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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Found a girl on Craigslist, should I go for it?
POST: Hey r/relationships, first time here so pardon all the mistakes that are bound to show up here.
Basically, here's the story. After a somewhat difficult breakup with my most recent ex-girlfriend, I was rebounding pretty hard. So, I ... | Met a girl on Craigslist I want to have a casual relationship with, but I'm not sure if she's legit or not. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [17M] started 'dating' a girl [17F] a week ago, after talking for a couple of months, she lives a fair distance from me but it's not long distance, how do I approach this?
POST: It's not official yet but I know that she likes me and I like her too, she's great. We'd been talking a ... | Not-so long distance but long enough relationship, how often should I make the effort to see her or ask her to make the effort to see me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being me.
POST: Friday night I went to a party because my girlfriend and I have been having troubles and we needed a social gathering to help us feel like a normal relationship again. On my way there, I hit a dog with my car. He ran out in front of me without even looking.. I clipped hi... | hit a dog with my car, couldn't save him, locked my keys in my car, busted the window, just found out my girlfriend might leave me. Just read the whole damn thing. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: update from a cheater - thanks for the honest advice Reddit, but I have one more quandary
POST: So I posted recently about how I've been unhappy in marriage for most of its 10 yr span and have cheated on my spouse recently. And had a couple emotional affairs in the past.
The R... | do I break it off for good or meet up one last time? Or do I blow the whole thing up and chase a younger girl stealing her from her man? Help me change my mind to do the right thing. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [22F] called me [25M] out on the fact that I 'never get angry'. Advice?
POST: So my girlfriend and I were having a long discussion on our relationship, and eventually we moved on to stuff that bothered us about each other, and one thing she said that its sort of off putti... | girlfriend is sort of concerned that I don't express anger. I'm a naturally calm guy to begin with and I was raised to view that getting outwardly angry is generally childlike and doesn't solve problems. Thoughts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Not sure if I 22f should leave him 22m due to baggage.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about two years. I have expressed my feelings for him in our relationship multiple times. However, he does not reciprocate. He is extremely sweet and funny and we rarely figh... | Boyfriend is stuck on his ex from 3 years ago, is there anything besides therapy that I can do to help him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] and my girlfriend [18F] of about eight months broke up despite both having feelings for each other.
POST: My girlfriend and I were dating for several months in high school, and were very close friends for a while before that. Things were always nearly perfect between us, with ... | The stress on my girlfriend from her very strict parents, who will not allow her to date until she is 25, drove her to end our relationship while both of us were still experiencing the full extent of our feelings for each other. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19/f] My FWB [22/m] sent me confusing drunk texts
POST: I have been hooking up with a guy from my home town since this past summer, so for about 6-7 months. After we started hooking up we talked and decided not to try to start a relationship because of the distance, since on campus I'... | my good friend and long distance FWB drunk texted me that he wanted to be "more than friends" and apologized for it the morning after, should I try to talk to him or let it go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Girlfriends cat sees me as a terror, is there a way to get him to like me?
POST: We think he was abused in some way, because if we move around he scampers away. When I was living at her house the cat literally didn't leave his hiding place until he was sure that everyone in the house was asleep... | cat seems like he was abused, hides 24/7 when allowed. But is cuddly only when I am gone. How can I make him love me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [18M] met the perfect girl [18F] and desperately want to make it work, but I am very awkward / inexperienced and need advice
POST: Duration: 3 weeks have gone by since I first said that I like her and want to date her.
So I met a girl at the beginning of university and we became goo... | I met the perfect girl for me, she loves me, wants to be the perfect girlfriend for me, and I want to be the perfect boyfriend for her, but I'm awkward and inexperienced. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (22M), her (21F). 3 years. Looking for some guidance to keep my mind from "wandering".
POST: Okay so right around the turn of the new year my girlfriend broke her leg pretty bad which will keep her pretty much bed-ridden until March. We haven't had sex since December.
Normally we'r... | girlfriend has a broken leg, haven't had sex in a month. keep thinking about having sex with other people, hating myself for it. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by sneezing, having my period, and crapping my pants at work...
POST: I'm on the last day of my period and it has been a particularly heavy and crampy period due to my new dosage of birth control. I'm at work and I feel some cramping and I'm thinking its just weird cramps and that I might ... | Had period cramps that were actually poop cramps. Walked into a mist of perfume, sneezed, shat, thanking Kotex for the alternative use of sanitary napkins. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (23m) want to end things but want to wait till our lease expires (6 months time) is it unfair not to tell her(23f)?
