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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Me [29 M] with my wife [30 F] Dated for 16 months, married for 5, we fight every 2 - 3 weeks, and it gets more harsh each time. (X-post/relationships)
POST: A little back info, We are both divorced, and have kids from previous marriages (I have a 6yr old daughter and so does she)... | We fight horribly every two weeks, I'm emotionally insensitive, which causes my wife to lose her temper. How do we stop the madness, restore trust, and begin loving again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Girlfriend left her Gmail open at my house, confirmed she's still cheating on me. What should I do?
POST: So to be brief, back in March my girlfriend admitted she liked a new friend of hers. We live together, and she was very obviously sneaking out at night and staying out all night. On... | Girlfriend left g-mail open on my computer, found confirmation of cheating, looking for good way to use this e-mail access situation to my advantage for non-violent confrontation and vindication. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29F] with my ex-FWB [38M] his wife doesn't know we slept together.
POST: My former FWB and I had a fling 4 years ago that lasted a month or so in the summer, and it was a lot of fun. He had told me that he was in a monogam"ish" relationship with his wife, in that they slept around ... | Former FWB might have lied about his relationship status with his wife while he was sleeping with me, and his wife doesn't know what had happened. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Sold on Craigslist buyer demands refund. Advice would be greatly appreciated.
POST: I very recently sold a razer black widow keyboard on Craigslist in Austin Texas to some guy. Before I even posted the ad I thoroughly checked every switch/key worked as well as the macro keys an the audio... | Sold fully functional keyboard thoroughly checked by me. Buyer claims 24+ hours later there is a faulty key and demands his money back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by believing Shmosby
POST: Last week I was binge watching HIMYM while being a bored lonely college student on spring break at my house. Watch a scene where Ted drops a bottle of expensive scotch and starts crying about it. Cue one of my only friends home on break calling me to hang out. Sh... | I got kinda buzzed with a friend with vast liquor knowledge after watching HIMYM and proceeded to make fun of him for not knowing what a fake brand of scotch was. *sigh |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: My gf wants to change gender..
POST: I really can't hold this enough.
My GF is 17 and wants to change gender.
I can't understand why she would take such a decision in a young age like this, even though she's been thinking it for a while now. This is something she should do around 25 year... | my gf wants to change gender at 17 yrs and I can't believe i'm going to lose everything for this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Need advice: 21 years old, not getting paid properly at a job that isn't worth it anymore. Considering quitting to start my freelancing career
POST: I'm starting my third year working at a school, doing technology support. At the end of my first year, I was making about $12/hr. and c... | Not getting paid properly at my current job; I want to quit to start a freelance web design career. I have $15k in savings for cushion. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Do people ever get back together?
POST: Hi Reddit, My SO (24 F) and I (25 M) of five months broke up yesterday. The first two months we were just sexual partners, the last three we spent most weekends together and talked every day. I broke up with her because she wasn't able to fully commit... | I broke up with her because she needed time on her own and couldn't fully commit. Do we have a chance in the future? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[32M] with anxiety issues, [32F] 6 months, lost the "feeling"
POST: Met her back in January and had one of the best connections I've ever had. We never fought, disagreed or felt any negative pressure. Fun dates and good sex (early on)
While we only saw each other 2-3 times a week on... | no fighting, no bad, all good times but fizzled, I think, because of my anxieties...is it worth revisiting if I'm work on the anxiety? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18F] with my friend [18F] of like 14 years, I had a fundraiser for my club and she agreed to go with her boyfriend, trying to get me to pay for her boyfriend after the fact
POST: So I had a fundraiser for a club I am a part of, and I had to sell two tickets, which were 20 each. I c... | Friend won't pay me for a fundraising event she already went to because she's broke and so is her boyfriend. She wants me to pay because I have a job and "can afford it". |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19F] of 5 years, We had agree to room together next year and I had worked out a deal with a complex and she went and took the deal with other people.
POST: A friend from high school (Valarie) and I ended up attending the same college. We are both currently livi... | A friend from high school and I were suppost to room together in a apartment next year and she just bailed before we were signing the papers. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What's the best advice you can give to a woman (26/f) about to move in with her boyfriend (26/m) of one year?
