How do I express myself without making her feel these things?.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] wondering how I can learn more about the girl I'm dating [20F] and how I can make things more fun for us. POST: I recently confessed to this girl I like about a week ago. (You can check my history for the details) We have been hanging out for almost one and a half months befor...
Confessed to a girl, she says I'm fun, I say she's the fun one, we're both disagreeing on how fun we are, looking to change all that, looking also to keep the relationship fun and healthy.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by stepping on cement POST: This took place about a year ago when I was a senior in high school. After a long day of school and near to no sleep at all the previous night, I was relieved that it ended but I was really tired, being that my school is a 15 minute walk to my house, I always wa...
was walking home tired, stepped in cement, ruined the day for 2 people and now my shoeprint is engraved into the rock hard concrete.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by accidentally getting high. POST: Still feeling the affects of this FU while typing this, so sorry for any mistakes because my hands are shaking quite a bit. This all started about two hours ago when I was looking around my house for a binder I could use for school (because you know it...
Drawing with sharpies in a small un-ventilated room for hours and I think I got high off the fumes.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] boyfriend's [22M] forced him to dance with someone else even though I clearly was against it. POST: So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 ish years. A quick word on the type of people my boyfriend's friends are. They're not exactly the kind of people we would love to as...
My boyfriend's friends got him drunk and made him dance with other girls besides me. They knew previously that both he and I were not ok with this occurring. Should I be mad or am I overreacting?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[21M] and my gf [20F] have religious differences. I'm willing to go to church for her because I know she'd appreciate it. POST: To start off: I'm an Atheist and my gf is not. She's very devoted to her religion in fact. Now, I 100% respect my gf's religious beliefs regardless of our d...
I'm an atheist and am considering going to church for my gf because I think it might make her happy. This question is directed at the religious women: good idea/bad idea?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23M] messed up bad and my gf [22F] of a year lost all trust. Can I regain trust? POST: Last weekend I went out with my buddies which has become a rare occasion. We got stupid drunk to the point of me blacking out and I woke up to the news that we had gotten some called some girls fo...
Buddy called hookers for us when I was blackout drunk and my gf found out. Didn't actually cheat but have lost all trust from my gf.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by breaking up with my gf at the worst time possible POST: Recently my girlfriend and I haven't been getting along. At our school we are known for being quite the strong couple, having dated for over 1.5 years. People often compliment us for being such a cute couple. However this week I g...
broke up with gf and an hour later we get nominated for couple most likely to get married, scheduled for yearbook pic on Friday
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I, (M/19) in a medium-distance relationship with GF (F/18). How to manage the relationship and conduct visits? POST: Hi! About a month and a half ago, I moved in to university 2 hours away from my girlfriend (of 11 months). It is relatively easy for me to get home whenever I want and ...
in a medium distance (2 hours away) relationship with girlfriend since I moved to college. what's the best way to manage how often I come up to see her when there are concerns raised by her about still having a college life?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Feels like the world is going against Me [20M] getting back to gether with my ex [19F] M/F] duration, short-description POST: Me and this girl had a short little fling a few months ago and we broke up for stupid reasons and I still haven't been able to get over her. She contacted me ov...
It feels like the world is going against me getting together with this girl, don't know if I should listen to it or not.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Friends with benefits problem. Please help :/ POST: Yesterday, a friend and I ended our FWB "relationship". From the start we knew it would end any day, feelings were to never be involved, and a relationship would never happen. The problem was we actually started developing feel...
FWB ended up to be more than planned because we became best friends and developed feelings for each other (reason why she ended it). I need advice whether to maintain contact with her or forget about her completely.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18M] Really struggling to start basic conversation with girlfriend [17F] POST: Hoping the makes sense. So I've been dating a girl who I really like for the past month or two. We have known each other for about 6 months now and initially got along really well! However I feel as though ...