POST: If you look at my previous posts you can see that I'm in a long term relationship and haven't been happy for a while. The sex ended months ago and it now fe... | Stuck in an unhappy relationship and want to end things. Is it fair on her to live a lie until our lease expires? Relationship doesn't involve sex any more and little intimacy, we are basically like roomates now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Possible Rejection from Final Stage Interview (Group Interview)
POST: Hey guys,
I did a quick search on the sub and didn't find exactly what I was looking for. First time posting here, but if you've been regular and remember a post similar to think one, I'd be happy if you shared it :)
So I... | Was told at group interview we'd hear back the next day. Didn't hear back and assuming the worst. How long do I wait to send a thank you note if I just don't hear back at all? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] with my boyfriend [28 M], he rarely comes to bed with me at night and it bothers me.
POST: Hi Reddit,
I'm not really sure if I am "justified" for feeling this way and this is something that other people can relate to, or if I am just being a whiny baby. I have a set routine ... | Boyfriend rarely comes to bed with me (~5 nights in a week). I feel neglected and lonely for reasons I can't rationalize, and have begun to resent him for it. Has anyone else experienced this as well? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: So I (16M) finally asked out the girl I like (16F)... Kind of, but not really
POST: I decided to go for it and ask out the girl I like, whom I've known for about 7 months, but I messed it up.
So I walked with her after school and when we normally split up and say good bye I asked "Hey... | I started asking out a girl, didn't ask the actual question because she said she was busy. When should I ask again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 7 months , short-description;text=Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. **tl;dr**: Mandatory summary/question!
POST: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 7 months , trust issue after she lied about going somewhere more than once and pretended... | She went out and lied about it various times when I asked after I expressed my unapproval. Am I being rational or should I budge a little bit with her friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Weight Loss almost finished, starting to have psychological problems. Do I need help?
POST: Hi, M 17 5'11 168lb here, regular poster hence the throwaway acount.
I was severely bullied at school (physically and emotionally) for 6 years primarily for my weight, only ending last year (still at... | Was bullied for weight for years, lost weight, have started having serious rage fits recentley whenever I think about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by going for a walk at night
POST: So recently at night I have been going for walks in a park by my house just to get exercise and get out of the house, and last night before I left my mom made me carry a little thing of pepper spray because she was concerned for my safety. The thing of pe... | i went for a walk, thought I was about to take a draw on my ecig but instead i inhaled pepper spray |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs
TITLE: Brand new wheezing after a run?
POST: **age 16** (17 in less than a month)
**male**
**5'7"**
**150 lbs**
**American**
**~15-30mins** (after every minute it improves and improves)
**lungs**
no pre existing issues
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------... | I became a couch potato for three weeks then went for a two mile run. Afterwards my breaths sounded irregular with slight wheezing |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19F] with my SO [27/M], just moved in with him and his friend [M/24]. He doesn't have a job, I need advice.
POST: Boyfriend and I have been together for a year, moved in a few weeks ago to save money and his apartment is right across the street from my college. His friend is 24 and ... | Boyfriends friend is freeloading off of us, boyfriend doesn't really care, I want to move out already. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [30f] My husband [30] constantly resorts to thought-ending cliches when I try to talk to him.
POST: Been together 4 years.
I recently learned about TTC (thought terminating cliches- using a common phrase to end a conversation that you have no thoughtful answer to, such as 'because I ... | husband believes that if you love someone, you don't talk about anything you don't agree on. I believe this is a recipe for disaster down the road. What can I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25/F] with my workplace crush [28 M], we flirt a lot but is 'You'll make a good wife one day!' the death-knell?
POST: So I might be in that over-thinking every single comment or flirtation we have phase, but is a man that says that to a woman he's known for only a few months signal... | We flirt and chat at work a lot. He's said to me, "You're gonna make a good wife someday!" or thereabouts twice within one week. The chances that he actually does like me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [31 M] with my gf [31 F] of 7 months, I want to break up for a cuter fling and I don't know how to do this without devestating her. Please help.