POST: My boyfriend and I decided in May that we wanted to move in together... and we spent all of June, July looking for a place. He just moved into our apartment Aug 1; I'm no... | I'm moving in with my boyfriend Nov 1. I'm scared! But excited. But scared! What is the best advice you've heard about cohabitation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Months after a break up, I [22/F] feel like I'm suddenly not over things, backsliding and afraid of relationships
POST: Hi relationships, I hope you can help me out here. I have been single for about four months, and before that I was in a relationship for just under a year. The relati... | Felt good immediately post break up, now feeling pretty crappy a few months later. How can I pull myself out of this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23f) think my boyfriend (22m) has a mental illness of some kind. How to approach?
POST: Let me start by saying that were in a long distance relationship for a year because he is too unstable for me to be there. He suffers from severe depression.
He's lied to me a few times. Also t... | Bf is going through things but it seems to be more than depression. And only affects our relationship, not other things in his life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [26 M] is good at showing me [25F]he loves me, but he can't seem to say much with his words. How do I tell him I appreciate the love he shows me but sometimes I want to hear it in his words too?
POST: Boyfriend and I have been together about 2.5 years, living together for ... | Boyfriend shows me love with actions but doesn't always use his words and I'd like to hear him say how he feels instead of assuming. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] still don't know if I love my boyfriend [20M] of a year
POST: I've been with my boyfriend for almost 12 months now, and we still both have not said "I love you" to each other. I'm his first girlfriend and he's my second boyfriend (I did say "I love you" in my first relationship... | Not sure if I love/ever will love my boyfriend of a year. Wondering what's holding me back/if I should break up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Would I regret breaking up with my high school girlfriend?
POST: We're both 20 (she's a few months older), and have been dating for just over three years (since senior year of high school). The relationship has had its bumps, but we've somehow persevered, despite going to school 10 hou... | Not sure whether to stay in my good relationship to look for a fantastic relationship. I know that its my decision, but past experience would be appreciated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19M] being talked down to by girlfriend[21F] (NSFW)
POST: I have been dating this girl for about half a year now. We met at college and are actually still in college. While dating we have always had a great relationship but recently have had sexual problems.
Well, she is a bit of... | Girlfriend is bragging to friends about her disrespect of me in the bedroom. I am starting to feel bullied in my own relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21m] girlfriend [19f] has been worrying about our/her future.
POST: My girlfriend and I started dating in high school at age 16m/15f. We had two great years together but eventually she became distant because she felt that she was too young to be in a serious relationship and wanted... | girlfriend says she's too young to be in a serious relationship and wants out because she wants to feel the "puppy dog love" a new relationship has |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Vet Advice That Contradicts the Internet..
POST: Today Lola and I went to vet because she is now legally mine and Lola is now microchiped and able to be returned if anything goes awry. I had some general questions about how long at the dog park and lengths of hikes to clarify my knowledge. She ... | 6 month old lab, 55lbs, unaltered female got told I could start jogging with her (C25K style) by my vet. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you know how good a programmer you are?
POST: I was never formally trained as a programmer, I have a degree in Applied Math. Everything I know about programming I've learned on my own.
For the past 7 years I've been working for this really small company. The pay was good, and I g... | I always felt I was a mediocre programmer, started working with friends who are "Sr. level", and ends up being they suck balls... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [22 F] of three years, I'm being possessive.
POST: I love my girlfriend dearly but I've noticed that I can be possessive and I lose confidence in our relationship. This isn't like that I think we should break up or that she would cheat, it's internal on my end. Thi... | Boyfriend in a long distance relationship, I feel possessive and I don't want it to ruin our relationship. Help please. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [25/m] I was caught by my gf [26/f]
POST: I moved away from my girlfriend to a new city, and although she visits me often, I felt the need to make a online dating profile. I started messaging girls and setting up dates. She found my profile while visiting me and now wants to br... | I cheated on my girlfriend on a dating website and she found out. I don't think it's actually cheating since I never met these women in real life, but she thinks it is emotional cheating. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] can't seem to get over my ex [21M], but can't bear to part with my current SO [22M]
POST: I [20F] and my current SO [22M] have been dating for around a year and three months so far, and we've had a lot of ups and downs, but currently we're doing pretty good in terms of our happ... | – Can't choose whether to leave my SO for my ex or stay with SO and ignore feelings for ex till they go away. Advice is extremely welcome. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Fuck you 2012.
POST: This year started out amazingly. Dream job, cooking in one of the countries best restaurants and a very popular food truck.
Then I slipped and fell at work and blew out my ankle, and I don't just mean a little sprain. Blew the ligaments and ripped my achillies in two... | Was immobile for a few months. Lost my dream jobs. Got a concussion. then got fired from my new job. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: In-person interview this Friday, but was told I may not be qualified or suitable for the "corporate structure."