Struggling having fun, decent conversations with current gf. Not sure what's up, generally confused and depressed.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [M,21] spying on my girlfriend..[F,20] POST: Our relationship is currently on a huge rough patch. A week ago we were about to take a "break", as she suggested. I initially wanted to work it out as breaks have a way of becoming permanent. She insisted she needed time, I agreed, and ...
I can recognize an unhealthy relationship. Relationship was about to be over, worked things out. Still concerned about upcoming trip with crush and my inability to trust her.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [19 F] in a long distance relationship [20 M] and I'm torn by opinions! POST: Hi Reddit! Long time lurker here! Hopefully this is the right subbed it to post this on! I'm just writing for another opinion, I'm kind of torn at the moment. Basically I've been in a long distance...
In in a long distance relationship and want to move to be with him for 6 months. Am I making the right choice?
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Should I get my cat a friend? POST: Forgive any spelling or formatting errors, I'm on my phone. Info: Chelsea, female. Six years old. Has lived with several other cats prior to now, as well as a dog. For as long as I've had Chelsea (four years) we've always lived with other cats or other peop...
six year old female cat appears to be stressed by being left alone, wondering if getting her a friend to keep her company would help
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Should I resend this LinkedIn message? POST: Hi there, I recently connected with a person on LinkedIn. I asked him to help connect me to the HR dept of his company. When I sent him the invite, I included a personal message, but when he accepted my invitation to connect, he didn't reply to the m...
If I included a personal message with the invitation to connect (LinkedIn) and if the person doesn't respond, is it appropriate to resend the message or send another message?
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Need advice on moving out? POST: Thank you for opening this and wanting to help. Long story short, I've lived with an abusive family all my life. My dad does the physical abuse (choking, shoving, pinning me against walls) and my mom has always done the emotional abuse (calling me a loser, st...
Abusive parents, not educated in life skills, need to know how to get out and get my feet under me.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sending nudes to my boss POST: This happened about 10 minutes ago and I am still crying about what happened. So today I thought I'd wear the sexy underwear my boyfriend had bought me for Christmas and as he'd been working all day, and most of the past week, he deserved a treat so I pla...
Accidentally sent nudes to my boss instead of my boyfriend. My boss has seen the photos but hasn't replied. I may have just fucked up my career.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26M] with my girlfriend [26F], three months dating, feeling distant. What to do? POST: I've been going out with this girl for three months now, we've met online, and tried to see each other every week. She's nice, fun, socially awkward (as I am, I think it's an important point to k...
Girl has withdrawn from social activities due to traumatic event, she doesn't answer my messages, only told me what happened, that she needs to be alone, also expressed doubts about our relationship. What to do?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Going to Court to Dispute Traffic Ticket, What Angle Should I Take? POST: Reddit please give me some insightful responses...Today I was riding my bicycle home from the gym, and I ran a stop sign. A police officer observed my actions and subsequently pulled me over. He drove up next to me ...
got stopped for running a stop sign on my bicycle, first cop let me off with a warning, a second cop gave me a $143 citation. Is there a chance a judge will throw it out based on these actions?
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Looking for a bright side after 2nd medical attempt to fix my... manhood... looks like it failed. POST: I need a kick in the ass or something. Some outsiders to tell me I'm being stupid. I'm an optimistic realist and normally I don't focus on stuff I can't change. But this is different I guess ...
I can't usually finish when having sex, despite enjoying everything about the entire process until then. Can I have a normal dating life? How should I handle this with a woman I'm with?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25M] with my ex [26F]: Bad case of the what ifs, two years later POST: My ex and I broke up after four years two years ago. It was an amicable breakup. We wanted different things in different places and needed some time to get ourselves straight. After a year of keeping in touch an...
How can I tell if I should end things with my current gf, or if I'm just being a total idiot?
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Employer "cold-calls" me...I got an interview, with nothing but a job title to go on. Fishy? POST: Earlier this AM, I get one liner e-mail, personally addressed to me. "We're hiring for positions A, B and C. Send resume." ...where A, B and C are generic job titles. I google the server. Leg...