POST: We met on Tinder in January, after being single and lonely for 2 years. Maybe I was desperate at the time, but I jumped in to this r... | Need to break up with gf who does everything for me and puts up with my shit, in order to date someone more attractive. I don't know how to go about breaking up in the nicest way possible. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [20sF] not straight, my adviser [30sm?]doesn't/can't know, and it's beginning to cause a problem
POST: I'm a latter stage PhD student at a public university in an incredibly conservative area, and most of the faculty (and a sizable portion of the students) in my department are open... | Had a same-sex relationship that ended badly and affected my productivity. My adviser is not LGBTQ-supportive but assumes that my close-lipped approach to the relationship equals dishonesty. I feel trapped. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Feeling Stuck
POST: I'm on autopilot. I mean i don't even know how i got to work today. I remeber pedalling but that's all. I feel like someone else is walking, that my counscioness is on the background, screaming "LET'S GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE" but no. I lunch. Take a coffee. Surf the we... | Job sucks. Want to change but need an equal pay. My post grad is unmotivating. What should i do reddit? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [31 M] with my not quite girlfriend [31 F] little over a month, I am not ok with the kid thing, how can I break things off without hurting her?
POST: We have been dating for a little over a month. Things have started to escalate a bit we text everyday hangout a lot when she doesn't ... | Trying to find an easy way to break it off with a girl I am dating because I am not ok with having to deal with a kid. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [25 F] of 7 months, noticed she looked through my text messages on my iPad while I was sleeping.
POST: My girlfriend slept over last night and had to leave early this morning for work. She has a history of snooping through my messages stored on my iPad, whi... | Girlfriend of 7 months snooped through my text messages while I was sleeping. Has a history of it. Not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 24 F with my boyfriend 26 M of almost 5 months, want to make it work but not sure it can at this point?
POST: My boyfriend of going on 5 months (two months official) and I are having some issues...he uses Reddit as well so I will be moderately vague and apologize if this makes it ha... | Confusion in almost 5-month relationship, wondering if it's time to move on or stick it out for a few more months. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by Eating Chile Before I Worked at a Water Park
POST: Little backstory of my job, half of the time you rotate to the top of a slide at the edge of the park where you tell kids to go down for a half hour. So this is where the fuck up happens, about 5 minutes after I rotated to the slide I g... | 20 year old male shits his pants on working on top of slide and sits in his own shit the rest of the day |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by wiping [NSFW]
POST: Reposted because it's the weekend. (Where I am)
Happened a few days ago.
So, I'm just using the bathroom. You know, No.2. And you look around to find some toilet paper, and there is none. Well, crap. What am I gunna do now? I knew I couldn't skip the wiping, it was... | I ran out of toilet paper, so I used trash paper from a wrapped tampon. Period blood and urine up my butt.. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [26/M] break with my GF [32/M] is too hard. Feel like my world is closing in on me. The lump in my throat just keeps getting bigger.
POST: Girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me last night. I know that doesn't seem particularly long but it was truly magical until we had two argumen... | GF broke up, ready to start my journey to rebuild but what has worked for you in particular after a breakup outside of the normal suggestions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [25M] doesn't think our anniversary holds any significance.. [19F]. I normally wouldn't be upset, but what does this mean?
POST: It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting un... | boyfriend thinks anniversary is insignificant. Not sure if he just doesn't care or is looking at long term potential. His lack of fucks given doesn't really match up to how he acts around me.. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I cheated on my boyfriend for years.
POST: Hello, I'm 21 and a girl, I cheated on my boyfriend (also 21) of roughly 9 years. I didn't just cheat once either, I got involved with another man around two-three years ago and have continued off and on until yesterday.
Today I got caught.
... | I cheated on my boyfriend of nine years for almost three years with another man. Can this relationship be saved? Is it possible to forgive something like this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by cleaning the bathroom
POST: Well, two days ago, and I'll try keep this short.
We had black mould appearing on our bathroom walls, so obviously I'm going to clean it. I removed everything from the bathroom and decided before I start, I'd give the toilet a quick bleach and clean. So ther... | spilled bleach, didn't clean it up properly, proceeded to use another product, the two came into contact and pretty much resulted in me gassing myself. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my GF [25 F] duration, short-description: Was sent links to GF old nudes, need advice.
POST: *Throwaway cause GF reddits*, So yesterday I received an email from "Jack Ryan - noreply@remailer.cpunk.us". With links to those ex girlfriend revenge sites, there were nudes and... | Was sent links to GF old sex pics. Not mad, can't decide if I tell her and we try to figure it out, or ignore it and she won't have to worry about it. Help please? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25/m] have a huge thing for a girl I knew [20/f] that my best friend/room mate [23/m] knew about, yet he acted on it himself.
POST: Long story short:
I've always had a huge thing for this girl that I kind of know. Usually I'm not the type to be bashful but she made me incredibly sh... | Friend made out with girl he knew I was really in to, feeling pretty down about myself, not sure if I should say anything to him or move on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [m20] girlfriend [f21] is hanging out with some other guy.