POST: I had an initial phone interview with a representatives at a large Fortune 500 company about a week ago. She told me the next step was an interview with my potential boss, and s... | I have experience with start-up companies, but may not fit the "corporate structure" of this Fortune 500 company. Any suggestions for how I approach the interview? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help me [27 F] snoop on my fiance's [28 M] phone
POST: My fiance and I got engaged about 5 months ago and I am pretty sure that he is cheating on me. He has been acting very suspicious, for example, he says he is out with his family and when I ask his sister how the dinner went, she sa... | My boyfriend is cheating and I want to know the whole truth and snooping is the only way to do it, how do I snoop through his phone without him knowing when he always has it with him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do you do it?
POST: Separated for 9 months, 3.5 year old daughter, husband, married 7 years.
In November of 2010 I found out my wife was having an affair with her co-worker. After many different tactics to try and repair our marriage, most of them by me, she finally moved out in... | 7 year, 1 child, Marriage is ending... i'm extremely depressed... looking for healthy things to get over the depression... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Poly relationship fell apart, 21 [f] hated by 20 [f] gf's ex, and now gf wants to get back together with ex. What do?!
POST: So I've been dating this girl for the past 6 months, let's call her Alice, and I'm pretty madly in love with her. I've never met anyone quite like her, and defin... | found the perfect girl, love her to pieces, she's still in love with her ex. Pining. What do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21F) don't want to call my boyfriend (21M) because it makes me cry.
POST: It's a short, stupid question. 3 year relationship, we love each other lots, yadda yadda. We go to the same college but live in different states, so every break is apart (winter, spring, and especially summe... | I cry whenever I call my boyfriend or video chat with him and I'm considering making the long distance portion text only but I feel it's the wrong thing to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23 F] 4 months girlfriend, told me she was on the bridge of depression tonight.
POST: So I've been going out with this amazing girl from my school for about 4 months. Things are going pretty well and I think for the first time of my life I'me pretty sure I've fallen in love. She's ... | Girlfriend told me she was on the brink of depression, I love her and want to help, but I can't help thinking I'm responsible. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my (ex) BF [24M] on and off over 1.5years . Power of intuition ?
POST: I met my ex 2 years ago . We would get together a few times and then stop seeing each other .. then at the beginning of the summer he contacted me , said he had been seeing another girl but he couldn't... | My intuition is telling me we will be back together. I have felt like this before and it was right. Should I try ignore it and move on , or do people really believe in the power of intuition?! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My husband [25 M] can't let it go that I had feelings for other people when I [24 F] thought that we were on a break.
POST: My husband [25 M] can't let it go that I had feelings for other people when I [24 F] thought that we were on a break. He was mostly faithful (only stuck to porn) ... | I had feelings for people I masturbated to during a supposed break with my husband. I found out that we were not on a break. How do I alleviate the situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How should my boyfriend [25M] and I [23F] work out the cost of splitting mortgage? Together 3 years.
POST: Hi Reddit! I am buying a home for 300,000 with my name on the lease (due to boyfriend's lack of good credit). We currently have separate finances. I am putting down 90k and the bo... | I am putting 90K down with my name on the lease, boyfriend is putting down 0k. We split mortgage. How do we make this amicable if we break up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] starting a new relationship slowly but a dream including my ex has thrown me off.
POST: Long story short, I was in a relationship (year and a few months) that finished back in February. I was cheated on that came apparent when her ex kept turning up in places or at her house,... | Seeing new person taking it slowly, had dream about the ex and has upset me, made me put my guard up with out even knowing it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Socializing a feral kitten, need advice.
POST: So I finally got the ok from my landlady to bring in a a buddy to my Z. There is this gorgeous little feralish female kitten(more of a catten at this stage we think she is almost at 2 months old) that was born in my buddies shed and lives there wit... | what would be better for socializing a feral kitten keeping her in your bedroom or letting her stay in the bathroom? I do have another cat. He has lived with other cats before. She's been around other cats besides her mom |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24m) keep finding myself getting extremely jealous and paranoid about my gf (26)
POST: Hey so I have been attempting to deal with this on my own for a long time. I don't know where it came from because she is without doubt the most trustworthy person I've dated. She's extremely outg... | finding myself getting jealous and paranoid about my gf with absolutely no reason to be. Looking for suggestions on how to deal with it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [29 M] with girlfriend [24 F] of six months sometimes says really dark things and I don't know if she needs help.