Got an interview, with nothing but a job title. Do I go? It seems wierd for a few reasons.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am [24F] so intensely competitive with my good friend [25M] of 1yr that it is hurting our relationship. POST: Hi Reddit, Hope you're having a great night so far, r/relationships. Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer. God, I'm just really unhappy. I'm so intensely comp...
Competitive nature with friend is putting a strain on relationship, putting a strain on me. Tired of feeling super inadequate and searching for tips and advice to mitigate those feelings. Thanks!
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Im adult and I can't even go outside without being picked on by teenagers. POST: Okay, so I'm actually not all that adult looking. My stats: * 5'1 * Male * Unable to grow facial hair * Baby face * 19 and a half (okay, still a teenager, but I presume this will continue) * I look as thou...
I'm almost 20 and I look like a 14-year-old who can't escape being taunted by literal 14-through-20whatever-year-olds on a regular basis.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I feel like I [24M] am missing something big POST: I'll make this quick. I'm a college student who dreams of having a relationship with a girl. I consider myself a romantic. Problem is, I haven't found one that I have an inclination to start a relationship with. I suppose I could be mo...
College student. How do I find the right girl after endless first dates? Or am I the reason things aren't working out?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] needs help to start talking to my crush (more info in desc) POST: I'll start by saying that I've never been really good with talking to girls in general. I've talked to her a few times at school at the only class we have together, but we're in track and haven't talked yet. T...
how to: 1. sentence starters with crush. 2. not get nervous as hell 3. talk to her while other people/friend is around
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How do I(19M) ask her(20F) out, when I only see her in one class? POST: So far we have only seen each other two days of class since it meets only twice a week. First day of class(Second semester German at Uni) was get to know people day basically. Her and I talked the entire two hours,...
Signs say she is interested how do I get the chance to ask her out without looking like a fool in front of my entire class. By ask out I mean coffee, I know she really likes coffee as much as I do.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 21F Cheated on boyfriend early on, how to deal with his friends? POST: My boyfriend 22 and I have been dating for roughly 2 months. Our relationship took off pretty fast (a lot faster than I wanted) and I got sort of scared. I also was not 100% sure when I told him we could be ex...
Cheated on my boyfriend after a couple weeks, we decided to work it out, been dating 2 months. His friends because of incident don't like me, how do I handle this?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my brother [24 M] and his wife [24 f] (roommates), 10 months, they sound like they don't care what I say about bringing a cat home next week... POST: I have a pet cat and my brother and his newly wed wife have a dog (that I used to take care of while he was in the milita...
My brother and his wife want to bring a kitten home, I said I wouldn't sign for it but I think they are serious.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] had a miscarriage last year. I don't know how to make my boyfriend [21M] understand why it still hurts (possible NSFW details). POST: We've been together for 5 years, have a great relationship and have been through a lot together that has only made us better as a couple. I had...
Had a miscarriage and I can't get over it. I need help explaining to my boyfriend why it's still really hard to deal with.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20F/19M] He won't define us as boyfriend/girlfriend - am I crazy to be concerned about cheating and trust issues? POST: I [20F] have been "dating" my friend [19M] for the past year and a few months. We were official for a short while last year (our freshman year of college), but then ...
I trust my "boyfriend", but are the lack of a clear definition of our relationship, his many flirty friends back home, and his general evasiveness about their conversations/friendship reasons for me to not trust him?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is a plausible reason for quitting that I can give my nice/incompetent boss that's not insulting to her or the company, as my real reason would be? And don't give me any of your "honesty is the best policy" crap. POST: Two weeks into a new job, I've realized that this company is horri...
My boss is nice and I don't want to hurt/offend her by telling her that the reason I am quitting is that the way this company is run is a disaster. I need a good, fake reason for quitting.
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Housemate refusing to pay rent - what can we do? POST: My girlfriend's housemate has not paid her rent for the past few weeks, totalling $375. She (the offending housemate) has not been living at the house during this time and believes this is grounds to refuse payment, but the lease doe...