POST: Me and my SO have been together for about a year now. Anyways, today, my girlfriend went to a local amusement park with some people she works with including this guy that I have expressed concern with before. Every day... | My girlfriend is hanging out with some guy I am not comfortable with her being around, how do I bring it up without making her think I don't trust her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [25M] and I [22F] will be seeing the man his ex cheated on him with [20sM] tomorrow. How do I handle it?
POST: My boyfriend, Scott, was in a relationship with this girl, Emily, for just under 3 years. They had a home together, and he had purchased an engagement ring (but ... | Evening out with man who ended boyfriend's last serious relationship (and possibly the ex-girlfriend). How do I make it less awkward? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [19/F] been talking to this guy [20/M] and it's going great, but...
POST: So I met this amazing guy last Monday through my friend (who I actually used to have a crush on) anyways, we all went to a concert and that was that. It was a beautiful night. He got my number because my fri... | This amazing guy is saying very nice things to me and we both really enjoy the time we spend together, but I don't feel worthy of it. I'm afraid someone could like me this much. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I had always paid my Visa in full then got hit with $200 interest. Read this to avoid my mistake.
POST: I've been fortunate enough that I had always been able to pay my visa in full until last month. Due to a trip my visa was high and I could pay it in full but I would have had to mo... | even if you're only $0.01 short on your balance owing on your credit card you'll get hit with interest on the FULL amount. Avoid my mistake. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23M] with my [23M] best friend of 15 years and it's not going well.
POST: I transferred colleges to the college where my best friend went. I didn't know anyone and he was looking to move out of his current place. So we decided to move in together. I didn't have any friends here and... | Moved in with my Best Friend of 15 years. Now we don't get along and I need advice on how to handle it without losing the friendship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Need help getting my life out of the doldrums
POST: Hey /r/advice. I have been debating posting here for a while and I finally decided why the hell not. I feel like my life is stuck. I am currently a senior biology student at UT Austin and I feel very inadequate around my peers, friends and h... | I would like to know how to be more organized and motivated since I haven't done enough in my 21 years, and I feel ill prepared for graduate school and life in general. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24/M] ex-girlfriend [24/F] of 5 years and I broke up last month. NC for a week now; valid reason to break it?
POST: My ex-SO and I broke up because she wanted time to 'be alone'. We planned on being friends, but that quickly dissolved when she began constantly talking about, textin... | Girlfriend and I broke up. She moved out. Have been NC, but she took the mail key and didn't leave the money for some items she took. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to not let a cheating incident destroy the relationship? 22F and 23M
POST: I've been in a relationship for a little over 2 years now with a guy I love. Six months ago I kissed a guy at a bar while drunk who wasn't my BF. That's all there was to it - didn't get his name or phone num... | In a 2 year relationship with a guy I love. Drunkenly kissed a guy at a bar 6 months ago, fighting a lot of with BF. Wondering if anyone has tips to repair things |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Please, please! Is this an embolism?
POST: I'm entirely aware that this is not a forum for medical professionals but I'm freaking out and far away from doctors. Would really appreciate anything you've got to offer!
I've been experiencing chest tightness and some moderate, generalized ches... | Can an embolism present as repeated spells of (especially chest) symptoms over 4-5 days? Are there any definite symptoms? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Does this count as cheating?
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating serious for only a few months. I am 25 and she is 24. We are long distance but manage to see each other twice a month as I am in NYC and she lives in central Mass. It has been a serious few months because we've ... | GF slept with another guy in early stages of relationship. Now meets guys and doesn't tell them she has a BF. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I include my political affiliation/related activities on my resume/CV/Cover letters?
POST: Hey guys,
So I'm a graduating college senior with a half-decent GPA and a degree in Mechanical Engineering from a pretty prestigious (and unfortunately expensive) engineering school. I am als... | hold leadership positions in political and other "non-pleasant" affiliated clubs at school, and thinking of removing that info from my resume. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my best friend [19 F] pretty much since birth, I want to move our relationship to the next level.
POST: To start off, this isn't really me asking for help escaping the friendzone, we've already dated before, although it was a couple years ago and only for 3~4 months.
S... | I want to get back together with my lifelong friend, but she says she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [M,20], got this girl's[20] number but i'm not sure where to go with this...