POST: I've been dating my girlfriend now for about six months. (Actually, we first met five years ago, but that is irrelevant to my story). Basically, sometimes she say... | My girlfriend says dark things and I wish she wouldn't. Does she need help, or am I overreacting? |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: I found a cat outdoors, tracked down the owner who seems like a deadbeat, what should I do?
POST: I found a really sweet male cat outside as I came home from work. He permitted me to pick him up, so I brought him into my bedroom (to keep him separate from my cat).
He had no collar and seemed ... | I don't want to give the cat I found back to his lazy owner and I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [16/m] unsure of how to start a relationship with someone [16/f]
POST: I'm asking this for a friend who doesn't have reddit, he's the [16/m] I'll be referring to him as "Bob". So recently "Bob" has been feeling a bit lonely, I moved away and I was his primary friend. He's known t... | shy [16/m] who's never been in a relationship wants to date a [16/f]. one of her friends also [16/f] likes him back. the feeling is not mutual. Any relationship advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [M/19]Broke up after fighting, recently got in contact [F/20] and beginning to have feelings again.
POST: Hi, so I'm new to this all and not sure how it goes but this is my story.
I met this girl online, a few years ago which lived nearby and after about 1.5 years of talking on... | got with this girl, broke up, she dated straight away, got pregnant and got cheated on, I helped her through the termination, and falling in love again but feeling isn't mutual. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [24 F] hooked up with this guy [30M] with what was supposed to be a no strings attached thing. How can I keep it so that there are no emotions while continuing this, especially since he doesn't think I like him?
POST: I decided to be spontaneous and do something I'd never done- try a... | I obviously want to keep this purely casual because he's not my type and avoid talking more than simply small talk. However I don't want to get too attached. How can I do this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Just found out my 1-yr bf [33M] kept trying to hook up with girls during the first very serious months of our relationship
POST: [prev. post deleted due to no DLTR]
I'm [F34], we've been together for over 1 year.
We were very serious since day 1, and lately I found out he tried to me... | bf tried to fuck other girls during the first months of our very serious relationship. Wondering if it's a trait |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] and my partner [19F] are about to seal the deal on a 1 year lease. Feeling unusually nervous?
POST: Okay first off, I've never posted anything this serious to reddit before, so I may get a bit rambly - sorry in advance.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2.5 year... | Good relationship otherwise, my anxiety about moving in with her is putting strain on the relationship and I can't truly discern why I'm so worked up over it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [M21] stop worrying about the face that me and my girlfriend [F20] will eventually break up?
POST: I am a guy in his first relationship. I like my girlfriend alot, we get along, & have lots of fun together. But recently, many of my friends relationships have ended and it has c... | I constantly live in the sadness knowing that me and my girlfriend will eventually break up. How do you get rid of this mindset and live in the moment so you can enjoy your relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20/F] my [20/M] boyfriend's mother suddenly doesn't like me?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. We're both still in college. We've done so much together already, more than we have in any of our previous relationships. We fit perfectly together. Last summer, w... | boyfriend's mother's reaction suddenly very negatively strong towards me, nothing has changed. Don't know how to react to this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: I feel trapped in my job.
POST: Not sure if this is the place to post this, but I wanted to get this off my chest and hopefully find some help. Also cross posting in r/networking
I'm currently working as a Network Engineer for a small company, which the job title is something I've been workin... | I hate my dream job but make to much money to go back to what I didn't realize I enjoyed more. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl torn between two guys
POST: I am stuck in the middle of a dilemma, everyone involved is 20 years old, college students.
I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. It was young puppy love at first but over the years developed into a nice stress-free relationshi... | I feel like a shitty gf who cheated on bf of 3 years with a really nice guy. What's a girl supposed to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Boyfriend is giving me mixed signals and now I'm just really confused.
POST: Basic Background: We are both in our early 20s, and go to the same college. We've been seeing each other for a couple of months, and have been exclusive for a little over a month.
When you are dating somebody... | My boyfriend acts interested when we're together, but is essentially nonexistent when we're apart. Therefore, I don't know if he's actually interested in me or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my bf [25 M] of 5 months, told him I loved him when I wasn't sure I was ready to.
POST: We've known each other for a while prior, but when we decided to become exclusive we immediately hit it off. I've had several relationships prior but have never felt a type of connect... | Told him I loved him while drinking (stupid stupid), and while I care deeply about him and want to be with him for an indefinite about of time, our relationship is still new so I'm freaking out about my feelings. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Wasting so much time.