Girlfriend paid housemate's rent, and housemate refuses to pay girlfriend back. How do we get the money?
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting a silicone headphone tip stuck in my ear. POST: This Fuck up happened last night. I don't usually fall asleep with headphones, but, I must have been especially tired last night. I was in an almost conscious state, aware that I was moving but my brain was still in sleep mode. I...
fell asleep with headphones, shoved the silicone tip inside my ear while sleeping, and pulled it out with a paperclip.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26 M] am confused about this [26 F] I met on a dating app three days ago. POST: I recently met this really nice girl online on a dating app(Okcupid) . We hit it off instantly and became good friends. She even gave me her number and we started talking. The next day I started talking ...
Girl said she does not want to give me false hope as she still lovers her ex. Who knows what will happen in the future. She would like to remain friends. Should I stop talking to her?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is there any chance that Apple will replace my iPod after having it troll me within the first hours of having? POST: I got an iPod classic for Christmas this morning, and it immediately trolled me the moment I plugged it in. I tried syncing it to my iTunes automatically, and it only loade...
Will Apple help me out with this dud of an iPod I just got, or am I going to have to repeatedly punch Steve Jobs in the dick until he gets me a new one?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] with my BF [31 M] almost 3 years, he doesn't know that I was kicked out of college rather than dropping out myself POST: During college, I was going through some personal issues (of the mental health variety) and stopped going to class and doing the required coursework. Natur...
BF doesn't know that I was kicked out of college (he believes I left voluntarily). It's been 6 years since then, is that something he'd be upset to find out?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] want to tell my racist father [50M] about my black boyfriend [20M] of 1.5 years POST: Some background first, my father is sweet as honey and wouldn't hurt a fly. However, he is very racist, to the point he will openly mock people of any other race than our own (Caucasian) and w...
My father is racist and not involved in my life, but I feel guilty about hiding my black boyfriend of 1.5 years from him. Should I tell him or wait until I am on my own?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Find out the name of a harassing caller/texter? POST: A friend of mine is being harassed by an unknown number. And we are trying to figure out who it is, based on the texts it is someone she knows and the person sending the texts obviously knows a lot about her. -We know the number is fr...
friend is recieving texts harassing her and would like to find out who it is without spending $50 on a website.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [31/F] Sister Uses My [8/M] Autistic Nephew As An Excuse For Everything, Is Sucking The Life Out Of Family. POST: I have a 31yr old sibling with an 8yr old boy who is Autistic. She uses his condition as an excuse for literally everything imaginable and just walks all over the family...
Sister uses my nephew's condition of Autism as an excuse to literally do nothing and is an extreme burden to the family.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [17M] Stop Being so Clingy? POST: I am using a throw away cause people I know know my reddit account and I am a bit embarrassed by this. I have known I have this issue for a long time, but only recently realized that is a bit of an issue. Whenever I meet a girl, I immediate...
When I like a girl, I develop feelings very quickly and I get clingy. I want this to stop. I need advice.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] have to choose between college with my best friend/non-bio brother [17M] and my SO [17F]. POST: I grew up in Texas for the first ten years of my life. I met, let's call him Brad, on the first day of kindergarten. Brad is still my best friend and I would consider him to be more ...
My best friend and my girlfriend are going to colleges 12 hours away from each other, I have to choose between them, please help!
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What can I expect at a neurologist? POST: So for about half a year now I have been having trouble with my nerves. My body shakes a lot, my arms get very weak no matter if I'm carrying something heavy or light. My legs get weak and I can't walk much. I've been to a few doctors and for a whi...
I'm having nerve problems and I have to go to a neurologist and don't know what to expect. So Reddit, has anyone experienced this and what should I expect?
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] best friend [23F] having a relationship with my ex-boyfriend [24M] of 6 years POST: I don't exactly know what I'm looking for by posting this.. I tried r/offmychest but got no replies and I guess I just need some advice because I'm feeling a bit lost. Basically I've recently...