POST: So here's the story:
I was smoking some weed with some buddies in a parking lot in my town when I see these two other girls doing the same thing a couple spaces near us.(This area is easy to get away ... | I got this girl's number and want to be able to arrange a meet up with her in a successful way. I wanna make sure i'm not bothering her in the process because it seems like she might be a busy person. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She [21F] went cold on me [22M] just recently and I'm wondering how to deal with it.
POST: I met a girl in school last year and took her out on a date before winter break. She and I texted before she left and agreed to meet up after break for more dates. In her texts she was all smiley... | We went out once, a month later shes back from winter break and I want to take her out again but she ghosted me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I think my wisdom teeth are coming in. What should I expect for the surgery and afterwards?
POST: I mean, I've heard horror stories about the pain of wisdom teeth and their removal, so I'm not really sure what to expect exactly.
The funny thing is, my top wisdom teeth are already in and s... | What should I expect before/at/after the surgery? Do I need to do anything in preparation for it? Thanks. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Fraud on my unemployment account in Florida
POST: Long story short, big budget cut at my office = 7 employees laid off. I'm on unemployment while looking for a new job. Never received my government money this past month, so i called them to see what's up. They tell me the money was sent,... | Unemployment is going to someone else's account. So now it's fraud, and I have no money. What do i do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [33M] with my girlfriend [27F] of 2 years helping her with her minor disability and how to talk about it
POST: I've been dating a girl and living with her for several years. We were friends for many years before that. She has a disability that reduces the usefulness of a limb. Da... | Girlfriend has a physical disability that inhibits some aspects of life, it's hard for her to cope, and hard for me to know how to offer help both with accomplishing those things and responding to her frustration. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I (30/m) establish and maintain contact with a new girl (26) long distance without coming on too strong?
POST: So quickly, I'm 30, the girls in this situation are 26...
A friend of mine, let's call her Jess, lives in a different state about 8 hours away. She always sends m... | Started talking to a friend of a friend long distance. Seems really cool but don't want to come on too strong at the same time I don't want to let it slip through my fingers. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] and my friends ditched all the work for a group uni project on my BF [20M] and he absolutely lost it us
POST: My boyfriend and I are in the same university course and we had this group project and it's been about 8 weeks ago and there are 8 of us in a group and I am friends wi... | let my boyfriend down big time on a university project and he absolutely lost it at me and I don't know if he will forgive me this time |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [28 M] being selfish toward my [25 F] ex?
POST: Am I being selfish?
A little background, my girlfriend and I of 4 years broke up about a month ago. One week after we broke up she kissed another guy. Then, a week after that she slept with this guy, we will call him Ben.
Now Ben i... | Am I being selfish for not wanting my ex to date a guy she had feelings for while she and I were together a month after we broke up? A guy she slept with 2 weeks after we broke up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[18M] girlfriends[18F] dad is emotionally abusive and cheats on her mom, what do we do?
POST: They're a Muslim family, and incredibly strict. Her mom doesn't want me to date her because I'm not Muslim, but her dad is even worse. If he found out about us, he would kick her out of the ... | gf has emotionally abusive, controlling dad that will kick her out of the house if he found out she was dating a non-muslim (me). What do we do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [27/F] I really hit it off with one of my new coworkers and would like to remain good friends. I think he is interested but he knows I am engaged. How do I keep this shit from getting awkward?
POST: I have been in a serious relationship for a number of years with [Ryan] and we ar... | Currently happily engaged. Met a guy that I hit it off with, but would like to continue to be friends with him without making things weird. What should I say? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 18F having rapid mood swings causing me to make rash decisions and act impulsively. Help?
POST: I've noticed within the past couple of years that the littlest thing will trigger a very rapid mood swing in me. I will go from feeling fine and happy to feeling extremely angry. Example: I ... | I have mood swings where I go from fine to extremely angry which makes me make stupid decisions that I always regret later. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18/F] think I might have a crush on my friend [18/M], but I am terrified to tell him!
POST: I've been agonizing over this for literally months, and im tired of it!
I've know him since 9th grade, and we just graduated from high school. I've always thought he was sweet and fun, and I... | I think im starting to like my friend as more than a friend. I've always liked him as a person, but im starting to think he's pretty cute as well, and im terrified to tell him. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some mediocre things you did as a child, to impress your peers, that made you feel like hot s**t?
POST: In fifth grade I was setting alone in the back of the room and I "programmed" a green screen'd Apple IIa to print to the screen "Hello world!" which got the attention of a coup... | demonstrated my "hacking" skillz at a tender age and impressed the class, king of the world and all that jazz, how 'bout you? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] have been dating someone [28M] for 5 months, still not sure where things are going.