POST: I have had no job for the last 6 months. I have no money now that my savings are gone, I can't pay my share of the rent this month and due to do a screw up with my financial aid, I have had no classes at the university that I attend. So now I'm 6 months behind ... | Wasted 6 months of my life and all my savings, scared of wasting 6 more months and the money of my loved ones. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU: By taking something literally.
POST: So like most TIFUs this happened in either 6th or 7th grade.
I went to a catholic school, and we had to do this thing called "The right to life essay". Well the teacher said the topic was on euthanasia and I was thinking what does the Youth in Asia h... | Had to write a paper on Euthansaia, thought the teacher was talking about the Youth in Asia. Became Embaressed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] 4 years, I keep thinking about my ex but can't justify leaving my current girlfriend.
POST: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years and get on amazingly well - we share all our friends and I get on with her family.
I'm starting to feel l... | I'm with a girl who is great but I think our relationship is a bit too safe and I miss the passion I had with my ex. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Landlord hand-writes water bill on scrap of paper-- refuses to give copy of actual bill. What can I do about this?
POST: My landlord seems like a pretty shady character, but that's beside the point I suppose-- it just make me suspicious of him off the bat. My husband and I just moved int... | Landlord's representative is hand-writing the water bill each month rather than giving us an actual copy. Legally can we demand an actual copy as proof of the bill? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M20] had a really bad breakup in high school, took a break from dating, but now I think I know how to interact with females. Please give advice!
POST: I made the mistake of dating my best friend in high school, and over time we grew into very different people, but because of our att... | How do I relearn to interact with women in a romantic way after a shitty relationship dating my best friend, and three years of being completely single and almost completely abstinent? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22 F] am trying to decide whether or not to tell my [23 M] FWB of 4 months that I have developed feelings.
POST: I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years in February and pretty soon after started a FWB relationship with one of my best friends of 4 years. At first, like most women, I ... | Developed feelings for my FWB, moving to a new city in a month and not sure whether to tell him or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I needa ask this girl out when
POST: im going to talk to this girl. so im going to have small talk with her at first ( This will be our fist convo) but im going to ask her to a concert and my school for one of our "classes" if this goes well im going to ask her to the dance is this pla... | i wanna ask this girl out ATLEAST talk to her but i never have the confidence to do it i need some advice from some pros. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I(21M) am very confused about a girl(21F). (Aren't we all?)
POST: So I feel stupid for posting this but I need some advice on this girl. I have known her for about three years now and about a year ago I got to know her a bit better and I developed a crush on her.
I asked her on a cof... | I liked a girl. the girl liked me. girl didn't like me. girl then talks to me after a year. now what? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Me [20M] and mom [51F] had a small mishap that's kind of blowing up, she won't believe I thought she was going to hit me and won't listen to anything I have to say.
POST: Basically her dog is highly disobedient. He stole a sponge and she told me to get it from him. He wouldn't listen so I was... | Mom came at me, I instinctively grabbed her wrists, told her I thought she was going to hit me, she called me a fucking liar and told me to fuck off. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by forgetting to write one E-Mail...
POST: I'm currently applying for jobs ans I got one really good offer. I already had a talk with one of The applicants manager ans he invited me to the second of three possible meetings. So I got an E-Mail from him on the eighth of December that the sec... | probably lost the chance for a job with integrated study because I didn't read a whole E-mail because of excitement. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, broke up and want to know if I made the right decision?
POST: Basically, I have been dating a (seemingly) wonderful girl for about a year. We have had our ups and downs, like any couple, but we were mostly great all of the time. For backgr... | Girlfriend and I fight, she tries to punch me in the stomach, I decide that is unforgivable, we break up, did I do the right thing? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I broke up with my boyfriend for good reasons but now I'm sad
POST: Yesterday I broke up with my boyfriend. I am 29 and he is 28. The first month of our relationship was blissful. He was thoughtful, attentive, and very sweet. Something changed in him and he became a very different pers... | I broke up with my boyfriend because he didn't treat me well and now I feel sad and disappointed like I'm the one that got dumped. Why do I feel so sad when I should be relieved? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28M] asked my girlfriend [28] about our future; will you marry me kind of discussion. Her answer was... I don't know, I'm confused.
POST: I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. She lives 4 hours away. I think our relationship is going great since we rarely fight or... | ask will you marry me, she answered i don't know. Next week she said ok, im sure now. Next following week, she said im confuse again and we need to talk. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by writing down a guest's food order.