Best friend sleeping with ex-boyfriend (high school sweetheart).. need advice on how to deal with situation.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [14,M] came out to my aunt[35,F] a few weeks ago. Found out she outed me later, so I went back in the closet. What do I do? POST: I live in Italy as an American citizen with my family, and my mother and I visited the states for a month. During that month, I came out as bisexual to my...
Came out to aunt, aunt outed me, went back in closet. Huge mess of a situation, confused about more than just my sexuality now.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M/F] with my boyfriend [20 M/F] of a year, I have some control issues over us living together POST: Ben and I go to college together. This year we live in different houses across campus from each other. Ben has clothes and shower stuff in my room, and he spends maybe 3-4 nights ...
How do I tell my boyfriend I want him to move out of my room and I want to spend fewer hours with him to avoid sleeping in the same bed?
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am I arachnophobic? (Semi-graphic story within) POST: I'm curious what the bounds of this term are. I know most people have a healthy fear of spiders, but I don't know if mine extends into a legitimate phobia. About 8 years ago, I slept with my mouth open due to swollen tonsils. Once, I ...
I woke up once with a spider in my mouth. I havent been able to touch them, kill them, or even be in the same room as one, since that event.
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by calling my 80 year old chemistry teacher a troll. POST: Obligatory: happened 1 year ago. My teacher, Ms. N, was going over some problems on how to identify conversion factors that were either given by equations or word problems. (For example, you can use density to covert between grams...
My teacher was saying potential test questions that were rather hard, and I called her a troll with a different meaning in mind.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my SO [23 F] of 5 years, lack of communication on sexuality POST: My SO and I have been dating for a long time, we've had a breakup once but we manage to stay together. We have been sexual for 4 years now and I've talked to her about my sexuality in full, but she has to...
SO doesn't want to communicate on sexuality/denies having any outside of just "normal sex," causing significant relationship strain for me
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Student Loan Repayment - Bank Wants 1/3 of My Income POST: Genies of Personal Finance, please help me! I have $55,000 in student loans from a private bank that I have to start paying back in July (I just got a notification letter yesterday). I make $15-16,000 a year, around $1,300 a ...
$400/month private bank payments beginning soon on student loan - I make $1,300/month - Help? ;_;
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my Girlfriend [20F] of off and on, under a year, might be breaking up over something I did when not together. POST: Hey everyone, so I've dated this girl since Spring and we were apart kind of over Summer but got back together before I went abroad in Fall. A week or so in...
I hooked up while abroad and not together with gf. She found out and now I'm scared I'll lose her.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: A girl [25F] I [30M] had sex with sent me a message saying she is pregnant. I responded stating my full support. She stopped messaging and completely cut me off. What's going on? POST: **Her last message:** I just took the test and I am pregnant. Omg. And that was it. I tried calling...
I got a girl pregnant. I stated my intent of support whatever decision she makes but now she completely disappeared. I don't know what to do.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Follow-Up: My boyfriend (21M) is high-flying and I'm afraid I'll slow him down in the future POST: OP: I talked about my concerns with my boyfriend. He knows I'm worried about this, and he wants to make me feel better, he just doesn't have all the answers right now. He doesn't know...
Talked to boyfriend, we're both lost and scared of the future. Reassurance would be great if you've got any.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to I [20F] go about finding a guy who wants a serious relationship? Sick of hookups and casual, undefined relationships. POST: I've always preferred serious, long-term relationships over flings. While I enjoy the sexual part of a relationship, I like spending quality time with that...
Getting frustrated at how many of the guys I meet and genuinely like just want a casual hookup, looking for ways to meet guys who want to actually date.
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [37 M] with my ex [31F] duration= 13 years, she left me 6 months ago, moving out of the house Saturday. POST: This might be more venting that asking a question... Basically been with the mother of my 2 kids since i was 23 and she was 17. She felt she needed to live something else, ...
Ex of 13yrs broke up with me, still have feelings for her, have to see her sometimes because of kids, what's the best way to stop loving her?