POST: I met this guy on an online dating site. We hit it off wonderfully and have been seeing each other a few times a week for 5 months now. I really enjoy his company and we have great chemist... | Been seeing this guy for months, he isn't sure what he wants and is talking to other people, should I stop seeing him or try to make it work? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Ungrateful friend (F22) and I'm feeling resentful (F21)
POST: My good friend and I are moving in together (length: friends for 1 year). She was gone the entire summer while I stayed at our rented house. Over the summer I collected our furniture and moved in (I think my back broke in th... | friend is ungrateful about all the work I did for her and I don't know how to react, because she's my friend and I want to maintain peace of the household |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Gf [19/F] lacks conversation skills or she just doesn't care about the relationship any more with me [M/22]
POST: So I'm [22/M] and I've been dating my girlfriend [19/f] for 5 months now. Lately I feel like I am the only one who tries to make conversation through texting or outside see... | Don't feel like my girlfriend is making the effort in our relationship after just 5 months of seeing each other. Also feel like she's taking me for granted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [26m] Breaking up with a girl for the first time. Need advice.
POST: Yea I'm a bit of a late bloomer.
Anyway, I've been dating this girl for about 6 months now. Let's call her A [27f]. She is attractive and sweet, but very boring. We've been seeing each other mainly for sexual reasons... | Was dating one girl, now dating another, and want to get serious with one. How do I break up with the girl I no longer want? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm a 23 1/2 year old guy and haven't had sex in just about 3 years now.
POST: Towards the end of my freshman year in college I got into a serious relationship (my 2nd). While looking back I do value our time together, but she was insecure about her path in life (hard family life, lack of... | Extremely clingy relationship in college turned the idea of sex into a source of anxiety for me and I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20M] boyfriend forgot our year anniversary and I [20F] don't know how to get over it.
POST: Last week was my boyfriend and I's one year anniversary. We are long distance so I couldn't see him on the actual day but I planned a cute surprise weekend for us camping. We spent the night... | Boyfriend didn't get me anything for our anniversary and I'm still super salty about it and he's just telling me to drop it like it doesn't matter. Help me get over this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] want to get back into the dating world. How do I stop myself from going on the defensive whenever I start getting close to someone?
POST: A little background: At 20, I met a girl and we really hit it off. I was head over heels in love and everything felt right. We found each o... | Was in a serious 2 year relationship in which I was constantly lied to and now I find it difficult to get close to people. What's the best way to deal with my past and move toward healthier relationships? |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Don't give away private details in a public place
POST: I commute by train to work and generally like to zone out listening to my tunes or reading. Every now and then someone decides the cramped train compartment is the perfect place to loudly make a phone call. I find this disrespectfu... | obnoxious guy on his cell phone gives his bank details to everyone on the train. I make him think I stole his identity. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My partner [26] is a former alcoholic. I'm [22] pregnant, he was just found by police drinking after I reported him missing.
POST: My partner and I have been together for seven years. Soon after I met him, he became a heavy drinker, which then turned into severe alcoholism and heavy ma... | former alcoholic partner didn't come home. I reported it to the police and they found him drunk. I'm pregnant. He's on his way home now, what do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What's a gal to do?
POST: 35F here, have been in a FWB situation for about 8 months with a 27M.
Early on, I knew that I had feeling of more than "just friends" (with bennies, of course) I opened up to him and told him how I felt and he explained that we are both on different paths i... | ! FWB says he cares for me on a level that is more than friends. How should I interpret what he has said? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with girl I'm seeing [27 F] on second date, she makes no eye contact
POST: So, I met this girl on pof and we've been talking for a few weeks, first over messages on the website and then text messages. Went on a first date and it went really well. Had good conversation, got a ... | Go on two dates with girl, she makes zero eye contact, I don't make any moves. She says she really had fun. But I'm confused. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Recently offered a "promotion" that will take 2-3 years of training/preparing. In the meantime my current position elsewhere pays $20k more.
POST: I was recently offered a promotion into a position that will occur over the next 2-3 years. When my boss retires there will be some movem... | How do I approach my company for that extra $20k per year without pissing anyone off or risking my confirmed promotion? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: You were never as nice as you seemed.