POST: I work in a restaurant in a high-end hotel as a bartender. Now the demographic of guests we usually get are businessmen or families staying for the holidays, all of which are well off economically and expect a high standard of service.
Last week... | labeled a group in our luxury hotel's restaurant as Baldie, Broad, and Brown (in reference to sweater) and guest saw what I had written. Now in fear for job. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Internalising the Nice Guy thing so that everything is your fault-better? Worsening my self-esteem issues though
POST: Please someone help me out with this.
I'm trying this and I'm struggling. I'm reading a lot of r/niceguys to internalise the hatred of being frustrated with someone else when... | have absorbed the Nice Guy thing to blame myself if women do not like me but end up getting butthurt about it-> no correction majorly neurotic-> how to deal? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: First kiss... Last kiss? Your choice
POST: I hope you say it's ok.
We had our first kiss last night, and I'm fluttering with the bubbly butterflies. But I still haven't told you that I'm in a polyamorous relationship with someone else. I've already told them about you. Now I have to tell... | I hope I didn't wait too long to tell the guy I just had my first kiss with that I'm in a polyamorous relationship with someone else |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Won't see her for a month
POST: I'm 27 and she is 26. We have only been on two dates but I know she likes me and wants to see me again. Due to our busy schedules, though, we won't be able to see each other for, at least, another month.
In the past when I've started dating girls w... | ! Need to keep a girl interested, without coming on too strong, with long periods in between dates. (neither of us text much) |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: I'm over-sensitive and prone to sadness, how can I change my way of thinking? [Cross posting from /r/advice]
POST: My father passed away seven months ago. I've been having a hard time coping since then, but I am doing better with each passing week.
It seems my symptoms, if you could call... | 7 months after a loss, I get really sad from small things to an extent that's interfering with my life on a daily basis, and hurting my SO. How can I shake off negative emotions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/books
TITLE: A - not The - way to read books for beginners.
POST: You want to read a book and find that it's too dull. You can't concentrate on it. Don't retain anything. You are ironically too impatient to find out what happens, but the book is too dense for you to summon up that impatience.
The simplest... | Prime yourself to read a book by reading all the spoilers first. Then read the book to find out the actual spoiler, which is the actual book itself! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Friend was raped but doesn't remember enough to report it. Now guy wants to file for harassment. What do I tell my friend?
POST: About a month ago a friend of mine was at a restaurant while intoxicated (under 21) and a friend of hers happened to come into the restaurant while she was eatin... | Friend got raped but can't prove it. Now guy is trying to file for harassment even though only communication since then has been one text to him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Non-romantic: My [19f] acquaintance [late 20's m] of a year dropped a bomb on me. Would this be strange? Advice?
POST: I have an acquaintance that I have been trying to be friends with for a long time.
Yesterday I worked open to close, so I was very tired and overwhelmed
He told me ... | I want to buy my acquaintance a gift as a sort of apology- sort of lets be friends deal. Sorry about the formatting. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (19 M) broke up with my girlfriend (19 F) of 3.5 years b/c of her low libido.
POST: I recently broke up with my girlfriend and i feel broken. She was and still are my first love, first sexpartner and many more things. Her low libido has almost always been an issue, but yesterday i co... | Broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years b/c of her low libido. I'm heartbroken and don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[26M], Ex[25F] start dating again, she gets serious w/ someone else, but won't let me go. Breakup
POST: Basically I started to date my ex g/f in January after over a year of not seeing each other [we have about 9 years of history and were each others' first loves - there is definitel... | First loves break up (for a while), start to see each other again briefly, she bails for another dude, but still wants to be part of my life... WTF |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: An urge to run... five minutes a week?
POST: Go five-six years back my weight was 115 kg. At that time I was running/jogging/fast pace walking at least one-two hours a week, and walking/bicycling 1-2-3 hours. I did that with no problems that appeared.
If you go back three years ago. It was... | Will my body get prepared for longer runs (10 minutes a week?) if I run five minutes a week for a few months. Or will it have the same effect as not running at all? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some of the specific things that changed in you - good or bad - when you became a parent?
POST: I was talking to a friend who is about to be a father for the first time last night, and he was asking me for advice since I have a daughter. My initial response was, "the best advice ... | My buddy is going to be a father soon and was asking about how your life changes when you become a parent. I'd love to be able to share your stories with him as well. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Need some girl advice but lack girl friends. Help?