POST: I never showed you my anger. I wanted to be the cool, collected chill girlfriend. But for 9 months you gave my anxiety like I never felt before, and I would pretend it was from school or about my mom. It was really because you'd ignore me, becau... | My ex was emotionally unavailable but I miss him a lot. Don't know what to do, how to get over it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17M] am being wrongly accused of stalking my ex [16F] and it is ruining my reputation
POST: Long story short: me[17M] and my ex[16F] are no longer together and she moved on to another guy. I've always been the quite shy guy and she really had some nice things to say about me wheneve... | My ex spread rumors that aren't true about me being a stalker and it has lead to me losing friends and being afraid to go to school. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: EX is sleeping around my fraternity...
POST: After a nasty breakup, my ex and I are not on good terms. I can't stand to see her face, and get angry every time she is around. It would be great if I never had to see her again.
However that's not happening. She spends every fucking day at my ... | EX is sleeping around, won't respect my wishes and stay away. Some of my brothers don't give a shit and like having her around, so I see her every day. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19F] boyfriend [21M] and I's relationship has lost most of its romance, not sure what to do anymore.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, so we're definitely past our "honeymoon" stage. This I understand, but in the past few months it seems like he doesn'... | Boyfriend treats me like a friends with benefits instead of a girlfriend. I've talked to him and nothing has changed, not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Other guys trying to take your women too??!?
POST: My finace talks to one guy who's got a huge crush on her, I don't want her to! I'm 18 and in a long distance relationship with the woman (19) I love and soon-to-be-wife. We've been together for over a year, one year has been spent a... | Other guy trying to steal my fiance, flirts on facebook, she encourages hanging out with him even after I've expressed to her how I feel, makes me really uncomfortable... What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Uninsured, where do I go for health care? (USA)
POST: Hi Reddit, regular poster here on a throwaway. I don't need medical advice, but I need to understand what would be the best course of action. Here are some important details:
I'm a 19 y/o female living in New Jersey, unemployed with no he... | Uninsured in NJ, going to seek treatment for illness tomorrow. I need help recognizing my options in terms of where. Thanks in advance, guys. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: (19) Need Personal Finance Advice. Re: TFSA's and Investing (Canada)
POST: Hello, I created this account for anonymity.
Currently I am 19 years old and make 45k a year. In march, in preparation for taxes I shuffled some money in my bank accounts around. I put $6000 into an RSP, max... | 19 year old Canadian wants to know what to do with excess TSFA contribution and how to invest and make the most out of it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [19/M] Three days ago, kinda started a relationship with my best friend... Help?
POST: Okay, here's the deal. It was 3:00 in the morning, we were talking. She was talking about how she had someone tell her they loved her, but she didn't feel the same way, and we were brainstormin... | Started relationship with my best friend while high on life (had the best day of my life just before it, was in a GREAT mood), don't really feel that way about her, we haven't told anybody, what do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: For those of you who work / have connections with t-mobile! Please read :/
POST: I had completely forgot to send in my defective phone back when i received my handset! Immediately i looked all over the house for the handset and shot out to the UPS box to send it back in! ... I called 611 a... | I'm an idiot who forgot to send in his defective device back to t-mobile ... Dont want to pay $500 for a defective phone! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Afraid that my [30M] large inheritance may go to future wife's head
POST: **Note, this is slightly hypothetical as it concerns a likely, but not certain future event**
I've been dating a woman for a few years now, and will probably be the woman I spend my life with. We've been tested... | Set to receive $X, where X is large. Wife is easily tempted by lifestyle inflation, so what can I do to keep those $X productive? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (17F) best friend (17F) has become seemingly more distant and purposefully does not invite me to events with our friends
POST: Some background info--
My best friend, lets call her Ali, and I have grown up together and became really close at around the age of 13. We look alike and s... | My best friend, who has always been dependent on me, is becoming increasingly more distant, hanging out with new people, and not including me in events with our friend group |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my coworker/higher up [29F] 1 year tried to get me to have a threesome.
POST: I want to make this short. We were all out drinking after work and one thing lead to another and I invited my coworkers Annie and Brett to my house, since we were all drunk and they couldn't dri... | My not-direct supervisor tried to get me to have a threesome with another coworker, I refused, she pressed the issue, now I am quitting. Do I tell anyone? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Rock and a Hard place....
POST: Hello Reddit,
Recently I was just thinking about this girl that I've got to met better. We had dinner like a month ago or so with all my friends and she was asking me questions regarding myself as literally was interested in me...
I didn't really know ... | Interested in a girl whom was interested in me before but I didn't notice. GETS COCKBLOCKED BY HER FRIENDS 24/7 and needs advice! |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: (24F) TRF or Vanguard- 98k windfall-help!
POST: I posted a couple of days ago ( regarding trying to get smarter with my money. I have been suggested by /r/zootrainer to think about a Vanguard 3 portfolio fund or a TRF. I know nothing about financing/investments and have read several ... | 98k, 5k possibly emergency fund, put 93 in TRF or Vanguard? completely ignorant to investing. help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the biggest fuck up you have ever commited at work?
POST: I have had one pretty huge fuck up in 2004 I was working in a warehouse which distributes products to its large number of shops all over the UK.
I was instructed to put boxes filled with merchandise on the conveyer belt and... | Worked in a factory, broke a machine trying to get it working again and cost the company loads of money due to massive delays in shop stock deliveries. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm m[21] and this is a bit complicated... with f[19]
POST: So this requires a bit of a history lesson, but two nights ago I invited an old friend over to a house party I was having in college and we ended up having sex. Now for the history lesson, I've known this girl for about 5 year... | known this one girl for awhile, get along great, slept with her a few nights ago, we still talk and we want to chill and shit. she has massive baggage. what do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear Reddit, how can I help out my grandmother?
POST: My grandmother is 93 years old; in a few months, she'll be 94. Ninety-fucking-four. She was about my age when World War II began. That blows my mind.
She currently lives with my parents, and for her age she's doing alright, health-wis... | My awesome elderly grandmother is super old, can't do much anymore, seems bored. Help me think of an awesome gift for her birthday. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to help for once in my life
POST: Hi, Reddit. I'd like you to know that I'm a teen who lives with my family, and we usually hire someone to do the lawn for us. Lately, though, we've decided to mow it ourselves.
About an hour or two ago, I was mowing the yard when I hit something... | ) Cost thousands of dollars in repair fees for trying to help out around the house. (And having a girlfriend to talk to) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my BF [24 M] of 1.5 years, he starts fights but says he'll leave me if we argue
POST: We have been together for 1.5 years. Our relationship is great except for this one thing.
We have had a couple big arguments, but mostly he thinks that I get hungry/tired/pissy and ta... | Boyfriend says if we argue he'll leave me. Only he keeps starting arguments, and when I try to diffuse them they only seem to get him more riled up. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17M] am being ignored by my friend [21M] after going to his party
POST: Me, and this friend that we are going to call A, met through League of Legends, an online game.
I have known him for about 2 years, and we live in the same city, I eventually asked if I could go to his birthda... | Met friend on LoL 2 years ago, went to his Birthday, pissed him off somehow and he's ignoring me now, want to find out what I did wrong. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [31/F] with my boyfriend [27/M] together for 6 years, need help dealing with anxiety and confidence differences.
POST: I have been in a relationship for almost 6 years with my boyfriend, and like every couples, we have our ups and downs. (and I just want to specify that English isn'... | Need help to ensure each our problems don't ruin our couple, difference between levels of confidence is hard to deal with. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I feel smarter than everyone I know, and I feel like it inhibits me from growing.
POST: I feel like I am on a separate intellectual level from everyone I know, I'm always withholding information and dumbing myself down to associate better with my friends and family. People occasionally ha... | I feel smarter than everyone I know and I feel like I've been dumbing myself down for so long that I am actually starting to lose my intelligence and risking accomplishing nothing with my life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21M) really, really, really, need to break up with (20F). I've tried before. I've failed both her and myself by not going through with it. Help.
POST: It's been 3 years. I'm 21. She's 20. I've tried breaking up with her before but I am manipulated to stay with her. Whether it's her ... | How do I break up with my girlfriend who won't let me do it? What is the easiest/fairest way? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [23/F] been in a relationship with my boyfriend [25/M] for about one year, have wanted out for 6 months, yet paralyzed and addicted
POST: I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. We started dating last October. In April, I realized this was not a forever relationship. I r... | Addicted to a relationship I know is wrong for me. Know I need to break up every day. Yet have nightmares of him leaving or cheating on me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21F) can no longer stand my best friend(21F).
POST: She and I have been best friends for seven years.
I have discovered that my friend is a walking marital sabotage. She spreads rumors and -lies- for the soul purpose of leading men on and tearing apart relationships. She belittles ... | My friend is manipulative and a terrible person. Help. We've been friends for seven years. We are both 21(f) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'll [29 M] be moving in together with my girlfriend [30 F] of (technically 3 weeks). We know it's a bad idea, but it could work, right?
POST: So i know it sounds bad, but here's the story:
We've known each other for about 6 months and we've been hanging out nearly every day since the... | My girlfriend is moving in with me and we haven't been dating very long. Need to know if it has a chance of working out. |
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