POST: Hoping someone can help me. I'm a 22 year old guy and there is this really cute girl who works at the Fro-Yo in my town. I've gone in there a couple times already and noticed this girl who works the cash register. She's totally c... | There's a cute girl at the Fro-Yo where I live and I want to follow her on Twitter and try to talk to her that way because I'm too much of a puss to hit on her in person. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21M] cheated on my girlfriend last night, I was blacked out drunk and I would never do anything like that had I not been. I don't want to lose her, any advice?
POST: I've been in this relationship for about 2 years now and I have been really happy, she's an amazing girl and I'm pret... | I cheated on my girlfriend while blacked out drunk, I know I have to tell her but don't know how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24F] boyfriend [25M] has severe problems with lying about money, and I don't know what else to do...
POST: Me [24] and my boyfriend [25] have been together for 4 years. He grew up with very loose rules and taught him little responsibility, especially financial responsibility. He ha... | My boyfriend of 4 years keeps lying to me about his spending habits and how much money he's saved and I don't know how to help |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some of the weird things you have caught your co-workers doing?
POST: I was in a men's bathroom that had 5 stalls. One person was in the center stall and I had to make bears. I went to the far stall and did my business. After I had finished and wiped up, I stayed on the pot for a ... | A co-worker fake washed his hands after taking a huge dump to appear to be normal to an anonymous person in another stall. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My Ex [30M] asked me [28F] if it is okay to date. I am confused at to why anything I would say matter?
POST: My ex of five years asked me how I would feel if he went on a date with a girl he was interested in seeing. I am confused as to why it would matter as we are nothing more than f... | Ex asked me how I would feel if he started seeing a new girl and I'm confused as to why it would matter to him since he didn't really consider my feelings in the past. |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: My sister broke up with her long term boyfriend. He's a groomsman in my wedding. (Xpost r/relationships)
POST: Throwaway because it's 2014 and everyone in the world uses reddit.
So my wedding is coming up towards the end of December. My sister, Jessica, is a bridesmaid and her boyf... | My sister is breaking up with her boyfriend, who is one of my groomsmen. How do I go about breaking up with him as well? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Is not having a wide circle of friends a dealbreaker? [24FM]
POST: So I live in NYC and generally see two very good girlfriends on a regular basis- my best friend from college and another good friend from my old job. The problem with this is that they don't know each other, my co... | Don't have a "group" to hang out with. Have two good friends. Think this may make men pause. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: bf [27 M] of 2 yrs is driving me [25 F] insane by constantly correcting my spelling/grammar
POST: Disclaimer : I apologize in advance for any spelling mistakes I'm about to make.
English is not my first language, its not even my second language, its my third language. I speak 2 othe... | Im sick of constantly being corrected. Ive made it clear that I do not want my bf to do this but he does it anyway |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By getting fired for eating pizzawhile on my lunch break
POST: So i work/worked security at a school for almost two years now. Pretty lax but supervisors are horrible/non trained supervisors who think there cops. Well anyway a couple days ago i left money at home and asked wifey to bring m... | ate pizza on lunch break outside of the school in the garden, manager said i was having a pizza party out front and decided to fire me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (25M) Tired of not having someone to make memories with.
POST: Hi guys. I've posted here a few times in the distant past about failing attempts at relationships. I'm divorced, but it's been over three years since we separated. I've had a few relationships since then, one that lasted a ... | Not sure why people only want to be "casual" with me, and never be serious about relationships. I feel like I'm a good guy, and good looking. Halp. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are your best airport/airplane stories?
POST: Today while boarding a long ass flight, I looked over and saw one of my biggest dreads...a toddler with mother in tow sitting in my row. I confronted my impending doom the only way I know how, I played with the child in the feeble hope tha... | A toddler sitting in my row during a long ass flight had a very attentive mother that kept the child quiet, but could not keep the motion sickness in check with unpleasent results. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by missing my final.
POST: (I made an account just for this subreddit! Something tells me I'll be using it a lot.)
It's finals week again; the smell of caffeine, panic, and tears of frustration is in the air. Or maybe that's just the smell of students forgoing showers for several days in ... | Shitty morning got even shittier when I managed to miss my final; may convert to a religion if this works out somehow |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/m] I'm in love with a girl [21/f] who has a boyfriend [21/m]
POST: I'm in love with a girl who I met last summer. We are both in college, about an hour apart, but we lived in the same apartment complex last summer while working in the city. She was in a long distance relation... | I'm in love with a girl with a bf. We were in love while she was in a LDR with him last summer. Now we're sorta friends but I want more than that. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Curious about her past relationships (reading old saved emails)
POST: I (29, m) need some advice -- I've been dating my gf (29) for a year and at first kinda felt like a rebound from her previous fling. She talked about him a lot, etc., and while I trust she is completely over him part... | found artifacts of past relationship and have been reading out of curiosity. I feel guilty but I also feel it is helping me learn about her and helping me in my current relationship...should I just stop? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] Is true love effortless? Or is this a myth?
POST: Hi guys! Would really appreciate an answer.
I was wondering for any of you that truly feel you are "in love" with your SO; if it's real. And, is it effortless?
Like, I imagine if you find that special someone, it shouldn't b... | Soulmates, are they real? Is true love effortless? Do you guys just want to talk and talk and talk and..... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [M25] asking something unreasonable of her [F24]?
POST: I've been with a girl for three months who was previously in a very controlling, abusive relationship with a guy who would severely restrict her social activity. She eventually got tired of it (can't blame her) and began clan... | GF of three months makes last minute plans to hang out alone with male friends sometimes, typically with little warning, and it makes me uncomfortable. Is it reasonable to ask to be notified during the planning process? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Professor being a dick. What should I do?
POST: In my music class we have to take tests on Blackboard. My music professor gives us 24 hours to complete the test and 1 hour to actually take it. As I was taking the test there was a file that I needed that was not included (a word document ... | Professor did not give me necessary materials for a test and won't let me do that section of the test. Also is scheduling a mandatory class outside of the time class is scheduled. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (m17) messed things up with (f17)
POST: This girl (17) and I (17) have been talking for a decent amount of time, about 3 months now, and we've been friends for like 3 years. Things were getting more than friends for a little, nothing intimate, no sexual contact or anything. It ... | talking to this girl for a while, she gets weird, I assume she doesn't share the same feelings, I hook up with another girl, she gets mad, explaining myself to her later. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By wanting to buy a model kit
POST: Like many other TIFU's, this didn't happen today, but rather, last weekend.
So I was out at a small model club convention thing with my father. It was just a small group of hobbyists getting together and showing off their builds of various models, from ... | Wanted to buy model kit, asked father about it. Conversation later revealed it was a bondage suit she was wearing. May have hinted to my father that I am into bondage. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: What do i put in this text? TLDR included (both 16, im male)
POST: Long story short i hit it off with a girl ive known for ages quite well two weeks ago, but since then weve said about 3 sentences to each other (im not exaggerating either).
We sit in the same group at lunch and recess... | Havnt talked to the girl i hit it off with for two weeks, need some advice on what to put into this text that needs to contain how i feel, and also asks her about how she feels. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying a new beer
POST: So this happened just the other day on Christmas Eve.
My brothers and I were drinking negronis. I got one brother turned on to them quite recently so we were drinking heavily for the evening as he was very enthusiastic about this new cocktail. The other brother,... | Eldest brother poisoned siblings w/ beer causing projectile vommiting, volcano butt, and pepper sprayed my stepmother and aunt. 5/7 would drink again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20M] with my Mother trying to find our friend [60M] is still alive or not, but we do not have his last name.
POST: I know this might not be the best sub, but askreddit just removed my post, and I don't know where to ask this.
A little background, my family immigrated to US 10 year... | Want to know if old friend is alive or not, does not have his last name, how should I find him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How can I set up a bad-ass speaker system on the cheap?
POST: Hey reddit,
So I don't really have the best budget to set up a speaker system (I'm in college), but I want a badass setup for parties and stuff in my dorm room.
What I currently have is a frankenstein system that I've amassed... | I have a current speaker system that's loud but has no bass. I want bass but I don't want to spend more than $100. I want something that shakes the building. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: got into a car accident, not sure what to do
POST: What up Reddit? I got into an accident with another car at a parking lot at my college. I was stopped completely waiting for the car ahead of me to move on when she started backing up and hit my car. There definitely is damage but the problem i... | I got hit in my new car while i had my temp plates still on. which insurance company would pay me and does the female have to be found liable in order for their insurance company to pay me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 19/m regretting breakup with 20/f
POST: I decided to move in with her as soon as I graduated high school. and we decided to get a house along with some friends after about 6-8 months of living just me and her.
At first it was great and then she stopped coming out of the room and I alw... | we moved in together thought we were unhappy, we broke up she wants to move on I miss her, more unhappy now |
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